Speaker 1: Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio
Speaker 1: and the Black Effect. Nice feel as back, Nice feel aspect,
Speaker 1: I feel aspected, Nice steel as Still Welcome back to
Speaker 1: another Carefully Reckless episode with my crazy ass family. Say
Speaker 1: it was something my family. All my right is my
Speaker 1: cousin London. Closer to me is my brother friend, to
Speaker 1: the left of me, little baby father, what's not wrong me?
Speaker 1: And going over there the far left was my best
Speaker 1: friend Shana. Now listen, this episode is getting towards something
Speaker 1: that we all love hot and stave me sex. Everybody
Speaker 1: got their different strokes because it's different strokes with different folks.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna die right there because y'all know me. I
Speaker 1: like me some sex. What makes you come out? Hold
Speaker 1: everybody riding it today ain't ready? What makes you come
Speaker 1: I'm gonna start while y'all thinking, because I like this.
Speaker 1: I like writing dick, honestly, I really do. It's like
Speaker 1: when you get on top and you just start grinding.
Speaker 1: It's like a grind motion. Just yeah, it's not I
Speaker 1: don't really like that. I ain't a bouncing riding a
Speaker 1: bouncing I'm not really a bouncing that should be hurting
Speaker 1: a little bit. You know what I'm saying. I like
Speaker 1: to like find that spine and just grind and grind
Speaker 1: and then there you go. Bamies. What makes you come? Sina?
Speaker 1: First of all? She get come? Now? What's little hammy? Yeah?
Speaker 1: What makes me? Ya? Oka o? Yeah? Okay, okay, but
Speaker 1: I'm I like to satisfy. Yeah makes me? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's the satisfying like yeah, okay, be I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: I like I just be, you know, happy girl, that's
Speaker 1: away far? What makes you come? Cousin girl after my
Speaker 1: wine on a Friday night with my toy? Honey, I
Speaker 1: got you got my business. I gotta get it. I
Speaker 1: got you because I keep hearing about it's like, I
Speaker 1: gotta give it. Have you tried the roads road? I
Speaker 1: got you one? Have you tried? How was it? That's good?
Speaker 1: I do like it. It's not nice, but I have
Speaker 1: another toy. Are you always trying to be fun? One? One? Four?
Speaker 1: What are you? Girl? What makes you come? What makes
Speaker 1: you come? I'm sorry? Question man, she's telling me she's coming.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, all she gotta say a question for me?
Speaker 1: Obviously obviously you got different modest, different kids. Women for
Speaker 1: me like different things for me is going to be
Speaker 1: that that got four thousand spit dripping dripping down my balls?
Speaker 1: You feel me like that ship that's so good, I
Speaker 1: gotta get wipe my ass. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like that a little too probably you haven't make it
Speaker 1: to that good good. We know this now, that's what
Speaker 1: it is. A black black four A right to get
Speaker 1: him to my assip has to be that wet. All right,
Speaker 1: We're gonna cut that on keeping anyway, you got my dog?
Speaker 1: Do you feel that you have to be mentally attracted
Speaker 1: to a person to have sex with them? Because listen,
Speaker 1: let me elaborate. A lot of people can just have
Speaker 1: sex and be attracted to a person just physically, but honestly,
Speaker 1: for some people, you have to be in the mood.
Speaker 1: You have to, like, I have to like really really
Speaker 1: mentally connect with you. I have to connect with you
Speaker 1: to just lay down with you. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So is does that pertain to everybody? Like? Do you
Speaker 1: have to have a connection? Okay, so you're not just
Speaker 1: a you're just busting nuts, busting everything down everybody. But
Speaker 1: it's not I'm not ready. Everybody ain't given. How about you,
Speaker 1: like m No, I don't think so you know, you
Speaker 1: can just go and yeah, like if that's if that's
Speaker 1: the vibe though, right, you know, like if it's like
Speaker 1: we're going into it because we want to hurt, then whatever,
Speaker 1: Like I don't have to be mentally, but you can't
Speaker 1: be down and you can't be a claim. So I
Speaker 1: got I got halfway because you can't be giving like
Speaker 1: very much because I don't think I gonna think you're
Speaker 1: very much. I don't know what the you're gonna be
Speaker 1: doing in that department. That's so it's like I need,
Speaker 1: I need for you to add something, a mental advancement
Speaker 1: somewhere there to the department. Okay, I like that, all right?
Speaker 1: What stimulates you during sex? What stimulates and listen, I
Speaker 1: just asked what makes you come? But climaxing and stimulation
Speaker 1: of two different things, stimulation and sensation that you fail
Speaker 1: you know. I like being touch personally. Yeah, the touching
Speaker 1: is like definitely the big Yeah. I like when you like,
Speaker 1: oh yeah, I like you don't get kids from my neck,
Speaker 1: you know, let be something I'm doing time. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: never heard that out there because I don't want my
Speaker 1: next made to be big and he can just like
Speaker 1: on the basics. He could teach you some stuff. Now,
Speaker 1: I learned yourself because I'm inexperienced with dating. Okay, but
Speaker 1: you're like you're like, okay, so you like physical touch.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I like to be kids like, oh yeah
Speaker 1: I did. Sucking tongues and everything about what about hold
Speaker 1: up cousin, Hold that cousin chefs kids? He speakins with
Speaker 1: what stimulates you? I'm like, she, we are growing? What
Speaker 1: are you talking about? She? No way, you got a
Speaker 1: grip when she when you know she like being on top? Okay,
Speaker 1: she sort outside, so you wait, yeah, that's who you are. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Did you say short man? Excuse me? Excuse me. I'm
Speaker 1: not a short man. I'm average hypeful man. We were
Speaker 1: average hypeful man, short complex. That is a typeful man.
Speaker 1: I thought it was no, no, no, it's not going
Speaker 1: to that. No, I'm not. I don't have short man complex.
Speaker 1: I don't set upset, and you are absolutely upset right now.
Speaker 1: It's okay whatever I'm saying. And still never told me,
Speaker 1: let's stimulates yet I told you when and you just
Speaker 1: said no. I said she because you deeper, Yeah, like
Speaker 1: you know, like, yeah, she's still not right, not answer
Speaker 1: the question when she grabbed both my side and oh,
Speaker 1: man like, oh so you want her to grab yet
Speaker 1: I want to grab my right. We get we get it. No,
Speaker 1: I don't want you know, you don't want her boy free.
Speaker 1: You don't want her to grab grabs? What do you want?
Speaker 1: Old ladies asked why he on top of you behind?
Speaker 1: That's why didn't say that? Yeah? Do you like that now?
Speaker 1: Like star that's what he said. Yeah, guys like yeah,
Speaker 1: like that's like things like my nipples playing the nipple thing.
Speaker 1: That's the big thing. I ain't like nipple. Yeah, like
Speaker 1: your nipples played with why they got to be an?
Speaker 1: Why do you guys? That is weird? It's actually I
Speaker 1: want my body. I got all this big you want
Speaker 1: suck on my neck? Please go down? You like, okay, yeah, alright,
Speaker 1: the bottom of balls. Okay, so you're like right before
Speaker 1: you get to just the tip of your hands and
Speaker 1: just rub the bottom. That's interesting. Old I think we
Speaker 1: need to miss not I that no not no, no,
Speaker 1: no print not And you say yes, it's not that
Speaker 1: part no, because that's what we heard. We heard. Anyway, listen,
Speaker 1: we're gonna go to scenarios okay, because y'all, motherfucker's nasty.
Speaker 1: I'm knowing who I'm with now. Alright, cool, you got
Speaker 1: some hands sometimes some of my women. Everything is perfect. Well,
Speaker 1: you're gay, but you've been straight before. Every thing is perfect.
Speaker 1: Go on a date and you're just about to funk
Speaker 1: this guy right for the first time, and people's draws
Speaker 1: down and he is uncircumcised. What is your thoughts? Man,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to gonna see if this thing, Like
Speaker 1: I don't have to put my hand run a little
Speaker 1: back of it all and be like, okay, I just
Speaker 1: want to tack to see if it was thinking if
Speaker 1: it had lit in there, because if it did, so
Speaker 1: you can actually put your finger inside there. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm sure you can. I don't know, but I've had
Speaker 1: an uncircumcised person and I'm I'm telling you like, it's like, like, motherfucker,
Speaker 1: you gotta pull down. I thought you pull it back,
Speaker 1: not forward. Yeah, that's what I did. She must have
Speaker 1: westside the whole, That's what I'm saying. I'm pulling. Oh,
Speaker 1: you're like, you're just thinking like he was in front
Speaker 1: of me. Yeah, I can't an uncircumcised dick. I don't
Speaker 1: know what's up in there, right, I can't get man,
Speaker 1: since you know you clean that it really right? I
Speaker 1: don't know, so no, um, I can't so my thoughts
Speaker 1: with I don't know. I've never smelled an uncircumcised that.
Speaker 1: What about you, London? I never ever did that one
Speaker 1: Either way, I'm not perfect either way. I feel like
Speaker 1: every man should be uh circumcised. I really do feel
Speaker 1: that it's that that's not today. But it don't matter.
Speaker 1: I would never if I was to his mom and
Speaker 1: baby younger. Blame the mother and the dad. My opinion
Speaker 1: is every man should be circumcised. I mean I just
Speaker 1: felt like, yeah, you can find anything but change. It
Speaker 1: could be anything that's crazy. Because you told him don't circumcise.
Speaker 1: My son said change. So I did not, Yes you did.
Speaker 1: You said you did, but I said, okay. I never
Speaker 1: said don't put my nephew out there like this. Oh
Speaker 1: who wasn't definitely said circumcised. Don't remember that that's how
Speaker 1: he became circumcised. If you love me, you'll listen to
Speaker 1: this commercial and then we'll be right back. Next scenario,
Speaker 1: having sex on your period, nect like you didn't know
Speaker 1: you was on your period. That's right, that's for me.
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, like, I've never done that. Have you
Speaker 1: dress multiple times? I've never done I'm telling you I
Speaker 1: have done it multiple times and whatever it was in
Speaker 1: my younger days. But yeah, that's it. Just takes care everything. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: it does not listen on your So this is my thing.
Speaker 1: The first time it happened, he was ready, some somebody
Speaker 1: was read, somebody was ready, come over. And the thing
Speaker 1: about it was, I went to the bedfrood before and
Speaker 1: I saw the blood in my stream and I was like, shoot,
Speaker 1: I was just like getting something. I'm telling you. I
Speaker 1: did not know I was gonna come on, but I
Speaker 1: didn't tell him not to come. I just act like
Speaker 1: I didn't know. Yeah, And that's what it was because
Speaker 1: I wasn't bleeding yet. It was the first deal I haven't,
Speaker 1: but I did little night and I was like, damn.
Speaker 1: My ship was said, turning lights one, let's give him
Speaker 1: mother fucking crime sing girl. But you smell like the
Speaker 1: smell blood wasn't thanking all blood, which my ship was
Speaker 1: not exactly giving very much. My side. My period, Oh
Speaker 1: we will that period question listen, No way you can
Speaker 1: speak on it. We get a shower for the tale downside.
Speaker 1: But yeah, yes, you do like the shower. Why would
Speaker 1: you bring a tie with a shower? No, no, no,
Speaker 1: I swear I don't the water dust stuffing to the
Speaker 1: woman's blood. Like no, what you're thinking about is a
Speaker 1: tough so that can stop. The water shower is on you,
Speaker 1: just coming down on you. You're sticking listen. I don't
Speaker 1: think you understand. I don't think you understands that told
Speaker 1: you you know it's crazy though, I run only run
Speaker 1: red lights with my children. I'm gonna say that either way.
Speaker 1: You are just like, you're not even gonna know they're
Speaker 1: gonna be a kids. So the kids so it was
Speaker 1: after they have children, like I don't do it with
Speaker 1: not period. Okay, I understand like pray like pray. I'm
Speaker 1: just like you like she's like, how do you know
Speaker 1: they're gonna be because I'm a cycle? Huh? Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I want to specify which one? You don't know a
Speaker 1: motherfucking thing about me? So I need you to specify three. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, we're good, bro, there we go, brother, good,
Speaker 1: all right, that was it. We're done with that, all right,
Speaker 1: said again. Threesome desire. I don't have any desire of
Speaker 1: having a threesome because I don't. I don't ever want
Speaker 1: to share anyone. I don't. I've never wanted to have
Speaker 1: a threesome. I've never been a threesome kind of girl. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I never we need never. No. I mean I could
Speaker 1: watch that R Yeah I watched that. That is I
Speaker 1: don't think I watched. But I don't want is killing me?
Speaker 1: Why you had a three? Don't have done anything? I
Speaker 1: really embraced in a three didn't but I was opposed to.
Speaker 1: I was there. You never had one? Good bro? Did
Speaker 1: you ever have? Sure? Okay, alright, cool, great you did
Speaker 1: I have? But I do not like them? Okay it
Speaker 1: was for the team. Took one for the team. Yeah,
Speaker 1: for the team. But you know I don't made a
Speaker 1: cut prints off and not hold on, pause, hold on,
Speaker 1: hold on, not pause because not took one because I
Speaker 1: don't take ship. So okay, because because I'll see what
Speaker 1: the y'all day spend this mother, come back right here.
Speaker 1: Because I never I ain't never been that type guy.
Speaker 1: But you know what I made. Somebody wanted to fund somebody,
Speaker 1: and but that person wanted to have a threesome. So
Speaker 1: I was just like, oh, I just entertain this, but
Speaker 1: that's not No, that's not my preference. No, all right,
Speaker 1: I got you. Listen, ladies, if a man brings to
Speaker 1: have sex with you, what are your thoughts? Initially he's responsible.
Speaker 1: Oh that's good. A lot of these guys they want
Speaker 1: to rawn dug it, expect to get something a lot
Speaker 1: of women. To a lot of women, that is um
Speaker 1: insult really, but how would you know that have sex? Though?
Speaker 1: How diould you know? Yeah, like you're walking to do it, like,
Speaker 1: hey girl, what's that going? But here's the here's the
Speaker 1: trick though, right, there's the trick. You can't buy like
Speaker 1: a magnum like you know what I mean, you gotta
Speaker 1: you gotta step out the box of what I'm saying
Speaker 1: is how you get around a woman being insulted as
Speaker 1: a male bringing a condom is that you get a
Speaker 1: particular con sheep skin that nested. People don't know that. Okay,
Speaker 1: maybe he's allergic to late lam. Let me get you
Speaker 1: get what I'm saying. So so that could be a
Speaker 1: reason for her mind because you know, women think of
Speaker 1: particular way. You get what I'm saying, So you bring
Speaker 1: if you bring if you have a brand that maybe
Speaker 1: she'd have been never heard of research because you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, it's different. Is it like one
Speaker 1: of those things where who said you was getting something? Huh?
Speaker 1: You know? But I keep these. I keep these because
Speaker 1: as a male, your pushback could be I keep these
Speaker 1: because I'm gonna ergen to latext. I have to have
Speaker 1: a particular time so instead of missing an opportunity with
Speaker 1: with with everybody ain't gonna thank you like that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: guys are literally like something. It's less likely than a
Speaker 1: guy would hold up excuse me, a guy would less
Speaker 1: likely show up with a condom. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But there are something that just do and honestly, I'm like,
Speaker 1: but there are also other perspectives where a woman will
Speaker 1: feel disrespected. Yeah, like you know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 1: you know, women are like yeah, some women would be like,
Speaker 1: damn what you think? I gots like, I don't if
Speaker 1: we don't want to tell you there are are women
Speaker 1: out here that thing. Oh yeah, child as women up
Speaker 1: and they ain't children. I ain't think. I ain't if
Speaker 1: I bring conom I ain't thinking you don't bring condors. Pause.
Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna any thinking about safety. I ain't
Speaker 1: gold you like me personally, like, I'm pretty sure the
Speaker 1: other men out here don't think about safety. I ain't
Speaker 1: be quiet, Prince. I'm pretty sure other men I want
Speaker 1: to say with him out to say, Okay, honestly, we
Speaker 1: don't want me thinking about safety. I'm true. I just
Speaker 1: ain't trying to get another check honestly. So you know
Speaker 1: when I'm bringing a condo, that's my thing. I'm bringing
Speaker 1: a condom to protect myself from getting you prayed. All right, listen,
Speaker 1: question when the last time I burn a condor? When
Speaker 1: the last time I brought a condom? Yeah, dude, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna race. I don't need something very safe, and they're
Speaker 1: just like that. We're gonna go to confessions anyway. This
Speaker 1: is when everybody goes around the room and confess something.
Speaker 1: I tell them to confess. Now this, since we're talking
Speaker 1: about sex, we'll pertain two sex. Go around the room
Speaker 1: and admit something most embarrassing about one of your sexual encounters.
Speaker 1: One time. One time I was extremely, extremely drunk, I
Speaker 1: was having sex. I thought I had nuts and I
Speaker 1: had to piss. I couldn't stop. Wait, wait, wait, I
Speaker 1: don't even know this is a thing. I've never heard it. Okay,
Speaker 1: so it's been wait stop, I just had I had
Speaker 1: to peece so you couldn't stopped paying feeling it's like
Speaker 1: you who you know what I'm saying? You feel me interesting?
Speaker 1: The gym for uh? The episode does anybody have any
Speaker 1: gyms to drop? Do what pleases you? And yeah, get
Speaker 1: it how you live because that's everybody need there rap
Speaker 1: smocked up sometimes are you trying to be deep? And
Speaker 1: he's saying dumb and ship ship anything but no gym. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna drop a gym. Keep some ship to yourself.
Speaker 1: That's what the gem of the day is, some ship
Speaker 1: to yourself. But I have as much sex as you
Speaker 1: want to, food and multiply, and just like that, we
Speaker 1: ain't worrying about it. No, yes, be safe, be safe,
Speaker 1: use condoms and that have as much sex as you
Speaker 1: want to, but also be fruitful and multiply like I'm
Speaker 1: trying to do it. And just like that. We will
Speaker 1: be back next week with another Carefully Reckless with my
Speaker 1: crazy family. Carefully Reckless is a production of My Heart
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