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Speaker 1: Wind Down and Michael and Radio podcast. It's the holiday season,

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Speaker 1: so they do. And Hickory Dick doctics. I don't know

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Speaker 1: why every time I heard that song, that's what I think, Dick. Great,

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Speaker 1: you're just ruining the classic Christmas song for everyone listening.

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Speaker 1: You're welcome, Thank you for that. What song is that?

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Speaker 1: And don't forget to clean up your socks? Hanging up

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Speaker 1: your sock? Um. This is a new episode of Butchering

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Speaker 1: Songs on Wine Down. I don't know that you read, Dick.

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Speaker 1: I can't with you. You don't dream about a Hickory Dick. No,

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Speaker 1: I do not, Actually I do not. Speaking of Christmas,

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Speaker 1: I feel like things are already starting to get so

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Speaker 1: messy around the house because it's just like already wrapping

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Speaker 1: paper and presents and hiding stuff and and the cooking

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Speaker 1: every we're already starting, right. Thank goodness, we've got all

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Speaker 1: that Chlorox stuff to help clean up. Because that's been

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Speaker 1: a game changer. Oh yeah, it has. And I love

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Speaker 1: it just because the kids like all the the new

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Speaker 1: germs coming home from you know, preschool and stuff. So

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Speaker 1: I gotta love the Clorox. You guys, get it before

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Speaker 1: it's out. Yeah, and this is a bonus episode. Um

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Speaker 1: it's kind of like a girl's night Christmas party and

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Speaker 1: me so I'm just kind of fourth wheeling it. Um,

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Speaker 1: you're so good at fourth wheeling it with the girls.

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Speaker 1: Like even tonight, I'm having a girl's night and it's

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Speaker 1: like what go ahead? No, no, go ahead all the

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Speaker 1: time and after no. It's funny sometimes too because Jane

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Speaker 1: is like, Hey, I'm gonna have a girl's card night,

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Speaker 1: card's night or whatever, and so in my mind, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: all right, cool, like all be night to myself. I

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Speaker 1: get to play video games, play video games. Takes a

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Speaker 1: couple of buddies, see what they're doing, and she's like yeah,

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Speaker 1: but um yeah a few things. She's like, we don't

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Speaker 1: have a fourth and we want to play youker, so

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Speaker 1: we need you to play with us. Or it's like, hey,

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Speaker 1: we want to play the other other card game. Can

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Speaker 1: you teach everyone so we can play tonight. It's like yeah,

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Speaker 1: and I love it. I love it. I love I mean,

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Speaker 1: I am one of the girls like hanging out because

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Speaker 1: all your girls are are like the guys, they're bros, brodettes. Um,

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Speaker 1: so I have a fun time with them. But so Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're right, I'm not used to I'm not you're not

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Speaker 1: a stranger to girls Nights. No, I'm not like you'll

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Speaker 1: you'll whip on a mask. And I think that's so.

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Speaker 1: We have two really awesome guests today. We have Rachel

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Speaker 1: Lindsay who was a former bachelorette, and then we also

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Speaker 1: have daniellemne Um so to really fun girls. But it's

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Speaker 1: funny because I I I've never been I've never watched

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Speaker 1: every single episode of like the Bachelor Bacherette, and I've

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Speaker 1: just like either watched you know, we'll watch at the

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Speaker 1: very beginning just to see the schmucks coming on and

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Speaker 1: then which smucks she picks. Yeah, place, There's were some

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Speaker 1: seasons there where we're kind of we're pretty invested. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but I still feel like we might have missed like

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Speaker 1: an episode or two and then like now it's just

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Speaker 1: like I watched the first and I watched the men

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Speaker 1: tell all or the women tell all, and then like

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Speaker 1: the last one. But I really was sorry, I'm going

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Speaker 1: down a rabbit hole here, But with Claire, I was like, yes,

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Speaker 1: Obviously she found love within the first week and her

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Speaker 1: and Dale went off and got engaged. And now Tasha

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Speaker 1: then now that Tassia's on her like, she's one of

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Speaker 1: amazing too, and I'm super excited to talk to her,

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Speaker 1: but I have so many like bachelorette questions I want

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Speaker 1: doing it. God big now I'm all right, Oh yes,

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Speaker 1: wants to be one of the guys or look cool

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Speaker 1: know some times I know like certain people that do

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Speaker 1: this is but you will say the same joke that

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Speaker 1: they've told their spouse, but then say in a group situation,

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Speaker 1: just imagine like the Christmas even though there's not many

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Speaker 1: Christmas parties, but just like Christmas gatherings, And then like

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Speaker 1: you've heard the same joke, but yet your husband or

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Speaker 1: pretty good job at not repeating things, even if I

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Speaker 1: say it to you in the stage of somebody else. Yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: the people I'm talking, oh, absolutely, And there's actually a

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Speaker 1: tornado wants it's so good though it's my only one joke.

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Speaker 1: that's funny. I know I get you, but yes, I

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Speaker 1: cringe over here? Why Jana says it? Do you need

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Speaker 1: to like take your headphones off while I say it? Wait,

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Speaker 1: let me do it? How I was it? Guys, I

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Speaker 1: like if we're having like, you don't come out of nowhere. Hey, guys,

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Speaker 1: wind down, listeners. Here's a joke for you. Why are

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Speaker 1: women and tornadoes alike? Because they scream when they come

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Speaker 1: and take your house when they leave? Oh yeah, because

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Speaker 1: they leave. That's right. So, now at your Christmas gathering,

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Speaker 1: got you guys a joke? You're welcome. Would you like

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Speaker 1: to tell when Michael I'm a situational guy, you know me.

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Speaker 1: Here's Michael at a situation. Though this is going to

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Speaker 1: be such an exaggeration, it's not a gadderation. So we

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Speaker 1: went to a Christmas party at Wesley's house last last Christmas,

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Speaker 1: which by the way, it's so weird that, you know,

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Speaker 1: her Christmas party has been canceled, obviously for valid reasons.

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Speaker 1: It's just sad. But Michael is the guy and bless

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Speaker 1: his heart, like he you know, I feel like we

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Speaker 1: both mold very well into situations. Yeah, like we can

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Speaker 1: talk to a wall and be fine, granted my conversation.

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Speaker 1: Like the last episodes, I hate small talks. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: be like, why are you divorced? Like like I want

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Speaker 1: to go straight to it. But with Michael, he's just like,

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Speaker 1: You're like, you're not the mayor, but you're like you

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Speaker 1: in the Mayor's club. So we go to Wesley's Christmas

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Speaker 1: fedora on? Of course? Okay, So he wears his fedora, which,

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Speaker 1: way too large for a fedora to begin with. But

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Speaker 1: So I'm gonna go find Michael. So I go outside

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Speaker 1: like it's time to go. Mom has done Like it

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Speaker 1: to immediately leave. I'm the guy that can go into

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Speaker 1: like Lane, let's see you at the club, Darlin. And

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00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:08,200
Speaker 1: with the reality of it, the good, the bad, ugly,

423
00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:11,240
Speaker 1: and it's definitely all those things. But for us, we

424
00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:13,240
Speaker 1: just kind of got back to the basics. We have

425
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,480
Speaker 1: a lot of the same things in comments, so it's

426
00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 1: like we would He went to work every day, so

427
00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 1: maybe that helped to we had the separation um because

428
00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:24,480
Speaker 1: he was considered an essential worker, so he did his thing,

429
00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:25,840
Speaker 1: I did my thing. At the end of the day,

430
00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:28,680
Speaker 1: we would come together, whether it was binge, watching a show,

431
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:32,640
Speaker 1: watching sports, or playing board games or things like that.

432
00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:36,959
Speaker 1: Having zoom calls with our family members. Um, yeah, so

433
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:39,439
Speaker 1: it was. It's been really good to get back to

434
00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:42,760
Speaker 1: the basics for us. But then it became really hard

435
00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:45,399
Speaker 1: when I moved to l A for extra because now

436
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:47,840
Speaker 1: we're by postal and it's we've gotten so used to

437
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:50,600
Speaker 1: each other, almost dependent in a way. We've never had

438
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:54,959
Speaker 1: dependency in our relationship until quarantine, and we kind of

439
00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:58,240
Speaker 1: liked it. I did. If you had told me, I

440
00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:02,400
Speaker 1: would have said, no. Experiencing it. Yeah, you know, that's

441
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:05,480
Speaker 1: the thing. It's there can be some good dependency on

442
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:08,719
Speaker 1: one another. And I feel like Jan and I we

443
00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:12,800
Speaker 1: we never had like codependency or dependency on our past relationships,

444
00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:14,920
Speaker 1: at least from you know what I mean, Like never

445
00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:17,359
Speaker 1: really cared that much what the other person thinks in

446
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:19,960
Speaker 1: a not an unhealthy way, but in a healthy way

447
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:21,760
Speaker 1: because you love them so much and you want them

448
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:24,000
Speaker 1: to be happy. I must feel like we had like

449
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:27,960
Speaker 1: bad codependency though we did. Yeah, we had to work

450
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:30,720
Speaker 1: our way. We got so intertwined. It was code like

451
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:33,080
Speaker 1: true codependency, and we've had to work our way back

452
00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:35,320
Speaker 1: out and be side by side going the same direction,

453
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:39,120
Speaker 1: which I think we are now. Um, but no, that's great,

454
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:41,000
Speaker 1: that you Rachel that you guys were able to have

455
00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:43,080
Speaker 1: that time and really benefit from it and kind of

456
00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:46,360
Speaker 1: take a step back from all that noise around the

457
00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 1: publicity that you guys get and having to travel into

458
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:51,000
Speaker 1: appearances and do all this. It was like you could

459
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:54,800
Speaker 1: be normal, you know, like everybody else quarantine and he

460
00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:56,280
Speaker 1: would have to go to work and do your thing.

461
00:25:57,320 --> 00:25:59,040
Speaker 1: But what a gift that you guys were able to do.

462
00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:01,159
Speaker 1: And like you said, this overlying at the beginning of

463
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:04,160
Speaker 1: all this. So that being said, going into the holidays

464
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:06,359
Speaker 1: and you guys being by coastal, like, what's the plan

465
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:10,240
Speaker 1: coming up this month? Right on time with the question,

466
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:14,600
Speaker 1: I say, the decision this morning. So I've really been

467
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:16,480
Speaker 1: Friday and I knew we were going to spend it

468
00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 1: together no matter what. We didn't spend Thanksgiving together, which

469
00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:22,480
Speaker 1: and I wasn't with my family and my sister was here,

470
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:24,960
Speaker 1: so that was really tough. So we're like Christmas, we're

471
00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:28,640
Speaker 1: definitely gonna be together. I've really been struggling with do

472
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:31,359
Speaker 1: I travel to Dallas, which is where I'm from, and

473
00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 1: you know, we we trade off on where we're spending Christmas.

474
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:37,880
Speaker 1: I was like, should I go? Am I being selfish,

475
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:40,320
Speaker 1: am I putting them in jeopardy? And my sister has

476
00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:43,199
Speaker 1: been very open about like, come here, you know, we

477
00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:45,399
Speaker 1: can take all the precautions that we need. And I

478
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:48,480
Speaker 1: just woke up this morning and I said, you know what,

479
00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:52,920
Speaker 1: I need this. I haven't seen my family since last Christmas.

480
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:56,440
Speaker 1: I can't afford to do things in a way where

481
00:26:56,480 --> 00:27:00,080
Speaker 1: I can take precautions and not put them at in

482
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 1: jeopardy as much. And so I just like my sister's

483
00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:05,200
Speaker 1: comfortable with it. Brian and I are going to come

484
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:07,159
Speaker 1: to Dallas and we're going to spend it there. And

485
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:11,280
Speaker 1: I'm really excited because I have two nephews six and three.

486
00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 1: I think they're those. My niece and nephew are like

487
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 1: thirteen and I don't even know, but I'm always like

488
00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 1: there five and seven, and I'm like, they're actually thirteen

489
00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:27,800
Speaker 1: and ten, I think, or like yeah, some something like that.

490
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:30,280
Speaker 1: But I haven't had a Christmas with kids in a while,

491
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 1: so I am so excited to like see the joy

492
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:36,680
Speaker 1: that kids bring to Christmas. And that's what I kind

493
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:38,360
Speaker 1: of woke up with. Two. I was like, you know what,

494
00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:43,639
Speaker 1: I don't have a tree, no decorations, nothing, I know,

495
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,640
Speaker 1: I know, I'm not a scrooge here. I'm not. I'm

496
00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 1: not in the Christmas spirit other than the music. So

497
00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:50,800
Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, I'm going to take

498
00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:53,320
Speaker 1: control of this. I'm gonna give myself a Christmas and

499
00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 1: so I'm really excited I'm going to that. I'm so

500
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:57,719
Speaker 1: glad you're doing that for yourself because you're gonna be

501
00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 1: so much happier. And as Brian gonna fine meet you there. Yes,

502
00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:03,959
Speaker 1: he'll meet me there. So we're spending it there and

503
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:06,760
Speaker 1: we're like super excited. How long will you guys do

504
00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:09,920
Speaker 1: the long distance for? Just on the spring? Just to

505
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:12,640
Speaker 1: the spring? Okay, what which I haven't said because everyone

506
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 1: thinks we're getting a divorce, so but of course that's

507
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:18,720
Speaker 1: the next thing. What's been the most challenging though, for

508
00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:22,280
Speaker 1: y'all's relationship having that long distance? I would say, just

509
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:25,360
Speaker 1: we're east east coast, west coast, so the time difference

510
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:31,840
Speaker 1: is tough. Um, just we were so together in quarantine

511
00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:35,000
Speaker 1: that I mean, it's just if we didn't have quarantine

512
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:36,240
Speaker 1: and we were doing this, I would have been fine.

513
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:40,840
Speaker 1: But just I missed him so much, Just the little

514
00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:43,000
Speaker 1: things like waking up next to each other, being able

515
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:44,680
Speaker 1: to like cook dinner, don't even like to cook. But

516
00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:47,960
Speaker 1: I didn't quarantine cooking for him, you know, having a

517
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 1: meal for him when he came home playing board games

518
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:54,400
Speaker 1: like just that time. That intimacy is what I missed

519
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 1: so much. And you know sometimes I fall asleep or

520
00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 1: I'm awake if he's not, just with the time difference.

521
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:05,120
Speaker 1: So it's it's but have you all played Monopoly together?

522
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:11,000
Speaker 1: That's the question? Wait in quarantine? Yes, I bought happily.

523
00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:16,239
Speaker 1: Did you happily play monopoly? Because we just because he

524
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 1: wants to make really bad deals and I'm like, no,

525
00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 1: I'm not trade. That's ridiculous. Why would I give you

526
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:26,000
Speaker 1: about mutual benefits? And you are not you're a dictator. No,

527
00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 1: I'm not a dictator. I'm just like, I'm smarter at monopoly,

528
00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 1: which is why I've won three times. Okay, do you

529
00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:37,040
Speaker 1: buy everything? You land on me most of the time.

530
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:40,520
Speaker 1: But here's the deal. I will trade if it's a

531
00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:43,720
Speaker 1: good opportunity. Having said that, you trade if it benefits

532
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 1: you and only you. That's not true at all. But um,

533
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:50,840
Speaker 1: I'm just saying I'm smart about what I landed. Like

534
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 1: he passed up the purple every time he landed on it. Well,

535
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:55,719
Speaker 1: guess what, I bought all the purple then put houses

536
00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 1: and in the hotel on there. By the time, he

537
00:29:57,280 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 1: was still trying to Really, we can't play Monopoly, and

538
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:03,400
Speaker 1: this annoys us about each other. So when you guys

539
00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:06,640
Speaker 1: were spending this much time in quarantine together, were there

540
00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:09,320
Speaker 1: any little things that kind of started You're like, Okay,

541
00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:11,440
Speaker 1: I don't like this about you. It annoys me, you know,

542
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 1: cute things or whatever. Yeah, well Monopoly, it's funny. I

543
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:19,520
Speaker 1: don't buy everything, and Brian buys everything to the point

544
00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 1: where he's like, has no money, is mortgaging things off,

545
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:25,320
Speaker 1: and I'm just like, bad practice. This isn't how you

546
00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:28,920
Speaker 1: play the game. You're holding onto these It just frustrates

547
00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:33,560
Speaker 1: me beyond. And then somehow, though he wins exactly, it

548
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:37,240
Speaker 1: doesn't make logical sense. Their house poor for the first

549
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:39,320
Speaker 1: half of the game, and then all of a sudden

550
00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:41,480
Speaker 1: they're just taking everything we have. Well, you know what,

551
00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:44,520
Speaker 1: that's how everyone's house poor until they're not, you know,

552
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 1: until they work their butts in real life. I try

553
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:49,280
Speaker 1: to navigate the game how I would in real life.

554
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:52,760
Speaker 1: This will not work. Next time, when you see him

555
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:55,880
Speaker 1: over Christmas, I want you to buy every single property

556
00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:58,000
Speaker 1: that you land on it and tell me how that

557
00:30:58,040 --> 00:31:02,320
Speaker 1: works for you. We'll probably be playing taboo. That's like

558
00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:04,400
Speaker 1: a game we love to play in a group, So

559
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 1: I know we'll be playing taboo, which we get really

560
00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:09,160
Speaker 1: competitive over at the same time, especially if we're on

561
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 1: the same team and he can't figure out what it

562
00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:14,200
Speaker 1: is I'm describing. We can't be on the same team.

563
00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:16,520
Speaker 1: We've decided we're just not. We can't. We gotta be.

564
00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:20,560
Speaker 1: We have to go against each other for that exact reason. Um, Rachel,

565
00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 1: You're amazing. Where can our listeners find you? Even though

566
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 1: I know where we can, but you know, yes, you

567
00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:29,680
Speaker 1: can find me on at th g V Rachel Lindsay,

568
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 1: on Twitter, on Instagram, on Facebook. Um. You can also

569
00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:36,720
Speaker 1: catch up what I'm doing on my website www. Rachel

570
00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:40,640
Speaker 1: Lindsay Official dot com. You can check out Bachelor Happy Hour.

571
00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 1: It comes out the day after whenever the show airs,

572
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 1: which is about to change. It's about to go back

573
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:49,239
Speaker 1: to Monday's so the day after the morning after and

574
00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:53,719
Speaker 1: then higher Learning is every Tuesday morning and Friday morning.

575
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:58,320
Speaker 1: Awesome well, Rachel, okay, and extra yes and watch Extra Rachel,

576
00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:01,640
Speaker 1: thank you so much. You're joy and um have fun

577
00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:07,520
Speaker 1: in Dallas with your family. You guys, Rachel, she was

578
00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:11,720
Speaker 1: so sweet. Yeah. I really enjoyed her too. I like her,

579
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:13,880
Speaker 1: she says a good energy about her. She really does.

580
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:18,000
Speaker 1: I like I went into it not really knowing and

581
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:20,520
Speaker 1: then you know, because you just like read things and

582
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 1: she's so she really liked her. Um. So we have

583
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:29,760
Speaker 1: another amazing lady coming on, Daniello Mone. She's um. She

584
00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 1: has a podcast called Adulting Like a Mother Father Um.

585
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:38,560
Speaker 1: And then she also has new diapers, um sprouted diapers. Um.

586
00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 1: So let's get Danny Yellow on the podcast. Hi guys, Hi,

587
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:48,640
Speaker 1: Hi again. Hold friend, Oh my gosh, let me see

588
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 1: your belly first and foremost rebelly, so cute. How many

589
00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 1: weeks are you now? I'm prety change? Are you so excited?

590
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 1: Right around the corner, very excited? Um, it's flown by.

591
00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:12,280
Speaker 1: I don't Did you feel that way with Jason? Yeah,

592
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:16,400
Speaker 1: because you're so preoccupied with the first that it's just like,

593
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:18,520
Speaker 1: oh wow, this Yeah, it goes I think it goes

594
00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:21,600
Speaker 1: by a lot faster. It's I feel like I just

595
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 1: found out I was pregnant, and now I'm like where

596
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:27,160
Speaker 1: are we putting her? Where are we putting her? Like,

597
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:30,120
Speaker 1: oh crap, I need everything? How old is how? How

598
00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 1: old is? He's only fourteen months? They're clothed almost two.

599
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:42,560
Speaker 1: That's excitingly interesting. So two is has anyone told you

600
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 1: about like adding another one on? I mean not, I

601
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:49,600
Speaker 1: don't see enough people for anyone to tell me. Please share.

602
00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:56,239
Speaker 1: I don't know if you want the answer. Look, so

603
00:33:56,280 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 1: I know you and your let's fiancee. Um, when are

604
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:02,560
Speaker 1: you guys getting married? By the way, I just had

605
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 1: a curiosity soon or not? Like when you don't have

606
00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 1: any plans. We haven't had plans this whole time. You

607
00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:13,640
Speaker 1: need to get on it, uma. But it's like it's

608
00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:17,799
Speaker 1: it's it's challenging the first few months just because you're

609
00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:19,799
Speaker 1: just you don't have a second because if you're not

610
00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:22,040
Speaker 1: dealing with the one, you're dealing with the other, and

611
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:24,120
Speaker 1: then you don't want to burden like I felt like

612
00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:26,960
Speaker 1: I didn't want to put both of them on him,

613
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:29,319
Speaker 1: So then it was just like then I wasn't taking

614
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:32,279
Speaker 1: care of myself and vice versa. Same with him. You

615
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:35,279
Speaker 1: still have that struggle, which and I will always tell

616
00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:37,920
Speaker 1: him like I don't care, you know, and Jenna be like,

617
00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:40,279
Speaker 1: can I hang out with the girls and play cards

618
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:42,640
Speaker 1: tonight and you have the kids. I'm like, totally cool.

619
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,920
Speaker 1: But I appreciate it because it is two years a lot,

620
00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:48,120
Speaker 1: especially at the ages that g will be and your

621
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:51,279
Speaker 1: baby girl will be. It's it's a lot. But I mean, now,

622
00:34:51,600 --> 00:34:53,920
Speaker 1: it's just what a great time to have a freaking

623
00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 1: baby though. I mean, well, yes and no, because you

624
00:34:57,200 --> 00:34:59,759
Speaker 1: can't really have visitors at the hospital, but I mean

625
00:34:59,840 --> 00:35:02,080
Speaker 1: you are able to just like be so present and

626
00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:05,279
Speaker 1: not have to work as much. Right, No, totally. I

627
00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:08,840
Speaker 1: think the timing is really nice um for that reason.

628
00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:12,279
Speaker 1: But yeah, it is weird because there hasn't been I

629
00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:14,280
Speaker 1: think that's one of the reasons why it's flown by,

630
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 1: because there's been no stopping along the way to acknowledge

631
00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:20,160
Speaker 1: the pregnancy. You know. I'm not like seeing enough people

632
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Speaker 1: be like, oh, well, my gosh, I don't get to

633
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:24,200
Speaker 1: dress my bumped and go out on the towel, like

634
00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:27,960
Speaker 1: there's none of it. That's so true. But now, so

635
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:32,560
Speaker 1: you have the sprouted diapers, um and they're the only

636
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 1: vegan diapers correct. Yeah, they're the first certified in the US. UM.

637
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Speaker 1: So I I created sprouted. When I was pregnant with Geo,

638
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:45,400
Speaker 1: I was trying to find diapers that were just really transparent.

639
00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:46,960
Speaker 1: I wanted to know that I was going to like

640
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:51,040
Speaker 1: find a clean, vegan, cruelty free diaper made with eco

641
00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:54,160
Speaker 1: friendly materials that was going to work. And that was

642
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Speaker 1: my one thing is that everyone who I talked to

643
00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:59,319
Speaker 1: was like, oh, yeah, there they exist, but they're they're

644
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:03,120
Speaker 1: not like comfy, you know, they feel gross, they don't

645
00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:05,839
Speaker 1: you know, they don't really work that well. And I

646
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:09,799
Speaker 1: just was annoyed by that. And to be frank, like,

647
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 1: I didn't feel like I was ready to do the

648
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:15,480
Speaker 1: cloth diapering thing. So I just was like, if I

649
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Speaker 1: need convenience, I need to know that I can rely

650
00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 1: on something that's gonna work but it's not going to

651
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:23,279
Speaker 1: be like harmful to him and harmful to the environment.

652
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Speaker 1: And so I started working on it and it took

653
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:29,799
Speaker 1: a while, but here we are. So this might make

654
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Speaker 1: me sound like a bad mom, but I guess what

655
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Speaker 1: is the I haven't done the research of why a

656
00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:42,800
Speaker 1: vegan diaper is better than a paper like we use pampers. Um.

657
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:46,279
Speaker 1: I tried to use the Honest diapers, but they just

658
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:48,879
Speaker 1: smelt like I smelled the pea and I'm just like,

659
00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:52,360
Speaker 1: oh man, And so then we went back to Pampers.

660
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:54,920
Speaker 1: But I'm like, I guess, like tell me, like what,

661
00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:57,719
Speaker 1: like why are they? Why is it bad? What's the benefits?

662
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Speaker 1: What's the benefit of having a vegan in versus like

663
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Speaker 1: a Pampers or a Huggies or anything. Sure, functionality wise,

664
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Speaker 1: probably not a huge difference. The reason why I wanted

665
00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:12,399
Speaker 1: to make a vegan diaper was purely based on my

666
00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:15,440
Speaker 1: own ethical stance. So every company I've invested or co

667
00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:19,520
Speaker 1: founded is vegan UM and that's like our mission, right,

668
00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:22,440
Speaker 1: So just trying to make certain everyday products that are

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Speaker 1: accessible to the masses not have to harm animals along

670
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Speaker 1: the way, Like you don't have to, why should we?

671
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:31,160
Speaker 1: So the reason why our diapers are vegan is because

672
00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:34,839
Speaker 1: we don't use um animal drived glues. We don't use

673
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:40,480
Speaker 1: manufacturing um like UM what factory stuff that that uses

674
00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:43,440
Speaker 1: lubricants that are coming from animals. Um. Tiny little things

675
00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:46,319
Speaker 1: you would never think about. And something that I learned

676
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 1: along the way. And it was not the easiest process,

677
00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:55,040
Speaker 1: but um, but we did. It's being as passionate as

678
00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:58,239
Speaker 1: you're around that you know, I watched that Netflix documentary

679
00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:01,000
Speaker 1: Game Changers a while earlier in this pandemic, right, and

680
00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:03,080
Speaker 1: I drink the cool aid like everybody, I was like,

681
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:08,239
Speaker 1: I gotta be vegan now, and so I talked about

682
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 1: it with Danna for a little bit. But where I struggled,

683
00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 1: and I even got a cookbook that's vegan, But where

684
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:18,440
Speaker 1: I struggled was like, where where do you start? Right, so,

685
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Speaker 1: for for someone who wants to maybe not go fully vegan,

686
00:38:23,200 --> 00:38:25,719
Speaker 1: but but dip my toe and see what it's like

687
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 1: and kind of the benefit, Um, like, where would you

688
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 1: start or suggest for someone like me or anybody else

689
00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:34,120
Speaker 1: to kind of get started on that train. I used

690
00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:38,520
Speaker 1: to do this really cool program in school called meatless Mondays,

691
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Speaker 1: and some school systems called it lean and Green program,

692
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Speaker 1: but really what it meant was the schools would go

693
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Speaker 1: completely meatless on Mondays alone. And so I took that

694
00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 1: approach and like, if the kid can do it, you know,

695
00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:53,279
Speaker 1: and they're the piggiest of us, all right, Um, then

696
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Speaker 1: I kind of like I I instill that, like I

697
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Speaker 1: guess coin er when I'm talking to people that asked

698
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Speaker 1: the same questions, just why not just art with one

699
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Speaker 1: day a week? Because that impact on the environment obviously,

700
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Speaker 1: the lives of animals is huge. Just one way, one

701
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Speaker 1: day a week, and see how you feel, like, don't

702
00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 1: put pressure on yourself if you slip up, no big deal, Like,

703
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Speaker 1: I just think that people try, Like you said, right,

704
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Speaker 1: you saw game changes like you just want to go

705
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Speaker 1: cold turkey or all in you drink a cool aid.

706
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Speaker 1: But is that like sustainable long term for some people? Yeah, totally,

707
00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:26,440
Speaker 1: that's the only way to do it for for some.

708
00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:29,279
Speaker 1: But I think also like it's a lifestyle choice, so

709
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Speaker 1: it's a long haul and I think, you know, be

710
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Speaker 1: gentle on yourself. Give it a few meals, see what

711
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Speaker 1: you like, what you don't like. It takes some somewhere,

712
00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:40,920
Speaker 1: like learning, I guess along the way with having you know,

713
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Speaker 1: geo and then a new baby on the way. I've

714
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Speaker 1: always been curious of someone who is vegan how you

715
00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 1: raise your children, you know, do you just give them

716
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:52,239
Speaker 1: the same happens that you have right now and then

717
00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:54,600
Speaker 1: maybe later on they can decide if they want to

718
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Speaker 1: try something like how are you guys planning on doing that? Yeah,

719
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Speaker 1: that's my approach exactly. I think. Um, you know, in

720
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Speaker 1: our home, we eat the way we eat and it's

721
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Speaker 1: easy because we're here and even when we're out, like

722
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Speaker 1: there's a lot of resources around here. And I've been

723
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Speaker 1: doing this for over twenty years, so I've like kind

724
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Speaker 1: of figured it out and how to make it work

725
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Speaker 1: wherever I am. UM, in terms of the future, like,

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Speaker 1: I don't put pressure on any of it. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: he's a human being. He's going to make decisions, he's

728
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Speaker 1: going to figure things out along the way. UM, I

729
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Speaker 1: want him. The one thing I will say is I

730
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Speaker 1: just want him to have some awareness around where his

731
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Speaker 1: food comes from, because I think that that's something that

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Speaker 1: I wasn't taught. And that's why I became vegan, because

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Speaker 1: I felt like someone just took the blindfold off and

734
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Speaker 1: I felt duped and I was like wait what. I

735
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Speaker 1: was five years old, So I was like traumatized. UM

736
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Speaker 1: to learn like the truth. And I think just having

737
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Speaker 1: that gentle conversation like you know, this is a cow

738
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Speaker 1: and like you know, at some point down the line,

739
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Speaker 1: and hope that that resonates with him and if it doesn't,

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Speaker 1: my job is to love him wholeheartedly and that's all

741
00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:59,400
Speaker 1: that matters, you know. I think that's been part of

742
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Speaker 1: my hesitating and too, because I mean, as you know,

743
00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:04,520
Speaker 1: as a mother, you know, what you do with your

744
00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:07,520
Speaker 1: kids like impacts everything you do daily. So you know,

745
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Speaker 1: I'm the primary cook in the family and so you know,

746
00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:12,520
Speaker 1: I cook for Jinna and the kids and everything. And

747
00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:14,440
Speaker 1: I feel like if I went vegan or wanted to

748
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Speaker 1: do more, you know, the kids are used to what

749
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Speaker 1: they're used to now they're five and two, and it's

750
00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:20,600
Speaker 1: like they kind of have their habits and things they

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00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:23,200
Speaker 1: like and don't like, and so I would I feel

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Speaker 1: like I would have to change, Like I'll be cooking

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Speaker 1: two meals almost, you know. So it's like I'm just

754
00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:36,040
Speaker 1: find excuses, really is what I'm doing. So there's vegan cheese,

755
00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:39,440
Speaker 1: but no, so dairy is anything that basically comes from

756
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:42,879
Speaker 1: an animal the creation of an animal um is not

757
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 1: necessarily vegan. But there's so many good cheeses on the market. Now,

758
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:49,359
Speaker 1: this is where I just go down a rabbit hole,

759
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:52,799
Speaker 1: I mean, because it's like, well, what if we have

760
00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:56,439
Speaker 1: the chickens and they lay the eggs. Can't aren't those

761
00:41:56,440 --> 00:42:00,000
Speaker 1: eggs then fine because they're not being shot with stuff.

762
00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:04,080
Speaker 1: So there's like a few different thoughts. No, for sure,

763
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:06,520
Speaker 1: there's like a few different thought processes when it comes

764
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:10,239
Speaker 1: to eggs specifically, I think, like the biggest thing that

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00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:14,040
Speaker 1: um I am aware of and I think the world

766
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Speaker 1: should be is our factory farming. And like the animal

767
00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:20,520
Speaker 1: agriculture industry, it's so corrupt, it's so not what we think.

768
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:23,480
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter if you see cage tree or whatever,

769
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:26,960
Speaker 1: like it's just the biggest misconception we're being sold to

770
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:30,880
Speaker 1: left and right. And so for me particularly like listen,

771
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Speaker 1: if you have a chicken and you consume their eggs,

772
00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 1: like that's a different story. Um, if the chicken lives

773
00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:39,880
Speaker 1: a beautiful life and you know, it's it's a different dynamic.

774
00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:42,319
Speaker 1: These chickens are piled up on top of each other

775
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:46,520
Speaker 1: in these tiny, tiny little coops with no son, no nothing,

776
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:49,360
Speaker 1: because if they get any exposure to the outside world,

777
00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:52,560
Speaker 1: they could potentially burn calories. And the whole thing is

778
00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:55,719
Speaker 1: about like keeping them plump and tight. It's a business,

779
00:42:56,160 --> 00:42:59,960
Speaker 1: and I'm really being someone who's in the business space.

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00:43:00,360 --> 00:43:03,760
Speaker 1: I own a lot of businesses. I am so anti

781
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:08,960
Speaker 1: um money driven like mentalities where it's just about the

782
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:13,200
Speaker 1: bottle bottom line, and unfortunately, like in the animal agriculture

783
00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 1: business alone, like that to me is like the worst

784
00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:18,920
Speaker 1: of them all. They just feel like they don't consider

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Speaker 1: our health and they don't consider obviously the animals, but

786
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:24,600
Speaker 1: that's secondary. They just don't consider our health or the environment,

787
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Speaker 1: none of it. So I've just been like, man, this

788
00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:30,600
Speaker 1: is where I just start to feel like overwhelmed, because

789
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Speaker 1: like I would love to try it, and I did

790
00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:35,760
Speaker 1: like a pin or test, and I'm not technically supposed

791
00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:38,480
Speaker 1: to have dairy, so but when I have tried, I

792
00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:40,480
Speaker 1: need can you d m me the vegan cheeses that

793
00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:43,440
Speaker 1: you eat? Yeah, because I'm a big cheese like cheese

794
00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 1: and wine girl. So it's like you know, you're you're

795
00:43:46,239 --> 00:43:51,319
Speaker 1: you're taking out one of my main food groups. Yeah.

796
00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:55,319
Speaker 1: And then then I'm like the high and iron, Like

797
00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:59,440
Speaker 1: I I get really I've really bad you know monthly things,

798
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:01,759
Speaker 1: and my doctor's like, you need to eat a lot

799
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Speaker 1: of iron, and I feel like the only way that

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00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:05,719
Speaker 1: I have energy is what I have a steak, you know.

801
00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:10,840
Speaker 1: But interesting, so well there's tons of ways of getting iron.

802
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:13,080
Speaker 1: In fact, you know, the analogy I like to use

803
00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:16,280
Speaker 1: as our animals are basically just a carrier of where

804
00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:19,000
Speaker 1: the actual iron is coming from. Right, So it's like

805
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:22,000
Speaker 1: they all eat the grass, they eat the hey, they

806
00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:24,080
Speaker 1: eat the things that. Like, if we could just cut

807
00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 1: out the middleman and we were just more mindful of

808
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:30,480
Speaker 1: like getting enough plants in our diet, Um, iron really

809
00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:33,279
Speaker 1: wouldn't be an issue. Um. And if it were, then

810
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 1: I think you probably would be a candidate for a

811
00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:38,960
Speaker 1: supplement anyways, right, like because it would probably be harder

812
00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:42,360
Speaker 1: for sure. So then speaking of Christmas, what do you

813
00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:46,400
Speaker 1: eat at Christmas? Then? Because I'm like cheese casserole, Like, like,

814
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:49,360
Speaker 1: what what do you have? Like, what's a vegan Christmas dinner?

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00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:53,120
Speaker 1: Look like? Good question? Um? You know I'm Italian, so

816
00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:54,879
Speaker 1: it's like I always bring it back to the roots.

817
00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:57,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what if we could have pizza lasagna?

818
00:44:57,800 --> 00:45:01,719
Speaker 1: You know, I love making a good hearty soup. I'm

819
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:04,040
Speaker 1: also a big side dish girl because for the majority

820
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:06,960
Speaker 1: of my life before people caught onto what veganism was,

821
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:09,880
Speaker 1: I only eat the side dishes. Um. So like I

822
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:12,399
Speaker 1: just I always like have like the green beans and

823
00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:16,200
Speaker 1: the potatoes and everything roasted. And I've just found a

824
00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 1: way to make it work and it really doesn't feel

825
00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:21,200
Speaker 1: any different to me. Um. There are tons of fake

826
00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:24,400
Speaker 1: meats too obviously. Um, but because I was vegan before

827
00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:27,960
Speaker 1: they got here, like, I haven't really doped too far

828
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Speaker 1: into those, um, but I do eat them. I'm just

829
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:33,640
Speaker 1: like i'd rather have like the whole plant foods. So

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Speaker 1: before we let you go, what's the families? What's y'alls

831
00:45:36,080 --> 00:45:38,000
Speaker 1: planning for Christmas? How are you guys going to spend it?

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Speaker 1: Where are you going to spend it? We're spending it

833
00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:44,560
Speaker 1: with family, Um, spending it with family. I'm lucky enough

834
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Speaker 1: to have grown up in l A, so a lot

835
00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:51,280
Speaker 1: of our immediate families here. Um, I'm hoping nothing really changes,

836
00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:54,600
Speaker 1: and that's just what it is. That's how where my

837
00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:58,200
Speaker 1: heart is. Well. Um, Danielle, you're the best. I love

838
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:02,719
Speaker 1: following on Instagram. Um, and I'm so happy about your diapers. Um,

839
00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:06,080
Speaker 1: so everyone needs to get they're vegan diapers at sprouted

840
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Speaker 1: dot com and follow Daniella because she's You're just I

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Speaker 1: just I love everything about you and you know just

842
00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:15,880
Speaker 1: everything you do. So um and please dm me some

843
00:46:15,920 --> 00:46:20,319
Speaker 1: awesome recipes so I can change my ways. Are little,

844
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:22,600
Speaker 1: just a little, just like baby baby steps, And then

845
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:24,239
Speaker 1: I think we should try one month of just like

846
00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:28,200
Speaker 1: full on bring it and taking the Beyonce approach. I

847
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:30,960
Speaker 1: like it. Yeah, let's do it um and then good

848
00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:33,480
Speaker 1: luck on the pregnancy tube. I only got a few

849
00:46:33,480 --> 00:46:36,479
Speaker 1: more weeks. You got this. She was gonna be great.

850
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:39,960
Speaker 1: It changes, it changes in a beautiful way. Just give yourself.

851
00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:43,120
Speaker 1: I'll just one thing, even though I always say, like,

852
00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:45,719
Speaker 1: don't ever give advice to pregnant people, but I am

853
00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:48,960
Speaker 1: going to ask for what you need in those moments.

854
00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:52,000
Speaker 1: Be like, I need to take a shower, because our

855
00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:55,120
Speaker 1: husband's partners are not going to read our mind. They're

856
00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:57,200
Speaker 1: just not. They don't know that we need a shower.

857
00:46:57,239 --> 00:46:59,520
Speaker 1: They don't know that we need to eat, you know,

858
00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:01,440
Speaker 1: they don't know that we need five minutes. So just

859
00:47:01,480 --> 00:47:04,960
Speaker 1: ask for what you need. I appreciate that. I'm not

860
00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:08,640
Speaker 1: I'm not good at that. So it's good reminder. Super

861
00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:12,600
Speaker 1: women want to do everything yourselves. We're here to help you. Okay,

862
00:47:12,640 --> 00:47:16,799
Speaker 1: We're here. I'll be honest. Andrew left today with Geo

863
00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:19,600
Speaker 1: for the first time in months. I think he's been

864
00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:23,319
Speaker 1: away from me once before, just once, okay, and he

865
00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:25,560
Speaker 1: went to his mom's house for a couple of hours.

866
00:47:25,600 --> 00:47:27,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, I have a few zooms, Like you know,

867
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:29,560
Speaker 1: you can, you can check out and go for a

868
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:35,600
Speaker 1: little drive whatever. I have mad anxiety, like the amount

869
00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:38,520
Speaker 1: of snacks and lunch and two hours he's away. I

870
00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:41,719
Speaker 1: packed everything under the sun. I said, you call me

871
00:47:41,719 --> 00:47:44,520
Speaker 1: when you get there. It's a like I couldn't even

872
00:47:44,600 --> 00:47:47,720
Speaker 1: deal with like someone else being in control for two hours.

873
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:49,959
Speaker 1: I have a long way to go. You're not Look

874
00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:52,920
Speaker 1: you're not alone, because Janna would be the same way.

875
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:55,960
Speaker 1: And I have to reminder, I'm like, you realize there

876
00:47:55,960 --> 00:48:00,000
Speaker 1: with that, like literally there with the the next best

877
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 1: should make it possibly be with in this entire world.

878
00:48:02,640 --> 00:48:05,799
Speaker 1: I was like, they're gonna be okay, and she's like, no,

879
00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:09,040
Speaker 1: but I'm not there. Yeah. I just always had to

880
00:48:09,080 --> 00:48:10,520
Speaker 1: be like I know, but I just we have to

881
00:48:10,600 --> 00:48:12,400
Speaker 1: say it. We have to. We just have to be like,

882
00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:13,759
Speaker 1: do you have this? Do you have that? Do you

883
00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:17,319
Speaker 1: have you know? We just's we'll figure it out. We're dad,

884
00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:20,400
Speaker 1: We got this, dude, he said. He goes, I'm going

885
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:23,319
Speaker 1: to drive home around Um, I'll drive out on his

886
00:48:23,440 --> 00:48:25,040
Speaker 1: nap and I'll drive home. I said, well, he's got

887
00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:26,640
Speaker 1: a nap on the way home and we have a

888
00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:30,120
Speaker 1: bedtime at like sixty seven. So are you not like

889
00:48:30,200 --> 00:48:32,160
Speaker 1: I lost my mind. I was like, no, no, no,

890
00:48:32,239 --> 00:48:34,680
Speaker 1: you drive out before the nap and you drive home

891
00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:39,239
Speaker 1: on the map a day drove you right here. This

892
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:42,920
Speaker 1: is exactly what because we've been there, done that several times.

893
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Speaker 1: It's too good, Danielle, thanks again for your time, sweetheart.

894
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:49,800
Speaker 1: We love talking with you and giving Andrew our best

895
00:48:49,840 --> 00:48:57,359
Speaker 1: in congratulations on everything. Thank you, thank you. Bye. She's

896
00:48:57,400 --> 00:49:02,640
Speaker 1: such a sweetheart. I love her. She's so sweet. Hey, Mark, Yes, Jannah,

897
00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:05,400
Speaker 1: do you eat meat? I do eat meat, but I

898
00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:07,839
Speaker 1: don't eat red meat. It ain't a lot less meat

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00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:11,440
Speaker 1: than I used to eat. I was, I was all in.

900
00:49:11,560 --> 00:49:14,320
Speaker 1: I was one of those guys steak and everything back

901
00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:16,759
Speaker 1: burgers constantly. I was one of those guys. But I

902
00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:19,240
Speaker 1: have evolved as I have grown older in many ways

903
00:49:19,800 --> 00:49:21,680
Speaker 1: and one of those not eating meat all the time.

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00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:23,600
Speaker 1: And the fake meat that's out right now is really

905
00:49:23,600 --> 00:49:28,960
Speaker 1: good stuff. Really, we actually had some that jew and

906
00:49:29,120 --> 00:49:31,160
Speaker 1: Cues and them. What was that? It was like a

907
00:49:31,360 --> 00:49:35,439
Speaker 1: we had a burger, but it was like an impossible burger. Actually, yeah,

908
00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:37,080
Speaker 1: it was actually pretty good. We need to start getting

909
00:49:37,120 --> 00:49:41,960
Speaker 1: some at Costco, then Gasco. Let's go to Costco. When

910
00:49:41,960 --> 00:49:44,160
Speaker 1: you go to Castco. Make sure to get your clorox

911
00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:48,080
Speaker 1: because they're selling out fast again. Ladies and gentlemen. I

912
00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:51,040
Speaker 1: gotta keep it clean, they said, like low stock Clorox.

913
00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:54,279
Speaker 1: Make sure you get your clean it up. It's going

914
00:49:54,320 --> 00:49:58,200
Speaker 1: to be a messy holiday season, but I'm pumped. I

915
00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:02,000
Speaker 1: can't wait. We're ready. Elf on the Shelf is back

916
00:50:02,040 --> 00:50:06,880
Speaker 1: at it again, except the elf forgot to do something

917
00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:08,719
Speaker 1: the other night, and I was like, oh, he was

918
00:50:08,719 --> 00:50:14,360
Speaker 1: a good boy last night. Great dad safe. So yeah,

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00:50:14,680 --> 00:50:18,120
Speaker 1: that's all you, daddy, al Right. I love you guys.

920
00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:19,120
Speaker 1: Merry Christmas.