1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,920 Speaker 1: All right, it is time for the Strawberry letter. Subject. 2 00:00:03,080 --> 00:00:05,000 Speaker 1: I don't want to be a player no more. That 3 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 1: is the subject. Just Stephen Shirley. I've been listening for 4 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 1: years and decided it was time for me to get 5 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:16,480 Speaker 1: some advice. I'm a young brother in my early forties. 6 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:19,480 Speaker 1: I have a great career and two sons that are grown. 7 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:22,640 Speaker 1: I'm a bit of a homebody, so I don't hang 8 00:00:22,640 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 1: out much, and I've never liked um hanging out in clubs. 9 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:28,320 Speaker 1: My issue is that I'm at a point in my 10 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 1: life where I'm ready to settle down and be with 11 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:33,839 Speaker 1: one good woman, but I can't seem to shake the 12 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:36,479 Speaker 1: women from my past. I have females that I have 13 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:39,600 Speaker 1: been intimate with, and I considered them friends with benefits. 14 00:00:39,920 --> 00:00:42,160 Speaker 1: I've been with some of them for over ten years. 15 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:44,600 Speaker 1: I let them know upfront if I don't plan to 16 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:48,159 Speaker 1: be serious with them. I do not lie or mislead anyone, 17 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:51,839 Speaker 1: so they are all okay with our relationship. I may 18 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:54,960 Speaker 1: have commitment issues because I never saw a healthy marriage 19 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 1: or relationship when I was growing up. It doesn't help 20 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 1: that one of the ladies that I'm seeing has been 21 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:03,639 Speaker 1: married for years and she has been sleeping with me 22 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 1: behind her husband's back for two years. So the fact 23 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 1: that she can blatantly cheat on her husband makes me 24 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 1: even more scared to invest emotionally in a serious relationship. 25 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 1: I am also leary about being with one woman for 26 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:20,840 Speaker 1: the rest of my life. Steve Man to man, how 27 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 1: do I get over this? Please help me? I don't 28 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 1: want to be a player all of my life. Well 29 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 1: so far, Yeah, that's what you've been. And um, you know, 30 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 1: when you get ready to settle down, it's more than 31 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 1: just saying you want to settle down with one good woman. Um, 32 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 1: you know all these friends, so called friends that you 33 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 1: have have with benefits. I mean you've never thought for 34 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 1: once that one of your friends could possibly be the 35 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 1: one you want to settle down with. You haven't met 36 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 1: anyone through another friend or you know, you haven't met 37 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 1: anyone that's worthy of this. I mean there are a 38 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 1: lot a lot of good women out there. Now that 39 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 1: you've decided that you want to settle down, I think 40 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 1: you have to look deeper into these women, deeper into 41 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 1: the situation. Now. The woman that's married, definitely she's out 42 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 1: because but but just because she's doing it doesn't mean 43 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:11,920 Speaker 1: that a woman you will get with will do it. Um, yeah, 44 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 1: she's doing it. And guess what, she's not by herself, 45 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 1: you're doing it with her. So you guys are both 46 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: wrong there. So I think you need to meet a 47 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 1: nice woman. Have a friend introduce you. You need to 48 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 1: meet someone. There are a lot of good, good women 49 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 1: out there. You just haven't met any yet, obviously, or 50 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:29,920 Speaker 1: maybe if you had, you just haven't taken the time 51 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 1: to invest in any of them. You just look at 52 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:34,639 Speaker 1: them as friends with benefits and move on. You don't 53 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 1: even consider them as a good women. Have any of 54 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 1: these women, uh come up to you and said they 55 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 1: wanted to you know, have you talked to have they 56 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:43,799 Speaker 1: said they wanted to get married or anything? It doesn't 57 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:46,160 Speaker 1: sound like that because you didn't say it. But um, 58 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 1: I think that there are a lot of women out 59 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:50,680 Speaker 1: there you just need to meet the right one, and 60 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 1: you haven't done that yet because you're still being a player. 61 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 1: If you're truly being a player, stop being a player. 62 00:02:56,280 --> 00:02:58,679 Speaker 1: Leave all these women alone and settled so you can 63 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 1: settle down. Steve Well, he said in the letter Steve 64 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 1: Man the Man, how do I get over this? Please 65 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:12,360 Speaker 1: help me? I don't want to be a player all 66 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:15,680 Speaker 1: my life. Okay, man the man, let's have this conversation 67 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 1: as if there's no women in the room. How about that? 68 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 1: Y'all ready for this? Okay, what's Since my man don't 69 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 1: have a name, I'm gonna just call him play all right, player, 70 00:03:27,919 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 1: game recognized game. So now you're asking the right man, 71 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 1: because I've done all this you're talking about. So now 72 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 1: let me just break you down for you. Player. I've 73 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 1: been listening to you. You decided I'm a young brother 74 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 1: in my early forties. I got a great career and 75 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 1: two sons that are grown at breaks. You ain't young 76 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 1: your forty and got two grown sons. See, it's not 77 00:03:58,560 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 1: the number that's supposed to grow you up, it's the 78 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 1: situation that's supposed to grow you up. So see you 79 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:09,800 Speaker 1: having two grown sons, what type of example are you 80 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:12,600 Speaker 1: setting for these grown men? Now? You say in YO 81 00:04:12,680 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 1: letter you never saw a healthy relationship, You ain't never 82 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 1: tried to be in one, and you're exhibiting the same 83 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 1: traits you've never seen. You're showing them to your grown sons. 84 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 1: So now you ain't young, you're grown, and you need 85 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 1: to grow up. This man to man player Okay, now 86 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 1: let's move on. I'm a bit of a homebody. I 87 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:35,200 Speaker 1: don't hang out much, never like hanging out in clubs. 88 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 1: My issue, that's I'm at the point in my life 89 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 1: were I'm ready to settle down and be with one 90 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:42,720 Speaker 1: good woman. Okay, if that's what you're ready to do, 91 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:45,920 Speaker 1: all you got to do is do it, see him. 92 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:48,560 Speaker 1: All you got to do is do it. But I 93 00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 1: got news for you, though, see your hedge in your bets. 94 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:54,840 Speaker 1: So now let's go man to man. I can't seem 95 00:04:54,960 --> 00:05:00,599 Speaker 1: to shake the women from my past, ready, player, because 96 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 1: you don't won't to this? All? This is what? What 97 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:08,680 Speaker 1: what am I doing? If you don't want to shake 98 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:12,480 Speaker 1: the women from your past, it's because you don't won't too, 99 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 1: That's all this is. See, this is a decision you 100 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 1: got to make, player. This ain't a lifestyle change. This 101 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:24,599 Speaker 1: is a series of decisions that are life changing. But 102 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 1: you gotta make a decision, Pimp. I have females that 103 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 1: I've been intimate with that I consider them friends with 104 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 1: benefits I've been I've been with some of them for 105 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:38,120 Speaker 1: over ten years. I let them know up front I 106 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 1: don't plan to be serious with them. I don't lie 107 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:44,160 Speaker 1: on mis lead anyone. So they all okay with their relationship, 108 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:50,479 Speaker 1: with our relationship, game recognized game. All these women ain't 109 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:55,679 Speaker 1: cool with this. They went in thinking they was gonna 110 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:58,560 Speaker 1: be the one. You have made each one of them 111 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:02,640 Speaker 1: feel special from time to time. You've even said that 112 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:05,719 Speaker 1: I love you before, and don't say you ain't cause 113 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 1: you got two boys. So now you didn't use the 114 00:06:09,520 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 1: ale word on a couple of times, but you have 115 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 1: told him you don't want none serious. But every woman 116 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 1: thinks they're the one that can change you and me, 117 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 1: and you both know that, and we play on that. 118 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:26,600 Speaker 1: That's what players do. We play on women's weakness. That's 119 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:29,120 Speaker 1: what you're doing this man, the man I'm talking to 120 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:32,719 Speaker 1: you like, ain't no women in the room. Player. So 121 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 1: now that you know they all looking for something, and 122 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 1: keep thinking if they do all the right things, that 123 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 1: you would come around today line of thinking, and you 124 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 1: know that that's the basis of being a successful player. Pim. 125 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:52,160 Speaker 1: Now let's catch a part two of your response. I 126 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 1: don't want to be a player no more. Right, let's 127 00:06:54,960 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 1: recap young dude forty years old. Just had to tell 128 00:06:57,680 --> 00:07:00,360 Speaker 1: him he not young because you've got two grown sons. 129 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:02,920 Speaker 1: So take that out, young. It's not the number. It 130 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:05,480 Speaker 1: should be the experience in life and the place that 131 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:08,440 Speaker 1: you are. You having two grown sons mean that you 132 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 1: should have been and growed up what you should have 133 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:16,400 Speaker 1: been and growed up? Been done, growed up. Now, if 134 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:18,200 Speaker 1: you want to use proper English, you need to talk 135 00:07:18,240 --> 00:07:20,040 Speaker 1: to somebody else. He can't live in a proper life. 136 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 1: But now all saying you want good see, they ain't 137 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 1: what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna talk to him like 138 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 1: and like I said, y'all ain't here no how so 139 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 1: y'all don't even here this man to man. Then he said, 140 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 1: I'm looking for one good woman. You got ten of them. 141 00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:39,800 Speaker 1: What you're seeing in that long fall. It's plenty of 142 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 1: them as good women. It's just you ain't a good 143 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:46,240 Speaker 1: man yet, that's all. That's all. Player. But I can't 144 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 1: seem to shake the women from my past. Boy, don't 145 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 1: you know you got to make a decision. Dog. Ain't 146 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 1: none of us want to shake the women from our past? Well? 147 00:07:56,360 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 1: I did. I had too though, because I was and 148 00:08:03,600 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 1: I'm not in the room. But Jesus made me feel 149 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 1: so I must track that statement in the name. I 150 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 1: let them know in front that I don't plan to 151 00:08:12,360 --> 00:08:14,920 Speaker 1: be serious with him and I don't lie to mislead anybody. 152 00:08:15,080 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 1: So they're all okay with our relationship. But they're not 153 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:20,960 Speaker 1: all okay with it. You. You, you're playing on the 154 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 1: emotion that all women think they can change your man, 155 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:26,480 Speaker 1: that all women think if they just do the right things, 156 00:08:26,480 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 1: that you're gonna duplicate their efforts the same way they're 157 00:08:29,160 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 1: putting it out. That's what you're playing on. Pimp ten 158 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:34,960 Speaker 1: years some of these women for same women for ten years, 159 00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:38,680 Speaker 1: waiting on you to come around. That's what they're doing. 160 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 1: But they're signing up for this foolishness laughing. I may 161 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:46,320 Speaker 1: have commitment issues because I never saw a healthy marriage 162 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:48,880 Speaker 1: or relationship when I was growing up. So since you 163 00:08:48,880 --> 00:08:50,959 Speaker 1: ain't seen one, you're just gonna you're just gonna beat 164 00:08:50,960 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 1: the other one there, huh? So not since you ain't 165 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:56,640 Speaker 1: seen one. You know, I ain't never seen nobody jump 166 00:08:56,720 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 1: off of building before. But I bet my ass don't 167 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 1: go up there. You know, I'm just sitting here saying, 168 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 1: we're here talking about what. You ain't never seen that before? 169 00:09:06,120 --> 00:09:08,720 Speaker 1: You can't. I ain't never shot myself in the head. 170 00:09:11,160 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 1: But I bet I don't sit up there and put 171 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 1: a gun up to my head. That's our okay. So 172 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:17,959 Speaker 1: we're just talking, man to man. It doesn't help me 173 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 1: that one of the ladies that I'm seeing has been 174 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:23,600 Speaker 1: married for years and she's been sleeping with me behind 175 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:27,720 Speaker 1: her husband's back for two years. Dog, you're sleeping with her. 176 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:34,959 Speaker 1: This ain't her fault. She didn't make you, dog, dis adultery. 177 00:09:35,360 --> 00:09:38,719 Speaker 1: You ain't understanding that. Now you want something good to 178 00:09:38,840 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 1: come out of that. Come on, man, dog, we can't 179 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:44,079 Speaker 1: do wrong. Expect good to come out of it. Dain't 180 00:09:44,120 --> 00:09:47,559 Speaker 1: how this work. This man, the man you're sleeping with 181 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:49,920 Speaker 1: this other man's wife. He finds out about it, that's 182 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:53,320 Speaker 1: gonna be the end of you and hug now him 183 00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 1: you greeting now all these women? You know you're such 184 00:09:56,280 --> 00:09:58,640 Speaker 1: a good player. What you're messing with the mad chick? Fall? 185 00:09:59,160 --> 00:10:02,480 Speaker 1: Damn dog? Hold up. So the fact that she can 186 00:10:02,559 --> 00:10:06,040 Speaker 1: blatantly cheat on her husband makes me even most scared 187 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:09,839 Speaker 1: to invest emotionally in a serious relationship. Hold up, dog, 188 00:10:10,200 --> 00:10:14,199 Speaker 1: you're cheating with this woman. Quit putting it on h 189 00:10:15,200 --> 00:10:18,040 Speaker 1: You're cheating with the woman. First of all, I can 190 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 1: about guarantee you she at the house unhappy. Now, women 191 00:10:22,320 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 1: sometimes do like me and do when they ain't happy, 192 00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:27,800 Speaker 1: they make a move too, that's right. So maybe her 193 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:31,160 Speaker 1: husband being dog and her and puts, Okay, I'm gonna 194 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 1: find me a little piece of happiness somewhere myself. Could 195 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:36,440 Speaker 1: that be? But who said you had to be the happiness? Though? 196 00:10:36,760 --> 00:10:39,560 Speaker 1: You know that girl mar See you know that girl 197 00:10:39,640 --> 00:10:44,200 Speaker 1: married dog? So now okay, so now, but now, once again, 198 00:10:44,400 --> 00:10:47,240 Speaker 1: it's her fault that you don't want nothing serious because 199 00:10:47,280 --> 00:10:52,199 Speaker 1: she cheating on her husband. Dog. You you're providing the cheatership. 200 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:59,800 Speaker 1: This is cheatership. New word, it's cheatership. It's like an apprenticeship. 201 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:03,240 Speaker 1: You sign up for it. Cheatership. You can come down 202 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:06,280 Speaker 1: here and be an intern. You can get the job. 203 00:11:06,440 --> 00:11:11,320 Speaker 1: You can apply for cheatership. I am also leary about 204 00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:15,320 Speaker 1: being with one woman for the rest of my life. Dog, 205 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:17,719 Speaker 1: you literally about that? Okay, let me help you out, 206 00:11:17,720 --> 00:11:21,360 Speaker 1: player your forty I'm sixty one. You're gonna get all 207 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:24,960 Speaker 1: right with that one woman because guess what you ain't 208 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:29,679 Speaker 1: gonna be the buddy rabbit you is. You're gonna need 209 00:11:29,760 --> 00:11:33,600 Speaker 1: all your save for this one to do this one right, 210 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:38,200 Speaker 1: and often you don't have no extra Just be out 211 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 1: here just flinging or love juice everywhere. You don't go 212 00:11:42,800 --> 00:11:45,960 Speaker 1: sitwhere and sit your ass down and I'll tell you 213 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:51,200 Speaker 1: something else. Why don't you try being successful. I'm gonna 214 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:53,440 Speaker 1: tell you something that's gonna take up a lot of 215 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:56,120 Speaker 1: your player time. See what got me out of the 216 00:11:56,160 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 1: player field was I decided I wanted to be somebody. 217 00:11:59,800 --> 00:12:01,719 Speaker 1: So in order to be somebody, it took a lot 218 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:05,760 Speaker 1: more time, and I was wasting time with with women 219 00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:09,440 Speaker 1: that wasn't mind, that didn't have no future. So when 220 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 1: I said, hold up, wait a minute, Steve, I would 221 00:12:12,160 --> 00:12:15,199 Speaker 1: rather be successful than a player, I cut it out. 222 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:17,920 Speaker 1: And lord, oh look at you. So the time that 223 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:20,600 Speaker 1: I was devoting to that foolishness, you mean to tell 224 00:12:20,600 --> 00:12:22,560 Speaker 1: me I can put that towards my career in my 225 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:26,240 Speaker 1: life and actually have something. You're gonna get okay with 226 00:12:26,240 --> 00:12:28,880 Speaker 1: this one woman because you thought it right now. I 227 00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:31,360 Speaker 1: don't know exactly what year is gonna happen to you, 228 00:12:31,920 --> 00:12:34,839 Speaker 1: but it's gonna happen. Yeah. But one day you're gonna 229 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:38,640 Speaker 1: look up and the gun ain't gonna shoot when it's 230 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:48,240 Speaker 1: post to. And here you've been going from you all 231 00:12:48,280 --> 00:12:50,839 Speaker 1: like that, right then all of a sudden one day 232 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 1: you're gonna feel this here that you saw y'all sa 233 00:12:58,280 --> 00:13:01,400 Speaker 1: y'all saw Hall of Nights, Remember when they was fine 234 00:13:01,520 --> 00:13:03,160 Speaker 1: all in the middle of the street shooting at the 235 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 1: stoke and then that one little shot after that's you're 236 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:11,160 Speaker 1: gonna get down to the pack that scale the gun. 237 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:15,280 Speaker 1: But you got one good shot. You won't be refined 238 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:17,839 Speaker 1: all night long. All right, Steve, we gotta get out 239 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:20,360 Speaker 1: of your great advice is always good to have you back. 240 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:24,600 Speaker 1: We definitely got to get past it. Be past it. Yeah, 241 00:13:26,280 --> 00:13:29,480 Speaker 1: like you want to be treated, stop treating people like 242 00:13:29,520 --> 00:13:32,720 Speaker 1: you want to and start treating people like like you 243 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:35,480 Speaker 1: would like to be treated. Do unto others that you 244 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:37,800 Speaker 1: would have them do unto. You don't mean to put 245 00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:40,240 Speaker 1: the scripture in there, because you obviously the hell ain't 246 00:13:40,240 --> 00:13:45,280 Speaker 1: been the church in a while. You're listening to the 247 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:46,839 Speaker 1: morning show.