Speaker 1: Oh, wicked up than I saw some my girls dancing
Speaker 1: this and I was so upset about it. She's doing
Speaker 1: a really hard hand. What are you doing? This is
Speaker 1: the white that's coming out of you so bad hanging
Speaker 1: out when this ship playing the club, bitch, I turned
Speaker 1: into a strumble. I don't think it takes you much
Speaker 1: to turning to a stripper, so that was gonna off. Anyways, guys,
Speaker 1: welcome to another episode of Horrible Decisions. Um, this is
Speaker 1: your girl, Mandy be a k A food press, a
Speaker 1: debt beach. Keep going. I was hoping, I was ready.
Speaker 1: I was ready. You gotta have more, ak No, I'd
Speaker 1: be working on. I gotta write them down, okay, because
Speaker 1: I got my a k is already on. No, you
Speaker 1: gotta do it. You do it real quick, yo, Damon's wheezy. Akay, okay,
Speaker 1: yeah do it. And I ain't asthm at it. No,
Speaker 1: I am okay. And we have we have two gats
Speaker 1: in the show once again CP time. One is running
Speaker 1: a little it's very light cy p time. Um, so
Speaker 1: we're gonna introduce at least one of them, and then
Speaker 1: when the other one comes in, she can do okay,
Speaker 1: so who else do we have in the studio right now.
Speaker 1: Do you want to introduce yourself? Oh? Sure, it's x
Speaker 1: d um a k A the Chuck d of Homosexuality,
Speaker 1: a k A homo without a pause, A gay z
Speaker 1: a k A factific a k A Hoisha a k
Speaker 1: A because Nickel, we all got pain. Did you say gazzy?
Speaker 1: He said gay? See? He said how Isha? That was great?
Speaker 1: I think you got still that name. You gotta could
Speaker 1: be You could be me, y'all. Our other guests actually
Speaker 1: just came in right on time, so we I know,
Speaker 1: we just gonna throw you in time. We are told
Speaker 1: you in the mix. Girl. Um, do you want to
Speaker 1: introduce yourself to our listeners? Oh, I'm not as fancy
Speaker 1: as ext It's Jade a k Jada al jadesk ak
Speaker 1: A Griselda Negra a k A your mom. So if
Speaker 1: you guys don't know, these are the wonderful host of
Speaker 1: the Jada Next Show. Um, they also have a podcast.
Speaker 1: They're a little bit more lit. If y'all hate Wayne
Speaker 1: our episodes, they dropped bout two or three or four
Speaker 1: or five a week. God damn kid, when you started
Speaker 1: getting grown, I'm like, oh, she's married. So they don't
Speaker 1: live together. How many do they? How do they do this?
Speaker 1: We pretty much lived together used to anyway. Your husband, yeah,
Speaker 1: for what husband is actually right here? Yeah. I'm always
Speaker 1: like imagining people that are married and happy with ugly husbands.
Speaker 1: I'd be like, that's why they're happy, like whatever, Like
Speaker 1: something's got to be wrong. Listen, people eat, people will
Speaker 1: d M me and be like, listen, girl, I love
Speaker 1: your shows. I think they're great all of that. Your
Speaker 1: family is beautiful, but check it. Your husband is fine.
Speaker 1: I'm like, that's chocolate. You know, you've got to feel good,
Speaker 1: I think because like I know my nig is fine.
Speaker 1: I know what kind of girl? Everything whatever? I just
Speaker 1: never mind, never mind, just saw the screen. So I
Speaker 1: do want to say, Um, I was talking to her
Speaker 1: about your show. Um, nigga Peace Theater is my motherfucking shit. Um.
Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys, um listen to the
Speaker 1: JA the next show. Um. But basically what they do
Speaker 1: is they do something really cool and I mean it's
Speaker 1: kind of um or get too for you guys. I've
Speaker 1: never heard it from a podcast. So what they do
Speaker 1: they have? Like these thirty minutes segments where x D
Speaker 1: actually started, Um, he wrote two chapters I believe, to
Speaker 1: start with, and then Jade finished them with two more chapters.
Speaker 1: So basically, weekly you're listening to a story that neither
Speaker 1: of them knows what's coming next. This one, we're the
Speaker 1: next one. Because if you, guys can just give a
Speaker 1: summary of your last one, I would love our listeners
Speaker 1: to listen to him because I was, I was at
Speaker 1: my desk, like, no, he did it. It was really good.
Speaker 1: So can you give like a summary of what so, Nicko,
Speaker 1: Peace Theater is exactly how you described it. It's it's
Speaker 1: a story that Jade and I have written and we
Speaker 1: don't know how it's going to well, we soon will
Speaker 1: know how it's going to end. But it's a story
Speaker 1: about Trevor and Bianca Um and it's a story of
Speaker 1: their their wacky love tales. Um. Trevor is a doctor
Speaker 1: at Columbia, fictitiously and his wife is a transwomen prostitute dominatrix, dominatrix,
Speaker 1: and he knows that she's a prostitute. Yeah, and it's
Speaker 1: okay with her being a sex worker. And they don't
Speaker 1: have sex, and they don't they've never had sex at all.
Speaker 1: And then it answer Twine. Yeah. I don't want to
Speaker 1: give any spoilers, but the story takes a lot of
Speaker 1: twists and turns and I've created these characters in my
Speaker 1: mind and I'm listening to it. You guys read it
Speaker 1: very well. Um, it's just something that I get different.
Speaker 1: It's you know, not pop. We started this right after
Speaker 1: our first live show in l A. So I guess
Speaker 1: since excuse me, well, we stopped for a minute. And
Speaker 1: because we're releasing a book and comes out September three,
Speaker 1: wait with Trevor and Bianca finish finished the story. That's
Speaker 1: why we stopped. Yeah, so everybody will be able to
Speaker 1: purchase the ending of the book. That no, that is awesome.
Speaker 1: So yeah, if you guys haven't yet, um, Jaden x D.
Speaker 1: You guys are on iTunes and SoundCloud look up theater.
Speaker 1: Oh not SoundCloud, Remember we were trying to look them up.
Speaker 1: I'm subscribed and you have a new podcast, yes, Getting Grown.
Speaker 1: Getting Grown is on the Loudspeakers Network. Um we are.
Speaker 1: We talk about all things adulting and how to do
Speaker 1: so while we're trying to figure it out at the
Speaker 1: same time. I'm surprised how much I enjoy it because
Speaker 1: I'm like when it has kids over here talking about
Speaker 1: I mean, how did I get a kid? No, like,
Speaker 1: it's funny like podcast honestly, like so Dubrid for tending.
Speaker 1: She's like, you've got to listen to this, and no shape,
Speaker 1: I'm just saying what she described at first, that's like
Speaker 1: mental health. I'm like, I'm good. And I was really
Speaker 1: really surprised how much I enjoyed it. Even listening to
Speaker 1: the story about your kid was like so fun to
Speaker 1: listen to the birthday party ship because I'm because that's
Speaker 1: so like I'm just gonna give I'm just gonna give
Speaker 1: it to you like that. And then kid is too
Speaker 1: gave a great part about it because and so we
Speaker 1: tried to make that different about this sex podcast because
Speaker 1: so we both work in corporate America. People bleep it,
Speaker 1: but um, I already tell how many works huge company,
Speaker 1: and so like we cross passed again. We had been
Speaker 1: friends five years ago. I didn't talk for five years.
Speaker 1: Y'all have beef. We did have asking on the show,
Speaker 1: like you guys make it because it sounds like about
Speaker 1: to break up a lot, maybe text me one day
Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, I don't want to
Speaker 1: do this without you so call me when you're ready
Speaker 1: and actually making me sound like the bigger person because
Speaker 1: I was ready to risk it all and just wap
Speaker 1: my ass away you. Anyway, when I ran into Mandy right,
Speaker 1: she was like just doing amazing things that I had
Speaker 1: moved to New York for a great job, and I
Speaker 1: noticed we both still had this like oh ship in us,
Speaker 1: And I was like, wouldn't it be great? It's the screen.
Speaker 1: We could talk about changing it. I maybe keep it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well the way our jobs are set up, but I
Speaker 1: may be taking on a new role. And so they're like,
Speaker 1: the podcast is great, but the banana by your mouth,
Speaker 1: I'll have to listen. Then I say, I came to
Speaker 1: HR no no, yeah, yeah, I came to HR the
Speaker 1: day I was gonna make it, and I'm like, listen,
Speaker 1: I want to start a podcast. I read up on
Speaker 1: our guidelines. I just want to know how I can
Speaker 1: do this. Is this okay? And they're like yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: like because it's about sex. She's like yeah, that's fine.
Speaker 1: I'm like it right, it's about HR. I said, there's bananas.
Speaker 1: I said, we're going to call it and she's like, well, well,
Speaker 1: what is it? Curs? Right? There and said it's horror
Speaker 1: in there. She's like, well, as long as you separated
Speaker 1: from this company. I mean, they don't bleep that word
Speaker 1: out on TV, so I think it's fine. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: sure didn't, because they did on Real Housewives of New
Speaker 1: Jersey when it was So. What we like to do, um,
Speaker 1: and how we like to start our show is we
Speaker 1: like to have kinks on our show. And these kinks, UM,
Speaker 1: sometimes we know them, sometimes we don't, but we find
Speaker 1: the actual terminology of these things. Um. And she has
Speaker 1: a great one, and maybe you guys can try to
Speaker 1: guess if you guys know what it is. She's going
Speaker 1: to read the definite. Do you have the definition to
Speaker 1: the kink for me? Um? I've been taking pictures of
Speaker 1: dudes on the subway with like with their ankles out,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, why am I sell into this? It's
Speaker 1: called partialism, and it's when you have arousal to a
Speaker 1: body part that's other than a reproductive organ. Do you
Speaker 1: do you have one a kink? Or is there something
Speaker 1: that attract you to a person other than a reproductive organ?
Speaker 1: So the name of the next oh yeah that chest. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not really into rests, you know, I think feet
Speaker 1: you like, you know, this is not where you're ready for.
Speaker 1: Have you ever been sucking dick and someone put a
Speaker 1: toe in your ass? What you know what? You don't
Speaker 1: answer that? Don't answer that? Wait why look look at them?
Speaker 1: No that has that has No, that has never happened,
Speaker 1: that has been asked me. Yeah, they're like you've been
Speaker 1: talking about these people? Yeah, so you put them in
Speaker 1: your mouth? Yeah, like when I would. Yeah, I'm something
Speaker 1: new every day. Friends don't said you don't fetish, not
Speaker 1: like that, not everybody. Yeah, I got to really know.
Speaker 1: Has there ever been something with sent with me? I'm curious?
Speaker 1: Um sent Maybe I think it's because I guess. Another
Speaker 1: fetish I guess I have is like musk smell from
Speaker 1: like okay, but I feel like but like feet, but
Speaker 1: feet smell is different than like musky. Like my friend
Speaker 1: Binny sprays the paramount to be like basic coming out
Speaker 1: the night. Yeah, and they do he do? He carrying
Speaker 1: his little bottle of pharamony? Want to him sometimes? Do
Speaker 1: you do you have a fetish for anything other than
Speaker 1: you better be listening over their husband? Oh he what white?
Speaker 1: Does the husband know? What is it? What's she like
Speaker 1: about you, that's not a reproductive organ. Can a bear
Speaker 1: does the beer? I want to ride? So I just yeah,
Speaker 1: I like it just because I know that means they're
Speaker 1: smell you. How long you guys been together? Six years now?
Speaker 1: Have you always had a beard? Have you been fucked
Speaker 1: more since you've had the beer? Yeah? I always get
Speaker 1: some and that's why. So what about you? You said
Speaker 1: you have a thing for ankles when I've be seen
Speaker 1: him with the joggers on and the ankle like a
Speaker 1: skinny ankle or you like a thick ankle. Yeah, what
Speaker 1: is it? I don't know, dude, I'd be like this
Speaker 1: nigg gut ankle. Mine is super super weird. I have
Speaker 1: a thing for Adams apples, then attraction. If the nigga
Speaker 1: has a huge atoms apple, like, I'll literally play with
Speaker 1: it like it's a little click like it's okay if
Speaker 1: we're laying down, like you don't like Adams apples, I
Speaker 1: prefer you not me. So out there I love big
Speaker 1: Adams apples. I only really see it, like really pronounced
Speaker 1: Adams apples on like white boys. Yeah, really, you know what,
Speaker 1: they'd be mixed because I always got black all my
Speaker 1: kind of thing they'by black and soft and else, like
Speaker 1: I had a black and white really six six one.
Speaker 1: He keeps super skinny, like honestly, my friend was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, you like super little. No, um what
Speaker 1: do they do now? What are you doing the league? No? No,
Speaker 1: he used to. He used to be with um so
Speaker 1: monkey like he did clothes and stuff. Okay, who's black,
Speaker 1: half black, half Asian would do he didn't. Yeah, he
Speaker 1: listens to the sole election. Y'all know him so well.
Speaker 1: Dresses like a tree, a lot of browns. But he
Speaker 1: does that look now where he does the fitted and
Speaker 1: then the long shorts. Well actually has his hair grown
Speaker 1: dyed blonde Japan. Maybe I can get one of Maybe
Speaker 1: I can get a black girl. I lived in Singapore
Speaker 1: and there's no blazings over there in real life, like
Speaker 1: they're all here. First of all, I'll bring your fucking
Speaker 1: energy from not that that attitude. I was gonna say,
Speaker 1: you could dance on like he's gonna be able to
Speaker 1: dance with you. But like all the Asians are on
Speaker 1: a B D do everything. Well, yeah, because he said
Speaker 1: Asians are from the future. Do you see how they
Speaker 1: dressed like at why three ship? Yeah, from a budget
Speaker 1: in my trip for why three? Yeah? Oh okay, so
Speaker 1: I have you ever? Um, it's funny because I made
Speaker 1: it just for you've been luckily we had j come
Speaker 1: on and I feel like all the questions fit. The
Speaker 1: first one is have you ever slept with a woman? Oh? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you slept with a woman? How many one? And you
Speaker 1: never went back? Yeah? No? Oh, I said with the guy. Well,
Speaker 1: I had oral with a man with a boy first,
Speaker 1: and then then I was like, oh my god, this
Speaker 1: is really crazy. And I was like oh, because then
Speaker 1: you know, I was like, okay, maybe I needn't you know,
Speaker 1: try a girl, because you know, you have all your
Speaker 1: older cousins like no, no, no, you can and so
Speaker 1: and then I'll never forget these words. My cousin was
Speaker 1: just like, whatever you do, don't go white, go light
Speaker 1: what And that meant what get a life girl, don't
Speaker 1: get a white girl. So it's common right, like don't go,
Speaker 1: don't go like I have one goal star game friend
Speaker 1: and all of them only one woman that I think
Speaker 1: you had just super feeding. It just wasn't for me,
Speaker 1: like you know some people are in the yeah, because
Speaker 1: it was like general friction, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: Like if you so, we've only had one gay man
Speaker 1: prior and then he was one of my best friends.
Speaker 1: And he talked about connections. Yes, he talked about connections
Speaker 1: with women and how he's like sometimes he talked about
Speaker 1: scale fuck. He said, some days, some moments, I've had
Speaker 1: connections with women that make me think it's sexual. You
Speaker 1: experienced that, and is that what happened that time? Uh? No,
Speaker 1: I think I think it was more of like I'm
Speaker 1: doing this at a peer pressure kind of thing, So
Speaker 1: it just wasn't something I was like really really into. No, what,
Speaker 1: don't be diverting the question to him. We're coming to
Speaker 1: you here. Have you been with a girl? Have you
Speaker 1: been with a girl? You have children? I'm don't be
Speaker 1: honest with you. I totally feel like you have only
Speaker 1: because I've just been like all the famis would go
Speaker 1: for you, bro, because you're like girly but like up tats.
Speaker 1: And then those nine girl came up to me at
Speaker 1: Afro Punk a week because we did a meet and greet.
Speaker 1: Awesome and look at the lifeles one more time, just
Speaker 1: a meet and greeting. I'm sure you guys have heard
Speaker 1: of that. We just got a seventy first review. Y'all
Speaker 1: about to do that, You're about to do so this
Speaker 1: drug came up and he's there because he's everywhere with
Speaker 1: me and um, and she's like, you know, I know
Speaker 1: you're married and I know you straight, but I just
Speaker 1: wanted to I got the biggest crush. She was hot. No,
Speaker 1: I mean no, stop. I can't say I wasn't looking
Speaker 1: at her like that. Okay, she was a pretty girl
Speaker 1: though she had these two locks. They were nice. No.
Speaker 1: I was like, sounds like to me. Now that's me
Speaker 1: to my next question. Now I'm in an open relationship
Speaker 1: and um, yeah, and that's what we're going to add.
Speaker 1: Have you been on dates? And like we only like
Speaker 1: so far we've been doing dates the same night. Have
Speaker 1: you guys been Are you in an open relationship or
Speaker 1: have you tried an open relationship prior to your husband
Speaker 1: or No, I'm the closest thing I've got into open
Speaker 1: relationship is we're not in a relationship. What about three suns?
Speaker 1: Are you open to that? You know, maybe once upon
Speaker 1: a time, but no, not now I'm not because my
Speaker 1: whole thing is, like my view has changed in the
Speaker 1: person who I'm with, this who I'm with and just
Speaker 1: even the thought of one and to share them with
Speaker 1: somebody else, I'm like, I don't. I don't want to
Speaker 1: do that, like you know this is I no, Like
Speaker 1: I don't want to share that with anybody else. Exce
Speaker 1: do you ever like talk like fantasized about it or
Speaker 1: like like if you see it on or like start
Speaker 1: have you talked about your in sex or we've talked
Speaker 1: about it period? Definitely like come up in conversation. Um,
Speaker 1: and I think my views have changed as I've had
Speaker 1: a child and involved a little bit. Look, I'm bringing
Speaker 1: getting girl. Why Honestly, that's what we wanted you here
Speaker 1: and and both of you are totally different from us, absolutely,
Speaker 1: you know. So because she wanted to open relationships, I'm
Speaker 1: trying to be on some swinging ships. So listen, judgment
Speaker 1: got friends, We have friends who swing. It's just it's
Speaker 1: just not for me. It's just not for me. No,
Speaker 1: I don't want to. Are you attracted? I mean, see,
Speaker 1: I'm attracted to women, so I feel like I'm giving something.
Speaker 1: I think women are beautiful. I can definitely appreciate a woman,
Speaker 1: like I think women are beautiful. But see, thinking a
Speaker 1: woman is beautiful and wanting to eat their pussy or
Speaker 1: two different things. A bit, just a little bit dealing
Speaker 1: with a lot of talestly lately. Um, he's in Europe
Speaker 1: in the summers and so he's coming home soon. I'm like,
Speaker 1: are we still do? I think so? But I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie to you. There are women that I'm seeing
Speaker 1: that I don't want to let go, like at all,
Speaker 1: and so I feel like if I have that, I
Speaker 1: can't be like, okay, the cool if I felt girls,
Speaker 1: but you don't. That's the best thing to say is
Speaker 1: that's something that you would be into. Exty is an
Speaker 1: open relationship. I've been in an open relationship before. Um,
Speaker 1: it worked until it didn't. Why didn't it? Well, I
Speaker 1: have a question about that because we're both our relationship
Speaker 1: that we talked about is open relationships are female and male?
Speaker 1: How common are open relationships with gays? Like, because I
Speaker 1: feel like more right, like, are you guys more? Um?
Speaker 1: They just gouss as we all know, niggas lie. So
Speaker 1: they say that they want this traditional type of thing
Speaker 1: like I don't want to. But what I've noticed in
Speaker 1: like the very few gay married couples that I know about,
Speaker 1: like maybe five or six. All of them are in
Speaker 1: open relationships. Interesting, now, the nonmonogamy, I wonder if it's
Speaker 1: just like and I and I asked because I almost like,
Speaker 1: is this is this? How? Then? Is this the key
Speaker 1: to success and ship? Like? Whether fucking And there's this
Speaker 1: great podcast I'm called Death, Sex and Money. I don't
Speaker 1: know if you guys ever listened to Death Sex and Money.
Speaker 1: And every episode is either about death, sex or money.
Speaker 1: And there was an episode and there was an episode
Speaker 1: about with Dan Savage, who's like this gay right, and
Speaker 1: he talks about this concept being monogamoush yeah, and it's
Speaker 1: just like, you know, you committed to this person that
Speaker 1: It goes back to my video was saying about connections,
Speaker 1: like you have this connection with somebody you don't ever
Speaker 1: want to let go because, like, let's face it, like
Speaker 1: we're all like pretty much fucking lonely. And when you
Speaker 1: find somebody to spend the rest of your like lonely
Speaker 1: ass life with and who you don't mind waking up
Speaker 1: to with your ugly ass face every morning, you kind
Speaker 1: of just don't want to give that shut up and
Speaker 1: so okay, So if they you know, funk somebody else Okay,
Speaker 1: Now if you now, if you bring some ship home
Speaker 1: that I didn't ask for you to bring home, then
Speaker 1: we have a problem. Are you embarrassing me out in
Speaker 1: the street? And that's what happened in my dynamic where
Speaker 1: they had brought something home, thank god, and it didn't
Speaker 1: happen to me, all right, but you know, and also
Speaker 1: embarrassing me out in the streets to decent. I have
Speaker 1: a question about the relationships you've seen. So I'm trying
Speaker 1: to figure out how this open relationship will work, and
Speaker 1: I like, what ip going on? Right? So? Uh? He
Speaker 1: went on a day recently, it was a week and
Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, what are you gonna do? He was
Speaker 1: in another city. He's like, there's the two girls. I
Speaker 1: know they want to go out with me? What do
Speaker 1: you think sends me? The girls brunett and a blonde
Speaker 1: And I'm like, she's cute and uh he sent me
Speaker 1: the Instagram and one of them was a doctor and
Speaker 1: it fucked my head up. I don't know why, right
Speaker 1: so bad? I was like, I don't know. He didn't
Speaker 1: even end up going and a bitch was so happy,
Speaker 1: But I felt guilty about feeling Why do I feel
Speaker 1: so threatened about a doctor. Right? Is it that I
Speaker 1: thought everybody else was just sex and somebody that could
Speaker 1: be have a little more intellect would steal you away?
Speaker 1: I mean to say that Bartender couldn't have done that.
Speaker 1: What did it funk with in my head? So my
Speaker 1: question is the the open relationships you know about their successful?
Speaker 1: Are they just sex? Are they dating to? How do
Speaker 1: they work? Uh? It depends. Well, my dynamic was different
Speaker 1: because it was open and then it turned into a
Speaker 1: legit polyamous relationship. Three of us in this relationship together,
Speaker 1: and so I didn't I at first I had those
Speaker 1: same feelings like, well, maybe this is more than sex
Speaker 1: and they're into them because of what they have that
Speaker 1: I can't provide um and this, that and the thing.
Speaker 1: But I eventually got over that because I realized that
Speaker 1: if we're going to be in this together, then that
Speaker 1: we can't have this power thing. Yeah, because that's what
Speaker 1: it essentially is power, Like, like what do they have
Speaker 1: over me? How can I control the situation? If this
Speaker 1: if this woman had a it was a doctor, you know, like, oh,
Speaker 1: she has more power and more control over the situation
Speaker 1: than I do, And I don't like that. That's what
Speaker 1: it sounds like to me and fuck her like she's
Speaker 1: about it, like you know what I mean? Like and
Speaker 1: you realize that you are you've been here for the
Speaker 1: long haul, and they're into you. And if if that
Speaker 1: person wasn't really that into you, then he wouldn't consult
Speaker 1: you on Actually, yeah, exactly what you said one of
Speaker 1: my senses to one of my games. And Christopher, who's
Speaker 1: like my very level headed one because Steven, he's the
Speaker 1: type to be like hell Shane that Keith, and he
Speaker 1: was like, you know what, I don't know why your tripping,
Speaker 1: Like who did he send the bitch to? Who did
Speaker 1: you say? Can approve? Like he went to you to
Speaker 1: seek up all right? And that felt great and so
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what, I needed to hear it
Speaker 1: that way. Then I felt super guilty. I really did.
Speaker 1: But you can't feel guilty for your feelings, like that's
Speaker 1: how you feel. So ultimately, whatever comes up, that's a
Speaker 1: natural reaction. It's that it's at that point where you
Speaker 1: have to check it. And and I think that UM
Speaker 1: and I had and I have to consult with double
Speaker 1: a lot because do you know date's couples And she
Speaker 1: tells me all the time, Like you are asking for
Speaker 1: something with just sex and that's going to be very hard.
Speaker 1: How can he not go out to a bar with
Speaker 1: this girl or go out and like the sex is
Speaker 1: gonna have to come from that. Do you want him
Speaker 1: to just stick his dick in a bit? You know,
Speaker 1: he's a smarter person that he wants some conversation. I
Speaker 1: think that I'm just kind of learning to deal with it.
Speaker 1: But the reason I want to is because I don't
Speaker 1: want to stop seeing the people that I want to
Speaker 1: stop seeing it, right, And that's what it's like, Molly
Speaker 1: or insecure. You know, everybody really got on her for
Speaker 1: not wanting to be with the bisexual dude, but that's
Speaker 1: her preference, you know what I'm saying, Like you can't
Speaker 1: fault somebody. He had everything else right and because he
Speaker 1: had experiments it in the past, not only that too.
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of people, yeah, a lot
Speaker 1: of people who date to put so much emphasis on
Speaker 1: what they feel like people on the outside would think.
Speaker 1: And of course we talked to our friends and want
Speaker 1: this advice. We had to buy a couple on They
Speaker 1: were amazing. Yeah, the dude was Jude was by and
Speaker 1: theclocular enough she unloaded. We didn't even know she was like,
Speaker 1: you know, um, I was divorced. I am divorced. My
Speaker 1: husband left me for a man. We were like, her
Speaker 1: husband left her for a man and then ended up
Speaker 1: with a with a bisexual guy. So that was just awesome. Um.
Speaker 1: So something else that we like to do on this
Speaker 1: show is we get home mail. I know, y'all, get
Speaker 1: y'all listen, y'all, they have bitches call in and leave messages.
Speaker 1: Y'all areing. Hi, I'm just like, hear someone that sounds
Speaker 1: like thereships and you could have Jade. He actually we
Speaker 1: have homemale and I actually thought this would be good
Speaker 1: because you guys seem really level headed John and had
Speaker 1: you're married, you didn't had open relationships. So the first
Speaker 1: thought that we're going to read is actually a guy
Speaker 1: who wants to have his whole phase, if that makes sense. Um,
Speaker 1: So he wrote us in. We's going to read the
Speaker 1: letter and if you guys could give him some advice
Speaker 1: or what y'all think lead. Yeah, it's really good. Hey, ladies,
Speaker 1: love the show. You guys are hilarious. Cool to hear
Speaker 1: someone have honest, open conversations about text. I'm twenty two.
Speaker 1: Some would say good looking. I'd say I'm a solid vibe.
Speaker 1: But I'll take the compliment I recently right right, You're
Speaker 1: not gonna be in your hole. If I recently got
Speaker 1: into a relationship with a woman who I can see
Speaker 1: a long lasting future like marriage, kids, and the whole nine,
Speaker 1: obviously done the line. Lately, the sex isn't doing it
Speaker 1: for me. Don't get me wrong, I have very passionate
Speaker 1: sex all over the place, but it bores me. She's
Speaker 1: just not the most enthusiastic partner I've had. She kind
Speaker 1: of lays there and when she is active, it's about
Speaker 1: getting herself off. I don't mind, but like, damn love
Speaker 1: this girl. I've already fucked up by cheating on her once,
Speaker 1: which I came out and admitted even though she would
Speaker 1: never found out. That was in parentheses, and don't want
Speaker 1: a future further jeopardized relationship. But recently I feel like
Speaker 1: I've been missing out on my whole phase by meeting her.
Speaker 1: I felt like I was just about to hit my
Speaker 1: phope phase prime and I didn't gotten to the point
Speaker 1: where I was confident, reckless enough to take down anyone.
Speaker 1: I don't want to cheat on her again. But I
Speaker 1: also don't want to miss out on that experience. I
Speaker 1: brought up the idea of a threesomes. She wasn't having it,
Speaker 1: and I completely understand I sucked up her trust and
Speaker 1: confidence within infidelity. How do I deal with this? Do
Speaker 1: I just suck it up and deal with it or
Speaker 1: talk it out with her? Or do my thing in secret?
Speaker 1: How How old is he think? To the side. So
Speaker 1: here's the thing. I didn't read that he asked for
Speaker 1: a threesome to me, if you're doing that just to
Speaker 1: get out of the pussy, No, my threesomes bring me
Speaker 1: connected closer together. Yeah it shouldn't be to just um
Speaker 1: get in another pussy. Yeah, not at all like it.
Speaker 1: That's manipulation. Yeah it is. It is to a point. Well,
Speaker 1: she clearly said she wasn't into it. He's also a board,
Speaker 1: um with the sex. I feel like this is something
Speaker 1: to where eventually he possibly may end up cheating again. Um,
Speaker 1: so it's not all that happy. He's not all that
Speaker 1: I think. And it's like men they're like this girl
Speaker 1: is good, but he is there more. You know what
Speaker 1: it is? It really sounds like, um, maybe I'm reading
Speaker 1: in too much into this, but it sounds like he
Speaker 1: had he was raised well, and he's in this idea
Speaker 1: of like oh like no, no, no, hear me out
Speaker 1: like Laurence insecure likes he's this person with good intentions, like, oh,
Speaker 1: I want to marry this person. I feel like I
Speaker 1: need to have like this traditional marriage kids, all the
Speaker 1: good stuff you did come. However, he is in his
Speaker 1: early twenties, right, and you think you would Nick, Like,
Speaker 1: what the Here's the thing, my one of my college
Speaker 1: professors told me a long time ago that before the
Speaker 1: age of five, that's when you don't focus on love,
Speaker 1: just like fuck and get all the money you can get.
Speaker 1: That's yeah, all the money and all the nuts you
Speaker 1: can get it. I think we have. I think do
Speaker 1: we were we class together? Because but like that is
Speaker 1: that is like the amazing advice because after after you
Speaker 1: can focus on love and family and ship like that.
Speaker 1: But before, and I talked about this with Jade, like,
Speaker 1: you know, when you make these these huge life decisions before,
Speaker 1: before your development of your prefrontal quartex prefrontal, it doesn't
Speaker 1: developed until you're twenty five years old, and so everything
Speaker 1: you do before then is nol void. Yeah, so basically
Speaker 1: you got glasses and you sound like they're going to
Speaker 1: give up on us. But it's true though, think about
Speaker 1: think about all the things that it's it's physiological evidence
Speaker 1: science because yeah, but help helps you, No, hear me out.
Speaker 1: So like before before, this whole idea of like the
Speaker 1: prefrontal cortex, that's where your logic comes in, right, So
Speaker 1: everything else is developed in this and um something I
Speaker 1: can't remember the name, but it's on the side of
Speaker 1: your brain. And that's also where the chemical work fear
Speaker 1: is produced. So everything that you do is based out
Speaker 1: of emotion. Before thinking about like once you went post
Speaker 1: twenty five year over twenty five, you've all know like, damn,
Speaker 1: what the fun was I thinking? I was engaged. I
Speaker 1: was engaged ato to somebody else. The best thing that
Speaker 1: ever happened to me was not marrying that name. Damn.
Speaker 1: I wondered why I was so like like, well, no,
Speaker 1: I slowed down on my casual sex um within the
Speaker 1: last year. Don't But it's because I am seeking more
Speaker 1: of some sort of something outside of a sexual connection.
Speaker 1: And it was something that I've talked to my friends
Speaker 1: with because I ain't gonna lie a bit had of
Speaker 1: rotting door. At one point it was fine, I'm real shallow,
Speaker 1: you good looking, I'm gonna come drop that dick off
Speaker 1: and you could leave. But literally within the last year though,
Speaker 1: like I've really been seeking an emotional connection or an
Speaker 1: intellectual connection, some other connection besides sexy six um almost
Speaker 1: twenty seven, so I feel like I'm almost thirty, which
Speaker 1: is almost forty, which is I'm almost getting no but
Speaker 1: right a bit about to get author rightists and I'm
Speaker 1: masturbated every night, So this is like getting serious. I
Speaker 1: need someone to help Betty. But no, but seriously, like
Speaker 1: what you guys are saying. And so for the advice
Speaker 1: for this young fellow, are y'all telling him for the
Speaker 1: next three years be a ho and then get back
Speaker 1: into this relationship, because that's what it's sounding like they're
Speaker 1: wasting each other's time. Even I don't know how much
Speaker 1: you've listened to us, but you would know that we
Speaker 1: do not do with the lies, like keeping it a
Speaker 1: secret all that it's so and it's it just makes
Speaker 1: things worse, like it makes things on a whole another
Speaker 1: level works. I think it's gonna be hurtful to leave her,
Speaker 1: and that's what you're Donelle Jones. You gotta Donelle Jones,
Speaker 1: hern do you want to where I want to be? Like,
Speaker 1: all you gotta do is hit be like, sing it
Speaker 1: my baby, I'll be singing. You'll be singing on the
Speaker 1: singing for our show, you know, because you're dy has listening.
Speaker 1: They're about to come from me, because that with love,
Speaker 1: I mean that with love, They're about to come from
Speaker 1: me singing. So we're just gonna monologue it. Okay, say
Speaker 1: when you love someone, you just don't treat them bad.
Speaker 1: How do I feel so sad now that I want?
Speaker 1: Oh you say o hear me sing me the message?
Speaker 1: That's how he shi went real big with that s
Speaker 1: because that's how he's saying I was man constipated. I
Speaker 1: definitely agree. I think, like, be honest with her, let
Speaker 1: her know like it's not working out right now. I'm young.
Speaker 1: I don't want to hurt you. I'm going to hurt
Speaker 1: you regardless of but I'd rather hurt you now and
Speaker 1: be truthful with you than be sneaking around, which is
Speaker 1: gonna hurt. And we have another letter, which is a
Speaker 1: little bit this was a little uh, this was a
Speaker 1: little more horrible decisions. This is a little bit more
Speaker 1: I wrote you about that. Yes, she wrote her back
Speaker 1: because that was actually rather funny. So just a little
Speaker 1: background story, Um, Mandy's fist on it. But so I've
Speaker 1: been I've done golden showers before. U oh, yes, I
Speaker 1: believe you know she stuff in water right now. So
Speaker 1: this was episode four, I believe. Um, I discussed my
Speaker 1: first time doing a golden shower and a guy wanted it. Um.
Speaker 1: And in the same episode, UM, she was so drunk
Speaker 1: and all that she actually pissed in a bed with
Speaker 1: a guy and laid in it. Um in a treehouse.
Speaker 1: It was not It was the most interesting part of
Speaker 1: the story is the tree happened? Right? I'm trying to first,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say one word, Brooklyn. Was it drunk? Yes?
Speaker 1: So anyway after okay, so you were like in the
Speaker 1: cranes in the sky video background story got really funked
Speaker 1: up with this guy. He's like, you nobody should come
Speaker 1: back to my place. I just really feeling this moment.
Speaker 1: I have a huge artistic loft. I get there. It
Speaker 1: was two thousand square feet, was just as big as
Speaker 1: he said. But there were these like just like that,
Speaker 1: oh waue. I went to a party Manning that signed
Speaker 1: up on the ladder to you anyway ambient and I
Speaker 1: don't know if you know what ambient is. Well, I
Speaker 1: love it. Shout out to Jewel my mom. She's like, honey,
Speaker 1: I'll bring you sound. So anyway, I had two ambient
Speaker 1: because I thought they were Zanex and then I was like,
Speaker 1: am I gonna die? Or what? He lays me down
Speaker 1: after I climbed my ass up there and like, dude,
Speaker 1: I have to be really bad. And he's like, I'm like,
Speaker 1: please help me out, and he's like I took the
Speaker 1: amby into I'm like, okay, well how do I get
Speaker 1: I was like just be right here, broke up, and
Speaker 1: then four o'clock in the afternoon my pants were sticking
Speaker 1: to anyway, So the sub pissy hole is this topic
Speaker 1: that we got in our home mail and what does
Speaker 1: this one say, Dear Horrible Decision podcast. I met this
Speaker 1: guy in Plenty of Fish. He was cool. We hit
Speaker 1: it off really well. The first time we hung out,
Speaker 1: we had sex and it was really good, so I
Speaker 1: knew it was going to be a sex thing. I
Speaker 1: got really drunk last week, went over his place. We
Speaker 1: sucked again, but I ended up passing out. He had
Speaker 1: family over, so I had to leave really early. I
Speaker 1: get up and I realized I was so drunk. I
Speaker 1: pe the bed. Tried to play it off like it
Speaker 1: was from the sex, but I don't know if he
Speaker 1: brought it because I left so quickly. I'm kind of embarrassed.
Speaker 1: I haven't hit him up since should I just end it?
Speaker 1: The whole thing was really awkward. Thanks Kate, What has
Speaker 1: he hit you? That's what she assuming, No, but I
Speaker 1: wrote her back, I said, girl, hit him up. He's
Speaker 1: an adult. Ship happens. I don't know how long has been.
Speaker 1: If he hasn't hit you up, that's not an entirely
Speaker 1: good sign. But life's too short to not get what
Speaker 1: you once send a text about grabbing drinks? What do
Speaker 1: you think? I think that they in the bed mattress,
Speaker 1: because if you ain't got protected, he's like this bitch.
Speaker 1: Pete in the bed left, never called like, you don't
Speaker 1: even say sorry, you're just looking up my mattress. You
Speaker 1: just piste all up in my bed, and I get
Speaker 1: a ship. I have Pete on my couch. I have
Speaker 1: like I have peed all over the place. And when
Speaker 1: I was pregnant, I pee on myself like since we've
Speaker 1: been together. But drunk, please, I peed on myself all
Speaker 1: over the place. And I tried to be in somebody's
Speaker 1: yard anywhere in New York because they don't be trying
Speaker 1: to let you this somebody's else. You best on someone's mouth,
Speaker 1: I want real quick. The advice, the advice for our
Speaker 1: listener is going to be, um, keep it moving girls,
Speaker 1: some old day out there. Okay, So when next time
Speaker 1: you pee in a nigga's bed, say sorry, say sorry
Speaker 1: when you get into pete a lot. I need to
Speaker 1: know because we have never talked about pissing in someone's mouth.
Speaker 1: So did they request that the grinder? No, no way,
Speaker 1: a guy you were messing with, No, he was know
Speaker 1: he was black. And it's so funny because I just
Speaker 1: redownloaded tender and because I've been like I've been really
Speaker 1: on a nigga batticle. Um yeah, but most frequently yeah,
Speaker 1: because she'd be like this diet, yeah whatever, be trying
Speaker 1: a whole bunch of diets. Listen, listen, listen, I'm trying
Speaker 1: next week. It's something new. You ain't finished the last one.
Speaker 1: This nigga was a vegetarian. And then we got a
Speaker 1: real drunk one night can salehich face, I'm being personally
Speaker 1: attached right now. I just came to have her a
Speaker 1: good time. No, but he um. It was like I
Speaker 1: met on Jack, which is um the premier source for
Speaker 1: black gay entertainment. Do you have to pay for that? No,
Speaker 1: it's just it's just swipe. For those listening, salt Swipe
Speaker 1: is like a black Tinder, yes, but it's not. But
Speaker 1: it's it's it's all location. Yeah, but it's literally. Jack
Speaker 1: is literally like, oh, you are like three ft away
Speaker 1: from me. Yeah. Niggas look at Jack when they're out,
Speaker 1: like some of my homeboys out who lives over here?
Speaker 1: The phone out and just start swiping and see who's
Speaker 1: in the area. That or weed, yeah, because gay weed
Speaker 1: is some serious business. Is white? I don't know what
Speaker 1: glitter girl? But anyway, can we make that a sound?
Speaker 1: So yeah, I went over. I went over to this
Speaker 1: inn wards house and he was like, Yo, come chill,
Speaker 1: let's watch a movie. Okay. So I'm like, all right,
Speaker 1: so you know what. They don't want to watch The
Speaker 1: Princess Diaries or something something they knew it. No, No,
Speaker 1: it was Star Trek and I actually liked that movie.
Speaker 1: It was Star Treking. I love that movie and so surprisingly,
Speaker 1: and so I was like, oh, he was trying to
Speaker 1: be up on me. I was like, there, go away.
Speaker 1: And so eventually I was like, okay, I know what
Speaker 1: this is. So he was just like, you know, okay,
Speaker 1: let's go to the bedroom so we do what. I
Speaker 1: suck this all and so I finished, Yeah, I finished,
Speaker 1: because when I SVP for a party, I'm making my
Speaker 1: business to come right. So he was just like, yo,
Speaker 1: I can't finish without you doing something, almost like you know,
Speaker 1: I'm done. Like yeah. So he was just like, you're
Speaker 1: piss in the mouth and almost like, now let me
Speaker 1: ask you. Had you done a golden shod Before I
Speaker 1: was about to say so. When I told my story,
Speaker 1: it was extremely hard for me to come. I mean,
Speaker 1: he had me drunk off rock, like he made I
Speaker 1: drink Pete. Yeah, you said come, well, that's what I
Speaker 1: meant past pe. You're in the same relief um. And
Speaker 1: so I literally he sat in the shower and I
Speaker 1: had to run to the toilet and physically feel like
Speaker 1: well mentally prepare myself to feel no because it sucks
Speaker 1: you up, like my piss ain't gonna come just on you.
Speaker 1: I had to like I did to take for you
Speaker 1: to piss in his mouth. Um, it's look a minute.
Speaker 1: It took a minute because like even in general, like
Speaker 1: when I'm at home, I got to turn the faucet on,
Speaker 1: I can like actually go. So in my head, I'm
Speaker 1: thinking about it. Yes, I'm just like nik, what the fuck?
Speaker 1: So then eventually I'm like thinking of like waterfalls. I'm
Speaker 1: thinking like every song with water in it, and like yeah,
Speaker 1: and so eventually and so eventually when I did it
Speaker 1: and he was it wasn't even in the bathroom. He
Speaker 1: had a tarp. So this is like he pulled off
Speaker 1: the tarp. Yeah, this to you on Jack, would you
Speaker 1: still going over there if he would have said this
Speaker 1: before you went over there, that he has whatever freaked
Speaker 1: you out of piss? Would you have went? Probably? Not that.
Speaker 1: I probably not, because that was I need you to
Speaker 1: piss in my mouth for like who the like? And
Speaker 1: this is not me not being judgment judge at all,
Speaker 1: Like I'm the least judgmental person depending on I'm what
Speaker 1: you're into, Like if you're into like pedophilia, like no,
Speaker 1: I'm judging you, yeah, but you know like golden showers, Okay,
Speaker 1: that's fine. It's not like it's not like scat play,
Speaker 1: which is all? Which is all? So are you finding
Speaker 1: a lot of people into scat play? You know? By
Speaker 1: So here's the thing. I didn't know at the last
Speaker 1: Black People meeting that we had that was on the menu. No,
Speaker 1: it's not, it's not so so it's right. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: was like, I must have left early. There must have
Speaker 1: been a body concert that I had to go to.
Speaker 1: But like at that Black People meeting, I was not
Speaker 1: present for that question because a lot of guys so
Speaker 1: I was listening to a podcast and I can't remember
Speaker 1: who it was that said it, but they were like,
Speaker 1: if a girl like wants to lick my ask, that's cool,
Speaker 1: but I'm not going to kiss her. Did you kiss
Speaker 1: this guy or was it something where you were mad
Speaker 1: you kissed him after you realize he likes to get
Speaker 1: piste in his mouth, but it's something that psychologically would
Speaker 1: have kept you from um making out with him. It
Speaker 1: was a hook up, so I didn't had you seen
Speaker 1: him against right? No, well he became I had swiped
Speaker 1: because you know the general rule with tender for blacks
Speaker 1: as you just swipe right on all the blacks and
Speaker 1: you sort it out later, so awesome. So yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's just like damn, yeah you got to because he
Speaker 1: wasn't even you know, like because then I go back
Speaker 1: to look at my matches and not gonna swiped, right,
Speaker 1: What was I thinking all the time, all the time.
Speaker 1: It had to be because he was black in at Columbia.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you literally that a smart I ain't even
Speaker 1: s this little Malcolm X looks like I gotta show
Speaker 1: you on him because at first I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I like Malcolm X. That is Malcolm X. He does
Speaker 1: he looks like that's him? Bro, way can you not
Speaker 1: show him? Pitch? I feel like my friend him? Oh
Speaker 1: my god, you swiped him for real? It just said
Speaker 1: Lower East. I felt like my friend in Brooklyn pucks him. Okay,
Speaker 1: well I don't know that this is really and so
Speaker 1: is he tell your friend? He asked. It's like, SAYSSS
Speaker 1: the weekend. You know, we were going to talk about
Speaker 1: a whole another topic. But I've just been enjoying the
Speaker 1: homemail and all this casual ship so much so when
Speaker 1: you guys do your podcast's exactly what we do. Oh
Speaker 1: you guys don't outline sent X one He's like, sound good.
Speaker 1: We don't ever stick to one because it'll really like
Speaker 1: we'll have an idea and then like all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: we'll spend thirty minutes talking about chicken. Yeah like that.
Speaker 1: Which actually the horrible decision discussion today was going to
Speaker 1: be social media sex, and we've essentially talked about social media.
Speaker 1: I did have one question. I wanted to know proper
Speaker 1: way to slip in d m s. What do you
Speaker 1: guys think about? Don't somebody wait, wait, but what I
Speaker 1: do know? I'm kidding, um, No, you can slide in.
Speaker 1: Don't don't be creepy, like what are they done with?
Speaker 1: They are the sliding And don't be creepy like that's
Speaker 1: my number one. Don't come in with the hay beautiful,
Speaker 1: and don't say don't say shipped to people that you
Speaker 1: can say generally on the timeline or on the news
Speaker 1: speed like you know what I mean. Someone slid into
Speaker 1: my d MS today. I'll share and I'll show you
Speaker 1: the screenshot because I thought it was pretty awesome. He's
Speaker 1: slipt in my d MS today, was just like, hey,
Speaker 1: what's your quick pay? And then asked me how much
Speaker 1: my nails calls and sent me seventy dollars. Um. Yeah,
Speaker 1: is that why you're so fresh girl? Well? No, this
Speaker 1: is because last week another guy sent me on my
Speaker 1: Snapchat was like, what's her squarecash? What you look like?
Speaker 1: I don't know what? Well, the one on Instagram, I know,
Speaker 1: the one on Snapchat, I don't even know what he
Speaker 1: looks like is amazing. Yeah, he just sent it to
Speaker 1: me today and then I'm mad because I gave him
Speaker 1: a wrong email, so I have to call Chase like
Speaker 1: I just got money sent over you know it from
Speaker 1: ma'am at Fine nine. I'm actually an avid d M
Speaker 1: slider and I mostly do it through I G stories.
Speaker 1: I'll be straight up, i'd be like you, handsome as
Speaker 1: fun I feel like I put the l O L
Speaker 1: today not so funny. I G story just like you.
Speaker 1: Gotta stop putting the l O L. Friends said, Okay,
Speaker 1: you have to be firm. You have tom and what
Speaker 1: you say. So if you're flirting and you like, don't
Speaker 1: be afraid because the l O L is because you
Speaker 1: subconsciously don't want to be rejected. So don't put the
Speaker 1: hell o well behind say what you say and let
Speaker 1: it be there, just like you and That's how I feel. Period.
Speaker 1: His page is private. I'm a Brooklyn nigger, That's what
Speaker 1: it says. And he has emojis of a gun, a
Speaker 1: police car. You don't money. That sounds learning somebody you
Speaker 1: might know. It sounds like, you know, like us, a
Speaker 1: credit card, a ghosts Well, it doesn't matter anybody. I
Speaker 1: don't give a word of money. No, don't give it. Wait,
Speaker 1: she's you might be he might. I might be listening
Speaker 1: to another podcast. Can't remember. The girl was getting a
Speaker 1: dude to like PayPal her money and like, yeah, like
Speaker 1: basically they claim that it's not real, like take it,
Speaker 1: but I don't know what they do. There's a she
Speaker 1: was liable, she got subpoenas, she got what subpoena else.
Speaker 1: It's not like I accepted five hundred dollars or a
Speaker 1: stack he sent me to it. I know. What I'm
Speaker 1: saying is, what if he's some kind of hacker, it
Speaker 1: can flip that ship. Well he got my he got
Speaker 1: my bullshit account. He got the account, they got like
Speaker 1: two hundred dollars in it. He ain't even get my
Speaker 1: real one. They got my direct deposit and ship, so
Speaker 1: I got two accounts. I ain't worry about it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he got my bullshit or mostly I do Square cash. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that is my account. I know. I got on the
Speaker 1: chase and they look like, bitch, what because you ain't
Speaker 1: got no money in here. It's really just my throwaway account.
Speaker 1: Certain And I really only got it because m TD
Speaker 1: bank is not everywhere, So I literally just opened this
Speaker 1: account just so I did I could have it everywhere.
Speaker 1: Well hap, So we kind of with your gun and
Speaker 1: your credit card thing. My at is busy w T
Speaker 1: and I just want to like, can we all describe
Speaker 1: these nails? They are chipped, They are the robins egg blue,
Speaker 1: rubble slee sensible, sensible. Where can our listeners catch you guys?
Speaker 1: Because I'm so mad that we have to wrap this up.
Speaker 1: We have to y'all gotta start sponsoring us a something
Speaker 1: so we could get you all some more um afford
Speaker 1: We can't afford this it in real life, so we
Speaker 1: got to cut off with I'm a time up, had damn.
Speaker 1: So let's go ask me. I'm just like, um, where
Speaker 1: can they find you guys on your social media and
Speaker 1: let them know about your packs in the name of
Speaker 1: your book and tell them who y'all are, right, Um,
Speaker 1: you can find Jade at Jade of All Jades on everywhere,
Speaker 1: great name, especially on her own side of dab jays
Speaker 1: dot com. She's also a chef. UM, so if you're
Speaker 1: in New York area, UM, you can hire her. Um
Speaker 1: you can find me at Xavier Delo dot com. UM
Speaker 1: where I do right, I write and I speak everywhere,
Speaker 1: and a whole bunch of other stuff. Um you can
Speaker 1: find us jaden next dot com, UM and Jada next everywhere.
Speaker 1: Um it's Facebook and the Jaded Next thing is where
Speaker 1: they can find a link to your podcast, as well
Speaker 1: as the book when it drops. Yes, the book comes
Speaker 1: out SEM the title you'll find out then. UM, yeah,
Speaker 1: the book will be a dollar. Y'all have a month
Speaker 1: to catch up. Like I said, Niga Peace Theater is amazing.
Speaker 1: I enjoyed it. I'm not gonna like I told her,
Speaker 1: she got to catch up. It's so good. It's really good.
Speaker 1: The characters are great, and you guys did a great
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