1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,520 Speaker 1: Hey, ba fam, let's be real for a second, and 2 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:04,680 Speaker 1: y'all know I keep it a book. The job market 3 00:00:04,760 --> 00:00:08,440 Speaker 1: has been brutal, now not brutal trash, especially for women 4 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:12,000 Speaker 1: of color. Over three hundred thousand of us have disappeared 5 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 1: from the workforce this year alone, and not by choice, 6 00:00:15,440 --> 00:00:20,600 Speaker 1: but because of layoffs, disappearing DEI programs, and stagnant wages 7 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:24,080 Speaker 1: that keep cutting us out of opportunity. Our unemployment rate 8 00:00:24,120 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 1: has jumped to over seven percent, while our pay gap 9 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:30,160 Speaker 1: continues to widen. I know all of that sounds dire, 10 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:32,280 Speaker 1: but here's what I want y'all to know. You do 11 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:34,600 Speaker 1: not have to wait for the system to save you. 12 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 1: That's exactly why I created the Mandy money Makers Group 13 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:41,879 Speaker 1: coaching community. It is a coaching community that is built 14 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 1: for us by us. Inside the community, we're not just 15 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 1: talking about how to negotiate or to how to get 16 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 1: the job that you want. It's about finding purpose in 17 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 1: your career. It's about finding communities and others, feeling seen, 18 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 1: feeling heard, and also having a sounding board and a 19 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:03,120 Speaker 1: mirror to reflect your own magic, your own sparkle right 20 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 1: back to yourself. In this community, you'll get group coaching 21 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:09,319 Speaker 1: led by me, but you also get peer to peer 22 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 1: accountability with proven tools and resources that can help you 23 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:17,200 Speaker 1: do what we have always done since rise. Even when 24 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:20,679 Speaker 1: the odds are stacked against us, despite all the challenges, 25 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:24,679 Speaker 1: we will rise. If you're interested in joining the Mandy 26 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 1: money Makers community and having that support to bolster you 27 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:31,760 Speaker 1: and help you tap back into your magic so that 28 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:34,520 Speaker 1: you can lead your career with intention and heart and 29 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:39,319 Speaker 1: your own intuition, trusting that again, please join us. You 30 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 1: can find information in the show notes of today's episodes 31 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:47,120 Speaker 1: or go to mandymoney dot com slash community. That's Mandy 32 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 1: m A n d I money dot com slash community. 33 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 1: I would love to see y'all there. Enrollment is open, 34 00:01:55,080 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 1: so please go check out mandymoney dot com slash community today. Hey, 35 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 1: ba fam, how's it going? Welcome back to the show. 36 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:10,360 Speaker 1: This is Brown Ambition For those of y'all who are 37 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 1: new here. My name is Mandy woodri Off Santos aka 38 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:17,800 Speaker 1: Vandy Money. I am your ever grateful, ever present host, 39 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 1: and I'm so excited to have you here. Thank you 40 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:23,120 Speaker 1: for spending some time with me. Thank you for spending 41 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 1: this time with yourself, giving yourself a little bit of 42 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 1: time to think about what's happening in the world where 43 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 1: you're at with your financial and your professional goals, and 44 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 1: being kind enough to invite me in along for the 45 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 1: journey with y'all. Today, I've got a special episode for y'all. 46 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 1: I'm going to be doing what I'm calling the BA 47 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:45,520 Speaker 1: Best of c Suite Edition, taking a look back at 48 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 1: a couple of my favorite interviews over the past year. 49 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 1: One with the chief marketing officer of one of the 50 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 1: biggest publishing houses in the world, Gabrielle Gambrel from Hashet 51 00:02:57,240 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 1: slash Grand Central Publishing. We've also got the CEO of 52 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 1: Black Girl's Code, Christina Mancini. This had to definitely was 53 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 1: one of my top top top interviews. Both of these 54 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:12,080 Speaker 1: women extraordinary, have risen through the ranks to take up 55 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:16,600 Speaker 1: space in rare, rare air for women of color, and 56 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 1: they are doing it with class and with gusto and 57 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 1: a level of energy and inspiration still even advanced as 58 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:29,119 Speaker 1: they are in their careers, and I'm excited for y'all. 59 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 1: If you've whether you've heard these before or it's your 60 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 1: first time catching up on these, you are in for 61 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 1: a treat. But before I get there, I wanted to 62 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 1: do as I do, which is to give my VA 63 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 1: fam a shout out those of y'all who have been 64 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 1: engaging with the podcast on YouTube, on Spotify of course, 65 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 1: on Apple Podcasts, the og and just say thank you 66 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 1: for taking the time to join the conversation. We had 67 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 1: some really funny, really like lots of comments more than 68 00:03:58,040 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 1: usual on some of my res sent videos from last 69 00:04:01,520 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 1: week's episode. If you haven't checked it out, you know 70 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 1: what you're waiting for. Do that and come on back. 71 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 1: But I want to shout out a couple of YouTubers. 72 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 1: My most recent interview was with the author CJ. Farley. 73 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:17,360 Speaker 1: He wrote an incredible book that just came out. It's 74 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 1: called Who Knows You by Heart. It features a black 75 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 1: female protagonist, Octavia, and how she navigates a rapidly changing 76 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 1: tech big tech scene and how AI can be as 77 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:33,039 Speaker 1: nefarious as we all know, and sort of the implications 78 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:35,600 Speaker 1: it has on her career in her life. And one 79 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 1: of y'all on YouTube, we'll call it. TJ Smith on 80 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:42,400 Speaker 1: YouTube says a while brown am vision clip on my FYP, 81 00:04:43,200 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 1: I scrolled to the next YouTube short and was listening 82 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 1: while doing other things, nodding along ingesting the info. Then 83 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:53,599 Speaker 1: I heard the sound and instantly hit my BA dance lmao. 84 00:04:54,480 --> 00:04:58,039 Speaker 1: Looking forward to listening to the full episode. I thank 85 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 1: you so much t J. Smith. But also it's really 86 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 1: awkward for me to say texting shorthand like out loud, 87 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:06,720 Speaker 1: like am I supposed to say laugh in my ass off? 88 00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 1: Or I'm also say lmao. I don't know. It just 89 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 1: sounds awkward. But thank you TJ for commenting, and that's 90 00:05:13,120 --> 00:05:15,480 Speaker 1: so funny. I'm glad that our shorts are showing up 91 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 1: in the YouTube feed. Shout out to my wonderful VA 92 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:22,280 Speaker 1: Cameron who helps me upload our content to YouTube. Couldn't 93 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:27,040 Speaker 1: do without you. Listener Nick Nick on NYC said, Christopher 94 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:30,920 Speaker 1: is a rock star. Thank you for this interview. Now 95 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:34,240 Speaker 1: my other clip from my episode from last week, the 96 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:37,960 Speaker 1: main show from last Wednesday, I talked about Trump's plan 97 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 1: for a fifty year mortgage, and y'all know how I feel. 98 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 1: By now y'all know how I feel about it, which 99 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 1: is like this is the most hair brained as nine 100 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:51,359 Speaker 1: way of trying to quote unquote increase home ownership and 101 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 1: affordability in this country. It is such a dumb idea 102 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:58,920 Speaker 1: and the Dingo Ady on YouTube said, the only way 103 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 1: I'd ever do a fIF your mortgage is if there 104 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 1: was a federal law capping the interest rate at something 105 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:08,919 Speaker 1: like three percent to avoid this exact scenario, allow people 106 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 1: to effectively get into a house, allowing them to pay 107 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:14,360 Speaker 1: more when they can, but without letting the bank screw 108 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 1: over the consumer. The Dingo Yes, I think that's actually 109 00:06:19,279 --> 00:06:21,840 Speaker 1: a great idea, Like if that would change everything, if 110 00:06:21,839 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 1: they said there's going to be a cap. However, why 111 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:27,839 Speaker 1: would banks agree to that? Banks don't like that. Banks 112 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:31,320 Speaker 1: don't banks barely like the fixed rate mortgage product that 113 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:34,599 Speaker 1: they already have at just thirty year mortgage. Fixed rates 114 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:36,600 Speaker 1: are when you know, you get a mortgage and it's 115 00:06:36,640 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 1: locked in at that rate for the term of the loan. 116 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 1: A bank hates that because what's going to happen when 117 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 1: interest rates start to go up, like let's say the 118 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:47,679 Speaker 1: Fed increases rates down the line, and then you still 119 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 1: have a homeowner who's got you'll use your rate as 120 00:06:51,040 --> 00:06:55,039 Speaker 1: an example, three percent fixed. Now the bank is having 121 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:56,800 Speaker 1: to pay because you know, when the rates go up, 122 00:06:57,120 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 1: savers people with money in the banks, we get paid 123 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 1: more from the bank. They have to pay us a 124 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:05,039 Speaker 1: higher interest rate. Typically those rates go up, so then 125 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 1: you have that half of the bank. The bank is 126 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:11,120 Speaker 1: paying its savings customers, people with money in the bank, 127 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:16,160 Speaker 1: paying them more interest on their deposits. At the same time, 128 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 1: they're still getting the same old three percent from their homeowners. 129 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 1: They're borrowers, and banks don't like that. They don't like 130 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:24,440 Speaker 1: to give more than they get. I don't know, if 131 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 1: you're on them. That's kind of how like capitalism work. 132 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 1: That's not what they like to do. But I do 133 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:32,640 Speaker 1: like this idea, and maybe one day, but I don't 134 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:34,680 Speaker 1: think this president, if this comes to me, I don't 135 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 1: think it's going to be this administration that would enact that. 136 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:41,520 Speaker 1: So but thank you for the comment. And I'm actually 137 00:07:41,560 --> 00:07:44,320 Speaker 1: terrified about this fifty year mortgage becoming a thing because 138 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:47,080 Speaker 1: I hate to say it, but The New York Times 139 00:07:47,160 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 1: did an entire episode this morning actually on the Daily 140 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 1: that was all about the fifty year mortgage, and I 141 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:55,480 Speaker 1: was like, damn if that's sort of like mainstreaming it 142 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 1: at that point. And you know, you can argue as 143 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:01,680 Speaker 1: you want about the relevancy and the ethical you know, 144 00:08:02,200 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 1: the coverage the New York Times does and whether we 145 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 1: should all, you know, be consuming it. But at the 146 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 1: same time, it is that girl when it comes to 147 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 1: traditional media right now, So big deal for them to 148 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 1: be doing a whole episode on it and legitimizing this 149 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 1: idea that he has. I also talked about last week 150 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:22,120 Speaker 1: about the Black Friday boycott. I talked about, you know, 151 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:25,240 Speaker 1: having those conversations with your family about, you know, how 152 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 1: the holidays are going to look and if you don't, 153 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:29,040 Speaker 1: if you're not financially in a place where you can 154 00:08:29,400 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 1: show up the way that maybe you have in the past, 155 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:37,040 Speaker 1: having those tough conversations and YouTube viewer listener, I'll just 156 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:42,199 Speaker 1: call her, uh, I'll call her because her name is 157 00:08:42,240 --> 00:08:46,040 Speaker 1: a bunch of letters and symbols. User nine CV seven 158 00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:51,560 Speaker 1: Helping w says, I make beautiful crocheted hats and scarves, 159 00:08:51,920 --> 00:08:53,640 Speaker 1: so those will be my gifts and I will be 160 00:08:53,679 --> 00:08:56,400 Speaker 1: dumping the rest of my money into index funds while 161 00:08:56,440 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 1: the stock market is all read buying stock on the 162 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:01,720 Speaker 1: cheap to be ready for the opportunities that will come 163 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:06,200 Speaker 1: when we have our blue wave, blue heart What do 164 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:10,440 Speaker 1: you call that flexing bicep emoji? Yes, okay, I love this. 165 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 1: Making crocheted hats and scarves and then dumping the rest 166 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:15,880 Speaker 1: of my money into index funds while the market is 167 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:18,680 Speaker 1: all read. Yes, we love that. I mean, whether the 168 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:22,880 Speaker 1: market is red, black, whatever it is. You know, with 169 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 1: the with the guidance of you know, your holistic picture 170 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:30,719 Speaker 1: of your financial situation, you know, you know what's going 171 00:09:30,760 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 1: on in y'all's in y'all's finance is better than I do. 172 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:37,120 Speaker 1: But I know personally, whenever I have dump money into 173 00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 1: the stock market, especially when I'm doing it for a 174 00:09:39,640 --> 00:09:42,600 Speaker 1: long which is how I usually invest, I'm always investing 175 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:45,400 Speaker 1: for the long term. Anytime I've tried to invest for 176 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 1: the short term, your girl has fallen straight on her ass, 177 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 1: as so many of us do. All Right, the research 178 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:54,920 Speaker 1: doesn't lie. Long term investors win. So I love that. Yes, 179 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:57,280 Speaker 1: investing that for the long term in your case seems 180 00:09:57,280 --> 00:09:59,040 Speaker 1: to be the best bet and you can let that 181 00:09:59,080 --> 00:10:03,600 Speaker 1: money grow. Yes, And I'm just gonna cry about thinking 182 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:07,520 Speaker 1: about all the toys and legos and party favors that 183 00:10:07,559 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 1: I bought for my kids that will never appreciate in 184 00:10:09,920 --> 00:10:11,880 Speaker 1: value and in factor at the bottom of drash sheep 185 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:15,320 Speaker 1: right now, probably floating in our oceans, when I could 186 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:18,680 Speaker 1: have been investing but that's not helpful thinking, isn't. No, 187 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:23,200 Speaker 1: it's not. But I'm happy for you. And oh yeah, 188 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:27,200 Speaker 1: some comments on my Kayla Andicle video user Amanda URS 189 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 1: said love Kayla Nicole and appreciated her apology. This is 190 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 1: about Kaylnicle apologizing for those tweets that she should have 191 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 1: had cleaned up long before. Amanda R. Says, I love 192 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 1: Kayla Nicole and appreciated her apology. But yeah, even as 193 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 1: a quote unquote nobody I cleaned up my social media. 194 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:46,839 Speaker 1: She ate the Tony Braxton tribute so bad they had 195 00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 1: to find something on her. Yes, she did, and she 196 00:10:50,440 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 1: should have known better. But since I published you know 197 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:56,040 Speaker 1: my take on this whole situation, Kayla n Cole has 198 00:10:56,080 --> 00:10:59,320 Speaker 1: issued an apology, So I think that that was the 199 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:02,680 Speaker 1: right thing to do. And I'm also going to say 200 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 1: that I wouldn't have had to do that if you 201 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:07,480 Speaker 1: had had the foresight to clean up your socials as 202 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:11,160 Speaker 1: we all should, even like miss Amanda says, the nobody's 203 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:15,240 Speaker 1: all right. That's gonna wrap up my little comment shout outs. 204 00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:18,319 Speaker 1: If you have loved to comment, thank you so so much. 205 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 1: You can engage with our content on YouTube. You can 206 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:23,560 Speaker 1: also leave us a review on Apple Podcasts. We didn't 207 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:25,520 Speaker 1: get no new Apple reviews, but I would love to 208 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:28,080 Speaker 1: have read them if we did. This is your this 209 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 1: is your chance and give me a reason and read 210 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:34,240 Speaker 1: some new reviews. In the meantime, let's get into today's show. 211 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:38,240 Speaker 1: Today I got a special best of Mashup episode featuring 212 00:11:38,320 --> 00:11:41,960 Speaker 1: two powerhouse guests who dropped some serious gems when they 213 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:45,840 Speaker 1: joined me earlier this year, talking about career pivots, personal finance, 214 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:48,680 Speaker 1: and building wealth on your own terms, which is what 215 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:52,680 Speaker 1: brad Ambition is all about. First up, I've got Christina Mancini. 216 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:55,959 Speaker 1: She is the CEO of Black Girl's Code, who talked 217 00:11:55,960 --> 00:11:58,720 Speaker 1: about why she left Corporate America as she had a 218 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:01,920 Speaker 1: great gig at Salesforce and she left to build her 219 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:04,720 Speaker 1: own table, not just a seep, with the whole damn table. 220 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:07,479 Speaker 1: And then we're going to catch up with Gabrielle Gambrell, 221 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:11,800 Speaker 1: a media executive at hash at Book Group who literally 222 00:12:12,360 --> 00:12:15,320 Speaker 1: rocked out to Michael Jackson's Human Nature in a job 223 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:18,720 Speaker 1: interview and got hired on the spot early in her career. 224 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:21,200 Speaker 1: And if you're someone whether you're in the beginning of 225 00:12:21,240 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 1: your career, the messy middle of your career. Like so 226 00:12:23,640 --> 00:12:26,080 Speaker 1: many of us, I know you're going to be inspired 227 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:30,480 Speaker 1: by Gabrielle's grit and determination and just her charisma and 228 00:12:30,760 --> 00:12:34,440 Speaker 1: ability to keep pushing. It's always inspiring to me. I'm 229 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:37,400 Speaker 1: so grateful that these two women said yes when I 230 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:39,600 Speaker 1: invited them to the show, and I'm excited for you 231 00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:42,760 Speaker 1: to get to look back. So, without further ado, let's 232 00:12:42,840 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 1: kick it off with the conversation around why these two 233 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 1: women made bold career moves when everyone else thought that 234 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:52,160 Speaker 1: they were crazy, and how they figured out why betting 235 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 1: on yourself is often the best investment you can make. 236 00:12:57,040 --> 00:12:59,120 Speaker 1: I want to start there. Can you tell be a 237 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:01,800 Speaker 1: fam a little but about your decision to leave corporate 238 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:05,080 Speaker 1: You were a big batty in tech at Salesforce and 239 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:08,000 Speaker 1: now you're running a nonprofit. So talk to me, talk 240 00:13:08,040 --> 00:13:09,920 Speaker 1: to us a little bit about that decision and what 241 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:11,160 Speaker 1: brought you to Black Girls Code. 242 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:14,960 Speaker 2: Absolutely, I did have a wonderful career. I started my 243 00:13:15,040 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 2: career in media and television. I transitioned into technology. You know. 244 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:23,360 Speaker 2: I was at summer camp last week in Atlanta and 245 00:13:23,559 --> 00:13:26,480 Speaker 2: Representative Kim Schofield was speaking to our girls, and one 246 00:13:26,559 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 2: of the girls asked her why did she get into politics? 247 00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:32,679 Speaker 2: And she said she wanted to make sure that people 248 00:13:32,720 --> 00:13:36,079 Speaker 2: without a always had a voice. And I think that 249 00:13:36,080 --> 00:13:40,640 Speaker 2: that really sums up why I wanted to get into technology. 250 00:13:40,840 --> 00:13:44,400 Speaker 2: I did not come up through the traditional educator channels 251 00:13:44,440 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 2: for this line of work. I came through corporate and 252 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:50,719 Speaker 2: I was in the rooms that I want to get. 253 00:13:50,480 --> 00:13:52,040 Speaker 3: Our participants into. 254 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:55,199 Speaker 2: And so I come with that intention, like what are 255 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:56,240 Speaker 2: the things I wish I. 256 00:13:56,520 --> 00:13:57,880 Speaker 3: Knew then that I know now? 257 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:01,120 Speaker 2: And what are the things that I was trying to 258 00:14:01,280 --> 00:14:04,079 Speaker 2: solve for at one company that I can now solve 259 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:04,960 Speaker 2: for at scale? 260 00:14:05,080 --> 00:14:06,240 Speaker 3: And so that's why I'm here. 261 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:10,040 Speaker 2: I want to inspire, educate, and launch these girls into 262 00:14:10,080 --> 00:14:12,640 Speaker 2: these big jobs at tech so that they can save 263 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:13,120 Speaker 2: us all. 264 00:14:13,160 --> 00:14:16,920 Speaker 3: I believe, if I'm not mistaken, that that is why 265 00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:18,079 Speaker 3: you started this podcast. 266 00:14:18,559 --> 00:14:23,320 Speaker 1: It's pretty similar. Yeah, I mean also, I was bored. 267 00:14:23,560 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 1: I was. 268 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:28,000 Speaker 4: I was bored. 269 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:30,240 Speaker 1: No, not bored as in like I have nothing to do, 270 00:14:30,440 --> 00:14:34,240 Speaker 1: bored as in surrounded by people who didn't look like 271 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:36,920 Speaker 1: me every day. And I was also in media covering 272 00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:40,400 Speaker 1: personal finance, and I wanted to I wanted to feel 273 00:14:40,440 --> 00:14:43,160 Speaker 1: the energy, giddiness, the excitement there wasn't a lot of 274 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:46,520 Speaker 1: that excitement in like doing it for a cause. Maybe 275 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:49,360 Speaker 1: I was a little bit of a bleeding heart at 276 00:14:49,360 --> 00:14:52,760 Speaker 1: the time. And I met my co host at the time, Tiffany, 277 00:14:52,760 --> 00:14:55,080 Speaker 1: at a conference, and we had such We were both 278 00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:58,400 Speaker 1: so equally passionate about doing this work and really closing 279 00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 1: the racial wealth gap and talking to when of color, 280 00:15:00,680 --> 00:15:02,680 Speaker 1: and I just didn't get that where I was working 281 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 1: at Yahoo Finance at the time. So for me, this 282 00:15:04,600 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 1: was an outlet. It was an outlet and a place 283 00:15:06,480 --> 00:15:09,000 Speaker 1: to take all my enthusiasm. And at the same time, 284 00:15:09,080 --> 00:15:11,600 Speaker 1: now it's been ten years and I have chosen to 285 00:15:11,680 --> 00:15:14,320 Speaker 1: keep doing it again and again. I've left corporate. I 286 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:17,400 Speaker 1: left corporate back in twenty twenty one. And definitely my 287 00:15:17,480 --> 00:15:20,760 Speaker 1: why now is because you know, I was going to 288 00:15:20,760 --> 00:15:22,320 Speaker 1: ask while you were speaking, I was going to ask 289 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:25,160 Speaker 1: you Sometimes there's a bit of a pressure on women 290 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:29,440 Speaker 1: of color when we reach these high rankings in corporate America, 291 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:32,880 Speaker 1: like stay there, we need you representation, da da da. 292 00:15:32,920 --> 00:15:35,280 Speaker 1: But at the same time, and I did feel that 293 00:15:35,280 --> 00:15:37,600 Speaker 1: way because when I was in corporate, I wasn't as 294 00:15:37,800 --> 00:15:41,000 Speaker 1: senior level as you were, but I was making hiring 295 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:43,480 Speaker 1: decisions I was hiring. I hired a team of forty 296 00:15:43,520 --> 00:15:45,440 Speaker 1: and you know, I really wanted to make sure that 297 00:15:45,440 --> 00:15:49,160 Speaker 1: they were diverse and that little bit of power and responsibility. 298 00:15:49,200 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 1: It took it very seriously and it was a privilege 299 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:54,240 Speaker 1: and some power. That being said, I wanted to get 300 00:15:54,240 --> 00:15:58,160 Speaker 1: your take on that and your answer to anyone who 301 00:15:58,200 --> 00:16:00,480 Speaker 1: may say, but we need you when corporate. 302 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:04,080 Speaker 2: I think that we need a whole bunch of us 303 00:16:04,080 --> 00:16:08,040 Speaker 2: in corporate. And I was doing this work off the 304 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 2: side of my desk for many years. 305 00:16:10,160 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 3: You know, I launched multiple programs. 306 00:16:11,800 --> 00:16:15,240 Speaker 2: Even when I was in film, and then also when 307 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:17,720 Speaker 2: I was at Salesforce. And at Salesforce, I launched our 308 00:16:17,840 --> 00:16:20,880 Speaker 2: make Change series are leading through Change series, trying to 309 00:16:20,920 --> 00:16:24,280 Speaker 2: motivate people to think different about using their platform to 310 00:16:24,280 --> 00:16:27,160 Speaker 2: affect change and instead of just going to work every 311 00:16:27,240 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 2: day and thinking like, oh, I got to tick all 312 00:16:29,200 --> 00:16:32,840 Speaker 2: these boxes in my playbook, Like what if you thought 313 00:16:32,880 --> 00:16:35,840 Speaker 2: about how you could use the space and influence you 314 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:40,160 Speaker 2: have to affect change. And so there's this incredible pressure 315 00:16:40,240 --> 00:16:42,600 Speaker 2: when you as you rise through the ranks in corporate, 316 00:16:42,640 --> 00:16:45,920 Speaker 2: when you get to the spaces where you are, in 317 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:48,680 Speaker 2: fact the only one to create space for others, and 318 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:50,280 Speaker 2: it is the right type of pressure. 319 00:16:50,480 --> 00:16:53,280 Speaker 3: But for me, I couldn't get enough people at the table. 320 00:16:53,640 --> 00:16:56,240 Speaker 2: I wanted to actually encourage us to start building our 321 00:16:56,240 --> 00:17:00,200 Speaker 2: own tables, and so, yes, I suffered that pressure. It's 322 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:03,320 Speaker 2: the pressure of wanting to mentor and sponsor everybody while 323 00:17:03,360 --> 00:17:07,000 Speaker 2: you still have your regular day job. And I think 324 00:17:07,000 --> 00:17:11,920 Speaker 2: that's a really interesting conversation in itself around thinking through 325 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:17,760 Speaker 2: what is mentorship versus sponsorship. Everybody wants mentorship, but it 326 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:19,680 Speaker 2: presents itself in different ways. 327 00:17:19,880 --> 00:17:22,480 Speaker 3: For me, I'm not super chatty. 328 00:17:22,600 --> 00:17:25,399 Speaker 2: I'm going to go straight to action items, and so 329 00:17:25,880 --> 00:17:28,560 Speaker 2: I think I am a better sponsor. But in order 330 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:31,480 Speaker 2: to be a good sponsor and find the right sponsors, 331 00:17:31,480 --> 00:17:34,119 Speaker 2: you need to really think about what your value proposition is, 332 00:17:34,160 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 2: and you know, start thinking about who's your mentor that 333 00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:39,679 Speaker 2: you have coffee with and you want to have small 334 00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:42,679 Speaker 2: talk with, and who's your sponsor who's going to be 335 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:45,720 Speaker 2: in the room. I used to say, you know, fighting 336 00:17:45,720 --> 00:17:47,680 Speaker 2: for you in rooms where you're not and now where 337 00:17:47,680 --> 00:17:50,200 Speaker 2: we are right now, which is an epidemic of no 338 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:52,639 Speaker 2: black women in tech, I would say it is fighting 339 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:55,240 Speaker 2: to make sure that you yourself are in the room 340 00:17:55,760 --> 00:17:58,399 Speaker 2: to present your own projects so that you can accelerate 341 00:17:58,440 --> 00:17:58,959 Speaker 2: your career. 342 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:01,919 Speaker 1: Okay, you said, you said so much there. I have 343 00:18:01,960 --> 00:18:04,399 Speaker 1: a lot of respect for anyone who's clear on what 344 00:18:04,440 --> 00:18:07,200 Speaker 1: they what they're able to offer. I've read a group 345 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:09,639 Speaker 1: coaching community called the Mandy money Makers, and one of 346 00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:13,680 Speaker 1: my makers last week, she's incredible networking and she'll she'll 347 00:18:13,720 --> 00:18:15,760 Speaker 1: send an email, but she'll meet up and she'll meet 348 00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:17,800 Speaker 1: up with people in person and then keep the relationship 349 00:18:17,800 --> 00:18:20,359 Speaker 1: going via email. And she had said how someone that 350 00:18:20,359 --> 00:18:22,159 Speaker 1: she was reaching out to or hoping to get some 351 00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:24,840 Speaker 1: advice on breaking into this new field had posted on 352 00:18:24,880 --> 00:18:27,960 Speaker 1: LinkedIn this post that was like, we're being inundated by 353 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:31,439 Speaker 1: mentorship and advice emails and virtual one on ones and 354 00:18:31,480 --> 00:18:33,160 Speaker 1: we can't do it all. I hope you guys understand 355 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:34,840 Speaker 1: if we don't get back to you, this is why. 356 00:18:34,960 --> 00:18:37,160 Speaker 1: And part of me as a coach, I'm just like, oh, 357 00:18:37,240 --> 00:18:39,240 Speaker 1: that's kind of a shame, because you hope people will 358 00:18:39,280 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 1: have the bandwidth. At the same time, I respect a boundary, right, 359 00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:46,080 Speaker 1: and I think what you're really vocalizing what a lot 360 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:48,439 Speaker 1: of the few of us that do make it to 361 00:18:48,480 --> 00:18:52,439 Speaker 1: the top can feel a bit overwhelmed by the pull 362 00:18:52,760 --> 00:18:55,639 Speaker 1: back to look back and bring others forward while trying 363 00:18:55,680 --> 00:18:58,199 Speaker 1: to like survive, survive where we are one of the 364 00:18:58,200 --> 00:19:01,479 Speaker 1: few only differents, you know, make sure that we our 365 00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:03,800 Speaker 1: asses don't get let go because our margin of error 366 00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:05,840 Speaker 1: is like super duper raised or things like. 367 00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:09,160 Speaker 2: This big magnifying class on you already you can't make any. 368 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 3: Mistakes, exactly, it feels, or so it feels. 369 00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:15,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, I just wanted to acknowledge that and just say 370 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:18,919 Speaker 1: that that is completely fair. At the same time, you 371 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:22,800 Speaker 1: do offer this window of saying, here's what I can do. Yes, 372 00:19:23,200 --> 00:19:25,199 Speaker 1: I can have a list of batties that I know 373 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:28,240 Speaker 1: I can support, you know, and how does someone get 374 00:19:28,240 --> 00:19:30,399 Speaker 1: on your sponsorship list? How do we can sponsor? 375 00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:33,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I like how you position that because I feel 376 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:37,440 Speaker 2: like I'm curating a massive pipeline of batties at Black 377 00:19:37,480 --> 00:19:41,720 Speaker 2: Girl's Code, you know. I was at Salesforce. I met 378 00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:46,920 Speaker 2: incredible leaders there, and when I came over to Black 379 00:19:46,920 --> 00:19:50,359 Speaker 2: Girl's Code, it was October of twenty twenty three, and 380 00:19:50,600 --> 00:19:53,399 Speaker 2: I remember being just blown away by the level of 381 00:19:53,480 --> 00:19:56,960 Speaker 2: talent that I could see in our participants that were 382 00:19:57,000 --> 00:20:01,080 Speaker 2: in these programs. And that was the to it was 383 00:20:01,080 --> 00:20:03,239 Speaker 2: actually part of my interview was that I wanted to 384 00:20:03,320 --> 00:20:06,640 Speaker 2: expand the age range black girls. COVID was already participating 385 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:09,520 Speaker 2: in colleges and careers as so much as like how 386 00:20:09,520 --> 00:20:12,520 Speaker 2: to talk to a recruiter, how to articulate your value proposition, 387 00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:14,399 Speaker 2: and they're still crushing it and we're still doing it, 388 00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:17,520 Speaker 2: and we're building out how to show up at more 389 00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:21,040 Speaker 2: college campuses. But I really wanted to introduce more technical 390 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:26,040 Speaker 2: training as well, and I wanted to support our communities 391 00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:30,520 Speaker 2: beyond college, and that was the workforce development expansion. 392 00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:33,040 Speaker 3: You know, it's funny because as. 393 00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:37,240 Speaker 2: You think about women and women of color in corporate 394 00:20:38,640 --> 00:20:41,520 Speaker 2: you should assume that if someone is making it up 395 00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:45,239 Speaker 2: through the rings, that they're a total baddie because they 396 00:20:45,280 --> 00:20:49,399 Speaker 2: are going. But I'm saying that as I say, you know, 397 00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:52,560 Speaker 2: someone as be like for some newsletter, like what do 398 00:20:52,600 --> 00:20:55,480 Speaker 2: I wish people would understand or think about or consider? 399 00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:58,920 Speaker 2: And it is, you know, this sense of as we're 400 00:20:58,920 --> 00:21:01,600 Speaker 2: talking about this not celebrating resilience. 401 00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:04,480 Speaker 3: What I would actually love is if. 402 00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:06,640 Speaker 2: When we talk about women of color that we don't 403 00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:10,320 Speaker 2: have that adjective celebrated when it's connected with us, right, 404 00:21:10,400 --> 00:21:13,800 Speaker 2: so strong wouldn't you rather work at a place where 405 00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:19,400 Speaker 2: you were just celebrated for being innovative, brilliant, creative, but 406 00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:20,280 Speaker 2: not resilient. 407 00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:22,400 Speaker 3: Work shouldn't be a battleground. 408 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:27,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. I've talked to us before. When I'm talking 409 00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:30,320 Speaker 1: to usually white men in my space, so podcasting, so 410 00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:32,000 Speaker 1: this could be like one of my one from my 411 00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:35,199 Speaker 1: network for example. So these are corporate spaces. I'm a 412 00:21:35,200 --> 00:21:38,520 Speaker 1: podcast so I all talk to white dudes occasionally and 413 00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:41,480 Speaker 1: fortunately not always, because I get to do this work 414 00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:46,400 Speaker 1: and there's usually a there often is a point when 415 00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:50,119 Speaker 1: they try to connect with me on their struggle story, 416 00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:54,800 Speaker 1: you know, Like I mean, I could tell you, sure 417 00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:56,840 Speaker 1: do I have some do I have some challenges, but 418 00:21:56,880 --> 00:21:58,959 Speaker 1: like I grew up in the suburbs of Atlanta, Like 419 00:21:59,119 --> 00:22:01,840 Speaker 1: I wasn't starving, I wasn't poor, and like you know 420 00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:05,600 Speaker 1: all that, and but that does get to be a 421 00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:09,560 Speaker 1: little bit tiresome that you you feel like people want 422 00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:13,960 Speaker 1: they want to feel better about themselves for somehow rescuing you, 423 00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:15,359 Speaker 1: for giving you a chance. 424 00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:16,360 Speaker 4: Yeah. 425 00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 1: No, you still would have been in the streets if 426 00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:20,119 Speaker 1: it weren't promotion. 427 00:22:20,320 --> 00:22:22,920 Speaker 4: I hate that, man, I hate that so much. 428 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:24,680 Speaker 3: I hate especially in tech. 429 00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:29,320 Speaker 2: It was my biggest back, Like this, this tiresome trope 430 00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:32,879 Speaker 2: of rags to riches. I did not come from rags. 431 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:35,359 Speaker 2: I had a great background and that's my story. And 432 00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:38,320 Speaker 2: if it's not your story, you don't owe anyone that story. 433 00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:38,920 Speaker 3: I hate. 434 00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:42,320 Speaker 2: There's this book What We Build with Power that I love, 435 00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:46,280 Speaker 2: and in it he talks about this concept of feeling 436 00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:49,320 Speaker 2: the need to sell trauma for access. It starts around 437 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:52,400 Speaker 2: high school when you're doing your scholarships, Like. 438 00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:57,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, I really struggle with my college essay. 439 00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:01,520 Speaker 3: I was like, I have a good family. 440 00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:06,240 Speaker 2: I don't know what to tell you, but if you don't, 441 00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:13,640 Speaker 2: it's still not their business. I was speaking at Princeton 442 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:16,240 Speaker 2: and I had a mom like, we had some Jack 443 00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:18,879 Speaker 2: and Jill students come and listen, and some of our 444 00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:22,480 Speaker 2: BGC community, which always makes me happy, came up from 445 00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 2: the city to listen to me speak. And one of 446 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:27,880 Speaker 2: the moms of the high school kids said, well, if 447 00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:31,800 Speaker 2: I don't talk about her resilience, how does she differentiate herself? 448 00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:37,919 Speaker 1: So her excellence. 449 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:42,800 Speaker 2: So if we're not taught early how to articulate, it's 450 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:47,720 Speaker 2: not bragging, not bragging. I know that I'm very intelligent, 451 00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:50,280 Speaker 2: I know that I'm very creative. I know that I 452 00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:54,400 Speaker 2: am a visionary executive, So I don't feel the need 453 00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:58,000 Speaker 2: to humble myself when I'm talking about what my skill 454 00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:00,680 Speaker 2: set is. If you're hiring me, you know why you're 455 00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:03,440 Speaker 2: hiring me. It's not for any of my past. It's 456 00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:06,760 Speaker 2: none of your business, honestly, and so I want our 457 00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:09,080 Speaker 2: girls to learn that it's none of our business. 458 00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:13,760 Speaker 3: You choose who deserves to hear your story, not the 459 00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:15,520 Speaker 3: other way around. I've seen it. 460 00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:18,840 Speaker 2: I've been at keynotes where the sad story comes on. 461 00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:22,080 Speaker 2: Someone reaches out to the person who is featured and 462 00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:30,639 Speaker 2: they're like, tear, You're so strong, and you get like 463 00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:33,000 Speaker 2: a little check for your charity, and that's it. 464 00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:34,520 Speaker 3: That's not what we're talking about. 465 00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:36,879 Speaker 2: I'm talking about, how do we set you up for 466 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:40,320 Speaker 2: success and advance you in your career or set yourself 467 00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:42,879 Speaker 2: up so that you can be an entrepreneur and people 468 00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:45,240 Speaker 2: are buying the things that you create, not. 469 00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:46,920 Speaker 3: Your past, not your trauma. 470 00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:49,159 Speaker 2: That's why I love this work, going back to like 471 00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:51,480 Speaker 2: my first camp that I went to, when I saw 472 00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:56,919 Speaker 2: these little girls coding and making something new, move that 473 00:24:57,040 --> 00:25:01,280 Speaker 2: didn't move before. Watch the light bulb turn on and 474 00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:06,760 Speaker 2: the joy. That's what we sell, that's what we talk about. 475 00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:11,120 Speaker 2: That's you know, in this AI moment where everybody's talking 476 00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:13,919 Speaker 2: about AI and this great hype cycle, the very things 477 00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:18,399 Speaker 2: that make us different and differentiate us from machines is 478 00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:22,800 Speaker 2: our imagination, our creativity, our critical thinking. Those are the 479 00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:24,800 Speaker 2: things we need to nurture. Those are the things we 480 00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:26,600 Speaker 2: need to talk about, just like everybody else. 481 00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:29,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think too, just seeing the girls see 482 00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:32,159 Speaker 1: each other in that context, like I just imagine I 483 00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:33,520 Speaker 1: want to go to one of these camps and. 484 00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:39,600 Speaker 2: Just personally, we just just that the camps in Atlanta, 485 00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:42,560 Speaker 2: and I just was like man, being around each other 486 00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:46,760 Speaker 2: in a safe space. That's we This centers that we're 487 00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:50,920 Speaker 2: building out in Inglewood, California are for that. I think 488 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:54,000 Speaker 2: what we're missing is a town square. We're missing these 489 00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:57,359 Speaker 2: third spaces where we can gather and learn together. It 490 00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:00,480 Speaker 2: gives me infinite joy to participate in it. Spend a 491 00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:03,960 Speaker 2: lot of time on the road speaking and meeting with partners, 492 00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:08,159 Speaker 2: but I reserve the right when I feel depleted of 493 00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:13,679 Speaker 2: energy to go spend time with our learners. It is incredible, 494 00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:15,960 Speaker 2: and you have to come with me to one of them. 495 00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:17,000 Speaker 3: I insist. 496 00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:19,919 Speaker 1: I you know, as you're speaking, I'm thinking about the 497 00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:21,840 Speaker 1: way that I look at my children. I have two 498 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:24,760 Speaker 1: little boys, they're five and two, and I look at 499 00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:28,600 Speaker 1: them as a reprieve from all the stuff, Like I'll 500 00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:30,800 Speaker 1: get on the floor build some legos, and it's the 501 00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:33,199 Speaker 1: sort of meditation. It's like it takes you out of 502 00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:36,080 Speaker 1: this even this morning, you know, And I know you 503 00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:38,040 Speaker 1: must feel this way, or maybe you don't because you've 504 00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:40,600 Speaker 1: been You're much more, you know, so much more wisdom 505 00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:43,800 Speaker 1: and time, you know, in a high but truly, like 506 00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:46,600 Speaker 1: you know, I consider you to you have more experience 507 00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:49,680 Speaker 1: coping with all the things. But some mornings I wake 508 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:53,119 Speaker 1: up and it's just it's it's suffocating. How many different 509 00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:56,080 Speaker 1: feelings and emotions and things to do and like that 510 00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:58,320 Speaker 1: are tugging you in all these different directions. And my 511 00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:00,919 Speaker 1: kids are at camp in school right now, so I 512 00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:03,320 Speaker 1: don't have them. I can't. I could build a lego 513 00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:05,359 Speaker 1: by myself, I guess, But anyway, I did a little 514 00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:08,960 Speaker 1: meditation instead. That having the kids there is so nice, 515 00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:13,320 Speaker 1: and I love that you are staying grounded in the girls. 516 00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:15,680 Speaker 1: You know that y'all are working with that so talk 517 00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:17,960 Speaker 1: to me about For those who may not know NBA fan, 518 00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:20,560 Speaker 1: we've heard of Black Girl's Code. We know that you 519 00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:23,880 Speaker 1: know you're on this mission to get a million girls 520 00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:27,520 Speaker 1: in tech, black girls in Tech by year twenty forty. 521 00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:30,040 Speaker 1: Such a huge, amazing goal. And I know that you're 522 00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:32,920 Speaker 1: planning new things and expansions, but can you break down 523 00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:35,640 Speaker 1: what exactly the structure of Black Girl's Code is today? 524 00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:38,840 Speaker 1: If someone wants to learn more, get their girls involved, 525 00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:41,520 Speaker 1: get themselves involved as a parent, to help you get 526 00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:43,320 Speaker 1: to that million, that million number. 527 00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:48,240 Speaker 2: It's a great honor to lead this organization. The organization 528 00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:52,720 Speaker 2: was founded in twenty and eleven, truly visionary at the time. 529 00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:54,920 Speaker 2: You know, at the time there was not a lot 530 00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:59,040 Speaker 2: of these programs out there, and so when I came 531 00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:03,840 Speaker 2: in twenty twenty three, my focus was again to launch. 532 00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:10,320 Speaker 2: So there's always been this access, inspiration, education, but I 533 00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:12,680 Speaker 2: wanted to connect it to results. 534 00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:14,639 Speaker 3: A quick way to get grounded. 535 00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:18,040 Speaker 2: In what we are doing right now is we AREBGC 536 00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:22,200 Speaker 2: dot Org is our website, and parents can sign their 537 00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:26,639 Speaker 2: kids up for upcoming programs. We are in the last 538 00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:30,160 Speaker 2: quarter of thirteen summer camps that we've been running all 539 00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:32,800 Speaker 2: summer shout out to my BGC team. They have been 540 00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:36,000 Speaker 2: literally nationwide all over the place, including in Puerto Rico. 541 00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:38,680 Speaker 2: We have our summer camp coming up right now next 542 00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:40,760 Speaker 2: week in Los Angeles. 543 00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:43,400 Speaker 1: These like week long, couple weeks long. 544 00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:46,719 Speaker 2: It depends like they We've been testing different lengths, so 545 00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:49,640 Speaker 2: some are one week, two week, and some are four weeks. 546 00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:51,880 Speaker 2: I think we're landing somewhere around the two week is 547 00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:55,760 Speaker 2: the optimum length, and we stay connected through the year 548 00:28:55,880 --> 00:29:04,840 Speaker 2: with additional pop ups and emerge programming that is again nationwide. 549 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:10,200 Speaker 2: We have ongoing free YouTube programming with this series called 550 00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:15,920 Speaker 2: Code Along, and the streamer Kilani Jules just won the 551 00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:20,640 Speaker 2: Young Artist Award for Host of a Streaming Series for 552 00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:23,320 Speaker 2: our Code Along Juniors, so we're really proud of her. 553 00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:28,440 Speaker 2: That YouTube series has reached over eight million views and 554 00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:32,680 Speaker 2: it is a great introduction to code if you cannot 555 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:36,120 Speaker 2: get to one of our live experiences. But we try 556 00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:38,959 Speaker 2: to get around the nation as much as possible to 557 00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:42,600 Speaker 2: inspire and engage with as many potential students and bring 558 00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:46,160 Speaker 2: them into the BGC family. We've also been working really 559 00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:49,719 Speaker 2: hard to activate our alumni and bring them back into 560 00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:52,800 Speaker 2: the full A lot of them are now teachers assistants. 561 00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:55,520 Speaker 2: They've been supporting us in our summer camps and also 562 00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:58,240 Speaker 2: with our virtual programs. So we have quite a bit 563 00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:01,440 Speaker 2: going on, but I think we need to do even more. 564 00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:06,360 Speaker 2: The way that there's this mass exodus of people of 565 00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:08,280 Speaker 2: color from tech is really worrisome for me. 566 00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:13,000 Speaker 1: Heyba, fam, we got to take a quick break, pay 567 00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:18,480 Speaker 1: some bills, and we'll be right back. So I want 568 00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:21,800 Speaker 1: you to talk about your career, but I also want 569 00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:25,400 Speaker 1: to talk about your badass origin story. Where did you 570 00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:29,640 Speaker 1: build that confidence and just the way that you approach 571 00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:33,120 Speaker 1: your career, which is so head on, fearless and like 572 00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:35,600 Speaker 1: a straight shooter to the point you're going to look 573 00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:37,640 Speaker 1: at opportunities, You're going to do things fast and make 574 00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:38,680 Speaker 1: like big decisions. 575 00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:40,840 Speaker 4: Well, thank you for saying all those kind things. I 576 00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:44,040 Speaker 4: think a huge part of who I am today and 577 00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:46,560 Speaker 4: how I navigate spaces and how I show up has 578 00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:49,440 Speaker 4: to do with the fact that I am from Los Angeles, California, 579 00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:51,640 Speaker 4: and one of the greatest cities in the world, and 580 00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:55,000 Speaker 4: growing up in Los Angeles, you see a lot of prosperity. 581 00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:59,000 Speaker 4: I actually come from humble beginnings, but because you're surrounded 582 00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:03,240 Speaker 4: by all the luxurious things, and luxury I always grew 583 00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:05,640 Speaker 4: up like, how was that obtainable? If they have it, 584 00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:07,360 Speaker 4: that means I can have it too. So how do 585 00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:10,240 Speaker 4: I put myself in the position knowing I don't come 586 00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:13,280 Speaker 4: from a lot. I come from a highly educated family. 587 00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:15,880 Speaker 4: I'm a fourth generation college graduate. I don't take that 588 00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:19,960 Speaker 4: lightly as a black woman. My great grandparents attended HBCUs 589 00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:23,240 Speaker 4: because they couldn't attend elsewhere, and so a lot of 590 00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:26,440 Speaker 4: my ambition comes from being from Los Angeles. And then 591 00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:29,840 Speaker 4: I will say my parents are both pretty much go getters. 592 00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:32,440 Speaker 4: They get things done, they make things happen, as well 593 00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:35,920 Speaker 4: as my godmother who raised me, my late godmother, who 594 00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:39,080 Speaker 4: my daughter is named after. So I look at my grandparents. 595 00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:41,560 Speaker 4: My grandmother Black Women, born nineteen twelve, one of the 596 00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:44,239 Speaker 4: first black women to graduate from Smith College, went on 597 00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:47,920 Speaker 4: to get several degrees from Eastern Michigan University, Howard University. 598 00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:51,200 Speaker 4: She met my grandfather Howard University alum. He attended Howard 599 00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:53,640 Speaker 4: and medical school. So I always looked at them and 600 00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:58,200 Speaker 4: saw their accomplishments, their goals. And my grandfather went to 601 00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:01,480 Speaker 4: medical school, but yet he was season fashion designer. He 602 00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:04,440 Speaker 4: designed clothes for the Jackson Five and the Supremes and 603 00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:09,200 Speaker 4: Sammy Davis Junior and so many great black musicians. So 604 00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:11,520 Speaker 4: I look at a lot of the things they accomplished, 605 00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:14,240 Speaker 4: and I knew very early on that I could be 606 00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:15,800 Speaker 4: whatever my heart desired. 607 00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:18,480 Speaker 1: That's incredible. I didn't know that about your great grandfather. 608 00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:21,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, my great watched the met did that? 609 00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:22,040 Speaker 3: Did he pass that? 610 00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:22,320 Speaker 2: Well? 611 00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:23,920 Speaker 1: I don't know if you ever got to meet him 612 00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:24,840 Speaker 1: great grandfather. 613 00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:28,760 Speaker 4: No, my grandfather, my grandfather, I met your grandfather or yep, yep. 614 00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:31,680 Speaker 4: My dad is the youngest of five kids. So my 615 00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:35,120 Speaker 4: grandmother had my dad at fifty five zero. So my 616 00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:38,320 Speaker 4: grandparents are much older. They're no longer, of course, but 617 00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:43,720 Speaker 4: that was a work that was absolutely positively. They were like, wait, huh, 618 00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:46,680 Speaker 4: come again on what? So my grandmother was born in 619 00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:49,320 Speaker 4: nineteen twelve, my dad's mother, and my grandfather was born 620 00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:52,880 Speaker 4: in nineteen seventeen and Augusta, Georgia, so that Georgia connection, 621 00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:56,200 Speaker 4: and so fashion has always been a huge part of 622 00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:59,680 Speaker 4: my upbringing. My parents used to hold fashion shows for 623 00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:02,440 Speaker 4: those in the Los Angeles community. My dad is the 624 00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:05,200 Speaker 4: best dressed guy I've ever seen. He thrust us up 625 00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:08,480 Speaker 4: to go to the grocery store, from head to toe accessories. 626 00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:11,240 Speaker 4: Like he cares very much about fashion. Every time he 627 00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:13,520 Speaker 4: comes in town from Los Angeles, first thing he does 628 00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:15,160 Speaker 4: is like, let's look at your closet and see. 629 00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:15,440 Speaker 3: What's going on. 630 00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:18,080 Speaker 4: So all of a Suddings really helped to shape you know, 631 00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:20,040 Speaker 4: who I am and how I show up in the world. 632 00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:22,320 Speaker 1: Dang, I wish I had a fashion I mean, like, 633 00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:24,960 Speaker 1: I love my parents, but it was giving. We shop 634 00:33:25,040 --> 00:33:27,960 Speaker 1: at Ross dress for Less. We shot at you know Sears. 635 00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:30,880 Speaker 4: Listen, we shop at Ross. We love Ross. But I'm 636 00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:34,120 Speaker 4: not the most patient person. It's something that I'm working on. 637 00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:37,520 Speaker 4: It's a room for improvement for me, growth opportunity. But 638 00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:40,640 Speaker 4: my parents will find some jewels and Ross. They go 639 00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:43,720 Speaker 4: to the thrift stores. My cousin had a thrift store 640 00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:46,680 Speaker 4: at one point, so they are very patient shoppers. I 641 00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:48,440 Speaker 4: love Ross. I wish we had it in New York. 642 00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:50,120 Speaker 4: You know, Marshall's is by our house. I go to 643 00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:52,400 Speaker 4: Marshall's all the time TJ Max, which is super close 644 00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:54,600 Speaker 4: to our house. But I got to work on my 645 00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:56,720 Speaker 4: patients while I'm there because I'm like, I don't say 646 00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:57,640 Speaker 4: anything and I just leave. 647 00:33:57,800 --> 00:33:59,720 Speaker 1: But the way that you present yourself. It is something 648 00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:02,560 Speaker 1: that I admire. You will do the color coordinated family 649 00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:05,120 Speaker 1: photo shoot and I just like I saw you were 650 00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:09,120 Speaker 1: featured in Munamammy. How you say it? Munamomy? They did 651 00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:12,000 Speaker 1: a story when it was Gigi, your daughter's first birthday 652 00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:15,120 Speaker 1: and birthday. Yeah, you got both Jeffreys decked out in 653 00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:18,800 Speaker 1: the pink gotband. Husband is in the pink cable net sweater. 654 00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:22,920 Speaker 4: Yes, yes, yes points. 655 00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:26,839 Speaker 1: How does that presentation factor into your career? How has 656 00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:28,960 Speaker 1: it factored into your career? Do you think it's something 657 00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:31,840 Speaker 1: that you use like as armor. Does it help or 658 00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:33,880 Speaker 1: is it just you know, it's just something that you've always, 659 00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:36,120 Speaker 1: based on your childhood, innately cared about. 660 00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:38,840 Speaker 4: That's a great question. I actually had a conversation recently 661 00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:41,080 Speaker 4: with someone so talking a little bit about my career. 662 00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:45,080 Speaker 4: I interned at WABC Disney ABC on a show that 663 00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:47,799 Speaker 4: was at one point Live A Regis and Kelly, which 664 00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:50,800 Speaker 4: is now Live with Kelly and markham Swellows. And from ABC, 665 00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:53,520 Speaker 4: I went to Paaramott CBS. I was there for seven years, 666 00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:56,160 Speaker 4: then I went over right here at NBC Universal. I 667 00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:59,960 Speaker 4: worked for Comcast NBC and so working in television work 668 00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:03,239 Speaker 4: and broadcasts. You're surrounded by beautiful, theo looking people. You're 669 00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:06,239 Speaker 4: surrounded by best stressed. There's a time where I was 670 00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:08,960 Speaker 4: working at NBC and my pockets weren't like that, but 671 00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:11,000 Speaker 4: a lot of people during lunch breaks were going to 672 00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:13,719 Speaker 4: shop on Fifth Avenue and get outfits. So I think 673 00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:17,240 Speaker 4: because I've worked in careers that are kind of fancy, 674 00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:21,000 Speaker 4: if you will, or honestly, and I tell my mentees. 675 00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:23,800 Speaker 4: I teach at Columbia University, I teach at NYU. I 676 00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:26,839 Speaker 4: tell my students, my mentees that in certain industries, how 677 00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:30,600 Speaker 4: you show up can dictate your success. In media and entertainment. 678 00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:32,759 Speaker 4: I'm very proud to work in media. I'm very proud 679 00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:35,160 Speaker 4: to work in entertainment. But a lot of it is 680 00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:38,279 Speaker 4: based on visuals, and that's just the fact of the 681 00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:41,680 Speaker 4: industry that a lot of people are very judgy or 682 00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:43,640 Speaker 4: it's like, oh, you know that girl who's always dressed 683 00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:45,640 Speaker 4: really nice? Are the one whose face is always done 684 00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:49,239 Speaker 4: and those types of things. So I think my life 685 00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:52,520 Speaker 4: being from Los Angeles, my family as well as my 686 00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:55,719 Speaker 4: career trajectory has impacted kind of how I show up 687 00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:58,360 Speaker 4: and doing the little family photos. My goal is that 688 00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:00,440 Speaker 4: my children look back. My daughter will look back at 689 00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:02,320 Speaker 4: her first birthday and say, oh, look at my family, 690 00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:04,680 Speaker 4: they all dressed in pink, my favorite color for my birthday, 691 00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:08,160 Speaker 4: or just having those really special moments to look back 692 00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:09,640 Speaker 4: to and smile. 693 00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:11,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I don't know if you remember, but 694 00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:13,400 Speaker 1: you're the one who sent me the link to like 695 00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:17,640 Speaker 1: this family photographer who was doing baby newborn baby photo shoots. Yeah, 696 00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:20,360 Speaker 1: and that's the only way I ever got like the 697 00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:24,000 Speaker 1: beautiful family photos of like the newborn photos of my boy. 698 00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:26,800 Speaker 1: And I wouldn't have even thought to look that person 699 00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:28,920 Speaker 1: up if it weren't for you. So I feel like 700 00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:32,040 Speaker 1: being in your presence, I am elevating my You're. 701 00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:33,480 Speaker 4: Too kind of, You're too kind of. Those are some 702 00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:35,320 Speaker 4: beautiful photos, though, gorgeous photos. 703 00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:37,799 Speaker 1: Oh it's okay, and I have them forever and yeah, 704 00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:41,400 Speaker 1: very precious all right. Career, so you are a maven. 705 00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:44,080 Speaker 1: Like if you look up that phrase in the dictionary, 706 00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:46,040 Speaker 1: if it even is in there, I would see your face. 707 00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:49,040 Speaker 1: And I know that you're in publishing now. But for you, 708 00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:53,239 Speaker 1: like just the communications career, that's always been the focus, right, Yeah, 709 00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:56,719 Speaker 1: can you talk about the early career moves you made 710 00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:59,560 Speaker 1: that felt really instrumental to getting you to where you 711 00:36:59,640 --> 00:36:59,920 Speaker 1: are now. 712 00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:02,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, so I would take it all the way back 713 00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:04,640 Speaker 4: to high school. Two pivotal things happen in high school. 714 00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:08,360 Speaker 4: I attended Pacific Palisades Charter High School. So my high school, 715 00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:11,359 Speaker 4: we all know what happened in the Palisades area. Gosh, yeah, 716 00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:14,680 Speaker 4: so he was burned it did. But I believe, I'm 717 00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:16,759 Speaker 4: on a bunch of alumni boards that there are a 718 00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:19,799 Speaker 4: lot of individuals in the community. They're working. I think 719 00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:21,880 Speaker 4: we may even be working out of the schools, may 720 00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:23,880 Speaker 4: now be in Santa Monica for the time being, but 721 00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:27,440 Speaker 4: I feel very confident it'll be back before we know it. So, 722 00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:31,040 Speaker 4: while I was at Palisades, I've always liked English, always 723 00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:33,400 Speaker 4: liked writing. There's always that one teacher that has a 724 00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:38,080 Speaker 4: huge impact on you. My English tenth grade honors English teacher, 725 00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:40,680 Speaker 4: mister Dan Zinger, was like, you're a great writer. You've 726 00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:41,920 Speaker 4: got to get the gap. And I was like, do 727 00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:43,680 Speaker 4: I have to get the gap? And he's like, yeah, 728 00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:45,799 Speaker 4: your pearers appropriately named you. And that kind of stuck 729 00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:48,520 Speaker 4: with me. And so in high school, eleventh grade, I 730 00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:52,160 Speaker 4: became editor in chief of the school newspaper, the tideline. 731 00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:55,239 Speaker 4: My journalism teacher. He was over it. He was about 732 00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:58,120 Speaker 4: to graduate. He's like, listen, you're smart. You're editor in 733 00:37:58,200 --> 00:38:01,400 Speaker 4: chief of the paper. Grade the class. Everyone grades. No 734 00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:03,600 Speaker 4: way a fifteen year old. I was fifteen. I graduate 735 00:38:03,719 --> 00:38:06,000 Speaker 4: high school. I seventeen. I was fifteen and eleventh grade, 736 00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:09,120 Speaker 4: sixteen or seventeen senior year. A fifteen year old should 737 00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:11,200 Speaker 4: not be responsible for people's grades and how they go 738 00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:14,480 Speaker 4: to college. And I was signing articles, I was grading, 739 00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:16,840 Speaker 4: and I was in the system putting their grades in. 740 00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:19,239 Speaker 4: During that time in high school, I learned that I 741 00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:22,600 Speaker 4: loved writing. I love storytelling. I love journalism and media. 742 00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:24,880 Speaker 4: And I also learned I loved teaching. I was in 743 00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:28,720 Speaker 4: front of the classroom and editing stories and signing stories, 744 00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:32,000 Speaker 4: talking about pop culture. And so my undergraduate degree is 745 00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:35,520 Speaker 4: in broadcasting. It's in journalism. And so I actually wanted 746 00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:37,279 Speaker 4: to be on air, and then I realized I'm kind 747 00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:38,360 Speaker 4: of shy, believe. 748 00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:38,400 Speaker 3: It or not. 749 00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:39,880 Speaker 4: And so then I was like, Okay, I'll be a 750 00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:42,360 Speaker 4: TV producer. And so when I was working at ABC, 751 00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:45,520 Speaker 4: I was working in production. I was working in talent relations, 752 00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:47,600 Speaker 4: working with the stars that are coming on the show. 753 00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:51,080 Speaker 4: On ABC's Live Regis and Kelly, and I was helping 754 00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:55,160 Speaker 4: to produce segments and then, being very honest, I graduated 755 00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:58,360 Speaker 4: with honors, had a three point nine GPA, and I 756 00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:01,040 Speaker 4: was making minimum wage because typically when you start in 757 00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:04,279 Speaker 4: television production, you start as a production assistant. And at 758 00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:06,480 Speaker 4: that time, in two thousand and seven, I think it 759 00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:09,120 Speaker 4: was like seven dollars an hour, and seven dollars an 760 00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:12,680 Speaker 4: hour is not enough to live comfortably in New York City. 761 00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:14,719 Speaker 1: Not at all moving at that time, Like how were 762 00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:15,120 Speaker 1: you making? 763 00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:19,880 Speaker 4: I was sharing, I was renting a room with roommates, 764 00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:22,360 Speaker 4: so I don't know, I was paying like seven hundred 765 00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:25,120 Speaker 4: dollars a month. I had a car, I had school loans. 766 00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:27,480 Speaker 4: I have my master's, but I graduated with one hundred 767 00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:30,759 Speaker 4: and fifty thousand dollars in school loans. And so in 768 00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:33,439 Speaker 4: high school. Also, so in high school, I was editor 769 00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:35,919 Speaker 4: in chief of the newspaper. I worked at a law 770 00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:38,480 Speaker 4: firm filing papers, and I worked at the mall. So 771 00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:40,839 Speaker 4: in high school, I also had three jobs. My entire 772 00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:42,840 Speaker 4: college career had three jobs, and right now I have 773 00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:45,520 Speaker 4: three jobs. So that's like something else too. I'm always 774 00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:48,400 Speaker 4: working all the time, and so anyways, I couldn't afford 775 00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:51,120 Speaker 4: to live. I was struggling. I was babysitting, I was 776 00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:53,320 Speaker 4: a waitress. I was working at a country club in Newroschelle, 777 00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:55,880 Speaker 4: New York, Wika Gail country Club. And I was like, 778 00:39:56,200 --> 00:39:57,879 Speaker 4: I didn't go to college. You graduate with a three 779 00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:00,960 Speaker 4: point nine to be struggling. It's amazing at Disney ABC. 780 00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:02,920 Speaker 4: What a dream. This is your dream that you get 781 00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:05,160 Speaker 4: hired after your internship. But I touched based on one 782 00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:07,560 Speaker 4: of my mentors, and I was very honest and I said, 783 00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:10,520 Speaker 4: I am financially struggling. I only make minimum wage. And 784 00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:13,399 Speaker 4: he said, come over to CBS, come my assistant. You'll 785 00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:15,759 Speaker 4: make thirty thousand dollars a year. And girl, I thought 786 00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:17,560 Speaker 4: thirty thousand. I was like, oh my god, I'm going 787 00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:19,960 Speaker 4: to make thirty thousand dollars and I would have benefit 788 00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:23,480 Speaker 4: something I didn't have working in production. So I made 789 00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:28,200 Speaker 4: the pivot from Disney ABC to CBS Corporation. Actually I'm 790 00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:29,240 Speaker 4: a sales assistant. 791 00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:30,000 Speaker 3: A mentor. 792 00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:33,279 Speaker 1: Just to interrupt, which I know I'm gonna need to 793 00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:35,080 Speaker 1: because I know you, I'm gonna you know me. You 794 00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:38,879 Speaker 1: get in there, you got me pause, let's double click 795 00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:41,759 Speaker 1: on that. So the mentor because that is pivotal, and 796 00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:43,920 Speaker 1: I hope people are understanding that it was a relationship. 797 00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:47,319 Speaker 1: You're really good at like building these relationships. Yes, where 798 00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:50,160 Speaker 1: did you Where did you meet that mentor? And that's yeah, 799 00:40:50,719 --> 00:40:51,520 Speaker 1: how did that help you? 800 00:40:52,280 --> 00:40:55,879 Speaker 4: Sou senior year of college, Iona University, where I'm happy 801 00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:58,239 Speaker 4: to serve on the board, Go Gills. Iona had to 802 00:40:58,360 --> 00:41:01,960 Speaker 4: meet a career mentor night and so they had different 803 00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:04,960 Speaker 4: individuals alumni who are working in the industry, and I 804 00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:07,480 Speaker 4: went above and beyond that. I went to my career 805 00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:10,279 Speaker 4: services office and I said, please give me a list 806 00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:13,680 Speaker 4: of every single alumni who work in entertainment, who work 807 00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:16,360 Speaker 4: in television, who work in film, who work in sports, 808 00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:19,040 Speaker 4: and it was thousands of people. I emailed each and 809 00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:19,720 Speaker 4: every person. 810 00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:24,560 Speaker 1: Aba, fam, We're going to take a quick break, pay 811 00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:26,399 Speaker 1: some bills, and we'll be right back. 812 00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:33,480 Speaker 4: Really yes. And so one of the individuals who I 813 00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:36,239 Speaker 4: emailed was at the career mentor event and he's like, 814 00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:38,320 Speaker 4: let's meet in person. I'm going to actually be on 815 00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:41,360 Speaker 4: campus and so I met him. His name is Martin 816 00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:45,880 Speaker 4: Daily and he's from the Bronx and he was executive 817 00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:49,040 Speaker 4: vice president of network Sales at CBS, and so that's 818 00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:51,080 Speaker 4: who I called, and I was just very honest and said, 819 00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:54,319 Speaker 4: I'm financially struggling. I'm at Disney ABC. He said, come 820 00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:57,040 Speaker 4: over be my assistant, and so I went over as 821 00:41:57,080 --> 00:42:00,680 Speaker 4: a sales assistant. I have no desire to work in sales. 822 00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:04,440 Speaker 4: I don't like numbers. I'm a storyteller. I was literally 823 00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:07,560 Speaker 4: entering numbers and Excel all day long, praying to God 824 00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:09,560 Speaker 4: to get me out of it. And so again he 825 00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:11,360 Speaker 4: was my mentor and he was my boss, and he 826 00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:14,480 Speaker 4: said listen. Simultaneously, I was in college getting my masters 827 00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:16,960 Speaker 4: in sports at Entertainment pr because I realized the TV 828 00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:19,360 Speaker 4: production thing isn't going to work out. And it's interesting 829 00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:21,600 Speaker 4: because those I interned with, those who I was a 830 00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:24,880 Speaker 4: production assistant with, they are all executive producers. Now I 831 00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:27,360 Speaker 4: have friends with executive producers at Tamern Hall. I have 832 00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:30,560 Speaker 4: friends who all I worked with executive producers at Conde 833 00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:34,520 Speaker 4: Nass GQ, and so they most of them their parents 834 00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:38,279 Speaker 4: helped them out financially or they had a little bit 835 00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:41,520 Speaker 4: of a cushion and help to live off of that 836 00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:43,520 Speaker 4: seven dollars an hour, which wasn't the case for me. 837 00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:46,120 Speaker 4: So while I was at CBS. My mentor said, Hey, 838 00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:48,720 Speaker 4: just start meeting people. Tell them you're in grad school. 839 00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:52,200 Speaker 4: Start volunteering with different people at CBS. And I'm like, 840 00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:55,640 Speaker 4: what okay, And so my goal was I went on 841 00:42:55,880 --> 00:43:01,280 Speaker 4: a spree of meeting senior executives VPR above SVP EVP, 842 00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:04,160 Speaker 4: and so my goal was each person you meet with, 843 00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:07,320 Speaker 4: impress them, google them, talk about them, talk about the 844 00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:09,680 Speaker 4: career trajectory, how like, oh my gosh, she does these 845 00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:12,279 Speaker 4: amazing things. Tell me about yourself. I learned being from 846 00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:15,960 Speaker 4: LA that everyone likes talking about themselves. Everyone wants an 847 00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:17,480 Speaker 4: opportunity to feel like a celebrity. 848 00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:19,200 Speaker 1: It was like, you put it on the podcast because 849 00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:21,680 Speaker 1: that's literally what I'm like, Wow, not too much on 850 00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:22,960 Speaker 1: what I do the secret sauce. 851 00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:23,759 Speaker 3: Yeah. 852 00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:27,440 Speaker 4: Yeah. Everyone likes the opportunity a platform to talk about themselves. 853 00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:29,520 Speaker 4: So when I was at CBS, I went on a 854 00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:32,160 Speaker 4: road show. It was a domino effect. Everyone I met 855 00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:35,520 Speaker 4: with was really impressed. Eventually I met with the EVP 856 00:43:35,760 --> 00:43:38,759 Speaker 4: Chief Communications officer at CBS and the head of HR 857 00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:40,680 Speaker 4: who I met with prior said I'm gonna warn you. 858 00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:45,200 Speaker 4: Bill Schwartz has a reputation of being no nonsense. People 859 00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:47,640 Speaker 4: are terrified of him. There's books written about him, even 860 00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:50,320 Speaker 4: a movie, and so she's like, come correct when you 861 00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:53,040 Speaker 4: meet with him? And I was like, okay, how would 862 00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:53,839 Speaker 4: you get a meeting with him? 863 00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:54,440 Speaker 3: You just email this. 864 00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:57,520 Speaker 4: I just kept I kept no, I got a referral. 865 00:43:57,840 --> 00:44:02,120 Speaker 4: So as I started meeting with VP SVP, EVP, eventually 866 00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:05,160 Speaker 4: every person it was a ripple effect. Every person was like, Hey, 867 00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:08,359 Speaker 4: I just met this young lady, got Brielle Simpson at 868 00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:11,279 Speaker 4: the time. She's amazing, she's ambitious, she's in graduate school 869 00:44:11,320 --> 00:44:13,400 Speaker 4: to do PR. She's a sales assistant right now. She 870 00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:15,200 Speaker 4: doesn't want to be a sales assistant. Can you just 871 00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:17,480 Speaker 4: meet with her? And I only met with these people 872 00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:20,279 Speaker 4: for five to ten minutes because very busy people are 873 00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:22,160 Speaker 4: not they don't have a bunch of time. But in 874 00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:24,759 Speaker 4: that ten minutes, I talked about how amazing their career was. 875 00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:27,319 Speaker 4: I kissed up to them a little bit, and then 876 00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:29,839 Speaker 4: they're like, Okay, here's somebody else I want you to meet. 877 00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:32,960 Speaker 4: My goal and attention of every meeting I had was 878 00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:35,160 Speaker 4: for them to introduce me to someone else senior. So 879 00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:39,040 Speaker 4: now I'm just making a network of senior executives within 880 00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:42,160 Speaker 4: the company. Eventually I was referred to speak to the 881 00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:45,759 Speaker 4: head of chard, chief human resources officer, who said, what 882 00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:48,400 Speaker 4: do you want to do. You're a sales assistant. I 883 00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:50,880 Speaker 4: was twenty one at the time, because I graduated college 884 00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:54,160 Speaker 4: at twenty years old. I was twenty one and I said, 885 00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:56,279 Speaker 4: I'm in school getting my master's in PR. I want 886 00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:58,360 Speaker 4: to do PR. She said, okay, I'm going to introduce 887 00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:00,160 Speaker 4: you to Gil Schwartz. So the head of hl I 888 00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:03,399 Speaker 4: sent an email to the chief communications officer and said, Hey, 889 00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:06,759 Speaker 4: there's this young lady. She's super ambitious. I want you 890 00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:08,960 Speaker 4: to meet her. I know you don't have anything open 891 00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:11,719 Speaker 4: on your team, go be with her. So talk about 892 00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:14,560 Speaker 4: being emotionally intelligent and reading the room. I came in 893 00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:17,960 Speaker 4: my best suit. I was suited and booted, pinstriped suited, 894 00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:20,680 Speaker 4: and I had my portfolio. I had my resume, I 895 00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:23,240 Speaker 4: had writing samples from stuff I worked on in grad school. 896 00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:25,919 Speaker 4: And it was a few days after Michael Jackson died 897 00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:29,880 Speaker 4: and Gil Schwartz he had a lot of guitars in 898 00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:31,759 Speaker 4: his office. So I walked in and I said, Hi, 899 00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:35,400 Speaker 4: I'm Gabrielle. I'm so excited to meet you, and I 900 00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:37,239 Speaker 4: have my resume here. I know you're so busy. I 901 00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:39,239 Speaker 4: won't take up too much of your time. And he says, 902 00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:42,240 Speaker 4: sit down. He said, do you know Michael Jackson was murdered? 903 00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:44,320 Speaker 4: And it was just a few days later, and I 904 00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:46,480 Speaker 4: was like, I don't think Michael Jackson was murdered. I 905 00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:48,799 Speaker 4: think he died and something. He was like, it's going 906 00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:50,640 Speaker 4: to come out that Michael Jackson was murdered and someone's 907 00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:52,200 Speaker 4: going to go to jailbur and I was like, okay. 908 00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:55,520 Speaker 4: So he picks up his guitar. He starts playing like 909 00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:58,399 Speaker 4: human Nature and then I just started buying it out 910 00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:00,879 Speaker 4: a little bit, trying to hold a note. Guy why 911 00:46:01,040 --> 00:46:04,800 Speaker 4: white guy, Gil Schwartz, Jewish Man Okay? And we're like, 912 00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:07,440 Speaker 4: tell me, it's just young man nature. Why why right? 913 00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:09,719 Speaker 4: And so we're just jamming out and then at the 914 00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:11,400 Speaker 4: end of it, he's like, you want a job, right, 915 00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:13,480 Speaker 4: And I was like I would love a job. He's like, okay, done, 916 00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:14,800 Speaker 4: And I said, do you want to look at my resume? 917 00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:16,319 Speaker 4: Do you want to look at my portfolio? He said, 918 00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:18,400 Speaker 4: are you smart? I said yes. He said will you 919 00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:20,359 Speaker 4: work hard? I said yes. He's like, okay, I'll find 920 00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:21,600 Speaker 4: a job. For you. I'll make a job for you. 921 00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:25,680 Speaker 4: And that's how I came to the PR team at 922 00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:27,879 Speaker 4: CBS and I was there for seven years. We've done 923 00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:31,000 Speaker 4: everything from the Super Bowls, the Grammys, two and a 924 00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:33,440 Speaker 4: half men, How I met your mother, sent of interests 925 00:46:33,440 --> 00:46:38,040 Speaker 4: with Tarajip Hitson sixty minutes. So that like being able 926 00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:40,239 Speaker 4: to just read the room and vibe out with this guy. 927 00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:42,560 Speaker 4: And we later found out that Conrad Burray went to 928 00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:47,080 Speaker 4: jail for murdering Michael Jackson, which at the time, he 929 00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:50,120 Speaker 4: was just yeah, careful. 930 00:46:49,840 --> 00:46:53,600 Speaker 1: Because my like quasi adhd brain undiagnosed, I might go 931 00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:55,399 Speaker 1: down that little that little path. 932 00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:57,400 Speaker 4: But let's just tell that that was the thing, right. 933 00:46:57,560 --> 00:47:00,120 Speaker 1: But Gale or Bill Gail Gil. 934 00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:03,040 Speaker 4: Shorts, he passed away a few years ago. He's actually 935 00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:08,279 Speaker 4: from Westchester. He's from New Rochelle named skill Gil Schwartz. Yeah, 936 00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:10,680 Speaker 4: so a job was creative for me and that's how 937 00:47:10,760 --> 00:47:14,920 Speaker 4: I finally got my pivot into CBS PR team and 938 00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:17,759 Speaker 4: I was there for seven years. And then during that time, 939 00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:20,480 Speaker 4: like just being able to take advantage of opportunities. There 940 00:47:20,560 --> 00:47:23,120 Speaker 4: was a lot of conversation about diversity, equity and inclusion, 941 00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:25,280 Speaker 4: and Gil called me in his office one day. I said, Gabby, 942 00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:28,000 Speaker 4: you're black. I said yes. He said, people keep asking 943 00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:30,719 Speaker 4: about diversity and stuff. You care about that, right, I said, yes, Skill, 944 00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:32,759 Speaker 4: I care very much. He said, come up with a 945 00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:36,040 Speaker 4: deiicom strategy and figure it out. Give us some press 946 00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:38,479 Speaker 4: talk about how we care about diversity and talk about 947 00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:41,920 Speaker 4: our diverse staff and our diverse talent. And I was like, okay, 948 00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:45,600 Speaker 4: So I did that. Led Diversity Communications, came up with 949 00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:48,000 Speaker 4: a DEI plan, got a ton of pr hits for 950 00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:54,239 Speaker 4: the chief diversity officer who's now by mentor you're retired, right, Oh, yeah, 951 00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:57,319 Speaker 4: so we need to be talking. We must be talking 952 00:47:57,560 --> 00:48:01,399 Speaker 4: two thousand and nine, twenty ten, a long time ago. 953 00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:04,640 Speaker 4: And then that caught the eye of Comcast. 954 00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:07,920 Speaker 1: The same age, because because. 955 00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:10,000 Speaker 4: I graduated college so early, we're the same age. I'm 956 00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:12,880 Speaker 4: only like a month older than you, I know, But like, how. 957 00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:15,200 Speaker 1: But I was like figuring my shit out in two 958 00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:17,880 Speaker 1: thousand and nine, trying to get a job after college. Meanwhile, 959 00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:21,080 Speaker 1: you're just like in the c suite, you know, chatting 960 00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:23,960 Speaker 1: with the head of comms for a CBS. 961 00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:29,960 Speaker 4: Okay, Gabriel, I tried. I tried, and it worked out, 962 00:48:30,200 --> 00:48:33,399 Speaker 4: and so comcasts. NBC said hey, we need some diversity help. 963 00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:35,880 Speaker 4: Can you come over and lead our diversity comms? So 964 00:48:35,960 --> 00:48:38,280 Speaker 4: then I left, went right there to thirty rock. 965 00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:40,040 Speaker 1: On the network. So you quit? 966 00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:41,279 Speaker 4: Yep, yep, I quit? 967 00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:42,840 Speaker 1: Okay, how did that go? 968 00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:45,400 Speaker 4: It was interesting because I went to my boss at 969 00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:47,600 Speaker 4: the time and I said, hey, NBC reached out to me. 970 00:48:47,920 --> 00:48:51,040 Speaker 4: They slid in my DMS on LinkedIn and they have 971 00:48:51,160 --> 00:48:55,000 Speaker 4: an opportunity to be a director of Diversity Communications dual 972 00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:58,200 Speaker 4: report into their chief of Comms and their chief diversity officer. 973 00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:00,960 Speaker 4: And I think it's a great opportunity at Disney ABC. 974 00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:04,320 Speaker 4: I've worked at CBS and now I can work at NBC. 975 00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:07,160 Speaker 4: And I was like twenty six years old at the time, 976 00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:09,719 Speaker 4: and my boss said, don't do it. You're not going 977 00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:11,920 Speaker 4: to like it over there. Stay here. What do we 978 00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:13,960 Speaker 4: need to do to make you stay? And I said, 979 00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:15,680 Speaker 4: I don't even think. I think it's more about the 980 00:49:15,800 --> 00:49:18,239 Speaker 4: opportunity to do something different. I've been here for seven 981 00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:20,720 Speaker 4: years and I think I just want to do something different. 982 00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:24,200 Speaker 4: And he said, listen, one day you will have my job. 983 00:49:24,680 --> 00:49:26,319 Speaker 4: Just stay here. It's going to take you twenty years. 984 00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:28,759 Speaker 4: We'll have my job. One day and I was young. 985 00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:30,560 Speaker 4: I was like, I would have wait twenty years, Like 986 00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:32,920 Speaker 4: I just would have That's not would've tried to do. 987 00:49:33,600 --> 00:49:36,200 Speaker 4: And so we kept in contact. I left. I went 988 00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:38,400 Speaker 4: over to NBC, which is how I know Chris Nelson. 989 00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:41,920 Speaker 4: Christopher Nelson worked at NBC with me, so that's how 990 00:49:42,000 --> 00:49:44,400 Speaker 4: we met. And then I was there for three years. 991 00:49:44,640 --> 00:49:46,759 Speaker 4: I did some other things after that. After that, I 992 00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:51,440 Speaker 4: went to IPG FCB Global, which is a marketing advertising agency. 993 00:49:51,560 --> 00:49:54,480 Speaker 4: I reported into the Chief of comm Chief marketing Officer. 994 00:49:54,920 --> 00:49:59,200 Speaker 4: It was amazing. I was twenty seven, twenty eight thirty 995 00:49:59,239 --> 00:50:01,920 Speaker 4: by the time I got there, and I was traveling 996 00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:02,760 Speaker 4: the world. 997 00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:07,120 Speaker 1: All right, ba, fam, Can we just take a moment 998 00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:10,120 Speaker 1: to appreciate the brilliance that we just heard. Thank you 999 00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:13,320 Speaker 1: again to Christina and Gabrielle. They really gave us the 1000 00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:16,320 Speaker 1: blueprint for paving our own path and not waiting for 1001 00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:19,319 Speaker 1: anyone else's permission, which is the inspiration that I think 1002 00:50:19,360 --> 00:50:21,759 Speaker 1: we really need right now. And if you got nothing 1003 00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:23,920 Speaker 1: else from today's episode, I just hope that you heard this. 1004 00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:27,640 Speaker 1: You don't need permission to build your own table, and 1005 00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:31,120 Speaker 1: you don't need to sell your struggle to prove you belong. 1006 00:50:31,360 --> 00:50:34,520 Speaker 1: You absolutely can bet on yourself. I don't care what 1007 00:50:34,600 --> 00:50:36,720 Speaker 1: people think about you, whether they think that you're crazy 1008 00:50:36,960 --> 00:50:40,359 Speaker 1: or irresponsible, or you know, doing things that don't make 1009 00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:43,080 Speaker 1: sense to them. It's none of their business. As Tabatha 1010 00:50:43,120 --> 00:50:46,120 Speaker 1: Brown would say, it's whether you're thinking about a career pivot, 1011 00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:48,919 Speaker 1: you're trying to figure out how to build wealth while 1012 00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:51,960 Speaker 1: actually enjoying your life, or you just need a reminder 1013 00:50:52,040 --> 00:50:54,920 Speaker 1: that your story is yours to tell on your terms. 1014 00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:59,640 Speaker 1: This episode was for you. Be a fam all right. 1015 00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:02,239 Speaker 1: Resonated with you. Please do me a favor, Share it 1016 00:51:02,320 --> 00:51:04,880 Speaker 1: with someone who needs to hear it. Tag Brown Ambition 1017 00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:07,440 Speaker 1: on social media, leave us a review, let us know 1018 00:51:07,520 --> 00:51:10,719 Speaker 1: which moment really hit home for you. I love hearing 1019 00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:14,200 Speaker 1: from you always, Bafam and I have to say happy 1020 00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:16,600 Speaker 1: happy holidays that are coming. Next week's going to be 1021 00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:19,480 Speaker 1: a normal one for Brown Ambition. We're going to be 1022 00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:22,440 Speaker 1: on the air. I'll see you on Friday this Friday 1023 00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:24,560 Speaker 1: for Baq and A. I'll see you Sunday for the 1024 00:51:24,680 --> 00:51:27,280 Speaker 1: Washday wou saw. Next week, I've got a special episode 1025 00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:32,240 Speaker 1: of Brown Ambition Nerd Whallet crossover episode on the Wednesday 1026 00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:34,400 Speaker 1: before Thanksgiving and then we'll have a little bit of 1027 00:51:34,440 --> 00:51:38,800 Speaker 1: a throwback for that following weekend with Baqa and Washday 1028 00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:41,200 Speaker 1: wou Saws. Just trying to be sure that I'm there 1029 00:51:41,280 --> 00:51:44,080 Speaker 1: for y'all through this holiday season. If there's anything that 1030 00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:46,600 Speaker 1: you want to hear or you have questions for the show, 1031 00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:49,000 Speaker 1: don't hesitate to reach out. You can hit me up 1032 00:51:49,040 --> 00:51:52,680 Speaker 1: Brown Ambition Podcast at gmail dot com or find me 1033 00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:56,600 Speaker 1: on ig at Brown Ambition Podcast and just slide into 1034 00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:59,640 Speaker 1: my DMS. I can't wait to hear from y'all. All right, 1035 00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:08,640 Speaker 1: take Fam, bye, Hey, ba Fam. Let's be real for 1036 00:52:08,719 --> 00:52:10,399 Speaker 1: a second, and y'all know I keep it a book. 1037 00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:13,720 Speaker 1: The job market has been brutal, now not brutal trash, 1038 00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:17,600 Speaker 1: especially for women of color. Over three hundred thousand of 1039 00:52:17,680 --> 00:52:20,719 Speaker 1: us have disappeared from the workforce this year alone, and 1040 00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:25,920 Speaker 1: not by choice, but because of layoffs, disappearing DEI programs, 1041 00:52:26,120 --> 00:52:29,560 Speaker 1: and stagnant wages that keep cutting us out of opportunity. 1042 00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:33,399 Speaker 1: Our unemployment rate has jumped to over seven percent while 1043 00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:36,000 Speaker 1: our pay gap continues to widen. I know all of 1044 00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:38,239 Speaker 1: that sounds dire, but here's what I want y'all to know. 1045 00:52:38,600 --> 00:52:40,800 Speaker 1: You do not have to wait for the system to 1046 00:52:40,960 --> 00:52:44,399 Speaker 1: save you. That's exactly why I created the Mandy money 1047 00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:48,000 Speaker 1: Makers Group coaching community. It is a coaching community that 1048 00:52:48,120 --> 00:52:51,640 Speaker 1: is built for us by us. Inside the community, we're 1049 00:52:51,719 --> 00:52:54,160 Speaker 1: not just talking about how to negotiate or to how 1050 00:52:54,200 --> 00:52:56,800 Speaker 1: to get the job that you want. It's about finding 1051 00:52:57,120 --> 00:53:01,040 Speaker 1: purpose in your career. It's about finding community and others, 1052 00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:05,919 Speaker 1: feeling seen, feeling heard, and also having a sounding board 1053 00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:08,879 Speaker 1: and a mirror to reflect your own magic, your own 1054 00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:13,000 Speaker 1: sparkle right back to yourself. In this community, you'll get 1055 00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:15,640 Speaker 1: group coaching led by me, but you also get peer 1056 00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:19,480 Speaker 1: to peer accountability with proven tools and resources that can 1057 00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:22,760 Speaker 1: help you do what we have always done since rise. 1058 00:53:23,520 --> 00:53:26,520 Speaker 1: Even when the odds are stacked against us, despite all 1059 00:53:26,600 --> 00:53:30,880 Speaker 1: the challenges, we will rise. 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