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All thanks to Live Nation. 10 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 2: These are the radio blogs on the Fread Show, So 11 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 2: it's like we're running in our diaries, except we say 12 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 2: them a loud We call them blogs. 13 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:38,080 Speaker 1: Paulina, Yes go, thank you so much, dear blog. I've 14 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 1: been out of. 15 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 3: The babysitting game for a minute. Okay, I used to 16 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 3: be a babysitter nanny. If you will, and I will, 17 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:47,920 Speaker 3: you will, I will because I'm much because these girls 18 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 3: are they make money. 19 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 1: Honey. Okay, I know what's the set your one rate 20 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:52,279 Speaker 1: kind of thing. 21 00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:54,480 Speaker 3: I want to be clear, and you should absolutely be 22 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:56,640 Speaker 3: paid what you are owed and what you deserve. 23 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 1: And babysitting in childcare is no joke. 24 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 3: That is a job and it's a difficult job and 25 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 3: for us, like I do know Kyleen needs to do 26 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:04,319 Speaker 3: it too, like it was such a fun job like 27 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:05,959 Speaker 3: when you're younger, especially in college. 28 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:09,520 Speaker 1: And I'm trying to expand my village right now. 29 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:11,280 Speaker 3: So I have my mother in law and I have 30 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:13,880 Speaker 3: my mother, and then my sister in law is helping. 31 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:15,679 Speaker 3: But next year things are going to change for her, 32 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 3: my sister in law, so she'll be out of the 33 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:20,319 Speaker 3: picture completely for a little bit. And then my mother 34 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 3: in law works full time, so does my mom, and 35 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:24,839 Speaker 3: everyone's got these opposite schedules. And I am so grateful 36 00:01:24,880 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 3: and blessed that we've gotten this far eighteen months in 37 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 3: where like I was able to really just lean on everybody, 38 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:31,280 Speaker 3: and that is a blessing. 39 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 1: I don't take it for granted for a second. 40 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 3: And I what I've been doing though, is getting like 41 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 3: little part time like babysitters, mostly people that I know. 42 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 3: So like if you had like a niece or something, 43 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 3: Freda or Kaylen or whatever, and then you'd be like, oh, 44 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 3: I'm sure, yeah, and she's live in our states and 45 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:49,639 Speaker 3: I'm just trying a babysit gig, so you plus probably 46 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 3: wants tay bucks an hour. 47 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 1: And you know what, my girl deserves that. But at 48 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 1: the same time, we got to be a little realistic. 49 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:58,760 Speaker 3: Okay, can I please read to you what a sitter 50 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 3: of tell me that she charges? 51 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: And I don't think it's crazy. 52 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:03,080 Speaker 2: How old is this person? 53 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 1: I want to say, maybe like twenty two to twenty. 54 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 2: Three, twenty three years. Okay, it's just like a side 55 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:08,360 Speaker 2: job for this person. 56 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:10,640 Speaker 3: This is a side job. I believe she's still in 57 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:14,079 Speaker 3: school one kid for one kid, and I'm then that 58 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 3: doesn't matter. And I used to hate this as a sitter, 59 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 3: Like I'm upstairs in the most part, like doing other 60 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 3: things like working and other stuff. So like I'm in 61 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 3: the building, but I need someone to like watch GGI 62 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:25,800 Speaker 3: play with her, feed her lunch because I can't do both, 63 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:27,000 Speaker 3: and then like be on a phone call or a 64 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 3: zoom or like, you know, do you like typing emails? 65 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:31,680 Speaker 3: Like I can't do that with a two year old 66 00:02:32,120 --> 00:02:34,239 Speaker 3: or almost two year old, Like it's really difficult, you know, 67 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:36,520 Speaker 3: when they're pulling your computer or they're on your leg screaming, 68 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 3: like it's really hard, and that's really embarrassing too when 69 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 3: you're on a call. So I'm like I and honestly too, 70 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:42,959 Speaker 3: Like she has more fun with these sitters because they're 71 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 3: younger and they're fun. They want to like play. I 72 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 3: want to play too, but like we gig play all day. 73 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 3: So like it's fun when a new face comes and 74 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:50,360 Speaker 3: she gets really excited. I've got two sitters that are 75 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:52,679 Speaker 3: like on rotation. Their neighbors. They live like a couple 76 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 3: of houses down, very convenient neighbors are Also, these girls 77 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:57,959 Speaker 3: are also in high school, so they've got school, which 78 00:02:57,960 --> 00:03:00,399 Speaker 3: is way more important than me. And then they've got 79 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 3: extra currire relativities. They've got the sports and this. Okay, 80 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:06,640 Speaker 3: so I found this girl and she's really sweet and 81 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 3: I love her. But I just don't know if I'm 82 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:09,640 Speaker 3: crazy or if I'm like missing something here. 83 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: Okay, she asked, you. 84 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 3: Know, hey, you're doing really well. Blah blah blah. She 85 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 3: goes for ongoing care. So I guess that means like 86 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 3: it's not like a we're not doing a set schedule. 87 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 3: It's more ongoing, if you will. Like there's no like 88 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 3: full time, part time position. It's like maybe like ten 89 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 3: hours in aney everything. Yeah, okay, my starting rate is 90 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 3: thirty dollars an hour. 91 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:30,959 Speaker 1: Okay, I've heard of this. 92 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 3: This isn't crazy, and I baby said before even fom 93 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 3: like celebrity kids like I've baby said Dave gir Old 94 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 3: kid like I've done all this. Yeah, yeah, yes, yeah, 95 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 3: I funny was there was a whole thing. 96 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 1: Yeah no, it's a really cool day. It was a 97 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:41,720 Speaker 1: really cool day. 98 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 2: Okay, how much does she want? Let's go. We got 99 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 2: to dial it in here. 100 00:03:45,440 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 3: This an hour is is I'm not gonna say it's 101 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:49,760 Speaker 3: crazy today because it's not like back then I charged fifteen. 102 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be so real. This is also like seven 103 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 1: years old, was. 104 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:53,119 Speaker 2: Ten years ago? 105 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 1: Seven ten years ago? Okay, so we doubled the price. 106 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 1: Not terrible. I'm not massed. 107 00:03:57,520 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 2: So she wants she's twenty something years old, she wants 108 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 2: thirty by an hour. 109 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 3: There are forty year olds that I won't make thirty 110 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 3: dollars an hour. So I just feel like that's not 111 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 3: that age matters. But that's that's a lot. But hey 112 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 3: for great care, like I will pay that, and I 113 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 3: know a lot of parents will agree with that, but 114 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 3: it's a great sitter. 115 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 1: You trust her. 116 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 3: I will pay my arm legg and kidney like for 117 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:16,840 Speaker 3: a great sitter that my daughter loves not crazy. I'm 118 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 3: a little like whoa but like not crazy. Okay, this 119 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:21,479 Speaker 3: is the part of lost me. And then she charges 120 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:24,919 Speaker 3: a one hour fee to cover prep and travel time 121 00:04:25,080 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 3: each day. 122 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:30,960 Speaker 2: Prep she prepares? She like prep like why are we 123 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:33,719 Speaker 2: wacxing a vaccine for this? Like? What are we? Like? Prep? Like? 124 00:04:33,839 --> 00:04:34,440 Speaker 1: Is she now? 125 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:38,479 Speaker 2: Hold on? Is she like teaching? Is there like is 126 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:40,400 Speaker 2: there like a little program for the day? Like are 127 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:42,600 Speaker 2: we doing our craps? And then she goes, no, I'm 128 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 2: being honest, like, wow, what are we what are we 129 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 2: prepping for? And I guess I figured that traffic time 130 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 2: or commute was just sort of rolled into the thirty 131 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 2: bucks an hour, which I think is I don't I 132 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 2: think for an adult. I think that's probably about right. 133 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 2: I think that's what my sister pays. Yeah, and it's 134 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 2: not for twenty something because it's a second job, and 135 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 2: that you're talking about an adult now, you're not talking 136 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:08,600 Speaker 2: about a teenager, so the expectations higher. 137 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:11,480 Speaker 3: And it depends to like where you live, like what 138 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:14,039 Speaker 3: city or like what state you like? The prices do 139 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:16,600 Speaker 3: vary thirty dollars and we live in Chicago. 140 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 1: I'm not mad at that. That's not. I'm not whatever, 141 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:21,800 Speaker 1: I can do that. But I looked at this though, 142 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:22,560 Speaker 1: and was like, WHOA. 143 00:05:22,600 --> 00:05:24,600 Speaker 3: So I to prep and then to drive, and then 144 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 3: she says, I've been working with this mythology with families 145 00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:29,200 Speaker 3: who live more than three miles away. 146 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:29,799 Speaker 2: Mythology. 147 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:33,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, mythology. I'm like, methodology. Okay, so she's into mythology. 148 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 4: Now we're doing the same. But what what are we 149 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 4: teaching that? What sort of weird amivities are we into? 150 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 3: She is she's worth thirty dollars and i'll pay them 151 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 3: telling I'll give you my kidney for a good sitter 152 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 3: or someone that can speak to me. 153 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 2: She's going to teach your kid about zeus. I think 154 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:51,000 Speaker 2: she I think you've met methodology, right. 155 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:53,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, my bad? Yeah, okay, anyway, so okay, put three 156 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:54,680 Speaker 1: miles away. So I have a problem with that. 157 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 2: Wait, so you're paying an hour for commutants three hours 158 00:05:58,000 --> 00:05:59,160 Speaker 2: or three miles, So. 159 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:01,599 Speaker 1: If you're more than three away, she'll charge you the feet. 160 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:03,839 Speaker 1: We have a radius even, So that's what I'm saying. 161 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 1: I walk more than that a day. 162 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 3: So I used to drive across like one time for 163 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:10,560 Speaker 3: a baby, same job. I drove two hours when I 164 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 3: live in Los Angeles cause for it to go to 165 00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:13,480 Speaker 3: like Orange County, we're. 166 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:16,000 Speaker 2: Talking about an hour and more in traffic, then maybe 167 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 2: maybe or like Maybee, like we're. 168 00:06:19,839 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 3: In the same city unless you live like two hours away, 169 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 3: then tell me this is not going to work, right, 170 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 3: I'm not, We're not doing it. 171 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 2: Thirty bucks an hour doesn't surprise me. Actually the commute 172 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:30,200 Speaker 2: time that you're paying for that kind of surprises me. 173 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 3: And I'm just I'm going through the text messages here. 174 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:35,680 Speaker 3: People are in shock, just as I am, because I'm confused. 175 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:37,520 Speaker 1: With the prep like exactly what are you prepping? You're 176 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:39,800 Speaker 1: cover of resort fee like at a hotel, Like I 177 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 1: don't really know what I'm paying for? 178 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:43,800 Speaker 2: Roll it in man like don't don't nickel and dime me, 179 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:45,719 Speaker 2: Like I hate that, And I got theyve gotten rid 180 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 2: of a lot of resort fees too, cause for that reason, 181 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:48,600 Speaker 2: cause you show up and you're like it' said two 182 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:49,360 Speaker 2: hundred bucks a night. 183 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 1: For the rooming the resort. 184 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:52,960 Speaker 2: Now it is seven hundred dollars I check out. I'm like, wait, 185 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 2: what was all this all? Well? You know, did you 186 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 2: want to use like did you want to breathe? Like 187 00:06:57,920 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 2: do you want to use the hallways? Did you oh 188 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 2: you want to you didn't want to climb through the window? Well, 189 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 2: then sorry, then you're gonna have to pay it again 190 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 2: four feet. A lot of people, A lot of people, Uh, 191 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:10,960 Speaker 2: forty five bucks a day, thirty dollars an hour is crazy. 192 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:13,560 Speaker 2: People are saying they want to quit their job now 193 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 2: twenty bucks an hour? Look at me? Yeah, A lot 194 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:20,080 Speaker 2: of people think it's it's a little bit high. What 195 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 2: is prep and drive charge? Babys hitting three miles thirty buck? Yeah? Again, 196 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:27,240 Speaker 2: if you insisted on it, someone who lived, you know, 197 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 2: twenty miles away and was gonna have sit in traffic 198 00:07:29,960 --> 00:07:31,440 Speaker 2: for an hour and a half full time is money 199 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 2: and absolutely and so you know that costs and gas 200 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 2: is expensive. I guess I would get that. But then 201 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 2: you know, I think thirty bucks is high. 202 00:07:38,920 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 1: Is on the high side, on the high side it is, 203 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:41,280 Speaker 1: so then. 204 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:43,920 Speaker 2: You're already charging a premium. Yes, so I don't know. 205 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:46,520 Speaker 2: If you insist on that, then maybe you charge thirty 206 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 2: five an hour or something, and then it's looped in 207 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 2: because I get what am I getting? What is it? 208 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 2: Prep Are you showing up with? Like again, are you 209 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 2: showing up with a with a program or are we 210 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:56,240 Speaker 2: doing arch and crafts? So are you showing up with 211 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 2: little clay? Are we doing ACKs? Do you bring your 212 00:07:58,080 --> 00:08:00,120 Speaker 2: own rag? Like? Or what are we doing here? And 213 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 2: then and then you have to pay for her food too. 214 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 3: She didn't say that, but I always do as somebody 215 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:06,560 Speaker 3: who like was a sitter, and then I hire sitters. 216 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 3: I will pay for lunch because I I'll order lunch 217 00:08:08,720 --> 00:08:10,280 Speaker 3: sometimes for the baby and me, and I'll be like, well, 218 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:11,480 Speaker 3: what would you like, I'll get them what. 219 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:13,080 Speaker 2: That would be messed up if you ate in front 220 00:08:13,080 --> 00:08:13,320 Speaker 2: of her. 221 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 1: No, that's really rude. Eve. 222 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:18,240 Speaker 3: I'll leave alive food like I'll always get Like your 223 00:08:18,240 --> 00:08:20,640 Speaker 3: sister Amy, she does it too. I mean, Amanda, I'm 224 00:08:20,760 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 3: losing it today. Amanda orders food ordered food for them, right, 225 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 3: Yeah you should. I feed your babysitters, Yeah, feed your sitters. 226 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 1: But it's expensive. 227 00:08:28,040 --> 00:08:29,960 Speaker 2: I mean, like you know, so like this weekend, I'm 228 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 2: gonna be there and on Saturday, she's hiring a babysitter. 229 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:34,960 Speaker 2: And I believe this woman works at the school where 230 00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 2: my sister is a counselor, and so she's like a teacher, 231 00:08:37,800 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 2: so she's legitimate, but couline and may know her, so 232 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:44,000 Speaker 2: they there's like a comfort whatever. I think she's thirty 233 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 2: bucks an hour, and so if we go out for 234 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:48,200 Speaker 2: three hours or four hours, you can add one hundred 235 00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 2: and twenty bucks to whatever we did exactly. So you know, 236 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:54,160 Speaker 2: you go have a nice dinner, however much that costs. 237 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:57,080 Speaker 2: You go someplace real classy like Applebee's or something. You know, 238 00:08:57,080 --> 00:08:59,280 Speaker 2: you get three people, we all get the three for 239 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:00,360 Speaker 2: me that's. 240 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:02,959 Speaker 1: Kids, though usually people will charge more for multiple kids. 241 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:05,440 Speaker 1: So thirty dollars for two kids is a nicety. 242 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:09,120 Speaker 2: But that's a racket because the native is already asleep. 243 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:12,079 Speaker 2: But my sister is funny about this. My sister will 244 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 2: be like, no, no, no, if we're hiring a babysitter, 245 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:17,280 Speaker 2: they're coming at five, we're gonna eat at six. I 246 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:19,439 Speaker 2: don't care because that woman is going to get paid 247 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 2: to bathe my children right, put them down, Like we're 248 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:24,120 Speaker 2: not doing the thing where the two kids are already 249 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:26,080 Speaker 2: in bed, and I got to pay thirty bucks an 250 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:28,520 Speaker 2: hour just to make sure they don't burn the house down. Like, 251 00:09:28,600 --> 00:09:30,679 Speaker 2: you know, my sister wants to get a little something. 252 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:31,920 Speaker 1: Their money's worth, right exactly. 253 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 2: So usually it's like they're coming at five thirty six. 254 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 2: I'll feed them dinner. I pay them for every hour, 255 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 2: but you got you're doing bath time and you're doing 256 00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:41,600 Speaker 2: nighttime whatever stuff. 257 00:09:41,679 --> 00:09:44,040 Speaker 3: But I love that she still pays them that rate 258 00:09:44,080 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 3: even when the kids are sleeping. 259 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:47,120 Speaker 1: Because some people will fight on that shoe. It's so 260 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 1: weird to taking. 261 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:49,320 Speaker 3: They're like, oh, the kids are asleep, and it's like 262 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:51,559 Speaker 3: that doesn't mean anything. The kid can wake up, the kid, 263 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 3: kid cry. The kid's next to me and it's happened 264 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:54,960 Speaker 3: to me. It's midnight, and the kid's like not going 265 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:55,880 Speaker 3: back to sleep because mom. 266 00:09:55,760 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 1: And dad are not there. They don't want to go 267 00:09:57,360 --> 00:09:59,000 Speaker 1: back to sleep, you know, to be an alert. 268 00:09:59,160 --> 00:10:01,079 Speaker 2: Yeah, that would be so thing. If it's like forty 269 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:04,040 Speaker 2: dollars for waking hours, thirty for sleeping. 270 00:10:05,200 --> 00:10:08,440 Speaker 1: That's a menu of prices here. 271 00:10:08,360 --> 00:10:11,320 Speaker 2: And it's like I refuse to pay that for sleeping hours. Well, 272 00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:13,480 Speaker 2: then I'm leaving your. 273 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:15,960 Speaker 1: Kid like price you want them alive? 274 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:19,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's expensive. That's really expensive because again, you know 275 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:22,280 Speaker 2: you're adding one hundred plus dollars to your date night. Yeah, 276 00:10:22,280 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 2: it's already you know, an adult date night with some 277 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 2: drinks and stuff. You know, come on, like talking one 278 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:28,959 Speaker 2: hundred hundred fifty bucks go out to dinner, have some drinks. 279 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:30,600 Speaker 2: Now two hundred and fifty bucks to go out for 280 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:33,480 Speaker 2: three hours. You know, I can see why people wouldn't 281 00:10:33,520 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 2: do that, but yeah,