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Speaker 1: I will do annoyingly for their's. Yeah, so scrubbers put

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Speaker 1: ones above and beyond People's Choice Award. Who in two

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Speaker 1: That's come a long way free Tania Eras. So maybe

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Speaker 1: there's like eight other ones printed out ready? Okay, but

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Speaker 1: he will, you bet you he will. There's nothing that

423
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:26,679
Speaker 1: can surprise him at this point, right like two years in,

424
00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:34,520
Speaker 1: there's nothing that can We'll see. Um. So before we

425
00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:37,000
Speaker 1: talk at the while we were on the break, we

426
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:39,840
Speaker 1: were talking about so the Spank CEO, Sarah Blakely, she

427
00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:44,880
Speaker 1: gifted all of her employees ten thousand dollars and then

428
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:49,000
Speaker 1: two first class UH Delta tickets to travel anywhere in

429
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:52,320
Speaker 1: the world. In my mind, I mean that is a

430
00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:57,360
Speaker 1: massive company. I just think that that is incredible. And

431
00:24:57,560 --> 00:24:59,920
Speaker 1: you don't hear about people doing this often, these people,

432
00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:03,000
Speaker 1: these billionaires, like you don't hear about this. Do you

433
00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:06,520
Speaker 1: know why? It's incredible because she looks at her team

434
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:10,199
Speaker 1: and she says, yes, okay, she is the CEO and

435
00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:13,920
Speaker 1: so it's her company, but she puts the emphasis that

436
00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:16,679
Speaker 1: this is a team effort. She couldn't have gotten this

437
00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:19,080
Speaker 1: way on her own. You know, they say, if you

438
00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:23,159
Speaker 1: want to go far or what is it the quote like,

439
00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:24,600
Speaker 1: if you want to go far, go alone, if you

440
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:26,399
Speaker 1: want to go quickly go or what? You know what

441
00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:30,159
Speaker 1: I'm saying, I go together, go together basically about like

442
00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:32,160
Speaker 1: teamwork and how being a part of a team can

443
00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:34,159
Speaker 1: really get you further in life. And I like that

444
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,760
Speaker 1: she's basical acknowledging that, like she did, this is a huge,

445
00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:40,320
Speaker 1: huge thing for the company, and she couldn't have done

446
00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:43,040
Speaker 1: it without the help of every single employee that puts

447
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:46,720
Speaker 1: their blood, sweat and tears into making spanks what it is,

448
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:50,760
Speaker 1: and I freaking love it. If you want to go fast,

449
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:53,119
Speaker 1: go alone, if you want to go far, go to

450
00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:56,560
Speaker 1: good exactly good stuff. Well, I feel like this is

451
00:25:56,720 --> 00:26:02,320
Speaker 1: very Tanya energy. But she said, um, she really focused.

452
00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:05,680
Speaker 1: She said she basically manifested that one day it would

453
00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:08,600
Speaker 1: be a twenty million dollar business, and she said, everybody

454
00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:11,359
Speaker 1: laughed at me, but I really believed that it is.

455
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 1: After twenty years, Sphinx is valued at one point two

456
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:19,399
Speaker 1: billion dollars according to Business Wire, But the point you

457
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:23,280
Speaker 1: were making break. So then I see this on Twitter

458
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:25,119
Speaker 1: and I go to check the response. You know, I

459
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:26,680
Speaker 1: got to look to see that what people are saying.

460
00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:28,360
Speaker 1: Why do we do that? Because I do that too,

461
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:31,600
Speaker 1: But we shouldn't do that. You're right, because I have never,

462
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:34,120
Speaker 1: very rarely do I go to the comments and feel

463
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:38,399
Speaker 1: like encouraged by humanity, you know, like I'm always like

464
00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:40,679
Speaker 1: I look at him like I wish I wouldn't have

465
00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:44,199
Speaker 1: seen these responses. Um, there's another one I'll bring up

466
00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:46,400
Speaker 1: after this. It's actually did the same thing. But yeah,

467
00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:47,879
Speaker 1: and speaking of humanity, I want to put a pin

468
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:49,240
Speaker 1: in this and get back to it after this story.

469
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:52,280
Speaker 1: But I have I can redeem your your thoughts on humanity.

470
00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:57,960
Speaker 1: I have a lot of positive feelings about humanity. But

471
00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:01,160
Speaker 1: but people are just like so, you know, they're like, oh,

472
00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:05,920
Speaker 1: she's a billionaire and she's giving like this small percentage

473
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:09,119
Speaker 1: to them, And I'm like, have you has your boss

474
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:12,200
Speaker 1: ever done that? Like your boss? Your boss even give

475
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:16,640
Speaker 1: you a basket for Christmas? Like no fruit basket, fruit

476
00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:21,280
Speaker 1: basket of a wreath for your door. No, But I

477
00:27:21,359 --> 00:27:25,320
Speaker 1: just it was such a reminder of like Mark was saying, like,

478
00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:28,200
Speaker 1: people just love to have something to complain about. It's

479
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:31,040
Speaker 1: just like fuels people for some reason. And it's sad.

480
00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:34,639
Speaker 1: Social media has shown me how angry humans are and

481
00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:37,639
Speaker 1: it's really discouraging. I'm looking forward a Tanya story here

482
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:40,359
Speaker 1: in a second. But it's everything. It's everything. It's not

483
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:42,720
Speaker 1: even just It used to be just politics. Now it's

484
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:45,159
Speaker 1: every little thing. You could do, everything, like here's a

485
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:47,280
Speaker 1: picture of a cute puppy. If people, why are you

486
00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:49,879
Speaker 1: exploiting that puppy for likes on Instagram? Whatever it is,

487
00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:52,359
Speaker 1: people are going to be upset about everything you can do.

488
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 1: Every sports team in the world, they could win the

489
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:58,800
Speaker 1: championship five years in a row, and why haven't they

490
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:02,159
Speaker 1: fired the manager? He's terrible, He makes terrible choices. What

491
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 1: are they doing, every single one of them? And it's

492
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:08,000
Speaker 1: baffling to me. I know, it's crazy. What what are

493
00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:11,160
Speaker 1: you going to say to redeem to readium humanity? So

494
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 1: I'm going to the store to get my wig for

495
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:16,960
Speaker 1: Courtney and I walk up to the store and it

496
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:20,639
Speaker 1: says by appointment only, and the girl that was in

497
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:22,959
Speaker 1: front of me was on the phone with them, and

498
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:25,280
Speaker 1: it was like the last appointment or something like that,

499
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:28,399
Speaker 1: and they said, I can't remember exactly. I couldn't hear

500
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:30,080
Speaker 1: them obviously, but she said, oh no, I'm here with

501
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:31,920
Speaker 1: a friend. And she looked at me and like kind

502
00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:34,399
Speaker 1: of like gave me the look like pretender with me.

503
00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:40,520
Speaker 1: And I thought, Wow, this random stranger, it is like

504
00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:43,480
Speaker 1: doing me a solid by getting me into this wig store.

505
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 1: Otherwise I would have been my probably would have had

506
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:46,640
Speaker 1: to go the next day, but I was down to

507
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:49,960
Speaker 1: the wire in hours and she just gave me this look.

508
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:52,120
Speaker 1: And we went listen to how crazy this is? What

509
00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:56,080
Speaker 1: are you laughing at? Just the comparison of like redeeming

510
00:28:56,160 --> 00:29:01,360
Speaker 1: humanity into the wig store. So no cut to I'm

511
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:04,920
Speaker 1: being Courtney Kardashian, She's being Megan Fox, and my boyfriend

512
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 1: was being machine gun Kelly. And so we went into

513
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:09,760
Speaker 1: the whig store. I helped her pick out her machine

514
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 1: gun Kelly wig. She helped me get my Courtney wig.

515
00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:14,440
Speaker 1: We ended up exchanging phone numbers and we've had a

516
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 1: little textic change. So I like made a cute little

517
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:20,640
Speaker 1: friend on my way to the whig store and called

518
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:27,480
Speaker 1: girl power isabel Isabelle. She is just so cute, and

519
00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:29,240
Speaker 1: that's my kind of girl. That's the kind of girl

520
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:30,960
Speaker 1: I want to be. That's the kind of girl I

521
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 1: want in my team. That yeah, I like that, she

522
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:37,960
Speaker 1: quickly said, like she didn't. She was like, oh, she

523
00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:39,360
Speaker 1: was just like, yeah, I have a friend here, Like

524
00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:41,600
Speaker 1: she just was looking out. Oh yeah, totally looking out

525
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:44,680
Speaker 1: for me, a total stranger. My whole faith in humanity

526
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:48,640
Speaker 1: has been I felt the same. And I have a

527
00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 1: new friend that she wants to get coffee, and I'm like,

528
00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:53,800
Speaker 1: that is your best friend, though not yet. I remember

529
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:55,719
Speaker 1: when she met that Becca girl, and she was like

530
00:29:56,360 --> 00:30:02,160
Speaker 1: Becca is so awesome and and and like imagine, I

531
00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:05,280
Speaker 1: was like, I met this girl named Tanya. She was

532
00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:08,040
Speaker 1: the coolest person I've ever met, coolest Tanya I've ever met.

533
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 1: I didn't say she's the coolest Becca I know. But

534
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:14,240
Speaker 1: she will be my dula one day, That's right? Yea,

535
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:19,960
Speaker 1: um do we want? I mean, what's ironic is that

536
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 1: the email is from a Rebecca, not me. It's not

537
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:29,400
Speaker 1: for me. Are you just choosing the segway here? Yeah?

538
00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 1: But before we segue, I would just like everybody to

539
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 1: know that Rebecca gets a little jealous too sometimes. So

540
00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:39,320
Speaker 1: I'm just saying I have a ring that has an

541
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:42,000
Speaker 1: R on it, and Becca will like say is the

542
00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:45,880
Speaker 1: R for Rebecca when it's not for Rebecca, So she

543
00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 1: gets a little territorial territorial of me too. Okay, So

544
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:51,720
Speaker 1: here's the thing I'm realizing about myself as I'm doing

545
00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:56,720
Speaker 1: work in therapy and stuff on my growth. It is

546
00:30:56,800 --> 00:31:01,840
Speaker 1: deep I am more jealous then I really like. I

547
00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 1: am more territorial, I think. But I've always had this

548
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:09,200
Speaker 1: defense mechanism of if I don't care, then I can't

549
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:11,680
Speaker 1: get hurt, you know, Like in this I've like tricked

550
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:13,360
Speaker 1: my mind to think if I don't feel it, if

551
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:16,760
Speaker 1: I don't communicate it, if I don't acknowledge it, then

552
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:20,320
Speaker 1: I can't be hurt by it, And my therapist is

553
00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:21,880
Speaker 1: really trying to get me to work on that. But

554
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 1: I think I miss that. I miss a little bit

555
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:26,400
Speaker 1: of the like, oh me too. If I could be

556
00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:29,560
Speaker 1: the way you used to be, that would be the dream.

557
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 1: Say that because I'm I'm already contemplating just like doing

558
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:38,440
Speaker 1: away with all my growth, because not feeling was just

559
00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:42,000
Speaker 1: sometimes a little more comfortable. And I feel like every

560
00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:44,960
Speaker 1: little thing I feel, like all I do is feel, feel, feel, feel, feel,

561
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 1: I just feel and it's exhausting. Yeah, like it's exhausting.

562
00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:53,400
Speaker 1: I can imagine I feel like a fourth of what

563
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 1: you feel on a regular basis, and I would be

564
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 1: just drained. And even when you feel good and you're

565
00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:03,360
Speaker 1: feeling good things, it's like this high and that's draining too.

566
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 1: It's just like I'm literally at lunch, was telling telling

567
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:11,680
Speaker 1: Laura was like she was asking your birthday and I

568
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:13,760
Speaker 1: was like, well, she's a cancer. I was like, they

569
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:21,320
Speaker 1: feel a lot. She feels everything everything. God, if I

570
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:24,000
Speaker 1: could be Becca like you were five years ago, that

571
00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 1: would be she was very detached, detached, emotionless, that is.

572
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:31,480
Speaker 1: I don't think that's something to strive for. It necessarily

573
00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:35,400
Speaker 1: try living in this feel brain for I'm a cancer too.

574
00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 1: I'm with you. I think there's a nice balance that

575
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:43,800
Speaker 1: I would like, and I think I think i'll return there.

576
00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 1: I think it's just like being able to open up

577
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:50,360
Speaker 1: and feel feelings and like let myself process them and

578
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:52,560
Speaker 1: get through them. But I'd like to get back to

579
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 1: being able to put up the wall. Yeah, like if

580
00:32:54,680 --> 00:33:00,800
Speaker 1: Becca Antani had a baby, she'd be sup, we're sensitive

581
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 1: but detached. That's pretty bad as she'd be badass super sensitive.

582
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 1: Yet I don't even know if you can do that?

583
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 1: You can, I don't know, I don't know. It feels

584
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:21,480
Speaker 1: like a major contradiction, complicated. You would never find someone

585
00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:24,880
Speaker 1: to love because you would not know like what I

586
00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:28,959
Speaker 1: just almost wentn't hold forward? Scary? Don'd you spill your

587
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:31,960
Speaker 1: celsius again? No, I'm not all about celsius anymore and

588
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:38,560
Speaker 1: more liquids in the studio. If your name rhymes with Becca,

589
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:43,080
Speaker 1: I just realized Becca antonia or cancer and scorpio mark

590
00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 1: and I cancer and scorpio cancer scorpio are a good

591
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:50,840
Speaker 1: friend mix. Yeah, I don't think we've measured right that.

592
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:52,880
Speaker 1: Eastan and I are together for the first time doing

593
00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:55,360
Speaker 1: this podcast in a year and a half. In the studio.

594
00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:58,040
Speaker 1: We're in the studio. We're holding hands under the table

595
00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 1: right now. So are we just because you did that? No,

596
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:10,719
Speaker 1: we're not so nice. No, not my face. I hate

597
00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:13,240
Speaker 1: when people touch my face, and she has no respect

598
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:17,720
Speaker 1: for my boundaries. Tanya, I'm going to count to five

599
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:22,520
Speaker 1: and take deep breaths, but I need to relax. So

600
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 1: nice when we're touching. Um that voice and the words combined.

601
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:40,760
Speaker 1: I hated it. I know, honestly, you guys sometimes tough.

602
00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:43,719
Speaker 1: What I just I feel for the people around me.

603
00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 1: Thank you, welcome. How's your TikTok career going? You've got

604
00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:52,759
Speaker 1: taken off? And you know what's interesting, I think my

605
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:55,239
Speaker 1: TikTok is messed up. I need somebody to look at

606
00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:57,319
Speaker 1: it because whenever I'm not in my home, I can't

607
00:34:57,320 --> 00:35:01,640
Speaker 1: get into it. So really, how it's really it's like

608
00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 1: network error? Is this network error? Wow? That feels suspicious.

609
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:10,399
Speaker 1: If your home, you're fine, But if you're anywhere but home,

610
00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 1: it's a network error. Yeah, so I can't film TikTok's

611
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:17,160
Speaker 1: outside of my home, which is really cutting into my game,

612
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:19,919
Speaker 1: my momentum. On the top. It seems like a question

613
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 1: for Eastern I mean, have you tried disconnecting from the

614
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:26,759
Speaker 1: WiFi at your house and then trying to go on

615
00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 1: TikTok to see if it works? No, but that feels dangerous.

616
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:34,279
Speaker 1: Then I won't get it back in my house. I

617
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 1: can work with you on this offline. If you want

618
00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:38,480
Speaker 1: on your phone, just turn the WiFi off. I do that.

619
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:41,719
Speaker 1: I do that when I'm out of my home. You

620
00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:47,720
Speaker 1: know what, I realized that's not necessary either. Okay, listen

621
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:51,840
Speaker 1: to this it's not just technology. So so on Saturday,

622
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 1: on my actual birthday, so Laura flew in in the

623
00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:58,080
Speaker 1: morning when got her from the airport and then came

624
00:35:58,160 --> 00:36:02,040
Speaker 1: back and then we heyly surprised me with a lunch

625
00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 1: at Nobu and Malibu, which um amazing, and so we

626
00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:09,560
Speaker 1: went to lunch. But everyone was coming to my house

627
00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:11,600
Speaker 1: to set up for the party, and so Tanya was like,

628
00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 1: can I have one of your keys? And I was

629
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:15,360
Speaker 1: like sure. Also, actually I'll just leave it in the

630
00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 1: lock box, and I gave her the code, like so simple,

631
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:22,640
Speaker 1: and she goes I. So then the morning she calls

632
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 1: and she goes, hey, um, I'm just I have to

633
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 1: come drop off some stuff and I'm just gonna grab

634
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:28,600
Speaker 1: the key from you. And I was like, well, you

635
00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:30,120
Speaker 1: don't have to if you want to wait and just

636
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:32,280
Speaker 1: come like when you're coming to set up for the party,

637
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:33,879
Speaker 1: I'll just leave it in the lock box. He goes,

638
00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 1: I just don't. I don't trust that I'm gonna be

639
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 1: able to get out of the lock box. And I'm like,

640
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:44,480
Speaker 1: if I can't get out of lock box and everybody's

641
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:46,359
Speaker 1: waiting to get into your house so you got back,

642
00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:49,600
Speaker 1: that would be horrible. Okay. So then she actually comes over,

643
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:51,920
Speaker 1: I give her the key, hand it to her, and

644
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:54,080
Speaker 1: she goes, okay, wait, so I just this is the

645
00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:57,759
Speaker 1: lock right here. I'm like, just leave it unlo I'll

646
00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:00,319
Speaker 1: leave it unlocked. If you're that stressed out of ont it,

647
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:03,359
Speaker 1: just lock a dead bolt. It's very simple, and so

648
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:06,760
Speaker 1: I think there's a little bit of, um, there's something

649
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 1: challenge there with just like like panicking that you're not

650
00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:13,960
Speaker 1: going to be able to do something. Yeah, this might

651
00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:16,680
Speaker 1: be some work. I need to get therapy. You might

652
00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:19,360
Speaker 1: be onto something here. So the lockbox just has a

653
00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 1: code you punch you Yeah. Yeah, it's like it's full proof. No,

654
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:26,000
Speaker 1: one's just is it a pad of numbers? No, it's

655
00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 1: like a little low like a little unthing something. Yeah,

656
00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:32,399
Speaker 1: but not like not like but not like that, more

657
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:35,280
Speaker 1: like the four you know, yeah, okay yeah yah yeah, yeaheah,

658
00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:39,480
Speaker 1: have to line up four numbers. Yeah, it's very very simple. Yeah,

659
00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:42,959
Speaker 1: it sounds very but with the chance of not getting

660
00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:45,520
Speaker 1: into the lockbox or just securely have the key in

661
00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:49,279
Speaker 1: hand so that when you arrive there's no no. But

662
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 1: what I'm saying is like, even once I gave her

663
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:52,719
Speaker 1: the key, she was worried she wasn't gonna be able

664
00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:55,160
Speaker 1: to lock the door, unlock the door the door right,

665
00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 1: And it was like, is this is operating the key

666
00:37:57,640 --> 00:38:02,400
Speaker 1: was the problem? This was the problem. Yeah, this is

667
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:07,000
Speaker 1: technology literally, you know. I think maybe if we step

668
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 1: back for a moment, if we just take a step

669
00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:11,839
Speaker 1: back from the situation, I think that there might be

670
00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:16,279
Speaker 1: something about like when something is my responsibility, you know,

671
00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:18,000
Speaker 1: I like people are depending on me to get into

672
00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:21,120
Speaker 1: your house to do all these things. I just wanted

673
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:24,359
Speaker 1: to be full proof. I don't want to like, you know, yeah,

674
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:26,880
Speaker 1: maybe there's a trauma. There's there's definitely something that I

675
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:33,320
Speaker 1: got to think back to my childhood, though not the childhood. Okay,

676
00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:35,920
Speaker 1: we have an email from Rebecca which I'm very curious

677
00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:38,000
Speaker 1: to hear what we all say about this, because it's

678
00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 1: it's a toughie. But first the first we're gonna take

679
00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:59,680
Speaker 1: a break and we'll be right back. All right, we

680
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:03,120
Speaker 1: are back, Mark, do you have someone you wanted to

681
00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:05,920
Speaker 1: shout out? Vanessa? She's the reason you guys went to

682
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:08,640
Speaker 1: San Francisco and did that show from the stadium up there.

683
00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:11,399
Speaker 1: Vanessa is leaving the San Francisco Giants to work for

684
00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:14,960
Speaker 1: the Milwaukee Brewers, the team I have worshiped in the

685
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:17,160
Speaker 1: door to been obsessed with since I was seven years old.

686
00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:19,920
Speaker 1: So very exciting, very exciting time. She's already sent me

687
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:23,399
Speaker 1: some stuff, So thank you, Vanessa. You're amazing. Also, by

688
00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:27,480
Speaker 1: the way, years ago, a woman sent me and maybe

689
00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 1: you guys too. I don't remember a Saturday Night Live

690
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:32,480
Speaker 1: T shirt for the Taylor Swift Phoebe waller Bridge episode.

691
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:35,600
Speaker 1: I don't know who that was, but my daughter is

692
00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:37,319
Speaker 1: obsessed with that shirt and she wears at the school.

693
00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:38,840
Speaker 1: So I wanted to say thank you whoever that was,

694
00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:40,480
Speaker 1: because I never got to thank her, and we've really

695
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:41,840
Speaker 1: gotten a lot of use out of that shirt, so

696
00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:44,480
Speaker 1: thank you so much. I never got that. So this

697
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:47,239
Speaker 1: is a little uncomfortable because that sounds like something I want.

698
00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:49,840
Speaker 1: You definitely got it. Did it come to you and

699
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:52,080
Speaker 1: you have two of them? No, because I stopped up

700
00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:53,360
Speaker 1: an end to that. I was like, I am not

701
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:57,560
Speaker 1: Becca's keeper. Stop giving me Becca's things. I did not.

702
00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 1: That is definitely something I would have remembered and remembered well.

703
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:04,600
Speaker 1: She and her friends obsessed with Saturday night life, so

704
00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:07,239
Speaker 1: it's been a real conversation piece that's sure, so thank

705
00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:09,480
Speaker 1: you whoever that was, thank you so much. All right?

706
00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:14,560
Speaker 1: Email from Rebecca. I've been dating my boyfriend for a

707
00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 1: little over a year now. I love him so much.

708
00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:21,000
Speaker 1: He is everything I have ever wanted. Here's the issue.

709
00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:24,120
Speaker 1: He doesn't get along with my best friend. Both my

710
00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:26,799
Speaker 1: boyfriend and my best friend are equally important to me,

711
00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 1: and I hate how I have to separate the two

712
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:31,000
Speaker 1: people I love the most. I wish that we could

713
00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:33,799
Speaker 1: all hang out together, but it is so awkward. What

714
00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:37,239
Speaker 1: should I do? Is this a deal breaker? Tanya? Could

715
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:41,160
Speaker 1: you ever date Red Star if Becca didn't approve of him? No?

716
00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:47,719
Speaker 1: Mm hmm mhm. Really like knowing how you feel about

717
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:49,759
Speaker 1: Red Star? If I was like I don't like him,

718
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:52,920
Speaker 1: you'd be like done, Yeah there was like a legitimate reason,

719
00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:55,120
Speaker 1: yeah no. But if it was just like I don't click,

720
00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 1: like we just don't get along, well yeah, I think

721
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:00,400
Speaker 1: there would be. I mean, you say so like flip it,

722
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:01,880
Speaker 1: but I think there would be a real reason. I

723
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:03,799
Speaker 1: think there would be a root reason why you don't

724
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 1: get along with him, and I don't think I think

725
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:08,480
Speaker 1: that would be a problem. For sure. You don't feel

726
00:41:08,520 --> 00:41:10,759
Speaker 1: that way about me? No, no, no, if Yeah, if

727
00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:13,120
Speaker 1: if my friends didn't get along with my significant other,

728
00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:16,000
Speaker 1: I would be like if if they had a legitate,

729
00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:18,719
Speaker 1: Like if it was like I do this, do not?

730
00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:22,359
Speaker 1: I feel like it's the person t want to come

731
00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:28,600
Speaker 1: to dinner, sure to be there? Yeah, that would be Yeah,

732
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:32,439
Speaker 1: it's a deal breaker. Really. I also wonder like if

733
00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:35,120
Speaker 1: but I also wonder if it's both of them that

734
00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:37,120
Speaker 1: feel that way, or if like the best friend is

735
00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:39,160
Speaker 1: like fine with him and he doesn't like the best friend,

736
00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:42,960
Speaker 1: because that's a real deal breaker. If like if not

737
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:46,520
Speaker 1: five P was like I had just had no reason

738
00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:48,719
Speaker 1: not to like one of my friends and they made

739
00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:50,839
Speaker 1: the effort, I would be like, what's going on here?

740
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:55,799
Speaker 1: This feels like red flaggy Yeah, And I'd also love

741
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 1: to know the reasoning behind it. Is that if there

742
00:41:58,120 --> 00:42:00,279
Speaker 1: is a reason, if they just don't click, I guess

743
00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:02,480
Speaker 1: that's one thing, but there's got to be reasons. Yeah,

744
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 1: And like also like it's not something little, you know,

745
00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:08,399
Speaker 1: like let's say it's somebody hates when somebody's chomping gum.

746
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:11,759
Speaker 1: If Red Star always chomped gum, Becca hates that, I

747
00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:14,040
Speaker 1: feel like you would you would not that would not

748
00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:16,040
Speaker 1: be a thing for you. You know, I feel like

749
00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:19,200
Speaker 1: it would have to be something doing the deep rooted becca.

750
00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:22,280
Speaker 1: Do you have I think I do, yeah, because Tony

751
00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:26,840
Speaker 1: just did this weird tongue thing and I that noise

752
00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:29,640
Speaker 1: and it's in the microphone right now. Is like, no,

753
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:37,839
Speaker 1: Laura has it too. We'll hear it later on the track.

754
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:43,479
Speaker 1: You're welcome anyway. Sorry, So I would love to know

755
00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:49,360
Speaker 1: a little more about this because I think there's the

756
00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:52,359
Speaker 1: thing is if they just don't click, like they want

757
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:55,239
Speaker 1: to hang out a regular basis, that's different because you're

758
00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:57,680
Speaker 1: she's not dating him like you are. They don't need

759
00:42:57,719 --> 00:43:02,080
Speaker 1: to be besties. But I would like totally if if

760
00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:04,800
Speaker 1: if Tanya left a room and robbing row alone, I

761
00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:07,440
Speaker 1: would never feel awkward, like we would have conversation. It

762
00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 1: would be totally normal. Same with n and Tanny, like

763
00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:14,480
Speaker 1: I just would never have to worry about that. But

764
00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:19,319
Speaker 1: it's different with guys. Guys are different. Like my best

765
00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:22,400
Speaker 1: friends a guy named Kurt, And if Kurt didn't like

766
00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:24,560
Speaker 1: Amer's when AMers and I first started dating, I would

767
00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 1: have said, all right, Kurt, check you later. You know,

768
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:27,799
Speaker 1: that would have been kind of that for Kurt, and

769
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:29,760
Speaker 1: that's and that would have been Okay, I think guys,

770
00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:33,160
Speaker 1: the relation that the bond isn't as strong among male

771
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:35,480
Speaker 1: best friends, because my instinct on this says, well, you

772
00:43:35,480 --> 00:43:37,439
Speaker 1: don't need your best friends, you can find somebody else.

773
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:39,479
Speaker 1: You know, you can be best friends with anybody. Stick

774
00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:42,080
Speaker 1: with this guy if if they did. You hear what

775
00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:44,879
Speaker 1: this woman just said. She said, I love him so much.

776
00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:47,800
Speaker 1: He has everything I have ever wanted. That's the goal

777
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:53,719
Speaker 1: best friends, and then everything everything she ever wanted would

778
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:57,200
Speaker 1: be him. Someone who gets along with her best friends. Perhaps,

779
00:43:57,239 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 1: but you each said earlier that you each have a

780
00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 1: tier of best friends at the half a dozen people strong.

781
00:44:01,680 --> 00:44:03,840
Speaker 1: So I'll find another best friend, move somebody else up

782
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:06,120
Speaker 1: to the top, and stick with this guy. He's everything

783
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:08,600
Speaker 1: you ever wanted. Now, I think there's something off. If

784
00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:11,400
Speaker 1: he's everything she ever wanted yet doesn't get along with

785
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:17,040
Speaker 1: her best friend, I feel like that there's something. Do

786
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:27,560
Speaker 1: you agree you don't agree? Hold on, Laura, don't spill, Okay,

787
00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:31,400
Speaker 1: I'll be gentle. So I think it depends because I

788
00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:34,480
Speaker 1: have a few friends that I didn't I would not

789
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:39,360
Speaker 1: have picked their spouse for them, and we don't necessarily vibe.

790
00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:42,560
Speaker 1: But it also doesn't matter like if I click with

791
00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:45,640
Speaker 1: them or not, or unless it's like a red flag

792
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:48,880
Speaker 1: and like bad things are happening, But if it's just

793
00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:52,160
Speaker 1: about clicking and vibe, like I think, No, she didn't

794
00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:54,840
Speaker 1: stay clicking and vibe she said, did she say it along?

795
00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:58,000
Speaker 1: Do not get along? Yeah? I mean that just sounds

796
00:44:58,040 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 1: like ridiculous though, Like, can you imagine either like any

797
00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:06,000
Speaker 1: of your friends like bickering with your like partners. It

798
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:08,520
Speaker 1: would be a deal breaker for me. I don't know.

799
00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 1: I think it's hard. I think you can't always base

800
00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 1: decisions like on what your friends because you have to

801
00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:17,919
Speaker 1: know what your heart feels and your friend doesn't know that.

802
00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:24,840
Speaker 1: But getting along with and not vibing with are different

803
00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:27,920
Speaker 1: because I think there's people that I don't know that

804
00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:30,680
Speaker 1: I don't vibe with, Like I would never just like

805
00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:32,279
Speaker 1: want to be left in a room alone with him,

806
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 1: But I also am like I get along with them.

807
00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:37,439
Speaker 1: I'm not like we need more info from Rebecca. Yeah,

808
00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:41,680
Speaker 1: it could be a lot of different things, like maybe

809
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:43,560
Speaker 1: she doesn't like the way he talks to her. Well,

810
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:45,880
Speaker 1: that's that that would be a definite red flag. You know,

811
00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:48,040
Speaker 1: she would have very good point. Maybe those two don't

812
00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:50,359
Speaker 1: see that I just for political reasons, and and and

813
00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 1: Rebecca is just kind of likes to stay above the

814
00:45:52,120 --> 00:45:54,680
Speaker 1: fray with all that stuff. That to me like, okay,

815
00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:56,480
Speaker 1: well that we can work through that. So who knows.

816
00:45:56,560 --> 00:46:01,160
Speaker 1: I don't know. We need more information, yes, but I

817
00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:06,760
Speaker 1: say stick with this guy, I say leave him. I say,

818
00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:09,880
Speaker 1: figure out why they don't get along, if there's like

819
00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:13,560
Speaker 1: an actual reason or a red flag reason, and assessed

820
00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:16,800
Speaker 1: from there. But maybe we need more Rebecca. Can we

821
00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:20,879
Speaker 1: get more details? Like what happened where you knew who

822
00:46:20,960 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 1: said they don't get along? Was it the boyfriend or

823
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:25,719
Speaker 1: was it the best friend? Like where's she getting this

824
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:28,760
Speaker 1: info from? Or is it she just feels it? Yeah,

825
00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:31,640
Speaker 1: it's a very Rebecca thing to have happened to her.

826
00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 1: Not Becca thing, but a Rebecca thing like Rebecca, my

827
00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:42,800
Speaker 1: Rebecca personality that could happen to her. Rebecca is different.

828
00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:48,160
Speaker 1: She's chill, used to be chill. What about what about

829
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:53,000
Speaker 1: your Halloween personality? Does that ever happen to him? He

830
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:55,839
Speaker 1: really vibes with it. He gets along with everybody. That's

831
00:46:55,840 --> 00:47:00,879
Speaker 1: the thing with Klein. Good energy, good vibes, only good vibes,

832
00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:04,160
Speaker 1: good vibes only I feel like everyone's like kind of

833
00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:07,879
Speaker 1: in declined to girls and guys. It was awkward. My

834
00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 1: friend responded to one of my stories that I posted

835
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:13,040
Speaker 1: about you. She goes, is Becca Joe Dirt and I

836
00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:17,279
Speaker 1: literally crying laughing. I don't know how I feel about that,

837
00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:20,480
Speaker 1: because I don't feel like Joe Dirt when I'm klined,

838
00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:29,400
Speaker 1: but I felt more like Thor Chris Hemsworth actually specifically. Um,

839
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:31,400
Speaker 1: I think that's all. That's all. She wrote for today.

840
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:35,520
Speaker 1: One quick question before we leave. I love these enders.

841
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Speaker 1: Do you think Kim Kardashi and Pete David's in her boning?

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Speaker 1: Wait a second, bony w have you ever said that

843
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Speaker 1: we're boning in the dirty love making penetrative intere Okay,

844
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Speaker 1: you're all fired, you're all done, You're done. Um, yes,

845
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Speaker 1: I do. Alright, he gets any girl he wants, and

846
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Speaker 1: I don't quite understand, but I do love you know

847
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Speaker 1: what though, I do love humor, and I really think

848
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:12,839
Speaker 1: I value like I I really value someone who can

849
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Speaker 1: make me laugh. So I think that everyone's like, how

850
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Speaker 1: does he get all these girls? And it's like he's

851
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Speaker 1: not the like you don't look at him and think like,

852
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Speaker 1: oh my gosh, he's hot but I think Kim Kardashian

853
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Speaker 1: is not like, I don't think she care like. I

854
00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:31,200
Speaker 1: think she's looking for someone who she likes being around.

855
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Speaker 1: You don't want the peach that's the prettiest peach on

856
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Speaker 1: the Are they on trees or bushes? Let's you know what,

857
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Speaker 1: the prettiest peach on the tree. You want the one

858
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Speaker 1: that's juicy and sweet and delicious on the inside. That's

859
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Speaker 1: how much produce is discarded in America on a daily

860
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Speaker 1: basis because it doesn't look perfect exactly. So Pete Davidson

861
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Speaker 1: might not be the most precious peach, but man, he's

862
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Speaker 1: probably you see, as a fellow linky weirdo, I'm really

863
00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:07,239
Speaker 1: happy about the action Pete Davidson is getting. It's really

864
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Speaker 1: exciting for me. He took her to knots Berry Farm.

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Speaker 1: I love that. Had like got so exciting for me,

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Speaker 1: and like Pete Davidson, Kim Kardashian knots Very Farm. They

867
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Speaker 1: went on the ghostwriter. That's so cool. I love it. Yeah, Yeah,

868
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Speaker 1: he's just she just wants a regular kind of funny guy.

869
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Speaker 1: She's not looking for the celebrity life she already had

870
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Speaker 1: that she has that she's looking for someone who makes

871
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Speaker 1: her feel alive, the juiciest peach in the bushel on

872
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Speaker 1: the tree. Um, okay, we're out, do we you know

873
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Speaker 1: what we really need for the show as a new outro? Well,

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Speaker 1: we stopped doing the e K G one because people

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Speaker 1: thought it was inappropriate during the pandemic. Are we enough

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Speaker 1: post pandy that we could bring that back? It still

877
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Speaker 1: feels dark, honestly, yeah, I mean it always kind of

878
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Speaker 1: felt dark. It wasn't the first the pandemic wasn't the

879
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Speaker 1: first time we the people heard that noise, so it

880
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Speaker 1: was maybe we ended with another song so long. Yeah, like, well, okay,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna work on an intro and an altro and

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Speaker 1: they're gonna go together the sound of music. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're we about saying no dough that was the bat

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Speaker 1: you gave. No, it's the same as uh, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: So long alright, well, goodbye, work with Myles and come

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Speaker 1: up with something that sounds fine. Until then we're stuck

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