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Speaker 1: your favorite store. Second dat day. We've all had slip
Speaker 1: ups happened during a date that we're totally your fault. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know. But the question is when you realize that
Speaker 1: you've made a mistake, do you immediately tell the person
Speaker 1: right there or do you wait and see if anything
Speaker 1: bad happens first, like if they maybe they didn't even notice, yeah,
Speaker 1: like right, Like when you accidentally soil yourself at dinner,
Speaker 1: do you be up front and just admit to your
Speaker 1: date that you gave yourself a new Jersey hot pack? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Or do you wait and see if she notices the
Speaker 1: smell first and then you can be honest. I was
Speaker 1: thinking more like I didn't mean to mention my ex. Well, see,
Speaker 1: that's a mistake there too. And one of our listeners, Jay,
Speaker 1: knows that he maybe messed up and he wasn't sure
Speaker 1: if he should address it or just let it play out, Okay,
Speaker 1: messed up or messed himself. Yeah, well it wasn't the
Speaker 1: mistake that I was talking about. Thank god. Jay. We'll
Speaker 1: get to the mistake you may have made in just
Speaker 1: a minute, but first, tell us about the girl you
Speaker 1: want to call today. What's her name? Her name is Nicole?
Speaker 1: All right? We originally met on I G Instagram. Oh,
Speaker 1: I see who's using the lingo for the gram for
Speaker 1: the young folks like dmen on the side. Did you
Speaker 1: hit her up? Yes, of course we've hung out. No like,
Speaker 1: did you just like write her out of the blue
Speaker 1: or did you have friends of friends or how did
Speaker 1: you find her? She actually found me. I am a photographer,
Speaker 1: so I have a lot of pictures online. Dude, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: Are you an Instagram photographer to get chicks? Are you
Speaker 1: like a real wife photographer for a job? I have
Speaker 1: made money on photos? I'm not. I mean he could have.
Speaker 1: He can have a hobby that we're tographer, Like, what
Speaker 1: kind of I think that? He's just talking about landscape pictures, right,
Speaker 1: some of them a landscape pictures, some of them with women.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, the landscape of the human form. Very yeah,
Speaker 1: curvy mountainous mounds. It's a landscape, I will say sound.
Speaker 1: But it's a good thing if you look good enough
Speaker 1: that people are hitting you up. Normally it's the other
Speaker 1: way around, so at least you're semi perfrad. No, No,
Speaker 1: she did hit me up. She asked if I take
Speaker 1: pictures of her? Oh okay, okay, So is that something
Speaker 1: where you would normally have someone pay you to do that? Um,
Speaker 1: I wasn't actually expecting any money on this one. I
Speaker 1: just thought that she was beautiful. I mean, dime piece.
Speaker 1: I believe they called him talking about okay, so such
Speaker 1: a formal way, So it sounds like you use that
Speaker 1: opportunity to kind of spin this into a date. Yes,
Speaker 1: so we went hiking. You know, she likes the pictures
Speaker 1: of the mountain, the scape of being outside and trees.
Speaker 1: She sort of wanted that. But did she think of
Speaker 1: this as a date, because to me, she's like having
Speaker 1: a professional exchange with someone who wants to go take
Speaker 1: pictures of her up on a mountain. It's what it
Speaker 1: sounds like. It wasn't paying me, I mean, it was
Speaker 1: shouldn't hire me, okay. Was there anything flirty about it? Oh? Yeah,
Speaker 1: flirtiness Oh wow, sounds real. One sided. Ask me, when
Speaker 1: your voice gets ten octaves higher when you're talking about it,
Speaker 1: might not be. I also have a dog that I
Speaker 1: took on the hike with us. Oh, okay, then it's
Speaker 1: definitely a date. It's there's a dog present. Yeah, what
Speaker 1: does that have to do with anything, Ollie. That's actually
Speaker 1: the first thing she commented on was my dog. Allie.
Speaker 1: Did you guys have any personal conversation? Yeah, we talked
Speaker 1: about subjects. We laughed, Oh, subjects. Subject We both liked soup. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean see Jackson feeling. Yeah, that's what people do.
Speaker 1: They talk. Oh wow, you should write a dating book, sir, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I should so. Okay, So it sounds like you had
Speaker 1: a good time taking photos. What was the mistake that
Speaker 1: you think you may have made during the date. I'm
Speaker 1: not sure, but at one point I brought some sandwiches
Speaker 1: with us. I told her was going to bring some food,
Speaker 1: you know, okay, and that makes it more date like, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know if you're bringing food along for both of you.
Speaker 1: M yeah, it's like a four hour thing in the end,
Speaker 1: longer than the average data. So we're eating and I
Speaker 1: take a bite in my sandwich, and then she's looking
Speaker 1: at me like something's wrong, like I killed a cat
Speaker 1: or something. I don't know what it was. What she's
Speaker 1: like looking at you to disgust as you're eating well,
Speaker 1: and I said that everything, okay? Did I do something?
Speaker 1: And she's like, while you were eating your sandwich and
Speaker 1: ants crawled into your mouth and onto your sandwich and
Speaker 1: you ate an ant? Sense would you say protein? Um?
Speaker 1: It doesn't even matter. I mean I didn't taste the
Speaker 1: answer so small you wouldn't even know. That doesn't sound
Speaker 1: that bad, honestly, guy, I'm not calling this guy back
Speaker 1: because he accidentally ate a buck that. Yeah, is that
Speaker 1: the only bad thing that happened? Not really something else? Okay.
Speaker 1: I took some more pictures of her by the canyon.
Speaker 1: We went down, great pictures, you know, hangled up. Now
Speaker 1: when you say the canyon, are you referring to a
Speaker 1: place on her body or is this a real canyon?
Speaker 1: I'm just this but this guy, I don't know. So
Speaker 1: you're down below her shooting up, is what you're saying. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: And I'm probably about like fifteen twenty feet away from her,
Speaker 1: and I see around her feet. It looks like what
Speaker 1: could possibly be maybe poison ivy. Oh, but I wasn't sure,
Speaker 1: so I didn't want to upset her, and you're just like, hey,
Speaker 1: sit down here there. Did she have a reaction. I
Speaker 1: don't think she had a reaction, but we did keep
Speaker 1: on walking and I was hoping to find a romantic
Speaker 1: moment to like maybe kiss her, but she was going
Speaker 1: fast down the hill and we just got to the
Speaker 1: car and eded out. She took some pictures too, and
Speaker 1: she hasn't posted any of them on Instagram. Oh, she
Speaker 1: hasn't posted any of your photos on Instagram. Nope. Oh, wow,
Speaker 1: that's interesting. Oh that's not good. Yeah, they must not
Speaker 1: have been very good, but there were no No. I
Speaker 1: think she doesn't want anything to do with you. They
Speaker 1: had to have. You spent four hours out in the wilderness.
Speaker 1: You didn't get one good snap of her, Like, come on,
Speaker 1: I think that she's not posting them because she doesn't
Speaker 1: want to be attached to you at all. Or maybe
Speaker 1: she's so covered in poison ivy itches and burns that
Speaker 1: she like can't even get up out of her bed.
Speaker 1: Right now, I've had a run in with poison oak,
Speaker 1: and you know pretty immediately that things are not or
Speaker 1: nettles like all of that stuff, like you know you
Speaker 1: messed up. All right, we're gonna play a song. We'll
Speaker 1: come back and we'll call him the call and we'll
Speaker 1: figure out which mistake was the thing that caused you
Speaker 1: to not get a call. All right, Jay Thanky, all right,
Speaker 1: we're gonna get your second day update right after. Hold
Speaker 1: on if you're just tuning in for the second day update.
Speaker 1: We're on the phone with a photographer named Jay, and
Speaker 1: Jay offered to take a beautiful woman named Nicole on
Speaker 1: a scenic, romantic hiking photo shoot. Was pretty nice, according
Speaker 1: to him. It went really great too. They talked about subjects,
Speaker 1: they spoke words, and discussed matters of general interests. I
Speaker 1: hope that wasn't too descriptive. There it was, but Jay
Speaker 1: admits there may have been a few awkward moments. One,
Speaker 1: Jay accidentally aid an aunt that crawled onto a sandwich. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she didn't like that. I don't really care. And second
Speaker 1: he did have her pose in an area that may
Speaker 1: have been covered in poison ivy. But Jay he isn't sure.
Speaker 1: He just he doesn't think so. Though. The worst sign, though,
Speaker 1: is after their date, Nicole has not posted any of
Speaker 1: his photos that he took up on our Instagram, which
Speaker 1: is the whole reason that they went on the date
Speaker 1: in the first place, the whole reason she contacted you
Speaker 1: in the first place, right, Jay, Yes, she liked the
Speaker 1: pictures of the dog first, and then you know, went
Speaker 1: onto my pictures of landscapes and people. What do you
Speaker 1: more hurt by that she's not calling you back for
Speaker 1: a date or that she doesn't like your photography. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't know that she doesn't like my photography, So
Speaker 1: that's the answer. Okay, we're gonna call her right now
Speaker 1: and find out exactly what she thinks about it. Okay,
Speaker 1: you're ready, Yes, Okay, here we go. Hi. Can I
Speaker 1: speak to Nicole? Please? This is Nicole is hi. My
Speaker 1: name's Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the Morning. You got a second? Um, Okay, what's up?
Speaker 1: High to goal? What's up? We were told that you
Speaker 1: were a model, and we need someone to model for
Speaker 1: us because we're not very good looking. We work on
Speaker 1: the radio, so I take a body double any day. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Is this like a joke? What's going on? Yeah? Sorry?
Speaker 1: That was It wasn't very good. Yeah, I'm just kidding
Speaker 1: with you. We're doing something that we do on our
Speaker 1: show called a second date update. That's where if you
Speaker 1: go out with someone and afterwards, if they're not calling
Speaker 1: you back, you can reach out to us and we'll
Speaker 1: give them a call for you to figure out the
Speaker 1: reason why. Okay, do you remember going on a date recently?
Speaker 1: I mean I think, yeah, does this person that you
Speaker 1: think of is his name Jay? Yeah, so you did
Speaker 1: consider that a date. I was worried that maybe, you mean,
Speaker 1: it's one of those where you don't know if it's
Speaker 1: a date, but maybe you can get away if it's
Speaker 1: not a date. Were you scared of him? No, it
Speaker 1: was fine, Like he's okay, you know, like because jokes
Speaker 1: are kind of dirty, and but that wasn't it? Okay? Now, well,
Speaker 1: he did tell us a little bit about how your
Speaker 1: day went. He said that he took you on a
Speaker 1: hiking date to go do a photo shoot up over
Speaker 1: some scenic landscape. And he also said that you're the
Speaker 1: one that hit him up initially because you wanted him
Speaker 1: to take pictures for you. Well, yeah, I mean he's
Speaker 1: a good photographer. Like my friend knows who he is,
Speaker 1: Like she like, I don't know knows him, like your
Speaker 1: friends and friends or whatever. So it didn't seem to sketch.
Speaker 1: But why did he tell you all about like what
Speaker 1: we did well, because that's part of this is we
Speaker 1: want to know what the date was like from his
Speaker 1: perspective and what he thinks might have gone wrong. And
Speaker 1: he told us about an incident where he ate an
Speaker 1: ant that was on his sandwich by accident, and it
Speaker 1: really grossed you out. Whatever that wasn't it? See Ill,
Speaker 1: that's ridiculous, Like a woman's not going to call you
Speaker 1: back because you accidentally ate aunt. We've heard weirder stuff, honestly.
Speaker 1: So another thing that he told us was that there
Speaker 1: was a moment where you were taking pictures on like
Speaker 1: some canyon mountain side and he was worried that you
Speaker 1: may have been standing in poison ivy. Okay, he never
Speaker 1: told me that, Oh he didn't, Sorry forget I said it.
Speaker 1: Did you have any bad reactions later break out in
Speaker 1: hot No? But like if you think someone's in poison IVY,
Speaker 1: you're supposed to say you're in poison. This isn't like
Speaker 1: you have lettice in your teeth. This is like get
Speaker 1: out of poison IVY. Yeah, So it obviously wasn't that.
Speaker 1: Well no, no, so what is it? Then? What's the
Speaker 1: reason that you're not calling him back? And he also
Speaker 1: says he hasn't posted any of his photos on your
Speaker 1: Instagram yet? No, why God, No, it sounds like you're
Speaker 1: disgusted by him. I don't know, you sound kind of
Speaker 1: in love. No, he was like, oh, I should go
Speaker 1: to the restroom or whatever, but basically had to go
Speaker 1: pee behind a tree whatever. We're in the woods, and
Speaker 1: like he had been teaking us some shots to me
Speaker 1: as we were walking, and I wanted to see, so
Speaker 1: his camera's there, So I flipped through his camera and
Speaker 1: like there's pictures of him inside his car, like it's
Speaker 1: right where we met up, and he's not right parts. Basically, wait,
Speaker 1: you're saying you saw naked photos of him in his
Speaker 1: car on his camp Yeah, I thought in his car.
Speaker 1: Well that said, I made a very quick way to
Speaker 1: say it. Okay, are they selfies or were so much? Yes? No,
Speaker 1: they're selfies, but like, why are you taking pictures of
Speaker 1: your in your car before you're meeting me? It was
Speaker 1: so weird and gross, and they're like, guys, start putting
Speaker 1: it all together, like so some of the jokes he
Speaker 1: had and I don't know, Rose, Oh my god, I
Speaker 1: would have ran like we were in the like he's
Speaker 1: got the car, like I believe with him. Oh dude,
Speaker 1: I would have been so freaked out, Like you're with
Speaker 1: alone in the woods with this dude who's obsessed with
Speaker 1: his own I guess every dude is. But whatever, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I mean, it sounds like you
Speaker 1: took his camera when he was when he didn't give
Speaker 1: it to you. Yeah, for good reasons. Those are they're private,
Speaker 1: they're private picture. You're worried about his privacy, keep on
Speaker 1: the radio. He's not worried about his privacy. I'm just
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like, what if he went through your
Speaker 1: photos and saw a naked picture of you on your camera? Yeah,
Speaker 1: because she took those right before her day. I don't know.
Speaker 1: Maybe we should just ask him, Jay, what was going
Speaker 1: on with that? Why take a naked picture? What the
Speaker 1: hell are you doing going through my camera? We didn't
Speaker 1: tell you this, Nicole, but Jason on the other line
Speaker 1: listening the whole time and wants to talk to you,
Speaker 1: of course any better? Why are you looking through my camera?
Speaker 1: First of all, that's incredibly expensive camera. I shouldn't be
Speaker 1: talking like why we didn't matter, and like what are
Speaker 1: you doing with your stot before me? Like? What is that?
Speaker 1: It was a picture? I was I wanted to make
Speaker 1: sure everything was okay? What what? Why so you drop
Speaker 1: your pants to take a picture of your junk? Jay? Wow, males,
Speaker 1: am I going to take a picture of it? I
Speaker 1: wanted to make sure. Look for you, there's other things
Speaker 1: that you could have tested your camera. And I'm sure
Speaker 1: the dude that is creepy. I think that that is
Speaker 1: like a huge risk, Like the first guy who's taking
Speaker 1: pictures of it kidding me? Okay, definitely not the first.
Speaker 1: I mean, Jay, I know you're embarrassed right now, but
Speaker 1: I don't think this is embarrassed. I think you're all stupid.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, I think your child, but you're right on
Speaker 1: that one. We are pretty dumb. She did something illegal.
Speaker 1: I think I might even go to the police. J Okay,
Speaker 1: she met a man on the internet, Okay, and a
Speaker 1: woman has to be careful and do her due diligence
Speaker 1: to make sure you're not a nut job. A nut job? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you you crazy crazy? You went through my stuff without
Speaker 1: my permissions. I don't know who you think you are,
Speaker 1: and I can pictures of much right now? Jay, come on, man,
Speaker 1: you don't even know what a deuce you are, like
Speaker 1: you suck you basically suck you. I don't want you
Speaker 1: might have to come on the radio. And oh and
Speaker 1: I was epolice. Yeah, I bet I should have said something,
Speaker 1: and you probably would have gotten a rash. Probably who says? Okay?
Speaker 1: Who who wishes someone a rash? Jay? You are not
Speaker 1: making this any better? Yeah, Jay, you sound like you're
Speaker 1: getting defensive? Are the picture is not very flattering? Is
Speaker 1: that what the problem is? You noticed? You didn't mention
Speaker 1: that mentor? I scare who cares? Really honestly? Like at
Speaker 1: that point I didn't even care anyway, and then it
Speaker 1: was just like, oh whoa, Yeah, I don't know. I mean,
Speaker 1: I think they're both a little bit in the wrong
Speaker 1: for different reasons. The only the only way that we'll
Speaker 1: be able to tell for certain who's right on this
Speaker 1: is to get the picture sent to the station so
Speaker 1: we can decide once and for all. You want me
Speaker 1: to send them to you you're requesting, Yeah, just send
Speaker 1: them only to Jeffrey, please, I'll review the evidence. And
Speaker 1: I'll decide who's right and who's wrong. And this one
Speaker 1: email address. Nicole, You're good, don't worry. This is the
Speaker 1: weirdest day. Sorry, it could get a little bit weirder.
Speaker 1: If I offer to send you guys out on another date,
Speaker 1: oh my god, we'll pay for it. And I am
Speaker 1: offering that I wasn't blow if you could, if you're
Speaker 1: going to post those pictures, if you could tag me, No,
Speaker 1: I'm not going to post them. Jay, you do forget.
Speaker 1: I don't want to send talking in the coals. I
Speaker 1: don't want a hard pass on this one. Yeah, oh,
Speaker 1: hard pass. She's okay, that's okay. I know, I understand
Speaker 1: if I post them. Can I tell you? Oh, I
Speaker 1: don't know what's going on anymore, but I think I
Speaker 1: think there's not going to be a second date happening
Speaker 1: or any more photos. Nicole, I'm gonna give you the
Speaker 1: last word here. What do you want to say? You
Speaker 1: don't know. Maybe just keep your in your pants. That's
Speaker 1: a good bottel to live by, Just keep it in
Speaker 1: your pants. Moving ninety two point five