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Speaker 1: is another episode of Four Decisions. I'm your girl, Mandy B,
Speaker 1: I'm wheezy, and we are joined by a lovely guess. Now,
Speaker 1: this is an episode I ain't even gonna hold you, bro.
Speaker 1: They've been asking for this, um and I don't know,
Speaker 1: do you follow passport cutty or so Passport Cutty stay
Speaker 1: reading people before they got damn Zodie low key reading Mandy.
Speaker 1: So we have an astrologist here with us and Cutty,
Speaker 1: Mandy and her were hanging right in Houston. So we're
Speaker 1: at the pool and Cutty was like, y'll have an astrologist.
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, it's such a good idea. And
Speaker 1: I was like, but Mandy doesn't believe in it. She
Speaker 1: was like, so why she call herself a liberta? You believed?
Speaker 1: And it's a good point. Well, I am a libra.
Speaker 1: Have you believe in God? Are you going to be
Speaker 1: a Christian? Or j or? And I believe in a
Speaker 1: higher being? So bitch, how are you a libra? But
Speaker 1: you'll believe in it? Listen, bit questions we get sorted,
Speaker 1: So go ahead, introduce yourself to our listeners. Let them
Speaker 1: know your name, what you do, and why are you
Speaker 1: a motherfucking astrologist? Okay, So my name is Mecha Woods.
Speaker 1: I am an astrologer. I've been practicing for about ten years,
Speaker 1: going and raised in the bronx, UM v xand up.
Speaker 1: And the reason why I've been drawn to astrology and
Speaker 1: I practice it is because way long ago, when I
Speaker 1: was at a cross roads in my life, I found
Speaker 1: that it was a great tool to empower myself and
Speaker 1: to make empowering decisions. So what I do is use
Speaker 1: that as a tool to help people through their challenges
Speaker 1: and make the most of their lives and opportunities at present.
Speaker 1: So real quick, before we get into like this deep
Speaker 1: you know, astrology is it closer to science or religion?
Speaker 1: It is not religion, Okay, Um, it is not a
Speaker 1: science either. It's I once heard a colleague explain it
Speaker 1: as being like a marriage between math and myth. And
Speaker 1: the thing with astrology is what I always tell people
Speaker 1: is that, um, you don't need to believe in it
Speaker 1: in order to use it. It is a tool you
Speaker 1: can use it to like you can use it um
Speaker 1: the way that you would use any other tool. And
Speaker 1: as a matter of fact, there's a favorite quote of
Speaker 1: mine that I love to always talk about whenever this
Speaker 1: subject comes up, and it's by Kevin Burke, who's another astrologer,
Speaker 1: and it says, um, you don't need to believe in
Speaker 1: a hammer in order to use it. And that's the
Speaker 1: same way that you would do astrology. Like it's just
Speaker 1: a thing of studying cycles and patterns and basically informing
Speaker 1: that decisions and experiences that we have in our lives
Speaker 1: so we can make the most of the opportunities that
Speaker 1: present themselves and learn how to navigate challenges and things
Speaker 1: that we can't control. So I've heard a lot of
Speaker 1: people say things like they don't believe in astrology because
Speaker 1: it's too broad, Like okay, that if there's a million
Speaker 1: Pisces in the world, are we all really going to
Speaker 1: have a hard week at work? Like what? Okay, well,
Speaker 1: I guess let me yeah, because we're gonna get into
Speaker 1: them questions. We go, oh, we got them. We gotta
Speaker 1: let's do the icebreaker. Let's do the icebreaks because you
Speaker 1: just brought up pisces. We don't have to use. Let's
Speaker 1: not bring everything. So we should all say our signs.
Speaker 1: So I have a Pisces rising, a core Sagittarius, and
Speaker 1: my moon is an aries. Okay, I'm a about the salo.
Speaker 1: So I'm a Sagittarius son, a Leo rising and aquarious
Speaker 1: moon and I'm a Libra. That's all. I don't know
Speaker 1: these risings and dips in settings and all of that raises.
Speaker 1: Um So before we start, guys, um as you see
Speaker 1: what this episode is going to be about. I think
Speaker 1: a lot of us UM look for signs UM as
Speaker 1: kind of a reason to why our partners act the
Speaker 1: way they do, why we have the type of sex
Speaker 1: we have, UM even sometimes our friendships and how we communicate.
Speaker 1: So we're gonna delve into that. But before we are
Speaker 1: going to start an icebreaker and Meca kind of gave
Speaker 1: this little game and I kind of like it because
Speaker 1: I think as soon as we hear of a sign,
Speaker 1: one word comes to our mind. So what we're gonna
Speaker 1: do is, I'm gonna name off the sign. And she
Speaker 1: actually corrected me, y'all because I started going by the
Speaker 1: actual calendar and she's like, no, actually starts with aries, um.
Speaker 1: It does not start with Capricorn, bitch. So she read
Speaker 1: me before we started. But I'm gonna go down the
Speaker 1: list of signs and all of us are gonna say
Speaker 1: the very first word that comes to our mind with
Speaker 1: the signs. Okay, so we're gonna start with you, Mecca, You.
Speaker 1: Then I'm gonna say my word, and then I'm gonna
Speaker 1: say the next UM sign and we're gonna go like that,
Speaker 1: all right, and let's see, let's see what we think
Speaker 1: of Y'ALLU says, can we say skip because there's something
Speaker 1: I don't know. Okay, yeah, you can say skip if
Speaker 1: you don't know. Um. So the first is aries sex
Speaker 1: mm hmm, passionate air. I don't know about aries, Taurists, luxury,
Speaker 1: I don't know horns. That's like theyta horns right that
Speaker 1: they signs. They have Gemini, chatty, crazy, bipolar, cancer, nurturing, fuck,
Speaker 1: nigger leo, uh, conceited. I was gonna say attention, horror, dominant, virgo,
Speaker 1: control freak, I'm not sure controlling, that's my mom um,
Speaker 1: Libra wishy washy oh. I was gonna say indecisive. Oh,
Speaker 1: the same thing. And I was gonna say the best
Speaker 1: motherfucker's sign in the world beat no libra. So the
Speaker 1: word that I have for loyal, I would say, that's
Speaker 1: that's um, the word that I have. Let me get it,
Speaker 1: Let me get my mall. Because Scorpio intense good sucks,
Speaker 1: sneaky Sagittarius, while the ship I'm not sure fun Capricorn
Speaker 1: money outgoing, Um, I would say nurturing for capricorn Um
Speaker 1: Aquarius eccentric, artistic, I would say indecisive. And last one
Speaker 1: is Pisces weed weed emotionalist fault you know, I already
Speaker 1: know I don't even want to meet normal pisces. I
Speaker 1: got were right by me. That's all the motherfucker's pieces
Speaker 1: needne So, so I decided because there was so much
Speaker 1: um to actually talk about on this topic. Um A
Speaker 1: lot of you started sending in questions im which they
Speaker 1: I'm pretty much just gonna send them all to your
Speaker 1: book and email because they're like, well, can you really
Speaker 1: delve into what a Capricorn and Aquarius and what's what
Speaker 1: it's like for them to be down a little? Literally,
Speaker 1: everyone was sending their actual sign with you know, their
Speaker 1: compatibility with our people. Every episode we are going to
Speaker 1: go down this like a regular Horrible Decisions. But it
Speaker 1: is all about astrology, zodiac and horoscopes, and I think
Speaker 1: that's all the same thing. But um, so I actually
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Speaker 1: a press release, the site will let users find out
Speaker 1: who they are compatible with, what their sign says about
Speaker 1: their sex taste, what their sexual interest means based on
Speaker 1: their horoscope, and much more. Taking a glance at the
Speaker 1: horoscope for say this month, check out this excerpt. This
Speaker 1: was for aries Um. So it says on the six
Speaker 1: a major astrological monstone takes place as Saturn, the planet
Speaker 1: of challenge, ends it's five month retrograde in the sign
Speaker 1: of Capricorn, and that already is I don't know what
Speaker 1: the funk that means. This retrograde was affecting your social
Speaker 1: status and reputation sector. Okay, so it just goes into
Speaker 1: a horoscope read which I want to get into that
Speaker 1: because I think, because there's stuff that's coming in my
Speaker 1: mind and yes, right down your questions for sure. So
Speaker 1: basically what this app does is tell you kind of
Speaker 1: if you can expect to have a whole lot of sex,
Speaker 1: who you will be compatible with having sex with and
Speaker 1: all of these things, and what do you think about
Speaker 1: this app? Is that a thing like that you think, Um,
Speaker 1: I think it could be a great app. I think
Speaker 1: for me, Um, it would just be a matter of
Speaker 1: like who they're actually getting to write the material, because unfortunately,
Speaker 1: I have seen some apps that are astrology apps, but
Speaker 1: when you open it up, the descriptions and the horoscopes
Speaker 1: are extremely vague and they don't really offer you any
Speaker 1: insight at all, and and it kind of kind of
Speaker 1: feeds into that thing where people feel like astrology is bullshit.
Speaker 1: You know, we're saying. I was telling you I know
Speaker 1: about co star, that's I learned my rising and moon,
Speaker 1: and you said that it's not as accurate. You suggested
Speaker 1: another one, which one was that, Um, well, I don't
Speaker 1: try to steal people away from certain things. Like you
Speaker 1: use what you use. But the thing that I use
Speaker 1: is the old school website, which is astro dot com.
Speaker 1: Astro dot com, and you go to astro dot com
Speaker 1: and plug in your birthday, the day, month, year, the
Speaker 1: location that you were born in the time that you
Speaker 1: were born, and it will give you a readout of
Speaker 1: your birth chart. Oh ship, I actually didn't do the
Speaker 1: co started and ask me the location, but that makes sense. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that might be so all of that matters, yeah, ovation
Speaker 1: the time, all of that matters. Yeah, Okay, So then
Speaker 1: I guess that's how I guess people would differ. I
Speaker 1: know you introduced yourself, but I just have two questions,
Speaker 1: like how are you different from a psychic? Like what?
Speaker 1: How do you make money? How? What do people come
Speaker 1: to you for? So people come to me for advice
Speaker 1: on anything that has to do with like love, uh,
Speaker 1: in relationships. So it could be like you know, family stuff,
Speaker 1: it could be things between I've done parent and child readings. UM.
Speaker 1: I have done stuff around businesses, around uh, career paths. Um.
Speaker 1: You know, like let's say someone wants to come to
Speaker 1: you about their boyfriend. Do you need them to figure
Speaker 1: out where the time that their boyfriend was bored? It depends.
Speaker 1: Like if someone is coming to me about relationships, UM,
Speaker 1: I usually like to have permission of the other party.
Speaker 1: You know. That's kind of like because I don't read
Speaker 1: charts without permission. I find it to be very intrusive.
Speaker 1: But what I usually do, like if a person is
Speaker 1: coming to me and they don't want their partner to know,
Speaker 1: I'll just get very basic sort of information and focus
Speaker 1: to reading on them and what they need to do
Speaker 1: as opposed to like talking too much about the partner
Speaker 1: because at the end of the day, it's about them anyway. Yeah, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: So what what I guess I want to know too
Speaker 1: outside of astro dot com, what other websites are apps?
Speaker 1: Because this is clearly something from you porn that they're bringing.
Speaker 1: But what other apps or sites would you suggest our
Speaker 1: listeners to maybe go to. Um? I have seen a
Speaker 1: uh another website called astro dash charts dot com. Um.
Speaker 1: They have where you can go and get your birth
Speaker 1: chart and things like that. Um. But I really feel
Speaker 1: like when it comes to like kind of getting like
Speaker 1: the basics of like astrology and kind of like astro
Speaker 1: dot com is kind of like the best one of
Speaker 1: the best resources that you can go to. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean just to read, you know, I like to read,
Speaker 1: but I want to see what to say about libras,
Speaker 1: just just just to see. Are you not the person
Speaker 1: at flips to the last page in the magazine? Then
Speaker 1: what do you mean that always has a horsecope? Nah?
Speaker 1: I used to be looking for ve Street boys and
Speaker 1: ship first, do you That's that's what I really look
Speaker 1: at magazines? They really want to get into it. Can
Speaker 1: we what is astrology? Let's say that, like you're we're
Speaker 1: talking about moon and sun and all of that and
Speaker 1: Venus and there's a Chinese rat what is the ship?
Speaker 1: No in real life. So the astrology that practice is
Speaker 1: Western astrology, and it is based on some very old
Speaker 1: stuff from like pre biblical times, and basically what it
Speaker 1: is it is a study of patterns and cycles that
Speaker 1: are rooted in time. So whenever. So you were asking
Speaker 1: earlier about like what is like different makes me different
Speaker 1: from a psychic? What I'm doing is kind of going
Speaker 1: back in time and looking at things that have happened
Speaker 1: historically and looking at that and how that, like the
Speaker 1: planets moving sort of correlates with that, because what we're
Speaker 1: doing is really giving the planets um they're they're acting
Speaker 1: as a language for what is happening and what's going
Speaker 1: on in the world. They're not causing anything, they're not
Speaker 1: affecting us and not like physically doing anything to us.
Speaker 1: It's just as above so below. That's sort of like
Speaker 1: the context to it. Right, So as we are looking
Speaker 1: at things that I've happened in the past, we're making
Speaker 1: inferences of things that could happen in the future. So
Speaker 1: it's similar to the way like economists look at trends
Speaker 1: in terms to see like how the economy is going
Speaker 1: to go or whether like meteorologists are looking at like
Speaker 1: weather patterns and seeing like this is going to happen,
Speaker 1: you know, on such a such day. So we're doing
Speaker 1: that similarly, like looking at trends and then saying, Okay,
Speaker 1: if this has happened in the past, because history repeats itself,
Speaker 1: then chances are that these things are going to happen
Speaker 1: again in the future. And this is why there's certain
Speaker 1: traits attached to certain signs, and when you meet people,
Speaker 1: you assume that they may act away based on how
Speaker 1: someone else who held that same sign may act. Is
Speaker 1: that kind of the same um Somewhat yes, But I
Speaker 1: would also kind of want to let people know that,
Speaker 1: like every leo is not the same, you know, like
Speaker 1: every side, because like, is it that was all motherfucker's
Speaker 1: Twitter talking about oh scorpio big they got devil did.
Speaker 1: Like I guarantee everyone who was born in late October
Speaker 1: November does not have big dicks. There's a lot of
Speaker 1: a lot of stereotyping that happens with astrology, as I'm
Speaker 1: sure you know. Um, there was something that came up
Speaker 1: the other day about someone who was like trying to
Speaker 1: deny someone housing because they wear Capricorn. I don't know,
Speaker 1: you guys saw that that was particularly because they were Capricorn.
Speaker 1: They felt that Capricorn wouldn't blend well with their new
Speaker 1: made cent situation. Completely ridiculous and and nasty, and the
Speaker 1: kind of astrology that I do not support. Like it's
Speaker 1: not for discriminating against people whatsoever. But yeah, there's a
Speaker 1: lot of stereotypes, you know. Um, you know, I've met scorpios.
Speaker 1: I have a lot of people, like a lot of
Speaker 1: scorpios in my life. Not all of them are freaks,
Speaker 1: you know. Not all of them are freaks, not real quick.
Speaker 1: Not all virgos are neat and clean freaks, you know,
Speaker 1: not all sages are like party animals. So there it
Speaker 1: really depends again, like you know, on the day that
Speaker 1: you were born, because there's also your moon and you're
Speaker 1: rising your Venus and your Mars and all these different
Speaker 1: things that kind of blend together to make the whole.
Speaker 1: So it's really there's there's different things that happened or
Speaker 1: happens within astrology that gives us some variety and some
Speaker 1: differentiation when it comes to the Zodia signs and how
Speaker 1: they express themselves. Um, but at this end of the day,
Speaker 1: there are some core traits that we can kind of
Speaker 1: build from. And I ask you, sorry to interrupt you.
Speaker 1: We didn't talk about doing this, but I feel like,
Speaker 1: why not. Have you ever heard our show before? You
Speaker 1: have not no worries? So Mandy and I are known
Speaker 1: for acting like front of mees right, and we've done
Speaker 1: therapy on the show together. Do you think you could
Speaker 1: maybe read us and our signs? Business? Jesus? Do you
Speaker 1: need to do many need a verse start? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess you need, you know, but just tell us.
Speaker 1: We're fighting this small around, but I gotta worry about
Speaker 1: it because I'm amazing. Ships don't need mass. So Mandy's
Speaker 1: a Libra Yeah so, um, Mandy's a Libra son, a
Speaker 1: Pisces rising, and a cancer moon. H okay, And then
Speaker 1: I have you. This is so hard to feel good,
Speaker 1: damn pieces pieces, pieces reaching Pisces. And then wheezy, hold
Speaker 1: on one second, all right? So then I have you
Speaker 1: as an Erie son, a tourist rising, and a Gemini moon.
Speaker 1: Hold on, I'm not a pisces. Wait a minute, hold on,
Speaker 1: you said April. No oh no, okay, sorry, that's my fault. Then,
Speaker 1: oh my damn. Right wait, I'm not a muse. We
Speaker 1: sell you guys. Mecca is on astrology astro dot com
Speaker 1: right now. She we just called her mom's um to
Speaker 1: check and see what date we were born for I
Speaker 1: mean over time we were born because we need daytime
Speaker 1: and location to get an accurate birth start reading, I asked,
Speaker 1: am I gonna check it out for us so that
Speaker 1: we could see how well we were worked together? Well,
Speaker 1: we already know the answer to that. Good, but maybe
Speaker 1: we need to hear some bitch. All right, so wait,
Speaker 1: you said more at seventy right now? Okay, alright, alright
Speaker 1: now I got it good, alright, alright, alright, so let's
Speaker 1: see what this is like a Nike all right, So wheezy,
Speaker 1: I have you uh there's your sunning pisces, your modern aries,
Speaker 1: and your ascendant and said, okay, that's what I had. Yeah, perfect, Okay,
Speaker 1: So what does this mean? Alright? So basically, like when
Speaker 1: it comes to the Big three, your sun, moon and
Speaker 1: rising um, your son is your identity is how you
Speaker 1: want to shine in the world and how how you
Speaker 1: want people to see you, So has a piscey sun.
Speaker 1: You want people to see you as someone that is compassionate,
Speaker 1: carrying intuitive um and that you have the ability to
Speaker 1: basically understand people at a very fundamentally fundamental level. But
Speaker 1: then you have that aries moon, a moon like that
Speaker 1: all the area's moon a clap back moon, right, because
Speaker 1: your moon has to do with your emotions and how
Speaker 1: you express them and process them, and you don't know
Speaker 1: how to do it. You're definitely yeah, so mooning areas
Speaker 1: is definitely gonna be feisty um, definitely going to look
Speaker 1: out for their friends and family, be very fiercely protective
Speaker 1: of the people that they love. Um. But as an
Speaker 1: area's moon, in terms of what you need, you also
Speaker 1: need like adventure and independence, which makes you somewhat different
Speaker 1: from like the traditional Pisces, which if you read about it,
Speaker 1: they'll say like Pisces are clingy and and too needy
Speaker 1: and all that kind of stuff like that. But with
Speaker 1: your home, with your moon being in areas, you're a
Speaker 1: little bit more independent and freedom freeom loving than with
Speaker 1: the typical Pisces. And then that's also and that also
Speaker 1: kind of ties into your Sagittarius rising, because your rising
Speaker 1: sign has to do with how you approach the world
Speaker 1: and how you see yourself. Sagittarius is the sign that
Speaker 1: is associated with freedom and travel. So even though you
Speaker 1: have that compassionate, nurturing and tender piscey self, at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, you're approaching the world from a
Speaker 1: place of life, wanting to explore, taste, and see as
Speaker 1: much as you possibly. You never heard our show and
Speaker 1: you know nothing about me, So I feel like everybody's
Speaker 1: listening like, oh ship. I mean, you know, I haven't
Speaker 1: met the tenths of thousands of listeners, but I feel
Speaker 1: like they would at least know that. I'm so curious. Okay,
Speaker 1: what about what about me? All right? Right here? Isn't
Speaker 1: uh son Pisces rising and cancer? Yes, okay, so let me.
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna pull up your chart okay again, so
Speaker 1: that way I could have it in front of me.
Speaker 1: That was awesome, No, it really was. And that's why
Speaker 1: I come out of somebody climbed like she really didn't
Speaker 1: read you. Wow, that's crazy. All right? So, Mandy, so
Speaker 1: we have you as a liber's son, Yes, right, Carson
Speaker 1: moon and Pisces rising. So you know, just kind of
Speaker 1: a little bit I'll tell you about yourself. But I
Speaker 1: think this kind of ties into like why you guys
Speaker 1: work so well because because you do have a lot
Speaker 1: of just too. So those two things, you both have
Speaker 1: a lot of water between you, so like water is
Speaker 1: cancer pissy scorpio, right, so you intuitively get along and
Speaker 1: there's like a fundamental sort of understanding that you have
Speaker 1: between each other. But at the same time, you also
Speaker 1: have a polarity between you with your aries moon and
Speaker 1: your Libra son, so there's like a dynamic of like
Speaker 1: that push pull so things don't get boring. But with
Speaker 1: you being a Libra, the way you want to be seen,
Speaker 1: Mandy as some is someone um that basically, you know,
Speaker 1: wants to be fair, that wants to be diplomatic, that
Speaker 1: wants to be that knows how to hold space for
Speaker 1: other people and understand right. The other thing about libras
Speaker 1: that the other thing about libras is that libras love
Speaker 1: playing the devil's advocate. So if you say something is blue,
Speaker 1: they will come along and say, well it could be green,
Speaker 1: you know, and they they'll have the capacity to are
Speaker 1: arguaboth sides. Now with your moon being a can so
Speaker 1: your moon has to do with your feelings. Your moon
Speaker 1: is actually at home and cancer because cancer, Um, the moon,
Speaker 1: the moon rules cancer. So cancer moons definitely have big,
Speaker 1: big feelings, a lot of feelings, which kind of goes
Speaker 1: against the grain. With you being a Libra, there's like
Speaker 1: a battle internal struggle with you, like how how logical.
Speaker 1: It's like, how logical and rational am I? But at
Speaker 1: the same time I have all these big feelings, right
Speaker 1: And then with your your pisces rising um, the way
Speaker 1: that you approach the world is from a place of
Speaker 1: compassion and wanting to understand and make the world a
Speaker 1: better place. That is men it Now, I mean it's cute, um,
Speaker 1: you know, I like my son is a scale, it's cute. Um. No,
Speaker 1: So I like that. I mean I think that it's
Speaker 1: interesting because this is a way that kind of we
Speaker 1: can maybe I guess this is an explanation as to
Speaker 1: why maybe we are the way we are, um, in
Speaker 1: terms of how we do approach the world, how we
Speaker 1: view ourselves and how we want others to view us. Um.
Speaker 1: But I would actually kind of tie that And I
Speaker 1: know you said it's not religion, but I think it
Speaker 1: just gives us an explanation for something which I feel
Speaker 1: like is what sciences, which is why I don't believe it.
Speaker 1: But also religion as well, like religion is faith because
Speaker 1: it gives us something to believe about life after death
Speaker 1: or what um and giving faith. So I know this
Speaker 1: is horrible decisions. So we're all gonna get this and
Speaker 1: make this horrible decisions. We're gonna get into the Kike
Speaker 1: of a week. I'm like me, while I'm not going,
Speaker 1: I'm doing a lot of self analyzing right now, Like
Speaker 1: just you're saying that you ain't shit, you ain't shit,
Speaker 1: you ain't ship, that's all yours. Maybe I have a meeting,
Speaker 1: right we are so like when we're in it, we're
Speaker 1: in it. When we're in two, Yeah, we're gonna do
Speaker 1: this thing. We have this, we're going, we're good. But
Speaker 1: the second one little opinion doesn't agree. No, it's hard.
Speaker 1: So this is what it is. She's no no real quick.
Speaker 1: She is an only child. And so I feel as
Speaker 1: I'll be honest, I'll be honest, and this is kind
Speaker 1: of this isn't a therapist session, and this isn't me
Speaker 1: ratten on you, but even for other people who are listening,
Speaker 1: if you're an only child, to me, I feel like
Speaker 1: you don't have the gag to kind of compromise because
Speaker 1: your whole life here's a talking about compromise about but
Speaker 1: must be fair, let's and that's what it is. But
Speaker 1: not only thank you, she's never had to really argue
Speaker 1: or compromise or share with someone else growing up as
Speaker 1: an only child. If you want something, because you were
Speaker 1: almost a miracle baby with your mom, you were very
Speaker 1: spoiled and you got what you wanted. No, I didn't stop. Don't.
Speaker 1: It's very hard for the things i've I've have to
Speaker 1: work as we don't. Yes, I'm saying right the last
Speaker 1: ten years, but look how that compares to the first eighteen.
Speaker 1: That's shaped a lot of how I am able to
Speaker 1: be compassionate about things that other people go through and
Speaker 1: working hard. I believe all of that. Working hard I'm
Speaker 1: talking about when it comes to disagreeing and someone literally
Speaker 1: just saying and I don't think I want to do
Speaker 1: it that way. It's your way or the highway, and
Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of scenarios you think that
Speaker 1: I work with you, Well, this is funny. You know,
Speaker 1: it's funny you both have Mars and Gemini, which is
Speaker 1: hilarious to me because Mars has to do with like
Speaker 1: how you fight and how you take action with things,
Speaker 1: and Gemini as a sign that has to do with communication.
Speaker 1: So you guys definitely fight with your words. But but
Speaker 1: again this is highlighting what I was talking about earlier,
Speaker 1: the dynamic between you in terms of the Libra, who's
Speaker 1: like you're not thinking about other people and the aries
Speaker 1: that's thinking that the way that it sounded like, oh,
Speaker 1: the Aria's part of you is thinking solely about yourself.
Speaker 1: But that's kind of like where that push pole kind
Speaker 1: of comes in between those. And so I think that
Speaker 1: this is something that maybe a lot of you who
Speaker 1: are listening, if you have a partner um that you
Speaker 1: know you've been seeing for a while, whether it's intimately
Speaker 1: sexually or you guys have been together in a long
Speaker 1: term relationship, maybe just making this kind of an activity
Speaker 1: for one night, get some wine and look up your
Speaker 1: charts and kind of read into it and see if
Speaker 1: maybe this could be the reasons So basically said, you
Speaker 1: ain't ship, but no, I do want to get into
Speaker 1: Kistie was rising, and so was y'all gig and when
Speaker 1: the moon went down, I thought you So we're gonna
Speaker 1: get into our KIK of the week, guys. This is
Speaker 1: where we're gonna talk about sex and signs. And so
Speaker 1: with this, I know you guys want a whole motherfucking
Speaker 1: episode about how your sign relates to every other sign
Speaker 1: in the book. But we're not gonna be able to
Speaker 1: do that. Here goes someone else, Well, why don't you
Speaker 1: guys just have twelve different episodes on each side podcast?
Speaker 1: So I'm like, no, I'm not gonna do just you're
Speaker 1: doing that for us. You're about to get some money. So,
Speaker 1: but I do want to start, and we're gonna start. Um.
Speaker 1: So what I found is from Elite Daily. It says
Speaker 1: that the fetish each zodiac sign has definitely thought about
Speaker 1: at least once um and this is based on the
Speaker 1: sign and what they feel like the fetish matches them.
Speaker 1: So let me know how true this is. If you
Speaker 1: can elaborate on any of it, please feel free to.
Speaker 1: And if you have had any sort of sexual experiences
Speaker 1: with any of these signs and what it's saying they're fetish,
Speaker 1: would be also tuned into that. So The first one
Speaker 1: is aries. They have aries fetish as dom Aries are
Speaker 1: doms by nature, doms or dominants that take reins and
Speaker 1: get off by watching a strong, confident person willingly submit
Speaker 1: to them. This person becomes their sub or submissive. Aries
Speaker 1: love the chase, though, so pairing up with someone who
Speaker 1: is more of a brat is a better choice. I
Speaker 1: can see that. I can see that. Actually there was
Speaker 1: a study sort of like a um an informal study
Speaker 1: that I was reading about, like doms us subs, and uh,
Speaker 1: the signs that tended to show up the most work
Speaker 1: cancer capricorn aries, and I think that might have been it. Okay,
Speaker 1: that makes sense. Cancers to me, definitely have and well
Speaker 1: mostly so. The next one is torres. The fetish for
Speaker 1: tourists is master. Masters in the b D s M
Speaker 1: community are like doms on crack. They have a sub
Speaker 1: they call their slave, and the agreement they enter into
Speaker 1: goes outside of the bedroom. A master and slave relationship
Speaker 1: is exactly what it sounds like. The slave often has
Speaker 1: one master, but the master can have many slaves and he, she,
Speaker 1: or they tells them all what to do. Tauris is
Speaker 1: extremely possessive of their lovers and are terrible at avoiding temptation,
Speaker 1: so this is a perfect arrangement. They get cheated the
Speaker 1: last tourist. What do you think about that? Um? I
Speaker 1: can see it from the from the possessive standpoint, So
Speaker 1: tourists are mostly possessive. Oh this one fits so good, bitch.
Speaker 1: The next one is Jemini. Can you guess what they're
Speaker 1: fetish is? Probably Jemini's love to have options. They need
Speaker 1: the freedom to make one choice and then an another,
Speaker 1: and then another and then another. They need to be
Speaker 1: able to make all of the choices at once. They're
Speaker 1: polly people. They need the freedom to explore with multiple
Speaker 1: partners in different places in different ways. This way they
Speaker 1: never get bored. Plus they have that beautiful air sign
Speaker 1: ability to think through their jealousy before they act on it.
Speaker 1: That's hilarious. Um No, in some ways, yeah, I can.
Speaker 1: I can kind of see that. Um. But you know,
Speaker 1: I feel like Geminis in terms of kink, they would
Speaker 1: probably be the ones that would kind of do like um,
Speaker 1: they would be switches. They make good switches. I mean,
Speaker 1: so the ideal with the Gemini right now, and he's
Speaker 1: super dumb, but I think we still are able to
Speaker 1: have kind of that dynamic where we switch to where
Speaker 1: he still allows me to feel powerful even if I'm not.
Speaker 1: So I do like that. And then of course he
Speaker 1: liked mad options, so yeah he does. So the next
Speaker 1: one is cancer for cancer. It's actually suck up. Cancers
Speaker 1: are submissive in a multitude of ways, but especially when
Speaker 1: it comes to sex. The qualities that make for someone
Speaker 1: who loves submission is to be giving generous um, and
Speaker 1: they feel their best when they're giving to others. Is
Speaker 1: that kind of wouldn't agree with that? You would disagree
Speaker 1: with that one? Okay? Why that? Why would you put
Speaker 1: a fetish for um? Maybe you said them more. I'm like, like,
Speaker 1: what is it like? Um? Like baby play? Maybe they
Speaker 1: get to be like the parents? What kind of like
Speaker 1: that kind of role play? I mean because because cancers.
Speaker 1: See here's the thing. A lot of people people don't
Speaker 1: misunderstand cancers. They always put paid cancers as being so
Speaker 1: tender and sensitive. But cancers are very protective and they
Speaker 1: are also very bossy. They love to take charge. So
Speaker 1: I would yeah, I would put them more in a
Speaker 1: dominant sort of role. Okay, but kind of like what
Speaker 1: you said. Still, it's the maybe the daddy doma. Okay.
Speaker 1: The next one is Leo. This one is alpha. Leo's
Speaker 1: shine in the spotlight and they have an alpha personality.
Speaker 1: They'll play a submissive for sure, but if someone isn't
Speaker 1: as dominant as Leo wants them to be, they'll switch
Speaker 1: to the natural emotional habitat and go full alpha on
Speaker 1: the poor sucker. Leo's are extremely picky about their partners
Speaker 1: as well, another alpha characteristic. They know what they want
Speaker 1: and they go get it to some degree kind of.
Speaker 1: I would say Leo's I think make good subs because
Speaker 1: they definitely want to be put on display or maybe
Speaker 1: like a humiliation fetish um like around. I don't know
Speaker 1: about the humilia maybe maybe uh. The other one exhibitionists. Yes, yes, girl,
Speaker 1: you know so the next one is Virgo, and Virgo
Speaker 1: goes back to B D S M A. Virgo is
Speaker 1: And this is so crazy because my mom and I see,
Speaker 1: do you want to take a guess? Go ahead, slave, Yes, bottoms.
Speaker 1: Virgos are the best bottoms. So no, we actually like
Speaker 1: have this conversation with her and her dynamic with relationships.
Speaker 1: She's very sub but then when it comes down to it,
Speaker 1: like you're cooking, your cleaning, your pain. But let's not
Speaker 1: even get into the pain in the bills. But um
Speaker 1: so virgo is a slave UM and b DSM slaver
Speaker 1: first is someone who engages in dom sub role play
Speaker 1: and it's consensually at the complete whim of their dahmer master.
Speaker 1: Virgo is at is natural at serving others, and they
Speaker 1: give everything to their partner. If they can't, they might
Speaker 1: even be willing to allow their partner to go find
Speaker 1: what they're looking for somewhere else. This doesn't mean they
Speaker 1: won't be jealous. It just means that. It just means
Speaker 1: that they care that much about making their partner happy.
Speaker 1: This is crazy. Yes, I believe that. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: here I go, Oh my god, this is me Libra.
Speaker 1: Can you guess what libra is? No bit so it's
Speaker 1: not dumb, which I would so it is. Also in
Speaker 1: the b d s M, it says a princess and
Speaker 1: b ds I was thinking baby girl means someone who
Speaker 1: loves to be pampered in a very vanilla which not
Speaker 1: vanilla way calmed down though not me um. It says
Speaker 1: vanilla being a term for more monogamous traditional relationship dynamics.
Speaker 1: Someone that needs to be seriously, That's why I'm like
Speaker 1: riding Dick, you do everything. But princesses also have the
Speaker 1: tendency to be dominant personalities. They want to be the
Speaker 1: center of their partners world and wants to run their
Speaker 1: lives in the bedroom. Yes, and how this partnership Libras,
Speaker 1: perhaps because of their concern with justice and equality out
Speaker 1: of the bedroom, tend to be completely the opposite when
Speaker 1: they're in it. You know what I'm thinking about that,
Speaker 1: I'm thinking about Libra and taurists and how both both
Speaker 1: signs are ruled by Venus, right, and I think about
Speaker 1: like financial domination can m as far as what you
Speaker 1: brought up Venus. So Venus has to do with seduction.
Speaker 1: Seduction Venus is uh, you know, your ability to attract things.
Speaker 1: And Venus is also associated with money. So when I
Speaker 1: think about like, um, you know, expensive things or um luxury, luxury, yes,
Speaker 1: Libra is the same way, like very indulgent, very um luxury.
Speaker 1: So when I think about a whole lot of things,
Speaker 1: Mandy is pretty frugal. Actually, the think about Venus soon
Speaker 1: because Venus is so seductive, they have the power to
Speaker 1: like get just basically whatever they want. From from people
Speaker 1: to begin everything, it just be okay. So we're almost
Speaker 1: the guys um, so scorpio for those that are listening
Speaker 1: and waiting for their sign to come up, so Scorpio,
Speaker 1: this fetish would be primal. Primals love to let out
Speaker 1: their inner animal in the bedroom, and sex for them
Speaker 1: is about exposing their raws. Most primary emotions during X
Speaker 1: Scorpios switched between the roles of predator and prey because
Speaker 1: they get off on the power dynamics. Obviously, Yeah, the
Speaker 1: person who wrote it says, obviously they sucked a lot
Speaker 1: of scorpios. Um. What's crazy with with me is when
Speaker 1: it comes to the scorpio dynamics that I have. So
Speaker 1: I've dealt with two scorpios in a long term setting. Now,
Speaker 1: maybe I don't know their rising sun and moon and
Speaker 1: all of that stuff, but they've been completely opposite as
Speaker 1: far as how they are in the bedroom, which is
Speaker 1: probably why I've viewed scorpios kind of like I don't
Speaker 1: really believe them. So one of my scorpios I've talked
Speaker 1: about on this show, he was in my life for
Speaker 1: well over ten years. He's the guy who I pissed
Speaker 1: on um and was really into like meet him being
Speaker 1: my bitch in the bedroom. The other one was not
Speaker 1: half as freaky as this one, but I guess they
Speaker 1: were freaky in different ways. Maybe it is a freakness.
Speaker 1: So the other scorpio is who I had the male
Speaker 1: male female threesome with, but he got off on seeing
Speaker 1: me with others more so. But he was innately, he
Speaker 1: wasn't that freaky, like he liked getting head, but he
Speaker 1: really couldn't last in the bedroom like the other one.
Speaker 1: I guess that's also more body wise. But yeah, so
Speaker 1: it's just weird, like when I think of scorpios, because
Speaker 1: I've dealt with two of these scorpios that areis a
Speaker 1: sign of extremes. There's no middle ground when it comes
Speaker 1: to scorpio at all, So you either have one on
Speaker 1: one side. That's kind of um. And you always say
Speaker 1: too I remember reading this a long time ago, like
Speaker 1: when I first got into stral They always say like,
Speaker 1: if you meet a scorpio who has hang ups about sex,
Speaker 1: you should run away from them. Why is that because
Speaker 1: um scorpio? You know, I hate to say that Scorpio
Speaker 1: is a sign of sex. Scorpio is not the sign
Speaker 1: of sex. Scorpio is associated with intimacy, which is which
Speaker 1: sex is a form of right and when you also
Speaker 1: put the power and control dynamic into it, then it
Speaker 1: becomes a thing around. Like ultimately, what scorpios want is
Speaker 1: at unconditional, no hole's barred, unfiltered intimacy with another human
Speaker 1: being that allows them to touch souls as well as
Speaker 1: their body parts. So if they have hang ups around
Speaker 1: intimacy as they're seeing as like something that's wrong or
Speaker 1: dirty or bad, then there's usually something else psychologically going
Speaker 1: going there that they need to work through. Okay, we
Speaker 1: have two more signs before we get into like definitely
Speaker 1: talking about this. So Sagittarius, they're fetish is swingers, while
Speaker 1: Geminis are also polly they need to have someone to
Speaker 1: match up with. Sagittarius people don't see sexuality as a
Speaker 1: one on one thing, whatever the construction of their relationship is.
Speaker 1: They like to keep a variety of sexual partners or
Speaker 1: even attend parties with their partners because of their expansive
Speaker 1: sexual imaginations. Gemini is the perfect sign for the knock
Speaker 1: up with you and as a as a Sagittarius, geminis,
Speaker 1: I think Geminis, I mean that's that's our opposite sign.
Speaker 1: So your opposite sign is always going to bring to
Speaker 1: the table whatever it is you need and you're lacking.
Speaker 1: So when it comes to Geminize that I've dealt with
Speaker 1: in the past, yeah, there is definitely this incredible tension
Speaker 1: and heat, but at the same time it's very love
Speaker 1: or hate at the same time. Pisces, we're not there yet.
Speaker 1: We're not there yet because you said it's last oh
Speaker 1: and that's you. So we're going right now to Aquarius. Actually, wait,
Speaker 1: we got Capricorn, then Aquarius and Pisces. So Capricorn is satis,
Speaker 1: consent being a requirement for this. Satis enjoy inflicting certain
Speaker 1: types of pain on their partners. The reason Capricorns would
Speaker 1: be say this is because the disciplinarian roles they often
Speaker 1: play in life. You agree with that, We're gonna go
Speaker 1: to Aquarius real quick, Aquarius, this is funny. Perverts. Aquariums
Speaker 1: are the most offbeat sign in the zodiac, and their
Speaker 1: odd ball antics exist inside the bedroom too. They're like
Speaker 1: the original sexual deviance and enjoy things like voyeurism, state
Speaker 1: of masochism, or wearing women's panties on their faces. Their
Speaker 1: freaks on the street and freaks in the bed. But
Speaker 1: at least they're consistent. Would you agree with that? Yeah? Okay,
Speaker 1: And now we're at fucking pisces, So moment that has
Speaker 1: been waiting for a bitch and it's you home. So
Speaker 1: brats in b D s M community are not a
Speaker 1: submissive types. Typically, they pair up with dominance and like
Speaker 1: to test the limits of their partner's dominance by disobeying them.
Speaker 1: Oh my god are brats because they can never decide
Speaker 1: on being just one way. As the last sign in
Speaker 1: the zodiac, they're liking, why why they got to give
Speaker 1: me a big word? I've been doing so good? This
Speaker 1: magala mgamation, amalgamation, Oh there we go alright that way. Um,
Speaker 1: They're like an amalgamination of all the eleven signs before them.
Speaker 1: Although they prefer dominant partners for the most part, they
Speaker 1: also want to enjoy the freedom to do whatever they want.
Speaker 1: Fifness you push like literally I've said, I'm just writing
Speaker 1: down things for our Instagram. I've literally said I love
Speaker 1: to like say I'm gonna do something bad or tell
Speaker 1: you about me doing something bad so I can get spain.
Speaker 1: This is herd like to a t that is insane
Speaker 1: that the leabor read me as a princess, because but
Speaker 1: I don't even like ride and Dick. I mean, the
Speaker 1: only part about me not being a princess, but the
Speaker 1: dominant part that I take is me enjoying sucking Dick.
Speaker 1: So it's just like matched so perfectly with me. But now, guys, yeah,
Speaker 1: we are gonna before we get into our horleor decision,
Speaker 1: this one is great. We're gonna talk about it. So
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Speaker 1: Now let's get back to this episode. So we're gonna
Speaker 1: get into our whole decision. So we're gonna try to
Speaker 1: get through these questions. Bro alright, alright, I know we
Speaker 1: don't talk to a lot y'all. Ho's like, God, damn,
Speaker 1: I ain't hear enough about Taurus. I ain't hear enough
Speaker 1: about Pisces. What actually they heard enough about Pisces? No more?
Speaker 1: But I love discussions. Someone asked about mercury rectigrade? What
Speaker 1: the fun is that? Why are we always feeling ship?
Speaker 1: What's that ship? Okay, so here we go rector grade?
Speaker 1: Like what does that mean? Like? What is that? I
Speaker 1: love it? He says, it's in micro bread is. So
Speaker 1: the planet, uh, planet mercury has to do with communication,
Speaker 1: like you know the way we right thinks speak um
Speaker 1: nonverbal verbal communication and technology. So when we talk about
Speaker 1: a planet being retrograde, there's a thing that the planet, um,
Speaker 1: there's an appearance that the planet is moving backwards. So
Speaker 1: when it applies to astrology, it's a time for us
Speaker 1: slowing down, reflecting, looking at the past, and doing things
Speaker 1: over The reason why mercury retrograde causes so much UM
Speaker 1: issues is that people are so used to like doing
Speaker 1: things very quickly, moving forward and not really thinking about things,
Speaker 1: where mercury retrograde forces us to really pay attention to
Speaker 1: what it is that we do. And so that's why
Speaker 1: would people say like, oh, you know, um, don't sign
Speaker 1: things earing a mercury retrograde, and you know travel is
Speaker 1: like all delayed and things like that. It's a moment
Speaker 1: for us to kind of take a step back and
Speaker 1: really like pay closer attention to the things that we
Speaker 1: are saying and doing so that when mercury starts going
Speaker 1: forward again, we have a clear idea in terms of
Speaker 1: where we're headed now, because retrogrades have to do with
Speaker 1: the past. That's also one reason why, like our exes,
Speaker 1: you know, we can end up like hearing from texes
Speaker 1: around the time of retrograde UM and usually they come
Speaker 1: around because it's a moment for us to kind of
Speaker 1: like reflect and say, like, you know, is this X
Speaker 1: an X for a reason or is it a situation
Speaker 1: where maybe they could be a second chance, And see,
Speaker 1: I'm all here for a second chances. So one of
Speaker 1: the number one questions that not only I had, but
Speaker 1: a lot of our listeners were sending in is with
Speaker 1: astrology and these signs, should I date with these signs
Speaker 1: in mind? So being to where if I'm a Libra
Speaker 1: and I know maybe Scorpio is someone I just do
Speaker 1: not get along with, should I make that deter myself
Speaker 1: from further speaking to a Scorpio because down the line
Speaker 1: will that call some greep? So with people dating, is
Speaker 1: that something that we should keep in mind when choosing
Speaker 1: our partners? Okay, No, I like that answer. Now why
Speaker 1: do people believe so? Like, well, I think it's what
Speaker 1: anything that, like, you know, once you sort of have
Speaker 1: like the quote unquote code to something, you know, you
Speaker 1: try to use the cheat sheet. You know, you're trying
Speaker 1: to try to um create the shortest amount of time
Speaker 1: between like what you want and like the pain and
Speaker 1: the trouble and the effort that it actually takes to
Speaker 1: getting it right right. But that's not really what astrology
Speaker 1: is really about, you know. And when it comes to relationships,
Speaker 1: it's really about learning about ourselves as well as learning
Speaker 1: about the people that we're dealing with. And when it
Speaker 1: comes to astrology and relationships, it's really all the opportunity
Speaker 1: for growth. I saw something um in the in your
Speaker 1: Instagram feed about someone was saying, like, um, you know,
Speaker 1: is it possible that you can miss out on your
Speaker 1: soul mate by like only paying attention to like certain signs.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, yeah, absolutely, Like I have a I
Speaker 1: have a friend who's also an astrologer and I love him,
Speaker 1: and he always talks about how he's a Gemini, and
Speaker 1: he talks about how all signs are compatible with each other,
Speaker 1: and I agree to spend it again. Okay, all signs
Speaker 1: are compatible with each other. So to a certain extent, Yes,
Speaker 1: if you're open and interested in learning, um what you
Speaker 1: can from a partner as well as about yourself, there's
Speaker 1: this opportunity for growth. Right the minute we start to
Speaker 1: close our minds off and say no, I'm not going
Speaker 1: to date any more Leo's or I'm not gonna date
Speaker 1: any more virgos, you don't know your next amazing person
Speaker 1: could be that virgo that you're shutting down. And the
Speaker 1: reason why we get certain signs that like, for a
Speaker 1: long time I was attracting scorpios, which I still do,
Speaker 1: But the reason for that is because in my own
Speaker 1: birth chart all I have is fire and air. I
Speaker 1: have no water. And so people like Pisces, cancer, Scorpio,
Speaker 1: or people who are heavily influenced by those signs naturally
Speaker 1: gravitate towards me because they're bringing me something that I lack.
Speaker 1: So when it comes to signs that you attract, there's
Speaker 1: usually a lesson that that sign is trying to teach
Speaker 1: you that you're not learning, or that you're not avoiding,
Speaker 1: and or that you're avoiding rather than I never forget
Speaker 1: the time when I was doing a love and compatibility
Speaker 1: sort of workshop and I had a a Libra in
Speaker 1: my class and she hated Virgo. She's like virgos, and
Speaker 1: she had Venus and Virgo, and I was like, well,
Speaker 1: there's something that these virgos are teaching you about your
Speaker 1: self worth and the way that you relate to others
Speaker 1: that you need to like acknowledge, and that's why that
Speaker 1: you're getting that friction with these virgos. And once you
Speaker 1: learn that lesson, it doesn't necessarily mean that you'll stop
Speaker 1: attracting them, But once you learn that lesson, then you
Speaker 1: can be free to move on to something else that
Speaker 1: maybe a little bit better suited for you, hey ho.
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Speaker 1: See I like this, I like see I like what
Speaker 1: you're saying, because I was hoping that you weren't going
Speaker 1: to come in and say, well, you know, these are
Speaker 1: the signs that we are based on where we were born,
Speaker 1: where we're from, and our birthdates and all of these things,
Speaker 1: and just knowing that you have all of these kind
Speaker 1: of different interactions with people and we're not kind of
Speaker 1: based on our sign So when people come to you,
Speaker 1: I guess my question is, how, without being vague, how
Speaker 1: do you really follow what they are as a sign?
Speaker 1: You do? You know what I'm saying, come you and
Speaker 1: say I'm a libra, tell me about myself with you
Speaker 1: saying this to where all of us can kind of
Speaker 1: relate to any sign all this, How how deep does
Speaker 1: astrology really rising and all of that? You had you
Speaker 1: heard of that before? By the way, may day. I
Speaker 1: mean yeah, because everyone in the comments was like, I'm
Speaker 1: writing this and I was like, okay, what does that
Speaker 1: sounds for you? To give a proper reading? Right, So
Speaker 1: when I'm looking at someone's chart, I'm not just looking
Speaker 1: at the signs. I'm looking at where the and it's
Speaker 1: are falling in their chart. That will also give me
Speaker 1: some um information in terms of like how they're expressing
Speaker 1: their energy. So for example, you know, let's say you're
Speaker 1: a Leo, right, and Leo's are technically known for being
Speaker 1: very flamboyant and very like you know, out there and
Speaker 1: and but if your son is located in the twelfth
Speaker 1: house of your chart, you're not going to be a
Speaker 1: Leo that wants to be seen. You're going to be
Speaker 1: a Leo that wants to be more behind the scenes,
Speaker 1: because that zone of your chart is all about being
Speaker 1: behind the scenes in the houses. So we was in
Speaker 1: the solar system with planets, and now we're in a
Speaker 1: neighborhood with houses. Where where where is we? I don't
Speaker 1: even know where all? Where are we at right here?
Speaker 1: The houses? I don't know what neighborhood is that? So
Speaker 1: were they houses? Like are they co ops? If we
Speaker 1: impartch other wait where the wait of it? Houses and planets?
Speaker 1: So so here, so let me record like trying to
Speaker 1: make it, make it plain. So, a birth chart is
Speaker 1: basically a visual map of like the division, like how
Speaker 1: how we divide up the sky based on where we
Speaker 1: are from, you know, here on Earth. Right. So the
Speaker 1: houses that fill a birth chart represent different areas of
Speaker 1: person life in a different different areas of who they are. Right.
Speaker 1: So there's twelve houses, right, which represent all the twelve signs.
Speaker 1: So when it comes to houses, um, so, for example,
Speaker 1: the signs represent a certain behavior, the planets within the
Speaker 1: signs represent how those signs like, how that behavior is
Speaker 1: acted out. But it's only Venus, Mars, and Mercury, right, No,
Speaker 1: all it is Sun in a planet no mall technically, so, um,
Speaker 1: we have Sun, Moon, Venus, Mercury, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, Um
Speaker 1: nep soon nep soon, you're this and Pluto. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: so we that that and then you like calling it
Speaker 1: your anus. You know, I was, I was saying differently
Speaker 1: because I'm like, you're a I'm sorry, I kept walking out.
Speaker 1: I'm like so sick. So, guys, if any of your
Speaker 1: favorite podcasters get sick soon. It's because it's sweezy spot point. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: I've been like sanitizing the area and everybody records here.
Speaker 1: That's the problem. Everybody's favorite podcast. Literally, Yeah, let me
Speaker 1: put some on this ship too, about I want my boat?
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. We both stuck saying, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm saying I'm making a joke because oh, I'm like,
Speaker 1: what do you what podcasts? Are you sucking? Look? He's
Speaker 1: being him literally looked like I was like, I don't
Speaker 1: know this a new d I was bad talking about Okay,
Speaker 1: so so the houses, the plants arriving, how you are
Speaker 1: as behavior? I don't do you have? Like what other questions? Like?
Speaker 1: She started right one. I liked someone to put in
Speaker 1: her Instagram. What signs are going to struggle or be
Speaker 1: really good at non monogamy? Um? Who are going to
Speaker 1: struggle with monogamy? Actually, let's let's do it that way.
Speaker 1: It's someone who's looking for an open relationship. Yeah, who's
Speaker 1: going to struggle with mention Gemini Gemini Pisces second um.
Speaker 1: Libra Libra can be serial monogamous, but Libra will always
Speaker 1: have someone waiting in the wings whenever a son but it.
Speaker 1: So here's my chest with you even asking that question,
Speaker 1: does it still just does it still matter? They're like
Speaker 1: rising moon and sun instead of just having yeah to
Speaker 1: some degree because I mean, you know again like if
Speaker 1: you going just off the sun sign and you say like, oh,
Speaker 1: you know Sagittarius, Sagittarius is wild and all they do
Speaker 1: is like you know, they suck everybody. Um, I know
Speaker 1: Sagittarians who are very like, I'm committed to you and
Speaker 1: that's it. I don't, you know, let myself like go
Speaker 1: anywhere else. So the other signs that in you are
Speaker 1: in your chart, like your venus, your Mars, your moon,
Speaker 1: will also play a role in how you express love
Speaker 1: and affection and what you need in relationships. I'm start
Speaker 1: looking at that too. I'm start getting into it. I
Speaker 1: kind of like that, Um we are going to get
Speaker 1: into Wait can you does your son in mood? And
Speaker 1: I think they never change? Right? No? They never change?
Speaker 1: Yeah ever whatever, because like when you click on certain apps,
Speaker 1: it'll say like something about my day and it'll like
Speaker 1: tell me a new sign, and I don't know, yeah,
Speaker 1: sometimes it depends because like sometimes like like I was
Speaker 1: saying earlier, like the calculations for certain sights, um and
Speaker 1: apps aren't always accurate. You have to kind of. So yeah, y'all,
Speaker 1: just get you a little Ley's a rise in emotional business.
Speaker 1: I'm horizon that beat. But now we are going to
Speaker 1: get Insto our homemail. And I really like this homemail
Speaker 1: because what we've been talking with these signs for the
Speaker 1: most part, and what we kind of talk every episode
Speaker 1: is communication, So whether it's communication in dating relationships or
Speaker 1: in the bedroom, and this one kind of has to
Speaker 1: do more so with the beid you and so I
Speaker 1: would love for you to hone it on your give
Speaker 1: your advice you as well. Um. So this is a
Speaker 1: really interesting one and actually matches one of the questions
Speaker 1: we almost had in Miami. So, hey, ladies, thank you
Speaker 1: for helping me embrace my sexuality as a black woman.
Speaker 1: I need your help. Though I've been dating a guy
Speaker 1: on and off for about two years now. I'm not
Speaker 1: really interested in anything long term relationship wise, and neither
Speaker 1: has he. But we're great friends and all that. We
Speaker 1: took a break in the beginning of the year mainly
Speaker 1: because I was getting better dick elsewhere. But he plays
Speaker 1: college sports and I'm just busy with life We recently
Speaker 1: reconnected and I was so excited to get back to
Speaker 1: the aggressive, raw sex that we have. But he let
Speaker 1: me know as I was on my way to his
Speaker 1: house more than a thirty mile drive, that he now
Speaker 1: has herpes, and I froze. I'm aware of the facts
Speaker 1: and myths about herpies, but I was instantly turned off.
Speaker 1: Although we weren't together and he could attracted the disease
Speaker 1: after we after we agreed on a break, I don't
Speaker 1: want to funk anymore. I told him I got caught
Speaker 1: up and couldn't make the drive after carrying the conversation
Speaker 1: a little to not see me. Y'all. He has texts
Speaker 1: and called me every other day wanting pussy, and I
Speaker 1: want to give it to him, but I just can't.
Speaker 1: How do I let him know? Do I tell him
Speaker 1: that I'm turned off? Do I block his ass? I
Speaker 1: need help? Sincere sincerely a conscious free If you listen
Speaker 1: to our Herpies episode, you would hear that I believe
Speaker 1: there's a seriously slim chance that you can get it
Speaker 1: if there's not a current outbreak. Not saying that you
Speaker 1: you know, willing go funk this nigket, but there's probably
Speaker 1: a chance to fuck somebody else with her herpes and
Speaker 1: don't know. Yeah, I agree. However, um, I will say
Speaker 1: when it comes to and he's a stand up guy
Speaker 1: for telling oh, superstand up guy, Like I appreciate a
Speaker 1: guy that that, like he actually is giving you the choice.
Speaker 1: I would low key probably be more willing at that
Speaker 1: point because I'd be like, okay, so you know your
Speaker 1: body like okay, yeah, so I mean that's a little
Speaker 1: where do we stand? I mean, I like the question.
Speaker 1: And so Ella Ella was Ella Dawson. She was our
Speaker 1: guests on the herpes and she actually said that she
Speaker 1: lets people know because that's what she should do, and
Speaker 1: she does realize that some people are going to be
Speaker 1: okay with it and some people are not, with him
Speaker 1: having the confidence to even tell you he's aware that
Speaker 1: you may not want to funk with him anymore. And
Speaker 1: I think for all of us who yeah, I appreciate
Speaker 1: that he gave me that choice, But I feel like
Speaker 1: for a lot of us who are into having casual sex,
Speaker 1: I think that it is our choice to decide if
Speaker 1: we want to keep working with someone, especially if they
Speaker 1: let you know that they have something, especially herpies. That's
Speaker 1: something that is non curable. But again, also like we
Speaker 1: learned with the herpes episode, and it's something that's been
Speaker 1: coming out more and more often. About number twenty about
Speaker 1: eight of the U S population has either HSP one
Speaker 1: or two. So I think that's also something you should ask,
Speaker 1: just to make it seem like you are knowledgeable, because
Speaker 1: this could be maybe he got a cold store. Nigga
Speaker 1: never had a cold store in his life until he's
Speaker 1: an adult. Now he's a college athlete, and Nigga got
Speaker 1: a cold store. So it could also be that he
Speaker 1: got an outbreak on his mouth, and he knows that
Speaker 1: it's a form of herpes, so it may not even
Speaker 1: be one that's affecting his genitals. So that's something that
Speaker 1: maybe you could have the conversation with him, be like, well, hey,
Speaker 1: is it the one on your mouth or is it
Speaker 1: the one down there? Like I think it's also cool
Speaker 1: to maybe just let him know that you are educated.
Speaker 1: And if you're saying you know about the miss and
Speaker 1: you're educated on what harpies entails, you should maybe ask
Speaker 1: where his breakouts are. I think that that's something smart
Speaker 1: because then maybe in that sense, if he just has
Speaker 1: it in the mouth, maybe don't get head from him,
Speaker 1: or he'll also know if he has an outbreak in
Speaker 1: his mouth. I mean, I mean, I dated someone. I
Speaker 1: don't want to say who it was, but he was
Speaker 1: telling me like I didn't know for months, and then
Speaker 1: one day he was supposed to come over and he
Speaker 1: was like, yo, like I thought it wasn't what I
Speaker 1: thought it was. He was like, I felt this tingle
Speaker 1: in my mouth and I have a cold store. And
Speaker 1: I was like okay. He was like yeah, but like
Speaker 1: I definitely have hsp one. Like so I don't really
Speaker 1: want to come over, and you know, we make out
Speaker 1: and then I spread it to you if you don't
Speaker 1: have it, He's like, just let it go away and
Speaker 1: he'll be fine. I was like, why do you tell
Speaker 1: me about this before? And he's like, I didn't have
Speaker 1: an outbreak, so it was nothing you could contract. But
Speaker 1: I just felt like it was fair to tell you now.
Speaker 1: And I was like wow, because like he didn't have
Speaker 1: to do that to be real, he came over with
Speaker 1: the ship, I'd be like, oh, yeah, no, no, here's
Speaker 1: my dude. I wouldn't be around anybody. Here's the thing
Speaker 1: with that too. I think one reason why people are
Speaker 1: still afraid of disclosing things like that is because of
Speaker 1: the stigma that's attached to it. And I think that
Speaker 1: by responding to him being upfront and open with it,
Speaker 1: by ignoring and dodging his calls, kind of pushes that
Speaker 1: stigma that there's something somehow wrong with him. Now, I right,
Speaker 1: and and my and my thing to that is that
Speaker 1: you it's it's your right, like it's your right to
Speaker 1: not want to sleep with someone who you know has
Speaker 1: herpes or another form of um, you know, an STD.
Speaker 1: But you should at least say, hey, listen, thank you
Speaker 1: for telling me. I appreciate your honesty, but I'm going
Speaker 1: to pass for now. He I mean, what can he
Speaker 1: possibly say to that? You know what I mean? I
Speaker 1: think that's the way for us, Like they've been fucking wrong. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So like, did you not think you could use a conduct?
Speaker 1: Is that why you're worried? Maybe that's what she's saying
Speaker 1: because you feel like you don't want to suck it
Speaker 1: out one just be like no, nigger, Yeah I didn't.
Speaker 1: She did mention. She put the emphasis on wrong it
Speaker 1: bum in all capital letters. I get that you liked
Speaker 1: having raw effects, like you can still get a good condom.
Speaker 1: I get great condom dick, like really amazing, and I
Speaker 1: think that that's and a lot of people always want
Speaker 1: to like, damn, how can you like condom dicts so much?
Speaker 1: So for me, one of the most terrifying things about
Speaker 1: sex is possibly contracting an STD or possibly getting a
Speaker 1: god damn baby that you don't want from a nigger
Speaker 1: that you know you don't want to spend eighteen years
Speaker 1: and you've got Damn. Life are a big process. It's money,
Speaker 1: it's time, it's all. And so to me, condoms, yeah,
Speaker 1: it takes a wee baby bump, no pussy bump. Actually
Speaker 1: that's not accurate. So condom condoms cannot protect you from
Speaker 1: herpes um condoms actually, so herpies is a skin to
Speaker 1: skin contact type of thing. If there's an outbreak and
Speaker 1: it gets to you. So even if he has herpies,
Speaker 1: maybe it's not that they can't protect you from herpes.
Speaker 1: I think it's just the chance because most of it
Speaker 1: is located. Like then the other thing too, is that
Speaker 1: you know, in addition to that, like is he you
Speaker 1: know taking um the anti viral you know, val trunks
Speaker 1: you know, helps to reduce the transmission of herpes between
Speaker 1: partners as well. I mean it could be undetectable, much
Speaker 1: like HIV when you're right. So and then that's the
Speaker 1: thing with HSV as well. It can be in your
Speaker 1: system as dormant. So he can go maybe he has
Speaker 1: herpies now, but maybe he'll never have another outbreak for
Speaker 1: the rest of his life. Um So, I mean, there's
Speaker 1: a lot of education on it. These are a lot
Speaker 1: of questions that are asked us often, and I actually
Speaker 1: picked this question. So we were just in Miami and
Speaker 1: this we had a straight mail asked us a question.
Speaker 1: He said that he's currently friends with a girl who
Speaker 1: has open casual sex and what do you say partners
Speaker 1: loving partners. I don't remember the number, I just remember
Speaker 1: he said. She has a premium Snapchat. Yeah, premium Snapchat.
Speaker 1: But he also mentioned like having excess to like current
Speaker 1: sexual partners. And when he went to ask her, well,
Speaker 1: when was the last time you've been tested, she said
Speaker 1: something like it was some years ago, and she also
Speaker 1: was like, I guess he said she was reluctant to
Speaker 1: to get tested, and so he's like, I really want
Speaker 1: to have sex with her, but I don't want to
Speaker 1: have sex with her unless she gets texted. And his
Speaker 1: question was, how do I bring up having her get
Speaker 1: tested so that we can have sex? So I know
Speaker 1: that this was a question with also us in this
Speaker 1: space of casual dating, polyamory, non monogamy and also still
Speaker 1: wanting to be healthy. Um, and with all of these
Speaker 1: conversations surrounding sex, we have to also be safe and healthy.
Speaker 1: But we can't all be safe and healthy if we're
Speaker 1: not honest with ourselves and honest with the people were
Speaker 1: having sex. And nothing is wrong with like telling people know,
Speaker 1: ignoring someone ghostaying all of that ship. That ship is
Speaker 1: fucking terrible and it's childish tell someone, especially someone that
Speaker 1: you've already slept with them that you care about. For
Speaker 1: someone to give a funk enough about you to tell you,
Speaker 1: you gotta give a funk about him enough to at
Speaker 1: least say this is the choice I made. Yeah, I agree,
Speaker 1: you know, like, I really commend this thing. If I'm
Speaker 1: telling you, because the fact that you know you get
Speaker 1: something like her bees you totally understand what it means.
Speaker 1: And I know he told you when you were on
Speaker 1: their way over there. I get it, But maybe he
Speaker 1: was just like, I don't know how to do this here,
Speaker 1: it comes better like than never, and I think it's
Speaker 1: time for you to at least tell them. Just tell
Speaker 1: him you're scared, tell them with your fears. I'm sure
Speaker 1: he's talked about it with doctor Damn. I probably put
Speaker 1: her fears to rest. I agree. I agree. Well, I
Speaker 1: hope that helps you and maybe some of the other
Speaker 1: people who are tuned in listening. If you guys have
Speaker 1: any specific astrology questions, because I know that coin, it's
Speaker 1: a black man in front of us. Can't stop. We
Speaker 1: gotta stop talking about the ship, be about the ship.
Speaker 1: I'm about to buy black I'm getting my session with Mecca.
Speaker 1: How much you charge? You know, we get talk, but
Speaker 1: now I'm trying to put on the spot. No, but
Speaker 1: I want to do mine for sure. For a lot
Speaker 1: of you who have this ccific astrology questions, UM, if
Speaker 1: you want to let them know where they can reach you,
Speaker 1: tell them your social media handles and then your website,
Speaker 1: because your website is actually how I got in touch
Speaker 1: with you. UM. I went straight to her website and
Speaker 1: emailed her and she was very good with responding back.
Speaker 1: So for a lot of you who may have UM
Speaker 1: specific astrology questions, as it pertains to just trying to
Speaker 1: understand yourself a little bit more, or you and your partners,
Speaker 1: or you and your relationships with other people such as
Speaker 1: your friends or your family. Definitely hear her up. So
Speaker 1: where can they hit you up? Sure? So my website
Speaker 1: is my life created dot com and you can also
Speaker 1: find me on Twitter at the Mechanism which is M
Speaker 1: E C C A and I s M. I'm also
Speaker 1: on Instagram at one Mechanism and UM, yeah, I do
Speaker 1: to post these links. Yeah, well, it'll all be in
Speaker 1: UM the description of this episode, and we'll also be
Speaker 1: tagging her UM on Instagram and when we go ahead
Speaker 1: and post on Twitter. So do you have anything coming up?
Speaker 1: Because I know you do the workshops, you have a
Speaker 1: lot of little event do you have anything coming up
Speaker 1: in the month of May, let's say the ending of May. Um. Well,
Speaker 1: the most recent thing that I did, I just dropped
Speaker 1: a web based astrology course for for beginners. UM. The
Speaker 1: registration just closed, but it's going to be opening again soon,
Speaker 1: so people can follow me or they can um sign
Speaker 1: up for my lose newsletter at my website and I'll
Speaker 1: let them know when registration opens again. UM. I also
Speaker 1: just published my first book on astrology in October called
Speaker 1: Astrology for Happiness and Success. And yeah, I'm I'm a
Speaker 1: frequent contributor. I do the daily horoscopes at Bustle, I
Speaker 1: do monthly horoscopes that I am and I also do
Speaker 1: full moon horoscopes at girl Boss. So you can find
Speaker 1: me all over. What is the session with you? Look like?
Speaker 1: Is it thirty minutes? Ten minutes? Um? So chatting phone? Yeah?
Speaker 1: So I have actually have clients from all over the world, so, um,
Speaker 1: humble flicks, I do Skype and Google Hangout. I do video. Yeah. Well, um,
Speaker 1: if people like live outside of New York, but if
Speaker 1: you're in New York or New York, you know, uh,
Speaker 1: like try state based. We can definitely like meet in person. Um,
Speaker 1: but I do, like my my session is usually run
Speaker 1: from like, um about an hour, like forty five minutes
Speaker 1: to an hour, depending on what kind of session. And
Speaker 1: then I also do recorded readings that people can buy
Speaker 1: and then I record them and send them to them. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So why in person do you prefer? Why are looking
Speaker 1: at someone to prefer that? Um be just because I
Speaker 1: think it's more intimate. Also just the idea of like
Speaker 1: it just becomes more genuine, you know, because I think again,
Speaker 1: you know, for me being in this line of work,
Speaker 1: I'm also hyper sensitive to people who are Charlatan's and
Speaker 1: who are just in this game to take a vamiboy,
Speaker 1: to take advantage of people and to like I just
Speaker 1: saw this article that came out the other day about
Speaker 1: like how all of a sudden people are starting to
Speaker 1: call themselves as solgers and they don't have the training
Speaker 1: for it, you know, which is very dangerous because you
Speaker 1: are essentially getting people's information and charging the money for it,
Speaker 1: and essentially it's very sensitive information. You know, people are
Speaker 1: like coming to you for guidance, and the fact that
Speaker 1: people are out here just hustling for money. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's always it's been, it's been time. I just realized that,
Speaker 1: which is that I want to believe out the time
Speaker 1: that we told people we were born. Why bitch, I
Speaker 1: don't want nobody reading my ship and doing no, don't
Speaker 1: want me home? Can they do all that ship? I
Speaker 1: mean you might want to kind of no, I'm believing
Speaker 1: that out. Yeah, you might want to end out that.
Speaker 1: But editing this episode, you see this work, she got
Speaker 1: us do it, and she'd just be like yeah just
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