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Speaker 1: is another episode of Four Decisions. I'm your girl, Mandy B,

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Speaker 1: I'm wheezy, and we are joined by a lovely guess. Now,

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Speaker 1: this is an episode I ain't even gonna hold you, bro.

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Speaker 1: They've been asking for this, um and I don't know,

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Speaker 1: do you follow passport cutty or so Passport Cutty stay

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Speaker 1: reading people before they got damn Zodie low key reading Mandy.

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Speaker 1: So we have an astrologist here with us and Cutty,

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Speaker 1: Mandy and her were hanging right in Houston. So we're

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Speaker 1: at the pool and Cutty was like, y'll have an astrologist.

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Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, it's such a good idea. And

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Speaker 1: I was like, but Mandy doesn't believe in it. She

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Speaker 1: was like, so why she call herself a liberta? You believed?

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Speaker 1: And it's a good point. Well, I am a libra.

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Speaker 1: So go ahead, introduce yourself to our listeners. Let them

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Speaker 1: know your name, what you do, and why are you

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Speaker 1: a motherfucking astrologist? Okay, So my name is Mecha Woods.

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Speaker 1: I am an astrologer. I've been practicing for about ten years,

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Speaker 1: So real quick, before we get into like this deep

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Speaker 1: you know, astrology is it closer to science or religion?

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Speaker 1: it's too broad, Like okay, that if there's a million

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Speaker 1: let's do the icebreaker. Let's do the icebreaks because you

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Speaker 1: just brought up pisces. We don't have to use. Let's

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Speaker 1: not bring everything. So we should all say our signs.

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Speaker 1: So I have a Pisces rising, a core Sagittarius, and

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Speaker 1: a lot of us UM look for signs UM as

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Speaker 1: So we're gonna delve into that. But before we are

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Speaker 1: It does not start with Capricorn, bitch. So she read

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Speaker 1: a major astrological monstone takes place as Saturn, the planet

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Speaker 1: I think it could be a great app. I think

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Speaker 1: I have seen some apps that are astrology apps, but

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Speaker 1: Mandy as some is someone um that basically, you know,

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00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:38,639
Speaker 1: wants to be fair, that wants to be diplomatic, that

422
00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:41,480
Speaker 1: wants to be that knows how to hold space for

423
00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:46,040
Speaker 1: other people and understand right. The other thing about libras

424
00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:49,000
Speaker 1: that the other thing about libras is that libras love

425
00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:51,680
Speaker 1: playing the devil's advocate. So if you say something is blue,

426
00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:54,080
Speaker 1: they will come along and say, well it could be green,

427
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:57,119
Speaker 1: you know, and they they'll have the capacity to are

428
00:23:57,359 --> 00:24:00,040
Speaker 1: arguaboth sides. Now with your moon being a can so

429
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:02,479
Speaker 1: your moon has to do with your feelings. Your moon

430
00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:05,160
Speaker 1: is actually at home and cancer because cancer, Um, the moon,

431
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:08,480
Speaker 1: the moon rules cancer. So cancer moons definitely have big,

432
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:11,400
Speaker 1: big feelings, a lot of feelings, which kind of goes

433
00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:13,560
Speaker 1: against the grain. With you being a Libra, there's like

434
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:16,880
Speaker 1: a battle internal struggle with you, like how how logical.

435
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:19,320
Speaker 1: It's like, how logical and rational am I? But at

436
00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:21,280
Speaker 1: the same time I have all these big feelings, right

437
00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:25,600
Speaker 1: And then with your your pisces rising um, the way

438
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:27,200
Speaker 1: that you approach the world is from a place of

439
00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:29,720
Speaker 1: compassion and wanting to understand and make the world a

440
00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:36,760
Speaker 1: better place. That is men it Now, I mean it's cute, um,

441
00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:41,720
Speaker 1: you know, I like my son is a scale, it's cute. Um. No,

442
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,400
Speaker 1: So I like that. I mean I think that it's

443
00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:46,720
Speaker 1: interesting because this is a way that kind of we

444
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:50,080
Speaker 1: can maybe I guess this is an explanation as to

445
00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:52,760
Speaker 1: why maybe we are the way we are, um, in

446
00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:55,080
Speaker 1: terms of how we do approach the world, how we

447
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:57,880
Speaker 1: view ourselves and how we want others to view us. Um.

448
00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:01,040
Speaker 1: But I would actually kind of tie that And I

449
00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:02,960
Speaker 1: know you said it's not religion, but I think it

450
00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:06,359
Speaker 1: just gives us an explanation for something which I feel

451
00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:08,680
Speaker 1: like is what sciences, which is why I don't believe it.

452
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 1: But also religion as well, like religion is faith because

453
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:14,280
Speaker 1: it gives us something to believe about life after death

454
00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:19,040
Speaker 1: or what um and giving faith. So I know this

455
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 1: is horrible decisions. So we're all gonna get this and

456
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:24,680
Speaker 1: make this horrible decisions. We're gonna get into the Kike

457
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 1: of a week. I'm like me, while I'm not going,

458
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:29,399
Speaker 1: I'm doing a lot of self analyzing right now, Like

459
00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 1: just you're saying that you ain't shit, you ain't shit,

460
00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:34,920
Speaker 1: you ain't ship, that's all yours. Maybe I have a meeting,

461
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:37,680
Speaker 1: right we are so like when we're in it, we're

462
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:39,200
Speaker 1: in it. When we're in two, Yeah, we're gonna do

463
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:41,920
Speaker 1: this thing. We have this, we're going, we're good. But

464
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:45,040
Speaker 1: the second one little opinion doesn't agree. No, it's hard.

465
00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:47,560
Speaker 1: So this is what it is. She's no no real quick.

466
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:51,560
Speaker 1: She is an only child. And so I feel as

467
00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:54,480
Speaker 1: I'll be honest, I'll be honest, and this is kind

468
00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:56,680
Speaker 1: of this isn't a therapist session, and this isn't me

469
00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:59,040
Speaker 1: ratten on you, but even for other people who are listening,

470
00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:01,359
Speaker 1: if you're an only child, to me, I feel like

471
00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:05,240
Speaker 1: you don't have the gag to kind of compromise because

472
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:10,560
Speaker 1: your whole life here's a talking about compromise about but

473
00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:13,119
Speaker 1: must be fair, let's and that's what it is. But

474
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 1: not only thank you, she's never had to really argue

475
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:20,479
Speaker 1: or compromise or share with someone else growing up as

476
00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 1: an only child. If you want something, because you were

477
00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:26,760
Speaker 1: almost a miracle baby with your mom, you were very

478
00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:31,120
Speaker 1: spoiled and you got what you wanted. No, I didn't stop. Don't.

479
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:34,480
Speaker 1: It's very hard for the things i've I've have to

480
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:38,880
Speaker 1: work as we don't. Yes, I'm saying right the last

481
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:42,240
Speaker 1: ten years, but look how that compares to the first eighteen.

482
00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:45,280
Speaker 1: That's shaped a lot of how I am able to

483
00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:49,080
Speaker 1: be compassionate about things that other people go through and

484
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:51,520
Speaker 1: working hard. I believe all of that. Working hard I'm

485
00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:54,960
Speaker 1: talking about when it comes to disagreeing and someone literally

486
00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:56,879
Speaker 1: just saying and I don't think I want to do

487
00:26:56,920 --> 00:26:58,960
Speaker 1: it that way. It's your way or the highway, and

488
00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of scenarios you think that

489
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:04,159
Speaker 1: I work with you, Well, this is funny. You know,

490
00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 1: it's funny you both have Mars and Gemini, which is

491
00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:08,680
Speaker 1: hilarious to me because Mars has to do with like

492
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:11,840
Speaker 1: how you fight and how you take action with things,

493
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:13,920
Speaker 1: and Gemini as a sign that has to do with communication.

494
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:19,080
Speaker 1: So you guys definitely fight with your words. But but

495
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:21,720
Speaker 1: again this is highlighting what I was talking about earlier,

496
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:24,200
Speaker 1: the dynamic between you in terms of the Libra, who's

497
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:27,160
Speaker 1: like you're not thinking about other people and the aries

498
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:30,800
Speaker 1: that's thinking that the way that it sounded like, oh,

499
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 1: the Aria's part of you is thinking solely about yourself.

500
00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 1: But that's kind of like where that push pole kind

501
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:39,840
Speaker 1: of comes in between those. And so I think that

502
00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:41,840
Speaker 1: this is something that maybe a lot of you who

503
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:45,480
Speaker 1: are listening, if you have a partner um that you

504
00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 1: know you've been seeing for a while, whether it's intimately

505
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:50,679
Speaker 1: sexually or you guys have been together in a long

506
00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:53,639
Speaker 1: term relationship, maybe just making this kind of an activity

507
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 1: for one night, get some wine and look up your

508
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 1: charts and kind of read into it and see if

509
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:02,840
Speaker 1: maybe this could be the reasons So basically said, you

510
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 1: ain't ship, but no, I do want to get into

511
00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:10,560
Speaker 1: Kistie was rising, and so was y'all gig and when

512
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:14,640
Speaker 1: the moon went down, I thought you So we're gonna

513
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:16,200
Speaker 1: get into our KIK of the week, guys. This is

514
00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:20,440
Speaker 1: where we're gonna talk about sex and signs. And so

515
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:23,400
Speaker 1: with this, I know you guys want a whole motherfucking

516
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:26,000
Speaker 1: episode about how your sign relates to every other sign

517
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:27,200
Speaker 1: in the book. But we're not gonna be able to

518
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:29,440
Speaker 1: do that. Here goes someone else, Well, why don't you

519
00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:35,440
Speaker 1: guys just have twelve different episodes on each side podcast?

520
00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:38,440
Speaker 1: So I'm like, no, I'm not gonna do just you're

521
00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:41,280
Speaker 1: doing that for us. You're about to get some money. So,

522
00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:44,080
Speaker 1: but I do want to start, and we're gonna start. Um.

523
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 1: So what I found is from Elite Daily. It says

524
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:51,600
Speaker 1: that the fetish each zodiac sign has definitely thought about

525
00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 1: at least once um and this is based on the

526
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:58,240
Speaker 1: sign and what they feel like the fetish matches them.

527
00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:00,960
Speaker 1: So let me know how true this is. If you

528
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:03,240
Speaker 1: can elaborate on any of it, please feel free to.

529
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 1: And if you have had any sort of sexual experiences

530
00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:08,720
Speaker 1: with any of these signs and what it's saying they're fetish,

531
00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:11,120
Speaker 1: would be also tuned into that. So The first one

532
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:15,560
Speaker 1: is aries. They have aries fetish as dom Aries are

533
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:18,840
Speaker 1: doms by nature, doms or dominants that take reins and

534
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 1: get off by watching a strong, confident person willingly submit

535
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:25,680
Speaker 1: to them. This person becomes their sub or submissive. Aries

536
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:28,080
Speaker 1: love the chase, though, so pairing up with someone who

537
00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:30,880
Speaker 1: is more of a brat is a better choice. I

538
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:34,720
Speaker 1: can see that. I can see that. Actually there was

539
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 1: a study sort of like a um an informal study

540
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:43,080
Speaker 1: that I was reading about, like doms us subs, and uh,

541
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:46,040
Speaker 1: the signs that tended to show up the most work

542
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:53,440
Speaker 1: cancer capricorn aries, and I think that might have been it. Okay,

543
00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:56,640
Speaker 1: that makes sense. Cancers to me, definitely have and well

544
00:29:56,800 --> 00:30:01,080
Speaker 1: mostly so. The next one is torres. The fetish for

545
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:04,960
Speaker 1: tourists is master. Masters in the b D s M

546
00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 1: community are like doms on crack. They have a sub

547
00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:11,840
Speaker 1: they call their slave, and the agreement they enter into

548
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:15,480
Speaker 1: goes outside of the bedroom. A master and slave relationship

549
00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:18,320
Speaker 1: is exactly what it sounds like. The slave often has

550
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:21,560
Speaker 1: one master, but the master can have many slaves and he, she,

551
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:25,200
Speaker 1: or they tells them all what to do. Tauris is

552
00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:30,120
Speaker 1: extremely possessive of their lovers and are terrible at avoiding temptation,

553
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:33,040
Speaker 1: so this is a perfect arrangement. They get cheated the

554
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:38,200
Speaker 1: last tourist. What do you think about that? Um? I

555
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 1: can see it from the from the possessive standpoint, So

556
00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 1: tourists are mostly possessive. Oh this one fits so good, bitch.

557
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 1: The next one is Jemini. Can you guess what they're

558
00:30:49,200 --> 00:30:58,040
Speaker 1: fetish is? Probably Jemini's love to have options. They need

559
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:00,280
Speaker 1: the freedom to make one choice and then an another,

560
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:02,920
Speaker 1: and then another and then another. They need to be

561
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:05,960
Speaker 1: able to make all of the choices at once. They're

562
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:09,040
Speaker 1: polly people. They need the freedom to explore with multiple

563
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:12,080
Speaker 1: partners in different places in different ways. This way they

564
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:14,880
Speaker 1: never get bored. Plus they have that beautiful air sign

565
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 1: ability to think through their jealousy before they act on it.

566
00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:23,280
Speaker 1: That's hilarious. Um No, in some ways, yeah, I can.

567
00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 1: I can kind of see that. Um. But you know,

568
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 1: I feel like Geminis in terms of kink, they would

569
00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:32,840
Speaker 1: probably be the ones that would kind of do like um,

570
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:37,640
Speaker 1: they would be switches. They make good switches. I mean,

571
00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:41,120
Speaker 1: so the ideal with the Gemini right now, and he's

572
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 1: super dumb, but I think we still are able to

573
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 1: have kind of that dynamic where we switch to where

574
00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:50,120
Speaker 1: he still allows me to feel powerful even if I'm not.

575
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 1: So I do like that. And then of course he

576
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:57,200
Speaker 1: liked mad options, so yeah he does. So the next

577
00:31:57,240 --> 00:32:01,120
Speaker 1: one is cancer for cancer. It's actually suck up. Cancers

578
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:03,800
Speaker 1: are submissive in a multitude of ways, but especially when

579
00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:06,600
Speaker 1: it comes to sex. The qualities that make for someone

580
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:10,320
Speaker 1: who loves submission is to be giving generous um, and

581
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 1: they feel their best when they're giving to others. Is

582
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:16,680
Speaker 1: that kind of wouldn't agree with that? You would disagree

583
00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 1: with that one? Okay? Why that? Why would you put

584
00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:27,120
Speaker 1: a fetish for um? Maybe you said them more. I'm like, like,

585
00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:31,520
Speaker 1: what is it like? Um? Like baby play? Maybe they

586
00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:38,160
Speaker 1: get to be like the parents? What kind of like

587
00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:40,240
Speaker 1: that kind of role play? I mean because because cancers.

588
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 1: See here's the thing. A lot of people people don't

589
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:46,160
Speaker 1: misunderstand cancers. They always put paid cancers as being so

590
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:50,600
Speaker 1: tender and sensitive. But cancers are very protective and they

591
00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:53,720
Speaker 1: are also very bossy. They love to take charge. So

592
00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:57,200
Speaker 1: I would yeah, I would put them more in a

593
00:32:57,280 --> 00:32:59,400
Speaker 1: dominant sort of role. Okay, but kind of like what

594
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:03,560
Speaker 1: you said. Still, it's the maybe the daddy doma. Okay.

595
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 1: The next one is Leo. This one is alpha. Leo's

596
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:09,760
Speaker 1: shine in the spotlight and they have an alpha personality.

597
00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:12,480
Speaker 1: They'll play a submissive for sure, but if someone isn't

598
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 1: as dominant as Leo wants them to be, they'll switch

599
00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:18,000
Speaker 1: to the natural emotional habitat and go full alpha on

600
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:21,160
Speaker 1: the poor sucker. Leo's are extremely picky about their partners

601
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:24,160
Speaker 1: as well, another alpha characteristic. They know what they want

602
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:28,600
Speaker 1: and they go get it to some degree kind of.

603
00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:31,320
Speaker 1: I would say Leo's I think make good subs because

604
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:35,760
Speaker 1: they definitely want to be put on display or maybe

605
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 1: like a humiliation fetish um like around. I don't know

606
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:49,120
Speaker 1: about the humilia maybe maybe uh. The other one exhibitionists. Yes, yes, girl,

607
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 1: you know so the next one is Virgo, and Virgo

608
00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 1: goes back to B D S M A. Virgo is

609
00:33:57,720 --> 00:33:59,960
Speaker 1: And this is so crazy because my mom and I see,

610
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 1: do you want to take a guess? Go ahead, slave, Yes, bottoms.

611
00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:13,960
Speaker 1: Virgos are the best bottoms. So no, we actually like

612
00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:16,880
Speaker 1: have this conversation with her and her dynamic with relationships.

613
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:18,960
Speaker 1: She's very sub but then when it comes down to it,

614
00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:20,719
Speaker 1: like you're cooking, your cleaning, your pain. But let's not

615
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:22,719
Speaker 1: even get into the pain in the bills. But um

616
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:25,880
Speaker 1: so virgo is a slave UM and b DSM slaver

617
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:28,560
Speaker 1: first is someone who engages in dom sub role play

618
00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:32,319
Speaker 1: and it's consensually at the complete whim of their dahmer master.

619
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:36,319
Speaker 1: Virgo is at is natural at serving others, and they

620
00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:39,359
Speaker 1: give everything to their partner. If they can't, they might

621
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:41,399
Speaker 1: even be willing to allow their partner to go find

622
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:44,239
Speaker 1: what they're looking for somewhere else. This doesn't mean they

623
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:47,000
Speaker 1: won't be jealous. It just means that. It just means

624
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 1: that they care that much about making their partner happy.

625
00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:53,560
Speaker 1: This is crazy. Yes, I believe that. Oh my god,

626
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:56,880
Speaker 1: here I go, Oh my god, this is me Libra.

627
00:34:57,040 --> 00:35:02,279
Speaker 1: Can you guess what libra is? No bit so it's

628
00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:05,279
Speaker 1: not dumb, which I would so it is. Also in

629
00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:07,960
Speaker 1: the b d s M, it says a princess and

630
00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 1: b ds I was thinking baby girl means someone who

631
00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:13,400
Speaker 1: loves to be pampered in a very vanilla which not

632
00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:16,799
Speaker 1: vanilla way calmed down though not me um. It says

633
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:20,280
Speaker 1: vanilla being a term for more monogamous traditional relationship dynamics.

634
00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:24,160
Speaker 1: Someone that needs to be seriously, That's why I'm like

635
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:29,040
Speaker 1: riding Dick, you do everything. But princesses also have the

636
00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:32,400
Speaker 1: tendency to be dominant personalities. They want to be the

637
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 1: center of their partners world and wants to run their

638
00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:40,840
Speaker 1: lives in the bedroom. Yes, and how this partnership Libras,

639
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:44,520
Speaker 1: perhaps because of their concern with justice and equality out

640
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:47,400
Speaker 1: of the bedroom, tend to be completely the opposite when

641
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:50,239
Speaker 1: they're in it. You know what I'm thinking about that,

642
00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:54,759
Speaker 1: I'm thinking about Libra and taurists and how both both

643
00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:57,640
Speaker 1: signs are ruled by Venus, right, and I think about

644
00:35:57,680 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 1: like financial domination can m as far as what you

645
00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:06,400
Speaker 1: brought up Venus. So Venus has to do with seduction.

646
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:09,799
Speaker 1: Seduction Venus is uh, you know, your ability to attract things.

647
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 1: And Venus is also associated with money. So when I

648
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:21,560
Speaker 1: think about like, um, you know, expensive things or um luxury, luxury, yes,

649
00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:25,440
Speaker 1: Libra is the same way, like very indulgent, very um luxury.

650
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:29,600
Speaker 1: So when I think about a whole lot of things,

651
00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:32,480
Speaker 1: Mandy is pretty frugal. Actually, the think about Venus soon

652
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:35,480
Speaker 1: because Venus is so seductive, they have the power to

653
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:39,640
Speaker 1: like get just basically whatever they want. From from people

654
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:45,280
Speaker 1: to begin everything, it just be okay. So we're almost

655
00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 1: the guys um, so scorpio for those that are listening

656
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:49,719
Speaker 1: and waiting for their sign to come up, so Scorpio,

657
00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:54,239
Speaker 1: this fetish would be primal. Primals love to let out

658
00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:56,920
Speaker 1: their inner animal in the bedroom, and sex for them

659
00:36:57,000 --> 00:37:00,239
Speaker 1: is about exposing their raws. Most primary emotions during X

660
00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:03,839
Speaker 1: Scorpios switched between the roles of predator and prey because

661
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:07,880
Speaker 1: they get off on the power dynamics. Obviously, Yeah, the

662
00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:09,759
Speaker 1: person who wrote it says, obviously they sucked a lot

663
00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:15,480
Speaker 1: of scorpios. Um. What's crazy with with me is when

664
00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:18,080
Speaker 1: it comes to the scorpio dynamics that I have. So

665
00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:23,239
Speaker 1: I've dealt with two scorpios in a long term setting. Now,

666
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:25,800
Speaker 1: maybe I don't know their rising sun and moon and

667
00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:30,399
Speaker 1: all of that stuff, but they've been completely opposite as

668
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:32,320
Speaker 1: far as how they are in the bedroom, which is

669
00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:35,760
Speaker 1: probably why I've viewed scorpios kind of like I don't

670
00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:38,919
Speaker 1: really believe them. So one of my scorpios I've talked

671
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:40,880
Speaker 1: about on this show, he was in my life for

672
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:43,240
Speaker 1: well over ten years. He's the guy who I pissed

673
00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:48,120
Speaker 1: on um and was really into like meet him being

674
00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 1: my bitch in the bedroom. The other one was not

675
00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:53,520
Speaker 1: half as freaky as this one, but I guess they

676
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:56,080
Speaker 1: were freaky in different ways. Maybe it is a freakness.

677
00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 1: So the other scorpio is who I had the male

678
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:02,759
Speaker 1: male female threesome with, but he got off on seeing

679
00:38:02,840 --> 00:38:05,800
Speaker 1: me with others more so. But he was innately, he

680
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:08,840
Speaker 1: wasn't that freaky, like he liked getting head, but he

681
00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:10,799
Speaker 1: really couldn't last in the bedroom like the other one.

682
00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:13,880
Speaker 1: I guess that's also more body wise. But yeah, so

683
00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:16,080
Speaker 1: it's just weird, like when I think of scorpios, because

684
00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:18,400
Speaker 1: I've dealt with two of these scorpios that areis a

685
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:20,799
Speaker 1: sign of extremes. There's no middle ground when it comes

686
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:24,840
Speaker 1: to scorpio at all, So you either have one on

687
00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:27,759
Speaker 1: one side. That's kind of um. And you always say

688
00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:29,640
Speaker 1: too I remember reading this a long time ago, like

689
00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:31,360
Speaker 1: when I first got into stral They always say like,

690
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:33,640
Speaker 1: if you meet a scorpio who has hang ups about sex,

691
00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 1: you should run away from them. Why is that because

692
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:41,800
Speaker 1: um scorpio? You know, I hate to say that Scorpio

693
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:43,919
Speaker 1: is a sign of sex. Scorpio is not the sign

694
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:47,319
Speaker 1: of sex. Scorpio is associated with intimacy, which is which

695
00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:51,400
Speaker 1: sex is a form of right and when you also

696
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:55,080
Speaker 1: put the power and control dynamic into it, then it

697
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:59,840
Speaker 1: becomes a thing around. Like ultimately, what scorpios want is

698
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:04,399
Speaker 1: at unconditional, no hole's barred, unfiltered intimacy with another human

699
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:06,960
Speaker 1: being that allows them to touch souls as well as

700
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:13,840
Speaker 1: their body parts. So if they have hang ups around

701
00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:17,880
Speaker 1: intimacy as they're seeing as like something that's wrong or

702
00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:22,319
Speaker 1: dirty or bad, then there's usually something else psychologically going

703
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:24,920
Speaker 1: going there that they need to work through. Okay, we

704
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:27,760
Speaker 1: have two more signs before we get into like definitely

705
00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:33,680
Speaker 1: talking about this. So Sagittarius, they're fetish is swingers, while

706
00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:36,840
Speaker 1: Geminis are also polly they need to have someone to

707
00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:40,480
Speaker 1: match up with. Sagittarius people don't see sexuality as a

708
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:43,960
Speaker 1: one on one thing, whatever the construction of their relationship is.

709
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 1: They like to keep a variety of sexual partners or

710
00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:50,239
Speaker 1: even attend parties with their partners because of their expansive

711
00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:54,080
Speaker 1: sexual imaginations. Gemini is the perfect sign for the knock

712
00:39:54,200 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 1: up with you and as a as a Sagittarius, geminis,

713
00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:03,960
Speaker 1: I think Geminis, I mean that's that's our opposite sign.

714
00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:06,400
Speaker 1: So your opposite sign is always going to bring to

715
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:09,120
Speaker 1: the table whatever it is you need and you're lacking.

716
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:13,600
Speaker 1: So when it comes to Geminize that I've dealt with

717
00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:16,600
Speaker 1: in the past, yeah, there is definitely this incredible tension

718
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:18,279
Speaker 1: and heat, but at the same time it's very love

719
00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:26,040
Speaker 1: or hate at the same time. Pisces, we're not there yet.

720
00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:29,839
Speaker 1: We're not there yet because you said it's last oh

721
00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:33,640
Speaker 1: and that's you. So we're going right now to Aquarius. Actually, wait,

722
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:37,200
Speaker 1: we got Capricorn, then Aquarius and Pisces. So Capricorn is satis,

723
00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:41,279
Speaker 1: consent being a requirement for this. Satis enjoy inflicting certain

724
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:44,640
Speaker 1: types of pain on their partners. The reason Capricorns would

725
00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:47,520
Speaker 1: be say this is because the disciplinarian roles they often

726
00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:50,040
Speaker 1: play in life. You agree with that, We're gonna go

727
00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:54,680
Speaker 1: to Aquarius real quick, Aquarius, this is funny. Perverts. Aquariums

728
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:57,480
Speaker 1: are the most offbeat sign in the zodiac, and their

729
00:40:57,560 --> 00:41:01,040
Speaker 1: odd ball antics exist inside the bedroom too. They're like

730
00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:06,120
Speaker 1: the original sexual deviance and enjoy things like voyeurism, state

731
00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:09,960
Speaker 1: of masochism, or wearing women's panties on their faces. Their

732
00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:12,719
Speaker 1: freaks on the street and freaks in the bed. But

733
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:16,080
Speaker 1: at least they're consistent. Would you agree with that? Yeah? Okay,

734
00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:20,600
Speaker 1: And now we're at fucking pisces, So moment that has

735
00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:22,400
Speaker 1: been waiting for a bitch and it's you home. So

736
00:41:24,120 --> 00:41:27,759
Speaker 1: brats in b D s M community are not a

737
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:32,320
Speaker 1: submissive types. Typically, they pair up with dominance and like

738
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:36,000
Speaker 1: to test the limits of their partner's dominance by disobeying them.

739
00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:40,240
Speaker 1: Oh my god are brats because they can never decide

740
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:43,239
Speaker 1: on being just one way. As the last sign in

741
00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:46,560
Speaker 1: the zodiac, they're liking, why why they got to give

742
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 1: me a big word? I've been doing so good? This

743
00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:58,120
Speaker 1: magala mgamation, amalgamation, Oh there we go alright that way. Um,

744
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:08,200
Speaker 1: They're like an amalgamination of all the eleven signs before them.

745
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 1: Although they prefer dominant partners for the most part, they

746
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:14,520
Speaker 1: also want to enjoy the freedom to do whatever they want.

747
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:18,920
Speaker 1: Fifness you push like literally I've said, I'm just writing

748
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:22,560
Speaker 1: down things for our Instagram. I've literally said I love

749
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 1: to like say I'm gonna do something bad or tell

750
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:26,719
Speaker 1: you about me doing something bad so I can get spain.

751
00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 1: This is herd like to a t that is insane

752
00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:32,560
Speaker 1: that the leabor read me as a princess, because but

753
00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:34,600
Speaker 1: I don't even like ride and Dick. I mean, the

754
00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:36,600
Speaker 1: only part about me not being a princess, but the

755
00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:38,879
Speaker 1: dominant part that I take is me enjoying sucking Dick.

756
00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 1: So it's just like matched so perfectly with me. But now, guys, yeah,

757
00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:45,760
Speaker 1: we are gonna before we get into our horleor decision,

758
00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:48,880
Speaker 1: this one is great. We're gonna talk about it. So

759
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:50,840
Speaker 1: before we get into our whole decision, guys, we do

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766
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788
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789
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790
00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:27,320
Speaker 1: so it's not like you're pulling out something big. You

791
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Speaker 1: can even pull it out discreetly. And you know, my

792
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:32,440
Speaker 1: favorite ship that's personal is the motherfucking wipe bitch, you know.

793
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Speaker 1: And let's just say, you go to the club with

794
00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:35,960
Speaker 1: a nigger, you feel me, and then he's like, y'all

795
00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:38,200
Speaker 1: want to eat that pussy right now? And he's like

796
00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:39,920
Speaker 1: not even giving you a chance to go to the bathroom.

797
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:41,759
Speaker 1: You just got like, let me fix my dress, and

798
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:44,480
Speaker 1: you wipe that pussy real quick. Luckily, it's the first

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Speaker 1: Now let's get back to this episode. So we're gonna

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Speaker 1: get into our whole decision. So we're gonna try to

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Speaker 1: get through these questions. Bro alright, alright, I know we

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Speaker 1: don't talk to a lot y'all. Ho's like, God, damn,

816
00:45:31,160 --> 00:45:33,440
Speaker 1: I ain't hear enough about Taurus. I ain't hear enough

817
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:36,680
Speaker 1: about Pisces. What actually they heard enough about Pisces? No more?

818
00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:39,840
Speaker 1: But I love discussions. Someone asked about mercury rectigrade? What

819
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:41,399
Speaker 1: the fun is that? Why are we always feeling ship?

820
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:46,759
Speaker 1: What's that ship? Okay, so here we go rector grade?

821
00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:47,920
Speaker 1: Like what does that mean? Like? What is that? I

822
00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:55,160
Speaker 1: love it? He says, it's in micro bread is. So

823
00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:59,440
Speaker 1: the planet, uh, planet mercury has to do with communication,

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Speaker 1: like you know the way we right thinks speak um

825
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:07,640
Speaker 1: nonverbal verbal communication and technology. So when we talk about

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Speaker 1: a planet being retrograde, there's a thing that the planet, um,

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Speaker 1: there's an appearance that the planet is moving backwards. So

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Speaker 1: when it applies to astrology, it's a time for us

829
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 1: slowing down, reflecting, looking at the past, and doing things

830
00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:23,080
Speaker 1: over The reason why mercury retrograde causes so much UM

831
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Speaker 1: issues is that people are so used to like doing

832
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Speaker 1: things very quickly, moving forward and not really thinking about things,

833
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Speaker 1: where mercury retrograde forces us to really pay attention to

834
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Speaker 1: what it is that we do. And so that's why

835
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Speaker 1: would people say like, oh, you know, um, don't sign

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Speaker 1: things earing a mercury retrograde, and you know travel is

837
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Speaker 1: like all delayed and things like that. It's a moment

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Speaker 1: for us to kind of take a step back and

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Speaker 1: really like pay closer attention to the things that we

840
00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:53,799
Speaker 1: are saying and doing so that when mercury starts going

841
00:46:53,840 --> 00:46:55,920
Speaker 1: forward again, we have a clear idea in terms of

842
00:46:55,960 --> 00:46:59,320
Speaker 1: where we're headed now, because retrogrades have to do with

843
00:46:59,400 --> 00:47:01,960
Speaker 1: the past. That's also one reason why, like our exes,

844
00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:04,160
Speaker 1: you know, we can end up like hearing from texes

845
00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 1: around the time of retrograde UM and usually they come

846
00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:11,480
Speaker 1: around because it's a moment for us to kind of

847
00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:13,680
Speaker 1: like reflect and say, like, you know, is this X

848
00:47:13,800 --> 00:47:20,040
Speaker 1: an X for a reason or is it a situation

849
00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:22,239
Speaker 1: where maybe they could be a second chance, And see,

850
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:24,800
Speaker 1: I'm all here for a second chances. So one of

851
00:47:25,000 --> 00:47:28,080
Speaker 1: the number one questions that not only I had, but

852
00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:32,400
Speaker 1: a lot of our listeners were sending in is with

853
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:38,320
Speaker 1: astrology and these signs, should I date with these signs

854
00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:41,640
Speaker 1: in mind? So being to where if I'm a Libra

855
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:44,840
Speaker 1: and I know maybe Scorpio is someone I just do

856
00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:48,640
Speaker 1: not get along with, should I make that deter myself

857
00:47:48,719 --> 00:47:51,879
Speaker 1: from further speaking to a Scorpio because down the line

858
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:54,800
Speaker 1: will that call some greep? So with people dating, is

859
00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:56,920
Speaker 1: that something that we should keep in mind when choosing

860
00:47:56,960 --> 00:48:01,680
Speaker 1: our partners? Okay, No, I like that answer. Now why

861
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:04,960
Speaker 1: do people believe so? Like, well, I think it's what

862
00:48:05,040 --> 00:48:07,640
Speaker 1: anything that, like, you know, once you sort of have

863
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:09,880
Speaker 1: like the quote unquote code to something, you know, you

864
00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:12,319
Speaker 1: try to use the cheat sheet. You know, you're trying

865
00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:16,960
Speaker 1: to try to um create the shortest amount of time

866
00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:19,440
Speaker 1: between like what you want and like the pain and

867
00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:21,279
Speaker 1: the trouble and the effort that it actually takes to

868
00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:24,080
Speaker 1: getting it right right. But that's not really what astrology

869
00:48:24,200 --> 00:48:26,760
Speaker 1: is really about, you know. And when it comes to relationships,

870
00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:31,080
Speaker 1: it's really about learning about ourselves as well as learning

871
00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:33,840
Speaker 1: about the people that we're dealing with. And when it

872
00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:37,719
Speaker 1: comes to astrology and relationships, it's really all the opportunity

873
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:41,160
Speaker 1: for growth. I saw something um in the in your

874
00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:44,239
Speaker 1: Instagram feed about someone was saying, like, um, you know,

875
00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:45,960
Speaker 1: is it possible that you can miss out on your

876
00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:48,640
Speaker 1: soul mate by like only paying attention to like certain signs.

877
00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:51,200
Speaker 1: And I'm like, yeah, absolutely, Like I have a I

878
00:48:51,239 --> 00:48:53,319
Speaker 1: have a friend who's also an astrologer and I love him,

879
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:55,560
Speaker 1: and he always talks about how he's a Gemini, and

880
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:58,680
Speaker 1: he talks about how all signs are compatible with each other,

881
00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:02,440
Speaker 1: and I agree to spend it again. Okay, all signs

882
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:05,239
Speaker 1: are compatible with each other. So to a certain extent, Yes,

883
00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 1: if you're open and interested in learning, um what you

884
00:49:10,160 --> 00:49:12,719
Speaker 1: can from a partner as well as about yourself, there's

885
00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:15,680
Speaker 1: this opportunity for growth. Right the minute we start to

886
00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:17,719
Speaker 1: close our minds off and say no, I'm not going

887
00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:19,759
Speaker 1: to date any more Leo's or I'm not gonna date

888
00:49:19,800 --> 00:49:23,440
Speaker 1: any more virgos, you don't know your next amazing person

889
00:49:23,560 --> 00:49:25,880
Speaker 1: could be that virgo that you're shutting down. And the

890
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:29,719
Speaker 1: reason why we get certain signs that like, for a

891
00:49:29,800 --> 00:49:32,880
Speaker 1: long time I was attracting scorpios, which I still do,

892
00:49:33,719 --> 00:49:36,680
Speaker 1: But the reason for that is because in my own

893
00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:39,480
Speaker 1: birth chart all I have is fire and air. I

894
00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:42,880
Speaker 1: have no water. And so people like Pisces, cancer, Scorpio,

895
00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:46,480
Speaker 1: or people who are heavily influenced by those signs naturally

896
00:49:46,520 --> 00:49:49,600
Speaker 1: gravitate towards me because they're bringing me something that I lack.

897
00:49:50,160 --> 00:49:53,640
Speaker 1: So when it comes to signs that you attract, there's

898
00:49:53,760 --> 00:49:57,160
Speaker 1: usually a lesson that that sign is trying to teach

899
00:49:57,200 --> 00:49:59,320
Speaker 1: you that you're not learning, or that you're not avoiding,

900
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:02,720
Speaker 1: and or that you're avoiding rather than I never forget

901
00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:05,719
Speaker 1: the time when I was doing a love and compatibility

902
00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:09,360
Speaker 1: sort of workshop and I had a a Libra in

903
00:50:09,440 --> 00:50:14,600
Speaker 1: my class and she hated Virgo. She's like virgos, and

904
00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:17,120
Speaker 1: she had Venus and Virgo, and I was like, well,

905
00:50:17,200 --> 00:50:19,879
Speaker 1: there's something that these virgos are teaching you about your

906
00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:22,680
Speaker 1: self worth and the way that you relate to others

907
00:50:22,760 --> 00:50:25,759
Speaker 1: that you need to like acknowledge, and that's why that

908
00:50:25,880 --> 00:50:29,239
Speaker 1: you're getting that friction with these virgos. And once you

909
00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:31,399
Speaker 1: learn that lesson, it doesn't necessarily mean that you'll stop

910
00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:33,840
Speaker 1: attracting them, But once you learn that lesson, then you

911
00:50:33,960 --> 00:50:36,440
Speaker 1: can be free to move on to something else that

912
00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:40,200
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Speaker 1: See I like this, I like see I like what

939
00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:08,120
Speaker 1: you're saying, because I was hoping that you weren't going

940
00:52:08,160 --> 00:52:10,920
Speaker 1: to come in and say, well, you know, these are

941
00:52:11,120 --> 00:52:15,440
Speaker 1: the signs that we are based on where we were born,

942
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 1: where we're from, and our birthdates and all of these things,

943
00:52:19,120 --> 00:52:21,480
Speaker 1: and just knowing that you have all of these kind

944
00:52:21,480 --> 00:52:23,719
Speaker 1: of different interactions with people and we're not kind of

945
00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:26,040
Speaker 1: based on our sign So when people come to you,

946
00:52:26,120 --> 00:52:30,440
Speaker 1: I guess my question is, how, without being vague, how

947
00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:32,959
Speaker 1: do you really follow what they are as a sign?

948
00:52:33,040 --> 00:52:34,400
Speaker 1: You do? You know what I'm saying, come you and

949
00:52:34,480 --> 00:52:37,680
Speaker 1: say I'm a libra, tell me about myself with you

950
00:52:37,880 --> 00:52:40,279
Speaker 1: saying this to where all of us can kind of

951
00:52:40,360 --> 00:52:43,200
Speaker 1: relate to any sign all this, How how deep does

952
00:52:43,239 --> 00:52:45,840
Speaker 1: astrology really rising and all of that? You had you

953
00:52:45,920 --> 00:52:47,400
Speaker 1: heard of that before? By the way, may day. I

954
00:52:47,480 --> 00:52:49,480
Speaker 1: mean yeah, because everyone in the comments was like, I'm

955
00:52:49,480 --> 00:52:51,080
Speaker 1: writing this and I was like, okay, what does that

956
00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:55,360
Speaker 1: sounds for you? To give a proper reading? Right, So

957
00:52:55,800 --> 00:52:58,279
Speaker 1: when I'm looking at someone's chart, I'm not just looking

958
00:52:58,320 --> 00:53:00,239
Speaker 1: at the signs. I'm looking at where the and it's

959
00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:02,560
Speaker 1: are falling in their chart. That will also give me

960
00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:05,960
Speaker 1: some um information in terms of like how they're expressing

961
00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:09,120
Speaker 1: their energy. So for example, you know, let's say you're

962
00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:12,440
Speaker 1: a Leo, right, and Leo's are technically known for being

963
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:15,200
Speaker 1: very flamboyant and very like you know, out there and

964
00:53:15,360 --> 00:53:19,080
Speaker 1: and but if your son is located in the twelfth

965
00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:21,040
Speaker 1: house of your chart, you're not going to be a

966
00:53:21,120 --> 00:53:22,640
Speaker 1: Leo that wants to be seen. You're going to be

967
00:53:22,680 --> 00:53:24,880
Speaker 1: a Leo that wants to be more behind the scenes,

968
00:53:25,160 --> 00:53:27,200
Speaker 1: because that zone of your chart is all about being

969
00:53:27,239 --> 00:53:31,640
Speaker 1: behind the scenes in the houses. So we was in

970
00:53:31,680 --> 00:53:34,040
Speaker 1: the solar system with planets, and now we're in a

971
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 1: neighborhood with houses. Where where where is we? I don't

972
00:53:38,040 --> 00:53:40,960
Speaker 1: even know where all? Where are we at right here?

973
00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:46,680
Speaker 1: The houses? I don't know what neighborhood is that? So

974
00:53:47,480 --> 00:53:52,960
Speaker 1: were they houses? Like are they co ops? If we

975
00:53:53,120 --> 00:53:58,200
Speaker 1: impartch other wait where the wait of it? Houses and planets?

976
00:53:59,120 --> 00:54:01,960
Speaker 1: So so here, so let me record like trying to

977
00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:06,600
Speaker 1: make it, make it plain. So, a birth chart is

978
00:54:06,920 --> 00:54:09,920
Speaker 1: basically a visual map of like the division, like how

979
00:54:10,200 --> 00:54:12,000
Speaker 1: how we divide up the sky based on where we

980
00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:15,000
Speaker 1: are from, you know, here on Earth. Right. So the

981
00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:18,560
Speaker 1: houses that fill a birth chart represent different areas of

982
00:54:18,680 --> 00:54:21,759
Speaker 1: person life in a different different areas of who they are. Right.

983
00:54:21,840 --> 00:54:24,640
Speaker 1: So there's twelve houses, right, which represent all the twelve signs.

984
00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:30,320
Speaker 1: So when it comes to houses, um, so, for example,

985
00:54:31,200 --> 00:54:34,960
Speaker 1: the signs represent a certain behavior, the planets within the

986
00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:38,040
Speaker 1: signs represent how those signs like, how that behavior is

987
00:54:38,080 --> 00:54:41,120
Speaker 1: acted out. But it's only Venus, Mars, and Mercury, right, No,

988
00:54:41,920 --> 00:54:47,920
Speaker 1: all it is Sun in a planet no mall technically, so, um,

989
00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:56,839
Speaker 1: we have Sun, Moon, Venus, Mercury, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, Um

990
00:54:57,920 --> 00:55:01,640
Speaker 1: nep soon nep soon, you're this and Pluto. Okay, yeah,

991
00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:03,880
Speaker 1: so we that that and then you like calling it

992
00:55:04,040 --> 00:55:08,400
Speaker 1: your anus. You know, I was, I was saying differently

993
00:55:08,440 --> 00:55:11,560
Speaker 1: because I'm like, you're a I'm sorry, I kept walking out.

994
00:55:11,880 --> 00:55:15,239
Speaker 1: I'm like so sick. So, guys, if any of your

995
00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:21,320
Speaker 1: favorite podcasters get sick soon. It's because it's sweezy spot point. No, no, no,

996
00:55:21,560 --> 00:55:26,440
Speaker 1: I've been like sanitizing the area and everybody records here.

997
00:55:26,480 --> 00:55:31,360
Speaker 1: That's the problem. Everybody's favorite podcast. Literally, Yeah, let me

998
00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:39,040
Speaker 1: put some on this ship too, about I want my boat?

999
00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:43,000
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. We both stuck saying, oh,

1000
00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:48,400
Speaker 1: I'm saying I'm making a joke because oh, I'm like,

1001
00:55:48,840 --> 00:55:54,760
Speaker 1: what do you what podcasts? Are you sucking? Look? He's

1002
00:55:55,200 --> 00:55:57,040
Speaker 1: being him literally looked like I was like, I don't

1003
00:55:57,080 --> 00:56:00,880
Speaker 1: know this a new d I was bad talking about Okay,

1004
00:56:00,960 --> 00:56:03,359
Speaker 1: so so the houses, the plants arriving, how you are

1005
00:56:03,480 --> 00:56:06,560
Speaker 1: as behavior? I don't do you have? Like what other questions? Like?

1006
00:56:07,040 --> 00:56:09,360
Speaker 1: She started right one. I liked someone to put in

1007
00:56:09,480 --> 00:56:12,719
Speaker 1: her Instagram. What signs are going to struggle or be

1008
00:56:12,840 --> 00:56:17,320
Speaker 1: really good at non monogamy? Um? Who are going to

1009
00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:20,200
Speaker 1: struggle with monogamy? Actually, let's let's do it that way.

1010
00:56:20,320 --> 00:56:22,279
Speaker 1: It's someone who's looking for an open relationship. Yeah, who's

1011
00:56:22,280 --> 00:56:32,839
Speaker 1: going to struggle with mention Gemini Gemini Pisces second um.

1012
00:56:34,480 --> 00:56:39,240
Speaker 1: Libra Libra can be serial monogamous, but Libra will always

1013
00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:44,239
Speaker 1: have someone waiting in the wings whenever a son but it.

1014
00:56:44,320 --> 00:56:48,120
Speaker 1: So here's my chest with you even asking that question,

1015
00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:53,080
Speaker 1: does it still just does it still matter? They're like

1016
00:56:53,320 --> 00:56:57,160
Speaker 1: rising moon and sun instead of just having yeah to

1017
00:56:57,280 --> 00:56:59,920
Speaker 1: some degree because I mean, you know again like if

1018
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:02,839
Speaker 1: you going just off the sun sign and you say like, oh,

1019
00:57:02,960 --> 00:57:05,680
Speaker 1: you know Sagittarius, Sagittarius is wild and all they do

1020
00:57:05,840 --> 00:57:08,160
Speaker 1: is like you know, they suck everybody. Um, I know

1021
00:57:08,480 --> 00:57:12,800
Speaker 1: Sagittarians who are very like, I'm committed to you and

1022
00:57:12,920 --> 00:57:14,960
Speaker 1: that's it. I don't, you know, let myself like go

1023
00:57:15,040 --> 00:57:18,160
Speaker 1: anywhere else. So the other signs that in you are

1024
00:57:18,240 --> 00:57:20,560
Speaker 1: in your chart, like your venus, your Mars, your moon,

1025
00:57:20,720 --> 00:57:23,960
Speaker 1: will also play a role in how you express love

1026
00:57:24,040 --> 00:57:27,680
Speaker 1: and affection and what you need in relationships. I'm start

1027
00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:30,200
Speaker 1: looking at that too. I'm start getting into it. I

1028
00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:32,600
Speaker 1: kind of like that, Um we are going to get

1029
00:57:32,600 --> 00:57:36,920
Speaker 1: into Wait can you does your son in mood? And

1030
00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:39,200
Speaker 1: I think they never change? Right? No? They never change?

1031
00:57:39,520 --> 00:57:44,960
Speaker 1: Yeah ever whatever, because like when you click on certain apps,

1032
00:57:44,960 --> 00:57:47,640
Speaker 1: it'll say like something about my day and it'll like

1033
00:57:47,720 --> 00:57:49,960
Speaker 1: tell me a new sign, and I don't know, yeah,

1034
00:57:50,200 --> 00:57:52,560
Speaker 1: sometimes it depends because like sometimes like like I was

1035
00:57:52,600 --> 00:57:56,240
Speaker 1: saying earlier, like the calculations for certain sights, um and

1036
00:57:56,320 --> 00:58:00,280
Speaker 1: apps aren't always accurate. You have to kind of. So yeah, y'all,

1037
00:58:00,320 --> 00:58:04,560
Speaker 1: just get you a little Ley's a rise in emotional business.

1038
00:58:04,800 --> 00:58:09,080
Speaker 1: I'm horizon that beat. But now we are going to

1039
00:58:09,120 --> 00:58:11,120
Speaker 1: get Insto our homemail. And I really like this homemail

1040
00:58:11,200 --> 00:58:13,360
Speaker 1: because what we've been talking with these signs for the

1041
00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:16,320
Speaker 1: most part, and what we kind of talk every episode

1042
00:58:16,440 --> 00:58:20,640
Speaker 1: is communication, So whether it's communication in dating relationships or

1043
00:58:20,760 --> 00:58:23,400
Speaker 1: in the bedroom, and this one kind of has to

1044
00:58:23,480 --> 00:58:25,800
Speaker 1: do more so with the beid you and so I

1045
00:58:25,960 --> 00:58:28,160
Speaker 1: would love for you to hone it on your give

1046
00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:30,480
Speaker 1: your advice you as well. Um. So this is a

1047
00:58:30,640 --> 00:58:33,080
Speaker 1: really interesting one and actually matches one of the questions

1048
00:58:33,120 --> 00:58:36,600
Speaker 1: we almost had in Miami. So, hey, ladies, thank you

1049
00:58:36,680 --> 00:58:39,400
Speaker 1: for helping me embrace my sexuality as a black woman.

1050
00:58:39,560 --> 00:58:42,120
Speaker 1: I need your help. Though I've been dating a guy

1051
00:58:42,360 --> 00:58:45,040
Speaker 1: on and off for about two years now. I'm not

1052
00:58:45,160 --> 00:58:48,680
Speaker 1: really interested in anything long term relationship wise, and neither

1053
00:58:49,000 --> 00:58:51,960
Speaker 1: has he. But we're great friends and all that. We

1054
00:58:52,080 --> 00:58:54,360
Speaker 1: took a break in the beginning of the year mainly

1055
00:58:54,400 --> 00:58:57,520
Speaker 1: because I was getting better dick elsewhere. But he plays

1056
00:58:57,560 --> 00:59:00,880
Speaker 1: college sports and I'm just busy with life We recently

1057
00:59:01,000 --> 00:59:03,920
Speaker 1: reconnected and I was so excited to get back to

1058
00:59:04,080 --> 00:59:07,400
Speaker 1: the aggressive, raw sex that we have. But he let

1059
00:59:07,480 --> 00:59:09,320
Speaker 1: me know as I was on my way to his

1060
00:59:09,400 --> 00:59:12,320
Speaker 1: house more than a thirty mile drive, that he now

1061
00:59:12,440 --> 00:59:18,320
Speaker 1: has herpes, and I froze. I'm aware of the facts

1062
00:59:18,480 --> 00:59:21,960
Speaker 1: and myths about herpies, but I was instantly turned off.

1063
00:59:22,440 --> 00:59:25,040
Speaker 1: Although we weren't together and he could attracted the disease

1064
00:59:25,200 --> 00:59:28,040
Speaker 1: after we after we agreed on a break, I don't

1065
00:59:28,080 --> 00:59:30,320
Speaker 1: want to funk anymore. I told him I got caught

1066
00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:32,800
Speaker 1: up and couldn't make the drive after carrying the conversation

1067
00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:36,520
Speaker 1: a little to not see me. Y'all. He has texts

1068
00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:39,200
Speaker 1: and called me every other day wanting pussy, and I

1069
00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:41,200
Speaker 1: want to give it to him, but I just can't.

1070
00:59:41,600 --> 00:59:43,680
Speaker 1: How do I let him know? Do I tell him

1071
00:59:43,760 --> 00:59:45,960
Speaker 1: that I'm turned off? Do I block his ass? I

1072
00:59:46,040 --> 00:59:49,600
Speaker 1: need help? Sincere sincerely a conscious free If you listen

1073
00:59:49,640 --> 00:59:52,800
Speaker 1: to our Herpies episode, you would hear that I believe

1074
00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:55,680
Speaker 1: there's a seriously slim chance that you can get it

1075
00:59:55,720 --> 00:59:58,880
Speaker 1: if there's not a current outbreak. Not saying that you

1076
00:59:59,600 --> 01:00:02,080
Speaker 1: you know, willing go funk this nigket, but there's probably

1077
01:00:02,120 --> 01:00:04,280
Speaker 1: a chance to fuck somebody else with her herpes and

1078
01:00:04,320 --> 01:00:08,720
Speaker 1: don't know. Yeah, I agree. However, um, I will say

1079
01:00:09,000 --> 01:00:11,680
Speaker 1: when it comes to and he's a stand up guy

1080
01:00:11,720 --> 01:00:14,960
Speaker 1: for telling oh, superstand up guy, Like I appreciate a

1081
01:00:15,000 --> 01:00:18,720
Speaker 1: guy that that, like he actually is giving you the choice.

1082
01:00:18,920 --> 01:00:21,600
Speaker 1: I would low key probably be more willing at that

1083
01:00:21,640 --> 01:00:23,200
Speaker 1: point because I'd be like, okay, so you know your

1084
01:00:23,240 --> 01:00:26,680
Speaker 1: body like okay, yeah, so I mean that's a little

1085
01:00:26,920 --> 01:00:30,360
Speaker 1: where do we stand? I mean, I like the question.

1086
01:00:30,640 --> 01:00:37,240
Speaker 1: And so Ella Ella was Ella Dawson. She was our

1087
01:00:37,280 --> 01:00:41,920
Speaker 1: guests on the herpes and she actually said that she

1088
01:00:42,080 --> 01:00:46,080
Speaker 1: lets people know because that's what she should do, and

1089
01:00:46,200 --> 01:00:48,560
Speaker 1: she does realize that some people are going to be

1090
01:00:48,600 --> 01:00:50,960
Speaker 1: okay with it and some people are not, with him

1091
01:00:51,080 --> 01:00:53,880
Speaker 1: having the confidence to even tell you he's aware that

1092
01:00:54,360 --> 01:00:56,120
Speaker 1: you may not want to funk with him anymore. And

1093
01:00:56,160 --> 01:00:59,960
Speaker 1: I think for all of us who yeah, I appreciate

1094
01:01:00,000 --> 01:01:01,960
Speaker 1: that he gave me that choice, But I feel like

1095
01:01:02,320 --> 01:01:05,440
Speaker 1: for a lot of us who are into having casual sex,

1096
01:01:05,680 --> 01:01:07,680
Speaker 1: I think that it is our choice to decide if

1097
01:01:07,720 --> 01:01:10,320
Speaker 1: we want to keep working with someone, especially if they

1098
01:01:10,400 --> 01:01:14,080
Speaker 1: let you know that they have something, especially herpies. That's

1099
01:01:14,120 --> 01:01:17,280
Speaker 1: something that is non curable. But again, also like we

1100
01:01:17,360 --> 01:01:19,280
Speaker 1: learned with the herpes episode, and it's something that's been

1101
01:01:19,320 --> 01:01:23,520
Speaker 1: coming out more and more often. About number twenty about

1102
01:01:23,600 --> 01:01:26,840
Speaker 1: eight of the U S population has either HSP one

1103
01:01:27,040 --> 01:01:29,600
Speaker 1: or two. So I think that's also something you should ask,

1104
01:01:29,800 --> 01:01:32,200
Speaker 1: just to make it seem like you are knowledgeable, because

1105
01:01:32,280 --> 01:01:35,760
Speaker 1: this could be maybe he got a cold store. Nigga

1106
01:01:35,840 --> 01:01:38,240
Speaker 1: never had a cold store in his life until he's

1107
01:01:38,240 --> 01:01:40,640
Speaker 1: an adult. Now he's a college athlete, and Nigga got

1108
01:01:40,720 --> 01:01:43,520
Speaker 1: a cold store. So it could also be that he

1109
01:01:43,640 --> 01:01:46,040
Speaker 1: got an outbreak on his mouth, and he knows that

1110
01:01:46,120 --> 01:01:48,280
Speaker 1: it's a form of herpes, so it may not even

1111
01:01:48,360 --> 01:01:51,520
Speaker 1: be one that's affecting his genitals. So that's something that

1112
01:01:51,600 --> 01:01:54,320
Speaker 1: maybe you could have the conversation with him, be like, well, hey,

1113
01:01:54,840 --> 01:01:56,080
Speaker 1: is it the one on your mouth or is it

1114
01:01:56,160 --> 01:01:58,400
Speaker 1: the one down there? Like I think it's also cool

1115
01:01:58,440 --> 01:02:00,760
Speaker 1: to maybe just let him know that you are educated.

1116
01:02:00,800 --> 01:02:02,560
Speaker 1: And if you're saying you know about the miss and

1117
01:02:02,640 --> 01:02:06,200
Speaker 1: you're educated on what harpies entails, you should maybe ask

1118
01:02:06,280 --> 01:02:08,520
Speaker 1: where his breakouts are. I think that that's something smart

1119
01:02:08,600 --> 01:02:10,560
Speaker 1: because then maybe in that sense, if he just has

1120
01:02:10,600 --> 01:02:13,280
Speaker 1: it in the mouth, maybe don't get head from him,

1121
01:02:13,400 --> 01:02:15,560
Speaker 1: or he'll also know if he has an outbreak in

1122
01:02:15,640 --> 01:02:18,320
Speaker 1: his mouth. I mean, I mean, I dated someone. I

1123
01:02:18,360 --> 01:02:22,120
Speaker 1: don't want to say who it was, but he was

1124
01:02:22,200 --> 01:02:25,360
Speaker 1: telling me like I didn't know for months, and then

1125
01:02:25,480 --> 01:02:26,920
Speaker 1: one day he was supposed to come over and he

1126
01:02:27,000 --> 01:02:29,160
Speaker 1: was like, yo, like I thought it wasn't what I

1127
01:02:29,200 --> 01:02:30,640
Speaker 1: thought it was. He was like, I felt this tingle

1128
01:02:30,680 --> 01:02:32,120
Speaker 1: in my mouth and I have a cold store. And

1129
01:02:32,160 --> 01:02:34,600
Speaker 1: I was like okay. He was like yeah, but like

1130
01:02:34,680 --> 01:02:37,960
Speaker 1: I definitely have hsp one. Like so I don't really

1131
01:02:38,000 --> 01:02:39,520
Speaker 1: want to come over, and you know, we make out

1132
01:02:39,560 --> 01:02:40,800
Speaker 1: and then I spread it to you if you don't

1133
01:02:40,840 --> 01:02:43,640
Speaker 1: have it, He's like, just let it go away and

1134
01:02:43,680 --> 01:02:45,080
Speaker 1: he'll be fine. I was like, why do you tell

1135
01:02:45,080 --> 01:02:46,240
Speaker 1: me about this before? And he's like, I didn't have

1136
01:02:46,240 --> 01:02:47,960
Speaker 1: an outbreak, so it was nothing you could contract. But

1137
01:02:48,000 --> 01:02:49,320
Speaker 1: I just felt like it was fair to tell you now.

1138
01:02:49,960 --> 01:02:53,480
Speaker 1: And I was like wow, because like he didn't have

1139
01:02:53,560 --> 01:02:55,880
Speaker 1: to do that to be real, he came over with

1140
01:02:55,960 --> 01:02:58,600
Speaker 1: the ship, I'd be like, oh, yeah, no, no, here's

1141
01:02:58,640 --> 01:03:01,000
Speaker 1: my dude. I wouldn't be around anybody. Here's the thing

1142
01:03:01,080 --> 01:03:03,680
Speaker 1: with that too. I think one reason why people are

1143
01:03:03,760 --> 01:03:06,800
Speaker 1: still afraid of disclosing things like that is because of

1144
01:03:06,880 --> 01:03:08,840
Speaker 1: the stigma that's attached to it. And I think that

1145
01:03:09,120 --> 01:03:13,160
Speaker 1: by responding to him being upfront and open with it,

1146
01:03:13,360 --> 01:03:16,720
Speaker 1: by ignoring and dodging his calls, kind of pushes that

1147
01:03:16,880 --> 01:03:22,360
Speaker 1: stigma that there's something somehow wrong with him. Now, I right,

1148
01:03:22,600 --> 01:03:24,680
Speaker 1: and and my and my thing to that is that

1149
01:03:25,280 --> 01:03:27,120
Speaker 1: you it's it's your right, like it's your right to

1150
01:03:27,240 --> 01:03:29,840
Speaker 1: not want to sleep with someone who you know has

1151
01:03:29,880 --> 01:03:33,480
Speaker 1: herpes or another form of um, you know, an STD.

1152
01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:36,320
Speaker 1: But you should at least say, hey, listen, thank you

1153
01:03:36,400 --> 01:03:38,560
Speaker 1: for telling me. I appreciate your honesty, but I'm going

1154
01:03:38,600 --> 01:03:40,800
Speaker 1: to pass for now. He I mean, what can he

1155
01:03:40,880 --> 01:03:42,960
Speaker 1: possibly say to that? You know what I mean? I

1156
01:03:43,080 --> 01:03:47,520
Speaker 1: think that's the way for us, Like they've been fucking wrong. Yeah,

1157
01:03:47,680 --> 01:03:49,760
Speaker 1: So like, did you not think you could use a conduct?

1158
01:03:50,160 --> 01:03:53,560
Speaker 1: Is that why you're worried? Maybe that's what she's saying

1159
01:03:53,640 --> 01:03:55,080
Speaker 1: because you feel like you don't want to suck it

1160
01:03:55,120 --> 01:03:57,840
Speaker 1: out one just be like no, nigger, Yeah I didn't.

1161
01:03:58,000 --> 01:03:59,920
Speaker 1: She did mention. She put the emphasis on wrong it

1162
01:04:00,040 --> 01:04:02,200
Speaker 1: bum in all capital letters. I get that you liked

1163
01:04:02,200 --> 01:04:05,880
Speaker 1: having raw effects, like you can still get a good condom.

1164
01:04:06,280 --> 01:04:09,400
Speaker 1: I get great condom dick, like really amazing, and I

1165
01:04:09,480 --> 01:04:12,720
Speaker 1: think that that's and a lot of people always want

1166
01:04:12,720 --> 01:04:14,880
Speaker 1: to like, damn, how can you like condom dicts so much?

1167
01:04:15,120 --> 01:04:18,160
Speaker 1: So for me, one of the most terrifying things about

1168
01:04:18,280 --> 01:04:22,240
Speaker 1: sex is possibly contracting an STD or possibly getting a

1169
01:04:22,280 --> 01:04:24,480
Speaker 1: god damn baby that you don't want from a nigger

1170
01:04:24,520 --> 01:04:26,320
Speaker 1: that you know you don't want to spend eighteen years

1171
01:04:26,360 --> 01:04:31,040
Speaker 1: and you've got Damn. Life are a big process. It's money,

1172
01:04:31,240 --> 01:04:35,480
Speaker 1: it's time, it's all. And so to me, condoms, yeah,

1173
01:04:35,560 --> 01:04:39,720
Speaker 1: it takes a wee baby bump, no pussy bump. Actually

1174
01:04:40,800 --> 01:04:45,240
Speaker 1: that's not accurate. So condom condoms cannot protect you from

1175
01:04:45,280 --> 01:04:49,040
Speaker 1: herpes um condoms actually, so herpies is a skin to

1176
01:04:49,080 --> 01:04:51,560
Speaker 1: skin contact type of thing. If there's an outbreak and

1177
01:04:51,640 --> 01:04:54,560
Speaker 1: it gets to you. So even if he has herpies,

1178
01:04:54,960 --> 01:04:57,880
Speaker 1: maybe it's not that they can't protect you from herpes.

1179
01:04:58,280 --> 01:05:00,280
Speaker 1: I think it's just the chance because most of it

1180
01:05:00,440 --> 01:05:03,560
Speaker 1: is located. Like then the other thing too, is that

1181
01:05:04,960 --> 01:05:06,960
Speaker 1: you know, in addition to that, like is he you

1182
01:05:07,040 --> 01:05:10,520
Speaker 1: know taking um the anti viral you know, val trunks

1183
01:05:10,680 --> 01:05:14,320
Speaker 1: you know, helps to reduce the transmission of herpes between

1184
01:05:14,360 --> 01:05:16,680
Speaker 1: partners as well. I mean it could be undetectable, much

1185
01:05:16,720 --> 01:05:19,720
Speaker 1: like HIV when you're right. So and then that's the

1186
01:05:19,800 --> 01:05:22,200
Speaker 1: thing with HSV as well. It can be in your

1187
01:05:22,240 --> 01:05:26,520
Speaker 1: system as dormant. So he can go maybe he has

1188
01:05:26,560 --> 01:05:28,640
Speaker 1: herpies now, but maybe he'll never have another outbreak for

1189
01:05:28,640 --> 01:05:31,040
Speaker 1: the rest of his life. Um So, I mean, there's

1190
01:05:31,040 --> 01:05:33,000
Speaker 1: a lot of education on it. These are a lot

1191
01:05:33,040 --> 01:05:36,320
Speaker 1: of questions that are asked us often, and I actually

1192
01:05:36,360 --> 01:05:38,920
Speaker 1: picked this question. So we were just in Miami and

1193
01:05:39,360 --> 01:05:41,680
Speaker 1: this we had a straight mail asked us a question.

1194
01:05:41,960 --> 01:05:45,120
Speaker 1: He said that he's currently friends with a girl who

1195
01:05:45,240 --> 01:05:49,160
Speaker 1: has open casual sex and what do you say partners

1196
01:05:49,280 --> 01:05:51,200
Speaker 1: loving partners. I don't remember the number, I just remember

1197
01:05:51,240 --> 01:05:54,560
Speaker 1: he said. She has a premium Snapchat. Yeah, premium Snapchat.

1198
01:05:54,600 --> 01:05:57,960
Speaker 1: But he also mentioned like having excess to like current

1199
01:05:58,040 --> 01:06:01,200
Speaker 1: sexual partners. And when he went to ask her, well,

1200
01:06:01,240 --> 01:06:03,120
Speaker 1: when was the last time you've been tested, she said

1201
01:06:04,200 --> 01:06:06,600
Speaker 1: something like it was some years ago, and she also

1202
01:06:06,880 --> 01:06:10,240
Speaker 1: was like, I guess he said she was reluctant to

1203
01:06:10,840 --> 01:06:13,840
Speaker 1: to get tested, and so he's like, I really want

1204
01:06:13,880 --> 01:06:15,200
Speaker 1: to have sex with her, but I don't want to

1205
01:06:15,200 --> 01:06:17,480
Speaker 1: have sex with her unless she gets texted. And his

1206
01:06:17,600 --> 01:06:20,320
Speaker 1: question was, how do I bring up having her get

1207
01:06:20,400 --> 01:06:23,040
Speaker 1: tested so that we can have sex? So I know

1208
01:06:23,200 --> 01:06:26,600
Speaker 1: that this was a question with also us in this

1209
01:06:26,720 --> 01:06:32,200
Speaker 1: space of casual dating, polyamory, non monogamy and also still

1210
01:06:32,280 --> 01:06:35,320
Speaker 1: wanting to be healthy. Um, and with all of these

1211
01:06:35,800 --> 01:06:39,800
Speaker 1: conversations surrounding sex, we have to also be safe and healthy.

1212
01:06:39,960 --> 01:06:42,200
Speaker 1: But we can't all be safe and healthy if we're

1213
01:06:42,240 --> 01:06:44,200
Speaker 1: not honest with ourselves and honest with the people were

1214
01:06:44,200 --> 01:06:47,360
Speaker 1: having sex. And nothing is wrong with like telling people know,

1215
01:06:48,240 --> 01:06:50,680
Speaker 1: ignoring someone ghostaying all of that ship. That ship is

1216
01:06:50,720 --> 01:06:53,440
Speaker 1: fucking terrible and it's childish tell someone, especially someone that

1217
01:06:53,480 --> 01:06:55,120
Speaker 1: you've already slept with them that you care about. For

1218
01:06:55,240 --> 01:06:57,320
Speaker 1: someone to give a funk enough about you to tell you,

1219
01:06:58,200 --> 01:06:59,760
Speaker 1: you gotta give a funk about him enough to at

1220
01:06:59,840 --> 01:07:03,200
Speaker 1: least say this is the choice I made. Yeah, I agree,

1221
01:07:03,400 --> 01:07:05,480
Speaker 1: you know, like, I really commend this thing. If I'm

1222
01:07:05,520 --> 01:07:09,800
Speaker 1: telling you, because the fact that you know you get

1223
01:07:09,840 --> 01:07:12,160
Speaker 1: something like her bees you totally understand what it means.

1224
01:07:12,280 --> 01:07:13,640
Speaker 1: And I know he told you when you were on

1225
01:07:13,720 --> 01:07:15,160
Speaker 1: their way over there. I get it, But maybe he

1226
01:07:15,280 --> 01:07:16,560
Speaker 1: was just like, I don't know how to do this here,

1227
01:07:16,600 --> 01:07:20,280
Speaker 1: it comes better like than never, and I think it's

1228
01:07:20,280 --> 01:07:22,440
Speaker 1: time for you to at least tell them. Just tell

1229
01:07:22,520 --> 01:07:24,240
Speaker 1: him you're scared, tell them with your fears. I'm sure

1230
01:07:24,240 --> 01:07:27,680
Speaker 1: he's talked about it with doctor Damn. I probably put

1231
01:07:27,720 --> 01:07:30,080
Speaker 1: her fears to rest. I agree. I agree. Well, I

1232
01:07:30,160 --> 01:07:32,320
Speaker 1: hope that helps you and maybe some of the other

1233
01:07:33,000 --> 01:07:36,120
Speaker 1: people who are tuned in listening. If you guys have

1234
01:07:36,560 --> 01:07:41,080
Speaker 1: any specific astrology questions, because I know that coin, it's

1235
01:07:41,120 --> 01:07:43,480
Speaker 1: a black man in front of us. Can't stop. We

1236
01:07:43,680 --> 01:07:47,080
Speaker 1: gotta stop talking about the ship, be about the ship.

1237
01:07:47,160 --> 01:07:49,360
Speaker 1: I'm about to buy black I'm getting my session with Mecca.

1238
01:07:49,400 --> 01:07:53,640
Speaker 1: How much you charge? You know, we get talk, but

1239
01:07:53,760 --> 01:07:56,520
Speaker 1: now I'm trying to put on the spot. No, but

1240
01:07:57,000 --> 01:07:58,640
Speaker 1: I want to do mine for sure. For a lot

1241
01:07:58,720 --> 01:08:02,840
Speaker 1: of you who have this ccific astrology questions, UM, if

1242
01:08:02,880 --> 01:08:04,920
Speaker 1: you want to let them know where they can reach you,

1243
01:08:05,800 --> 01:08:07,920
Speaker 1: tell them your social media handles and then your website,

1244
01:08:07,920 --> 01:08:09,840
Speaker 1: because your website is actually how I got in touch

1245
01:08:09,920 --> 01:08:12,120
Speaker 1: with you. UM. I went straight to her website and

1246
01:08:12,160 --> 01:08:14,680
Speaker 1: emailed her and she was very good with responding back.

1247
01:08:14,760 --> 01:08:17,160
Speaker 1: So for a lot of you who may have UM

1248
01:08:17,520 --> 01:08:20,960
Speaker 1: specific astrology questions, as it pertains to just trying to

1249
01:08:21,040 --> 01:08:23,960
Speaker 1: understand yourself a little bit more, or you and your partners,

1250
01:08:24,080 --> 01:08:26,240
Speaker 1: or you and your relationships with other people such as

1251
01:08:26,280 --> 01:08:28,800
Speaker 1: your friends or your family. Definitely hear her up. So

1252
01:08:28,840 --> 01:08:31,240
Speaker 1: where can they hit you up? Sure? So my website

1253
01:08:31,520 --> 01:08:35,240
Speaker 1: is my life created dot com and you can also

1254
01:08:35,360 --> 01:08:38,439
Speaker 1: find me on Twitter at the Mechanism which is M

1255
01:08:38,520 --> 01:08:41,679
Speaker 1: E C C A and I s M. I'm also

1256
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Speaker 1: on Instagram at one Mechanism and UM, yeah, I do

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Speaker 1: to post these links. Yeah, well, it'll all be in

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Speaker 1: UM the description of this episode, and we'll also be

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Speaker 1: tagging her UM on Instagram and when we go ahead

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Speaker 1: and post on Twitter. So do you have anything coming up?

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Speaker 1: Because I know you do the workshops, you have a

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Speaker 1: lot of little event do you have anything coming up

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Speaker 1: in the month of May, let's say the ending of May. Um. Well,

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Speaker 1: the most recent thing that I did, I just dropped

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Speaker 1: a web based astrology course for for beginners. UM. The

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Speaker 1: registration just closed, but it's going to be opening again soon,

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Speaker 1: so people can follow me or they can um sign

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Speaker 1: up for my lose newsletter at my website and I'll

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Speaker 1: let them know when registration opens again. UM. I also

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Speaker 1: just published my first book on astrology in October called

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Speaker 1: Astrology for Happiness and Success. And yeah, I'm I'm a

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Speaker 1: frequent contributor. I do the daily horoscopes at Bustle, I

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Speaker 1: do monthly horoscopes that I am and I also do

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Speaker 1: full moon horoscopes at girl Boss. So you can find

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Speaker 1: me all over. What is the session with you? Look like?

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Speaker 1: Is it thirty minutes? Ten minutes? Um? So chatting phone? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: So I have actually have clients from all over the world, so, um,

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Speaker 1: humble flicks, I do Skype and Google Hangout. I do video. Yeah. Well, um,

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Speaker 1: if people like live outside of New York, but if

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Speaker 1: you're in New York or New York, you know, uh,

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Speaker 1: like try state based. We can definitely like meet in person. Um,

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Speaker 1: but I do, like my my session is usually run

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Speaker 1: from like, um about an hour, like forty five minutes

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Speaker 1: to an hour, depending on what kind of session. And

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Speaker 1: then I also do recorded readings that people can buy

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Speaker 1: and then I record them and send them to them. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So why in person do you prefer? Why are looking

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Speaker 1: at someone to prefer that? Um be just because I

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Speaker 1: think it's more intimate. Also just the idea of like

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Speaker 1: it just becomes more genuine, you know, because I think again,

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Speaker 1: you know, for me being in this line of work,

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Speaker 1: I'm also hyper sensitive to people who are Charlatan's and

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Speaker 1: who are just in this game to take a vamiboy,

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Speaker 1: to take advantage of people and to like I just

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Speaker 1: saw this article that came out the other day about

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Speaker 1: like how all of a sudden people are starting to

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Speaker 1: call themselves as solgers and they don't have the training

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Speaker 1: for it, you know, which is very dangerous because you

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Speaker 1: are essentially getting people's information and charging the money for it,

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Speaker 1: and essentially it's very sensitive information. You know, people are

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Speaker 1: like coming to you for guidance, and the fact that

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Speaker 1: people are out here just hustling for money. I mean,

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Speaker 1: it's always it's been, it's been time. I just realized that,

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Speaker 1: which is that I want to believe out the time

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Speaker 1: that we told people we were born. Why bitch, I

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Speaker 1: don't want nobody reading my ship and doing no, don't

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Speaker 1: want me home? Can they do all that ship? I

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Speaker 1: mean you might want to kind of no, I'm believing

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Speaker 1: that out. Yeah, you might want to end out that.

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Speaker 1: But editing this episode, you see this work, she got

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Speaker 1: us do it, and she'd just be like yeah just

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Speaker 1: posted no. I yeah, you got all this, you got

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Speaker 1: all of this, but no, Okay. So so I'm super

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Speaker 1: excited to kind of actually maybe look more into this

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Speaker 1: because I didn't know anything about my rise and sign

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Speaker 1: and all that. And I hope if you guys are

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Speaker 1: interested and maybe getting more um into astrology, your horoscope

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Speaker 1: sign and seeing what Mecca has to offer, you definitely

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Speaker 1: check her out again. All of her information will be

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Speaker 1: in the description to the episode. Um and then again,

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Speaker 1: I want to give a huge, huge, huge shout out

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Speaker 1: to everybody who came out to motherfucking l A. Y'all

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Speaker 1: was lit, y'all turned up. We rocked out two motherfucking's shows,

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Speaker 1: and we are kicking off our very last stop into Toronto.

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Speaker 1: It is sold out. I'm excited. This is my first

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Speaker 1: time in Canada. You know I'm gonna be up there

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Speaker 1: what oo views from the six all that ship You'll

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Speaker 1: be doing on on what of them um muntings muntings.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, we're gonna go ahead. Shout out to everyone

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Speaker 1: on Patreon because if y'all were able to do this

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Speaker 1: tour again. At the end of this episode, you will

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Speaker 1: hear a five minute clip from one of our bonus episodes.

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Speaker 1: We want to thank you guys. We want to thank

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Speaker 1: you Mecca for joining us here on having me Visions.

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Speaker 1: And again this has been get another episode of Hoble

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Speaker 1: Decisions by