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Speaker 1: Nephew's subject I know my man's hands. Here's Stephen Shirley.

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Speaker 1: I'm a thirty six year old married woman and my

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Speaker 1: husband is thirty eight. I'm pregnant with my second child,

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Speaker 1: and I'm too far along to travel, so my husband

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Speaker 1: went to his baby sister's wedding without me. He's from

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Speaker 1: Detroit and his ex wife and twelve year old son

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Speaker 1: live there. When we first met, he would go to

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Speaker 1: Detroit to visit with his son, and he would stay

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Speaker 1: at his old home where his ex wife still lives.

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Speaker 1: He tried to rationalize it by saying he still pays

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Speaker 1: for the house, so he's not going to go to

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Speaker 1: Detroit and pay for a hotel room. After I broke

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Speaker 1: up with him for doing it, he started either staying

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Speaker 1: in a hotel or he would stay with his cousin.

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Speaker 1: Going back and forth to Detroit has always been an

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Speaker 1: issue with me because he gets ghost when he's there.

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Speaker 1: He tells me that it's because he puts his phone

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Speaker 1: down so he can be present and in the moment

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Speaker 1: with his son. But I think he's over there with

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Speaker 1: his ex wife playing house. When I noticed I was

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Speaker 1: nagging him about it, I stopped mentioning it. Now when

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Speaker 1: he is there, if he ignores my calls, I ignore his.

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Speaker 1: I hate playing games at this age, but I have

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Speaker 1: to get his attention somehow.

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Speaker 2: So back to the topic at hand. My husband went.

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Speaker 1: To Detroit for his sister's wedding and he told me

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Speaker 1: that his ex wife was invited. I cannot argue with

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Speaker 1: that because she will be linked to the family forever

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Speaker 1: through their son. I saw photos days after the wedding

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Speaker 1: and his ex wife was in a lot of pictures

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Speaker 1: with the family. One picture was taken of her back

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Speaker 1: and there was a hand on her lower back right

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Speaker 1: at her. But it was my husband's right hand. He

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Speaker 1: can deny it all he wants, that's right. I know

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Speaker 1: my man's hands. I'm going crazy thinking he was with

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Speaker 1: his ex all weekend. Is it not his responsibility to

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Speaker 1: make me think otherwise?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: No, I don't think it's his responsibility to do that.

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Speaker 1: You saw what you saw. You saw your husband's hand

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Speaker 1: on her lower back. Don't leave it up to him

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Speaker 1: to try to make you think you saw something other

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Speaker 1: than what you saw. You saw it with your own

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Speaker 1: eyes and you cannot unsee it. Where there's smoke, there's fire,

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Speaker 1: and his hand on her lower back, right at her

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Speaker 1: butt as you say, means they're still very close and

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Speaker 1: familiar with each other. Kid aside, Yes, he could very

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Speaker 1: well have been with her this weekend in Detroit. Of

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Speaker 1: course he's going to deny it. I mean, what else

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Speaker 1: is he going to say? You busted him? What is

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Speaker 1: he going to say say it wasn't his hand. You

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Speaker 1: definitely should know your husband's hand. Uh, And he's not

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Speaker 1: gonna tell you the truth, no chance of that. You

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Speaker 1: already know what's up anyway. Then you say you left

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Speaker 1: him early on in your relationship because of his situation

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Speaker 1: with her, all of this getting ghost when he's in

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Speaker 1: Detroit putting his phone down, not answering when.

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Speaker 2: You called all that sounds very suspect to me.

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Speaker 1: Spending time with his son does not require him to

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Speaker 1: spend time with his baby mama.

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Speaker 2: To period, Steve, it's gonna be a tough one. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: wiggle out of this one.

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Speaker 3: I'm already a pin over loophole, very large loophole. I'm

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Speaker 3: about to dive through it. I uh what sounds like

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Speaker 3: me and yah, we'll be in some situations here. Whenever

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Speaker 3: you meet a man or women, know that there comes

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Speaker 3: a history with these people. Nobody is history free. Everybody

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Speaker 3: has a present. Ever, excuse me, everybody has a past.

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Speaker 3: That's how you get to the present. You need a

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Speaker 3: small P to become the big P past present. What's

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Speaker 3: the most important thing, the big P present. But y'all

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Speaker 3: like to bring up the past. So now what we

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Speaker 3: got to do is cover the past, shade the past,

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Speaker 3: make it appear to be something that it wasn't so

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Speaker 3: we can get on with the present. See, I'm doing

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Speaker 3: the same thing this woman did in this letter, because

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Speaker 3: it took her a long time to get down to

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Speaker 3: the crux of this letter. But she thought she was

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Speaker 3: in court, so she was presenting her case. She's thirty six,

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Speaker 3: her husband thirty eight. She's pregnant with her second child,

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Speaker 3: so she can't travel. So your husband went to his

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Speaker 3: baby sister's where without me. Well, he is his baby sister,

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Speaker 3: so we don't have a problem now. But this is

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Speaker 3: all to set us up for her side of the story.

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Speaker 3: He's from Detroit. His ex wife and twelve year old

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Speaker 3: son lived there. He has a past. They were married,

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Speaker 3: they had a child, they were together. Now when we

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Speaker 3: first met, he'd go to Detroit to visit his son,

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Speaker 3: and he'd stay at his old home whereas ex wife

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Speaker 3: still live. He tried to rationalize it by saying he

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Speaker 3: still pay for the house. He ain't gonna go to

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Speaker 3: Detroit and pay for a hotel room. Bravo, brother, nice things,

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Speaker 3: but you know that one ain't gonna last. That one

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Speaker 3: ain't gonna last. Now I must tell you that that

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Speaker 3: type of thinking is not gonna last. I can't help

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Speaker 3: you with this one. Dog. I ain't over here. I'm

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Speaker 3: going to Detroit. I'm paying for this hall. I'mna pay

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Speaker 3: for a house and the hotel. Yes you will. So

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Speaker 3: you broke up with him for doing it. He started

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Speaker 3: either staying in the hotel or to stay at his

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Speaker 3: cousin's house. And that's the way you get your way, lady.

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Speaker 3: I commend you for that. I'm on your side going

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Speaker 3: back to forth. Detroit's always been an issue with me

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Speaker 3: because he gets ghosts when he's there. You've man about

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Speaker 3: to hold Detroit situation anyway. The man got to go

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Speaker 3: see his son. We get beat up all the time

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Speaker 3: from not taking care of our kids. Then when we

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Speaker 3: go and be a quality father, somebody got a problem

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Speaker 3: with that part too. Now you can't have your cake

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Speaker 3: and eat it too. We'll come back. We'll just talk

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Speaker 3: about what you actually gonna eat. Car Okay, she does.

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Speaker 1: They ain't gonna be a cake, all right, all right,

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Speaker 1: hold that thought, Steve.

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Speaker 2: Coming up at twenty three minutes after the.

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Speaker 1: Hour each we will recapped today's strawberry letter and have

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Speaker 1: more of your response. The subject is I know my

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Speaker 1: man's hands. We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 1: All Right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject is I know my man's hands.

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Speaker 3: Well, lady, you set up this letter to get to

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Speaker 3: this long park. We waited till the end of this letter.

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Speaker 3: You told us because you will stay in your case,

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Speaker 3: did you thirty sixty thirty eight? You're having your second child.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if that's with him. I'm pregnant with

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Speaker 3: my second child and I wasn't able to travel. I'm

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Speaker 3: not I'm probably assuming that's y'all's two children, or you

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Speaker 3: had one before, but this one was his for suresn't matter.

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Speaker 3: He's from Detroit. His ex wife and twelve year old

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Speaker 3: son live there. And then when he first met y'all

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Speaker 3: would go back and forth to Detroit, and he would

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Speaker 3: stay at his old home where his ex still lives.

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Speaker 3: And he tried to rationalize that he ain't paying for

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Speaker 3: a house at the hotel when we go to Detroit.

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Speaker 3: You got on him about it, and you broke up

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Speaker 3: with him for doing it. So he either stays at

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Speaker 3: a hotel or with his cousin. Now, bravo, lady, you

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Speaker 3: did the right thing. Put your foot down. Stop that.

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Speaker 3: It's hard for me to fix that. With two brothers cousins.

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna be very help you with this one.

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Speaker 3: Right here, you can't stay at the woman house, and

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Speaker 3: I can give you you deVie ain't gonna fly. So anyway,

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Speaker 3: going back and forth Detroit's always been an issue because

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Speaker 3: he gets ghost when he's there. He tells me, is

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Speaker 3: because he puts his phone down so he can be

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Speaker 3: present and in the moment with his son. Ain't God good? Now, Daddy,

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Speaker 3: listen to me. If your son twelve and he don't

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Speaker 3: know that the phone gonna ring, sometimes we need to

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Speaker 3: turn him on to technology because he at that age

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Speaker 3: where y'all probably considering getting him a phone. Anyway, So

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Speaker 3: Then you say, but I think he over there with

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Speaker 3: his ex wife playing house. Then you said, what I noticed,

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Speaker 3: I was nagging him about it. I stopped mentioning it.

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Speaker 3: So when he's there, he ignores my call, ignore.

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Speaker 2: The wife's calls, help him.

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Speaker 3: I can't. I can't help you with this right here,

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Speaker 3: Ignore the wife's calls. Bruh, you have got to find

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Speaker 3: a way to answer that phone and say, baby, were

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Speaker 3: in the movies? Now, baby, I'm putting him to sleep.

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Speaker 3: But he twelve, so that ain't gonna work. I don't know,

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Speaker 3: you me the reading bedtime stud. You got to do something.

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Speaker 3: But you cannot ignore her cause you gotta pick that

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Speaker 3: if he ignores my cause I ignore his, well he

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Speaker 3: probably saying hallelujah to that I called your baby. You

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Speaker 3: ain't answer. That's a relief. So you stupid, you're giving

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Speaker 3: him more free time. Now, you stupid. That's a dumb move, lady.

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Speaker 3: Stop doing that. Stop ignoring. He's gonna pick him up

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Speaker 3: and just say hello, where you being?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: You ready to talk? Now?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: I guess it's I guess it's convenient for me now

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Speaker 3: while I'm carrying your baby. Oh, it's a whole lot

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Speaker 3: of stuff you can say when you pick that phone

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Speaker 3: up to make him on a vomit. My husband went

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Speaker 3: to Detroit for his sister's where and he told me

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Speaker 3: his ex wife was invited. Oh, first of all, let

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Speaker 3: me tell she said, I hate playing games at this age,

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Speaker 3: but I have to get his attention somehow. So back

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Speaker 3: me his ex wife was invited. I cannot argue with

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Speaker 3: that because she is linked to the family forever through

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Speaker 3: the sun. Okay, got that. I saw photos today after

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Speaker 3: the wind and his ex wife was in a lot

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Speaker 3: of picks with the family. Yeah, she was there. You

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Speaker 3: would have been in picks too, but you couldn't make

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Speaker 3: it because you was pregnant. Right, one picture was taken

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Speaker 3: He can deny it all he wants. I know my

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Speaker 3: ex all weekend. It is it not his responsibility to

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Speaker 3: make me think otherwise. Yes, it is his responsibility to

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Speaker 3: make you think otherwise. And he did just that. He said,

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Speaker 3: that is not my hand, You says, he can deny

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Speaker 3: it all he wants. I know my man's hand. That

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Speaker 3: is not my head. You know how many people got

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Speaker 3: this hand right here?

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Speaker 2: You got you.

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Speaker 3: A whole lot of people got hair look like mine.

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Speaker 3: Did you see my face back there on her back,

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Speaker 3: her back? Because I always wear my wedding ring. Huh?

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Speaker 3: Look how small that man's hands is. I look at

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Speaker 3: my hands. The picture that as deception, pictures are never

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Speaker 3: as clear as to ere It is the size of

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Speaker 3: the man's hand that what I would win this argument.

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Speaker 3: And I will make a refer to a case in

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Speaker 3: the past. If it doesn't fit, you must agree that

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Speaker 3: is not my head. It is the wrong side. Oh,

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Speaker 3: it looked like my head. But I put my head

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Speaker 3: up against that picture, which will be way bigger, and

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Speaker 3: I'll go write that. Look at that, Look at the

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Speaker 3: hand side. Let me take my head and put it

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Speaker 3: on yo lower back.

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Speaker 3: That is not my head. Is it his responsibility to

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Speaker 3: make me think otherwise? Yes? And he did it.

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Speaker 2: No, he doesn't know.

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