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Speaker 1: What's up y'all at your girl likes p and it's

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Speaker 1: your girls friend.

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Speaker 2: New Orleans. We coming your way November.

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Speaker 1: Fourth, House of Blues.

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Speaker 3: We outside, baby, I'll love me some, no la baby, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: but doors open at seventh show stores at Hey, and.

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Speaker 2: We got currency, are you sie, I'm a nigga with that.

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Speaker 1: Hey, I'm taking that house.

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Speaker 4: Y'all are not gonna want to miss this. Y'all know

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Speaker 4: we love to have special guests and we got currency

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Speaker 4: coming in the building is gonna be so lid. House

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Speaker 4: of Blues, New Orleans, November fourth, y'all get your tickets

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Speaker 4: at poor Minds dot com.

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Speaker 2: Doors open their saving and currently gonna be in a building.

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Speaker 2: Be on time. Y'all don't want to miss this House

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Speaker 2: of Blues.

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Speaker 5: Y'all Orleans Currency, Baby, good evening.

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Speaker 6: It is your boy Malfoy, Draco Malfoy.

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Speaker 2: And it is youry Harry Potter.

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Speaker 6: Here you go with your You are tuned in to

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Speaker 6: the Halloween episode of Poor Mind.

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Speaker 2: Where a drunken mind speaks souber thoughts.

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Speaker 4: So I hope you all have your Halloween costumes on.

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Speaker 4: I don't know how y'all are feeling this Halloween season,

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Speaker 4: but this is the episode about scary things.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever been frightened? Poor Pa? Have you ever

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Speaker 2: been frightened? Don't say you don't know.

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Speaker 4: I don't know because I be feeling like the man

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Speaker 4: when I walk through.

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Speaker 7: Okay, okay, why are you laughing?

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Speaker 2: What's funny?

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Speaker 4: So we're gonna start this episode off with a nice

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Speaker 4: warm shot.

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Speaker 2: Get your shot?

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Speaker 8: Say please, uh please grab your shorts? Do you told

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Speaker 8: them to cut your hair like that?

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Speaker 2: This is my room? Why sit around and Jane? Come on.

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Speaker 4: We are not friends, never have been, never will be.

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Speaker 4: We're enemy this whole episode. Bro, I'm on your ass.

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Speaker 4: Take your shot. We gotta start the show now.

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Speaker 2: This is this is so I mean hermione, bitch her mind.

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Speaker 4: No, this is the most ghetto hog worst y'all have

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Speaker 4: ever been to. So y'all know what's your girl?

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Speaker 2: Nex b P for Harry Boy Harry me? Oh fuck? Okay, y'all.

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Speaker 4: So obviously this is a Halloween episode.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna turn up that really.

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Speaker 9: For real, flat slap, bigger Okay, cheers, what shot you taking?

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Speaker 2: But this damn I thought she was gonna turn to

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Speaker 2: a white lady. Okay, So what's up y'alls?

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Speaker 4: Your girl lex Pe and this sure girl's writ in

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Speaker 4: the cold and you aren't suing in?

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Speaker 2: So another episode of poor mine? Period? Okay, I know period.

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Speaker 2: So I just want to say you look really cute.

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Speaker 10: Thank you?

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Speaker 2: So do you you beefed up? For real?

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Speaker 1: And why do you got some slides on? It's cold

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Speaker 1: in England?

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Speaker 2: You have always been a hater?

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Speaker 4: I have on my boots. Malfoy puts that shit on

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Speaker 4: and go mad about it, y'all see.

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Speaker 3: Down, he needs some boots. You mad because why do

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Speaker 3: he got them toes out?

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Speaker 2: Because a real wizard never gets cold?

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Speaker 8: That was good?

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Speaker 2: Did that not sound like a villain?

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Speaker 11: Laugh?

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Speaker 2: Thank you? Dumbledore? Hello, please come on, Dumbledore. You gotta

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Speaker 2: give up. Come on, just walk around from Dumbledore, y'all

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Speaker 2: give it up. Forty one and the only Dumbleedoor. Thank

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Speaker 2: you for blessing us with your prison. Thank you, Thank you? Okay, Pull?

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Speaker 2: What is I am? I am not your friend, We're not,

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Speaker 2: but we have to talk why it is? Pull? Minds?

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Speaker 2: Oh no? Thank you? What is your What is your

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Speaker 4: That's a Christmas It's scary that it's real scary for.

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Speaker 2: You Okay, home alone? Why is home alone? Your face?

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Speaker 3: Because imagine being nine years old and being left at

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Speaker 3: Thought that them people was really about to take him.

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Speaker 3: He was about to be taken. That was the real

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Speaker 4: He didn't get taken though he almost did though, No,

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Speaker 3: You didn't say whether he was scared. You said, what

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Speaker 3: I was scared. That was a very scary movie for me. Okay,

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Speaker 3: nine years old, left at home by yourself while all

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Speaker 1: They was in Wisconsin, in the cheese state.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's fair enough.

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Speaker 4: They're over there eating Swiss cheese and I'm here in

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Speaker 2: So they would do anything.

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Speaker 3: Any They was about that, like they were gonna do

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Speaker 4: No, you're right, that is something that's terrifying. A broke

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Speaker 4: nigga is, yeah, that is you know you what hey

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Speaker 1: I know that was a scary movie.

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Speaker 4: My most scary movie is any Tyler Perry film. I'm

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Speaker 4: a Tyler Perry fan, but I'm horrified. Oh did y'all

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Speaker 2: That nigga was like, you shouldn't hear me. That's a

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Speaker 4: No, I'm serious, And she gave him an as every

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Speaker 4: movie Tyler Perry Mason is honestly a horror movie.

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Speaker 2: This is no shade. This Haller Perry. Why did not

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Speaker 2: get married? One? And two made me not want to

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Speaker 4: She said she put that lunger right. What was the

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Speaker 2: He made Sheila take a truck to the mountains. He

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Speaker 1: But that's tough all because I wouldn't have got off

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Speaker 2: But I'm just saying she and he was fucking her

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Speaker 2: best friend. Horror movie. Horror movie.

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Speaker 1: No, why did I get married to?

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Speaker 3: I mean one in Toyah was very much horror movies?

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Speaker 2: So what you think? Say? And then what was the

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Speaker 4: With the Girls for Colored Girl, Daddy's Girl for Colored Girls.

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Speaker 2: That was a horror movie.

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Speaker 4: Remember when he dropped you the one, so you're doing

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Speaker 2: I mean I feel like that.

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Speaker 3: I think I think harm alone was a little scarier though,

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Speaker 3: I do, because like I just couldn't imagine being that

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Speaker 4: I ain't even the one who got the money. It's

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Speaker 3: Remember he was watching that movie and he had to

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Speaker 1: He had to act like he had some shooters in.

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Speaker 2: He had to act like he was wedding up the plug.

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Speaker 3: But he was like, I don't know. I do feel like,

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Speaker 3: why did I get married? Is very much scary? Behave

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Speaker 3: that is Little Girls is scary too? Why because remember.

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Speaker 2: Like she was.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, They was fighting while I was Born

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Speaker 4: by the River was playing I.

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Speaker 1: Know, and I was born by the Roo, but I

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Speaker 2: That's how they do in the movie scenes.

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Speaker 4: Why started lighten up when I put it racing okay

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Speaker 4: I think I'm taking this very seriously. I've actually for

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Speaker 4: done this one time on Poor Mind's Ever, this is

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Speaker 4: the second time I've worn my real hair on the show.

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Speaker 4: So I'm just so glad that y'all can see me

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Speaker 4: I'm wearing my real hair and I'm just being true

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Speaker 2: I'm slithering down slime.

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Speaker 4: Slat like this is who I really truly am, and

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Speaker 4: for the really first time in poor Mind's history, I

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Speaker 4: So I feel comfortable as fuck.

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Speaker 2: Right now.

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Speaker 4: I'm feeling good. So let's get into this first topic.

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Speaker 4: You ready, Okay, I was hoping you disappeared. Why would

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Speaker 4: for the first topic today, we're gonna talk about we

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Speaker 2: We always talk about.

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Speaker 4: What we do to scare I mean what men do

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Speaker 2: But today, for.

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Speaker 4: Halloween, the addition, we're gonna talk about what women do

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Speaker 4: that scare men on a first day because a lot

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Speaker 4: of times, let's be real, you hosts be scaring the niggas.

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Speaker 2: Niggas can't be scared as much as women have been

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Speaker 2: and can be. So, Drea, why isn't our working?

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Speaker 1: It is working, You're not disappearing.

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Speaker 2: So what do women do that's scared the niggas? Everything?

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Speaker 3: Like, what what do women do they scare niggas? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I feel like women be trying to force niggas to

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Speaker 3: they not ready to be in a real relationship. They're

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Speaker 3: trying to force them in to commit me. M just

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Speaker 3: because you like a nigga don't mean he want.

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Speaker 10: To be with you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's a good one. That's a good one. Read

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Speaker 4: I think on a first day talking about marriage and kids,

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Speaker 4: that's gonna scare the niggas. Now it's okay to talk

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Speaker 4: about you know what you're looking for. But it's not

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Speaker 4: relationship or something serious.

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Speaker 2: But to say, oh, I want to be married and have.

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Speaker 4: Kids like you gotta just sometimes people need to be

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Speaker 4: let them know you're looking for something with you to

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Speaker 3: First day, you can't expect them to just be ready

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Speaker 2: I think men in general.

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Speaker 4: I don't cause a lot of niggas just dombina just

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Speaker 4: not as smart as you give them. You're talking about marriage,

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Speaker 4: we're not talking about baby mamas. We're not talking about

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Speaker 2: Smart nigga's not gonna put a baby in anybody.

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Speaker 3: But the point that I'm making is that life happens. Sometimes.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that that is something that's scared niggas.

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Speaker 2: But how is a man gonna know you never did

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Speaker 4: Because I just feel like sometimes you be doing the most,

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Speaker 4: When I go out with Kiki kill Them, we always

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Speaker 4: I do expect a man to order me a bottle.

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Speaker 4: But if I'm the type of girl who I.

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Speaker 2: Usually get one drink and I'm done.

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Speaker 4: Why is your expectation that he should or order a bottle?

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 4: I will say I do believe a man should upgrade

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Speaker 4: you and show you different things.

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Speaker 2: But let him do that.

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Speaker 4: Let him be like, you know what, I want to

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Speaker 2: Sorry, can I take his name is Dumbledore.

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Speaker 4: Stop trying to force a certain type of lifestyle on

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Speaker 4: Like if you're going out with somebody who you know

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Speaker 4: But y'all be feeling like somebody that you're dating that

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Speaker 2: Stop doing it.

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Speaker 4: Stop trying to be like, oh, I'm finna break his

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Speaker 4: doing it. You scaring the host. You being too much,

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Speaker 4: You're doing too much.

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Speaker 2: Stop it.

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Speaker 4: So I feel like, Yeah, when you go on a

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Speaker 4: that's that's gonna scare the hose. That's gonna scare the

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Speaker 4: holes for sure.

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Speaker 2: I agree malfoy. I agree with you.

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Speaker 3: I think that that's really to me though, one of

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Speaker 3: It's just expecting too much in the beginning. I really

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Speaker 2: What expecting too much in the beginning. Hmm.

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Speaker 3: That's it, And you could take that however you want

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Speaker 3: to take it. I feel like it can come with

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Speaker 3: you just met him can scare him away, right, I mean,

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Speaker 3: have you ever scared a niga away?

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Speaker 2: I don't think I've ever scared a nigga?

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Speaker 4: Wow, what's in these green shiite for you?

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Speaker 2: I was just that by Yeah, it's just a little

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Speaker 2: Why are you drunk, poor, poor expold. I'm not drunk.

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Speaker 3: That's why you got samdpals on in these thirty degrees outside.

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Speaker 12: The boy, boy, fucking boy, help me.

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Speaker 2: Take your short pull. Oh my god, exactly on.

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Speaker 4: You is a Jamaican Harry Potter bomba clack, because why

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Speaker 4: do you sound like that?

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Speaker 2: You are Jamaican. I sound like a Jamaican Harry Potter.

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Speaker 4: See, and that's how how I sound you drunk because

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Speaker 4: I didn't even take my second one.

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Speaker 2: Now before we really start this episode, ty.

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Speaker 10: What we drinking?

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Speaker 1: So this one we are going to call the Goblet.

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Speaker 2: Of Oh, oh, I'm sorry I introduced you wrong. Let

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Speaker 2: me start hermione, hermione. What we drinking? This one we're

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Speaker 2: going to call the Goblet of Fire?

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Speaker 13: All right, So we have some tequila or vodka, a

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Speaker 1: Where is your English accents?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 14: Forgive me, I don't have one yet.

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Speaker 2: It is better, okay. So this is the Goblet of Fire.

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Speaker 2: And then with the garnish, we're taking.

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Speaker 14: Some leat chees some blueberries in the middle, so it

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Speaker 14: looks like oil balls in the blood.

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Speaker 2: That was a good accent. That was ay.

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Speaker 4: Y'all always had to take a shot of LS between

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Speaker 3: I feel like you can make a pumpkin spoe drink pumpkinspoice.

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Speaker 2: Yes twice. Is that that I say? It works?

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Speaker 4: Boy, you sound like a fucking jaicon bit at least

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Speaker 4: I at least at least I sounded like something. So

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Speaker 2: Five K.

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Speaker 3: What's up, y'all? Is your girl XP and it's your

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Speaker 3: girl dray and a cold And y'all know we love

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Speaker 3: to drink on this show. But the worst thing about

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Speaker 2: Yes.

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Speaker 4: So people think that when you drink and you get

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Speaker 2: So what z biotic does is it puts an.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I love z biotic because it's like before you

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Speaker 4: Yes, we don't like that. I'm telling you because you

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Speaker 2: I'm telling y'all, we like to have our drink.

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Speaker 4: You know, it's all about balancing life, but you also

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Speaker 4: thank you Lex.

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Speaker 3: Andrea period and thank you to Zbiotics for sponsoring this episode.

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Speaker 6: Girl.

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Speaker 2: Lex cream is so good.

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Speaker 4: It's so good, you know, vanilla, coconut, cinnamon and Mudmg,

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Speaker 4: it's the perfect bleeding I love it. I wish there

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Speaker 4: was a way we could get more people to drinking.

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Speaker 4: I know, what about a gun? Say is Ooh, that's

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Speaker 4: a great idea.

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Speaker 2: Let's call it the LS Cream Challenge.

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Speaker 4: Okay, guys, let's recap this. This is how it's going

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Speaker 4: to go down. First, you take a picture of your

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Speaker 4: Then you post it on your Instagram and tag at

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Speaker 4: LS cream Liqueur and at poor Minds in the caption

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Speaker 4: with the LS cream hashtag hashtag ls cream five k Challenge. Also,

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Speaker 4: the most original pictures, so remember to be creative. Then

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Speaker 4: we're gonna post the eight pictures on our Instagram story

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Speaker 4: so you can vote which ones are gonna be going

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Speaker 4: to the next round. Then we'll do the same thing

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Speaker 4: two and the winner will get five thousand dollars.

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Speaker 1: Dollars listen, y'all.

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450
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Speaker 2: I think my thing is dying. No, it's nice, Okay, okay,

451
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Speaker 2: So let me ask you a question. Did you go

452
00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:21,720
Speaker 2: trigger treating when you were little? Yes? How do you

453
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Speaker 2: feel about trigger treating now?

454
00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:26,399
Speaker 3: If I think it's dang, I think it's always I

455
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:28,560
Speaker 3: feel like it's always been dangerous though, because I feel

456
00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:30,880
Speaker 3: like you always had like evil people that was like,

457
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:34,520
Speaker 3: you know, like trying to put little shit in the

458
00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 3: candy and just being evil to kids. But I think

459
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Speaker 3: now it's even more more dangerous.

460
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Speaker 2: So I feel like this.

461
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Speaker 3: I don't think I'm gonna I don't know once I

462
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Speaker 3: have kids, But honestly, I feel like Beach.

463
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Speaker 2: Once I have kids, it's.

464
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Speaker 3: Gonna be twenty seventy three. They probably ain't even gonna

465
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Speaker 3: be doing any trick or treat no more.

466
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Speaker 4: I think they do tricker treating like virtually now, Like

467
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:55,800
Speaker 4: on TikTok. They got something on tick that that they're

468
00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:59,200
Speaker 4: probably doing virtual bat. So listen, So y'all know I'm

469
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:01,800
Speaker 4: a big documentary. Yeah, So y'all have to realize, like

470
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:03,879
Speaker 4: during the seventies and the eighties, that was like the

471
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 4: kidnapping time because people who are weird, those they figured

472
00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:10,080
Speaker 4: out that police really they didn't have the technology that

473
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:12,800
Speaker 4: they do now. So when people would go missing, they

474
00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:15,719
Speaker 4: really just went missing unless somebody snitched.

475
00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:18,560
Speaker 2: That was the only way you were really finding somebody.

476
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:21,800
Speaker 4: There wasn't no running a fingerprint through the like the

477
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Speaker 4: things that we have now to find people, the technology

478
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Speaker 4: that we have. So it was like during the seventies

479
00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:29,399
Speaker 4: and eighties, y'all have to really google this. So many

480
00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:33,640
Speaker 4: kids went missing, so many it's actually fucking crazy.

481
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Speaker 2: Right. So during like there.

482
00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:38,680
Speaker 4: Was a whole like fight back campaign, Like I can't

483
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Speaker 4: remember the name of it, but you I did.

484
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Speaker 2: But that's what I'm about to get into.

485
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Speaker 4: So there was a whole era of like y'all remember

486
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Speaker 4: how like Dare was for drugs and it's like we

487
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:49,639
Speaker 4: were supposed to be scared of drugs cause there they

488
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:51,760
Speaker 4: had a whole program where it was like.

489
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Speaker 2: Oh it was the Amber Alert.

490
00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:56,000
Speaker 4: The Amber Alert system came about, and it was just

491
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Speaker 4: like you couldn't steal a kid. It was like, oh

492
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Speaker 4: my god, I'm gonna get caught. So during our era,

493
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:03,840
Speaker 4: we got to leave the house, go trick or treating

494
00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:06,399
Speaker 4: and do that and things like that. But I feel

495
00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:09,720
Speaker 4: like now people get so creative with the weird shit

496
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Speaker 4: that they do. I'm not gonna lie like my nephews,

497
00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:15,359
Speaker 4: they've never gone door to door trick or treating by themselves,

498
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:18,359
Speaker 4: Like my mom used to literally open the door by y'all,

499
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 4: I'll see y'all in a hour or two. I would

500
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:24,320
Speaker 4: never like my nephew when he's with me, you're not

501
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:27,600
Speaker 4: leaving my fucking site. But it's just so crazy because

502
00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:31,320
Speaker 4: that experience that I had, though, is unmatched. Like I

503
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:34,119
Speaker 4: used to be running around my fucking neighborhood trick or

504
00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 4: treating door like door to door, and it was such

505
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Speaker 4: a time.

506
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Speaker 3: No I did that too, And then I also like,

507
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Speaker 3: I went to private school, so we used to always

508
00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:45,720
Speaker 3: have like a little festival every year at school where

509
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:49,159
Speaker 3: like they would have like the little blow up what

510
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:50,000
Speaker 3: is the blow up?

511
00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:51,840
Speaker 2: Little things where you could like the jump stool.

512
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Speaker 3: Yeah, and we would be able to trigger treat and

513
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:57,359
Speaker 3: we would go around to different tables and they would

514
00:27:57,359 --> 00:28:01,040
Speaker 3: have like the Carmel apple table. They would have like

515
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 3: tables where you can get candy. They would have tables

516
00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:05,600
Speaker 3: where you can like go bobbing for apples. It was

517
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 3: like different stuff where you can like play a little

518
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:08,880
Speaker 3: different games and stuff.

519
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Speaker 1: And it was like really really fun.

520
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Speaker 4: And I just feel like these days you just have

521
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:14,639
Speaker 4: to be super careful even with letting your kids go

522
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 4: to stuff like that, because you never know who the

523
00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:20,679
Speaker 4: people are who are at like the tenth Yeah, what

524
00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:21,880
Speaker 4: were you as a little girl?

525
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Speaker 2: Like? What is your costume that sticks out to you?

526
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:27,600
Speaker 1: Princess Jazzmine?

527
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Speaker 10: Okay, that makes sense.

528
00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 2: You had that belly out I did? Who I was

529
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Speaker 2: trying to sing songs? What?

530
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Speaker 6: What was that?

531
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Speaker 2: No? No, no, oh, we can canceled.

532
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Speaker 4: Because Jazzon ain't never said that in the Latin I

533
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Speaker 4: seen bitch me be at the bo law that's what. No, bitch,

534
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Speaker 4: you're getting canceled because I didn't even say that. If

535
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Speaker 4: I was pa I don't know the reason. I know,

536
00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 4: you know, Timbaland was upset. Everything that I know about

537
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:08,360
Speaker 4: an Indian song is Timbaland fault because.

538
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Speaker 2: Why was you? He was so obsessed with Indian culture.

539
00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 4: They say Timberland when you want you remember that song.

540
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 2: Timberland was a wild boy.

541
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Speaker 4: If you really listened to Timberland and twenty three twenty three,

542
00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 4: his ass will be canceled. You need to explain yourself

543
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 4: for real, though, So Princess.

544
00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:41,320
Speaker 2: Jazzmine okay, and ooh snow white Okay. I was Bell.

545
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Speaker 4: That's the only costume I really really remember. I was Bell,

546
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Speaker 4: and I remember that was the first time I was like,

547
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Speaker 4: I'm really fucking pretty takes. But but you know what's

548
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:55,520
Speaker 4: crazy when I look back at those pictures that when.

549
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Speaker 2: You had was that the year you had a camera? No? No, no,

550
00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:00,680
Speaker 2: that was before then. You know what's crazy.

551
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Speaker 4: I have a lot of footage, like mom, I shout

552
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Speaker 4: out to my mama because she's so much footage of

553
00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 4: me when.

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Speaker 3: Oh my guy, and I was gonna say that, I

555
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:10,800
Speaker 3: always say this. I think that's amazing when you grow

556
00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:13,920
Speaker 3: up and then you have a childhood that was really

557
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Speaker 3: well documented.

558
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Speaker 2: Oh my mom, I feel like so many people do

559
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:17,560
Speaker 2: not have that.

560
00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:20,280
Speaker 3: I feel like I have that too, But I'll say this,

561
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Speaker 3: I don't have so I don't so much have like

562
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Speaker 3: a lot of video footage, but I have, like a

563
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Speaker 3: lot of folks, I have a lot of my dad

564
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Speaker 3: was my dad was? I mean, I have a few,

565
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:33,360
Speaker 3: but like not that many videos, but like more so

566
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Speaker 3: polaroid footage, Like I have so many polaroids of me.

567
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Speaker 2: And my dad and my mom growing up.

568
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Speaker 3: But I actually posted a picture a few weeks ago

569
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Speaker 3: when I was in Houston, like me and my dad

570
00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:46,960
Speaker 3: in the photo booth.

571
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Speaker 4: But I think that's what's cool about the generation nowadays,

572
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:52,479
Speaker 4: because honestly, I will say I will never delete, like

573
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:54,720
Speaker 4: I still like can go to my mad Space. I

574
00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:57,640
Speaker 4: still because honestly, one day I'm not gonna post on

575
00:30:57,640 --> 00:30:59,560
Speaker 4: Instagram no more. But my kid can go to my

576
00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:03,000
Speaker 4: and be like damn, my great great grandkids hopefully they can.

577
00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 2: Pull it up. They be like, man, look at my

578
00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:06,160
Speaker 2: grandma and we would have met.

579
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Speaker 1: During my Space. What I have been in your top teen?

580
00:31:08,840 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 2: Probably not.

581
00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 4: I but we always have talked about this blasphemy. I'm

582
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 4: strong this this fighting because I'm not even fighting at hard.

583
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:26,680
Speaker 10: I don't know.

584
00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:36,120
Speaker 2: You keep getting injured your whole ass, nigga. That's how

585
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:37,880
Speaker 2: I catch That's how I don't hold niggas catch a

586
00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:39,320
Speaker 2: slipping anyways.

587
00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 4: But anyway, would have this because you know, obviously you

588
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 4: have way more followers than me on Twitter and Instagram.

589
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:50,320
Speaker 4: Were talking about tenth grade. But let me finish my

590
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:54,320
Speaker 4: story out there. Let me finish my story. But I

591
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:57,320
Speaker 4: was the social media girl before when you met, like

592
00:31:57,480 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 4: I when we first met, I had more followers than you.

593
00:31:59,840 --> 00:32:02,280
Speaker 4: But I was always like a social media girl. So

594
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:05,680
Speaker 4: in high school, I was that girl on my space

595
00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:06,600
Speaker 4: for real, Like.

596
00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:11,560
Speaker 2: In my city. I'm not like before, I'm not kidding

597
00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 2: in Orange.

598
00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 4: That's why people not surprised, Like I know, y'all be like, oh,

599
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 4: it's just Orange. But I was that bitch. Nobody is

600
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:19,040
Speaker 4: surprised that I'm doing what I'm doing now. I had

601
00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:21,720
Speaker 4: the people on my space like I would get I

602
00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 4: would go check my shit, and I had like thirty comments,

603
00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:28,320
Speaker 4: sixties photo likes, all.

604
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:30,480
Speaker 2: That you're one. Sorry sorry sorry.

605
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:32,680
Speaker 4: So I say all that to say no, because I

606
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:34,520
Speaker 4: was popular. I had all the popping people in my

607
00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 4: top ten, like I was popping.

608
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Speaker 2: You was in a bigger city fakes, so I would

609
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:46,400
Speaker 2: have been more. I was like, no, the people you.

610
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:49,600
Speaker 4: Wasn't though you wasn't though you was probably more. Nah, Nah,

611
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 4: you wasn't that girl because we knew people in Houston, Orange. Yeah,

612
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:56,120
Speaker 4: you wasn't that girl because we knew people that was like.

613
00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:59,440
Speaker 2: In two thousand and seventy. You wasn't. We didn't know you,

614
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:03,680
Speaker 2: like we knew like, but nobody in Houston, New York.

615
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:04,360
Speaker 2: I know.

616
00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:06,200
Speaker 4: But what I'm saying is like the girls that were

617
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:08,000
Speaker 4: in the cities. But I'm not saying that's in the

618
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 4: wrong against that because when you got popping, bitch, like

619
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Speaker 4: you came on the scene like blows tied that oh

620
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:14,000
Speaker 4: wash out.

621
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Speaker 2: Now it's the little one that I'm not bow wow

622
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Speaker 2: you feel me. I'm not saying that you What what

623
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Speaker 2: I'm saying.

624
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:25,920
Speaker 4: Is you wasn't on the scene like that yet. You

625
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 4: ain't pop out yet. You didn't pop out yet, that's all. Yeah,

626
00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 4: but like you popped out like yo, pop out.

627
00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:32,920
Speaker 2: Year.

628
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Speaker 4: I would say it was like twenty fifteen. That's when

629
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Speaker 4: Nigga was like okay, nah, I would say fourteen, okay,

630
00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 4: one year fourteen, Yeah, okay, you popped out in twenty fourteen.

631
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Speaker 2: I'm talking about two thousand sel.

632
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Speaker 3: So you wouldn't have had But I'm talking about if

633
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 3: I lived in Orange and I went to Orange Hair.

634
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Speaker 2: You wouldn't know. It wasn't Orange capital bitch. It was

635
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Speaker 2: little Cipress.

636
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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, little little Sipers.

637
00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:02,880
Speaker 2: If I went to a little like no, you wouldn't

638
00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:03,400
Speaker 2: have been that girl.

639
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:06,440
Speaker 4: You know why in two thousand and seven wouldn't have

640
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:08,360
Speaker 4: been that girl I had?

641
00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:10,040
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter exactly.

642
00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:15,160
Speaker 4: We didn't care about that ship I was wearing and

643
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:19,000
Speaker 4: red monkeys. You wouldn't have been And guess what the

644
00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:21,319
Speaker 4: black girls that I graduated with they had that ship

645
00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:21,680
Speaker 4: on too.

646
00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:24,920
Speaker 2: It didn't matter. People care about different.

647
00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:29,359
Speaker 4: That's crazy, you see, you wouldn't have been that girl.

648
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:31,840
Speaker 4: It's okay, though, Oh ain't your honey?

649
00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:32,000
Speaker 8: Ye?

650
00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:35,880
Speaker 2: But you haven't you people ever heard that you had

651
00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:39,560
Speaker 2: to do chop? Okay, let's move on to the next topic.

652
00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:42,560
Speaker 1: It don't it won't turn away you were.

653
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:47,440
Speaker 4: Why would so next thing I want to talk about,

654
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:50,600
Speaker 4: I want to talk about media and the youth. I

655
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 4: watched this interesting documentary. It was about the jewel I

656
00:34:57,160 --> 00:34:59,359
Speaker 4: don't know if any of y'all remember the jewel It

657
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:05,359
Speaker 4: was the e cigarette. It was an electronic cigarette. What's

658
00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:08,720
Speaker 4: the other name for it that they call it vape?

659
00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 2: The vape?

660
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:12,879
Speaker 4: Okay, So let me talk about this because one thing

661
00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:15,879
Speaker 4: that stuck out to me in the documentary was when

662
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Speaker 4: you got to the end of the documentary, basically one

663
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:20,399
Speaker 4: of the moms said she was like, oh, you know what,

664
00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:23,319
Speaker 4: because people were fighting against us, saying that this was

665
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:27,840
Speaker 4: only a problem in the rich white communities, that nobody

666
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 4: else had this problem but us, and we were fighting

667
00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:32,360
Speaker 4: against something that was so silly.

668
00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:35,920
Speaker 2: And I was like, but they're right. Let me tell

669
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:36,680
Speaker 2: you something.

670
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:41,880
Speaker 4: I always say, I come from both sides of the

671
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:43,319
Speaker 4: world when it comes to a lot of shit. I

672
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:45,880
Speaker 4: never heard of Jewels company and they were a billion

673
00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:49,920
Speaker 4: dollar company. Never heard of this company, never heard of

674
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 4: a vape, never heard of an E cigarette until I

675
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:55,840
Speaker 4: went to Dallas and I hung out with my white

676
00:35:55,840 --> 00:35:58,920
Speaker 4: friend and she was like, oh, I got this XYZ.

677
00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:00,800
Speaker 4: When I was in college at that point, I was

678
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:02,719
Speaker 4: hanging around black people. I have all my friends, and

679
00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 4: this is sick. Till this day, I have never seen

680
00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:09,799
Speaker 4: a black Now I'm not saying black people don't do it.

681
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:11,680
Speaker 2: I'm not saying That's not what I'm saying.

682
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:17,560
Speaker 4: Majority of black people was not vaping and smoking eay cigarette.

683
00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 4: So I wanted to talk about when and this is

684
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:24,560
Speaker 4: coming from a bias point of view, but when our

685
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:26,840
Speaker 4: parents and this is actually a good topic.

686
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 2: So man, I'm talking about this in my mouth for week.

687
00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:32,279
Speaker 2: But what are y'all gonna take a step up to

688
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:36,759
Speaker 2: the goddamn play and a mint? Bitch? Hey, you know what?

689
00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:39,600
Speaker 2: I need to be a parent and parent your fucking children.

690
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:42,080
Speaker 4: Because and let me say one more thing, and I'm

691
00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:46,319
Speaker 4: gonna let you get your opinion because i want to know. No, no, no, no, no,

692
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 4: I'm not saying because I'm talking a lot.

693
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:54,319
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, boy, oh god, damn it.

694
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 4: So what I'm saying is because one of the women,

695
00:36:57,960 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 4: the one of the boys, they had children on the

696
00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:03,480
Speaker 4: show talking and he said, I had I had my pods.

697
00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:06,479
Speaker 4: I had so many pods in my room. My mom

698
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 4: came in my room, she found my pods. She said,

699
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 4: what is this. He was like, oh, I'm changing off

700
00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:14,279
Speaker 4: the light bulbs in my car. And she was like,

701
00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:16,279
Speaker 4: oh okay, and left.

702
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:18,080
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something my mama used to go

703
00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:20,360
Speaker 2: on my room and be like, what is this? Show me?

704
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 2: What is this? Show me? What? Okay?

705
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:26,520
Speaker 4: What are you talking about? When are y'all gonna take

706
00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 4: that whole documentary? The Jewel was a billion dollar business

707
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 4: that fell because white kids were taking advantage of it

708
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:38,680
Speaker 4: and they were getting sick a few dives.

709
00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 1: They didn't really failed though, because the didn't they get

710
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:41,320
Speaker 1: brought up by.

711
00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:43,200
Speaker 2: They didn't get bought out, they didn get bought out.

712
00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:44,919
Speaker 4: But I'm saying the company as a whole, it could

713
00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:47,839
Speaker 4: have been way more because the fight of it was

714
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:51,920
Speaker 4: the Jewel was created for people who were actual smokers

715
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:54,960
Speaker 4: to have a healthier way to smoke, because what it

716
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:57,400
Speaker 4: came down to is the burning of a cigarette is

717
00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:01,600
Speaker 4: what causes cancer. Not that niccotine doesn't cause cancer, It

718
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:04,080
Speaker 4: was the actual burning of the nicotine. So they had

719
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:06,960
Speaker 4: found a way for you to smoke it without it

720
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:11,160
Speaker 4: actually burning. So people who were actually cigarette smokers were like, Hey,

721
00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:14,279
Speaker 4: this jewel is beneficial. The first day I picked up

722
00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:16,880
Speaker 4: this jewel, I never picked up a cigarette again. And

723
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 4: they are healthy and talking on this podcast. I mean

724
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:23,160
Speaker 4: the documentary, you know what I'm saying. But the kids

725
00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:26,680
Speaker 4: they were putting rubber bands. Time, five of them together

726
00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:28,720
Speaker 4: smoking on casting.

727
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:31,279
Speaker 1: Out does who could have nicotine in it?

728
00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:36,880
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, but it's burned. It's the burning burning.

729
00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:39,240
Speaker 4: Because you're lighting it up so hot and it causes

730
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:41,800
Speaker 4: this chemical that creates and it's burning.

731
00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 2: So they figured out a way for the jewel they had.

732
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 4: It was something called nicotine salt, and it was like

733
00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 4: it was electronic, so it wasn't burning. Basically, it's the

734
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 4: science of it.

735
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:53,440
Speaker 2: I don't know.

736
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:55,680
Speaker 4: That's why the niggas they was in silicon valid. They

737
00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 4: were smart.

738
00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:58,880
Speaker 2: I don't know, google it, look at the watch the documentary.

739
00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:03,320
Speaker 1: But I was just asking for the people that But.

740
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:05,960
Speaker 4: Outside of the jewel and all this, because I see

741
00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:10,920
Speaker 4: so much stuff happening with like Sexy Red, even anybody,

742
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:14,400
Speaker 4: any of these femo rappers anything, Like they're talking about

743
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 4: how they influenced the youth so much.

744
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:17,920
Speaker 2: But when do y'all want to step in and be

745
00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:18,400
Speaker 2: a parent.

746
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:20,799
Speaker 4: You know who I looked up to growing up. I

747
00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:23,160
Speaker 4: grew up on Beyonce, I grew up on Whitney Houston,

748
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 4: Tony Braxton.

749
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:24,879
Speaker 2: I love them.

750
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:25,080
Speaker 10: You know.

751
00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:28,560
Speaker 2: I loved my mother. I wanted to be exactly like

752
00:39:28,640 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 2: my mom all.

753
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:31,880
Speaker 3: Day but you also just made a point where you

754
00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:34,200
Speaker 3: said the people that you looked up to, which at

755
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:39,799
Speaker 3: that time hookah and e cigarettes, vapes, all that shit

756
00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:42,880
Speaker 3: wasn't available that you looked up.

757
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 2: Whinney Houston was a coke head. I'm not trying to

758
00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:49,279
Speaker 2: be but I'm also not trying to be funny. You

759
00:39:49,280 --> 00:39:51,520
Speaker 2: didn't know that, Yes, they did, the tabloids.

760
00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:55,440
Speaker 3: No, I feel like nobody ever really found out that

761
00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:58,040
Speaker 3: Whitney Houston was a crackhead until she I mean, I'm sorry,

762
00:39:58,120 --> 00:40:02,200
Speaker 3: coke souse. She told us crack is wag, that's for

763
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:02,800
Speaker 3: broke people.

764
00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:05,160
Speaker 2: She ain't do crack. She didn't, but.

765
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:10,480
Speaker 3: It's not No, But when she died, we didn't really

766
00:40:10,520 --> 00:40:13,760
Speaker 3: find out that Wheitney was like doing coke for real.

767
00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:14,680
Speaker 2: Until she passed away.

768
00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:18,040
Speaker 3: Okay, I feel like until she died it was speculation,

769
00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:22,839
Speaker 3: but we did not really know. No, but it does

770
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:25,120
Speaker 3: not matter. It was not something that was highlighted. I

771
00:40:25,120 --> 00:40:28,280
Speaker 3: feel like now with our youth, it is highlighted people

772
00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:31,920
Speaker 3: smoking babes, it's highlighted people smoking weed. It's highlighted people

773
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:35,720
Speaker 3: doing perks and doing all.

774
00:40:35,560 --> 00:40:36,480
Speaker 1: Of these different things.

775
00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:39,759
Speaker 3: Like it's stuff that's promoted back then, when Whitney was

776
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:43,359
Speaker 3: doing coke, which is very taboo to talk about right

777
00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:45,839
Speaker 3: now because even like you just said, you even don't

778
00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:47,440
Speaker 3: really want to speak about it because you don't want

779
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:49,160
Speaker 3: to ruin her image or you don't want to talk

780
00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:51,560
Speaker 3: about like what's the real sheep that was going on.

781
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 3: We definitely didn't want to talk about it. But like

782
00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:56,919
Speaker 3: she was doing coke, it was a lot of other

783
00:40:56,960 --> 00:40:59,000
Speaker 3: people that were doing coke at the time, but it

784
00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:01,279
Speaker 3: was something that was very like hush, hush, we're gonna

785
00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:02,960
Speaker 3: keep it on all low, we're not gonna talk about it.

786
00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:05,520
Speaker 2: Now with the celebrities these days.

787
00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:09,400
Speaker 3: It's promoted and so it makes the youth feel like, Okay,

788
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:11,120
Speaker 3: this is something that I could do because it's not

789
00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:14,440
Speaker 3: no shame about it because everybody but that's not everybody

790
00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:16,560
Speaker 3: is talking no because back in the day it.

791
00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:25,080
Speaker 2: Was shame, big shame on you, shame, bring back shame.

792
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:29,440
Speaker 2: But people, but let me let me, let.

793
00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:32,560
Speaker 3: Me never say she did Even when she did that interview,

794
00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:34,120
Speaker 3: she never said she did it.

795
00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:35,880
Speaker 2: All she said was.

796
00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:39,359
Speaker 4: But let me say this, y'all have to realize, oh,

797
00:41:39,440 --> 00:41:42,480
Speaker 4: cigarette companies, this is the thing with tobacco companies that

798
00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:45,120
Speaker 4: used to target young audiences.

799
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:46,440
Speaker 12: It was cool.

800
00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:51,280
Speaker 2: Let me go way back, James Dean, he was the coolest.

801
00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:53,200
Speaker 2: But it was cool to see James Dan you want

802
00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:53,680
Speaker 2: a cigarette.

803
00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:55,920
Speaker 4: It was cool to see people smoking cigarettes.

804
00:41:56,080 --> 00:41:59,040
Speaker 2: You gotta realize they also wasn't promoted back then.

805
00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:03,239
Speaker 4: The day they were not promoted back then, that's when

806
00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:03,919
Speaker 4: there came along.

807
00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:05,279
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying was.

808
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:10,200
Speaker 4: Cool to promote being a It's always been cool to

809
00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:13,440
Speaker 4: promote being a bad girl, being a bad boy smoking a.

810
00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:17,239
Speaker 3: Cigaret, but the damage of what it does to you

811
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:19,520
Speaker 3: and what it does to your body and stuff was

812
00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:23,000
Speaker 3: not always promoted. I feel like with our generation, that's

813
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:25,200
Speaker 3: why I have to kind of be like, I don't know,

814
00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:26,520
Speaker 3: because at this point we know.

815
00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:32,680
Speaker 2: Better, exactly better, I'm saying, So.

816
00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:36,520
Speaker 3: We know better so we can do better. Like our

817
00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:39,000
Speaker 3: generation knows, like you said, when we had when we

818
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:41,759
Speaker 3: were growing up, we had there, we had all of

819
00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:45,360
Speaker 3: these things. We know what crack, We know what crack,

820
00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:48,000
Speaker 3: We know what coke we don't. We know what cigarettes,

821
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:49,919
Speaker 3: we know what nichotine. We know what all of these

822
00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:52,239
Speaker 3: things do to us. So if we're choosing to do

823
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:54,560
Speaker 3: it at this point, that's just what we choosing to do.

824
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:55,759
Speaker 1: We don't give a FuG.

825
00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:59,000
Speaker 3: But back then they were not promoting the damage that

826
00:42:59,040 --> 00:43:00,200
Speaker 3: it does to your body.

827
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:01,720
Speaker 2: That's why people was doing.

828
00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:04,840
Speaker 1: It because it's like, yeah, you smoke cigarettes, You're a cool.

829
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:07,879
Speaker 2: Kid, right, so you're low key proving my point. What's

830
00:43:07,920 --> 00:43:08,279
Speaker 2: your point?

831
00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:13,680
Speaker 4: My point was these parents are literally in our age group.

832
00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:17,240
Speaker 4: They're in their thirties and their forties. We know, educate

833
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:19,680
Speaker 4: your child on things that are going So at what

834
00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:22,720
Speaker 4: point are you gonna step in and be a parent

835
00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 4: and let your child?

836
00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:24,520
Speaker 2: I know that.

837
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:28,520
Speaker 3: I also feel like that's some bullshit though, because your child,

838
00:43:28,600 --> 00:43:30,920
Speaker 3: as a thirty two year old, who was once a

839
00:43:31,000 --> 00:43:34,840
Speaker 3: sixteen year old, a fifteen year old, a teenager, is

840
00:43:34,880 --> 00:43:36,760
Speaker 3: gonna find a way to do whatever the fuck.

841
00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 2: They want to do.

842
00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:40,040
Speaker 1: I don't think they have anything to do with bad parentinges.

843
00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:42,920
Speaker 3: Because you can't be in your child's face all the time,

844
00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:44,839
Speaker 3: especially once they get to a certain age where they

845
00:43:44,880 --> 00:43:47,920
Speaker 3: have a job, they have a car, they're not around

846
00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:50,640
Speaker 3: you all the time. If your kid want to go fuck,

847
00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:53,279
Speaker 3: if your kid want to go smoke, if they want

848
00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:54,799
Speaker 3: to go do whatever the fuck it is they want

849
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:56,239
Speaker 3: to do, they're gonna find a way to do it,

850
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:57,319
Speaker 3: and you're not gonna know.

851
00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:57,960
Speaker 2: Shit about it.

852
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 3: You're not gonna know that. I agree, But that's not

853
00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:04,800
Speaker 3: a lack of parenting. Even what you was talking about having.

854
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 2: Paws in a room. I'm telling you. There's all I'm

855
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:11,160
Speaker 2: saying is there's no way. And I was a person.

856
00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:14,759
Speaker 4: Who smoked weed in high school, but smoking weed no,

857
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:18,520
Speaker 4: But guess but guess what. I wasn't smoking so much

858
00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:22,360
Speaker 4: weed to where I couldn't function. These kids were smoking

859
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:26,280
Speaker 4: so many jewels to where he had a drawer full.

860
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:27,919
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

861
00:44:27,960 --> 00:44:31,120
Speaker 4: It's a difference between It's a difference between I'm sneaking

862
00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:32,760
Speaker 4: to do a little something.

863
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:35,399
Speaker 2: Maybe he was functional though, because you have functional weed,

864
00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 2: and guess what, that's cool.

865
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:40,560
Speaker 4: But there's no way I could have been smoking the

866
00:44:40,600 --> 00:44:42,040
Speaker 4: way that these kids were smoking.

867
00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:46,600
Speaker 2: They talking about they doing like this in class, smoking

868
00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:51,719
Speaker 2: their jewels like that. Ain't no way, teacher, exactly. And

869
00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 2: it's all.

870
00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:56,000
Speaker 4: Y'all not paying attention because y'all want to put electronics

871
00:44:56,000 --> 00:44:58,200
Speaker 4: in front of these people's faces and because y'all don't

872
00:44:58,200 --> 00:45:00,439
Speaker 4: want to be bothered with them. Let me tell you something,

873
00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:03,440
Speaker 4: I don't care when nobody say watching this documentary. There's

874
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:04,759
Speaker 4: no way I could have been doing like this in

875
00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:06,440
Speaker 4: class and my teacher wouldn't noticed.

876
00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:08,840
Speaker 2: So that's on the teachers. This is on the parents.

877
00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:13,799
Speaker 4: These kids were literally walking behind their parents smoking. I

878
00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:16,280
Speaker 4: would never be walking behind my mom in any scenario.

879
00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:16,839
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

880
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:18,960
Speaker 4: You're gonna do what you're gonna. You're gonna do it,

881
00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:22,120
Speaker 4: but it's in Everything is in moderation. It's just like

882
00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:27,279
Speaker 4: eating drinking. I'm gonna drink, but I'm not gonna be alcoholic,

883
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:30,120
Speaker 4: so there's a difference. That's all I'm saying. Yes, you're

884
00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:32,520
Speaker 4: gonna you're gonna do what you wanna do, but you're

885
00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:34,719
Speaker 4: also gonna do it in moderation because you're not gonna

886
00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 4: get away.

887
00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:36,359
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna get away with Murray.

888
00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:38,320
Speaker 3: But the only point that I was making is because

889
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:40,759
Speaker 3: I feel like you you tried to say or you

890
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:43,640
Speaker 3: tried to blame it or in parenting it is no

891
00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:47,439
Speaker 3: I disagree. I feel like it's sometimes it's no way

892
00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:49,759
Speaker 3: to know what your child is doing behind your bag.

893
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:51,920
Speaker 2: I know, but what I'm saying, it's in moderation.

894
00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:55,760
Speaker 1: Pull a, I disagree.

895
00:45:55,760 --> 00:45:57,680
Speaker 2: Moderation. Yeah, it is moderation.

896
00:45:57,719 --> 00:46:00,680
Speaker 4: Because guess what, you there was no way you're gonna

897
00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:04,920
Speaker 4: be smoking and drinking all fucking day with Barbara around.

898
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:06,960
Speaker 2: She wouldn't letting that happen because she got her I

899
00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:09,200
Speaker 2: on you, bitch, She got her eye on you.

900
00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:11,560
Speaker 4: There was no way I could have been smoking. As

901
00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:13,560
Speaker 4: much as I wanted to smoke all day, I couldn't.

902
00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 4: I couldn't because I had to smoke enough time to

903
00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:18,880
Speaker 4: get home, shower.

904
00:46:19,120 --> 00:46:22,560
Speaker 2: Wash my clothes, make sure nothing. You know what I'm saying.

905
00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:25,200
Speaker 2: But can I be fair though?

906
00:46:25,280 --> 00:46:29,200
Speaker 3: You're talking about jewels, which is like essentially a cigarette

907
00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:30,680
Speaker 3: my burn.

908
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:34,000
Speaker 2: Yes, this is not something that makes you high, it's not.

909
00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:34,840
Speaker 2: But it's something that so.

910
00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:37,560
Speaker 3: It's not gonna alter. It's not gonna alter.

911
00:46:37,719 --> 00:46:44,239
Speaker 2: Oh, it has an addictive that's fine, that's fine. No, no, no, no,

912
00:46:45,120 --> 00:46:45,600
Speaker 2: that's fine.

913
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:51,160
Speaker 3: Leg What I'm saying is that's fine addictive, addictive in

914
00:46:51,280 --> 00:46:54,040
Speaker 3: the fact that it makes you want to keep smoking it,

915
00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:57,240
Speaker 3: but not that you're acting different in front of your mom,

916
00:46:57,520 --> 00:46:59,560
Speaker 3: in front of your friends, in front of whoever, because

917
00:46:59,560 --> 00:47:02,120
Speaker 3: you're not hi. Let me correct you, though, Let me

918
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:04,880
Speaker 3: correct you.

919
00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:08,800
Speaker 4: A lady, A lady said shit, Yes, a lady said

920
00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:11,720
Speaker 4: she walked in her son's room and it was tore apart,

921
00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:15,160
Speaker 4: and she said, what is going on? She didn't understand

922
00:47:15,160 --> 00:47:16,719
Speaker 4: what was going on, and he was just start saying

923
00:47:16,760 --> 00:47:17,239
Speaker 4: fuck her.

924
00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 2: Fuck. It was because he couldn't find his jewel.

925
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:23,600
Speaker 4: It was a popular song with this girl streaming on

926
00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:26,960
Speaker 4: a screaming on a track, where's my jewel. It's a

927
00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 4: popular song with the white crowd because people used to

928
00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:33,840
Speaker 4: get so angry because they would lose their jewels.

929
00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:35,440
Speaker 1: It was changing their behavior.

930
00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:40,720
Speaker 4: They were talking about girls fighting because they passed their jewel,

931
00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:42,080
Speaker 4: they get it back, it's empty.

932
00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:48,400
Speaker 2: They used to be squawk squabbling behind the jewel. But

933
00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:49,200
Speaker 2: that's what I'm saying.

934
00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:53,520
Speaker 4: Anything that has an addictive quality, whether it's nicotine, alcohol,

935
00:47:54,000 --> 00:48:00,000
Speaker 4: crack weed, your behavior changes, And these kids behavior was changed.

936
00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:01,200
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

937
00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:04,440
Speaker 4: So I do agree with you. Kids are gonna do

938
00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 4: what they want to do, but when you have a

939
00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:13,399
Speaker 4: present parent, they're gonna notice. They're gonna notice. There's no way.

940
00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:19,000
Speaker 4: I used to listen to genuine Jodesy Usher fifty c nearly.

941
00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:21,160
Speaker 4: I used to listen to all that shit, but that

942
00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:23,919
Speaker 4: didn't affect who I am. I was still I'm still

943
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:26,239
Speaker 4: a stand up person. I'm still a good person. Like

944
00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:29,080
Speaker 4: that didn't affect who I was. I still have it

945
00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:32,000
Speaker 4: instilled in me. Girl, you know you grew up listening

946
00:48:32,000 --> 00:48:35,640
Speaker 4: to all the same shit too, who you you was

947
00:48:35,719 --> 00:48:37,800
Speaker 4: listening to everything with your daddy and your MoMA. Like

948
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:39,759
Speaker 4: you used to listen to, you know, people talking about

949
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:42,239
Speaker 4: making love, doing this, smoking little We used to listen

950
00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:42,919
Speaker 4: to stupid dog.

951
00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:45,400
Speaker 2: We just listen to a lot of stubb That's what

952
00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:47,560
Speaker 2: I'm saying. So, but that didn't affect who you were.

953
00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:48,120
Speaker 2: I guess.

954
00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:52,120
Speaker 3: I guess when I think about though, like thank you,

955
00:48:55,360 --> 00:48:58,879
Speaker 3: substance abuse, m I guess I don't really think about

956
00:48:58,880 --> 00:49:02,400
Speaker 3: a jewel it was abuse. But I get I mean,

957
00:49:02,480 --> 00:49:05,120
Speaker 3: now that you've elaborated more, I get what you're saying.

958
00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:13,520
Speaker 3: Now that you've be elaborated more, I get what you're saying.

959
00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:16,279
Speaker 3: But I guess, like I just was looking at it.

960
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:21,080
Speaker 2: More like drugs.

961
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:24,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, drugs, alcohol.

962
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:26,560
Speaker 3: Like even with a jewel, Like I get that it

963
00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:30,560
Speaker 3: has like nicotine eating. But I guess I never really

964
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:32,600
Speaker 3: heard any stories and maybe I do need to go

965
00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:34,960
Speaker 3: watch the documentary. Yeah, but I guess I never really

966
00:49:35,000 --> 00:49:37,799
Speaker 3: heard any stories of like people acting like crazy and

967
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:39,920
Speaker 3: acting belligerent because they couldn't get.

968
00:49:39,760 --> 00:49:40,440
Speaker 2: Their jewels right.

969
00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:42,480
Speaker 4: Well, it's not more so about the jewel, It's just

970
00:49:42,520 --> 00:49:45,600
Speaker 4: about parenting period, because I feel like I have never

971
00:49:45,640 --> 00:49:49,320
Speaker 4: seen a generation so much like they sued this company. Cool,

972
00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:51,680
Speaker 4: I get it, But at the end of the day,

973
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:54,760
Speaker 4: this is how I feel about anything. People were blaming Rihanna,

974
00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:58,760
Speaker 4: People were blaming Beyonce. Could my girl want to dress

975
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 4: like this? She want to die her hair red and

976
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:05,879
Speaker 4: she's only six? Tell her fucking no the fuck Rihanna is.

977
00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:08,879
Speaker 2: Not her mom. You are. And That's where I'm at

978
00:50:08,880 --> 00:50:10,600
Speaker 2: with it. I'm talking about with anything like.

979
00:50:10,800 --> 00:50:16,319
Speaker 4: Stop expecting these advertisements, these celebrities and these things to pairing.

980
00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:17,560
Speaker 2: Your motherfucking children.

981
00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:20,839
Speaker 4: Bit So you see me with this wing gonna act

982
00:50:20,920 --> 00:50:23,480
Speaker 4: like you gonna your kids and you won't give them

983
00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:24,160
Speaker 4: a fucking wall.

984
00:50:24,320 --> 00:50:27,600
Speaker 3: So you feel like people allow social media to parent

985
00:50:27,640 --> 00:50:30,280
Speaker 3: their kids these days because you know why, because people

986
00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:32,680
Speaker 3: shove a iPad in front of their kids face. Because

987
00:50:32,680 --> 00:50:35,279
Speaker 3: we grew up in the generation of we was able

988
00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:38,839
Speaker 3: to be outside and have fun safely. We just talked

989
00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:40,640
Speaker 3: about how we were able to go trick or treat.

990
00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:42,600
Speaker 3: These kids can't do that they got to be in

991
00:50:42,600 --> 00:50:44,680
Speaker 3: the house with their parents. So guess what these are

992
00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:45,520
Speaker 3: parents at our age.

993
00:50:45,560 --> 00:50:47,919
Speaker 4: We want to be on social media too. We want

994
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:50,520
Speaker 4: to scroll TikTok too. We want to come home and

995
00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:53,560
Speaker 4: unwine too. Guess what our parents didn't get to unwind.

996
00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:56,400
Speaker 4: They had to entertain us. We don't want to do that.

997
00:50:56,480 --> 00:50:59,359
Speaker 4: So guess what we do? We get through the door?

998
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:03,960
Speaker 4: All right, little man man, here go, he go. That's

999
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:07,359
Speaker 4: what they want to do. When I watched that documentary,

1000
00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:11,840
Speaker 4: Little man man. When I watched that documentary, I said, y'all,

1001
00:51:12,000 --> 00:51:16,720
Speaker 4: maybe y'all gonna be mad at me. Y'all move my bangs,

1002
00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:23,399
Speaker 4: y'all can hear me? Y'all was not paying attention as

1003
00:51:23,480 --> 00:51:26,960
Speaker 4: coming from somebody who was drinking and smoking since I

1004
00:51:27,040 --> 00:51:31,400
Speaker 4: was fourteen, and hey, I shouldn't have been doing it,

1005
00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:34,160
Speaker 4: but I didn't do it to where I wasn't drinking

1006
00:51:34,200 --> 00:51:34,680
Speaker 4: and driving.

1007
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:36,440
Speaker 2: My mom scared me out of everything.

1008
00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:39,040
Speaker 4: When I knew I was drinking, I would always make

1009
00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:40,960
Speaker 4: sure I was in a vicinity or I was with somebody.

1010
00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:42,600
Speaker 2: I used to hang on my homegirl. One of my

1011
00:51:42,600 --> 00:51:44,680
Speaker 2: homegirls never used to drink.

1012
00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:46,920
Speaker 4: I'd be like, oh, I'm going with Whitney to Whitney,

1013
00:51:46,920 --> 00:51:48,480
Speaker 4: don't drink because I know she's gonna drive.

1014
00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:52,280
Speaker 2: Us, because I knew. I didn't even.

1015
00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:56,319
Speaker 4: It wasn't about me thinking about it. It was me

1016
00:51:56,400 --> 00:51:58,880
Speaker 4: thinking about I was scared about getting a duy getting

1017
00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:01,359
Speaker 4: pulled over. I was so so scared because my mom

1018
00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:02,640
Speaker 4: was always watching me.

1019
00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:04,719
Speaker 2: She was always watching me.

1020
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:09,720
Speaker 4: I would never smoke, but if my mom was walking

1021
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:14,320
Speaker 4: in front of me, to smoke something and be like, yeah,

1022
00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:17,560
Speaker 4: it was in y'all community, that's all I got. This community,

1023
00:52:17,880 --> 00:52:20,560
Speaker 4: them people, them white, rich white people. Because she said, oh,

1024
00:52:20,560 --> 00:52:23,080
Speaker 4: they said it was the rich white kid community.

1025
00:52:23,239 --> 00:52:26,839
Speaker 2: It was only y'all. I agree, that's all I had

1026
00:52:26,840 --> 00:52:27,560
Speaker 2: to say. Y'all.

1027
00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:30,520
Speaker 3: Literally, when Leck's talking about this documentary, I said, I've

1028
00:52:30,560 --> 00:52:32,480
Speaker 3: never in my life, I had never heard of a

1029
00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:33,200
Speaker 3: jewel before.

1030
00:52:33,400 --> 00:52:37,799
Speaker 2: Am I alone? But when you go to the it

1031
00:52:37,880 --> 00:52:40,440
Speaker 2: was ever. Yeah, I had never heard of it ever,

1032
00:52:40,719 --> 00:52:44,600
Speaker 2: And oh it was bad. Kids were in the hospital.

1033
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:49,160
Speaker 4: They were losing the ability to breathe because you know

1034
00:52:49,200 --> 00:52:51,960
Speaker 4: what they were doing. They were tying five of them together,

1035
00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:57,200
Speaker 4: smoking them at once. They were having contests on Instagram.

1036
00:52:58,520 --> 00:53:01,960
Speaker 4: Are y'all stupid? I couldn't even now. I was popular

1037
00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:04,239
Speaker 4: on and I say this, it was a little different time,

1038
00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:06,080
Speaker 4: but I was popular on my space. My mom had

1039
00:53:06,120 --> 00:53:09,120
Speaker 4: access to my mind's space as well. Y'all don't got

1040
00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:10,799
Speaker 4: y'all don't know what y'all kids do. All you had

1041
00:53:10,840 --> 00:53:12,200
Speaker 4: to do was log in on They shit.

1042
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:13,520
Speaker 2: My mom.

1043
00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:15,880
Speaker 4: When I used to get home from school till I

1044
00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:18,880
Speaker 4: was eighteen and graduated, she would go through my phone

1045
00:53:19,680 --> 00:53:21,719
Speaker 4: because she need to know what the fuck is going on?

1046
00:53:22,560 --> 00:53:24,920
Speaker 12: Parent parent.

1047
00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:28,480
Speaker 4: My sister does the same thing. My nephew. My nephew

1048
00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:30,560
Speaker 4: is on my phone bill. I looked through my phone bill.

1049
00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:33,640
Speaker 4: What are you purchasing? Who are you texting? Who is

1050
00:53:33,680 --> 00:53:39,239
Speaker 4: this number? Jazz who? It's easy, parent, I'm not saying

1051
00:53:39,239 --> 00:53:40,839
Speaker 4: it's easy. Let me not say that. I'm sorry, it's

1052
00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:42,640
Speaker 4: not easy. Just be a fucking parent.

1053
00:53:43,080 --> 00:53:45,000
Speaker 3: I just think too when I have kids. I don't

1054
00:53:45,000 --> 00:53:47,879
Speaker 3: want to be cool with my kids. Hello, come on now,

1055
00:53:48,000 --> 00:53:50,600
Speaker 3: like I want to be your mom. Hello, and we

1056
00:53:50,719 --> 00:53:52,239
Speaker 3: can do fun stuff.

1057
00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:53,799
Speaker 2: But you still my mama.

1058
00:53:53,560 --> 00:53:56,560
Speaker 1: When your mom, when you gonna speak me, let's.

1059
00:53:56,360 --> 00:53:58,840
Speaker 2: Move on, bitch, I mean, Paul.

1060
00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:02,960
Speaker 1: Put Oh my god, my tie.

1061
00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:09,359
Speaker 4: So now it's time to get into I got it.

1062
00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:12,359
Speaker 2: Maybe not you no time.

1063
00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:15,759
Speaker 4: Come to the bed, the bed, come on, fix her

1064
00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:18,480
Speaker 4: tie the bed, bow hermione.

1065
00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:21,760
Speaker 2: I mean about about bow bow.

1066
00:54:22,040 --> 00:54:24,719
Speaker 4: We finna get to the bed. My name is malth

1067
00:54:24,800 --> 00:54:27,960
Speaker 4: Boyd and I won't some head. You heard what I said.

1068
00:54:28,400 --> 00:54:30,800
Speaker 2: I ain't really dead. It's Halloween, boom.

1069
00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:33,080
Speaker 15: You heard what I said out.

1070
00:54:34,960 --> 00:54:39,280
Speaker 2: Okay, I did entertain the crowd.

1071
00:54:42,840 --> 00:54:49,520
Speaker 3: I don't spuck with you. You yo, I ain't gonna lie.

1072
00:54:50,520 --> 00:54:55,040
Speaker 3: Y'all right, arm is not strong at all because.

1073
00:54:54,800 --> 00:55:10,000
Speaker 2: You're stronger than me or pu. That's what Harry does. Oh,

1074
00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:18,040
Speaker 2: Harry doesn't scream. You're a hater you that's why you

1075
00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:19,240
Speaker 2: see who has the lights?

1076
00:55:20,520 --> 00:55:21,399
Speaker 4: Just give me the light.

1077
00:55:22,200 --> 00:55:26,080
Speaker 2: I knew you was a Jamaican war you are not.

1078
00:55:27,800 --> 00:55:30,680
Speaker 16: You know what's funny though, as with a lot of

1079
00:55:30,800 --> 00:55:31,839
Speaker 16: Jamaicans that live.

1080
00:55:46,680 --> 00:55:50,040
Speaker 2: No something wrong for real? Just give it a lot.

1081
00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:55,120
Speaker 2: Give me the lie exactly because you're not.

1082
00:55:55,800 --> 00:55:58,640
Speaker 4: Okay, So for the bad topic today, we're gonna talk

1083
00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:03,080
Speaker 4: about it's an orgasm mental.

1084
00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:16,759
Speaker 2: Or is it physical? Don't you end up dying? Stupid mud?

1085
00:56:17,280 --> 00:56:19,400
Speaker 3: I'm serious because I can't remember what happened on like,

1086
00:56:19,520 --> 00:56:20,279
Speaker 3: don't you watch it?

1087
00:56:21,120 --> 00:56:22,080
Speaker 2: Don't you end up dying?

1088
00:56:22,320 --> 00:56:26,759
Speaker 4: Watch it so rocket you end up dying, right, I'm black,

1089
00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:31,719
Speaker 4: so rocket onlike the last shut poor, I live in

1090
00:56:31,840 --> 00:56:38,680
Speaker 4: you forever, your tip he whose name shall not be said.

1091
00:56:39,520 --> 00:56:42,800
Speaker 2: Okay, so we're gonna talk about is an orgasm mental?

1092
00:56:42,920 --> 00:56:44,200
Speaker 2: Or is it? It's now for real? Though?

1093
00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:49,560
Speaker 1: Du Malthhoyd dies, He don't damn.

1094
00:56:52,040 --> 00:56:57,120
Speaker 2: Me? Way slithering? What if we die?

1095
00:56:57,239 --> 00:56:59,480
Speaker 3: If we really if we really being honest? The family

1096
00:56:59,600 --> 00:57:01,480
Speaker 3: was pwissy throughout the whole series.

1097
00:57:03,920 --> 00:57:16,560
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, like I'm not sitting right here, bro, come on, Okay.

1098
00:57:16,840 --> 00:57:19,800
Speaker 2: All I wanted to say is I feel like orgasm

1099
00:57:19,960 --> 00:57:22,720
Speaker 2: is straight for me. It's all mental.

1100
00:57:23,720 --> 00:57:25,760
Speaker 4: I realized that about myself as getting older, Like, of

1101
00:57:25,840 --> 00:57:27,320
Speaker 4: course you have to know what you're doing, but I

1102
00:57:27,360 --> 00:57:29,600
Speaker 4: feel like at this age, I don't have sex with

1103
00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:32,360
Speaker 4: a person who doesn't know what they're doing. But I

1104
00:57:32,440 --> 00:57:38,240
Speaker 4: feel like, mentally, if there's not a deeper connection and

1105
00:57:38,360 --> 00:57:41,560
Speaker 4: it's not giving that, I like some bibbity boppity boot dick.

1106
00:57:42,720 --> 00:57:45,120
Speaker 4: I want a spooky dick. I want the dick that

1107
00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:48,360
Speaker 4: makes me I don't want I do I do? I

1108
00:57:48,440 --> 00:57:49,360
Speaker 4: want a little spooky.

1109
00:57:49,840 --> 00:57:50,880
Speaker 2: I like spooky like.

1110
00:57:51,560 --> 00:57:53,400
Speaker 4: You when I when it inserts it to me, I

1111
00:57:53,480 --> 00:57:56,080
Speaker 4: feel like a but it's a mental thing.

1112
00:57:56,440 --> 00:57:57,360
Speaker 2: It's a mental thing.

1113
00:57:57,520 --> 00:58:00,640
Speaker 4: Like there's been times where, like the dicks, it feels good,

1114
00:58:00,680 --> 00:58:02,480
Speaker 4: but I'm not in it mentally cause you did something

1115
00:58:02,520 --> 00:58:03,880
Speaker 4: to me earlier that pissed me off.

1116
00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:07,360
Speaker 2: So I'm not gonna have an orgasm. I realize I

1117
00:58:07,520 --> 00:58:10,160
Speaker 2: have to be mentally free with you. To orgasm.

1118
00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:13,240
Speaker 4: I do like if a man did something to me,

1119
00:58:13,800 --> 00:58:15,400
Speaker 4: and it's like I'm not mad at it no more,

1120
00:58:15,480 --> 00:58:17,360
Speaker 4: but I'm just like I'm still thinking about it, like

1121
00:58:17,560 --> 00:58:19,280
Speaker 4: I like we'll have sex and its just be on

1122
00:58:19,400 --> 00:58:22,840
Speaker 4: my mind. I just be like mm, like I cannot

1123
00:58:22,880 --> 00:58:25,040
Speaker 4: believe you did this to me, or I can't believe,

1124
00:58:25,240 --> 00:58:27,480
Speaker 4: like I'm still it takes me a while to get

1125
00:58:27,520 --> 00:58:31,520
Speaker 4: over shit. So for me, orgasm is straight mental. It's

1126
00:58:31,680 --> 00:58:33,880
Speaker 4: all mental at this age, like it is. I'm not

1127
00:58:33,920 --> 00:58:34,280
Speaker 4: gonna lie.

1128
00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:37,600
Speaker 1: It's a mental thing to me too. But I feel

1129
00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:38,840
Speaker 1: like I've always felt that way.

1130
00:58:38,880 --> 00:58:40,720
Speaker 3: I feel like that's why when I was in my twenties,

1131
00:58:40,800 --> 00:58:42,240
Speaker 3: I couldn't really orgasm like.

1132
00:58:42,280 --> 00:58:51,000
Speaker 2: Mm, poor uh so in depth with your I didn't

1133
00:58:51,080 --> 00:58:53,480
Speaker 2: know a mud blood had feelings.

1134
00:58:58,640 --> 00:59:08,760
Speaker 15: It's quite preposterous, Like, Bro, you need to.

1135
00:59:08,880 --> 00:59:19,240
Speaker 2: Go to the mentals, but talk about your feelings no.

1136
00:59:19,680 --> 00:59:23,200
Speaker 3: For real, though, I always felt like orgasm is a

1137
00:59:23,320 --> 00:59:27,960
Speaker 3: mental thing, So in order to have an orgasm, you

1138
00:59:28,080 --> 00:59:30,800
Speaker 3: need to be like mentally in tune with the person

1139
00:59:30,880 --> 00:59:32,080
Speaker 3: that you have in six weeks.

1140
00:59:32,480 --> 00:59:33,760
Speaker 2: It's a mental thing for sure.

1141
00:59:33,960 --> 00:59:38,000
Speaker 3: Always I think that if I think that people that

1142
00:59:38,240 --> 00:59:41,360
Speaker 3: say that they're able to have orgasms and it's not mental,

1143
00:59:41,520 --> 00:59:43,000
Speaker 3: you're not really having an orgasm.

1144
00:59:43,080 --> 00:59:45,439
Speaker 2: You convinced yourself that that's what you're having. For women

1145
00:59:45,560 --> 00:59:46,320
Speaker 2: or for men are for both.

1146
00:59:48,760 --> 00:59:50,480
Speaker 1: I feel like men gonnaut regardless.

1147
00:59:52,480 --> 00:59:57,120
Speaker 3: But but I think that I think that people don't

1148
00:59:57,200 --> 00:59:59,240
Speaker 3: like to talk about this, but I feel like men cannut,

1149
00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:03,320
Speaker 3: but you didn't orgasm Like orgasm is an orgasm for

1150
01:00:03,480 --> 01:00:04,240
Speaker 3: both sexes.

1151
01:00:07,000 --> 01:00:12,360
Speaker 2: You, I know, you nut and you knut like a

1152
01:00:12,480 --> 01:00:14,840
Speaker 2: nut isn't noot. You're just annointed.

1153
01:00:15,880 --> 01:00:18,360
Speaker 1: A nut isn't nu And that's for men and women.

1154
01:00:18,480 --> 01:00:21,360
Speaker 2: Men gon't. But the thing about men is way easier

1155
01:00:21,400 --> 01:00:24,080
Speaker 2: for me to nut. With women. It's not that easy.

1156
01:00:24,160 --> 01:00:26,600
Speaker 3: First, like to take a lot of work, You take

1157
01:00:26,600 --> 01:00:29,200
Speaker 3: a lot of efforts of the I mean, some women

1158
01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:33,880
Speaker 3: can just nut effortlessly. There's They're God's favorite fact most

1159
01:00:33,920 --> 01:00:37,840
Speaker 3: of most of us, so most of us are not wired.

1160
01:00:37,600 --> 01:00:39,880
Speaker 2: That way though. Fact so you have to have a

1161
01:00:39,920 --> 01:00:41,480
Speaker 2: little more stimulation.

1162
01:00:42,520 --> 01:00:47,600
Speaker 3: Physically, you have to have a little more stimulation mentally, emotionally,

1163
01:00:47,880 --> 01:00:50,480
Speaker 3: all of those things in order for a women to orgasm.

1164
01:00:50,840 --> 01:00:52,040
Speaker 1: I think it's the same for men.

1165
01:00:52,680 --> 01:00:54,480
Speaker 3: But I think that a lot of the time, because

1166
01:00:54,640 --> 01:01:01,480
Speaker 3: men can nut more easily, they confuse nutting. They confuse nutting,

1167
01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:03,840
Speaker 3: which is something that's easy for men to do with

1168
01:01:03,920 --> 01:01:05,680
Speaker 3: the orgasm, and it's not the same thing.

1169
01:01:05,800 --> 01:01:08,160
Speaker 4: And then they've learned also to to separate the two

1170
01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:10,720
Speaker 4: as well, I think because they do it so often. Yeah,

1171
01:01:10,800 --> 01:01:13,520
Speaker 4: we don't do it that often, so we tie it

1172
01:01:13,640 --> 01:01:16,080
Speaker 4: into emotional feelings a lot of the time, and.

1173
01:01:16,240 --> 01:01:18,800
Speaker 3: We have to be checked in. But but no, But

1174
01:01:18,920 --> 01:01:24,960
Speaker 3: the problem is, I think that orgasm is emotional for

1175
01:01:25,120 --> 01:01:27,680
Speaker 3: both people. I think it's I think it's I think

1176
01:01:27,680 --> 01:01:30,240
Speaker 3: it's emotional for men too. Like when men actually have

1177
01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:33,520
Speaker 3: an orgasmic experience, I think it is emotional.

1178
01:01:34,200 --> 01:01:36,120
Speaker 1: I think that they nott.

1179
01:01:36,400 --> 01:01:41,240
Speaker 3: Regardless, it's just not to me, is just the acts

1180
01:01:41,360 --> 01:01:46,720
Speaker 3: of ejaculation which men gonna ejaculate, gonna ejaculate, they hump concrete,

1181
01:01:49,000 --> 01:01:50,760
Speaker 3: they're gonna ejaculate no matter what.

1182
01:01:50,960 --> 01:01:51,480
Speaker 2: That's what to do.

1183
01:01:59,080 --> 01:02:01,640
Speaker 1: They gonna ejacutate like regardless.

1184
01:02:02,400 --> 01:02:08,800
Speaker 3: But the emotional connection, the emotional response to like stimulation

1185
01:02:09,760 --> 01:02:14,520
Speaker 3: is an orgasm. And I think that men don't experience

1186
01:02:14,600 --> 01:02:16,760
Speaker 3: that all the time. I think they only experience just

1187
01:02:16,840 --> 01:02:19,480
Speaker 3: like with women. You only experience that with somebody that

1188
01:02:19,560 --> 01:02:20,960
Speaker 3: you're emotionally connected to.

1189
01:02:22,680 --> 01:02:25,560
Speaker 2: HM. That No, that's real. I agree with that one

1190
01:02:25,640 --> 01:02:27,840
Speaker 2: hundred percent. I never thought of it that way of like.

1191
01:02:28,280 --> 01:02:30,800
Speaker 4: It's a difference. I mean just like with women. I mean,

1192
01:02:30,960 --> 01:02:35,480
Speaker 4: like you, as a woman, you canay right, Yeah, like

1193
01:02:35,600 --> 01:02:35,880
Speaker 4: you can.

1194
01:02:36,760 --> 01:02:40,840
Speaker 3: Somebody can eat o pussy, they can make you eatropissy,

1195
01:02:40,960 --> 01:02:43,440
Speaker 3: they can have sex with you, they can make you

1196
01:02:43,560 --> 01:02:44,200
Speaker 3: come right.

1197
01:02:44,960 --> 01:02:45,400
Speaker 2: But like.

1198
01:02:46,880 --> 01:02:52,120
Speaker 3: An emotional orgasm, like with somebody that you're really emotionally

1199
01:02:52,240 --> 01:02:55,560
Speaker 3: connected to, it's a different type of release.

1200
01:02:56,080 --> 01:03:03,840
Speaker 2: Right have you ever used like your wand to nut Paul,

1201
01:03:05,000 --> 01:03:09,680
Speaker 2: this one is too skinny, so let us know how

1202
01:03:09,840 --> 01:03:14,640
Speaker 2: y'all moving on? Okay, So now let's have to get

1203
01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:17,479
Speaker 2: into the bop the book.

1204
01:03:17,680 --> 01:03:28,400
Speaker 10: Oh bow bow, case you weren't ready, I just want

1205
01:03:28,640 --> 01:03:29,320
Speaker 10: you to.

1206
01:03:29,480 --> 01:03:41,160
Speaker 2: Leave, please Jesus Christ, you know what I need a

1207
01:03:41,200 --> 01:03:46,760
Speaker 2: good beans and toaste to get me through hobby. Hobby.

1208
01:03:46,840 --> 01:03:52,080
Speaker 3: Gonna definitely have to edit these episodes because y'all as annoying.

1209
01:03:53,320 --> 01:03:56,160
Speaker 2: Okay, so the bop of my bop of the week,

1210
01:03:56,680 --> 01:03:57,560
Speaker 2: you know, it's crazy.

1211
01:03:58,520 --> 01:04:01,080
Speaker 4: This all this this, this sound has been going viral

1212
01:04:01,160 --> 01:04:04,240
Speaker 4: on TikTok like they have been having like an eighties aesthetic.

1213
01:04:04,400 --> 01:04:08,000
Speaker 4: It's crazy because Seventh Streeter has sampled this song a

1214
01:04:08,080 --> 01:04:10,640
Speaker 4: long time ago. So let me bring this back. Seventh Streeter.

1215
01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:14,120
Speaker 4: If y'all don't remember she had she was in that

1216
01:04:14,400 --> 01:04:17,200
Speaker 4: group TG four. They were a part of that whole

1217
01:04:17,240 --> 01:04:19,480
Speaker 4: little B two K movement that was going on when

1218
01:04:19,560 --> 01:04:22,080
Speaker 4: Jane Iiko was first making music.

1219
01:04:22,160 --> 01:04:23,120
Speaker 2: They were all together.

1220
01:04:23,800 --> 01:04:25,920
Speaker 4: Seven Streeter has been making the music a really long time.

1221
01:04:25,960 --> 01:04:27,600
Speaker 4: If y'all dont know who seven Streeter is, she had

1222
01:04:27,640 --> 01:04:30,360
Speaker 4: that popular song with Chris Brown they Don't Stop, a

1223
01:04:30,440 --> 01:04:32,480
Speaker 4: long time ago. So she came out with an EP

1224
01:04:32,680 --> 01:04:34,240
Speaker 4: like two or three years ago, and she had a

1225
01:04:34,280 --> 01:04:36,960
Speaker 4: song on it called Taboo, And I really want the

1226
01:04:37,080 --> 01:04:39,240
Speaker 4: kids to listen to this song because it's so good.

1227
01:04:39,360 --> 01:04:42,200
Speaker 4: This song is going the sound is going viral on

1228
01:04:42,280 --> 01:04:44,920
Speaker 4: TikTok because it was a sample of a song from

1229
01:04:44,960 --> 01:04:46,480
Speaker 4: the eighties. I can't think of the name of it

1230
01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:49,560
Speaker 4: right now, but that's what I'd be putting y'all onto.

1231
01:04:49,600 --> 01:04:52,000
Speaker 4: Some jams and some bops and they're so good. So

1232
01:04:52,200 --> 01:04:54,800
Speaker 4: listen to Taboo by Seventh Streeter. It sample's a really

1233
01:04:54,840 --> 01:04:58,280
Speaker 4: good eighties song. His name is Alexander something y'all know.

1234
01:04:58,360 --> 01:05:01,360
Speaker 4: Y'all gonna know what in the comments, but yeah, Taboo

1235
01:05:01,440 --> 01:05:04,200
Speaker 4: by Seventh Streeter. She's a really dope R and B

1236
01:05:04,360 --> 01:05:07,120
Speaker 4: artist that I've been trying to put y'all on. But yeah,

1237
01:05:07,200 --> 01:05:09,920
Speaker 4: that's my bop of the week fire and.

1238
01:05:10,000 --> 01:05:11,120
Speaker 2: It's a good song.

1239
01:05:11,680 --> 01:05:14,080
Speaker 1: So mine is Mama.

1240
01:05:16,400 --> 01:05:17,520
Speaker 10: Rob for nine.

1241
01:05:18,760 --> 01:05:22,200
Speaker 3: That's never been our bob, which is like crazy because

1242
01:05:22,200 --> 01:05:23,240
Speaker 3: that's a really good song.

1243
01:05:25,040 --> 01:05:28,280
Speaker 2: It's a good song right now. So it's Rob for nine. Uh,

1244
01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:30,160
Speaker 2: shout out to Rob four line.

1245
01:05:30,400 --> 01:05:37,080
Speaker 4: Like Taby's he on a song too, Okay, he's a rapper,

1246
01:05:37,360 --> 01:05:40,680
Speaker 4: I guess, okay, right, you know what I noticed?

1247
01:05:41,120 --> 01:05:42,280
Speaker 2: Taby and Skill a Baby.

1248
01:05:42,880 --> 01:05:45,440
Speaker 4: I know, Skiller Baby is that's that? Is that that

1249
01:05:45,560 --> 01:05:53,160
Speaker 4: Jamaican men that's Auntie Oh sorry, skill a Baby, Skill

1250
01:05:53,200 --> 01:05:55,680
Speaker 4: a Being. That's what I'm thinking of. That's that boy name.

1251
01:05:57,360 --> 01:05:57,920
Speaker 10: Let's move on.

1252
01:05:58,360 --> 01:05:58,720
Speaker 2: What's up?

1253
01:05:58,800 --> 01:06:01,520
Speaker 4: Y'all as your girl next and it's your Girls, Dre

1254
01:06:01,720 --> 01:06:04,400
Speaker 4: and the Cold, and y'all know Dallas.

1255
01:06:04,600 --> 01:06:06,919
Speaker 2: We on tour and we could not go on tour

1256
01:06:06,960 --> 01:06:09,240
Speaker 2: without coming back to y'all period.

1257
01:06:09,360 --> 01:06:11,800
Speaker 3: We from Texas, so y'all know if we coming to Houston,

1258
01:06:11,840 --> 01:06:14,720
Speaker 3: we gotta come to Dallas. We're gonna be an echo lounge.

1259
01:06:14,840 --> 01:06:18,640
Speaker 3: No third doors open up at seven o'clock. Show starts today.

1260
01:06:18,880 --> 01:06:22,120
Speaker 2: I ain't from Dallas, but I deetown, Bookie. I can't

1261
01:06:22,200 --> 01:06:23,760
Speaker 2: wait Dallas. I'm not gonna lie.

1262
01:06:23,880 --> 01:06:26,200
Speaker 4: Last year, y'all were one of our best shows, and

1263
01:06:26,280 --> 01:06:29,040
Speaker 4: y'all know we hasn't turn it up even more this year.

1264
01:06:29,400 --> 01:06:33,760
Speaker 4: So November third, Dallas, Texas. Get your tickets right now.

1265
01:06:33,840 --> 01:06:36,440
Speaker 4: I'm telling y'all, if y'all had fun last year, it's

1266
01:06:36,440 --> 01:06:40,200
Speaker 4: gonna be a show a party on movie this year.

1267
01:06:40,280 --> 01:06:42,800
Speaker 4: So go to poor Minds dot com and get your

1268
01:06:42,880 --> 01:06:45,800
Speaker 4: tickets right now. And we come into y'all before Houston.

1269
01:06:46,240 --> 01:06:49,320
Speaker 4: Y'all bet us show up and show out buzz period.

1270
01:06:49,640 --> 01:06:52,560
Speaker 4: But we're going to get into our favorite segment of

1271
01:06:52,680 --> 01:06:56,040
Speaker 4: the week, the Poor Your Hearts Out segment. If you

1272
01:06:56,080 --> 01:06:57,840
Speaker 4: want your question answered on the show, make sure you

1273
01:06:57,960 --> 01:07:01,520
Speaker 4: email us at ask poor Minds at gmail dot com.

1274
01:07:01,600 --> 01:07:03,920
Speaker 4: If you're a Patreon member, make sure y'all sign up

1275
01:07:03,920 --> 01:07:06,160
Speaker 4: for our Patreon. You can put it in the subject

1276
01:07:06,320 --> 01:07:08,840
Speaker 4: headline that you're a Patreon member and you get to

1277
01:07:09,040 --> 01:07:09,840
Speaker 4: skip the line.

1278
01:07:11,080 --> 01:07:13,280
Speaker 3: You want to go ahead and go first? Pull uh

1279
01:07:14,240 --> 01:07:17,560
Speaker 3: question number one. Hey, y'all, I'm twenty seven years old.

1280
01:07:17,640 --> 01:07:20,040
Speaker 3: I'm an only child and always knew I wanted kids,

1281
01:07:20,480 --> 01:07:21,120
Speaker 3: a lot of them.

1282
01:07:21,360 --> 01:07:21,760
Speaker 2: Lol.

1283
01:07:22,360 --> 01:07:25,840
Speaker 3: I'm doing well for myself, great job in car, traveling

1284
01:07:25,920 --> 01:07:29,320
Speaker 3: when I'm not working, etc. I still do live with

1285
01:07:29,440 --> 01:07:32,240
Speaker 3: my mom, but our relationship is good. Me being here

1286
01:07:32,360 --> 01:07:34,400
Speaker 3: gives her help with the bills and gives me more

1287
01:07:34,480 --> 01:07:37,720
Speaker 3: time to save. Anyways, my mom has been waiting for

1288
01:07:37,800 --> 01:07:40,480
Speaker 3: me to have kids for a while. No, I'm not

1289
01:07:40,600 --> 01:07:42,720
Speaker 3: in any relationship, but yes I do talk to a

1290
01:07:42,760 --> 01:07:46,000
Speaker 3: guy that definitely has potential. I am normally in control

1291
01:07:46,040 --> 01:07:49,000
Speaker 3: of my future, waiting for the right guy, taking plan

1292
01:07:49,160 --> 01:07:50,680
Speaker 3: bs whenever needed.

1293
01:07:51,280 --> 01:07:53,440
Speaker 1: But this time around, I feel like I should just

1294
01:07:53,520 --> 01:07:54,200
Speaker 1: go with the flow.

1295
01:07:55,040 --> 01:07:57,360
Speaker 3: We are both saying we don't want a relationship right now,

1296
01:07:57,720 --> 01:08:00,280
Speaker 3: but then again, we both want kids and giving the vibe.

1297
01:08:00,360 --> 01:08:04,880
Speaker 3: Whatever happens happens the child he definitely wants even if

1298
01:08:04,960 --> 01:08:08,360
Speaker 3: it doesn't come with a relationship. Some people are telling

1299
01:08:08,440 --> 01:08:11,120
Speaker 3: me I still have time. Others are telling me I

1300
01:08:11,120 --> 01:08:14,280
Speaker 3: should have started yesterday. Please tell me how you guys feel.

1301
01:08:14,600 --> 01:08:17,080
Speaker 3: I want to know what others think outside of my family.

1302
01:08:17,439 --> 01:08:19,920
Speaker 3: Am I rushing for no reason? Am I living in

1303
01:08:19,960 --> 01:08:22,599
Speaker 3: a fake theory tale? Waiting for the right guy?

1304
01:08:23,240 --> 01:08:24,760
Speaker 2: It's crazy because we just talked about that.

1305
01:08:26,840 --> 01:08:29,000
Speaker 1: It's probably for the last episode.

1306
01:08:30,479 --> 01:08:33,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, I just feel like either way it goes, you

1307
01:08:33,240 --> 01:08:36,320
Speaker 4: can't rush or force somebody into something. But I think

1308
01:08:36,400 --> 01:08:39,920
Speaker 4: that if did she say something about taking plan bees?

1309
01:08:41,200 --> 01:08:44,080
Speaker 4: How are y'all wanting to have kids? But you popping

1310
01:08:44,160 --> 01:08:45,720
Speaker 4: playing bees all the time? I think you're just kind

1311
01:08:45,760 --> 01:08:47,680
Speaker 4: of following along with what he wants to do. That's

1312
01:08:47,720 --> 01:08:51,040
Speaker 4: what it sounds like to me, And I feel like

1313
01:08:51,320 --> 01:08:52,439
Speaker 4: you need to have some.

1314
01:08:52,600 --> 01:08:53,120
Speaker 2: Input in this.

1315
01:08:53,320 --> 01:08:55,519
Speaker 4: It sounds like she's just kind of to me personally,

1316
01:08:56,320 --> 01:08:58,559
Speaker 4: cause why if you say y'all want kids and y'all

1317
01:08:58,600 --> 01:09:01,559
Speaker 4: want to start a family, why are you playing bees?

1318
01:09:03,000 --> 01:09:06,160
Speaker 4: And it sounds like you're popping playing bees when he

1319
01:09:06,400 --> 01:09:10,400
Speaker 4: wants you to. Because other than that, if y'all trying

1320
01:09:10,400 --> 01:09:12,040
Speaker 4: to have kids, y'all trying to have kids and y'all not,

1321
01:09:13,200 --> 01:09:15,720
Speaker 4: so I think you need to really sit down and

1322
01:09:15,760 --> 01:09:17,600
Speaker 4: ask yourself what do you want. I think a lot

1323
01:09:17,640 --> 01:09:20,599
Speaker 4: of time as women, we convince ourselves that we want

1324
01:09:20,680 --> 01:09:22,720
Speaker 4: all these things, but is it what you want or

1325
01:09:22,800 --> 01:09:25,720
Speaker 4: is it what your partner wants? So you need to

1326
01:09:25,840 --> 01:09:30,280
Speaker 4: really sit down and figure out what's going on, what

1327
01:09:30,479 --> 01:09:32,200
Speaker 4: your wants or your needs being met.

1328
01:09:32,960 --> 01:09:36,400
Speaker 3: The way I feel about children, it's never no right

1329
01:09:36,560 --> 01:09:40,840
Speaker 3: age to have one. It's just about when you're ready,

1330
01:09:40,920 --> 01:09:45,000
Speaker 3: if you're in the right situation. Because if you got

1331
01:09:45,120 --> 01:09:49,080
Speaker 3: pregnant tomorrow and you're ready to have the baby, then

1332
01:09:49,200 --> 01:09:52,160
Speaker 3: have the baby. But if you're not ready to have it,

1333
01:09:52,360 --> 01:09:56,080
Speaker 3: then get an abortion. I'm pro both ways. It's like,

1334
01:09:56,160 --> 01:09:59,320
Speaker 3: I feel like you as a woman needs to feel

1335
01:09:59,400 --> 01:10:01,639
Speaker 3: comfortable and your decision making process.

1336
01:10:02,080 --> 01:10:04,320
Speaker 1: It shouldn't be influenced by nobody around you.

1337
01:10:04,400 --> 01:10:06,720
Speaker 3: It shouldn't be influenced by your parents, It shouldn't be

1338
01:10:06,760 --> 01:10:10,040
Speaker 3: influenced by your friends, it shouldn't be influenced by the nigga.

1339
01:10:10,520 --> 01:10:13,160
Speaker 3: If you're ready, then have the baby. If you're not

1340
01:10:13,320 --> 01:10:17,240
Speaker 3: ready and you're unsure about it, then take whatever measures

1341
01:10:17,320 --> 01:10:21,040
Speaker 3: you feel like you need to take. To do that

1342
01:10:21,200 --> 01:10:23,800
Speaker 3: as well, which necessarily doesn't have to be abortion. It

1343
01:10:23,840 --> 01:10:26,559
Speaker 3: could also be adoption. Like, it's a lot of other

1344
01:10:27,000 --> 01:10:29,080
Speaker 3: options that you have as a woman. But I feel

1345
01:10:29,120 --> 01:10:31,280
Speaker 3: like if you're not ready to be a mother, and

1346
01:10:31,400 --> 01:10:35,040
Speaker 3: you know you're not ready, then don't pressure yourself into

1347
01:10:35,439 --> 01:10:37,600
Speaker 3: that type of situation just because you're trying to.

1348
01:10:37,640 --> 01:10:40,120
Speaker 1: Please somebody else. Cause at the end of the day,

1349
01:10:40,160 --> 01:10:40,719
Speaker 1: is your body.

1350
01:10:40,760 --> 01:10:42,240
Speaker 3: You the one is gonna have to go through all

1351
01:10:42,280 --> 01:10:46,240
Speaker 3: the emotions of having the child, birthing the child, carrying

1352
01:10:46,360 --> 01:10:47,559
Speaker 3: the child for nine months.

1353
01:10:48,000 --> 01:10:48,840
Speaker 2: You gotta go through that.

1354
01:10:49,880 --> 01:10:54,960
Speaker 3: So just make sure that you are comfortable in whatever

1355
01:10:55,040 --> 01:10:58,360
Speaker 3: decision you make in and don't let nobody else influence.

1356
01:10:58,040 --> 01:11:08,639
Speaker 2: It, all right? Question number two, Oh my bang high

1357
01:11:08,720 --> 01:11:09,400
Speaker 2: likes Andrea.

1358
01:11:09,520 --> 01:11:11,320
Speaker 4: I have this guy that I've been best friends with

1359
01:11:11,400 --> 01:11:14,280
Speaker 4: since twenty nineteen. I'm the type of friend that if

1360
01:11:14,320 --> 01:11:16,960
Speaker 4: you need anything, I will pretty much always make myself

1361
01:11:17,000 --> 01:11:20,760
Speaker 4: available to be there. However, I feel like it's not reciprocated.

1362
01:11:21,040 --> 01:11:23,439
Speaker 4: For example, we used to talk on the phone every day,

1363
01:11:23,680 --> 01:11:26,280
Speaker 4: but when he's around other people, I never hear from him.

1364
01:11:26,680 --> 01:11:29,920
Speaker 4: Since last month, I haven't received any phone calls. I

1365
01:11:30,080 --> 01:11:32,960
Speaker 4: text him asking questions and he doesn't reply back. This

1366
01:11:33,120 --> 01:11:35,960
Speaker 4: is a normal occurrence with him anytime he has a

1367
01:11:36,040 --> 01:11:39,120
Speaker 4: girl or friends to occupy his time. I'm supposed to

1368
01:11:39,120 --> 01:11:41,439
Speaker 4: write around until he needs me, but if I have

1369
01:11:41,760 --> 01:11:45,000
Speaker 4: other friends outside of him, he tries to sabotage it.

1370
01:11:45,400 --> 01:11:48,760
Speaker 4: I'm never invited out unless it's at his convenience. I've

1371
01:11:48,800 --> 01:11:51,280
Speaker 4: been wanting to call it quits on our friendship for

1372
01:11:51,360 --> 01:11:53,639
Speaker 4: a while, but I've been struggling to find the words

1373
01:11:53,720 --> 01:11:55,560
Speaker 4: to tell him about himself beforehand.

1374
01:11:56,000 --> 01:11:57,439
Speaker 2: Any advice, ps.

1375
01:11:57,880 --> 01:12:01,400
Speaker 4: This friendship has been completely non sexual the whole time

1376
01:12:01,520 --> 01:12:02,400
Speaker 4: we've been friends.

1377
01:12:04,200 --> 01:12:05,280
Speaker 2: Go tell him by yourself.

1378
01:12:06,880 --> 01:12:11,280
Speaker 4: Because the thing about friendship is it's just so easy

1379
01:12:11,360 --> 01:12:14,000
Speaker 4: to be a good friend. Like I think, if somebody's

1380
01:12:14,080 --> 01:12:15,599
Speaker 4: not being a good friend, then.

1381
01:12:15,600 --> 01:12:18,439
Speaker 3: That just it's not though if you're a bad person.

1382
01:12:19,200 --> 01:12:21,960
Speaker 3: What you mean, it's not easy to be a good friend.

1383
01:12:22,479 --> 01:12:24,839
Speaker 3: If you're not a good person, then it's not easy.

1384
01:12:24,640 --> 01:12:25,320
Speaker 2: To be right.

1385
01:12:25,400 --> 01:12:26,840
Speaker 4: So that doesn't need to be a person that's in

1386
01:12:26,920 --> 01:12:29,880
Speaker 4: your life. So he may not be a bad person.

1387
01:12:30,000 --> 01:12:31,960
Speaker 4: He may be a great friend to other people.

1388
01:12:32,160 --> 01:12:34,639
Speaker 2: Maybe he just doesn't And it's okay.

1389
01:12:34,680 --> 01:12:37,320
Speaker 4: You gotta realize when it comes to being a person

1390
01:12:37,400 --> 01:12:42,280
Speaker 4: for somebody, whether it's romantic, platonic, whatever it is. Sometimes

1391
01:12:42,439 --> 01:12:45,040
Speaker 4: you and people just don't mash up, and that's okay.

1392
01:12:45,400 --> 01:12:47,479
Speaker 4: That doesn't make you less of a good person, That

1393
01:12:47,520 --> 01:12:49,880
Speaker 4: doesn't make you less of a good friend. Maybe this

1394
01:12:50,040 --> 01:12:51,760
Speaker 4: is just somebody who is not meant to be a

1395
01:12:51,880 --> 01:12:55,439
Speaker 4: friend in your life. So instead of stressing yourself out

1396
01:12:55,600 --> 01:12:58,799
Speaker 4: about it, surround yourself with friends who love you. Surround

1397
01:12:58,840 --> 01:13:01,880
Speaker 4: yourself with friends. Whenever you call, they gonna pick up.

1398
01:13:02,200 --> 01:13:04,479
Speaker 4: Surround yourself with friends whenever you need them, they gonna

1399
01:13:04,479 --> 01:13:07,519
Speaker 4: be there. So whenever he don't answer the phone, you

1400
01:13:07,560 --> 01:13:09,479
Speaker 4: don't give a fuck to where it's to the point

1401
01:13:09,560 --> 01:13:11,559
Speaker 4: to where you don't even notice.

1402
01:13:11,320 --> 01:13:12,519
Speaker 2: He's not there anymore.

1403
01:13:12,960 --> 01:13:16,160
Speaker 4: I think a lot of times we surround ourselves with

1404
01:13:16,320 --> 01:13:18,760
Speaker 4: people who don't value us enough, and it makes us

1405
01:13:18,800 --> 01:13:21,200
Speaker 4: feel less than and it doesn't make us feel good enough.

1406
01:13:21,439 --> 01:13:23,240
Speaker 2: And that has a lot to do with our mental space.

1407
01:13:23,280 --> 01:13:25,679
Speaker 1: When you really just need to change the people you're around.

1408
01:13:26,080 --> 01:13:27,519
Speaker 2: Hello, come on, pull.

1409
01:13:31,720 --> 01:13:34,000
Speaker 3: Facts which sometimes you just really need to change the

1410
01:13:34,040 --> 01:13:35,840
Speaker 3: people you be around. I think people be wanting to

1411
01:13:35,880 --> 01:13:39,320
Speaker 3: stick with friends and people because they'd be like, oh,

1412
01:13:39,400 --> 01:13:42,479
Speaker 3: I've been doing him since I was fifteen, Oh they

1413
01:13:42,600 --> 01:13:46,439
Speaker 3: be my friend for X amount of time or you know,

1414
01:13:47,000 --> 01:13:48,080
Speaker 3: oh they my cousin.

1415
01:13:49,320 --> 01:13:52,080
Speaker 4: Sometimes that shit really doesn't matter. Like, people be weird,

1416
01:13:52,280 --> 01:13:53,120
Speaker 4: people be haters.

1417
01:13:53,280 --> 01:13:55,640
Speaker 3: Especially if you start moving up in life and you

1418
01:13:55,720 --> 01:13:59,160
Speaker 3: start doing more, you really start to see people true colors,

1419
01:13:59,280 --> 01:14:01,679
Speaker 3: And it's okay to cut people off.

1420
01:14:01,840 --> 01:14:03,240
Speaker 1: Like, if you feel like you need to cut them off,

1421
01:14:03,280 --> 01:14:03,760
Speaker 1: cut them off.

1422
01:14:04,720 --> 01:14:05,360
Speaker 4: What are you doing?

1423
01:14:06,000 --> 01:14:08,680
Speaker 2: I didn't do anything. I was just agreeing with you.

1424
01:14:08,760 --> 01:14:10,439
Speaker 2: If you need to cut people off, I feel like

1425
01:14:10,479 --> 01:14:13,200
Speaker 2: you were scratching yourself. Bitch.

1426
01:14:14,640 --> 01:14:18,840
Speaker 1: Oh I had to get in there shit anyways.

1427
01:14:19,040 --> 01:14:20,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just feel like it's okay to cut people

1428
01:14:21,000 --> 01:14:23,320
Speaker 3: off if you feel like you know it's necessary.

1429
01:14:24,920 --> 01:14:28,920
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1430
01:14:29,000 --> 01:14:31,519
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1431
01:14:31,600 --> 01:14:33,599
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1432
01:14:36,600 --> 01:14:44,080
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1433
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Speaker 2: to Muse Beauty Collection O.

1434
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1435
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1436
01:14:55,840 --> 01:15:01,560
Speaker 3: you follow this on Patreon. Make sure you subscribe to

1437
01:15:01,680 --> 01:15:06,320
Speaker 3: the YouTube channel. Make sure you come to the tour.

1438
01:15:06,479 --> 01:15:08,640
Speaker 3: We're on tour right now. Make sure you get your

1439
01:15:08,680 --> 01:15:11,920
Speaker 3: live show tikis. The link will be in the description box.

1440
01:15:12,360 --> 01:15:16,200
Speaker 3: And yeah, y'all, just fuck with your girls. We outside

1441
01:15:17,000 --> 01:15:25,960
Speaker 3: and she's out of character. She's out of character, but

1442
01:15:26,040 --> 01:15:27,960
Speaker 3: it's okay. Thank y'all for watching.

1443
01:15:28,600 --> 01:15:30,599
Speaker 2: We love y'all. We're gonna see y'all next week.

1444
01:15:31,320 --> 01:15:44,479
Speaker 3: By y'all, I'm slithering now. This is why y'all need

1445
01:15:44,520 --> 01:15:48,960
Speaker 3: to watch Harry Potter. First of all, Malthoy never says like,

1446
01:15:49,479 --> 01:15:50,200
Speaker 3: what's up, y'alls.

1447
01:15:50,200 --> 01:15:53,439
Speaker 1: Your girl xp and is Sugarl Drea Nicole.

1448
01:15:53,640 --> 01:15:56,880
Speaker 4: And by special request, Detroit, we come in your way

1449
01:15:57,040 --> 01:15:57,920
Speaker 4: November tenth.

1450
01:15:58,240 --> 01:16:00,920
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm excited. I have ever been to Detroit.

1451
01:16:01,040 --> 01:16:02,960
Speaker 2: I've never been to Detroit either, So y'all know I'm

1452
01:16:03,000 --> 01:16:05,120
Speaker 2: gonna step out in my far now and I'm trying

1453
01:16:05,160 --> 01:16:06,640
Speaker 2: to give me a cony. I'm trying to go to

1454
01:16:06,720 --> 01:16:08,960
Speaker 2: the county. Y'all, you know what I'm saying. So listen.

1455
01:16:09,080 --> 01:16:12,200
Speaker 2: November ten, Doors open at six, show starts at seven.

1456
01:16:12,520 --> 01:16:13,960
Speaker 2: We'll be at the Garden Theater.

1457
01:16:14,040 --> 01:16:16,680
Speaker 4: And I'm telling y'all Detroit, y'all been asking so y'all

1458
01:16:16,760 --> 01:16:17,559
Speaker 4: better show up.

1459
01:16:17,920 --> 01:16:21,040
Speaker 2: The tickets are available at poor minds dot com. What

1460
01:16:21,240 --> 01:16:25,240
Speaker 2: are though, period. We'll see y'all soon. November ten, by y'all.

1461
01:16:26,640 --> 01:16:28,759
Speaker 17: I wanna be with you, Gonna be with you, Gonna

1462
01:16:28,800 --> 01:16:34,479
Speaker 17: be with you. Oh, I wanna be with you, Gonna

1463
01:16:34,479 --> 01:16:45,400
Speaker 17: be with you, Gonna be with you? Whoa my wanting

1464
01:16:45,479 --> 01:16:46,240
Speaker 17: that world.

1465
01:16:52,040 --> 01:16:55,160
Speaker 2: Chemistry was crazy from the get go. Neither one of

1466
01:16:55,320 --> 01:17:00,599
Speaker 2: us know why we didn't tell nothing, no like because

1467
01:17:00,720 --> 01:17:03,439
Speaker 2: I love like this. Say sometimes.

1468
01:17:05,080 --> 01:17:08,600
Speaker 16: People started off as a fast say we can't see that,

1469
01:17:09,000 --> 01:17:11,880
Speaker 16: but from the bottom they an't see that we did that.

1470
01:17:12,360 --> 01:17:15,840
Speaker 2: Yes, it's so true. Yes we've been through it, Yes

1471
01:17:16,040 --> 01:17:19,479
Speaker 2: we got real shit, Jessee, Baby, we've been too strong

1472
01:17:19,800 --> 01:17:24,840
Speaker 2: too long. I can't be with atcha be and not

1473
01:17:25,000 --> 01:17:28,360
Speaker 2: be waiting nothing until you get home. I can't sleep

1474
01:17:28,520 --> 01:17:29,439
Speaker 2: it ata Be.

1475
01:17:31,120 --> 01:17:34,360
Speaker 16: And anybody who's there but loved to know just how

1476
01:17:34,439 --> 01:17:36,120
Speaker 16: I feel too hard.

1477
01:17:35,920 --> 01:17:40,280
Speaker 2: As a fagie. Nothing can replace it. Call it ready, yo, if.

1478
01:17:40,200 --> 01:17:46,080
Speaker 4: You just can't be without you, baby, I got a

1479
01:17:46,200 --> 01:17:47,160
Speaker 4: question for him.

1480
01:17:47,520 --> 01:17:50,960
Speaker 2: You all ready in the inser. Still don't want to

1481
01:17:51,040 --> 01:17:55,840
Speaker 2: ask you when you're lie? No, maybe cry no high

1482
01:17:55,960 --> 01:18:03,840
Speaker 2: up back in the try baby, my love is only

1483
01:18:04,040 --> 01:18:04,559
Speaker 2: your love.

1484
01:18:05,040 --> 01:18:10,240
Speaker 4: Yes, yes, come for yeah and without your little worst

1485
01:18:10,400 --> 01:18:11,599
Speaker 4: nose wave.

1486
01:18:11,640 --> 01:18:14,479
Speaker 16: It's too strong for too long. And I can't be

1487
01:18:14,800 --> 01:18:16,160
Speaker 16: without your baby.

1488
01:18:17,320 --> 01:18:19,760
Speaker 2: And I'll be waiting up until you get home.

1489
01:18:19,960 --> 01:18:25,439
Speaker 16: And I can't sleep without your baby. Anybody who's having

1490
01:18:25,560 --> 01:18:28,680
Speaker 16: loved you know just how I feel. Too hard to

1491
01:18:28,800 --> 01:18:32,800
Speaker 16: fake it, nothing can't replace it. Call a radio if

1492
01:18:32,880 --> 01:18:35,720
Speaker 16: you just can't be without your baby.

1493
01:18:38,439 --> 01:18:39,880
Speaker 2: See this is real too.

1494
01:18:40,120 --> 01:18:47,080
Speaker 4: Come on always stop, go to bath or ride around.

1495
01:18:50,680 --> 01:18:50,760
Speaker 10: Now.

1496
01:18:50,840 --> 01:18:54,040
Speaker 2: If you don't know love and you don't believe this

1497
01:18:54,200 --> 01:19:14,840
Speaker 2: ain't for you, yeah, let least wow the co