WEBVTT - Whine Down After Dark with Chris Harrison

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<v Speaker 1>I can't breathe because my pants are too tight. Wait

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<v Speaker 1>can I button my pants? Like? Cal? Would that be weird?

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<v Speaker 1>Wind down with Janet Kramer and I heard radio podcast

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<v Speaker 1>We're We're just saying. I know we're on location right

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<v Speaker 1>now in after dark. I feel like we need to cheer.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay literally, Oh did you guys hear that? So we

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<v Speaker 1>are winding down in Pebble Beach, California. Uh, for the

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<v Speaker 1>what's it called the pro am? Yeah? Golf super stoked.

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<v Speaker 1>I just learned what a pin was. It's a flag. Apparently,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I just wanted to start off saying

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<v Speaker 1>them because I've gotten a lot of hate about the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that people think that I belittle my husband so

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<v Speaker 1>and that I'm too hard on my husband. I should

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<v Speaker 1>just let it go, and so I just wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>apologize to Michael again on air. I apologize on my Instagram.

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<v Speaker 1>But we are he year for him because I do

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<v Speaker 1>love my husband. That is why we are here. It's

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<v Speaker 1>because to celebrate him and golf and Honey, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna drug you through the mud anymore unless it's to

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<v Speaker 1>help people. Because that's why we wanted to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>it in the first place and such, and I'm learning

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<v Speaker 1>about what I'm right, Yeah, this like no, this is

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<v Speaker 1>a this is a thing. I'm like, we're golfing, baby,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do it. Okay. So maybe you've considered a sleep

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<v Speaker 1>number bed but thought you couldn't afford one. But can

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<v Speaker 1>you really afford another restless night's sleep? Okay? I always

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<v Speaker 1>say that, Honestly, I've said this so many times in

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<v Speaker 1>this podcast, but it's so true. You spend half your

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<v Speaker 1>life in bed? Is it half further? I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>still a half. I mean depending, some people sleep twelve

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<v Speaker 1>hours and I Sarah sleeps twelve hours children, So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>one nearest you. Chris Harrison freak, Chris freaking Harrison. Hey Chris,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you bed sit right here? No? That was

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<v Speaker 1>not the use it on my lap? Used it on

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<v Speaker 1>my lap? Is Sarah? Sorry? I really have to put

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<v Speaker 1>stupid headphones on you next to me. Well, that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>Why we have headphones on because we're taking col Hey Chris, Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>where's your drink? Uh, it's over there, it's on you,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's by your bed. So this is our first time,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess technically drinking on the podcast. And I would

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<v Speaker 1>just like to straight up say you might not know

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<v Speaker 1>that often do it in your bedroom. I've never been

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<v Speaker 1>drunk before. Thank you. That look Chris gave is what

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<v Speaker 1>I say. And I've been with you for like four

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<v Speaker 1>years an now, never been drunk. Never, I've never had

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<v Speaker 1>the spins. I've never had anything. But why know what

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<v Speaker 1>Sarah wanted to ask about that? Have you ever had

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<v Speaker 1>a drink? Oh? Yeah, I see you look, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>drinking right now. I just stop at two glasses anxiety.

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<v Speaker 1>Her definition of drunk is like wasting spinning. I think

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<v Speaker 1>is drunk. But I've never had spins. I get I

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<v Speaker 1>get a little. They don't get any of that. What

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<v Speaker 1>does blotted me? Okay? But but you wanted to ask

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<v Speaker 1>a question about I forgot. Oh yeah, so my first question,

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<v Speaker 1>how let's just go right in? No, how do you

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<v Speaker 1>get them? So drunk, not you specifically, Um, how do

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<v Speaker 1>they get so drunk? Like, how do you get drunk? No? No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>we're speaking on like specifically. Sorry the show now, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's if you get drunk, it's really the same process. No,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have everything choice. One of the great things

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<v Speaker 1>about alcohol, drugs, let me take your back whatever it is,

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<v Speaker 1>it it really is a microcosm of life. Look, if

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<v Speaker 1>you're the idiot that on night one gets spinny or blottoed, drunk,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever phrase you kids like to use, um, then that

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<v Speaker 1>that's something as as a bachelor bacherette, that's something I

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't want to know. If I'm dating and I go

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<v Speaker 1>out with you and you're puking in the parking lot

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<v Speaker 1>after dinner because you just plowed through a bottle of wine,

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<v Speaker 1>that's something I want to see. So if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to drink on night one night to whenever knock yourself out,

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<v Speaker 1>you can do that. Or there's a ton of people

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<v Speaker 1>that don't really. Yeah, for example, you're more fun when

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<v Speaker 1>you drink. No, I'm not. I'm I'm way not more fun,

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<v Speaker 1>way not very defensive. I'm wait at mar fun. No

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not, I'm not more fun drunk. I'm actually more

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<v Speaker 1>emotional when I drank wine. Les cry a lot. You

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk about it besides the whole drunk thing,

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<v Speaker 1>What what's the drama between the North Carolina South Carolina

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<v Speaker 1>pageant queens? You know, I would love to tell you

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<v Speaker 1>there's this great story, and I really don't think there is. Really.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's beauty pageant drama, which probably isn't really

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<v Speaker 1>that sexy and deep. Um. Whether your team Hannah or

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<v Speaker 1>team Klina, one of that's calin like her. So she

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<v Speaker 1>either one or finished, finished second or third, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>fifth runner up, you know how they do that in pageants? Um.

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<v Speaker 1>And then the other one didn't clap or something. It

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't happy, wasn't happy enough for her? I think, is

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<v Speaker 1>this is how the story goes? This sounds about right

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<v Speaker 1>the course and what dateline did a story or something

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<v Speaker 1>and uncovered I don't know no, but that I think

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<v Speaker 1>that it might be as deep as that, um that

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<v Speaker 1>they were girls, and there are rumors that it goes

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<v Speaker 1>deeper than that, and it goes to some other stories

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<v Speaker 1>and emotional stuff. But it might just be that she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't clap, im like I mean that that's that's pretty.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's not good. You know, I did I did

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<v Speaker 1>you ever do a beauty pageant? Mike, Sarah? Have you

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm from Texas like it was in beauty pageants?

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<v Speaker 1>No where are you from Texas? San Antonio counts? I

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<v Speaker 1>have an I have an ex wife from there? You do?

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<v Speaker 1>And you have a bar there Barn Dallas, Barn Dallas,

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<v Speaker 1>ex wife from San Antonio. New girlfriends good a country song.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw that as weekly. I go, oh, you can

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<v Speaker 1>have that. But he's got a girlfriend. Thank you, Barn

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<v Speaker 1>Dallas and ext wife and Santa. That's a great, sir,

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<v Speaker 1>that's very George. Can we talk about girlfriend? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I probably won't, but tell me all about her? How long? Where?

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<v Speaker 1>When'd you meet? How did you meet her? Um? We

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<v Speaker 1>met years ago? Really you're no longer a bachelor. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>see how she being on the show? What's that? How

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<v Speaker 1>is she like with you being on the show around

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<v Speaker 1>all these beautiful women? Fine? I mean you know she, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>we met years ago because she covers the show UM

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<v Speaker 1>for Entertainment Tonight and so. But it was it was

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<v Speaker 1>really interesting that we never really had a serious personal

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<v Speaker 1>conversation for years. Um, I do a ton of interviews.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously been doing this for seventeen years, and I hate

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<v Speaker 1>to say this, but a lot of times I just

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<v Speaker 1>you just get in the mode and you're just going

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<v Speaker 1>and blow you know how it is, and you're just

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<v Speaker 1>you're not even really paying attention to who who's interviewing you.

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<v Speaker 1>You're just giving the answers you're supposed to give, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're moving on. Um. And then we finally actually had

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<v Speaker 1>a real conversation. Okay, it was great. At what point

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<v Speaker 1>do you get to the place like, was it assion

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<v Speaker 1>a discussion between you and her of Okay, we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to be public about this. It was one of you

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<v Speaker 1>kind of pushing each other more for that or was

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<v Speaker 1>it a mutual decision that you guys kind of came

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<v Speaker 1>to It was a little bit. It was more on

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<v Speaker 1>her end, just because I have the ability to not

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<v Speaker 1>care to a certain degree a lot more than she does.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been doing this for seventeen years, and I mean, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>if it comes out i'm dating who does like like, really,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not gonna hurt me, um, and so like fine,

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<v Speaker 1>fire me, um, but no, it's it's so why would

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<v Speaker 1>be fired? And I'm just kidding. I'm just That's my

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<v Speaker 1>My point is, it just doesn't matter for me, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>bar unless it's something scandalous or crazy or whatever, who cares. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>I think for her, I think, you know, with her

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<v Speaker 1>career and being a journalist and being good at what

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<v Speaker 1>she does, and she is exceptional at what she does,

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<v Speaker 1>she just was very you know, cogns into the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that you know, she didn't want it to be misconstrued

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, and anybody to think ill of it,

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<v Speaker 1>and um. And so I just respected that. It was

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<v Speaker 1>great and honestly, that was the best way to go

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<v Speaker 1>about it for quite some time, was to just enjoy

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<v Speaker 1>your lives. And I'm such a private guy anyway. My

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<v Speaker 1>my private life has always tried I've tried to keep

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<v Speaker 1>it so even when I was married, after my divorce whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I have my my kids and my my

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<v Speaker 1>family and what I do on air and the shows

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<v Speaker 1>I host, the shows I produce and all that, UM

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<v Speaker 1>is great. I don't mind being out there in front

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<v Speaker 1>of it, but my private life I've just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>kept off the pages and it's worked well. Is it

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<v Speaker 1>hard though? Being around I mean, I know the Bachelor

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<v Speaker 1>has twenty five beautiful women. But I mean you're also

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<v Speaker 1>around that too, So is that hard to then kind

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<v Speaker 1>of be like, oh, there's something shining and bright over there,

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<v Speaker 1>there's something shining and bright over there. Well, again, with

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<v Speaker 1>age comes wisdom. Um. And I'm smart enough to know

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<v Speaker 1>I was married for a long time and have dated

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<v Speaker 1>now for you know, almost a decade too, and the

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<v Speaker 1>grass is never greener. So it's it's I'm so beyond

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<v Speaker 1>that in my life. Um. And so now it's you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't a problem when I was married, when a

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<v Speaker 1>problem post marriage? Um, and obviously not a problem now.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think because you've been doing it for seventeen

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<v Speaker 1>years you kind of I don't mean it's in a

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<v Speaker 1>disrespectful way, but dehumanize the whole aspect where you're you're

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<v Speaker 1>there for work, you do know, and and and it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's a good point. It's it's more so because people

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<v Speaker 1>have alway has asked me about this. Hey, it's not

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<v Speaker 1>like we're all hanging around like this, sitting around drinking

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<v Speaker 1>wine and sitting around in a hot tub. Nine times

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<v Speaker 1>out of ten, I am more worried about what we're

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<v Speaker 1>getting because it's it's my livelihood. This is my job,

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<v Speaker 1>and is this is a baby I created seventeen years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying to make good TV and if and

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<v Speaker 1>whatever I can do to that end, that's what I'm doing.

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<v Speaker 1>Um and and to your kind of what you said,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds terrible, dehumanizes it, but yeah, you don't look

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<v Speaker 1>at everybody is people And there's a couple of people

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<v Speaker 1>in this room right now. And it's funny because I've

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<v Speaker 1>gotten to know both of them much better and become

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<v Speaker 1>friends after the show. I wasn't friends with them on

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<v Speaker 1>the show because that's not what you're doing, and you're

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<v Speaker 1>not even having that personal conversation and really getting to

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<v Speaker 1>know them. You're just you're You're doing what you need

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<v Speaker 1>to do to create good TV. And then afterwards I

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<v Speaker 1>often meet a lot of these guys and women am

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<v Speaker 1>like wow, like you're you're really cool. Do you ever

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<v Speaker 1>feel bad though you hear them in the wrong direction,

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<v Speaker 1>like if you ever felt bad that you maybe put

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<v Speaker 1>words in their mouth or maybe like hey, maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>should do this to make the good The only time

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<v Speaker 1>I really felt bad, and I mean, I'm sure if

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<v Speaker 1>I thought more over seventeen years. But Ashley A. Bear

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<v Speaker 1>Um had this dude on her show, some Canadian guy

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<v Speaker 1>name escapes me, what was his name? He he had

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<v Speaker 1>a girlfriend back home or something. I forget what the

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<v Speaker 1>story was, and we just let it go a little

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<v Speaker 1>too long and trying to let her find it out. Naturally,

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<v Speaker 1>I should have stepped in a little sooner and and

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<v Speaker 1>helped her and pushed her and pulled the plug because

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<v Speaker 1>she was started. She started to fall for the guy,

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<v Speaker 1>and so it hit her kind of hard. I mean, look,

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<v Speaker 1>it all ended up great, and her and yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>and I ended up marrying them, um, and so it

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<v Speaker 1>all ended up great, and we're all good friends. I

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<v Speaker 1>just wish and I told her, I wish I had

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<v Speaker 1>stepped in a little earlier and not been you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because what we try to do is let people figure

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<v Speaker 1>out for themselves, right right, Well, yes, and but it's

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<v Speaker 1>also there is this weird gray line that we've always

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<v Speaker 1>never wanted to cry loss was say, say Colton, for example,

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<v Speaker 1>right now, where you're hearing and seeing stuff on camera,

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<v Speaker 1>he's not. People often say, well, why don't you just

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<v Speaker 1>go tell him, Like, well, that's not the way it's

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to go. It's not you know, if if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just tattle telling on everybody, and it's it's not going

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<v Speaker 1>to work that way. So you want him to discover

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<v Speaker 1>all this stuff as much as possible on his own.

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<v Speaker 1>But with Ashley, I should have stepped in a little earlier.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it the most dramatic season ever? Pretty freaking good?

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<v Speaker 1>Why does he jump over the thing? You can't tell me, Henny,

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<v Speaker 1>Why does a Colton jump over the fence? Yeah, to

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<v Speaker 1>get away from the Harrison. Because I thought, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, I want to watch. Just honestly, I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't that interested this season. Just I don't know why.

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<v Speaker 1>I just kind of wasn't. Maybe because we're busy, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I just wasn't watching. But then I saw

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<v Speaker 1>that preview and I was like, oh, it's a good season.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean the ratings were up here now, we're up

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<v Speaker 1>here today. We were crushing America's Got Talent Now number

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<v Speaker 1>one show on Monday, So it's the show is doing

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<v Speaker 1>phenomenally well again. Still, I mean, how many years can

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<v Speaker 1>it go? Eventeen years and it'll go I mean, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not go anywhere. Do you think it can go

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<v Speaker 1>on another fifteen years? The only thing that will take

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<v Speaker 1>this show down. And I've always said this would be

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<v Speaker 1>a catastrophic event some some incidents some whatever where on

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<v Speaker 1>the show. Yeah, well yeah, around the show or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>Because we have our base. Even when you have a

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<v Speaker 1>season that's not highly rated, we still have our core

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<v Speaker 1>and it does well. Then there are seasons that really peak,

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<v Speaker 1>like Colton seems to be doing and we're trending up

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<v Speaker 1>every week now with him, and once we get to

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<v Speaker 1>this point, we're not going anywhere this season. It's it's

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<v Speaker 1>fun when you get a season like this because when

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<v Speaker 1>you're trending up and we from hour to hour to

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<v Speaker 1>hour and week to week, it's only gonna go higher

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<v Speaker 1>and you're just gonna see how high is it gonna go?

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<v Speaker 1>And that's the fun. Those are the fun seasons. Then

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<v Speaker 1>there's those seasons when you're like, oh god, when will

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<v Speaker 1>it be over? Yeah, and you're like, shiny object, look

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<v Speaker 1>over here. No one. Pablo was a well that that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's another misnoverer. People, well is a person When I

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<v Speaker 1>let him date my dog her sister brother, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>would not. I don't think he was a gentleman. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think he was particularly kind to the women. Um

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<v Speaker 1>and I had issue with a lot of it and

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<v Speaker 1>I told him about it, and um, but TV wise,

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<v Speaker 1>as a producer's gold, he was great. Apathy is what

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<v Speaker 1>kills me. That's what kills television. Uh. If you don't care,

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't have an opinion, um, and you're not watching.

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<v Speaker 1>If you hate somebody, you love somebody, that's fine. Who

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<v Speaker 1>do you think the most hated bachelor is out out there?

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<v Speaker 1>And the most disliked was probably one part about viewership though,

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<v Speaker 1>who was the least watch them? We know? Lorenzo Borghaze

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<v Speaker 1>comes to mind. He was the Italian prince and great well,

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<v Speaker 1>Matt Grant wasn't. Matt Grant was not a bad season

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<v Speaker 1>the he was London calling, he was British um and

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<v Speaker 1>then but Lorenzo borghese was kind of this high concept

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<v Speaker 1>air to the Borghaze fortune. And if you've ever been

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<v Speaker 1>to Rome, the Borghaze gardens and museums and his great

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<v Speaker 1>great whatever's were cardinals, hugely high in the in the

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<v Speaker 1>Catholic Church. We thought it'd be great, We're taking the

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<v Speaker 1>show to Rome, and we lived in Italy for the

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<v Speaker 1>two months and it just didn't. It didn't work just

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<v Speaker 1>for one reason another do you have any thoughts on

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<v Speaker 1>who the next bachelor will be from the show for sure,

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<v Speaker 1>who do you think would be the time? I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna actually give them who do you think because you

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<v Speaker 1>can't because then if someone wins, you can't. But that conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>I will say this, I think people often think that

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<v Speaker 1>this decision has already made and or that there is

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<v Speaker 1>a decision that is kind of you know, where there's

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<v Speaker 1>this one final decision early on. It is a debate.

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<v Speaker 1>It really is this ongoing discussion that starts night one.

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<v Speaker 1>We're sitting in the back of a garage, which is

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<v Speaker 1>where we shoot, and we're discussing who the bachelor's going

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<v Speaker 1>to be, who we think could be good. It's there.

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<v Speaker 1>There's it's a lot, I mean there you know Mike

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<v Speaker 1>fly uh, you know who's the creator of the show,

0:17:02.400 --> 0:17:06.960
<v Speaker 1>Rob Mills, Martin Hilton, executive producer, myself, the other executive producers.

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<v Speaker 1>We all kind of have our our opinions and and

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<v Speaker 1>we and you should know we are just as passionate

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<v Speaker 1>and emotional as anybody else. We have our favorites that

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<v Speaker 1>we fight for, and sometimes we get our favorites, and

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes we don't. Sometimes I am not on board with.

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<v Speaker 1>Who's someone that you weren't on board with? I would

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<v Speaker 1>never say that. Well, no, it just drives me crazy. Okay, fine,

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<v Speaker 1>who do you wish? Who do you wish that would

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<v Speaker 1>have been on the show? You know? Either one off

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<v Speaker 1>the top of my head we missed on was Michelle Money?

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<v Speaker 1>Who is she? Michelle Money from Utah? Should have been

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<v Speaker 1>the back money Michelle Money? Can someone pull her? And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. She's now odd ironically as we are here

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<v Speaker 1>a Pebble Beaches dating Mike Weir. She was on Brad

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<v Speaker 1>Womack season. Oh she's beautiful. Oh I remember she had that,

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<v Speaker 1>she had the kids, Yes, she has a daughter. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you know I didn't. Awesome and great, great sense of humor,

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<v Speaker 1>great attitude. And she was actually very disliked. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>why because she came off not kind of Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>then she came on the show. I kind of defended

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<v Speaker 1>her and helped her show this other side and everyone

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<v Speaker 1>fell in love with her. And then she went on

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<v Speaker 1>It was a Paradise, Yeah she was. She was on

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<v Speaker 1>Paradise and we're in Mexico. And then she ended up

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<v Speaker 1>with this really big bodybuilder guy and that didn't work out.

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<v Speaker 1>And then now she's with Mike Weir, But she's one.

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<v Speaker 1>There was another one I came up with off the

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<v Speaker 1>top of my head. Um, you know who I thought

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<v Speaker 1>would have been good. I don't know where she would

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<v Speaker 1>have fit because we were on a roll right then.

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<v Speaker 1>But Claire, I always Claire probably would have been really

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<v Speaker 1>good TV and a good bat serette. Oh yeah, she's pretty. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's cute. I like her. Um, and I was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to think, guys, yeah, wise like who missed out on

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<v Speaker 1>being Okay, I don't know if we have been a

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<v Speaker 1>good bachelor, Like, honestly, do you think, yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I will come here, come here, Wells. Here's the thing

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<v Speaker 1>with Wells. Can I just say this really fast? For Wells,

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<v Speaker 1>I know I know Wells, and for to you too.

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<v Speaker 1>Do people go on the show? Like I know that

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<v Speaker 1>if I went on the show. So if you were

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<v Speaker 1>the Bachelor, I would want to go on the show,

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<v Speaker 1>not saying that I wouldn't buy for your heart, but

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<v Speaker 1>I would want to go to be the next batchelor. Right. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's there. That is a thing. Um. But as far

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<v Speaker 1>as Wells being the Bachelor, I think he's he's probably

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<v Speaker 1>a little too level headed and too normal to be

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<v Speaker 1>the bachelor. He don't say nice things to me right now.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just why I don't think you'd be good good

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<v Speaker 1>enough TV. No, that at all. But I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>hear Chris Harrison say, well has been great. That's all

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted me, just because I wanted to hear it. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know who do I think is? I think

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<v Speaker 1>Jordan's would have been a good bachelor Kimball. Yeah, he

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<v Speaker 1>would have been good night, thank you. He would have

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<v Speaker 1>been great TV. I could have done a show with him, Yeah,

0:20:10.240 --> 0:20:12.040
<v Speaker 1>because he's the like and there there you go. That

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<v Speaker 1>proves my point. He is the opposite side of the

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<v Speaker 1>spectrum from Wells. Yes, I mean, but Wells is you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he's respectable. He can't you kind of remind me of

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<v Speaker 1>like a Sean No, no, not not in Wells is

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<v Speaker 1>also a board again virgin No, that's what I meant,

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<v Speaker 1>not in that area. I mean, Higgins is okay, well

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<v Speaker 1>with more zero. I don't know who just said that

0:20:37.080 --> 0:20:39.800
<v Speaker 1>on the open mic, because that was probably the worst

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<v Speaker 1>comment ever made in the history of I Heart Radio

0:20:43.400 --> 0:20:49.000
<v Speaker 1>podcasts Wells and Ben Higgins. All right, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>nice cute On that note, We're just gonna this is

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<v Speaker 1>why we don't give Sugarman a mic. No, I'm first,

0:20:56.480 --> 0:20:59.399
<v Speaker 1>I gotta ask Chris is playing roll in the paramie?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, let's here, Okay, go ahead, go ahead, baby,

0:21:05.240 --> 0:21:07.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to belittle you, so I hope go ahead.

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<v Speaker 1>Who's your partner? And that, by the way, that does

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<v Speaker 1>belittle him right there? What when you're patronizing and you

0:21:13.200 --> 0:21:14.720
<v Speaker 1>say I don't want to be little? Now here come

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<v Speaker 1>the comments again, and she's no, I'm just I'm sarcastic. People,

0:21:18.960 --> 0:21:21.199
<v Speaker 1>I like, I'm very sarcastic. My husband knows I love him.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't belittle you at home. I apologize funny that

0:21:24.520 --> 0:21:30.320
<v Speaker 1>everyone makes comments that and I'm like, no, sarcastic. You

0:21:30.400 --> 0:21:36.399
<v Speaker 1>know who wears the torn jeans and that family Jesus. Okay, honey,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to ask a few questions about golf?

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean that from like the sweetest part of

0:21:40.000 --> 0:21:44.280
<v Speaker 1>my soul, which is deep down, but it's there. Who's

0:21:44.280 --> 0:21:49.399
<v Speaker 1>your partner right now? My partner is Jose de Jesus Rodriguez.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys are doing well, aren't you? We were? My

0:21:51.520 --> 0:21:55.520
<v Speaker 1>my pony broke down a little bit. Today Jose started

0:21:55.560 --> 0:21:59.399
<v Speaker 1>off with a bang and then uh today he lost

0:22:00.080 --> 0:22:02.840
<v Speaker 1>was leaking oil. He went two over today we were

0:22:02.920 --> 0:22:04.960
<v Speaker 1>we were kind of in the mix. Two over. What

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<v Speaker 1>does that mean? That means not good? You want to

0:22:07.080 --> 0:22:11.040
<v Speaker 1>be under? Yeah? But yeah, then but I played well today,

0:22:11.400 --> 0:22:16.720
<v Speaker 1>which is really selfishly all I care about? Um playing

0:22:16.920 --> 0:22:22.359
<v Speaker 1>that means a broken leg. Or explain this to the

0:22:22.440 --> 0:22:24.800
<v Speaker 1>females that are listening that it's not like the golf

0:22:24.840 --> 0:22:29.040
<v Speaker 1>version of how much you bench bro Yes, that is

0:22:29.080 --> 0:22:31.359
<v Speaker 1>the golfersion of how much to avenge. We should also

0:22:31.560 --> 0:22:35.720
<v Speaker 1>sorry about my breath that chocolate, and we should explain

0:22:35.800 --> 0:22:42.840
<v Speaker 1>that Sarah dates Tie. He is Wayne Gretzky's son. You think, Sarah,

0:22:43.119 --> 0:22:45.200
<v Speaker 1>do you think? Right? But do you think Sarah would

0:22:45.240 --> 0:22:49.920
<v Speaker 1>want to mention that, Oh yeah, it's Mary mentioned topping.

0:22:50.440 --> 0:22:52.879
<v Speaker 1>Sarah can't hide from that, to hide it. It already was.

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<v Speaker 1>But I do know that they love you, and you

0:22:55.119 --> 0:22:57.679
<v Speaker 1>love that. I love they're they're my neighbors. They live

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<v Speaker 1>very close to me, and yeah, Janet Wayne are good

0:23:00.680 --> 0:23:02.760
<v Speaker 1>friends and they are amazing people. And their kids watched

0:23:02.800 --> 0:23:05.080
<v Speaker 1>you yesterday, Hits. What is it? The million dollar? What

0:23:05.280 --> 0:23:07.479
<v Speaker 1>the million dollar? A little Part three things, Yeah, they

0:23:07.520 --> 0:23:09.879
<v Speaker 1>are they actually they are very incredibly sweet people, an

0:23:09.880 --> 0:23:15.159
<v Speaker 1>amazing family. But what is your handicap? Though? So what

0:23:15.240 --> 0:23:18.120
<v Speaker 1>does that mean? That means? So every all the wise

0:23:18.200 --> 0:23:21.200
<v Speaker 1>out there that watch that that are have to watch.

0:23:21.400 --> 0:23:23.879
<v Speaker 1>Here's here's so if you're well, if you're watching a

0:23:23.960 --> 0:23:27.200
<v Speaker 1>PG event, those guys are pluses. They're like, so, but

0:23:27.640 --> 0:23:29.439
<v Speaker 1>let's say the best is a scratch, which means it's

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<v Speaker 1>a zero. You're just you're playing good enough that you

0:23:31.560 --> 0:23:34.480
<v Speaker 1>can play straight up golf, no strokes, not anything. When

0:23:34.560 --> 0:23:37.320
<v Speaker 1>you get a handicap a one to three four, I'm

0:23:37.359 --> 0:23:41.280
<v Speaker 1>a nine, that means you need strokes, you're not as

0:23:41.400 --> 0:23:44.160
<v Speaker 1>good as a pro. So the handicap system just evens

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<v Speaker 1>the playing field for everybody. So you and I could

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<v Speaker 1>play golf together. I just heard so like a woman version,

0:23:51.640 --> 0:23:54.920
<v Speaker 1>it's kind of okay because because guy's version is benching,

0:23:55.000 --> 0:23:57.639
<v Speaker 1>what's the women's version of for a woman? It's like, okay,

0:23:58.520 --> 0:24:00.960
<v Speaker 1>do you shop at Like that's not going to go

0:24:01.040 --> 0:24:04.600
<v Speaker 1>over well, hold on, let me swever. Can you put

0:24:04.680 --> 0:24:08.480
<v Speaker 1>this in hashtag terms? It's like hashtag blessed or like

0:24:08.640 --> 0:24:12.239
<v Speaker 1>hashtag winning, like winning, you're a p G a pro

0:24:12.800 --> 0:24:16.320
<v Speaker 1>you're blessed. Your hashtag blessed right now? What's hashtag sin nudes?

0:24:17.400 --> 0:24:21.520
<v Speaker 1>I'd say that's probably like yeah, because you're kind of you.

0:24:23.880 --> 0:24:27.479
<v Speaker 1>It's a spectrum from so handicap system is hashtag blessed?

0:24:28.080 --> 0:24:33.879
<v Speaker 1>Really good guys to hashtag sin nudes. I'm I was

0:24:34.440 --> 0:24:38.040
<v Speaker 1>in the beginning. We just totally figured this out. Okay, okay,

0:24:38.119 --> 0:24:42.080
<v Speaker 1>let's we're gonna let you go. So, yeah, you go.

0:24:42.320 --> 0:24:46.439
<v Speaker 1>I'm busy. I gotta play off tomorrow. We are eighty

0:24:46.480 --> 0:24:50.800
<v Speaker 1>eight balls in the air. What does that mean? I'm kidding.

0:24:53.040 --> 0:25:00.600
<v Speaker 1>If you have to ask, you're not doing it right. Goodbye. Okay, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>So a lot of you, if you're like me, it's

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<v Speaker 1>yourself being lazy and you don't feel like you have

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<v Speaker 1>I get it, Okay, I have the same battle that

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<v Speaker 1>So we address the belittling thing, which again I am

0:26:34.280 --> 0:26:36.480
<v Speaker 1>very sorry and I'm very sarcastic. So I apologize to

0:26:36.600 --> 0:26:41.040
<v Speaker 1>listeners that I do offend out there because you're not

0:26:41.160 --> 0:26:47.159
<v Speaker 1>of thelogies say because they say that I'm being too

0:26:47.200 --> 0:26:48.680
<v Speaker 1>harsh on you, and then some of them are like,

0:26:48.680 --> 0:26:50.440
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to listen anymore because you BELI like you.

0:26:50.600 --> 0:26:52.760
<v Speaker 1>You're belittling your husband and your beats. So I don't

0:26:52.760 --> 0:26:56.159
<v Speaker 1>want them to think that I would you say they do,

0:26:56.400 --> 0:26:58.320
<v Speaker 1>But I also like, I love you and we like.

0:26:58.480 --> 0:27:00.960
<v Speaker 1>That's not like I think for me, I just I

0:27:01.040 --> 0:27:03.000
<v Speaker 1>try to be funny and sometimes it comes off and

0:27:03.040 --> 0:27:05.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm very sarcastic, so it can come off a little harsh.

0:27:05.240 --> 0:27:07.920
<v Speaker 1>So I know, which you know, yes, other people don't know.

0:27:08.040 --> 0:27:10.359
<v Speaker 1>So I want to apologize for that people think, because

0:27:10.400 --> 0:27:12.480
<v Speaker 1>that's not I have a really hard time. I don't

0:27:12.480 --> 0:27:14.080
<v Speaker 1>want people to not like me. I know that's I

0:27:14.160 --> 0:27:16.119
<v Speaker 1>show start, but I just have a really tough time

0:27:16.160 --> 0:27:18.399
<v Speaker 1>with this. When I read these comments, it hurts, you know,

0:27:18.440 --> 0:27:20.040
<v Speaker 1>I just feel bad because I already know that it

0:27:20.080 --> 0:27:23.000
<v Speaker 1>doesn't hurt you because you know, we know each other

0:27:23.119 --> 0:27:27.720
<v Speaker 1>and we play around, doesn't Well, No, last week, yeah, yeah,

0:27:29.560 --> 0:27:31.720
<v Speaker 1>I know the line and last week was a line,

0:27:31.800 --> 0:27:34.800
<v Speaker 1>and clearly they saw me address it. Yes, you were hurt,

0:27:34.880 --> 0:27:37.640
<v Speaker 1>but it was but then it was like figured out

0:27:38.119 --> 0:27:39.119
<v Speaker 1>by the end, you know what I mean. Like I

0:27:39.160 --> 0:27:41.440
<v Speaker 1>feel like every time we leave it's like, okay, we're good. Yeah, yeah,

0:27:41.560 --> 0:27:43.119
<v Speaker 1>for the most part. But yeah, no, I mean I

0:27:43.119 --> 0:27:45.560
<v Speaker 1>think it's just again that's sarcasm, and but last week's

0:27:46.080 --> 0:27:47.760
<v Speaker 1>percent right, like that was that was wrong with me.

0:27:47.880 --> 0:27:50.520
<v Speaker 1>So I do clearly apologize, but I know, I just

0:27:51.080 --> 0:27:54.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm just a very sarcastic person and sometimes I get insecure.

0:27:54.200 --> 0:27:57.640
<v Speaker 1>And that's how that's why trying to know. Mike knows,

0:27:57.720 --> 0:27:59.720
<v Speaker 1>you know, I know, but everyone else doesn't know. I know.

0:28:00.280 --> 0:28:01.760
<v Speaker 1>So there's something else I want to talk about. I'm

0:28:01.760 --> 0:28:03.680
<v Speaker 1>not really ready to talk about it yet, So we're

0:28:03.720 --> 0:28:05.440
<v Speaker 1>gonna talk about it at the end of the show

0:28:05.480 --> 0:28:08.840
<v Speaker 1>because it's it's disturbing. It's disturbing, Yeah, for sure, it's

0:28:08.840 --> 0:28:13.879
<v Speaker 1>something happened last night, and yeah, it's like, you know,

0:28:14.080 --> 0:28:16.159
<v Speaker 1>literally it makes me want to throw up. And but

0:28:16.160 --> 0:28:18.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to talk about now because I'm still

0:28:18.160 --> 0:28:20.560
<v Speaker 1>having a good time, because we're still we're still high,

0:28:20.600 --> 0:28:22.320
<v Speaker 1>and we're still waiting for time to walk through the

0:28:22.400 --> 0:28:26.000
<v Speaker 1>door exactly. So let's go there, you guys. I just like,

0:28:26.080 --> 0:28:28.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't know you guys, ties here, ties here, tight

0:28:28.320 --> 0:28:30.800
<v Speaker 1>in the building, is in the building, is like, we

0:28:30.920 --> 0:28:34.399
<v Speaker 1>just had to steps away. We all should. Mike, you

0:28:35.680 --> 0:28:39.520
<v Speaker 1>could have to. I just just come like, we're just

0:28:39.600 --> 0:28:42.640
<v Speaker 1>gonna be talking. You know what. He was scared, heed,

0:28:43.040 --> 0:28:48.080
<v Speaker 1>No one, I'm scared say it to her. One thousand

0:28:48.160 --> 0:28:50.959
<v Speaker 1>percent afraid of me. Everybody hates and he goes, oh,

0:28:51.000 --> 0:28:54.320
<v Speaker 1>he doesn't hate you, he loves you. No. But then

0:28:54.400 --> 0:28:56.160
<v Speaker 1>Mike goes, oh, I got your back. I'm like, oh,

0:28:56.280 --> 0:29:02.560
<v Speaker 1>do you sean to play? And you guys, but time

0:29:02.640 --> 0:29:04.680
<v Speaker 1>might be walked like doors right now, and you guys

0:29:04.720 --> 0:29:06.520
<v Speaker 1>will hear a scream if it happens. Okay, So hey,

0:29:06.600 --> 0:29:12.120
<v Speaker 1>wells babe, come here. Wells Adam, I like that. I

0:29:12.200 --> 0:29:20.760
<v Speaker 1>have a very hard time. You have a new podcast.

0:29:21.920 --> 0:29:25.960
<v Speaker 1>We're starting with starting with getting let's get the business

0:29:25.960 --> 0:29:28.920
<v Speaker 1>out of the way. Bradcast the Hills just coming back.

0:29:29.000 --> 0:29:31.960
<v Speaker 1>Did you know that? So I was never a Hills girl,

0:29:32.360 --> 0:29:36.960
<v Speaker 1>never watched Hill. I'm sorry, that's no. I think it

0:29:37.080 --> 0:29:39.160
<v Speaker 1>was not my generation. What are you talking about? I

0:29:39.200 --> 0:29:41.240
<v Speaker 1>feel like we're the same generation. We're not. How old

0:29:41.240 --> 0:29:46.320
<v Speaker 1>are you? It's not your generation, we're different generations. One year.

0:29:47.400 --> 0:29:49.720
<v Speaker 1>Jena tells me this all the time, and we're two

0:29:49.840 --> 0:29:54.080
<v Speaker 1>years apart and three. I'm sorry three, it's three and

0:29:54.160 --> 0:30:01.360
<v Speaker 1>two months. I'm thirty one, so technically, I'm sorry. Did

0:30:01.440 --> 0:30:06.360
<v Speaker 1>you watch The Hills? No, that's okay, okay, it's okay

0:30:06.400 --> 0:30:08.720
<v Speaker 1>for him, it's not for me. It's not okay for you.

0:30:08.880 --> 0:30:11.360
<v Speaker 1>I just feel like it was my generation and I was.

0:30:11.560 --> 0:30:13.720
<v Speaker 1>I was, it was it was it was our generation.

0:30:14.080 --> 0:30:18.720
<v Speaker 1>I don't think so. Well whatever, it's coming back, right, Yeah?

0:30:18.760 --> 0:30:22.880
<v Speaker 1>What about the O C? Do you watch that? Wat? Right?

0:30:22.920 --> 0:30:30.160
<v Speaker 1>So the O C was the amalgamation of that show? Yeah,

0:30:31.160 --> 0:30:33.959
<v Speaker 1>well came first. The o C came first, and then

0:30:34.000 --> 0:30:38.840
<v Speaker 1>they made a reality TV show for it called Laguna Beach,

0:30:38.880 --> 0:30:41.560
<v Speaker 1>and then after that became The Hills. Anyways, the Hills

0:30:41.600 --> 0:30:43.960
<v Speaker 1>are coming back, that's all that you really need to

0:30:44.000 --> 0:30:47.440
<v Speaker 1>know about. I watched Laguna Beach. Okay, that's what that

0:30:47.560 --> 0:30:50.440
<v Speaker 1>was my generation. That was cavy, that was cavalary. And

0:30:50.560 --> 0:30:52.239
<v Speaker 1>but then I didn't watch the Hills because that went

0:30:52.360 --> 0:30:55.440
<v Speaker 1>more Lauren Conrad, right, and I was more of a cavalary.

0:30:55.680 --> 0:30:59.680
<v Speaker 1>But but but Cavalary took over the Hills in the middle.

0:31:00.080 --> 0:31:01.560
<v Speaker 1>She did. But at that point I was already I

0:31:02.520 --> 0:31:04.840
<v Speaker 1>was Beach was my thing, and then I was done. Anyways,

0:31:04.880 --> 0:31:07.600
<v Speaker 1>it's coming back. That's what you need to know about.

0:31:07.960 --> 0:31:10.560
<v Speaker 1>This is the important part, all right. But I don't

0:31:10.600 --> 0:31:13.200
<v Speaker 1>care that you didn't watch it. I care that you

0:31:13.480 --> 0:31:16.760
<v Speaker 1>listen to my podcast. Now, that's the important thing. So

0:31:16.840 --> 0:31:20.440
<v Speaker 1>why are you just a huge Hills fan? I don't

0:31:20.480 --> 0:31:22.560
<v Speaker 1>even care? When why do you? Why is it called

0:31:22.680 --> 0:31:26.360
<v Speaker 1>the Pratt Cast when it should be called Wells Hills

0:31:26.480 --> 0:31:29.440
<v Speaker 1>the Wells No, no, no, no, okay. So Stephanie Pratt,

0:31:29.840 --> 0:31:34.800
<v Speaker 1>who's Spencer Pratt's brother, her sister, excuse me. Pratt was

0:31:34.840 --> 0:31:42.320
<v Speaker 1>like the he was g William the wife. Who's the wife? Yes,

0:31:42.600 --> 0:31:44.680
<v Speaker 1>and she's the one that's something worked on. There's a picture.

0:31:45.520 --> 0:31:48.600
<v Speaker 1>What did you say? Nothing? Okay? Well, no, I feel

0:31:48.600 --> 0:31:50.560
<v Speaker 1>bad because she's not like, but they addressed on the show,

0:31:50.560 --> 0:31:53.040
<v Speaker 1>so it's totally fine because I think so. Anyways, Um,

0:31:54.320 --> 0:31:58.360
<v Speaker 1>Steph has a new podcast and were you guys friends? No,

0:31:58.560 --> 0:32:00.440
<v Speaker 1>not at all, but I feel like that this need

0:32:00.560 --> 0:32:03.360
<v Speaker 1>why are you doing this good question? And I'm gonna

0:32:03.360 --> 0:32:07.000
<v Speaker 1>address it right now. A little bit of train wreck

0:32:08.320 --> 0:32:10.080
<v Speaker 1>and I feel like someone needed to keep her on

0:32:10.120 --> 0:32:12.080
<v Speaker 1>the rails, which I feel like that's what I am.

0:32:12.440 --> 0:32:15.200
<v Speaker 1>So you're because you're great. I'm a conductor. I'm a

0:32:15.320 --> 0:32:19.040
<v Speaker 1>train conductor. Because you've been doing radio for I was

0:32:19.120 --> 0:32:22.800
<v Speaker 1>sixteen years old, dude. My first radio shows happened like

0:32:23.760 --> 0:32:26.760
<v Speaker 1>four miles from where we are right now. Yeah, when

0:32:26.800 --> 0:32:28.600
<v Speaker 1>I was when I was in high school, I did

0:32:28.640 --> 0:32:31.320
<v Speaker 1>a radio show at Robert Louis Stephens when she's right

0:32:31.360 --> 0:32:34.080
<v Speaker 1>down the street at ninety one point nine Case Web

0:32:34.240 --> 0:32:39.120
<v Speaker 1>Radio Stevenson And now I'm here now now I'm doing

0:32:39.160 --> 0:32:47.000
<v Speaker 1>our podcast in a hotel room. Couple of girls. Okay,

0:32:47.040 --> 0:32:48.920
<v Speaker 1>so you have not only the podcast, but you also

0:32:48.920 --> 0:32:51.920
<v Speaker 1>have another podcast, right, Yes, I do one with Brandy Cyrus,

0:32:51.960 --> 0:32:55.640
<v Speaker 1>who's Miley's older sister. It's called Your Favorite Thing, and

0:32:55.680 --> 0:32:58.320
<v Speaker 1>it's like the dumbest podcast in the world. Where we

0:32:58.560 --> 0:33:02.880
<v Speaker 1>just promotion, dude, I know. But like every podcast is

0:33:02.920 --> 0:33:05.200
<v Speaker 1>the dumbest podcast you ever listened to. If you only

0:33:05.240 --> 0:33:16.400
<v Speaker 1>do podcasts with famous people's siblings, Yes, that's true. What's

0:33:16.440 --> 0:33:20.040
<v Speaker 1>another famous sibling? I can get you find somebody home? Man?

0:33:20.160 --> 0:33:24.880
<v Speaker 1>What's Paul Rudd's sister's names Not Chris not but the

0:33:25.000 --> 0:33:28.840
<v Speaker 1>other one, Mike. I think his name is Luke. I

0:33:28.880 --> 0:33:31.960
<v Speaker 1>think I should know that. I should know that because

0:33:32.000 --> 0:33:34.680
<v Speaker 1>that's Brandy's brother in law. But whatever. Um, but you

0:33:34.800 --> 0:33:38.000
<v Speaker 1>enjoy doing both equally. Your favorite thing podcast is just

0:33:38.160 --> 0:33:40.240
<v Speaker 1>us talking about whatever our favorite things that week. So

0:33:40.360 --> 0:33:43.800
<v Speaker 1>it's like binge worthy stuff, music, news, whatever. It's just

0:33:44.600 --> 0:33:48.840
<v Speaker 1>escape into. There's just so much crap and negativity in

0:33:48.880 --> 0:33:52.640
<v Speaker 1>the world, so that the idea of the podcast. Yes, yes,

0:33:53.120 --> 0:33:59.360
<v Speaker 1>like you're this guy over here, um, so we we

0:33:59.480 --> 0:34:00.840
<v Speaker 1>just wanted to do a podcast where we just talk

0:34:00.880 --> 0:34:03.360
<v Speaker 1>about what we like in the world, which is like

0:34:03.600 --> 0:34:05.400
<v Speaker 1>a weird thing because it's so easy to talk about

0:34:05.400 --> 0:34:08.839
<v Speaker 1>what we hate. Right, So that's that podcast. And of course,

0:34:08.960 --> 0:34:12.480
<v Speaker 1>can you give me an example right now? This is funny,

0:34:12.880 --> 0:34:17.440
<v Speaker 1>but not funny. I have been binging the Ted Bundy

0:34:18.000 --> 0:34:20.480
<v Speaker 1>I almost right, I almost said that for you, I

0:34:20.520 --> 0:34:24.279
<v Speaker 1>almost said, like Ted Bundy, yeah, it's got It's not

0:34:24.440 --> 0:34:26.560
<v Speaker 1>everything because like when people died, but like it's my

0:34:26.640 --> 0:34:29.680
<v Speaker 1>favorite thing because it's so good to watch. Right, it's

0:34:29.719 --> 0:34:35.000
<v Speaker 1>fascinating because that happened when we were young, but we

0:34:35.120 --> 0:34:38.160
<v Speaker 1>weren't yet. We weren't old enough to understand what was

0:34:38.200 --> 0:34:40.759
<v Speaker 1>going on as he broke out a jail twice. What

0:34:40.920 --> 0:34:44.360
<v Speaker 1>a genius after and he planned it. Spoiler alert everyone,

0:34:44.680 --> 0:34:48.239
<v Speaker 1>spoiler by the way, haven't been following Teddy? We're doing

0:34:48.320 --> 0:34:50.799
<v Speaker 1>that funny though, you watch these things just like when

0:34:50.840 --> 0:34:53.520
<v Speaker 1>the f said the the O J. Simpson, Yeah, like

0:34:53.640 --> 0:34:55.520
<v Speaker 1>it was so well done. You like, what's going to happen?

0:34:55.760 --> 0:35:00.200
<v Speaker 1>Everyone know what's going to happen? Was dude, he breaks

0:35:00.200 --> 0:35:02.400
<v Speaker 1>out of jail one time, and then you'd think the

0:35:02.480 --> 0:35:04.880
<v Speaker 1>second time they'd be like, let's just keep unlock and

0:35:04.960 --> 0:35:09.120
<v Speaker 1>keep no no go through because he has great bone

0:35:09.160 --> 0:35:11.000
<v Speaker 1>structure and good hair. They're just like letting him do

0:35:11.040 --> 0:35:12.960
<v Speaker 1>what he wants. Zac Efron, where are you at? Not

0:35:13.560 --> 0:35:15.759
<v Speaker 1>not there for it? Have you heard that Netflix has

0:35:15.840 --> 0:35:19.840
<v Speaker 1>asked people to stop talking about how hot Ted Bundy is?

0:35:20.640 --> 0:35:23.800
<v Speaker 1>Disturbing it is and I had a weird googling of

0:35:23.920 --> 0:35:27.520
<v Speaker 1>the Melendez Menendez brothers. Yeah, I got. I went down

0:35:27.600 --> 0:35:31.640
<v Speaker 1>the rabbitue like thirty five minutes into Ted Bundy. You're like, oh,

0:35:32.239 --> 0:35:35.200
<v Speaker 1>like this wasn't a killer. This was like a super

0:35:35.280 --> 0:35:38.440
<v Speaker 1>creepy he was doing the first time the term serial

0:35:38.560 --> 0:35:42.319
<v Speaker 1>killer was bless you. Right. Also, did you guys see

0:35:42.360 --> 0:35:45.560
<v Speaker 1>that thing where it was like posting all of their horoscopes? No,

0:35:46.000 --> 0:35:49.320
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, obviously I was very into it. It

0:35:49.400 --> 0:35:53.279
<v Speaker 1>posted like every horoscope of every serial killer. There weren't

0:35:53.280 --> 0:35:56.040
<v Speaker 1>any scorpios. I just want to say that what was

0:35:56.120 --> 0:36:00.320
<v Speaker 1>the number one? What's a Honestly, they're an I'm not

0:36:00.440 --> 0:36:02.560
<v Speaker 1>even being like psychoed. There was a lot of Sagittarius

0:36:02.719 --> 0:36:06.880
<v Speaker 1>and a lot of you know, who's a sage? Who?

0:36:07.160 --> 0:36:15.040
<v Speaker 1>You know? My girlfriend love that show definitely, so yeah,

0:36:15.880 --> 0:36:19.640
<v Speaker 1>she'll kill me. It's fine. I'm totally I'm totally cool

0:36:19.719 --> 0:36:21.520
<v Speaker 1>with you know what's funny? I posted it and a

0:36:21.600 --> 0:36:24.160
<v Speaker 1>bunch of people came into my d ms and we're like, oh, really,

0:36:24.160 --> 0:36:26.319
<v Speaker 1>because like I'm a Virgo and I I was like really,

0:36:26.320 --> 0:36:29.400
<v Speaker 1>because you're getting mad at me. Ted Bundy's a Sagittarius.

0:36:29.760 --> 0:36:32.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to say it. But how does that

0:36:32.600 --> 0:36:38.839
<v Speaker 1>make you feel a little close to home? Female and male?

0:36:40.320 --> 0:36:42.440
<v Speaker 1>How does it make me feel? Absolutely? Sagittarious men are

0:36:42.440 --> 0:36:47.000
<v Speaker 1>way different sagittarious women. Yeah, anyway, I did one time.

0:36:47.040 --> 0:36:49.520
<v Speaker 1>I will never do it again. That's all. Well, aren't

0:36:49.520 --> 0:36:51.000
<v Speaker 1>you glad you told us that you're watching Ted Bundy?

0:36:51.239 --> 0:36:57.000
<v Speaker 1>So anyways, my podcast is a super fun time. Where

0:36:57.000 --> 0:37:00.680
<v Speaker 1>are we talking about serial killers? That's kind of the idea.

0:37:00.760 --> 0:37:02.480
<v Speaker 1>Let's get back to you. Well, let's do it. Where

0:37:02.520 --> 0:37:05.160
<v Speaker 1>do you see this going? Like? Do you want to

0:37:05.200 --> 0:37:07.359
<v Speaker 1>be the Ryan Seacrest? Do you want to be um?

0:37:08.600 --> 0:37:09.680
<v Speaker 1>Do you want to be a host? Do you want

0:37:09.719 --> 0:37:11.759
<v Speaker 1>to be? Like? What where do you want to go

0:37:12.160 --> 0:37:16.480
<v Speaker 1>with your radio career? I get that a lot, like

0:37:16.640 --> 0:37:20.120
<v Speaker 1>people trying to make stereotype I guess, or like a

0:37:20.520 --> 0:37:23.279
<v Speaker 1>like equate you to other people. And I don't know.

0:37:23.440 --> 0:37:25.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to be the next Ryan Seacrest. I

0:37:25.800 --> 0:37:28.000
<v Speaker 1>don't want to be the next Chris Harrison. I want

0:37:28.040 --> 0:37:29.880
<v Speaker 1>to be just me, Like can I just be the

0:37:30.040 --> 0:37:31.960
<v Speaker 1>thing that I But is that hosting TV? Is that

0:37:32.040 --> 0:37:34.319
<v Speaker 1>That's what I mean? Like like doing a Ryan and Kelly?

0:37:34.400 --> 0:37:37.280
<v Speaker 1>Is it doing a you know? Yeah, I like hosting

0:37:37.360 --> 0:37:39.480
<v Speaker 1>stuff like I get the question a lot, do you

0:37:39.520 --> 0:37:40.759
<v Speaker 1>want to be an actor? I do not want to

0:37:40.800 --> 0:37:42.680
<v Speaker 1>be an actor. I live with an actor, and it

0:37:42.920 --> 0:37:45.440
<v Speaker 1>seems like the worst job in the world. Like it's

0:37:45.560 --> 0:37:48.440
<v Speaker 1>enough just to be me. I can't imagine being other people.

0:37:49.280 --> 0:37:51.160
<v Speaker 1>Like how crazy is that? Like I gotta I gotta

0:37:51.160 --> 0:37:54.680
<v Speaker 1>pretend to be someone different than men. This is already

0:37:54.760 --> 0:37:57.839
<v Speaker 1>too much. You get to escape yourself. I don't even

0:37:57.880 --> 0:37:59.800
<v Speaker 1>know how you do that. I don't know if the

0:38:00.120 --> 0:38:03.160
<v Speaker 1>does this when you guys are together. But I'll just

0:38:03.239 --> 0:38:05.760
<v Speaker 1>be walking through the house. I hear Janna just talking

0:38:06.280 --> 0:38:09.040
<v Speaker 1>out loud, and I'm like, huh, you're talking to me.

0:38:09.200 --> 0:38:11.719
<v Speaker 1>It's like looking at the wall. But she's really just

0:38:11.800 --> 0:38:13.480
<v Speaker 1>reading lines. Do you have to run lines with her?

0:38:14.080 --> 0:38:18.640
<v Speaker 1>And he? Are you good at it? Okay? So I

0:38:19.200 --> 0:38:21.920
<v Speaker 1>love you so so. One of our good couple of

0:38:22.000 --> 0:38:25.479
<v Speaker 1>friends is Trevor and Alex and Trevor is an actor.

0:38:25.520 --> 0:38:29.399
<v Speaker 1>He's on this show called Magicians, and he came over

0:38:30.280 --> 0:38:31.640
<v Speaker 1>and he was like, dude, I got a new game.

0:38:32.000 --> 0:38:34.640
<v Speaker 1>And it's called the two and a half minute Actor

0:38:35.320 --> 0:38:37.840
<v Speaker 1>and all the two and a half second actor and

0:38:38.040 --> 0:38:40.960
<v Speaker 1>all it is. It would be like you set the scene,

0:38:41.000 --> 0:38:43.920
<v Speaker 1>and it'll be like this just sucks because this is radius.

0:38:43.960 --> 0:38:46.080
<v Speaker 1>You can't see us, but it'd be like, um, you

0:38:46.239 --> 0:38:51.560
<v Speaker 1>just found out that's your mom cheated on your dad,

0:38:52.120 --> 0:38:55.640
<v Speaker 1>and so then you have to like and it just

0:38:55.760 --> 0:38:58.120
<v Speaker 1>do and have seconds of that one thing just like

0:39:02.680 --> 0:39:04.279
<v Speaker 1>so then you do, and it's really fun to do

0:39:04.360 --> 0:39:06.880
<v Speaker 1>with actors because I'm not an actor. So then so

0:39:07.120 --> 0:39:12.560
<v Speaker 1>I overdo it right, My girlfriends like, you're horrible at this,

0:39:13.640 --> 0:39:17.800
<v Speaker 1>but also not the worst at this. Yeah, Mike is.

0:39:18.000 --> 0:39:19.920
<v Speaker 1>Mike is incredible at reading lines with me, like I

0:39:20.000 --> 0:39:23.800
<v Speaker 1>actually enjoy I'd rather self tape and put my audition

0:39:23.840 --> 0:39:26.640
<v Speaker 1>on tape because he's so great. He gives more than

0:39:26.840 --> 0:39:28.520
<v Speaker 1>but tell him about that one time we were reading

0:39:28.560 --> 0:39:33.360
<v Speaker 1>that audition scene, so we were he was supposed to

0:39:33.360 --> 0:39:35.960
<v Speaker 1>be like my war husband and I'm his wife and

0:39:36.719 --> 0:39:40.799
<v Speaker 1>go ahead. It was actually like Dwayne Johnson like you're

0:39:40.840 --> 0:39:43.520
<v Speaker 1>the rock. Yeah, basically it was the rock. They should

0:39:43.520 --> 0:39:45.160
<v Speaker 1>just give him part to me. But it was some

0:39:45.320 --> 0:39:47.839
<v Speaker 1>military thing and I had to scream some tramatic line

0:39:47.920 --> 0:39:50.880
<v Speaker 1>like my men needed me, and then I go I

0:39:51.040 --> 0:39:53.120
<v Speaker 1>needed you, And every time I did that, he just

0:39:53.160 --> 0:39:56.680
<v Speaker 1>started and it took us like hours to finish that. Literally,

0:39:56.719 --> 0:40:00.000
<v Speaker 1>we were in the laundry at the old house. He's

0:40:00.200 --> 0:40:03.320
<v Speaker 1>moment I needed you to be like balling, crying, and

0:40:03.400 --> 0:40:07.040
<v Speaker 1>he just couldn't. Every time, every I've only done a

0:40:07.120 --> 0:40:09.640
<v Speaker 1>couple of times, but every time I do run lines

0:40:09.680 --> 0:40:13.279
<v Speaker 1>with her, I will do the total whole thing where

0:40:13.280 --> 0:40:15.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, that's not that funny. If it said this,

0:40:15.400 --> 0:40:17.839
<v Speaker 1>this would be funnier, and I'll like to start rewriting

0:40:17.840 --> 0:40:20.400
<v Speaker 1>the script and they're like, I just know your role, buddy,

0:40:20.600 --> 0:40:23.560
<v Speaker 1>just say what's rented And that's fine. By the way,

0:40:23.640 --> 0:40:27.120
<v Speaker 1>for everyone listening, um, Wells is dating Sarah Hyland, who

0:40:27.200 --> 0:40:30.279
<v Speaker 1>is a star of Modern Family. So how is that

0:40:30.960 --> 0:40:32.800
<v Speaker 1>dating such a I mean, she's on one of the

0:40:32.880 --> 0:40:35.759
<v Speaker 1>most famous shows on TV, So how is that with

0:40:35.920 --> 0:40:40.120
<v Speaker 1>dating such a famous Later, I don't know. I guess

0:40:40.160 --> 0:40:43.320
<v Speaker 1>it's weird, but it's not. I don't know. Props to

0:40:43.440 --> 0:40:46.359
<v Speaker 1>Modern Family and ABC. They just sign on for an

0:40:46.360 --> 0:40:49.520
<v Speaker 1>eleventh season, so everyone's are excited about that. That's amazing

0:40:49.800 --> 0:40:52.600
<v Speaker 1>the fact that it's so really weird. Like, I don't know,

0:40:52.640 --> 0:40:54.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what your show was growing up, but

0:40:54.640 --> 0:40:57.160
<v Speaker 1>for me it was Seinfeld. A lot of people was

0:40:57.440 --> 0:41:00.239
<v Speaker 1>friends you know, there's a lot of those shows, and

0:41:00.840 --> 0:41:03.160
<v Speaker 1>it's weird when you're like living in the middle of it.

0:41:04.080 --> 0:41:06.600
<v Speaker 1>When you're around, like when you're living in the middle

0:41:06.640 --> 0:41:09.520
<v Speaker 1>of the storm, you don't realize how crazy it is.

0:41:10.080 --> 0:41:13.120
<v Speaker 1>But Modern Family is like a Seinfeld right like the

0:41:13.200 --> 0:41:16.399
<v Speaker 1>last decade. Absolutely it's gonna be it's a big bang,

0:41:16.480 --> 0:41:19.959
<v Speaker 1>like it's a show, like it's huge, and while she's

0:41:20.040 --> 0:41:22.160
<v Speaker 1>doing it, like it's cool and like I love the show.

0:41:22.200 --> 0:41:26.719
<v Speaker 1>I think it's funny. Uh. I don't think I realize

0:41:27.920 --> 0:41:31.000
<v Speaker 1>how impactful it is because we're living in the middle

0:41:31.000 --> 0:41:34.879
<v Speaker 1>of the eye right now. You know. Um, obviously it's

0:41:35.080 --> 0:41:38.880
<v Speaker 1>it's an amazing show and like it's changing everything and

0:41:39.160 --> 0:41:41.160
<v Speaker 1>it'll see it'll be interesting to see like what happens

0:41:41.239 --> 0:41:46.040
<v Speaker 1>going forward. Um, but like I don't know, Like you've

0:41:46.280 --> 0:41:50.200
<v Speaker 1>met Sarah, Like she's a huge dork. Like so when

0:41:50.280 --> 0:41:53.720
<v Speaker 1>you asked me, like, what's it like dating uh an actress?

0:41:54.000 --> 0:41:56.719
<v Speaker 1>I think, I don't know. I'm dating a huge nerd.

0:41:57.440 --> 0:42:00.959
<v Speaker 1>I love her to death a year and a half.

0:42:01.480 --> 0:42:05.680
<v Speaker 1>So is she the one? Oh for sure? Yeah? When's

0:42:05.920 --> 0:42:08.560
<v Speaker 1>the rain coming? Don't I don't know about that. That's

0:42:08.560 --> 0:42:12.840
<v Speaker 1>a lot of confidence around that was really sweet. That

0:42:12.960 --> 0:42:21.160
<v Speaker 1>was very genuine, So Ted Bunny, no, no, no, no, no,

0:42:21.280 --> 0:42:23.719
<v Speaker 1>no time about feeling bad for you. But also I

0:42:23.840 --> 0:42:25.440
<v Speaker 1>just bit my lip because I was gonna say something

0:42:25.480 --> 0:42:28.640
<v Speaker 1>me and I was like, nope, Janet, censor, I want

0:42:28.640 --> 0:42:33.719
<v Speaker 1>to hear not to you, to my husband. We don't

0:42:33.719 --> 0:42:37.279
<v Speaker 1>need any more bad comments one of us. No no,

0:42:37.400 --> 0:42:40.080
<v Speaker 1>because I'm oh, I thought that was Oh my god,

0:42:40.120 --> 0:42:48.319
<v Speaker 1>I thought that was Wayne. I almost died. Sorry, that's

0:42:48.360 --> 0:42:51.440
<v Speaker 1>my brother. Sorry sorry I thought Wayne Gretzky just walked in.

0:42:51.640 --> 0:42:56.400
<v Speaker 1>But it's just wells brother, Brett, Brett, it's not the

0:42:56.480 --> 0:42:59.439
<v Speaker 1>great one. Kid is really sweet and Sarah is lucky

0:42:59.440 --> 0:43:00.719
<v Speaker 1>to have you because you are a great guy. So

0:43:00.960 --> 0:43:03.320
<v Speaker 1>thanks for coming on the podcast. You guys listen to

0:43:03.400 --> 0:43:08.160
<v Speaker 1>his podcast it again Broadcast number one. Uh all. Then

0:43:08.239 --> 0:43:11.919
<v Speaker 1>i'd also do your favorite thing, and thanks for coming

0:43:11.920 --> 0:43:15.200
<v Speaker 1>on one down dude, Thanks for having me. It's been fun. Also,

0:43:15.239 --> 0:43:18.440
<v Speaker 1>we're supposed to play golf and build. No, I didn't bear.

0:43:18.560 --> 0:43:21.839
<v Speaker 1>We didn't come up till today? Did you text him? Yeah?

0:43:22.120 --> 0:43:25.200
<v Speaker 1>I said, And I said, dude, we're not coming up

0:43:25.239 --> 0:43:32.480
<v Speaker 1>till Friday. And I said whatever, I said, all right,

0:43:32.480 --> 0:43:34.640
<v Speaker 1>see you alright, guys, I gotta bring it up again

0:43:34.680 --> 0:43:39.080
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<v Speaker 1>dot com. Okay, so I had said that I wanted

0:44:33.160 --> 0:44:35.239
<v Speaker 1>to talk about something, not trying to bring it down

0:44:35.280 --> 0:44:41.160
<v Speaker 1>at all, but I something happened last night and obviously

0:44:41.360 --> 0:44:46.040
<v Speaker 1>scared me really really bad. So on the plane, um

0:44:46.400 --> 0:44:50.240
<v Speaker 1>this morning, when we're flying here, I basically asked Sarah

0:44:50.280 --> 0:44:52.800
<v Speaker 1>and Mike if if I should talk about it, A

0:44:53.160 --> 0:44:56.520
<v Speaker 1>and B would I get sued if I talk about it?

0:44:56.960 --> 0:45:01.400
<v Speaker 1>Because because I literally said techt Samy like one over

0:45:01.480 --> 0:45:04.040
<v Speaker 1>here will So I'm not be hearing a story in

0:45:04.080 --> 0:45:07.919
<v Speaker 1>a moment. No, Well, because I didn't want. I don't

0:45:07.920 --> 0:45:09.760
<v Speaker 1>want this to be slander because this isn't about slander.

0:45:09.800 --> 0:45:11.479
<v Speaker 1>I'm not trying to and I'm not even gonna say

0:45:13.280 --> 0:45:16.640
<v Speaker 1>because I just I'm not saying the company. I'm going

0:45:16.719 --> 0:45:18.920
<v Speaker 1>to post the photo on Instagram so you guys can

0:45:18.960 --> 0:45:21.880
<v Speaker 1>see it. Again. I'm not doing anything because I did

0:45:21.920 --> 0:45:25.960
<v Speaker 1>talk to the company after it happened, But you're gonna

0:45:26.000 --> 0:45:28.800
<v Speaker 1>post the photo. I'm going to post the photo I

0:45:30.040 --> 0:45:33.440
<v Speaker 1>because it needs to be seen because I don't want

0:45:33.480 --> 0:45:36.440
<v Speaker 1>them to take my word for it. Are you Are

0:45:36.480 --> 0:45:40.080
<v Speaker 1>you opposed to me posting it a little bit? Why? Um?

0:45:41.440 --> 0:45:48.280
<v Speaker 1>Because I'm it has nothing to do with the company

0:45:48.480 --> 0:45:52.560
<v Speaker 1>or you're doing something wrong. It's just more of like

0:45:53.960 --> 0:45:55.640
<v Speaker 1>I get your get your motivation to do it, but

0:45:55.920 --> 0:45:58.200
<v Speaker 1>it almost seems because it was such a kind of

0:45:58.239 --> 0:46:00.359
<v Speaker 1>a scary moment. I kind of said that the plane,

0:46:00.400 --> 0:46:03.680
<v Speaker 1>it kind of like seems like so personal as weird.

0:46:03.719 --> 0:46:06.719
<v Speaker 1>Does this sounds feel like that picture someone's kids? But

0:46:06.800 --> 0:46:09.239
<v Speaker 1>the picture is kind of like what's disturbing? But like

0:46:09.800 --> 0:46:11.880
<v Speaker 1>the first word that popped in my head was like gruesome.

0:46:12.040 --> 0:46:14.399
<v Speaker 1>Does that make sense with? And I don't. I don't

0:46:14.440 --> 0:46:17.000
<v Speaker 1>know if I want to picture even though it's it's

0:46:17.360 --> 0:46:20.879
<v Speaker 1>because because of the situation is disturbing. Like Sarah said,

0:46:22.040 --> 0:46:26.680
<v Speaker 1>that's hard to look at that, and that's okay, and

0:46:26.719 --> 0:46:28.120
<v Speaker 1>if you don't want me to then I won't. But

0:46:28.239 --> 0:46:31.279
<v Speaker 1>it's so bad that I think you can describe it

0:46:31.360 --> 0:46:33.279
<v Speaker 1>to a point where people will like be like oh

0:46:33.960 --> 0:46:37.239
<v Speaker 1>a stage like yeah, because like when you showed me

0:46:37.320 --> 0:46:39.000
<v Speaker 1>that I was not right, well I'm not okay. And

0:46:39.040 --> 0:46:40.919
<v Speaker 1>every time I keep staring at it and I sell

0:46:42.000 --> 0:46:44.279
<v Speaker 1>because like even when we weren't together, like an hour

0:46:44.480 --> 0:46:45.560
<v Speaker 1>like two hours ago, I was in bed and I

0:46:45.680 --> 0:46:48.839
<v Speaker 1>was like you, Like I just was like you play

0:46:48.920 --> 0:46:52.839
<v Speaker 1>that what if game? Over and over. So basically, uh,

0:46:53.920 --> 0:46:59.000
<v Speaker 1>we went to bed normal bedtime. Um, and at two

0:46:59.239 --> 0:47:02.720
<v Speaker 1>thirty in the morning, I woke up in complete panic.

0:47:03.120 --> 0:47:05.880
<v Speaker 1>There was no tears from Jason the other room, but

0:47:06.040 --> 0:47:11.359
<v Speaker 1>I just had the mom panic. I then, as a mom,

0:47:11.480 --> 0:47:14.000
<v Speaker 1>had the mom panic, looked at the monitor. Amy, let

0:47:14.040 --> 0:47:16.680
<v Speaker 1>me show you the photo. I looked in the monitor

0:47:16.760 --> 0:47:21.760
<v Speaker 1>and this is what I saw. That is the swaddle

0:47:22.280 --> 0:47:26.239
<v Speaker 1>completely over his face. I mean so over his face

0:47:27.000 --> 0:47:29.960
<v Speaker 1>that it looks like he's being suffocated. It looks like

0:47:30.000 --> 0:47:34.200
<v Speaker 1>he's being suffocated. And I my heart. I mean I

0:47:34.520 --> 0:47:36.600
<v Speaker 1>I jumped out of bed so fast and rain in

0:47:36.680 --> 0:47:39.440
<v Speaker 1>that room and I was like, he's not going to

0:47:39.520 --> 0:47:42.360
<v Speaker 1>be breathing when I opened this, this this swaddle, and

0:47:42.640 --> 0:47:45.200
<v Speaker 1>I unvelcried it and it's like he went He was

0:47:45.280 --> 0:47:49.360
<v Speaker 1>like like it came to and I mean, I I

0:47:49.600 --> 0:47:51.320
<v Speaker 1>in the Michael's is everything okay? And I just was

0:47:51.400 --> 0:47:53.600
<v Speaker 1>like I just started like bawling because I was like, no,

0:47:53.880 --> 0:47:57.680
<v Speaker 1>like and I know, first of all, I'm explained because

0:47:57.719 --> 0:48:00.960
<v Speaker 1>like for me, I didn't like explain how you I know,

0:48:01.320 --> 0:48:04.160
<v Speaker 1>I swaddled him correctly. I'm if it was anybody else

0:48:04.200 --> 0:48:05.800
<v Speaker 1>that'd been like, well you didn't swaddle him right, I

0:48:05.880 --> 0:48:09.360
<v Speaker 1>am a prince cent. Sure he has the appropriate size

0:48:09.400 --> 0:48:13.200
<v Speaker 1>for his weight. It was velcord right, because I'm you know,

0:48:13.239 --> 0:48:15.120
<v Speaker 1>I mean Michael. Every single time I'm like, no, Michael,

0:48:15.160 --> 0:48:17.520
<v Speaker 1>like this is like you know, or the whoever. I'm

0:48:17.560 --> 0:48:20.759
<v Speaker 1>like this is like I'm because I'm so terrified of that.

0:48:21.600 --> 0:48:24.280
<v Speaker 1>And so I know that as the mom, I swaddled

0:48:24.360 --> 0:48:26.920
<v Speaker 1>him correctly. But he has really bad reflux. So what

0:48:27.000 --> 0:48:28.960
<v Speaker 1>he does is he scooches a lot, and with this

0:48:29.120 --> 0:48:33.680
<v Speaker 1>company and the swaddle, it basically rode up on him

0:48:33.840 --> 0:48:36.360
<v Speaker 1>all the way. He literally had what was that like

0:48:36.600 --> 0:48:40.360
<v Speaker 1>that much on just the crown of his head showing,

0:48:40.440 --> 0:48:43.400
<v Speaker 1>and because I swallowed him so tight, it had the

0:48:43.800 --> 0:48:46.960
<v Speaker 1>part that was vlcoed around him rode up because he's

0:48:46.960 --> 0:48:51.000
<v Speaker 1>scooted down in it. And I reached out to the company.

0:48:51.040 --> 0:48:53.400
<v Speaker 1>I said, before I go off on you guys on

0:48:53.760 --> 0:48:56.040
<v Speaker 1>on you know, on social media, I want you to

0:48:56.080 --> 0:48:58.080
<v Speaker 1>explain to me how I did everything right. This is

0:48:58.160 --> 0:49:01.600
<v Speaker 1>the perfect size that aby like to them and they're like,

0:49:01.600 --> 0:49:03.879
<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, we're so sorry. You know, maybe he's

0:49:03.920 --> 0:49:06.080
<v Speaker 1>not supposed to be meant to be swaddled anymore. I'm like,

0:49:06.120 --> 0:49:09.040
<v Speaker 1>he's ten weeks old, like babies are swaddled until they're

0:49:09.200 --> 0:49:12.120
<v Speaker 1>five months old. Like this, this extra layer or this

0:49:12.200 --> 0:49:14.960
<v Speaker 1>thing that goes over him is so I don't even

0:49:14.960 --> 0:49:17.480
<v Speaker 1>know how to describe it. It's like a it's like

0:49:17.680 --> 0:49:22.000
<v Speaker 1>just a rap where he's in a zips like pouch basically,

0:49:22.120 --> 0:49:25.359
<v Speaker 1>and then the swaddle part is just it's just yeah,

0:49:25.960 --> 0:49:28.920
<v Speaker 1>almost separate from the actual swaddle. It's only attached on

0:49:28.960 --> 0:49:31.600
<v Speaker 1>the back, so it just goes over top of them. Well,

0:49:31.680 --> 0:49:34.560
<v Speaker 1>it got because because of the material, because of the

0:49:34.640 --> 0:49:38.960
<v Speaker 1>fleece material, it doesn't stay put like any friction with fleece.

0:49:39.200 --> 0:49:41.399
<v Speaker 1>It moves. Well that's what she said that the lady

0:49:41.440 --> 0:49:44.800
<v Speaker 1>that was talking to me on the Instagram said it's breathable.

0:49:44.880 --> 0:49:48.200
<v Speaker 1>I said, absolutely not. That is police material. There's a

0:49:48.560 --> 0:49:50.879
<v Speaker 1>percent not breathable. So the fact that they're promoting safe

0:49:50.920 --> 0:49:53.000
<v Speaker 1>sleep it just makes me so angry. So in the

0:49:53.080 --> 0:49:54.560
<v Speaker 1>middle of the night, I was like, I need to

0:49:54.680 --> 0:49:56.800
<v Speaker 1>make a safe swaddle. Long story short, I talked to

0:49:56.880 --> 0:49:59.520
<v Speaker 1>my girls and there's a there's a sleep stack out

0:49:59.520 --> 0:50:01.960
<v Speaker 1>there called the b that I want to promote every

0:50:02.040 --> 0:50:03.920
<v Speaker 1>single one of you guys out there. So whatever swaddle

0:50:03.960 --> 0:50:06.920
<v Speaker 1>you're using, please please please do your research. Because I

0:50:07.080 --> 0:50:09.640
<v Speaker 1>was not the only person that had this because I

0:50:09.719 --> 0:50:12.080
<v Speaker 1>went on the reviews and I showed Sarah and Michael

0:50:12.120 --> 0:50:16.440
<v Speaker 1>the reviews. Other people have had danger danger danger on

0:50:16.480 --> 0:50:20.120
<v Speaker 1>the same pictures of how Jason looked, and I just,

0:50:20.680 --> 0:50:22.319
<v Speaker 1>I mean, can you say that coming because I don't

0:50:22.360 --> 0:50:25.160
<v Speaker 1>want people to be This isn't like a bashing thing.

0:50:25.200 --> 0:50:27.200
<v Speaker 1>And you even said on the plane, You're like, I'm

0:50:27.360 --> 0:50:30.840
<v Speaker 1>literally concerned for like other next child, like because you

0:50:30.920 --> 0:50:32.800
<v Speaker 1>went and looked at pictures and there were other pictures

0:50:32.840 --> 0:50:34.600
<v Speaker 1>of little babies that this had happened to, and you're like,

0:50:34.960 --> 0:50:37.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't want this to happen to anyone else. So like,

0:50:37.320 --> 0:50:39.400
<v Speaker 1>this isn't about going on like I hate so and

0:50:39.480 --> 0:50:42.560
<v Speaker 1>so it's like, you know you you care about other people,

0:50:42.719 --> 0:50:45.040
<v Speaker 1>and that's what So Karen, who invented the woundy it's

0:50:45.160 --> 0:50:48.200
<v Speaker 1>w O M B i E. She same thing happened

0:50:48.239 --> 0:50:51.160
<v Speaker 1>to her things swaddles were either riding up over their

0:50:51.200 --> 0:50:53.360
<v Speaker 1>face or they were choking on the zippers. So she

0:50:53.560 --> 0:50:55.719
<v Speaker 1>made this swaddle it's a zip. You guys please look

0:50:55.760 --> 0:50:58.120
<v Speaker 1>it up because her story was incredible. So she basically

0:50:58.280 --> 0:51:02.960
<v Speaker 1>made the swaddle. And I've done so much research, has

0:51:03.400 --> 0:51:06.200
<v Speaker 1>you know how many hours about swaddles and which ones

0:51:06.239 --> 0:51:08.080
<v Speaker 1>are actually safe, but that that is the one that

0:51:08.080 --> 0:51:09.879
<v Speaker 1>all my girlfriends have used, and then kind of hearing

0:51:09.960 --> 0:51:12.280
<v Speaker 1>Karen's story too, and how you know that was happening

0:51:12.320 --> 0:51:14.440
<v Speaker 1>to her. It's just it's terrifying. I mean that was

0:51:14.560 --> 0:51:17.160
<v Speaker 1>the I'm still sick to my stomach about it, because

0:51:17.200 --> 0:51:18.880
<v Speaker 1>what if what if I did not wake up? What

0:51:19.040 --> 0:51:20.960
<v Speaker 1>if I did not have the mom instinct? What if?

0:51:21.680 --> 0:51:24.560
<v Speaker 1>And then what if it is making because like obviously

0:51:24.600 --> 0:51:28.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but like that mom intuition is real,

0:51:28.480 --> 0:51:30.600
<v Speaker 1>Like that's insane that you just like popped out of bed,

0:51:31.000 --> 0:51:33.480
<v Speaker 1>like it's crazy and I woke up like like something

0:51:33.600 --> 0:51:37.080
<v Speaker 1>you knew. That's just such a Is that the picture

0:51:37.160 --> 0:51:41.320
<v Speaker 1>from the monitor? Would you say? Yes? That is? I

0:51:41.320 --> 0:51:43.560
<v Speaker 1>don't want anyone thinking that if you do decide to

0:51:43.560 --> 0:51:48.400
<v Speaker 1>post it that you let no, no, she screenshot the

0:51:48.440 --> 0:51:51.160
<v Speaker 1>photo from the moment absolutely was recording. So I just

0:51:51.280 --> 0:51:53.040
<v Speaker 1>want everyone to know to not write us and go

0:51:53.160 --> 0:51:56.399
<v Speaker 1>oh no, no, no, no, no no, no, of course

0:51:56.480 --> 0:51:59.920
<v Speaker 1>of course not. Yeah, that was from the recording on them.

0:52:00.400 --> 0:52:04.200
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, terrifying. Yeah, I'm well, I'm glad you got

0:52:04.280 --> 0:52:06.360
<v Speaker 1>it off your chest. Yeah, and like got it. I

0:52:06.440 --> 0:52:08.120
<v Speaker 1>just but I just want everyone to be do their

0:52:08.160 --> 0:52:13.840
<v Speaker 1>research and get the woundy because that is that's safely.

0:52:13.920 --> 0:52:15.360
<v Speaker 1>Just do you guys, just some moms, do your research

0:52:15.400 --> 0:52:19.240
<v Speaker 1>and trust your mom instinct, I guess is the bottom line. Okay.

0:52:19.440 --> 0:52:23.920
<v Speaker 1>So I'm obsessed with insta cart because, honestly, with two kids,

0:52:24.120 --> 0:52:26.080
<v Speaker 1>it's so hard to go to the grocery store and

0:52:26.960 --> 0:52:28.920
<v Speaker 1>I can be a little lazy, which is crazy. Did

0:52:28.920 --> 0:52:30.560
<v Speaker 1>I even say that? But I sometimes can be a

0:52:30.600 --> 0:52:35.239
<v Speaker 1>little lazy grocery store. Yeah. I have a hard time

0:52:35.280 --> 0:52:39.320
<v Speaker 1>grocery shopping. Yeah, But here's the thing with instacrat, we

0:52:39.320 --> 0:52:40.920
<v Speaker 1>don't have to. And it's also great too because we

0:52:41.000 --> 0:52:43.160
<v Speaker 1>travel so much. So when we come back we're like, oh,

0:52:43.200 --> 0:52:45.040
<v Speaker 1>we have to get Joli milk, we have to get strawberries.

0:52:45.080 --> 0:52:46.319
<v Speaker 1>But I'm like, oh, but by the time we get

0:52:46.400 --> 0:52:48.680
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0:52:48.719 --> 0:52:51.600
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0:52:51.640 --> 0:52:53.560
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0:52:53.680 --> 0:52:57.000
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0:52:57.040 --> 0:52:58.719
<v Speaker 1>You can choose from anywhere you want to get the

0:52:58.760 --> 0:53:01.160
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0:53:01.239 --> 0:53:03.480
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0:53:03.520 --> 0:53:05.839
<v Speaker 1>want the food delivered or the grocers delivered. At six

0:53:05.960 --> 0:53:08.680
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0:53:08.800 --> 0:53:10.879
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0:53:46.520 --> 0:53:49.560
<v Speaker 1>I just have to say that again. I'm happy, Thank

0:53:49.560 --> 0:53:54.839
<v Speaker 1>you for putting this together. Yes, the questions for us Sarah,

0:53:54.920 --> 0:53:58.560
<v Speaker 1>by the way, I do have some emails. Yes, we

0:53:58.640 --> 0:54:00.800
<v Speaker 1>can just do like quick questions because you posted that

0:54:00.920 --> 0:54:02.560
<v Speaker 1>on your new wine down. Oh yes we have a

0:54:02.640 --> 0:54:05.160
<v Speaker 1>wind down UM in wind down podcast Instagram, so you

0:54:05.200 --> 0:54:07.640
<v Speaker 1>can go at a wind down podcast. Is that what

0:54:07.760 --> 0:54:10.440
<v Speaker 1>it is? And you just did a question and a

0:54:10.520 --> 0:54:12.040
<v Speaker 1>bunch of people just like wrote so I thought you

0:54:12.080 --> 0:54:13.799
<v Speaker 1>could do just like a little rapid fire. You guys

0:54:13.840 --> 0:54:16.600
<v Speaker 1>becauld like answer. This is on the Instagram. They wrote

0:54:16.640 --> 0:54:20.560
<v Speaker 1>this night and they we had a little had a

0:54:20.600 --> 0:54:22.840
<v Speaker 1>little fun the um one of the you got a

0:54:22.880 --> 0:54:25.600
<v Speaker 1>lot of questions asking what is like your date night

0:54:25.640 --> 0:54:28.200
<v Speaker 1>go to or what's like your ideal night date night?

0:54:28.640 --> 0:54:34.120
<v Speaker 1>Michael's ideal date night is without me, I know, I

0:54:34.239 --> 0:54:37.839
<v Speaker 1>know Mine's mine super simple with dinner in a movie,

0:54:38.200 --> 0:54:40.400
<v Speaker 1>just because I love going to the movies. I have

0:54:40.480 --> 0:54:43.600
<v Speaker 1>to agree with that. Jenna, she enjoys that, but she

0:54:43.880 --> 0:54:46.480
<v Speaker 1>likes things spiced up a little bit more, some different,

0:54:47.200 --> 0:54:51.239
<v Speaker 1>more intention I've been wanting to get fancy lately. Do

0:54:51.320 --> 0:54:53.040
<v Speaker 1>you think you'll get fancy on Valentine's Day? Because that

0:54:53.120 --> 0:54:55.759
<v Speaker 1>was a question. So Valentine's Day, we're actually going to

0:54:55.880 --> 0:54:59.239
<v Speaker 1>Nashville to go look at our house. So we're going

0:54:59.320 --> 0:55:02.160
<v Speaker 1>to dinner with a few of other friends. I'm really

0:55:02.160 --> 0:55:03.960
<v Speaker 1>excited about that, but I think for a date night

0:55:04.080 --> 0:55:08.480
<v Speaker 1>for me would be uh, Honestly, I will say this.

0:55:09.120 --> 0:55:11.160
<v Speaker 1>Michael did by far the sweetest thing the other night.

0:55:11.200 --> 0:55:13.600
<v Speaker 1>He said, we've been passing each other a lot lately,

0:55:14.239 --> 0:55:16.319
<v Speaker 1>and he goes, he got home and he goes, hey,

0:55:16.400 --> 0:55:17.839
<v Speaker 1>will you come sit and have a glass of wine

0:55:17.880 --> 0:55:20.360
<v Speaker 1>with me on the couch with the fire on, And

0:55:20.480 --> 0:55:22.560
<v Speaker 1>he goes and let's just talk about what's going on?

0:55:23.640 --> 0:55:28.399
<v Speaker 1>And so cute. No, it was just like I meant

0:55:28.719 --> 0:55:30.960
<v Speaker 1>the world to me because he's like, we sat down

0:55:31.000 --> 0:55:32.839
<v Speaker 1>the couch or drinking wine, the kids are in bed,

0:55:33.200 --> 0:55:35.480
<v Speaker 1>and he's you know, he's like, so tell me what's

0:55:35.480 --> 0:55:37.560
<v Speaker 1>going on in your world? And I'm like, you know,

0:55:37.760 --> 0:55:39.479
<v Speaker 1>and he's like no, but he's like, what's Like, what's

0:55:39.480 --> 0:55:41.239
<v Speaker 1>going on? I said? And we end up having just

0:55:41.320 --> 0:55:46.600
<v Speaker 1>the nicest connected just talking about you guys. Look, they're

0:55:46.680 --> 0:55:48.920
<v Speaker 1>so in love for everyone listening. I'm not sweating. I

0:55:49.000 --> 0:55:52.239
<v Speaker 1>haven't had a moment. I'm so happy with them. I

0:55:52.360 --> 0:55:55.480
<v Speaker 1>actually think what happened. I think that was last week

0:55:56.160 --> 0:55:58.920
<v Speaker 1>has been a good thing. Janna seems a little bit

0:55:59.040 --> 0:56:05.160
<v Speaker 1>like she's let go we drink. I think that we

0:56:05.239 --> 0:56:06.960
<v Speaker 1>actually wind out know what I have, But I know

0:56:07.040 --> 0:56:10.520
<v Speaker 1>it's just it's just about I always say, like in

0:56:10.600 --> 0:56:12.920
<v Speaker 1>the beginning of a relationship, it's the little things, and

0:56:13.000 --> 0:56:14.320
<v Speaker 1>at the end it's a little thing, you know what

0:56:14.360 --> 0:56:16.480
<v Speaker 1>I mean, Like it's always a little bit that truly

0:56:16.680 --> 0:56:18.799
<v Speaker 1>meant the world's we had the best because I think

0:56:18.920 --> 0:56:21.160
<v Speaker 1>with having two kids and just like our lives, it's

0:56:21.160 --> 0:56:23.920
<v Speaker 1>just we're constantly passing each other. We always have the

0:56:23.960 --> 0:56:28.000
<v Speaker 1>same conversation, the same conversation, how did he eat? How

0:56:28.040 --> 0:56:30.480
<v Speaker 1>did you go down? How how was picked up at school?

0:56:30.600 --> 0:56:33.800
<v Speaker 1>And so now it's it was just thank you for that.

0:56:33.880 --> 0:56:35.680
<v Speaker 1>I really appreciate that. That was my ideal date night

0:56:35.760 --> 0:56:39.920
<v Speaker 1>right there? Um there were what about you? Is you

0:56:39.960 --> 0:56:42.239
<v Speaker 1>just getting dressed up? Kim Kardashian No, no, no, no, no,

0:56:42.320 --> 0:56:44.640
<v Speaker 1>no no no. I love like laying and like in netflixing,

0:56:44.840 --> 0:56:49.840
<v Speaker 1>I love post my fancy friend all my mom friends

0:56:49.880 --> 0:56:52.319
<v Speaker 1>and Nahville like my best season. Nashville are like, oh,

0:56:52.440 --> 0:56:54.520
<v Speaker 1>you're with your fancy friends, and you know, but I'm

0:56:54.560 --> 0:56:57.080
<v Speaker 1>like your fancy friend, but I feel like for time

0:56:57.280 --> 0:56:59.120
<v Speaker 1>just like I just want to be I just want

0:56:59.120 --> 0:57:01.280
<v Speaker 1>to Like, bet, don't say that because all my Nashville

0:57:01.560 --> 0:57:04.279
<v Speaker 1>girls right now literally want to live like vicariously through

0:57:04.320 --> 0:57:07.080
<v Speaker 1>you because they just think you're so fun. And do

0:57:07.239 --> 0:57:11.440
<v Speaker 1>you think it's fun not having a ring? Anyways? My

0:57:11.680 --> 0:57:13.680
<v Speaker 1>next Oh, you got a lot of these like um,

0:57:14.040 --> 0:57:15.880
<v Speaker 1>how for both of you? It was like, how do

0:57:16.000 --> 0:57:18.760
<v Speaker 1>you like move on from a relationship? Like what is

0:57:18.840 --> 0:57:20.720
<v Speaker 1>like that stuff that helps you get to like that

0:57:20.920 --> 0:57:24.040
<v Speaker 1>next like maybe forgetting them or like being able to

0:57:24.080 --> 0:57:26.320
<v Speaker 1>be x. I mean yeah, it was just saying like

0:57:26.400 --> 0:57:28.440
<v Speaker 1>how do you what is like your main thing that

0:57:28.560 --> 0:57:30.480
<v Speaker 1>it's like, Okay, I'm gonna move on, Like today is

0:57:30.520 --> 0:57:33.360
<v Speaker 1>the day I'm gonna move on. For me, it's time

0:57:33.680 --> 0:57:36.680
<v Speaker 1>and setting like letting yourself be like Okay, for the

0:57:36.800 --> 0:57:39.600
<v Speaker 1>next these many hours or these may days, I'm going

0:57:39.680 --> 0:57:44.520
<v Speaker 1>to sob cry, bitch about it, like I'm going to

0:57:44.640 --> 0:57:46.880
<v Speaker 1>just do all these things and then then be done.

0:57:46.920 --> 0:57:48.439
<v Speaker 1>So you have to give yourself like a time limit

0:57:48.480 --> 0:57:50.600
<v Speaker 1>for me at least, Yeah, for for me, for the

0:57:50.720 --> 0:57:54.160
<v Speaker 1>male perspective, it's for me, it's always been. It's still

0:57:54.280 --> 0:57:59.600
<v Speaker 1>time but then it's healthy distraction. So it's I would

0:57:59.640 --> 0:58:02.680
<v Speaker 1>just been all my time with my boys and just

0:58:02.960 --> 0:58:06.520
<v Speaker 1>be with them, wear them out constantly, and not even

0:58:06.600 --> 0:58:09.000
<v Speaker 1>like going out and going crazy, but just being together

0:58:09.200 --> 0:58:12.360
<v Speaker 1>and hanging out and doing whatever. Just yeah, I feel

0:58:12.400 --> 0:58:15.040
<v Speaker 1>like your friends help you through everything. It's so true.

0:58:15.080 --> 0:58:17.320
<v Speaker 1>But I remember when we broke up, Mike, when you

0:58:17.480 --> 0:58:18.840
<v Speaker 1>hung like the first thing to do is hang out

0:58:18.840 --> 0:58:20.360
<v Speaker 1>with your friends, and I'm like, man, he's like happy

0:58:20.440 --> 0:58:22.680
<v Speaker 1>hanging out with friends, and I'm like in my hotel room,

0:58:23.920 --> 0:58:28.400
<v Speaker 1>but I wasn't like I was outside the bar we

0:58:28.520 --> 0:58:32.280
<v Speaker 1>went to, just miserable, like man crying Tom. That's the thing.

0:58:32.480 --> 0:58:34.600
<v Speaker 1>I feel like you're big in New Year's Eve. I

0:58:34.680 --> 0:58:36.360
<v Speaker 1>think that guys don't like Greep, but I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>guys are like maybe like we do. We just try

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<v Speaker 1>to distract ourselves. Well. Also, you just got a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of questions. Just clarify. Since you're moving to Nashville, are

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<v Speaker 1>you still going to podcast? We are absolutely still going

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<v Speaker 1>to podcast. How are you going to do? What they

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<v Speaker 1>were wondering? We're gonna fly. We're gonna fly to l

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<v Speaker 1>A once a month to meet with our amazing celebrity guests,

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll have plenty of choose from the Nashville too. Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>so yeah, it's gonna be one. Oh and you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>next week we've got one of the f g ls.

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<v Speaker 1>It's going to be huge. Flora Georgie the line for

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<v Speaker 1>those who don't follow. And by the way, Ethan's already

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<v Speaker 1>freaking out. I'm really really excited. Contain your excitement for now,

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<v Speaker 1>but yes, let's do some emails. This one comes from April.

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<v Speaker 1>My question is what do you mean when you talk

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<v Speaker 1>about intimacy versus sex? Can you guys explain that a

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<v Speaker 1>bit more? Do you mean, like intimacy is being romantic

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<v Speaker 1>instead of just well um sex to well finished? Or

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<v Speaker 1>is intimacy and sex like four play? I don't talk

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<v Speaker 1>about this that very often? Is intimacy and sex? I am?

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<v Speaker 1>I am on behalf of April. Uh is intimacy and

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<v Speaker 1>sex like four play and sweetness? What's the difference between

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<v Speaker 1>intimacy and sex? Is a question? Might do I take that?

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<v Speaker 1>M Yeah? For us, the difference is intimacy is for us,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like intention so it's intentional time. Like Jane was

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<v Speaker 1>just describing, like us sitting down and just having a

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<v Speaker 1>conversation and connecting. It could be you know, uh, just

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<v Speaker 1>something together that it's not just a natural routine type

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<v Speaker 1>of thing. It's something you do together. You initiate it,

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<v Speaker 1>you intentionally do something. Um. Yeah, I always thought that

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<v Speaker 1>intimacy was sex and you can only get intimacy from

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<v Speaker 1>sex until I met you and you realize that intimacy

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<v Speaker 1>and sex do not equate. I know not. I got

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<v Speaker 1>to learn. And that's the coolest thing is I got

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<v Speaker 1>to learn truly what what the difference is and how

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<v Speaker 1>you can have intimacy through holding your hand, Intimacy, through

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<v Speaker 1>having a conversation, intimacy through having a fight in a relationship. Intimacy,

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<v Speaker 1>like is so much beyond just having sex. So I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thanking you for that. So I think that's you're

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<v Speaker 1>talk But then I'm excited tonight. I'm just saying, like

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<v Speaker 1>you really it's not just about having sex, because I

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<v Speaker 1>think for me it was just about intimacy is sex

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<v Speaker 1>and so when I you know, but again, but we're

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<v Speaker 1>learning obviously with intimacy and you know, our relationship, but

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<v Speaker 1>it is it is. It still can be sex too,

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<v Speaker 1>but just in different ways. You have to make it

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<v Speaker 1>it also depends on the person's love language too, just

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<v Speaker 1>like for yours. Physical I know we talked about love

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<v Speaker 1>language is a lot, but because they're very important in

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<v Speaker 1>our experience. And so if this guy, if April, if

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<v Speaker 1>you know one of their love languages a sex, then

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<v Speaker 1>is that love language? I mean physical touch? Physical touch.

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say, I think there's a different term

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<v Speaker 1>love languages. Sign me up. That's Jane's number one. It's

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<v Speaker 1>going down though. It's because let me just tell you,

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<v Speaker 1>remember how I said that my husband used to not

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<v Speaker 1>want to have sex with me. Now he wants you

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. And it's Jane has been turning me down.

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<v Speaker 1>We're just such a different like yeah, he gets me,

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<v Speaker 1>like when I say good night, time like I'm done.

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<v Speaker 1>Like when I say good night, it's over. Well I

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<v Speaker 1>am now that he's like mr like jackhammer over there.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like it's talking about sex in front of

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<v Speaker 1>our daughter. I feel I'm mom and dad have sex, Sarah, Well, really, yes, really?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you still texting Tie? What is he saying? He's

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<v Speaker 1>not making sense? Is he coming up right now? He goes, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>get it coming out? I said, come? He goes, Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>are you alive. Why because I've been here for so long.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, yeah, this is the room, get up here,

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<v Speaker 1>coming you guys. He's so scared. He's so scared. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully one day we can get tired in the podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe when he proposes to you coming, he does it

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<v Speaker 1>with a microphone with one more Oh yeah, oh this

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<v Speaker 1>is good. Let's do it. I like your voice you read.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you guys. We have fun today with you. It's

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<v Speaker 1>been really fun. The scorpio and I found that outso

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<v Speaker 1>like things just totally changed. We just get each other

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<v Speaker 1>on a whole different level, different level. We're not serial killers.

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<v Speaker 1>This is this is from anonymous. Uh. My husband and

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<v Speaker 1>I have been together for twelve years, and initially I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to have kids. Fast forward to now. My

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<v Speaker 1>husband still doesn't want to have kids, but I have

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<v Speaker 1>that overwhelming feeling of my inner clock and I want kids.

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<v Speaker 1>How am I to address the thought without being pushy? Also?

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<v Speaker 1>How can my husband become comfortable with the idea? So,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you? How do you bring that up? That

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<v Speaker 1>makes me? How do we how do I deal with that?

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<v Speaker 1>How do you deal with that? Honestly? So, he doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>want kids and she didn't either in the beginning, but

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<v Speaker 1>now she does because will change. And I always say,

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<v Speaker 1>it's so hard when you get with someone like m

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<v Speaker 1>But the hard thing is is that she changed her mind.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's okay to change your mind, but you also

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<v Speaker 1>have to know that, Like Michael, if you said I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want kids, and if I was, but then I

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<v Speaker 1>changed my mind, it's like, well, you you told me

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<v Speaker 1>straight from the beginning that was you do not want kids,

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<v Speaker 1>like you told me that you were up front. It

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't like, well, I don't know maybe, so that's that's

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<v Speaker 1>not Yeah, it's not it's it's hard, like you can't

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<v Speaker 1>doubt her or you can't, you know, give her any

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<v Speaker 1>crap for wanting to change your mind and have kids,

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<v Speaker 1>Like we get that, but you cannot blame her husband

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<v Speaker 1>for you said he was upfront and honest and this

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<v Speaker 1>is what I want and don't want. But I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's like one of those things that it's like if

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<v Speaker 1>you love me so much, you know, but that's not fair,

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<v Speaker 1>I know. But I feel like that's probably where she's

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<v Speaker 1>like coming from it. She's probably like, look, don't you

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<v Speaker 1>love me enough? You know? If it's what I want?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I mean sometimes that you know, I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>everyone goes there where it's like okay, da dada, but

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<v Speaker 1>like do you love me? Because if you love me,

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<v Speaker 1>which which makes sense, but when it's something like that

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<v Speaker 1>that's discussed at the beginning of a relationship and then

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<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden it's changed. Sort of similar situation

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<v Speaker 1>with our friend who that happened to, and she ended

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<v Speaker 1>up leaving her husband after fifteen something years, end up

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<v Speaker 1>having She was yeah, she was in her mid forties,

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<v Speaker 1>and she ended up adopting because she said that it

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<v Speaker 1>would just be you have to. You have to ask herself,

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<v Speaker 1>would you regret not having kids at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the day, and she that was I said, would would

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<v Speaker 1>you rather not have kids? Or you know, you have

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<v Speaker 1>to you have to make that decision. And she end

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<v Speaker 1>up at another question that you guys got, and it

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<v Speaker 1>was like how do you deal with the guilt for

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<v Speaker 1>not It was it was a woman who was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want kids, and I feel like people are

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<v Speaker 1>always guilty me because I don't. Honestly though, like no

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<v Speaker 1>one I don't. That's that's your decision, That's what I'm like.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like it's not fair like if it's something

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<v Speaker 1>that you want, like, it's not do you just because

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<v Speaker 1>you don't, And it's not when people say, oh I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want kids, it's like, okay, cool, that's that's I

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<v Speaker 1>might not relate to that I might not there shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be but that you shouldn't be guilted. Yeah, And there's

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<v Speaker 1>no judgment, not at all. And you shouldn't feel bad

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<v Speaker 1>about that. You should be like you should what makes

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<v Speaker 1>you happen? Yeah, exactly because some people some people have kids,

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want kids exactly, don't like their kids, or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>some people have kids who shouldn't exactly. So it's like

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<v Speaker 1>people I do miss Julian and Jason, Well I miss Jason,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys, I walked in the other day in Julie

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<v Speaker 1>was like sah, and so that makes me missir. I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to be loved. We all just want to

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<v Speaker 1>can to me please go? I really really wanted me Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so right now, so right now we're going to go.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go get our golf on. Let's go to the

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<v Speaker 1>bar now, okay? Is he? Oh? Oh my god? Who's

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<v Speaker 1>who's out there? Hi? It's high out there, Tie, get

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