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Speaker 1: We're We're just saying. I know we're on location right

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Speaker 1: Okay literally, Oh did you guys hear that? So we

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I just wanted to start off saying

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Speaker 1: But we are he year for him because I do

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Speaker 1: love my husband. That is why we are here. It's

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Speaker 1: because to celebrate him and golf and Honey, I'm not

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Speaker 1: about what I'm right, Yeah, this like no, this is

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Speaker 1: let's do it. Okay. So maybe you've considered a sleep

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Speaker 1: say that, Honestly, I've said this so many times in

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Speaker 1: that Sarah dates Tie. He is Wayne Gretzky's son. You think, Sarah,

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Speaker 1: do you think? Right? But do you think Sarah would

423
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Speaker 1: want to mention that, Oh yeah, it's Mary mentioned topping.

424
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Speaker 1: Sarah can't hide from that, to hide it. It already was.

425
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Speaker 1: But I do know that they love you, and you

426
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Speaker 1: love that. I love they're they're my neighbors. They live

427
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Speaker 1: very close to me, and yeah, Janet Wayne are good

428
00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:02,760
Speaker 1: friends and they are amazing people. And their kids watched

429
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Speaker 1: you yesterday, Hits. What is it? The million dollar? What

430
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Speaker 1: the million dollar? A little Part three things, Yeah, they

431
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Speaker 1: are they actually they are very incredibly sweet people, an

432
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Speaker 1: amazing family. But what is your handicap? Though? So what

433
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Speaker 1: does that mean? That means? So every all the wise

434
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Speaker 1: out there that watch that that are have to watch.

435
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Speaker 1: Here's here's so if you're well, if you're watching a

436
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Speaker 1: PG event, those guys are pluses. They're like, so, but

437
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Speaker 1: let's say the best is a scratch, which means it's

438
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Speaker 1: a zero. You're just you're playing good enough that you

439
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Speaker 1: can play straight up golf, no strokes, not anything. When

440
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Speaker 1: you get a handicap a one to three four, I'm

441
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Speaker 1: a nine, that means you need strokes, you're not as

442
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Speaker 1: good as a pro. So the handicap system just evens

443
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Speaker 1: the playing field for everybody. So you and I could

444
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Speaker 1: play golf together. I just heard so like a woman version,

445
00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:54,920
Speaker 1: it's kind of okay because because guy's version is benching,

446
00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:57,639
Speaker 1: what's the women's version of for a woman? It's like, okay,

447
00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:00,960
Speaker 1: do you shop at Like that's not going to go

448
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Speaker 1: over well, hold on, let me swever. Can you put

449
00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:08,480
Speaker 1: this in hashtag terms? It's like hashtag blessed or like

450
00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:12,239
Speaker 1: hashtag winning, like winning, you're a p G a pro

451
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Speaker 1: you're blessed. Your hashtag blessed right now? What's hashtag sin nudes?

452
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:21,520
Speaker 1: I'd say that's probably like yeah, because you're kind of you.

453
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Speaker 1: It's a spectrum from so handicap system is hashtag blessed?

454
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Speaker 1: Really good guys to hashtag sin nudes. I'm I was

455
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Speaker 1: in the beginning. We just totally figured this out. Okay, okay,

456
00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:42,080
Speaker 1: let's we're gonna let you go. So, yeah, you go.

457
00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:46,439
Speaker 1: I'm busy. I gotta play off tomorrow. We are eighty

458
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Speaker 1: eight balls in the air. What does that mean? I'm kidding.

459
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Speaker 1: If you have to ask, you're not doing it right. Goodbye. Okay, guys,

460
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Speaker 1: So we address the belittling thing, which again I am

496
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Speaker 1: very sorry and I'm very sarcastic. So I apologize to

497
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Speaker 1: listeners that I do offend out there because you're not

498
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Speaker 1: of thelogies say because they say that I'm being too

499
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Speaker 1: harsh on you, and then some of them are like,

500
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Speaker 1: I don't want to listen anymore because you BELI like you.

501
00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:52,760
Speaker 1: You're belittling your husband and your beats. So I don't

502
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Speaker 1: want them to think that I would you say they do,

503
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Speaker 1: But I also like, I love you and we like.

504
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Speaker 1: That's not like I think for me, I just I

505
00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:03,000
Speaker 1: try to be funny and sometimes it comes off and

506
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:05,120
Speaker 1: I'm very sarcastic, so it can come off a little harsh.

507
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:07,920
Speaker 1: So I know, which you know, yes, other people don't know.

508
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:10,359
Speaker 1: So I want to apologize for that people think, because

509
00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 1: that's not I have a really hard time. I don't

510
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:14,080
Speaker 1: want people to not like me. I know that's I

511
00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:16,119
Speaker 1: show start, but I just have a really tough time

512
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Speaker 1: with this. When I read these comments, it hurts, you know,

513
00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:20,040
Speaker 1: I just feel bad because I already know that it

514
00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 1: doesn't hurt you because you know, we know each other

515
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:27,720
Speaker 1: and we play around, doesn't Well, No, last week, yeah, yeah,

516
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:31,720
Speaker 1: I know the line and last week was a line,

517
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Speaker 1: and clearly they saw me address it. Yes, you were hurt,

518
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:37,640
Speaker 1: but it was but then it was like figured out

519
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:39,119
Speaker 1: by the end, you know what I mean. Like I

520
00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:41,440
Speaker 1: feel like every time we leave it's like, okay, we're good. Yeah, yeah,

521
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:43,119
Speaker 1: for the most part. But yeah, no, I mean I

522
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:45,560
Speaker 1: think it's just again that's sarcasm, and but last week's

523
00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 1: percent right, like that was that was wrong with me.

524
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 1: So I do clearly apologize, but I know, I just

525
00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:54,120
Speaker 1: I'm just a very sarcastic person and sometimes I get insecure.

526
00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:57,640
Speaker 1: And that's how that's why trying to know. Mike knows,

527
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Speaker 1: you know, I know, but everyone else doesn't know. I know.

528
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:01,760
Speaker 1: So there's something else I want to talk about. I'm

529
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:03,680
Speaker 1: not really ready to talk about it yet, So we're

530
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:05,440
Speaker 1: gonna talk about it at the end of the show

531
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:08,840
Speaker 1: because it's it's disturbing. It's disturbing, Yeah, for sure, it's

532
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:13,879
Speaker 1: something happened last night, and yeah, it's like, you know,

533
00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:16,159
Speaker 1: literally it makes me want to throw up. And but

534
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,120
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about now because I'm still

535
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:20,560
Speaker 1: having a good time, because we're still we're still high,

536
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:22,320
Speaker 1: and we're still waiting for time to walk through the

537
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:26,000
Speaker 1: door exactly. So let's go there, you guys. I just like,

538
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:28,160
Speaker 1: I don't know you guys, ties here, ties here, tight

539
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:30,800
Speaker 1: in the building, is in the building, is like, we

540
00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:34,399
Speaker 1: just had to steps away. We all should. Mike, you

541
00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 1: could have to. I just just come like, we're just

542
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 1: gonna be talking. You know what. He was scared, heed,

543
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:48,080
Speaker 1: No one, I'm scared say it to her. One thousand

544
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:50,959
Speaker 1: percent afraid of me. Everybody hates and he goes, oh,

545
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 1: he doesn't hate you, he loves you. No. But then

546
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 1: Mike goes, oh, I got your back. I'm like, oh,

547
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Speaker 1: do you sean to play? And you guys, but time

548
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:04,680
Speaker 1: might be walked like doors right now, and you guys

549
00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:06,520
Speaker 1: will hear a scream if it happens. Okay, So hey,

550
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:12,120
Speaker 1: wells babe, come here. Wells Adam, I like that. I

551
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:20,760
Speaker 1: have a very hard time. You have a new podcast.

552
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:25,960
Speaker 1: We're starting with starting with getting let's get the business

553
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 1: out of the way. Bradcast the Hills just coming back.

554
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:31,960
Speaker 1: Did you know that? So I was never a Hills girl,

555
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 1: never watched Hill. I'm sorry, that's no. I think it

556
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:39,160
Speaker 1: was not my generation. What are you talking about? I

557
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:41,240
Speaker 1: feel like we're the same generation. We're not. How old

558
00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 1: are you? It's not your generation, we're different generations. One year.

559
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:49,720
Speaker 1: Jena tells me this all the time, and we're two

560
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 1: years apart and three. I'm sorry three, it's three and

561
00:29:54,160 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 1: two months. I'm thirty one, so technically, I'm sorry. Did

562
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 1: you watch The Hills? No, that's okay, okay, it's okay

563
00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:08,720
Speaker 1: for him, it's not for me. It's not okay for you.

564
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:11,360
Speaker 1: I just feel like it was my generation and I was.

565
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:13,720
Speaker 1: I was, it was it was it was our generation.

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Speaker 1: I don't think so. Well whatever, it's coming back, right, Yeah?

567
00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:22,880
Speaker 1: What about the O C? Do you watch that? Wat? Right?

568
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:30,160
Speaker 1: So the O C was the amalgamation of that show? Yeah,

569
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:33,959
Speaker 1: well came first. The o C came first, and then

570
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 1: they made a reality TV show for it called Laguna Beach,

571
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:41,560
Speaker 1: and then after that became The Hills. Anyways, the Hills

572
00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:43,960
Speaker 1: are coming back, that's all that you really need to

573
00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:47,440
Speaker 1: know about. I watched Laguna Beach. Okay, that's what that

574
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 1: was my generation. That was cavy, that was cavalary. And

575
00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:52,239
Speaker 1: but then I didn't watch the Hills because that went

576
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:55,440
Speaker 1: more Lauren Conrad, right, and I was more of a cavalary.

577
00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:59,680
Speaker 1: But but but Cavalary took over the Hills in the middle.

578
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:01,560
Speaker 1: She did. But at that point I was already I

579
00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 1: was Beach was my thing, and then I was done. Anyways,

580
00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:07,600
Speaker 1: it's coming back. That's what you need to know about.

581
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:10,560
Speaker 1: This is the important part, all right. But I don't

582
00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 1: care that you didn't watch it. I care that you

583
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:16,760
Speaker 1: listen to my podcast. Now, that's the important thing. So

584
00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:20,440
Speaker 1: why are you just a huge Hills fan? I don't

585
00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:22,560
Speaker 1: even care? When why do you? Why is it called

586
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 1: the Pratt Cast when it should be called Wells Hills

587
00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:29,440
Speaker 1: the Wells No, no, no, no, okay. So Stephanie Pratt,

588
00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:34,800
Speaker 1: who's Spencer Pratt's brother, her sister, excuse me. Pratt was

589
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:42,320
Speaker 1: like the he was g William the wife. Who's the wife? Yes,

590
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:44,680
Speaker 1: and she's the one that's something worked on. There's a picture.

591
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:48,600
Speaker 1: What did you say? Nothing? Okay? Well, no, I feel

592
00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 1: bad because she's not like, but they addressed on the show,

593
00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:53,040
Speaker 1: so it's totally fine because I think so. Anyways, Um,

594
00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:58,360
Speaker 1: Steph has a new podcast and were you guys friends? No,

595
00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:00,440
Speaker 1: not at all, but I feel like that this need

596
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:03,360
Speaker 1: why are you doing this good question? And I'm gonna

597
00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:07,000
Speaker 1: address it right now. A little bit of train wreck

598
00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 1: and I feel like someone needed to keep her on

599
00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:12,080
Speaker 1: the rails, which I feel like that's what I am.

600
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:15,200
Speaker 1: So you're because you're great. I'm a conductor. I'm a

601
00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:19,040
Speaker 1: train conductor. Because you've been doing radio for I was

602
00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 1: sixteen years old, dude. My first radio shows happened like

603
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 1: four miles from where we are right now. Yeah, when

604
00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 1: I was when I was in high school, I did

605
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:31,320
Speaker 1: a radio show at Robert Louis Stephens when she's right

606
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:34,080
Speaker 1: down the street at ninety one point nine Case Web

607
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Speaker 1: Radio Stevenson And now I'm here now now I'm doing

608
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:47,000
Speaker 1: our podcast in a hotel room. Couple of girls. Okay,

609
00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:48,920
Speaker 1: so you have not only the podcast, but you also

610
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 1: have another podcast, right, Yes, I do one with Brandy Cyrus,

611
00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 1: who's Miley's older sister. It's called Your Favorite Thing, and

612
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 1: it's like the dumbest podcast in the world. Where we

613
00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:02,880
Speaker 1: just promotion, dude, I know. But like every podcast is

614
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 1: the dumbest podcast you ever listened to. If you only

615
00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:16,400
Speaker 1: do podcasts with famous people's siblings, Yes, that's true. What's

616
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:20,040
Speaker 1: another famous sibling? I can get you find somebody home? Man?

617
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:24,880
Speaker 1: What's Paul Rudd's sister's names Not Chris not but the

618
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:28,840
Speaker 1: other one, Mike. I think his name is Luke. I

619
00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:31,960
Speaker 1: think I should know that. I should know that because

620
00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:34,680
Speaker 1: that's Brandy's brother in law. But whatever. Um, but you

621
00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:38,000
Speaker 1: enjoy doing both equally. Your favorite thing podcast is just

622
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:40,240
Speaker 1: us talking about whatever our favorite things that week. So

623
00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 1: it's like binge worthy stuff, music, news, whatever. It's just

624
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:48,840
Speaker 1: escape into. There's just so much crap and negativity in

625
00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:52,640
Speaker 1: the world, so that the idea of the podcast. Yes, yes,

626
00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:59,360
Speaker 1: like you're this guy over here, um, so we we

627
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:00,840
Speaker 1: just wanted to do a podcast where we just talk

628
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:03,360
Speaker 1: about what we like in the world, which is like

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Speaker 1: a weird thing because it's so easy to talk about

630
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Speaker 1: what we hate. Right, So that's that podcast. And of course,

631
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Speaker 1: can you give me an example right now? This is funny,

632
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:17,440
Speaker 1: but not funny. I have been binging the Ted Bundy

633
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Speaker 1: I almost right, I almost said that for you, I

634
00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:24,279
Speaker 1: almost said, like Ted Bundy, yeah, it's got It's not

635
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:26,560
Speaker 1: everything because like when people died, but like it's my

636
00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:29,680
Speaker 1: favorite thing because it's so good to watch. Right, it's

637
00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:35,000
Speaker 1: fascinating because that happened when we were young, but we

638
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 1: weren't yet. We weren't old enough to understand what was

639
00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:40,759
Speaker 1: going on as he broke out a jail twice. What

640
00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:44,360
Speaker 1: a genius after and he planned it. Spoiler alert everyone,

641
00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:48,239
Speaker 1: spoiler by the way, haven't been following Teddy? We're doing

642
00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:50,799
Speaker 1: that funny though, you watch these things just like when

643
00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:53,520
Speaker 1: the f said the the O J. Simpson, Yeah, like

644
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:55,520
Speaker 1: it was so well done. You like, what's going to happen?

645
00:34:55,760 --> 00:35:00,200
Speaker 1: Everyone know what's going to happen? Was dude, he breaks

646
00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:02,400
Speaker 1: out of jail one time, and then you'd think the

647
00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:04,880
Speaker 1: second time they'd be like, let's just keep unlock and

648
00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 1: keep no no go through because he has great bone

649
00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 1: structure and good hair. They're just like letting him do

650
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 1: what he wants. Zac Efron, where are you at? Not

651
00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:15,759
Speaker 1: not there for it? Have you heard that Netflix has

652
00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:19,840
Speaker 1: asked people to stop talking about how hot Ted Bundy is?

653
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:23,800
Speaker 1: Disturbing it is and I had a weird googling of

654
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:27,520
Speaker 1: the Melendez Menendez brothers. Yeah, I got. I went down

655
00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:31,640
Speaker 1: the rabbitue like thirty five minutes into Ted Bundy. You're like, oh,

656
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:35,200
Speaker 1: like this wasn't a killer. This was like a super

657
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:38,440
Speaker 1: creepy he was doing the first time the term serial

658
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:42,319
Speaker 1: killer was bless you. Right. Also, did you guys see

659
00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:45,560
Speaker 1: that thing where it was like posting all of their horoscopes? No,

660
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:49,320
Speaker 1: oh my god, obviously I was very into it. It

661
00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:53,279
Speaker 1: posted like every horoscope of every serial killer. There weren't

662
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 1: any scorpios. I just want to say that what was

663
00:35:56,120 --> 00:36:00,320
Speaker 1: the number one? What's a Honestly, they're an I'm not

664
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:02,560
Speaker 1: even being like psychoed. There was a lot of Sagittarius

665
00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:06,880
Speaker 1: and a lot of you know, who's a sage? Who?

666
00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:15,040
Speaker 1: You know? My girlfriend love that show definitely, so yeah,

667
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:19,640
Speaker 1: she'll kill me. It's fine. I'm totally I'm totally cool

668
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:21,520
Speaker 1: with you know what's funny? I posted it and a

669
00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:24,160
Speaker 1: bunch of people came into my d ms and we're like, oh, really,

670
00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:26,319
Speaker 1: because like I'm a Virgo and I I was like really,

671
00:36:26,320 --> 00:36:29,400
Speaker 1: because you're getting mad at me. Ted Bundy's a Sagittarius.

672
00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:32,520
Speaker 1: I don't want to say it. But how does that

673
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:38,839
Speaker 1: make you feel a little close to home? Female and male?

674
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:42,440
Speaker 1: How does it make me feel? Absolutely? Sagittarious men are

675
00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:47,000
Speaker 1: way different sagittarious women. Yeah, anyway, I did one time.

676
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 1: I will never do it again. That's all. Well, aren't

677
00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 1: you glad you told us that you're watching Ted Bundy?

678
00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 1: So anyways, my podcast is a super fun time. Where

679
00:36:57,000 --> 00:37:00,680
Speaker 1: are we talking about serial killers? That's kind of the idea.

680
00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:02,480
Speaker 1: Let's get back to you. Well, let's do it. Where

681
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:05,160
Speaker 1: do you see this going? Like? Do you want to

682
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:07,359
Speaker 1: be the Ryan Seacrest? Do you want to be um?

683
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:09,680
Speaker 1: Do you want to be a host? Do you want

684
00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:11,759
Speaker 1: to be? Like? What where do you want to go

685
00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:16,480
Speaker 1: with your radio career? I get that a lot, like

686
00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:20,120
Speaker 1: people trying to make stereotype I guess, or like a

687
00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:23,279
Speaker 1: like equate you to other people. And I don't know.

688
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:25,800
Speaker 1: I don't want to be the next Ryan Seacrest. I

689
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:28,000
Speaker 1: don't want to be the next Chris Harrison. I want

690
00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:29,880
Speaker 1: to be just me, Like can I just be the

691
00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:31,960
Speaker 1: thing that I But is that hosting TV? Is that

692
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:34,319
Speaker 1: That's what I mean? Like like doing a Ryan and Kelly?

693
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:37,280
Speaker 1: Is it doing a you know? Yeah, I like hosting

694
00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:39,480
Speaker 1: stuff like I get the question a lot, do you

695
00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:40,759
Speaker 1: want to be an actor? I do not want to

696
00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 1: be an actor. I live with an actor, and it

697
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:45,440
Speaker 1: seems like the worst job in the world. Like it's

698
00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:48,440
Speaker 1: enough just to be me. I can't imagine being other people.

699
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 1: Like how crazy is that? Like I gotta I gotta

700
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:54,680
Speaker 1: pretend to be someone different than men. This is already

701
00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:57,839
Speaker 1: too much. You get to escape yourself. I don't even

702
00:37:57,880 --> 00:37:59,800
Speaker 1: know how you do that. I don't know if the

703
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 1: does this when you guys are together. But I'll just

704
00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:05,760
Speaker 1: be walking through the house. I hear Janna just talking

705
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 1: out loud, and I'm like, huh, you're talking to me.

706
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:11,719
Speaker 1: It's like looking at the wall. But she's really just

707
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:13,480
Speaker 1: reading lines. Do you have to run lines with her?

708
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:18,640
Speaker 1: And he? Are you good at it? Okay? So I

709
00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:21,920
Speaker 1: love you so so. One of our good couple of

710
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:25,479
Speaker 1: friends is Trevor and Alex and Trevor is an actor.

711
00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:29,399
Speaker 1: He's on this show called Magicians, and he came over

712
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:31,640
Speaker 1: and he was like, dude, I got a new game.

713
00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:34,640
Speaker 1: And it's called the two and a half minute Actor

714
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 1: and all the two and a half second actor and

715
00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:40,960
Speaker 1: all it is. It would be like you set the scene,

716
00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:43,920
Speaker 1: and it'll be like this just sucks because this is radius.

717
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 1: You can't see us, but it'd be like, um, you

718
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 1: just found out that's your mom cheated on your dad,

719
00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:55,640
Speaker 1: and so then you have to like and it just

720
00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:58,120
Speaker 1: do and have seconds of that one thing just like

721
00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:04,279
Speaker 1: so then you do, and it's really fun to do

722
00:39:04,360 --> 00:39:06,880
Speaker 1: with actors because I'm not an actor. So then so

723
00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 1: I overdo it right, My girlfriends like, you're horrible at this,

724
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:17,800
Speaker 1: but also not the worst at this. Yeah, Mike is.

725
00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:19,920
Speaker 1: Mike is incredible at reading lines with me, like I

726
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:23,800
Speaker 1: actually enjoy I'd rather self tape and put my audition

727
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 1: on tape because he's so great. He gives more than

728
00:39:26,840 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 1: but tell him about that one time we were reading

729
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:33,360
Speaker 1: that audition scene, so we were he was supposed to

730
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:35,960
Speaker 1: be like my war husband and I'm his wife and

731
00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:40,799
Speaker 1: go ahead. It was actually like Dwayne Johnson like you're

732
00:39:40,840 --> 00:39:43,520
Speaker 1: the rock. Yeah, basically it was the rock. They should

733
00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:45,160
Speaker 1: just give him part to me. But it was some

734
00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:47,839
Speaker 1: military thing and I had to scream some tramatic line

735
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:50,880
Speaker 1: like my men needed me, and then I go I

736
00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:53,120
Speaker 1: needed you, And every time I did that, he just

737
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:56,680
Speaker 1: started and it took us like hours to finish that. Literally,

738
00:39:56,719 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 1: we were in the laundry at the old house. He's

739
00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:03,320
Speaker 1: moment I needed you to be like balling, crying, and

740
00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:07,040
Speaker 1: he just couldn't. Every time, every I've only done a

741
00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:09,640
Speaker 1: couple of times, but every time I do run lines

742
00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:13,279
Speaker 1: with her, I will do the total whole thing where

743
00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:15,120
Speaker 1: I'm like, that's not that funny. If it said this,

744
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:17,839
Speaker 1: this would be funnier, and I'll like to start rewriting

745
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:20,400
Speaker 1: the script and they're like, I just know your role, buddy,

746
00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:23,560
Speaker 1: just say what's rented And that's fine. By the way,

747
00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:27,120
Speaker 1: for everyone listening, um, Wells is dating Sarah Hyland, who

748
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:30,279
Speaker 1: is a star of Modern Family. So how is that

749
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:32,800
Speaker 1: dating such a I mean, she's on one of the

750
00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:35,759
Speaker 1: most famous shows on TV, So how is that with

751
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:40,120
Speaker 1: dating such a famous Later, I don't know. I guess

752
00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:43,320
Speaker 1: it's weird, but it's not. I don't know. Props to

753
00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:46,359
Speaker 1: Modern Family and ABC. They just sign on for an

754
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:49,520
Speaker 1: eleventh season, so everyone's are excited about that. That's amazing

755
00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:52,600
Speaker 1: the fact that it's so really weird. Like, I don't know,

756
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:54,400
Speaker 1: I don't know what your show was growing up, but

757
00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:57,160
Speaker 1: for me it was Seinfeld. A lot of people was

758
00:40:57,440 --> 00:41:00,239
Speaker 1: friends you know, there's a lot of those shows, and

759
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:03,160
Speaker 1: it's weird when you're like living in the middle of it.

760
00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:06,600
Speaker 1: When you're around, like when you're living in the middle

761
00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 1: of the storm, you don't realize how crazy it is.

762
00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:13,120
Speaker 1: But Modern Family is like a Seinfeld right like the

763
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:16,399
Speaker 1: last decade. Absolutely it's gonna be it's a big bang,

764
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:19,959
Speaker 1: like it's a show, like it's huge, and while she's

765
00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:22,160
Speaker 1: doing it, like it's cool and like I love the show.

766
00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:26,719
Speaker 1: I think it's funny. Uh. I don't think I realize

767
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:31,000
Speaker 1: how impactful it is because we're living in the middle

768
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:34,879
Speaker 1: of the eye right now. You know. Um, obviously it's

769
00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:38,880
Speaker 1: it's an amazing show and like it's changing everything and

770
00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:41,160
Speaker 1: it'll see it'll be interesting to see like what happens

771
00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 1: going forward. Um, but like I don't know, Like you've

772
00:41:46,280 --> 00:41:50,200
Speaker 1: met Sarah, Like she's a huge dork. Like so when

773
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:53,720
Speaker 1: you asked me, like, what's it like dating uh an actress?

774
00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:56,719
Speaker 1: I think, I don't know. I'm dating a huge nerd.

775
00:41:57,440 --> 00:42:00,959
Speaker 1: I love her to death a year and a half.

776
00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:05,680
Speaker 1: So is she the one? Oh for sure? Yeah? When's

777
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 1: the rain coming? Don't I don't know about that. That's

778
00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:12,840
Speaker 1: a lot of confidence around that was really sweet. That

779
00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:21,160
Speaker 1: was very genuine, So Ted Bunny, no, no, no, no, no,

780
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:23,719
Speaker 1: no time about feeling bad for you. But also I

781
00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:25,440
Speaker 1: just bit my lip because I was gonna say something

782
00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:28,640
Speaker 1: me and I was like, nope, Janet, censor, I want

783
00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:33,719
Speaker 1: to hear not to you, to my husband. We don't

784
00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:37,279
Speaker 1: need any more bad comments one of us. No no,

785
00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 1: because I'm oh, I thought that was Oh my god,

786
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:48,319
Speaker 1: I thought that was Wayne. I almost died. Sorry, that's

787
00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:51,440
Speaker 1: my brother. Sorry sorry I thought Wayne Gretzky just walked in.

788
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:56,400
Speaker 1: But it's just wells brother, Brett, Brett, it's not the

789
00:42:56,480 --> 00:42:59,439
Speaker 1: great one. Kid is really sweet and Sarah is lucky

790
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:00,719
Speaker 1: to have you because you are a great guy. So

791
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:03,320
Speaker 1: thanks for coming on the podcast. You guys listen to

792
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:08,160
Speaker 1: his podcast it again Broadcast number one. Uh all. Then

793
00:43:08,239 --> 00:43:11,919
Speaker 1: i'd also do your favorite thing, and thanks for coming

794
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 1: on one down dude, Thanks for having me. It's been fun. Also,

795
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:18,440
Speaker 1: we're supposed to play golf and build. No, I didn't bear.

796
00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:21,839
Speaker 1: We didn't come up till today? Did you text him? Yeah?

797
00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:25,200
Speaker 1: I said, And I said, dude, we're not coming up

798
00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:32,480
Speaker 1: till Friday. And I said whatever, I said, all right,

799
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:34,640
Speaker 1: see you alright, guys, I gotta bring it up again

800
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Speaker 1: dot com. Okay, so I had said that I wanted

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Speaker 1: to talk about something, not trying to bring it down

821
00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:41,160
Speaker 1: at all, but I something happened last night and obviously

822
00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:46,040
Speaker 1: scared me really really bad. So on the plane, um

823
00:44:46,400 --> 00:44:50,240
Speaker 1: this morning, when we're flying here, I basically asked Sarah

824
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:52,800
Speaker 1: and Mike if if I should talk about it, A

825
00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:56,520
Speaker 1: and B would I get sued if I talk about it?

826
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Speaker 1: Because because I literally said techt Samy like one over

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00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:04,040
Speaker 1: here will So I'm not be hearing a story in

828
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:07,919
Speaker 1: a moment. No, Well, because I didn't want. I don't

829
00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:09,760
Speaker 1: want this to be slander because this isn't about slander.

830
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:11,479
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to and I'm not even gonna say

831
00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:16,640
Speaker 1: because I just I'm not saying the company. I'm going

832
00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:18,920
Speaker 1: to post the photo on Instagram so you guys can

833
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:21,880
Speaker 1: see it. Again. I'm not doing anything because I did

834
00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:25,960
Speaker 1: talk to the company after it happened, But you're gonna

835
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:28,800
Speaker 1: post the photo. I'm going to post the photo I

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00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:33,440
Speaker 1: because it needs to be seen because I don't want

837
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Speaker 1: them to take my word for it. Are you Are

838
00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:40,080
Speaker 1: you opposed to me posting it a little bit? Why? Um?

839
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:48,280
Speaker 1: Because I'm it has nothing to do with the company

840
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 1: or you're doing something wrong. It's just more of like

841
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:55,640
Speaker 1: I get your get your motivation to do it, but

842
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:58,200
Speaker 1: it almost seems because it was such a kind of

843
00:45:58,239 --> 00:46:00,359
Speaker 1: a scary moment. I kind of said that the plane,

844
00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:03,680
Speaker 1: it kind of like seems like so personal as weird.

845
00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:06,719
Speaker 1: Does this sounds feel like that picture someone's kids? But

846
00:46:06,800 --> 00:46:09,239
Speaker 1: the picture is kind of like what's disturbing? But like

847
00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:11,880
Speaker 1: the first word that popped in my head was like gruesome.

848
00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:14,399
Speaker 1: Does that make sense with? And I don't. I don't

849
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 1: know if I want to picture even though it's it's

850
00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:20,879
Speaker 1: because because of the situation is disturbing. Like Sarah said,

851
00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:26,680
Speaker 1: that's hard to look at that, and that's okay, and

852
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:28,120
Speaker 1: if you don't want me to then I won't. But

853
00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:31,279
Speaker 1: it's so bad that I think you can describe it

854
00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:33,279
Speaker 1: to a point where people will like be like oh

855
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:37,239
Speaker 1: a stage like yeah, because like when you showed me

856
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:39,000
Speaker 1: that I was not right, well I'm not okay. And

857
00:46:39,040 --> 00:46:40,919
Speaker 1: every time I keep staring at it and I sell

858
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:44,279
Speaker 1: because like even when we weren't together, like an hour

859
00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 1: like two hours ago, I was in bed and I

860
00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:48,839
Speaker 1: was like you, Like I just was like you play

861
00:46:48,920 --> 00:46:52,839
Speaker 1: that what if game? Over and over. So basically, uh,

862
00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:59,000
Speaker 1: we went to bed normal bedtime. Um, and at two

863
00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:02,720
Speaker 1: thirty in the morning, I woke up in complete panic.

864
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:05,880
Speaker 1: There was no tears from Jason the other room, but

865
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:11,359
Speaker 1: I just had the mom panic. I then, as a mom,

866
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:14,000
Speaker 1: had the mom panic, looked at the monitor. Amy, let

867
00:47:14,040 --> 00:47:16,680
Speaker 1: me show you the photo. I looked in the monitor

868
00:47:16,760 --> 00:47:21,760
Speaker 1: and this is what I saw. That is the swaddle

869
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:26,239
Speaker 1: completely over his face. I mean so over his face

870
00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 1: that it looks like he's being suffocated. It looks like

871
00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:34,200
Speaker 1: he's being suffocated. And I my heart. I mean I

872
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:36,600
Speaker 1: I jumped out of bed so fast and rain in

873
00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:39,440
Speaker 1: that room and I was like, he's not going to

874
00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:42,360
Speaker 1: be breathing when I opened this, this this swaddle, and

875
00:47:42,640 --> 00:47:45,200
Speaker 1: I unvelcried it and it's like he went He was

876
00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:49,360
Speaker 1: like like it came to and I mean, I I

877
00:47:49,600 --> 00:47:51,320
Speaker 1: in the Michael's is everything okay? And I just was

878
00:47:51,400 --> 00:47:53,600
Speaker 1: like I just started like bawling because I was like, no,

879
00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:57,680
Speaker 1: like and I know, first of all, I'm explained because

880
00:47:57,719 --> 00:48:00,960
Speaker 1: like for me, I didn't like explain how you I know,

881
00:48:01,320 --> 00:48:04,160
Speaker 1: I swaddled him correctly. I'm if it was anybody else

882
00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:05,800
Speaker 1: that'd been like, well you didn't swaddle him right, I

883
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:09,360
Speaker 1: am a prince cent. Sure he has the appropriate size

884
00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 1: for his weight. It was velcord right, because I'm you know,

885
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 1: I mean Michael. Every single time I'm like, no, Michael,

886
00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:17,520
Speaker 1: like this is like you know, or the whoever. I'm

887
00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:20,759
Speaker 1: like this is like I'm because I'm so terrified of that.

888
00:48:21,600 --> 00:48:24,280
Speaker 1: And so I know that as the mom, I swaddled

889
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:26,920
Speaker 1: him correctly. But he has really bad reflux. So what

890
00:48:27,000 --> 00:48:28,960
Speaker 1: he does is he scooches a lot, and with this

891
00:48:29,120 --> 00:48:33,680
Speaker 1: company and the swaddle, it basically rode up on him

892
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:36,360
Speaker 1: all the way. He literally had what was that like

893
00:48:36,600 --> 00:48:40,360
Speaker 1: that much on just the crown of his head showing,

894
00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:43,400
Speaker 1: and because I swallowed him so tight, it had the

895
00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:46,960
Speaker 1: part that was vlcoed around him rode up because he's

896
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:51,000
Speaker 1: scooted down in it. And I reached out to the company.

897
00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:53,400
Speaker 1: I said, before I go off on you guys on

898
00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 1: on you know, on social media, I want you to

899
00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:58,080
Speaker 1: explain to me how I did everything right. This is

900
00:48:58,160 --> 00:49:01,600
Speaker 1: the perfect size that aby like to them and they're like,

901
00:49:01,600 --> 00:49:03,879
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, we're so sorry. You know, maybe he's

902
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:06,080
Speaker 1: not supposed to be meant to be swaddled anymore. I'm like,

903
00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:09,040
Speaker 1: he's ten weeks old, like babies are swaddled until they're

904
00:49:09,200 --> 00:49:12,120
Speaker 1: five months old. Like this, this extra layer or this

905
00:49:12,200 --> 00:49:14,960
Speaker 1: thing that goes over him is so I don't even

906
00:49:14,960 --> 00:49:17,480
Speaker 1: know how to describe it. It's like a it's like

907
00:49:17,680 --> 00:49:22,000
Speaker 1: just a rap where he's in a zips like pouch basically,

908
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:25,359
Speaker 1: and then the swaddle part is just it's just yeah,

909
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:28,920
Speaker 1: almost separate from the actual swaddle. It's only attached on

910
00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:31,600
Speaker 1: the back, so it just goes over top of them. Well,

911
00:49:31,680 --> 00:49:34,560
Speaker 1: it got because because of the material, because of the

912
00:49:34,640 --> 00:49:38,960
Speaker 1: fleece material, it doesn't stay put like any friction with fleece.

913
00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:41,399
Speaker 1: It moves. Well that's what she said that the lady

914
00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:44,800
Speaker 1: that was talking to me on the Instagram said it's breathable.

915
00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:48,200
Speaker 1: I said, absolutely not. That is police material. There's a

916
00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:50,879
Speaker 1: percent not breathable. So the fact that they're promoting safe

917
00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:53,000
Speaker 1: sleep it just makes me so angry. So in the

918
00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:54,560
Speaker 1: middle of the night, I was like, I need to

919
00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:56,800
Speaker 1: make a safe swaddle. Long story short, I talked to

920
00:49:56,880 --> 00:49:59,520
Speaker 1: my girls and there's a there's a sleep stack out

921
00:49:59,520 --> 00:50:01,960
Speaker 1: there called the b that I want to promote every

922
00:50:02,040 --> 00:50:03,920
Speaker 1: single one of you guys out there. So whatever swaddle

923
00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:06,920
Speaker 1: you're using, please please please do your research. Because I

924
00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:09,640
Speaker 1: was not the only person that had this because I

925
00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:12,080
Speaker 1: went on the reviews and I showed Sarah and Michael

926
00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:16,440
Speaker 1: the reviews. Other people have had danger danger danger on

927
00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:20,120
Speaker 1: the same pictures of how Jason looked, and I just,

928
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:22,319
Speaker 1: I mean, can you say that coming because I don't

929
00:50:22,360 --> 00:50:25,160
Speaker 1: want people to be This isn't like a bashing thing.

930
00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:27,200
Speaker 1: And you even said on the plane, You're like, I'm

931
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:30,840
Speaker 1: literally concerned for like other next child, like because you

932
00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:32,800
Speaker 1: went and looked at pictures and there were other pictures

933
00:50:32,840 --> 00:50:34,600
Speaker 1: of little babies that this had happened to, and you're like,

934
00:50:34,960 --> 00:50:37,040
Speaker 1: I don't want this to happen to anyone else. So like,

935
00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:39,400
Speaker 1: this isn't about going on like I hate so and

936
00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:42,560
Speaker 1: so it's like, you know you you care about other people,

937
00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:45,040
Speaker 1: and that's what So Karen, who invented the woundy it's

938
00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:48,200
Speaker 1: w O M B i E. She same thing happened

939
00:50:48,239 --> 00:50:51,160
Speaker 1: to her things swaddles were either riding up over their

940
00:50:51,200 --> 00:50:53,360
Speaker 1: face or they were choking on the zippers. So she

941
00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:55,719
Speaker 1: made this swaddle it's a zip. You guys please look

942
00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 1: it up because her story was incredible. So she basically

943
00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:02,960
Speaker 1: made the swaddle. And I've done so much research, has

944
00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:06,200
Speaker 1: you know how many hours about swaddles and which ones

945
00:51:06,239 --> 00:51:08,080
Speaker 1: are actually safe, but that that is the one that

946
00:51:08,080 --> 00:51:09,879
Speaker 1: all my girlfriends have used, and then kind of hearing

947
00:51:09,960 --> 00:51:12,280
Speaker 1: Karen's story too, and how you know that was happening

948
00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:14,440
Speaker 1: to her. It's just it's terrifying. I mean that was

949
00:51:14,560 --> 00:51:17,160
Speaker 1: the I'm still sick to my stomach about it, because

950
00:51:17,200 --> 00:51:18,880
Speaker 1: what if what if I did not wake up? What

951
00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:20,960
Speaker 1: if I did not have the mom instinct? What if?

952
00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:24,560
Speaker 1: And then what if it is making because like obviously

953
00:51:24,600 --> 00:51:28,239
Speaker 1: I don't know, but like that mom intuition is real,

954
00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:30,600
Speaker 1: Like that's insane that you just like popped out of bed,

955
00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:33,480
Speaker 1: like it's crazy and I woke up like like something

956
00:51:33,600 --> 00:51:37,080
Speaker 1: you knew. That's just such a Is that the picture

957
00:51:37,160 --> 00:51:41,320
Speaker 1: from the monitor? Would you say? Yes? That is? I

958
00:51:41,320 --> 00:51:43,560
Speaker 1: don't want anyone thinking that if you do decide to

959
00:51:43,560 --> 00:51:48,400
Speaker 1: post it that you let no, no, she screenshot the

960
00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:51,160
Speaker 1: photo from the moment absolutely was recording. So I just

961
00:51:51,280 --> 00:51:53,040
Speaker 1: want everyone to know to not write us and go

962
00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:56,399
Speaker 1: oh no, no, no, no, no no, no, of course

963
00:51:56,480 --> 00:51:59,920
Speaker 1: of course not. Yeah, that was from the recording on them.

964
00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:04,200
Speaker 1: So yeah, terrifying. Yeah, I'm well, I'm glad you got

965
00:52:04,280 --> 00:52:06,360
Speaker 1: it off your chest. Yeah, and like got it. I

966
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:08,120
Speaker 1: just but I just want everyone to be do their

967
00:52:08,160 --> 00:52:13,840
Speaker 1: research and get the woundy because that is that's safely.

968
00:52:13,920 --> 00:52:15,360
Speaker 1: Just do you guys, just some moms, do your research

969
00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:19,240
Speaker 1: and trust your mom instinct, I guess is the bottom line. Okay.

970
00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:23,920
Speaker 1: So I'm obsessed with insta cart because, honestly, with two kids,

971
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:26,080
Speaker 1: it's so hard to go to the grocery store and

972
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:28,920
Speaker 1: I can be a little lazy, which is crazy. Did

973
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:30,560
Speaker 1: I even say that? But I sometimes can be a

974
00:52:30,600 --> 00:52:35,239
Speaker 1: little lazy grocery store. Yeah. I have a hard time

975
00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:39,320
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976
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977
00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:43,160
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978
00:52:43,200 --> 00:52:45,040
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979
00:52:45,080 --> 00:52:46,319
Speaker 1: But I'm like, oh, but by the time we get

980
00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:48,680
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981
00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:51,600
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982
00:52:51,640 --> 00:52:53,560
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983
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984
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985
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986
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987
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988
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989
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990
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991
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992
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Speaker 1: I just have to say that again. I'm happy, Thank

1006
00:53:49,560 --> 00:53:54,839
Speaker 1: you for putting this together. Yes, the questions for us Sarah,

1007
00:53:54,920 --> 00:53:58,560
Speaker 1: by the way, I do have some emails. Yes, we

1008
00:53:58,640 --> 00:54:00,800
Speaker 1: can just do like quick questions because you posted that

1009
00:54:00,920 --> 00:54:02,560
Speaker 1: on your new wine down. Oh yes we have a

1010
00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:05,160
Speaker 1: wind down UM in wind down podcast Instagram, so you

1011
00:54:05,200 --> 00:54:07,640
Speaker 1: can go at a wind down podcast. Is that what

1012
00:54:07,760 --> 00:54:10,440
Speaker 1: it is? And you just did a question and a

1013
00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:12,040
Speaker 1: bunch of people just like wrote so I thought you

1014
00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:13,799
Speaker 1: could do just like a little rapid fire. You guys

1015
00:54:13,840 --> 00:54:16,600
Speaker 1: becauld like answer. This is on the Instagram. They wrote

1016
00:54:16,640 --> 00:54:20,560
Speaker 1: this night and they we had a little had a

1017
00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:22,840
Speaker 1: little fun the um one of the you got a

1018
00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:25,600
Speaker 1: lot of questions asking what is like your date night

1019
00:54:25,640 --> 00:54:28,200
Speaker 1: go to or what's like your ideal night date night?

1020
00:54:28,640 --> 00:54:34,120
Speaker 1: Michael's ideal date night is without me, I know, I

1021
00:54:34,239 --> 00:54:37,839
Speaker 1: know Mine's mine super simple with dinner in a movie,

1022
00:54:38,200 --> 00:54:40,400
Speaker 1: just because I love going to the movies. I have

1023
00:54:40,480 --> 00:54:43,600
Speaker 1: to agree with that. Jenna, she enjoys that, but she

1024
00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 1: likes things spiced up a little bit more, some different,

1025
00:54:47,200 --> 00:54:51,239
Speaker 1: more intention I've been wanting to get fancy lately. Do

1026
00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:53,040
Speaker 1: you think you'll get fancy on Valentine's Day? Because that

1027
00:54:53,120 --> 00:54:55,759
Speaker 1: was a question. So Valentine's Day, we're actually going to

1028
00:54:55,880 --> 00:54:59,239
Speaker 1: Nashville to go look at our house. So we're going

1029
00:54:59,320 --> 00:55:02,160
Speaker 1: to dinner with a few of other friends. I'm really

1030
00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:03,960
Speaker 1: excited about that, but I think for a date night

1031
00:55:04,080 --> 00:55:08,480
Speaker 1: for me would be uh, Honestly, I will say this.

1032
00:55:09,120 --> 00:55:11,160
Speaker 1: Michael did by far the sweetest thing the other night.

1033
00:55:11,200 --> 00:55:13,600
Speaker 1: He said, we've been passing each other a lot lately,

1034
00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:16,319
Speaker 1: and he goes, he got home and he goes, hey,

1035
00:55:16,400 --> 00:55:17,839
Speaker 1: will you come sit and have a glass of wine

1036
00:55:17,880 --> 00:55:20,360
Speaker 1: with me on the couch with the fire on, And

1037
00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:22,560
Speaker 1: he goes and let's just talk about what's going on?

1038
00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:28,399
Speaker 1: And so cute. No, it was just like I meant

1039
00:55:28,719 --> 00:55:30,960
Speaker 1: the world to me because he's like, we sat down

1040
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:32,839
Speaker 1: the couch or drinking wine, the kids are in bed,

1041
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:35,480
Speaker 1: and he's you know, he's like, so tell me what's

1042
00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:37,560
Speaker 1: going on in your world? And I'm like, you know,

1043
00:55:37,760 --> 00:55:39,479
Speaker 1: and he's like no, but he's like, what's Like, what's

1044
00:55:39,480 --> 00:55:41,239
Speaker 1: going on? I said? And we end up having just

1045
00:55:41,320 --> 00:55:46,600
Speaker 1: the nicest connected just talking about you guys. Look, they're

1046
00:55:46,680 --> 00:55:48,920
Speaker 1: so in love for everyone listening. I'm not sweating. I

1047
00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:52,239
Speaker 1: haven't had a moment. I'm so happy with them. I

1048
00:55:52,360 --> 00:55:55,480
Speaker 1: actually think what happened. I think that was last week

1049
00:55:56,160 --> 00:55:58,920
Speaker 1: has been a good thing. Janna seems a little bit

1050
00:55:59,040 --> 00:56:05,160
Speaker 1: like she's let go we drink. I think that we

1051
00:56:05,239 --> 00:56:06,960
Speaker 1: actually wind out know what I have, But I know

1052
00:56:07,040 --> 00:56:10,520
Speaker 1: it's just it's just about I always say, like in

1053
00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:12,920
Speaker 1: the beginning of a relationship, it's the little things, and

1054
00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:14,320
Speaker 1: at the end it's a little thing, you know what

1055
00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:16,480
Speaker 1: I mean, Like it's always a little bit that truly

1056
00:56:16,680 --> 00:56:18,799
Speaker 1: meant the world's we had the best because I think

1057
00:56:18,920 --> 00:56:21,160
Speaker 1: with having two kids and just like our lives, it's

1058
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:23,920
Speaker 1: just we're constantly passing each other. We always have the

1059
00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:28,000
Speaker 1: same conversation, the same conversation, how did he eat? How

1060
00:56:28,040 --> 00:56:30,480
Speaker 1: did you go down? How how was picked up at school?

1061
00:56:30,600 --> 00:56:33,800
Speaker 1: And so now it's it was just thank you for that.

1062
00:56:33,880 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 1: I really appreciate that. That was my ideal date night

1063
00:56:35,760 --> 00:56:39,920
Speaker 1: right there? Um there were what about you? Is you

1064
00:56:39,960 --> 00:56:42,239
Speaker 1: just getting dressed up? Kim Kardashian No, no, no, no, no,

1065
00:56:42,320 --> 00:56:44,640
Speaker 1: no no no. I love like laying and like in netflixing,

1066
00:56:44,840 --> 00:56:49,840
Speaker 1: I love post my fancy friend all my mom friends

1067
00:56:49,880 --> 00:56:52,319
Speaker 1: and Nahville like my best season. Nashville are like, oh,

1068
00:56:52,440 --> 00:56:54,520
Speaker 1: you're with your fancy friends, and you know, but I'm

1069
00:56:54,560 --> 00:56:57,080
Speaker 1: like your fancy friend, but I feel like for time

1070
00:56:57,280 --> 00:56:59,120
Speaker 1: just like I just want to be I just want

1071
00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:01,280
Speaker 1: to Like, bet, don't say that because all my Nashville

1072
00:57:01,560 --> 00:57:04,279
Speaker 1: girls right now literally want to live like vicariously through

1073
00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:07,080
Speaker 1: you because they just think you're so fun. And do

1074
00:57:07,239 --> 00:57:11,440
Speaker 1: you think it's fun not having a ring? Anyways? My

1075
00:57:11,680 --> 00:57:13,680
Speaker 1: next Oh, you got a lot of these like um,

1076
00:57:14,040 --> 00:57:15,880
Speaker 1: how for both of you? It was like, how do

1077
00:57:16,000 --> 00:57:18,760
Speaker 1: you like move on from a relationship? Like what is

1078
00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:20,720
Speaker 1: like that stuff that helps you get to like that

1079
00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:24,040
Speaker 1: next like maybe forgetting them or like being able to

1080
00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:26,320
Speaker 1: be x. I mean yeah, it was just saying like

1081
00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:28,440
Speaker 1: how do you what is like your main thing that

1082
00:57:28,560 --> 00:57:30,480
Speaker 1: it's like, Okay, I'm gonna move on, Like today is

1083
00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:33,360
Speaker 1: the day I'm gonna move on. For me, it's time

1084
00:57:33,680 --> 00:57:36,680
Speaker 1: and setting like letting yourself be like Okay, for the

1085
00:57:36,800 --> 00:57:39,600
Speaker 1: next these many hours or these may days, I'm going

1086
00:57:39,680 --> 00:57:44,520
Speaker 1: to sob cry, bitch about it, like I'm going to

1087
00:57:44,640 --> 00:57:46,880
Speaker 1: just do all these things and then then be done.

1088
00:57:46,920 --> 00:57:48,439
Speaker 1: So you have to give yourself like a time limit

1089
00:57:48,480 --> 00:57:50,600
Speaker 1: for me at least, Yeah, for for me, for the

1090
00:57:50,720 --> 00:57:54,160
Speaker 1: male perspective, it's for me, it's always been. It's still

1091
00:57:54,280 --> 00:57:59,600
Speaker 1: time but then it's healthy distraction. So it's I would

1092
00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:02,680
Speaker 1: just been all my time with my boys and just

1093
00:58:02,960 --> 00:58:06,520
Speaker 1: be with them, wear them out constantly, and not even

1094
00:58:06,600 --> 00:58:09,000
Speaker 1: like going out and going crazy, but just being together

1095
00:58:09,200 --> 00:58:12,360
Speaker 1: and hanging out and doing whatever. Just yeah, I feel

1096
00:58:12,400 --> 00:58:15,040
Speaker 1: like your friends help you through everything. It's so true.

1097
00:58:15,080 --> 00:58:17,320
Speaker 1: But I remember when we broke up, Mike, when you

1098
00:58:17,480 --> 00:58:18,840
Speaker 1: hung like the first thing to do is hang out

1099
00:58:18,840 --> 00:58:20,360
Speaker 1: with your friends, and I'm like, man, he's like happy

1100
00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:22,680
Speaker 1: hanging out with friends, and I'm like in my hotel room,

1101
00:58:23,920 --> 00:58:28,400
Speaker 1: but I wasn't like I was outside the bar we

1102
00:58:28,520 --> 00:58:32,280
Speaker 1: went to, just miserable, like man crying Tom. That's the thing.

1103
00:58:32,480 --> 00:58:34,600
Speaker 1: I feel like you're big in New Year's Eve. I

1104
00:58:34,680 --> 00:58:36,360
Speaker 1: think that guys don't like Greep, but I feel like

1105
00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:39,720
Speaker 1: guys are like maybe like we do. We just try

1106
00:58:39,760 --> 00:58:43,600
Speaker 1: to distract ourselves. Well. Also, you just got a lot

1107
00:58:43,640 --> 00:58:46,560
Speaker 1: of questions. Just clarify. Since you're moving to Nashville, are

1108
00:58:46,600 --> 00:58:49,360
Speaker 1: you still going to podcast? We are absolutely still going

1109
00:58:49,400 --> 00:58:51,080
Speaker 1: to podcast. How are you going to do? What they

1110
00:58:51,120 --> 00:58:53,400
Speaker 1: were wondering? We're gonna fly. We're gonna fly to l

1111
00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:57,680
Speaker 1: A once a month to meet with our amazing celebrity guests,

1112
00:58:57,840 --> 00:59:00,440
Speaker 1: and we'll have plenty of choose from the Nashville too. Absolutely,

1113
00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:02,000
Speaker 1: so yeah, it's gonna be one. Oh and you guys,

1114
00:59:02,160 --> 00:59:05,520
Speaker 1: next week we've got one of the f g ls.

1115
00:59:06,840 --> 00:59:08,800
Speaker 1: It's going to be huge. Flora Georgie the line for

1116
00:59:08,840 --> 00:59:11,360
Speaker 1: those who don't follow. And by the way, Ethan's already

1117
00:59:11,360 --> 00:59:16,720
Speaker 1: freaking out. I'm really really excited. Contain your excitement for now,

1118
00:59:16,880 --> 00:59:22,560
Speaker 1: but yes, let's do some emails. This one comes from April.

1119
00:59:23,160 --> 00:59:24,880
Speaker 1: My question is what do you mean when you talk

1120
00:59:24,920 --> 00:59:27,680
Speaker 1: about intimacy versus sex? Can you guys explain that a

1121
00:59:27,760 --> 00:59:30,280
Speaker 1: bit more? Do you mean, like intimacy is being romantic

1122
00:59:30,320 --> 00:59:33,800
Speaker 1: instead of just well um sex to well finished? Or

1123
00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:40,640
Speaker 1: is intimacy and sex like four play? I don't talk

1124
00:59:40,640 --> 00:59:48,960
Speaker 1: about this that very often? Is intimacy and sex? I am?

1125
00:59:49,040 --> 00:59:52,560
Speaker 1: I am on behalf of April. Uh is intimacy and

1126
00:59:52,640 --> 00:59:56,720
Speaker 1: sex like four play and sweetness? What's the difference between

1127
00:59:56,720 --> 00:59:59,920
Speaker 1: intimacy and sex? Is a question? Might do I take that?

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01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:07,160
Speaker 1: M Yeah? For us, the difference is intimacy is for us,

1129
01:00:07,240 --> 01:00:11,520
Speaker 1: it's like intention so it's intentional time. Like Jane was

1130
01:00:11,560 --> 01:00:14,560
Speaker 1: just describing, like us sitting down and just having a

1131
01:00:14,600 --> 01:00:19,560
Speaker 1: conversation and connecting. It could be you know, uh, just

1132
01:00:19,720 --> 01:00:23,440
Speaker 1: something together that it's not just a natural routine type

1133
01:00:23,480 --> 01:00:27,360
Speaker 1: of thing. It's something you do together. You initiate it,

1134
01:00:27,440 --> 01:00:32,240
Speaker 1: you intentionally do something. Um. Yeah, I always thought that

1135
01:00:33,480 --> 01:00:36,680
Speaker 1: intimacy was sex and you can only get intimacy from

1136
01:00:36,760 --> 01:00:42,040
Speaker 1: sex until I met you and you realize that intimacy

1137
01:00:42,080 --> 01:00:47,760
Speaker 1: and sex do not equate. I know not. I got

1138
01:00:47,840 --> 01:00:49,480
Speaker 1: to learn. And that's the coolest thing is I got

1139
01:00:49,600 --> 01:00:53,040
Speaker 1: to learn truly what what the difference is and how

1140
01:00:53,160 --> 01:00:56,120
Speaker 1: you can have intimacy through holding your hand, Intimacy, through

1141
01:00:56,160 --> 01:00:59,480
Speaker 1: having a conversation, intimacy through having a fight in a relationship. Intimacy,

1142
01:00:59,600 --> 01:01:02,480
Speaker 1: like is so much beyond just having sex. So I know,

1143
01:01:02,560 --> 01:01:06,480
Speaker 1: I'm thanking you for that. So I think that's you're

1144
01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:12,120
Speaker 1: talk But then I'm excited tonight. I'm just saying, like

1145
01:01:12,720 --> 01:01:14,640
Speaker 1: you really it's not just about having sex, because I

1146
01:01:14,680 --> 01:01:17,520
Speaker 1: think for me it was just about intimacy is sex

1147
01:01:17,560 --> 01:01:19,919
Speaker 1: and so when I you know, but again, but we're

1148
01:01:20,040 --> 01:01:23,600
Speaker 1: learning obviously with intimacy and you know, our relationship, but

1149
01:01:23,960 --> 01:01:26,520
Speaker 1: it is it is. It still can be sex too,

1150
01:01:26,840 --> 01:01:28,720
Speaker 1: but just in different ways. You have to make it

1151
01:01:28,960 --> 01:01:32,240
Speaker 1: it also depends on the person's love language too, just

1152
01:01:32,440 --> 01:01:34,640
Speaker 1: like for yours. Physical I know we talked about love

1153
01:01:34,720 --> 01:01:37,840
Speaker 1: language is a lot, but because they're very important in

1154
01:01:37,920 --> 01:01:40,680
Speaker 1: our experience. And so if this guy, if April, if

1155
01:01:41,520 --> 01:01:43,480
Speaker 1: you know one of their love languages a sex, then

1156
01:01:44,720 --> 01:01:51,400
Speaker 1: is that love language? I mean physical touch? Physical touch.

1157
01:01:51,440 --> 01:01:53,720
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, I think there's a different term

1158
01:01:56,240 --> 01:02:02,520
Speaker 1: love languages. Sign me up. That's Jane's number one. It's

1159
01:02:02,560 --> 01:02:04,480
Speaker 1: going down though. It's because let me just tell you,

1160
01:02:04,560 --> 01:02:06,680
Speaker 1: remember how I said that my husband used to not

1161
01:02:06,760 --> 01:02:08,520
Speaker 1: want to have sex with me. Now he wants you

1162
01:02:08,560 --> 01:02:14,280
Speaker 1: all the time. And it's Jane has been turning me down.

1163
01:02:15,000 --> 01:02:20,320
Speaker 1: We're just such a different like yeah, he gets me,

1164
01:02:20,480 --> 01:02:23,760
Speaker 1: like when I say good night, time like I'm done.

1165
01:02:23,960 --> 01:02:27,160
Speaker 1: Like when I say good night, it's over. Well I

1166
01:02:27,240 --> 01:02:30,680
Speaker 1: am now that he's like mr like jackhammer over there.

1167
01:02:31,520 --> 01:02:37,680
Speaker 1: I feel like it's talking about sex in front of

1168
01:02:37,680 --> 01:02:45,640
Speaker 1: our daughter. I feel I'm mom and dad have sex, Sarah, Well, really, yes, really?

1169
01:02:45,880 --> 01:02:47,919
Speaker 1: Are you still texting Tie? What is he saying? He's

1170
01:02:47,960 --> 01:02:52,120
Speaker 1: not making sense? Is he coming up right now? He goes, Okay,

1171
01:02:52,160 --> 01:02:54,919
Speaker 1: get it coming out? I said, come? He goes, Wait,

1172
01:02:55,000 --> 01:02:58,000
Speaker 1: are you alive. Why because I've been here for so long.

1173
01:02:58,040 --> 01:03:00,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, this is the room, get up here,

1174
01:03:01,720 --> 01:03:04,200
Speaker 1: coming you guys. He's so scared. He's so scared. Well,

1175
01:03:04,200 --> 01:03:05,880
Speaker 1: hopefully one day we can get tired in the podcast.

1176
01:03:05,920 --> 01:03:10,800
Speaker 1: Maybe when he proposes to you coming, he does it

1177
01:03:10,920 --> 01:03:14,880
Speaker 1: with a microphone with one more Oh yeah, oh this

1178
01:03:15,040 --> 01:03:17,120
Speaker 1: is good. Let's do it. I like your voice you read.

1179
01:03:19,040 --> 01:03:21,520
Speaker 1: Thank you guys. We have fun today with you. It's

1180
01:03:21,520 --> 01:03:24,840
Speaker 1: been really fun. The scorpio and I found that outso

1181
01:03:24,920 --> 01:03:27,440
Speaker 1: like things just totally changed. We just get each other

1182
01:03:27,480 --> 01:03:29,880
Speaker 1: on a whole different level, different level. We're not serial killers.

1183
01:03:30,320 --> 01:03:33,040
Speaker 1: This is this is from anonymous. Uh. My husband and

1184
01:03:33,080 --> 01:03:35,040
Speaker 1: I have been together for twelve years, and initially I

1185
01:03:35,120 --> 01:03:37,680
Speaker 1: didn't want to have kids. Fast forward to now. My

1186
01:03:37,800 --> 01:03:39,640
Speaker 1: husband still doesn't want to have kids, but I have

1187
01:03:39,720 --> 01:03:42,720
Speaker 1: that overwhelming feeling of my inner clock and I want kids.

1188
01:03:43,120 --> 01:03:45,479
Speaker 1: How am I to address the thought without being pushy? Also?

1189
01:03:45,520 --> 01:03:48,560
Speaker 1: How can my husband become comfortable with the idea? So,

1190
01:03:48,640 --> 01:03:50,520
Speaker 1: how do you? How do you bring that up? That

1191
01:03:50,680 --> 01:03:53,280
Speaker 1: makes me? How do we how do I deal with that?

1192
01:03:53,320 --> 01:03:55,720
Speaker 1: How do you deal with that? Honestly? So, he doesn't

1193
01:03:55,760 --> 01:03:58,440
Speaker 1: want kids and she didn't either in the beginning, but

1194
01:03:58,560 --> 01:04:01,440
Speaker 1: now she does because will change. And I always say,

1195
01:04:01,520 --> 01:04:04,760
Speaker 1: it's so hard when you get with someone like m

1196
01:04:05,800 --> 01:04:10,440
Speaker 1: But the hard thing is is that she changed her mind.

1197
01:04:10,600 --> 01:04:12,400
Speaker 1: And it's okay to change your mind, but you also

1198
01:04:12,520 --> 01:04:15,160
Speaker 1: have to know that, Like Michael, if you said I

1199
01:04:15,240 --> 01:04:17,720
Speaker 1: don't want kids, and if I was, but then I

1200
01:04:17,800 --> 01:04:19,480
Speaker 1: changed my mind, it's like, well, you you told me

1201
01:04:19,720 --> 01:04:22,960
Speaker 1: straight from the beginning that was you do not want kids,

1202
01:04:23,040 --> 01:04:24,560
Speaker 1: like you told me that you were up front. It

1203
01:04:24,640 --> 01:04:27,439
Speaker 1: wasn't like, well, I don't know maybe, so that's that's

1204
01:04:27,480 --> 01:04:30,800
Speaker 1: not Yeah, it's not it's it's hard, like you can't

1205
01:04:30,880 --> 01:04:33,880
Speaker 1: doubt her or you can't, you know, give her any

1206
01:04:33,880 --> 01:04:35,680
Speaker 1: crap for wanting to change your mind and have kids,

1207
01:04:35,760 --> 01:04:39,360
Speaker 1: Like we get that, but you cannot blame her husband

1208
01:04:39,440 --> 01:04:42,080
Speaker 1: for you said he was upfront and honest and this

1209
01:04:42,240 --> 01:04:45,200
Speaker 1: is what I want and don't want. But I think

1210
01:04:45,240 --> 01:04:46,880
Speaker 1: it's like one of those things that it's like if

1211
01:04:46,920 --> 01:04:50,000
Speaker 1: you love me so much, you know, but that's not fair,

1212
01:04:50,840 --> 01:04:53,400
Speaker 1: I know. But I feel like that's probably where she's

1213
01:04:53,400 --> 01:04:55,840
Speaker 1: like coming from it. She's probably like, look, don't you

1214
01:04:55,960 --> 01:04:57,720
Speaker 1: love me enough? You know? If it's what I want?

1215
01:04:57,720 --> 01:04:59,880
Speaker 1: Because I mean sometimes that you know, I feel like

1216
01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:02,520
Speaker 1: everyone goes there where it's like okay, da dada, but

1217
01:05:02,640 --> 01:05:04,760
Speaker 1: like do you love me? Because if you love me,

1218
01:05:06,160 --> 01:05:08,920
Speaker 1: which which makes sense, but when it's something like that

1219
01:05:09,040 --> 01:05:11,280
Speaker 1: that's discussed at the beginning of a relationship and then

1220
01:05:11,320 --> 01:05:13,920
Speaker 1: all of a sudden it's changed. Sort of similar situation

1221
01:05:14,000 --> 01:05:16,240
Speaker 1: with our friend who that happened to, and she ended

1222
01:05:16,320 --> 01:05:19,320
Speaker 1: up leaving her husband after fifteen something years, end up

1223
01:05:19,360 --> 01:05:22,240
Speaker 1: having She was yeah, she was in her mid forties,

1224
01:05:22,560 --> 01:05:26,360
Speaker 1: and she ended up adopting because she said that it

1225
01:05:26,400 --> 01:05:28,040
Speaker 1: would just be you have to. You have to ask herself,

1226
01:05:28,160 --> 01:05:30,200
Speaker 1: would you regret not having kids at the end of

1227
01:05:30,200 --> 01:05:32,840
Speaker 1: the day, and she that was I said, would would

1228
01:05:32,880 --> 01:05:34,920
Speaker 1: you rather not have kids? Or you know, you have

1229
01:05:35,000 --> 01:05:36,320
Speaker 1: to you have to make that decision. And she end

1230
01:05:36,400 --> 01:05:39,280
Speaker 1: up at another question that you guys got, and it

1231
01:05:39,400 --> 01:05:41,480
Speaker 1: was like how do you deal with the guilt for

1232
01:05:41,960 --> 01:05:43,880
Speaker 1: not It was it was a woman who was like,

1233
01:05:43,960 --> 01:05:45,520
Speaker 1: I don't want kids, and I feel like people are

1234
01:05:45,560 --> 01:05:48,680
Speaker 1: always guilty me because I don't. Honestly though, like no

1235
01:05:48,800 --> 01:05:51,480
Speaker 1: one I don't. That's that's your decision, That's what I'm like.

1236
01:05:51,560 --> 01:05:53,120
Speaker 1: I feel like it's not fair like if it's something

1237
01:05:53,200 --> 01:05:56,440
Speaker 1: that you want, like, it's not do you just because

1238
01:05:56,480 --> 01:05:58,160
Speaker 1: you don't, And it's not when people say, oh I

1239
01:05:58,200 --> 01:06:01,040
Speaker 1: don't want kids, it's like, okay, cool, that's that's I

1240
01:06:01,160 --> 01:06:03,240
Speaker 1: might not relate to that I might not there shouldn't

1241
01:06:03,240 --> 01:06:05,040
Speaker 1: be but that you shouldn't be guilted. Yeah, And there's

1242
01:06:05,080 --> 01:06:07,280
Speaker 1: no judgment, not at all. And you shouldn't feel bad

1243
01:06:07,280 --> 01:06:09,280
Speaker 1: about that. You should be like you should what makes

1244
01:06:09,280 --> 01:06:11,480
Speaker 1: you happen? Yeah, exactly because some people some people have kids,

1245
01:06:11,520 --> 01:06:14,560
Speaker 1: didn't want kids exactly, don't like their kids, or you know,

1246
01:06:15,080 --> 01:06:17,400
Speaker 1: some people have kids who shouldn't exactly. So it's like

1247
01:06:17,680 --> 01:06:23,160
Speaker 1: people I do miss Julian and Jason, Well I miss Jason,

1248
01:06:24,640 --> 01:06:28,520
Speaker 1: you guys, I walked in the other day in Julie

1249
01:06:28,560 --> 01:06:32,080
Speaker 1: was like sah, and so that makes me missir. I

1250
01:06:32,160 --> 01:06:33,320
Speaker 1: just want to be loved. We all just want to

1251
01:06:33,320 --> 01:06:35,240
Speaker 1: be loved. We also want to be loved, all right, guys.

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