1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,360 Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. We got him for 2 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:04,600 Speaker 1: you to straw every letter. I don't know for some reason, 3 00:00:04,600 --> 00:00:08,360 Speaker 1: I love this subject. Whose is it? Dear Stephen Shirley. 4 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:12,760 Speaker 1: This past Valentine's Day started out as the most amazing 5 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:15,920 Speaker 1: day with the man of my dreams. We planned to 6 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:18,759 Speaker 1: go out to dinner, so after work I went to 7 00:00:18,840 --> 00:00:22,119 Speaker 1: his condo and waited for him to get home. The 8 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 1: moment he walked through the door, we got busy quick 9 00:00:26,280 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 1: and wild style. Afterwards, we pulled ourselves together and went 10 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:34,040 Speaker 1: out to dinner. He gave me the bottle of perfume 11 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:37,320 Speaker 1: that I had always wanted, so the night was going great. 12 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 1: After dinner, we went back to his condo and had 13 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:44,920 Speaker 1: some drinks, listen to some music, and ended up getting 14 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 1: intimate again. The love making was so intense and passionate 15 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:54,800 Speaker 1: this time until he abruptly jumped up and yelled, what 16 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 1: did you say? It took me a couple of seconds 17 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 1: and then I realized, Oh my goodness, I just whispered 18 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:09,520 Speaker 1: my ex's name. How did this happen? I've been divorced 19 00:01:09,600 --> 00:01:13,680 Speaker 1: for ten years and I have no contact whatsoever with 20 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:17,520 Speaker 1: my ex. My man looked at me with this hurt, angry, 21 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:22,400 Speaker 1: disgusted look and left the bedroom. This is the second 22 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:25,839 Speaker 1: time it's happened. I did the same thing a few 23 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 1: years ago. He eventually forgave me the first time and 24 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:32,759 Speaker 1: we got back on track. But this time, I don't 25 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 1: think it's going to be that's going to happen. I've 26 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 1: apologized over and over, but we've only spoken twice since then. 27 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 1: I'm so mad at myself. I'm heartbroken and confused. What 28 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 1: is wrong with me? Do you think he will forgive 29 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 1: me again? Or is it best to just leave it 30 00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 1: alone and walk away? By the way, we're in our 31 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 1: mid fifties, both divorced, and we've been together for the 32 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 1: past seven years. I don't want to lose him. Please help. Wow, 33 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:07,639 Speaker 1: what a way to mess up a really good evening, girl, 34 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:13,160 Speaker 1: What were you thinking? I mean, Okay, I can hear 35 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:21,520 Speaker 1: your brain, I can bathe you guys had a great night. 36 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 1: You say this is a man of your dreams. You 37 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:26,920 Speaker 1: guys have been together for seven years, you've been divorced 38 00:02:26,919 --> 00:02:30,240 Speaker 1: for ten. Where did this come from? I mean, did 39 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:33,400 Speaker 1: you have too much to drink? Were you drunk? You know? 40 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 1: Maybe you can blame it on that, But yeah, this 41 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 1: is this is kind of crazy. And you you heard 42 00:02:38,520 --> 00:02:42,080 Speaker 1: his ego, you know, not just one time, this is 43 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 1: the second time you've done that. How do you think 44 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 1: he's supposed to feel? Uh? It makes him think. I 45 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:50,080 Speaker 1: guess from a man's point of view that you're thinking 46 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:53,080 Speaker 1: during the most endimate time, not about him, but about 47 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:55,919 Speaker 1: your ex. And that's not cool. I don't know how 48 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:59,840 Speaker 1: you did that. You slipped up really badly. He forgave 49 00:02:59,880 --> 00:03:04,359 Speaker 1: you the second time, the first time, I mean eventually, 50 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:06,400 Speaker 1: I don't know if he's gonna forgive you this time. 51 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 1: I don't know. It depends on you know, how you 52 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 1: make it up to him, if he allows you to 53 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 1: make it up to him. I don't think that you 54 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 1: should just leave and walk away without you know, doing 55 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:18,399 Speaker 1: everything you can. But you're in your mid fifties, you're 56 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:20,960 Speaker 1: both divorced. I mean, it sounds like you have a 57 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 1: good thing going. You just messed it up. You're just 58 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 1: gonna have to I don't know, really, you know, plead 59 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:28,360 Speaker 1: and appeal your case to him. Maybe he'll forgive you 60 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 1: a second time. I don't know, Steve, Well, I don't 61 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 1: need to How much time I got how many minutes 62 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 1: have you got plenty of time. Go ahead, because I 63 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 1: could do this three minutes. I can get all this 64 00:03:40,760 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 1: seen in one time. Come on, let's just let me 65 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:47,520 Speaker 1: explain something to you. What happened was has happened to 66 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 1: a lot of men before. But the title of the 67 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 1: letter is whose is it? So obviously he asked a 68 00:03:57,000 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 1: question in the middle of the session. Whose is it? 69 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 1: And he said it because he knew he would putting 70 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 1: in work, take a time. He had had this thing 71 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 1: all moaning this round to y'all back you walk in 72 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 1: the door, is passionate? All held and broke blues. Then 73 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 1: bit your buttons off and that's when you know it's 74 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:38,720 Speaker 1: pop right there, her buttons. He couldn't just rip them. 75 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna need two times to do this because I forgot. 76 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:45,599 Speaker 1: I got to set up. What the hell happened? Y'all 77 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 1: came in the room, tan at each other. The anticipation 78 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:55,239 Speaker 1: was incredible. He gave you perfume that you always wanted. 79 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 1: Y'all walked through the dough. Y'all got busy, she says 80 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:04,240 Speaker 1: in her quick and wild style. Lord, you know what 81 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:10,919 Speaker 1: wild style is this? All? Yeah? This when you break 82 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:16,560 Speaker 1: spindles off in the banister, this where you can't explain 83 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:24,480 Speaker 1: how to hell the refrigerator handle in your hands? This wild? Yeah, 84 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 1: block that hold the mallet and butcher knife. It broke. 85 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 1: You can't even find that other kitchen chair. You don't 86 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:38,240 Speaker 1: even know where the hell hell why is the kitchen 87 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:43,280 Speaker 1: chair outside? He just got three now? Yeah? And who 88 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:48,159 Speaker 1: told the hot water handle off the speed? That's pretty 89 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:59,160 Speaker 1: wild step. All the cushions on the couch is wet. 90 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:04,479 Speaker 1: You can't explain none of this. And it's a crack 91 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 1: in the flash screen TV. That's how wild it got 92 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:20,799 Speaker 1: in the fireplace. Don't work no more. It justin popped off. 93 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:27,080 Speaker 1: This is quick and wild style. When you're in there, 94 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:31,039 Speaker 1: you can't explain nothing. People coming on. What is only 95 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:36,479 Speaker 1: knee prints in this car? Yeah? Girl, is your knees bleeding? 96 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 1: He got a zipper print on his cheek. That's how 97 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:50,279 Speaker 1: wild it got up in there. Now, when I come back, 98 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:55,000 Speaker 1: I'm explain to you. Right in the middle of this 99 00:06:55,200 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 1: wild style. While he was performing at his high level 100 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:05,599 Speaker 1: ever for he asked the proverbial question, whose is it? 101 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:09,480 Speaker 1: There's a word missing in there, but we all know 102 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 1: what he meant. You said, whose is it? When I 103 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:18,200 Speaker 1: come back? We will go down the list of things 104 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:21,600 Speaker 1: you could have said, and then a list of things 105 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:26,880 Speaker 1: that you probably said. Right after this all hell breaks 106 00:07:26,960 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 1: Luke subject whose is it? You had some lists? Yeah, Tommy, yes, sir. 107 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 1: Now for the first time, I'm gonna play the role 108 00:07:40,640 --> 00:07:49,800 Speaker 1: of her. Huh, I'm Tommy's not gonna be okay. I 109 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 1: want you to do Tommy, it's say whose is it? Okay? 110 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 1: Then this first list, it's because she said something wrong, 111 00:07:58,240 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 1: because in the latter she said the tyler letters, whose 112 00:08:01,560 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 1: is it? In the middle of the letters, she said, 113 00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 1: he jumped up and said what did you say? So 114 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:11,840 Speaker 1: now after he jumped up and said, to avoid the 115 00:08:12,080 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 1: what did you say? Let me give you, ladies, a 116 00:08:15,320 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 1: list of things that you can say if you're unsure 117 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:25,840 Speaker 1: of whose it is? M hm, So Tommy, go ahead, 118 00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:37,400 Speaker 1: Whose is it? Oh? Hi, I see that's easy. Like 119 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:44,520 Speaker 1: a bear, that's all right. He sounded like a bear. 120 00:08:45,920 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 1: Whose is it? Who? It's you? Daddy? It's you, daddy. 121 00:08:55,400 --> 00:08:58,440 Speaker 1: You're not a good girl. I ain't gotta be. I'm 122 00:08:58,440 --> 00:09:03,560 Speaker 1: just trying to save your man. Whose is it? Big down? 123 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 1: Any of these would have worked. Whose is it? Yas? 124 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:25,079 Speaker 1: Look at me? Whose is it. Who you think? Whose 125 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 1: is it? You better know it? All of those would 126 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:36,679 Speaker 1: have worked. One more thommas, whose is it in work? 127 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:47,320 Speaker 1: That's my favorite. Now, those are a list of things 128 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:50,840 Speaker 1: that you can use to keep yourself out of trouble, 129 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:55,560 Speaker 1: that would keep a man engaged, working hard, giving his all. 130 00:09:56,600 --> 00:10:01,560 Speaker 1: Now here's what you can't say when he asked you, now, 131 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:10,600 Speaker 1: his name is Nathaniel. Name is Nathan. My name, it's Nathaniel. 132 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:19,960 Speaker 1: It's quick name. I forgot that that was on driving like, so, 133 00:10:20,160 --> 00:10:31,400 Speaker 1: come on, Tommy, whose is it? Who? Harold? What? I 134 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:40,120 Speaker 1: don't know? What? Baby? What I say? Missing? You have 135 00:10:40,240 --> 00:10:46,680 Speaker 1: to be call me Harrod? Come, I said, Nathan? No, no, no, 136 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 1: you said Harry Nathaniel? Why would I come you? Okay, 137 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:55,880 Speaker 1: go again, let's go, Come on baby, look at me? 138 00:10:56,200 --> 00:11:13,360 Speaker 1: Whose is it? Oh? Guessing what you're doing? What's your name? 139 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:18,920 Speaker 1: Did you say? Go ahead? And time to do it again? 140 00:11:20,120 --> 00:11:24,559 Speaker 1: All right? Baby? Whose is it? Okay? Okay, okay, let 141 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:35,560 Speaker 1: me thank that time you gotta go. B What did 142 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 1: you say you gotta keep doing that? What did you 143 00:11:40,040 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 1: just say? What did you say? Do it again? Go ahead? 144 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:54,680 Speaker 1: Whose is it? Baby? I don't know? What did you 145 00:11:54,760 --> 00:12:09,640 Speaker 1: say you're doing good. You don't know. Come on, baby, 146 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:14,200 Speaker 1: whose is it? Baby? Maybe I said whose is it? 147 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 1: I'm configured? Why are you asking me? Yeah? What what'd 148 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:26,200 Speaker 1: you tell about you? I asked you? Whose is it? 149 00:12:26,640 --> 00:12:40,360 Speaker 1: Last one? Baby? Baby? Whose is it? What did you say? 150 00:12:41,080 --> 00:12:49,320 Speaker 1: What did you last? One? Time? Talk to me baby? 151 00:12:49,679 --> 00:12:58,680 Speaker 1: Talk to me baby? Whose is it? Baby? Whose is it? What? 152 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 1: Your name is? Thank you? My name? They thank you? 153 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:26,559 Speaker 1: I'm busy. That's what you mean. Fill it in. Yeah, 154 00:13:27,240 --> 00:13:36,839 Speaker 1: that's classic fun. Steven oh Man, who was your face? 155 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:43,480 Speaker 1: Thank you for letting me be again? Word? Sorry, that 156 00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:56,840 Speaker 1: just covered Tell me so? He was really into got 157 00:13:56,840 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 1: a party? Are you reading hard? It's just a reenactment 158 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:06,320 Speaker 1: what I mean? But he got that part down. Yeah, 159 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:11,880 Speaker 1: put your shirt back on. We don't know you like that? 160 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:15,040 Speaker 1: All right? Listen, we gotta get out of here. Guys. 161 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 1: You can email us or instagram us your thought on 162 00:14:18,040 --> 00:14:21,560 Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter at my Girl, Shirley. You're listening to 163 00:14:21,720 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show.