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Speaker 1: to talk about pressure? Yeah? How about taking a girl

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't even want to know, and neither would I. I

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Speaker 1: to Don, who's on the phone of us right now. Hi? Don, Hey, guys,

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Speaker 1: how are you. I'm doing pretty good? So your email

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Speaker 1: about your date with this dude named Tim says that

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Speaker 1: he didn't really plan it that way, Like we met

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Speaker 1: having a really great time. He said, I'd actually like

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Speaker 1: to be my birthday. And he didn't go no, no no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to go Saturday. Noe, nope, nope, thank

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Speaker 1: a big party all for myself. I'm not that that

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Speaker 1: So did you feel that maybe he thought it was

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Speaker 1: I didn't get because I told him why but I

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Speaker 1: burned by that a few times. I didn't ask out

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Speaker 1: What did he do? We just like showed up for dinner.

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Speaker 1: But when I got there there was flowers. I mean

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Speaker 1: it wasn't like a dozen roses, but it was, you know, flowers,

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Speaker 1: crappy little I meant, like not serious. You know, that

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Speaker 1: first you know, there's just no way I creep on

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Speaker 1: he get you a present too? Yeah, but it was

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Speaker 1: like it could have been for anybody, Like it was

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Speaker 1: a couple of movie passes and then like a stuffed animal,

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Speaker 1: but it was like a birthday cake. So it wasn't like,

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Speaker 1: you give you two movie passes? He doesn't want you

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Speaker 1: to use those on somebody else? Well, no, that's I mean, oh,

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Speaker 1: Now I don't like him even more. How did the

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Speaker 1: And you know, I told him, thank you for giving

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Speaker 1: two point five the second part of your second day update.

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Speaker 1: that's what happened. She met Tim in a barbecue. Her

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Speaker 1: He got her flowers, and they had dinner and kissed

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Speaker 1: to Tim? Please? Tim? What's up, dude? How are you

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Speaker 1: This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the morning.

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Speaker 1: I'm moving on two point five. Hey, how's it going? Uh? Good? Nice?

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Speaker 1: and she wants to know why. Uh, that's kind of

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Speaker 1: a double standard and it works fine for us. Anyway, Tim,

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Speaker 1: And there was no happy birthday messages on her Facebook?

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Speaker 1: What none? Why? You don't know yet? Her book double checks,

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Speaker 1: Sean whose friends is there on Facebook? I was like, yo, Sean,

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Speaker 1: And it wasn't. Oh my god, Tim, what's that? Don's

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Speaker 1: So they're going awkward that Facebook information isn't my actual birthday?

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Speaker 1: Why lie about your birthday? Though? Well, I'm a little

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Speaker 1: more than three. Just give us the truth, dud. How

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Speaker 1: Mind my trust? When we met at the barbecue and

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Speaker 1: I didn't lie to you. You didn't ask me how

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Speaker 1: But if you're going to get like that overdramatized because

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Speaker 1: me on Facebook. So I made a completely different birthday date. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I made myself younger. And if you don't want to

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Speaker 1: out with you. That brings me to my next point. Tim,

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Speaker 1: would you like to go out with Don again because

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Speaker 1: we will pay for a second date and send you

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Speaker 1: guys out. Tim, would you like to go out on

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Speaker 1: a second date with Don? That's a pretty hard now,

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Speaker 1: I'll come on. She brought up some really valid points. No, no, okay, Don,

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