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Speaker 1: You guys make my day, Like every single day, I'm

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Speaker 1: like rocking.

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Speaker 2: Morning Show. Ever. You guys are freaking phenomenon.

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Speaker 3: It's own past.

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Speaker 4: Elvis Durran him The Morning Show one hundred.

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Speaker 3: Are you driving It's about to fall apart? You know

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Speaker 3: our friend Scotty b Here, the Eater of the Big Banana,

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Speaker 3: he says every time every morning he gets into his

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Speaker 3: jeloppie and he prays it starts, and then he prays

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Speaker 3: on that right, and he prays that it's gonna start

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Speaker 3: again after he turns off the ignition. I just know morning,

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna call Nate and be like, dude, I can't

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Speaker 3: make it in because the wheel fell off. My question

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Speaker 3: is how many people are are driving this that kind

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Speaker 3: of nightmare every single day? Like, at the very least,

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Speaker 3: maybe the check engine light is on every day? What

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Speaker 3: is it exactly? It's what It's a two thousand and

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Speaker 3: five Chevy Tahoe, Okay, with lots and lots of miles

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Speaker 3: on it, I guess because you're coming in and out

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Speaker 5: Yeah, over one hundred and fifty thousand miles. It's older

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Speaker 5: than my kids. Okay, well, so he's just waiting. He's

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Speaker 5: waiting for that day where it just dies. It's gonna die,

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Speaker 5: you know that it's on this last leg. So people

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Speaker 5: started calling and texting. So many people are right now

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Speaker 5: They're driving something that's that shouldn't even be street legal.

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Speaker 5: Maybe it just barely started today. You should see all

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Speaker 5: these things people were sending out texts. Have you seen

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Speaker 5: some of these.

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Speaker 6: I used to be one of these people, but yeah,

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Speaker 6: I've seen some of the stuff that's going on, and

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 6: I'm like, oh, you're tired about to fall off? Oh

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Speaker 7: Nobody texted in their car has no sway bar, and

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Speaker 7: we're like, what's that? That's that's basically what keeps your

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Speaker 8: Wait, what is I never even heard of that?

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Speaker 9: What is a sway bar? He just told you exactly

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Speaker 7: It's under in the suspension and it keeps the car

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Speaker 3: Maybe that's why you've had so many wrecks. You should

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Speaker 9: I guess I forgot to do that my next one.

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Speaker 3: I didn't know this sway bar was an option. Anyway,

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Speaker 3: here's it take. Someone tried to steal my cars. They

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Speaker 3: bashed the window out. Now it's the garbage bag and

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Speaker 3: a rolla duct tape and the steering wheel. Callumn is gone.

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Speaker 3: How can you drive a car without a steering wheel?

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Speaker 3: Call them? That doesn't make sense to me. I can't

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Speaker 3: turn my head because my neck fell off. I have

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Speaker 3: a two thousand and Ultima. We put transmission fluid every week,

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Speaker 3: and every week the car acts like it will stall

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Speaker 3: Someone else in a texted earlier, saying they had to

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Speaker 3: put a new anti freeze in every single day, every day.

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Speaker 8: What is the cost on that?

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Speaker 3: It's more than gas per gallon?

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Speaker 10: Right?

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Speaker 3: I don't I don't know? Uh God?

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Speaker 3: Line twenty is Laura. Let's see if she's still there.

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Speaker 3: She named her Okay, hey Laura, how are you hi?

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Speaker 9: Good?

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Speaker 11: How are you guys doing well?

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Speaker 3: Why did you name your car Karen?

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Speaker 12: Because she always freaking needs something from my life. She's

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Speaker 12: always demanding something, Karen.

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Speaker 3: The demanding Karen, your car is asking to speak to

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Speaker 3: the manager. Hey, so you took Karen to the shop

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Speaker 3: yesterday because you heard a weird noise, right.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, So the weird noise was something that came loose,

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Speaker 12: one with the sway bar that's missing.

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Speaker 3: No, so Froggy says that without a sway bar, you're

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Speaker 9: Oh my god.

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Speaker 12: So I asked him, I said, is that really dangerous

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Speaker 12: he was like, well, apparently you have been for a while.

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Speaker 12: So we're gonna get We're gonna get that thing.

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Speaker 3: Okay, is there anything on the car that does work?

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Speaker 3: I mean, like winschle wipers and and like you the

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Speaker 12: So well, the fluid thing is a little broken. So

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Speaker 12: when I spray my winchl wiper fluid, it just goes

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Speaker 14: O my god.

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Speaker 3: So now how much longer do you think? How much

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Speaker 3: longer do you think she has in her I mean,

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Speaker 3: I mean, at what point do you do you give up?

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Speaker 12: He gave me a week to get it all things.

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Speaker 12: He said, if you don't come back within a week,

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Speaker 12: then you're you're going to be in trouble when you're

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Speaker 12: on the road. So you need to make sure that

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Speaker 12: you get this fixed quickly.

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Speaker 3: Would you please do us a favorite and we're.

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Speaker 12: Going to get this fixed within the next couple day.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Laura, do us a favorite. When it's fixed, will

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Speaker 3: you call us and let us know you're okay? Please?

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Speaker 12: Well, it's so good to talk to you, guys. Thank you.

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Speaker 3: It's good to talk to you. But we're worried. We're

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Speaker 3: very very concerned about you. Right, Okay, thank you, Thank you, Laura.

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Speaker 3: I have a safe day. Ask a friend to give

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Speaker 3: you a ride. A line twenty one is Bonnie? Now, Bonnie,

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Speaker 3: like the rest of us, you know, you look down

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Speaker 3: and that check engine light is on. It's like, okay,

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Speaker 3: I'll get to it. Right, this happened to YouTube forever. Yep, yeah,

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Speaker 3: so tell us what happened. Take us back to the

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Speaker 3: first moment you saw the check engine light on, and

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Speaker 3: then what happened?

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Speaker 13: My check engine light is on, so I just kind

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Speaker 13: of look the other way for a while. Then I

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Speaker 13: fixed itself. The check engine light is.

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Speaker 3: Off or burned out.

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Speaker 14: She has an amazing car.

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Speaker 3: Well that's a miracle. That's a good old fashion miracle

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Speaker 3: right there. Well, so you're just so you never knew

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Speaker 13: Nope, I'm still driving it now. My amazing car fixed itself.

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Speaker 11: Oh check every time.

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Speaker 15: It's still on here. I don't know.

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Speaker 10: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: If my check engine light went off, I would assume, okay,

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Speaker 3: it found its way. I agree.

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Speaker 7: Cars don't fix themselves. What happens is probably the bull

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Speaker 7: burned out. That was like that, all right, the censor fried.

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Speaker 7: All right, Well, good luck with that, Bonnie. Let us

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Speaker 3: Maybe you never know.

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Speaker 13: Oh, dear God, thank you guys, I love you all.

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Speaker 3: Thank you Bonnie. Line twenty four is Alyssa my favorite

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Speaker 3: say hey, Alssa, how are you good? My favorite thing?

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Speaker 3: I heard Nate pick up your call while the song

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Speaker 3: tell me about your Chevy and Paula, and I knew

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Speaker 3: we were going to talk to you. What is going

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Speaker 3: on with your Chevy and Paula?

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Speaker 15: Okay, So it's a two thousand and eight seven and Paula,

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Speaker 15: and it has like things in miles home day now.

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Speaker 15: My husband bought it and just before readee each other.

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Speaker 15: It's like back in two thousand and eight with like

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Speaker 15: of those miles. And the very first few years he

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Speaker 15: for like the first five or six years.

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Speaker 3: Of his life.

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Speaker 15: The thing he moved up to Illinois. But so now

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Speaker 15: when you do about forty miles an hour, starts to

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Speaker 3: Then shitay hold on, let me, I'm writing this down,

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Speaker 3: I'm riding this. He starts shaking it. Forty miles per hour.

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Speaker 15: Oh okay, you go about like fifty or fifty five.

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Speaker 15: It starts through the back out and then you don't

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Speaker 3: That's okay, Okay, let me get this straight in case

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Speaker 3: I have to borrow your Chevy and Paula, Elissa, It's

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Speaker 3: gonna start shaking right around forty, but it levels out

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Speaker 3: fifty five is as probably as fast as you want

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Speaker 15: Your own Paula right sixty five is about the limit, okay.

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Speaker 3: sixty So right in, there's okay, no shaky. Now are

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Speaker 3: you planning on getting rid of your Chevy and Paula

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Speaker 3: with over three hundred thousand miles anytime? Okay? Keep rolling.

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Speaker 15: It's funny because even like the ignition, my husband can

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Speaker 15: you have to sit there and wiggle it and wiggle

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Speaker 15: it it it and want to do it, I know,

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Speaker 3: We gotta give her some credit. She still gets you

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Speaker 3: where you need to go, and she still starts if

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Speaker 3: you just give her a little wiggle, you know, best

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Speaker 3: of luck. Just be safe on the roads, okay, promise.

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Speaker 3: Oh all right, thanks for listening to us. A line

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Speaker 3: twenty two is Ali. She has a two thousand and

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Speaker 17: You know, I mean it gets you a point A

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Speaker 17: what's the problem. Well, so, you know, one time I

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Speaker 17: was driving on the highway and the automatic flighting door

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Speaker 17: it just kind of flew open and no real reason.

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Speaker 17: I don't really know what happened there. Of course, my

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Speaker 17: son was in the car in his car seat. He's like, MoMA,

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Speaker 17: door open. I'm like, oh oh, oh my god. So yeah,

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Speaker 17: that was that was not great. And then actually my

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Speaker 17: and twenty seventeen this little alert popped up on my

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Speaker 17: GPS that said, I'm ten years old, it's time to

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Speaker 17: buy a new car, and I should have listened.

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Speaker 3: Are you serious? Oh my god, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I'm good there.

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Speaker 17: I'm trying to find the photo to send to you guys,

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Speaker 17: because I have it, and I because I saw it

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Speaker 17: and I was in total disbelief.

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Speaker 3: I'd love to see that your car is actually saying,

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Speaker 3: just just kill me, just kill.

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Speaker 3: Good morning, good morning. Let's get into the horse groops producer, same,

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Speaker 18: How about Scottie b And Happy New Year to you.

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Speaker 3: What is the official cut off for Happy New Year today?

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Speaker 3: McKinnon and Rowan Atkinson. Mister Bean Hey Capricorn, you're feeling

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Speaker 18: Nine Aquarius, you are choosing detachment instead of disappointment.

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Speaker 9: Oh, why's upgrade? Your day's a six.

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Speaker 18: Your days of eight, hey, Aries, let your actions speak

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Speaker 3: Hey, you know what. I was talking to Gandhi earlier

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Speaker 3: So you have the article in front of you, I do. Okay,

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Speaker 3: So what in general what are we learning here?

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Speaker 6: So these are specifically about home break ins and things

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Speaker 6: One of the first things they say is unless the

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Speaker 6: it's going to get taken and they're going to get

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Speaker 8: They said.

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Speaker 6: Anything that's gonna take them more than fifteen minutes to

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Speaker 6: Closets are a gold mine under the bed is a

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Speaker 6: gold mine. Any drawers you have gold mines. You have

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Speaker 6: to find better places to hide things, they say. Keeping

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Speaker 6: You know how a lot of people have a bowl

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Speaker 6: the keywrack at the front door. Yeah, they say, don't

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Speaker 3: Interesting. Yeah, I'm wondering if the bedroom is where we

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Speaker 8: I think a lot of people think, yeah, I'm just

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Speaker 3: We find it. Do you know once someone broke into

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Speaker 3: because people hide jewelry in detergent. Yes, I'm like what

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Speaker 6: They're saying, if you really have things that are very

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Speaker 6: Pay whatever that fee is for the month to keep

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Speaker 6: like that, to have a decoy box, like a little

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Speaker 6: that looks like, oh, they got all the stuff if

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Speaker 6: they come here. Don't hide things in your laundry baskets.

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Speaker 6: They said, they will just ransack your entire house, chop

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Speaker 3: It's just so what would that be. What could you

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Speaker 8: I don't know. They did not specify that far.

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Speaker 14: Put it in a safe deposit box like you said,

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Speaker 14: and then they won't find it there you go, but.

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Speaker 3: They're going to ransack your house looking for it and

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Speaker 3: cause some damage. Here's what I'm thinking. It doesn't make

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Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. That they're gonna break in, They'll

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Speaker 6: They said be careful about what you're tossing into your

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Speaker 7: Like an advertisement like hey, look what we got a

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Speaker 6: Specifically after Christmas they will do drive bys of all

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Speaker 8: Then they hit your house.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean there's there's a lot of stuff that

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Speaker 3: So now I feel guilty for bitching a moment about

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Speaker 8: No, they're just looking out for you.

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Speaker 3: They do what dogs do. Yesterday and we had some

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Speaker 20: No.

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Speaker 6: One of the other things that they say people really

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Speaker 14: A lot of people were saying, when you go on

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Speaker 3: Exactly we're going to be gone for three weeks. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: come on, come on by. Yeah, I know they're scary

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Speaker 8: I actually did say leaving a light on is important.

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Speaker 21: What am I sticking the money in between the stacks

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Speaker 22: Thanks.

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Speaker 3: Thanks, scary, you just told us where to go. Look.

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Speaker 3: You know, I had a really good friend who lived

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Speaker 3: their apartment. Wow, no, one crazy. Someone just walked by

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Speaker 7: Frog, this person's got a great idea. They texted in

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Speaker 7: from Mary Code from Miami. Three of five. If you,

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Speaker 7: if you have a robber, put valuables in the enclosure

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Speaker 7: of your reptiles. Nobody's going to go in the snaking table.

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Speaker 14: When Tonko was alive, I should have put it under

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Speaker 8: I would have taken a reptile. You're coming with me?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you would have taken the reptile before you take

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Speaker 3: any money? Gandhi? Is that the entire list? Because I

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Speaker 8: Yeah, that's that's the majority of the list.

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Speaker 3: All right. Yeah, you know, if you don't want Danielle

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Speaker 3: mayonnaise job. Yeah.

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Speaker 8: Oh yes, you would never not go in there.

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Speaker 14: That's not even allowed in the house in my house.

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Speaker 2: There.

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Speaker 6: You love to hear from somebody who actually did break

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Speaker 8: Oh, Nate's leaving at me.

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Speaker 3: You have someone's let's go talk to Garrett, a former burglar.

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Speaker 3: Burglar burglar on line twenty four. Hey Garrett, good morning,

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Speaker 3: Good morning.

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Speaker 23: How are you well?

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Speaker 3: We're doing fine. So you heard Gandhi reading this, Uh,

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Speaker 3: these tips from former robbers. Do you have any to

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Speaker 3: of lame What do you think?

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Speaker 23: I think it's more of a matter of uh, you know,

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Speaker 23: be home. Like Gandhi said earlier, it's not really a

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Speaker 23: matter of driving by.

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Speaker 3: Right, So, so people who I guess casing the situation

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Speaker 3: what time they usually leave their schedule, stuff.

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Speaker 23: Like that, right right, right, So I mean I was

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Speaker 23: I wouldn't say I was a former burglar.

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Speaker 22: When I was.

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Speaker 23: Fourteen, I got into a little bit of trouble with

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Speaker 23: some friends, breaking into a house, ended up with the felonies.

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Speaker 23: Luckily I was under.

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Speaker 16: The age of eighteen.

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Speaker 23: So yeah, so that was all that was fun.

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Speaker 3: That was a short lived career for you in the

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Speaker 22: It was one and done.

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Speaker 23: It was one and done.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, good, I'm happy that you said that. Well anyway,

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Speaker 3: so yeah, I think you bring up a good point

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Speaker 3: is people watch your schedule. People know what time you

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Speaker 3: You know, producer Sam. A little while ago, you were

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Speaker 3: talking about a friend of yours, Yes, who needed to

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Speaker 3: take a second look at her relationship. She's in correct,

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Speaker 3: maybe from someone else's viewpoint, and and you helped her

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Speaker 3: out right, Yes, So can we go back to that

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Speaker 3: for a minute.

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Speaker 8: Absolutely.

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Speaker 3: I mean I don't want to, you know, I don't

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Speaker 3: want to embarrass anyone to use names or anything.

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Speaker 18: No, I won't use her name. And she's a very

476
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Speaker 18: very smart girl. I've known her since high school, so yeah,

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Speaker 18: she's a very wise person. But sometimes when you're in

478
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Speaker 18: the thick of a relationship and feeling in love with someone,

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Speaker 18: you fail to see what was to me.

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Speaker 9: A really obvious red flag.

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Speaker 3: Right, So what's the obvious If I may ask, what's

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Speaker 3: the obvious red flat?

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Speaker 18: They've been together for over a year and he keeps

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Speaker 18: coming up with different reasons why he's yet to introduce

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Speaker 18: her to any of his friends.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, well we could break that down. Well, maybe

487
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Speaker 3: he hangs out with people he's embarrassed to hang out with,

488
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Speaker 3: or maybe he doesn't want them to meet her.

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Speaker 9: So true, there's a bunch of different reasons.

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Speaker 18: So I was very careful to not be like that

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Speaker 18: means he's blank because I don't know.

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Speaker 8: I don't know the guy.

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Speaker 9: I couldn't tell you what it is.

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Speaker 18: But I couldn't even come up with a best case

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Speaker 18: scenario where I felt like that was treating her the

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Speaker 18: way she deserved to be treated in a relationship.

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Speaker 3: I get that if I had a friend coming to

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Speaker 3: me and say, hey, you know, we've been dating for

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Speaker 3: a year and I haven't met anyone that they are

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Speaker 3: friends with, but they go out with them. So I'm

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Speaker 3: assuming this person goes out with the friend time.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, he goes out with friends.

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Speaker 3: But she's not invited, correct, I don't know.

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Speaker 14: I mean, it could be that his friends are just

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Speaker 14: scumbags and he doesn't want her around them because he

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Speaker 14: values what he has. But if that's the case, then

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Speaker 14: do you want to be with someone who has friends

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Speaker 14: that are scumbacks?

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Speaker 3: You know you are who you surround yourself with. But wait,

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Speaker 3: why has she not asked him? She says she I.

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Speaker 18: Would She said she's asked him, But she's kind of

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Speaker 18: a passive personality, so she's not like me. It'd be

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Speaker 18: like we're doing this this weekend or not at all.

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Speaker 18: She just kind of like lets him know and then

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Speaker 18: kind of lets herself get I think a little walked on.

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Speaker 3: See I couldn't I couldn't you know me, I'd be

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Speaker 3: right under that hood?

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Speaker 22: Man?

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Speaker 3: What's going on?

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Speaker 10: Right?

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Speaker 3: Who are your friends? Who are these friends?

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Speaker 15: Right?

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Speaker 18: There's so many reasons that are potential, and most of

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Speaker 18: them are bad, most of them.

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Speaker 3: Is there something wonky about her that he doesn't want

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Speaker 3: them to know about?

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Speaker 9: I don't think so, not at all.

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Speaker 18: She's like a little bit of a silently intimidating character,

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Speaker 18: So I think that like might be possible. But if

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Speaker 18: we're in a committed relationship, you prioritize me. If you

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Speaker 18: get this personality, let me know by actually actively choosing me.

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Speaker 3: But here's the thing, I don't consider this a committed relationship. No,

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Speaker 3: if you can't bring me around, yeah, yeah, exactly. If

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Speaker 3: how do your friends not.

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Speaker 8: Know about me?

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Speaker 14: That's like a secret they you know.

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Speaker 3: They know the old part of a relationship is you

538
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Speaker 3: were a part of their lives. I agree with you,

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Speaker 3: so they know she exists.

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Speaker 18: Yes, she's talked to a few of them on social Oh,

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Speaker 18: he's just never allowed her or invited her, and she

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Speaker 18: has not invited herself to mesh with these friends. And

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Speaker 18: when it comes up in conversation, he's, you know, just

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Speaker 18: kind of does a great job skirting it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, let's let's consider another possibility. Maybe as sort of

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Speaker 3: on the heels of what Daniel said, there are a

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Speaker 3: bunch of scumbacks. Maybe they're not, but maybe for some reason,

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Speaker 3: he is ready for a new life. He wants a

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Speaker 3: life with new people. But then again, if he's still

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Speaker 3: hanging out with them, then that's not the case. I

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Speaker 3: don't know.

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Speaker 18: Yeah, he says he has one, like she says, he

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Speaker 18: has one core group, like that person you know that

554
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Speaker 18: always hangs out with the same friends, and that's that,

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Speaker 18: that's his social life.

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Speaker 3: I have a really dear friend who has been in

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Speaker 3: a relationship for me many years and has never met

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Speaker 3: the family, has never met anyone in his circle ever,

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Speaker 3: But to continue to move on and life is still whatever.

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Speaker 9: It is, and they're both happy about that.

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Speaker 3: It doesn't seem that way. I think it's more of

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Speaker 3: a it's just the way it is, so we live

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Speaker 3: with it. I don't know. I don't want to sit

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Speaker 3: here and say, well, I would never do that. I

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Speaker 3: would never because I mean, because we're all different. I

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Speaker 3: mean we all have different different levels of patience and whatever.

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Speaker 18: But it wasn't making her feel very secure, Like that's

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Speaker 18: what started this part of the conversation is the way

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Speaker 18: she talked about it. She's feeling a little insecure with

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Speaker 18: herself and her relationship to him. So that's why I'm like,

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Speaker 18: all right, let's let's just talk about the potential of

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Speaker 18: this being a serious red flag and maybe it's not

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Speaker 18: quite as rosy as you feel like it is.

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Speaker 3: I like this text. Maybe he's a gamer and all

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Speaker 3: his friends are online.

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Speaker 14: Maybe maybe all his friends are just imaginary friends.

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Speaker 3: May or maybe maybe maybe she needs to like follow

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Speaker 3: follow him some night.

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Speaker 8: That's the best answer.

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Speaker 3: Follow him. Where's he going with? He said, Let's go

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Speaker 3: see what they're doing. What if they're like, you know,

582
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Speaker 3: some satanists.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, actually they worked for this.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe they're they're like they're killing frogs and things.

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Speaker 16: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. Hello Melissa, Hi, how are you guys

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Speaker 3: doing very well? I'm so glad you're listening. I'm so

588
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Speaker 3: glad you're participating in the conversation. I know that you

589
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Speaker 3: said you were in a relationship for two years and never.

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Speaker 16: Ever, never have a situationship.

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Speaker 3: A situationship, and never met his friends. All right, go ahead.

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Speaker 16: Yeah, So we had met online and it was all

593
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Speaker 16: great in the beginning, and then I couldn't wait for

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Speaker 16: him to meet my family and friends. My sister went

595
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Speaker 16: on two double dates with him my friends, but I

596
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Speaker 16: never met his family, never met his friends.

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Speaker 24: And it started to make me feel like I was

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Speaker 24: a kept secret. So I ended up breaking up with

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Speaker 24: him on Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 3: Okay, cool, But wait, what's your gut feeling telling you?

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Speaker 3: Why do you think? It may not be accurate? But

602
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Speaker 3: why do you what's your hunch? Why do you think

603
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Speaker 3: he never ever introduced you to his family or friends

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Speaker 3: in two years?

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Speaker 16: Well, I think it was a couple things. His parents

606
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Speaker 16: he told me, were really strict. It was also an

607
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Speaker 16: inter racial relationship, so I think he was a little

608
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Speaker 16: nervous to introduce me and have different aspects that he

609
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Speaker 16: wasn't used to to introduce me to. But I also think,

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Speaker 16: like for him, he had trouble with commitment, like I

611
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Speaker 16: was looking to always define it, and he was like, oh,

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Speaker 16: I feel like we're moving too fast. But he was

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Speaker 16: also older than me. He was about sixty years older

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Speaker 16: than me, So I'm like, what do you mean, Like

615
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Speaker 16: how long do you think you know you're looking for

616
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Speaker 16: a commitment and how long do you think you would know?

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Speaker 16: And I just felt like I was always making these

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Speaker 16: pieces for him, like why he couldn't come out to

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Speaker 16: me out with friends because we were always invited to

620
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Speaker 16: things that I would always show up by myself.

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Speaker 3: That's not a relationship. I mean, well it is, it's

622
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Speaker 3: just not a very healthy one in my opinion. I mean,

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Speaker 3: and you, obviously, after two years, realized that you deserve

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Speaker 3: better than that. So kaboom, you know, goodbye, Yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 15: Yeah, exactly.

626
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Speaker 16: Now I'm now I'm in a new relationship and couldn't

627
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Speaker 16: be happier right away. He couldn't wait to introduce me

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Speaker 16: to friends and family, and I'm like, to me, it was

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Speaker 16: such a big deal, but it was also a bare minimum.

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Speaker 16: And it just made me realize how easy it is

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Speaker 16: to just be treated respect and.

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Speaker 3: Yes, there you go. Yeah, all right, Well, thank you

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Speaker 3: Melissa and best of luck with your new fresh I

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Speaker 3: know his friend relationship.

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Speaker 22: Thank you so.

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Speaker 10: Much, guys.

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Speaker 16: I love you guys so much. I hope you have

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Speaker 16: a great day.

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Speaker 3: Oh you too, hope you do too. And finally we

640
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Speaker 3: talked to Shannon. Hi.

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Speaker 25: Shannon, Hi, how are you guys doing very well or

642
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Speaker 25: doing well?

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I don't want to speak for everyone. If you're not

645
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Speaker 3: doing well, speak now.

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Speaker 10: So I totally think she should leave him. I mean,

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Speaker 10: I was in a relationship for four years. I got

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Speaker 10: engaged in December, it was done by June. There were

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Speaker 10: so many red flags. I wasn't allowed to go out

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Speaker 10: with the boys with him. He would go out all

651
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Speaker 10: the time. When I asked, so can I come, No,

652
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Speaker 10: I was never allowed to come. I mean I did

653
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Speaker 10: meet his family and everything, I mean down the line.

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Speaker 10: There was some toughle there, but he was definitely a

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Speaker 10: mama's boy. But honestly, I think that it's better off.

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Speaker 10: She's better alone. There's definitely some piss in this dating

657
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Speaker 10: pool nowadays. I think men are dogs, and you know,

658
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Speaker 10: if they can't bring you around their friends and show

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Speaker 10: you your family, like I don't understand, I don't see

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Speaker 10: really anything happening there.

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Speaker 3: There you go. You want someone that makes you feel

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Speaker 3: secure and loved and protected and you know, and there's

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Speaker 3: there should be no doubt that they're that they're into

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Speaker 3: you and they want you to meet their family and friends.

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Speaker 14: What's that, Danielle Sam did She has she ever said hey,

666
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Speaker 14: can I come out with you and the guys?

667
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Speaker 9: Yeah, she's let him know.

668
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Speaker 14: He has just said no, I don't.

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Speaker 18: He's not He's crafty. He hasn't said no. It's more

670
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:23,080
Speaker 18: like we'll make a plan. This one won't work, we'll

671
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Speaker 18: get there. And it's been a year of not getting

672
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Speaker 18: which just saying no, We're.

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Speaker 9: Just saying no basically exactly.

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Speaker 3: Shannon. Sounds like you know exactly what it is you

675
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Speaker 3: want and exactly what it is you deserve. And I'm

676
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Speaker 3: so happy that you that it's totally totally totally uh,

677
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 3: your your walk in life, right. I love that. I

678
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:43,960
Speaker 3: love that go for it exactly.

679
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Speaker 10: Nobody should fight for love. It should be you know,

680
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 10: given and taken and you should give it him return.

681
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Speaker 3: Amen. I love it all right, Shannon, Thank you very much.

682
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Speaker 3: I appreciate your call.

683
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Speaker 10: Thank you guys, we love you, love.

684
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Speaker 3: You by see there you go, So best of luck

685
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Speaker 3: with your friend.

686
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Speaker 16: I know.

687
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Speaker 18: I think the bare basement of any relationship should be

688
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:04,320
Speaker 18: at least making you feel better about yourself than you

689
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:06,000
Speaker 18: would without them, whatever that means to you.

690
00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 3: So if it's not well, at least in dialogue you say, look,

691
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Speaker 3: you're making me feel like crap about myself because you

692
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 3: make me feel like there's something wrong. Right, you're not

693
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Speaker 3: introducing me to your friends and your family.

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Speaker 18: Now, if you think you deserve better, you probably do excellent.

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Speaker 3: I agree.

696
00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:22,120
Speaker 4: If you love the Morning Show, it's a good idea

697
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 4: to follow our socials.

698
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Speaker 8: Do you know what's good for me?

699
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Speaker 4: Elvis Duran's show, Follow Them to day? Elvis Dan in

700
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Speaker 4: the Morning Show, Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

701
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Speaker 3: Look. In the old days, someone at work would come

702
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Speaker 3: in with the sheet of paper saying, Hey, my kids

703
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:47,640
Speaker 3: selling cookies. You want to buy some, It's going to

704
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:52,320
Speaker 3: send them all to Iwan. Okay, great, But now I

705
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:54,400
Speaker 3: got this text the other day from a friend saying, Hey,

706
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Speaker 3: I want you to buy some cookies from a kid's school.

707
00:30:58,040 --> 00:31:02,440
Speaker 3: I'm like, here we go. And you have a friend

708
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:04,440
Speaker 3: scary that sent you the same exact link for the

709
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 3: same thing. Tell everyone about this is infuriating.

710
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Speaker 21: Yeah, just yesterday in the group chat of twenty guys,

711
00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 21: my friend drops the link and says, hey, do a

712
00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:16,360
Speaker 21: good thing for my son's cookie sale, could you please,

713
00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:17,680
Speaker 21: So we all clicked on it.

714
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Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, I'll buy some cookies. Then it leads

715
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Speaker 3: me to a link.

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00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 21: And a checkout of a bakery of gourmet cookies where

717
00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 21: it's six cookies which I got charged forty six dollars

718
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Speaker 21: from the bank from Bank Cookies.

719
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Speaker 3: Who banged me out for forty six dollars. Bank Cookies

720
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 3: are fabulous, they really are. They're beautiful. But I'm saying, now,

721
00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:40,160
Speaker 3: this kid, the kid didn't even know, has no clue

722
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Speaker 3: who I am or that I even made this purchase.

723
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Speaker 21: All he sees is he's on the tally board that

724
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Speaker 21: he went up by forty six dollars because his father

725
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:50,360
Speaker 21: dropped it in the group and we all had felt

726
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Speaker 21: compelled to do this.

727
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:52,760
Speaker 3: So we're all buying cookies.

728
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Speaker 10: Now.

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Speaker 21: We got hundreds of dollars worth of cookies out there

730
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 21: that are coming. But I'm saying, where are the days

731
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Speaker 21: of the five dollar box? We're the days of like

732
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Speaker 21: cookies and handing the matway and doing real work.

733
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Speaker 3: So you hear the angst in Scary's voice. Don't get

734
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Speaker 3: Danielle started on popcorn.

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Speaker 14: Oh my gosh, So I love I mean, I really

736
00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 14: love the ones that the boy Scouts give out, you know,

737
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Speaker 14: but there's a different gourmet popcorn thing going around the

738
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Speaker 14: other day. My girlfriend, who I love, she says, hey,

739
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Speaker 14: can you buy some? No problem there. It was for

740
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Speaker 14: cheerleading or something. I click on it. Three bags and

741
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Speaker 14: when I tell you, these bags are tiny bags, they're

742
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Speaker 14: not big bags. It was sixty something dollars. And I'm like,

743
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Speaker 14: what off? And I'm like, okay.

744
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Speaker 8: She is so lucky that I love her.

745
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Speaker 14: And her little ones. Because I was like, okay, well

746
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Speaker 14: you know, and I was like, it was cheaper to

747
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Speaker 14: buy the three bags than just the one bag. I'm like,

748
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Speaker 14: forget it. So cute.

749
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Speaker 3: You still look, you know, you're helping some organizations that

750
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 3: probably probably deserve it, of course, but this is highway robbery. Yes, gandhi,

751
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:54,160
Speaker 3: I got.

752
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Speaker 6: Got for a ninety dollars ten of popcorn ninety bucks.

753
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Speaker 8: I was like, oh my god.

754
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Speaker 6: So they actually rang the doorbell at my sister's house

755
00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:04,400
Speaker 6: and I thought, oh, you're actually making some effort. I'm

756
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Speaker 6: gonna buy something from You bought the stupid tin of

757
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Speaker 6: popcorn ninety dollars.

758
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Speaker 8: And then my.

759
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Speaker 6: Sister texted me the next day that I made her

760
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Speaker 6: house a mark because I bought that.

761
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Speaker 8: And the kids keep coming back, keep coming back.

762
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Speaker 3: That's what happens. That's what happens when you feed the

763
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Speaker 3: neighborhood cat. They keep coming back.

764
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Speaker 6: It is a scam though. The link is the worst.

765
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:24,960
Speaker 6: Like they're not even working at all for this. They're

766
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Speaker 6: just coming over, like, give me the money.

767
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Speaker 3: The kids don't know. The kids don't know. Here's the thing.

768
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Speaker 3: This started years ago on our show, and it actually

769
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Speaker 3: became kind of a funny thing. Girl Scout cookies. It

770
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Speaker 3: got to the point where no, stop texting, stop asking

771
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Speaker 3: Uncle Elvis to buy your girl Scout cookies. I don't.

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Speaker 3: I'm glad you're listening. The only exception I make is

773
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Speaker 3: if I buy them, if they send them to the troops. Yeah,

774
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Speaker 3: and by the way, if one person texts me right

775
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Speaker 3: now to buy them, I will do it. But if

776
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Speaker 3: you fifty of it the first one through, good, you're in.

777
00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:55,160
Speaker 3: I'm gonna buy some cookies for the troops. I don't

778
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Speaker 3: even if they're selling them then do they sell them

779
00:33:56,520 --> 00:34:01,480
Speaker 3: me around now? I think so anyway, But four cookies

780
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:05,040
Speaker 3: for one hundred and seventy five dollars stuff insane, insane, ridiculous.

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00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:07,880
Speaker 8: Listen, hundreds of dollars in scotti these kids. I'm done today.

782
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:11,240
Speaker 8: I'm done on his daughter.

783
00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:13,920
Speaker 14: No cookie dough that wound up going bad and I

784
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Speaker 14: had to thrown in the garbage.

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Speaker 3: Yea man, but they're so worth it that Elvis, I

786
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Speaker 3: didn't ask you this time. I bypassed you. I asked

787
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Speaker 3: her thank you. I feel bad. Here's the thing. If

788
00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 3: if your kids are playing on a softball team and

789
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:29,840
Speaker 3: they eat jerseys and they put they put our logo

790
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:33,359
Speaker 3: on them, I'll buy them because we had logos many times.

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00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:36,440
Speaker 14: Yeah for dodgeball team. You've done that all right?

792
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:39,920
Speaker 3: Before we take a break, Uh, Nate's wearing a little

793
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:43,319
Speaker 3: sign that says, ask me about my crushed ball. Did

794
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:45,479
Speaker 3: you see what happened? Did you see my face during

795
00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:48,000
Speaker 3: the last break? I did? Your eyes rolled back in

796
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Speaker 3: your head and then it came down and they were crossed.

797
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Speaker 3: So I crossed my legs and my Pam wearing slightly tighter.

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Speaker 8: Pants, right, I crossed my legs.

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Speaker 3: Somebody need me in the ball like moves knuckle crabi

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00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:06,040
Speaker 3: going on, hole on. Yes, somebody just kicked me right.

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00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:06,680
Speaker 3: This sad.

802
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Speaker 26: I haven't had pain like that since probably sixth or

803
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Speaker 26: seventh grade when somebody actually did that.

804
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:14,720
Speaker 3: Nate have a question, Huh, why are you still wearing

805
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:17,920
Speaker 3: pants that tight? Because they make make my butt look good?

806
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:19,919
Speaker 3: What do you want from me?

807
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:23,040
Speaker 14: Look, he always wears pants one size smaller than they

808
00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 14: should be.

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00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:25,600
Speaker 7: Yeah, you know there's other pants like like, there's others

810
00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:28,040
Speaker 7: you like that, Like Jack Archer makes pants that are tight.

811
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Speaker 7: They'll make your butt look good, but they've got room

812
00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:31,800
Speaker 7: and they're kind of stretchy in the crotchet.

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Speaker 3: I don't care you need that. I think someone my

814
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:39,680
Speaker 3: assumption someone has a straight Nate voodoo doll out there. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: that could be happening, you know.

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Speaker 3: Are we even on?

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Speaker 8: Elista ran in the morning show?

826
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Speaker 4: See one hundred?

827
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:17,359
Speaker 3: That list of places women don't want to go to

828
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:19,880
Speaker 3: on a first date? Yeah, thick of this, but we

829
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Speaker 3: never talked about it. We think it's never too late.

830
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Speaker 6: No, I just think people have lost their minds. We're

831
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Speaker 6: only three places on that that I think are I.

832
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Speaker 8: Don't know about those?

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Speaker 22: Man.

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Speaker 3: I give you a list, Okay, So a list of

835
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Speaker 3: twenty eight places not to take a woman on the

836
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Speaker 3: first date. Where do these this list even come from?

837
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Speaker 8: Like TikTok and instagram lists?

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Speaker 18: Come?

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Speaker 3: Okay, have you seen the list? Have you? Have you

840
00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:44,319
Speaker 3: all seen the list? So a group of women put

841
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Speaker 3: together this list of twenty eight places women do not

842
00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:50,319
Speaker 3: want to go to on a first date. A lot

843
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:54,719
Speaker 3: of it has to do with chain restaurants. Froggy And

844
00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:56,319
Speaker 3: by the way, just because I'm reading this list doesn't

845
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Speaker 3: mean we agree, right.

846
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Speaker 8: Yeah, I disagree with the majority of it.

847
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Speaker 3: What's Froggy are doing to somebody?

848
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 22: Well?

849
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Speaker 3: I keep forgetting. Froggy is a program director of another

850
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:08,040
Speaker 3: radio station, so he's doing three jobs at once. Any

851
00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:10,000
Speaker 3: of something in his eye? What do you have in

852
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 3: your eye? Are you okay? I don't know. It just

853
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:14,000
Speaker 3: it like flew in my eye a second ago and

854
00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:16,560
Speaker 3: I cannot get it out. God, I hate it when

855
00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:20,120
Speaker 3: it gets in my eyes. It's not that I didn't say.

856
00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:20,799
Speaker 3: What did I say?

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00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:21,120
Speaker 9: It was?

858
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:23,840
Speaker 3: I don't know, but it's not that. Okay. So anyway,

859
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Speaker 3: on this list of places women don't want to go

860
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Speaker 3: on a first day, a lot of them are chain restaurants.

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Speaker 7: That's okay, it's the first place I took Lisa. Okay, Applebee's,

862
00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 7: there you go. That is on the list.

863
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Speaker 8: That's a great day. Even my friend things about it exactly.

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00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:42,359
Speaker 3: I love Applebee's. Yeah. Anyway, So on the list of

865
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Speaker 3: restaurants they don't want to go on a date on

866
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Speaker 3: first date, Cheesecake Factory.

867
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Speaker 8: Nonsense.

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Speaker 14: I would go there in a second.

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Speaker 6: If you can't find something on a cheesecake Factory menu,

870
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Speaker 6: you're the problem.

871
00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:54,480
Speaker 14: Their sniders are insane.

872
00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 3: Everything's insane. And you have a leftovers for like ten days.

873
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Speaker 14: Boogie people.

874
00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:04,800
Speaker 3: You could even have a first date leftover party with

875
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:08,640
Speaker 3: cheesecake Factory. Yeah, okay, cheesecake Factory, Chili's.

876
00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:11,880
Speaker 14: I'm going take me with k so amazing.

877
00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 3: Nims and salsa man. Apple Bee's is on there. Chipotle,

878
00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:17,439
Speaker 3: Now that's a little more fast foodish.

879
00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:18,480
Speaker 8: What delicious?

880
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:20,719
Speaker 3: It's a first date. Let's hang out apple.

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Speaker 14: Bees on a date night.

882
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:25,879
Speaker 3: Okay, here comes my fine way. Hey, I know it's

883
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:28,360
Speaker 3: a first date, but I've planned an evening at Olive

884
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:29,400
Speaker 3: Garden with you.

885
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:31,440
Speaker 14: I know I would go at the breadsticks and then

886
00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:32,360
Speaker 14: never ending salad.

887
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:32,640
Speaker 2: Hello.

888
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 7: Yeah, when you're done, buy the little cheese grater for them.

889
00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 7: That's extra bonus.

890
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 14: Yeah, you get the salad dressing to take homes.

891
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm gonna say, I'm gonna say Olive Garden not

892
00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 3: on a first date.

893
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:43,720
Speaker 8: Whatever.

894
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:50,040
Speaker 3: Okay, that's an anniversary all right. Starbucks? Okay, look, you know,

895
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 3: let's meet for a cup of coffee. Nothing wrong with

896
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:57,320
Speaker 3: that for a quick meet up. Why not first date list?

897
00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:00,240
Speaker 3: You don't want to hit on as Denny's.

898
00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:04,840
Speaker 6: Well, Danny's is after you've parted, exactly, want to be there.

899
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:07,839
Speaker 14: Denny's breakfast that's the next morning, that's disco fried.

900
00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:13,040
Speaker 8: You go there for some the mos over Mimi, exactly?

901
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:17,120
Speaker 3: How about I hop for your first day? I like

902
00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:25,880
Speaker 3: Buffalo Wild Wings yeah, why not beds, Danielle wing stop, Yes, sure,

903
00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:28,400
Speaker 3: never been. How about red lobster?

904
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:29,719
Speaker 13: Yeah not me.

905
00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:32,080
Speaker 3: I don't want It's for the seafood lover in you.

906
00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:34,680
Speaker 8: I don't have no chicken hand steak and your biscuits.

907
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:35,000
Speaker 14: I still.

908
00:39:37,040 --> 00:39:40,560
Speaker 3: Oh here's one. Would you ever take anyone to like

909
00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:44,239
Speaker 3: a fight like the fights for a first day? That

910
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:46,239
Speaker 3: would Well, I spend all that money. We can take

911
00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:50,240
Speaker 3: him to waffle House. Oh my god. They throw chairs

912
00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:52,640
Speaker 3: and crap in there. They get love that and then.

913
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:54,920
Speaker 14: You played Jonahs Brothers on the way.

914
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:58,640
Speaker 3: Scottie B. Talk to me if you're not going to

915
00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 3: waffle house with me? Seriously?

916
00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:00,719
Speaker 14: Oh yeah?

917
00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:03,879
Speaker 3: Okay. So also they say any foods, fast food chain

918
00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:08,120
Speaker 3: or any buffet. All right, but that's my drag name,

919
00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:16,160
Speaker 3: Chalita Buffet. Yes, now non non restaurants the list. Don't

920
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:18,120
Speaker 3: take me on a first date. These women said, don't

921
00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:19,000
Speaker 3: take me to the movies.

922
00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:22,920
Speaker 6: I could kind of see that.

923
00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:27,080
Speaker 3: That's good, though, isn't this Let's not chill with Netflix

924
00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:27,640
Speaker 3: at the house.

925
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:29,799
Speaker 8: Oh, never invite me to your house on a first

926
00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:30,759
Speaker 8: But what if you're.

927
00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:33,239
Speaker 3: Ready to dot dot on the first day?

928
00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:36,360
Speaker 8: Yeah, you get killed. I've seen a lot of specials

929
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:36,759
Speaker 8: start up.

930
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:40,400
Speaker 3: Well, most of the most of the documentaries on Netflix

931
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,239
Speaker 3: are about people going home to watch Netflix and getting killed. Murder,

932
00:40:44,320 --> 00:40:47,959
Speaker 3: go into the guy's house. No, okay? How about church?

933
00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:51,400
Speaker 3: The first date at church? For me, that's okay, I

934
00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:53,279
Speaker 3: do that either. Well, you wouldn't. But there are some

935
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:55,560
Speaker 3: people if they if they find out before first date

936
00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:59,640
Speaker 3: that they are they are into faith at a certain level.

937
00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:01,000
Speaker 3: Yeah together, Okay.

938
00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:03,040
Speaker 14: What if it's your grandlether's funeral at the church?

939
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:11,279
Speaker 3: Okay? How about the gym? First date at the gym?

940
00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:13,120
Speaker 3: What if you're both health nuts and you really love

941
00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:16,439
Speaker 3: to work out. Hey, you know what, tomorrow morning, Saturday morning,

942
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:17,840
Speaker 3: why don't we go to the gym and we'll go

943
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 3: have lunch after. Would you do that?

944
00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:20,600
Speaker 15: God?

945
00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:22,480
Speaker 6: No, no, because then I'm also going to feel a

946
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:24,000
Speaker 6: lot of pressure about what I get at lunch because

947
00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:26,239
Speaker 6: this idiot's a gym buff and I'm like, oh, we

948
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:27,600
Speaker 6: just worked out and I have to eat a salad.

949
00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:29,759
Speaker 3: Not everyone I go to the gym, I'm not a

950
00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:30,360
Speaker 3: gym buff.

951
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 8: Whatever.

952
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:32,040
Speaker 2: I know.

953
00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:34,040
Speaker 6: There are certain people though, that you don't want to

954
00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:35,839
Speaker 6: eat around because they're so healthy.

955
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:39,560
Speaker 3: Oh I know, Yeah, Tommy Tommy de Daria. Forget he's

956
00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:41,520
Speaker 3: on the show at the time. I would I ate

957
00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:43,239
Speaker 3: with him one time and I will never do it again.

958
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:45,799
Speaker 13: What did he get?

959
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:46,640
Speaker 14: Did you get a salad?

960
00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:46,800
Speaker 16: No?

961
00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:49,080
Speaker 3: No, I'm involved like fish with no oil.

962
00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:49,400
Speaker 2: You know.

963
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:54,319
Speaker 3: First date? Sporting events, no.

964
00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:56,040
Speaker 20: Go.

965
00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:59,080
Speaker 3: Let's say you're both a fan of you know, insert

966
00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:01,600
Speaker 3: team here, you cheer them on and.

967
00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:02,360
Speaker 14: Scream your heads off.

968
00:42:02,400 --> 00:42:04,959
Speaker 8: It's a drink, eat some chicken wings and meat ups.

969
00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:08,279
Speaker 3: First date, family functions?

970
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:11,319
Speaker 14: No, god, what not? A first date? You don't even

971
00:42:11,360 --> 00:42:11,640
Speaker 14: know me?

972
00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:14,080
Speaker 8: My parents meeting people for at least three years?

973
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:18,040
Speaker 3: Out for ice cream? They're saying coffee dates or no

974
00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 3: on this list, a bowling night, nightclubs, go ahead? Dianson

975
00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:25,120
Speaker 3: made this list?

976
00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:26,840
Speaker 8: Have no joy about understand this?

977
00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:32,399
Speaker 3: A hookah bar, hooka bar? Or go out just for drinks.

978
00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:33,880
Speaker 3: Let's mean out for a drink. What's wrong with that?

979
00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 3: They're all functioning alcoholics? Or they say another place? Not

980
00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:41,040
Speaker 3: just not to kick off a relationship for the first

981
00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 3: date is on any place or going to any place

982
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:46,759
Speaker 3: that requires a long drive. I agree with you, Yeah,

983
00:42:46,760 --> 00:42:47,239
Speaker 3: I agree with that.

984
00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:48,960
Speaker 8: You want to be able to go home quickly?

985
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:49,399
Speaker 16: Yeah?

986
00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:52,080
Speaker 21: Yes, scary one I want to meet the high maintenance

987
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 21: women who put this list together, because coffee dates and

988
00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:58,759
Speaker 21: going out for a drink are two of the biggest icebreakers.

989
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:00,799
Speaker 21: How are you supposed to go for a long, five

990
00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:04,160
Speaker 21: hour dinner if you can't like screen the person first

991
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:05,880
Speaker 21: and go out with them and have a nice converse.

992
00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:07,759
Speaker 3: A lot of people would agree with you. But also,

993
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:11,880
Speaker 3: I know, but going after the high what do you

994
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:14,000
Speaker 3: call them? The women?

995
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:15,759
Speaker 10: Well?

996
00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:17,560
Speaker 3: I know, but but that's what they're saying.

997
00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:22,520
Speaker 14: At the gas station, and I want to do that.

998
00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:29,319
Speaker 3: What's that? What's that? Garrett? What's left? We just went

999
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:29,880
Speaker 3: through everything.

1000
00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:33,440
Speaker 6: You get a park beach, But then someone's gonna be like,

1001
00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:34,919
Speaker 6: it's free at a puck, you cheap skate.

1002
00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:39,239
Speaker 14: If someone took out a coupon on their first date,

1003
00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:41,200
Speaker 14: would you be cool with it or would.

1004
00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 3: You be like, oh, that's another conversation. I have no problem.

1005
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:44,719
Speaker 25: No, I don't know.

1006
00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:48,440
Speaker 3: Just take their money. If I'm just please someone take

1007
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:50,640
Speaker 3: me out, I don't care. I'll go to card. What

1008
00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:52,719
Speaker 3: if somebody takes you on a on a day uses

1009
00:43:52,719 --> 00:43:54,080
Speaker 3: the gift card. I don't see that there's a problem.

1010
00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:56,759
Speaker 3: I don't either. There are some people that would I

1011
00:43:56,840 --> 00:43:59,520
Speaker 3: just want to the video that is going around this

1012
00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:01,680
Speaker 3: woman she's getting out of the Is this where this

1013
00:44:01,760 --> 00:44:03,279
Speaker 3: came from? She was getting out of the car and

1014
00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:04,920
Speaker 3: the guy was taking here of her cheesecake from She

1015
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:06,440
Speaker 3: wouldn't get out. She's like, I'm not getting out of

1016
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:07,120
Speaker 3: this car and going out there.

1017
00:44:07,680 --> 00:44:09,040
Speaker 8: If I was him, I would have been like, fine,

1018
00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:09,480
Speaker 8: stay there.

1019
00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:10,960
Speaker 3: I would to get out of this car, but I'm

1020
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:12,920
Speaker 3: not going in. You're going to launch her in the

1021
00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 3: hot car and got in dinner.

1022
00:44:16,840 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 20: You know.

1023
00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:19,480
Speaker 3: Producer Sam and I were talking about this and I

1024
00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:24,040
Speaker 3: couldn't agree more. Christy High, good morning, Good morning. So

1025
00:44:24,120 --> 00:44:26,080
Speaker 3: your first date took you where? And did you like

1026
00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 3: it or not?

1027
00:44:28,200 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 19: We went to Hooters?

1028
00:44:31,239 --> 00:44:34,440
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, So how how did that conversation go? How

1029
00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:35,360
Speaker 3: was this proposed to you?

1030
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:40,600
Speaker 27: Well, well, we were actually supposed to go to a

1031
00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:43,440
Speaker 27: different restaurant, but the wait was too long and I

1032
00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:46,480
Speaker 27: was starving because I was about probably an hour and

1033
00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:49,879
Speaker 27: a half late with meeting him for our first date.

1034
00:44:51,560 --> 00:44:54,120
Speaker 27: So we saw Hooters and I was like, I'm finally

1035
00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:54,560
Speaker 27: going there.

1036
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:55,440
Speaker 15: Let's go to Hooters.

1037
00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:58,400
Speaker 27: I said, you know, I love their buffalo chicken salad.

1038
00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:01,480
Speaker 27: So that's what we' I think that's a great date.

1039
00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:03,960
Speaker 3: Okay, that was the first date. Were there any dates after?

1040
00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:06,680
Speaker 15: Oh yeah, we're still together.

1041
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 27: Oh twenty seventeen.

1042
00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:12,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, wow, that's so cool. If someone said to me

1043
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:15,000
Speaker 3: and Samantha was saying the same thing, Hooters, I.

1044
00:45:15,360 --> 00:45:18,359
Speaker 8: Hell yeah, yeah it was my pick. And he never

1045
00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:19,359
Speaker 8: called me back.

1046
00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:20,520
Speaker 3: He thought I was kidding.

1047
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:21,480
Speaker 8: I'm like, I'm at Hooters.

1048
00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:23,200
Speaker 9: And then I was at Hooters and he's like, you

1049
00:45:23,239 --> 00:45:24,839
Speaker 9: want to go somewhere else? I'm like, not the most

1050
00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:26,839
Speaker 9: do you need to? And then he just sat there

1051
00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:28,239
Speaker 9: and didn't have fun all night.

1052
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:30,719
Speaker 3: Oh and then you married him?

1053
00:45:32,200 --> 00:45:32,480
Speaker 22: All right?

1054
00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:35,040
Speaker 3: Well, Christie, thank you. I think I'm gonna put Hooters

1055
00:45:35,080 --> 00:45:36,920
Speaker 3: at the top of them, the top of the first

1056
00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:39,040
Speaker 3: date list. Thank you, Christy, Thank you for listening to

1057
00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:39,600
Speaker 3: us every day.

1058
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:42,120
Speaker 14: You imagine going to Buffalo Wildwater with Nate on his

1059
00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:42,640
Speaker 14: first date.

1060
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:44,759
Speaker 3: Hold on, thank you, Christy. You have a good day.

1061
00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:46,239
Speaker 14: Okay, he had to put his gloves on.

1062
00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:48,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, my gloves and bring.

1063
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:50,400
Speaker 8: My PEPSI Nate, you should never take a dare.

1064
00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:53,880
Speaker 3: That's right, That's right, Danielle, because he has gird, he

1065
00:45:53,920 --> 00:45:56,960
Speaker 3: has aird, but no, Yon, Nate, he can't eat any

1066
00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:59,440
Speaker 3: fingerfoods without his surgical gloves.

1067
00:45:59,520 --> 00:45:59,680
Speaker 27: Yeah.

1068
00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:01,800
Speaker 3: I mean it's the same gloves you use when you

1069
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:03,160
Speaker 3: go out to the barn and check the horse. You

1070
00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:03,640
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying.

1071
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:06,640
Speaker 26: Just imagine the date that I go on that I

1072
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:08,800
Speaker 26: put on my gloves and she puts on her gloves

1073
00:46:09,040 --> 00:46:09,640
Speaker 26: match made, and.

1074
00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:11,960
Speaker 14: It's not gonna happen. And so you're going on a

1075
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:14,360
Speaker 14: date and you're you look like a crazy person.

1076
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:15,919
Speaker 8: They're like, forget, it's still killer.

1077
00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:18,080
Speaker 3: Are those the same gloves you use in your kill room?

1078
00:46:19,040 --> 00:46:19,440
Speaker 2: Stop it.

1079
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 6: If I went on on date and the guy put

1080
00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:25,560
Speaker 6: on gloves while he was eating rings, I would very

1081
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 6: take a picture and send it to my friends, like.

1082
00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 14: You would give your destination and say if.

1083
00:46:31,400 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 3: I don't come home, here you go, hey Jermaine? Yes, yes, okay,

1084
00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:39,000
Speaker 3: So first date? Where was it who proposed this?

1085
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:42,719
Speaker 22: By the way, uh so this was my idea. I

1086
00:46:42,840 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 22: thought it would be super cool, super like m cool guy.

1087
00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 22: Yeah we went to hot yoga.

1088
00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:52,000
Speaker 3: Oh okay, okay, we have we have a mix of

1089
00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:54,640
Speaker 3: emotions in the room. Okay. So producer Sam said she

1090
00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:56,160
Speaker 3: would love a first date at the hot yoga.

1091
00:46:56,320 --> 00:46:57,080
Speaker 9: I would have loved that.

1092
00:46:57,360 --> 00:47:02,520
Speaker 22: Yeah, I would I would smells. The smells that came

1093
00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:04,520
Speaker 22: out of both of us was definitely unattractive.

1094
00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 3: I don't know, all those pheromones rolling around. And then

1095
00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:14,080
Speaker 3: of course I was you know, I went to hot

1096
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:16,279
Speaker 3: yoga one time, Jermaine, and I've never heard so many

1097
00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:18,200
Speaker 3: people farting in the same room. Ever, it was like

1098
00:47:18,280 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 3: a locker room. So your idea was like, okay, hot yoga.

1099
00:47:22,320 --> 00:47:26,200
Speaker 3: And was there a uh was there hesitation in your

1100
00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:27,920
Speaker 3: friends and demeanor?

1101
00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:28,640
Speaker 2: No?

1102
00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:32,160
Speaker 22: No, it was like, oh coo, I think that's super dope.

1103
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:32,759
Speaker 26: Let's do it.

1104
00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:35,560
Speaker 22: And she was hyped with it. And yeah, the smells

1105
00:47:35,600 --> 00:47:38,000
Speaker 22: and two parts and yeah, we didn't see each other.

1106
00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:47,120
Speaker 3: Only one part's acceptable. German, you know what the.

1107
00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:53,680
Speaker 22: One Okay, I get it. We'll stretch it, you know.

1108
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:55,000
Speaker 22: And everything that.

1109
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:58,640
Speaker 3: We've mentioned about being off limits for first dates, I

1110
00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:01,160
Speaker 3: think do we all agree hot yoga is probably the winner. Yeah,

1111
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:04,359
Speaker 3: you got it, germane you got it. Man, Hey, good

1112
00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:06,279
Speaker 3: listening to you, and thanks for listening to us.

1113
00:48:07,400 --> 00:48:11,239
Speaker 22: No problem, have a good big This texture.

1114
00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 3: Says, I have a straight first date, no go out

1115
00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:15,279
Speaker 3: for drinks policy. I just feel like this is the

1116
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:17,480
Speaker 3: bottom of the barrel. Such a basic date, and he

1117
00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:20,640
Speaker 3: asked me what told him, hey be more creative?

1118
00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:24,480
Speaker 6: Well, what does everybody expect somebody to like? Wine and

1119
00:48:24,560 --> 00:48:26,040
Speaker 6: dine and impress the crap out of them on the

1120
00:48:26,120 --> 00:48:28,160
Speaker 6: first date. That's when you're getting to know a person.

1121
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:30,440
Speaker 6: I might hate them, they might like this guy had

1122
00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:32,680
Speaker 6: fart too much, like you have no idea, and then

1123
00:48:32,719 --> 00:48:34,520
Speaker 6: you want them to waste all their creative juices on

1124
00:48:34,600 --> 00:48:35,319
Speaker 6: that first date.

1125
00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:43,960
Speaker 3: He did, Yes, thank you. Here's the thing, we're all different,

1126
00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:49,520
Speaker 3: our profiles as far as level of humor and sarcasm,

1127
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:50,400
Speaker 3: it's all different.

1128
00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 22: Right.

1129
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:53,000
Speaker 3: If you say we're going on a first date and

1130
00:48:53,080 --> 00:48:55,520
Speaker 3: we're going to fill in the blanket like the most ridiculous,

1131
00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:57,840
Speaker 3: screwed up, apped up place ever, I'll be like, Okay,

1132
00:48:57,920 --> 00:49:00,680
Speaker 3: I'm let's go. Yeah, just because it's a challenge.

1133
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:01,520
Speaker 14: Absolutely.

1134
00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:04,840
Speaker 8: What's your first date with Alex? Do you remember?

1135
00:49:05,480 --> 00:49:07,800
Speaker 3: Oh, it wasn't really a date. The monster. It's a

1136
00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:10,719
Speaker 3: gay bar, okay, and everyone in there are so old,

1137
00:49:10,719 --> 00:49:15,520
Speaker 3: I mean they're alsome, like from aldehyde. But that's where

1138
00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:23,400
Speaker 3: I met Uncle Johnny and drunk Jimmy. Sounds like the mob. Yeah, Jackson, Hello, allright,

1139
00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 3: so you say going to Starbucks Starbucks. Well, good morning.

1140
00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:29,680
Speaker 3: You're saying Starbucks is actually a really choice first date place.

1141
00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:30,080
Speaker 22: Why is that?

1142
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:34,160
Speaker 28: In your opinion, Starbucks is the number one first date

1143
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:37,440
Speaker 28: place Elvis. Okay, especially if it's a date that is boring.

1144
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:39,640
Speaker 28: There are dates that you're not really sure of but

1145
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:41,600
Speaker 28: you made and you don't want to play out. All right,

1146
00:49:42,000 --> 00:49:45,080
Speaker 28: it's a cup of coffee, maybe a pastry. You know,

1147
00:49:45,160 --> 00:49:47,759
Speaker 28: there's a lot of people, it's public, and it's easy

1148
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:48,520
Speaker 28: to walk away from.

1149
00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:49,440
Speaker 22: It's a short date.

1150
00:49:49,560 --> 00:49:52,080
Speaker 28: So if it's dunk, great, coffee's over that I can

1151
00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:54,799
Speaker 28: eat you to buy. But the conversation is.

1152
00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:57,160
Speaker 22: Sparkling and the mood is good.

1153
00:49:57,280 --> 00:49:59,640
Speaker 28: I mean, it can escalate all the way back to.

1154
00:49:59,680 --> 00:50:03,200
Speaker 3: Your I don't know so Jackson, if you invited me

1155
00:50:03,239 --> 00:50:05,239
Speaker 3: out on the first days of Starbucks, I would immediately think,

1156
00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:07,799
Speaker 3: you know, he's smart because he knows that if I'm

1157
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:10,680
Speaker 3: if I'm like, you know, a piece of crap, he

1158
00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:14,200
Speaker 3: can like exit quickly and for a blind date, Starbucks

1159
00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:15,840
Speaker 3: is great. Do they have menus in Braille?

1160
00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:19,000
Speaker 22: No, they don't.

1161
00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:20,239
Speaker 28: They should.

1162
00:50:21,960 --> 00:50:22,759
Speaker 22: Actually that they do.

1163
00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:26,520
Speaker 8: It Actually would be nice on like.

1164
00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:28,640
Speaker 14: A Saturday morning you could say, like me and me

1165
00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:30,319
Speaker 14: at Starbucks, and we'll see how the day goes.

1166
00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:32,759
Speaker 6: You know that only in the morning people aren't getting

1167
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:34,560
Speaker 6: super dressed up, so you kind of have a better

1168
00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:35,480
Speaker 6: gauge on all.

1169
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:37,840
Speaker 3: What do you really Okay, see Jackson, I see you're

1170
00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:39,440
Speaker 3: you're playing You're playing straight here.

1171
00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:39,880
Speaker 22: I like that.

1172
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:43,319
Speaker 3: And plus, don't drink coffee before you go to hot yoga.

1173
00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:44,200
Speaker 28: Yeah, oh.

1174
00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:49,800
Speaker 3: Honey, clean up on aisle four. All right, thank you Jackson.

1175
00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:52,759
Speaker 3: We'll see you Starbucks. Thank you so much. Straight in

1176
00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:53,279
Speaker 3: eight Okay.

1177
00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:55,719
Speaker 26: I think that's brilliant Jackson, because you can tell a

1178
00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:57,839
Speaker 26: lot about a person based on their order, because if

1179
00:50:57,840 --> 00:51:03,759
Speaker 26: they're doing non fat oat, no whip twenty eight degrees celsius, no,

1180
00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:04,520
Speaker 26: thank you.

1181
00:51:04,640 --> 00:51:06,400
Speaker 14: I gotta say that is the one thing that I

1182
00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:08,200
Speaker 14: think is so horrible. If you go out to dinner

1183
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 14: with someone and you're just starting out be you don't

1184
00:51:12,200 --> 00:51:15,680
Speaker 14: just order the salad because you think that's what they want,

1185
00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:19,080
Speaker 14: order the cheese burgen fries because they're gonna see it eventually.

1186
00:51:19,120 --> 00:51:25,720
Speaker 3: Anything but what he's saying, like oil extra oat, sometimes

1187
00:51:25,760 --> 00:51:27,239
Speaker 3: that is being them being Then.

1188
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:30,360
Speaker 6: Also, if somebody's lactose intolerant, you don't want them not

1189
00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:32,120
Speaker 6: to get do you want them to get.

1190
00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:35,640
Speaker 3: First day?

1191
00:51:36,120 --> 00:51:37,879
Speaker 14: What's wrong with lactose intolerant people?

1192
00:51:37,960 --> 00:51:40,480
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I love my milk. You're gonna have it

1193
00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:48,160
Speaker 3: and stuff. I'm gonna you're you don't want to you

1194
00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:51,560
Speaker 3: don't you want to rename your first date mud flaps.

1195
00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:59,839
Speaker 3: I don't mean that mud flaps. So here's Nate. If

1196
00:51:59,880 --> 00:52:03,520
Speaker 3: you watch a dinner with Nate, he's gonna let's see,

1197
00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:06,440
Speaker 3: looking at your menu, do you have anything this binding?

1198
00:52:08,160 --> 00:52:10,799
Speaker 3: And I get gird, I.

1199
00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:12,160
Speaker 14: Need to take my gloves out.

1200
00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:13,560
Speaker 3: I'm going to say it.

1201
00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:15,879
Speaker 18: Yeah, what I just realized the irony of the guy

1202
00:52:15,960 --> 00:52:18,160
Speaker 18: with gloves saying you can't order oat milk?

1203
00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:19,040
Speaker 25: You maintenance?

1204
00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:21,040
Speaker 3: What's frog?

1205
00:52:21,520 --> 00:52:23,719
Speaker 7: The guy that thinks it's high maintenance is also the

1206
00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:26,000
Speaker 7: guy that looks on the menu and goes, hey, I

1207
00:52:26,120 --> 00:52:27,480
Speaker 7: know you got these things in the back.

1208
00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:29,200
Speaker 3: Why don't you rip this up? Even though it's not

1209
00:52:29,320 --> 00:52:30,799
Speaker 3: on the menu. That's what he does.

1210
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:34,120
Speaker 8: What's roof is your drink? It's with milk?

1211
00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:38,880
Speaker 3: Oh my god? Did you sneak le? What's scary?

1212
00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:41,560
Speaker 21: Would you agree though, that any date that you go

1213
00:52:41,719 --> 00:52:45,759
Speaker 21: on that doesn't encourage social stimulation or social interaction is

1214
00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:46,280
Speaker 21: a bad.

1215
00:52:46,200 --> 00:52:47,880
Speaker 3: First date like the movies.

1216
00:52:48,080 --> 00:52:49,200
Speaker 21: That's a terrible first date.

1217
00:52:49,640 --> 00:52:52,040
Speaker 3: No, because that could be the way you met each other.

1218
00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:54,359
Speaker 3: You we really want to go see this movie together

1219
00:52:54,360 --> 00:52:56,680
Speaker 3: because you know, to know each other well, because when

1220
00:52:56,719 --> 00:52:59,799
Speaker 3: you leave the theater, you go there someplace and talk.

1221
00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:01,520
Speaker 8: Yeah, you can talk about the movie. Maybe.

1222
00:53:02,000 --> 00:53:03,800
Speaker 3: I don't know. I think it's different for everyone. I

1223
00:53:03,880 --> 00:53:06,520
Speaker 3: think painting everyone into a corner saying I feel like

1224
00:53:06,600 --> 00:53:08,600
Speaker 3: this about you, and therefore that is who you want.

1225
00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:13,239
Speaker 3: Morning Elvis durand to your god, what's this woman doing?

1226
00:53:13,640 --> 00:53:14,560
Speaker 4: And the Morning Show?

1227
00:53:21,920 --> 00:53:25,359
Speaker 3: Elvis Duran, Elvis Duran. Phone tab All right, Garrett, Yes,

1228
00:53:25,600 --> 00:53:27,000
Speaker 3: what's your phone tap about today? All right?

1229
00:53:27,040 --> 00:53:27,239
Speaker 19: Down?

1230
00:53:27,320 --> 00:53:29,440
Speaker 29: Wants to play a phone tap on our husband Steve. Now,

1231
00:53:29,480 --> 00:53:32,640
Speaker 29: Steve is very protective of his family, especially his five

1232
00:53:32,719 --> 00:53:35,400
Speaker 29: year old daughter Brianna. So Don's going to start the

1233
00:53:35,440 --> 00:53:37,680
Speaker 29: call to her husband, Steve, letting him know that one

1234
00:53:37,719 --> 00:53:40,360
Speaker 29: of the dads at school has had a problem with

1235
00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:43,160
Speaker 29: their daughter. Oh no, don't mess with the dad, Dan,

1236
00:53:43,200 --> 00:53:44,160
Speaker 29: I'm gonna play that dad.

1237
00:53:44,520 --> 00:53:46,279
Speaker 3: Okay, who are we messing with here? So we're gonna

1238
00:53:46,320 --> 00:53:49,399
Speaker 3: mess with husband Steve. Yes, you're messing with the dad. Yeah,

1239
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:51,920
Speaker 3: we're gonna mess with it. That's why it's a phone tap.

1240
00:53:52,200 --> 00:53:52,319
Speaker 10: Here.

1241
00:53:52,320 --> 00:53:53,560
Speaker 3: We're gonna listen to Gartt's phone.

1242
00:53:54,440 --> 00:53:57,520
Speaker 2: Oh hey, he's really busy.

1243
00:53:58,040 --> 00:54:01,040
Speaker 30: Yeah, I guess what. I have a problem. What Jeff's

1244
00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:06,239
Speaker 30: father just called here from Brianna school. No, he's saying like, oh,

1245
00:54:06,440 --> 00:54:08,600
Speaker 30: my son got kicked out of school because your daughter

1246
00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:12,359
Speaker 30: he didn't give her a hickey. I needed some time

1247
00:54:12,400 --> 00:54:13,960
Speaker 30: to cool down. But it's really bothering me.

1248
00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:14,840
Speaker 2: You know what, give me.

1249
00:54:16,440 --> 00:54:20,479
Speaker 30: I give him your number. You should probably be calling

1250
00:54:20,520 --> 00:54:22,240
Speaker 30: you soon because he was passed.

1251
00:54:22,719 --> 00:54:29,160
Speaker 2: I'll fire food, all right, hell else?

1252
00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:33,360
Speaker 30: All right, hold on, okay, I'm gonna mute it.

1253
00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:40,080
Speaker 3: Oh hey, is this h Steve? I hope I'm not

1254
00:54:40,160 --> 00:54:44,160
Speaker 3: bothering you right now. I am Jack's father.

1255
00:54:44,640 --> 00:54:48,480
Speaker 29: Okay, your daughter really caused my son some emotional harm

1256
00:54:48,560 --> 00:54:50,080
Speaker 29: by him being kicked out of preschool.

1257
00:54:50,520 --> 00:54:52,680
Speaker 2: Okay, well, don't short giving me a hard time on

1258
00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:55,560
Speaker 2: my phone. He's sort calling off, going off for my wife.

1259
00:54:55,600 --> 00:54:56,239
Speaker 3: I didn't go off.

1260
00:54:57,320 --> 00:54:58,439
Speaker 2: Happened, that's not happen.

1261
00:54:59,520 --> 00:55:00,160
Speaker 3: I was looking me.

1262
00:55:00,280 --> 00:55:02,880
Speaker 2: Listen, I'm talking. My wife was called me up upset.

1263
00:55:03,160 --> 00:55:05,520
Speaker 2: My daughter told me that your son gave her a hickey,

1264
00:55:05,840 --> 00:55:06,640
Speaker 2: and I acted on it.

1265
00:55:06,880 --> 00:55:08,960
Speaker 3: My son said your daughter gave him a hickey? How

1266
00:55:09,000 --> 00:55:09,279
Speaker 3: about that?

1267
00:55:09,880 --> 00:55:12,319
Speaker 2: Okay, well then then there's a problem. Well whatever, man,

1268
00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:14,839
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you that your son gave my daughter

1269
00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:16,640
Speaker 2: a hickey. She's not gonna lie to me about she's

1270
00:55:16,680 --> 00:55:17,520
Speaker 2: really upset about it.

1271
00:55:17,680 --> 00:55:19,439
Speaker 3: Well, I could probably say that you know your daughter

1272
00:55:19,560 --> 00:55:20,760
Speaker 3: learned that from your wife.

1273
00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:22,239
Speaker 2: But you know I wasn't you trying to say you

1274
00:55:22,680 --> 00:55:26,600
Speaker 2: put that my wife, you know, you know what on

1275
00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:29,960
Speaker 2: my cell phone and you and kidding my go to

1276
00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:30,399
Speaker 2: my wife.

1277
00:55:30,560 --> 00:55:33,080
Speaker 22: Well, well then a problem.

1278
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:35,640
Speaker 3: Well we do have a problem. You got my son, you.

1279
00:55:35,640 --> 00:55:37,960
Speaker 2: Want me you do the sing face we want to

1280
00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:41,279
Speaker 2: talk about face to face. It's opened my wife and

1281
00:55:41,360 --> 00:55:41,680
Speaker 2: my kid.

1282
00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:44,120
Speaker 3: That ain't happening, bro, It's not it's not happening. Well,

1283
00:55:44,120 --> 00:55:45,840
Speaker 3: you got my son kicked out of pre school.

1284
00:55:45,960 --> 00:55:46,200
Speaker 22: You know what.

1285
00:55:47,360 --> 00:55:50,040
Speaker 2: I'm just telling you that you what your white They

1286
00:55:50,160 --> 00:55:51,960
Speaker 2: told me that your son gave you.

1287
00:55:51,960 --> 00:55:53,799
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna put up with it until you show

1288
00:55:53,880 --> 00:55:54,440
Speaker 3: some DNA.

1289
00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:57,000
Speaker 2: Then I guess my littleable contact you.

1290
00:55:57,080 --> 00:55:59,360
Speaker 3: You're gonna have to see us. I swab your daughter's

1291
00:55:59,440 --> 00:56:00,080
Speaker 3: neck because.

1292
00:56:02,040 --> 00:56:05,319
Speaker 2: We'll contact you. And this conversation is, oh, you're a lawyer, now.

1293
00:56:05,280 --> 00:56:06,880
Speaker 3: You have a lawyer all of a sudden because you.

1294
00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:10,040
Speaker 2: Knew this conversation is over at the.

1295
00:56:10,040 --> 00:56:19,000
Speaker 3: Age of five. Good job done, yes, sorry, oh hey.

1296
00:56:19,200 --> 00:56:21,040
Speaker 2: Oh we just had it out. Man, What do you

1297
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:25,120
Speaker 2: mean I'm gonna lose my job doing someone hits if

1298
00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:28,359
Speaker 2: I I'm losing my job. We remade each other.

1299
00:56:28,680 --> 00:56:31,520
Speaker 30: Well, I think you got him scared. Boy, I don't know,

1300
00:56:31,560 --> 00:56:33,560
Speaker 30: because he was like, you know, maybe we should sit

1301
00:56:33,600 --> 00:56:34,400
Speaker 30: down and talk about this.

1302
00:56:34,960 --> 00:56:36,400
Speaker 2: I want to talk to Hcau. I'm gonna hit him

1303
00:56:36,640 --> 00:56:38,640
Speaker 2: if I see him. There's gonna be a problem.

1304
00:56:38,960 --> 00:56:40,239
Speaker 14: All right, let me go.

1305
00:56:41,880 --> 00:56:43,600
Speaker 2: Don't call me no more. Well, I will start to

1306
00:56:43,600 --> 00:56:44,520
Speaker 2: cold play for harassment.

1307
00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:46,799
Speaker 30: Gee, he's called myself phone hold on, I'm gonnaut him

1308
00:56:46,800 --> 00:56:46,920
Speaker 30: on you.

1309
00:56:47,280 --> 00:56:49,959
Speaker 2: No, I'm gonna go need right now. When I'm talking

1310
00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:51,680
Speaker 2: to him, you tell him I'm not going to say

1311
00:56:51,719 --> 00:56:52,480
Speaker 2: this guy. That's it.

1312
00:56:52,920 --> 00:56:53,320
Speaker 3: I heard you.

1313
00:56:53,560 --> 00:56:54,000
Speaker 2: I heard you.

1314
00:56:54,160 --> 00:56:54,600
Speaker 9: I heard you.

1315
00:56:54,840 --> 00:56:55,840
Speaker 3: I heard excuse me.

1316
00:56:56,320 --> 00:57:00,480
Speaker 2: I'm done. I'm done with you, man, listen nothing, Thank.

1317
00:57:00,360 --> 00:57:01,000
Speaker 25: You, Steve.

1318
00:57:01,200 --> 00:57:02,799
Speaker 29: I'll just tell you. My name is Garrett from Elvis

1319
00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:05,960
Speaker 29: Duran in the Morning show. And you got phone tapped you.

1320
00:57:09,960 --> 00:57:12,040
Speaker 29: Your wife don wanted to play a phone tap on you, Steve.

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Speaker 3: I know, I know it is.

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Speaker 22: It is.

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Speaker 2: You wait till I get home. Man, I swore to

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Speaker 2: Ghana and you wait till I get home.

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Speaker 22: Table was pre.

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Speaker 3: Recorded permission granted by all participants.

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Speaker 31: Dan Phone, tab Elvis Duran.

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Speaker 3: In the Morning show, Hey do we have Russell on

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Speaker 3: line nineteen, we got to talk to Russell. Hey Russell,

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Speaker 3: welcome to the show. We've got to talk.

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Speaker 7: Good morning.

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Speaker 22: How are you guys.

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Speaker 3: We're doing well. We're doing well. May I tell your story?

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Speaker 3: Here we go?

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Speaker 5: Uh.

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Speaker 3: We received a text from Russell. He says, someone cut

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Speaker 3: me off four months ago and I took a picture

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Speaker 3: of their license plate. And today I finally saw the

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00:57:55,320 --> 00:57:58,080
Speaker 3: same car again. Actually yesterday I saw the same car

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Speaker 3: again and I followed them around, and now I know

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Speaker 3: where they live. Is something wrong with me?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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00:58:03,640 --> 00:58:03,920
Speaker 15: Wow?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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00:58:05,360 --> 00:58:08,000
Speaker 3: I mean you need to be careful. Okay, let me

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00:58:08,040 --> 00:58:10,720
Speaker 3: ask you this. You followed them, You know where this

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00:58:10,840 --> 00:58:13,600
Speaker 3: person who cut you off in traffic lives? What were

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00:58:13,640 --> 00:58:15,880
Speaker 3: you going to do with that information? Knowing where they live?

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Speaker 19: That's what I'm trying to figure out. You know, I

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00:58:19,400 --> 00:58:21,720
Speaker 19: think I can finally sleep better and just you know,

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Speaker 19: put this to rest. I mean, we've all been cut

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Speaker 19: off in traffic before, and it is exactly racket if

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00:58:27,400 --> 00:58:30,400
Speaker 19: you're having a bad day, and it just it throws

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00:58:30,440 --> 00:58:32,760
Speaker 19: a wrench in the in the gears. And I was

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00:58:32,920 --> 00:58:36,720
Speaker 19: just so infuriated that this person the one they unsafely

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00:58:36,800 --> 00:58:38,680
Speaker 19: cut me off. You know, we've all been doing the

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Speaker 19: speed limit, you know, are a little bit over in

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00:58:40,560 --> 00:58:42,600
Speaker 19: the left lane, and someone tries to pass you in

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Speaker 19: the right lane. There's traffic ahead, and they get back

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Speaker 19: behind you. So this has been going on for five minutes.

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Speaker 19: Now finally they're agitated and they cut me off and

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Speaker 19: almost hit me and then break check me. That's what

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00:58:54,720 --> 00:58:58,840
Speaker 19: threw me over the edge, right right. They slowed down

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Speaker 19: to about twenty miles an hour on a sixty five

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Speaker 19: mile an hour zone, so it was definitely not safe.

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Speaker 19: And then there's cars behind me that are getting.

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Speaker 22: Close to me, so I was I was absolutely upset.

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Speaker 19: I obviously I get in the right lane and it's

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Speaker 19: about fifteen minutes later we're on the same road again,

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Speaker 19: and I recognized the car because there was a dent

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Speaker 19: in the bumper, so I took a picture, you know,

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Speaker 19: and then you know, then I'm following them and I

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Speaker 19: have little dice that are in my windshields. So I

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Speaker 19: think they recognized that it would me. Now they're speeding.

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Speaker 20: Now they're speeding, going through red lights, stop sign going

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Speaker 20: going around cars and oncoming traffic. Finally I couldn't keep

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Speaker 20: up with them, and I was like, you know what,

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Speaker 20: I got their license plate whatever. Sure enough, four months later,

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Speaker 20: here's the same car again.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god. No, wait a minute, now, hold on,

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Speaker 3: no hope, no Russell, hold on. We got to catch

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Speaker 3: up on a few things here. First of all, this

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00:59:50,960 --> 00:59:54,080
Speaker 3: has been in your brain for four months? Has it

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Speaker 3: been bothering you or did it just come back and

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Speaker 3: it was resurfacing when you saw this car again.

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Speaker 19: You know, I'd say about every other week, I'd see

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Speaker 19: a car that looks familiar and it would kind of

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Speaker 19: retrigger this thought. But no, it wasn't on the front

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Speaker 19: of my mind.

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Speaker 16: Everything right, So.

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Speaker 3: Your question was there's something wrong with me?

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Speaker 16: You know what?

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Speaker 3: Part of me says no? And I'll tell you. Why

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Speaker 3: have you ever everyone on the show, everyone listening. You've

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Speaker 3: been in traffic and someone pulls a stupid ass move?

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Speaker 3: Do you find that if you find that, you need

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Speaker 3: to see them and what they look like, so you

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Speaker 3: can like put a face because otherwise it was a

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Speaker 3: car that ran in front of you. No, in reality,

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Speaker 3: you need to see who was driving that car. You

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Speaker 3: want to humanize them. But Russell took it a step

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Speaker 3: further and now he knows where they live. So I

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Speaker 3: don't know we I mean, you any thoughts. I mean

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Speaker 3: with Russell crazy, he's out of his mind, yes he is.

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Speaker 14: Yeah, And I just don't think he should take it

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Speaker 14: to the next step, like don't keep going by the

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Speaker 14: house because they're gonna say restraining water or something like,

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Speaker 14: don't do anything like it's done. I get nervous that

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Speaker 14: people have like weapons that are going to come after Oh, yeah,

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Speaker 14: be careful, just be careful.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, n hinged, be careful with that. Yeah, go ahead, Gandhi.

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Speaker 6: I would get it if maybe in some way you

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Speaker 6: were able to find this person online and then.

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Speaker 8: Do a deep dive and you spiral that way.

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Speaker 6: That's not as strange, but to physically stalk the person

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Speaker 6: and then end up near their home or whatever finding

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Speaker 6: out where they live.

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Speaker 8: I just I worry for your safety, Like Danielle.

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Speaker 19: Let me ask you for the record, like I do

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Speaker 19: not doing anything okay, well good, but but you but wait,

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01:01:24,360 --> 01:01:25,680
Speaker 19: you have done something.

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Speaker 3: You followed them to their house, that is to do something.

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Speaker 3: But hold on, wait now, another thing you need to

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Speaker 3: remember is, obviously you guys are on the same road

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Speaker 3: from time to time. There's a chance this guy may

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Speaker 3: recognize your dice again and come after you, you know.

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Speaker 31: Take them down.

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Speaker 3: You share the road with this person, and the chances

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01:01:43,440 --> 01:01:46,880
Speaker 3: are spin the wheel you may run into this person again.

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Speaker 3: So what are you gonna do? Then let's let it go.

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Speaker 19: I think I'm gonna take the dice out of the wind.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, you're gonna miss those dive put it on

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Speaker 3: a different car or buy a different car. But yeah,

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Speaker 3: I love that.

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Speaker 16: You know.

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Speaker 3: It happened to me yesterday. Someone was driving like a

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Speaker 3: total a hole and I had to speed to get

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Speaker 3: up to them so I could see what they looked like.

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Speaker 3: I wanna what kind of buffoon drives like a babboon?

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Speaker 3: And now I know that I know what she looks like.

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Speaker 3: I know I saw her there. She is idiot.

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Speaker 6: Don't you sometimes feel bad though, when you're raging and

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Speaker 6: it's a little old person and you're like.

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Speaker 3: Oh, they can't Yeah, you know, if I know if

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Speaker 3: it was a nun, Yeah, i'd ever like, Okay, I'm

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Speaker 3: sorry none, all right, we gotta go, Russell. Please be

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Speaker 3: careful out there and don't be that guy who you

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Speaker 3: know we we see on the news. You know what

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01:02:36,640 --> 01:02:42,360
Speaker 3: I'm saying. Yeah, people people cutting you off, stop it.

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Speaker 3: Stop driving like a bunch of a hole. Thank your

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01:02:44,520 --> 01:02:49,840
Speaker 3: brother waking up in taking them on so many things.

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Speaker 4: Tell Vis Duran in the Morning live from the Mercedes

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Speaker 4: Benz Interview Lounge.

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Speaker 3: We always go and Dan Harris hangs out with us.

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Speaker 3: He's at the family. Thank you.

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Speaker 31: I even crash your Christmas parties, I know, and I.

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Speaker 3: Hope you do next year in the year after. So anyway,

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Speaker 3: Dan Harris. Of course, about eleven years ago we met

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01:03:10,080 --> 01:03:12,000
Speaker 3: Dan became very good friends with him because we love him.

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Speaker 3: He wrote Ten Percent Happier, this incredible, incredible book about meditation.

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Speaker 3: Back was eleven years ago, but back in a time

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Speaker 3: where a lot of people thought meditation was just a freaky, weird,

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Speaker 3: who what are you doing kind of thing.

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Speaker 9: Not the Indians.

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Speaker 8: We've we've loved it for a long time.

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Speaker 31: Absolutely, you're also invented it there that it all started

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Speaker 31: right there.

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Speaker 3: But now You're You're ten percent Happier podcast is huge,

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Speaker 3: and you got this app. Were loving the new app

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Speaker 3: and look so much going on. But I'm glad you're

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Speaker 3: here because every time Dan's on with us, we receive

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Speaker 3: such such great feedback about how you make everyone feel.

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Speaker 3: Thank you. So they're like, who's this guy, Dan Harris

1474
01:03:56,920 --> 01:03:58,280
Speaker 3: and you're gonna get to know him. Let's talk to

1475
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Speaker 3: Dan Harris. Let's go. What do you want to talk about?

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Speaker 31: Well, let me ask you guys a question. By February,

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Speaker 31: have you abandoned your New Year's resolutions?

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Speaker 2: Why?

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Speaker 3: This is why I don't make them. I don't make

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Speaker 3: resolutions at.

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Speaker 31: All, because you just know that you won't keep them.

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Speaker 3: I just I'm thinking, you know what, I don't think

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Speaker 3: of it as okay, starting January one, I'm going to

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Speaker 3: do this better in my life. If I really truly

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Speaker 3: want to be better in my life in that aspect,

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Speaker 3: I will do it right this moment. I don't wait

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Speaker 3: until midnight strikes.

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Speaker 31: I was like that forever, but then I saw there's

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Speaker 31: a bunch of research that shows that there's a phenomenon

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Speaker 31: known as the fresh start effect. So if you use

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Speaker 31: the momentum that naturally comes from a fresh start, like

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Speaker 31: the beginning of a new year, or even the beginning

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Speaker 31: of a new week, your birthday. That is, there's power

1494
01:04:55,840 --> 01:04:59,919
Speaker 31: to that that can fuel the abiding nature of the habit.

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01:05:00,080 --> 01:05:03,200
Speaker 31: You can use that to boot up a habit one

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Speaker 31: of But.

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Speaker 3: These are New Year's resolutions. I mean, it's a proven

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01:05:06,280 --> 01:05:08,280
Speaker 3: fact that you can go to any gym in America

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Speaker 3: right after the first of the year and they're all

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Speaker 3: crowded as hell.

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Speaker 31: And then a week later, yes, I mean that most

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Speaker 31: people have fallen off their resolutions by February first, So

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Speaker 31: this is a real problem. I mean, I'm just curious

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01:05:21,680 --> 01:05:23,400
Speaker 31: for the rest of you. Do you struggle with this.

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Speaker 6: If I set a goal that's like I'm gonna work

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01:05:26,200 --> 01:05:28,480
Speaker 6: out every day, probably by February I fall off. But

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01:05:28,560 --> 01:05:30,880
Speaker 6: because I know that I make mine more of by

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Speaker 6: the end of the year, I would like to have

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Speaker 6: accomplished this.

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Speaker 8: Yes, so that is easier for me.

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Speaker 31: There's data for that myself. There's research behind that approach

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Speaker 31: that if you make your resolution very focused and specific,

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01:05:44,840 --> 01:05:48,120
Speaker 31: as opposed to I'm going to get fit, you have

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Speaker 31: more success. And if you make it smaller rather than larger,

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01:05:51,840 --> 01:05:54,160
Speaker 31: you are also more likely to have success. It's starting

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Speaker 31: small and doing it in manageable little chunks is the

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Speaker 31: way to go. So, for example, if exercises your resolution,

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01:06:02,000 --> 01:06:05,000
Speaker 31: if you put your if you start by simply putting

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01:06:05,080 --> 01:06:08,280
Speaker 31: your running shoes near the door, that is a good

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01:06:08,360 --> 01:06:08,800
Speaker 31: first step.

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Speaker 14: Yes, oh yeah, I.

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Speaker 6: Read eighty percent of accomplishing something is getting dressed to

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Speaker 6: do that thing. Yes, so if you want to go

1524
01:06:14,000 --> 01:06:15,400
Speaker 6: to the gym, just put your gym clothes on. If

1525
01:06:15,400 --> 01:06:16,880
Speaker 6: you're not feeling motivated, and then all of a sudden

1526
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Speaker 6: you're like, you know what, no reason not to do this,

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Speaker 6: I'm dressed.

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Speaker 8: Let's go.

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Speaker 31: It's interesting to view this through the lens of evolution.

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01:06:23,200 --> 01:06:28,520
Speaker 31: We did not evolve for long term projects. We evolved

1531
01:06:29,040 --> 01:06:31,480
Speaker 31: we had we were in a survival situation. So we're

1532
01:06:31,560 --> 01:06:35,680
Speaker 31: really good at avoiding threats and finding food and so

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Speaker 31: that is just the way our minds are wired. Our

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01:06:39,200 --> 01:06:43,320
Speaker 31: brains are wired. And so something like the slow, steady

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Speaker 31: slog that's required to start a habit, we're just not

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Speaker 31: wired for that. But if you divide it up into

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01:06:49,320 --> 01:06:51,920
Speaker 31: little chunks, then you can succeed.

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Speaker 3: What do you mean little chunks? Talk about like.

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01:06:54,000 --> 01:06:56,520
Speaker 31: Putting your say, if you say to yourself, I want

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01:06:56,560 --> 01:06:59,120
Speaker 31: to my doctor saying I need to exercise more. If

1541
01:06:59,160 --> 01:07:01,280
Speaker 31: you start really small and keep it really small all

1542
01:07:01,320 --> 01:07:03,960
Speaker 31: the way, start with putting your shoes next to the door.

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01:07:04,360 --> 01:07:06,040
Speaker 31: Start with a couple of days a week, I'm just

1544
01:07:06,200 --> 01:07:10,000
Speaker 31: gonna wear my exercise clothes, or if meditation is your goal,

1545
01:07:10,080 --> 01:07:13,320
Speaker 31: I'm just gonna get into the position three times a week.

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01:07:14,400 --> 01:07:18,000
Speaker 31: Those tiny little steps start to compound over time, because

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01:07:18,040 --> 01:07:21,480
Speaker 31: then you're not cutting against the grain of the brain

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01:07:21,680 --> 01:07:24,960
Speaker 31: that evolution bequeathed us. You're working with what you've got.

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01:07:25,480 --> 01:07:27,600
Speaker 14: Because if you give up everything, I'm gonna eat better,

1550
01:07:27,600 --> 01:07:31,480
Speaker 14: and you give up snacking and sweets, and that's just

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01:07:31,560 --> 01:07:32,800
Speaker 14: too much. You can't do.

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01:07:32,880 --> 01:07:36,760
Speaker 3: All though the resolution is balls deep from the very beginning.

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01:07:36,840 --> 01:07:39,560
Speaker 31: You know that's the thing is you should your resolution

1554
01:07:39,720 --> 01:07:40,760
Speaker 31: should be smaller.

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01:07:40,640 --> 01:07:41,360
Speaker 14: Not balls deep.

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01:07:42,000 --> 01:07:49,440
Speaker 3: Okay, Wow, I love you guys.

1557
01:07:51,000 --> 01:07:53,919
Speaker 31: No, No, I'm just deciding. Do I play along and perhaps.

1558
01:07:53,760 --> 01:07:58,080
Speaker 3: Ruin my career? Do I just appreciate you?

1559
01:07:58,880 --> 01:07:58,920
Speaker 10: Know?

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01:07:59,080 --> 01:08:01,479
Speaker 3: To be fair here. Your career that you are rolling

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01:08:01,600 --> 01:08:06,680
Speaker 3: with now, I think is perfectly perfectly in tune with

1562
01:08:06,760 --> 01:08:09,000
Speaker 3: what we're saying and how you could be as irrelevant

1563
01:08:09,040 --> 01:08:10,960
Speaker 3: and not irrelevant, as irreverent as you want to be.

1564
01:08:11,040 --> 01:08:12,440
Speaker 31: I think the title of my next book is going

1565
01:08:12,480 --> 01:08:13,120
Speaker 31: to be balls Deep.

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01:08:13,640 --> 01:08:18,240
Speaker 3: Should do that. Here we go, Now we go. Harris

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01:08:18,320 --> 01:08:21,599
Speaker 3: is Hey, I got a caller here, Tatiana from Long

1568
01:08:21,640 --> 01:08:24,000
Speaker 3: Island talking about meditation. Okay, I know we're kind of

1569
01:08:24,040 --> 01:08:26,120
Speaker 3: jumping around, but I'm gonna jump around. Am I doing

1570
01:08:26,160 --> 01:08:26,680
Speaker 3: the right here?

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Speaker 18: Hello?

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01:08:27,800 --> 01:08:28,960
Speaker 3: Tatiana? How are you?

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01:08:30,640 --> 01:08:30,760
Speaker 2: Hi?

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01:08:30,960 --> 01:08:31,880
Speaker 1: Good morning, I'm doing well.

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01:08:31,920 --> 01:08:35,920
Speaker 3: How are you doing very well? Say hello to Dan Harris? Bye, Dan,

1576
01:08:36,000 --> 01:08:38,679
Speaker 3: good morning, Hi Tatana, good morning. So you're a teacher

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01:08:38,800 --> 01:08:41,920
Speaker 3: and you actually employed Dan's techniques in your school.

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01:08:43,760 --> 01:08:46,360
Speaker 1: So yeah, I'm the principle of Harmony High School in

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01:08:46,439 --> 01:08:49,559
Speaker 1: Long Island and we're a therapeutic school and we use

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01:08:50,000 --> 01:08:52,880
Speaker 1: so many of the different techniques that Dan writes about

1581
01:08:54,160 --> 01:08:55,080
Speaker 1: that is incredible.

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01:08:55,160 --> 01:08:57,200
Speaker 31: So what can you give me an example of a

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01:08:57,320 --> 01:08:59,920
Speaker 31: technique that you've found really effective either for the staff

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01:09:00,200 --> 01:09:01,400
Speaker 31: or the students.

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Speaker 1: Definitely, So we use a lot of the mindfulness meditation,

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01:09:05,960 --> 01:09:08,479
Speaker 1: especially with our students when they're kind of getting stuck

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01:09:08,560 --> 01:09:11,479
Speaker 1: in their anxiety. We have a whole clinical team here

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01:09:11,600 --> 01:09:14,720
Speaker 1: that works at them on that. It's actually yesterday at

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01:09:14,760 --> 01:09:19,439
Speaker 1: a staff meeting and use your sort of thought behind

1590
01:09:19,640 --> 01:09:23,000
Speaker 1: this time management and compassion training and decided let's just

1591
01:09:23,200 --> 01:09:25,679
Speaker 1: make a switch for the betterment of the students and staff.

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01:09:25,800 --> 01:09:30,200
Speaker 1: So we are consistently using all of these different techniques

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Speaker 1: as part of ours just school's philosophy and therapeutic setting.

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01:09:34,080 --> 01:09:36,400
Speaker 31: How do you keep it going on? Are the things

1595
01:09:36,439 --> 01:09:38,800
Speaker 31: we're talking about here? Is so many of us have

1596
01:09:38,960 --> 01:09:42,080
Speaker 31: these good intentions. We want to have meditation in our life,

1597
01:09:42,080 --> 01:09:44,120
Speaker 31: we want to exercise more, we want to eat healthy.

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01:09:44,479 --> 01:09:47,200
Speaker 31: How do you not, as we keep saying, fall off

1599
01:09:47,280 --> 01:09:53,559
Speaker 31: the wagon with these initiatives, I think we kind.

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Speaker 1: Of hold each other accountable. Also, being a therapeutic setting,

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01:09:56,880 --> 01:09:59,599
Speaker 1: we really try to live by that philosophy. We try

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01:09:59,640 --> 01:10:01,880
Speaker 1: to hold each other countable in the positive ways. When

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01:10:01,920 --> 01:10:05,719
Speaker 1: we catch ourselves or each other kind of being negative

1604
01:10:05,840 --> 01:10:08,680
Speaker 1: or saying leading with those negative thoughts, we try to

1605
01:10:09,120 --> 01:10:12,120
Speaker 1: encourage one another to make that change. Our students are

1606
01:10:12,160 --> 01:10:16,160
Speaker 1: also just such and the inspiraate help us to reinforce

1607
01:10:16,400 --> 01:10:18,479
Speaker 1: those habits as well, because we want to ensure that

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01:10:18,560 --> 01:10:21,360
Speaker 1: we are modeling it for all of the students in

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01:10:21,479 --> 01:10:24,160
Speaker 1: the building, and vice versa. Sometimes builds the us stress

1610
01:10:24,200 --> 01:10:26,280
Speaker 1: and say Hey, you should try one of the techniques

1611
01:10:26,439 --> 01:10:30,040
Speaker 1: like your strategic worrying, or like take a small bite

1612
01:10:30,120 --> 01:10:32,360
Speaker 1: right now of what you can handle. And so it's

1613
01:10:32,439 --> 01:10:36,400
Speaker 1: kind of Fitch cross collaboration environment and working here the

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01:10:36,479 --> 01:10:39,960
Speaker 1: past four years and implementing all of these strategies that

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01:10:40,120 --> 01:10:43,560
Speaker 1: we've learned and reading all the different philosophies you included.

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01:10:44,000 --> 01:10:46,320
Speaker 1: I think it's even helped in personal life be able

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01:10:46,400 --> 01:10:47,599
Speaker 1: to implement those as well.

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01:10:48,120 --> 01:10:50,040
Speaker 31: Tatana, that's beautiful. I want I do want to pick

1619
01:10:50,080 --> 01:10:52,920
Speaker 31: up on something Tatiana said, just for everybody here who's

1620
01:10:53,240 --> 01:10:57,120
Speaker 31: thinking about how do I actually stick with my resolutions?

1621
01:10:57,120 --> 01:10:59,880
Speaker 31: Because that's my problem, she says. She said, A key

1622
01:11:00,160 --> 01:11:04,439
Speaker 31: word there, accountable. We hold each other accountable. One of

1623
01:11:04,520 --> 01:11:09,600
Speaker 31: the best ways to actually make sure you stick with

1624
01:11:09,760 --> 01:11:12,800
Speaker 31: whatever your goal is is to do it as a

1625
01:11:12,880 --> 01:11:13,479
Speaker 31: team sport.

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01:11:13,560 --> 01:11:15,040
Speaker 3: Well, I know, Okay, let me give you an example

1627
01:11:15,040 --> 01:11:18,000
Speaker 3: of Tatiana, this is something you do not want to use.

1628
01:11:18,040 --> 01:11:22,120
Speaker 3: At Harmony High School Gandhi for instance, right here, she

1629
01:11:22,640 --> 01:11:27,760
Speaker 3: and Andy or Andrew and Josh. They have a few others.

1630
01:11:27,800 --> 01:11:30,240
Speaker 3: They have a group and they all work out and

1631
01:11:30,320 --> 01:11:33,040
Speaker 3: they all are accountable to each other with each other,

1632
01:11:33,880 --> 01:11:35,640
Speaker 3: but they're mean and vicious about it.

1633
01:11:37,640 --> 01:11:40,920
Speaker 8: Then the term feral pig gets tossed around. But you

1634
01:11:41,000 --> 01:11:42,800
Speaker 8: know what, calling me a feral pig makes me put

1635
01:11:42,880 --> 01:11:44,360
Speaker 8: much shoes on that or by the door and go

1636
01:11:44,479 --> 01:11:44,600
Speaker 8: to this.

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01:11:44,680 --> 01:11:47,519
Speaker 31: Wait, somebody called you a feral pig. Yeah, hello, Josh,

1638
01:11:47,720 --> 01:11:51,360
Speaker 31: that is I'm not down with that. But trash talking,

1639
01:11:51,600 --> 01:11:54,400
Speaker 31: trash talking is a great way to, you know, to

1640
01:11:55,000 --> 01:11:59,559
Speaker 31: build morale. And I think there's I think I think

1641
01:11:59,600 --> 01:12:02,679
Speaker 31: you're an example and a cautionary tales what I'm trying

1642
01:12:02,680 --> 01:12:06,240
Speaker 31: to say. But I love trash talking. This is the

1643
01:12:06,479 --> 01:12:09,160
Speaker 31: secret sauce of this show. And so a certain amount

1644
01:12:09,160 --> 01:12:13,400
Speaker 31: of trash talking and camaraderie gets you into the gym

1645
01:12:13,600 --> 01:12:15,160
Speaker 31: or whatever it is you're trying to do.

1646
01:12:16,120 --> 01:12:18,800
Speaker 14: I think this Dan Harris on the Road is your

1647
01:12:18,880 --> 01:12:22,640
Speaker 14: next thing, like taking it to a school like Tatiana's

1648
01:12:22,640 --> 01:12:25,360
Speaker 14: who actually already implements what you do. And you can

1649
01:12:25,560 --> 01:12:27,080
Speaker 14: you know, you can charge a lot of money Dan,

1650
01:12:27,240 --> 01:12:28,000
Speaker 14: Dan Harris.

1651
01:12:29,640 --> 01:12:31,080
Speaker 12: Or you know, just come for free.

1652
01:12:31,200 --> 01:12:31,360
Speaker 2: Dan.

1653
01:12:31,479 --> 01:12:36,559
Speaker 3: We need to see your budgets and check your credit

1654
01:12:36,640 --> 01:12:41,640
Speaker 3: score there. Tatiana, thank you for starting a conversation in

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01:12:41,680 --> 01:12:43,000
Speaker 3: the room with us. We appreciate it, and thanks for

1656
01:12:43,040 --> 01:12:43,840
Speaker 3: listening to our show too.

1657
01:12:45,080 --> 01:12:47,320
Speaker 1: Thank you all so much. Have a wonderful day you

1658
01:12:47,439 --> 01:12:47,920
Speaker 1: too too.

1659
01:12:48,080 --> 01:12:52,760
Speaker 3: Let's get back to resolutions, shall we. Uh? Strategies, strategies

1660
01:12:52,920 --> 01:12:57,720
Speaker 3: you already gave us one. Start small, okay.

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Speaker 31: Yeah, so start small. Do it as a team sport.

1662
01:13:00,439 --> 01:13:02,479
Speaker 31: I often say that life is easier and faster in

1663
01:13:02,560 --> 01:13:05,759
Speaker 31: the hov lane or in the carpool lane. So social

1664
01:13:05,880 --> 01:13:09,519
Speaker 31: support is the technical term psychologists use. Tatiana pointed at

1665
01:13:09,520 --> 01:13:12,160
Speaker 31: that that's a massive strategy. So if you have a

1666
01:13:12,280 --> 01:13:15,600
Speaker 31: goal for New Years, find people to do it with you,

1667
01:13:15,960 --> 01:13:17,679
Speaker 31: as long as they don't call you a feral pig.

1668
01:13:19,240 --> 01:13:21,960
Speaker 31: And so starting small is a huge one. And then

1669
01:13:22,040 --> 01:13:27,040
Speaker 31: also having your resolution be something doable, not something vague

1670
01:13:27,120 --> 01:13:30,000
Speaker 31: like I'm gonna get fit. It has to be specific,

1671
01:13:30,120 --> 01:13:31,599
Speaker 31: like I'm going to try to go to the gym

1672
01:13:31,880 --> 01:13:34,400
Speaker 31: two or three times a week. And then start small

1673
01:13:34,680 --> 01:13:39,080
Speaker 31: with that. Another another huge strategy that I think is

1674
01:13:39,120 --> 01:13:43,680
Speaker 31: really important is we are stuck in this culture in

1675
01:13:43,800 --> 01:13:47,360
Speaker 31: an era of self optimization where everybody's trying to tweak

1676
01:13:47,439 --> 01:13:49,960
Speaker 31: every aspect of their life. I'm counting my steps, I'm

1677
01:13:50,040 --> 01:13:53,800
Speaker 31: counting my calories, I'm tracking my sleep, I'm striving for katosis.

1678
01:13:53,920 --> 01:13:56,840
Speaker 31: I'm trying to be perfect all the time. I'm trying

1679
01:13:56,880 --> 01:13:59,400
Speaker 31: to match what I'm seeing on Instagram so that I

1680
01:13:59,479 --> 01:14:03,120
Speaker 31: can look like them, And there's this undercurrent of self

1681
01:14:03,160 --> 01:14:06,280
Speaker 31: hatred there. This has often been referred to as the

1682
01:14:06,560 --> 01:14:11,160
Speaker 31: subtle aggression of self improvement. What is motivating you to

1683
01:14:11,439 --> 01:14:13,960
Speaker 31: make these resolutions? Is it because you want the best

1684
01:14:14,000 --> 01:14:17,000
Speaker 31: for yourself? Or do you subtly hate yourself? And can

1685
01:14:17,080 --> 01:14:19,679
Speaker 31: you tune into that and then try to counter program

1686
01:14:19,840 --> 01:14:23,280
Speaker 31: against it. The tool to counter program against it is

1687
01:14:23,520 --> 01:14:26,880
Speaker 31: self compassion, which we on the show have talked about before,

1688
01:14:27,200 --> 01:14:29,640
Speaker 31: which is just this ability to talk to yourself the

1689
01:14:29,720 --> 01:14:31,800
Speaker 31: way you would talk to a good friend. So, if

1690
01:14:31,840 --> 01:14:35,560
Speaker 31: you're looking in the mirror and berating yourself for you know,

1691
01:14:35,880 --> 01:14:38,760
Speaker 31: looking poresign or whatever it is, looking like a pig

1692
01:14:38,960 --> 01:14:44,560
Speaker 31: or whatever it is, can you say, no, Dan, you

1693
01:14:44,680 --> 01:14:48,200
Speaker 31: got this, You look great. Can you say whatever you

1694
01:14:48,200 --> 01:14:50,479
Speaker 31: would say to a good friend in this moment. That

1695
01:14:50,880 --> 01:14:53,519
Speaker 31: is a massive way to get under the hood and

1696
01:14:53,720 --> 01:14:57,080
Speaker 31: try to tweak what is motivating you to do this

1697
01:14:57,160 --> 01:14:58,080
Speaker 31: stuff in the first place.

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Speaker 6: So would you say that that maybe a good New

1699
01:15:01,400 --> 01:15:05,040
Speaker 6: Year's resolution for everybody would be get off of social

1700
01:15:05,160 --> 01:15:08,000
Speaker 6: media as much as you can, because I think that

1701
01:15:08,120 --> 01:15:10,360
Speaker 6: it creates the self hatred that you're talking about by

1702
01:15:10,400 --> 01:15:13,559
Speaker 6: constantly comparing yourself. And I noticed I when it's silent,

1703
01:15:13,680 --> 01:15:16,160
Speaker 6: go to that. And I also read recently that silence

1704
01:15:16,240 --> 01:15:19,200
Speaker 6: is not the absence of sound. Silence is actually attention

1705
01:15:19,840 --> 01:15:24,040
Speaker 6: to the present and to yourself. And I think that

1706
01:15:24,360 --> 01:15:26,439
Speaker 6: more people are scared of that attention to themselves, and

1707
01:15:26,479 --> 01:15:28,479
Speaker 6: then we're always scrolling, which that makes us feel bad.

1708
01:15:28,560 --> 01:15:29,720
Speaker 3: Yes, there was.

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01:15:30,000 --> 01:15:32,560
Speaker 31: There have been studies where people have been given a

1710
01:15:32,640 --> 01:15:38,120
Speaker 31: choice between sitting alone with their thoughts or getting an

1711
01:15:38,160 --> 01:15:43,759
Speaker 31: electric shock, and most people choose the electric shock away.

1712
01:15:44,280 --> 01:15:45,240
Speaker 9: Why crazy.

1713
01:15:45,439 --> 01:15:47,840
Speaker 31: So it's a real fear that we have, like being

1714
01:15:48,040 --> 01:15:51,080
Speaker 31: alone with ourselves. So I would say start small with that.

1715
01:15:51,960 --> 01:15:54,719
Speaker 31: With meditation, for example, I often say one minute counts.

1716
01:15:54,760 --> 01:15:57,360
Speaker 31: It's a great way to start. But the other thing

1717
01:15:57,400 --> 01:15:59,400
Speaker 31: you said was about social media. This is something I've

1718
01:15:59,400 --> 01:16:01,840
Speaker 31: been thinking about myself just in the last few days.

1719
01:16:02,439 --> 01:16:06,240
Speaker 31: Is I just noticed, with watching my own mind, as

1720
01:16:06,280 --> 01:16:08,559
Speaker 31: I've really trained myself to do over the last sixteen

1721
01:16:08,640 --> 01:16:11,280
Speaker 31: years of meditation, I just see how unhappy I am

1722
01:16:11,479 --> 01:16:14,479
Speaker 31: every time I'm on social media. And so I'm actually

1723
01:16:14,640 --> 01:16:17,120
Speaker 31: really thinking about deleting the apps and just having my

1724
01:16:17,240 --> 01:16:19,720
Speaker 31: team do the posting, because I see what it does

1725
01:16:19,800 --> 01:16:22,800
Speaker 31: for me. It's a reliable source of unhappiness.

1726
01:16:23,000 --> 01:16:25,080
Speaker 14: I was telling them that when we went on vacation

1727
01:16:25,280 --> 01:16:27,160
Speaker 14: last time, I gave it up for two days total,

1728
01:16:27,200 --> 01:16:28,840
Speaker 14: and I put it aside and I didn't look at

1729
01:16:28,840 --> 01:16:30,720
Speaker 14: it at all, and I have to say that I

1730
01:16:30,840 --> 01:16:33,479
Speaker 14: got a lot more done. Yeah, my mind was clearer.

1731
01:16:33,640 --> 01:16:37,160
Speaker 14: And now I even find myself like, if I pick

1732
01:16:37,200 --> 01:16:39,400
Speaker 14: it up, I go, okay, I'm giving myself two seconds

1733
01:16:39,439 --> 01:16:40,800
Speaker 14: with this. And I look and I go, that's it.

1734
01:16:40,880 --> 01:16:43,760
Speaker 14: And I put it down, and I'm much better already

1735
01:16:44,280 --> 01:16:47,680
Speaker 14: with not spending as much time going down that never

1736
01:16:47,840 --> 01:16:48,719
Speaker 14: ending hole.

1737
01:16:49,040 --> 01:16:52,519
Speaker 31: It's amazing how quickly you can become convinced that your

1738
01:16:52,600 --> 01:16:53,320
Speaker 31: life is horrible.

1739
01:16:54,040 --> 01:16:54,720
Speaker 25: Well, the thing is.

1740
01:16:54,920 --> 01:16:58,880
Speaker 3: But in addition to that, we're not spending time with ourselves. Yes,

1741
01:16:59,080 --> 01:17:01,559
Speaker 3: when you're online, you're not with you. You're with others

1742
01:17:02,160 --> 01:17:04,840
Speaker 3: that you don't know. Well, you're a stupid crap to say.

1743
01:17:04,960 --> 01:17:08,120
Speaker 31: Well, but you're you're you're not even with them, You're

1744
01:17:08,320 --> 01:17:14,320
Speaker 31: you're you're in this like like purgatory between being with

1745
01:17:14,400 --> 01:17:17,200
Speaker 31: yourself and being with other people. It's not real social interaction.

1746
01:17:17,720 --> 01:17:22,679
Speaker 31: It's it's you're having these curated glimpses into edited, filtered

1747
01:17:22,720 --> 01:17:26,040
Speaker 31: glimpses into other people's lives that make you feel terrible

1748
01:17:26,040 --> 01:17:28,960
Speaker 31: about your life. By the way, it also makes you

1749
01:17:29,000 --> 01:17:31,719
Speaker 31: feel terrible about the state of the world. Why Because

1750
01:17:31,760 --> 01:17:36,760
Speaker 31: these algorithms run on fear and anger, the human emotions

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Speaker 31: that they know are the stickiest. They keep you scrolling

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Speaker 31: so and and I I say, call bullshit on that.

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Speaker 31: Call bullsh on what they're trying to sell you about

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01:17:47,000 --> 01:17:49,640
Speaker 31: what this world actually consists of. I'm not trying to

1755
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Speaker 31: gaslight you and say there's no war, there's no inequality,

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Speaker 31: there's no political polarization. But there are beautiful acts of generosity,

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Speaker 31: basic human kindness happening all all over all around us.

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Speaker 31: People teaching children, building buildings, holding the door open for

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Speaker 31: other people. But they're not in your news feed, and

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Speaker 31: you you have no way of focusing in on them.

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Speaker 31: If that's your view.

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Speaker 3: Of the world.

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Speaker 14: Wow, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Preach for the people to the back.

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Speaker 6: The algorithm rewards rage because we all look at it.

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Speaker 6: We see something outrages and we look at it. So

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Speaker 6: for me, when I'm online, it will have me thinking

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Speaker 6: that the world is the craziest place and so chaotic,

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Speaker 6: which it might be, But when I'm in this room

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Speaker 6: with all of you, I don't feel that same way

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Speaker 6: because it's real people and that same stuff isn't happening.

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Speaker 3: Well, are we addicted to it? Is that the problem?

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Speaker 3: Because it should be so easy to take your phone

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Speaker 3: and go.

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Speaker 31: Every time you pick up your phone and interact with

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Speaker 3: I hope I never ever experienced it. But I've never

1812
01:20:30,360 --> 01:20:33,120
Speaker 3: been dumped in a relationship.

1813
01:20:33,240 --> 01:20:33,439
Speaker 18: Never.

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Speaker 22: No.

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Speaker 3: I mean there's this one guy who but he was

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01:20:36,600 --> 01:20:39,400
Speaker 3: he was a dumb ass henly dumped me. He just

1817
01:20:39,760 --> 01:20:41,200
Speaker 3: like just fell off the planet.

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Speaker 8: You were just ready for it, so it didn't matter.

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01:20:42,640 --> 01:20:42,800
Speaker 10: Yeah.

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01:20:42,880 --> 01:20:46,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I'm you know, I'm almost done with life.

1821
01:20:46,880 --> 01:20:50,639
Speaker 3: So I'm hoping, you know, look, I'm married. I'm hoping

1822
01:20:51,320 --> 01:20:53,360
Speaker 3: I'm going to continue the trend of not being dumped.

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Speaker 3: But the thing is is, if you, depending on who

1824
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Speaker 3: you talk to, if you're the person who dumpump someone

1825
01:21:01,479 --> 01:21:06,919
Speaker 3: ended the relationship, sometimes you're considered to be the heartless monster,

1826
01:21:08,080 --> 01:21:10,600
Speaker 3: you know whatever, And I'm hoping that if a relationship

1827
01:21:10,720 --> 01:21:13,800
Speaker 3: is not working out, you do have the well you

1828
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Speaker 3: have you have the wherewithal to maneuver out of that

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Speaker 3: in a nice, respectful way.

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Speaker 14: Yeah hmm, well yes, unless they were really oh no, no,

1831
01:21:23,840 --> 01:21:26,479
Speaker 14: you know, if it was right, they had it coming, yeah,

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Speaker 14: carry Ona would needs to be you know, involved.

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Speaker 10: Then, you know.

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Speaker 3: So it's it's so easy to immediately think of the

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Speaker 3: person who was let going out of the relationship. You're like,

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Speaker 3: oh god, you know, I feel awful for them, and

1837
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Speaker 3: I know what they're going through. Well I don't because

1838
01:21:40,880 --> 01:21:44,120
Speaker 3: I've never been anything. But what about the person who

1839
01:21:44,240 --> 01:21:46,880
Speaker 3: dumps it dumps them? I mean there is emotional stuff

1840
01:21:46,920 --> 01:21:48,519
Speaker 3: going on there too. It's not the easiest thing in

1841
01:21:48,560 --> 01:21:51,040
Speaker 3: the world to like say I this isn't working for

1842
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Speaker 3: me without a doubt.

1843
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Speaker 8: I stayed in a relationship for years after I knew it.

1844
01:21:55,560 --> 01:21:58,600
Speaker 6: Was over because I felt so guilty about breaking up

1845
01:21:58,640 --> 01:22:00,160
Speaker 6: with him, and I was like, what's it gon do

1846
01:22:00,240 --> 01:22:02,479
Speaker 6: to his life? I feel so sad for him. I

1847
01:22:02,560 --> 01:22:04,960
Speaker 6: know he doesn't want this, and it was awful, but

1848
01:22:05,000 --> 01:22:05,960
Speaker 6: you got to pull the trigger.

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Speaker 16: I just do that.

1850
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Speaker 12: Sometimes.

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Speaker 3: I was reading an article yesterday from bold dot com

1852
01:22:10,800 --> 01:22:13,120
Speaker 3: the seven stages the dumper goes through after a breakup.

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01:22:13,200 --> 01:22:15,240
Speaker 3: They check all the socials, just kind of check on you,

1854
01:22:15,280 --> 01:22:16,160
Speaker 3: see if you're doing okay.

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01:22:16,320 --> 01:22:17,439
Speaker 8: Totally I got blocked the.

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Speaker 3: Last friends about you. Yep, they'll overthink how it went,

1857
01:22:21,760 --> 01:22:24,599
Speaker 3: maybe how could have done it better, little regret, They'll

1858
01:22:24,640 --> 01:22:31,040
Speaker 3: reread old messages, they will inevitably rebound, they'll experience regret,

1859
01:22:31,960 --> 01:22:35,360
Speaker 3: and they'll feel relief. So if you're the dumper, those

1860
01:22:35,360 --> 01:22:37,000
Speaker 3: are your seven stages of what you're gonna go through

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01:22:37,600 --> 01:22:39,400
Speaker 3: today's day. You're gonna dump someone, You're gonna go through

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Speaker 3: those things.

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Speaker 14: I don't believe it. See, I don't believe it a

1864
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Speaker 14: hundred friends. I think it depends if someone really did

1865
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Speaker 14: you wrong and you're dumping their ass for that reason,

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Speaker 14: I'm gonna skip all seven steps.

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Speaker 3: You say that, But sometimes it's more complicated than that.

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01:22:52,640 --> 01:22:54,519
Speaker 3: Sometimes you still love them even though they made a

1869
01:22:54,560 --> 01:22:56,679
Speaker 3: big old hairy mistake, even though they yet totally.

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Speaker 8: I would try to talk to his friends and be like,

1871
01:22:58,200 --> 01:22:58,640
Speaker 8: how's he doing?

1872
01:22:58,760 --> 01:22:59,200
Speaker 3: Is he okay?

1873
01:22:59,560 --> 01:23:01,800
Speaker 6: And full of his friends were like I was specifically

1874
01:23:01,880 --> 01:23:03,800
Speaker 6: told I'm not allowed to answer that question if you

1875
01:23:03,840 --> 01:23:07,439
Speaker 6: ask me really, okay, all right, you know you go,

1876
01:23:08,320 --> 01:23:10,479
Speaker 6: oh yeah, No. I didn't care about that part. I

1877
01:23:10,600 --> 01:23:12,600
Speaker 6: just wanted to know if he was okay, like is

1878
01:23:12,680 --> 01:23:14,719
Speaker 6: he doing all right? Not that I can do anything

1879
01:23:14,720 --> 01:23:16,680
Speaker 6: about it, but how's he doing? And he also did

1880
01:23:16,720 --> 01:23:18,120
Speaker 6: the thing where he went to all of our mutual

1881
01:23:18,200 --> 01:23:19,639
Speaker 6: friends and tried to make them choose.

1882
01:23:20,080 --> 01:23:22,400
Speaker 8: Oh, you have to pick between the two of us.

1883
01:23:22,640 --> 01:23:24,720
Speaker 3: That's I was like, all right, all right, let's talk

1884
01:23:24,720 --> 01:23:31,400
Speaker 3: about the seven deadly sins. Listen, scars ready, there's seven

1885
01:23:31,439 --> 01:23:34,719
Speaker 3: of them. I'm going to assume we each, on average

1886
01:23:35,520 --> 01:23:38,360
Speaker 3: harbor three of them in our lives. Oh, let me

1887
01:23:38,400 --> 01:23:42,680
Speaker 3: give you the seven deadly deadly sins? Right, yeah, why

1888
01:23:42,760 --> 01:23:46,519
Speaker 3: is it deadly? Why does he call him deadly sins?

1889
01:23:46,920 --> 01:23:50,000
Speaker 3: I'll then'll google that anyway. Okay, So number one is lust.

1890
01:23:50,760 --> 01:23:55,400
Speaker 3: Let's discuss lust. Well, I mean they take it to the.

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Speaker 4: All right, another episode of Sauce on the side.

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Speaker 6: So we hung out a couple of times. He was

1893
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Speaker 6: an interesting guy, and then I moved. I never told

1894
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Speaker 6: him I was moving. You are You're in safe?

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Speaker 4: Open your free iHeartRadio app search Sauce on the side

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Speaker 4: in the Morning Show, see you one hundred.

1898
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Speaker 3: So I was reading something online last night and I

1899
01:31:00,120 --> 01:31:02,719
Speaker 3: I turned off my computer and sat there and thought

1900
01:31:02,720 --> 01:31:05,640
Speaker 3: about it, thought about what I read. And I know

1901
01:31:06,160 --> 01:31:10,000
Speaker 3: you've probably done this too. How many sexual partners have

1902
01:31:10,080 --> 01:31:13,760
Speaker 3: you had in your life now? And every time you

1903
01:31:13,840 --> 01:31:16,320
Speaker 3: start thinking about them, if you're well, I don't know.

1904
01:31:16,680 --> 01:31:20,240
Speaker 3: Some people me for instance, you start thinking like, Okay,

1905
01:31:20,280 --> 01:31:21,960
Speaker 3: there's no way to there's no way to count that

1906
01:31:24,479 --> 01:31:26,560
Speaker 3: you're gonna have like a ballpark idea or no, no,

1907
01:31:26,960 --> 01:31:29,599
Speaker 3: I know, because no, there's just no way. And then

1908
01:31:29,640 --> 01:31:32,640
Speaker 3: plus there's different degrees of what you did and what

1909
01:31:32,840 --> 01:31:34,519
Speaker 3: counts and what doesn't you know that kind of thing.

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Speaker 8: We have a whole discussion on that alone.

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Speaker 14: Yeah, exactly, because some people, is.

1912
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Speaker 3: It all the way? Is it, you know, just the

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01:31:42,800 --> 01:31:48,880
Speaker 3: tip let's talk about that's a full number. So yeah,

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01:31:49,040 --> 01:31:51,360
Speaker 3: so I mean, is it just you know, I guess

1915
01:31:51,479 --> 01:31:53,920
Speaker 3: you can use the old you know, first base, second based,

1916
01:31:53,920 --> 01:31:55,960
Speaker 3: third base thing, and then there's an argument. We've had

1917
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Speaker 3: this argument like what's first base, what's second base, what's

1918
01:31:58,680 --> 01:32:00,920
Speaker 3: third base? It means different things to different people. But

1919
01:32:01,000 --> 01:32:05,080
Speaker 3: this article goes on to say that the ideal number

1920
01:32:05,120 --> 01:32:08,400
Speaker 3: of previous sexual partners is and I read this, I'm like,

1921
01:32:08,439 --> 01:32:13,560
Speaker 3: oh boy, the number is thirteen for a person of

1922
01:32:13,640 --> 01:32:15,080
Speaker 3: what age exactly?

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Speaker 6: Because if yeah, if you're like twenty and you got

1924
01:32:17,920 --> 01:32:20,440
Speaker 6: thirteen people, that's a little bit different than if you're fifty.

1925
01:32:20,439 --> 01:32:23,360
Speaker 3: And you have thirteen people. Well, by my age of

1926
01:32:23,600 --> 01:32:26,880
Speaker 3: when I hit twenty, I was I had surpassed that number.

1927
01:32:28,840 --> 01:32:32,400
Speaker 3: It was twenty. It was twenty, damn. So here I

1928
01:32:32,520 --> 01:32:37,040
Speaker 3: am more than twice that. So the question is how

1929
01:32:37,040 --> 01:32:39,560
Speaker 3: many people we slept with? So what happens is you know,

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01:32:39,600 --> 01:32:40,960
Speaker 3: you can read this article and I can, I can

1931
01:32:41,000 --> 01:32:43,519
Speaker 3: give you the I can give you the cliffs notes

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Speaker 3: in a second on what they're trying to tell us,

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01:32:45,280 --> 01:32:53,760
Speaker 3: but just stopping and thinking like, okay, how many like you?

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01:32:54,040 --> 01:32:56,320
Speaker 3: So you put yourself in different So I would put

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01:32:56,360 --> 01:32:58,720
Speaker 3: myself in different bedrooms in my life, like where I

1936
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Speaker 3: lived and call edge and you know whatever. And then

1937
01:33:01,720 --> 01:33:04,280
Speaker 3: you know, havy times in a car you know, I

1938
01:33:04,360 --> 01:33:06,360
Speaker 3: don't know, you know, or in someone else, or in

1939
01:33:06,439 --> 01:33:09,360
Speaker 3: a hotel you know, or you know, in a kitchen

1940
01:33:09,439 --> 01:33:12,600
Speaker 3: you know, wherever you did it, and there's there's I

1941
01:33:12,640 --> 01:33:15,040
Speaker 3: don't know, I'm having difficulty adding them up, there's no

1942
01:33:15,200 --> 01:33:17,599
Speaker 3: I'm so I finally just put my mind at ease,

1943
01:33:17,880 --> 01:33:20,320
Speaker 3: saying it's not gonna happen. You're never going to figure

1944
01:33:20,360 --> 01:33:22,080
Speaker 3: out how many people you've slept with, so let it

1945
01:33:22,200 --> 01:33:25,640
Speaker 3: go because your number keeps getting stuck on let's start, No,

1946
01:33:26,240 --> 01:33:31,439
Speaker 3: not even going down there. So have you ever have

1947
01:33:31,520 --> 01:33:33,120
Speaker 3: you ever done this? Have you ever? Have you ever

1948
01:33:33,160 --> 01:33:34,920
Speaker 3: actually taken a pen and a piece of paper and

1949
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Speaker 3: actually started writing down numbers.

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Speaker 6: So I think I might have told you this before,

1951
01:33:40,880 --> 01:33:42,360
Speaker 6: but when I was in high school, one of my

1952
01:33:42,560 --> 01:33:44,960
Speaker 6: very good friends did exactly what you're saying, and she

1953
01:33:45,080 --> 01:33:47,240
Speaker 6: took a pen to paper and started writing down everyone

1954
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Speaker 6: she had hooked up with. And then her mom found

1955
01:33:49,120 --> 01:33:51,000
Speaker 6: it and she got in a lot of trouble. So

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Speaker 6: I realized at that moment, I would never do something

1957
01:33:53,960 --> 01:33:55,840
Speaker 6: like that. She can go on spring break with me.

1958
01:33:56,160 --> 01:33:57,960
Speaker 3: You don't have to write names, just write to the

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Speaker 3: little one floor and then slash.

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Speaker 8: She wrote all of the information, and like what they

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Speaker 8: had done, so there was no way.

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Speaker 3: To get I would never do that.

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Speaker 25: Damn.

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Speaker 3: Someone just sent a text and says, I'm forty years old.

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Speaker 3: I've only had one. Oh my god, bless your heart,

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Speaker 3: because that would be so much easier.

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01:34:16,200 --> 01:34:20,479
Speaker 14: Where if we're looking at the exact act, like sex itself,

1968
01:34:20,960 --> 01:34:21,680
Speaker 14: I only had two.

1969
01:34:22,960 --> 01:34:23,559
Speaker 3: Thanks for sharing.

1970
01:34:23,800 --> 01:34:27,200
Speaker 14: If we're looking at if we're looking at other stuff, that's.

1971
01:34:27,520 --> 01:34:34,280
Speaker 3: Like lolly poppy story. But what if it's just a

1972
01:34:35,080 --> 01:34:39,040
Speaker 3: sexual encounter like you just you don't actually do anything,

1973
01:34:39,080 --> 01:34:42,880
Speaker 3: You just like touch it. It doesn't count.

1974
01:34:42,960 --> 01:34:45,200
Speaker 8: That's like assault.

1975
01:34:46,320 --> 01:34:49,360
Speaker 3: No, no, but no no, they said it was okay

1976
01:34:49,439 --> 01:34:57,720
Speaker 3: to touch asking for a friend. Uh yes, Scott, he

1977
01:34:57,760 --> 01:35:00,639
Speaker 3: b what well, I have a list in my attic

1978
01:35:01,280 --> 01:35:05,679
Speaker 3: that has that has three categories, but one is kissing,

1979
01:35:06,280 --> 01:35:10,400
Speaker 3: one is fooling around, and one is going all the way. Yeah,

1980
01:35:10,439 --> 01:35:12,559
Speaker 3: so I have a list. Why is it in your attic?

1981
01:35:12,760 --> 01:35:12,840
Speaker 13: Well?

1982
01:35:12,880 --> 01:35:14,080
Speaker 3: Where am I going to keep it? I don't want

1983
01:35:14,200 --> 01:35:16,120
Speaker 3: kids to find it? I mean it's it's upstairs and

1984
01:35:16,160 --> 01:35:18,679
Speaker 3: the rafters. Wow, god knows what else.

1985
01:35:18,640 --> 01:35:19,000
Speaker 22: Is up there?

1986
01:35:19,240 --> 01:35:23,960
Speaker 3: Probably bodies and your slain chair hanging from the ceiling.

1987
01:35:24,520 --> 01:35:25,200
Speaker 3: Yeah that too.

1988
01:35:26,920 --> 01:35:28,960
Speaker 7: When we were living in South Florida, whe day, Lisa

1989
01:35:29,080 --> 01:35:31,080
Speaker 7: was stuck in traffic on the way home, and so

1990
01:35:31,280 --> 01:35:34,240
Speaker 7: she started writing down everybody, and she has the list.

1991
01:35:34,360 --> 01:35:36,240
Speaker 7: I don't know where it is. She won't show it

1992
01:35:36,320 --> 01:35:38,320
Speaker 7: to me, she won't let me see it. But my

1993
01:35:38,479 --> 01:35:40,120
Speaker 7: name is last on the list. That's all I know.

1994
01:35:40,360 --> 01:35:40,920
Speaker 14: Well that's good.

1995
01:35:41,720 --> 01:35:44,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, that part's good, but I'm not allowed to see

1996
01:35:44,080 --> 01:35:44,360
Speaker 3: the list.

1997
01:35:44,520 --> 01:35:47,080
Speaker 7: But she was bored in traffic and she's like, I'm

1998
01:35:47,120 --> 01:35:48,440
Speaker 7: gonna write down everybody.

1999
01:35:48,520 --> 01:35:52,160
Speaker 3: I'm like, who does that? Wow? See what I learned

2000
01:35:52,160 --> 01:35:54,360
Speaker 3: in my exercise and trying to figure this out is

2001
01:35:54,720 --> 01:35:58,519
Speaker 3: once you think you've it's complete, then you you put

2002
01:35:58,560 --> 01:36:00,200
Speaker 3: down the list, you leave it one. Then you're like,

2003
01:36:00,240 --> 01:36:03,599
Speaker 3: oh wait, oh, wait a minute, there was Oh my god,

2004
01:36:04,080 --> 01:36:07,080
Speaker 3: now that I recall Yeah, the Jack in the box bathroom,

2005
01:36:07,240 --> 01:36:11,759
Speaker 3: don't ask Wow. Uh let's go talk to Kelsey online

2006
01:36:11,800 --> 01:36:16,240
Speaker 3: one Kelse Yes, yes, Kelsey, do you really want to

2007
01:36:16,240 --> 01:36:19,280
Speaker 3: be a part of this discussion? Are the flora is

2008
01:36:19,280 --> 01:36:21,120
Speaker 3: all yours? What's on your mind?

2009
01:36:22,600 --> 01:36:22,640
Speaker 20: So?

2010
01:36:22,840 --> 01:36:25,120
Speaker 25: I just heard y'all talking, and I have had a

2011
01:36:25,200 --> 01:36:28,680
Speaker 25: total of one hundred and thirty two partners. Okay, so

2012
01:36:28,880 --> 01:36:30,800
Speaker 25: I am twenty five years old.

2013
01:36:31,120 --> 01:36:33,000
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, let me ask you a question. How do

2014
01:36:33,080 --> 01:36:35,640
Speaker 3: you know? I mean, obviously you've you've kept count on

2015
01:36:36,880 --> 01:36:39,160
Speaker 3: in your phone or something, because that's that's a that's

2016
01:36:39,160 --> 01:36:39,559
Speaker 3: a number.

2017
01:36:39,800 --> 01:36:44,080
Speaker 25: I had a separate Facebook simply for these You.

2018
01:36:44,160 --> 01:36:45,880
Speaker 3: Had your sexual Facebook just for that.

2019
01:36:47,400 --> 01:36:49,400
Speaker 25: Yes, I had a separate Facebook.

2020
01:36:50,040 --> 01:36:52,840
Speaker 3: Okay, well, look, so if you can keep up with

2021
01:36:52,960 --> 01:36:57,080
Speaker 3: that number, God bless you, because I'll be honest, I

2022
01:36:57,120 --> 01:36:59,040
Speaker 3: don't even know if if I'm near that number or not,

2023
01:36:59,120 --> 01:37:01,600
Speaker 3: because I just didn't keep a Facebook account of it.

2024
01:37:01,840 --> 01:37:04,000
Speaker 14: And now, what were you trying to hit a certain

2025
01:37:04,080 --> 01:37:06,360
Speaker 14: number that you were keeping, you know, such close track.

2026
01:37:08,000 --> 01:37:11,519
Speaker 25: No, I just knew that none of the people I

2027
01:37:11,720 --> 01:37:14,920
Speaker 25: was with were gonna last for long, so I figured

2028
01:37:15,200 --> 01:37:20,400
Speaker 25: we would enjoy ourselves. And actually, within the last two years,

2029
01:37:20,520 --> 01:37:22,960
Speaker 25: I actually found the person I'm gonna be settling down with.

2030
01:37:23,840 --> 01:37:26,559
Speaker 8: Oh wow, does he know about your Facebook page?

2031
01:37:28,760 --> 01:37:28,920
Speaker 27: Oh?

2032
01:37:30,360 --> 01:37:31,080
Speaker 17: That Facebook?

2033
01:37:31,160 --> 01:37:31,200
Speaker 2: No?

2034
01:37:33,360 --> 01:37:34,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think you got to bring that up,

2035
01:37:35,320 --> 01:37:37,880
Speaker 3: but that's a you know, well, look, thank you for

2036
01:37:38,080 --> 01:37:40,680
Speaker 3: sharing that. You know, I do wish if I had

2037
01:37:40,680 --> 01:37:43,040
Speaker 3: it all to start over again, I would I would

2038
01:37:43,080 --> 01:37:46,519
Speaker 3: have kept count somewhere, probably not on social media, but

2039
01:37:46,640 --> 01:37:47,559
Speaker 3: you know, yeah.

2040
01:37:49,040 --> 01:37:54,040
Speaker 25: So my actual name is not attached to the social media. Okay, okay,

2041
01:37:55,240 --> 01:37:59,920
Speaker 25: there's no pictures, there's no name it's a fake account.

2042
01:38:00,200 --> 01:38:03,120
Speaker 3: There you go. Kelsey, thank you, thank you for sharing,

2043
01:38:03,120 --> 01:38:04,559
Speaker 3: and have a good day. Thanks for listening to us.

2044
01:38:05,720 --> 01:38:08,800
Speaker 25: Absolutely, I've been listening since I was in elementary school.

2045
01:38:08,920 --> 01:38:10,960
Speaker 3: Oh wo, so you've been listening since before number one.

2046
01:38:11,080 --> 01:38:14,960
Speaker 3: I guess don't answer that.

2047
01:38:17,880 --> 01:38:20,599
Speaker 7: Thank Thank you, Kelsey, Thank you for listening to us. Yeah, Frog,

2048
01:38:21,080 --> 01:38:23,519
Speaker 7: I have a question the Jack in the box? Now

2049
01:38:23,640 --> 01:38:25,200
Speaker 7: was that a place an act?

2050
01:38:25,400 --> 01:38:27,519
Speaker 3: Or is that his name? I'm just trying to keep trying.

2051
01:38:30,240 --> 01:38:33,280
Speaker 3: You just figure it out, Frog. Line three is Jay.

2052
01:38:34,960 --> 01:38:35,160
Speaker 2: Jay.

2053
01:38:36,280 --> 01:38:38,120
Speaker 3: Yes, Jay, So have you been keeping count?

2054
01:38:39,840 --> 01:38:42,160
Speaker 11: Actually yes, I have. Actually it's been a bit difficult.

2055
01:38:44,280 --> 01:38:46,639
Speaker 11: I met my wife when I was twenty and she's

2056
01:38:46,680 --> 01:38:47,559
Speaker 11: been my older partner.

2057
01:38:47,880 --> 01:38:51,680
Speaker 3: Wow, good for you. I'm telling you right now. If you, uh,

2058
01:38:51,800 --> 01:38:54,960
Speaker 3: let's say you work at let's say you work at

2059
01:38:55,000 --> 01:38:57,760
Speaker 3: Costco and they say, all right, you need to go

2060
01:38:57,840 --> 01:39:01,439
Speaker 3: out there and uh right down everything we have in

2061
01:39:01,479 --> 01:39:04,479
Speaker 3: the store take inventory. Wow, your cost goes easy to

2062
01:39:04,520 --> 01:39:05,200
Speaker 3: take inventory.

2063
01:39:05,479 --> 01:39:06,040
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

2064
01:39:06,600 --> 01:39:08,600
Speaker 3: You got one name on there, so you don't have

2065
01:39:08,840 --> 01:39:11,920
Speaker 3: so you don't have this conversation with yourself like.

2066
01:39:12,160 --> 01:39:13,920
Speaker 11: Well, no, I don't have it with myself. But like

2067
01:39:14,080 --> 01:39:16,280
Speaker 11: my friends and even my wife has got the conversation

2068
01:39:16,400 --> 01:39:18,439
Speaker 11: with me before, like she's kind of been like she's

2069
01:39:18,479 --> 01:39:20,439
Speaker 11: waiting for like this dark past to come up and

2070
01:39:20,760 --> 01:39:23,040
Speaker 11: have like these as girlfriends that I don't know that

2071
01:39:23,160 --> 01:39:25,280
Speaker 11: I've had relationships before in the past, and I'm like, no,

2072
01:39:25,400 --> 01:39:27,880
Speaker 11: I've never been with anybody till you. And I mean

2073
01:39:27,880 --> 01:39:28,800
Speaker 11: I'm thirty one now.

2074
01:39:29,200 --> 01:39:29,400
Speaker 3: Wow.

2075
01:39:29,520 --> 01:39:32,400
Speaker 11: So it's kind of just like, you know, we have

2076
01:39:32,520 --> 01:39:34,360
Speaker 11: that discuss that she's She's ever like, do you ever

2077
01:39:34,439 --> 01:39:36,880
Speaker 11: feel like you missed out on it or you feel

2078
01:39:36,960 --> 01:39:39,280
Speaker 11: like you know, I mean, it is a conversation that

2079
01:39:39,360 --> 01:39:42,120
Speaker 11: comes up like you've only experienced me, So how do

2080
01:39:42,200 --> 01:39:44,479
Speaker 11: you know if this is what you want? I'm just like, well,

2081
01:39:44,520 --> 01:39:46,640
Speaker 11: I mean I married you, so I'm assuming you did

2082
01:39:46,720 --> 01:39:47,240
Speaker 11: something right.

2083
01:39:47,280 --> 01:39:52,720
Speaker 3: Oh you Jay, Jay, you know what. I wish I

2084
01:39:52,760 --> 01:39:57,760
Speaker 3: could be your number two. Look, I know that that's

2085
01:39:57,800 --> 01:40:02,200
Speaker 3: kind of thank you. Hey, Look, it's good hearing from you.

2086
01:40:02,320 --> 01:40:02,479
Speaker 16: Jay.

2087
01:40:02,520 --> 01:40:04,320
Speaker 3: You have a great day, and thanks for listening to us. Okay,

2088
01:40:05,040 --> 01:40:07,760
Speaker 3: I love I love you hearing everybody. Yeah, well, thank

2089
01:40:07,800 --> 01:40:10,519
Speaker 3: you thanks for calling in. I love that text came

2090
01:40:10,520 --> 01:40:12,479
Speaker 3: in Chico from Miami. I did this sleep.

2091
01:42:33,320 --> 01:42:36,960
Speaker 8: Ha ha laugh funny Elvis Duran in the Morning show.

2092
01:42:42,400 --> 01:42:46,840
Speaker 4: This is Elvis Duran in the Morning Show see one hundred.

2093
01:42:47,080 --> 01:42:49,800
Speaker 3: We were talking about this yesterday, Gandhi, just the two

2094
01:42:49,840 --> 01:42:53,560
Speaker 3: of us talking about that documentary called Tickled. Yeah, it

2095
01:42:53,680 --> 01:42:55,519
Speaker 3: came out like it came out like eight years ago.

2096
01:42:55,640 --> 01:42:58,439
Speaker 3: It's been around that long. But there's this new fascination

2097
01:42:58,600 --> 01:43:04,160
Speaker 3: for this documentary and the sport of it's tickling, basically,

2098
01:43:04,280 --> 01:43:04,560
Speaker 3: isn't it.

2099
01:43:04,720 --> 01:43:05,800
Speaker 8: I had never heard of it.

2100
01:43:05,880 --> 01:43:10,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, competitive tickling, competitive competitive Danielle.

2101
01:43:10,240 --> 01:43:13,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, And they're saying that this documentary, even though it's

2102
01:43:13,320 --> 01:43:15,160
Speaker 3: eight years old and I've never seen it, I'm going

2103
01:43:15,240 --> 01:43:17,280
Speaker 3: to see it. They're saying that they really get into

2104
01:43:17,320 --> 01:43:21,439
Speaker 3: the nitty gritty of competitive tickling, and the people that

2105
01:43:21,560 --> 01:43:26,120
Speaker 3: are featured, the competitive competitive ticklers are all from outer space.

2106
01:43:26,200 --> 01:43:29,599
Speaker 3: I mean they're not literally, but maybe they're all really weird.

2107
01:43:29,680 --> 01:43:30,960
Speaker 3: Have you seen this documentary yet.

2108
01:43:31,160 --> 01:43:31,920
Speaker 14: I haven't seen it.

2109
01:43:32,040 --> 01:43:32,800
Speaker 8: I really want to.

2110
01:43:32,920 --> 01:43:35,120
Speaker 6: I saw the trailer for it, and it looks insane.

2111
01:43:35,200 --> 01:43:38,240
Speaker 6: If you even just pull up any videos of competitive tickling, it's.

2112
01:43:38,160 --> 01:43:39,120
Speaker 8: Very suspicious looking.

2113
01:43:39,600 --> 01:43:43,280
Speaker 6: But they said that there's this whole dark world that

2114
01:43:43,360 --> 01:43:45,759
Speaker 6: we don't know about that goes with the competitive tickling

2115
01:43:45,880 --> 01:43:49,479
Speaker 6: game where there's like murder and scandal and mystery and

2116
01:43:49,760 --> 01:43:52,200
Speaker 6: fighting and all kinds of stuff and I just can't wait.

2117
01:43:52,439 --> 01:43:54,200
Speaker 3: Oh wow, No, no, I can't wait to see it.

2118
01:43:54,280 --> 01:43:57,120
Speaker 3: Even though Rotten Tomatoes gives it ninety four percent, so

2119
01:43:57,160 --> 01:44:01,040
Speaker 3: that's good. Hey, I'm in, but competitive tickling. So it

2120
01:44:01,120 --> 01:44:02,680
Speaker 3: got me to thinking, like, how do you train for

2121
01:44:02,800 --> 01:44:05,040
Speaker 3: something like this? Well, you know, we've been training on

2122
01:44:05,080 --> 01:44:07,559
Speaker 3: our lives, you know, tickling people here, tickling people there.

2123
01:44:07,600 --> 01:44:10,760
Speaker 3: But I mean there are rules, I mean apparently there's there.

2124
01:44:10,920 --> 01:44:11,320
Speaker 18: You can be.

2125
01:44:13,640 --> 01:44:16,320
Speaker 3: There's points. I don't know you get points by tickling people.

2126
01:44:16,400 --> 01:44:18,720
Speaker 14: Do you get points for not laughing or something? If

2127
01:44:18,720 --> 01:44:19,599
Speaker 14: you're being tickled?

2128
01:44:19,880 --> 01:44:20,080
Speaker 10: Yes?

2129
01:44:20,360 --> 01:44:20,680
Speaker 2: Is that it?

2130
01:44:21,040 --> 01:44:23,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, you get points for It's called like endurance. So

2131
01:44:24,160 --> 01:44:26,560
Speaker 6: the longer you can hold out apparently the better it is.

2132
01:44:26,720 --> 01:44:29,200
Speaker 6: And they strap you down to things so you can't move,

2133
01:44:29,320 --> 01:44:31,640
Speaker 6: and you know like kick people and twitch.

2134
01:44:31,560 --> 01:44:34,160
Speaker 3: No thanks, And they're wearing these colorful outfits. They look

2135
01:44:34,240 --> 01:44:37,280
Speaker 3: like it looks like like it looks like tinky winkies

2136
01:44:37,520 --> 01:44:40,800
Speaker 3: one color and it is creepy look and it's and

2137
01:44:41,120 --> 01:44:43,479
Speaker 3: the video I saw I saw a short trader from

2138
01:44:43,840 --> 01:44:46,800
Speaker 3: from a tickled it was very homo erotic. Yes, what

2139
01:44:46,920 --> 01:44:49,120
Speaker 3: I saw. What I saw. They were these little tight

2140
01:44:49,200 --> 01:44:50,840
Speaker 3: jumpers and they sit around and tickle each other.

2141
01:44:51,120 --> 01:44:53,920
Speaker 9: Yes, I don't know why it's so funny to me.

2142
01:44:55,040 --> 01:44:58,040
Speaker 3: Okay, let's say we're in a tickle match. I mean,

2143
01:44:58,080 --> 01:44:59,920
Speaker 3: do I go? You go for under the arms right,

2144
01:45:00,080 --> 01:45:02,599
Speaker 3: like like you like drive your fingers in there?

2145
01:45:02,600 --> 01:45:03,160
Speaker 11: What do you do?

2146
01:45:03,400 --> 01:45:03,559
Speaker 2: Yeah?

2147
01:45:03,640 --> 01:45:05,599
Speaker 6: So they have different ways that you can do it too,

2148
01:45:05,680 --> 01:45:07,840
Speaker 6: And I guess there are like tears. So they start

2149
01:45:07,880 --> 01:45:09,960
Speaker 6: with a feather, something very light and you know, not

2150
01:45:10,200 --> 01:45:12,960
Speaker 6: all that bad, and they'll tickle your feet and your armpits,

2151
01:45:13,160 --> 01:45:15,479
Speaker 6: behind the knees and things, and then they gradually move

2152
01:45:15,560 --> 01:45:17,560
Speaker 6: up and then they're at the fingers, just digging into you.

2153
01:45:17,680 --> 01:45:20,840
Speaker 14: Oh my gosh. And apparently there was a lot of

2154
01:45:20,920 --> 01:45:25,760
Speaker 14: controversy around this film. Yes, somebody actually sued that was

2155
01:45:25,840 --> 01:45:29,639
Speaker 14: in there. That's the filmmakers because I don't know something

2156
01:45:29,680 --> 01:45:31,400
Speaker 14: about their endurance tickling video.

2157
01:45:31,520 --> 01:45:31,880
Speaker 22: I don't know.

2158
01:45:34,040 --> 01:45:43,240
Speaker 3: I stopped there reading the they weren't tickled with the film. Yes, scary.

2159
01:45:43,280 --> 01:45:43,880
Speaker 3: What question?

2160
01:45:44,520 --> 01:45:48,320
Speaker 21: Why is it that when you self tickle you don't

2161
01:45:48,560 --> 01:45:51,439
Speaker 21: you don't laugh or you don't feel ticklish? And in

2162
01:45:51,560 --> 01:45:53,920
Speaker 21: the very same spots that if somebody else were to

2163
01:45:54,040 --> 01:45:57,760
Speaker 21: tickle you, you you could be in some craziness, you.

2164
01:45:57,760 --> 01:46:00,200
Speaker 3: Know, and I could. Gandy was talking about two types

2165
01:46:00,240 --> 01:46:02,760
Speaker 3: of tickling, the light tickling, and see I can light

2166
01:46:02,840 --> 01:46:06,280
Speaker 3: tickle myself, right, I tickle myself and then it's so

2167
01:46:06,400 --> 01:46:08,080
Speaker 3: tickling I have to like scratch it real quick because

2168
01:46:08,080 --> 01:46:10,000
Speaker 3: it was too tickling. But but as far as like

2169
01:46:10,439 --> 01:46:13,280
Speaker 3: cramming your fingers into your sides and really, and I

2170
01:46:13,320 --> 01:46:15,439
Speaker 3: don't think we can do that. Can I imagine going

2171
01:46:15,479 --> 01:46:17,559
Speaker 3: on a date and somebody goes So, are you into

2172
01:46:17,640 --> 01:46:18,280
Speaker 3: light tickling?

2173
01:46:19,760 --> 01:46:20,680
Speaker 8: There are people who do it.

2174
01:46:21,080 --> 01:46:24,320
Speaker 6: But of course the reason that you can't tickle yourself

2175
01:46:24,439 --> 01:46:27,160
Speaker 6: is because your brain knows it's coming, so it prepares,

2176
01:46:27,320 --> 01:46:29,040
Speaker 6: It knows it's you, it knows what you're doing. But

2177
01:46:29,120 --> 01:46:31,320
Speaker 6: when somebody else does it, your brain doesn't know where

2178
01:46:31,320 --> 01:46:32,799
Speaker 6: it's coming from or what to expect.

2179
01:46:33,040 --> 01:46:34,000
Speaker 8: So then you're more ticklish.

2180
01:46:34,120 --> 01:46:34,719
Speaker 14: That makes sense.

2181
01:46:35,080 --> 01:46:37,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm gonna get into this tickling thing. This could

2182
01:46:37,160 --> 01:46:40,280
Speaker 3: be my next thing, This could be this, This is

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Speaker 3: my my path is taking me down to the tickling avenue.

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Speaker 3: Are you ticklish a little bit?

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Speaker 10: But not?

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Speaker 22: You know?

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Speaker 3: I have some friends. If you just even walk past them,

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Speaker 3: they're like, really, call down, Mary.

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Speaker 6: My boyfriend is the most ticklish person I've ever met

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Speaker 6: in my life. It makes me laugh so hard. He

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Speaker 6: cannot take anything.

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Speaker 8: He gets on as sage. You just hear him giggling

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Speaker 8: the entire time.

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Speaker 3: That's not relaxing, U, Nate, tickle. Let's have a tickle

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Speaker 3: session out and if you touch the bottom of my feet,

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Speaker 3: I will punch you in the face. I am good.

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Speaker 3: Did you know there are tickle fight rules?

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Speaker 12: Really?

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Speaker 3: Well? Hold on, May I say something to Nate? I

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01:47:23,640 --> 01:47:25,280
Speaker 3: don't want to get near your stinky feet, so I

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Speaker 3: don't worry saying.

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Speaker 26: Like the bottom of my feet for whatever reason in

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01:47:28,800 --> 01:47:33,439
Speaker 26: my in my makeup, I cannot have anybody go near

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01:47:33,520 --> 01:47:34,679
Speaker 26: them so ticklish.

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Speaker 3: I'll remember that. I remember that when we're having and

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01:47:37,280 --> 01:47:39,840
Speaker 3: we tie you down and have a tickle fond. Okay,

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Speaker 3: what are the rules of tickling frog?

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Speaker 7: It says if they repeatedly asked you to stop or

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Speaker 7: can't catch their breath, you're supposed to quit tickling them.

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Speaker 7: Should never sit on anyone to tickle them or restrain

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Speaker 7: them in any way.

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01:47:54,040 --> 01:47:56,240
Speaker 3: Well wait, but in this film they tie them down

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01:47:56,360 --> 01:47:57,280
Speaker 3: and they're sitting on them.

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Speaker 7: I guess what that's against these rules here, and it's

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01:48:00,160 --> 01:48:03,080
Speaker 7: tickle fights should be fun for both people. If the

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01:48:03,160 --> 01:48:06,400
Speaker 7: other person looks like they're unhappy, you should call a

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Speaker 7: tickle truce.

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Speaker 14: But that's tickle fights. That's not competitive, tor.

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01:48:10,520 --> 01:48:12,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is stuff you just do with your cousin,

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Speaker 3: put down in the rumpus room or whatever it is.

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01:48:15,720 --> 01:48:18,000
Speaker 6: Because when someone's laughing so hard, how can you tell

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Speaker 6: if they're uncomfortable or not.

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Speaker 3: They're just grinling.

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Speaker 8: It looks like a good time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. I'm gonna watch this film Tickled.

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01:48:24,800 --> 01:48:25,200
Speaker 8: Can't wait.

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Speaker 3: I know, I know eight years later. Just now get

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01:48:27,680 --> 01:48:28,479
Speaker 3: into it. I will.

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Speaker 2: Roll out of bed.

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Speaker 3: What's your favorite morning show?

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01:48:34,640 --> 01:48:37,040
Speaker 14: At Elvis Durant Show on all socials?

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01:48:38,080 --> 01:48:41,880
Speaker 4: This is Elvis Durant in the Morning Show see one hundred.

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01:48:42,160 --> 01:48:46,679
Speaker 3: Hey, for what it's worth, listening to your favorite music

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01:48:46,840 --> 01:48:50,320
Speaker 3: can reduce pain. This was a story that was out yesterday.

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01:48:50,360 --> 01:48:50,800
Speaker 3: Did you read this?

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01:48:50,920 --> 01:48:51,200
Speaker 25: Kandhi?

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01:48:51,720 --> 01:48:52,519
Speaker 8: Oh, but I believe it.

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01:48:52,760 --> 01:48:55,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, if you're listening to your favorite music, it might

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01:48:55,200 --> 01:48:57,920
Speaker 3: be beneficial. It might be beneficial to your health after all,

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Speaker 3: And I would think, why are we just now learning

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01:49:01,000 --> 01:49:04,439
Speaker 3: this because we've known for a fact that people who

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01:49:04,520 --> 01:49:09,120
Speaker 3: live happier lives live longer and are healthier. And even

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01:49:09,160 --> 01:49:12,160
Speaker 3: the best of medical doctors will tell you it goes

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01:49:12,240 --> 01:49:15,200
Speaker 3: beyond medicine. It has to do with your outlook on life,

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01:49:15,479 --> 01:49:19,120
Speaker 3: your positivity, the people you surround yourself with, and then

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01:49:19,200 --> 01:49:21,559
Speaker 3: you know, exercising and eating well from time to time

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01:49:21,560 --> 01:49:23,679
Speaker 3: and not smoking a cigarettes. There's a whole list, right, yeah,

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01:49:24,320 --> 01:49:25,880
Speaker 3: and then none of the all of that can be

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01:49:25,920 --> 01:49:31,479
Speaker 3: achieved without going to a doctor's office. But listening to

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Speaker 3: your favorite music, it's surely it's the same as being happy, right,

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01:49:35,240 --> 01:49:37,479
Speaker 3: I mean the pheromones or whatever. I don't know, I

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01:49:37,560 --> 01:49:38,200
Speaker 3: totally agree.

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01:49:38,400 --> 01:49:40,599
Speaker 6: I mean, I know this sounds very silly, but they

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01:49:40,760 --> 01:49:42,840
Speaker 6: say that even if you're in a bad mood and

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Speaker 6: you start singing your favorite songs, that that's supposed to

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01:49:45,240 --> 01:49:47,400
Speaker 6: help you get better, not just because one it's your

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01:49:47,400 --> 01:49:49,479
Speaker 6: favorite song and you like to hear it, it elicits

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01:49:49,520 --> 01:49:52,679
Speaker 6: good emotion, but because of the airflow while you're breathing

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01:49:52,880 --> 01:49:54,600
Speaker 6: and singing, it's supposed to be very good for you.

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01:49:54,840 --> 01:49:57,240
Speaker 3: Well, there is that See we were talking about that

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01:49:57,280 --> 01:49:59,720
Speaker 3: special that sound, and I think it's Netflix. I don't know.

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01:49:59,720 --> 01:50:02,680
Speaker 3: It's called one hundred years Blue Zones, people that live

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01:50:02,720 --> 01:50:05,800
Speaker 3: in these blue zones around the world who are living

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01:50:06,360 --> 01:50:09,400
Speaker 3: on average, much older lives than the rest of us.

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01:50:10,360 --> 01:50:12,800
Speaker 3: And he went to this one village somewhere look at me.

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01:50:12,920 --> 01:50:16,040
Speaker 3: All the details were missing, and I think it was

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01:50:16,080 --> 01:50:19,320
Speaker 3: in Greece actually, And these people in this village and

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01:50:19,360 --> 01:50:21,400
Speaker 3: the friends and the families, they get together almost every

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01:50:21,479 --> 01:50:24,200
Speaker 3: night or every other night, and they party and they dance,

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01:50:24,439 --> 01:50:27,560
Speaker 3: and they have a little wine and they laugh, and

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01:50:27,720 --> 01:50:30,640
Speaker 3: they live much longer lives than the rest of us.

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Speaker 3: He's like, they don't exercise, but he was showing them

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01:50:34,439 --> 01:50:38,720
Speaker 3: dancing around the campfire. They were exercised and they're getting there. Yeah,

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01:50:38,720 --> 01:50:42,320
Speaker 3: they're getting their cardio through dancing. And you know, I

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01:50:42,479 --> 01:50:45,559
Speaker 3: just when you say, hey, if you sing your favorite song,

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01:50:45,600 --> 01:50:48,680
Speaker 3: it also includes you know, airflow and oxygen going to

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01:50:48,760 --> 01:50:52,200
Speaker 3: your brain because you're breathing and singing. It all makes sense.

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01:50:52,320 --> 01:50:54,719
Speaker 3: Doing the things that make you happy at the moment

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01:50:55,120 --> 01:50:57,160
Speaker 3: are doing much more to your body in a positive

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01:50:57,200 --> 01:51:01,720
Speaker 3: way than you'll ever ever realize. Right, they say here,

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01:51:03,160 --> 01:51:04,720
Speaker 3: you know how if you go to the doctor and

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01:51:04,760 --> 01:51:06,560
Speaker 3: you're feeling pain, he'll say, Okay, the pain you have

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01:51:06,640 --> 01:51:09,920
Speaker 3: in your arm, the scale of zero to ten, where

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01:51:10,000 --> 01:51:12,000
Speaker 3: is it? And you give him a number. So that's

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01:51:12,040 --> 01:51:14,320
Speaker 3: I'm assuming how they did it. Scientists found that pain

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Speaker 3: was not just reduced, but strongly reduced among participants if

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01:51:20,439 --> 01:51:22,599
Speaker 3: they were listening to some of their favorite music. They're saying,

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01:51:22,640 --> 01:51:25,960
Speaker 3: it was a very noticeable, noticeable difference.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 3: My mother, who was living with an awful, awful, awful

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01:51:34,520 --> 01:51:38,599
Speaker 3: life of dementia. Near the end of her days, of course,

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01:51:39,680 --> 01:51:41,640
Speaker 3: she just couldn't remember anything, and every once in a

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01:51:41,640 --> 01:51:43,720
Speaker 3: while she would become a little lucid than not. We

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01:51:43,800 --> 01:51:47,000
Speaker 3: would play music from her from her earlier years. You

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01:51:47,120 --> 01:51:50,519
Speaker 3: put on some Tony Bennett, she would light up and

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01:51:50,600 --> 01:51:53,000
Speaker 3: she would sing all the words. And it really shows

2297
01:51:53,040 --> 01:51:55,880
Speaker 3: you how music leaves a deep footprint in your heart

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01:51:55,960 --> 01:51:59,439
Speaker 3: and in your brain because of the emotions you felt

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01:51:59,439 --> 01:52:01,200
Speaker 3: when you first he heard that song that you love

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01:52:01,280 --> 01:52:06,120
Speaker 3: I mean bad example Rio by Duran Duran example. I

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01:52:06,200 --> 01:52:08,519
Speaker 3: know it is for you. It is because for some reason,

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Speaker 3: and you can't even explain why, when you hear that

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01:52:10,479 --> 01:52:12,760
Speaker 3: song it makes you happy, and you don't have to explain, No,

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01:52:12,880 --> 01:52:13,920
Speaker 3: it just makes me happy.

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01:52:14,240 --> 01:52:16,600
Speaker 14: It's like a feeling of freedom song, like you know

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01:52:16,680 --> 01:52:18,880
Speaker 14: you can dance around on a beach and have a

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01:52:18,920 --> 01:52:20,120
Speaker 14: good time. That's how I feel.

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01:52:21,080 --> 01:52:22,960
Speaker 3: So we could do a show where we don't play

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01:52:23,000 --> 01:52:25,799
Speaker 3: any music at all, but you know, for several reasons

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01:52:25,840 --> 01:52:28,559
Speaker 3: we do now I know another reason for your health. Yes,

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01:52:29,600 --> 01:52:32,080
Speaker 3: and so we have time to go pee. Yeah right,

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01:52:32,160 --> 01:52:35,160
Speaker 3: and then we can do all the off color jokes

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01:52:35,200 --> 01:52:38,360
Speaker 3: that HR would have us fired over while the song's playing.

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01:52:38,880 --> 01:52:42,599
Speaker 3: We're saving you from that. Music is helping us maintain

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01:52:42,640 --> 01:52:43,280
Speaker 3: a career as well.

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01:52:43,439 --> 01:52:43,719
Speaker 15: Music.

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01:52:43,760 --> 01:52:47,200
Speaker 3: We love music, love you music. So there you have it.

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01:52:47,600 --> 01:52:50,479
Speaker 3: I was also reading today about birthdays. We've known this,

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01:52:50,600 --> 01:52:54,439
Speaker 3: especially during pandemic. They're saying that blowing out candles on

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01:52:54,479 --> 01:52:58,040
Speaker 3: a cake is just the most disgusting thing you can do.

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01:52:58,160 --> 01:53:04,960
Speaker 3: It's more disgusting than we thought, really, the amounts of

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01:53:05,040 --> 01:53:08,400
Speaker 3: bacteria flying onto your birthday cake. Not only does the

2323
01:53:08,479 --> 01:53:13,639
Speaker 3: cake get a spray of froggy saliva, but the cakes

2324
01:53:13,640 --> 01:53:16,080
Speaker 3: already iced with a layer of bacteria. And they how

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01:53:16,120 --> 01:53:18,240
Speaker 3: do you do it any other way? What You take

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01:53:18,280 --> 01:53:18,599
Speaker 3: a piece?

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01:53:20,680 --> 01:53:21,200
Speaker 14: Yeah, you wave?

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01:53:22,080 --> 01:53:24,360
Speaker 7: Or you can also well you can cut a piece

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01:53:24,400 --> 01:53:25,800
Speaker 7: off and put it on a plate and just put

2330
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Speaker 7: a handle on that.

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01:53:30,400 --> 01:53:32,760
Speaker 3: They're not saying. They're saying it's not terribly high risk

2332
01:53:32,840 --> 01:53:36,400
Speaker 3: in most cases, but it does. It will spread diseases.

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01:53:36,439 --> 01:53:39,400
Speaker 3: If someone in your birthday group has a disease.

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01:53:40,320 --> 01:53:42,120
Speaker 14: And you don't even know if someone's getting ready to

2335
01:53:42,200 --> 01:53:44,360
Speaker 14: come down with something like you could be fine today,

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01:53:44,400 --> 01:53:46,000
Speaker 14: tomorrow you could be sick.

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01:53:46,479 --> 01:53:49,280
Speaker 3: You know exactly, they already have it. So there you go.

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01:53:49,479 --> 01:53:53,360
Speaker 3: Music is keeping us alive longer, and birthday cakes are

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01:53:53,439 --> 01:53:54,920
Speaker 3: killing us. I thought I would just give.

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01:53:54,760 --> 01:53:55,000
Speaker 28: You the.

2341
01:53:57,439 --> 01:53:59,960
Speaker 4: Follow Elvis Durant on the Morning Show.

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01:54:00,000 --> 01:54:04,800
Speaker 3: We'll add Elvis Duranto. All right, shows done, Let's get

2343
01:54:04,800 --> 01:54:07,040
Speaker 3: out of here until next time. Say peace out, everybody,

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01:54:07,520 --> 01:54:08,680
Speaker 3: peece out, everybody.