WEBVTT - Hough is Enough 0:00:01.920 --> 0:00:05.359 Wine Down with Janet Kramer and I heard radio podcast. 0:00:06.400 --> 0:00:11.280 Are we ready for an awesome show? Oh yeah? I 0:00:11.400 --> 0:00:15.000 just love the Oh yeah. It's like like not excited 0:00:15.040 --> 0:00:17.960 at all. You're like, I'm so excited, and I'm so excited. 0:00:18.040 --> 0:00:21.520 This is my excited voice. Um, well, we're gonna need 0:00:21.560 --> 0:00:24.320 you to to get a little bit more excited. Okay, all right, 0:00:24.720 --> 0:00:27.800 this is you know, it's it's an animation, right, Like 0:00:27.880 --> 0:00:30.479 you gotta like, we gotta be excited about this because 0:00:30.480 --> 0:00:32.519 I you know, and I need that. I need a 0:00:32.520 --> 0:00:35.760 little I like I need a I'm so excited. That's 0:00:35.800 --> 0:00:38.560 so much better. Okay. How do you deal with confrontation? 0:00:39.159 --> 0:00:43.400 How do I deal with confrontation? It depends. Um, I 0:00:43.479 --> 0:00:46.280 like to I don't mind. I don't shy away from confrontation. 0:00:46.440 --> 0:00:49.479 You're actually really good with confrontation. I try to be. 0:00:50.479 --> 0:00:52.760 I try to sit back and wait a minute, because 0:00:52.800 --> 0:00:55.960 my initial reaction kind of like what Chelsea said last week, 0:00:56.680 --> 0:00:58.280 is to kind of go. But I try to wait 0:00:58.280 --> 0:01:00.080 a minute and breathe. But I don't shy away from it. 0:01:01.480 --> 0:01:04.520 I was listening to another podcast earlier, and um, they 0:01:04.560 --> 0:01:06.800 were talking about confrontation. And I know I've said before 0:01:06.880 --> 0:01:08.680 like I would rather move to a different country than 0:01:08.760 --> 0:01:11.600 I have conversation. But I was thinking about it, and 0:01:11.600 --> 0:01:13.840 I was like, that was very like twenties Joanna, where 0:01:13.840 --> 0:01:19.960 I feel like thirties, late thirties Joanna is UM like 0:01:20.000 --> 0:01:21.880 I like and I don't like it. I'm not saying 0:01:21.920 --> 0:01:24.720 like i'd like confrontation, but I because I you know, 0:01:24.720 --> 0:01:26.520 I had to do something the other day where I 0:01:26.640 --> 0:01:32.800 wanted to puke um with a semi confrontation, and I 0:01:32.920 --> 0:01:34.800 normally would have just been like, no, like it's fine, 0:01:34.840 --> 0:01:37.720 But I feel like when you get older, that stuff 0:01:37.840 --> 0:01:41.399 is just like what it has to happen. Yeah, I 0:01:41.400 --> 0:01:43.560 think you've gotten better at it, for sure. I think 0:01:43.600 --> 0:01:46.760 you just have to. I think it depends on the 0:01:46.840 --> 0:01:49.520 situation obviously, but how you're going to handle it. Like, 0:01:49.560 --> 0:01:52.120 I think as you get older, you realize to handle 0:01:52.160 --> 0:01:54.720 it more as an adult and think through what you're 0:01:54.720 --> 0:01:58.520 gonna say and not just spout off and just and 0:01:58.520 --> 0:02:00.440 I think you've done a good job with that. I 0:02:00.480 --> 0:02:02.400 was just thinking about that because I'm like, I used 0:02:02.400 --> 0:02:06.320 to hate confrontation, and now it's I'm too old to 0:02:07.120 --> 0:02:11.000 have to play the games anymore, you know. Um. Speaking 0:02:11.040 --> 0:02:17.079 of confrontation, not not confrontation, but I was I don't know. 0:02:17.120 --> 0:02:19.160 We had like a girl's night a few days ago 0:02:19.720 --> 0:02:24.160 and Pamelan was like she basically said that I am 0:02:24.320 --> 0:02:33.120 Valume Janna, Vale value you, and Valium is so funny. 0:02:37.040 --> 0:02:40.960 Like she was like, post divorce Janna is Valume Janna. 0:02:41.160 --> 0:02:44.520 And just a little backstory. When I got my boobs done, 0:02:44.880 --> 0:02:49.840 the only thing that gave me a little, like a 0:02:49.880 --> 0:02:54.520 little comfort because my chest was so tight and so 0:02:54.760 --> 0:02:57.160 the valume just like made me relax a little bit, 0:02:57.160 --> 0:03:01.480 and then the muscles, but it made me loopy as fuck. 0:03:02.960 --> 0:03:05.800 I mean, I was so loopy, but I was just 0:03:05.840 --> 0:03:08.560 like we went over to our house for Easter and 0:03:08.600 --> 0:03:11.359 I was like three days post boob job, and I'm 0:03:11.360 --> 0:03:14.520 just strutting over there with like my PJ tap and 0:03:15.280 --> 0:03:21.760 you know, a skirt, and they were like something like 0:03:21.840 --> 0:03:26.160 Jolie was playing. I was like, Okay, it's fine, here's 0:03:26.160 --> 0:03:30.080 the deal. It's not a bad thing. But generally you 0:03:30.160 --> 0:03:33.239 are kind of the get in, kind of one of 0:03:33.280 --> 0:03:35.480 the first to leave. Not a bad way, not in 0:03:35.480 --> 0:03:38.080 a bad way, but like the kids have something to do, 0:03:38.240 --> 0:03:42.720 it's dinner time, it's bedtime, it's it's something maybe I 0:03:42.760 --> 0:03:44.840 just don't want to be there or that it doesn't 0:03:44.880 --> 0:03:47.400 say it's something you just don't know. But there that day, 0:03:47.440 --> 0:03:49.280 I was like, you got up for a second and 0:03:49.280 --> 0:03:50.920 I was like, oh, are you leaving? And You're like, no, 0:03:51.440 --> 0:03:55.200 I'm good. That's like what I'm like, No, I'm great. 0:03:55.360 --> 0:04:00.520 I was gonna go check out the cheese spread. But 0:04:00.560 --> 0:04:03.680 apparently is that me post divorce now? Yeah. So I 0:04:03.720 --> 0:04:06.720 was thinking about this the other day when we were 0:04:06.760 --> 0:04:08.920 in where were we were in Virginia And by the way, 0:04:08.960 --> 0:04:11.760 I haven't taken a volume since day nine of Boop Jobs. 0:04:11.760 --> 0:04:13.840 So like it's just mean, it's not that you're just 0:04:13.880 --> 0:04:17.520 on yeah, um when we're in Virginia beach, like you're 0:04:17.560 --> 0:04:22.039 just so much lighter, so much lighter. I don't know 0:04:22.080 --> 0:04:24.640 what it is, Like yeah different, I mean you're still Janna, 0:04:25.000 --> 0:04:27.600 but like, yeah, it's kind of like your like them 0:04:27.640 --> 0:04:29.800 all the time. You mean, like when I broke out 0:04:29.800 --> 0:04:33.880 in a dance party, yes, it was great, but just 0:04:33.960 --> 0:04:35.640 in general, like we had a little bit of a 0:04:35.640 --> 0:04:38.800 stressful situation, not knowing if we were gonna be able 0:04:38.800 --> 0:04:41.880 to get home or not because of Ida, and we 0:04:41.880 --> 0:04:43.840 were coming up with all the options and even I 0:04:44.920 --> 0:04:46.839 felt like the devil was broad a lady. I was like, 0:04:46.880 --> 0:04:49.479 get me home. I was like, it's just a little 0:04:49.560 --> 0:04:54.240 it's a little sprinkle, and it's like but amongst that, 0:04:54.320 --> 0:04:56.800 you were still so light. Yeah. I was like, well, 0:04:57.440 --> 0:04:59.480 I was like, Sudya want me to do this? And 0:04:59.640 --> 0:05:04.080 You're like anyway, you were just you were much lighter. Wow, 0:05:04.600 --> 0:05:08.440 Valium Janice fun I mean, I have a natural value 0:05:08.480 --> 0:05:10.599 in me. Now, hey, I'm really excited because we have 0:05:10.640 --> 0:05:13.440 Derrek Kuff coming on the show. He has a new 0:05:13.480 --> 0:05:16.600 show that he's debuting in Vegas called The No Limits 0:05:17.000 --> 0:05:21.600 Tour at the Venetian Um, which I'm excited to talk 0:05:21.600 --> 0:05:24.880 to him about. Also, he is UM. He's he's partnered 0:05:24.960 --> 0:05:29.039 with m P and because they're sponsoring UM basically to 0:05:29.040 --> 0:05:31.560 help people make a difference for people with disabilities. They're 0:05:31.560 --> 0:05:34.320 actually even donating hundred thousand dollars to the Agatos Foundation 0:05:34.360 --> 0:05:36.880 to help drive even more equality in sports and beyond 0:05:36.920 --> 0:05:39.240 for people's disabilities. So I love that. Excited talked to 0:05:39.279 --> 0:05:41.800 him about it UM and then talk a little Dancing 0:05:41.839 --> 0:05:44.960 with the Stars. So, uh, let's stay a break and 0:05:44.960 --> 0:06:00.960 we'll get him on. Hello, Derek, how are you ladies? 0:06:00.960 --> 0:06:03.640 Doing you guys? Good? Um? Good? How are you? I'm 0:06:03.720 --> 0:06:11.440 very good. I feel like it's been it's been it's 0:06:11.440 --> 0:06:14.359 been a minute since I've seen you. I mean I 0:06:14.360 --> 0:06:16.080 came back to Stars of one of the times. But 0:06:16.120 --> 0:06:17.960 I mean you're just like you're up there judge and 0:06:18.040 --> 0:06:21.040 doing your doing your thing, you know which, by the way, 0:06:21.120 --> 0:06:24.120 I would have been so nervous if you were the judge. 0:06:24.880 --> 0:06:26.800 I don't know what, yeah, because I mean, i mean, 0:06:26.800 --> 0:06:31.560 obviously Lenn is terrifying, and you know your sister she was, 0:06:31.680 --> 0:06:33.080 she was she was sweet. She was hard on me, 0:06:33.120 --> 0:06:34.839 but she was sweet. And then carry in like just 0:06:35.160 --> 0:06:39.040 you know, Ball and then Bruno like so fun. So 0:06:40.600 --> 0:06:42.640 but like with you, I would have been I actually 0:06:42.680 --> 0:06:46.200 am kind of happy that you were. You weren't a judge, 0:06:46.600 --> 0:06:49.440 you were just one of the dancing pros because like, 0:06:49.600 --> 0:06:52.359 I don't know, I feel like, I mean, you're really nice, 0:06:52.400 --> 0:06:55.320 but also you're an amazing dancer. So it's just it's 0:06:56.200 --> 0:06:59.599 I would have been very intimidated. Let's say, well, I'm 0:06:59.640 --> 0:07:02.039 sure I'm sure it would have been great. You were fantastic, 0:07:02.080 --> 0:07:04.320 so I'm sure I would have nothing about great things 0:07:04.320 --> 0:07:06.400 to say, So I mean, you're so sweet. Do you 0:07:06.600 --> 0:07:08.200 do you like being on that side of the things, 0:07:08.360 --> 0:07:11.760 at the table rather than on the dance floor. Yeah, 0:07:11.920 --> 0:07:14.440 I like it. It's it's definitely a lot easier, that's 0:07:14.440 --> 0:07:17.120 for sure. Um. It's always crashing up and people say 0:07:17.160 --> 0:07:22.160 what's harder, judging or dancing? Like what I was like, Um, dancing, 0:07:22.160 --> 0:07:25.480 of course is harder. But no, I really enjoyed I think, 0:07:25.480 --> 0:07:28.440 you know, being on the show for seventeen seasons. Um, 0:07:28.560 --> 0:07:31.800 you know, I feel like I really I did that, 0:07:31.880 --> 0:07:34.200 you know what I mean. I was. There's all different 0:07:34.480 --> 0:07:38.360 experiences and triumphs and failures and all the things I 0:07:38.360 --> 0:07:41.520 could have possibly thought of. Um, And so being on 0:07:41.520 --> 0:07:44.559 this side of it, Uh, my desire is I really 0:07:44.640 --> 0:07:47.360 really genuinely want to like help and give some sort 0:07:47.360 --> 0:07:50.000 of critique that is helpful. However, I will say, it's 0:07:50.000 --> 0:07:51.960 a lot harder. You know, when I was judging on 0:07:52.000 --> 0:07:54.840 a World of Dance, um, which by the way, I 0:07:54.880 --> 0:07:58.240 loved that show so good. Oh me too, Oh my gosh, 0:07:58.240 --> 0:08:01.240 me too. And it was so it was tape so 0:08:01.280 --> 0:08:04.120 we could like ramble on and we could just go 0:08:04.280 --> 0:08:08.200 off and just go on and on and on and on. Um. 0:08:08.240 --> 0:08:10.320 And if you forgot to say something. Hold on, let 0:08:10.360 --> 0:08:12.559 me say something. Were fast, Whereas on Tanta the Stars 0:08:12.680 --> 0:08:17.000 is live and it's like you know, once you once 0:08:17.360 --> 0:08:19.320 the time is up, like that's it, Like you have 0:08:19.360 --> 0:08:21.840 nothing to say. So there's times like Bruno will like 0:08:21.960 --> 0:08:24.680 go on one of his rants and and there's no 0:08:24.840 --> 0:08:27.000 time left. So it's like Derek of like, it was 0:08:27.000 --> 0:08:30.280 a good job, it was great. I don't know, thanks 0:08:30.280 --> 0:08:34.440 a lot um but uh but but obviously being a 0:08:34.480 --> 0:08:37.040 coach and have been a teacher, you know, I really 0:08:37.080 --> 0:08:40.560 want to like give an actual note that I really 0:08:40.559 --> 0:08:43.160 believe will like help elevate them the next week, not 0:08:43.320 --> 0:08:45.200 just generalize it and be like, yeah, it was good. 0:08:45.200 --> 0:08:47.600 You need to be better, you know. It's like, hey, 0:08:47.760 --> 0:08:50.920 work on this specific specific thing, focused on this this week, 0:08:50.960 --> 0:08:53.800 and I really feel like it will elevate um, you know, 0:08:53.840 --> 0:08:56.480 your routine the next week. And so yeah, I try, 0:08:56.559 --> 0:08:58.360 I try as I can in the short amount of 0:08:58.400 --> 0:09:01.600 time I have. Especially this season is Lenn Goodman's back, 0:09:02.240 --> 0:09:04.439 and so that was before of us up there sould 0:09:04.440 --> 0:09:06.640 be interesting. Is there one celebrity that you were kind 0:09:06.640 --> 0:09:09.040 of like is not disappointed him, but in a in 0:09:09.080 --> 0:09:11.600 a roundabout way, like I wish you could have like 0:09:11.640 --> 0:09:13.760 they would have been so good if they just let go, 0:09:14.160 --> 0:09:16.000 or I mean, I'm sure that's probably a lot of them, 0:09:16.400 --> 0:09:18.280 but is there one that you're like, they had such 0:09:18.320 --> 0:09:23.079 potential but kind of got in their own way? Um? 0:09:23.480 --> 0:09:28.560 You know, honestly, I feel like, I don't know. Actually 0:09:28.720 --> 0:09:33.880 it's tough. I definitely looked back at my my approach 0:09:34.160 --> 0:09:37.040 to the show, like in my earlier seasons, I was, 0:09:38.360 --> 0:09:41.600 you know, nervous, you know, and I was uncertain. I 0:09:41.720 --> 0:09:44.199 was kind of like kind of faking it to be 0:09:44.280 --> 0:09:46.160 honest with you. You know. I wasn't really like a 0:09:46.200 --> 0:09:49.320 teacher or things like that, or choreographer, you know when 0:09:49.320 --> 0:09:50.920 people used to say like, oh yeah, a good chroographer, 0:09:51.040 --> 0:09:54.560 Like I never even looked at myself in that way. Um, 0:09:55.480 --> 0:09:58.360 And that made me fearful and afraid, so that I 0:09:58.480 --> 0:10:03.960 definitely would get uh more frustrated, easier in my earlier 0:10:04.000 --> 0:10:06.160 seasons and stuff. So for me, it's not so much 0:10:06.200 --> 0:10:08.240 I look back at one of my partners like I 0:10:08.280 --> 0:10:10.160 wish they would have just let go. I look back 0:10:10.200 --> 0:10:12.680 an some my earlier seasons thinking like, man, I wish 0:10:12.760 --> 0:10:16.280 I knew then what I know now and what I 0:10:16.520 --> 0:10:18.520 what I how I shifted my sort of approach and 0:10:18.559 --> 0:10:22.000 teaching and coaching, um, and I probably could have got 0:10:22.800 --> 0:10:26.280 more out of them with a better teaching approach, which 0:10:26.320 --> 0:10:31.400 I eventually you know, learned and created and um. So yeah, 0:10:31.400 --> 0:10:33.319 so it's not so much on them more of myself. 0:10:33.360 --> 0:10:35.360 I wish I was better early on and I could 0:10:35.400 --> 0:10:37.800 have given them a better chance and a better experience. 0:10:38.240 --> 0:10:41.120 For sure. I also feel like to um, that's that's 0:10:41.160 --> 0:10:44.240 such a good thing in general with life because it's 0:10:44.240 --> 0:10:45.520 like I can look back and be like, oh, I 0:10:45.520 --> 0:10:47.439 wish I would have you know, had more fun, or 0:10:47.440 --> 0:10:49.640 I wish I would have you know, done this differently, 0:10:49.679 --> 0:10:52.839 And it's it's not regrets. It's just something that okay, 0:10:52.920 --> 0:10:56.480 now like you can when you met with a different um, 0:10:56.520 --> 0:10:58.160 you know, doing doing the show now, like you can 0:10:58.880 --> 0:11:01.600 have different ways to look at it. Because I mean, shoot, 0:11:01.640 --> 0:11:03.840 I would love to go back and redo that season 0:11:03.920 --> 0:11:05.600 because of all the things that I like, help back 0:11:05.640 --> 0:11:08.720 on or wish that I didn't wasn't so in my 0:11:08.760 --> 0:11:11.240 head about or just believed in myself a little bit more. 0:11:11.280 --> 0:11:14.280 But I think that's just like a something we do 0:11:14.320 --> 0:11:19.040 and just in life too. Sure, Yeah, I think I 0:11:19.080 --> 0:11:23.440 think with when Uh, it's different for you as well, 0:11:23.480 --> 0:11:26.200 because you know, at least for me, I go have 0:11:26.280 --> 0:11:30.360 multiple seasons to make adjustments and I have I'm back 0:11:30.440 --> 0:11:33.160 back the next season or the next season, and I'm like, wow, Okay, 0:11:33.320 --> 0:11:35.280 I'm gonna try to be better in this situation. I'm 0:11:35.280 --> 0:11:38.520 gonna try to appreciate this more. I'm gonna try to, um, 0:11:38.559 --> 0:11:41.600 you know, strategized differently. And and so I can see how, 0:11:41.640 --> 0:11:43.439 you know, being on the show as a celebrity and 0:11:44.080 --> 0:11:46.480 having one season, you might think like I want another 0:11:46.520 --> 0:11:48.880 go at that, Like I on one another round, you know, 0:11:48.960 --> 0:11:51.880 give me another round, and um, but you were you 0:11:51.920 --> 0:11:54.800 were awesome, You're fantastic and like and they still and 0:11:54.840 --> 0:11:56.559 they still bring up it's like one of the most 0:11:56.600 --> 0:12:00.680 classic moments. They still bring up that rain shower. That's 0:12:00.960 --> 0:12:03.679 that's like that's up there in the top in the 0:12:03.720 --> 0:12:07.760 top realms of like that happened, and that happened. Yeah, 0:12:08.880 --> 0:12:10.960 I mean, yeah, that was that was a very sexy dance. 0:12:11.040 --> 0:12:17.040 But yeah, and I'm like, there was just a few 0:12:17.040 --> 0:12:18.400 things in that dance. I'm like, I can't believe they 0:12:18.440 --> 0:12:20.200 heard that, Like when it says give me a taste 0:12:20.200 --> 0:12:22.280 and he literally listening me up in my like his 0:12:22.440 --> 0:12:26.199 faces in my vagina. I'm like that he wanted more 0:12:26.240 --> 0:12:29.280 than that. It started off even crazier. I know. You 0:12:29.320 --> 0:12:32.840 guys come up with some like raunchy choreography, dre Wow, 0:12:33.840 --> 0:12:36.640 I'm not gonna lie, that's that's that's more of a 0:12:36.640 --> 0:12:39.839 glob thing. I'm not. It's a Russian thing. It's a 0:12:39.880 --> 0:12:43.960 Russian the Yeah, I'm just I was. I wasn't too runchy. 0:12:44.040 --> 0:12:45.480 I was. I was even like when I did a 0:12:45.520 --> 0:12:48.480 rum business stuff like that. For me personally, my you know, 0:12:48.520 --> 0:12:53.199 the banks of love, um my approach usually was somebody 0:12:53.280 --> 0:12:55.520 danced with like Sean Johnson or something like that. You know, 0:12:55.880 --> 0:12:57.360 So for me it was more like it was like 0:12:57.400 --> 0:13:02.199 a sweet love not at Grayla. Yeah. Yeah, I think 0:13:02.240 --> 0:13:10.400 we definitely went fifty on that one. Okay, speaking of okay, fine, 0:13:10.400 --> 0:13:14.200 you're right um with speaking of love though, So you've 0:13:14.240 --> 0:13:16.640 been dating how many years? Because you guys started dating 0:13:16.800 --> 0:13:19.600 when on my season? Right, like so four five years ago? 0:13:19.840 --> 0:13:23.280 Six years now? Yeah a minute, okay, So I just 0:13:23.320 --> 0:13:27.040 have to like I have to ask where, like when's 0:13:27.120 --> 0:13:30.040 when's the ring coming? Like when when are we getting when? 0:13:30.080 --> 0:13:32.480 Like if I was hurt. I'd be like, Derek, what 0:13:32.600 --> 0:13:36.240 the like it's sixty years? No, seriously though, I mean like, 0:13:36.440 --> 0:13:38.440 you know, girls, and she wants a baby and you 0:13:38.480 --> 0:13:40.960 know we don't get any younger. And I'm not trying 0:13:40.960 --> 0:13:43.000 to rush you, but six years, it's like, what the 0:13:43.040 --> 0:13:45.960 heck are like what are you waiting for? Like after 0:13:46.040 --> 0:13:49.840 six years? Like you should know? Right? Sure? Absolutely absolutely, 0:13:49.880 --> 0:13:54.160 I think um and I think so for so what 0:13:54.320 --> 0:13:56.720 you don't you know and when people don't see obviously, 0:13:56.880 --> 0:14:00.480 are you know? Is the relationship you know? Is? Is? 0:14:00.679 --> 0:14:04.080 Are the different um what do you want to call it? 0:14:04.880 --> 0:14:08.360 Um phases if you will, the phases, different things, seasons 0:14:08.360 --> 0:14:10.480 and relationship, all these different things. And so even though 0:14:10.480 --> 0:14:13.439 we've been together for six years, like like, we've had 0:14:13.520 --> 0:14:17.480 multiple relationships with each other, you know, Esther Parrell, she 0:14:17.480 --> 0:14:21.200 says that she hasn't great she's my she's my girl, man, 0:14:21.320 --> 0:14:25.160 I mean, she's phenomenal. And one thing that she says, 0:14:25.240 --> 0:14:27.840 she goes, you know, there's you might have. Everybody's gonna 0:14:27.840 --> 0:14:31.120 have multiple relationships in their lifetime. The question is it 0:14:31.120 --> 0:14:32.600 going to be with the same person or is it 0:14:32.640 --> 0:14:35.440 going to be other people? And I feel that's how 0:14:35.440 --> 0:14:38.480 I feel like our relationship has been We've had our 0:14:38.480 --> 0:14:43.560 relationship is vastly We've gone through like four different versions 0:14:43.600 --> 0:14:48.800 of our relationship over those years. And it's and I 0:14:48.840 --> 0:14:51.400 will say for sure now like it is like you know, 0:14:51.520 --> 0:14:54.240 this past couple of years, it's been like this is 0:14:54.800 --> 0:14:57.920 this is it? You know? And so um yeah, so 0:14:57.960 --> 0:15:00.680 when it comes when it comes to the everything else 0:15:00.680 --> 0:15:03.960 that comes around that, but you know it, I can 0:15:04.000 --> 0:15:06.680 see he can't he can't say it, but he has 0:15:06.720 --> 0:15:08.560 the ring. I know it. He has a thing out 0:15:08.640 --> 0:15:10.640 and he can't look at I can tell. I'm sorry, 0:15:10.640 --> 0:15:13.240 I can tell, I can tell. I'm a girl. I 0:15:13.280 --> 0:15:15.400 totally conduct. It's all right. And by the way, you know, 0:15:15.440 --> 0:15:17.560 what's it's funny actually is that people like like, oh 0:15:17.680 --> 0:15:20.320 does that just said? And I'm like no, honestly, like 0:15:20.400 --> 0:15:23.080 it's it doesn't bother me at all when people ask 0:15:23.200 --> 0:15:25.080 or that. And I don't feel pressured at all, like 0:15:25.600 --> 0:15:28.320 hearing it a lot. It's it's has she pressured you 0:15:28.360 --> 0:15:31.520 at all? No? No, not at all, not at all. Yeah, 0:15:31.520 --> 0:15:34.120 it's it's all of and uh. We have our little 0:15:34.160 --> 0:15:38.480 family of you know, of dogs and cats, and it's 0:15:38.520 --> 0:15:41.120 just it's wonderful and and you know, to be honest 0:15:41.120 --> 0:15:43.840 with you as well, you know, I built a house 0:15:44.080 --> 0:15:45.720 and we've been enough for about a year and a 0:15:45.760 --> 0:15:49.480 half maybe two years now. Um, but before that, you know, 0:15:49.520 --> 0:15:52.360 I was like living with my sister like it was 0:15:53.120 --> 0:15:54.960 you know why it was it was you know, there 0:15:55.040 --> 0:15:59.160 was there was no sort of like um foundation or 0:15:59.360 --> 0:16:01.480 you know that that wasn't even on that that wasn't 0:16:01.480 --> 0:16:03.320 even in the conversation because there's no way for it 0:16:03.360 --> 0:16:07.200 to be. So uh yeah, all good things. But you're 0:16:07.200 --> 0:16:09.800 happy and she's doing and what's great too is that 0:16:10.080 --> 0:16:12.800 she's gonna be dancing with me on my show in Vegas. Okay, 0:16:12.880 --> 0:16:14.560 that's what I was just gonna ask you about if 0:16:14.600 --> 0:16:16.280 she was going to be on the road with you. 0:16:17.240 --> 0:16:18.960 Have you guys done that before, like been on the 0:16:19.040 --> 0:16:22.440 road together when we met. That's how we met was 0:16:22.480 --> 0:16:25.600 on tour. We met on tour. Actually our first kiss 0:16:25.800 --> 0:16:29.960 was on stage during a dance, during a rumba um 0:16:30.200 --> 0:16:32.000 and in front of a whole audience. And actually we 0:16:32.360 --> 0:16:34.280 had that footage and it's kind of funny, we actually 0:16:34.360 --> 0:16:38.800 recreated that same dance like a couple of months ago. 0:16:38.880 --> 0:16:40.680 It's actually on our YouTube channel and it's kind of 0:16:40.680 --> 0:16:44.000 put him side by side. And um, so yeah, we 0:16:44.000 --> 0:16:47.000 actually met on too. Uh, but this is different. This 0:16:47.080 --> 0:16:52.120 is very very different obviously. Um, and yeah, I'm excited 0:16:52.160 --> 0:16:55.240 about it. We've been practicing, we've been you know well, 0:16:55.360 --> 0:16:58.280 and that's it was so funny too, is you know, 0:16:58.320 --> 0:17:00.320 we were staying in a life where you know, you 0:17:00.360 --> 0:17:02.120 could go on tour and be away from each other 0:17:02.160 --> 0:17:04.520 for months at a time and it was totally normal. 0:17:04.560 --> 0:17:06.240 As a performer, You're like, yeah, cool, Like we haven't 0:17:06.240 --> 0:17:09.439 seen each other in two months, that's fine, normal, And 0:17:09.480 --> 0:17:10.679 now I'm in the time of my life. I'm like, 0:17:10.760 --> 0:17:12.880 I don't want to I don't want to be away 0:17:12.920 --> 0:17:16.680 from you for longer than you know, a week. I mean, 0:17:16.680 --> 0:17:18.720 I just I needed a trip in Washington for the 0:17:18.760 --> 0:17:21.560 Candy Honors, and I was gone for a week, and 0:17:21.600 --> 0:17:23.800 I was like, no, let's not do that. Let's not 0:17:23.840 --> 0:17:26.040 do that anymore, like, let's let's travel with each other. 0:17:26.119 --> 0:17:27.360 Was do with each other as much as we can, 0:17:27.400 --> 0:17:30.080 and I love that. I feel like after two weeks 0:17:30.119 --> 0:17:32.920 is when it starts to get there, starts to be 0:17:33.400 --> 0:17:35.840 that just kind of that tension or that the drift, 0:17:35.880 --> 0:17:38.359 and I don't I think it's important to to you know, 0:17:38.600 --> 0:17:40.959 nurture that relationship and to be like hey, if it's 0:17:40.960 --> 0:17:42.560 a week for you guys like that, it's like, hey, 0:17:42.640 --> 0:17:44.760 this is it doesn't I don't like this. And it's 0:17:44.760 --> 0:17:47.280 good that you said that. Quarantine helped a lot because 0:17:47.320 --> 0:17:50.639 it was like, you know, we uh just really just 0:17:50.800 --> 0:17:53.040 we just we just you know, fell more in love. 0:17:53.080 --> 0:17:55.360 So it was good. Okay, So the residency, You're going 0:17:55.440 --> 0:18:02.600 to Vegas, the Venetian Um. What what's different about this show? Um? Well, 0:18:02.760 --> 0:18:06.840 I mean the biggest difference for me at least is, uh, 0:18:07.000 --> 0:18:09.600 it's in one place because I'm just as touring, so 0:18:09.640 --> 0:18:13.760 it's always like wake up, different venue, different stage, um, 0:18:13.800 --> 0:18:15.760 which I love. By the way, I can't wait to 0:18:15.760 --> 0:18:19.399 tour again. I love touring. But what's exciting about this 0:18:19.440 --> 0:18:23.119 one is it's again it's like live band, live music. 0:18:23.200 --> 0:18:26.040 We have the most incredible dancers, all start cast dancers. 0:18:26.320 --> 0:18:28.480 In fact, one of the dancers I've just hired he 0:18:28.920 --> 0:18:32.399 won the last season of Dancing with the Sorry of 0:18:32.520 --> 0:18:36.520 World of Dance with two other girls called MDC three 0:18:36.840 --> 0:18:42.919 and he is mind blowing. So um, it's it's an 0:18:42.960 --> 0:18:46.280 incredible cast. Honestly, I feel like it's I don't want 0:18:46.320 --> 0:18:48.200 to say the best dance show in Vegas. I think 0:18:48.240 --> 0:18:50.639 I'm mean I'm gonna I'm gonna go out there and 0:18:50.680 --> 0:18:53.080 say that, man, because I I really believe in the 0:18:53.320 --> 0:18:55.800 just the performance and these dancers and what we will. 0:18:55.840 --> 0:18:59.520 We have, the content we have, the costumes are amazing 0:18:59.520 --> 0:19:03.040 and beautiful fool and uh, it's gonna be good. I'm excited. 0:19:03.240 --> 0:19:06.399 I mean, you're the most awarded choreographer. I mean you have. 0:19:06.600 --> 0:19:09.119 I mean, it's it's insane. So if if I was 0:19:09.160 --> 0:19:10.760 to put a lineup, like, yeah, I would, I would 0:19:10.800 --> 0:19:12.480 definitely be like, Yep, that's the show I'm going to 0:19:12.560 --> 0:19:16.440 go see. I mean, the chippen Dales is kind of exciting. 0:19:16.480 --> 0:19:18.439 But at the same time, like, I'm sure you're going 0:19:18.480 --> 0:19:20.440 to take your shirt off with the ladies too, So 0:19:20.680 --> 0:19:24.720 like there might be a few flashes, a few things 0:19:24.720 --> 0:19:27.960 here and there, is there is there one? Um like 0:19:27.960 --> 0:19:32.000 how long have you been even like prepping this? Well, 0:19:32.080 --> 0:19:34.280 originally I was supposed to be in Vegas last year, 0:19:35.240 --> 0:19:38.520 but obviously promis reasons. Um, so it's been on my 0:19:38.560 --> 0:19:42.520 mind for over a year. Uh. But it's funny because 0:19:42.520 --> 0:19:44.000 you know you think, like, oh, we got all this 0:19:44.080 --> 0:19:47.720 time in the world and um, and then all of 0:19:47.760 --> 0:19:49.840 a sudden you're like, Oh, we're going to rehearse on 0:19:49.880 --> 0:19:52.560 the stage in three days, which is true. I'm gonna 0:19:52.600 --> 0:19:58.560 be on stage on Monday, on the stage rehearsing for it. Um. Yeah, yeah, 0:19:58.720 --> 0:20:01.760 So I'm it's it's been there for a while, but 0:20:01.800 --> 0:20:05.240 I'm excited about it. It's it's gonna be good. But 0:20:05.280 --> 0:20:07.720 I will say there's there's also that excitement of like 0:20:08.560 --> 0:20:11.280 it's like and I am, I is my body ready 0:20:11.320 --> 0:20:14.639 for this rehearsing And I'm like, I'm like, you know, 0:20:15.080 --> 0:20:17.600 like not oiling it up like externally internally, you know, 0:20:17.760 --> 0:20:19.159 all my joints of the things, like there will be 0:20:19.160 --> 0:20:24.520 some oil maybe maybe. I'm sure the girls will appreciate 0:20:24.560 --> 0:20:26.600 that slipping off, slipping off my body while we're trying 0:20:26.600 --> 0:20:29.960 to dance. Um. But yeah, it's gonna be good. Man. 0:20:30.040 --> 0:20:33.200 I'm excited. I'm so excited for you. I think that's. Um, 0:20:33.240 --> 0:20:35.320 I'm gonna I'm gonna check out the dates and I'm 0:20:35.359 --> 0:20:36.960 going to come to a show because we're actually going 0:20:37.000 --> 0:20:38.840 to be in Vegas in September, but I think you 0:20:38.840 --> 0:20:41.360 don't start until it's October. Is that when it starts 0:20:41.640 --> 0:20:48.840 September two, September two until November one, and I'll be 0:20:49.119 --> 0:20:51.119 you know, flying back and forth doing yance with stars 0:20:51.160 --> 0:20:54.800 and the show and they'll be fun. Man, it's gonna 0:20:54.800 --> 0:20:56.760 be good. You're taking over the world. What is your 0:20:56.760 --> 0:20:58.720 best now that I'm back out in the dating world, 0:20:58.800 --> 0:21:02.719 what is your best of dating advice for me? My 0:21:02.800 --> 0:21:08.480