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Speaker 1: Wine Down with Janet Kramer and I heard radio podcast.

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Speaker 1: Are we ready for an awesome show? Oh yeah? I

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Speaker 1: just love the Oh yeah. It's like like not excited

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Speaker 1: at all. You're like, I'm so excited, and I'm so excited.

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Speaker 1: This is my excited voice. Um, well, we're gonna need

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Speaker 1: you to to get a little bit more excited. Okay, all right,

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Speaker 1: this is you know, it's it's an animation, right, Like

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Speaker 1: I you know, and I need that. I need a

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Speaker 1: little I like I need a I'm so excited. That's

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Speaker 1: so much better. Okay. How do you deal with confrontation?

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Speaker 1: How do I deal with confrontation? It depends. Um, I

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Speaker 1: like to I don't mind. I don't shy away from confrontation.

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Speaker 1: You're actually really good with confrontation. I try to be.

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Speaker 1: I try to sit back and wait a minute, because

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Speaker 1: my initial reaction kind of like what Chelsea said last week,

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Speaker 1: a minute and breathe. But I don't shy away from it.

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Speaker 1: I was listening to another podcast earlier, and um, they

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Speaker 1: were talking about confrontation. And I know I've said before

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Speaker 1: like I would rather move to a different country than

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Speaker 1: I have conversation. But I was thinking about it, and

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Speaker 1: I was like, that was very like twenties Joanna, where

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Speaker 1: I feel like thirties, late thirties Joanna is UM like

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Speaker 1: I like and I don't like it. I'm not saying

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Speaker 1: like i'd like confrontation, but I because I you know,

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Speaker 1: I had to do something the other day where I

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Speaker 1: wanted to puke um with a semi confrontation, and I

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Speaker 1: normally would have just been like, no, like it's fine,

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Speaker 1: But I feel like when you get older, that stuff

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Speaker 1: is just like what it has to happen. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: think you've gotten better at it, for sure. I think

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Speaker 1: you just have to. I think it depends on the

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Speaker 1: situation obviously, but how you're going to handle it. Like,

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Speaker 1: I think as you get older, you realize to handle

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Speaker 1: it more as an adult and think through what you're

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Speaker 1: gonna say and not just spout off and just and

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Speaker 1: I think you've done a good job with that. I

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Speaker 1: was just thinking about that because I'm like, I used

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Speaker 1: have to play the games anymore, you know. Um. Speaking

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Speaker 1: of confrontation, not not confrontation, but I was I don't know.

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Speaker 1: We had like a girl's night a few days ago

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Speaker 1: and Pamelan was like she basically said that I am

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Speaker 1: Valume Janna, Vale value you, and Valium is so funny.

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Speaker 1: Like she was like, post divorce Janna is Valume Janna.

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Speaker 1: And just a little backstory. When I got my boobs done,

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Speaker 1: the only thing that gave me a little, like a

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Speaker 1: the valume just like made me relax a little bit,

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Speaker 1: and then the muscles, but it made me loopy as fuck.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I was so loopy, but I was just

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Speaker 1: like we went over to our house for Easter and

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Speaker 1: the deal. It's not a bad thing. But generally you

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Speaker 1: say it's something you just don't know. But there that day,

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Speaker 1: I was like, you got up for a second and

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, are you leaving? And You're like, no,

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Speaker 1: apparently is that me post divorce now? Yeah. So I

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Speaker 1: was thinking about this the other day when we were

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Speaker 1: I haven't taken a volume since day nine of Boop Jobs.

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Speaker 1: So like it's just mean, it's not that you're just

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Speaker 1: on yeah, um when we're in Virginia beach, like you're

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Speaker 1: I was like, Sudya want me to do this? And

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Speaker 1: Valium Janice fun I mean, I have a natural value

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Speaker 1: in me. Now, hey, I'm really excited because we have

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Speaker 1: Derrek Kuff coming on the show. He has a new

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Speaker 1: show that he's debuting in Vegas called The No Limits

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Speaker 1: Tour at the Venetian Um, which I'm excited to talk

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Speaker 1: to him about. Also, he is UM. He's he's partnered

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Speaker 1: help people make a difference for people with disabilities. They're

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Speaker 1: actually even donating hundred thousand dollars to the Agatos Foundation

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Speaker 1: for people's disabilities. So I love that. Excited talked to

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Speaker 1: him about it UM and then talk a little Dancing

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Speaker 1: we'll get him on. Hello, Derek, how are you ladies?

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Speaker 1: Doing you guys? Good? Um? Good? How are you? I'm

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Speaker 1: very good. I feel like it's been it's been it's

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Speaker 1: been a minute since I've seen you. I mean I

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Speaker 1: I mean you're just like you're up there judge and

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Speaker 1: I would have been so nervous if you were the judge.

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Speaker 1: obviously Lenn is terrifying, and you know your sister she was,

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Speaker 1: sure I'm sure it would have been great. You were fantastic,

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Speaker 1: so I'm sure I would have nothing about great things

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Speaker 1: the bad so bad. So that that was just something

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00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:27,040
Speaker 1: I said to him actually, um a while ago, and

423
00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:29,080
Speaker 1: uh yeah, and it seemed to it seemed to be

424
00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:30,919
Speaker 1: a helpful advice. And my problem is is I I

425
00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:32,960
Speaker 1: skipped the appetizer, of course, and I go straight to

426
00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:36,760
Speaker 1: the main dish because I want the main dish. But yeah, no,

427
00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:39,080
Speaker 1: but that's good. I need to eat more of the

428
00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:44,280
Speaker 1: spinach deaf and then and then cut into my steak.

429
00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:50,080
Speaker 1: Now I'm really freaking hungry. You've been shooting a movie

430
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:53,880
Speaker 1: with Marie Minos, right, I am obsessed with her. Yeah,

431
00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:57,800
Speaker 1: we bet she is like incredible. Um yeah, we just

432
00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:00,000
Speaker 1: we wrapped it about a month ago, and she played

433
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:02,160
Speaker 1: my best friend in the movie. And I just saw

434
00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:04,680
Speaker 1: an edit of the film and it's she does so

435
00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:08,639
Speaker 1: like she's so good in it. So I love her.

436
00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:12,560
Speaker 1: She's she's just been uh such a just blessing, you know,

437
00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:14,600
Speaker 1: in my life and in so many people's lives and

438
00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:17,520
Speaker 1: she's she's a forest man. She's got incredible energy. So

439
00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:19,240
Speaker 1: I saw you guys. I saw you guys together and

440
00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:21,240
Speaker 1: I was like, hey, hey, I know I love it.

441
00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:23,240
Speaker 1: That made me happy to see you have what's what's

442
00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:27,359
Speaker 1: the equal to podcast? Equals to podcast? So it's a

443
00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:29,680
Speaker 1: it's a six part series UM that you can find

444
00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:33,320
Speaker 1: on any different you know podcast UH platforms UM that

445
00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:37,959
Speaker 1: focuses on UM. You know, paralympians and Paralympics and you know,

446
00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:41,240
Speaker 1: people with equal rights for you know, people with disabilities

447
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:43,479
Speaker 1: and UM. The reason why I got so interested in

448
00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:48,359
Speaker 1: that UM is because, uh, I danced with Amy Pretty.

449
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:50,720
Speaker 1: You know Amy Pretty, who was a paralympian. She had

450
00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:53,280
Speaker 1: too prosthetic legs and we you know, I was actually

451
00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:55,879
Speaker 1: teaching her in Sochi, Russia, while she was competing in

452
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:57,879
Speaker 1: the Olympics. I was teaching her and chat out of

453
00:23:57,880 --> 00:23:59,879
Speaker 1: the morning and then she would go compete. I was

454
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:01,720
Speaker 1: it was, I was like, are you sure we don't

455
00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:03,439
Speaker 1: need to do this right now? You have to focus

456
00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:05,879
Speaker 1: on what you're doing, and she was like, no, I

457
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:09,800
Speaker 1: don't know. So for me, I always found it so UM.

458
00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:13,640
Speaker 1: It was so inspiring. Obviously and I just she's such

459
00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:18,600
Speaker 1: an incredible woman, and she really embodied that expression, UM,

460
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:21,080
Speaker 1: what if? What if life isn't happening to you, it's

461
00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:23,879
Speaker 1: happening for you? You know, we're always like why did

462
00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:26,439
Speaker 1: this happen to me? Why always met instead of like, well,

463
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:28,400
Speaker 1: why did this happen for me? How can I turn

464
00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:30,080
Speaker 1: this into a gift? How can I turn this into

465
00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:33,120
Speaker 1: something that is going to you know, serve others as well?

466
00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:38,119
Speaker 1: And she really really embodies that. So this podcast is

467
00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:41,520
Speaker 1: all about, you know, celebrating telling stories and also talking

468
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:46,159
Speaker 1: about you know, conversations that um are just kind of

469
00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:50,080
Speaker 1: normalizing and also educating people in that in that world

470
00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:53,520
Speaker 1: with people with disabilities. So that you're doing that, that's awesome, Derek.

471
00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:56,840
Speaker 1: You're incredible and I appreciate you, and I can't wait

472
00:24:56,840 --> 00:25:00,040
Speaker 1: to see your show in Vegas and hopefully i'll see you.

473
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 1: I'll pop by maybe for a taping. If they are

474
00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:07,720
Speaker 1: they going to have uh audience members, I don't. I

475
00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 1: don't know yet. They haven't told us. And then I'm like,

476
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,879
Speaker 1: I'm keeping I want to know too, you know, I

477
00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:14,639
Speaker 1: feel like there's like you have to like that was

478
00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:16,800
Speaker 1: the part that made me the most nervous, but it

479
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:18,720
Speaker 1: also gave me the most energy too. Like I know

480
00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 1: people at home we're watching, but it's just something about

481
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:25,119
Speaker 1: having people watching there. I don't know, whole different elements.

482
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:28,240
Speaker 1: Last season, we didn't have an audience, and I was

483
00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:33,120
Speaker 1: concerned that the energy wouldn't be there. But between the crew, camera,

484
00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:37,639
Speaker 1: other competitors, everybody kind of like compensated for that. They

485
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:40,880
Speaker 1: were like extra loud, and it just it felt pretty good.

486
00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:44,120
Speaker 1: It felt like the energy was there. But listen, I

487
00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:46,400
Speaker 1: that's why I'm going to Vegas. That's why I love

488
00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:53,320
Speaker 1: going towards There's nothing like that, uh, performer audience relationship.

489
00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:56,359
Speaker 1: It's just that, like it's an amazing experience to share

490
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:59,240
Speaker 1: with one another. So I love it all right, Derek,

491
00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 1: go up, go go dance away. Thank you so much.

492
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:19,280
Speaker 1: You know, it's interesting something that he said in there

493
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:23,800
Speaker 1: was life isn't you know? It's not happening to you,

494
00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:25,920
Speaker 1: it's for you. And I was reading I've been reading

495
00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:28,040
Speaker 1: this book called The Surrender Experiment, and it's so great.

496
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:30,720
Speaker 1: He was basically saying, like how he just surrendered his

497
00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 1: life to the moment and he wanted It's silly um scenario,

498
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:41,359
Speaker 1: but you know, it's it's about like having gratitude and

499
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 1: being positive. But he's like, it's raining. You know, it's raining,

500
00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:45,520
Speaker 1: and most of it like I can go through it's

501
00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:47,520
Speaker 1: raining or whatever, and it's like, okay, it's raining, Like

502
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:49,800
Speaker 1: this is so beautiful, it's going to help my grass,

503
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:52,679
Speaker 1: or like what can I do inside today that I

504
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 1: would normally not be able to do, or like I'm

505
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:58,200
Speaker 1: gonna watch a movie or so it's just like finding

506
00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:01,119
Speaker 1: the positive for in this. Okay, why is this happening

507
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:03,840
Speaker 1: not to me but for me? I love that it's

508
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:07,000
Speaker 1: so good, And I think that's sometimes easy in the

509
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:09,640
Speaker 1: smaller things, but hard and the bigger things, I mean

510
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 1: so hard. That's why last weekend when I was like

511
00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:14,720
Speaker 1: bawling my eyes out, because it's like, you know, you

512
00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:17,280
Speaker 1: have those moments where you're just like, I get that

513
00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 1: it's not happening to me, it's for me. But at

514
00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:22,760
Speaker 1: the same time, it's not easy. In the silence that

515
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:25,879
Speaker 1: can't be I mean, that's not easy. So you just

516
00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:28,000
Speaker 1: have to take it one day at a time. But

517
00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:29,280
Speaker 1: you know what I told you in the car today

518
00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 1: because we were having a conversation and I was talking

519
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 1: to her about you know, um, a few conversations about Mike,

520
00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 1: and you said, which part, like, your guys are really good? Oh? Yes, yes,

521
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:44,000
Speaker 1: I've been impressed y'all. Are it seemed to be really

522
00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:47,880
Speaker 1: good getting along? We call parenting. Well, yeah, we're we're

523
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:51,639
Speaker 1: co parenting, you know. Well, and um, you know we

524
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:54,919
Speaker 1: have conversations every once in a while. And she's like,

525
00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 1: you said you were proud of me. Oh, yes, I'm

526
00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:59,480
Speaker 1: so proud of you. I'm like, I'm sorry, I don't know.

527
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:02,720
Speaker 1: We had a lot of conversations in the car. Yes,

528
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:05,720
Speaker 1: I'm so proud of you. You've done a really, really,

529
00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:09,719
Speaker 1: really great job. I think you have. Oh I know

530
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:16,880
Speaker 1: what we are to now, I remember. Anyways, Yes, I'm

531
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:19,400
Speaker 1: very proud of you. You have done a good job,

532
00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 1: and you've put things aside, and I think you've just

533
00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 1: decided to you know, it's more important to get along

534
00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:29,440
Speaker 1: and be happy. And well, you know what I said,

535
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:33,320
Speaker 1: as I said, um, what would the Kardashians do? Oh

536
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:36,440
Speaker 1: my god, I love that because it's so true, because

537
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 1: it's like, you know, you look at Tristan and Chloe

538
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 1: and again this is the most probably stupidest example ever,

539
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:48,400
Speaker 1: but they just seem so forgiving. Yes, it's like once

540
00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:50,920
Speaker 1: they're part of your family, always a part of their family. Yeah,

541
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:54,360
Speaker 1: like Chloe. Yeah, like Scott Jeez, who are like somehow

542
00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:56,000
Speaker 1: still I just love Scott to sick. I don't know

543
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 1: why I like. I don't know. I don't like the

544
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:01,600
Speaker 1: lot late, like the latest thing that he did, but

545
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:04,600
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter. I still like them. But um, when

546
00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 1: it comes to you know, I just saw, like Chloe

547
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:10,240
Speaker 1: interest in taking their little one to you know, gymnastics

548
00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:13,000
Speaker 1: or dance or whatever. And it's like to be able

549
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 1: to look outside and say, Okay, did Mike hurt me? Yes?

550
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:22,040
Speaker 1: Did do I like what happened? No? Um do? I

551
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 1: still get upset and I'm sad, absolutely like I have

552
00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 1: major cry facets in my house when it's silent, and

553
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:32,000
Speaker 1: but I'm also trying to flip the switch. Okay, how

554
00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:34,360
Speaker 1: is this not happening for me? It's not happening to me,

555
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:37,520
Speaker 1: even though it feels like it is. Um and I

556
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 1: still don't feel like I've gotten that one apology that

557
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 1: I feel like I deserve. But at some point it's

558
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 1: just like you just have to let it go and

559
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:50,280
Speaker 1: be like Okay, this energy like holding onto all this

560
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:53,960
Speaker 1: stuff is and I'm not going to get the milk

561
00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 1: at home deep, or I'm not gonna get what I

562
00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:57,600
Speaker 1: want home deep, Like I keep going to home deep

563
00:29:57,600 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 1: I and getting it. Like my therapist said, so it's

564
00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 1: just so he come up comes to a point where

565
00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 1: you're just like okay, like it's you have to just

566
00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:07,840
Speaker 1: not move on, but just be like this is this

567
00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:11,200
Speaker 1: is just who he is, and I there's no point

568
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 1: in having this resentment, even though yes there are times

569
00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:17,800
Speaker 1: when I'm so upset and angry at the situation and

570
00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 1: what happened, But at the end of the day, nothing

571
00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 1: can change. We're not getting back together, and it's just

572
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:25,120
Speaker 1: hurting you. Yeah, you know, you have to let it

573
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:28,920
Speaker 1: go for you, not for him. You have to be

574
00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:31,640
Speaker 1: able to you know, it's not going to change how

575
00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:34,320
Speaker 1: he feels. It's not going to change anything other than

576
00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:38,400
Speaker 1: how you feel. So you know, now, that doesn't mean

577
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:41,000
Speaker 1: it's not gonna be hard at times. And maybe you're

578
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:45,520
Speaker 1: not ready to go vacation like Scott and Courtney with

579
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 1: the family, but that doesn't mean he can't get there

580
00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:50,920
Speaker 1: eventually or figure out what you're normal is. And I

581
00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:54,800
Speaker 1: think you know, and hopefully we're on the path because once,

582
00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:56,520
Speaker 1: because once I let it go, like okay, that I'm

583
00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 1: never going to get the apology that I think I deserve,

584
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:08,200
Speaker 1: and also knowing that I can't change my reality, and

585
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:16,360
Speaker 1: also knowing that it what what. His actions weren't directed

586
00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 1: towards me, even though it felt very personal, and I'm

587
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:22,040
Speaker 1: I'm still angry that his actions lead to the divorce,

588
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:27,120
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, we are here

589
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:29,360
Speaker 1: and this is what it is. And now I'd rather

590
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 1: be friends with him than hate him. It's easier to

591
00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:34,720
Speaker 1: be friends with him than hate him, because hating him

592
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 1: just feels bad and it's just bad for you. Again,

593
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:40,280
Speaker 1: it just comes back to it's just gonna eat you up,

594
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:41,800
Speaker 1: and what is it? What's it going to get you?

595
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 1: And I'm going to do what would Chloe do? Chloe

596
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:48,200
Speaker 1: would go to So I'm like, you want to come

597
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:50,800
Speaker 1: to soccer with us? Come on, Like, let's just what's

598
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:52,800
Speaker 1: best for the kids. What's best for the kids is

599
00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 1: that we get along. Maybe one day we have family stuff,

600
00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:57,600
Speaker 1: Like he invited me to go to the movies with them,

601
00:31:57,760 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 1: and I told you it was a little too soon.

602
00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:01,360
Speaker 1: I left and I started crying and I was like Okay,

603
00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:03,480
Speaker 1: that felt too family, Like, well, I think you have

604
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:05,040
Speaker 1: to protect yourself a little bit and take it a

605
00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:08,320
Speaker 1: little bit at a time. Yeah, and it doesn't mean

606
00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:11,239
Speaker 1: that you have to do what the Kardashians do. It

607
00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:15,040
Speaker 1: might not be that comfortable. I mean it's hopefully down

608
00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:17,360
Speaker 1: the line, like I would love, you know, to be

609
00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:20,520
Speaker 1: really close with whoever he marries or whatever, and like

610
00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:23,960
Speaker 1: I would like that, I genuinely would. Sure. Yeah, well

611
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:26,160
Speaker 1: that just takes time. I mean it's still yeah, but

612
00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:28,360
Speaker 1: maybe I just yeah, I need to I need to

613
00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 1: not rush into Let's just start with being nice to

614
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:34,080
Speaker 1: each other. I have. I have been nice and I'm

615
00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 1: just glad, which is great caught up to that. Yeah,

616
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 1: I'll just be kind and take him day by day.

617
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:41,479
Speaker 1: But I thought it was kind of funny. I was like,

618
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:46,120
Speaker 1: what would Chloe and Kim do because they just and Courtney,

619
00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:50,040
Speaker 1: Oh that's true. Well, oh that's right that Courtney. But

620
00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:54,840
Speaker 1: it's I think there's just something about forgiveness, and um, forgiving.

621
00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:58,280
Speaker 1: Forgiveness isn't for the other person, It's for you exactly,

622
00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:03,200
Speaker 1: not to like hold onto it anymore. What else, Catherine,

623
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 1: Oh my god, what I'm officially Cramer oh, yes, I

624
00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:15,240
Speaker 1: got an email from my business manager and he goes, hey,

625
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:18,480
Speaker 1: your social Security number came in your officially Cramer again,

626
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna lie. I cried no because okay,

627
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:30,000
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna get heared. Um, I cried because my

628
00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 1: kid's names, I'm not like, I'm like, those are my kids.

629
00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:36,520
Speaker 1: Like then it just felt so like separated, and I

630
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 1: fee like like that really sucked. Well, here's one way

631
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Speaker 1: to help me. Look at it from a different name.

632
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 1: Wanted to keep Cramer, not because of not wanting to

633
00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 1: take his last name, but just because obvious. You know,

634
00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:50,320
Speaker 1: you're known as Janna Kramer all that, so you had

635
00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:53,080
Speaker 1: thought about keeping that name. Anyway, it's easier to say

636
00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:55,120
Speaker 1: to the Remember times i'd say cossin ce A U

637
00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:57,880
Speaker 1: S s as in Sam I am, They're like Coffin.

638
00:33:57,960 --> 00:33:59,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god. I literally just spent two

639
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:04,400
Speaker 1: seconds spelling it up for you and then said Sam, Sam.

640
00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:08,000
Speaker 1: I can't say Sam, I said Sam. But if you

641
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:09,320
Speaker 1: would have kept it, then you would have had a

642
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:11,319
Speaker 1: different last name as your kids, but it wouldn't have

643
00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:14,920
Speaker 1: felt that would have just been normal. But then since

644
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:18,440
Speaker 1: then taking cosson, it's like okay, we were like this

645
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:21,160
Speaker 1: family even though you know, I still went by Cramer

646
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:23,960
Speaker 1: and some things just because again it was easier. But

647
00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:27,600
Speaker 1: I just think having like now having you know, the

648
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:30,480
Speaker 1: new I D and it's saying what my license still

649
00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:33,759
Speaker 1: says Costin but now that I'm officially Cramer, I don't know.

650
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 1: It just it broke my heart, just for the kid aspect,

651
00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:39,560
Speaker 1: Like they're my kids, they should have my last name.

652
00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:44,880
Speaker 1: I burst them. I know that's such like a big debate. Yeah, no,

653
00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:47,239
Speaker 1: I get it, but like I get the whole man like,

654
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 1: but at the same time, no, like I those are

655
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:55,319
Speaker 1: that they came out of my my belly. How does

656
00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:57,399
Speaker 1: he get and I have them seventy percent the time

657
00:34:57,800 --> 00:35:00,359
Speaker 1: get the last name, because I mean, this is more

658
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:02,160
Speaker 1: just like a funny debate. But I have them seventy

659
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:04,759
Speaker 1: percent in time. They came out of my vagina. Why

660
00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:07,120
Speaker 1: did we adopt the whole that they're named after the

661
00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:11,520
Speaker 1: dad's It just seems because they sperminate. I don't know,

662
00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:15,200
Speaker 1: like they come out of our bellies and we had

663
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:16,759
Speaker 1: to hold them in be sick. So I'm with you

664
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:20,239
Speaker 1: on that, Like it's not fair they should take the

665
00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:24,719
Speaker 1: woman's name. We can change them to Cramer. I guess look,

666
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:27,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be like, hey, Joela Creamer, you should change

667
00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:34,239
Speaker 1: it when you're dude. That's gonna go. Um, but yeah,

668
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 1: I don't know that, just like really that really that

669
00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:38,400
Speaker 1: hit me kind of hard. But then also I'm like,

670
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:42,239
Speaker 1: but then after I cried, I was like, I'm Cramer, Yeah,

671
00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:45,760
Speaker 1: like I've always been Cramer. And then I cried again,

672
00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:50,520
Speaker 1: and then was this all today? No, it was yesterday

673
00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:55,200
Speaker 1: when Kevin, and then um, and then after that was

674
00:35:57,080 --> 00:36:01,080
Speaker 1: my I basically like, I never change my last name

675
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:04,000
Speaker 1: ever again. No, please don't. I will never pain in

676
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:06,879
Speaker 1: the butt. Yeah, I'm never going to do it again

677
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:09,480
Speaker 1: because at this point it's like I'm already not my

678
00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:16,560
Speaker 1: kid's names, right right right, Sorry, future husband for many reasons. Sorry,

679
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go ahead and apologize now. I you know,

680
00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 1: at times, no, Janna, I happen to talk bad about myself, don't.

681
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:27,839
Speaker 1: I'm a second person? Is that second person? I am

682
00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:31,680
Speaker 1: a great wife? Yeah, you were a great wife. I

683
00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:34,640
Speaker 1: am a great wife. I wasn't. I was a great

684
00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:37,719
Speaker 1: wife to my ex. No, I wasn't perfect. I was

685
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:39,759
Speaker 1: a little passive at times. I had a hard time

686
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:41,759
Speaker 1: dealing with trust in the cheating in the affairs. But

687
00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:46,279
Speaker 1: you know what, fair, fair, fair, I would have you know.

688
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 1: But I think I'm a good wife. And to the

689
00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:53,520
Speaker 1: next person, I'm not saying sorry, I'm saying you're welcome. Yes,

690
00:36:54,480 --> 00:37:03,680
Speaker 1: you're welcome, Okay, because I am a catch. Okay, she's

691
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:11,360
Speaker 1: malliam Janna. This is amazing through it part. I mean seriously,

692
00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:13,000
Speaker 1: I'm going to have a dance party and be like,

693
00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:16,520
Speaker 1: you know what, mother efforts. I am a catch, and

694
00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 1: I am fun and I'm a good wife. And I

695
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:20,719
Speaker 1: will rub your back and I will not make you

696
00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:22,440
Speaker 1: dinner because I don't know how, but I will try.

697
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:25,360
Speaker 1: But I will get the beau a few dishes you

698
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 1: can do. I have a few. I'm a great side person.

699
00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 1: I mean like sides like I would do great size,

700
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:33,920
Speaker 1: I mean great salads. Um And I'm funny and I

701
00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:37,319
Speaker 1: like to travel. I feel like I'm filling out my

702
00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:40,440
Speaker 1: dating profile right now. I'm funny. I like to travel.

703
00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:43,160
Speaker 1: I'm very spontaneous. I like long walks on the beach.

704
00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 1: I love a sunset. Um my faults where I can

705
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:49,239
Speaker 1: look in the mirror and say, okay, I can be

706
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:51,120
Speaker 1: a little passive. But I'm learning how to do that.

707
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:54,759
Speaker 1: I'm learning how to not have you read my mind. Um,

708
00:37:55,239 --> 00:38:00,040
Speaker 1: it's impassive. We're passive aggressive. What's the difference? I me

709
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:02,640
Speaker 1: not passive aggressive, so I'm not saying yeah, okay, kettle

710
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:11,400
Speaker 1: black Wow did you say glass glass rock, like glass

711
00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:14,439
Speaker 1: house or whatever. I went to the door. Oh the door,

712
00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:16,960
Speaker 1: Oh that was that's since been shattered, by the way,

713
00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:21,320
Speaker 1: I'm still picking up pieces of the pantry door fault. Yeah, Beth,

714
00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:24,560
Speaker 1: she grabbed the bat like. I saw people's comments like, oh,

715
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 1: go gather, and I was like, oh, should I take

716
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:31,120
Speaker 1: credit for this or should I think it was not me? Um? Anyway,

717
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:34,640
Speaker 1: moving on to the fact that I'm a Cramer and

718
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:39,280
Speaker 1: my kids are not here. We go. We're going to Vegas,

719
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:42,239
Speaker 1: which I'm super excited about for the Heart Festival. I

720
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 1: cannot wait to just get dressed up and have fun.

721
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:48,360
Speaker 1: And um then a gamble wan a gamble a little bit.

722
00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:51,279
Speaker 1: Let's get fun, let's get let's just get like real

723
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:55,160
Speaker 1: fun Valium jam in Vegas. By the way, again, I

724
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:57,719
Speaker 1: do not promote valum um. This is this is just

725
00:38:57,840 --> 00:39:00,279
Speaker 1: a this is was a side effect of and I

726
00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:03,400
Speaker 1: was on my boot job that I took some By

727
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:10,719
Speaker 1: the way, I'm very happy about Stiff. You definitely seem like, okay, well,

728
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:11,840
Speaker 1: you know what, that was a great episode and I

729
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Speaker 1: can't wait to talk to you gus next week. Bye bye,