WEBVTT - The Caelynn Effect 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:04.640 Hell I Suck At Dating with Dengler and Jared Haven 0:00:04.920 --> 0:00:11.639 and I heard radio podcast What's going on Everyone? And 0:00:11.720 --> 0:00:14.960 welcome to an all new episode of help I Suck 0:00:15.200 --> 0:00:22.800 at Dating. It's Tina Lert joined by his handsome, incredible 0:00:23.120 --> 0:00:28.080 co host Jared Haven. Wow. What an intro. Bro? Yeah, 0:00:28.320 --> 0:00:32.120 how are you, Jared? I'm doing well. Uh you know. 0:00:32.159 --> 0:00:35.360 We're opening the coffee shop. Very exciting things also extremely 0:00:35.400 --> 0:00:38.440 nerve wracking, but hopefully later at October will be open. Bro, 0:00:38.520 --> 0:00:40.400 I'll have a nice coffee ready to go for you. 0:00:40.440 --> 0:00:41.920 We're gonna also try to make it like a little 0:00:41.960 --> 0:00:44.040 bit of a date spot, So anybody who's listening who's 0:00:44.040 --> 0:00:46.240 in like the Rhode Island, New England area and looking 0:00:46.240 --> 0:00:49.000 for like a cool first date spot, you should definitely 0:00:49.040 --> 0:00:51.280 check out Audrey's as longer as going on a first date, 0:00:51.320 --> 0:00:53.880 like late October early November, because if you come now, 0:00:53.960 --> 0:00:56.080 we won't be open, but we're gonna have like little 0:00:56.680 --> 0:00:59.680 uh game games that you can play at tables, like 0:00:59.720 --> 0:01:01.560 car games, so you can get to know each other better. 0:01:01.760 --> 0:01:05.360 I always still thought, like what if Dean we had 0:01:05.480 --> 0:01:10.160 like dating advice cards and it was from bachelor people, 0:01:10.240 --> 0:01:12.440 So like there's a card on the table and it's 0:01:12.480 --> 0:01:15.080 like some sort of advice from you, and it will say, 0:01:15.200 --> 0:01:17.720 you know, Dean Angler. Yeah, that's a good idea. Are 0:01:17.720 --> 0:01:20.240 you gonna try to make like a Bachelor theme present 0:01:20.360 --> 0:01:23.080 in the restaurant? Yeah, a little bit. I mean, you know, 0:01:23.160 --> 0:01:26.440 obviously Ashley and I are very aware that we owe 0:01:26.480 --> 0:01:28.920 a lot to the Bachelor franchise and we're known for it, 0:01:28.959 --> 0:01:31.480 so we want to pay homage to it. For example, 0:01:31.520 --> 0:01:34.800 there's a rose in the logo. There's gonna be certain names, uh, 0:01:34.800 --> 0:01:37.240 in the drinks or the food. We were also thinking 0:01:37.240 --> 0:01:40.000 maybe we'll name a drink, a coffee drink after you. 0:01:40.240 --> 0:01:47.440 We're thinking of Deanie's Coffee Beanies. What an honor that 0:01:47.440 --> 0:01:50.000 would be having a coffee named after me. You were 0:01:50.000 --> 0:01:53.279 the first one that came to mind, Deanie's Coffee Beanies. 0:01:53.280 --> 0:01:55.280 What about like Nick and Ben and Wells and all them? 0:01:55.320 --> 0:01:56.920 You have to do them too. Oh, of course, I'm 0:01:56.960 --> 0:01:58.840 trying to think though, Like Nick was the next person, 0:01:58.840 --> 0:02:00.280 and I was like, I can't think of an name 0:02:00.360 --> 0:02:03.360 for Nick. We're thinking maybe some sort of like bitter coffee, 0:02:03.640 --> 0:02:06.720 you know, it's a little bit drier. But then like 0:02:06.800 --> 0:02:09.320 once you see there has like a sweet after taste. 0:02:09.880 --> 0:02:17.359 M chiseled abbs somehow to obviously tattoos all over the place. Um, 0:02:17.400 --> 0:02:19.079 that's that's funny, man. I would be honored to have 0:02:19.080 --> 0:02:20.919 a drink named after me. I would have to taste 0:02:20.919 --> 0:02:23.079 test it too, and like, you know, give my my 0:02:23.160 --> 0:02:24.679 blessing on the drink, because I don't want to have 0:02:24.720 --> 0:02:26.360 like a crap not that you're gonna have crappy drinks 0:02:26.360 --> 0:02:31.200 that you'r you bite your tongue, my friend. Yeah, I 0:02:31.240 --> 0:02:33.080 was impressed by the size of the space. I was 0:02:33.080 --> 0:02:35.639 expecting it to be like a little rinky dinky coffee shop, 0:02:35.639 --> 0:02:37.760 but it's like a pretty I see. Like why lounge 0:02:37.800 --> 0:02:39.360 is part of the title that because it does feel 0:02:39.400 --> 0:02:42.440 very loungey. Yeah, very loungey. So we're excited and like 0:02:42.480 --> 0:02:44.080 I said in the Captain and I truly meant it, 0:02:44.160 --> 0:02:48.000 the the opportunity to be a business owner, uh is 0:02:48.040 --> 0:02:50.440 really cool, and especially in my home state. And I 0:02:50.480 --> 0:02:53.160 wanted to be a family owned business and family run business. 0:02:53.440 --> 0:02:56.200 So being here surrounded by family and friends that can 0:02:56.240 --> 0:02:59.200 really support and help me means a lot. Um. So 0:02:59.440 --> 0:03:02.400 I'm excited, man. But so that's what's happening in my world. 0:03:02.480 --> 0:03:05.640 What's up? Have you thought about who you're gonna like employ? Yeah? 0:03:05.680 --> 0:03:09.040 So I had actually a couple of interviews today and 0:03:09.160 --> 0:03:12.119 I actually just hired, uh, not officially, but she said 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:13.840 she was gonna take the job, which is very exciting 0:03:14.480 --> 0:03:17.760 a manager and she's fantastic. So I'm super excited to 0:03:17.760 --> 0:03:20.360 work with her. And my dad's gonna help me manage it. 0:03:20.480 --> 0:03:22.520 Like I said, I really wanted to be a family business. 0:03:22.560 --> 0:03:25.760 So he's gonna be very heavily involved in it. Ashley, 0:03:25.919 --> 0:03:27.600 you know, Ashley is gonna do what she does, which 0:03:27.639 --> 0:03:30.080 has come in and you know, shake hands and kiss 0:03:30.120 --> 0:03:33.760 babies that are not her own. Um, and uh, as 0:03:33.760 --> 0:03:36.080 long as he's as long as she's kissing hands, as 0:03:36.080 --> 0:03:38.440 long as she's not shaking babies and kissing hands, yes, 0:03:38.640 --> 0:03:42.040 flip that reverse it, but something along those lines. Uh. 0:03:42.080 --> 0:03:44.640 And it's cool. Man. I'm excited. But but how was 0:03:44.680 --> 0:03:47.240 your how was your travels? You're back in the States now, 0:03:48.160 --> 0:03:51.200 I'm in at my home in Los Angeles. It was 0:03:51.280 --> 0:03:53.720 good man. I'm I'm bummed I missed last week's episode. 0:03:54.320 --> 0:03:56.240 I was. I'm sure you filled everyone in. I was 0:03:56.240 --> 0:03:59.480 in Alaska and I did not have cellphone reception and 0:03:59.480 --> 0:04:01.160 cellphone is up and started to come by in Alaska, 0:04:01.200 --> 0:04:03.240 believe it or not. Yeah, I feel like cellphone reception 0:04:03.320 --> 0:04:05.000 is difficult to come by in a lot a lot 0:04:05.000 --> 0:04:08.040 of parts of the world. Yeah. Um, we were up 0:04:08.040 --> 0:04:10.520 at this like it didn't snow for the first like 0:04:10.520 --> 0:04:12.360 four days we were in Alaska in the very the 0:04:12.400 --> 0:04:14.120 second to last day, we got like a foot and 0:04:14.160 --> 0:04:15.680 a half and we were up at this remote cabin 0:04:16.600 --> 0:04:19.240 and uh, we didn't get stuck, but it definitely like 0:04:19.279 --> 0:04:23.560 delayed our departure and arrival to Anchorage or while Cila, 0:04:23.560 --> 0:04:25.640 I guess it is where we were. Uh. Last time 0:04:25.640 --> 0:04:27.480 I talked to you, guys, we did a double header 0:04:27.520 --> 0:04:29.760 from Greece and then obviously after that, Kalin and I 0:04:29.800 --> 0:04:32.719 went to Italy. Oh wait, no, I did record an 0:04:32.720 --> 0:04:34.640 episode from Italy. Yeah, we were in the the Dolomites. That 0:04:34.680 --> 0:04:37.200 was when we had hand on Um, right, that's right, 0:04:37.240 --> 0:04:38.800 that's right. So yeah, so I talked to you from Italy. 0:04:38.839 --> 0:04:41.440 Italy was amazing. Italy was the most expensive trip I've 0:04:41.480 --> 0:04:43.120 ever been on my life, but it was worth every penny. 0:04:43.160 --> 0:04:45.880 We had an amazing time. Um. I definitely gained like 0:04:45.880 --> 0:04:48.360 twenty pounds of just eating spaghetti and drinking beer every 0:04:48.400 --> 0:04:50.840 single day, do you find that the food taste better? 0:04:51.080 --> 0:04:53.440 It was so good, man. Every you would like find 0:04:53.440 --> 0:04:55.960 like a crappy looking little restaurant, the restaurant a pezzria 0:04:56.040 --> 0:04:57.840 as they were everywhere, and you're like, this food is 0:04:57.839 --> 0:04:58.800 not gonna be good, and then you get it and 0:04:58.839 --> 0:05:00.520 you're like, oh my gosh, that was the best spaghetti 0:05:00.520 --> 0:05:03.080 I've ever had in my entire life. Um As, I'm 0:05:03.080 --> 0:05:06.560 sure you can attest too, because you were in Positano. Yeah, 0:05:06.960 --> 0:05:10.000 oh my gosh, man, everything so so good. I love 0:05:10.040 --> 0:05:12.120 Italy like we definitely. I think I talked about this 0:05:12.240 --> 0:05:14.960 last time I was on the podcast, but Caylin and 0:05:15.040 --> 0:05:17.440 I are really strongly considering, like when we move abroad, 0:05:17.560 --> 0:05:19.560 to to consider living in Italy for like six months. 0:05:19.560 --> 0:05:21.760 It's just so beautiful there, just like a nice little 0:05:21.760 --> 0:05:27.800 way of living. You say, move abroad, Yeah, Kyle and 0:05:27.800 --> 0:05:30.159 I we've talked about this before. Caylin and I have 0:05:30.240 --> 0:05:34.640 always wanted to live. Are serious, Yeah, oh dead serious. 0:05:34.680 --> 0:05:38.640 We've decided. We agreed mutually when Pappy dies is when 0:05:38.680 --> 0:05:42.440 we'll finally move abroad. So don't put that thought into 0:05:42.560 --> 0:05:46.600 my head. I'm like emotionally wrecked now thinking about that. 0:05:46.800 --> 0:05:51.160 Oh no, Pappy's dying soon. He's like, what we keep 0:05:51.200 --> 0:05:53.920 taking We keep taking him the doctors because he keeps 0:05:53.920 --> 0:05:58.600 at acting like really strange, and every doctor like diagnoses him. 0:05:58.920 --> 0:06:02.640 It's actually a very concerned Well. He said that him 0:06:02.640 --> 0:06:05.640 and Kaylin are going to move abroad when Peppy dies, 0:06:05.800 --> 0:06:09.000 and he thinks that Peppy might you know, Pep, it 0:06:09.080 --> 0:06:13.000 might happen sooner rather than later. I know, I'm more 0:06:13.000 --> 0:06:17.840 concerned about Pappy than the house. But he's Pepp He's 0:06:17.839 --> 0:06:21.240 got many good years. Pappy's twelve. He was just diagnosed 0:06:21.279 --> 0:06:25.520 at dementia. Uh, and I don't mean to laugh. Yeah, 0:06:25.520 --> 0:06:27.960 it's a dogge has dementia. It's funny. Well, the poor thing, 0:06:28.000 --> 0:06:30.520 Peppi's got dementia. He's got dementia. He's got like a 0:06:30.560 --> 0:06:34.080 brain tumor. He's got a heart murmur. He's got all 0:06:34.160 --> 0:06:39.559 these issues. So all Pappy, he's the sweetest soul ever. 0:06:40.120 --> 0:06:43.479 He's gonna die soon, and uh, you know, we're hoping 0:06:43.520 --> 0:06:46.479 to give him a good couple last months, years, whatever 0:06:46.520 --> 0:06:48.200 it takes. But once that happens, we want to live 0:06:48.240 --> 0:06:50.719 in Italy. We maybe want to try to liveing in Japan. 0:06:50.800 --> 0:06:52.680 We want to try to live in South America. UM. 0:06:52.880 --> 0:06:54.280 I know it's not as easy as you saying, yeah, 0:06:54.279 --> 0:06:55.640 we want to go try living these places. There's a 0:06:55.680 --> 0:06:58.760 lot of like hoops you have to jump through, but uh, 0:06:58.920 --> 0:07:00.880 for like short term live I think we could just 0:07:00.920 --> 0:07:03.360 do like two three month stints in each of those places. 0:07:03.400 --> 0:07:04.760 And Italy is high up on the list. Now we 0:07:04.800 --> 0:07:07.120 loved at least so much. But but yeah, I got 0:07:07.160 --> 0:07:09.320 back from Italy and flew straight to Alaska and started 0:07:09.360 --> 0:07:12.280 Scott Having Alaska. And it was crazy Scott having Alaska 0:07:12.320 --> 0:07:16.680 because we you know, we were Scott having just outside 0:07:16.680 --> 0:07:18.520 of the d Nali National Park. You can't Scott in 0:07:18.520 --> 0:07:21.200 the actual national park. Um. But the people that were 0:07:21.200 --> 0:07:23.320 like flying us up and like taking us to altitude 0:07:23.360 --> 0:07:25.400 and like the lodge that we were landing at, I 0:07:25.480 --> 0:07:27.240 like asked and the guy was like, yeah, like I've 0:07:27.280 --> 0:07:28.920 lived here for you know, thirty five years, and I've 0:07:28.920 --> 0:07:30.680 never seen anyone skydive here. So like in our heads 0:07:30.680 --> 0:07:32.400 were like, we're the first people to ever skydive in 0:07:32.400 --> 0:07:34.200 this area, which is like super cool to think about. 0:07:34.840 --> 0:07:37.560 It's also quite terrifying to think about. Yeah, well yeah, 0:07:37.600 --> 0:07:39.880 it's for a reason. I had my closest near death experience. 0:07:40.240 --> 0:07:41.960 The first day we were out there, I like slipped 0:07:42.000 --> 0:07:44.520 off the airplane as I was calling out the door, uh, 0:07:44.520 --> 0:07:46.600 and my head was like six inches away from smacking 0:07:46.600 --> 0:07:48.840 the tail of the airplane, which would have probably like 0:07:48.880 --> 0:07:50.480 ripped my head off, and it probably would have killed 0:07:50.480 --> 0:07:52.640 the pilot too, because like you know, he wouldn't had 0:07:52.920 --> 0:07:55.360 had a tail on the airplane anymore. So that was 0:07:55.400 --> 0:07:59.280 pretty terrifying. Um. Colombia, Uh, they were like, yeah, we 0:07:59.320 --> 0:08:01.480 have this new uh gear we want you to like 0:08:01.560 --> 0:08:03.200 do a sponsored post with and I was like, perfect, 0:08:03.240 --> 0:08:05.280 I'll wear it in Alaska. And so I like was 0:08:05.320 --> 0:08:09.520 head to toe in this Columbia gear and it's so cold. Um, 0:08:09.600 --> 0:08:12.440 when you're skydiving Alaska. Obviously we're like like ten thousand 0:08:12.520 --> 0:08:15.480 feet and the air temperature was like five degrees, but 0:08:15.520 --> 0:08:17.200 then with the windshill it got down to like minus 0:08:17.240 --> 0:08:21.280 fifteen degrees, and UM, it's just it's such a brutal 0:08:21.280 --> 0:08:22.960 thing because it's like you're, you know, you're about to 0:08:23.040 --> 0:08:24.440 jump out of an airplane and you're like, Okay, I 0:08:24.440 --> 0:08:26.120 just want to make sure like I can pull the 0:08:26.120 --> 0:08:27.600 things I need to pull, Like I can't really feel 0:08:27.640 --> 0:08:30.480 my fingers, so you like jump, you pull your parachute 0:08:30.760 --> 0:08:33.120 and then you're just in the air for another probably 0:08:33.160 --> 0:08:34.800 three or four minutes. As you float down to the ground, 0:08:34.840 --> 0:08:37.120 and it's like your fingers start to freeze and like 0:08:37.200 --> 0:08:40.640 it just becomes like unbearably cold. Um. But it was 0:08:40.679 --> 0:08:43.120 a great experience. And if anyone is everything about Scott 0:08:43.120 --> 0:08:44.880 having Alaska, I don't know why you would be thinking 0:08:44.880 --> 0:08:47.319 about that, but I highly recommend it. So what is 0:08:47.320 --> 0:08:49.560 it about Alaska that makes it so appealing? Seeing how 0:08:49.640 --> 0:08:53.880 you're freezing to death while plummeting towards their earth. You know, 0:08:53.960 --> 0:08:55.199 it's just I think it's one of those things like 0:08:55.280 --> 0:08:57.680 human nature. To be the first people to do something 0:08:57.800 --> 0:09:01.400 is pretty cool. I'm sure people have sky dive there before, 0:09:01.720 --> 0:09:03.680 maybe like around the area, but like, you know, to 0:09:03.679 --> 0:09:04.840 be one of the few people that have done it, 0:09:04.840 --> 0:09:08.600 it's pretty cool. Um. And just like the view, so 0:09:08.720 --> 0:09:11.520 like you're you know, you're basically right above the NWY 0:09:11.600 --> 0:09:14.040 National Park and now he is the tallest mountain north America. 0:09:14.200 --> 0:09:17.600 So it's like just stunning views and there's like a 0:09:17.600 --> 0:09:20.760 beautiful blue alpine lake right below you. It's funny actually 0:09:20.760 --> 0:09:22.160 one of the second jump. So the first jump, I 0:09:22.160 --> 0:09:24.520 almost died because I slipped off the airplane. Terrifying. When 0:09:24.520 --> 0:09:28.640 he slipped off the airplane, you just like casually say 0:09:28.720 --> 0:09:32.079 these things and you're like, yeah, I was slipped out 0:09:32.080 --> 0:09:34.040 of the airplane. It was nothing. I was ten thousand 0:09:34.080 --> 0:09:36.679 feet and I tripped, I said, I shared that. I 0:09:36.679 --> 0:09:38.480 guess my WiFi must have cut out at this point. 0:09:38.480 --> 0:09:41.120 It was the closest I've ever been to dying. I 0:09:41.840 --> 0:09:44.000 was crawling out of the airplane. You know, there are 0:09:44.000 --> 0:09:45.680 planes like ninety miles an hour or whatever it is, 0:09:45.679 --> 0:09:47.240 and we were trying to get the door. He was 0:09:47.240 --> 0:09:50.720 trying to get more open pretty slow, right, that's so slow. 0:09:51.000 --> 0:09:54.520 A commercial airline goes like five miles per hour. Right. Well, 0:09:54.520 --> 0:09:56.720 it's just like a little cessna. So it's just like 0:09:57.040 --> 0:09:59.880 hanging on its last limb. It's the Poppies of planes, 0:10:00.679 --> 0:10:04.160 all right. It's the plane has dementia to um. Well, 0:10:04.320 --> 0:10:06.160 you know, the pilot goes as slow as you possibly 0:10:06.200 --> 0:10:08.439 can to like make it like do a bolt to 0:10:08.440 --> 0:10:10.080 get out there, but like you can't go much slower 0:10:10.080 --> 0:10:12.319 than that. Otherwise the plane with stall and I was 0:10:12.320 --> 0:10:14.760 getting out of the door, and I couldn't get the 0:10:14.760 --> 0:10:16.960 door open because it was so windy, and as I 0:10:17.000 --> 0:10:18.760 was crawling out, the door like shut on me, and 0:10:18.760 --> 0:10:22.360 I like slipped off the airplane and I fell backwards 0:10:22.360 --> 0:10:24.000 off the airplane and I almost hit the tail of 0:10:24.000 --> 0:10:27.040 their airplane going ninety mile, so like my head missed 0:10:27.040 --> 0:10:28.720 it by like six inches, and like if I had 0:10:28.760 --> 0:10:32.000 hit it, I would have probably got de capitated and 0:10:32.200 --> 0:10:34.680 the and the pilot would have died too, because like 0:10:34.679 --> 0:10:36.320 he wouldn't have had a tail on the airplane. So 0:10:36.720 --> 0:10:41.760 very close to killing myself there. Fortunately I escaped that injury. Um. 0:10:41.800 --> 0:10:45.920 But the second jump, uh, that was the same day. Yeah, 0:10:45.920 --> 0:10:48.000 So later that day I did a second jump and 0:10:48.040 --> 0:10:49.360 we took the door off, so I was able to 0:10:49.360 --> 0:10:51.640 get out of everything easily. But I had this this 0:10:51.800 --> 0:10:53.840 camera mount on my helmet that like it's like a 0:10:53.880 --> 0:10:56.000 six inch stick with the camera on top of it, 0:10:56.040 --> 0:10:58.800 just to like add a little bit better perspective. And 0:10:59.000 --> 0:11:03.319 as I opened up my parachute, the the lines are 0:11:03.360 --> 0:11:05.520 like the thing the parachute that's connected to me like 0:11:05.600 --> 0:11:08.600 wrapped around the camera, and so it like ripped the 0:11:08.640 --> 0:11:11.000 camera off my head, which I'm very fortunate ripped off 0:11:11.080 --> 0:11:12.920 rather than like getting fully tangled, because that would be 0:11:13.040 --> 0:11:15.160 really bad. But they ripped the camera off my head 0:11:15.240 --> 0:11:18.559 and then, uh the camera felt seven thousand feet down 0:11:18.559 --> 0:11:22.040 to the ground and didn't wrap around your neck. Well yeah, 0:11:22.120 --> 0:11:23.880 it wouldn't wrap around the neck, but it like it 0:11:23.960 --> 0:11:27.000 is like a pretty pretty scary snag point. Um, I 0:11:27.000 --> 0:11:29.280 got lucky that I didn't just like wrap around and 0:11:29.360 --> 0:11:32.960 stay there. You know, how does Kalin feel about all this? 0:11:33.520 --> 0:11:35.880 There's no way she's okay with it. There's no way. 0:11:36.679 --> 0:11:38.400 I think it's just like a blissal ignorance, you know, 0:11:38.400 --> 0:11:39.920 like I kind of tell her the things that she 0:11:39.960 --> 0:11:42.080 needs to know and I kind of keep the scary 0:11:42.120 --> 0:11:44.120 stuff out of it most of the time. I mean, 0:11:44.160 --> 0:11:47.360 have you told her these stories? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 0:11:47.400 --> 0:11:49.240 I've actually got a picture too though. All uh, I 0:11:49.280 --> 0:11:51.360 was gonna post the TikTok because the first time and 0:11:51.360 --> 0:11:54.400 I almost killed myself. I hauled the camera so you 0:11:54.440 --> 0:12:00.040 can see very clearly like what happened. Um, but yeah, she, 0:12:00.360 --> 0:12:02.320 you know, she she she knows what I like it, 0:12:02.360 --> 0:12:05.040 and I think that's what she is okay with. She 0:12:05.120 --> 0:12:07.000 says that if I'm having fun, that's all that matters. 0:12:07.640 --> 0:12:10.880 Are you having fun? Are these need near dear near 0:12:10.960 --> 0:12:13.880 death experience is fun? I mean I can understand obviously, 0:12:14.320 --> 0:12:17.040 you know, jumping out of planes and skydiving and doing 0:12:17.040 --> 0:12:19.200 all that in the adrenaline rush. But like when you're 0:12:19.240 --> 0:12:21.520 talking about, yeah, we're gonna be the first people ever 0:12:21.600 --> 0:12:23.840 jumping out of a plane going ninety miles per hour 0:12:24.240 --> 0:12:27.640 over Alaska when it's zero degrees outside. Oh, by the way, 0:12:27.679 --> 0:12:30.040 the door because it's so windy, the door slammed on me. 0:12:30.160 --> 0:12:33.120 I fell outside almost decapitated myself. It's like, all right, 0:12:33.160 --> 0:12:35.040 there's a line. There's a line, and I think you're 0:12:35.080 --> 0:12:37.760 stepping over at my friend. That's pretty cool though, Like 0:12:37.800 --> 0:12:39.920 that you summarize that really well, and I think I'm 0:12:39.960 --> 0:12:43.480 even more excited after hearing you summarize it. Um what 0:12:43.800 --> 0:12:45.439 So the guys that I was with two they want 0:12:45.440 --> 0:12:48.520 to go back next summer over they want to fly 0:12:48.600 --> 0:12:52.360 helicopter over Dnally and like wingsuit down the side of 0:12:52.440 --> 0:12:55.600 Dnally and then land in the area where is in Alaska. 0:12:56.400 --> 0:12:59.040 Dnale is the tallest mount in North America? Got it? Yes? Okay, 0:12:59.440 --> 0:13:03.839 clarifying I was never very good. Uh yeah, that's well. 0:13:03.840 --> 0:13:05.800 Now you'll know that answer whenever you get it. Well, 0:13:05.800 --> 0:13:08.600 I hope it's a clue tonight. Yeah, yeah, Y'll be 0:13:08.640 --> 0:13:12.800 ready for it. Yeah. Um. I will say though, while 0:13:12.800 --> 0:13:15.080 I was, I'm always terrified. Every time before I skied, 0:13:15.080 --> 0:13:17.440 I have like terrified, and this time, for some reason, 0:13:17.480 --> 0:13:19.440 I wasn't. I think I was because I was so 0:13:19.520 --> 0:13:21.800 cold and because it was so beautiful out there, So 0:13:21.840 --> 0:13:24.280 I wasn't as scared this time, even though I almost 0:13:24.320 --> 0:13:26.840 killed myself. But that's fine, but I didn't, So it's okay. 0:13:27.920 --> 0:13:29.520 I don't even know how the hell the segway out 0:13:29.520 --> 0:13:31.840 of this one. Um. Well, we we do have some 0:13:31.880 --> 0:13:36.600 hot topics coming up, uh celebrity hot gossips. Not about 0:13:36.960 --> 0:13:41.800 Dean Decapitate decapitating himself. We have a bachelor relationship that 0:13:41.880 --> 0:13:47.520 unfortunately ended again uh this week. Uh you know, Uh, well, 0:13:47.559 --> 0:13:49.280 I'll tease it. I'll tease it afterwards in case you 0:13:49.280 --> 0:13:51.800 guys don't know. There was a bachelor relationship, a high 0:13:51.800 --> 0:13:55.600 profile one that did end this week and they broke up. 0:13:55.640 --> 0:13:59.480 They've broken up before, unfortunately. We also have some tea 0:13:59.600 --> 0:14:03.400 about Will Smith being in an open relationship, which I 0:14:03.440 --> 0:14:06.920 feel like I've heard rumors about that for ten years, 0:14:06.960 --> 0:14:08.920 that Will Smith and Jada Pickett Smith are in an 0:14:08.920 --> 0:14:12.160 open relationship, but now apparently he has confirmed it. We 0:14:12.240 --> 0:14:16.600 also have some more hot topics about Jennifer Anderston, who 0:14:16.600 --> 0:14:19.120 we know is a big Bachelor fan. Uh, talking about 0:14:19.240 --> 0:14:21.800 getting back into the dating world. So make sure you 0:14:21.800 --> 0:14:23.560 stay tuned for that. We're going to get into it 0:14:23.720 --> 0:14:36.120 after the small brain. All right, welcome back to help 0:14:36.160 --> 0:14:39.680 I second dating. As I t s prior to our 0:14:40.280 --> 0:14:43.520 break there was a bachelor relationship that did come to 0:14:43.560 --> 0:14:45.640 an end once again. And I say once again because 0:14:45.640 --> 0:14:47.560 they've broken up before and now they broke up again 0:14:48.120 --> 0:14:53.000 Dale Moss and Claire Crawley and did their relationship and quote, 0:14:54.080 --> 0:14:56.360 it's for good this time. So I'll give you a 0:14:56.400 --> 0:14:59.360 little bit of a synopsis. Is that what you're asking for? Yeah, 0:14:59.400 --> 0:15:01.280 I was gonna say, catch me up to speak. All right, 0:15:01.320 --> 0:15:04.440 here we go. So the bachelorettes Dale Moss and Claire Crawley, 0:15:04.440 --> 0:15:08.240 of course have split up once again, and apparently it's 0:15:08.240 --> 0:15:11.640 for good this time. So back in January, the couple 0:15:11.880 --> 0:15:15.000 who met, of course on ABC's sixteenth season of the 0:15:15.000 --> 0:15:19.120 Bachelorette before Tasha took over, broke off their engagement after 0:15:19.240 --> 0:15:22.160 a world win of a romance now. A source told 0:15:22.360 --> 0:15:25.120 the Page six article, which is what I'm reading from 0:15:25.160 --> 0:15:28.000 that at the time, that the pair couldn't agree on 0:15:28.080 --> 0:15:30.840 some major issues like which state to live in and 0:15:30.880 --> 0:15:33.600 how soon to start having kids. Do you remember that, 0:15:33.680 --> 0:15:37.640 Dean when she on National TV and Chris was interviewing 0:15:37.680 --> 0:15:40.240 Dale and Claire, and then Chris was like, so, what's 0:15:40.280 --> 0:15:43.520 next for you guys, and She's like, babies, babies, Yeah, 0:15:43.560 --> 0:15:47.200 I remember. So I'm curious if he was just like, hey, 0:15:47.280 --> 0:15:48.920 let's hold off for a couple of years, and she's like, 0:15:48.960 --> 0:15:51.760 I want kids now, which I I don't blame Claire honestly, 0:15:51.880 --> 0:15:55.360 She's I feel like, been pretty much upfront, UH this 0:15:55.560 --> 0:15:59.040 entire time with all of her relationships throughout her time 0:15:59.040 --> 0:16:01.720 of The Bachelor, which has been I want kids. I 0:16:01.760 --> 0:16:05.320 want a family immediately now. So if you're gonna date me, 0:16:05.480 --> 0:16:07.560 you better be ready for it too. So I actually 0:16:07.600 --> 0:16:09.560 don't blame her in that aspect, even if she kind 0:16:09.560 --> 0:16:12.400 of was a little eager in that moment. So I 0:16:12.400 --> 0:16:15.520 I digress. The former NFL player Dale, I wonder which 0:16:15.560 --> 0:16:17.720 team he played for? Uh said he did not play 0:16:17.760 --> 0:16:19.480 for the NFL, did he really? I don't know it 0:16:19.520 --> 0:16:21.640 says here that the former NFL player, I think he 0:16:21.760 --> 0:16:24.400 might have been a practice squad guy. I don't want 0:16:24.400 --> 0:16:26.920 to like say he was practice squad. If he actually 0:16:26.920 --> 0:16:30.240 made the team, who knows. But anyway, Dale said at 0:16:30.280 --> 0:16:33.600 the time, building a relationship in general is tough, especially 0:16:33.600 --> 0:16:35.320 when you're doing it in the public eye, and the 0:16:35.360 --> 0:16:37.920 media will take things and run with them. People will 0:16:37.920 --> 0:16:40.880 spread lies or always want to point the finger. But 0:16:40.960 --> 0:16:43.600 the fact of the matter is there's no one person 0:16:43.640 --> 0:16:46.640 to blame in this situation. But by February, of course 0:16:46.680 --> 0:16:50.360 we all know they reconciled and were spotted together in Venice, Florida. 0:16:50.640 --> 0:16:53.640 They were soon seen smooch in in New York, and 0:16:53.720 --> 0:16:58.080 by April Dale told the Hollywood Podcast that he and 0:16:58.440 --> 0:17:00.760 Claire were in a good play. I remember that because 0:17:00.760 --> 0:17:02.720 he didn't confirm if they were dating or not. He said, 0:17:02.720 --> 0:17:05.840 we're definitely taking time and spending time together. But the 0:17:05.880 --> 0:17:09.480 Insider on Monday apparently said that Dale and Claire have 0:17:09.560 --> 0:17:13.040 split again. This time it's good. It did not end well? 0:17:14.040 --> 0:17:17.560 Uh so are I mean? My first question, Dean, are 0:17:17.600 --> 0:17:24.760 you shocked by this news? I? I am shocked. I Well, 0:17:24.760 --> 0:17:26.600 how do you feel about it? Well? I got there. 0:17:26.600 --> 0:17:29.680 My thoughts, I I guess I'm shocked about how quickly 0:17:30.040 --> 0:17:34.360 it ended, because you know they when was her season 0:17:34.640 --> 0:17:38.120 when they start, so last October September somewhere around there, 0:17:38.200 --> 0:17:45.040 I believe. Okay, Ashley the Bachelor informant told me that 0:17:45.119 --> 0:17:48.000 she they were engaged in August, so I'm maybe the 0:17:48.080 --> 0:17:50.240 dating for a couple of months ended in February, got 0:17:50.280 --> 0:17:52.000 back together and have been dating for a couple of 0:17:52.000 --> 0:17:54.000 months ever since. So you would imagine that after the 0:17:54.040 --> 0:17:56.400 first break up, if they got back together, especially being 0:17:56.400 --> 0:17:58.639 in the public eye like Dale talks about, they'd have 0:17:58.680 --> 0:18:00.639 a little bit stronger ever found nation and have a 0:18:00.640 --> 0:18:02.560 pretty good idea that they want to move forward with 0:18:02.560 --> 0:18:04.760 this and kind of take you know, some time and 0:18:04.800 --> 0:18:08.560 really figure out, I don't know, really invest in this relationship. 0:18:08.600 --> 0:18:10.439 And I guess after a couple of months, I just 0:18:10.480 --> 0:18:12.639 figured that it's not going to work out. I do 0:18:12.720 --> 0:18:14.720 feel bad for Claire Claire as her friend, she's a 0:18:14.760 --> 0:18:17.879 really good person. I like Claire a lot, uh you 0:18:17.960 --> 0:18:20.200 know I I I want her to find a man. 0:18:20.440 --> 0:18:22.639 I both Ashley and I were very excited when she 0:18:22.680 --> 0:18:25.840 became the bachelorette. You know, she's been through this thing 0:18:26.040 --> 0:18:28.560 a few times. We've kind of grown with Claire Crawley 0:18:28.640 --> 0:18:31.080 a little bit, from her time talking, you know, on 0:18:31.160 --> 0:18:33.920 Juan Pablo to talking to the raccoon on Paradise to 0:18:34.000 --> 0:18:37.159 ultimately becoming the bachelorette. So I think we're very hopeful 0:18:37.240 --> 0:18:39.240 that she was going to find her man, and unfortunately 0:18:39.240 --> 0:18:41.960 it doesn't appear that that's the case. So hopefully she 0:18:42.000 --> 0:18:43.760 just finds a guy outside the Bachelor, That's what I 0:18:43.800 --> 0:18:46.359 really hope. I'll tell you exactly what happened. I I 0:18:46.640 --> 0:18:49.040 I appreciate you divulging all that because it gave me 0:18:49.080 --> 0:18:51.800 time to collect my thoughts anytime. I know exactly, I 0:18:51.840 --> 0:18:55.320 know exactly what happened. This is what happened everyone, And yeah, 0:18:55.320 --> 0:18:57.119 I'm gonna speak very matter of factly because that's just 0:18:57.160 --> 0:18:59.320 how confident I am in this assessment that I'm about 0:18:59.359 --> 0:19:03.639 to make. So they Dale and Claire got engaged after that, 0:19:03.760 --> 0:19:06.399