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Speaker 1: I destroyed my ex boyfriend's family heirloom maybe worth over

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Speaker 1: one million dollars, but he deserved it.

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Speaker 2: Am I the a hole?

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Speaker 3: You know? I always say that when it comes to

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Speaker 3: the people I love, I want to destroy the everything

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Speaker 3: that they love, burn it to the ground.

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Speaker 1: I was with set X for nearly five years we

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Speaker 1: were engaged. At some point during a relationship, his mom

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Speaker 1: gave me her grandma's fur coat. It was something she

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Speaker 1: saved up for and treasured, but no one else in

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Speaker 1: because Grandma skinny or Grandma's huge. She like Grandma, made

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Speaker 1: Grandma fit, Grandma fit, Grandma fit. My mom is a

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Speaker 1: master seamstress. She used to go to antique stores all

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Speaker 1: the time and look for fur coats, and she would

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Speaker 1: turn them into these incredible, beautiful teddy bears. I told

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Speaker 1: my ex's family that I would never wear this coat

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Speaker 1: and that it would likely sit in a closet for

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Speaker 1: the rest of my life, and asked if I could

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Speaker 1: instead have my mom turn it into a bear and

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Speaker 1: give it new life.

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Speaker 2: What the fuck is that request? Are you fucking crazy?

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Speaker 1: Let me take this priceless family heirloom from my grandmother

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Speaker 1: and disfigure it and turn it into a fucking bear.

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Speaker 3: Because here's the thing. Here's the thing. You really have

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Speaker 3: two paths. Path one is to sell it and take

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Speaker 3: the money, but you no longer have like this memory

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Speaker 3: of the heirloom in the family. Option two, keep it

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Speaker 3: and put it in a shelf, and you're literally never

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Speaker 3: gonna say it. Maybe like once every few years, you're

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Speaker 3: like walking down memories lane, but like probably not.

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Speaker 2: The answer was no.

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Speaker 1: They were fine that I would never wear it, and

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Speaker 1: still wanted me to have it since there was at

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Speaker 1: least the possibility that maybe someday I would wear it,

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Speaker 1: and I was again told that no one else in

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Speaker 1: the family wanted it. So it's like, hey, we want

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Speaker 1: to give this to you for storage.

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Speaker 3: That's why I'm like, it's actually a kind of stale.

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Speaker 3: It's you creative idea.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It's like someone gives you a piano, your grandmother's piano.

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Speaker 1: It'd be like, hey, I'm never going to play piano.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know how to play piano, so can

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Speaker 1: I like use it as firewood. It took me a

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Speaker 1: long time to realize that my ex was actually incredibly

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Speaker 1: emotionally abusive to me. It got to the point where

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Speaker 1: I truly believed that I was an awful person and

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Speaker 1: he was a saint for putting up with me, and

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Speaker 1: that no one would ever love me except for him.

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Speaker 1: He had slowly chipped away at my self worth and

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Speaker 1: alienated all my friends and most of my family. We

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Speaker 1: had a dog together. Technically speaking, it was his dog,

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Speaker 1: since he was home all the time working on his

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Speaker 1: master's degree. However, the dog and I bonded and we

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Speaker 1: were both equally terrified of him. He would get into

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Speaker 1: these fits of rage, and the dog and I would

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Speaker 1: just huddle together. When we finally broke up, he was

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Speaker 1: adamant that I not keep the dog, but could give

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Speaker 1: her to my parents. After talking to my parents, we

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Speaker 1: they would give the dog back to me. He moved out,

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Speaker 1: took his stuff, gave me his apartment key, and we

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Speaker 1: both moved on. I got my dog back, Hey, that's something.

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Speaker 1: Somehow he found out I had the dog again and

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 1: He nearly broke into my apartment trying to get her

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Speaker 1: get rid of this man for good, I should just

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Speaker 1: give up the dog. I decided, for my peace and

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Speaker 1: safety and mental health to give him the dog so

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Speaker 1: Losing the dog broke my heart. I found out later

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Speaker 1: through a nasty email he sent that his mother had

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Speaker 1: prompted him to take the dog from me, and that

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Speaker 1: so he took the dog back to just give it away.

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Speaker 3: And I think this guy is just a idiot, vindictive

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Speaker 3: guy who's just like I just want you to feel pain.

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Speaker 2: I want this dude to feel pain.

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Speaker 3: That's the same.

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Speaker 1: So it wasn't long after this that I realized the

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Speaker 1: fur coat was still in my closet and that he

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Speaker 1: had my mom turn it into a Teddy Bear boom.

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Speaker 1: To me, it symbolized something horrible could be used to

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Speaker 1: make something new and beautiful. Six months later, he contacted

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Speaker 1: me asking if I still had the fur coat. I

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Speaker 1: had with him? So am I the a hole for

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Speaker 1: repurposing my ex's family heirloom.

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Speaker 3: At the end of the day, who's it really hurting

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Speaker 3: other than kind of like the memory of the dead

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Speaker 3: Garamma Grandma, you know, shout out to Grandma's ghost.

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Speaker 1: Grandma's ghost is furious, Like Grandma's ghost just had another

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Speaker 3: Ghosts damn it, double ghost, double ghosted. Think about all

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Speaker 3: the vindictive revenge one could have against an act, especially

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Speaker 3: one that sounds as evil as this one is.

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Speaker 1: This is like very tame, I would say, for sure

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Speaker 1: on the tame side of X revenge. That being said,

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Speaker 1: I'm just thinking if one of my ex girlfriends left

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Speaker 1: a family heirloom in my closet and I turned it

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Speaker 1: into a fucking teddy bear, I think it's still an

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Speaker 1: a hole move because it was done just out of

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Speaker 1: cure vindictiveness.

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Speaker 3: The boyfriend, obviously, he's a hole, a.

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Speaker 2: Massive, massive a hole. I think OP is a little

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Speaker 2: tiny a.

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Speaker 3: Hole for this. I think I think you brought me

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Speaker 3: a little.

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Speaker 1: Tiny a hole, a tiny a hole move. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: what do you think do you think OP is the

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Speaker 1: a hole even like just even a little bit. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: let us know the comments. Also, what is the uh,

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Speaker 1: the worst revenge that is either there that has either

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Speaker 2: I want to hear your revenge stories.

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Speaker 3: Big revenge stories. Please share with those.

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Speaker 2: Yes, all right, and we'll see you in the next one.

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Speaker 4: Love you.

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Speaker 3: My brother slept with my girlfriend, so on canceling my

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Speaker 3: daughter's wedding. I'm forty six mail and my brother is

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Speaker 3: forty eight Mail. When I was twenty, my then girlfriend

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Speaker 3: cheated on me with my brother. I was heartbroken and pissed.

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Speaker 3: I told him he is no longer my brother. Despite

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Speaker 3: told him that I will never again be in the

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Speaker 3: same place he is. If the family wishes to invite

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Speaker 3: both of us, then they should just invite him, as

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Speaker 3: I'm the one giving the ultimatum.

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Speaker 5: That's fair, I think.

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Speaker 6: If you're going to be like unreasonable and be like

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Speaker 6: I'm cutting him off from everything, yeah, you shouldn't insist

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Speaker 3: My daughter is getting married in spring next year, and

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Speaker 3: in our culture, both parents are paying for the wedding.

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Speaker 3: Fifty to fifty. Unexpectedly, my daughter sat me down and

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Speaker 3: told me that she will be inviting my brother and

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Speaker 3: his family. He married my cheating x oh. Wait, I

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Speaker 3: didn't realize that he married the cheating x oh.

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Speaker 5: God, so that means that he would always have to

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Speaker 5: see him at events.

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Speaker 3: That makes so much more sense.

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Speaker 1: God, that's like a knife every time.

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Speaker 2: You see him.

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Speaker 3: I can understand.

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Speaker 1: It's like one thing to cheat and then it just

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Speaker 1: like like they like they cheat once and then they

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Speaker 1: never see each other again, or they cheat and like

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Speaker 1: they're unhappy, but to be happy with the person Chad

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Speaker 1: bad bad.

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Speaker 6: Bad yikes, because then you know, like it's not like

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Speaker 6: a like oh maybe there was just some attraction but

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Speaker 6: no feelings. So that's like they had feelings for your brother.

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Speaker 6: It's like the double attraction. Yeah literally, yeah, like a

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Speaker 6: sexual attraction like.

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Speaker 3: Yeah it was a one time thing whatever, yeah yeah yeah.

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Speaker 5: Like I feel like it's.

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Speaker 3: Like I didn't love you. I loved your brother.

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Speaker 1: Like the better version of the yeah yeah you're cool,

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Speaker 1: but like your brother's better, so I hate you goodbye.

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Speaker 1: Is it an older brother or younger brother, because if

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Speaker 1: it's an older.

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Speaker 3: I feel like it's his older brother.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, because that's like you're like, like you look

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Speaker 4: up to your older brother.

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Speaker 2: Oh man.

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Speaker 3: Now, apparently my daughter was seeing them for the last

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Speaker 3: four years and built a relationship with them behind my back.

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Speaker 3: With the brother, the cheating brother. It's like the daughter's

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Speaker 3: cheating and this is this is the kick in the gun.

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Speaker 3: She even wants the cousin from the cheaters to be

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Speaker 6: Part of me thinks though that kids shouldn't be punished

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Speaker 6: for the wrongdoing of the parents.

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Speaker 2: True.

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Speaker 3: True, But then then it's.

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Speaker 6: Kind of messed up. I'm like, absolutely hold grudge against

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Speaker 6: the people, but like she should not be able to

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Speaker 6: have a relationship with her cousin because their parents.

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Speaker 3: Oh relationship. Yeah yeah. Needless to say, I was pissed

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Speaker 3: and I told her what my boundaries are and if

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Speaker 3: my brother is invited, then I will not pay for

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Speaker 3: any part of the wedding. My daughter became angry and

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Speaker 3: told me that it's time to let go of the past.

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Speaker 3: I told her it's not her call to make we

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Speaker 3: making her wedding about myself. And I told her I

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Speaker 3: will probably not even attend, so it will be all

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Speaker 3: about her. She left crying.

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Speaker 6: She has a point, that's yeah, because you got to

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Speaker 6: think too, So like this happened. Yeah, you obviously met

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Speaker 6: her mom, they got they got together.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, they had a kid.

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Speaker 3: Ye, this kid is.

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Speaker 5: Old enough and now they're getting married.

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Speaker 3: It's it's been a while.

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Speaker 6: Like can you just like, like even if she was

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Speaker 6: trying to get married right at eighteen, it's twenty six

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Speaker 6: years past.

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, I was gonna say, it's got.

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Speaker 3: Twenty six years, get over it. Yeah, that's I mean.

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Speaker 3: I would I would be like, this is your daughter's wedding.

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Speaker 3: This is her day. She can invite who she wants

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Speaker 3: and you don't have to like them or interact or anything.

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Speaker 3: But like, this is her day. And it's been twenty

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Speaker 3: six years.

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Speaker 1: I mean, is there like like twenty six years feels

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Speaker 1: like more than enough time to try, like for the

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Speaker 1: family's sake, Yeah, like try to mend things. What's like

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Speaker 1: the minimum amount of time?

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Speaker 6: I think he probably like could have easily gotten away

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Speaker 6: with a good five years honestly on that, especially considering

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Speaker 6: that they.

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Speaker 5: Have a child.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think like a little over an election cycle

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Speaker 1: and then you should be over it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Biden's out brothers in.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I think anything under five years would have been

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Speaker 6: such a like know if four to five, yeah, like,

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Speaker 6: if you were trying to push it that soon, you

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Speaker 6: would have been the asshole for pushing that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. At this point twenty six, I don't know. So

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Speaker 3: my ex wife called me screaming and told me I'm

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Speaker 3: a huge a hole and our daughter is crushed. Then

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Speaker 3: my parents called and said the same thing. I told

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Speaker 3: them off, and now I'm ignoring all of their calls.

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Speaker 3: My girlfriend told me to reconsider and apologize, but I said,

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Speaker 3: I'm breaking up with you, and I'm just kidding, full

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Speaker 3: throttle fuck everyone who wants this. She said that by

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Speaker 3: not paying and attending, I will break the relationship with

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Speaker 3: my daughter.

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Speaker 2: So true.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I think my boundary should be respected.

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Speaker 3: Am I the a hole for that? What do we think? Oh?

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Speaker 5: Absolutely? My dad was not at my wedding.

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Speaker 6: I would be like, my dad could get in a

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Speaker 6: serious car crash the night before and I would move

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Speaker 6: the wedding to the hospital with a few close friends

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Speaker 6: and family yea, yeah, it would be to me to

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Speaker 6: have my mom, I mean my dad and my mom,

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Speaker 6: and like most immediate family members there, I feel like, yeah,

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Speaker 6: at the point, you don't need to have a relationship

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Speaker 6: with them, but you don't need to be hurting other relationships.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I totally agree. And also like he's like

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Speaker 1: destroying all his relationships right now. It's it's like this

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Speaker 1: is this isn't benefiting you this grudge anymore, right, So

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Speaker 1: maybe let it go so you can have a relationship

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Speaker 1: with your daughter and your rest.

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Speaker 5: Ofer, find some covert and clear revenge and just never

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Speaker 5: can be traced back to you. Do that and then

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Speaker 5: call it good.

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Speaker 3: And then put a story on nuclear revenge and then

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Speaker 3: we read that.

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Speaker 2: There we go some more content babies, that's right.

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Speaker 3: If you liked this episode, check out this one where

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Speaker 3: the mom prioritized her yoga over her own daughter's wedding.

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Speaker 5: Oh God,