1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:05,040 Speaker 1: All right, one more time. We gotta say thank you Georgia, 2 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:08,719 Speaker 1: Thank you Georgia for getting out the voter. Warnock. It 3 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 1: is Georgia's first black senator. Is widening his lead over Dave. 4 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 1: He's currently on CNN talking to voters right now. Alsoff 5 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:25,919 Speaker 1: is all right, I mean his lead is really widening. Man, 6 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 1: it's like eight It's like it's sixteen thousand now. Yeah, 7 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:34,600 Speaker 1: and he's got point four percent edge over Purduke. If 8 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:37,360 Speaker 1: you get to point five and above, you can't have 9 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:40,960 Speaker 1: a recount, and we still have votes in If we 10 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:45,240 Speaker 1: get to above point five, there's no recount in Georgia. 11 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 1: So Produce can say what he want to say. And 12 00:00:48,159 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 1: if it keep going like it's going, maybe above the 13 00:00:51,760 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 1: point five number, and they're all have to deserve a 14 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 1: couple of weeks off. They do they did the dog. 15 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 1: Do you know what we do. I'm just gonna be 16 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 1: real with you, man. I think I can speak for 17 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 1: the team. We're exhausted. We've been pushing hard all year long. 18 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 1: I mean for the first time, I mean I'm used 19 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:19,120 Speaker 1: to working, but for the first time in radio, I 20 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 1: didn't take any time off. In twenty twenty, we were 21 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 1: committed on this show to the COVID, to keeping our 22 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:35,120 Speaker 1: people informed about the COVID, my face mask washing, the hands, 23 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:40,039 Speaker 1: social distancing, be careful, stay home. We did all of that, 24 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:44,760 Speaker 1: and then the election. We kept our voice on the 25 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 1: radio from January all the way to November without a vacation. 26 00:01:50,720 --> 00:01:56,559 Speaker 1: That's commitment. Yes, so you're damn right time out. Thank 27 00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 1: you to our audience listens to the Steve Harvey Morning 28 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 1: Show every day. We appreciate you, and we're gonna switch 29 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 1: gears here because it is time now for the Strawberry Letter. 30 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:09,960 Speaker 1: If you need advice on relationships, work, sex, dating, parenting, 31 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM 32 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be 33 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 1: reading your letter live like we're gonna read this one 34 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 1: right here, right now. Buckle up, hold on tight. We 35 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 1: got it for you here. It is the Strawberry Letter. 36 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 1: I love the subject. I really didn't click with his 37 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:34,079 Speaker 1: wife Des Stephen Shirley. Yeah. I met a great guy 38 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:36,840 Speaker 1: on a dating website and we ended up getting really 39 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:39,119 Speaker 1: close and after a few months of dating, we got 40 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:42,360 Speaker 1: a place together. Four months later, I found out he 41 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 1: is very happily married, and he's having a baby, but 42 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:49,639 Speaker 1: not by his wife. After he came clean about everything, 43 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 1: I jumped on him, and he did not lay a 44 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 1: finger on me because he knew he was wrong. He 45 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 1: stayed in the relationship with me and eventually introduced me 46 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 1: to the girl that's having his I wasn't interested in 47 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:04,520 Speaker 1: being friendly to her, so he didn't force it. He 48 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 1: was very eager for me to meet his wife, and 49 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 1: I agreed to I'm older than he is, and I'm 50 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 1: a bit old fashioned and like to do things the 51 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 1: old school way, so I told him to invite his 52 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:18,240 Speaker 1: wife over to our place for dinner. I must admit 53 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 1: that his wife is cool and really beautiful, but we 54 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 1: didn't click right away. She spent the first night at 55 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 1: our house and all of us slept together that night. 56 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 1: We continued to mess around and I was cool with 57 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 1: sharing her husband, but things started going downhill fast. He 58 00:03:36,240 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 1: started letting his wife use my car, and when I 59 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 1: had extra money, he'd borrow it to do something nice 60 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 1: for his wife. This is the Crazies letter. I didn't 61 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 1: really click with her, so I didn't appreciate him using 62 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:51,120 Speaker 1: my resources to help her. Then his wife lost her 63 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 1: job during the lockdown, so he asked if she could 64 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:56,839 Speaker 1: stay with us for a while till she could move 65 00:03:56,880 --> 00:04:00,640 Speaker 1: back to her mom's house. Now, now that she's there, 66 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 1: it's like three's company and I'm taking care of him 67 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:05,800 Speaker 1: and his wife. I told him I didn't really care 68 00:04:05,840 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 1: for her, and he's putting her needs over mine. I 69 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 1: want to get out of this three way situation and 70 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:13,200 Speaker 1: have him all to myself. Do you think this can 71 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:20,479 Speaker 1: happen now? Please advise? Wait a minute, what okay? The 72 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 1: facts quickly, you met him online, moved in with him 73 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:26,039 Speaker 1: after only a few months of dating. He's got a 74 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 1: girlfriend who's pregnant. You're the girlfriend with the apartment and 75 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 1: the money, obviously, and then he's got a wife who's 76 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 1: obviously nuts or something. I don't know what's going on there, 77 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:38,359 Speaker 1: say that, because who does that? I mean, what wife 78 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 1: do you know would move in with her husband's girlfriend 79 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:44,360 Speaker 1: sleep in the same bed with them every single night. 80 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:47,920 Speaker 1: I'm I'm sure they're open marriages out there that where 81 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:50,360 Speaker 1: this happens, you know, for a freaky date night or 82 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 1: something every now and then. But all of this, all 83 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:57,279 Speaker 1: the time, this living arrangement is crazy. And this guy 84 00:04:57,600 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 1: who is this guy. He's got these women acting like this, 85 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:05,560 Speaker 1: meeting each other, liking each other. I mean, is this Denzel? 86 00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:08,479 Speaker 1: Is this injurious? Somebody tell me? Is this the new 87 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:14,160 Speaker 1: Black Bachelor? What's going on? I don't, I don't know 88 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:16,599 Speaker 1: why you're doing all of this. You know you don't 89 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:19,120 Speaker 1: want to. You don't even get along with his wife. 90 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 1: You're taking care of her too. I just say, stop 91 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:26,160 Speaker 1: letting them use you as their personal sex toy or 92 00:05:26,279 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 1: sex slave, whatever you are. Get out of this relationship 93 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 1: because you get nothing in return here. Nothing. What happens 94 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 1: if his other girlfriend falls on heart times? Will she 95 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 1: and the baby move in with you? Guys too? You 96 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:43,360 Speaker 1: will always have to share him. You'll never have him 97 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:47,039 Speaker 1: to yourself. He's not that kind of guy. Okay, I say, 98 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 1: put everyone out of your house and just stop this madness. 99 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 1: What is wrong with you? Steve? You're speechless. I don't, 100 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:03,159 Speaker 1: I don't know where that starts. I crazy. This is 101 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:08,159 Speaker 1: the most frightening letter. I mean, I wasn't expecting this. 102 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:11,640 Speaker 1: It just can't. I need a bill tone to do 103 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:15,760 Speaker 1: my letter properly. I needed bill tone, and when I 104 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:17,719 Speaker 1: asked for it, I just want you to go ding 105 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:20,640 Speaker 1: I need a bill tone cat or a buzzer. Sound 106 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:23,479 Speaker 1: a buzzer or beat it any as soon as you 107 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:26,560 Speaker 1: get it, cat. Let me know this this letter, y'all, 108 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:28,560 Speaker 1: I want first of all, I want to apologize to 109 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 1: the audience. Cost. This is too early in the year 110 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 1: for this. Yeah, you know this is like this just 111 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 1: way too early in the year for this type of letter. Six. 112 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:41,440 Speaker 1: You know, we've been dealing with the election and everything, 113 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 1: and then we've been trying to get a vote. It's 114 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:51,840 Speaker 1: really just too damn much. When I come back, man, hell, 115 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 1: I don't know after this. I'll give me back in 116 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:57,360 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour, part two of your response, 117 00:06:57,480 --> 00:07:00,560 Speaker 1: Part one. I don't really click with this wife. That's 118 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:03,480 Speaker 1: the subject. We'll be back right after this. You're listening, 119 00:07:07,160 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 1: all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's crazy, crazy 120 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:15,120 Speaker 1: strawberry letter. I didn't really click with his wife as 121 00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:19,880 Speaker 1: a subject. Don't worry about this letter, so we is shot. 122 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 1: So let me just before we read this letter. I 123 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:31,280 Speaker 1: can't help nobody in this letter. Just I just off 124 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:34,560 Speaker 1: for Shirley's reading. I've coached to the clusion I can't 125 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 1: help nobody in this letter. This letter, Ryan Hill as 126 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:43,280 Speaker 1: it goes on, it just goes from bad to worse 127 00:07:44,200 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 1: to worse, sir to worse. Dess. Wow, this is a 128 00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:53,360 Speaker 1: horrible So let us go. And this is how I see. 129 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 1: Let everybody ready what they rolled on this letter? I 130 00:07:57,120 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 1: asked my team to participate in this letter. Here we go. 131 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 1: This is how I read this letter subject I really 132 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 1: don't click with his wife. Huh what? Here we go 133 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 1: this Stephen Shelley. I met a great guy on a 134 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 1: dating website and we ended up getting really close and 135 00:08:23,240 --> 00:08:26,080 Speaker 1: after a few months of Dayton, we gotta place together. 136 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 1: Huh what? What? Four months later I find out he's 137 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:37,679 Speaker 1: very happily married and he's having a baby, but not 138 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:44,600 Speaker 1: by his wife. Huh what? Huh huh? After he came 139 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:48,280 Speaker 1: clean about everything, I jumped on him, but he ain't 140 00:08:48,360 --> 00:08:50,720 Speaker 1: laying a finger on me because he knew he was wrong. 141 00:08:50,960 --> 00:08:57,880 Speaker 1: Huh Yeah. He stayed in the relationship with me, huh 142 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 1: what and eventually introduced me to the girl that's having 143 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:12,080 Speaker 1: his son. Huh why. I wasn't interested in being friendly 144 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:14,800 Speaker 1: to her, so he didn't force it. He was very 145 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:17,640 Speaker 1: eager for me to meet his wife, and I agreed 146 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:24,679 Speaker 1: to Huh what? Why? What. I'm older than he is, 147 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:27,480 Speaker 1: and I'm a bit old fashioned and like to do 148 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:30,439 Speaker 1: things the old school way. So I told him to 149 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 1: invite his wife over to our place for dinner. Huh why? What? 150 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:44,040 Speaker 1: I must admit that his wife is cool and really beautiful, 151 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:58,600 Speaker 1: huh But we didn't click right away. Why she spent 152 00:09:58,840 --> 00:10:06,439 Speaker 1: the first night that I house huh what? And we 153 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:16,719 Speaker 1: all slept together at night? Huh what? What the what? 154 00:10:17,200 --> 00:10:20,640 Speaker 1: What has happening? In his letter man? We continued to 155 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:24,120 Speaker 1: mess around, and I was cool with her sharing her husband, 156 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:28,480 Speaker 1: but things started going down here fast. He started letting 157 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:37,199 Speaker 1: his wife use my car. Huh what? And when I 158 00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 1: had extra money, he barried to do something nice for 159 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:50,880 Speaker 1: his wife. What what? What? I ain't really click with her? 160 00:10:52,640 --> 00:11:02,640 Speaker 1: Huh what? What? Really clickered up? So I didn't appreciate 161 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:13,040 Speaker 1: him using my resources to hell? Huh huh what? What? Then? 162 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 1: Then his wife lost her job during the lockdown? What? Huh? What? 163 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:32,959 Speaker 1: What we should say? Lockdown? What does she refer to? Oh? 164 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:39,560 Speaker 1: I thought they had all went to jail. Whatleta crazy? 165 00:11:39,800 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 1: I thought they all went to jail and doing lockdown, 166 00:11:42,080 --> 00:11:46,560 Speaker 1: you know, lights out? I thought they I'm sorry, that's 167 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:51,840 Speaker 1: what lost her job during the lockdown? So he asked 168 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:56,160 Speaker 1: he so he asked if she could stay with us 169 00:11:56,240 --> 00:11:59,280 Speaker 1: for a while till she can move back to her 170 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:09,560 Speaker 1: mom's house. Huh what what now that she's there, it's 171 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 1: like threes company and I'm taking care of him and 172 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:21,920 Speaker 1: his wife. Huh what what I told him? I don't 173 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:26,120 Speaker 1: really care for her and he putting her needs over mind? 174 00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:32,640 Speaker 1: Huh what? What? What? I want to get out of 175 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:37,240 Speaker 1: this three way situation and have him all to myself. 176 00:12:41,679 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 1: Why what do you think that can happen? Please advise? 177 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 1: Huh what? What this nutty asked? Nut is We don't 178 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:01,600 Speaker 1: have no coming. We just wanted to read it back 179 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:04,240 Speaker 1: to you. Have a nice day of everybody and not 180 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 1: that Joe. Life is wonderful. That's it, Steve, That's it, Junior. 181 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:12,520 Speaker 1: When sports Talk coming up next? You're listening to the 182 00:13:12,679 --> 00:13:14,080 Speaker 1: Stave Harvey Morning Show.