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Speaker 3: But you know same. You know what else is also

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Speaker 3: you know why, Sam? Tell me why John? Because you

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Speaker 3: it's absolutely cocrea.

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Speaker 1: We are trying to be like, there's this Netflix doc

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Speaker 3: We want ten thousand children, that's right.

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Speaker 2: And if you do the gifted membership, just make sure

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Speaker 3: But if you do a gifted membership, just make sure

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Speaker 1: And remember, if we get to a thousand members, Riley

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Speaker 1: Hang, all right, don Mayflower says, just read well, all right,

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Speaker 1: If this post doesn't make much sense, we can blame that.

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Speaker 1: So for context, I twenty five female, am lucky enough

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Speaker 3: Do we need the board board time time?

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Speaker 1: Oh, mad hatter, Gal with the ten gifted memberships already,

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Speaker 1: shout out you, mad hatter. Starting off strong, ladies, startin

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Speaker 1: off strong. Caro ask says, for scientific reasoning, may you

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Speaker 1: What one direction is about? Like one directional love? That's

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Speaker 1: That's give me Wow. That's tough. That's tough. That's tough.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 1: Right now, I feel devastated. I can feel my only

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Speaker 1: But it will be enough to drive her insecurities through

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Speaker 1: gen alpha brainrot is what I signed up for. Let's go.

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Speaker 2: Let's go, dude, We're tuned in with the kids.

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Speaker 3: Dude, We've been infected. Dude, We've been infected.

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Speaker 1: Bro On, God on God, no Sky, no cap no

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Speaker 1: I'm just trying to mog over here, and Riley is

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Speaker 4: Riz all right, I will be giving you more Sigma

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Speaker 4: once you stop edging.

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Speaker 3: Me start bell conkling. My skin is crawling, all right.

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Speaker 3: We're going into the finishing of the story. So but

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Speaker 3: I got too used to the humor being normalized at work,

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Speaker 1: So we don't have any We don't have any updates

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Speaker 1: It is low key, a little fun to talk like that.

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Speaker 1: So OPI is part of this girl group with Lily, Megan,

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Speaker 1: I feel like what would probably be best is for

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Speaker 1: their own relationship, but like it would suck for Lily

437
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Speaker 1: to basically be the catalyst that ends this. This girl group.

438
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:30,800
Speaker 1: Girl groups you know, are great.

439
00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:34,560
Speaker 3: It's it's look, it's it provides for the girl economy,

440
00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:40,840
Speaker 3: you know what I mean. Groups without girl groups, literally,

441
00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:41,840
Speaker 3: they would just be dinners.

442
00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:44,520
Speaker 1: They would just be dinners all dinner no girl, and

443
00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:50,400
Speaker 1: all dinner no girl. And that's lame making sense and

444
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:56,240
Speaker 1: costing sense because are somewhat cheap. Ideally, like a girl

445
00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 1: dinner is like crackers in a lollipop.

446
00:24:57,840 --> 00:24:59,360
Speaker 2: I feel like it's I feel like it's.

447
00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:01,840
Speaker 3: I feel like it's a It's like I uber eats

448
00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:07,879
Speaker 3: lobster and I had my like leftover, like real cheese cheese.

449
00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:08,600
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:13,640
Speaker 1: I feel like, actually, the girl dinner price ratio is massive.

451
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:17,760
Speaker 3: Yes, it's it's I play. Yeah, it's either like crazy

452
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:20,800
Speaker 3: insane or like nothing. But they all use cash, so

453
00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:22,080
Speaker 3: it cost them nothing.

454
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:24,399
Speaker 2: If you use cash, then a zero, it's zero. But

455
00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:25,359
Speaker 2: when do they use cash?

456
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:29,920
Speaker 1: Not often, never, although I feel like card feels more

457
00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:32,720
Speaker 1: zero than cash, like cash is like you're parting with

458
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:37,680
Speaker 1: it every time. Pants are for the board just dying.

459
00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:42,800
Speaker 1: Also low key, so helpful it is.

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Speaker 5: Wait till Sophia gets in here and does it, and

461
00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 5: Sopia whole another thing. She's the master. Really, she's like

462
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:49,960
Speaker 5: a savant. Look at the key on that thing.

463
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Speaker 1: She is great. Yeah, wait related, oh wait, we should

464
00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:54,400
Speaker 1: have used those romantic.

465
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:56,400
Speaker 3: But it's hard to think and write at the same

466
00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:58,960
Speaker 3: time with her. I have to memorize it before I

467
00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:02,120
Speaker 3: can start using it. No, they are. But what happens

468
00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 3: is like things that are not on the key pop up,

469
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:05,320
Speaker 3: So we.

470
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:06,600
Speaker 1: Should just keep adding to the key.

471
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:09,000
Speaker 3: Yes, we'll keep adding to the key. We'll get there.

472
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 1: I'm not the key digital Sam reading stories in John

473
00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:15,560
Speaker 1: playing pictionary. Yes, it's kind of great. It's kind of great.

474
00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:19,080
Speaker 1: Well that's where that story ends. I'm curious what some

475
00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:25,680
Speaker 1: of the uh the commons have to say. Yes, don Mayflower.

476
00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:28,919
Speaker 1: If Megan won't leave Lily, then this is why Lily

477
00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:32,399
Speaker 1: thinks she can do this to Megan's friend. She's not

478
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:36,720
Speaker 1: bothered where she gets attentions so long as she gets it,

479
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:39,240
Speaker 1: and she's happy to wreck a friendship group for her

480
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:42,640
Speaker 1: ego if she even is part. Is she even part

481
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:45,280
Speaker 1: of the original girl group or just an extension because

482
00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:46,920
Speaker 1: she's Meg's girlfriend.

483
00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:48,440
Speaker 3: Right, She was kind of like that. It's like, hey,

484
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:51,639
Speaker 3: you're in a relationship. You're just add it in. And

485
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:54,480
Speaker 3: then it's like, Okay, is this worth it because you

486
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 3: of what you want and you're willing to explode the

487
00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:00,560
Speaker 3: friendship group for the thing that you want.

488
00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:04,239
Speaker 1: Essentially, Yeah, yeah, I think it could definitely be an

489
00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:10,800
Speaker 1: attention thing for sure. And I yeah, I think I

490
00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:13,760
Speaker 1: think like you can have your core, your your your three,

491
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:16,840
Speaker 1: your your Harry Potter girl group. Yeah, you know, a

492
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:17,680
Speaker 1: little triad.

493
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:20,000
Speaker 3: You always find a fourth, always find a fourth, you know,

494
00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:24,080
Speaker 3: you know, Yeah, induct a new member into your girl group.

495
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:28,679
Speaker 1: That just Becausana, says John. It's literally written on the board,

496
00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 1: so you don't need to remember.

497
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:33,320
Speaker 2: But I'm in the heat of the moment, Okay.

498
00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, it is hard to balance all these things. You guys.

499
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:40,480
Speaker 2: Guys don't their standard.

500
00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:44,080
Speaker 3: Paid dude, I'm not Riley, Riley Riley's brain works different. Yeah,

501
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:47,600
Speaker 3: over time, he was literally genetically engineered to be the

502
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:49,240
Speaker 3: master of streams in a lab.

503
00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:51,920
Speaker 1: Dude, I put two brains in his brain.

504
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:56,360
Speaker 5: Okay, So at the sawmill they got this machine called

505
00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:58,239
Speaker 5: the d Barker, And basically what you have to do

506
00:27:58,320 --> 00:27:59,919
Speaker 5: is you have to log the low. You have to

507
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 5: uh log the load the log in, put it into

508
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:05,880
Speaker 5: the d Barker thing. It chops it up and then

509
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 5: it goes away and it's like a video game. And

510
00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:11,879
Speaker 5: I've just basically used that information and put it to

511
00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:13,440
Speaker 5: this and boom, here we are.

512
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:14,200
Speaker 1: Dang dude.

513
00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:16,359
Speaker 4: So I basically was engineered to do this.

514
00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:20,680
Speaker 1: Dude, I'm glad. I'm glad they bred you at the sawmill.

515
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 3: We needed that that stuff, we needed it.

516
00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:26,440
Speaker 1: They bred you at the sawmill. Yes, should we read

517
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:29,680
Speaker 1: some gifted memberships?

518
00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 3: Let's hit it.

519
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:33,760
Speaker 1: And also, so we're trying to do a thing where

520
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:37,679
Speaker 1: when you give memberships you can also put like a

521
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 1: little something in.

522
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 2: Yes, then the works.

523
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 1: But for right now, if you gifted a membership, just

524
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:46,160
Speaker 1: like comment and we'll we'll pull you up.

525
00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, if you want to throw in a comment, throw

526
00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:50,719
Speaker 3: it there and then Riley will highlight it as we do,

527
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:54,000
Speaker 3: and then we will read it out. But where are

528
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:57,120
Speaker 3: we starting Riley with Morales? Or is there any below

529
00:28:57,200 --> 00:29:02,000
Speaker 3: that just right there like a boom? Oh wait yeah

530
00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:05,400
Speaker 3: start here? Got those uh Eastco Weirdo celebrating three months

531
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 3: of membership. Three months of membership and I'm gifted and

532
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 3: I'm gifted sam back nice so so oh you were

533
00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 3: gifted one and now you're gifting one back.

534
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:19,600
Speaker 1: Let's dude, or the gift of my presence is true

535
00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:20,560
Speaker 1: double entendre.

536
00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:23,440
Speaker 3: We may never know shin stuff. Also celebrating two months.

537
00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 3: Welcome back Sammy heck freakin' yeah, and then once again

538
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 3: shout out Matt Hatter Gal from the ten and Princeipless

539
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 3: Nights for the twenty gifted memberships. Let's freaking go. Miles

540
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:39,120
Speaker 3: Morales celebrating three months of membership hashtag don't get sick

541
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:43,400
Speaker 3: John plus fix your handwriting. I will be honest. I

542
00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 3: was like, hey, Sam, come on in. Now that I'm

543
00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:47,680
Speaker 3: locked in a room with him, I'm like, was this

544
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:51,480
Speaker 3: the best decision? I run the mend We'll see, we're

545
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:55,280
Speaker 3: running the mind outs, Dominica. Thanks for the five gifted memberships.

546
00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:59,040
Speaker 3: Let's freaking Go and Nacha celebrating two months of membership.

547
00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:01,720
Speaker 3: Sam and John with the Gen Alpha brain rot is

548
00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:04,520
Speaker 3: what I signed up for, Glad, I think you might

549
00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:06,280
Speaker 3: be the only one. You might be the only one.

550
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 1: Everyone else hated it, but we had fund which is

551
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:11,720
Speaker 1: which is what this is about.

552
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 3: You know, we like to have fun over here, and

553
00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 3: we won't to it anymore.

554
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:17,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, we want, we won't. We won't torture you there

555
00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:22,400
Speaker 1: we go at our expense, yes exactly, but should we

556
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,800
Speaker 1: oh wait before we get into the next story. Also,

557
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 1: we have thirty nine hats that are dropping. We're gonna

558
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:33,480
Speaker 1: release it probably maybe like tomorrow to the rest of

559
00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:37,240
Speaker 1: the community. But if you go to Okay story Time

560
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:43,800
Speaker 1: dot show, you can cop a hat. There's we're only

561
00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:45,080
Speaker 1: you're gonna do thirty nine.

562
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 3: So that's it.

563
00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 1: That's it. That's it. Someone found the secret link before

564
00:30:49,200 --> 00:30:51,080
Speaker 1: and ordered it. That's why there was forty. But someone

565
00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 1: found the secret link. That's crazy, so that's why there's

566
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Speaker 1: thirty nine.

567
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:54,160
Speaker 3: Wow.

568
00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 1: But if you want to get, we're only selling this

569
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 1: one that's right here, that one right look good like me.

570
00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:02,880
Speaker 1: So if you want to get, if you want to rep,

571
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 1: rep the pod, rep the show, go over to Okay,

572
00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:12,960
Speaker 1: storytime Dot show and pick one up, pick one up?

573
00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 1: All right, but shall we get into this next story?

574
00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:18,360
Speaker 2: Let's do it where again?

575
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:26,680
Speaker 3: Riley six thirteen. God bless your beautiful soul, and here

576
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 3: we go, Rady on your account, sir, thank you. The

577
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:37,080
Speaker 3: husband of the husband of my husband's a fair partner,

578
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:38,840
Speaker 3: says we belong together.

579
00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:40,160
Speaker 2: What do I do?

580
00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:42,120
Speaker 1: Listen?

581
00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 3: Listen, that's why you have two ears and one mouth.

582
00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:51,480
Speaker 3: Speaking of listening, I think it might be time to

583
00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:52,480
Speaker 3: bestow upon you.

584
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:55,480
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm so excited.

585
00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:56,400
Speaker 3: Is this the husband?

586
00:31:57,320 --> 00:31:58,240
Speaker 1: I'm so excited?

587
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:02,280
Speaker 3: My husband, the husband of my husband's a fair partner.

588
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:04,840
Speaker 1: The husband of my husband, the fair.

589
00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 3: Partner had a husband now wants to get with Opie.

590
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 1: So the husband, the husband of my husband. What the

591
00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:18,000
Speaker 1: husband of my husband's a fair partner. So there's husband

592
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:20,600
Speaker 1: AF a fair partner okay, yep.

593
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:25,560
Speaker 3: And then the affair partner's husband, so he aff and

594
00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 3: then AF husband yep.

595
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:31,960
Speaker 2: Line going maybe dotted line.

596
00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:37,960
Speaker 1: To husband romantic between these people yep.

597
00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:43,360
Speaker 3: Maybe a dotted line going from a fair partner's husband.

598
00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:47,560
Speaker 1: And then we have he yes, which who has a husband?

599
00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:48,320
Speaker 3: That's right?

600
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:52,320
Speaker 1: Okay? Sick all right, I'm there. I'm there for it.

601
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:55,480
Speaker 3: All right. And this is the answer the question what

602
00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:57,959
Speaker 3: bad behavior is inaccusable from friends and comes from very

603
00:32:57,960 --> 00:33:01,000
Speaker 3: Blueberry thirteen, who says throw away for obvious reasons. I'm

604
00:33:01,040 --> 00:33:03,040
Speaker 3: at the point where I need to get this off

605
00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 3: my chest and maybe get advice. There's a lot to

606
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 3: the story, so I'll try my best to explain the background.

607
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:14,240
Speaker 3: I twenty four female, have been married to my husband, Ryan,

608
00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:20,680
Speaker 3: twenty nine male for almost five years. Okay, I always

609
00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:23,080
Speaker 3: wanted to start a family young. I had established I

610
00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:25,320
Speaker 3: had an established career at this point, and I was

611
00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:29,000
Speaker 3: very clear with my husband Ryan on the type of

612
00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 3: life that I wanted. I thought we were on the

613
00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:33,960
Speaker 3: same page. We got married about a week before I

614
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 3: turned twenty years old, and not long before that, we

615
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:41,760
Speaker 3: had our first daughter. We now have three girls. Sooby's

616
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 3: twenty nine female with three children, got married right at twenty.

617
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:49,400
Speaker 3: A little over a year ago, my husband cheated on

618
00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:53,600
Speaker 3: me with a woman, Amy, who was the who was

619
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Speaker 3: at the time my best friend whoa getting juicy? Oh

620
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:04,240
Speaker 3: wow and juicy. Okay, it's hard, You're like, Okay, what's

621
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:04,680
Speaker 3: the key?

622
00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:05,520
Speaker 2: When am I drawing?

623
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:09,640
Speaker 1: I was just freestyling best friend. Okay, there it goes.

624
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:13,200
Speaker 1: We did were good.

625
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:16,239
Speaker 3: We both had two girls at the same age, so

626
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:18,400
Speaker 3: we spent a lot of time together. My husband is

627
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:20,800
Speaker 3: an extrovert and had a flexible job, so he would

628
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:24,480
Speaker 3: always go on outings with us. Amy's husband, Jake, is

629
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:27,680
Speaker 3: introverted and worked a regular nine to five, so I

630
00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 3: only met him in person once. Ryan and Amy ended

631
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 3: up developing what I thought was a good friendship. May

632
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 3: of twenty twenty three, Amy and Jake ended up moving

633
00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:41,359
Speaker 3: out of state, and not long after they moved, and

634
00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:44,239
Speaker 3: not long after they moved, my husband confessed to me

635
00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:47,400
Speaker 3: that one night, while he was helping Amy get ready

636
00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:51,280
Speaker 3: to move, they ended up having bicy sleep together.

637
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:56,520
Speaker 1: Oh he was moving in that he did move in,

638
00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:58,800
Speaker 1: He moved in, he parked it at little tiny garage.

639
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:02,560
Speaker 1: Now yept thank you.

640
00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:09,800
Speaker 3: They decided not to tell me or Jake until after

641
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:13,800
Speaker 3: the move because about a week after it happened is

642
00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 3: when I told Ryan I was pregnant with our third daughter.

643
00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:20,879
Speaker 3: So this is not an a fair baby, to be clear,

644
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:25,080
Speaker 3: not an a fair baby, but the actual relationship of

645
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 3: op They realized that she was pregnant with a child

646
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:32,040
Speaker 3: and then like, should we tell right after the pregnancy announcement.

647
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:35,439
Speaker 1: That were divorce? Are they divorcing or not?

648
00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 3: Nothing yet?

649
00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:37,480
Speaker 2: But they were like should we were?

650
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:40,040
Speaker 3: I think they basically waited to tell the truth a

651
00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:42,799
Speaker 3: little bit after the move in the pregnancy announcement, like Okay,

652
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:44,720
Speaker 3: let's let the dust settle on this, and then they.

653
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:46,840
Speaker 1: Write brought for the truth.

654
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,600
Speaker 3: Although they only had spicy sleep once I found out

655
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:54,000
Speaker 3: he was having an emotional affair with her for months beforehand,

656
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:59,400
Speaker 3: they would look like, well they would it looks like

657
00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 3: that's done done.

658
00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:07,640
Speaker 1: Dum alright, so we have we have we have OP.

659
00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 1: We have OP in a relationship with Ryan the husband.

660
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:17,400
Speaker 1: Ryan the husband is having an affair with Amy the

661
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:21,680
Speaker 1: affair partner, who is married to Jake, the affair partner's husband.

662
00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:24,719
Speaker 1: They have three kids. I believe they have like two

663
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:27,799
Speaker 1: kids or something. The affair happened one year ago, but

664
00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 1: or one year ago, but it was like only once

665
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:32,879
Speaker 1: when they were moving, and then after they moved they

666
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:37,799
Speaker 1: exposed that or after this person was born the third

667
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:40,920
Speaker 1: daughter was born, they exposed the affair exactly. Yeah, I know,

668
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:41,880
Speaker 1: I know.

669
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:44,759
Speaker 3: There he is, guys colaps in the chat for our

670
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:51,080
Speaker 3: boy Sam, Yeah, so now I get the macaroni arboby.

671
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:55,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I do feel proud of it, right, do do do?

672
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:55,640
Speaker 1: Do?

673
00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:58,799
Speaker 3: So they would talk on the phone for hours while

674
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:02,919
Speaker 3: Ryan was outworking, and text all night on Snapchat. Once

675
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:05,439
Speaker 3: this came to light, Ryan and I decided to take

676
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:08,719
Speaker 3: some space from our relationship, and so did Amy and Jake.

677
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:12,720
Speaker 3: This is when Amy and Ryan decided to start dating

678
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:17,760
Speaker 3: long That's when Amy and Ryan decided to start long

679
00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:24,720
Speaker 3: distance dating, which is so they basically officially got together.

680
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, ok, you gotta have a new chart.

681
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:30,319
Speaker 3: Now there's a new line. New lines must be drawn.

682
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:34,200
Speaker 1: There we go. Yeah, they're they're in love. Okay, long

683
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:41,520
Speaker 1: distance l day.

684
00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:43,640
Speaker 3: It is so, but boum, boum. During this time, Jake

685
00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:46,360
Speaker 3: and I chatted quite a bit since we both knew

686
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:47,560
Speaker 3: what the other was going through.

687
00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:50,680
Speaker 1: This lasted about a month. It's a classic. This is

688
00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:54,759
Speaker 1: a classic. They got together. So maybe we should.

689
00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:57,080
Speaker 2: Put an ICU if you see that that's coming up.

690
00:37:57,239 --> 00:37:58,720
Speaker 2: Put those ICUs in the chat.

691
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:01,640
Speaker 3: During this time, Jake and I chatted quite a bit

692
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:03,600
Speaker 3: since we both knew what the other was going through.

693
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:07,840
Speaker 3: This lasted about a month before Amy and Ryan broke

694
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:12,560
Speaker 3: it off. It's over only one month. They're done, that

695
00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 3: heart's slashed. We decided to break contact with each other

696
00:38:20,840 --> 00:38:23,360
Speaker 3: and try to fix our marriages.

697
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:25,040
Speaker 1: Whoa, So now.

698
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:29,319
Speaker 3: Everyone's getting back together, bro Sam Sam is being put

699
00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:31,640
Speaker 3: to work today, ladies and gentlemen.

700
00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, So like there wasn't really anything going on

701
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 1: between Ope and Jake. It was mainly just Ryan and Amy.

702
00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:43,640
Speaker 1: But yes, I made this little diagram here, look where

703
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:48,840
Speaker 1: uh they? So so this this is the new relationship

704
00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:52,680
Speaker 1: dynamic of Ryan and Amy, But now it just reverted

705
00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 1: back to the old relationship that we're back to. Where

706
00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:58,080
Speaker 1: we're back to square one for now. Fast forward to

707
00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:01,040
Speaker 1: the present. My relationship with Ryan has been rocky since

708
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:03,239
Speaker 1: our third child is a few months old.

709
00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:06,160
Speaker 3: Now. I've always worked full time remotely to support our

710
00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:09,239
Speaker 3: family financially while also trying to take care of three

711
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 3: kids full time. Ryan has been unable to maintain a

712
00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:14,640
Speaker 3: steady income and doesn't spend as much time with me

713
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:17,399
Speaker 3: or the kids anymore. He's gone all day and goes

714
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:20,120
Speaker 3: out with friends most nights. He says he still loves

715
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:22,520
Speaker 3: me and wants our marriage to work, but his actions

716
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 3: have made it clear his priorities or elsewhere well, dude,

717
00:39:26,840 --> 00:39:29,799
Speaker 3: he showed you his priorities were elsewhere when he was

718
00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 3: banging Amy. He literally cheated on you and then left

719
00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:34,879
Speaker 3: you for that person. And now you're yeah, it's like.

720
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:37,160
Speaker 2: It seems like his priorities or elsewhere.

721
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:40,160
Speaker 3: I don't like it feels like it feels.

722
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:42,879
Speaker 2: Like it might be somewhere else. Can we poll get

723
00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:43,840
Speaker 2: back together or not?

724
00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:46,480
Speaker 1: Because it's like such an easy knock, get back to it?

725
00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:48,799
Speaker 1: I mean, but yeah, let's do it, let's pull let's

726
00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:50,200
Speaker 1: let's see get back together or not.

727
00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:52,600
Speaker 2: Maybe there's one to you know, one or three percent

728
00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:53,399
Speaker 2: of people that say.

729
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:55,839
Speaker 1: Oh, she's not read good signs this is like this

730
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:58,480
Speaker 1: is like like a like a clueless guy being like,

731
00:39:58,560 --> 00:40:00,879
Speaker 1: is she into me? Yeah? And she does the thing

732
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:02,879
Speaker 1: where she puts her hand apparently this is a thing.

733
00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:04,960
Speaker 1: I had no idea. But she puts her hand next

734
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:07,440
Speaker 1: to you in the movie theater and then then you're

735
00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:12,880
Speaker 1: supposed to that's the signal. Yeah.

736
00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:15,120
Speaker 3: But about three weeks ago we got into a big

737
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:17,560
Speaker 3: argument and he ended up saying a lot of awful

738
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:21,920
Speaker 3: things I won't repeat and even threatened to physically harm me.

739
00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:24,799
Speaker 3: After that, I told him I was done doing this

740
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:27,359
Speaker 3: and we needed to take a break from our relationship.

741
00:40:28,120 --> 00:40:30,360
Speaker 2: Leave the relationship please.

742
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:33,399
Speaker 3: The plan was to take space then talk about how

743
00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:34,880
Speaker 3: we can build a better relationship.

744
00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:38,920
Speaker 1: No, why are you trying to rebuild? This is cursed.

745
00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:42,200
Speaker 1: This is a curse relationship. And he literally I'm gonna

746
00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:44,480
Speaker 1: draw a little baseball bat next to him because he's

747
00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:49,759
Speaker 1: literally trying to physically it's hurts you baseball bat and

748
00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 1: do a little flamo on that.

749
00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:58,280
Speaker 3: Yikes, man, it's very bad. It's very bad. He's sleeping

750
00:40:58,320 --> 00:41:01,239
Speaker 3: on the couch. He's sleeping on the couch since and

751
00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 3: we've been interacting more as roommates more than anything else.

752
00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:07,719
Speaker 3: This has actually been nice. He's been acting kinder towards me,

753
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:10,080
Speaker 3: and I could put my feelings in once first, and

754
00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:12,919
Speaker 3: I don't want to have to worry about his Now

755
00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:19,040
Speaker 3: we finally get to the reason for the post big drop,

756
00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:24,239
Speaker 3: the big Kahuna. Two days ago, Jake texted Ryan, the

757
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:27,400
Speaker 3: affair partner's husband. He said there were no hard feelings

758
00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:29,960
Speaker 3: about what had happened in the past, and that despite

759
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 3: his best efforts, things were not working out with Amy. Surprise, surprise,

760
00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:37,680
Speaker 3: they are getting a divorce, and he went on to

761
00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:41,440
Speaker 3: ask my husband if he was still interested in amy.

762
00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:45,000
Speaker 3: So he's kind of making a bit of a peace

763
00:41:45,040 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 3: offering here.

764
00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 1: I guess, bro it sounds like he's being like the

765
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:52,279
Speaker 1: Indian matchmaker guys like, Hey, it didn't work out with me,

766
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:54,360
Speaker 1: but I think you guys could be great together.

767
00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 3: Jake is sima aunty, just making the relationships work matching

768
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:02,240
Speaker 3: the matches. The match are matching. And Jake told Ryan

769
00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:04,880
Speaker 3: he had his blessing to be with her if he wanted,

770
00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:08,239
Speaker 3: and would even help make it happen. Oh yeah, he's

771
00:42:08,719 --> 00:42:12,480
Speaker 3: seem auntieing hard right now. At this point, my husband

772
00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:16,400
Speaker 3: decided to mention that that him and I were taking

773
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 3: a break from our relationship. Jake told Ryan he wanted

774
00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:23,960
Speaker 3: he wanted to reach out to me and ask if

775
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:27,200
Speaker 3: it was okay. Ryan said yes and gave me the

776
00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:29,600
Speaker 3: heads up that I might hear from Jake.

777
00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:35,560
Speaker 1: Wait, why is Jake giving his blessing? That's whack, dude.

778
00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:36,400
Speaker 3: I see you.

779
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:41,080
Speaker 2: Jake is gonna make so I've added some things on here.

780
00:42:41,239 --> 00:42:41,759
Speaker 3: Here we go.

781
00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:45,640
Speaker 1: So we got we got divorce over here, We got

782
00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:49,560
Speaker 1: a bat because Ryan's a piece of crap and threatened ope,

783
00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:53,120
Speaker 1: and then we got this little blessing over here, going

784
00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:57,759
Speaker 1: from Jake to Ryan, which may lead to further affairs

785
00:42:58,080 --> 00:42:59,080
Speaker 1: happening right here.

786
00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:01,799
Speaker 3: But when does it stop being an affair and just

787
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 3: become the main relationship? When op is has exited, Op

788
00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 3: just needs to leave. Op needs to cut herself off

789
00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:10,120
Speaker 3: from the whole thing.

790
00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:14,480
Speaker 2: That is true, Well, you say should cut herself.

791
00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:16,880
Speaker 3: Off off, but well, Jake did reach out to me

792
00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:20,759
Speaker 3: and he confessed that he's been in love with me

793
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:22,879
Speaker 3: since we developed a friendship last year.

794
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 1: WHOA put that pen to work? WHOA Okay, here we go,

795
00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:34,960
Speaker 1: put that pen to work. Bam, big love, big fat heart.

796
00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:38,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do two hearts because damn okay.

797
00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:39,879
Speaker 2: Unaquited secret love for a year.

798
00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:46,399
Speaker 1: I'm gonna put one year. Wow, dude, Yeah, big love,

799
00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:50,920
Speaker 1: big love happening, big fat love, fat love circles happening

800
00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:54,280
Speaker 1: from Jake to Op right now. That is that's nuts.

801
00:43:54,840 --> 00:44:00,480
Speaker 1: Does Ope reciprocate if she feels the love? Well, but

802
00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:03,839
Speaker 1: bout he feels we are meant for each other and

803
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:06,160
Speaker 1: that is a way better match for me than my

804
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:09,200
Speaker 1: husband is. So that's why he's giving his blessing so

805
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:11,919
Speaker 1: he can like successfully offload.

806
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:15,840
Speaker 3: Exactly and hopefully he could get the alley loop from Ryan,

807
00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 3: maybe like, hey, give me your intern, let's exchange blessings

808
00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:22,200
Speaker 3: over here. He told me he was trying to push

809
00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:25,839
Speaker 3: Amy and Ryan back together so him and I could date.

810
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:31,640
Speaker 3: He told uh, he told me it was He told me,

811
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:35,440
Speaker 3: he told me it was the perfect He told me

812
00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:38,479
Speaker 3: I was the perfect woman. And he regrets not quote

813
00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:41,160
Speaker 3: unquote making it happen a year ago. He hasn't been

814
00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:44,560
Speaker 3: able to stop thinking of me since I don't know

815
00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:46,960
Speaker 3: what to do. Honestly, it was nice to hear someone

816
00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:49,960
Speaker 3: say such lovely things about me, especially since my husband

817
00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:52,560
Speaker 3: has done a lot to tear me down lately. I

818
00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:55,200
Speaker 3: think on paper, Jake and I would be a great couple.

819
00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 1: We have no know This paper is showing that it's

820
00:44:59,600 --> 00:45:03,480
Speaker 1: too messed up. It's this getting pretty mess Yes this

821
00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 1: if this is your paper, this is awful. This is

822
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 1: an awful piece of paper and it should burn.

823
00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:14,640
Speaker 3: Rip it off and burn the hashtag, rip up the paper.

824
00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:17,560
Speaker 3: We have similar morals and goals in life, but I

825
00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:20,320
Speaker 3: don't know him very well. We've met in person once.

826
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:24,040
Speaker 3: Oh that's right, they've literally only met in person one time,

827
00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:25,360
Speaker 3: and he's like confessing his love to you.

828
00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:27,160
Speaker 1: I don't even know you have sexual chemistry yet.

829
00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:30,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is this is too much. The history between us, Yeah, yeah,

830
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:32,480
Speaker 3: you didn't cheat to find that out. Yeah, come on,

831
00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:35,359
Speaker 3: the history between us is too weird, and I'm not

832
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:38,200
Speaker 3: sure I could ever have a relationship with him. I'm

833
00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:40,800
Speaker 3: also pissed out. My husband told Jake we were taking

834
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:43,719
Speaker 3: a break and said it was okay to reach out

835
00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:46,040
Speaker 3: to me. I think he might still have feelings for

836
00:45:46,080 --> 00:45:48,840
Speaker 3: Amy and was hoping if I showed interest in Jake,

837
00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:51,759
Speaker 3: it would get him an excuse to talk to your

838
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:56,080
Speaker 3: again without me being upset. One hundred percent when speaking

839
00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:58,440
Speaker 3: of one hundred percent, our poll right now is saying

840
00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:03,040
Speaker 3: one hundred that's crazy. Forty votes one hundred literally one

841
00:46:03,120 --> 00:46:05,400
Speaker 3: hundred percent unanimous, do not get back together.

842
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:07,520
Speaker 2: I one hundred percent agree with that one hundred.

843
00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:09,360
Speaker 1: I one hundred percent agree to There.

844
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:12,000
Speaker 3: We go, one hundred all around.

845
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:17,160
Speaker 2: So I want, I want my marriage to work.

846
00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:22,000
Speaker 3: I take my marriage vow seriously and believe that divorce

847
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:24,040
Speaker 3: is an absolute last resort.

848
00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:28,360
Speaker 2: Dude, you're at last resorts right now. You are unfortunately

849
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:29,439
Speaker 2: living up to your word.

850
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:31,719
Speaker 1: Literally, look at this, okay, look at look at this.

851
00:46:31,760 --> 00:46:34,240
Speaker 1: Look at this diagram. We guy here. Okay, so literally

852
00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:38,120
Speaker 1: he threatened you over here. He's been in a relationship

853
00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:43,799
Speaker 1: with Amy, still has feelings for Amy. Told Jake that

854
00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:46,880
Speaker 1: he could have like that, that you were on a

855
00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:50,400
Speaker 1: break so he could give his blessing so that Op

856
00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:53,240
Speaker 1: could get together, or that so that Ryan get together

857
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 1: with Amy. It's this, It's totally whack at Look at

858
00:46:57,160 --> 00:46:59,000
Speaker 1: this board. Look at this board.

859
00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:00,000
Speaker 3: It's absolutely crazy.

860
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:01,759
Speaker 1: It's whack and you should not tolerate it.

861
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:07,600
Speaker 3: But at this point, I don't know what's best for

862
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:10,399
Speaker 3: me and my children. The way my husband acted when

863
00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:13,040
Speaker 3: Jake reached out makes me feel he is not committed

864
00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:17,239
Speaker 3: to making things work. And things Jake said to me

865
00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:20,840
Speaker 3: made me realize I deserve much better than how Ryan

866
00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:27,120
Speaker 3: has been treating me. What do I do well? I

867
00:47:27,120 --> 00:47:28,840
Speaker 3: think there's a chance that we haven't done in a

868
00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:31,320
Speaker 3: while that I think could directly answer that question.

869
00:47:32,360 --> 00:47:39,600
Speaker 2: De vores devor Steve bars Bar please go run away.

870
00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:41,680
Speaker 2: Anyone would be better.

871
00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:47,759
Speaker 1: No relationship should ever look like this. Yes, every is

872
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:48,640
Speaker 1: an abomination.

873
00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:49,680
Speaker 2: Abomination.

874
00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:52,799
Speaker 1: This is the incess baby of relationship.

875
00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:53,560
Speaker 3: It truly is.

876
00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:57,880
Speaker 2: So there you go, I mean literally literally leave him easy.

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00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 3: Now, Uh, what bad behavior is inexcusable between friendships and relationships?

878
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:10,560
Speaker 1: This, this is inexcusable.

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00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:12,920
Speaker 2: I think, what where where do we draw the line?

880
00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:18,720
Speaker 3: Like, like, what what is the qualifier for inexcusable? Maybe

881
00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:25,960
Speaker 3: it is something that wholly and completely disrespects the other person.

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00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:29,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I feel like this, I mean I feel

883
00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:33,960
Speaker 1: like we departed from what was excusable so long ago

884
00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:38,279
Speaker 1: in this story, like when Ryan and Amy had their

885
00:48:38,400 --> 00:48:43,920
Speaker 1: first affair, and like maybe when they like when they

886
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:47,680
Speaker 1: had that one time affair thing, maybe they could have

887
00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:50,480
Speaker 1: recovered from that. Yes, but when you choose the affair

888
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:54,520
Speaker 1: partner over your partner and leave, like I feel like

889
00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:58,560
Speaker 1: it's definitely dead on that. Then when you come back

890
00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:03,200
Speaker 1: and you you retin your partner physically even more debt,

891
00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:03,759
Speaker 1: it's gone.

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00:49:03,840 --> 00:49:09,240
Speaker 3: I think maybe it's like when your partner has literally

893
00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:13,000
Speaker 3: zero trust, when when all of the trust has been broken,

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00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:14,520
Speaker 3: that's when it's like.

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Speaker 1: And I think depending on how long a relationship is,

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00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:24,000
Speaker 1: I mean, I think because they they've been married, they

897
00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:27,880
Speaker 1: according to the board, they've been married for five years.

898
00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:30,879
Speaker 1: That is true, so that that means they probably could

899
00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:34,560
Speaker 1: have gone through the one instance of cheating. But because

900
00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:40,239
Speaker 1: he left. Because he left and stayed with Amy, then

901
00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:41,640
Speaker 1: you know there's no going back from that.

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00:49:42,160 --> 00:49:43,640
Speaker 2: We need we need like a way.

903
00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:45,560
Speaker 3: It's like we have the chart and then there's a

904
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:49,439
Speaker 3: chart passed through the Sam's Golden Rule filter.

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Speaker 1: Does not pass through because because after the initial instance

906
00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:58,840
Speaker 1: of cheating, there was a period of basically like staying

907
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:00,719
Speaker 1: with the person, so multi pull instances of.

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00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:03,640
Speaker 3: It returned, it returned. We can't you can't do more

909
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:06,680
Speaker 3: than once and more than once, according to Sam, unless

910
00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:09,520
Speaker 3: it's eight years that there.

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00:50:09,520 --> 00:50:12,880
Speaker 1: Oh wait, no they have three children. Oh oh, but

912
00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:14,880
Speaker 1: but no, but no, but it's because you have too

913
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Speaker 1: many instances of it. Was like that means yeah, that

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Speaker 1: would be still cross the line. They still cross the

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Speaker 1: line across the