1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,400 Speaker 1: It is time for a chief Love officer to answer 2 00:00:02,440 --> 00:00:06,080 Speaker 1: some love questions from you. This one's from Donnie and Lexington. 3 00:00:06,519 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 1: Donnie says, my mother and I own a rental home 4 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 1: in a not so good part of town, and she's 5 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:14,120 Speaker 1: letting one of her old male friends stay in the 6 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:17,480 Speaker 1: house and isn't charging him the full rent. I think 7 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:20,599 Speaker 1: he's a bootlegger because there's a stash of liquor in 8 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:23,960 Speaker 1: the basement, and I have watched people come and go 9 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 1: from there. I told my mom it's time to sell 10 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:30,240 Speaker 1: the property, and she got upset. I suspect she might 11 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:33,720 Speaker 1: be part of his underground enterprise. How do I go 12 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:35,280 Speaker 1: against my mom? 13 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:38,080 Speaker 2: You can't. You can't. 14 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:41,200 Speaker 3: It's probably your mama's house. I don't know how it worked, 15 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:44,159 Speaker 3: how y'all bought it. I don't really understand that, but 16 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 3: your mama he is involved in the bootlegs operation. It's 17 00:00:47,440 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 3: been going on in the hood for years. Son has 18 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:53,080 Speaker 3: nothing to do with you. Go sit your ass down somewhere. 19 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:56,760 Speaker 3: The reason getting his half rent is because she getting 20 00:00:56,840 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 3: half of the proceeds coming up out that basement. Now 21 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 3: gonna start running moonshine. You as ain't got nothing to 22 00:01:03,600 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 3: do with this. Now, you take your little young ass 23 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:08,679 Speaker 3: to college and get you an education and stay out 24 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 3: of grown folks business. Next question, All right in Queen 25 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 3: mama's a bootlegger. Yes, she might be running numbers too, 26 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:21,400 Speaker 3: show you might want to look into that. 27 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 1: Gena and Queen says, I'm a thirty seven year old 28 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 1: woman and I bray hair for a living. I have 29 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 1: a forty seven year old boyfriend that works as a 30 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 1: restaurant manager. He referred one of his waitresses to get 31 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 1: her hair done and she paid me in cash two 32 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 1: hundred and ten dollars. When she was leaving, she said 33 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:43,319 Speaker 1: she was going to thank my man for getting her 34 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:45,679 Speaker 1: hair done. I called him and asked him if he 35 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 1: paid for it, and he denied it. I don't know 36 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 1: who to believe, and I want to beat them both. 37 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 1: Why would she lie about it? 38 00:01:55,040 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 2: Well, what does she lie about it? 39 00:01:57,360 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 3: I don't think that she Well, she said she gonna 40 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 3: go and by forgetting her hair done. Could she have 41 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:08,080 Speaker 3: been said, I want to thank your man for sending 42 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:10,160 Speaker 3: me over here to get my hair done, because you 43 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 3: did such a wonderful job. 44 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:13,519 Speaker 2: Cash. 45 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:16,520 Speaker 1: She paid in cash, and yeah, and she thinks her 46 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 1: man supplied the money for it, paid for it. 47 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 2: Well, you know, there are some stupid men in this world. 48 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:24,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, he denied it. 49 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 2: He said he did. Well, maybe what you said maybe that. 50 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 3: I mean, it could be. I just want to thank 51 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:34,639 Speaker 3: him for sending me over here. Man, you did such 52 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 3: a great job. I don't know if Cash meant that 53 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 3: he gave it to her. You know, he just recommended 54 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:43,120 Speaker 3: that she go. What she looked like. 55 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 2: You know, that's her last time doing my hair. You 56 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:50,240 Speaker 2: know that's our last time. Yeah, that ain't gonna help me. Yeah, yeah, yea, yeah, 57 00:02:50,280 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 2: that's the last time doing the hair. You can believe that. 58 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 3: But you got two hundred and ten dollars cash? What 59 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 3: you want now? You even have Braden biers As I 60 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:58,920 Speaker 3: ain't you know? 61 00:02:59,000 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 2: She was throwing shade? 62 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:04,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, oh yeah, Why you sit her over there to 63 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 3: your woman? If you're doing something, it's beyond stupidity to me. 64 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:11,360 Speaker 2: All the place. You could have sent him. 65 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 4: Whole lot. You could braid hair. One you didn't pull 66 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:19,160 Speaker 4: it out once she said that. You could have pulled 67 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:23,040 Speaker 4: him braids right on back out of there. No, she 68 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 4: paid was walking out the door. You think you're gonna 69 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:28,839 Speaker 4: take some braids out of woman's hair? 70 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:31,080 Speaker 3: After she just had them done set there for hours. 71 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:33,960 Speaker 3: I got a whole other news for you. That's a 72 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 3: whole other Strawberry. 73 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 2: Let it in. She snatched my braid. That's the subject, 74 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 2: all right. 75 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 1: Moving on, Mika, and Fayetteville says, I'm a fifty year 76 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 1: old divorced woman and I'm still having sex with my 77 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 1: ex husband. He is remarried, but his wife doesn't enjoy 78 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 1: sex as much as I do. So we have an arrangement. 79 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 1: He said it's getting too expensive and he wants to 80 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:00,600 Speaker 1: pay me a flat rate monthly and instead of each 81 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 1: time he visits. I told him he could get it 82 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:05,120 Speaker 1: free if he left his wife and came back to me. 83 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 1: He hasn't called me in a few days. Is he 84 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 1: considering it? Or did I run him off for good? 85 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 3: Now? You ran him off. You ran him off. He's 86 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 3: your ex for a reason. He want you for what 87 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:18,920 Speaker 3: he got you for, not for nothing else. You too 88 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:21,480 Speaker 3: much with the rest of it. You just too much. 89 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:24,159 Speaker 3: It's too much with you. But if I can just 90 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:27,040 Speaker 3: come over here, now, he on a flat rate. So 91 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:31,480 Speaker 3: now you're not really having sex with your ex husband. 92 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 2: You are the owner and operator of the brothel. 93 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:42,600 Speaker 3: And now you won't, and you think he's reinconsidering to 94 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:44,720 Speaker 3: move back into the brothel. But if he moved back 95 00:04:44,760 --> 00:04:48,160 Speaker 3: into the brothel, they don't just be brothel duties being performed. 96 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:52,719 Speaker 3: You're talking and worrying him about other stuff. So, lady, 97 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 3: and then you got to remember why you all became 98 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:58,640 Speaker 3: a divorce in exes in the first place. And I'm 99 00:04:58,640 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 3: pretty sure it would have something to do with that 100 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:01,720 Speaker 3: or the wife he got. 101 00:05:03,240 --> 00:05:06,279 Speaker 2: How much is she charging him monthly though? What is 102 00:05:06,320 --> 00:05:07,159 Speaker 2: this car? I don't know. 103 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:11,920 Speaker 3: But he want a flat rate though, just a monthly rate. 104 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:14,920 Speaker 3: And he won't come over. He won't put it on Saturday. Yeah, 105 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:16,960 Speaker 3: I just put you on Saturday. Then when I come over, 106 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 3: if I come over four five times, that's same as two. Yeah. Yeah, 107 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:25,919 Speaker 3: he want a Saturday to employee. They don't do that 108 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:28,679 Speaker 3: at the brothels. They don't have packages at the brothel. 109 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:31,840 Speaker 3: I don't think. I'm pretty sure I'll pay as you. 110 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:39,360 Speaker 2: Go all the cars. Yeah, car, all right. 111 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 1: Moving on to Danny and Baltimore. Danny says, I'm twenty 112 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:45,720 Speaker 1: eight years old and my boyfriend and I have been 113 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 1: together for six years. I've been messing around on him 114 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:50,800 Speaker 1: and I think it's time for us to break up 115 00:05:50,839 --> 00:05:54,240 Speaker 1: because he never talks about us having a future together. 116 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:58,480 Speaker 1: When I try to leave him, he pries and has 117 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:02,520 Speaker 1: an attitude for days. I hate to upset him, but 118 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 1: I don't want a cry baby man that doesn't have 119 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:07,920 Speaker 1: a five year plan. Do I cut him off cold turkey? 120 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 1: Or do I talk to him in person, let him 121 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:14,160 Speaker 1: cry and then leave him. 122 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:19,520 Speaker 3: Hey, ma'am, why did you write us, Danny? Why did 123 00:06:19,560 --> 00:06:23,599 Speaker 3: you write us? You don't want this man. He's a 124 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 3: damn cry baby. You've been sleeping around on him for 125 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:31,960 Speaker 3: six years. You obviously want to sleep around more than 126 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 3: you want him. You don't wan him upset because you're 127 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:39,120 Speaker 3: a nice person, but you're a nice person with tricky ways. 128 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 3: It's a lot of people like you, Danny. It's okay, 129 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 3: just going about your business. Just look we throw that's it. 130 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 3: Let him cry and going to do what you've been doing. 131 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 3: Next question, Schrey, were not dealing with Danny no more. 132 00:06:55,120 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 2: That's all. That's all we have. Shut your crying ass up. 133 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:08,360 Speaker 2: You can cry now. Don't leave me, Jenny. I don't 134 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 2: want to sit here with all this crime. 135 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 3: These other people I'm seeing don't do all that crime 136 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:18,200 Speaker 3: we were meant to be. Did you hear what I said? 137 00:07:18,280 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 3: These other people I'm seeing don't do all that crime. 138 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 3: I just care your plunk ass up. That's why she's cheating. 139 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:43,280 Speaker 3: Don't nobody want you, Jenny. 140 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:39,800 Speaker 2: It's Steve Arbin Martin show Man. 141 00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 3: You only get hated on by people who are less 142 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 3: than you. Nobody doing better than you hate some you. 143 00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 3: It's always the lesser. 144 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 2: Thy hate always come from the bottom. That's why they 145 00:07:52,040 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 2: call them bottom feet. 146 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:57,120 Speaker 3: God has positioned you, as well as myself, up on 147 00:07:57,120 --> 00:08:01,720 Speaker 3: the wall. We're climbing to a destiny that's so great. 148 00:08:02,360 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 3: When they start throwing rocks and they pull from the bottom, 149 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:09,840 Speaker 3: you cannot get down off the wall. You cannot stop 150 00:08:09,880 --> 00:08:13,160 Speaker 3: your forward progress to climb down and address him because 151 00:08:13,200 --> 00:08:16,600 Speaker 3: you stopping your progress. And they don't have power unless 152 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:19,320 Speaker 3: you give it to them. It's Mortar Steve Harby Morris 153 00:08:19,360 --> 00:08:20,480 Speaker 3: Show coming up right after that.