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Speaker 1: Frooking Jebels. Second date update. A girl who's on the
Speaker 1: phone to do a second date update today had her
Speaker 1: date end in one of the most awkward ways possible.
Speaker 1: Her name is Meredith. Meredith, how are you hey, I'm
Speaker 1: doing okay. Thank you for doing a second date update today.
Speaker 1: I appreciate it. He no, thanks for having me. You're welcome.
Speaker 1: We don't normally do this, But why don't we start
Speaker 1: this second date update with the end of your date.
Speaker 1: Let's start at the end because I was dying to
Speaker 1: hear what happens, So why don't you tell everybody what happened.
Speaker 1: It ended with a hug, right, Okay, that's not the
Speaker 1: worst part. What happened before the hug? Okay? So keep
Speaker 1: in mind that we spent almost three hours together. Um,
Speaker 1: and he said it was nice meeting you. But the
Speaker 1: entire time of our date, you've actually been calling me
Speaker 1: matt Um. But it's actually Mike. You were calling him
Speaker 1: the wrong name then, yeah, but he didn't correct me.
Speaker 1: I think that's on him. Yeah, I mean, how am
Speaker 1: I listen to? I heard it incorrectly and he never
Speaker 1: once tried to correct me again, so I had no idea.
Speaker 1: He did correct you at the end. And what did
Speaker 1: you say after he said, actually, what is his name
Speaker 1: Matt or Mike? Now I'm confused. I was calling him Matt,
Speaker 1: but his name is actually Mike. Okay, And what did
Speaker 1: you say when he corrected you? Finally at the very end,
Speaker 1: I was just so embarrassed and I was just like,
Speaker 1: I am so sorry. I had no idea. So how
Speaker 1: did you meet this dude? We met at swing dancing
Speaker 1: class okay, okay, like previously or that night. It was
Speaker 1: literally that day, like he did the swinging dancing class
Speaker 1: and then he asked me to go to the bar
Speaker 1: right after. Oh that's good because I imagined you having
Speaker 1: classes with this guy for weeks and weeks and weeks. No, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: it was the first class. I'd only heard his name
Speaker 1: when you first introduced himself or the wrong name. Okay,
Speaker 1: that makes it a little more excusable then if it's
Speaker 1: the first night that you met him, and you got
Speaker 1: his name wrong, not if you guys had known each
Speaker 1: other for a while, right, right, right? And I assume
Speaker 1: you thought that the drinks after dancing were going great. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was having a really good time, and I thought
Speaker 1: he was too. I was hoping that, you know, the
Speaker 1: night would just keep going on. Maybe we could do
Speaker 1: something after or you know, get another drink or something.
Speaker 1: But he ended up saying that he had to go
Speaker 1: because he had worked the next day. So I don't know,
Speaker 1: I guess, I don't know. I thought he was really
Speaker 1: enjoying himself, so I was a little bit disappointed. Other
Speaker 1: than the name stuff. What did you like about this guy?
Speaker 1: Why do you want to do a second date? Update?
Speaker 1: When I first met him, he just seemed really like
Speaker 1: goofy and he says something really funny. When I first
Speaker 1: showed up the class, I looked around and I was
Speaker 1: the only person who wasn't in a couple. I was
Speaker 1: the only single person. I mean I I was pretty
Speaker 1: sure that there'd be other people there, but it was
Speaker 1: just me and him. So they immediately matched us together
Speaker 1: and he cracked a joke like he made me feel
Speaker 1: less embarrassed, and he was just like you know, maybe
Speaker 1: we should just get married and make this less awkward. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: he was really funny. It was just you know, it
Speaker 1: made me feel a lot better about taking the class.
Speaker 1: And you know, for a guy who has such a
Speaker 1: great sense of humor, it just seems really weird that
Speaker 1: would like the reason that he hasn't texted me back anymore.
Speaker 1: Was there any other awkward moments that you can think
Speaker 1: of it all? There was one other like slightly awkward moment,
Speaker 1: but again it was like closed with a laugh, you know,
Speaker 1: like midway through or so. I was filling this connection
Speaker 1: with him, and you know, I'd already had a drink
Speaker 1: and I'm a lightweight, and I sort of blurted out like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, you remind me of my dad. Oh
Speaker 1: nobody wants to man. I feel like that's worse than
Speaker 1: calling him the wrong name. I mean, can you imagine
Speaker 1: if he would have said, oh, you remind me of
Speaker 1: my mom. Girls. But no, I didn't mean it like that,
Speaker 1: Like I was like, no, not in that weight, Like
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like, my dad's really funny
Speaker 1: and he cracks joke. He just reminded me that like
Speaker 1: kind of goofball the way that he cracked Ke. So, yeah,
Speaker 1: dad humor a compliment. You know, I love my dad
Speaker 1: sense of humor, and it's just something that I thought
Speaker 1: I could connect to him with. Like thing, it's a
Speaker 1: guy that's you're romantically interested in. You might not want
Speaker 1: to draw that comparison. All right, Well we'll play a song.
Speaker 1: Come back, call your sort of dad guy, no Mike
Speaker 1: or Matt or whatever, and get your second date update. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: looking jubil in the morning. Second, we're halfway through the
Speaker 1: second date update. And if you're just joining us, Meredith
Speaker 1: is on the phone and Meredith wants to date her dad. Oh, unfortunately,
Speaker 1: I think her dad spoken four. So she wants us
Speaker 1: to call a guy named Mike today. The reason I
Speaker 1: say that is because during the date, Meredith laughed and said,
Speaker 1: you remind me of my dad, and there was an
Speaker 1: awkward moment then, And there was also a major awkward
Speaker 1: moment when at the end of the date Mike said, hey,
Speaker 1: by the way, you've been calling me Matt all night,
Speaker 1: and then they shared a hug and he walked out
Speaker 1: of her life forever. Okay, Meredith, we're about to call
Speaker 1: Mike and see why he's not calling you back, even
Speaker 1: though we think we might know the answer. I feel
Speaker 1: horrible that that happened, but we had such a good
Speaker 1: chemistry together. Yeah, but listening to the recap, don't you
Speaker 1: even feel like you totally BRUI that day? Totally? I mean,
Speaker 1: you know, onto the circumstances, it wasn't the worst thing
Speaker 1: that could happen. Yeah, you just told him that you're
Speaker 1: remind him of your dad, That's all. I mean. You
Speaker 1: could have said it while you guys were naked in
Speaker 1: bed together, and that would have been worse. You're right,
Speaker 1: Oh god, he knew it was the sense of humor.
Speaker 1: I explained, all right, I'm gonna dial his phone number
Speaker 1: right now. Okay, oh god, I'm nervous. Hulu, I was
Speaker 1: looking for Mike. This is Mike. Hey Mike, how are you.
Speaker 1: My name is Jubil and I host a radio show
Speaker 1: called Brook and Jewbil in the Morning. Who are you.
Speaker 1: My name is Jubil and I host a radio show
Speaker 1: called Brook and Jewbil in the Morning. I'm calling you
Speaker 1: today because we actually got an email about you from
Speaker 1: one of our listeners. Okay, name is Meredith. Oh my god.
Speaker 1: And you met Meredith at a swing dance in class
Speaker 1: and then you guys went out for drinks after. Yes,
Speaker 1: that happened. Okay, that is confirmed. Good, I'm glad we
Speaker 1: got that out of the way. We're all in the
Speaker 1: same page. Well, Meredith is wondering why you're not giving
Speaker 1: her a call back after your date. Really? Yeah, So
Speaker 1: she asked us if we could get you on the
Speaker 1: phone and figure out if she did something wrong. Huh,
Speaker 1: all right? All right, well, all right? What all right?
Speaker 1: You can tell us what happened? Or is this whole
Speaker 1: thing just a joke. No, it's not at all. It's
Speaker 1: a segment we do on our show called the Second
Speaker 1: Date Update. That's why I'm calling you today. I'm wondering
Speaker 1: if Meredith did something wrong on your date. Uh. I
Speaker 1: don't know, not really, I guess I just don't think
Speaker 1: we're a great match. Is it? Is it because she
Speaker 1: called you Matt instead of Mike the entire time? How
Speaker 1: are you knowing that? Oh? Because we talked to Meredith
Speaker 1: about your date and she told us everything that happened.
Speaker 1: She also said that there was one awkward moment where
Speaker 1: she kind of compared you to her dad, and she
Speaker 1: thought maybe that was the reason that you didn't want
Speaker 1: to go out with her again. Yeah, that was definitely
Speaker 1: a little weird. Um. Yeah, well, I mean a lot
Speaker 1: of people like their parents, so that was probably well,
Speaker 1: I mean, just in general, that was maybe a compliment, Mike.
Speaker 1: You ever think about that. It's a weird thing to say.
Speaker 1: So was that? It is it? Those two things in
Speaker 1: calling you the wrong name and comparing you to the dad,
Speaker 1: those are pretty big things. It was that and something else? Well,
Speaker 1: what else was there? I don't know. She just kind
Speaker 1: of takes off a pet peeve. It's like, you know,
Speaker 1: it's more it's more me than it is her. It's like,
Speaker 1: it's not her fault. She's a sweet girl. That's like
Speaker 1: the worst breakup line ever. Though it's me, it's not you.
Speaker 1: What is it? She was doing this weird saying when
Speaker 1: we were at the bar, and maybe she was doing
Speaker 1: it all night, but I only noticed when we got
Speaker 1: to the bar. But I was telling her a story
Speaker 1: and she goes, oh my god, are you smurfing serious?
Speaker 1: Smurfing serious is what she said, like the cartoon show smurfhing? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess so I was just like, what do you mean?
Speaker 1: She responded by saying, your story is florking crazy? Florking?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she said florking. It was like every single
Speaker 1: time she went to swear, she just replaced it with
Speaker 1: a nonsense word. You gotta give her a break, Like
Speaker 1: maybe she was just trying to be ladylike or watch
Speaker 1: her manners on a first date, I guess. But this
Speaker 1: isn't like the nineteen fifties. You know, you can it's
Speaker 1: okay to swear. Was it just that instance or was
Speaker 1: it more than that? Yeah, Like, you know, I'd be
Speaker 1: telling her a story and then she just like cut
Speaker 1: me off, yell or something like holy heckel specs, Wow
Speaker 1: she said that. Jus, I don't think we can air
Speaker 1: that on the radio. That's edgy stuff. Good gracious, Mike,
Speaker 1: I think she sounds kind of cute. Hey, Mike, I
Speaker 1: do need to let you know that she's actually on
Speaker 1: the other line right now listening and wants to talk
Speaker 1: to you. Wait are you Syria? Yes, I am Meredith.
Speaker 1: You there? Yeah, Hi, Mike, this is pretty weird. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I wasn't expecting that to come out of your mouth,
Speaker 1: expecting what to come out of my mouth. Holy heckel specs. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you may have just pissed Meredith off there. Oh, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: sorry about that ratif. I mean, did you want me
Speaker 1: to curse like a sailor? The whole time I was like,
Speaker 1: I mean, you don't necessarily have to swear, but if
Speaker 1: you're gonna do it, to do it right. I don't know,
Speaker 1: but I don't like to curse. And you started doing it,
Speaker 1: and I kind of wanted to, you know, follow suit,
Speaker 1: but I don't. I don't. I don't curse, and so
Speaker 1: you know, I just do what my sister and I
Speaker 1: do at home. When you know it, that's really started
Speaker 1: when we wanted to like say things, and like our
Speaker 1: parents were there and we didn't want to be disrespectful,
Speaker 1: but it just kind of makes it makes you sound
Speaker 1: really immature. Well, cussing makes one sound really unintelligent and uneducated. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess, but it's just kind of hard to have
Speaker 1: a conversation when someone out of nowhere yells son of
Speaker 1: a bugger butt, that's any better than some of the
Speaker 1: other B word. That's starting to me. So, I mean,
Speaker 1: it's just I thought you seemed like you had, like,
Speaker 1: you know, a fun sense of humor, so like we
Speaker 1: laugh about it all the time, even our parents laugh
Speaker 1: about it because it's funny, like we make stuff up,
Speaker 1: we're preative about it, and it's oh my god. I
Speaker 1: mean it's something maybe your parents think it's funny, but like, honestly,
Speaker 1: to me, it was like having a drink with a kindergartener. Wow.
Speaker 1: So it's like I like me, I know, I remind
Speaker 1: you of your dad, but like I'm not your dad.
Speaker 1: Maybe like your dad funny, but like I don't really
Speaker 1: I don't know. Like you can cuss. You can cuss
Speaker 1: in front of Mike if you want to, Meredith, I
Speaker 1: think that's what he's saying, but I don't. I don't
Speaker 1: want to cuss. Like I mean, I know, I have
Speaker 1: freedom and speech, I can say whatever I want. I
Speaker 1: just don't like saying. It's not polite, it's not ladylike.
Speaker 1: And it was the first date. So I'm not gonna,
Speaker 1: you know, bring it out. Yeah, I mean, she has
Speaker 1: a really good point, Mike, but I mean you can't
Speaker 1: get over some stupid phrases like holy Ravioli or whatever
Speaker 1: she was saying. I don't. I mean, I cuss like
Speaker 1: a sailor, but you know, to each their own, I mean, yeah, exactly,
Speaker 1: I each their own, but I'm just not into it.
Speaker 1: I guess, you know, I kind of want to feel
Speaker 1: like I'm talking to an adult, you know, especially if
Speaker 1: it's like someone that I'm gonna, you know, potentially be
Speaker 1: in a relationship with. Mike, maybe you want to reconsider.
Speaker 1: Maybe she can tone down the nonsense words or whatever,
Speaker 1: and you guys could go out again. Would you like
Speaker 1: to go out on a second date with her? We'll
Speaker 1: pay for it. I mean, I maybe if she agree
Speaker 1: is not to I can't believe I'm saying this, But
Speaker 1: if she agrees not to use that kind of language, Meredith,
Speaker 1: can you watch your mouth? Can you watch your mouth?
Speaker 1: To go out with Mike one more time? I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: I honestly don't really do it with other friends. It's
Speaker 1: just something that my sister and I did. And then,
Speaker 1: like Meredith with the dad, I think you should just
Speaker 1: own that you were the offensive one on this date
Speaker 1: for probably the first time in your life. I'm sorry, Mike,
Speaker 1: not Matt. Would you like to go on a second
Speaker 1: date with me? If I told down? Sure, let's give
Speaker 1: it another track? All right? Nice a successful second date update.
Speaker 1: Congratulations you guys, Thanks, thank you so much. You're welcome
Speaker 1: you guys. Go out, have fun, and then snarf all
Speaker 1: night long, just snarf to your heart, to content, broken
Speaker 1: jewel in the morning.