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Speaker 1: My daughter hid my husband's affair. I don't know how

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Speaker 1: to move on. What are you doing that for? Daughter?

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Speaker 1: Maybe you move on into twenty twenty five? You should,

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Speaker 1: oh well. I female forty nine was married to my

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Speaker 1: ex husband, Derek forty nine male, for twenty years before

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Speaker 1: divorcing a few months ago. We have two kids, a

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Speaker 1: and my world was shattered. Just to be clear, it

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Speaker 1: does not pass Sam's Samuel Donna's Golden Rules of cheating. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we need to have that written down on a board

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Speaker 1: somewhere in the back. It's on discord, I think so.

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Speaker 1: But what hurt almost as much was discovering that my

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Speaker 1: daughter had known about the affair the whole time. She

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Speaker 1: actively hid it from me for two years, lied covered

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Speaker 1: for him, and never once tried to warn. Oh god,

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Speaker 1: and she's twenty two. Yeah. I was about to say

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Speaker 1: I need the refresher on her age, because twenty two

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Speaker 1: is you should know not to do that. And this

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Speaker 1: comes from a throwaway Liz and a blizz on the Archlust. Okay, storytime,

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Speaker 1: supread it? So when I found out. I was devastated,

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Speaker 1: not just by my husband's betrayal, but by my daughter's

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Speaker 1: choice to keep it from me. She was young at

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Speaker 1: the time, okay, so not Oh yeah, she was twenty

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Speaker 1: still though, like by the time you're twenty. Maybe she

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Speaker 1: just has a preferred parent. Maybe she she likes her

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Speaker 2: No, I'm not saying it's right. I'm not saying it's right.

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying, if she's daddy's girl, then maybe she

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Speaker 1: Mom about the affair. I don't know, well, Opie says.

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Speaker 1: I understand it was a difficult position for her, but

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Speaker 1: the pain was immense. I never confronted her directly, thinking

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Speaker 1: I understood, and I tried to move on. But after

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Speaker 1: and more. It wasn't planned. I just needed to heal.

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Speaker 1: I just needed space to heal, and that meant not

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Speaker 1: calling her as often or reaching out as much. Fast

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Speaker 1: forward a year and a half later, and I've started

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Speaker 1: dating someone forty one male who has a ten year

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Speaker 1: old daughter from a previous relationship. Recently, we all went

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Speaker 1: to Disney together and he posted a family photo of

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Speaker 1: us on social media for context. My boyfriend covered all

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Speaker 1: of the expenses as a gift. That is right, queen, upgrade,

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Speaker 1: get your back five graded queen. Oh god. And he

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Speaker 1: wanted it to make it and he wanted no, no, no no.

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Speaker 1: It was an expensive gift for his daughter's birthday. Wanting

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Speaker 1: making it a big family style trip that was all

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Speaker 1: about her. I love it, Okay, great, Okay. My daughter

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Speaker 1: must have seen it because she didn't call me for

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Speaker 1: over a mon month afterwards, and honestly I wasn't as

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Speaker 1: I still love her, but every interaction brings up that pain.

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Speaker 2: Oh, you guys need to go talk that out, like

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Speaker 2: that's not something you can just like, I'm gonna let

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Speaker 2: that simmer for a couple of years. I low key

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Speaker 2: kind of despised my daughter and am totally fine with

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Speaker 2: the distance growing between us.

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Speaker 1: It's like, no, get ahead of that. Well, Dear Dakota,

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Speaker 1: I have good news for you, Oh, out of nowhere,

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Speaker 1: she called me in tears. There's your good news. Communication.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, communication, at least it's communication news.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. She was screaming, saying I obviously

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Speaker 1: She accused me of quote unquote replacing her with my

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Speaker 1: she's younger. It's like, she kept saying, it was a

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Speaker 1: mean to hurt you, She said. She thought she was

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Speaker 1: doing the right thing by staying quiet, also redoing the math.

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Speaker 1: I think she might have been more around eighteen, so

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Speaker 2: At eighteen, you should know, Like I should tell my

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Speaker 1: I want to tell everyone, but I had to be

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Speaker 1: the chat flood with shh, a sharp shout out to

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Speaker 1: Hannah for that donut. And we're going to read the

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Speaker 1: rest too, and Happy New Year. We're getting get into

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Speaker 1: all that, yes, but we're going to keep reading for now,

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Speaker 1: so doo uh. She She said she thought she was

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Speaker 1: Later chat, she asked me if I'd ever forgive her

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Speaker 1: kept pushing that I should just get over it by now,

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Speaker 1: and a new family and a big old bag at

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Speaker 1: Disney World. Yeah, that big old Disney bag, I added

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Speaker 1: that part. He even had the nerve to call me

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Speaker 1: selfish for moving on. Ironically, his girlfriend is thirty and

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Speaker 1: he's the one who blew up the family with the

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Speaker 1: arm with the affair exactly. Bro, you cannot you cannot talk.

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Speaker 1: You gotta got to be like Hannah and silent nice.

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Speaker 1: It's like no one understands that I'm still trying to

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Speaker 1: and I have to talk to my good friend Dakota,

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Speaker 1: because my god, there's a lot happening right here.

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Speaker 2: It's it seems like all of the like emotional intensity

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Speaker 2: yes for being a dirty scoundrel cheater, has somehow found

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Speaker 2: its way to the daughter, like lea mean to the mom,

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Speaker 2: well no, because she's like I'm so hurt, I can't

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Speaker 2: get over it. But it's like, it's not your daughter

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Speaker 2: who hurt you, really, it's your husband. Everyone's misdirecting the

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's still a hard I can say right now,

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Speaker 2: like well, obviously you'd tell your dad about that, or

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Speaker 2: but faced with the potential of feeling like you're responsible

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Speaker 2: right like, hey, don't blow up the family.

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Speaker 1: Don't you want us to stay together happy?

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Speaker 3: There might have been blackmail or like not blackmail, but like, oh,

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Speaker 3: I'll punish you kind of thing. Yeah, he's a young kid,

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Speaker 3: like exactly teen. She's like in her late teens, but

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Speaker 3: still young. And you know, daddy's money.

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Speaker 1: You know, I can see that, Yeah, planting the seed

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Speaker 3: Or like a threat or something that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, speaking of daddy's money, Daddy, Daddy lips with

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Speaker 1: switch speaking, Daddy's dropped a hundred dollars, don't know on

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Speaker 1: the tip link off? Yeah, I know. Silence, This keeps going, Okay,

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Speaker 1: there it goes. We switched the two words. Fancy stream

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Speaker 1: fancy a stwee. Guys, it's twenty twenty five almost. It's

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Speaker 1: New Year's Eve.

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Speaker 3: If you're watching this later for some people in the

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Speaker 3: future right now, they're a year ahead.

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Speaker 1: You guys are Facebook ever, you can watch it. You

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Speaker 1: see the hat some people, we're already twenty twenty five. Congratulations,

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Speaker 1: we're not there yet. We're not there yet.

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Speaker 3: Congrats, you made it, you made it, you did it.

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Speaker 3: But just a thirty more minutes, just a gift wrap,

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Speaker 3: like a New Year's gift.

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Speaker 1: Your point. I think everyone is misdirecting their anger. The

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Speaker 1: the mom. Everyone should be mad at dad. Right, you cheated,

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Speaker 1: you cheated, you broke up a family, end of story.

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Speaker 1: He is the catalyst. He is the catalyst. I one

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Speaker 1: thousand percent of grade YEA. But let's see if we

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Speaker 1: can make sense of this mess, so Opie says. My son,

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Speaker 1: who lives with me, found out about his sister hiding

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Speaker 1: the affair after overhearing my husband's mom and sister talking.

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Speaker 1: Remember he's the younger one. He's currently seventeen. I believe, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I love my daughter, but every time we talk, the

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Speaker 2: I think they of course, they both could have a

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Speaker 2: these ideas of what the daughter thinks or feels, where

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Speaker 2: it's like she chose her husband cheating on her.

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Speaker 1: When it's really it's like, just I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't even think you need the therapy is a

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Speaker 2: great vehicle to have hard conversations that are difficult to navigate,

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Speaker 2: but you can also just try outside of therapy to

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Speaker 2: where i'm at, daughter, and I love you, and but

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Speaker 3: I just remember, Yeah, it's to me, it's just like

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Speaker 3: of this happened. Yeah, yeah, and I feel like he's

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Speaker 3: just like it's a cop out like ohhh, like no

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Speaker 1: Very that's smart. That's smart. Chat vote one for punished

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Speaker 3: To Kitty for twenty gifted membership, say thank you, YoY.

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Speaker 1: We are just growing the family by leaves and bounds.

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Speaker 1: Good to know I am completely uneducated. That stop you

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Speaker 1: real quick. How many? What's the work out on the story?

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Speaker 1: Get out of here, spaghetti.

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Speaker 2: And then James Gandolphini's Pigs. You're gonna have something to

431
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Speaker 2: say about that.

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Speaker 1: It's so convoluted now, people who don't understand, who have

433
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Speaker 1: not followed the trail of that punishment train, like, let's

434
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Speaker 1: go back. You understand there's, yeah, there's We don't explain it.

435
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Speaker 2: Every video James Gandolphini's Spirit Pigs are a new edition.

436
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:32,160
Speaker 1: There we go so feeling trapped, she lied and kept lying,

437
00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:35,040
Speaker 1: hoping it would somehow blow over without me finding out.

438
00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:38,080
Speaker 1: Hearing this from her was heartbreaking. It didn't justify what

439
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:41,000
Speaker 1: she did, but it helped me understand her perspective. Knowing

440
00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:43,480
Speaker 1: her father pressured her to keep his secret makes my

441
00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:47,080
Speaker 1: anger towards him even stronger. Now we're finally getting angry

442
00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:50,000
Speaker 1: at the right person. He broke everything with his affair

443
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Speaker 1: and then used our daughter to cover for him, making

444
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Speaker 1: her feel trapped and responsible for his lies. I hate that.

445
00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:59,040
Speaker 1: I hate what he put her through. To be honest,

446
00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:01,040
Speaker 1: our marriage was already going through a rough patch at

447
00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:04,240
Speaker 1: the time, and we likely would have ended up divorcing anyways. However,

448
00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:06,720
Speaker 1: it's one thing to fail as a husband, but to

449
00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:09,880
Speaker 1: fail so completely as a parent is unforgivable. True, Yeah,

450
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Speaker 1: you don't get you don't go back from saying something

451
00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:14,960
Speaker 1: like that. That's crazy. That's such a great point. They

452
00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:17,159
Speaker 1: always had a good relationship and I never wanted to

453
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Speaker 1: ruin that for her, even when I was angry at him,

454
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Speaker 1: But seeing how he used her in his lives has

455
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Speaker 1: only deepened my resentment. And then, to be clear, it's

456
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Speaker 1: almost one hundred percent that he lied to a pie saying, oh,

457
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Speaker 1: the daughter you know in enjoyed it or whatever I

458
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Speaker 1: guess she did. She didn't, not that she knew about

459
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Speaker 1: it and used it as like a thing. That's true,

460
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Speaker 1: but it is true also that the dad specifically was like,

461
00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:43,000
Speaker 1: spun it. You were already screwed up enough, Like you

462
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Speaker 1: think your mom wants to hear this? Yaugh? No, no, no.

463
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Speaker 1: I told her that I've been hurt not just by

464
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Speaker 1: her actions but how deeply they shook my trust in her.

465
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Speaker 1: At the same time, I reminded her that I love

466
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Speaker 1: her and I always will, and I said that while

467
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Speaker 1: I can't change the past, I want to rebuild a relationship.

468
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Speaker 1: We agreed to take things once up at a time,

469
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Speaker 1: and I suggested we try online therapy together and while

470
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Speaker 1: She was hesitant at first. She agreed she's already been

471
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Speaker 1: seeing a therapist on her own and wasn't sure about

472
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Speaker 1: opening up in a joint session, but I think she

473
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:13,760
Speaker 1: ultimately realized how much I want to make this work.

474
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Speaker 1: I also brought up her brother. They've never had the

475
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Speaker 1: closest relationship, and he's always been more of a reserved,

476
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Speaker 1: independent person, while she's more outgoing and emotional. There's been

477
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Speaker 1: tension between them in the past, and ever since he

478
00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:28,480
Speaker 1: overheard what happened with her hiding the affair, they've barely spoken.

479
00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:30,720
Speaker 1: I've tried to talk to him about maybe giving her

480
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Speaker 1: another chance, even when I wasn't on the best of

481
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Speaker 1: terms with her. I really want them to have a

482
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Speaker 1: good relationship, but I also don't want to push him

483
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Speaker 1: too much. He's his own person, and I don't feel

484
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Speaker 1: like and I don't want him to feel like I'm

485
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Speaker 1: trying to force him into something that he isn't ready

486
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Speaker 1: for or doesn't want to do. He's allowed me to

487
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Speaker 1: make he's allowed to make his own decisions, and if

488
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Speaker 1: they need time apart to heal, I will respect that.

489
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Speaker 1: But you know what I respect the most, Dakota tell

490
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Speaker 1: me the fact that you can listen to a full

491
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Speaker 1: episode with stories like this by going to Spotify or

492
00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:07,000
Speaker 1: Apple Podcasts or your favorite podcast app and searching. Okay, storytime. Wow,

493
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Speaker 1: did you know that to go on? I did not

494
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Speaker 1: know that. There we go?

495
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Speaker 3: Can you something every day?

496
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Speaker 2: Guy?

497
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Speaker 1: Something every day? I probably should have known that now

498
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Speaker 1: that I forgot it, But you know, let's let's let's

499
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Speaker 1: talk about something old. This story that we've been reading

500
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Speaker 1: for the past twenty minutes. Wow, so many things to

501
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Speaker 1: break down. What what did what did chat uh say

502
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Speaker 1: in the poll? Wow? Seventy nine punish hmmm?

503
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Speaker 2: So I and I saw some comments being like, clearly

504
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Speaker 2: you don't have teenagers, and it's like not punishing a

505
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Speaker 2: student after they get expelled as wild and it's like,

506
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Speaker 2: it's true, I don't have teenagers.

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Speaker 1: Yeah uh, But I'm.

508
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Speaker 2: More talking about trying to just reframe the concept of

509
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Speaker 2: the punishment into something else so that they're more likely

510
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:57,359
Speaker 2: to even do it, because if you try to be like,

511
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Speaker 2: no electronics for you, then they're gonna be like.

512
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Speaker 1: Like, oh, come on.

513
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:04,480
Speaker 2: Like but if you can try to reframe it in

514
00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:07,680
Speaker 2: their head, which might not work, but like you gotta try,

515
00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:09,680
Speaker 2: and then if it doesn't work, you go, all right,

516
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:12,359
Speaker 2: well I'm still taking your phone away, So yeah, I think.

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Speaker 1: It's it really is such a tricky thing because it

518
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 1: just can backfire so easily, like you said, and the

519
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:24,639
Speaker 1: question like, really, what we want to do at the

520
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:27,480
Speaker 1: end of the day is figure out what's going to

521
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Speaker 1: like actually work and be effective. Right, And I feel

522
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Speaker 1: like a lot of times these kind of pun specifically

523
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Speaker 1: because she's already been punished by the outside world. And

524
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Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of people have this thing

525
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Speaker 1: of like, oh, like, let me punish you so that way,

526
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Speaker 1: you know you're prepared for let me like over punish you,

527
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:45,520
Speaker 1: so you're prepare for like what the world's gonna do.

528
00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 1: But I'm like, in this case, she already got the

529
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Speaker 1: dose of reality. She already had to move schools, had

530
00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:52,720
Speaker 1: to repeat a year, was probably embarrassed, and like all

531
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:55,360
Speaker 1: these things. And I'm like, low key, do we just

532
00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 1: sit down with her and like maybe have some some

533
00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 1: nature time, some reflection time framed as that and not

534
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 1: as like I'm taking away your electronics and force you

535
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:05,360
Speaker 1: to do something. I kind of like your idea a lot.

536
00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 2: Honestly, it sounds like she's someone who's probably been punished

537
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:11,320
Speaker 2: a lot in her scholastic career. Yeah, if she's at

538
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 2: the point of being expelled, so it's not like this

539
00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:15,680
Speaker 2: is new territory. And if it's like if it hasn't

540
00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 2: been working the whole time, I don't know, you gotta

541
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Speaker 2: try something else, I guess slightly.

542
00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 1: Toad says, when my mom took away my gaming consoles

543
00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:26,000
Speaker 1: from me as a kid, before she gave them back,

544
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:31,680
Speaker 1: she always made me. She always made me tell her

545
00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 1: why I lost them, what I did wrong, and why

546
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:38,360
Speaker 1: having them was a privilege. Yeah, that's super good. That

547
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 1: I think is important because like I also hate the

548
00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:45,160
Speaker 1: because I told you so, explain and have the child

549
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 1: to understand why. I think that is the most critical thing.

550
00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:53,640
Speaker 1: And like, yeah, I completely agree with that. I'm Cheryl

551
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Speaker 1: die or what was the other ones you highlighted? Oh,

552
00:28:57,480 --> 00:29:03,520
Speaker 1: Miriam langdon not teaching consequences leads to bigger problems. That

553
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:07,520
Speaker 1: that involves bail money. Yeah, I mean, I will say,

554
00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:12,040
Speaker 1: we don't know exactly what she did. No, so true,

555
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:15,320
Speaker 1: that is some important context if she if she did

556
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 1: a legit crime, that if she wasn't like a team,

557
00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:21,720
Speaker 1: she would have Oh, Helena Baines says she was expelled

558
00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 1: for boiling a kid to the point of extreme self harm.

559
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:30,400
Speaker 1: That's really bad. I don't know if we saw that

560
00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:33,120
Speaker 1: in the story or maybe I don't know if Helena

561
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:36,240
Speaker 1: Banes has some other context, but let's just say for

562
00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:39,840
Speaker 1: examples sake, that that was the situation. Yeah, I think

563
00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 1: I think kind of like Dakota, what you're saying, like

564
00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 1: some people and a lot of these are bad, but

565
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 1: you know those like nature camps or whatever, like I

566
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 1: don't know, just go what if you go as a

567
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 1: family for like a week with like a counselor or

568
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:52,840
Speaker 1: something like in nature, like I don't know, something along

569
00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 1: those lines, Yeah, versus like I don't know.

570
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Speaker 2: Well, it's like it's really hard because, like I don't know,

571
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:03,680
Speaker 2: people are people are all resistant to change, Like every

572
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 2: person is going to resist change.

573
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Speaker 1: No one likes being told like being slapped on the rest, right,

574
00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:09,080
Speaker 1: no one likes it.

575
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Speaker 2: And it's like when people change, usually the seed of

576
00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 2: it like comes from within themselves. That and that's what

577
00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:16,600
Speaker 2: we want to try to write, just trying to get

578
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:20,560
Speaker 2: that seed planted in her brain so that she actually

579
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:24,400
Speaker 2: wants to change instead of being made to feel like

580
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:26,800
Speaker 2: she has to, or she's being forced.

581
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:31,239
Speaker 1: To, even though she maybe should have to or be

582
00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:34,600
Speaker 1: forced to most definitely, it's just your results are probably

583
00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:35,440
Speaker 1: not going to be as good.

584
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Speaker 2: It's like the movie Inception. We have to incept her.

585
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:42,560
Speaker 2: You have to give her the crazy. That's not crazy,

586
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 2: it's not a crazy within the context of the conversation.

587
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:50,000
Speaker 1: Normally we have to we have to like, like, uh, Leo,

588
00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 1: we have to do what Leo did, which was you

589
00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:54,960
Speaker 1: basically give someone an idea and they think that they

590
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 1: thought of it themselves, and they're like, oh, let me

591
00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:59,680
Speaker 1: like act upon this, and I feel good about that. Yes,

592
00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:02,440
Speaker 1: that's what I said. That's exactly that is exactly what

593
00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 1: you said. See, well, let's finish the story and then

594
00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 1: get to these donus. So someone mentioned the unrealistic standards

595
00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 1: that we are often that we often hold women to,

596
00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:14,080
Speaker 1: and I've been thinking a lot about that. I don't

597
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 1: want her. I don't want to hold her to any

598
00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 1: impossible standard just because she's a woman. She is a

599
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:21,720
Speaker 1: light of my life. But sometimes I realize I've shared

600
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 1: everything in such a negative way because of how it

601
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:25,920
Speaker 1: all played out. I'm just trying to make sense of

602
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:28,200
Speaker 1: it all. I don't know exactly where I stand or

603
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:30,320
Speaker 1: what I'm feeling. At times. I'm just moving through life

604
00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:32,720
Speaker 1: like everyone else, doing the best I can. Thank you

605
00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:34,480
Speaker 1: all again for your advice and for giving me the

606
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 1: push that I needed to start this conversation. It's not easy,

607
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:41,480
Speaker 1: but I'm hopeful we'll get through this one step out

608
00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:44,840
Speaker 1: of time. That's what she got to do. I think

609
00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:49,160
Speaker 1: we're on a good path to figuring it out. One

610
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 1: step at a time, one step at a time, day time.

611
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:56,040
Speaker 1: I like it. I like it. Yep, Happy freaking New Year, guys. Yeah, hey,

612
00:31:56,080 --> 00:32:01,360
Speaker 1: happy New Year's everybody. We're here. Five is quarter of

613
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Speaker 1: the century, baby, quarter of a quarter century. Think about that.

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Speaker 3: That's okay, John, you we know you don't think that's true.

615
00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:09,440
Speaker 3: You just do.

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Speaker 1: That's very true. John doesn't have time to think. He's

617
00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:13,800
Speaker 1: got all this stuff he's gotta do. Look at that

618
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:15,880
Speaker 1: head running around. You know, I got a lot of

619
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Speaker 1: I I I listen, when I was born. When I

620
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 1: was born, I couldn't fit out. Yeah, it's true. Had

621
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Speaker 1: to be c section brain too big, My my freaking

622
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Speaker 1: I believe. Wait, you were also the sea. I was

623
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Speaker 1: the I was also the see are we all three?

624
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Speaker 1: The se? Let's freaking.

625
00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 3: That's wild. We're all We're all marbles in here, no

626
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 3: wonder we are the way that we are right.

627
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Speaker 1: Oh that's so true.

628
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Speaker 2: Wow, big old craniums Well, Dakota, could you do me

629
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Speaker 2: the honor of using your big old cranium to read

630
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Speaker 2: these avalanche.

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Speaker 3: Of freaking I guess you know what's gonna happen? What

632
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:00,800
Speaker 3: more are gonna come?

633
00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:01,000
Speaker 2: Right?

634
00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 1: You're coming? Why are you right? I'm always right? I'm

635
00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:05,880
Speaker 1: left the coda.

636
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Speaker 3: Let's go, let's do Let's do this one.

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Speaker 1: Let's start with super chat. Okay, Amy, thanks for the

638
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Speaker 1: five dollars.

639
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Speaker 2: John's never allowed to stop streaming because I told you so.

640
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Speaker 2: You gotta listen name okay uh gwinny bly. Thanks for

641
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Speaker 2: the three Australian dollars. I believe dad was playing three

642
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Speaker 2: D chess with emotions jerk. Yes, he was playing stinky

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Speaker 2: three D chess. All the pieces were made out of

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Speaker 2: spoiled cheddar cheese. Amy, And again, thank you for two

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Speaker 2: dollars Infinity Stream.

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Speaker 1: I did the challenge that you laid down. I didn't

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Speaker 1: lay that.

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Speaker 3: Someone a dash of startist called us the Golden Gremblin

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Speaker 3: Sea gold Golden.

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Speaker 1: Dollars. Oh my god, we'll get to it.

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Speaker 2: We'll get it, Allie, thanks for the fifty bucks to me.

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Speaker 1: What fifty bucks from Ali?

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Speaker 2: Ali says chaos Kao's control Control Kitty Tone, thanks for

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Speaker 2: being a member for five months. Missed you, guys. I

655
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:14,400
Speaker 2: haven't caught your show in months, but I'm back. Maybe

656
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:17,040
Speaker 2: gonna have to start catching up with the new year. Well,

657
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Speaker 2: welcome back, Kittie. We're so glad to have you. Thanks

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Speaker 2: for the members and yes, thank you, Duchess Cassandra. Member

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Speaker 2: for ten months. Cassandra, Oh it's okay, It's okay, I've

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Speaker 2: ruined it. I'm gonna go now, I've ruined it. No

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Speaker 2: cass from twenty twenty five. Yere, Happy new year, y'all

662
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:40,360
Speaker 2: still looking fine in the future.

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Speaker 1: Love to the whole gang from Australia. Also like the stream.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, cass They're so incredible. We have Amy.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for the five bucks and the sheet you knew.

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Speaker 2: Lisa Marie, Thanks for the Australian dollar.

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Speaker 1: We love it.

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Speaker 2: Uh Winter Winter ninety six girl, thanks for the five

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Speaker 2: gifted Okay storytime memberships and Kitty Renee thanks for the

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Speaker 2: twenty gifted memberships and if you've gotten a gifted membership

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00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:09,520
Speaker 2: or you're lurking in the chat sound off.

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00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:11,879
Speaker 1: We want to see your comments in the chat sound off.

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Speaker 2: Dragon Princess, Welcome to the Knights, Kitty Renee, Welcome back

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00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:18,200
Speaker 2: to the Knights, and Amy, thank you for the collective

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Speaker 2: four dollars from these two donos. John stop lying You're

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Speaker 2: never allowed to leave now. Twenty four hour stream for

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Speaker 2: New Year's.

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Speaker 1: Oh Amy, Oh boy?

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Speaker 2: And I think it's Geon, right, is it is? I

680
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 2: think it's because it's my name.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to remember.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like yeah, He's like it sounds like keon.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for being a member for two months. G

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Speaker 2: on Happy New Year. I was in bed by eight pm.

685
00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:45,839
Speaker 2: Got to love having two small kids and a job

686
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Speaker 2: that starts at three in the morning. Love the suit streams.

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Speaker 2: We love you, Geon uh Ali, thanks for the five

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Speaker 2: gifted memberships.

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Speaker 1: You guys are on fire today.

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Speaker 2: Crazy Trojan Babe eighty eight Welcome to the Knights and

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Speaker 2: flip switched member for two months.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for that flip switch.

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00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:08,320
Speaker 2: Happy New Year fan excited for the suit stream.

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Speaker 1: My voice is losing the fight a little raspy, guys.

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00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:19,840
Speaker 2: I'm a Raspy Guy, Squiggly Girl, thanks for Squiggy Squiggy

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Speaker 2: Squiggy Girl. Thanks for the one Okay Storytime membership. And

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Speaker 2: vix Mix our resident, our favorite resident, thank you for

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Speaker 2: the five gifted memberships.

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Speaker 3: Well guess what, guess what? I have to go all

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Speaker 3: the way down now you got more Wow.

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Speaker 2: And Jen Thompson thanks for the ten gifted memberships How

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Speaker 2: it Ends. Thanks for the ten dollars. What you're describing

703
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:45,799
Speaker 2: is punishment. It's not a suggestion, but the rationale and

704
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 2: offer of support should always be included. Punishment is not

705
00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:54,800
Speaker 2: just making your kid feel bad. Agreed, Agreed, good perspective.

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Speaker 2: Fluffy Saffy, thanks for being a member for eight months.

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00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:01,239
Speaker 2: Happy New Year, a lazy January for is here already.

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Speaker 2: The stream is a great way to start twenty five.

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Speaker 1: I agree. You know what's funny in the twenty four

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Speaker 1: twenty five?

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Speaker 3: Do you know what they're calling it? Do you know

712
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Speaker 3: they're calling baties into the twenty fifth the twenty fifth year?

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Speaker 3: The betas, the betas, Yeah, the Beta Beta, Jen Alf

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Speaker 3: and now there's Jen Beta.

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Speaker 1: That's so funny. They're gonna suck. They are gonna be

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00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:26,360
Speaker 1: really funny.

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Speaker 2: I think if the progression goes right, because it's like

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Speaker 2: gen Z was like really funny, right, and then jenn

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Speaker 2: A kind of took a dip.

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Speaker 1: I mean, they're not bad, but they're pretty funny.

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Speaker 2: They're pretty funny, but it's like I feel like they

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Speaker 2: weren't as iconic. Have you seen that jen Beta is

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Speaker 2: about to like take over?

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Speaker 4: Did you?

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Speaker 1: Did you see the video that me and Sam interviewed.

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00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:45,080
Speaker 1: It was like our corn kid video. We interviewed this

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Speaker 1: like eleven year old. He was just like Socrates as

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Speaker 1: eleven years old, dude as a child. Have I seen that?

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Speaker 1: I feel like I have. I think I have. Maybe

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Speaker 1: we can pull it up later. I think I have.

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Speaker 1: It's a fun one, Hannah.

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Speaker 3: It's crazy.

733
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Speaker 1: The one hundred dollars dono.

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Speaker 2: On top of everything you've already donated today already just silent,

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Speaker 2: just you know what to put in the chat.

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Speaker 1: Sin Uh and Sassy Sin thanks for the fifty bucks.

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Speaker 2: My god, my favorite boy band team, John Dakota and

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Speaker 2: Keon splash those beautiful smiles.

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Speaker 1: Gentlemen.

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Speaker 2: Have a happy new year everyone, well, thank you Sassy.

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Speaker 3: Sin from this where we go from the top here.

742
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Speaker 2: And NJ Lady Biker, Thanks for the twenty five bucks.

743
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Speaker 2: Happy New Year, Happy New Year.

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00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:42,239
Speaker 1: To you out there in New Jersey.

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Speaker 3: Keep you guys called it, just keep Salana Rigs.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for the five bucks. Today is my dad's seventy

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Speaker 1: fifth birthday.

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Speaker 2: Happy New Year to you three fine looking gentlemen, and

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Speaker 2: happy birthday to your dad.

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Speaker 3: Happy birthday, all right, going down, going.

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Speaker 2: Down, Dragon Princess, thanks for the five dollars. I hope

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Speaker 2: everyone's new year is filled with joy, good health, peace, prosperity,

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00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:04,920
Speaker 2: and love.

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Speaker 1: Also lovely Dakota.

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Speaker 2: My piggy Neville says he doesn't want to eat creepy

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00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:13,560
Speaker 2: jerks they taste bad. Well, then he definitely shouldn't work

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Speaker 2: for James Gandolfini in the Kits of Tartaris, because that

758
00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:20,480
Speaker 2: is all they eat in there is stinky space spaghetti.

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Speaker 1: If you have a pig named Neville, that's the greatest

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Speaker 1: thing I've ever heard. Yes, also say I'm sure Nevill's

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Speaker 1: an excellent pig.

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Speaker 2: Flip flip switched fifty bucks in a tiplink, no less

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Speaker 2: with two little hearts, two little hearts, my gosh and

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Speaker 2: Hannah one hundred and fifty, one hundred fifty bucks in

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Speaker 2: the tipling Crazy don't worry.

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Speaker 1: I heard the five hour time limit.

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Speaker 2: Just trying to get there, get us there along with

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Speaker 2: all these other generous donators, and yes they are all

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Speaker 2: so generous.

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Speaker 1: Its greatest um vix makes. Thank you for the five dollars.

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Speaker 2: My nephews have a happy and safe New Year's Auntie.

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Speaker 1: Thank you mis Uh Samantha. Thanks for the hundred dollars

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Speaker 1: Happy New Year.

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Speaker 2: And the little confetti ball Uh Winter, thanks for the

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Speaker 2: ten bucks in the tip link where YouTube does not

776
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Speaker 2: take thirty percent and flip switched again.

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Speaker 1: One hundred bucks.

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Speaker 2: Fancy stream all caps, mount Avs Girl, thanks for the

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Speaker 2: twenty five bucks. Happy New Year from Montana and a

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Speaker 2: shout out to Bug for her candles.

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Speaker 1: I got my candles on Saturday. Love the set. Let's

782
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Speaker 1: go shout out Bug and those shout out to anybody

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00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:34,800
Speaker 1: who got bugs candles.

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Speaker 2: Say what cross crash the site? Crash the site? And

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Speaker 2: is that was that? The bottom is at the bottom.

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Speaker 3: I have the double check. I'm gonna keep checking because you.

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Speaker 1: Right, guys, because now it's at the top.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, fifty bucks from casts at the top.

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Speaker 1: I love watching you guys.

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00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:55,240
Speaker 2: You bring so much fun and joy to so many people.

791
00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:57,640
Speaker 2: Thank you guys, and happy New Year. Well, happy new

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Speaker 2: year to you casts.

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Speaker 1: And I'm it brings me joy to know that I

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Speaker 1: bring joy. I like that feeling.

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Speaker 2: It's crazy to think about how many people these these

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Speaker 2: words and of this is crazy. Oh wait a minute,

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Speaker 2: Geon'm just commented that they're disappointed that I'm not in

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Speaker 2: a suit.

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Speaker 1: What are you talking? Hello?

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Speaker 2: Do I not look like I mean? It's the hat.

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Speaker 2: It's the hat. No, it's not the hat.

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Speaker 3: Here read this one.

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Speaker 1: I also saw somebody said I had to take it

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Speaker 1: off because I said Casanda's name wrong. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: In Satia, thanks for being a member for ten months.

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00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 2: My god, Happy new Year. Thanks for all the memories

807
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:48,399
Speaker 2: you've helped create this year well, and thanks for being

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00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 2: here with us in Satia. The memories would it be

809
00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:53,360
Speaker 2: here if you weren't here to have them with us.

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00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:58,359
Speaker 2: Brenda P Thanks for twenty five bucks in the tip link.

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00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:02,280
Speaker 2: You guys are great fun to watch. Thank you, Brenda,

812
00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:05,360
Speaker 2: Thank you, Thank you, Brenda.

813
00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:08,640
Speaker 1: Thank you, everybody, everybody who's here, thank you.

814
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:12,640
Speaker 2: They keep going, Oh daddy, hey, Eddie's here.

815
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Speaker 1: Thanks the five bucks Eddie.

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00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:18,319
Speaker 2: Happy new Year, Okay, family, wishing you and the whole

817
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:21,960
Speaker 2: okop fam. All the love, joy and success this year

818
00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:25,200
Speaker 2: has to offer you all are truly amazing and being

819
00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:28,400
Speaker 2: part of your journey has been such a privilege. Keep shining,

820
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:30,799
Speaker 2: keep inspiring, and thank you for creating a space that

821
00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:31,600
Speaker 2: feels like home.

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Speaker 1: Ahadi, You're the best. Come on, Eddie, Addie, everyone say

823
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Speaker 1: Happy New Year.

824
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:41,440
Speaker 2: Addie the Goat just dropped the all time great New

825
00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:45,719
Speaker 2: Year's message in the chat. Man, we just have the

826
00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:48,160
Speaker 2: best team. Guys, we just got the best team over here.

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00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:54,319
Speaker 2: I love everybody on this team. Man, It's unbelievable. Just

828
00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:56,200
Speaker 2: makes me want to get out of the chair. Hey, Eddie,

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Speaker 2: just send us Addie just.

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Speaker 3: Tood your message yet.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, did we already read it? Yeah? I did,

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00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:08,880
Speaker 1: but it just it just popped in so honestly, in

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00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:12,280
Speaker 1: this new year, I am so grateful for every single

834
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Speaker 1: person that makes this channel possible. Dakota Kean, Eddie Riley, Sophia,

835
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Speaker 1: Nina Leanne. There's so many people behind this amazing channel

836
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Speaker 1: and I'm so grateful and love every single one of them.

837
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Speaker 1: And this show absolutely, without a doubt, without a question,

838
00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:32,280
Speaker 1: would not be what it is without every single person

839
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:33,799
Speaker 1: that contributes to the show.

840
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:39,359
Speaker 3: Thank you. That's on your shoulders, John and Sam. But

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00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:41,920
Speaker 3: he's not here, so that's on your shoulders.

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00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 1: John. There we go. I won't. The weight is nothing

843
00:43:48,520 --> 00:43:51,839
Speaker 1: to me, but we love that. It's a family here.

844
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 1: It's a family. Wow, So it really is.

845
00:43:55,800 --> 00:44:00,960
Speaker 2: And Dragon Princess, Dragon Princess, thanks for the bucks. My

846
00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:03,800
Speaker 2: pig's full name is Neville hog Bottom. I was hoping

847
00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:07,040
Speaker 2: it was a never long Bottom reference. He loves you

848
00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:09,400
Speaker 2: all as much as I do. He gets very excited

849
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:11,920
Speaker 2: when you laugh, Dakota and will laugh with you.

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00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:13,800
Speaker 1: No way, never laughs along.

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Speaker 3: Good job to go to the pigs laugh.

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Speaker 1: Wow, Neville hog Bottom number one fan. I'm down now.

853
00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:24,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, we have we have animal fans. It's crazy.

854
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Speaker 2: I would admit I had a I had a coworker

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Speaker 2: who had a pig and it was named Gordy and

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Speaker 2: it was very cute. But I don't have the patience

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Speaker 2: to be able to take care of a pig because man,

858
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:38,960
Speaker 2: they they are so sassy. They are the sassiest like

859
00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:43,239
Speaker 2: they have fully like developed personalities and they get sassy.

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Speaker 1: Wow. I want to I want to visit a pick.

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Speaker 2: That's the best way. I love visiting Gordy. But I

862
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Speaker 2: couldn't imagine, like, Wow, if I had to take care

863
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:54,880
Speaker 2: of Gordy like for a whole month, I I'd go crazy.

864
00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:58,239
Speaker 4: Good, Well, the Gordy would be running me.

865
00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:01,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just did whatever what I'd have to do.

866
00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:07,279
Speaker 2: Uh. And Teresa, it's pizza my favorite names. Thanks for

867
00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:10,480
Speaker 2: the five dollars. Happy freaking New Year's. Everyone is the

868
00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:11,759
Speaker 2: bomb dot.

869
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:15,800
Speaker 3: Com agreed, Uh, greed grizzled.

870
00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 1: Uh.

871
00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:17,920
Speaker 3: I think we got more and we've.

872
00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:22,800
Speaker 1: Got we have more? What do you mean? Uh? Susan

873
00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:24,840
Speaker 1: s thanks for being a member for three months.

874
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:27,839
Speaker 2: I was having a really bad last hour and then

875
00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:29,920
Speaker 2: remembered you guys were on No I'm smiling.

876
00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:33,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, glad that you're smiling. Susan love it.

877
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:40,080
Speaker 2: Uh Ooh, Ebony Campione, I'm gonna say that that was

878
00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:43,000
Speaker 2: the right pronunciation. Thanks for the two dollars. We got

879
00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:45,080
Speaker 2: to start the New year with Kean's booty.

880
00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:47,680
Speaker 1: Oh it's it's on the way, folks.

881
00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:51,520
Speaker 2: We're actually having it chipped in just for today. His

882
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:55,160
Speaker 2: butt's in the mail. Lydia Whitaker, thanks for being a

883
00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:58,120
Speaker 2: member for ten months. Happy New Year's. Good to listen

884
00:45:58,120 --> 00:45:59,560
Speaker 2: in for the first time in a few months.

885
00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:03,919
Speaker 1: Well, welcome back, will always We're here, We'll always be here.

886
00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:07,280
Speaker 3: Do I stand? Oh my goodness, and I can't even speak.

887
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:12,680
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say yeah, I'm gonna say, is that Montana

888
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:15,239
Speaker 2: Montana abs.

889
00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:17,160
Speaker 1: Girl because there's a dot in front of it? Yeah,

890
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:17,600
Speaker 1: it does.

891
00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 2: Thanks for twenty five bucks in the tip link where

892
00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 2: YouTube does not take thirty percent. Another one, and I

893
00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:26,959
Speaker 2: believe those are firework emojis. Yes, fireworks to all. And

894
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:31,480
Speaker 2: it's Josephine with the twenty seven Speedish Crowlner. Happy New Year.

895
00:46:31,560 --> 00:46:34,640
Speaker 2: It's officially twenty twenty five. Here now Josephine's living in

896
00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:35,160
Speaker 2: the future.

897
00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:42,319
Speaker 1: Wow, this is this, This is the whole stream. Time

898
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:45,960
Speaker 1: to make sure we got seven. Oh, we're good for good, for.

899
00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:51,040
Speaker 2: Good Christine, Oh Chris, Christine, Wait.

900
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:53,480
Speaker 1: Where does read the regular dodos first? I mean I

901
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:58,320
Speaker 1: am merle E. Thanks for the two fifty euros.

902
00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:01,920
Speaker 2: Happy New Year, a little yep, Happy New Year to you,

903
00:47:02,000 --> 00:47:04,880
Speaker 2: merle and Christine. Thanks for being a member for one month.

904
00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:07,880
Speaker 2: Thanks to whoever gift to the membership. I love this channel.

905
00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:10,080
Speaker 2: Happy New Year's keep up the good work.

906
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:10,839
Speaker 1: Let's freaking go.

907
00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:14,919
Speaker 2: Thanks Christine, and thanks to whoever donated that membership. Say

908
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:24,040
Speaker 2: that Denise Brounberg, Boss Ross, Happy twenty.

909
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:26,040
Speaker 1: Twenty five from Denmark, and thanks for being a member

910
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:29,600
Speaker 1: for nine months your new full term stream baby right there,

911
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:31,560
Speaker 1: that's right, and I think.

912
00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:36,120
Speaker 2: We missed Yeah, we missed one of the I don't

913
00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:38,719
Speaker 2: think we got Seths, Seth Rush, thanks for being a

914
00:47:38,719 --> 00:47:39,560
Speaker 2: member for four months.

915
00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:42,640
Speaker 1: Happy New Years to all my okay peeps, Happy New.

916
00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:46,440
Speaker 2: Years to you, Seth and I believe that we got

917
00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:51,000
Speaker 2: Lida right. We did, Okay, we did, I think now

918
00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:55,160
Speaker 2: theoretically caught up and then Bella. Thanks for the ten bucks.

919
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:58,239
Speaker 2: Happy New Year, guys. We love you all. I hope

920
00:47:58,280 --> 00:47:59,399
Speaker 2: you all have a great time.

921
00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:02,399
Speaker 1: Stay safe. Thanks Belle, we love you too. We love

922
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:04,480
Speaker 1: we love all of our three and babies.

923
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:08,680
Speaker 2: Uh In saysha. Thank you for the one hundred dollars

924
00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:15,799
Speaker 2: who This year has been crazy and you've been through

925
00:48:15,880 --> 00:48:18,560
Speaker 2: all of it. From the argument where I was dubbed

926
00:48:18,560 --> 00:48:21,200
Speaker 2: the a the the a hole, getting a new job,

927
00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:23,879
Speaker 2: my divorce, living alone for the first time in my life,

928
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:26,360
Speaker 2: breaking my foot, and returning to work. You've met so

929
00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:29,040
Speaker 2: much to me, lots of love. That is a lot

930
00:48:29,120 --> 00:48:33,239
Speaker 2: going on in one year. And hey, you you grew

931
00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:34,520
Speaker 2: from it. You grew a new foot.

932
00:48:34,680 --> 00:48:37,000
Speaker 3: You guess what. I don't think you grew a new foot.

933
00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 1: But the whole thing, whole new foot. That's how they

934
00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:40,799
Speaker 1: do it.

935
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:43,279
Speaker 3: You have a new year, and they can only go up,

936
00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:44,439
Speaker 3: and everything's gona get better.

937
00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:48,799
Speaker 2: On the upswing. We're on the upswing. We're all on

938
00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:51,440
Speaker 2: the collective ice swing. Sure, I would hear nothing but

939
00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:52,600
Speaker 2: of except that.

940
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:56,319
Speaker 3: Okay, I think we're good there and another one for more,

941
00:48:56,320 --> 00:49:01,360
Speaker 3: more for five dollars, thank you more uh Shaanatova means

942
00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:05,040
Speaker 3: happy New Year, looking sharp, missed the last few lives,

943
00:49:05,040 --> 00:49:06,040
Speaker 3: happy to catch up again.

944
00:49:06,680 --> 00:49:08,399
Speaker 1: So are we? Let's go. I'm happy to be back.

945
00:49:10,560 --> 00:49:12,800
Speaker 3: New Year's kiss to all you New Year's people.

946
00:49:14,440 --> 00:49:19,920
Speaker 1: Yeah no, you got to blow it though, like yeah, yeah,

947
00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:22,520
Speaker 1: how is it gonna? Yeh, you gotta deliver it. This

948
00:49:22,880 --> 00:49:26,880
Speaker 1: is I'm strong with it. So I'm strong.

949
00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:30,239
Speaker 3: Do I stand up for the people now?

950
00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:30,560
Speaker 2: John?

951
00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:30,960
Speaker 3: Or no?

952
00:49:31,520 --> 00:49:34,080
Speaker 1: Not yet? No, no, no, you tell us no, no,

953
00:49:34,080 --> 00:49:37,200
Speaker 1: no me. They're not here yet. We have at least

954
00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:40,200
Speaker 1: two hours or forty more minutes. Those hams are still

955
00:49:40,239 --> 00:49:40,720
Speaker 1: in the mail.

956
00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:42,280
Speaker 3: They're cooking.

957
00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:45,480
Speaker 1: Oh, they're in the ovens steam, They're right they're.

958
00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:46,240
Speaker 3: Getting a little moist.

959
00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:51,400
Speaker 1: Actually no, they're not Sallas localized entirely in your kitchen.

960
00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:55,399
Speaker 3: Oh man, Yes, all right, let's get let's you know what,

961
00:49:55,520 --> 00:49:59,960
Speaker 3: I'll walk up, I'll walk around. Uh. When we finished this, mega,

962
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 3: there we go.

963
00:50:01,000 --> 00:50:04,960
Speaker 1: I like that. We got another done again peachy eve.

964
00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:08,560
Speaker 2: Happy New Year's to my favorite Reddit podcast. It is

965
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:11,920
Speaker 2: three minutes after midnight in Denmark. Thank you for the

966
00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:16,160
Speaker 2: Denmark kroner, fifty five of them.

967
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:19,759
Speaker 1: And ex baby gal X thanks for being a member

968
00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:20,319
Speaker 1: for one month.

969
00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:23,200
Speaker 2: Happy New Year's guys, love you all at okay storytime,

970
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:23,960
Speaker 2: loving the suits.

971
00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:25,879
Speaker 1: Three handsome guys right there.

972
00:50:26,840 --> 00:50:27,279
Speaker 3: Thank you?

973
00:50:27,600 --> 00:50:33,640
Speaker 1: Well what did you look at that? Wow? With that?

974
00:50:34,120 --> 00:50:37,760
Speaker 2: For everyone listening, John just hit the gnarliest pose.

975
00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:39,920
Speaker 1: That's true. I'm just gonna leave it in that My

976
00:50:40,560 --> 00:50:44,200
Speaker 1: our old thumbnail face practice. It's taught us. Well. All right, guys,

977
00:50:44,200 --> 00:50:45,560
Speaker 1: you know I've been cooking on something. You know what

978
00:50:45,640 --> 00:50:50,239
Speaker 1: it is. It's this next story.

979
00:50:50,239 --> 00:50:51,759
Speaker 3: We got I think we got one more. This is

980
00:50:53,080 --> 00:50:53,920
Speaker 3: and then we'll.

981
00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:57,160
Speaker 2: Go all right, last one, Beccaroni, thanks for the five

982
00:50:57,239 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 2: bucks in the tip link. So glad to finally catch

983
00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:02,399
Speaker 2: a live I've been following and lurking for a year now. John,

984
00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 2: I love the hat and we love you. BECCARONI love you,

985
00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:05,960
Speaker 2: Thank you very much.

986
00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:08,360
Speaker 3: John. You have my aunt correct? There will huh you

987
00:51:08,440 --> 00:51:08,839
Speaker 3: my aunt?

988
00:51:09,400 --> 00:51:10,480
Speaker 1: My aunt? Cool?

989
00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:13,080
Speaker 3: All right, all right, guys, if we get any donations,

990
00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:15,080
Speaker 3: we are going to read it after the story.

991
00:51:15,160 --> 00:51:15,560
Speaker 1: That's right.

992
00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:18,640
Speaker 3: If we get a giant dono, we'll mate, we'll shout

993
00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:21,520
Speaker 3: it out, we'll read it right again, all the sum

994
00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:23,560
Speaker 3: of all those don't knows we'll read at the end

995
00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:25,600
Speaker 3: of the story. You guys are crazy. We love you.

996
00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:28,400
Speaker 3: But let's get back to some crazy stories.

997
00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:32,120
Speaker 1: Let's do it. Let's dance. My aunt demanded I cover

998
00:51:32,160 --> 00:51:35,600
Speaker 1: her expenses for my wedding or she'd boycott my wedding.

999
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:38,319
Speaker 2: She's gonna be out there with a sign like this

1000
00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:40,080
Speaker 2: wedding stinks.

1001
00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:44,520
Speaker 1: This is unfair. Don't go in there. I'm going to

1002
00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:46,600
Speaker 1: give everyone different names in the story. So to give

1003
00:51:46,640 --> 00:51:49,279
Speaker 1: a bit of background, I twenty two female, was born

1004
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:53,520
Speaker 1: in the Netherlands and my entire family still lives there Croner's.

1005
00:51:53,840 --> 00:51:56,400
Speaker 1: When I was twenty years old, I did an internship

1006
00:51:56,520 --> 00:51:59,839
Speaker 1: in the USA, North Carolina. Here I met the love

1007
00:51:59,880 --> 00:52:03,440
Speaker 1: of my life, my Lommel uh, and after finishing my studies,

1008
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:06,280
Speaker 1: I moved back to live with him. Things moved pretty fast.

1009
00:52:06,560 --> 00:52:09,239
Speaker 1: He is my soulmate. It took him only a year

1010
00:52:09,280 --> 00:52:12,120
Speaker 1: before he proposed to me, making me more sure about

1011
00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:15,520
Speaker 1: staying in the United States. His family is amazingly supportive

1012
00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:17,960
Speaker 1: and I have a great relationship with them. By the way,

1013
00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:20,439
Speaker 1: this comes from Petty Hattie on the art slash Okay,

1014
00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:23,720
Speaker 1: story time, sorry about it, so now the story comes.

1015
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:27,680
Speaker 1: Buckle up, It's not a short one. Our wedding was

1016
00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:30,799
Speaker 1: going to be pretty big and absolutely beautiful. This was

1017
00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:37,439
Speaker 1: mostly thanks to my PIO parents in law p I.

1018
00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:39,799
Speaker 1: I guess that would be parent We're going with that.

1019
00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:44,759
Speaker 1: Maybe they're pirates and it's your pirate in law, you know.

1020
00:52:45,480 --> 00:52:48,240
Speaker 1: Maybe they're pirates and it's their parent in law.

1021
00:52:50,920 --> 00:52:51,520
Speaker 3: That you are.

1022
00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:55,919
Speaker 1: So this was mostly thanks to my parents in law.

1023
00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:59,680
Speaker 1: We're going with that. Shout out to parents their hell

1024
00:52:59,680 --> 00:53:03,120
Speaker 1: about on paying for the wedding expenses, which my now

1025
00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:06,680
Speaker 1: husband twenty three mail and I obviously don't mind. Let's

1026
00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:09,520
Speaker 1: just say my husband, Damien, and I didn't marry it

1027
00:53:09,560 --> 00:53:11,520
Speaker 1: because we were able to afford it. But we both

1028
00:53:11,560 --> 00:53:13,920
Speaker 1: have well paying jobs, but not enough to pay for

1029
00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:16,960
Speaker 1: this type of wedding. The only things we paid for

1030
00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:19,920
Speaker 1: ourselves were small things we wanted and didn't want my

1031
00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:21,600
Speaker 1: in laws to pay for. So I believe it was

1032
00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:24,120
Speaker 1: the parents in law that dad. So one of the

1033
00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:26,640
Speaker 1: things I felt a bit guilty about is the fact

1034
00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:29,040
Speaker 1: that my family and friends from the Netherlands would have

1035
00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:32,480
Speaker 1: to pay at least one thousand euros, which is probably

1036
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:35,680
Speaker 1: like twelve hundred USD something like that. That would be

1037
00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:39,160
Speaker 1: an estimate. I'm guessing to get a ticket here and back.

1038
00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:41,239
Speaker 1: Then they also have to get a place to stay

1039
00:53:41,239 --> 00:53:43,160
Speaker 1: for and I honestly I think it's probably it could

1040
00:53:43,200 --> 00:53:45,600
Speaker 1: be up to like two thousand USDAN to look it up.

1041
00:53:45,640 --> 00:53:48,400
Speaker 1: That's a lot. We're on the case. Maybe Keon canelf

1042
00:53:48,440 --> 00:53:52,480
Speaker 1: as well. Let us know what's the conversion here from

1043
00:53:53,000 --> 00:53:56,680
Speaker 1: euros to new uh.

1044
00:53:57,280 --> 00:53:59,000
Speaker 2: If we knew that, we wouldn't have to ask you,

1045
00:53:59,120 --> 00:54:03,160
Speaker 2: I know, how many euros to one dollar?

1046
00:54:03,320 --> 00:54:06,680
Speaker 3: I forget that's what we're asking for. How many euros?

1047
00:54:06,680 --> 00:54:07,239
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.

1048
00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:10,120
Speaker 1: I was in it was like, oh, yeah, all right,

1049
00:54:10,400 --> 00:54:11,640
Speaker 1: you guys have said so many numbers.

1050
00:54:11,640 --> 00:54:12,839
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm trying to catch up here.

1051
00:54:13,719 --> 00:54:19,719
Speaker 1: So thousand euros and then estimated hotels for like three days.

1052
00:54:20,480 --> 00:54:22,560
Speaker 1: I paid for the flight and a hotel for my father,

1053
00:54:22,719 --> 00:54:26,680
Speaker 1: his wife, my eleven year old stepsister and two and

1054
00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:29,520
Speaker 1: my two years old half sister. I didn't want them

1055
00:54:29,520 --> 00:54:31,719
Speaker 1: to have to pay for this. Then I also bought

1056
00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:34,319
Speaker 1: first class tickets for my grandparents, who have been my

1057
00:54:34,400 --> 00:54:36,480
Speaker 1: bonus parents. Really, which makes sense. She didn't have to

1058
00:54:36,520 --> 00:54:38,840
Speaker 1: pay for the wedding. I love it, especially my grandma

1059
00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:41,200
Speaker 1: has been the mother I never really had to me

1060
00:54:41,840 --> 00:54:44,279
Speaker 1: that was going to be it the people closest to

1061
00:54:44,280 --> 00:54:47,000
Speaker 1: me I would pay for. I paid for first class tickets.

1062
00:54:48,400 --> 00:54:48,680
Speaker 3: Ah.

1063
00:54:48,800 --> 00:54:51,680
Speaker 2: Yes, that's also the alert telling you I don't want

1064
00:54:51,719 --> 00:54:52,399
Speaker 2: to interrupt the story.

1065
00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:56,360
Speaker 1: Thank you. I paid for first classific. I paid for

1066
00:54:56,440 --> 00:55:00,759
Speaker 1: first class tickets because my grandfather absolutely hates flying. Shout out.

1067
00:55:01,239 --> 00:55:04,239
Speaker 1: I feel you, old man, do not enjoy it. I

1068
00:55:04,320 --> 00:55:08,040
Speaker 1: also invited my father's younger sister, Tina and her family

1069
00:55:08,200 --> 00:55:11,480
Speaker 1: four in total, my father's older brother James and his

1070
00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:15,960
Speaker 1: family six people in total, ten additional people, and my

1071
00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:20,200
Speaker 1: mother's youngest sister Issa and her family four in total. Wow.

1072
00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:23,279
Speaker 1: Now Tina and her family are doing pretty well for themselves,

1073
00:55:23,840 --> 00:55:27,960
Speaker 1: So does Inya. Right, India. But my uncle James and

1074
00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:31,600
Speaker 1: his wife Audrey are not that wealthy. They work a lot.

1075
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Speaker 1: Whenever one is home, the other goes to work, and

1076
00:55:33,920 --> 00:55:36,640
Speaker 1: they're rarely both at home at the same time. This

1077
00:55:36,760 --> 00:55:38,799
Speaker 1: they do to save a bit of money so they

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00:55:38,800 --> 00:55:40,880
Speaker 1: can do something fun with the whole family on the

1079
00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:44,480
Speaker 1: breaks from school. They would have to pay at least

1080
00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:49,880
Speaker 1: six thousand euros for only the flights to attend the

1081
00:55:49,920 --> 00:55:51,400
Speaker 1: wedding with the kids.

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00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:53,960
Speaker 3: Okay, so a thousand euros is like one thousand and

1083
00:55:54,040 --> 00:55:54,800
Speaker 3: forty one.

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00:55:54,640 --> 00:55:57,600
Speaker 2: Dollars, which is way better that That's what I was

1085
00:55:57,640 --> 00:55:59,600
Speaker 2: gonna interrupt you. I was gonna be like, it's also

1086
00:56:00,080 --> 00:56:02,080
Speaker 2: that the euro is weaker than I've ever seen it

1087
00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:02,880
Speaker 2: in my lifetime.

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00:56:03,000 --> 00:56:06,560
Speaker 3: Wow, six thousand euros is six thousand, two hundred and

1089
00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:07,440
Speaker 3: forty three dollars.

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00:56:07,480 --> 00:56:12,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's six grand for just flights. That's just so much.

1091
00:56:12,480 --> 00:56:16,399
Speaker 1: That's tough. And it's like a wedding, Yeah, I mean

1092
00:56:16,440 --> 00:56:18,680
Speaker 1: a wedding. It's not your daughter's wedding.

1093
00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:22,160
Speaker 2: It's six grand for flights is a lot to ask

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00:56:22,239 --> 00:56:23,160
Speaker 2: of anybody.

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00:56:23,280 --> 00:56:26,719
Speaker 1: Tough pill to swallow. Well, then they did not pay

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00:56:26,800 --> 00:56:30,080
Speaker 1: for hotels, outfits and a wedding gift. That's all still

1097
00:56:30,200 --> 00:56:33,160
Speaker 1: left to be covered. Yeah, they really wish they didn't

1098
00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:35,279
Speaker 1: have to, but they came to me and told me

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00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:37,560
Speaker 1: about this and that they might not be able to

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Speaker 1: come after all. I really wanted them to be there,

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00:56:40,560 --> 00:56:43,240
Speaker 1: all of them, so I told them that I would

1102
00:56:43,239 --> 00:56:46,680
Speaker 1: pay for half of the expenses and if that wasn't enough,

1103
00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:51,520
Speaker 1: I would help out more. Okay, oh, okay, I didn't

1104
00:56:51,520 --> 00:56:54,080
Speaker 1: need a wedding gift. I just wanted them there and

1105
00:56:54,200 --> 00:56:56,759
Speaker 1: my four cousins. They agreed with this, and I went

1106
00:56:56,800 --> 00:57:00,680
Speaker 1: on planning my wedding and I with my husband and

1107
00:57:00,680 --> 00:57:03,640
Speaker 1: sister in law. Two days later, I got a call

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00:57:03,680 --> 00:57:06,840
Speaker 1: from Tina. I pick up thinking that this is just

1109
00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:09,720
Speaker 1: gonna be a nice call, But that couldn't be further

1110
00:57:10,200 --> 00:57:14,040
Speaker 1: from the truth. You see, she told me she didn't

1111
00:57:14,080 --> 00:57:16,840
Speaker 1: know I was paying for my family members' flights and

1112
00:57:16,840 --> 00:57:20,200
Speaker 1: accommodations and what she was going to get from me.

1113
00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:24,360
Speaker 1: I never thought of even asking them since they since

1114
00:57:24,360 --> 00:57:27,680
Speaker 1: they're pretty much loaded and take vacations that cost five

1115
00:57:27,840 --> 00:57:32,480
Speaker 1: times more than this trip three times a year. Gosh,

1116
00:57:32,600 --> 00:57:36,120
Speaker 1: she was very demanding of me to pay part since

1117
00:57:36,200 --> 00:57:39,960
Speaker 1: I wasn't paying at least half of her brother's expenses.

1118
00:57:40,400 --> 00:57:42,720
Speaker 1: I tried to explain to her that this was already

1119
00:57:42,760 --> 00:57:45,280
Speaker 1: going to get me far out of my budget, but

1120
00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:47,920
Speaker 1: she insisted I treated her. I treat her the same

1121
00:57:48,360 --> 00:57:52,439
Speaker 1: as I treated her brother, and so I gave in

1122
00:57:52,480 --> 00:57:55,480
Speaker 1: at the end and wish I didn't. No, So I

1123
00:57:55,520 --> 00:57:59,680
Speaker 1: s take a pause right here, poll pay or not? No?

1124
00:58:00,160 --> 00:58:02,840
Speaker 1: Just to do you mean?

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00:58:02,960 --> 00:58:03,280
Speaker 2: John?

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00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:08,200
Speaker 1: What do you mean? John? Just the recap, just reekap

1127
00:58:08,280 --> 00:58:12,000
Speaker 1: as far as it's far the debate. So Op is

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00:58:12,040 --> 00:58:14,800
Speaker 1: paying for her closest family, right makes sense. She's not

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00:58:14,800 --> 00:58:16,560
Speaker 1: paying for the wedding. She's paying for her closest family

1130
00:58:16,600 --> 00:58:20,200
Speaker 1: to get there. Jillionaires, Yeah, Dad, Mom, Grandpa's honery Dad.

1131
00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:23,560
Speaker 1: She's paying for her uh aunt an uncle's family, who

1132
00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:27,520
Speaker 1: are not wealthy, half of the expenses so they could

1133
00:58:27,560 --> 00:58:32,640
Speaker 1: just get out there. Now. The rich auntie is calling

1134
00:58:32,720 --> 00:58:36,920
Speaker 1: up and being like, yo, I heard they got paid for.

1135
00:58:37,160 --> 00:58:40,640
Speaker 1: I heard they got paid for. Oh where's my money?

1136
00:58:40,800 --> 00:58:42,880
Speaker 2: He's like, you think you think we make all this

1137
00:58:43,040 --> 00:58:45,720
Speaker 2: money to spend it on flights to your wedding and

1138
00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:51,800
Speaker 2: not Tahiti. We make all this money to spend on vacations.

1139
00:58:52,200 --> 00:58:55,280
Speaker 1: We're out of platinum points. Darling, we're gonna mean some

1140
00:58:55,400 --> 00:58:58,520
Speaker 1: assistance with that works. That accent works off my hat.

1141
00:58:58,600 --> 00:59:02,000
Speaker 2: Yes, it's just a nice try Atlantic, so not quite British,

1142
00:59:02,040 --> 00:59:02,360
Speaker 2: it's not.

1143
00:59:02,320 --> 00:59:03,840
Speaker 1: Quite a man. Yeah, what is your what is your

1144
00:59:03,920 --> 00:59:07,320
Speaker 1: vote in the poll? Sir Dakota. You should just give

1145
00:59:07,360 --> 00:59:12,600
Speaker 1: her all your assets? Wow, give her the rings, give her.

1146
00:59:13,680 --> 00:59:17,760
Speaker 1: It's what Tina wants. Tina gets what Tina wants after

1147
00:59:17,840 --> 00:59:22,160
Speaker 1: all that. You're the kind of semi a little bit

1148
00:59:22,200 --> 00:59:26,640
Speaker 1: close aunt to the bride, so that means you get everything, right.

1149
00:59:26,480 --> 00:59:29,000
Speaker 2: I mean, and you know what it maybe if you,

1150
00:59:29,280 --> 00:59:32,919
Speaker 2: if you do pay for Tina's flight, maybe next time

1151
00:59:32,960 --> 00:59:37,320
Speaker 2: they go to an exotic locale, they'll be bringing you along.

1152
00:59:37,120 --> 00:59:39,280
Speaker 1: With some quid pro quo I could get down with.

1153
00:59:39,360 --> 00:59:42,680
Speaker 1: Probably not though, But this is just Tina saying, Hey,

1154
00:59:43,320 --> 00:59:46,240
Speaker 1: I'm freaking rich, pay my flight anyway. Yeah, no, don't

1155
00:59:46,240 --> 00:59:49,120
Speaker 1: do that, don't know, don't do that. Don't be Tina.

1156
00:59:49,240 --> 00:59:53,480
Speaker 1: Don't if you have the means to, Tina should be

1157
00:59:53,480 --> 00:59:53,760
Speaker 1: the one.

1158
00:59:53,960 --> 00:59:57,320
Speaker 2: Tina should be offering to pay other people's flights if

1159
00:59:57,360 --> 00:59:58,520
Speaker 2: she was really cool.

1160
00:59:59,680 --> 01:00:02,800
Speaker 1: But she it doesn't sound like she is. It seems

1161
01:00:02,840 --> 01:00:06,080
Speaker 1: like she's not Dakota. It seems like she is possibly

1162
01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:09,600
Speaker 1: the worst. She might be, she might be. Well, let's

1163
01:00:09,640 --> 01:00:13,120
Speaker 1: find out. So to avoid any more confrontation, I called

1164
01:00:13,160 --> 01:00:16,560
Speaker 1: my aunt from my mother's side, Issa and explained what

1165
01:00:16,720 --> 01:00:18,560
Speaker 1: was going on and that if they needed help with

1166
01:00:18,640 --> 01:00:25,600
Speaker 1: the expenses, I would help them. Ope. Stop, Yeah, it's

1167
01:00:25,640 --> 01:00:29,320
Speaker 1: like irresponsible. Yeah point. I thought that maybe this was

1168
01:00:29,400 --> 01:00:31,800
Speaker 1: much more expensive than I thought for them, and too

1169
01:00:31,880 --> 01:00:35,400
Speaker 1: much to ask of my family. Issa immediately shut me

1170
01:00:35,440 --> 01:00:39,080
Speaker 1: down and told me that she did not accept that

1171
01:00:39,160 --> 01:00:42,000
Speaker 1: she would not accept any money from me, and that

1172
01:00:42,080 --> 01:00:46,080
Speaker 1: she wanted me to worry about my wedding instead. That's

1173
01:00:46,120 --> 01:00:49,320
Speaker 1: what you say. That's what you say, ladies and gentlemen.

1174
01:00:49,400 --> 01:00:52,640
Speaker 1: It's the blueprint right there. She's doing very well for herself,

1175
01:00:52,760 --> 01:00:56,040
Speaker 1: but not even close to how good Tina's doing. So

1176
01:00:56,120 --> 01:00:58,720
Speaker 1: even the less wealthy person is like, shut up, I'm

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01:00:58,760 --> 01:01:01,640
Speaker 1: not taking your money. You focus on making the best

1178
01:01:01,680 --> 01:01:05,400
Speaker 1: wedding of your life. Worry about that. I'll worry about yes, beautiful,

1179
01:01:05,480 --> 01:01:09,160
Speaker 1: say less bab Now. I finally thought the drama was over.

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01:01:09,880 --> 01:01:13,560
Speaker 1: James asked for only thirty five hundred euros. I believe

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01:01:13,600 --> 01:01:17,200
Speaker 1: this is the less wealthy aunt uncle, He booked a

1182
01:01:17,200 --> 01:01:19,920
Speaker 1: crappy hotel, two rooms as it was cheaper than one

1183
01:01:19,920 --> 01:01:22,640
Speaker 1: big room. It was located in a shady neighborhood. But

1184
01:01:22,760 --> 01:01:25,160
Speaker 1: they didn't want me to have to pay too much, again,

1185
01:01:25,240 --> 01:01:32,000
Speaker 1: being very thoughtful, right, they made me pay less than half. Tina.

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01:01:32,040 --> 01:01:38,680
Speaker 1: On the other hand, our richest auntie Tino right, see

1187
01:01:39,040 --> 01:01:41,919
Speaker 1: our broke uncle James, one of thirty five hundred right.

1188
01:01:43,240 --> 01:01:49,360
Speaker 1: I got a bill for six thousand euros. Tina, Tina, Tina,

1189
01:01:49,760 --> 01:01:53,640
Speaker 1: what are you doing? And she was being generous because

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01:01:53,800 --> 01:01:59,600
Speaker 1: she made me pay less than half. Oh, Tina's balling out.

1191
01:02:00,000 --> 01:02:03,720
Speaker 1: So Tina's bawling out. She got first class tickets in

1192
01:02:03,800 --> 01:02:07,680
Speaker 1: a four star hotel. She wanted a five star hotel,

1193
01:02:08,040 --> 01:02:13,880
Speaker 1: but didn't want to make it too expensive. Too expensive, dinah.

1194
01:02:15,240 --> 01:02:17,680
Speaker 1: This was the last drop for both Damien and me,

1195
01:02:17,800 --> 01:02:20,840
Speaker 1: and we decided, and he decided to call her for me.

1196
01:02:21,200 --> 01:02:23,600
Speaker 1: At this point, I was crying and panicking because I

1197
01:02:23,640 --> 01:02:27,600
Speaker 1: could not afford it, and Loki felt betrayed. Damian called

1198
01:02:27,680 --> 01:02:30,560
Speaker 1: Tina and told her we weren't going to pay for

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01:02:30,760 --> 01:02:34,320
Speaker 1: any of her expenses. Yeah, there we go, there we go, Yes,

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01:02:34,440 --> 01:02:37,360
Speaker 1: they can pay for it themselves, and we don't tolerate

1201
01:02:37,400 --> 01:02:43,880
Speaker 1: being misused like this. Yes, Tina went crazy. She demanded

1202
01:02:43,920 --> 01:02:47,600
Speaker 1: we pay or else she wouldn't come at all. Oh,

1203
01:02:47,640 --> 01:02:49,680
Speaker 1: she told us she wasn't going to pay this much

1204
01:02:49,680 --> 01:02:52,120
Speaker 1: for a wedding that was going to end in divorce anyways,

1205
01:02:52,160 --> 01:02:53,920
Speaker 1: because we decided to get married this fast.

1206
01:02:54,040 --> 01:02:57,280
Speaker 2: Oh wow, Oh, we totally want the person who thinks

1207
01:02:57,280 --> 01:03:01,000
Speaker 2: you're gonna get divorced and who is like, uh, objectively

1208
01:03:01,160 --> 01:03:02,880
Speaker 2: awful at our wedding.

1209
01:03:03,240 --> 01:03:08,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, darn, it sounds like Tina not coming. Amazing incredibly Yes,

1210
01:03:08,320 --> 01:03:13,320
Speaker 1: what do you mean Tina not Tina's wedding? This is

1211
01:03:13,360 --> 01:03:16,520
Speaker 1: really Tina's wedding. Guys, right, what am I thinking over here?

1212
01:03:16,640 --> 01:03:19,000
Speaker 3: What is your big brain?

1213
01:03:19,600 --> 01:03:23,240
Speaker 1: Don't you know? It's Tina. It's Tina time year right,

1214
01:03:23,760 --> 01:03:29,160
Speaker 1: It's the year of Tina five, Tina time. So I

1215
01:03:29,360 --> 01:03:31,320
Speaker 1: told her that she didn't have to come at all,

1216
01:03:31,400 --> 01:03:34,720
Speaker 1: but my heart broke because of one thing her daughter.

1217
01:03:35,040 --> 01:03:37,720
Speaker 1: You see, Tina has a daughter named Mila, ten female.

1218
01:03:37,880 --> 01:03:39,919
Speaker 1: She is very special to me and always has been.

1219
01:03:40,120 --> 01:03:42,200
Speaker 1: Ever since she was born. We've had a very special

1220
01:03:42,200 --> 01:03:44,840
Speaker 1: bond and I wanted her there. When Mela found out

1221
01:03:44,880 --> 01:03:46,960
Speaker 1: about the flight and the fact that they wouldn't be

1222
01:03:46,960 --> 01:03:49,560
Speaker 1: attending my wedding. She got very angry at her mother.

1223
01:03:50,000 --> 01:03:52,120
Speaker 1: She wanted to come and knew I wanted her to

1224
01:03:52,120 --> 01:03:54,920
Speaker 1: be there as well. Her brother Michael sided with his

1225
01:03:55,000 --> 01:03:59,280
Speaker 1: mother while Tina uh I sided with his mother. Tina

1226
01:03:59,560 --> 01:04:03,280
Speaker 1: while me knew that I wouldn't just uninvite them from

1227
01:04:03,320 --> 01:04:06,400
Speaker 1: the wedding. I made arrangements with my father that Mila

1228
01:04:06,440 --> 01:04:09,080
Speaker 1: would come along with them and I'd pay for it.

1229
01:04:09,120 --> 01:04:12,880
Speaker 1: All there we go. Obviously, Tina wouldn't let her daughter

1230
01:04:12,960 --> 01:04:15,840
Speaker 1: travel along with my dad and her parents, but this

1231
01:04:16,000 --> 01:04:18,640
Speaker 1: only caused her daughter to get more and more angry

1232
01:04:18,640 --> 01:04:20,720
Speaker 1: with her. Yeah, like okay, yeah, she's traveling with like

1233
01:04:20,760 --> 01:04:24,040
Speaker 1: her uncle and like her whole family. Like unless there's

1234
01:04:24,120 --> 01:04:26,560
Speaker 1: any issues, which it seems like there's not. I don't know.

1235
01:04:26,800 --> 01:04:28,880
Speaker 1: I think the only I think we all know exactly

1236
01:04:28,880 --> 01:04:36,120
Speaker 1: what the issue is. We know rhymes with G. Yeah.

1237
01:04:36,800 --> 01:04:39,800
Speaker 3: Can we also talk about the one person, the two

1238
01:04:39,840 --> 01:04:42,080
Speaker 3: percent that voted to say pay.

1239
01:04:43,040 --> 01:04:45,400
Speaker 1: I know, no, I don't know that was.

1240
01:04:45,440 --> 01:04:50,360
Speaker 2: I know who that was, Casanda, you can say your

1241
01:04:50,400 --> 01:04:53,680
Speaker 2: name right, I know it was, Hey, Yeah, and I

1242
01:04:53,720 --> 01:04:55,600
Speaker 2: can Our boys got it.

1243
01:04:55,760 --> 01:04:58,200
Speaker 1: Our boys got There's a lot of names to remember.

1244
01:04:58,360 --> 01:05:02,680
Speaker 1: It's hard. It's hard out here, but Obie says, thanks

1245
01:05:02,680 --> 01:05:06,360
Speaker 1: to my grandfather. Eventually, oh oh, this Tina blamed me.

1246
01:05:07,120 --> 01:05:09,400
Speaker 1: This Tina blamed me for as well, of course, thanks

1247
01:05:09,400 --> 01:05:13,000
Speaker 1: to my grandfather. Eventually Tina let Mela come to my wedding,

1248
01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:15,960
Speaker 1: And honestly, this did make me very happy. The best

1249
01:05:16,000 --> 01:05:18,920
Speaker 1: wedding gift she could have given me all. I used

1250
01:05:18,920 --> 01:05:21,720
Speaker 1: the money I'd spent on Tina and her family to

1251
01:05:21,800 --> 01:05:24,640
Speaker 1: give my other uncle, James a better place to stay.

1252
01:05:24,880 --> 01:05:27,800
Speaker 1: Love it okay. This way, Audrey didn't have to split

1253
01:05:27,880 --> 01:05:30,160
Speaker 1: up her children and split up with James to sleep

1254
01:05:30,200 --> 01:05:33,360
Speaker 1: somewhere else, which she really didn't like. And my wedding

1255
01:05:33,600 --> 01:05:37,560
Speaker 1: was amazing. Tina didn't come, and she had been cursing

1256
01:05:37,600 --> 01:05:40,280
Speaker 1: me and my family for celebrating this day without her.

1257
01:05:41,040 --> 01:05:42,160
Speaker 1: How could you imagine?

1258
01:05:42,360 --> 01:05:44,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, how could you celebrate Tina's wedding when

1259
01:05:45,000 --> 01:05:46,040
Speaker 2: she's not even there?

1260
01:05:46,320 --> 01:05:50,160
Speaker 1: Right, Tina's op's wedding? How could you do it? Tina?

1261
01:05:50,320 --> 01:05:54,680
Speaker 2: Every wedding becomes Tina's wedding when she attends and when

1262
01:05:54,680 --> 01:05:59,920
Speaker 2: she doesn't, doesn't So inconsiderate these people? So should I

1263
01:06:00,200 --> 01:06:02,920
Speaker 2: have paid for Tina's family because I'm asking her to

1264
01:06:02,920 --> 01:06:05,440
Speaker 2: come all the way to the USA. She said, my

1265
01:06:05,560 --> 01:06:08,880
Speaker 2: father offered to pay for themselves, but I just really

1266
01:06:08,960 --> 01:06:12,680
Speaker 2: wanted to pay for them and my grandparents. Getting married

1267
01:06:12,680 --> 01:06:14,280
Speaker 2: to the love of my life and living so far

1268
01:06:14,320 --> 01:06:16,600
Speaker 2: away from them made me appreciate and love my father

1269
01:06:16,720 --> 01:06:20,280
Speaker 2: and grandparents even more than I already knew I did.

1270
01:06:20,720 --> 01:06:23,760
Speaker 2: By the way, what I love more than I already

1271
01:06:23,920 --> 01:06:25,360
Speaker 2: knew is that you can.

1272
01:06:25,280 --> 01:06:27,520
Speaker 1: Listen to full episodes stories just like this. You know,

1273
01:06:27,560 --> 01:06:30,440
Speaker 1: the guys. Just go to Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or ever

1274
01:06:30,440 --> 01:06:33,400
Speaker 1: you listen and just type in okay, storytime. That's right,

1275
01:06:33,520 --> 01:06:36,080
Speaker 1: listen away, That's all you need to do. But before

1276
01:06:36,120 --> 01:06:42,520
Speaker 1: we listen to the end of the story away, we've

1277
01:06:42,560 --> 01:06:45,520
Speaker 1: gotten more context. Yeah, okay, we've heard more of the story.

1278
01:06:45,560 --> 01:06:49,640
Speaker 1: We've heard more from Tina's perspective here. Oh yeah. Do

1279
01:06:49,800 --> 01:06:55,200
Speaker 1: we consider the one person in chat that said, hey,

1280
01:06:56,120 --> 01:06:59,400
Speaker 1: pay for these crazy people? What say you, Dakota.

1281
01:06:59,600 --> 01:07:01,920
Speaker 2: I think that that one person is going to start

1282
01:07:01,960 --> 01:07:05,720
Speaker 2: an avalanche that turns into everyone being on Tina's side

1283
01:07:06,320 --> 01:07:09,200
Speaker 2: because they I'm I'll be the first one to be No,

1284
01:07:09,240 --> 01:07:10,840
Speaker 2: I'm okay, no, the bit is over.

1285
01:07:10,880 --> 01:07:13,720
Speaker 1: I'm not on Tina's side. She's trash. She's trash. If

1286
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Speaker 1: when you look.

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01:07:14,880 --> 01:07:17,440
Speaker 2: Trash and Tina, they start might have a lot of money,

1288
01:07:17,440 --> 01:07:19,120
Speaker 2: but she's got no class.

1289
01:07:19,440 --> 01:07:21,800
Speaker 1: No class.

1290
01:07:20,280 --> 01:07:25,720
Speaker 2: Oh I can't buy class, because come on, when you

1291
01:07:25,760 --> 01:07:28,120
Speaker 2: if you can just afford it, you just say, hey,

1292
01:07:28,160 --> 01:07:30,160
Speaker 2: don't worry about it, don't worry about get me over there.

1293
01:07:30,160 --> 01:07:32,040
Speaker 2: If you want to be there, Yeah, then it's like,

1294
01:07:32,280 --> 01:07:34,640
Speaker 2: if you want me to be there, then I will

1295
01:07:34,640 --> 01:07:37,280
Speaker 2: offer to pay at least some of it.

1296
01:07:37,320 --> 01:07:39,960
Speaker 1: If you're that rich dude, and they're not, like, come on,

1297
01:07:40,080 --> 01:07:43,000
Speaker 1: you know what else, Like if she had called her

1298
01:07:43,040 --> 01:07:47,400
Speaker 1: and said, like, hey, look, I know it seems like

1299
01:07:47,440 --> 01:07:50,640
Speaker 1: we're wealthy or whatever, but just with our budget this year,

1300
01:07:50,960 --> 01:07:53,960
Speaker 1: the sixth grand or ten grand or whatever whatever it

1301
01:07:54,000 --> 01:07:58,520
Speaker 1: would be is just too much. Unfortunately, And you know,

1302
01:07:58,560 --> 01:08:00,800
Speaker 1: as much as I would love to be there, I

1303
01:08:00,880 --> 01:08:03,360
Speaker 1: don't think we can afford it this time round.

1304
01:08:04,840 --> 01:08:08,400
Speaker 2: I mean, who knows that could be, Like maybe maybe

1305
01:08:08,400 --> 01:08:11,160
Speaker 2: they are having some you know, money troubles.

1306
01:08:11,280 --> 01:08:13,320
Speaker 1: Maybe they can't actually afford that right now.

1307
01:08:13,480 --> 01:08:16,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, and they're just like too proud to be like, Hi,

1308
01:08:16,280 --> 01:08:17,719
Speaker 2: I cannot get that ticket.

1309
01:08:18,080 --> 01:08:20,680
Speaker 1: I don't think so though I think that would.

1310
01:08:20,400 --> 01:08:24,360
Speaker 2: Be like the the one situation where Tina is somewhat redeemable,

1311
01:08:24,960 --> 01:08:29,240
Speaker 2: like with her mentality at some points, still not good,

1312
01:08:29,360 --> 01:08:32,519
Speaker 2: but not as terrible as just being like, don't you

1313
01:08:32,560 --> 01:08:35,519
Speaker 2: know your wedding is my wedding, and so aren't you

1314
01:08:35,800 --> 01:08:37,880
Speaker 2: paying for my ticket to go to my wedding?

1315
01:08:38,040 --> 01:08:41,880
Speaker 1: Yeah? Hello, this is insane. The correct way is how

1316
01:08:41,960 --> 01:08:44,320
Speaker 1: Uncle James did it, which is like, hey, thank you

1317
01:08:44,360 --> 01:08:46,519
Speaker 1: so much. I'm going to try to make sure it's

1318
01:08:46,640 --> 01:08:49,120
Speaker 1: as cheap as possible so that way I'm not a

1319
01:08:49,160 --> 01:08:51,880
Speaker 1: burden to you. I'm so appreciative. It all worked out.

1320
01:08:52,000 --> 01:08:55,679
Speaker 2: Yes, the good, you got the good without the bad.

1321
01:08:56,479 --> 01:08:59,679
Speaker 2: Dutchess Cassanda says it was a joke. Tina can suck

1322
01:08:59,760 --> 01:09:03,960
Speaker 2: my invisible nutssack talk that talk.

1323
01:09:05,880 --> 01:09:10,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's let's go, Duchess. Let him know. So that

1324
01:09:10,840 --> 01:09:13,280
Speaker 1: means zero yeah, zero percent of chats on board. Everyone

1325
01:09:13,320 --> 01:09:13,800
Speaker 1: hates Tina.

1326
01:09:13,920 --> 01:09:18,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, is in love everyone but Tina.

1327
01:09:20,439 --> 01:09:24,400
Speaker 1: That's that's where she's the Lama from Napoleon Dynamite or

1328
01:09:24,439 --> 01:09:25,280
Speaker 1: was that now, Peka?

1329
01:09:25,800 --> 01:09:33,479
Speaker 2: That's not Packa I think it was Paka, wasn't it's.

1330
01:09:31,760 --> 01:09:34,000
Speaker 3: Are you trying to a Lama one of the gonna

1331
01:09:34,120 --> 01:09:34,880
Speaker 3: Maybe it was Lama.

1332
01:09:34,880 --> 01:09:35,200
Speaker 1: I don't know what.

1333
01:09:35,320 --> 01:09:37,439
Speaker 2: You have to pull it up on your screen, have

1334
01:09:37,520 --> 01:09:39,880
Speaker 2: it in the background, or were pulling up the story.

1335
01:09:40,560 --> 01:09:44,080
Speaker 1: So it just hurt because, as you might have noticed,

1336
01:09:44,720 --> 01:09:48,400
Speaker 1: I didn't invite my mother. I haven't had contact her

1337
01:09:48,600 --> 01:09:50,600
Speaker 1: with her. I hadn't had contact with her since I

1338
01:09:50,640 --> 01:09:52,840
Speaker 1: was twenty years old. I left her when I was

1339
01:09:52,880 --> 01:09:56,919
Speaker 1: just seventeen, and Tina saved me from the toxic situation

1340
01:09:57,040 --> 01:09:59,679
Speaker 1: that I was in what she used to be someone

1341
01:09:59,720 --> 01:10:04,000
Speaker 1: I was close to. Excuse me, but this is not

1342
01:10:04,200 --> 01:10:08,000
Speaker 1: uncommon behavior of her. Everything is possible when it's about her,

1343
01:10:08,320 --> 01:10:12,240
Speaker 1: but when it's about anyone else, she always tries to

1344
01:10:12,280 --> 01:10:14,880
Speaker 1: make this harder than they have to be. I did

1345
01:10:14,880 --> 01:10:17,240
Speaker 1: not mind helping her with expenses, but she asked for

1346
01:10:17,280 --> 01:10:19,800
Speaker 1: almost twice as much as her brother, who has two

1347
01:10:19,960 --> 01:10:22,760
Speaker 1: more children than her. Am I the a whole. I'm

1348
01:10:22,760 --> 01:10:24,680
Speaker 1: sorry if the story was a bit rocky, but there

1349
01:10:24,720 --> 01:10:27,040
Speaker 1: was so much going on. Please ask me if you

1350
01:10:27,160 --> 01:10:30,120
Speaker 1: need any more details. And there's no more details because

1351
01:10:30,120 --> 01:10:34,600
Speaker 1: it's over. Just to put it to rest, Dakota was

1352
01:10:34,640 --> 01:10:38,320
Speaker 1: she was she an ahle? No, she was an angel? No,

1353
01:10:39,240 --> 01:10:40,559
Speaker 1: you were a sweet angel baby.

1354
01:10:40,680 --> 01:10:46,840
Speaker 2: That's right, and yeah, it's Look, it's a lot to

1355
01:10:46,960 --> 01:10:49,599
Speaker 2: ask of people if that's how much plane tickets cost.

1356
01:10:49,680 --> 01:10:52,760
Speaker 2: But it's also a lot to be like, hey, you well,

1357
01:10:52,840 --> 01:10:54,919
Speaker 2: if you want me there, you're buying everything.

1358
01:10:55,280 --> 01:10:57,880
Speaker 1: Yes, it's like, that's weird, that's crazy.

1359
01:10:57,960 --> 01:11:01,480
Speaker 2: I think if people have like family and other like continents,

1360
01:11:01,840 --> 01:11:06,439
Speaker 2: normalize having more than one wedding. Mike, cut the cost

1361
01:11:06,479 --> 01:11:08,479
Speaker 2: of your wedding in half and have one in the

1362
01:11:08,520 --> 01:11:10,920
Speaker 2: place where everyone in Europe can go, and then have

1363
01:11:10,960 --> 01:11:12,760
Speaker 2: one in the place where everyone in the States can go.

1364
01:11:12,840 --> 01:11:15,479
Speaker 1: Do in one of them. Do a little house wedding

1365
01:11:15,520 --> 01:11:17,840
Speaker 1: if someone's got a house, go to the beach, Like

1366
01:11:18,880 --> 01:11:21,599
Speaker 1: you can have an amazing wedding for like a few

1367
01:11:21,640 --> 01:11:25,640
Speaker 1: thousand bucks if you like, just pick and choose, Like

1368
01:11:25,680 --> 01:11:27,600
Speaker 1: I went to a wedding on the beach. It was

1369
01:11:27,640 --> 01:11:29,080
Speaker 1: like five thousand bucks. All in.

1370
01:11:29,360 --> 01:11:32,960
Speaker 2: Don't let big wedding poison your brain and trick you

1371
01:11:33,040 --> 01:11:37,200
Speaker 2: into thinking that you need the seven million dollar wedding.

1372
01:11:37,360 --> 01:11:42,120
Speaker 1: Dakota taking down big wedding. Big wedding. Oh well, we're

1373
01:11:42,120 --> 01:11:43,680
Speaker 1: taking down the story that the story's over.

1374
01:11:43,800 --> 01:11:47,920
Speaker 2: It's that's my my villain arc is taking down wedding.

1375
01:11:47,800 --> 01:11:52,800
Speaker 1: Student to them a Luigi in the making, Watch out

1376
01:11:53,040 --> 01:12:01,320
Speaker 1: wedding Mario, Mario. It's it's suit John, Okay, so it's fine.

1377
01:12:01,400 --> 01:12:03,040
Speaker 1: You have to it's suit John. So it's fine. It's

1378
01:12:03,080 --> 01:12:05,920
Speaker 1: new year, New John, New year, new John. But you

1379
01:12:05,960 --> 01:12:09,840
Speaker 1: know what we got that's new? Oh we got don't

1380
01:12:10,200 --> 01:12:14,160
Speaker 1: don't know. Dakota please do the honors? Who take off

1381
01:12:14,200 --> 01:12:15,720
Speaker 1: my my reading hat?

1382
01:12:16,320 --> 01:12:16,400
Speaker 3: Right?

1383
01:12:16,439 --> 01:12:19,200
Speaker 1: Guess am I not reading hat? Uh?

1384
01:12:19,320 --> 01:12:24,200
Speaker 2: Josephine, thanks for the two hundred and sixty nine Speedish

1385
01:12:24,240 --> 01:12:29,439
Speaker 2: Corona twenty twenty four. I found okay story time. I

1386
01:12:29,479 --> 01:12:31,960
Speaker 2: know I'm usually all jokes, but I'll be serious now.

1387
01:12:32,200 --> 01:12:34,640
Speaker 2: Y'all really help me when I've been down, giving me

1388
01:12:34,720 --> 01:12:37,479
Speaker 2: love when I feel worthless, being there when I'm lonely.

1389
01:12:37,960 --> 01:12:46,840
Speaker 1: Thank you all. Also, Kean please showcakes. John Hey, thank you. Josephine.

1390
01:12:46,880 --> 01:12:51,000
Speaker 1: You are for our very own Josephine, who is here

1391
01:12:51,800 --> 01:12:55,160
Speaker 1: every day, who is an incredible person? Do we do

1392
01:12:55,240 --> 01:12:56,840
Speaker 1: we give a little flash now?

1393
01:12:57,000 --> 01:12:59,479
Speaker 3: I think, as long as I can see here, as

1394
01:12:59,520 --> 01:13:01,439
Speaker 3: long as I she's here, because I know she's like

1395
01:13:01,680 --> 01:13:02,479
Speaker 3: she had to southe.

1396
01:13:02,280 --> 01:13:05,960
Speaker 2: The cats, I think, yeah, she just slice of cake.

1397
01:13:06,120 --> 01:13:08,200
Speaker 2: So she get a slice of cake.

1398
01:13:08,439 --> 01:13:08,960
Speaker 1: There we go.

1399
01:13:09,320 --> 01:13:12,280
Speaker 3: If I get a Josephine comment right now, we're.

1400
01:13:12,120 --> 01:13:15,320
Speaker 2: Gonna appetizer and we're gonna have ye we're her since

1401
01:13:15,360 --> 01:13:17,840
Speaker 2: she shows up, and it's just how do you appetize

1402
01:13:17,880 --> 01:13:21,000
Speaker 2: what I show? Just a little slice, like like a

1403
01:13:21,040 --> 01:13:26,200
Speaker 2: side profile, just a half jump, just a little Let's

1404
01:13:26,240 --> 01:13:26,880
Speaker 2: just keep reading.

1405
01:13:29,200 --> 01:13:31,160
Speaker 1: We did have something just come in that we will

1406
01:13:31,160 --> 01:13:32,200
Speaker 1: get to We'll get to it.

1407
01:13:32,600 --> 01:13:35,040
Speaker 2: Honey B eighty five, thanks for the two pounds. Having

1408
01:13:35,040 --> 01:13:37,639
Speaker 2: family issues, so glad that you're here. Happy New Year,

1409
01:13:37,840 --> 01:13:40,280
Speaker 2: Happy New Year to you, honey bee. Hope those get

1410
01:13:40,720 --> 01:13:43,639
Speaker 2: I hope you get through those issues smooth as smoothly

1411
01:13:43,680 --> 01:13:44,360
Speaker 2: as possible.

1412
01:13:46,720 --> 01:13:47,439
Speaker 3: Josephine is here.

1413
01:13:47,600 --> 01:13:53,000
Speaker 1: Uh angie, there's the two bucks. Please like the stream.

1414
01:13:52,360 --> 01:13:53,679
Speaker 1: Like the stream.

1415
01:13:53,680 --> 01:13:55,479
Speaker 2: We're at three hundred and five likes and one hundred

1416
01:13:55,520 --> 01:13:57,200
Speaker 2: and ninety five likes. We will be able to spin

1417
01:13:57,320 --> 01:13:59,960
Speaker 2: a wheel and the wheel makes a noise that goes B.

1418
01:14:00,360 --> 01:14:07,160
Speaker 1: And I like him. Uh x uh oh, actually I

1419
01:14:07,160 --> 01:14:08,280
Speaker 1: think we might be caught up.

1420
01:14:08,800 --> 01:14:12,360
Speaker 2: No, I think we did ex baby gal x Yeah,

1421
01:14:12,640 --> 01:14:13,240
Speaker 2: I think we are.

1422
01:14:14,840 --> 01:14:20,000
Speaker 1: But I'll do that one again. But okay, let's do it.

1423
01:14:20,080 --> 01:14:20,720
Speaker 3: Just do it just do it.

1424
01:14:20,720 --> 01:14:22,320
Speaker 1: Ex baby guy X. Thanks for being a member for

1425
01:14:22,360 --> 01:14:22,639
Speaker 1: one month.

1426
01:14:22,680 --> 01:14:25,240
Speaker 2: Happy New Year, guys, love you all at okay, story time,

1427
01:14:25,320 --> 01:14:26,280
Speaker 2: loving the suits.

1428
01:14:26,640 --> 01:14:30,280
Speaker 1: Three handsome guys right there. I just wanted to say

1429
01:14:30,280 --> 01:14:30,639
Speaker 1: that again.

1430
01:14:30,640 --> 01:14:33,280
Speaker 2: I called handsome so John could do that, so John

1431
01:14:33,320 --> 01:14:36,360
Speaker 2: could hit the I don't know the the what's that

1432
01:14:36,400 --> 01:14:37,000
Speaker 2: guy's name?

1433
01:14:37,840 --> 01:14:41,439
Speaker 1: Oh god, I can't think of it, magoober No, what

1434
01:14:41,560 --> 01:14:44,000
Speaker 1: is his name? Oh god?

1435
01:14:44,160 --> 01:14:45,120
Speaker 3: Just keep reading the dum.

1436
01:14:46,040 --> 01:14:49,160
Speaker 2: Lucy du Set, thanks for being a member for three months.

1437
01:14:49,360 --> 01:14:51,840
Speaker 2: Hey everyone, Happy New Year's You guys make my day

1438
01:14:51,880 --> 01:14:52,960
Speaker 2: when you guys go live.

1439
01:14:53,160 --> 01:14:55,639
Speaker 1: Oh shucks, Lucy. Thanks for saying that.

1440
01:14:55,680 --> 01:14:59,920
Speaker 2: And we go live every weekday at like three about

1441
01:15:00,240 --> 01:15:02,000
Speaker 2: about three pm PSC.

1442
01:15:02,080 --> 01:15:05,800
Speaker 1: Hey we were early today, Yeah, earlier technically technically.

1443
01:15:06,240 --> 01:15:09,080
Speaker 2: Laid at the same time, which is even more impressive

1444
01:15:09,439 --> 01:15:12,839
Speaker 2: being right on time. Amy, thanks for the five bucks.

1445
01:15:13,000 --> 01:15:15,519
Speaker 2: You'll never have wedding stress or drama. If you never

1446
01:15:15,640 --> 01:15:17,920
Speaker 2: have a wedding, You're welcome. Just saved you a lot

1447
01:15:17,920 --> 01:15:24,960
Speaker 2: of hassle. Amy's got the pro tip right there. Jen Thompson,

1448
01:15:25,080 --> 01:15:28,360
Speaker 2: thanks for gifting five more memberships to the chat go

1449
01:15:28,640 --> 01:15:31,680
Speaker 2: and if you want one of those memberships comment let

1450
01:15:31,760 --> 01:15:34,200
Speaker 2: us know you're here. The most active people in the

1451
01:15:34,280 --> 01:15:36,560
Speaker 2: chat are the ones that get the gifted memberships.

1452
01:15:37,160 --> 01:15:39,960
Speaker 1: The computer does it, Oh yeah, it goes beep boop, peep,

1453
01:15:40,000 --> 01:15:42,679
Speaker 1: and then it decides who is deserving.

1454
01:15:46,439 --> 01:15:52,719
Speaker 2: Sorry maybe Michelle Evelyn, thanks for the ten dollars. Happy

1455
01:15:52,720 --> 01:15:54,400
Speaker 2: New Year, What a great way to ring in the

1456
01:15:54,400 --> 01:15:58,160
Speaker 2: new year. I couldn't agree more. Same, I couldn't agree more.

1457
01:15:58,720 --> 01:16:02,400
Speaker 2: And Hannah dropping another sixty bucks in the tippling. How

1458
01:16:02,760 --> 01:16:10,160
Speaker 2: we all know what to put in there? It is tradition,

1459
01:16:11,120 --> 01:16:11,839
Speaker 2: as is tradition.

1460
01:16:12,479 --> 01:16:14,480
Speaker 1: L e. G. Thanks for the five bucks.

1461
01:16:14,439 --> 01:16:17,000
Speaker 2: Like the stream or you'll all join Tina on the

1462
01:16:17,160 --> 01:16:18,880
Speaker 2: trebute ship the Tribute.

1463
01:16:18,520 --> 01:16:26,200
Speaker 1: Sception fourteen express amazing, outstanding. Yes, thanks for fourteen. Yeah

1464
01:16:26,280 --> 01:16:27,960
Speaker 1: the number you don't want to be on the Tribute

1465
01:16:27,960 --> 01:16:28,799
Speaker 1: sha number fourteen.

1466
01:16:28,880 --> 01:16:33,280
Speaker 2: Oh no, no, no, no, Sariri, thanks for the five bucks.

1467
01:16:33,520 --> 01:16:35,439
Speaker 2: When I found y'all two years ago, I was in

1468
01:16:35,479 --> 01:16:39,240
Speaker 2: a bad relationship with my twenty years older boss you

1469
01:16:40,000 --> 01:16:40,640
Speaker 2: uh and that you.

1470
01:16:40,800 --> 01:16:42,960
Speaker 1: Was not for me? That was in parentheses in the chat.

1471
01:16:43,520 --> 01:16:46,360
Speaker 2: Now I but also you your boss at your boss,

1472
01:16:46,400 --> 01:16:48,439
Speaker 2: not at you at your boss. Now I have a

1473
01:16:48,479 --> 01:16:52,120
Speaker 2: new job, loving boyfriend and beautiful daughter cat named Quentin.

1474
01:16:52,960 --> 01:16:53,240
Speaker 1: Uh.

1475
01:16:53,280 --> 01:16:55,880
Speaker 2: Listening to y'all help me find the strength. Thanks for

1476
01:16:55,920 --> 01:16:58,320
Speaker 2: all you do, Love you and happy New Year, Happy

1477
01:16:58,360 --> 01:16:58,760
Speaker 2: New Year to you.

1478
01:16:58,960 --> 01:17:02,680
Speaker 1: It's amazing. That's awesome. That was amazing. Yeah.

1479
01:17:02,720 --> 01:17:05,439
Speaker 2: Wow, That's why it's so crazy to tell you stories.

1480
01:17:05,439 --> 01:17:07,400
Speaker 2: It's like sometimes these stories can help people be like,

1481
01:17:07,479 --> 01:17:10,720
Speaker 2: oh is that me? Yeah, this happening to me?

1482
01:17:10,800 --> 01:17:12,440
Speaker 3: This sounds oddly familiar.

1483
01:17:12,840 --> 01:17:14,760
Speaker 1: We were like the lawyers that are going, is this

1484
01:17:14,960 --> 01:17:17,479
Speaker 1: happening to you? Then break up?

1485
01:17:17,680 --> 01:17:21,760
Speaker 3: It's like divorce, divorce, just flashing divorce every time.

1486
01:17:22,520 --> 01:17:24,200
Speaker 2: That's we need to get that needs to be our

1487
01:17:24,439 --> 01:17:26,320
Speaker 2: We need to fold that in to the to the

1488
01:17:26,320 --> 01:17:28,480
Speaker 2: program that we're also now divorce attorneys.

1489
01:17:29,680 --> 01:17:37,439
Speaker 1: Just kidding. I just decided cinem moist. Woh we all

1490
01:17:37,479 --> 01:17:41,080
Speaker 1: we all have the same. Thank you for the five dollars.

1491
01:17:42,600 --> 01:17:45,160
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm I'm cheating and I'm saying I see in

1492
01:17:45,200 --> 01:17:47,559
Speaker 2: parentheses it says the last word is kind of pronounced

1493
01:17:47,600 --> 01:17:50,280
Speaker 2: like or okay, So I'm gonna try to read this

1494
01:17:50,520 --> 01:17:51,559
Speaker 2: Swedish got it?

1495
01:17:52,400 --> 01:17:58,920
Speaker 1: Oh, got neat? Or from Sweden? Sounds accurate. Twenty five?

1496
01:17:58,920 --> 01:17:59,439
Speaker 1: Here we go.

1497
01:18:00,200 --> 01:18:03,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, let me know how bad I did that Josephine,

1498
01:18:04,720 --> 01:18:06,960
Speaker 2: unknown guinea pig, thanks for the ten dollars.

1499
01:18:07,360 --> 01:18:09,240
Speaker 1: Thank you all for what you do. Got me through

1500
01:18:09,280 --> 01:18:12,639
Speaker 1: surgery earlier this month. Well, thank you, unknown guinea pig.

1501
01:18:12,720 --> 01:18:15,320
Speaker 2: And you got you know, you got through that surgery

1502
01:18:15,320 --> 01:18:19,720
Speaker 2: because you're strong as a k ox, all right, And

1503
01:18:19,800 --> 01:18:23,519
Speaker 2: I think we are that one though, because you guys

1504
01:18:23,600 --> 01:18:23,920
Speaker 2: love it.

1505
01:18:24,000 --> 01:18:27,320
Speaker 1: And Frank the Pug. Thanks are the twenty five bucks.

1506
01:18:27,479 --> 01:18:30,880
Speaker 2: Happy New Year everyone, twenty five bucks for twenty twenty five.

1507
01:18:31,040 --> 01:18:33,880
Speaker 1: Who where might I find a group photo of you?

1508
01:18:34,160 --> 01:18:38,160
Speaker 1: Of you all, like all of you? I need it? Oh? Well,

1509
01:18:38,280 --> 01:18:41,160
Speaker 1: I guess well there's there's probably gonna be one tonight.

1510
01:18:42,040 --> 01:18:46,599
Speaker 1: Assume no, we're missing one. We're missing one photoshop. Uh

1511
01:18:46,720 --> 01:18:51,200
Speaker 1: the super secret February thing. Ah yeah, yeah, we will

1512
01:18:51,320 --> 01:18:56,599
Speaker 1: all be. There's gonna be view there stuff. Yeah, we're

1513
01:18:56,640 --> 01:18:59,040
Speaker 1: not telling you what we're talking about. Sorry, chat you'll see,

1514
01:18:59,040 --> 01:18:59,719
Speaker 1: you'll see, you'll see.

1515
01:19:01,120 --> 01:19:02,760
Speaker 3: You got this. Every time we mess it up, you

1516
01:19:02,800 --> 01:19:06,040
Speaker 3: just take it. Take it there you go.

1517
01:19:06,479 --> 01:19:08,280
Speaker 1: Thank you for the five gifted.

1518
01:19:08,400 --> 01:19:15,720
Speaker 2: Okay, storytime memberships, LA and that and that's it is

1519
01:19:15,760 --> 01:19:17,640
Speaker 2: all now.

1520
01:19:17,320 --> 01:19:20,960
Speaker 1: And now just inc it in all caps. Don't forget cakes.

1521
01:19:21,080 --> 01:19:23,080
Speaker 3: How do I do this just.

1522
01:19:25,160 --> 01:19:26,960
Speaker 1: You know, like a little yeah, a little a little twirl,

1523
01:19:27,000 --> 01:19:31,599
Speaker 1: a little twirl, you know, give us a sh I'm.

1524
01:19:31,520 --> 01:19:36,759
Speaker 2: Getting there's too much motion.

1525
01:19:38,000 --> 01:19:41,599
Speaker 1: There's too much motion. That was more than a slice.

1526
01:19:41,680 --> 01:19:42,920
Speaker 3: I can't not do that.

1527
01:19:42,920 --> 01:19:45,639
Speaker 1: It's a hemisphere cake. We minds.

1528
01:19:45,640 --> 01:19:46,920
Speaker 3: I'm up, I'm up.

1529
01:19:47,040 --> 01:19:51,400
Speaker 1: We might get a se a seams a seamstress seamster

1530
01:19:51,560 --> 01:19:55,240
Speaker 1: on on speed dial because we are at dangerous levels

1531
01:19:55,240 --> 01:19:56,479
Speaker 1: of cake bust just.

1532
01:19:56,439 --> 01:20:01,719
Speaker 3: Like like Shave Brown's comment, but nice buss that cake.

1533
01:20:01,600 --> 01:20:07,920
Speaker 1: Fin a bust a busty cake right there. Busty cakes, Okay,

1534
01:20:08,000 --> 01:20:11,040
Speaker 1: but else a bust this next thing.

1535
01:20:11,479 --> 01:20:12,360
Speaker 3: Don't say that this is.

1536
01:20:12,479 --> 01:20:17,479
Speaker 1: Next door, this next story completely were still are this

1537
01:20:17,720 --> 01:20:18,680
Speaker 1: good old episode?

1538
01:20:18,800 --> 01:20:20,840
Speaker 3: Mister, We're great.

1539
01:20:20,920 --> 01:20:27,800
Speaker 2: We're vibing's my family like how Jay Lowman says, y'all

1540
01:20:27,800 --> 01:20:29,160
Speaker 2: are actual children?

1541
01:20:30,400 --> 01:20:31,400
Speaker 1: Correct? We are?

1542
01:20:32,040 --> 01:20:33,280
Speaker 3: Well, we're the oldest children.

1543
01:20:34,400 --> 01:20:37,120
Speaker 1: Hey, the golden child. The sentence is not complete. We

1544
01:20:37,200 --> 01:20:42,559
Speaker 1: are children for a living. That oh that's done. That's

1545
01:20:42,640 --> 01:20:44,840
Speaker 1: like that's some philosophers. That slam.

1546
01:20:44,920 --> 01:20:47,920
Speaker 2: That makes me feel like a slam dunk on ice skates. Man,

1547
01:20:47,920 --> 01:20:52,240
Speaker 2: It's right, don't do that, Oh blind tree, I love that.

1548
01:20:52,760 --> 01:20:55,480
Speaker 2: What don't worry about they got to Ichigo profile.

1549
01:20:57,479 --> 01:21:03,840
Speaker 1: Trading anime profile pictures overpowered brain. All right, let's get

1550
01:21:03,880 --> 01:21:04,160
Speaker 1: into this.

1551
01:21:04,080 --> 01:21:06,639
Speaker 3: Next, John, this is good. I think this is another

1552
01:21:06,680 --> 01:21:07,160
Speaker 3: two k.

1553
01:21:07,880 --> 01:21:13,280
Speaker 1: It's another two K. Thank you appreciate that my boy

1554
01:21:13,360 --> 01:21:16,519
Speaker 1: producing on this show to you. All right, let's get

1555
01:21:16,520 --> 01:21:19,400
Speaker 1: into it. Boys and girls. My family made my wedding

1556
01:21:19,479 --> 01:21:21,760
Speaker 1: all about them, and most of them didn't even show up.

1557
01:21:22,840 --> 01:21:27,200
Speaker 1: How do they do that? Wow? Uh? Me thirty one

1558
01:21:27,200 --> 01:21:29,439
Speaker 1: female and my now husband, thirty six male, and I

1559
01:21:29,479 --> 01:21:32,400
Speaker 1: got married in September. I was so excited to get engaged,

1560
01:21:32,439 --> 01:21:33,960
Speaker 1: and I knew we were going to have a small

1561
01:21:33,960 --> 01:21:36,719
Speaker 1: wedding party because neither of us have a lot of friends. Ouch.

1562
01:21:37,360 --> 01:21:40,519
Speaker 1: We ended up having only three people each. By the way,

1563
01:21:40,600 --> 01:21:43,519
Speaker 1: this comes from Woe Pete from the r slash Okay

1564
01:21:43,560 --> 01:21:46,160
Speaker 1: storytime separate it. So, my maid of honor is my

1565
01:21:46,320 --> 01:21:49,639
Speaker 1: absolute best friend, and my bridesmaids was a close friend

1566
01:21:49,640 --> 01:21:52,880
Speaker 1: of mine and my sister. This wedding sounds so small.

1567
01:21:52,880 --> 01:21:55,160
Speaker 1: It sounds like everyone in the wedding is the wedding.

1568
01:21:56,280 --> 01:21:58,559
Speaker 1: My husband had his best man who was his brother

1569
01:21:58,600 --> 01:22:01,719
Speaker 1: in law, and his groom or two of his close friends.

1570
01:22:02,080 --> 01:22:04,479
Speaker 1: Everything was great at first. Everyone agreed to be part

1571
01:22:04,479 --> 01:22:07,200
Speaker 1: of the wedding, and everyone seemed to be super excited

1572
01:22:07,240 --> 01:22:10,880
Speaker 1: about it. As time went on and it was getting

1573
01:22:10,920 --> 01:22:13,880
Speaker 1: closer to the wedding, I'd say probably four or five

1574
01:22:13,960 --> 01:22:16,920
Speaker 1: months out, my sister started to seem a bit off

1575
01:22:16,960 --> 01:22:20,000
Speaker 1: when it came to the wedding stuff. I had asked

1576
01:22:20,000 --> 01:22:21,760
Speaker 1: her what days that she would be in town for

1577
01:22:21,800 --> 01:22:24,880
Speaker 1: the wedding. She goes on to tell me that she

1578
01:22:24,920 --> 01:22:29,920
Speaker 1: will be out of town around the time of the wedding. Hmm, okay, yeah,

1579
01:22:30,040 --> 01:22:33,000
Speaker 1: you know that's that's not that's what you do. I'm

1580
01:22:33,040 --> 01:22:38,440
Speaker 1: not befuddled. I'm sorry, I'm I'm out of town. It's like, huh.

1581
01:22:38,520 --> 01:22:41,920
Speaker 1: But she swore that she would be flying and would

1582
01:22:42,000 --> 01:22:47,320
Speaker 1: be there. Okay. Then she goes on to tell me

1583
01:22:47,400 --> 01:22:50,240
Speaker 1: that she's having anxiety about coming up here and that

1584
01:22:50,280 --> 01:22:53,400
Speaker 1: she would come the day of the wedding. Oh yeah,

1585
01:22:53,400 --> 01:22:55,800
Speaker 1: that's that's not going to give you any anxiety. It's

1586
01:22:55,840 --> 01:22:57,040
Speaker 1: gonna work out so perfectly.

1587
01:22:57,160 --> 01:22:59,320
Speaker 2: It's the best way to travel is travel on the

1588
01:22:59,360 --> 01:23:02,360
Speaker 2: same days. The thing that you have to get to well.

1589
01:23:02,400 --> 01:23:04,280
Speaker 1: I told her that she needed to be there at

1590
01:23:04,360 --> 01:23:06,519
Speaker 1: least the day before the wedding because of the rehearsal.

1591
01:23:06,880 --> 01:23:09,000
Speaker 1: She agreed to come to the day before, but said

1592
01:23:09,000 --> 01:23:11,360
Speaker 1: that she would not stay after the wedding, that she

1593
01:23:11,439 --> 01:23:16,559
Speaker 1: would leave that night to go home. She lives about

1594
01:23:16,600 --> 01:23:21,760
Speaker 1: nine hours away and the wedding ended at ten pm.

1595
01:23:21,280 --> 01:23:26,439
Speaker 1: I tried telling her that she would probably be too

1596
01:23:26,560 --> 01:23:30,200
Speaker 1: tryed to drive all the way back nine hours again

1597
01:23:30,600 --> 01:23:33,360
Speaker 1: after the wedding due to the fact that it was

1598
01:23:33,400 --> 01:23:35,760
Speaker 1: going to be a long day for us. She still

1599
01:23:35,800 --> 01:23:38,880
Speaker 1: didn't want to stay. I figured that was her choice.

1600
01:23:39,760 --> 01:23:42,400
Speaker 1: Fast forward another two months and me and my future

1601
01:23:42,520 --> 01:23:45,080
Speaker 1: sister in law and all the moms of the wedding

1602
01:23:45,080 --> 01:23:48,200
Speaker 1: were shopping for the mother's dresses. My mom, who is

1603
01:23:48,240 --> 01:23:51,600
Speaker 1: a complete narcissist, shows up and is civil due to

1604
01:23:51,640 --> 01:23:54,479
Speaker 1: the fact that other people are around. My mom and

1605
01:23:54,479 --> 01:23:56,760
Speaker 1: I don't have the best relationship, but she lives close

1606
01:23:56,800 --> 01:23:59,320
Speaker 1: by and she is my mother, so I invited her

1607
01:23:59,320 --> 01:24:02,280
Speaker 1: to go shopping with us. She only tried on one dress,

1608
01:24:02,280 --> 01:24:05,800
Speaker 1: then threw a big stink on that none of the

1609
01:24:05,880 --> 01:24:08,840
Speaker 1: dresses were her style, and then disappeared. No one knew

1610
01:24:08,840 --> 01:24:11,439
Speaker 1: where she had gone, so we just continued to shut

1611
01:24:11,520 --> 01:24:13,919
Speaker 1: without her. What is happening?

1612
01:24:16,280 --> 01:24:20,600
Speaker 2: It's just everything I love, just the the utter chaos

1613
01:24:20,680 --> 01:24:24,000
Speaker 2: lurking beneath the lines of this story.

1614
01:24:24,160 --> 01:24:26,559
Speaker 1: We're just we're just in like the minor day this is.

1615
01:24:26,560 --> 01:24:31,040
Speaker 1: We're not even close to the wedding day. We're two months. Huh,

1616
01:24:31,600 --> 01:24:35,400
Speaker 1: I'm stressed out right right. She leaves with no dress,

1617
01:24:35,840 --> 01:24:38,240
Speaker 1: then complained to me that no one would talk to

1618
01:24:38,280 --> 01:24:40,720
Speaker 1: her or even paid any attention to her. I just

1619
01:24:40,760 --> 01:24:43,120
Speaker 1: shook it off because I was already irritated at her

1620
01:24:43,200 --> 01:24:45,639
Speaker 1: and I just didn't feel like dealing with it. After

1621
01:24:45,680 --> 01:24:48,400
Speaker 1: I got home, my mom started sending me photos of

1622
01:24:48,439 --> 01:24:51,080
Speaker 1: these awful dresses that were not suitable for a mother

1623
01:24:51,200 --> 01:24:53,320
Speaker 1: of the bride dress. Mom was trying to get some

1624
01:24:53,400 --> 01:24:58,639
Speaker 1: at this wedding. Hey, they say chaos the best place

1625
01:24:59,000 --> 01:25:03,639
Speaker 1: just keeps going God. So I started sending her dresses back,

1626
01:25:03,680 --> 01:25:05,599
Speaker 1: and she kept telling me that none of the dresses

1627
01:25:05,640 --> 01:25:09,360
Speaker 1: I was sending were her style. I told her that

1628
01:25:09,400 --> 01:25:12,200
Speaker 1: the dresses she was picking were way too casual for

1629
01:25:12,280 --> 01:25:14,840
Speaker 1: the wedding. Then she went on to complain that the

1630
01:25:14,920 --> 01:25:17,759
Speaker 1: dresses I was picking were too expensive. They were all

1631
01:25:17,840 --> 01:25:23,000
Speaker 1: under fifty dollars. So I offered to pay half the dress,

1632
01:25:23,360 --> 01:25:26,080
Speaker 1: and she still refused twenty five dollars for a dress

1633
01:25:26,120 --> 01:25:28,519
Speaker 1: for a wedding mother of the bride, too much. You

1634
01:25:28,520 --> 01:25:31,320
Speaker 1: can literally, that's like a thrift store. One penny over

1635
01:25:31,320 --> 01:25:34,960
Speaker 1: three dollars, I'm leaving has to be three dollars. All,

1636
01:25:35,160 --> 01:25:39,639
Speaker 1: who do you think? I am? Tina call back. After

1637
01:25:39,680 --> 01:25:42,320
Speaker 1: about two hours of arguing back and forth, we finally

1638
01:25:42,320 --> 01:25:44,280
Speaker 1: set it on a dress for her, even though she

1639
01:25:44,520 --> 01:25:47,680
Speaker 1: still wasn't happy. I agreed for her to wear a

1640
01:25:47,720 --> 01:25:50,040
Speaker 1: belt with a dress, just to get her to wear

1641
01:25:50,080 --> 01:25:52,599
Speaker 1: a dress that was suitable for the wedding. I thought

1642
01:25:52,680 --> 01:25:55,360
Speaker 1: was gonna be just to wear to a dress and

1643
01:25:55,400 --> 01:26:00,559
Speaker 1: I just show up. I'm just showing up wearing my belt. Yeah,

1644
01:26:00,720 --> 01:26:03,840
Speaker 1: she didn't even wear the belts in the wedding at

1645
01:26:03,840 --> 01:26:07,200
Speaker 1: the end. Wow. Now it's a month out from the wedding.

1646
01:26:07,439 --> 01:26:09,559
Speaker 1: I check in with the bridesmaids and maid of honor

1647
01:26:09,600 --> 01:26:12,160
Speaker 1: to see if they have received their dresses. As I'm

1648
01:26:12,200 --> 01:26:15,559
Speaker 1: talking to my sister about it, she informed me that

1649
01:26:15,600 --> 01:26:19,760
Speaker 1: she still hadn't even ordered her dress. I told her

1650
01:26:19,800 --> 01:26:21,960
Speaker 1: that she needed to order it now because it takes

1651
01:26:22,040 --> 01:26:24,240
Speaker 1: three weeks to come in and if she waits any

1652
01:26:24,360 --> 01:26:27,720
Speaker 1: longer then she wouldn't receive the dress in time. She

1653
01:26:27,840 --> 01:26:29,879
Speaker 1: told me she was in the middle of switching jobs

1654
01:26:29,960 --> 01:26:32,080
Speaker 1: and that she was getting paid the next day and

1655
01:26:32,120 --> 01:26:35,000
Speaker 1: would order just to order the dress. Then a week

1656
01:26:35,080 --> 01:26:38,400
Speaker 1: goes by. I asked my sister if she ordered the dress,

1657
01:26:38,680 --> 01:26:41,040
Speaker 1: and what do you think? She said, Dakota, what do

1658
01:26:41,080 --> 01:26:42,200
Speaker 1: you think she did to say?

1659
01:26:42,200 --> 01:26:46,920
Speaker 2: She said, absolutely, here's the receipt, here's the name of

1660
01:26:46,960 --> 01:26:48,280
Speaker 2: the guy who delivered it.

1661
01:26:49,080 --> 01:26:53,080
Speaker 1: Here's my social Security number. That's what you think is

1662
01:26:53,080 --> 01:26:55,040
Speaker 1: gonna happen, and the three numbers on the back of

1663
01:26:55,080 --> 01:26:59,400
Speaker 1: my credit card. Oh yeah, well, she says, she told

1664
01:26:59,400 --> 01:27:00,680
Speaker 1: me that she had.

1665
01:27:01,320 --> 01:27:04,880
Speaker 2: Oh so you were right. Oh cool, you were exactly right.

1666
01:27:05,000 --> 01:27:06,960
Speaker 2: I knew that that was the answer.

1667
01:27:07,600 --> 01:27:11,840
Speaker 1: I think it's the first ever happened. Oh god, thank god.

1668
01:27:12,360 --> 01:27:14,400
Speaker 1: So she received the dress about a week before the

1669
01:27:14,439 --> 01:27:17,240
Speaker 1: wedding and she told me that it fit. Well, that

1670
01:27:17,400 --> 01:27:18,040
Speaker 1: was a.

1671
01:27:18,479 --> 01:27:22,800
Speaker 2: Crisis of I'm gonna say that's a lie. I'm gonna

1672
01:27:22,840 --> 01:27:26,680
Speaker 2: do a one to eighty. She's doing a fib.

1673
01:27:26,439 --> 01:27:33,439
Speaker 1: Right now the week of the wedding. No fib. We'll see,

1674
01:27:33,439 --> 01:27:36,880
Speaker 1: we'll see. Monday, I got a call from my Maitive

1675
01:27:36,880 --> 01:27:38,880
Speaker 1: Honor and she tells me that all of a sudden,

1676
01:27:38,920 --> 01:27:45,080
Speaker 1: she's canceled her flight. Of course, she lost her dress.

1677
01:27:46,920 --> 01:27:50,599
Speaker 1: Apparently they decided that they are no longer going to

1678
01:27:50,640 --> 01:27:52,360
Speaker 1: have a direct flight here.

1679
01:27:54,280 --> 01:27:58,360
Speaker 2: What they're like? I don't like direct flights. I like

1680
01:27:58,439 --> 01:27:59,240
Speaker 2: to meander.

1681
01:27:59,840 --> 01:28:02,960
Speaker 1: I like to jump around this country like I have

1682
01:28:03,120 --> 01:28:06,600
Speaker 1: wander Luss. I want to visit this stall at the

1683
01:28:06,640 --> 01:28:09,360
Speaker 1: Atlanta airport.

1684
01:28:09,040 --> 01:28:14,880
Speaker 2: I wanna sit down in an airport in Pittsburgh.

1685
01:28:15,120 --> 01:28:17,720
Speaker 1: What So we are in a panic trying to get

1686
01:28:17,720 --> 01:28:20,799
Speaker 1: her another flight. Finally we found one in an airport

1687
01:28:20,840 --> 01:28:24,320
Speaker 1: that's three hours away. The next problem we had was

1688
01:28:24,360 --> 01:28:28,200
Speaker 1: getting her from the airport to the wedding venue on

1689
01:28:28,400 --> 01:28:31,200
Speaker 1: the day she comes in. We had the venue from

1690
01:28:31,200 --> 01:28:35,920
Speaker 1: Thursday to Sunday, and we were all staying there as well. Yes,

1691
01:28:37,200 --> 01:28:40,920
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but Dakotas, as a maid of honor, would

1692
01:28:40,960 --> 01:28:43,080
Speaker 1: you take it upon yourself just to make sure you

1693
01:28:43,080 --> 01:28:45,160
Speaker 1: can get there? Would you? Would you put that on

1694
01:28:45,200 --> 01:28:47,840
Speaker 1: the bride? Is that what you do? If I was

1695
01:28:47,880 --> 01:28:51,040
Speaker 1: the maid of honor, I would have more honor than this.

1696
01:28:51,600 --> 01:28:57,200
Speaker 2: There's a lack of honor emanating from the maid in question,

1697
01:28:57,600 --> 01:29:00,920
Speaker 2: And if I was the bride, I'd be like gay.

1698
01:29:01,040 --> 01:29:03,679
Speaker 1: So guess what plans have changed. You don't have.

1699
01:29:03,640 --> 01:29:07,760
Speaker 2: To figure out your flight here anymore, because what what

1700
01:29:07,800 --> 01:29:08,519
Speaker 2: are you doing?

1701
01:29:08,760 --> 01:29:09,600
Speaker 1: Send me a picture of.

1702
01:29:09,600 --> 01:29:12,599
Speaker 2: Your dress right now, That's what I would say. Send

1703
01:29:12,600 --> 01:29:15,680
Speaker 2: me a pick of that dress. Don't clip that.

1704
01:29:17,240 --> 01:29:21,680
Speaker 1: This is no The reason it was an issue was

1705
01:29:21,720 --> 01:29:24,080
Speaker 1: because the time her flight came in was the same

1706
01:29:24,200 --> 01:29:26,479
Speaker 1: time that we needed to be at the venue to decorate.

1707
01:29:26,920 --> 01:29:28,720
Speaker 1: Due to the fact that she was coming in from

1708
01:29:28,800 --> 01:29:31,320
Speaker 1: far away. My maid of honor had also planned my

1709
01:29:31,400 --> 01:29:34,240
Speaker 1: bridal shower to be the day before the wedding, so

1710
01:29:34,600 --> 01:29:37,920
Speaker 1: because of being short on time, Thursday that was the

1711
01:29:37,920 --> 01:29:42,400
Speaker 1: only day we could decorate. Finally, or eventually, we found

1712
01:29:42,439 --> 01:29:44,840
Speaker 1: a bus that would take her to the city that

1713
01:29:44,880 --> 01:29:48,360
Speaker 1: she was supposed to fly into, and now my husband

1714
01:29:48,439 --> 01:29:50,880
Speaker 1: was able to get her from there and get back

1715
01:29:50,960 --> 01:29:55,599
Speaker 1: to the venue quickly after op is having to plan

1716
01:29:55,960 --> 01:29:59,120
Speaker 1: way too much. That is not her rightly. This is

1717
01:29:59,200 --> 01:30:02,360
Speaker 1: almost playing trains and automobiles. We're getting We're getting there.

1718
01:30:02,400 --> 01:30:03,360
Speaker 1: This is one step.

1719
01:30:03,439 --> 01:30:06,759
Speaker 2: John Candy is about to walk in with like an oversight.

1720
01:30:06,960 --> 01:30:09,120
Speaker 2: I can't remember all the bits, never mind I was

1721
01:30:09,120 --> 01:30:10,519
Speaker 2: about to get into old bits.

1722
01:30:10,720 --> 01:30:12,559
Speaker 1: Well, that's a movie I do know about.

1723
01:30:12,760 --> 01:30:14,960
Speaker 3: Yea but good on John, the fact that you know

1724
01:30:15,000 --> 01:30:16,200
Speaker 3: what that movie is. That's crazy.

1725
01:30:16,720 --> 01:30:23,040
Speaker 1: Steve, what's his face? Banjo Man? Steve Martin and John Candy. Yeah.

1726
01:30:23,080 --> 01:30:26,200
Speaker 1: So Wednesday I get a phone call from my dad

1727
01:30:26,240 --> 01:30:28,120
Speaker 1: and he informs me that he can't make it to

1728
01:30:28,160 --> 01:30:33,600
Speaker 1: the wedding. Would you look at that?

1729
01:30:33,600 --> 01:30:37,840
Speaker 2: The anxious is gone, I'm anxiety. Hey, well, guys, you know,

1730
01:30:37,960 --> 01:30:43,400
Speaker 2: at least he called the day of. At least he

1731
01:30:43,520 --> 01:30:44,720
Speaker 2: let you know the day of.

1732
01:30:45,360 --> 01:30:48,120
Speaker 3: Thank god, I'm so unstressed. There's no stress.

1733
01:30:48,240 --> 01:30:53,120
Speaker 1: It's day before the rehearsal. Oh, oh, well, that that

1734
01:30:53,240 --> 01:30:54,960
Speaker 1: is he is he is a saint.

1735
01:30:56,160 --> 01:30:58,080
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, honestly, he could have waited a little

1736
01:30:58,120 --> 01:31:00,920
Speaker 2: bit longer. Now he's now, I'm to be anxious about

1737
01:31:00,960 --> 01:31:03,320
Speaker 2: this for three days that you're not going to be here.

1738
01:31:05,080 --> 01:31:06,920
Speaker 2: He goes on and tells me to tell me that

1739
01:31:07,000 --> 01:31:08,600
Speaker 2: he doesn't have the money.

1740
01:31:08,400 --> 01:31:16,160
Speaker 1: For the gas to drive up. Yes, you heard that right.

1741
01:31:16,640 --> 01:31:19,200
Speaker 1: I was devastated and a little mad because he has

1742
01:31:19,240 --> 01:31:21,240
Speaker 1: known about my wedding for a year.

1743
01:31:21,880 --> 01:31:24,320
Speaker 2: At this point, Sorry, I just blew through all my

1744
01:31:24,360 --> 01:31:27,040
Speaker 2: gas money that I saved up for the past year.

1745
01:31:27,200 --> 01:31:31,800
Speaker 1: I'm out of budget. He did not have money set

1746
01:31:31,840 --> 01:31:35,360
Speaker 1: aside for my wedding. I told my now husband, and

1747
01:31:35,439 --> 01:31:37,800
Speaker 1: we agree to send him the money for him to

1748
01:31:37,880 --> 01:31:39,280
Speaker 1: come up to the wedding.

1749
01:31:40,000 --> 01:31:47,479
Speaker 2: Oh wow wait Okay, well I guess he's the that Okay, Okay,

1750
01:31:48,760 --> 01:31:53,120
Speaker 2: he hasn't done anything too egregiously wrong, right, It's been

1751
01:31:53,160 --> 01:31:53,840
Speaker 2: the other one.

1752
01:31:54,200 --> 01:31:58,559
Speaker 1: I mean, I am I am getting a loan. I

1753
01:31:58,600 --> 01:32:02,840
Speaker 1: am I am getting bail money to get gas to

1754
01:32:02,880 --> 01:32:04,120
Speaker 1: drive up to my daughter's wedding.

1755
01:32:04,600 --> 01:32:10,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I know to Yeah Okay, well yes, yes, yes, yes,

1756
01:32:11,720 --> 01:32:17,559
Speaker 2: yes yes. Dakota's yesing himself out of his own argument.

1757
01:32:18,280 --> 01:32:23,880
Speaker 2: I just I started joking about someone not I. My

1758
01:32:24,000 --> 01:32:25,960
Speaker 2: head's I'm all crossed up in my head right now.

1759
01:32:25,960 --> 01:32:27,840
Speaker 2: All right, let's just get back to it. Parks of

1760
01:32:27,920 --> 01:32:28,599
Speaker 2: the chat for our.

1761
01:32:28,520 --> 01:32:37,880
Speaker 1: Boyd of coda. Uh Thursday Thursday I did, okay, Uh.

1762
01:32:38,080 --> 01:32:40,000
Speaker 1: We all make it to the venue and start the

1763
01:32:40,000 --> 01:32:43,719
Speaker 1: decorating process. I got a phone call from my maid

1764
01:32:43,760 --> 01:32:46,439
Speaker 1: of honor and she tells me that her bus didn't

1765
01:32:46,439 --> 01:32:48,840
Speaker 1: stop at the airport and she didn't really know what

1766
01:32:48,920 --> 01:32:53,160
Speaker 1: was going on. She said that everyone was confused and

1767
01:32:53,320 --> 01:32:55,320
Speaker 1: didn't know where they needed to go for that bus.

1768
01:32:56,000 --> 01:32:58,200
Speaker 1: And of course you can't look it up yourself. I

1769
01:32:58,320 --> 01:33:00,200
Speaker 1: told her to keep me updated and let me know

1770
01:33:00,200 --> 01:33:03,080
Speaker 1: what they do about it. She texted me saying that

1771
01:33:03,120 --> 01:33:05,720
Speaker 1: they that they got onto a bus and that she

1772
01:33:05,880 --> 01:33:10,759
Speaker 1: was finally on her way. A huge relief, A huge relief.

1773
01:33:11,360 --> 01:33:13,720
Speaker 1: Now time goes by and we are all knocking out

1774
01:33:13,760 --> 01:33:17,320
Speaker 1: the decorations. When my dad arrives so looks like he

1775
01:33:17,400 --> 01:33:20,479
Speaker 1: actually made it okay. I take him to the cottage

1776
01:33:20,520 --> 01:33:22,519
Speaker 1: that he was staying at and help him get all

1777
01:33:22,560 --> 01:33:24,960
Speaker 1: settled in. He comes back up to the main house

1778
01:33:25,000 --> 01:33:28,000
Speaker 1: where everyone was. We get to talking and my dad

1779
01:33:28,040 --> 01:33:32,000
Speaker 1: informed me that, well, you know, Dakota, wouldn't you know

1780
01:33:32,520 --> 01:33:36,839
Speaker 1: my brother wouldn't be coming to the webbing no gas money.

1781
01:33:37,720 --> 01:33:42,600
Speaker 2: He's they're all out of gas. That's that's when it.

1782
01:33:43,040 --> 01:33:44,519
Speaker 2: She's the gasless family.

1783
01:33:47,479 --> 01:33:52,479
Speaker 1: Kean Dakota chat. What is happening? I think I think

1784
01:33:52,520 --> 01:33:54,599
Speaker 1: everyone's in on it. I think it's.

1785
01:33:57,240 --> 01:34:00,519
Speaker 3: That everyone's just coming up with like the Lamesticks uses

1786
01:34:00,600 --> 01:34:02,719
Speaker 3: to not go to this wedding question. I think everyone's

1787
01:34:02,720 --> 01:34:03,240
Speaker 3: in on it.

1788
01:34:04,040 --> 01:34:07,720
Speaker 1: Would it be bad if everyone kept calling op Is like, oh,

1789
01:34:07,800 --> 01:34:10,679
Speaker 1: can't make it, like stressing OPI out, and then they

1790
01:34:10,760 --> 01:34:13,760
Speaker 1: all like when they flip the lights on. Everyone's like surprise,

1791
01:34:14,000 --> 01:34:17,360
Speaker 1: and they like brought out everyone and it's all okay, no,

1792
01:34:17,520 --> 01:34:19,320
Speaker 1: only if you can go back in time and make

1793
01:34:19,400 --> 01:34:24,360
Speaker 1: me not anxious because it hurts, because it causes it's

1794
01:34:24,400 --> 01:34:26,120
Speaker 1: a wedding you don't want to do.

1795
01:34:26,400 --> 01:34:29,160
Speaker 2: There should be no very I can't think of a

1796
01:34:29,160 --> 01:34:32,160
Speaker 2: good context for a surprise situation in a wedding, not

1797
01:34:32,320 --> 01:34:37,480
Speaker 2: like a surprise where there was no h insane anxiety

1798
01:34:37,560 --> 01:34:38,120
Speaker 2: in planning.

1799
01:34:38,320 --> 01:34:39,720
Speaker 1: Maybe like oh, hey we bought we bought you a

1800
01:34:39,760 --> 01:34:42,280
Speaker 1: new car. That's a good surprise, or or if they told.

1801
01:34:42,080 --> 01:34:44,600
Speaker 3: Her I don't know, maybe when they were invited in

1802
01:34:44,640 --> 01:34:46,599
Speaker 3: the beginning beginning we're like, oh, we can't make it,

1803
01:34:46,640 --> 01:34:47,320
Speaker 3: and then they make it.

1804
01:34:48,920 --> 01:34:51,040
Speaker 2: I think this is even then it's bad because then

1805
01:34:51,080 --> 01:34:53,680
Speaker 2: it's but it's it's better than this.

1806
01:34:53,680 --> 01:34:55,680
Speaker 1: This is and and Kate Russell just said it.

1807
01:34:55,920 --> 01:34:58,919
Speaker 2: This is the story is a perfect example of why, like, honestly,

1808
01:34:58,960 --> 01:35:03,720
Speaker 2: you just Elope, Elope, first, get it done, have a

1809
01:35:03,880 --> 01:35:07,559
Speaker 2: thing for you and your partner that couple shares and

1810
01:35:07,600 --> 01:35:10,320
Speaker 2: it'll be yours forever, and then you can have the

1811
01:35:10,320 --> 01:35:13,240
Speaker 2: wedding that everyone will inevitably try to screw up.

1812
01:35:13,360 --> 01:35:16,400
Speaker 1: Just don invite everyone truly. I yes, Like, these people

1813
01:35:16,439 --> 01:35:18,800
Speaker 1: don't deserve it. These people don't deserve it, but we're

1814
01:35:18,800 --> 01:35:23,640
Speaker 1: gonna see they might try to earn it. So apparently

1815
01:35:24,640 --> 01:35:26,880
Speaker 1: my brother's car broke down and it took a lot

1816
01:35:26,920 --> 01:35:29,000
Speaker 1: of money to get it fixed. I really didn't care

1817
01:35:29,080 --> 01:35:31,639
Speaker 1: much because I hadn't spoken to him in years. Okay,

1818
01:35:31,720 --> 01:35:34,719
Speaker 1: well there you go, one one less person, I guess.

1819
01:35:35,680 --> 01:35:38,000
Speaker 1: Then he goes on to tell me that my sister's

1820
01:35:38,040 --> 01:35:43,360
Speaker 1: car is also broken down, and that she, in fact,

1821
01:35:43,439 --> 01:35:46,840
Speaker 1: Kean wasn't out of town and that she was at home.

1822
01:35:47,240 --> 01:35:49,559
Speaker 1: He knows this because she lives with him.

1823
01:35:50,160 --> 01:35:52,000
Speaker 3: So I'm telling you they on this.

1824
01:35:52,120 --> 01:35:55,320
Speaker 2: That was very much the energy of like one kid

1825
01:35:55,400 --> 01:35:58,040
Speaker 2: like has the fake doctor's note to get out of school,

1826
01:35:58,360 --> 01:36:01,960
Speaker 2: and then like the other kid made the exact same

1827
01:36:02,080 --> 01:36:03,800
Speaker 2: doctor's note and then tried to get.

1828
01:36:03,720 --> 01:36:04,240
Speaker 1: Away with it.

1829
01:36:04,320 --> 01:36:08,519
Speaker 2: And now that one liked, hey, no, hey, bring that

1830
01:36:08,600 --> 01:36:10,880
Speaker 2: other kid back too, because now I think both of your.

1831
01:36:10,720 --> 01:36:15,120
Speaker 3: Notes are fake. What no, No, It's like the first

1832
01:36:15,120 --> 01:36:17,400
Speaker 3: time like okay, that's fine. Second times like all right,

1833
01:36:17,400 --> 01:36:19,800
Speaker 3: this is getting a little suspicious, and I guarantee one

1834
01:36:19,880 --> 01:36:21,160
Speaker 3: more person's gonna do it.

1835
01:36:21,240 --> 01:36:21,559
Speaker 1: Mmmm.

1836
01:36:22,800 --> 01:36:25,840
Speaker 3: And then they're all in on this, They're all in

1837
01:36:25,840 --> 01:36:26,040
Speaker 3: on this.

1838
01:36:26,760 --> 01:36:29,120
Speaker 1: Well, I was in a panic because she was supposed

1839
01:36:29,160 --> 01:36:32,200
Speaker 1: to be coming in tomorrow for the rehearsal. So I

1840
01:36:32,240 --> 01:36:35,360
Speaker 1: started calling and calling my sister and she wasn't even

1841
01:36:35,439 --> 01:36:38,240
Speaker 1: answering the phone. So I started forming a plan to

1842
01:36:38,280 --> 01:36:40,560
Speaker 1: ask a friend that I've gotten close to in the

1843
01:36:40,600 --> 01:36:43,640
Speaker 1: last year to step in. We talked about going to

1844
01:36:43,680 --> 01:36:46,040
Speaker 1: a dress shop and getting last minute dress and just

1845
01:36:46,160 --> 01:36:49,200
Speaker 1: everyone wearing different dresses to make it seem like it

1846
01:36:49,280 --> 01:36:53,040
Speaker 1: was supposed to look like that. Then she finally texted me,

1847
01:36:53,120 --> 01:36:56,719
Speaker 1: not even called, text texted. We texted back and forth

1848
01:36:56,720 --> 01:36:58,720
Speaker 1: and she told me that she got her car back

1849
01:37:00,160 --> 01:37:01,719
Speaker 1: and would in fact be there.

1850
01:37:03,840 --> 01:37:09,920
Speaker 2: Okay, we love the consistencies, so relieved said, flip a coin,

1851
01:37:10,200 --> 01:37:12,760
Speaker 2: Just flip a coin, they gonna be here. I don't know,

1852
01:37:12,880 --> 01:37:14,160
Speaker 2: let's consult the coin.

1853
01:37:14,479 --> 01:37:17,960
Speaker 1: Just run away, run away from these people. So we

1854
01:37:18,040 --> 01:37:24,160
Speaker 1: continued to the decorating Friday, the rehearsal day. So where

1855
01:37:24,240 --> 01:37:28,160
Speaker 1: it is. It's crunch time, baby, It's crunch mother flipping time.

1856
01:37:28,920 --> 01:37:31,320
Speaker 1: We had just gotten back from the bridal shower and

1857
01:37:31,360 --> 01:37:35,400
Speaker 1: I hadn't heard anything from my sister all day. I

1858
01:37:35,520 --> 01:37:37,680
Speaker 1: just figured that she was driving, but I decided to

1859
01:37:37,720 --> 01:37:41,839
Speaker 1: call her. What do you know? No answer, no answer,

1860
01:37:42,320 --> 01:37:45,160
Speaker 1: So I texted her and asked her what her ETA

1861
01:37:45,320 --> 01:37:47,280
Speaker 1: was or as the man of time of arrival. Some

1862
01:37:47,520 --> 01:37:50,000
Speaker 1: time goes by and I still haven't heard from her,

1863
01:37:50,120 --> 01:37:53,639
Speaker 1: so I tried calling her again. Still nothing. The time

1864
01:37:53,760 --> 01:37:56,599
Speaker 1: of the rehearsal comes and I get a text from

1865
01:37:56,600 --> 01:38:00,559
Speaker 1: my sister. It says, I'm sorry, but I can't come.

1866
01:38:02,120 --> 01:38:04,880
Speaker 1: I love you and hope and hope you can forgive me.

1867
01:38:05,040 --> 01:38:07,840
Speaker 1: I just have so much anxiety about the situation and

1868
01:38:08,080 --> 01:38:10,640
Speaker 1: having to come back to Maine. It's been stressing me

1869
01:38:10,680 --> 01:38:13,080
Speaker 1: out and giving the panic attacks. And I'm sorry, I

1870
01:38:13,120 --> 01:38:16,560
Speaker 1: love you. I hope you can understand. You have anxiety.

1871
01:38:17,000 --> 01:38:18,000
Speaker 1: She has anxiety again.

1872
01:38:18,680 --> 01:38:19,400
Speaker 3: You know that's fine.

1873
01:38:19,720 --> 01:38:22,559
Speaker 2: What happened to all these people that like they can't

1874
01:38:22,600 --> 01:38:23,439
Speaker 2: go back to Maine?

1875
01:38:23,880 --> 01:38:27,799
Speaker 1: What are they all like characters in Stephen King books?

1876
01:38:27,840 --> 01:38:30,400
Speaker 1: They locked down, They locked down the borders Maine said

1877
01:38:30,720 --> 01:38:33,880
Speaker 1: no more. Hey, if you if anyone attending Opie's wedding

1878
01:38:33,920 --> 01:38:36,880
Speaker 1: will be arrested the second you cross state lines. What

1879
01:38:36,960 --> 01:38:39,679
Speaker 1: about that? Dakota And I guess that's a good reason

1880
01:38:39,760 --> 01:38:40,759
Speaker 1: to not go to Maine.

1881
01:38:41,320 --> 01:38:43,479
Speaker 2: Maybe don't have your wedding in Maine. If everyone in

1882
01:38:43,520 --> 01:38:45,679
Speaker 2: your family gets arrested when they go there.

1883
01:38:46,439 --> 01:38:49,680
Speaker 1: The governor personally is tracking all of their lis. Just

1884
01:38:49,720 --> 01:38:55,080
Speaker 1: move it down. Like Vermont. I hear Vermont's nice Vermont.

1885
01:38:56,160 --> 01:38:59,920
Speaker 2: Ben and Jerry's I mean no, those are two brand

1886
01:39:00,240 --> 01:39:01,599
Speaker 2: names that mean nothing.

1887
01:39:02,880 --> 01:39:05,639
Speaker 1: Nice catch, nice catch, nice cash. My man is committed, man.

1888
01:39:06,000 --> 01:39:07,840
Speaker 1: Just check his hat tape. Okay, if you want to

1889
01:39:07,840 --> 01:39:09,800
Speaker 1: know if he's committed, are right, I'm one day that

1890
01:39:09,840 --> 01:39:13,120
Speaker 1: tabe will come off. He is one day. Hey, we're

1891
01:39:13,200 --> 01:39:17,439
Speaker 1: much closer to there. But anyways, I guess my heart sank.

1892
01:39:18,120 --> 01:39:21,160
Speaker 1: My maid of honor knew something was wrong. I show

1893
01:39:21,200 --> 01:39:22,880
Speaker 1: her to the text and I run out of the

1894
01:39:22,960 --> 01:39:26,120
Speaker 1: room so I can cry my eyes out. God no,

1895
01:39:27,160 --> 01:39:28,920
Speaker 1: I had a feeling she was going to do this,

1896
01:39:29,040 --> 01:39:32,519
Speaker 1: but I just didn't want to believe it. We are

1897
01:39:32,600 --> 01:39:35,120
Speaker 1: pretty close, and I just couldn't believe that she would

1898
01:39:35,240 --> 01:39:37,920
Speaker 1: let me down like that. I didn't even respond to

1899
01:39:37,960 --> 01:39:40,719
Speaker 1: her because it was so late. We didn't have time

1900
01:39:40,800 --> 01:39:43,120
Speaker 1: to even ask my other friend to get other dresses,

1901
01:39:43,439 --> 01:39:46,759
Speaker 1: so we just had to have an uneven wedding party.

1902
01:39:47,560 --> 01:39:50,400
Speaker 1: I wipe my eyes and I just move on. The

1903
01:39:50,439 --> 01:39:53,080
Speaker 1: rehearsal went well, we had lots of laughs. We had

1904
01:39:53,120 --> 01:39:57,160
Speaker 1: a wonderful bonfire before the wedding. Now before we get

1905
01:39:57,200 --> 01:40:03,480
Speaker 1: into Saturday, the wedding day, I'm speechless.

1906
01:40:04,840 --> 01:40:09,160
Speaker 2: These they'll hey, they'll leave you speechless, these folks, because

1907
01:40:09,200 --> 01:40:11,680
Speaker 2: that you won't know what to say. Dude, that you

1908
01:40:11,680 --> 01:40:13,479
Speaker 2: don't know if they're coming, you don't know if they're going,

1909
01:40:13,560 --> 01:40:14,479
Speaker 2: you don't know if they're.

1910
01:40:14,280 --> 01:40:18,600
Speaker 1: Staying, you don't know if they're leaving. They've got anxiety

1911
01:40:18,640 --> 01:40:23,120
Speaker 1: about Maine. This is just and we've we've talked about

1912
01:40:23,120 --> 01:40:26,840
Speaker 1: this before on the show. Only invite the people to

1913
01:40:26,960 --> 01:40:30,320
Speaker 1: your wedding that are just going to make you burst

1914
01:40:30,320 --> 01:40:34,760
Speaker 1: at the seams with joy. Yeah, why even think about

1915
01:40:34,800 --> 01:40:38,240
Speaker 1: anyone else? I like or lope to your point, like

1916
01:40:38,320 --> 01:40:41,400
Speaker 1: straight up though, like exactly that, which is like why.

1917
01:40:42,960 --> 01:40:47,000
Speaker 2: Does I get it to like to celebrate that it's

1918
01:40:47,000 --> 01:40:49,000
Speaker 2: happened or that it's a thing. Right, you want to

1919
01:40:49,040 --> 01:40:50,679
Speaker 2: be able to celebrate with like people in your life,

1920
01:40:51,280 --> 01:40:55,400
Speaker 2: but like to have that day where it's for each other,

1921
01:40:56,800 --> 01:41:03,200
Speaker 2: Like you don't in my had need anyone else. He's

1922
01:41:03,200 --> 01:41:06,519
Speaker 2: getting married, right, Like that's all that matters at that

1923
01:41:06,560 --> 01:41:11,599
Speaker 2: point and then like I don't know, like three people

1924
01:41:11,680 --> 01:41:13,920
Speaker 2: or whatever, like I think that's the and that was

1925
01:41:13,920 --> 01:41:18,519
Speaker 2: the amount in this story right like it was there was,

1926
01:41:18,560 --> 01:41:22,120
Speaker 2: it was already really small, and the insanely small amount

1927
01:41:22,160 --> 01:41:28,040
Speaker 2: of people just went above and beyond to just disappoint.

1928
01:41:28,280 --> 01:41:32,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's really unfortunate, so sad, super unfortunately. Well let's

1929
01:41:32,960 --> 01:41:36,920
Speaker 1: let's let's end this cursed thing. Yes with Saturday the

1930
01:41:36,960 --> 01:41:40,880
Speaker 1: wedding day. Luckily, my wedding day went so smoothly and

1931
01:41:41,000 --> 01:41:43,240
Speaker 1: I was so thankful because of all the fires we

1932
01:41:43,320 --> 01:41:46,720
Speaker 1: had to keep putting out. So after that, everyone that

1933
01:41:46,760 --> 01:41:49,759
Speaker 1: I invited out. Uh So, after everyone that I invited

1934
01:41:49,760 --> 01:41:53,599
Speaker 1: out of all of my family, only two people showed

1935
01:41:53,680 --> 01:41:54,960
Speaker 1: up my mom.

1936
01:41:55,120 --> 01:42:01,920
Speaker 2: Oh oh, I realize now, well I mean who, but

1937
01:42:02,000 --> 01:42:05,800
Speaker 2: who showed up the mom and the dad? So I

1938
01:42:05,840 --> 01:42:08,479
Speaker 2: think everyone else is not cool with mom and pop.

1939
01:42:10,080 --> 01:42:12,200
Speaker 2: There's gotta be something going on there with about like

1940
01:42:12,280 --> 01:42:15,320
Speaker 2: seeing the family. So that's where the anxiety is coming from,

1941
01:42:15,439 --> 01:42:17,200
Speaker 2: being like having to be around mom, having to be

1942
01:42:17,200 --> 01:42:18,360
Speaker 2: around dad is one of them.

1943
01:42:18,600 --> 01:42:21,200
Speaker 1: Some that is a good conspiracy theory because something like

1944
01:42:21,520 --> 01:42:24,320
Speaker 1: this cannot be real. This is not reality. Yeah, oh

1945
01:42:24,360 --> 01:42:29,760
Speaker 1: my god do uh my mom and dad showed up,

1946
01:42:29,800 --> 01:42:32,200
Speaker 1: and honestly, it was just so awkward between all of us.

1947
01:42:32,439 --> 01:42:34,719
Speaker 1: The day after my wedding, my maid of honor told

1948
01:42:34,760 --> 01:42:36,920
Speaker 1: me that when I was getting ready, my mom was

1949
01:42:36,960 --> 01:42:39,800
Speaker 1: complaining the entire time about the dress that I wanted

1950
01:42:39,800 --> 01:42:42,200
Speaker 1: her to wear, and my maid of honor told her

1951
01:42:42,280 --> 01:42:45,519
Speaker 1: that that dress was beautiful. When my mom went to leave,

1952
01:42:45,960 --> 01:42:48,840
Speaker 1: she changed out of the dress and ran into my

1953
01:42:48,880 --> 01:42:51,479
Speaker 1: maid of honor in the house, and she threw the

1954
01:42:51,600 --> 01:42:53,920
Speaker 1: dress at her and told her, if you like it

1955
01:42:53,960 --> 01:42:56,479
Speaker 1: so much, you can keep it. If you love us

1956
01:42:56,479 --> 01:42:58,160
Speaker 1: so much, why don't you want why don't you marry it?

1957
01:43:00,240 --> 01:43:03,960
Speaker 3: Maybe Dakota was there. Maybe Dakota was right for once,

1958
01:43:06,000 --> 01:43:10,360
Speaker 3: for once, right, yeah, many times.

1959
01:43:10,920 --> 01:43:17,559
Speaker 1: I just take it. You said he's right many times

1960
01:43:17,640 --> 01:43:18,639
Speaker 1: standing on it.

1961
01:43:18,840 --> 01:43:23,240
Speaker 2: Yes, suit, John, there's only two men wearing full suits

1962
01:43:23,280 --> 01:43:24,880
Speaker 2: in this room.

1963
01:43:25,200 --> 01:43:26,800
Speaker 1: Where's the third there is?

1964
01:43:27,520 --> 01:43:29,120
Speaker 3: I don't need a suit for this cake.

1965
01:43:29,720 --> 01:43:34,800
Speaker 2: I can see your elbows, sir, pipe down when you're

1966
01:43:34,840 --> 01:43:36,880
Speaker 2: talking to me with those elbows hanging out.

1967
01:43:37,160 --> 01:43:39,120
Speaker 1: Dude, he's gonna, he's gonna pull out the big guns.

1968
01:43:39,280 --> 01:43:53,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm yeah. Oh, But he goes on to

1969
01:43:53,200 --> 01:43:55,920
Speaker 1: say I couldn't believe that my mom was still stewing

1970
01:43:55,960 --> 01:43:58,240
Speaker 1: over that dress that I had picked. Needless to say,

1971
01:43:58,320 --> 01:44:00,920
Speaker 1: I'm completely done with my family and now I have

1972
01:44:01,000 --> 01:44:03,600
Speaker 1: a new one that is apparently amazing and so supportive.

1973
01:44:03,880 --> 01:44:08,280
Speaker 1: I love every single one of them. And we have

1974
01:44:08,320 --> 01:44:12,559
Speaker 1: an update, so if the wedding is over. It seemed

1975
01:44:12,600 --> 01:44:17,639
Speaker 1: like everything before the wedding was just like nuclearly exploding left,

1976
01:44:17,680 --> 01:44:20,920
Speaker 1: right and center. The wedding day itself, according to OPI

1977
01:44:21,560 --> 01:44:26,639
Speaker 1: went great, but it seems we are not done yet.

1978
01:44:26,680 --> 01:44:30,479
Speaker 2: Full conspiracy. Yeah, Mom is a nightmare, and then Dad

1979
01:44:30,560 --> 01:44:34,400
Speaker 2: is just like I don't have gas money. Dad is

1980
01:44:34,439 --> 01:44:37,639
Speaker 2: completely inept, and Mom is an absolute nightmare.

1981
01:44:37,760 --> 01:44:42,360
Speaker 3: That is and we've gotten just a little taste of that.

1982
01:44:42,560 --> 01:44:47,759
Speaker 1: Oh just a just a sample. Yeah, freaking appetizer. Well update.

1983
01:44:47,920 --> 01:44:50,280
Speaker 1: About a week or so after my wedding, my sister

1984
01:44:50,360 --> 01:44:54,240
Speaker 1: messaged me wanting to talk her and I went back

1985
01:44:54,240 --> 01:44:56,280
Speaker 1: and forth for a while and she told me that

1986
01:44:56,360 --> 01:44:59,519
Speaker 1: the reason she had so much anxiety the day of

1987
01:45:00,479 --> 01:45:03,719
Speaker 1: was that she was supposed to show up, was because

1988
01:45:03,800 --> 01:45:06,760
Speaker 1: her car's check engine light came back on once she

1989
01:45:06,840 --> 01:45:08,160
Speaker 1: got into car to leave that morning.

1990
01:45:12,120 --> 01:45:15,320
Speaker 2: That's what I would That's That sigh is exactly what

1991
01:45:15,360 --> 01:45:18,000
Speaker 2: would come out of me on the phone saying that

1992
01:45:18,040 --> 01:45:20,080
Speaker 2: to me. Oh, I was gonna go to your wedding,

1993
01:45:20,120 --> 01:45:21,720
Speaker 2: but the check engine light on my car came on.

1994
01:45:23,680 --> 01:45:26,640
Speaker 1: Hey, Dakota, there's this and you know, I'm so unfamiliar

1995
01:45:26,640 --> 01:45:28,160
Speaker 1: with that. I don't even have to how to pronounce it.

1996
01:45:28,200 --> 01:45:34,720
Speaker 1: I think it's it's rinked rent or a car. I'm

1997
01:45:34,720 --> 01:45:35,719
Speaker 1: gonna be that guy.

1998
01:45:35,920 --> 01:45:41,080
Speaker 2: You just drive that thing, dude, you just drive it.

1999
01:45:41,120 --> 01:45:44,840
Speaker 2: Is it not making a cook cook cook cookung noise?

2000
01:45:45,280 --> 01:45:48,719
Speaker 2: As long as it's not sounding like that, okay.

2001
01:45:49,280 --> 01:45:51,000
Speaker 1: Is if they take a look at her dashboard, it

2002
01:45:51,040 --> 01:45:53,000
Speaker 1: was just like, oh, you just need to inflate your tires.

2003
01:45:54,160 --> 01:45:56,320
Speaker 1: That's like, that's what it was. It's not even the

2004
01:45:56,400 --> 01:45:59,120
Speaker 1: check engine light. It's low tire pressure. It's all.

2005
01:46:00,560 --> 01:46:03,200
Speaker 3: I would say. Like even if you tried, if you

2006
01:46:03,360 --> 01:46:06,280
Speaker 3: just tried to drive it and like, oh it it stopped,

2007
01:46:06,520 --> 01:46:08,320
Speaker 3: Like okay, I get it. I thought, come on, you

2008
01:46:08,360 --> 01:46:11,120
Speaker 3: don't even try it, dude, Golly.

2009
01:46:11,960 --> 01:46:14,400
Speaker 1: Just like the last thing.

2010
01:46:14,840 --> 01:46:19,040
Speaker 2: Just imagine the mechanic told her, if the check engine

2011
01:46:19,080 --> 01:46:25,439
Speaker 2: light comes back on, don't drive it. I you it's

2012
01:46:25,479 --> 01:46:28,400
Speaker 2: out of my hands. If you drive this car with

2013
01:46:28,520 --> 01:46:31,639
Speaker 2: that check engine, like, drive it, you're going bye bye.

2014
01:46:31,800 --> 01:46:35,799
Speaker 2: I wouldn't drive it. That's why she's like, I can't.

2015
01:46:35,840 --> 01:46:40,720
Speaker 1: I don't know. Oh my god. So I told her

2016
01:46:40,920 --> 01:46:43,200
Speaker 1: that the reason I was so upset was because she

2017
01:46:43,200 --> 01:46:45,759
Speaker 1: had waited all day to tell me she wasn't coming,

2018
01:46:46,160 --> 01:46:48,240
Speaker 1: and that's why it hurts so much. Opie stided you,

2019
01:46:48,320 --> 01:46:50,439
Speaker 1: being like, oh, you know, hey, it's okay that you

2020
01:46:50,520 --> 01:46:52,439
Speaker 1: baded me just because you waited so long to say.

2021
01:46:52,560 --> 01:46:55,960
Speaker 1: Oh god, my god. I wanted her there, and that's

2022
01:46:56,040 --> 01:46:58,519
Speaker 1: why if she would have told me that was going

2023
01:46:58,560 --> 01:47:00,920
Speaker 1: on when it happened, I would have been hurt so

2024
01:47:01,160 --> 01:47:04,120
Speaker 1: much that she was there. I also deal with anxiety

2025
01:47:04,160 --> 01:47:07,000
Speaker 1: and do understand not wanting to let people down. I'm

2026
01:47:07,040 --> 01:47:10,320
Speaker 1: a very understanding person, and I know these things happen,

2027
01:47:11,080 --> 01:47:14,560
Speaker 1: but uh, there's some other things that happen, which includes

2028
01:47:15,040 --> 01:47:17,840
Speaker 1: us uploading full stories just like these in episodes you

2029
01:47:17,880 --> 01:47:20,840
Speaker 1: can check out on Spotify. Just search Okay story time

2030
01:47:20,880 --> 01:47:24,000
Speaker 1: on Spotify, Apple podcast, or really love to listen to podcasts. Guys,

2031
01:47:24,280 --> 01:47:28,479
Speaker 1: let's there full episodes. But I am having a full

2032
01:47:28,520 --> 01:47:35,120
Speaker 1: migraine because I I I really think we need to

2033
01:47:35,160 --> 01:47:37,800
Speaker 1: go no contact with all of these freakin' duds or

2034
01:47:37,960 --> 01:47:43,120
Speaker 1: low contact low contact. Yeah, no one here is giving

2035
01:47:43,360 --> 01:47:49,280
Speaker 1: a molecular ounce of effort for your wedding. Yeah, so

2036
01:47:49,640 --> 01:47:51,479
Speaker 1: what are they gonna do on a regular basis, just

2037
01:47:53,120 --> 01:47:56,520
Speaker 1: other than you know, big emergencies or whatever. Again, low contact.

2038
01:47:57,479 --> 01:47:59,320
Speaker 1: You know, if something big happens, you can still reach

2039
01:47:59,320 --> 01:48:01,680
Speaker 1: out to them, but you don't have to worry about them.

2040
01:48:01,680 --> 01:48:02,599
Speaker 1: Don't invite them for your wedding.

2041
01:48:03,320 --> 01:48:03,479
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2042
01:48:03,560 --> 01:48:06,000
Speaker 1: Thing. Ever, again, I wouldn't go out of my way

2043
01:48:06,720 --> 01:48:11,959
Speaker 1: for these folks. Oh my god. Uh yeah, I think.

2044
01:48:13,920 --> 01:48:17,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, change change the uh uh.

2045
01:48:18,000 --> 01:48:21,280
Speaker 1: Because even even even if okay, you know what, and

2046
01:48:21,560 --> 01:48:24,400
Speaker 1: I won't I won't rant too long. But uh she

2047
01:48:24,520 --> 01:48:27,120
Speaker 1: was having car troubles leading up to the day of right, Yeah,

2048
01:48:27,720 --> 01:48:31,519
Speaker 1: Uh would you not be being like, Hey, don't want

2049
01:48:31,520 --> 01:48:33,680
Speaker 1: to bother you, but my car's having come troubles. I'm

2050
01:48:33,680 --> 01:48:35,200
Speaker 1: gonna try. I'm trying to figure it out. I'm working

2051
01:48:35,240 --> 01:48:37,240
Speaker 1: on some solutions. Just to give you heads up. There

2052
01:48:37,320 --> 01:48:39,400
Speaker 1: might be you know, I might have to do some

2053
01:48:39,439 --> 01:48:41,360
Speaker 1: alternative stuff. I might be a little bit late. I'll

2054
01:48:41,439 --> 01:48:45,640
Speaker 1: keep you up to date. Hannah Harriman says it's pathetic,

2055
01:48:45,760 --> 01:48:48,720
Speaker 1: strong people get crapped on by the insecure people around them.

2056
01:48:48,720 --> 01:48:51,479
Speaker 1: It's truly painful. Best way to let go is not

2057
01:48:51,560 --> 01:48:54,640
Speaker 1: give them any attention. She she shouldn't have talked to

2058
01:48:54,640 --> 01:48:57,599
Speaker 1: her sister about it. Again, knowing it upset her gave

2059
01:48:57,640 --> 01:49:00,920
Speaker 1: the sister power. But I'm the pre you're preaching to

2060
01:49:01,080 --> 01:49:04,040
Speaker 1: the choir here, I think, And it's totally right. Yeah,

2061
01:49:04,520 --> 01:49:10,559
Speaker 1: you know, you just yeah, it's just too much. It's yeah, yeah,

2062
01:49:10,680 --> 01:49:14,120
Speaker 1: it's they don't deserve obis time, I'm sorry, or the

2063
01:49:14,360 --> 01:49:19,520
Speaker 1: wedding event. Nah, they don't. It's it's unfortunate.

2064
01:49:20,200 --> 01:49:22,920
Speaker 2: But I don't know, you'd be better off they having

2065
01:49:22,920 --> 01:49:28,360
Speaker 2: to not deal with these folks in your brain, Like, yeah,

2066
01:49:28,360 --> 01:49:29,560
Speaker 2: I don't think you need to cut them all the

2067
01:49:29,600 --> 01:49:34,720
Speaker 2: way off. But it's like, and I get where she

2068
01:49:34,800 --> 01:49:37,040
Speaker 2: comes from to being like anxious, even if it is

2069
01:49:37,080 --> 01:49:37,719
Speaker 2: the car stuff.

2070
01:49:37,720 --> 01:49:40,080
Speaker 1: It's like, I feel like a lot of people with it.

2071
01:49:40,200 --> 01:49:42,040
Speaker 2: It's like anxiety is like you're afraid of what someone

2072
01:49:42,360 --> 01:49:45,080
Speaker 2: could say, Like you're you're afraid of what they're going

2073
01:49:45,080 --> 01:49:46,160
Speaker 2: to say before you not to.

2074
01:49:46,160 --> 01:49:49,600
Speaker 1: Downplay what the sister's going through, But again it's like,

2075
01:49:51,080 --> 01:49:54,040
Speaker 1: where is the effort before you know what setting that aside.

2076
01:49:54,040 --> 01:49:56,640
Speaker 1: Where was where was the communication everything? I don't know.

2077
01:49:56,760 --> 01:50:01,679
Speaker 1: It's just there had to be some better way then.

2078
01:50:01,800 --> 01:50:05,080
Speaker 2: I don't know then, like being completely silent until the

2079
01:50:05,160 --> 01:50:07,479
Speaker 2: day of and being like I'm not on going yeah,

2080
01:50:07,880 --> 01:50:08,439
Speaker 2: to ask.

2081
01:50:09,120 --> 01:50:11,880
Speaker 1: Your partner to help communicate to a p year I

2082
01:50:11,920 --> 01:50:15,360
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know. It's hard, it's tough. Anxiety

2083
01:50:15,400 --> 01:50:19,000
Speaker 1: makes people, it makes things hard. This is true. But

2084
01:50:19,080 --> 01:50:21,320
Speaker 1: let's finish the store here, so hope, he says. Anyways,

2085
01:50:21,400 --> 01:50:23,639
Speaker 1: we talked and I told her that I just needed

2086
01:50:23,640 --> 01:50:26,040
Speaker 1: some time, but that I still love her. She understands

2087
01:50:26,040 --> 01:50:28,000
Speaker 1: that I needed some time to move past it. Her

2088
01:50:28,000 --> 01:50:31,839
Speaker 1: and I are good now and we talk regularly. Oh boy,

2089
01:50:32,000 --> 01:50:35,400
Speaker 1: I don't hate my sister. I was just hurt. That's

2090
01:50:35,400 --> 01:50:37,679
Speaker 1: someone that I wanted so badly to be a part

2091
01:50:37,680 --> 01:50:40,400
Speaker 1: of my wedding left me hanging at the very last minute.

2092
01:50:40,439 --> 01:50:42,800
Speaker 1: If the roles were reversed, I definitely wouldn't have had

2093
01:50:42,840 --> 01:50:46,479
Speaker 1: anxiety about it as well, but I would have still

2094
01:50:46,520 --> 01:50:49,720
Speaker 1: called or texted my sister what was going on, ask

2095
01:50:49,760 --> 01:50:51,360
Speaker 1: for me and the rest of the family. I've been

2096
01:50:51,400 --> 01:50:55,599
Speaker 1: low contact with him all since the wedding. Okay, after

2097
01:50:55,640 --> 01:50:58,080
Speaker 1: hearing what others have to say about similar situations with

2098
01:50:58,120 --> 01:51:01,800
Speaker 1: their families. I'm debating going full no contact with them

2099
01:51:02,320 --> 01:51:07,160
Speaker 1: everyone except for my sister, low contact or no contact.

2100
01:51:07,360 --> 01:51:10,000
Speaker 1: Let's pull it, we'll talk about it. Hold it up.

2101
01:51:10,760 --> 01:51:13,920
Speaker 1: Me and my husband are doing amazing and we couldn't

2102
01:51:13,960 --> 01:51:16,080
Speaker 1: be happier with the life that we have together. I'm

2103
01:51:16,120 --> 01:51:18,720
Speaker 1: looking forward to seeing what life holds for us in

2104
01:51:18,800 --> 01:51:24,439
Speaker 1: the future. And that is it right there. While chat votes, Dakota,

2105
01:51:24,479 --> 01:51:29,200
Speaker 1: give me your your super delicate vote. Here my super

2106
01:51:29,280 --> 01:51:33,879
Speaker 1: delicate vote, and do we go low contact or no contact?

2107
01:51:34,000 --> 01:51:36,599
Speaker 3: What's the user again? I put LC for low contact

2108
01:51:36,680 --> 01:51:37,919
Speaker 3: and see for no contact.

2109
01:51:38,200 --> 01:51:41,760
Speaker 1: I would vote like low I don't know, or like

2110
01:51:42,080 --> 01:51:43,000
Speaker 1: you could even go.

2111
01:51:42,960 --> 01:51:45,519
Speaker 2: Like no, but like, don't make it like a hard

2112
01:51:45,600 --> 01:51:47,920
Speaker 2: closed door, which is like you don't be the first

2113
01:51:47,920 --> 01:51:50,400
Speaker 2: one to reach out. I don't go out of your

2114
01:51:50,439 --> 01:51:54,599
Speaker 2: way to prioritize these people above any of your own needs,

2115
01:51:54,640 --> 01:51:58,479
Speaker 2: because they clearly couldn't prioritize you on a day that's

2116
01:51:58,560 --> 01:52:03,439
Speaker 2: literally just supposed to be about you and your partner. Yeah,

2117
01:52:03,479 --> 01:52:06,080
Speaker 2: I think I think you can go low contact in

2118
01:52:06,120 --> 01:52:09,400
Speaker 2: a way where it is virtually no contact, like you're

2119
01:52:09,439 --> 01:52:14,840
Speaker 2: not like in regular communication. Sometimes it's tough depending on

2120
01:52:15,479 --> 01:52:17,639
Speaker 2: the mental health of that person.

2121
01:52:17,880 --> 01:52:20,479
Speaker 1: But if it's just people like this that just like

2122
01:52:21,560 --> 01:52:24,920
Speaker 1: are seemingly have their wits about them, but just treat

2123
01:52:24,920 --> 01:52:29,559
Speaker 1: you like absolute dumpy garbage. You know, again, go go

2124
01:52:29,680 --> 01:52:35,000
Speaker 1: low contact, but there's you know, if there's any super

2125
01:52:35,000 --> 01:52:37,320
Speaker 1: big you know, someone goes to the hospital or whatever

2126
01:52:37,360 --> 01:52:41,280
Speaker 1: the case might be, you can still hear out from them,

2127
01:52:41,320 --> 01:52:46,759
Speaker 1: and then that's it. Look at this voting, Yeah, dude,

2128
01:52:46,760 --> 01:52:50,719
Speaker 1: we are whoa we are fifty to fifty split is crazy.

2129
01:52:50,880 --> 01:52:56,160
Speaker 1: They're they're making Dakota's super delegate vote really make it

2130
01:52:56,200 --> 01:53:01,320
Speaker 1: really making it count. My god, we have twenty six

2131
01:53:01,640 --> 01:53:03,320
Speaker 1: fifth exactly.

2132
01:53:02,760 --> 01:53:04,800
Speaker 2: Now, which is crazy because now that I think about it,

2133
01:53:04,840 --> 01:53:09,160
Speaker 2: my vote basically said like do both. My vote was

2134
01:53:09,200 --> 01:53:11,559
Speaker 2: like you can go no contact but also have a

2135
01:53:11,560 --> 01:53:13,120
Speaker 2: little contact in there so.

2136
01:53:13,080 --> 01:53:15,439
Speaker 1: They reach out to you. Yeah, it boiled down its

2137
01:53:15,479 --> 01:53:18,479
Speaker 1: low contact. Yeah yeah, yeah, And could you scroll up

2138
01:53:18,479 --> 01:53:22,720
Speaker 1: a little bit on the shot because I got low

2139
01:53:22,760 --> 01:53:25,799
Speaker 1: contact in the lead some what was it, Michelle Owens?

2140
01:53:26,000 --> 01:53:26,920
Speaker 1: Oh where did it go?

2141
01:53:27,200 --> 01:53:27,360
Speaker 4: Oh?

2142
01:53:27,400 --> 01:53:29,880
Speaker 1: Of course I got buried in the he got buried

2143
01:53:29,880 --> 01:53:34,679
Speaker 1: in the vote. But I'm sorry, I vote can't find

2144
01:53:34,760 --> 01:53:41,920
Speaker 1: your username. But someone on Facebook commented very very low contact,

2145
01:53:42,120 --> 01:53:45,960
Speaker 1: which I think is the move. Yeah. I think if

2146
01:53:46,000 --> 01:53:47,840
Speaker 1: you put the ball in their court and then it

2147
01:53:47,840 --> 01:53:50,880
Speaker 1: becomes no contact and then they'll be like, why why

2148
01:53:50,880 --> 01:53:51,760
Speaker 1: haven't we heard from you?

2149
01:53:51,760 --> 01:53:53,840
Speaker 2: You'd be like, I don't know, because you haven't called

2150
01:53:53,840 --> 01:53:55,200
Speaker 2: me at once.

2151
01:53:55,439 --> 01:54:00,880
Speaker 1: Boom at all that's it. And it's like then they go, oh, yeah,

2152
01:54:00,880 --> 01:54:05,240
Speaker 1: that's right. Yeah, just literally just say back. You know, Oh,

2153
01:54:05,280 --> 01:54:08,000
Speaker 1: if I dropped out of your wedding at the last second,

2154
01:54:09,120 --> 01:54:12,120
Speaker 1: what would you do? I'd probably flip a coin?

2155
01:54:13,640 --> 01:54:14,639
Speaker 3: What do you two face?

2156
01:54:15,920 --> 01:54:19,280
Speaker 1: The power of the coin? Wait? Is it still over here?

2157
01:54:19,280 --> 01:54:21,760
Speaker 1: I feel like I had one over here. Oh no, no,

2158
01:54:22,479 --> 01:54:24,759
Speaker 1: it's okay. I'll get anothering. We'll be coin boy soon enough.

2159
01:54:24,880 --> 01:54:27,640
Speaker 1: But that's the end of that story. And okay, so

2160
01:54:27,880 --> 01:54:32,200
Speaker 1: the finally no contact. No, it's fifty fifty. What am

2161
01:54:32,200 --> 01:54:34,920
Speaker 1: I saying? Wow? Okay, it's split. So we do need

2162
01:54:34,920 --> 01:54:35,320
Speaker 1: the coin?

2163
01:54:35,800 --> 01:54:37,080
Speaker 3: I love democracy?

2164
01:54:37,560 --> 01:54:42,960
Speaker 1: Oh, dishares democracy? We find coin flip? Could we google

2165
01:54:43,000 --> 01:54:45,720
Speaker 1: like a coin flip thing? Yes, that could be kind

2166
01:54:45,720 --> 01:54:45,960
Speaker 1: of fun.

2167
01:54:46,040 --> 01:54:48,200
Speaker 3: No, now it's now it's thirty four. Now thirty four

2168
01:54:48,240 --> 01:54:49,040
Speaker 3: to the low content.

2169
01:54:49,120 --> 01:54:52,360
Speaker 1: All right, we'll call that. We'll call it fifty one percent,

2170
01:54:52,760 --> 01:54:58,680
Speaker 1: squeaking out low contact polls ending that's it? Did you do?

2171
01:54:59,480 --> 01:55:02,400
Speaker 2: I was gonna I was gonna flick this like little dart,

2172
01:55:02,800 --> 01:55:06,360
Speaker 2: and depending on which way the orange tip landed, that

2173
01:55:06,440 --> 01:55:08,839
Speaker 2: was gonna be my heads or tails. But I flicked

2174
01:55:08,840 --> 01:55:10,520
Speaker 2: it and it hit the monitor and came right back

2175
01:55:10,560 --> 01:55:11,600
Speaker 2: at That's hilarious.

2176
01:55:11,840 --> 01:55:15,120
Speaker 1: That's hilarious. Well, it's the other bad story, but not

2177
01:55:15,200 --> 01:55:22,720
Speaker 1: the end of these freaking donos, that being Sir Dakota, Like, Oh.

2178
01:55:23,320 --> 01:55:27,800
Speaker 2: Tiara Bouchard, Hey, y'all, okay, storytime, family, have a happy

2179
01:55:27,800 --> 01:55:28,160
Speaker 2: New Year.

2180
01:55:28,200 --> 01:55:30,400
Speaker 1: I'm signing off as our guests are arriving.

2181
01:55:30,480 --> 01:55:33,880
Speaker 2: Now, Clinky clink, be safe and have a good night,

2182
01:55:34,040 --> 01:55:36,080
Speaker 2: and go go Oilers go you.

2183
01:55:36,200 --> 01:55:37,880
Speaker 1: Be safe to Tierra. You do.

2184
01:55:40,120 --> 01:55:40,320
Speaker 3: Now.

2185
01:55:40,480 --> 01:55:43,080
Speaker 1: Now it's like we look back, it changed and now

2186
01:55:43,360 --> 01:55:44,320
Speaker 1: we called it.

2187
01:55:44,400 --> 01:55:45,920
Speaker 3: We already called it. We had we had to call it.

2188
01:55:50,520 --> 01:55:54,080
Speaker 1: We need supress. What did they do? Who goes to

2189
01:55:54,160 --> 01:55:56,560
Speaker 1: college to count all those votes? I don't know how

2190
01:55:56,600 --> 01:55:57,040
Speaker 1: that works.