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Speaker 1: That's welcome back to good mom's bad choices. I'm Erica

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Speaker 1: and I'm Nila. Happy hump Day, Happy hump Day.

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Speaker 2: Oh it's actually Wednesday today, it's actually a hump day.

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Speaker 2: How are you feeling celibate? How long has that been

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Speaker 2: going on? New York? For New York? I remember I

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Speaker 2: declared it? Oh yeah, you did?

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Speaker 3: I think I might joined in declared celibacy after New York.

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Speaker 3: I had nothing to do with it.

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Speaker 2: She said I had to have I've had enough.

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Speaker 4: She's she's boycotting a bit. She's like, I am done

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Speaker 4: with you, but yeah, I'm great. Other than that, that's

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Speaker 4: I'm rolling up a joint. I'm rolling up some What

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Speaker 4: is this? I think this was Blue Dream? Yeah, blue

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Speaker 4: no Hays Times, Blueberry, No Blue Dream.

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Speaker 2: I gave you that container. I gave you that container.

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Speaker 2: That's an old container. This isn't even what I'm smoking.

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Speaker 2: The fuck is this first song? Relax? I think I'm drugging.

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Speaker 2: Is it Indica? Now, bitch, it's a sativa. I just

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Speaker 2: gave you the jar, and I took.

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Speaker 3: The We split weed because we're lovers, and we split everything.

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Speaker 3: So I took the bag that it came in I

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Speaker 3: forgot what it was called.

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Speaker 2: It is a sativa.

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Speaker 3: And like yesterday we were going batshit crazy and we

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Speaker 3: only had like twenty like we together plus a silver dollar,

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Speaker 3: had exactly thirty dollars.

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Speaker 2: And I went to the dispensary like, hey, what can

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Speaker 2: I get with it was like fourteen ones.

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Speaker 3: I just didn't want to go to the AHM, I

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Speaker 3: didn't need I'm like that three dollars charge.

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Speaker 2: So I got whatever the bitch gave me. And so

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Speaker 2: that's what we're smoking. That's ativa.

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Speaker 3: That costs twenty nine dollars. Okay, you're welcome, Like that's

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Speaker 3: my feet, that's my lucky number. Actually, oh well there

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Speaker 3: you go. Cost thirty nine dollars.

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Speaker 2: Look at that.

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Speaker 3: Oh do you have anything to say about New York?

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Speaker 3: We met up with some of you. That was very fun.

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Speaker 2: We did.

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Speaker 1: We had a great meetup with some amazing fucking women

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Speaker 1: and men.

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Speaker 2: One of you all got a little too turned outside

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Speaker 2: the club. Okay, let's be clear, we all got a

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Speaker 2: little too turned. One got a little too turned outside

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Speaker 2: the club. We met. Have we met our I'm slatu

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Speaker 2: made at home. Shout out to you and shout out

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Speaker 2: to our our two our two guys that came.

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Speaker 3: And like hung out with us because Khalil made sure

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Speaker 3: she got home and also sap her daddy shout out,

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Speaker 3: just shout out to the brave. Two guys that came

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Speaker 3: and sat and had dinner with twenty bitches that.

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Speaker 2: Were fucking got got, got, got, got got.

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Speaker 3: Kaking for like two hours straight and we were yelling

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Speaker 3: a lot, and then finally went to the club where

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Speaker 3: no one could talk.

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Speaker 2: Amen and I made out.

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Speaker 3: I fell in love within five minutes of walking in.

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Speaker 3: I grinded and made out with a random man for.

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Speaker 1: Literally the entire literally they fall in love. She went

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Speaker 1: over to me and said I love him. We made

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Speaker 2: And I was like, okay.

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Speaker 3: Because I was three tequila's in and bitch, I know

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Speaker 3: you're not talking because you fall in love every time

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Speaker 3: I did.

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Speaker 1: I fell in love with the boy, and then I

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Speaker 1: fell out of love with him all in like like

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Speaker 1: a matter of twenty minutes. I cursed him out at

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Speaker 1: the end because he asked me what was the defining

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Speaker 1: moment in my life that changed my life? And I

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Speaker 1: said parent being a mother and he said, eh, what else?

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Speaker 1: I said, you know, I'm We're out of mom meet up.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, wrong answer. I'm with all my mom's nigga,

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Speaker 1: We'll fuck you up. Wait, that's how I felt. I

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Speaker 1: felt like I had my crew and don't come. Don't

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Speaker 1: come checking for my mother. We're a mom gang, so

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Speaker 1: don't come first.

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Speaker 2: Also, at the end of the club, she was like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: So I was in lab and then I met another

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Speaker 2: guy and he was going to fight the other guy

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Speaker 2: and I was like, this is he He was a boxer.

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Speaker 2: I was like wait, She's like yeah. I was kind

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Speaker 2: of turned on. I was like, you're a second but

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Speaker 2: I was. Then I went home alone. That's great.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, we have two guests here of that ranch. We

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Speaker 1: have two special guests here. And it's funny because I've

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Speaker 1: known one of you. I've known you like kind of

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Speaker 1: not really but like through the Internet and through mutual friends.

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Speaker 1: Shout out to Nicole Russell, who was on the podcast

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Speaker 1: last year. But I'm so glad we got finally get

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Speaker 1: to connect. And I feel like I know you because

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Speaker 1: I've been watching your stories for so long and I

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Speaker 1: believe that you guys get into a lot of shit together.

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Speaker 2: Yes, you guys kind of remind me of me. And

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Speaker 2: of Jamila and I. I'm sure we've been quietly giggling, but.

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Speaker 1: We have Nazanie and Nadia of the ladies like us podcast.

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Speaker 2: So welcome lady on.

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Speaker 5: A Good Mom's Bad Choices podcast.

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Speaker 2: Are not mothers, I know, but I'm curious about your questions.

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Speaker 2: Where you're gonna ask us? Well, she goes, you want

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Speaker 2: to go with me on this?

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Speaker 6: I go, well, where do we can talk about we

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Speaker 6: make bad choices?

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Speaker 3: I mean, if you've ever listened, this show is not

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Speaker 3: just for moms. We are also people. The whole point

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Speaker 3: of the podcast more than a mom, right, I mean

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Speaker 3: the first thing I tell people, like it's called Good

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Speaker 3: Moum's side Chices, but it's not just for moms.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and not you asked us before we started,

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Speaker 1: like tell us a little bit about yourself and like

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Speaker 1: it's so funny because me and Jamila always assume that

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Speaker 1: like people that are tuning in like this is like

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Speaker 1: you've been on the journey the entire time. You must

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Speaker 1: know that this is my voice.

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Speaker 2: Hi, this is Erica, Hi, this is Mela. Let's not

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Speaker 2: even what you sound like now we just sounded exactly

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Speaker 2: the same. Why do you want me to do Hi,

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Speaker 2: this is Meila whisper. I only I only whisper when

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Speaker 2: I get high.

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Speaker 1: She whispers at night, you have that baby when I

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Speaker 1: hit sexy after dark, after five.

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Speaker 2: Wait speaking baby voices. Have you guys watched Love Is bl.

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Speaker 7: Yes, I already know, Jessica, I watched that thing.

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Speaker 2: I need to calm down because I literally I went

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Speaker 2: to that.

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Speaker 1: I feel like forever, if I ever think about baby

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Speaker 1: boys from now on, they will always.

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Speaker 2: But I watch it. She's just like I hate or

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Speaker 2: I hate people who like the tops to their boyfriend,

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Speaker 2: like like she doesn't say words.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, I really he's like a man.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. She is so psycho. She literally just

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Speaker 2: doesn't want to leave the show.

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Speaker 6: But okay, when you watch the ring, he's getting pay

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Speaker 6: there was I haven't watched it yet, Okay, I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't want you. I just saw this one.

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Speaker 1: Like I was up till three in the morning last

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Speaker 1: night watching it again because and then where was I

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Speaker 1: Like she was really drunk and like was flirting.

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Speaker 2: Now, well, now they're living in the complex. Now they're

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Speaker 2: living in the apartment. You're more twins end. Did you

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Speaker 2: say that it's a hood complex? It's not like I said,

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Speaker 2: they could have done better. Like, what is this complex

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Speaker 2: of like four thousand units? Literally? Why did four thousand

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Speaker 1: It's an apartment complex that like other people, I'm sure

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm like that comes out of the house or something.

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Speaker 2: They sermented on the pod.

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Speaker 6: I mean it was the first season. They took them

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Speaker 6: to Mexican. They're probably paying them. They are paying them

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Speaker 2: That's why she tries to stay on the show. Well,

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Speaker 2: I will say that has a good job. I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: throw a little shade right now. Oh you didn't make

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Speaker 2: it to the wedding episode the team Oh I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: I don't like to talk ship the girl too. So England. No, no,

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Speaker 2: it was not good.

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Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of reality show a lot

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Speaker 3: of reality shows. I'm like, who the fuck did the

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Speaker 3: every picture on the internet. Apparently they'll do their makeup perfectly.

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Speaker 3: Did you guy not find one? M u A because

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Speaker 3: there's forty million thousand on the internet can do a

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Speaker 6: Exact mean, you know, but also our eyes are trained

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Speaker 6: now to see these photoshop images we think exactly, so

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Speaker 6: we think that that's normal, but it's not because then

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Speaker 6: when you see it in person, you're like, oh, that's

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Speaker 2: That's true. How many times have we met a be

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Speaker 2: a person like? Well many? This is the reality?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, that's why I have really shitty photos of myself.

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Speaker 2: You know, I don't know how you have. Yeah, even better,

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Speaker 2: this is the real better much spinner I am.

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Speaker 3: I don't know my lighting well, but look at me

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Speaker 3: in real life. Oh so you asked Erica and I

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Speaker 3: how we start our podcast, And for those of you

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Speaker 3: who don't know and just joining us, welcome. Erica and

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Speaker 3: I started being friends because we have one mutual friend

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Speaker 2: Was like, oh my god, look at her life. It

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Speaker 2: looks so wonderful. Her baby shower, that's cute. Oh my god,

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Speaker 2: he proposed her baby shower. Is he an African prince?

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. That part is the one that fox

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Speaker 2: me up the most. But he's an American rapper. Answer

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Speaker 2: she dot com did say, he's ninety nine point African.

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Speaker 2: Me too, he's pretty pure. No, he probably is.

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Speaker 3: So my my, my DNA spidy senses were right.

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Speaker 2: Not about the prince.

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Speaker 3: But okay, well you know what the funk I meant?

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Speaker 3: So Erica here was she asked our mutual friend about me.

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Speaker 3: She saw that I discovered this recently. She saw she

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Speaker 3: heard I was going out with her, and she said, oh,

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Speaker 3: I'm going out too. So I it was literally, now

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Speaker 3: I think about it's like a mirage. I was in

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Speaker 2: She appeared in dark in her dark corner. She's like, hey,

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Speaker 2: aren't you niece's friend? And I was like yeah. She's like,

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Speaker 2: aren't you a mom? Yeah, I have a daughter too.

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Speaker 3: She's at the time, They're like, they're like one and

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Speaker 3: I have take my number.

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Speaker 2: We should hang out sometime. I was like okay.

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Speaker 3: And usually I'm the friendly bitch, so I'm always like, hi,

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Speaker 3: I take my number.

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Speaker 2: What's your name? And I'm like, oh my god, somebody

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Speaker 3: I'm like sure, eight one eight, And literally like three

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Speaker 3: days later and then she disappeared, and I swear to guy.

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Speaker 2: I never saw him the club again. She must have

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Speaker 3: So like on Monday, she was like, hate, Erica, do

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Speaker 3: you want to come hang out.

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Speaker 1: Can you tell our listeners, like, what what inspired ladies

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Speaker 5: Real raw, we make mistakes, form perfect, you know. We

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Speaker 2: And like we were talking about earlier, everything is you know, all.

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Speaker 5: Rainbows and butterflies, and that's not life, that's not realistic.

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Speaker 6: We talk about everything, like we've been wanting to become

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Speaker 2: And it's a game we call Trigger.

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Speaker 2: Tripping? Tripping, tripping? What is that? You grown the girl porn?

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Speaker 2: we don't have a scientist expert we could get. You

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00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:57,800
Speaker 2: need to google this. Yeah, I'm don't have to squirting.

439
00:22:58,560 --> 00:22:59,080
Speaker 2: Can you squirt?

440
00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:02,119
Speaker 6: No? But I feel like I'm almost on occasions a

441
00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:02,679
Speaker 6: few times.

442
00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:03,600
Speaker 2: Eric is a squirter.

443
00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:08,800
Speaker 1: You tell me every other episode, we'll talk about that

444
00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:10,600
Speaker 1: after every three episodes.

445
00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:13,399
Speaker 2: That's not true. How do you feel about can you squirre?

446
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:13,840
Speaker 10: No?

447
00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:19,000
Speaker 2: I there damn relax. Yeah, the more you want it,

448
00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:21,320
Speaker 2: the more pressure and the more you come on, come.

449
00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:23,800
Speaker 6: On, and then it's just not My advice is relaxed

450
00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:25,920
Speaker 6: and it's messy like it is.

451
00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:28,639
Speaker 2: It's not for everyone. Yeah, you want to wash your

452
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:33,639
Speaker 2: sheets every time? You speaking of messy period? Sex in

453
00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:34,080
Speaker 2: the shower?

454
00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:41,400
Speaker 6: Yeah, shower, okay, turn off an ego, m arrogance.

455
00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:48,320
Speaker 2: Some days I swear to God? What you also reading them?

456
00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:54,320
Speaker 2: So much? Love taking rap? She's like, how do you

457
00:23:54,359 --> 00:24:00,159
Speaker 2: feel about? Did I ask an that's on? Here? I

458
00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:07,040
Speaker 2: was like, are you reading my mind? You empty stomach?

459
00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:09,120
Speaker 2: That is a gen right there?

460
00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:14,480
Speaker 3: Did anybody get that so eat twelve hours.

461
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:17,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my god, I need a colonic. I've never colonic.

462
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:23,960
Speaker 2: Oh not for never mind you go. They're like, where

463
00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:32,240
Speaker 2: are you here? I really emergency colonic appointment, gen, I'll

464
00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:35,600
Speaker 2: be right off. Want to do it? We need to

465
00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:38,560
Speaker 2: clear the road. Oh my god, I'll pay extra.

466
00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:45,880
Speaker 3: Okay, you know what this is in honor of sex

467
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:46,680
Speaker 3: talk with my mom.

468
00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:53,800
Speaker 2: What's the best drug you've ever done? Mushrooms? I always

469
00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:58,080
Speaker 2: have the most fun Annie. Yeah, I've had some pretty

470
00:24:58,080 --> 00:25:02,400
Speaker 2: fun times, honey or both. Yeah.

471
00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:04,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, it doesn't sit well with or if you're at Coachella,

472
00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:08,080
Speaker 3: we need an episode called mom Sheella where we were

473
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:10,119
Speaker 3: very pressed to just get crazy because we didn't have

474
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,200
Speaker 3: our kids, and we did. We had this great idea

475
00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:14,520
Speaker 3: to take shrooms and twenty seconds later take.

476
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 2: A E pill and then go to oh everything was

477
00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:23,480
Speaker 2: list you know how things? Yes, I'm on the blizzard

478
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:28,840
Speaker 2: I saw when we went to Coachella.

479
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:34,800
Speaker 6: I was on shrooms for Beyonce's I was, yeah, that's

480
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:41,400
Speaker 6: probably yeah, let me let me does not recommend cutty.

481
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:45,080
Speaker 2: Jamia was also concerned for his safety the entire is

482
00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:45,679
Speaker 2: he okay?

483
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 1: Like all you could see was the stage and these lights,

484
00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:50,560
Speaker 1: but we were close, but she was like, I can't

485
00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:50,960
Speaker 1: see him.

486
00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:55,400
Speaker 2: I'm worried about him. I'm worried. I hear mage these

487
00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 2: sounds and I don't know.

488
00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 1: And then ended, and then and the and the concert ended,

489
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:03,479
Speaker 1: and then it was like a sea of people and

490
00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:06,720
Speaker 1: I could not speak. I only could laugh and cry.

491
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:08,600
Speaker 1: And I was She was like, we're lost.

492
00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:09,680
Speaker 2: What are we going to do? And I was like.

493
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:14,080
Speaker 3: Literally every time she'd ask and then someone show us

494
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:15,679
Speaker 3: a math and I would just start laughing.

495
00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:19,840
Speaker 2: Needed a map, like it's so amazing.

496
00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:25,119
Speaker 1: We needed our group, Yeah, we needed a map because

497
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:27,040
Speaker 1: we got lt We First, someone enticed us to a

498
00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:29,840
Speaker 1: Jermy Scott party and you're.

499
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 2: Not on the list, but like, okay, let's follow him.

500
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:32,320
Speaker 2: We don't know our people were.

501
00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:34,400
Speaker 6: And then we left on the opposite side of where

502
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:36,440
Speaker 6: we entered, and our people were on the whole other side.

503
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:39,000
Speaker 1: And you know what that means. Those parks it's like

504
00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 1: miles right, and it was like the Lion King.

505
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:47,360
Speaker 11: Yes we're and Erica had these like wrap up sandals

506
00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:49,119
Speaker 11: and like Jesus sandals that kept coming and.

507
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:53,360
Speaker 2: Wait. At one point she's like, this is too much.

508
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:56,040
Speaker 2: Let's just sit down, Let's sit down. So we like

509
00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:59,440
Speaker 2: sat down the mall the street. We were in the

510
00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:00,119
Speaker 2: middle of the park.

511
00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 1: It's just like a field. I thought I was just

512
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:04,680
Speaker 1: in the field, but no, there were people driving.

513
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:11,760
Speaker 2: Through the I think we should sit right here. Yeah,

514
00:27:11,840 --> 00:27:14,680
Speaker 2: so in October we should all meet up for I

515
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:18,040
Speaker 2: was going this year anyway.

516
00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:22,520
Speaker 3: So you guys have me stories since rest scheduling because

517
00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:23,199
Speaker 3: anybody held me.

518
00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:27,359
Speaker 6: I'm trying to think, because I mean, when Miguel performed,

519
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:31,240
Speaker 6: that was so that was that was an way better.

520
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:34,400
Speaker 2: It was so well we were on for that to.

521
00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:38,399
Speaker 6: I mean, I was more pol likely well, but the

522
00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:41,000
Speaker 6: part that was super dope was that. So yeah, we're

523
00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:43,440
Speaker 6: not only were we in vi P since he was performing,

524
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:46,160
Speaker 6: they put us in the like what do you call

525
00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:46,679
Speaker 6: that area?

526
00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:56,320
Speaker 2: No one can go ye, So yeah, we were in

527
00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:58,360
Speaker 2: there and he was performing, and then what's.

528
00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:01,400
Speaker 6: The skywalker that he came to jumped off the stage

529
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 6: and came and like rided with us, and we all

530
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:04,200
Speaker 6: were like.

531
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:08,720
Speaker 2: And everyone around us felt the energy, which is it

532
00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:09,320
Speaker 2: was dope.

533
00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 5: That was That was a cool moment fance for sure.

534
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:17,679
Speaker 5: That was where our friends are crying. It was crazy.

535
00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:21,240
Speaker 3: Festival energy is like because it was there just to

536
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:22,640
Speaker 3: be happy and love each other.

537
00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:26,880
Speaker 2: It's like two drugs loves each other harmony. Yeah exactly.

538
00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:29,479
Speaker 2: Oh you know it's around my birthday, so this is

539
00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 2: I'm not I am mad at it. Are you a

540
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:35,880
Speaker 2: libra scorpio? Oh? What dare you? Twenty five? Oh? Okay,

541
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 2: what about you? Two s aries? What about you? My cancer? Oh?

542
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:49,040
Speaker 2: Were like, okay, okay, I feel like brogos and uh,

543
00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:50,680
Speaker 2: what are you areas?

544
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 3: I feel like they're they're air right, No, I'm fire?

545
00:28:55,320 --> 00:29:00,800
Speaker 2: Oh okay, your fir water got it a world different?

546
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:05,640
Speaker 2: Do you guys believe in astrology? Yes, I'm like, I

547
00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:06,520
Speaker 2: go back and forth.

548
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:09,480
Speaker 6: It's interesting and I do believe it. But I'm not like,

549
00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:11,320
Speaker 6: oh it's like one hundred.

550
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 2: It's not.

551
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 5: We're all raised differently, well exactly, there's so many of

552
00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:17,479
Speaker 5: the factors. Yeah, we were all like brought up a

553
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:19,640
Speaker 5: certain way, so I can't all be the same.

554
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:23,560
Speaker 2: But there's like characteristics that are very similar throughout.

555
00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 1: I see you post a lot of stuff about you ago,

556
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:28,720
Speaker 1: so you know I'm a scorpion. I'd be like, yes, this.

557
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 2: Is why for me, we are you actually are crazy?

558
00:29:36,080 --> 00:29:38,360
Speaker 2: I don't think my husband's a scorpion. You guys are

559
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 2: fucking friends.

560
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:43,920
Speaker 1: The men and the women are different, though specifically Scorpio,

561
00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 1: I don't know.

562
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 5: The men, Like, they're very emotional, Like it is an

563
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 5: intense and it's like it is in October November.

564
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 2: It's October twenty third, so he's on the plus yeah

565
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:56,880
Speaker 2: of Libra and birthday, so like he's.

566
00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:03,080
Speaker 5: But I mean it's beautiful for his art, yeah, yeah,

567
00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 5: that's what makes his music so amazing.

568
00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:07,640
Speaker 2: But yeah, they're very intense people.

569
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:10,920
Speaker 1: I love it because I feel like libras like really

570
00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:13,920
Speaker 1: are obviously about their balance sort of, but they're really

571
00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:17,240
Speaker 1: about beauty and aesthetics. And then scorpios are like dark

572
00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 1: and moody. So when that comes together that I feel

573
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:23,920
Speaker 1: like that's like the exact way I would define his Yeah,

574
00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:26,360
Speaker 1: beautiful and dark.

575
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:29,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know you would like love to hear that.

576
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 2: That's dope.

577
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:33,360
Speaker 1: But yeah, I have you ever have you ever had

578
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 1: your natal charts red or anything like that?

579
00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 6: Well?

580
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 2: Actually, did I have the whole thing?

581
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:37,280
Speaker 6: Right?

582
00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 2: Do you have the pattern app? Everyone has the pattern app?

583
00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:47,440
Speaker 2: But lately, I mean not lately because that's always my

584
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:52,719
Speaker 2: problem astrology. It's generic too. I think all the apps.

585
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:56,200
Speaker 1: All the kind of trying to capitalize on it is

586
00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:59,400
Speaker 1: what makes it feel like sketchy. If you just follow

587
00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:02,720
Speaker 1: it for what it's like, what it's originally created for,

588
00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 1: you know, then that's it. But people like really get

589
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:06,000
Speaker 1: really crazy about it.

590
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:08,840
Speaker 2: Do you guys have like a psychicy? Call once? I

591
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:12,720
Speaker 2: do not once to wait? Okay, do you call your psychic?

592
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:16,400
Speaker 2: I probably meet with her every like two months? Okay, yeah,

593
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 2: just to check in see where we're going like that,

594
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:20,520
Speaker 2: I'm down with.

595
00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:20,960
Speaker 12: Yeah.

596
00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 3: Erica actually just purchased some tarot cards yesterday. I don't know,

597
00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 3: but we're trying to learn our tarot there fun.

598
00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:28,720
Speaker 2: I want to see if you guys want to pull

599
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:32,840
Speaker 2: a card? Yeah? Sure, why not? Am I supposed to

600
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:33,080
Speaker 2: do that?

601
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:33,480
Speaker 3: Yes?

602
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:35,400
Speaker 2: Am I supposed to do? I feel like mine's gonna be.

603
00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:38,640
Speaker 2: I could do it either way. You can pass it

604
00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:41,880
Speaker 2: to them to shuffle to get there and then they

605
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 2: come out a shuffler. But yeah, I'm awful. Just do this.

606
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 1: I tell you you know what I've been telling everyone, Like,

607
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:51,280
Speaker 1: you know, at the beginning of this year has been

608
00:31:51,320 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 1: really strange.

609
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:52,720
Speaker 2: Everyone had all.

610
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 1: These expectations and it's just not what we thought.

611
00:31:58,160 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 2: It's just it's been good.

612
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:01,960
Speaker 1: I mean, not bad, but just like I just feel

613
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:04,080
Speaker 1: there's been a weird energy.

614
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:06,520
Speaker 2: It's I don't think it's at all. There's been a

615
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 2: lot of loss and.

616
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:15,600
Speaker 1: Lost, but also like like rising from the ashes exactly exactly,

617
00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:15,920
Speaker 1: you know.

618
00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:19,960
Speaker 5: I think it's stuff that needs needs to happen. Okay,

619
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 5: so I'm pulling win or three.

620
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:34,560
Speaker 2: Mm three sorry three you gotta get your pants. You

621
00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:39,200
Speaker 2: don't know yet. This is past president future. All right,

622
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:46,240
Speaker 2: She's gonna teach you. I'm like excited. I'm like, it's.

623
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:48,040
Speaker 6: Always the same with no matter what kind of deck,

624
00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:49,440
Speaker 6: It's the same type of process I.

625
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:51,080
Speaker 5: Have, Like I have a real one and then I

626
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:54,840
Speaker 5: also have like a fake like remember the cat one. Yeah, yeah,

627
00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:58,920
Speaker 5: Goddess cards or something, yes, and then I've got Goddess

628
00:32:59,080 --> 00:32:59,720
Speaker 5: angel cards.

629
00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:01,080
Speaker 2: Yeah it all right.

630
00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:05,080
Speaker 5: Past the High Priestess, I always care her interesting?

631
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:09,440
Speaker 2: How do I find her quickly in the beginning when

632
00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 2: I'm high? Okay? Secrets mystery the future as yet unrevealed,

633
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 2: The woman who who? Who interests? The courrant? If male? Okay,

634
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:23,960
Speaker 2: the quarrant if female? Silence? Now okay, so you're okay

635
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:24,920
Speaker 2: if you're a female?

636
00:33:25,040 --> 00:33:30,840
Speaker 1: Okay, Wait, I can read.

637
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:34,280
Speaker 2: Guys to God, like, what's happening?

638
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 1: Silence, tenacity, wisdom, science, okay, and then reversed passion, moral

639
00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:44,600
Speaker 1: or physical, ardor conceit surface knowledge.

640
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:46,360
Speaker 3: Well, you don't have to think about reverse because she

641
00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:48,000
Speaker 3: picks when she lifted it.

642
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 1: Because silence, tenacity, wisdom, science, What does science mean?

643
00:33:56,360 --> 00:34:03,360
Speaker 2: Corona? Science? I haven't even sighted. I want to think

644
00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:06,240
Speaker 2: it's so bad. I'm so happy. Someone else wants to

645
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:10,440
Speaker 2: ny why with me? Get that? Corona?

646
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:22,360
Speaker 6: I literally can't think of the word science without.

647
00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:21,440
Speaker 2: Watch it to love that too? All right? Should we

648
00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 2: do present? Let's see strength?

649
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:34,200
Speaker 1: That's good, power, energy, action, courage, magnetity sounds good, okay

650
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 1: for sure?

651
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:40,640
Speaker 2: Temperance almost your family, Yes, they are.

652
00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:52,600
Speaker 1: Economy moderation, uh, management corona frugality, frugality, management saying saved

653
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:55,919
Speaker 1: your money, gave your money, it's sa your money. Yeah,

654
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:59,400
Speaker 1: figure out your accommodations, do things in moderation.

655
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:02,160
Speaker 2: You were saying those one of your goals for this year.

656
00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:10,480
Speaker 2: M okay, right, it's just saying you're gonna do it.

657
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:15,720
Speaker 2: It's gonna happen. It's happening. That's on both in relationships

658
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:17,279
Speaker 2: and long term ones.

659
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:24,000
Speaker 3: Right, or your fuck, no, yeah, those are important. He

660
00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:25,040
Speaker 3: goes out of the day.

661
00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 2: Are the lost? Yes? Are those? Are those some they'll

662
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:30,160
Speaker 2: fill up moment? Those are not for me? Is that

663
00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:32,160
Speaker 2: what that means? I don't know. No, sometimes, since they

664
00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:33,920
Speaker 2: fall during the douck, you're supposed to pay attention to

665
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:36,080
Speaker 2: the Okay, let's leave those out. You never maybe those

666
00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:37,359
Speaker 2: are the ones we should look at.

667
00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:42,800
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay.

668
00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:43,920
Speaker 2: So relationship.

669
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:46,920
Speaker 6: I was in a eleven and a half year relationship

670
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:52,080
Speaker 6: and that ended in twenty seventeen, so I was twenty

671
00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:54,600
Speaker 6: to thirty one. I was with the same guy. Oh wow,

672
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:57,239
Speaker 6: so that was crazy. Do you do you regret that

673
00:35:58,040 --> 00:35:58,879
Speaker 6: the relationship?

674
00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 1: I mean, just spending your twenties and our I think

675
00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:03,800
Speaker 1: about that too, because I spent most of my twenties

676
00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:04,560
Speaker 1: in a relationship.

677
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:07,319
Speaker 2: Right, It's like, do you not the relationship, but do

678
00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:09,520
Speaker 2: you wish that maybe like you would have?

679
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:11,200
Speaker 6: I think there's a slight part of me it's like,

680
00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 6: well what could have been? Like what would I like?

681
00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:16,319
Speaker 6: I would I didn't get it out of my system,

682
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:18,880
Speaker 6: like those wild party days of like hooking up with

683
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:22,239
Speaker 6: everybody and blah blah blah. But I'm just such a

684
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:26,040
Speaker 6: person that believes everything happens for a reason and that.

685
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:26,880
Speaker 2: That's just how my life was supposed to be.

686
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:29,400
Speaker 6: And I learned what I learned and gained the friends

687
00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:32,120
Speaker 6: that I gained because I gained you friends from him

688
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:34,440
Speaker 6: and that relationship that are lifelong friends of mine. And

689
00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:36,160
Speaker 6: had I not done that, you know what I mean,

690
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:39,319
Speaker 6: I don't look at it that way. So I'm cool

691
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:41,840
Speaker 6: with it, and him and I are cool. So it

692
00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:42,799
Speaker 6: is what it is, you know.

693
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:47,439
Speaker 2: But now, so then I was single, and I was like, yeah,

694
00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:48,640
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have lots.

695
00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:49,120
Speaker 6: Of sex.

696
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:52,040
Speaker 2: From way. Yeah.

697
00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 6: I got on Twinter, I got a Tinder, I got twindered,

698
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:58,520
Speaker 6: I got on Tinder, I got on Bumble, and I

699
00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:02,279
Speaker 6: was just getting my feet when when we went to Vegas.

700
00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:03,600
Speaker 6: Was it for Miguel's show?

701
00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:07,799
Speaker 2: Yeah he was. He had a resident Sandra's right, so

702
00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:08,520
Speaker 2: that's right.

703
00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:12,440
Speaker 6: So we went to Vegas and Miguel invited his cousins,

704
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:16,279
Speaker 6: and I want to meet one of his cousins. End

705
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:19,719
Speaker 6: up hooking up in Vegas and we started dating like

706
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:20,959
Speaker 6: what four or five?

707
00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:24,319
Speaker 2: Four months later? Oh my god, like a family. Yeah yea.

708
00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:30,200
Speaker 2: So now I'm in a long term relationship with Miguel's cousin. Wait,

709
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:31,280
Speaker 2: so how long have you been dating?

710
00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 6: Now?

711
00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:34,359
Speaker 2: We're going on two and a half years. Wow.

712
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:37,720
Speaker 6: Yeah, I was literally single for like what a couple

713
00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:39,279
Speaker 6: of months maybe if that.

714
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:41,160
Speaker 2: I was like, damn it.

715
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:45,680
Speaker 1: I was trying to have and he even was like

716
00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:46,879
Speaker 1: it's okay, you could keep.

717
00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:49,920
Speaker 2: Like he was like he was gonna wait for me.

718
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:54,759
Speaker 2: I need it all. Yeah, I'm a good man. I

719
00:37:54,760 --> 00:38:01,839
Speaker 2: don't know Miguel's cousin, but he's a good Man's over here,

720
00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:08,480
Speaker 2: what's the next bar? I'm like, you know, we got

721
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:08,960
Speaker 2: the good one.

722
00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:19,360
Speaker 1: Sorry, come on, Oh my god. Yeah, So that's that.

723
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:24,160
Speaker 6: It's been awesome. He's like, my he's Libra. So we're

724
00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:29,080
Speaker 6: like opposites on the chart. And I'm just so fucking happy.

725
00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:33,319
Speaker 6: Like that's it, Like it's easy, it's so easy. We

726
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:35,759
Speaker 6: have a great time. Like you guys will love him.

727
00:38:35,760 --> 00:38:38,480
Speaker 6: He's hilarious, like a really good, solid person.

728
00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:41,000
Speaker 2: Yeah. Erica goes, Yeah. I think she's been in a

729
00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:43,640
Speaker 2: long term relationship too. She they do fun things together.

730
00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:44,880
Speaker 2: They're like, they have fun together.

731
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:49,120
Speaker 3: She's like this, they'll leave them, they'll leave the bar

732
00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:49,800
Speaker 3: last together.

733
00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:53,160
Speaker 2: Yes, that's relationship.

734
00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 6: Yes, And we're so we're trying to market ourselves by

735
00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:00,560
Speaker 6: doing things like that. So we're trying to start a

736
00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:02,840
Speaker 6: podcast or something like we started a page called we

737
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:06,279
Speaker 6: ever Were a Baby because we're literally where everywhere baby, we.

738
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:08,160
Speaker 2: Everywhere bab Yeah, it's so cute.

739
00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:11,600
Speaker 6: So because we're down to try things, talk to anyone,

740
00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:14,840
Speaker 6: go anywhere, Like we're just so open and for some reason,

741
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:16,400
Speaker 6: everywhere we go we have a good time and end

742
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:17,120
Speaker 6: up with stories.

743
00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:20,160
Speaker 2: So we're like, let's turn that into something. Yeah, that's

744
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 2: an adventure relationship. That's what I want. Where's my adventure? Right?

745
00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:24,319
Speaker 1: Right?

746
00:39:26,040 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 2: That's literally what I always say.

747
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:29,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, I want someone who's like good a journey

748
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:33,279
Speaker 1: in life with me, original, like just let's just go.

749
00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:38,719
Speaker 2: That's part of Yeah, someone has to one person to

750
00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:39,880
Speaker 2: be like maybe we should do that.

751
00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:45,799
Speaker 3: Probably, it just has it depends when you catch her,

752
00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:47,759
Speaker 3: because sometimes I'm like, we can't do that.

753
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:55,040
Speaker 2: That sounds like exactly, we're good. That's your jo. We're

754
00:39:55,080 --> 00:40:01,160
Speaker 2: in fucking mood. It's official. Yeah, yeah, I don't.

755
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:03,760
Speaker 3: I don't want any relationship that's like oppressive, that doesn't

756
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:05,799
Speaker 3: want me to dance on the table, you know, Like

757
00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 3: we're going to Mexico and we're fucking getting sucked up.

758
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:09,960
Speaker 2: You hear me, you know, like you make it. Let's

759
00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:12,240
Speaker 2: and that's what he is for me. He's like, let's

760
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:12,879
Speaker 2: go do this.

761
00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:16,120
Speaker 3: Maybe I just met in Vegas too, No, we had

762
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 3: before we just hooked up.

763
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 2: No, they you guys met a long time. Yeah.

764
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:25,480
Speaker 6: Yeah, like we were both in relationships with their chemistry

765
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:28,120
Speaker 6: there and then not in that way. No, like we

766
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:31,759
Speaker 6: just gravitated towards one another either way, So there was

767
00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:35,360
Speaker 6: like a friendship attraction. Like I just enjoyed being around

768
00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:38,759
Speaker 6: him and I He said at first that he did.

769
00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:41,120
Speaker 6: He wasn't sure about me because I was clowning so

770
00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:44,239
Speaker 6: hard on him because I just do that, like when

771
00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:46,600
Speaker 6: I like somebody, I just clown on them.

772
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:51,719
Speaker 2: Like it's kind of messed up. But yeah, yeah, I

773
00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:53,319
Speaker 2: don't want to eat it in a bad way. It's

774
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:56,880
Speaker 2: like me like we're just playing, we're teasing, you know. Yeah,

775
00:40:56,920 --> 00:40:59,799
Speaker 2: but we all saw it. Yeah, like the family, we all.

776
00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:07,040
Speaker 6: Might happen telling people, they're like, yeah, yeah, that was

777
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:08,160
Speaker 6: a natural, very natural.

778
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:11,120
Speaker 2: Did you always know that? Do you guys want to

779
00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:12,680
Speaker 2: be married? You guys? As have you always known?

780
00:41:12,719 --> 00:41:12,960
Speaker 1: You once?

781
00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:13,400
Speaker 3: Are?

782
00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:16,080
Speaker 2: You're not married? You're not engaged either, right, okay, but

783
00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:18,719
Speaker 2: you've been married for how long? Two years? We're a

784
00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 2: year and a half. How's nerd life? Did it? Something change? Really?

785
00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:24,080
Speaker 2: Don't know, something changed really?

786
00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's it feels I can't put it into words. Yes,

787
00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:35,400
Speaker 5: and an effortless security where you're just like that is

788
00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:39,360
Speaker 5: my person and now I'm free to go and focus

789
00:41:39,440 --> 00:41:42,480
Speaker 5: on work and I'm and everything's gonna be okay because

790
00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 5: we are like this now, you know, like I don't

791
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:47,920
Speaker 5: worry about certain things that I used to worry about.

792
00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:51,560
Speaker 2: So yeah, it feels different. You pulled the parking break.

793
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:58,680
Speaker 6: Up, Yeah, okay, we're doing that.

794
00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 5: You were in park and we put it exactly exactly,

795
00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:05,560
Speaker 5: and then it's more of like, okay, so you know

796
00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:08,799
Speaker 5: things are never perfect, and when you know you go

797
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:13,480
Speaker 5: through disagreements. Now it's like, let's find the solution faster

798
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:14,440
Speaker 5: because we.

799
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:18,680
Speaker 2: Know that we're here staying. It's we're not going anywhere.

800
00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:20,759
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, so like let's do this all right.

801
00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:23,120
Speaker 5: You say your piece, I say mind, Like, let's come

802
00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:24,759
Speaker 5: to a conclusion here too.

803
00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:28,400
Speaker 6: You guys grew so much together, like exact way, how

804
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:29,600
Speaker 6: long have you guys actually been together?

805
00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:32,560
Speaker 2: Fourteen and a half years. Yeah, my god.

806
00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:36,719
Speaker 6: Yeah, so there's been with that naturally, there's so many

807
00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:38,200
Speaker 6: ups and downs, you know what I mean.

808
00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:41,200
Speaker 2: Our whole relationship has literally been like trial and error.

809
00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:41,960
Speaker 1: You know.

810
00:42:42,040 --> 00:42:44,720
Speaker 5: We've had like the lowest of lows and highest of highs,

811
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:46,320
Speaker 5: especially when you throw the whole.

812
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:50,120
Speaker 2: Fame thing in and coming from nothing literally nothing.

813
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:54,040
Speaker 5: And like it's it's a it's a little rattling, to

814
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:54,919
Speaker 5: be honest.

815
00:42:56,400 --> 00:43:01,160
Speaker 2: And something. It's like we are used to it, but not.

816
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:04,160
Speaker 5: I don't know, it's weird because lifestyle or yeah, like

817
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:06,960
Speaker 5: I don't look at him like that, of course I

818
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:07,480
Speaker 5: just don't.

819
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:10,239
Speaker 2: It's it's I separate the two.

820
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:12,960
Speaker 5: I'm like, oh, that's just his job, Like that's his passion,

821
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:14,680
Speaker 5: that's what sparks a fire within him.

822
00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 2: But he's still like a very normal person.

823
00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:20,759
Speaker 1: But I mean, I would imagine even like being a

824
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:24,080
Speaker 1: wife of someone who's who has fame, Like, how do

825
00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 1: you I mean, because like sometimes you can I feel

826
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:29,240
Speaker 1: like it's easy enough to lose yourself in a man period.

827
00:43:29,480 --> 00:43:31,239
Speaker 2: Yes right, I did that in my life.

828
00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:33,160
Speaker 1: I mean, and I think you don't have to be

829
00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:35,520
Speaker 1: dating a famous person to do that, you know, But

830
00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:38,280
Speaker 1: I think when on top of that, like your partners,

831
00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:43,120
Speaker 1: like his love has brought him fame, which also brings

832
00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:46,400
Speaker 1: him like people who adore him, people that surround yourself

833
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:48,880
Speaker 1: like and then like you feeling like because we're women,

834
00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:50,880
Speaker 1: and for me, like I've always felt like I had

835
00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:53,360
Speaker 1: to elevate my man and like right, support him in

836
00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:56,120
Speaker 1: that way, and that's how I've gotten lost where it's

837
00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:58,200
Speaker 1: like I'm so busy supporting you, Like how do you

838
00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:01,040
Speaker 1: separate that? Or like you said, there was a point

839
00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:03,840
Speaker 1: where you weren't doing like you were struggling.

840
00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:06,879
Speaker 2: With that, right. I struggled with that throughout like most

841
00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:07,640
Speaker 2: of my twenties.

842
00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:10,560
Speaker 5: I think when I hit like twenty eight closer to

843
00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 5: twenty nine, I was like, you know what, like I

844
00:44:13,560 --> 00:44:15,440
Speaker 5: need to be open and honest with him and be like,

845
00:44:15,560 --> 00:44:21,920
Speaker 5: I need to find my passion because there's something missing.

846
00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 5: There's definitely something missing, and I can't be fully happy

847
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:33,239
Speaker 5: together if I'm not happy solely. So I started going

848
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:35,480
Speaker 5: back into acting and you know, just getting.

849
00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:38,200
Speaker 2: My shit together, going to therapy. That changed my life

850
00:44:38,239 --> 00:44:39,640
Speaker 2: completely in my relationship.

851
00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:44,920
Speaker 5: But I feel it's really important to when you're in

852
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:50,279
Speaker 5: any kind of relationship, to have your own life, have

853
00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:51,920
Speaker 5: your own passions.

854
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:55,719
Speaker 2: And it brings more conversation to the table as well.

855
00:44:56,400 --> 00:44:59,320
Speaker 1: Would you say, like even in like your relationship or yours,

856
00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:01,840
Speaker 1: like have because I'm listening to you and I'm like,

857
00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:03,160
Speaker 1: did he know how to support you?

858
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:04,960
Speaker 2: Or did you have to teach him how to support you?

859
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:05,200
Speaker 1: No?

860
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:08,280
Speaker 2: No, no, because like I feel like too, like men too.

861
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:12,080
Speaker 1: They're like, no, you have to write a step.

862
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:18,279
Speaker 2: This is how I need you to support my dreams. Yes, see, No,

863
00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:19,320
Speaker 2: with him, he's.

864
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:22,919
Speaker 5: Always been naturally supportive because he was always the one

865
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:26,359
Speaker 5: that saw the talent, saw the potential before anyone else

866
00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:31,359
Speaker 5: really did, besides my family, my immediate family. But now

867
00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:34,720
Speaker 5: that things are kind of flipping and like I'm picking

868
00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:38,960
Speaker 5: up traction, I'm doing my own thing, it's been I

869
00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 5: don't want to say hard. It's been different in the

870
00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:46,400
Speaker 5: sense of I feel guilty sometimes because I can't be

871
00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:48,600
Speaker 5: there to make sure he eats, so I can't be

872
00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:52,400
Speaker 5: there at every show. I can't the laundry isn't folded

873
00:45:52,560 --> 00:45:54,759
Speaker 5: every day, like you say, like, it's those things that

874
00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:59,640
Speaker 5: I put that pressure on myself exactly exactly, And.

875
00:45:59,760 --> 00:46:04,480
Speaker 6: You have been accustomed, Yes, he's been used to be

876
00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:06,000
Speaker 6: catered to a certain way.

877
00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:09,560
Speaker 5: So it was a little weird at first that he's like,

878
00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:11,839
Speaker 5: so you're going to make dinner, and it's like, you know,

879
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:13,239
Speaker 5: it's you want to make it?

880
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:20,560
Speaker 2: I want to. So you know, we got we got

881
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:22,960
Speaker 2: into like disagreements a little bit at first.

882
00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:25,839
Speaker 5: It was like you know, yeah, but now now it's

883
00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:27,799
Speaker 5: like he's getting Now he's getting in the group. Now

884
00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:29,720
Speaker 5: he'll get up and be like you want coffee, okay,

885
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:32,919
Speaker 5: so my legs like, let me help you. It's those

886
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:35,120
Speaker 5: little things like he was just used to me being

887
00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:38,680
Speaker 5: there all the time, and now that I'm not, it

888
00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:39,640
Speaker 5: was it's a little weird.

889
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:43,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, but he's still supported, no, of course, but I think, yeah,

890
00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:44,600
Speaker 2: I think it always does an adjustment.

891
00:46:45,200 --> 00:46:48,360
Speaker 5: But you have to be vocal, like you can't assume

892
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:52,759
Speaker 5: that a man knows, just assume they don't, okay, always

893
00:46:52,840 --> 00:46:53,680
Speaker 5: you know they do.

894
00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:55,919
Speaker 2: Not always right, That's always the last.

895
00:46:55,960 --> 00:46:58,200
Speaker 1: That's the lesson I've learned for sure, to yea even

896
00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:03,200
Speaker 1: the most like in tune passionate man, even if you're Cameron.

897
00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:08,280
Speaker 2: From God Love, he's stand.

898
00:47:11,680 --> 00:47:13,080
Speaker 3: I was going at a party last night and this

899
00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:14,319
Speaker 3: girl I was like, I'm just trying to find me

900
00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:15,040
Speaker 3: a camera.

901
00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:20,319
Speaker 2: That's what was saying the whole time. My friend honestly like,

902
00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:24,000
Speaker 2: even if you're Cameron, like who was I? Who was I?

903
00:47:24,080 --> 00:47:26,000
Speaker 2: Who was here? Oh? Ashley was here yesterday?

904
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:28,040
Speaker 1: And I was like, there's something about him and she

905
00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:31,080
Speaker 1: was like, what are you serious? I was like just wait,

906
00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:32,040
Speaker 1: and the more.

907
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:34,440
Speaker 2: She why, it was like and I.

908
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:36,239
Speaker 1: Like, I like, look at his mouth. I was like,

909
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:38,040
Speaker 1: just look at his mouth. He's a really nice mouth,

910
00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:40,080
Speaker 1: nice lips, nice teeth.

911
00:47:40,680 --> 00:47:46,280
Speaker 2: I like, how calm and serious? How serious he seems

912
00:47:46,600 --> 00:47:49,520
Speaker 2: like I'm in this? Oh my god, look at the women.

913
00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:53,319
Speaker 2: We're like, does that say say serious, you're in this?

914
00:47:53,480 --> 00:48:01,040
Speaker 2: You're committing? Did you when the dad met him? That wash? Yes?

915
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:03,880
Speaker 2: I wanted to document her.

916
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:07,160
Speaker 7: You mean this talk about support.

917
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:09,719
Speaker 6: My boyfriend was the one that was like, let's watch

918
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:12,280
Speaker 6: this because he knows that I like those kind of shows.

919
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:14,880
Speaker 6: And he was just like whatever about it. But I

920
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:17,120
Speaker 6: was like, you really want to watch us? He's like, well,

921
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:21,359
Speaker 6: you like to watch it? And I was like, exactly

922
00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:23,160
Speaker 6: those little things, those.

923
00:48:24,200 --> 00:48:26,960
Speaker 2: Exactly like I scored man, you know.

924
00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:29,319
Speaker 1: And then some people would say like, you know, oh,

925
00:48:29,360 --> 00:48:31,480
Speaker 1: we got into a relationship too quickly. But sometimes like

926
00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:34,080
Speaker 1: people walk out of your life and then walk where

927
00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:36,520
Speaker 1: someone Brett walks right in and it's like but.

928
00:48:36,480 --> 00:48:38,360
Speaker 2: Then again, like how do you know for sure? Like

929
00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:39,239
Speaker 2: how you know?

930
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:42,320
Speaker 1: Obviously you get you get confirmation and yeah, over time

931
00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:42,920
Speaker 1: it shows.

932
00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:46,160
Speaker 2: But well I struggled with that, you know what I

933
00:48:46,160 --> 00:48:47,760
Speaker 2: mean because a couple of reasons.

934
00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:50,719
Speaker 6: One was he was in the family, so you know,

935
00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:53,879
Speaker 6: we weren't planning on hooking up. We just both did

936
00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:57,360
Speaker 6: edibles and I couldn't stop, and I just leaned in

937
00:48:57,440 --> 00:48:58,680
Speaker 6: and started kissing him.

938
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:02,280
Speaker 2: And you know what, That's so funny because.

939
00:49:02,120 --> 00:49:03,640
Speaker 1: If you guys ever get married and have kids, you

940
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:07,120
Speaker 1: tell that story. Because for me, like my daughter's father,

941
00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:09,799
Speaker 1: he was my wee dealer, and I'm like, will I

942
00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:13,560
Speaker 1: tell my daughter that your fa Actually I met him.

943
00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:15,239
Speaker 2: At the death. I met him at the Standard Downtown.

944
00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:19,120
Speaker 2: I was in the waterbed. Do you know what I'm

945
00:49:19,160 --> 00:49:21,400
Speaker 2: talking about? Like, No, I'm in to the Standard Downtown.

946
00:49:21,480 --> 00:49:22,960
Speaker 2: You know what I'm talking about? Yeah? Little pods?

947
00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:25,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, Well I was in there and I was like, hey,

948
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:27,560
Speaker 1: do I heard you sell weed?

949
00:49:27,640 --> 00:49:28,279
Speaker 2: Do you have some?

950
00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:30,600
Speaker 1: And he brought it to me and then the rest

951
00:49:30,680 --> 00:49:33,080
Speaker 1: is history. So one day you guys can share that

952
00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:34,480
Speaker 1: with your just too.

953
00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:37,400
Speaker 2: It's an interesting story. And we call each other kissing.

954
00:49:38,480 --> 00:49:44,520
Speaker 2: Oh my god, yeah, I mean we're not but really whatever.

955
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:47,319
Speaker 6: But yeah, I struggled with that too, because I was

956
00:49:47,360 --> 00:49:49,920
Speaker 6: like fresh out of that relationship. I wasn't ready to

957
00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:52,680
Speaker 6: be in another relationship, and I was really aware of that.

958
00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:56,240
Speaker 6: And we started hooking up and I was just feeling

959
00:49:56,280 --> 00:49:59,040
Speaker 6: all these like emotions like oh my god, I really actually.

960
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:02,000
Speaker 2: Like him, Like this is really easy, this is really fun.

961
00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:05,439
Speaker 6: There's a lot like everything's crossing out here, and then

962
00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:08,319
Speaker 6: the self sabotage starts to come there, right, and.

963
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:11,279
Speaker 2: You're just like, no, but he does this, and so

964
00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:11,960
Speaker 2: you don't like.

965
00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 6: That, and you're like trying to justify why you shouldn't

966
00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:18,399
Speaker 6: be with this person. And I had to like really

967
00:50:18,480 --> 00:50:20,960
Speaker 6: check myself and be like what are you doing? Like

968
00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:24,439
Speaker 6: everything's great, everything's fun, you're having a good time.

969
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:26,600
Speaker 2: Why are you ruining this? Get out of your.

970
00:50:26,520 --> 00:50:29,239
Speaker 6: Head, right, And so once I got out of my

971
00:50:29,320 --> 00:50:31,560
Speaker 6: head and I just let it be and I just

972
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:34,000
Speaker 6: took the pressure off, and there were no labels, there

973
00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:37,440
Speaker 6: were no nothing. We just enjoyed each other and it

974
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:39,719
Speaker 6: just got better and better and developed from there. And

975
00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:42,319
Speaker 6: I was like finally, like like whatever. Months later I

976
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:44,320
Speaker 6: was like, okay, fine, you can be my boyfriend.

977
00:50:45,239 --> 00:50:46,000
Speaker 2: We got it. Get there?

978
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:49,520
Speaker 6: Ye well he it was like one of those we

979
00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:53,960
Speaker 6: had had had a conversation about it earlier, and I

980
00:50:54,000 --> 00:50:55,920
Speaker 6: was just like, I'm not ready to do that if

981
00:50:55,920 --> 00:50:58,200
Speaker 6: that's what you want. Because even he wasn't pushing it.

982
00:50:58,520 --> 00:51:01,120
Speaker 6: He's such a laid back guy. He's like, I want

983
00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:02,920
Speaker 6: to be with you, so whatever that means, I'll give

984
00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:04,920
Speaker 6: a book, like I just want to be with you,

985
00:51:05,719 --> 00:51:08,880
Speaker 6: so I know.

986
00:51:09,280 --> 00:51:12,440
Speaker 2: What does I feel like? You're so far removing? I know,

987
00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:16,000
Speaker 2: Like so he said, I want to make sure I learned.

988
00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:21,359
Speaker 3: So he was like, with you, what you didn't want

989
00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:24,800
Speaker 3: to hold on every day?

990
00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:28,160
Speaker 2: Hold on? I just want to be here of that

991
00:51:31,680 --> 00:51:37,239
Speaker 2: city and you made him where? Okay? Just making sure

992
00:51:37,280 --> 00:51:40,560
Speaker 2: I've taken his correct and what tricks did you do?

993
00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:44,319
Speaker 2: Got to find a Mexican man? The last Mexican men

994
00:51:44,400 --> 00:51:44,880
Speaker 2: are good.

995
00:51:45,960 --> 00:51:50,200
Speaker 1: You know, I've always Latin man and he is so

996
00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:53,839
Speaker 1: crazy and traumatized me for my own people's how.

997
00:51:53,760 --> 00:51:57,320
Speaker 2: Long were you with him? How old are you? Nineteenth? Okay,

998
00:51:57,360 --> 00:51:58,839
Speaker 2: well that doesn't count.

999
00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:01,959
Speaker 1: I was crazy all night to get very passionate. It's

1000
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:05,399
Speaker 1: so passionate. I think it was crazy crazy and I'm

1001
00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:07,960
Speaker 1: already crazy apparently, so.

1002
00:52:10,880 --> 00:52:13,000
Speaker 2: I'm just intense. I'm like, I don't do black or

1003
00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:15,520
Speaker 2: a white? Do you want to? Are we having children

1004
00:52:15,800 --> 00:52:26,000
Speaker 2: or are we having sex? I have to force to

1005
00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:32,320
Speaker 2: have that grayid. I'm good. I'm the Queen of Gray clearly.

1006
00:52:32,440 --> 00:52:36,040
Speaker 2: And then extremes the dash are extreme. Yeah, but that

1007
00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 2: happens a lot.

1008
00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:39,200
Speaker 6: We get in our head and we convince ourselves otherwise,

1009
00:52:39,400 --> 00:52:43,440
Speaker 6: and I think like we put a lot of pressure

1010
00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:45,520
Speaker 6: on like he needs to have this, and he needs

1011
00:52:45,520 --> 00:52:46,640
Speaker 6: to have that, and he needs to look like this,

1012
00:52:46,680 --> 00:52:49,959
Speaker 6: and we create these like lists, fantasy lists, and these

1013
00:52:50,080 --> 00:52:53,399
Speaker 6: men that it's just it's kind of unrealistic, and like.

1014
00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:54,319
Speaker 2: Do men do that?

1015
00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:56,239
Speaker 6: And like we wouldn't be okay with that, We would

1016
00:52:56,320 --> 00:52:58,279
Speaker 6: judge them so hard if they had this, you know.

1017
00:52:58,320 --> 00:53:00,719
Speaker 2: So how do you feel about manifest your man.

1018
00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:03,520
Speaker 3: I'm on the fence because I feel like, Okay, it

1019
00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:04,240
Speaker 3: goes either.

1020
00:53:04,040 --> 00:53:04,720
Speaker 2: Way with women.

1021
00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:10,480
Speaker 8: Either we delusionalize like he's wonderful, he's great, he loves me,

1022
00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:13,319
Speaker 8: you know what I'm saying, Like, and really he's not

1023
00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:15,800
Speaker 8: supportive and really you're expressing yourself and he continues to

1024
00:53:15,840 --> 00:53:18,319
Speaker 8: do the same shit over and over again, and really like,

1025
00:53:18,480 --> 00:53:20,000
Speaker 8: you're not even really being yourself.

1026
00:53:19,719 --> 00:53:21,680
Speaker 3: When you're with this person because you want to stay

1027
00:53:21,680 --> 00:53:23,279
Speaker 3: at the club all night. Doesn't align you know what

1028
00:53:23,320 --> 00:53:26,759
Speaker 3: I'm saying. Or it's either that extreme or were in

1029
00:53:26,800 --> 00:53:28,640
Speaker 3: a good place, but it doesn't like he's not exactly

1030
00:53:28,640 --> 00:53:29,280
Speaker 3: five eleven.

1031
00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:30,359
Speaker 2: Nope, can't do it.

1032
00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:34,040
Speaker 12: Yeah, you have to be willing to know what your

1033
00:53:34,280 --> 00:53:36,000
Speaker 12: your non negotiables.

1034
00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:40,359
Speaker 6: Yes, thank you, that's five. That's really what it is.

1035
00:53:40,440 --> 00:53:44,040
Speaker 6: It's those ones and then these ones that are like, Okay, yeah,

1036
00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:46,560
Speaker 6: I always like taller men. He's not as tall as

1037
00:53:46,560 --> 00:53:48,840
Speaker 6: I'd like. But I can deal with it, like you

1038
00:53:48,920 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 6: gotta know, like I don't know, m No, I agree.

1039
00:53:51,640 --> 00:53:55,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, so me and Jamila have really intense.

1040
00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:57,880
Speaker 3: Lists of Butana gonna add eats my pussy every time.

1041
00:54:01,320 --> 00:54:01,640
Speaker 8: You know what?

1042
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:10,600
Speaker 2: Every day is very clear underlying the whole highlight you

1043
00:54:10,760 --> 00:54:13,840
Speaker 2: better be hungry.

1044
00:54:16,040 --> 00:54:17,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean we have these lists of like think

1045
00:54:17,840 --> 00:54:20,560
Speaker 1: qualities that we want. Obviously, you write them down. I

1046
00:54:20,560 --> 00:54:21,920
Speaker 1: mean for me, like I write them all down.

1047
00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:22,280
Speaker 2: Obviously.

1048
00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:23,799
Speaker 1: I know I'm not going to get all of them,

1049
00:54:24,160 --> 00:54:26,520
Speaker 1: but at least if I start like putting out in

1050
00:54:26,560 --> 00:54:28,920
Speaker 1: the universe of things that actually and writing out what

1051
00:54:29,000 --> 00:54:31,080
Speaker 1: actually is important to me, because I think writing things

1052
00:54:31,120 --> 00:54:34,800
Speaker 1: down actually for me makes things Okay is that important

1053
00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:36,600
Speaker 1: to me? Or like is that something that someone told

1054
00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:40,080
Speaker 1: me was important? And like that's important why you know?

1055
00:54:40,160 --> 00:54:41,920
Speaker 1: And when I started writing things down, that's when I

1056
00:54:41,960 --> 00:54:45,719
Speaker 1: realized like, like, yeah, I want a guy that like

1057
00:54:46,640 --> 00:54:53,920
Speaker 1: has house, plants, living, love his family.

1058
00:54:54,320 --> 00:54:57,840
Speaker 3: You know, his house is clean, it has decorations and plants.

1059
00:54:57,920 --> 00:55:00,319
Speaker 2: Okay, we'll see you guys in a few years. Was

1060
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:03,239
Speaker 2: he was? He was important to me too.

1061
00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:07,239
Speaker 1: And then recently I have encountered to really short men

1062
00:55:07,360 --> 00:55:08,600
Speaker 1: that I was like.

1063
00:55:08,800 --> 00:55:10,960
Speaker 2: Okay, maybe it's not important to me because it's all

1064
00:55:11,000 --> 00:55:18,640
Speaker 2: about swag, Like I hate that word. Okay, Yeah, distracted

1065
00:55:18,640 --> 00:55:20,439
Speaker 2: me from the height. And I was like I could

1066
00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:22,880
Speaker 2: do this long term. And I was like so strange,

1067
00:55:22,920 --> 00:55:31,880
Speaker 2: what like what Dick can do? Yeahmatized interesting? One is

1068
00:55:31,920 --> 00:55:36,160
Speaker 2: one was five eighty and the other five to nine.

1069
00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:41,440
Speaker 2: How tall are you? There's two there's two little ones.

1070
00:55:43,080 --> 00:55:45,000
Speaker 2: Well there's a little one that's like from my past

1071
00:55:45,040 --> 00:55:47,480
Speaker 2: that comes back and oh okay, I remember.

1072
00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:49,840
Speaker 4: A little.

1073
00:55:52,680 --> 00:55:57,520
Speaker 2: We know does he listen to you know, but he's

1074
00:55:57,520 --> 00:55:59,880
Speaker 2: a great guy. I don't really discriminate that way, like

1075
00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:03,040
Speaker 2: and short, you know he's short. Sure, guys have pictics.

1076
00:56:03,080 --> 00:56:07,640
Speaker 2: I always say this. Wait, I didn't we just.

1077
00:56:07,600 --> 00:56:12,280
Speaker 6: Hear about this web dating website is called dinky donky.

1078
00:56:12,280 --> 00:56:17,440
Speaker 2: It's for men with small something. I'm gonna look it up.

1079
00:56:17,440 --> 00:56:22,560
Speaker 1: Why because they need to find love?

1080
00:56:22,920 --> 00:56:25,640
Speaker 2: Wait? Some women are like super Dawn for it. Hold

1081
00:56:25,680 --> 00:56:28,200
Speaker 2: on like it's a fetish. Maybe I didn't even clear.

1082
00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:34,960
Speaker 2: You know the women sign up? Yeah, dinky one, dinky one. Yeah,

1083
00:56:34,960 --> 00:56:38,719
Speaker 2: how dinky d I n k y one? Look at

1084
00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:43,200
Speaker 2: number one? Dinky one. Dinky one is the latest dating site.

1085
00:56:44,280 --> 00:56:46,799
Speaker 2: My god caters some men with small baggages.

1086
00:56:46,800 --> 00:56:48,440
Speaker 3: Well, it's probably just like it puts it out there

1087
00:56:48,480 --> 00:56:50,120
Speaker 3: up the front street, like do you like this or not?

1088
00:56:50,320 --> 00:56:51,600
Speaker 2: Because if you don't, let's just.

1089
00:56:52,640 --> 00:56:56,680
Speaker 6: Honestly, they're probably exhausted from all the dates, the disappoint

1090
00:56:56,800 --> 00:56:58,880
Speaker 6: Where the one with the big penis?

1091
00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:03,719
Speaker 2: Where's that I want? Donkey one. We're not shaming little penises.

1092
00:57:04,160 --> 00:57:08,560
Speaker 2: I'm looking. Why can't I say what my preferences without

1093
00:57:08,600 --> 00:57:11,239
Speaker 2: it being I'm shaming because it's your body. We're not.

1094
00:57:11,440 --> 00:57:12,239
Speaker 2: We're born in our body.

1095
00:57:12,239 --> 00:57:15,480
Speaker 1: I didn't shame ship. I just said what I prefer. Okay, well,

1096
00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:16,520
Speaker 1: I'm just saying.

1097
00:57:16,320 --> 00:57:19,760
Speaker 3: I'm telling you, sinky dan one, it's good for anal. Well,

1098
00:57:20,360 --> 00:57:25,280
Speaker 3: everybody has different strengths, and I'm just saying, don't discriminate

1099
00:57:25,320 --> 00:57:25,480
Speaker 3: on the.

1100
00:57:26,280 --> 00:57:30,760
Speaker 2: Little girls, but like women's little women. But i sid

1101
00:57:30,800 --> 00:57:34,560
Speaker 2: to clarify that I'm a little woman. Little women little

1102
00:57:37,560 --> 00:57:45,280
Speaker 2: I'm like, what the moto? Sorry? Sorry, you know what

1103
00:57:45,320 --> 00:57:47,919
Speaker 2: I mean. But that's also that little women can take

1104
00:57:47,960 --> 00:57:50,360
Speaker 2: big dicks. I'm here to speak for. I'm not saying

1105
00:57:50,400 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 2: that they can't. It's for the butt, for the butt, okay, anyway,

1106
00:57:55,080 --> 00:57:56,440
Speaker 2: I'm not no, do you want to flick your cards?

1107
00:57:56,480 --> 00:57:58,840
Speaker 2: Oh god?

1108
00:57:59,600 --> 00:58:02,640
Speaker 6: Okay, So this is the what the future past? Right,

1109
00:58:03,280 --> 00:58:05,960
Speaker 6: that's the past past Queen of Wands. And she has

1110
00:58:06,000 --> 00:58:10,680
Speaker 6: a black cat on there, which we had found cat.

1111
00:58:11,320 --> 00:58:14,360
Speaker 6: I like both animals. Yeah, there was a dead black

1112
00:58:14,360 --> 00:58:16,640
Speaker 6: cat in front of our condos.

1113
00:58:16,720 --> 00:58:19,680
Speaker 2: It's weird, right did you look at that girl, the neighbor.

1114
00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:21,560
Speaker 2: That's what we need to be looking out. It seemed

1115
00:58:21,560 --> 00:58:23,320
Speaker 2: like it got hit by a car and then somebody

1116
00:58:23,400 --> 00:58:25,320
Speaker 2: left it. You made to look at it recently, Yeah,

1117
00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:27,080
Speaker 2: you should have looked that up. That's like, I can't.

1118
00:58:27,280 --> 00:58:28,880
Speaker 2: I'm getting weird. I can't believe. Don't look it up.

1119
00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:32,800
Speaker 2: Immediately I was like, that's a weird omen. But no,

1120
00:58:33,360 --> 00:58:36,440
Speaker 2: I mean here it is again the black cat. Oh

1121
00:58:36,560 --> 00:58:39,960
Speaker 2: my god, I need to look into that. Okay, okay,

1122
00:58:40,360 --> 00:58:45,440
Speaker 2: oh god, it's okay once she's kind of black. Throughout

1123
00:58:45,480 --> 00:58:45,920
Speaker 2: this suit.

1124
00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:48,560
Speaker 3: The wands are always in leaf, as it is a

1125
00:58:48,600 --> 00:58:52,320
Speaker 3: suit of life and animation emotionally and otherwise. The queen's

1126
00:58:52,360 --> 00:58:55,480
Speaker 3: personality corresponds to that of the to that of the king,

1127
00:58:55,800 --> 00:58:57,960
Speaker 3: but is more magnetic always.

1128
00:58:58,440 --> 00:59:01,360
Speaker 5: Okay, I don't know if that means you have a

1129
00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:02,520
Speaker 5: magnetic let me see it.

1130
00:59:02,920 --> 00:59:06,040
Speaker 6: I mean, yeah, I don't need a card to tell

1131
00:59:06,120 --> 00:59:08,840
Speaker 6: me that.

1132
00:59:08,600 --> 00:59:11,960
Speaker 2: What does the cat mean? I don't know. We'll have

1133
00:59:12,000 --> 00:59:18,040
Speaker 2: to look that up later. I'm next.

1134
00:59:18,520 --> 00:59:26,840
Speaker 6: Okay, So this is present right, middle page of swords, swords, swords?

1135
00:59:28,000 --> 00:59:32,720
Speaker 2: What is it? Page of swords? Page of swords? A

1136
00:59:32,840 --> 00:59:34,880
Speaker 2: life belief? Can I read?

1137
00:59:34,920 --> 00:59:35,080
Speaker 6: Good?

1138
00:59:35,120 --> 00:59:38,400
Speaker 2: Okay? L I t h G. Right, it's really hard.

1139
00:59:39,200 --> 00:59:44,560
Speaker 2: They're using words. When I was reading it, I was like,

1140
00:59:44,680 --> 00:59:45,360
Speaker 2: do I not know?

1141
00:59:46,240 --> 00:59:50,520
Speaker 3: A life's active figure holds a sword upright in both hands? Well,

1142
00:59:50,560 --> 00:59:55,040
Speaker 3: in the act of Swiss walking, divinatory meanings, authority, overseeing,

1143
00:59:55,160 --> 00:59:59,680
Speaker 3: secret service, vigilance, spying, examination, and the qualities there to

1144
00:59:59,840 --> 01:00:00,440
Speaker 3: the longing.

1145
01:00:00,560 --> 01:00:06,320
Speaker 7: I can't sneak what's walking walking? Look through your man,

1146
01:00:06,680 --> 01:00:12,000
Speaker 7: I've been running lately. I've been running some information. Gadget

1147
01:00:12,000 --> 01:00:15,960
Speaker 7: over there? Want a mission? Yeah, maybe that's what diabates.

1148
01:00:16,440 --> 01:00:24,280
Speaker 7: Okay and future nothing. Joker is a joker?

1149
01:00:24,520 --> 01:00:30,320
Speaker 2: I don't know this is there a joke? Oh? Wait?

1150
01:00:30,400 --> 01:00:31,120
Speaker 2: Is it a magician?

1151
01:00:31,720 --> 01:00:37,600
Speaker 6: You need to say sure, this is me that that's

1152
01:00:37,640 --> 01:00:38,200
Speaker 6: the magician.

1153
01:00:39,160 --> 01:00:41,600
Speaker 2: There's literally no name on there. There's no name to

1154
01:00:41,600 --> 01:00:43,760
Speaker 2: any of these. We're like, just wait, okay, so I'm

1155
01:00:43,760 --> 01:00:45,960
Speaker 2: gonna google that. Okay, take a picture of that. If

1156
01:00:45,960 --> 01:00:48,200
Speaker 2: there's a number two on it, a Roman numeral too,

1157
01:00:48,440 --> 01:00:53,720
Speaker 2: I'm saving you. Please get off? Can't clean you clean?

1158
01:00:53,920 --> 01:00:59,960
Speaker 2: Not yet? Who told us to be reading? I don't

1159
01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:07,600
Speaker 2: trying to be original? Is that the fool? The fool?

1160
01:01:07,120 --> 01:01:07,160
Speaker 6: No?

1161
01:01:11,560 --> 01:01:13,640
Speaker 2: Because of these? What could it be? The full the world,

1162
01:01:13,680 --> 01:01:15,560
Speaker 2: the last, the world?

1163
01:01:15,720 --> 01:01:18,560
Speaker 1: Wait, the nigga with the two stars and the circles

1164
01:01:18,560 --> 01:01:22,520
Speaker 1: and the ball, I'm going to accept that if you're listening,

1165
01:01:22,600 --> 01:01:25,640
Speaker 1: it's the one with the two balls and it looks

1166
01:01:25,640 --> 01:01:27,160
Speaker 1: like with stars in them.

1167
01:01:27,200 --> 01:01:31,280
Speaker 13: It's either the magician or the it's the number two

1168
01:01:32,000 --> 01:01:36,480
Speaker 13: say anything. Okay, so I'm trying to I'm trying to

1169
01:01:36,480 --> 01:01:43,360
Speaker 13: find him. Well, let's let's move on. Two pinnacles.

1170
01:01:43,360 --> 01:01:46,360
Speaker 1: Oh I just made and it doesn't right here when

1171
01:01:46,360 --> 01:01:49,320
Speaker 1: it's about tell us your balance go with the flow

1172
01:01:49,320 --> 01:01:50,520
Speaker 1: of financial hardships.

1173
01:01:50,560 --> 01:01:58,160
Speaker 14: Oh great, these are your cards anyway. Wait, I feel

1174
01:01:58,280 --> 01:02:01,880
Speaker 14: highly discouraged. Get that out of it.

1175
01:02:02,800 --> 01:02:04,919
Speaker 2: I did look the meaning up of finding a dead

1176
01:02:04,920 --> 01:02:08,760
Speaker 2: black cat. Okay, that's okay, dead cat meaning time for

1177
01:02:08,880 --> 01:02:13,320
Speaker 2: internal review. Okay, yeah, okay, let's see.

1178
01:02:13,880 --> 01:02:16,360
Speaker 5: If it's a black cat, it could be seen as

1179
01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:19,720
Speaker 5: good luck, symbolizing the cleansing of negative energy.

1180
01:02:21,200 --> 01:02:21,680
Speaker 3: You know what I mean.

1181
01:02:21,800 --> 01:02:24,800
Speaker 2: That's actually kind of beautiful it is. Yeah, well, I

1182
01:02:24,800 --> 01:02:33,240
Speaker 2: love that. We'll accept the good Oh my god. That's yeah,

1183
01:02:33,400 --> 01:02:36,560
Speaker 2: that's funny. We're rather witchy over here, you know.

1184
01:02:36,560 --> 01:02:40,280
Speaker 3: We're all about the deeper meaning we We had a

1185
01:02:40,320 --> 01:02:43,080
Speaker 3: witch party this year manifestation which dinner.

1186
01:02:44,720 --> 01:02:49,200
Speaker 2: To your next witches.

1187
01:02:49,240 --> 01:02:56,640
Speaker 3: It was very in the backyard, having a second annual

1188
01:02:56,760 --> 01:02:57,960
Speaker 3: to the high demand.

1189
01:03:00,680 --> 01:03:04,040
Speaker 2: Second annual, which dinner. I love to throw a party,

1190
01:03:04,040 --> 01:03:07,080
Speaker 2: so put all the planning. Oh my god, I love

1191
01:03:07,080 --> 01:03:10,920
Speaker 2: a costume. I have a planner. We've recruited all of

1192
01:03:10,920 --> 01:03:11,880
Speaker 2: our planning friends.

1193
01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:15,120
Speaker 3: Shout out to Nisha at elevated room events.

1194
01:03:15,600 --> 01:03:17,200
Speaker 2: I have one final question for you guys.

1195
01:03:17,320 --> 01:03:20,480
Speaker 1: Yes, okay, because you guys are both in relationships, how

1196
01:03:20,520 --> 01:03:23,200
Speaker 1: do you because I struggled with this in my relationship

1197
01:03:23,720 --> 01:03:25,480
Speaker 1: we were together for seven years.

1198
01:03:25,520 --> 01:03:27,800
Speaker 2: How do you keep it? Like? How do you keep

1199
01:03:27,800 --> 01:03:28,360
Speaker 2: it spicy?

1200
01:03:28,640 --> 01:03:28,720
Speaker 6: Like?

1201
01:03:28,760 --> 01:03:31,280
Speaker 1: How do you keep especially you because you've been in

1202
01:03:31,280 --> 01:03:33,320
Speaker 1: a relationship for you said fourteen years?

1203
01:03:33,360 --> 01:03:37,040
Speaker 2: Like, how do you reinvent? Do you do? You reinvent

1204
01:03:37,080 --> 01:03:40,960
Speaker 2: the relationship? Yes, you always have to. We have.

1205
01:03:42,480 --> 01:03:44,760
Speaker 5: What is the word, I don't want to say, an advantage,

1206
01:03:44,800 --> 01:03:48,439
Speaker 5: but we have very attractive.

1207
01:03:48,040 --> 01:03:57,480
Speaker 3: No, no, she's getting ahead everything.

1208
01:03:59,160 --> 01:04:03,840
Speaker 2: No, No, I've claiming that claiming girl, I would.

1209
01:04:05,120 --> 01:04:07,520
Speaker 5: No, I'm saying as far as our work goes, there's

1210
01:04:07,560 --> 01:04:08,800
Speaker 5: a lot of traveling involved.

1211
01:04:09,120 --> 01:04:11,480
Speaker 2: So what helps to keep thing spicy.

1212
01:04:11,120 --> 01:04:13,640
Speaker 5: Is we're in different places a lot right, you know,

1213
01:04:13,760 --> 01:04:16,160
Speaker 5: so it makes the heart right. And then also when

1214
01:04:16,200 --> 01:04:20,480
Speaker 5: we're together in different places, it's like, oh, that's an

1215
01:04:20,480 --> 01:04:23,760
Speaker 5: advantage where we can like I feel like we're somewhere

1216
01:04:23,800 --> 01:04:24,640
Speaker 5: new and fun.

1217
01:04:24,680 --> 01:04:27,080
Speaker 2: And different. But when we're home and.

1218
01:04:27,040 --> 01:04:30,880
Speaker 5: He's been home now for probably like two years, just

1219
01:04:30,920 --> 01:04:31,800
Speaker 5: recording and working.

1220
01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:34,760
Speaker 2: What keeps it spicy?

1221
01:04:35,040 --> 01:04:39,360
Speaker 5: Uh, definitely sex toys. We're definitely into all of that.

1222
01:04:40,120 --> 01:04:42,760
Speaker 5: We watch porn together. That keeps things spicy.

1223
01:04:43,800 --> 01:04:47,400
Speaker 6: What else do you guys like the same kind of porn?

1224
01:04:48,200 --> 01:04:48,400
Speaker 2: Whatever?

1225
01:04:48,520 --> 01:04:50,320
Speaker 1: I was if you like, what if you and your

1226
01:04:50,360 --> 01:04:52,760
Speaker 1: partners don't align?

1227
01:04:53,080 --> 01:04:54,440
Speaker 2: Because actually this was a problem.

1228
01:04:54,520 --> 01:04:57,240
Speaker 1: One of my friends friends had this issue because her

1229
01:04:57,680 --> 01:05:00,600
Speaker 1: dude was into like torture porn, remember, but it was

1230
01:05:00,640 --> 01:05:04,280
Speaker 1: like cartoon torture porn, like the weird alien ship where

1231
01:05:04,440 --> 01:05:07,280
Speaker 1: there's where there's like tentacles and he like grabs the

1232
01:05:07,320 --> 01:05:09,920
Speaker 1: girl and I can't imagine he wants to watch that.

1233
01:05:10,160 --> 01:05:11,840
Speaker 1: And they were together for so long and then she

1234
01:05:11,880 --> 01:05:13,959
Speaker 1: found that out and they like changed their relationship.

1235
01:05:14,120 --> 01:05:19,360
Speaker 2: Wow, really, let's talk about yeah too. I feel like, okay, you're.

1236
01:05:21,760 --> 01:05:28,480
Speaker 6: Like, okay, okay, try it did completely change the relationships.

1237
01:05:28,480 --> 01:05:30,160
Speaker 2: Well. She was also kind of what she realizes that

1238
01:05:30,160 --> 01:05:32,000
Speaker 2: he was addicted to porn too, and then.

1239
01:05:32,080 --> 01:05:34,800
Speaker 1: That's kind of poorn too. She was like, Okay, you're

1240
01:05:34,800 --> 01:05:37,080
Speaker 1: a dick. You're always watching this ship and you're watching

1241
01:05:37,120 --> 01:05:37,680
Speaker 1: this ship.

1242
01:05:37,640 --> 01:05:42,439
Speaker 2: Right, Well, that's a problems. But I don't know. Wait,

1243
01:05:42,480 --> 01:05:45,240
Speaker 2: we had this whole conversation last night, so weird really

1244
01:05:46,160 --> 01:05:51,640
Speaker 2: about porn about our sex life, like and so.

1245
01:05:51,840 --> 01:05:56,400
Speaker 6: I I don't know what the key is, but I

1246
01:05:56,440 --> 01:06:00,000
Speaker 6: think like, either way, you have to be constantly communicating,

1247
01:06:01,000 --> 01:06:01,960
Speaker 6: and I think.

1248
01:06:01,760 --> 01:06:03,880
Speaker 2: That that's always so uncomfortable.

1249
01:06:03,920 --> 01:06:04,240
Speaker 9: It is.

1250
01:06:04,600 --> 01:06:04,960
Speaker 2: It is.

1251
01:06:05,000 --> 01:06:07,080
Speaker 6: And there was something that I had held from him

1252
01:06:07,080 --> 01:06:09,800
Speaker 6: since the beginning that had happened in the beginning that

1253
01:06:09,880 --> 01:06:11,959
Speaker 6: kind of threw me off that I kept thinking about

1254
01:06:12,000 --> 01:06:12,840
Speaker 6: and held on to.

1255
01:06:13,640 --> 01:06:16,200
Speaker 2: And I finally told him last night, and he's like,

1256
01:06:16,320 --> 01:06:19,760
Speaker 2: why didn't you just tell me this? Yeah, Like it

1257
01:06:19,760 --> 01:06:21,600
Speaker 2: wasn't a big deal and I'd rather not say.

1258
01:06:21,400 --> 01:06:26,800
Speaker 6: But yeah, but it was something that was like fucking

1259
01:06:26,920 --> 01:06:30,800
Speaker 6: me up mentally in a way that it was in

1260
01:06:30,880 --> 01:06:33,360
Speaker 6: turn affecting parts of our sex left, not to the

1261
01:06:33,400 --> 01:06:35,200
Speaker 6: point where it was bad or it was you know,

1262
01:06:35,280 --> 01:06:37,440
Speaker 6: anything like that, but just there was like a hold

1263
01:06:37,480 --> 01:06:41,080
Speaker 6: back on certain and so we talked it out last

1264
01:06:41,160 --> 01:06:45,200
Speaker 6: night and I feel like a million times better, you know.

1265
01:06:45,440 --> 01:06:48,240
Speaker 6: And I also too, like what him and I talk

1266
01:06:48,280 --> 01:06:51,360
Speaker 6: about is that men think that they're great at sex?

1267
01:06:52,480 --> 01:06:53,800
Speaker 2: Do they all got?

1268
01:06:54,160 --> 01:06:57,040
Speaker 3: Most men think and most of them are referencing porn,

1269
01:06:57,080 --> 01:06:58,920
Speaker 3: which is exactly okay.

1270
01:06:59,080 --> 01:07:02,640
Speaker 2: So there's that part, and then there their track record

1271
01:07:02,680 --> 01:07:03,640
Speaker 2: of history.

1272
01:07:03,360 --> 01:07:06,200
Speaker 6: Of women that don't tell them anything. So when they're

1273
01:07:06,200 --> 01:07:09,480
Speaker 6: not doing it right, they're not knowing. And also it's

1274
01:07:09,520 --> 01:07:11,440
Speaker 6: not even a matter of doing it right or wrong.

1275
01:07:11,760 --> 01:07:15,120
Speaker 6: Every woman is different and likes to be pleased differently,

1276
01:07:15,920 --> 01:07:18,120
Speaker 6: and so it's like you got to learn the code,

1277
01:07:18,680 --> 01:07:22,520
Speaker 6: you know, to got to code, and that takes talking

1278
01:07:22,560 --> 01:07:25,000
Speaker 6: about it, yes, and so in turn, you have to

1279
01:07:25,000 --> 01:07:27,760
Speaker 6: know what turns you on and be comfortable with your sex,

1280
01:07:28,080 --> 01:07:29,840
Speaker 6: your sexuality.

1281
01:07:29,200 --> 01:07:31,960
Speaker 2: And and what you like, and you know what works

1282
01:07:32,000 --> 01:07:33,080
Speaker 2: for you, so you can.

1283
01:07:32,960 --> 01:07:36,440
Speaker 6: Then communicate that to them because they have no fucking clue.

1284
01:07:36,680 --> 01:07:37,520
Speaker 2: And I think that people.

1285
01:07:37,560 --> 01:07:40,640
Speaker 3: I think people just such a disservice to themselves by

1286
01:07:40,880 --> 01:07:44,760
Speaker 3: being too scared to communicate their fetishies, their fantasies, because

1287
01:07:44,760 --> 01:07:46,880
Speaker 3: you know how often I haven't like hit me up

1288
01:07:46,960 --> 01:07:49,040
Speaker 3: like yeah, I'm happy, but like you know that thing

1289
01:07:49,080 --> 01:07:50,080
Speaker 3: you did, or like I'm.

1290
01:07:49,920 --> 01:07:54,280
Speaker 4: Like, nigga, you calling me for like I think you did.

1291
01:07:58,240 --> 01:08:04,120
Speaker 12: They don't wild guess I'm just saying like and we

1292
01:08:04,240 --> 01:08:07,400
Speaker 12: even like I just know a lot of people with

1293
01:08:07,480 --> 01:08:11,959
Speaker 12: some secret fucking shite long term relationships not communicating that ship.

1294
01:08:12,440 --> 01:08:15,360
Speaker 3: Then you become obsessive fantasizing about it to the point

1295
01:08:15,360 --> 01:08:17,080
Speaker 3: where I know, like you could be having sex with

1296
01:08:17,120 --> 01:08:19,519
Speaker 3: someone and totally thinking of a completely different scenario in

1297
01:08:19,520 --> 01:08:22,960
Speaker 3: your head. Yeah, because you are depriving yourself of you know,

1298
01:08:23,160 --> 01:08:25,000
Speaker 3: and you think you can cope about it, but then

1299
01:08:25,040 --> 01:08:26,559
Speaker 3: you're craving someone or something.

1300
01:08:26,640 --> 01:08:28,719
Speaker 1: You also have to have a partner that's receptive, because

1301
01:08:28,760 --> 01:08:31,200
Speaker 1: some people don't share because either their partner hasn't been

1302
01:08:31,240 --> 01:08:35,320
Speaker 1: receptive or like, yeah, it's been like a like a

1303
01:08:35,360 --> 01:08:38,000
Speaker 1: difficult conversation in their relationship in the past right now,

1304
01:08:38,120 --> 01:08:39,240
Speaker 1: so they feel like they can't.

1305
01:08:39,360 --> 01:08:40,960
Speaker 2: Well that's a red flag. That's I hate to be

1306
01:08:41,000 --> 01:08:43,400
Speaker 2: your partner. Sex is important, it is. That's the same,

1307
01:08:43,439 --> 01:08:44,920
Speaker 2: and that's something that she does.

1308
01:08:45,200 --> 01:08:47,400
Speaker 1: Some people make rules, but like deal with themselves, like

1309
01:08:47,479 --> 01:08:49,960
Speaker 1: is it important, like my partner has this, this, and this.

1310
01:08:50,520 --> 01:08:52,120
Speaker 1: Can I compromise that depends.

1311
01:08:51,800 --> 01:08:55,320
Speaker 2: On I can't. I can't. I can't either, And I

1312
01:08:55,360 --> 01:08:57,439
Speaker 2: think a lot of people are lying to themselves if

1313
01:08:57,479 --> 01:08:58,160
Speaker 2: they say they can't.

1314
01:08:58,240 --> 01:09:02,519
Speaker 3: Exactly, it's a number two like it's enough for money, yep,

1315
01:09:04,120 --> 01:09:06,920
Speaker 3: for divorce sex, Yeah.

1316
01:09:06,320 --> 01:09:08,200
Speaker 2: It makes sense, you know, and then and then it

1317
01:09:08,280 --> 01:09:09,360
Speaker 2: leads to infidelity.

1318
01:09:09,439 --> 01:09:12,559
Speaker 6: Like you said, they're obsessing about it, and so you know,

1319
01:09:12,600 --> 01:09:14,800
Speaker 6: I think a lot of people judge their.

1320
01:09:14,880 --> 01:09:18,040
Speaker 1: Own finishes, Yes, they judge them. Do you think that

1321
01:09:18,120 --> 01:09:20,479
Speaker 1: you'll have a good sex in your relationship forever? Like,

1322
01:09:20,520 --> 01:09:23,240
Speaker 1: do you think that? No?

1323
01:09:23,240 --> 01:09:26,600
Speaker 2: No, I think I think all the people think like

1324
01:09:26,640 --> 01:09:27,320
Speaker 2: they have the best.

1325
01:09:27,360 --> 01:09:29,759
Speaker 1: Like I've had relationships where I have the best sex,

1326
01:09:29,800 --> 01:09:31,479
Speaker 1: and then I'm like, what's changed?

1327
01:09:31,960 --> 01:09:32,880
Speaker 2: Were the same person?

1328
01:09:32,920 --> 01:09:36,280
Speaker 1: It's because something with our like something's not flowing right

1329
01:09:36,360 --> 01:09:39,280
Speaker 1: with us, and therefore it affects our sex abs and

1330
01:09:39,320 --> 01:09:41,679
Speaker 1: then once you said, and then once that shift happens,

1331
01:09:41,680 --> 01:09:44,080
Speaker 1: and then it's good again. That's how you know, Like, yeah,

1332
01:09:44,120 --> 01:09:46,719
Speaker 1: you're not going to always have the best sex realistic.

1333
01:09:46,800 --> 01:09:49,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's a relationship period. It's not going to be

1334
01:09:49,840 --> 01:09:52,280
Speaker 6: great the whole time, right, And you have to know that.

1335
01:09:52,479 --> 01:09:54,360
Speaker 6: You have to know, like, okay, can we weather the

1336
01:09:54,400 --> 01:09:58,000
Speaker 6: storms together? Pay attention to how you guys fight. Are

1337
01:09:58,040 --> 01:09:59,599
Speaker 6: you cool with the way that you fight?

1338
01:09:59,720 --> 01:10:02,479
Speaker 2: Right? No, that's a big one. Yeah, because you're.

1339
01:10:02,280 --> 01:10:04,800
Speaker 6: Gonna fight from time to time, and like does your

1340
01:10:04,840 --> 01:10:08,200
Speaker 6: fighting style match each other because Omar and I like

1341
01:10:08,280 --> 01:10:12,280
Speaker 6: we honestly never really fight, like no, I'm this relationship

1342
01:10:12,280 --> 01:10:16,800
Speaker 6: sounds crazy, but it's true, it's my truth. And when

1343
01:10:16,840 --> 01:10:20,000
Speaker 6: we do, we've learned how to like, Okay, this is

1344
01:10:20,040 --> 01:10:21,479
Speaker 6: what we're gonna do. These are the steps, and then

1345
01:10:21,520 --> 01:10:23,720
Speaker 6: we come back and we talk about it, right, and

1346
01:10:23,760 --> 01:10:27,519
Speaker 6: then it helps us move on and we usually sometimes

1347
01:10:27,520 --> 01:10:30,120
Speaker 6: that that topic will keep coming up because we haven't

1348
01:10:30,160 --> 01:10:38,280
Speaker 6: really fixed it or talking talking, so we're talking, we

1349
01:10:38,840 --> 01:10:40,479
Speaker 6: got it all out, you know what I mean.

1350
01:10:40,600 --> 01:10:43,479
Speaker 5: So you haven't personally moved on from yes, yeah, so

1351
01:10:43,520 --> 01:10:46,320
Speaker 5: there's are issues with it, you know, but I think

1352
01:10:46,520 --> 01:10:48,160
Speaker 5: like that's something that I've learned too.

1353
01:10:48,320 --> 01:10:51,000
Speaker 6: And then that came from when you go through a

1354
01:10:51,040 --> 01:10:53,719
Speaker 6: long term relationship like you did, Like you know, you

1355
01:10:53,840 --> 01:10:56,360
Speaker 6: learn so much when you get out of it because

1356
01:10:56,400 --> 01:11:01,360
Speaker 6: you're like, okay, what happened, Like you gotta analyze ship

1357
01:11:01,479 --> 01:11:04,599
Speaker 6: and no, And I did that. So I really put

1358
01:11:04,640 --> 01:11:07,120
Speaker 6: in the homework on myself and what I wanted.

1359
01:11:07,320 --> 01:11:09,439
Speaker 2: So when I met Omar, it was a.

1360
01:11:09,320 --> 01:11:12,880
Speaker 6: Lot easier because I communicated everything from the get go.

1361
01:11:13,120 --> 01:11:14,720
Speaker 6: This is what I learned about myself, this is what

1362
01:11:14,800 --> 01:11:16,960
Speaker 6: I want, this, this is I'm not going to settle

1363
01:11:16,960 --> 01:11:18,360
Speaker 6: for this blah blah blah.

1364
01:11:18,439 --> 01:11:21,600
Speaker 2: And it's really helped me out a lot and him because.

1365
01:11:21,360 --> 01:11:24,439
Speaker 6: Then he's clear on what I want and he's super

1366
01:11:24,920 --> 01:11:26,360
Speaker 6: down to fulfill those needs.

1367
01:11:26,600 --> 01:11:26,880
Speaker 2: Right.

1368
01:11:26,960 --> 01:11:30,639
Speaker 5: So, and does that since you're so communicative, does that

1369
01:11:31,600 --> 01:11:33,040
Speaker 5: inspire him to be.

1370
01:11:33,280 --> 01:11:37,000
Speaker 2: It's because you open. He wasn't before, and he was

1371
01:11:37,040 --> 01:11:39,120
Speaker 2: a relationship with girls that just didn't say ship.

1372
01:11:39,240 --> 01:11:41,640
Speaker 6: He did a lot of white girls not to say that,

1373
01:11:41,720 --> 01:11:44,719
Speaker 6: they not to say that, they don't, but these.

1374
01:11:44,479 --> 01:11:47,840
Speaker 2: They don't tailor they don't voice that hear me.

1375
01:11:48,080 --> 01:11:53,759
Speaker 1: These particular ones, these.

1376
01:11:52,200 --> 01:12:01,720
Speaker 2: Particular or not personally. It's true, It's true. Well, so

1377
01:12:01,960 --> 01:12:03,759
Speaker 2: very different from you, very different.

1378
01:12:03,880 --> 01:12:06,320
Speaker 6: But yeah, he wasn't a communicator, Okay, So I had

1379
01:12:06,360 --> 01:12:08,040
Speaker 6: to teach him that and I had to look, we

1380
01:12:08,040 --> 01:12:09,559
Speaker 6: got to talk about this ship and he was like, oh,

1381
01:12:09,600 --> 01:12:11,240
Speaker 6: we always got to talk about things like there was

1382
01:12:11,280 --> 01:12:12,200
Speaker 6: pushback in the beginning.

1383
01:12:12,240 --> 01:12:16,040
Speaker 3: You're gonna talk about that talk again, that feelings.

1384
01:12:16,920 --> 01:12:17,719
Speaker 2: Can we talk again?

1385
01:12:18,240 --> 01:12:18,439
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1386
01:12:18,920 --> 01:12:20,120
Speaker 2: So but what you.

1387
01:12:20,080 --> 01:12:22,760
Speaker 3: Said about like how you argue like even oh damn,

1388
01:12:22,840 --> 01:12:23,639
Speaker 3: going to talk about it.

1389
01:12:23,600 --> 01:12:25,000
Speaker 2: Again and not like fucking witch.

1390
01:12:25,520 --> 01:12:28,559
Speaker 3: Yeah, for you know, like if there there's there's something

1391
01:12:28,640 --> 01:12:29,759
Speaker 3: those are like deal breakers.

1392
01:12:30,000 --> 01:12:31,920
Speaker 2: How we argue is big, you know, like I can

1393
01:12:31,960 --> 01:12:32,320
Speaker 2: deal with.

1394
01:12:32,280 --> 01:12:36,200
Speaker 3: Somebody push back in my deep emotional conversations every other day.

1395
01:12:36,479 --> 01:12:38,360
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna butter your rapp. We're gonna have the

1396
01:12:38,360 --> 01:12:42,320
Speaker 2: conversation either way, but you know I'm getting I'm gonna

1397
01:12:42,360 --> 01:12:48,200
Speaker 2: talk deeply table like waiting, You're gonna look me in

1398
01:12:48,200 --> 01:12:59,519
Speaker 2: my eyes? What was that? You better cry? Oh my god? Yeah,

1399
01:12:59,600 --> 01:13:03,759
Speaker 2: so yeah, it's crazy. I actually didn't have that discovery

1400
01:13:03,800 --> 01:13:04,400
Speaker 2: tool right now.

1401
01:13:06,880 --> 01:13:08,280
Speaker 6: Just like came to me and I was like, you know,

1402
01:13:08,360 --> 01:13:11,200
Speaker 6: you really do got to know how to like if

1403
01:13:11,240 --> 01:13:13,600
Speaker 6: you're cool with the way they fight, and yeah, you

1404
01:13:13,640 --> 01:13:14,400
Speaker 6: know what I mean, Like.

1405
01:13:14,720 --> 01:13:18,000
Speaker 1: That's true fighting does because you think you love someone

1406
01:13:18,000 --> 01:13:20,240
Speaker 1: and then you fight that you get an argument and

1407
01:13:20,280 --> 01:13:23,280
Speaker 1: they can be like the most crazy, disrespectful, like out

1408
01:13:23,280 --> 01:13:23,679
Speaker 1: of the blue.

1409
01:13:23,760 --> 01:13:26,200
Speaker 2: You're like, whoa, this is how you fight and you're

1410
01:13:26,240 --> 01:13:32,519
Speaker 2: like this, like not I mean any of them. And

1411
01:13:33,080 --> 01:13:35,679
Speaker 2: people are like that where like the words mean nothing.

1412
01:13:36,000 --> 01:13:38,559
Speaker 2: They just know and then they're fine the next day.

1413
01:13:38,800 --> 01:13:41,439
Speaker 2: They want you to be fine, and some people want that,

1414
01:13:42,240 --> 01:13:46,200
Speaker 2: but some people are you the reflex. We did that once.

1415
01:13:49,160 --> 01:13:52,920
Speaker 2: It's called gas flighting. It's a fucking crazy exactly, trust me.

1416
01:13:53,120 --> 01:13:57,000
Speaker 2: You know, yeah, you have baby daddy PTSD. I do

1417
01:13:57,080 --> 01:14:02,880
Speaker 2: have baby daddy PTSD bd PTSD. It's real, Ladies, is

1418
01:14:02,880 --> 01:14:03,479
Speaker 2: a curable.

1419
01:14:04,360 --> 01:14:08,080
Speaker 11: I don't know any remedies, Please send them in.

1420
01:14:09,160 --> 01:14:16,920
Speaker 2: Are you trying to have kids soon? I would say soon. No,

1421
01:14:17,560 --> 01:14:20,960
Speaker 2: probably in like a couple of years. I need. I'm

1422
01:14:21,000 --> 01:14:23,599
Speaker 2: not going to say planning. We're not. It's been talked

1423
01:14:23,640 --> 01:14:27,000
Speaker 2: about and actually more frequently. Are you on birth control?

1424
01:14:27,200 --> 01:14:31,800
Speaker 2: I am? Yeah, you should be. Yes, you pull it.

1425
01:14:31,840 --> 01:14:34,280
Speaker 6: Out a little bit before the time that you're like

1426
01:14:34,400 --> 01:14:36,679
Speaker 6: I'm ready, because what if it takes you a while

1427
01:14:36,720 --> 01:14:38,280
Speaker 6: to get pregnant, Just like what if?

1428
01:14:38,479 --> 01:14:41,040
Speaker 2: What if? Yeah, I'm already over it.

1429
01:14:41,160 --> 01:14:46,280
Speaker 3: I'm over this, Like, no, id the date date, there's

1430
01:14:46,320 --> 01:14:47,559
Speaker 3: no pregnant date.

1431
01:14:48,680 --> 01:14:52,679
Speaker 2: So did you guys? Were yours planned? No? Okay, they're

1432
01:14:52,760 --> 01:14:53,360
Speaker 2: also not.

1433
01:14:53,720 --> 01:14:56,320
Speaker 1: This is just I was on vacation, living my best,

1434
01:14:56,680 --> 01:14:57,960
Speaker 1: unprotected life.

1435
01:15:00,320 --> 01:15:03,400
Speaker 2: And then like, what do you mean I wasn't.

1436
01:15:03,640 --> 01:15:05,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like, it wasn't like that. But I

1437
01:15:05,800 --> 01:15:10,240
Speaker 1: was definitely like I cried, God, we don't even live

1438
01:15:10,280 --> 01:15:13,000
Speaker 1: in the same state. Oh wow, I mean, because at

1439
01:15:13,000 --> 01:15:14,360
Speaker 1: that point I was like, where are we even together?

1440
01:15:14,479 --> 01:15:15,920
Speaker 2: Are we together? I think we're together?

1441
01:15:16,160 --> 01:15:19,160
Speaker 1: God, yeah, We've been together for like five years at

1442
01:15:19,200 --> 01:15:21,639
Speaker 1: that point, but i'd moved away. But I also knew

1443
01:15:21,640 --> 01:15:23,960
Speaker 1: that I loved him and that like we were at

1444
01:15:23,960 --> 01:15:26,360
Speaker 1: the age I felt like at the time that I

1445
01:15:26,439 --> 01:15:28,760
Speaker 1: was like, you know what, this would be irresponsible, right

1446
01:15:29,000 --> 01:15:32,720
Speaker 1: the long twenty seven Okay, we've been together for like

1447
01:15:32,760 --> 01:15:33,439
Speaker 1: five years.

1448
01:15:34,040 --> 01:15:35,160
Speaker 2: I was like, I know, I love him.

1449
01:15:36,000 --> 01:15:39,400
Speaker 1: You know, we had gone through something before and I

1450
01:15:39,479 --> 01:15:40,400
Speaker 1: was like, I can't do that.

1451
01:15:40,439 --> 01:15:44,599
Speaker 2: I'm not doing that again. So and obviously there's no regrets.

1452
01:15:44,640 --> 01:15:49,120
Speaker 2: It's just I you know, it was not planned that

1453
01:15:49,120 --> 01:15:51,839
Speaker 2: at all. And I didn't even like kids, to be honest,

1454
01:15:51,880 --> 01:15:53,920
Speaker 2: and now I love them. I love them.

1455
01:15:53,920 --> 01:15:54,400
Speaker 5: There you go.

1456
01:15:54,680 --> 01:15:58,760
Speaker 2: I don't even like this, I do. That's so funny.

1457
01:15:58,960 --> 01:15:59,800
Speaker 2: You want to have kids?

1458
01:16:00,400 --> 01:16:08,720
Speaker 6: Yeah, I like heard it.

1459
01:16:09,800 --> 01:16:11,320
Speaker 2: We talk about this all the time.

1460
01:16:11,479 --> 01:16:14,360
Speaker 6: I'm like on the the teeter tatter because it's like

1461
01:16:15,240 --> 01:16:18,559
Speaker 6: I'm getting into this dangerous red zone of like this

1462
01:16:18,640 --> 01:16:19,880
Speaker 6: is so fun and.

1463
01:16:19,800 --> 01:16:23,840
Speaker 2: This is so great, and do I want to flip

1464
01:16:23,880 --> 01:16:24,759
Speaker 2: it upside down?

1465
01:16:24,920 --> 01:16:28,040
Speaker 3: You know what I mean, Like this ship gets flipped, yeah,

1466
01:16:29,520 --> 01:16:32,680
Speaker 3: flip yeah.

1467
01:16:32,720 --> 01:16:36,400
Speaker 2: So yeah, that's I don't know he he feels the

1468
01:16:36,479 --> 01:16:36,920
Speaker 2: same way.

1469
01:16:36,920 --> 01:16:39,160
Speaker 6: We're on the same page, and I think eventually, what's

1470
01:16:39,200 --> 01:16:41,160
Speaker 6: just gonna happen is I'm gonna pop that ring out

1471
01:16:41,200 --> 01:16:43,639
Speaker 6: and we're just gonna see what happened.

1472
01:16:44,720 --> 01:16:49,280
Speaker 7: You're gonna pop the ring out my ring.

1473
01:16:49,600 --> 01:16:51,960
Speaker 2: I thought you propose to him because a whole what

1474
01:16:52,120 --> 01:16:58,400
Speaker 2: you ever propose to? Okay, right, I'm not that. I'm

1475
01:16:58,400 --> 01:17:01,679
Speaker 2: all about like, you know, we same ship, right, but

1476
01:17:01,920 --> 01:17:03,559
Speaker 2: we're getting done on Wow.

1477
01:17:04,080 --> 01:17:06,599
Speaker 6: Yeah, there's just something that it's not the same, that

1478
01:17:06,640 --> 01:17:10,160
Speaker 6: tradition feels like it needs to step and there's something

1479
01:17:10,200 --> 01:17:13,280
Speaker 6: about even courting a woman losing.

1480
01:17:14,600 --> 01:17:16,960
Speaker 1: I have a whole episode how I feel like like

1481
01:17:17,280 --> 01:17:19,280
Speaker 1: dating has changed so much and now women are courting

1482
01:17:19,320 --> 01:17:21,640
Speaker 1: men because it's just so I don't know, I mean,

1483
01:17:21,720 --> 01:17:25,120
Speaker 1: it's just the strangest dynamic out here. Like men don't

1484
01:17:25,120 --> 01:17:26,920
Speaker 1: feel like they have to work as hard because we've

1485
01:17:27,800 --> 01:17:31,240
Speaker 1: empowered ourselves, and they feel like, well then fine, you

1486
01:17:31,280 --> 01:17:33,639
Speaker 1: want to be empowered, then yeah, we don't.

1487
01:17:33,479 --> 01:17:35,360
Speaker 2: Have to do that anymore. And I'm like, what, that's

1488
01:17:35,360 --> 01:17:36,559
Speaker 2: not what this That's what I said.

1489
01:17:36,720 --> 01:17:37,000
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1490
01:17:37,280 --> 01:17:38,760
Speaker 2: I didn't say you don't open my door.

1491
01:17:38,800 --> 01:17:41,880
Speaker 1: I didn't say, like, bitch, ass is going, yeah, they

1492
01:17:41,920 --> 01:17:45,479
Speaker 1: don't stand They're like you could be strong and like

1493
01:17:45,520 --> 01:17:47,240
Speaker 1: the yea, they can't comprehend it.

1494
01:17:48,479 --> 01:17:50,800
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. While I was telling her the other day

1495
01:17:50,840 --> 01:17:54,120
Speaker 2: when I was from the makeup artists and I had.

1496
01:17:53,960 --> 01:17:56,280
Speaker 1: My beautiful makeup by the way, I'm always looking at

1497
01:17:56,680 --> 01:17:59,280
Speaker 1: heard and then I just stalking your page on.

1498
01:18:00,000 --> 01:18:02,760
Speaker 2: I want you to guy, never hit me an, I

1499
01:18:02,760 --> 01:18:04,160
Speaker 2: got to get you some products and all that.

1500
01:18:07,160 --> 01:18:10,960
Speaker 6: I'm downb I take it off. But I had my kid,

1501
01:18:11,080 --> 01:18:12,800
Speaker 6: I had my water drunk. I mean, I had my

1502
01:18:12,840 --> 01:18:15,120
Speaker 6: hands full, and I was by myself, and I had

1503
01:18:15,120 --> 01:18:17,560
Speaker 6: to walk down this huge flight of stairs because I

1504
01:18:17,600 --> 01:18:20,000
Speaker 6: had no the choice. So I'm carrying everything. I get

1505
01:18:20,040 --> 01:18:23,040
Speaker 6: to the bottom and then the door opens and there's

1506
01:18:23,160 --> 01:18:25,680
Speaker 6: like three or four young dudes definitely younger than me,

1507
01:18:26,240 --> 01:18:27,320
Speaker 6: and I'm standing.

1508
01:18:26,960 --> 01:18:28,639
Speaker 2: There holding the door open for them.

1509
01:18:29,080 --> 01:18:31,360
Speaker 6: What and now one of them said, oh here, let

1510
01:18:31,360 --> 01:18:33,599
Speaker 6: me get that, Let me help you, let me help you,

1511
01:18:33,680 --> 01:18:36,800
Speaker 6: like walk this way like I got it, none of that.

1512
01:18:36,880 --> 01:18:40,320
Speaker 6: And I literally was like like just standing there holding

1513
01:18:40,320 --> 01:18:41,639
Speaker 6: the door like jaw out of the.

1514
01:18:41,560 --> 01:18:43,720
Speaker 2: Ground like that ship. I wasn't a guy's house.

1515
01:18:43,720 --> 01:18:45,719
Speaker 1: The other that I didn't offer me water I was pissed,

1516
01:18:47,439 --> 01:18:48,679
Speaker 1: like he didn't offer a short.

1517
01:18:50,560 --> 01:18:52,960
Speaker 2: No. Yeah, I was like, can I get some water?

1518
01:18:53,240 --> 01:18:53,400
Speaker 7: Right?

1519
01:18:54,160 --> 01:18:56,320
Speaker 2: You just turn on like Netflix and started just chilling.

1520
01:18:56,720 --> 01:18:59,200
Speaker 2: Where are these mothers? Yeah? Where are the mothers?

1521
01:18:59,439 --> 01:19:01,320
Speaker 6: Because that's that's where you need to be getting this

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01:19:01,360 --> 01:19:02,720
Speaker 6: ship from.

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01:19:02,720 --> 01:19:06,360
Speaker 2: It's like somebody you're like a little part. I was like,

1524
01:19:06,400 --> 01:19:07,160
Speaker 2: can I get water?

1525
01:19:07,439 --> 01:19:07,880
Speaker 6: You know me?

1526
01:19:07,960 --> 01:19:16,000
Speaker 1: I'm direct like hello. She's like, I'm like, aren't you thirsty? Yeah,

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01:19:16,040 --> 01:19:19,360
Speaker 1: it's weird. People in general, man, were just literallysing that.

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01:19:19,720 --> 01:19:22,880
Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, like her and I grew Persian and

1529
01:19:22,920 --> 01:19:26,920
Speaker 6: it's like hospitality is huge, Like you come over the

1530
01:19:26,960 --> 01:19:30,679
Speaker 6: house and you are offered everything. You know, So people

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01:19:30,720 --> 01:19:31,879
Speaker 6: don't really do that anymore.

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01:19:32,000 --> 01:19:41,720
Speaker 2: No, it's not like a Persian man. Oh that's tricky. Yeah,

1533
01:19:41,760 --> 01:19:42,559
Speaker 2: they're they're hit or.

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01:19:42,479 --> 01:19:46,479
Speaker 1: Miss I mean, josh, yeah, my best friends dating a

1535
01:19:46,520 --> 01:19:47,120
Speaker 1: Persian man.

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01:19:49,479 --> 01:19:52,800
Speaker 2: I left. Oh that's an interesting one. Yeah, that's a

1537
01:19:52,840 --> 01:19:55,080
Speaker 2: good one. He's point. I'm going to go back to

1538
01:19:55,080 --> 01:19:56,559
Speaker 2: my Israel point.

1539
01:19:57,920 --> 01:20:01,320
Speaker 5: I know, foreign over here, foreign cars every.

1540
01:20:04,040 --> 01:20:04,519
Speaker 2: Years.

1541
01:20:05,000 --> 01:20:07,639
Speaker 6: But yeah, gender roles are getting weird. I mean it's

1542
01:20:07,640 --> 01:20:10,680
Speaker 6: not weird, but it's that part of it is changing.

1543
01:20:11,760 --> 01:20:15,000
Speaker 1: Where I'm like, well, call me old school, then yeah, absolutely,

1544
01:20:15,200 --> 01:20:18,639
Speaker 1: I'm not not changing. I mean my my my views

1545
01:20:18,640 --> 01:20:22,719
Speaker 1: on on like monogamy and relationships are probably different than most.

1546
01:20:23,400 --> 01:20:26,160
Speaker 1: But when it comes to like certain like like the

1547
01:20:26,160 --> 01:20:29,360
Speaker 1: step proposals, like you need to I don't want to

1548
01:20:29,360 --> 01:20:30,639
Speaker 1: stay at home dad, I just don't.

1549
01:20:30,680 --> 01:20:31,360
Speaker 2: That's just not for me.

1550
01:20:31,439 --> 01:20:33,799
Speaker 1: I want a man that has goals and it's working.

1551
01:20:34,160 --> 01:20:36,120
Speaker 1: You know, makes the same amount of money, are more

1552
01:20:36,160 --> 01:20:41,000
Speaker 1: than me. I don't think that's asking too much because

1553
01:20:41,000 --> 01:20:42,360
Speaker 1: them guys will be like, well, why why do why?

1554
01:20:42,400 --> 01:20:43,360
Speaker 2: Why is it required? Gender?

1555
01:20:43,439 --> 01:20:44,840
Speaker 1: Roles said that men are supposed to take care of you.

1556
01:20:45,200 --> 01:20:46,400
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to make more money.

1557
01:20:46,640 --> 01:20:49,479
Speaker 2: Why can't I? Why can't you make more money? I

1558
01:20:49,640 --> 01:20:51,519
Speaker 2: just I don't want that. Just I don't want it.

1559
01:20:52,800 --> 01:20:56,840
Speaker 2: Get it? I want it. You don't tell your boss

1560
01:20:56,840 --> 01:20:57,880
Speaker 2: this is you.

1561
01:20:57,840 --> 01:21:02,640
Speaker 1: Can't you want you can't or get out but you have.

1562
01:21:02,760 --> 01:21:05,040
Speaker 6: But that's you have to be honest with yourself and

1563
01:21:05,160 --> 01:21:06,240
Speaker 6: know what you want.

1564
01:21:06,360 --> 01:21:07,040
Speaker 2: You know what I mean.

1565
01:21:07,120 --> 01:21:10,120
Speaker 6: And that happened to me with marriage because my last relationship,

1566
01:21:10,160 --> 01:21:11,080
Speaker 6: you know, eleven and a half years.

1567
01:21:11,200 --> 01:21:11,599
Speaker 2: No ring.

1568
01:21:12,479 --> 01:21:14,120
Speaker 6: You're just like, do I want to get married? Do

1569
01:21:14,160 --> 01:21:16,559
Speaker 6: I believe in marriage? Is it okay, like you ask

1570
01:21:16,640 --> 01:21:19,400
Speaker 6: yourself this, And then I had to be like, Okay,

1571
01:21:19,520 --> 01:21:21,360
Speaker 6: what do you really really want not it? And I

1572
01:21:21,400 --> 01:21:23,560
Speaker 6: was like, I do want to get married, Like I

1573
01:21:23,880 --> 01:21:25,920
Speaker 6: decided that and felt that, and I felt like if

1574
01:21:25,960 --> 01:21:27,920
Speaker 6: I was in that relationship didn't have that, I would

1575
01:21:28,000 --> 01:21:30,280
Speaker 6: feel a type of way about it, right, And so

1576
01:21:30,320 --> 01:21:31,800
Speaker 6: I had to say that up front and.

1577
01:21:31,720 --> 01:21:33,680
Speaker 2: Be like, this is what I'm looking for, you know,

1578
01:21:34,360 --> 01:21:42,600
Speaker 2: so just communicate. Yeah, sure, we'll still wait, you know, yeah,

1579
01:21:42,720 --> 01:21:45,439
Speaker 2: you know. Yeah, it's all been two years. Yeah, I

1580
01:21:45,520 --> 01:21:49,680
Speaker 2: mean yeah, about to be thirty five. I'm not old either,

1581
01:21:49,840 --> 01:21:52,160
Speaker 2: it's not. I'm just like, I don't know. For some reason,

1582
01:21:52,200 --> 01:21:53,559
Speaker 2: I feel like three years the mark.

1583
01:21:55,160 --> 01:21:58,400
Speaker 1: Is real, not real, but like we've been through some

1584
01:21:58,439 --> 01:22:04,840
Speaker 1: shit and we're still here. He's gonna be forty like okay,

1585
01:22:04,920 --> 01:22:09,599
Speaker 1: also cool, yeah, guys, we've talked about it like he's down.

1586
01:22:10,000 --> 01:22:16,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's a matter of time though, just and

1587
01:22:16,520 --> 01:22:18,920
Speaker 2: there you go, okay and there you go.

1588
01:22:18,960 --> 01:22:26,519
Speaker 1: Omar, I'm gonna send this. Well, thank you guys so

1589
01:22:26,560 --> 01:22:27,360
Speaker 1: much for coming on.

1590
01:22:28,920 --> 01:22:31,720
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1591
01:22:32,400 --> 01:22:35,000
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1592
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Speaker 2: Like that. Very classy.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, We will catch you guys next week.

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Speaker 2: Bye. Then let's us say us. I saw him a

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Speaker 2: saw of the minsme

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Speaker 11: Mhm