Speaker 1: Get her right in Mandy, you're right with me, and
Speaker 1: get excited about you lie. It's been a long time.
Speaker 1: Well twenty twenty five. It's the first Monday of the
Speaker 1: new year. You know what I was saying. I was like,
Speaker 1: it's not that the year went by fast, but we're
Speaker 1: hearing the new year quickly. I don't even know if
Speaker 1: that makes sense, but I don't feel like the year
Speaker 1: will by quickly. But I do think how we got here?
Speaker 1: Did I know? How? Backwards? But that's the honest truth.
Speaker 1: And I know at the top of the year, we're
Speaker 1: always talking about like, oh, what are my resolutions or
Speaker 1: what's the word for the year? What am I doing this?
Speaker 1: And I'm going after this? And inspirement. I think about
Speaker 1: a couple of things. One and joy where you are
Speaker 1: right now. I'm actually getting this piece of paper and
Speaker 1: I wrote some stuff because I think we forget about watering, relishing,
Speaker 1: masking in this space that we're in. And I think
Speaker 1: that goes with appreciation and gratitude, And they say gratitude
Speaker 1: is everything. The more grateful you are, the more things
Speaker 1: you have to be grateful for. It also had me
Speaker 1: thinking about how when we are spying to the new year, like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm going after this, I'm getting this and understanding how
Speaker 1: that's a lot of chase. Now this is what came
Speaker 1: to me. And I think because also I heard I
Speaker 1: saw this video about how to attract money. But when
Speaker 1: I say, don't chase becomment, well, when you chase things,
Speaker 1: they're running away from you. I don't want to do that.
Speaker 1: Like in the theory, it sounds interesting, it sounds fun,
Speaker 1: but I want what's attracting me to meet me where
Speaker 1: I need to be. Does that make sense? Like, because
Speaker 1: I think that's the beauty of life, and what that
Speaker 1: looks like is always on to the next thing perhaps
Speaker 1: rather than or always waiting for the perfect moment, rather
Speaker 1: than just making the moment perfect. And now how that
Speaker 1: relates to me? Okay, case in point, Hello, I'm here.
Speaker 1: You hear me on this microphone. I had so much
Speaker 1: apprehension about recording from my home because I was like,
Speaker 1: you're gonna hear all the echoes, all the noises in
Speaker 1: the ambiance. And even looking at the last time I recorded,
Speaker 1: I was looking at the episode of April twenty twenty five.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I said, twenty twenty five, early it's
Speaker 1: twenty twenty six. You see what I'm talking about? Anyway,
Speaker 1: I can still get it wrong. It's on in the
Speaker 1: fifth day. Please okay, Relax, okay, relax, make grom thank you,
Speaker 1: And I'd have lost my train of thought. See oh,
Speaker 1: waiting for the perfect moment to have whatever soundproof, and
Speaker 1: it's like, you gotta do it now. And so even
Speaker 1: as I look back at the last episode I did
Speaker 1: of April twenty twenty five, I didn't get that, please serious,
Speaker 1: stop off, see how road it is in here anyhow?
Speaker 1: Rather than just getting out of how a young man come?
Speaker 1: When I actually did the hip hop cipher and he
Speaker 1: looked in the equipment. I may have mentioned this on
Speaker 1: the last episode. I don't know. He's like, wow. I
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, but I'm not in the studio. He
Speaker 1: was like, people don't care whether or not you're in
Speaker 1: the studio. He was like, they're coming for you, you
Speaker 1: for the content, for what you got to say. See
Speaker 1: how when we chasing after something, chasing for the right moment, chasing,
Speaker 1: you forget where you are standing right now. So why
Speaker 1: I'm not even thinking about gratitude. That's also like a pivot.
Speaker 1: How can I pivot just so that I can keep
Speaker 1: moving in the direction that I want to be in.
Speaker 1: So Praise Report, Praise Report, the mic is on, and
Speaker 1: then plus there's so many other programs that people listen
Speaker 1: to with audio is not perfect. Get out your own way.
Speaker 1: I also think that looks like, you know, creating your
Speaker 1: own space, rather than saying, well, I'm only going to
Speaker 1: be here for a short time, but how do I'm
Speaker 1: I going to be here forever? I'm not going to
Speaker 1: decorate that desk, decorate my room, decorate my home, purchase
Speaker 1: this from my home. Maybe we're this outfit. And it's like, well,
Speaker 1: oh my god, is right now? If I a couple
Speaker 1: of days ago, literally because last year was a couple
Speaker 1: of days ago. On Instagram, they were, you know, the companies,
Speaker 1: they started doing the list of people we lost in
Speaker 1: the past year, and I remember thinking to myself, well,
Speaker 1: it is December thirtieth. We still have two days where
Speaker 1: somebody may not make it into twenty twenty six. We
Speaker 1: take it for granted. You see what I'm saying. You
Speaker 1: take it for granted that you're going to be here.
Speaker 1: And I'm not saying to be pessimistic, you know, hoping
Speaker 1: for the worse or you know, expecting the worst that
Speaker 1: could happen. All I'm saying is to understand the gift
Speaker 1: of it. Now that's the present. So again, become it
Speaker 1: what it is that you want. So that's me becoming.
Speaker 1: We're citing right now. So last week I said, let
Speaker 1: me just get on this live and get this microphone.
Speaker 1: Let me just get this equipment, let me just sit
Speaker 1: in the chair, let me just become it, become what
Speaker 1: it is that I'm seeking. So I said the chair.
Speaker 1: I said, I'm just gonna go live and talk on
Speaker 1: this microphone. I had no agenda of what to talk about.
Speaker 1: You know, I told your host on the TikTok. So
Speaker 1: I had a few viewers come and stop by to
Speaker 1: say hi. But of course you have to do it
Speaker 1: more consistently. That's not the point. Consistently, Oh gosh, anyhow,
Speaker 1: that's not the point. The point is is that I
Speaker 1: cracked the mic. And I think sometimes we often are
Speaker 1: trying to wait to get started, rather than understanding you
Speaker 1: have to start in order to get great and to
Speaker 1: get going. Periods we're waiting so much to the moment
Speaker 1: to get going. But it's like the key is to
Speaker 1: start so you can get going, become it, put yourself
Speaker 1: in those environments and to give yourself one to breathe. Yeah,
Speaker 1: allow there to be motion in that ocean, sensation and
Speaker 1: that vibration. Yeah, okay. And then also one of my
Speaker 1: best friends we were on the phone. I don't know
Speaker 1: if we were talking about. I don't know what we
Speaker 1: were talking about, but I think she said something like,
Speaker 1: would I be okay with being in an open relationship?
Speaker 1: And I said, as of right now? Share? I'm like, no,
Speaker 1: like sharing right now in the space that I'm in,
Speaker 1: I'd say no. And she's like really, And she was like,
Speaker 1: do you think sometimes when you're with somebody and you're
Speaker 1: in situationships, that's an open relationship? I said no, I
Speaker 1: think a situationship is a situationship. My definition of what
Speaker 1: I said open relationship is is when you've acknowledged that
Speaker 1: you're my partner, we're in a relationship, and I am
Speaker 1: opening up to inviting someone else in this or saying that, hey,
Speaker 1: we can both venture out of it with acknowledgment, with
Speaker 1: the understanding that we're together. So I think she understood
Speaker 1: a thread there, and I see the viewpoint where she
Speaker 1: was coming from. But when you ask me and my
Speaker 1: four open relationships, that's what my answer would be. But
Speaker 1: I'm not going to say anything changes. But that's what
Speaker 1: I imagine. I haven't been presented with that. And I said,
Speaker 1: the key is, I said, I think they can work
Speaker 1: because you let them or let go. And a lot
Speaker 1: of that was inspired by mel Robbins, because you know,
Speaker 1: she's been around talking about this book about just let them, like,
Speaker 1: allow people to be who they are, and I think
Speaker 1: that is actually one of the most beautiful things. And
Speaker 1: maybe that's the toleration of love and respect because you
Speaker 1: can make room for them. Of course, it's not gonna
Speaker 1: be what you're used to because you're not them, but
Speaker 1: for whatever reason, it's okay, and it allows somebody to
Speaker 1: be their authentic selves. I do think there's room to
Speaker 1: share with something that may bother you or may not
Speaker 1: work well. And I think that's also compatibility. But I
Speaker 1: think also too, I think when you really like somebody,
Speaker 1: you love something somebody like little things like that, it
Speaker 1: doesn't even matter. And I do think you go through
Speaker 1: your ups and downs, but it doesn't matter. And then
Speaker 1: I said let go. I said, well, you know, the
Speaker 1: greatest form of love is letting go. And when you
Speaker 1: want something that wants you, remember you don't have to
Speaker 1: chase it, and you do also don't have to hold
Speaker 1: it captive. If it doesn't serve you, then it doesn't
Speaker 1: deserve you, So let it go. It still allows everything
Speaker 1: to be in fluent motion. Understand when I say that
Speaker 1: let them or let go, everything is still moving in motion.
Speaker 1: That it needs to move in motion no matter which
Speaker 1: angle you look at it. So that's why I'm looking
Speaker 1: at it twenty twenty six. I know before I said
Speaker 1: twenty twenty five, and yes, you know I probably could.
Speaker 1: I probably could go back and edit that out. But
Speaker 1: whatever I said, I'm gonna leave it. I'm gonna leave
Speaker 1: it because I want to do live today, which it.
Speaker 2: Says what you get, what you hear is what you
Speaker 2: get as as of right now, you see what I'm
Speaker 2: saying all those editors, oh my gosh, because I want
Speaker 2: to get used to the flow so become it.
Speaker 1: Is there anything else I want to say? Let me
Speaker 1: look at my phone because I had gotten some great
Speaker 1: stories that I reposted on IG and I was like,
Speaker 1: let me chew on that, let me chew on that.
Speaker 1: Give me what's sock on. Okay, here's one. The universe
Speaker 1: doesn't wait for you to prove yourself. It waits for
Speaker 1: you to trust yourself. You see what I'm saying. Let
Speaker 1: me say that one more time. The universe doesn't wait
Speaker 1: for you to prove yourself. It waits for you to
Speaker 1: trust yourself. Don't play with me, Okay? Can I take
Speaker 1: you one step further? Imagine like the universe because it is.
Speaker 1: It's like in our eyes. We have constellations in our eyes.
Speaker 1: That's where our magic is right and some of us
Speaker 1: still have that twinkle. These ideas that come to us,
Speaker 1: they're being created by powerful source. And what are we
Speaker 1: waiting on? All you got to do is do it
Speaker 1: because it can't to you become it. Don't you say?
Speaker 1: You feel what I'm saying. You hear what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You feel what I'm saying, and there will be no confusion.
Speaker 1: You don't have to prove what it is that you
Speaker 1: already know. That's what it's called confidence. Don't play with me,
Speaker 1: play with yourself. So yes, what I did it. I
Speaker 1: cracked open this mic in twenty twenty six and I said, Dawn,
Speaker 1: do what you gotta do. Because even anyway, I look
Speaker 1: forward to talking to you soon. And ohso, can I
Speaker 1: just say that I'm grateful since an update? Oh, update, update,
Speaker 1: update update. One of the things that I said when
Speaker 1: I was coming out to LA, I said, I want
Speaker 1: to come out here and develop my own show, my
Speaker 1: TV show, great, my TV show, I believe, I said,
Speaker 1: and become a speaker. So July I started training. Do
Speaker 1: you know that I traveled these here United States and
Speaker 1: I'm speaking, I'm a paid speaker. I just had to
Speaker 1: have a moment of gratitude because we have this thought
Speaker 1: process of how things are supposed to unfold and roll out,
Speaker 1: and I've had moments. I've done my share of public speaking,
Speaker 1: whether it's career day or hosting a graduation or giving
Speaker 1: a motivational pop talk. But to be flued out hotel
Speaker 1: accommodations and a pardium and a coin, I'm really grateful
Speaker 1: I've been out here in La. Hmm. It's going on
Speaker 1: thirteen years this September of twenty twenty six. Don't play
Speaker 1: when me, play with yourself, Play with yourself. I'm go
Speaker 1: ahead it. I had a phone call. See how raw
Speaker 1: was this? Is you getting a raw baby? Yes? Yes,
Speaker 1: I always had this dream. I said that I was
Speaker 1: going to speak and travel the country or actually the world.
Speaker 1: And if you aren't so much haste to keep chasing it,
Speaker 1: you can't even realize that's where you are. And now
Speaker 1: I have a moment and opportunity to cultivate it, to
Speaker 1: shape it. So I just want to say that I'm
Speaker 1: grateful for that, and let's just make sure that we
Speaker 1: continue to moving our gratitude to realize that we don't
Speaker 1: have to hold things captive or chase it because it flows.
Speaker 1: Oh oh, I gotta give you the mantra for the money,
Speaker 1: and then because I want a bundance. But I've changed
Speaker 1: my brain. How I gotta think of it. Let me
Speaker 1: get this real quick too. I like this. I like this.
Speaker 1: I like this. You know I started saying it and
Speaker 1: already I felt like a relief. Now you know they
Speaker 1: got different rights ins because we're on the podcast. So
Speaker 1: hold on, let me play it. Okay, Don't worry about
Speaker 1: the money, because the money gonna flow. Don't worry about
Speaker 1: the money, cause the money gonna flow. Don't worry about
Speaker 1: the money because the money gonna fold, The money gonna flow,
Speaker 1: the money gonna flow. Don't worry about the money because
Speaker 1: the money gonna flow. Don't play when me play with yourself.
Speaker 1: Let me see if I got that right. Don't worry
Speaker 1: about the money because the money going flow. Don't worry
Speaker 1: about the money because the money going flow. Her name
Speaker 1: is miss dall E M. S d O L L
Speaker 1: E E W E doubles on Instagram. That's what I
Speaker 1: just saw. So I felt immediately to that. So I
Speaker 1: say that to you. Let's make twenty twenty six amazing. Okay,
Speaker 1: I I love you. I'm so glad. I cracked up
Speaker 1: this mic and yeah, m hugs and casses. Oh yeah, wait,
Speaker 1: I gotta do my thing. I'm in the business and
Speaker 1: make it. You know what it is. It's Vitamin D.
Speaker 1: I'm doing like the break of day a. Holla, raw baby, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm out.