WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Mysterious Stranger At My Door

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<v Speaker 1>Second dat day. I feel like a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>get a little bit anxious about finding their soulmate. Ohhh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. They want it to happen as soon as possible.

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<v Speaker 1>So to make that happen, they'll join ten different dating apps,

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<v Speaker 1>hit fourteen different bars every weekend, scrawl their phone number

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<v Speaker 1>on the wall of a public restroom in their own blood.

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<v Speaker 1>Open somebody sees it, but out there. Yeah. There's a

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<v Speaker 1>saying about this though, that when you least expect it,

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<v Speaker 1>love will actually find you. I know, and it's true

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm always like, okay, act like you don't expect it,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't expect it. Well, apparently that's what happened for

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners, Derek. And we've done so many

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<v Speaker 1>of these. I've never heard of a couple meeting this way.

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<v Speaker 1>This is pretty crazy, but Derek's on with us. Derek,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the girl's name and how did you meet her?

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<v Speaker 1>Her name is Katie, And actually matter because she came

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<v Speaker 1>knocking at my door. What shut up? Really? She just

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<v Speaker 1>came up and knocked and was like, Hi, I'd like

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<v Speaker 1>to be in a relationship with you, stranger. Let's get

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<v Speaker 1>more details what happened. It was my doorbell was ringing

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<v Speaker 1>and there was knocking, So I was just like, who's that.

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<v Speaker 1>You sound like a pretty chill dude, Yeah, because that

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like a panicked person at your door if the

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<v Speaker 1>knock and the doorbell are going at the same time. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she actually was pretty panicked. Um, she asked if she

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<v Speaker 1>could come in because someone was following her. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>that's scary. It's super scary. What happened You let her in? Yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she seemed pretty preaked up, and yeah, I didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to leave her out there. Oh my god. Honestly, if

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<v Speaker 1>the best option is a stranger's door, oh yeah, something

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<v Speaker 1>bad is happening. Yeah, seriously. What happened next? Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>let her in and I had her sit down at

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<v Speaker 1>my dinner table. Okay, did she want to call the

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<v Speaker 1>cops or something? It was like her ex After her no,

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<v Speaker 1>I asked her if I could call the cops for

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<v Speaker 1>her or anybody. Now. She says she was good, and

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<v Speaker 1>after things calmed down, we got to know each other. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>It was kind of weird because like we were vibing.

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<v Speaker 1>In the movies, you see stuff like this, I know

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<v Speaker 1>they say they say that like those really intense situations

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<v Speaker 1>like if you go skydiving with somebody or you have

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<v Speaker 1>this big adrenaline rush it and really like bond two

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<v Speaker 1>people together. Yeah, but she was the only one that

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<v Speaker 1>was having them. Well, I was pretty freaked up for

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<v Speaker 1>her too, so I was kind of nervous myself. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know what to do. I mean, I mean, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>trying to put myself in your shoes, Derek, And that

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<v Speaker 1>would be a pretty intense situation to open the door

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<v Speaker 1>and then have those problems come into your house and

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<v Speaker 1>having to deal with that, Like, I mean, good on you.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like someone's chasing you and I shut the door. Whoever,

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<v Speaker 1>you're joking, I don't know that you are, sorry, Derek. So, anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>you were talking to her, helping her calm down, and

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<v Speaker 1>you felt like you were having a connection. Yes, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just one of those unfathomable things that happened. And then

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<v Speaker 1>you just sitting there like she was laughing and giggling.

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<v Speaker 1>So okay, so you're able to turn her mood around. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>How long did she end up hanging out at your place? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>she was there for about a half hour, So I

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<v Speaker 1>just wanted to make sure she was calm. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that would be a weird time to ask

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<v Speaker 1>her out on a date, right. Did you ask her

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<v Speaker 1>out then? Oh? I didn't think of that. No, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't ask her out. Probably strong. I just asked her

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<v Speaker 1>if she needed to ride home and she said no, thanks.

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<v Speaker 1>So did she ever tell you, like exactly why she

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<v Speaker 1>was so frantic? No. The only thing she told me

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<v Speaker 1>was that she felt like she was being followed by somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>and she wouldn't go in any detail spots. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to push it. Yeah, let her be comfortable whatever

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<v Speaker 1>she wants to share. So how did your interaction? And

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<v Speaker 1>before she left she touched my arm? I work out

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<v Speaker 1>a lot coming, you're like, yeah, I had to flex

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<v Speaker 1>when she touched it. Yeah. So I gave her my

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<v Speaker 1>number and I told her when she got home to

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<v Speaker 1>just text me and let me know if she got home. Okay, great,

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<v Speaker 1>I do that too. I think it's a really good movie,

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<v Speaker 1>especially in her situation. Well, and you can continue your

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<v Speaker 1>conversation that way. Did she follow up on that? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>twenty minutes later she texted me back and she just

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<v Speaker 1>said that she's home and thank you for helping me out.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, ever since that, I can't stop thinking about her.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you asked her out? Have you asked her to

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<v Speaker 1>go out on an official date where people aren't chasing her.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like you can kind of read through text messages

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't feel like she wants to reciprocate it,

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<v Speaker 1>like how I want to. That's why I reached out

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<v Speaker 1>to you, guys. She said she's a couple of blocks away,

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<v Speaker 1>and right now I'm thinking about moving. And I know

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of crazy, but I don't want to be

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<v Speaker 1>forty minutes away. There's potential here. Yeah, oh wow, you

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<v Speaker 1>really liked her. Stay where you're at. If you knew

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<v Speaker 1>she was close, well, if they were gonna maybe be

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship, I can understand that. Yeah, if she

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to reciprocate it. So I don't know. I think

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<v Speaker 1>you moved, man, I think you moved. And then you

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<v Speaker 1>wait and if she comes knocking on your door again,

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<v Speaker 1>then you know that it was fate. Yeah, from the universe. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>move six times and if she finds you with each Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>it's certain. Yeah that's what you need. Well, let's do this. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna play a song, we'll come back, we'll call

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<v Speaker 1>Katie for you, and we'll try and get you your

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<v Speaker 1>second date. Update. All right, man, thanks for this. I

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of worried if you guys weren't gonna do this,

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<v Speaker 1>so we got your kind of excited. Yeah, yeah, all,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Everybody knows the classic romantic fairy tale

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<v Speaker 1>where a beautiful damsel in distress locked away in a

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<v Speaker 1>tower gets saved by a gallant, handsome knight and shining armor.

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<v Speaker 1>He rescues her from the throes of danger. They fall

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<v Speaker 1>in love and live happily ever after. That the lies

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<v Speaker 1>we were told as children because most of the time,

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<v Speaker 1>the damsel doesn't knock on the front door of the

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<v Speaker 1>knight's castle and ask to be let in. Because that's

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<v Speaker 1>actually what happened to one of our listeners, Derek, who

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<v Speaker 1>helped a woman named Katie after she knocked at his

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<v Speaker 1>door and asked to be let inside because somebody was

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<v Speaker 1>following her. Why doesn't this happen to any of us guys.

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<v Speaker 1>How about to start knocking on doors. We need people

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<v Speaker 1>to just help us out. We have people knock on

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<v Speaker 1>doors and not the damsels I'm looking for. But now

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna try and call Katie and see if there's

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<v Speaker 1>any romantic connection that she's feeling with Derek, because she

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<v Speaker 1>definitely felt a little bit with her. Yeah for sure, Derek.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you nervous? How are you feeling? It's not every

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<v Speaker 1>day you get the girl just coming up knocking on

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<v Speaker 1>your door. Yeah, and she touched your arm, bro Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>just thinking about it. I mean, Derek, I didn't if

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't ever ask, like, do you know that she's single? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't see any rings or anything on earth on

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<v Speaker 1>her fingers, So Harry still available? She wasn't branded. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe this is a good question to ask her. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it could be a simple Yeah. So we're gonna call

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<v Speaker 1>her number and we're gonna try and get your second

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<v Speaker 1>day up date. You ready, ma'am? Yep? Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm looking for Kate. This is she. Hi Katie. My

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<v Speaker 1>name's Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. How are you doing today? I'm doing okay. Good.

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<v Speaker 1>That's good to hear. Can I ask why your calling?

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<v Speaker 1>Of course you can. We're doing a segment on our

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<v Speaker 1>show called a second date Update. Have you ever heard

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<v Speaker 1>of that before? Yeah? I have heard of those before. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's so great. Yeah, that's awesome. We don't get that

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. Thank you for listening, Katie. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think i've heard you guys do it. I heard other

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<v Speaker 1>shows do it? Okay, Oh yeah, I am retracting my

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. Yeah, that's all right. But I guess you're

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<v Speaker 1>familiar with how this works. It's where if you go

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<v Speaker 1>out with somebody and afterwards, if they're not calling you back,

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<v Speaker 1>you can email our show and we'll reach out to

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<v Speaker 1>that person for you to try and figure out the

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<v Speaker 1>reason why they've been avoiding you. Then why are you

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<v Speaker 1>calling me? Well, because a guy reached out to us

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<v Speaker 1>that technically you didn't really go on a date with him,

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<v Speaker 1>but you did have an interaction with him and he

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<v Speaker 1>felt a connection during it. His name is Derek. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you remember. No, you went too his house and knocked

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<v Speaker 1>on his door Atlantic Oh. Um, like he told us

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<v Speaker 1>a big, harrowing story about how you guys met, that

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<v Speaker 1>you felt like you were being followed and you knocked

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<v Speaker 1>on his door in a panic, hoping to be let

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<v Speaker 1>in just to get away from whoever was following you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry. Let me interrupt you. I am not

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<v Speaker 1>interested and I think there is a disconnection there, So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not interested. Thank you for calling me? Well, hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on, that's okay if you're not interested. But Derek

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<v Speaker 1>told us that he felt like there was a flirtation

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<v Speaker 1>going on when he let you inside and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>gave you shelter. They is that not right? Okay? When

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<v Speaker 1>he let you sit at his table read the room?

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<v Speaker 1>Wrong is what it sounds like. I mean, were you

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<v Speaker 1>attracted to him at any point? I know that your

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<v Speaker 1>mind was probably on other things, other things, Brook are

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<v Speaker 1>you talking about so weird? It's honestly, it wasn't that

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<v Speaker 1>big of a gel that it's being made out to be. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>I may have given off that vibe, but I just

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<v Speaker 1>am kind of a gregarious person. So really, honestly, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not interested or available. You only go after greg's

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<v Speaker 1>so gregarious means friendly, you know. Oh, goie, that doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>make any sense. You're getting her followed? She she said,

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<v Speaker 1>you were You're handicked, not gregarious. No, Um, nobody's following me.

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<v Speaker 1>Why then, why were you knocking on his door? A family? That? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>What happened? Well, we live in you know, nearby neighborhoods,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's okay, No, we love awful. You should well.

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<v Speaker 1>I had heard to the rape vine from our neighbors

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<v Speaker 1>that Derek was planning on potentially putting his house on

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<v Speaker 1>the market soon, and um, I just didn't know if

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<v Speaker 1>he had a real estate agent yet, shut up, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't get it. I'm a realtor, and I have to

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<v Speaker 1>preface this by saying, you know, it was obviously an

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<v Speaker 1>extreme way to meet a potential client. But it's a

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<v Speaker 1>tough market right now, and you know, I'm married, I've

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<v Speaker 1>got kids, I have to help with my family, and

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<v Speaker 1>so it was just an opportunity. Oh, you were being

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<v Speaker 1>followed so that you could sell his house. Oh that's okay,

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<v Speaker 1>now I get it. But now, oh my god, so

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<v Speaker 1>you try to use him? Well, yeah, a that's close enough.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll get there. You'll get there, Katie. Okay, So no,

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<v Speaker 1>nobody was following you. You weren't in danger. You were

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to find out if he already had somebody

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<v Speaker 1>lined up to sell his house for him. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I haven't told him. I decided to like step

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<v Speaker 1>back and kind of ditch that entire plan. I'd seen

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<v Speaker 1>a real estate card on his counter and we, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>talked briefly about it, and so I just let it

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<v Speaker 1>be and chalked it up to a weird and wild

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<v Speaker 1>idea and bad experience. But we never had a conversation

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<v Speaker 1>about me potentially representing him. Oh man, Katie, you are sneaky.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, up with him, But I gotta let you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Turns out Derek's also a little bit sneaky. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because I need to tell you. He's been on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening to everything that you said and now

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<v Speaker 1>he wants to talk to you. Ye oh my god, Yeah, Katie,

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<v Speaker 1>are you kidding me? Yes, I'm married. I am so sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>It's you know, it is a tough market and my job.

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<v Speaker 1>Your home is so beautiful, and I thought I could

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<v Speaker 1>really get some strong offers in there for you if

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't have representation. But I saw that you did,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I just let it go. Wow, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>see a ring on your finger when you came into

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<v Speaker 1>my place, so um. You know, often times when I'm

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<v Speaker 1>doing real estate stuff, I take the ring off. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just easier for conversation. Oh wow, that's actually pretty common

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<v Speaker 1>in our industry, isn't It might make me buy a

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<v Speaker 1>house top. But isn't there like a better method, like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, knocking on the door and saying hi,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Katie. I am a real estate agent and I

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<v Speaker 1>would like to help you. Bo I did sorry? You

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<v Speaker 1>know that approach often because it work. You would be

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<v Speaker 1>surprised how many people just slam the door in your face.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know, the idea just kind of came

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<v Speaker 1>into my head. I thought I would try it and

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<v Speaker 1>it just went horribly wrong. But that seals and change

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that I can guarantee that I can get

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<v Speaker 1>a higher price hold for him than his current agent. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you're still selling absolutely? What do you think? I'm dumbfounded.

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<v Speaker 1>People have to trust you. There's no trust. You lost

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<v Speaker 1>that trust, and you shouldn't just came out and asked

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<v Speaker 1>me that like a normal person. But you've probably on

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<v Speaker 1>some meads or something. Trust is an interesting thing, Derek.

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<v Speaker 1>But how much is it really worse? I mean to you,

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<v Speaker 1>the cell of your home? Is it worth an extra

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<v Speaker 1>twenty thirty maybe forty thousand dollars? So that's what I

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<v Speaker 1>could do for you? Wow? Rick buyers for you? You're

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<v Speaker 1>You're good. Oh, definitely have a thing about that. What

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<v Speaker 1>you can get me forty grand more. Im some creative methods.

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<v Speaker 1>It's gonna tie yourself up in the closet during the

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<v Speaker 1>open house. Pretty funny, but it could be even, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>potentially more than forty. So I'm glad he had this

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<v Speaker 1>conversation and Derek got my number. Oh wow, Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean this is going a lot better than it was

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<v Speaker 1>just a couple of minutes ago. So at this point,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I would normally ask to send you guys

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<v Speaker 1>out on a second day. Yeah, but like a business

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<v Speaker 1>coffee or something. Can we do that? Katie's married? How well,

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<v Speaker 1>how serious is the marriage is it? Yeah? How serious

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<v Speaker 1>is it? You get bigger arms than Derek? Oh? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you really that attached to your kids? You guys, we're

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<v Speaker 1>not asking a married woman if she wants to go out.

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<v Speaker 1>I ask her if she wants to be his real

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<v Speaker 1>estate agent. Man, fine, we'll do that. How about we

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<v Speaker 1>send you guys out on a business meet up to

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<v Speaker 1>discuss potential realty? There you go? What do you say, Katie?

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<v Speaker 1>I can that's non fantastic of course, all right, he's

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<v Speaker 1>on board. Now, Derek, what do you say? Yeah, I'm down.

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<v Speaker 1>And then we'll see what happens, No, Derek, is it

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<v Speaker 1>weird that a lady faked being chased around and now

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<v Speaker 1>she's ending up fifty thousand dollars potentially Richard from it

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<v Speaker 1>is firing girls. You guys wouldn't have opened the door,

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<v Speaker 1>is what you told us earlier. I'll learned my lesson. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.