1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:04,480 Speaker 1: Second date, update date. If you go out with somebody 2 00:00:04,480 --> 00:00:07,920 Speaker 1: that you really really like, how long you willing to 3 00:00:08,039 --> 00:00:11,400 Speaker 1: wait and pursue them hoping to get that second date? 4 00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:15,920 Speaker 1: What's your maximimy? Is it two weeks before you tap out? 5 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:16,880 Speaker 1: Four weeks? 6 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 2: Wait, you're gonna wait. 7 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:20,560 Speaker 3: You're gonna wait that long to get a second date, 8 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:21,200 Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. 9 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: How long you're willing to wait for it? 10 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:23,920 Speaker 4: I'm gonna say two minutes. 11 00:00:25,680 --> 00:00:28,440 Speaker 1: Well, one of our listeners, Jacqueline, sent us an email 12 00:00:28,520 --> 00:00:31,640 Speaker 1: saying she met a guy so amazing. She's been trying 13 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:35,240 Speaker 1: to lock down date number two for the last four months. 14 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 4: When you said it the music chriscendo, I'm so right, Jeff. 15 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:44,160 Speaker 1: Four months to do whatever it takes. In fact, she's 16 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 1: calling in the big guns to get it done today. 17 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:50,480 Speaker 1: And that's us. So, Jacqueline, thank you for calling at 18 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:51,920 Speaker 1: and T Welcome to the shoot. 19 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 5: Thank you. 20 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:55,639 Speaker 4: Four months? 21 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:58,360 Speaker 3: My gosh, have you been dating other people in that time? 22 00:00:58,440 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 3: Are you just holding out for this guy? 23 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 5: I mean, I've like met up with some other people, 24 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 5: but I feel like most of my brain phase is 25 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:10,200 Speaker 5: taken up by like thinking about Tom Ye, thinking about 26 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 5: tom Yeah. 27 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:13,399 Speaker 1: He's guy. Number one in your heart right now? So 28 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:15,319 Speaker 1: Tom is his name? How did you meet him? 29 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 3: Oh? 30 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:17,319 Speaker 5: Well that online? 31 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:18,399 Speaker 6: Like both people. 32 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 4: Did you know as soon as you met him that 33 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 4: there was something really special about him? 34 00:01:22,880 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 5: I did. I got that like feeling. He's a lawyer 35 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:28,479 Speaker 5: and he is. 36 00:01:28,560 --> 00:01:31,280 Speaker 1: Say no more. You have won us all over, Thank 37 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:32,000 Speaker 1: you so much. 38 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:34,680 Speaker 2: I'm not going anymore. 39 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:38,119 Speaker 3: Why you He's busy, That's why I was gonna say, 40 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 3: and drunk, I mean lawyers like to throw back. 41 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a lot of positives that you all just 42 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:46,480 Speaker 1: said right there. 43 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 2: So that's like your dream guy, a drunken, rich guy. 44 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:52,840 Speaker 1: I was never around perfect okay. 45 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 4: I mean maybe he's honestly been that busy. 46 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:57,760 Speaker 3: Like when my best friend was working at one of 47 00:01:57,760 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 3: her firms, she was billying I think like ninety hours 48 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:00,200 Speaker 3: a week. 49 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's possible. So how did things get 50 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 1: started between you and Tom, Jacqueline? 51 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 5: Well, we have like this really good advance on the app, 52 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:11,200 Speaker 5: and we have a lot in common of like things 53 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:15,079 Speaker 5: we like to do, and he's ridiculously good looking, Like 54 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 5: he's so good looking. At first, I was like sort 55 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:17,520 Speaker 5: of scared. 56 00:02:17,880 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 3: Oh okay, well okay, so now it feels like it 57 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 3: puts it into a little bit different perspective. 58 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, so like he probably has a waiting list of girls. 59 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, what did you guys do? Did he ask you out? 60 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:32,799 Speaker 5: Yeah? He asked me out, and he went out to 61 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 5: dinner and he offered to pick me up, which I 62 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:38,640 Speaker 5: thought was like so sweet, but you know, I just 63 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:41,720 Speaker 5: had to look out for my safety. So so what 64 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:45,520 Speaker 5: so I like took a car service there, and. 65 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:47,919 Speaker 4: That's smart before you meet somebody. 66 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 5: So yeah, we went to this Mediterranean place that I'd 67 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 5: never been to. It was outside, it was really pretty 68 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 5: at all those like little chairy light. 69 00:02:56,760 --> 00:02:59,840 Speaker 4: Oh, I love it. 70 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:02,800 Speaker 5: What else he did that I loved was like one 71 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:05,519 Speaker 5: she was actually dressed properly, like I've gone on it 72 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:08,960 Speaker 5: on so many app dates and guys are just like 73 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 5: they just came from the gym or something. And she 74 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:14,359 Speaker 5: was like waiting outside the restaurant for me, which I 75 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 5: really black. 76 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 6: Yeah. 77 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 1: Fun okay, And so what about the actual date itself 78 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:23,640 Speaker 1: when you sat down to have dinner with him? 79 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 7: How was that? It was great? 80 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 5: We had so much like we were laughing, We had 81 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:29,639 Speaker 5: so much to talk about, Like we had to keep 82 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:32,959 Speaker 5: asking the waiter to come back in five minutes. I 83 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 5: even looked at the venue. Oh that's a great sign, yeah, 84 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 5: I thought, so he never took out his phone. 85 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 1: You don't remember a lot from a date that happened 86 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 1: four months ago. Yeah, she found every single detail. 87 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 3: She found a lawyer that doesn't take out their phone. 88 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:52,120 Speaker 3: I think that that doesn't even exist, you. 89 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 5: Know, yeah, like you would remember that. 90 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 1: You said a lot of good things. Did anything bad 91 00:03:56,760 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 1: happen on the date because it has been a long 92 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 1: time since you guys hung out. 93 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 5: No, I don't think anything bad, like because I've been 94 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 5: running it over and over in my mind. The only 95 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 5: thing I can think is like, I wish I could 96 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:12,520 Speaker 5: sell your picture. But like his jaw is so shizzled. 97 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 5: I was like I kept saying, like, are you sure 98 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 5: you don't mew? 99 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:20,720 Speaker 3: And you you don't mew the exercise to make your 100 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 3: chin better? 101 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 5: Yes, And he didn't know what I was talking about, 102 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 5: so like I had blinks him. 103 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 1: Can you explain it to some of the listeners who 104 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:29,479 Speaker 1: don't know what that is? 105 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, so you make like the mew sound, You're like 106 00:04:32,760 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 5: new me and it like kind of defines your job. 107 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 2: Muscles. 108 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:42,599 Speaker 1: Anywait, where were you doing that to show him? During 109 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 1: the date. 110 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, any moment like you were trying to be funny. 111 00:04:49,640 --> 00:04:51,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean he's sort of couple. But I mean 112 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 5: he did look at me like what are you doing? 113 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 5: But like it wasn't like I didn't stand up on 114 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 5: the table and do it for eadly, But. 115 00:04:58,040 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I'm sure lawyers love to be on 116 00:04:59,839 --> 00:05:00,960 Speaker 1: a eight with cats. 117 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:05,560 Speaker 3: Basically, oh come on, she just beamed playful, like you 118 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:08,480 Speaker 3: don't want to date somebody that's super serious and can't know. 119 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 1: Maybe she like pulled like a ball of string around 120 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 1: on the table too, very playful. 121 00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:13,760 Speaker 2: She's like, you know, hold on, I'm going to get 122 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:18,000 Speaker 2: this hair ball. 123 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:21,040 Speaker 1: So was there any like romantic stuff that happened on 124 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:21,919 Speaker 1: the day. Was there a kiss? 125 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:26,800 Speaker 5: Maybe there wasn't, unfortunately, but he did say you wanted 126 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:29,920 Speaker 5: to see me again and gave me a really long, tight, 127 00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 5: tight hug. 128 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 3: So she's still living in that embrace. Have you had 129 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 3: zero contact with him since some were. 130 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:43,359 Speaker 1: Yet you know what's happened the last four months? 131 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 5: Well, at first I texted him a little bit more. 132 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 5: He said he wanted to see me again and everything, 133 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:52,279 Speaker 5: and then his birthday was two weeks ago, so I 134 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 5: texted him for that. 135 00:05:55,960 --> 00:05:56,840 Speaker 4: Why do you know that? 136 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:00,600 Speaker 3: I know it. 137 00:06:04,560 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 1: Her brain naturally. Okay, So now it's been four months 138 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:11,279 Speaker 1: since that dinner date with this lawyer guy, and you've 139 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 1: come to us hoping that we can get him to 140 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 1: agree to a second date. 141 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:17,280 Speaker 4: Yea, all right, you have. 142 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:18,839 Speaker 2: To be on your a game because this is a lawyer. 143 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:20,359 Speaker 2: We maybe you get a show. 144 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 4: Maybe we just say this is a belated birthday present. 145 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that won't creep him out at all. Let's 146 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:28,360 Speaker 1: do that and when we come back and get your 147 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:29,919 Speaker 1: second date update right. 148 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:32,920 Speaker 6: After this second date update. 149 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 1: Four months. Most people don't wait that long to reach 150 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 1: out to us trying to score another date. But our listener, 151 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:44,160 Speaker 1: Jacqueline is a unique individual. 152 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 4: Hey, and she met a unique man. 153 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:50,960 Speaker 1: She figured out that man's birthday happened recently and won't 154 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:53,680 Speaker 1: tell us how she knew that, But that really doesn't matter. 155 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 1: The bottom line is this, Her date Tom was very attractive. 156 00:06:58,040 --> 00:07:01,559 Speaker 1: He's a lawyer, so duh, she wants to see him again. 157 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:05,120 Speaker 4: No, the real connection, Jeffrey. It wasn't just that she. 158 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:07,840 Speaker 1: Really enjoyed him, but her first two points to us 159 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:15,600 Speaker 1: were he's beautiful and a lawyer to help her. He 160 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 1: doesn't even have to mete for that, Jawain. That's all natural, baby, 161 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:21,680 Speaker 1: But the big problem is he's not reaching back out 162 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 1: to her in the last four months. So we're gonna 163 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 1: try and change that for you today, Jacqueline, how you doing. 164 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:27,400 Speaker 6: I'm good. 165 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:28,239 Speaker 5: How are you guys? 166 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:30,320 Speaker 4: I don't know that I was totally clear. Did he 167 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 4: ever hit you back at all? 168 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:35,960 Speaker 3: Just? 169 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:36,520 Speaker 2: Zero? 170 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 4: I mean, honestly, I don't want you to be like 171 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 4: her if he doesn't remember who you. 172 00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 2: Are months ago total. 173 00:07:44,080 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 1: But at the same time, I haven't reached back to 174 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 1: my mother in the last like four to five years, 175 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:51,800 Speaker 1: so that doesn't necessarily mean that it's completely dead. 176 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 2: No, she is looking for. 177 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 4: You actively though, And do you know her first name? 178 00:07:56,080 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 1: You know what? Come back to me at the end 179 00:07:57,800 --> 00:07:58,560 Speaker 1: of the segment and. 180 00:07:58,480 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 2: I'll remember actually exactly. 181 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 1: But let's give this guy Tom a call. Tom the 182 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 1: lawyer will see if he answers. Are we calling his 183 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 1: cell phone? 184 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 7: Yeah? 185 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 5: I gave you his cell phone and he's definitely going 186 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 5: to remember me. 187 00:08:10,120 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 4: Okay, that's positive. I like that. 188 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 1: Maybe I'm not sure if I like the way that 189 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 1: you said that, but okay, we're gonna style it. 190 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 7: Here we go, Hello, is it Tom? 191 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 5: Uh. 192 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:32,079 Speaker 1: Hi, Oh, you're so formal. Answer your phone professional. Yeah, 193 00:08:32,080 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 1: Hey Tom, nice to meet you. We're a radio show 194 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 1: called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Do you have 195 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 1: a second? 196 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:37,640 Speaker 2: Hello, Thomas? 197 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:40,240 Speaker 1: Okay, did you hang up too much? 198 00:08:40,800 --> 00:08:41,760 Speaker 7: Hello? Tom? 199 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 4: Are you there? 200 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:43,839 Speaker 7: I'm here? I'm sorry. Who is this? 201 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:47,680 Speaker 1: My name is jeff from a award winning radio show 202 00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 1: called Brook and Jeffrey in the. 203 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:50,640 Speaker 4: Warn That's actually true. 204 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 1: It happened a long time ago, but it. 205 00:08:53,720 --> 00:08:56,640 Speaker 4: Happens when the book City everyone has one. 206 00:08:57,040 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 7: You're on the radio right now, man, That's what the 207 00:08:58,800 --> 00:08:59,560 Speaker 7: call is regarding. 208 00:09:00,559 --> 00:09:03,319 Speaker 1: Yes, that's a great question actually regarding you and your 209 00:09:03,480 --> 00:09:05,440 Speaker 1: dating life with a woman that you went out with 210 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 1: about four months ago named Jacqueline. 211 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:10,840 Speaker 6: Jacqueline. 212 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:16,359 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, do you remember Jacqueline? She definitely remembers you. 213 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:18,480 Speaker 1: You guys met online and went out to like a restaurant. 214 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 4: Oh it was mediterranean Mediterranean food. 215 00:09:20,679 --> 00:09:21,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, she. 216 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 1: Loved your jaw. 217 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 6: I yes, I do remember who you were talking about. 218 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:29,200 Speaker 7: Yees. 219 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:31,480 Speaker 4: Okay, okay, I got a little laugh out of you. 220 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:33,720 Speaker 4: Were you thinking about calling her back? 221 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:41,479 Speaker 6: I know if I'm being completely out Okay. 222 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:43,160 Speaker 4: It's okay, we hear that sometimes is there a reason. 223 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:46,200 Speaker 6: Why I'm not gonna be calling Jacqueline back. I'm gonna 224 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:50,440 Speaker 6: be up staying away from her. Oh, it was it 225 00:09:50,440 --> 00:09:51,119 Speaker 6: was strange. 226 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:52,680 Speaker 4: What was strange? 227 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:53,600 Speaker 7: The date? 228 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 6: Well, the date, No, the date was fine. We had 229 00:09:57,520 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 6: a lovely time her out. 230 00:09:59,440 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 4: That's good. 231 00:10:00,360 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 6: The problem was that she was overly forward after the date. 232 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:06,760 Speaker 1: What do you mean what happened after? 233 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 6: Jacqueline was leaving voicemails at my place of work. Oh, 234 00:10:13,559 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 6: she knew I was an attorney and apparently found out 235 00:10:17,520 --> 00:10:18,040 Speaker 6: where I worked. 236 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 7: Ill. 237 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:20,400 Speaker 1: She said that you weren't answering her, and so she 238 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:22,400 Speaker 1: was trying to reach you anyway possible because she was 239 00:10:22,520 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 1: really really excited about the potential for you guys's relationship. 240 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:26,200 Speaker 5: Yeah. 241 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:28,600 Speaker 4: Did that feel like a boundary that was cross there 242 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:31,400 Speaker 4: for you? Okay? 243 00:10:31,559 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 3: Did you tell her though, because you know, people who 244 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:36,400 Speaker 3: maybe don't work in your line of field don't feel 245 00:10:36,440 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 3: the same. 246 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 6: Well, after about the fourth or fifth voicemail, I remember 247 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 6: she did get in contact with my secretary. 248 00:10:43,120 --> 00:10:45,520 Speaker 4: And what did she say to her? 249 00:10:46,080 --> 00:10:48,960 Speaker 6: My secretary had her on the line and I had to, 250 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:52,680 Speaker 6: you know, fib and say I'm extremely busy with the case, which, 251 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 6: truth be told, I was busy with the case. But 252 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 6: the other issue with all of this is that I 253 00:10:58,080 --> 00:11:02,199 Speaker 6: never gave Jacqueline the information of what law firm I 254 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:03,320 Speaker 6: work at. 255 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:05,920 Speaker 4: How did she fight you LinkedIn? 256 00:11:07,280 --> 00:11:09,720 Speaker 7: You know, I do not know off the top of 257 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:10,080 Speaker 7: my head. 258 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:11,959 Speaker 6: I did not inquire about. 259 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:14,240 Speaker 7: Her further into this, I guess lately. 260 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:17,000 Speaker 6: Okay, kend just wrote that off. I found that it 261 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:19,800 Speaker 6: was a little bit of a really intrusive move. I'm 262 00:11:19,800 --> 00:11:21,320 Speaker 6: being out that. 263 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:22,760 Speaker 4: It'd be good for her to hear. 264 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:27,760 Speaker 1: Definitely a little odd. Yeah, and uh, I'm sorry that 265 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 1: she I know you said you're trying to avoid her. Sorry, 266 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 1: we made kind of an oops because she's actually on 267 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 1: the phone with us right now in the other line 268 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 1: listening to this. 269 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 4: She heard all that. 270 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 1: What Yeah, that's that's how this segment works, and she's 271 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:42,960 Speaker 1: wanting to talk to you. 272 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:49,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, hey guys, Hey cherry mom. I'm so happy that, 273 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:50,440 Speaker 5: like I get to hear your voice. 274 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:55,560 Speaker 7: I'm cut a while, Jacqueline, what are you doing? 275 00:11:56,920 --> 00:11:57,040 Speaker 6: Oh? 276 00:11:57,080 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 5: I was just trying to get ahold of you because 277 00:11:59,400 --> 00:12:01,200 Speaker 5: I've been thinking about you and I have such a 278 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:03,320 Speaker 5: good time when we went out, and he said you 279 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:04,720 Speaker 5: wanted to see me again, So. 280 00:12:07,080 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 6: I did at a certain point. But this is getting 281 00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:12,720 Speaker 6: borderline stalker behavior. This is insane. 282 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:15,360 Speaker 7: You're using a ratation. 283 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 6: To contact me. 284 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:18,720 Speaker 7: I'm working right now. I thought this was a client. 285 00:12:19,720 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 5: Oh, I'm so sorry. But if you would have gotten 286 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 5: back to me, like I wouldn't have called them. And 287 00:12:24,640 --> 00:12:27,599 Speaker 5: I think stalker is like way overblown. I've left a 288 00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:29,199 Speaker 5: couple of messages that your work. 289 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:32,959 Speaker 2: Say that often it's not technically jack. 290 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:35,960 Speaker 7: If it's not stalkers, how did you find out where 291 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:36,240 Speaker 7: I work? 292 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:38,360 Speaker 1: Actually, that's a good question. 293 00:12:38,400 --> 00:12:40,079 Speaker 4: It's going to be hard to win an argument against 294 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:40,840 Speaker 4: the lawyer right now. 295 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 5: Okay. In my defense, it was so simple, like all 296 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:48,160 Speaker 5: your pictures on the app, Like I saw that there 297 00:12:48,200 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 5: was one picture of you outside the courtyard and you 298 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:53,160 Speaker 5: could see the courthouse across the street. So all I 299 00:12:53,240 --> 00:12:55,800 Speaker 5: did was go on Google find the courthouse, and then 300 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 5: I knew you were working in the building across from it. 301 00:12:58,960 --> 00:13:02,079 Speaker 5: So you know, I called the couple of different law firms, 302 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 5: well I find you. 303 00:13:03,600 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 4: That made it sound worse, are you? 304 00:13:06,280 --> 00:13:09,719 Speaker 1: You did detective work based on a picture on his profile? 305 00:13:10,080 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, all ladies will do that, Like you look for 306 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:13,640 Speaker 5: contract clues in the pictures. 307 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:19,679 Speaker 4: I can't voicemails. 308 00:13:20,040 --> 00:13:23,160 Speaker 2: You're saying, so you do it, but you just where's 309 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:24,719 Speaker 2: the harm? I don't tell them. 310 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:27,720 Speaker 1: You can't leave the evidence behind that you've been okay. 311 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:29,960 Speaker 5: I wouldn't have left voicemails if you would have just 312 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:32,600 Speaker 5: returned my call. And you know he had mentioned that 313 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:36,240 Speaker 5: he wasn't really loving his new secretary, so I thought, 314 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:39,200 Speaker 5: maybe you didn't love Wait did you just say he 315 00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 5: didn't like his new secretary? He mentioned that when we 316 00:13:42,160 --> 00:13:43,080 Speaker 5: had dinner. 317 00:13:45,120 --> 00:13:46,079 Speaker 7: To be the new secretary. 318 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:48,160 Speaker 1: Tom, can you see how maybe you've brought some of 319 00:13:48,160 --> 00:13:53,680 Speaker 1: this upon yourself? Stop it, But at a bare minimum, 320 00:13:53,720 --> 00:13:55,520 Speaker 1: you have to be impressed with how she was able 321 00:13:55,520 --> 00:13:59,320 Speaker 1: to figure out where. 322 00:13:58,240 --> 00:13:59,640 Speaker 4: Or scared Jeffrey. 323 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:00,679 Speaker 7: This is insane. 324 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:04,200 Speaker 5: New section me Tom on the date, what's your best quality? 325 00:14:04,280 --> 00:14:08,520 Speaker 5: And I said, I'm determined, and so I think I'm proving, 326 00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:10,920 Speaker 5: but I was determined to get a hold of you again. 327 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:12,840 Speaker 3: You know there's a good side and a bad side 328 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:14,120 Speaker 3: to every quality. 329 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 5: Tom, I'm gonna have to like disagree with you about 330 00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:28,480 Speaker 5: your secretary because she's totally friendly. When I call. 331 00:14:24,480 --> 00:14:27,760 Speaker 2: There, she's still there, we can confirm, not for long. 332 00:14:27,800 --> 00:14:29,480 Speaker 4: If she keeps giving out Tom's information. 333 00:14:30,120 --> 00:14:32,560 Speaker 5: I found his information. I figured that all out on 334 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:35,520 Speaker 5: my own to like find a lot credit for that. O. 335 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:39,440 Speaker 1: He's not impressed, Tom, Maybe he'll be impressed if you 336 00:14:39,440 --> 00:14:41,400 Speaker 1: wish him happy belated birthday right now. 337 00:14:42,280 --> 00:14:43,640 Speaker 7: What are you talking about. 338 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:47,480 Speaker 1: Let's figure out it's your birthday. That's called persistence. 339 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:51,560 Speaker 4: I thought she texted you the birthday message. 340 00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:54,040 Speaker 6: I blocked her a long time ago. I don't see 341 00:14:54,080 --> 00:14:55,160 Speaker 6: anything she sends to me. 342 00:14:56,080 --> 00:14:58,200 Speaker 1: Why he didn't get the message? You better tell it 343 00:14:58,200 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 1: to him. Better wish him happy birthday right now? 344 00:15:01,320 --> 00:15:02,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, I didn't know that. 345 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:05,520 Speaker 1: Or better yet, you can wish him happy birthday when 346 00:15:05,600 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 1: you meet face to face for your second date, a 347 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:12,760 Speaker 1: date that we will pay for if Tom agrees to it. 348 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:13,600 Speaker 1: What do you think Tom? 349 00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:15,400 Speaker 6: Absolutely not. 350 00:15:15,680 --> 00:15:18,440 Speaker 4: Yeah. I think that's a pretty clear message. 351 00:15:18,760 --> 00:15:20,000 Speaker 1: Well, are you sure you want to say that, because 352 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure Jacquelin's on the other side of the 353 00:15:21,760 --> 00:15:23,880 Speaker 1: door from wherever you are right now, so you might 354 00:15:23,920 --> 00:15:25,240 Speaker 1: want to say yes, Just say yes. 355 00:15:25,120 --> 00:15:25,840 Speaker 2: We'll go right now. 356 00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:29,240 Speaker 7: I would not be surprised at this point. 357 00:15:29,560 --> 00:15:33,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, oh my god, Jacqueline, you do understand what he's saying. 358 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 5: Right, Yeah, No, I get it. I mean there was 359 00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 5: a couple of times, Like one of my friends wanted 360 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:40,960 Speaker 5: to meet for lunch and she sort of lived over 361 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:43,720 Speaker 5: by that courthouse, like down that way. So we went 362 00:15:44,160 --> 00:15:46,440 Speaker 5: and we had lunch, trying to maybe run into Tom 363 00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 5: and I didn't. 364 00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:49,480 Speaker 1: Oh no, there's. 365 00:15:49,360 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 4: More than one crazy of you. 366 00:15:52,240 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 1: Well, I don't want Jacqueline to leave this phone call 367 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 1: empty handed. That's why, Jacquelin, we're going to offer to 368 00:15:56,640 --> 00:15:59,720 Speaker 1: send you out to lunch with Tom's secretary. Did you 369 00:15:59,760 --> 00:16:00,360 Speaker 1: get a long. 370 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:02,160 Speaker 5: Thank you? 371 00:16:02,960 --> 00:16:06,200 Speaker 6: Please don't go to lunch with my secretary, please, brooked 372 00:16:06,320 --> 00:16:07,240 Speaker 6: Jeffrey in the morning,