WEBVTT - Some Time With... Rhonda Shear! (Part 2) 0:00:18.040 --> 0:00:20.400 Welcome to part two of our interview with Rhonda Sheer 0:00:20.640 --> 0:00:24.880 also known as Adult Kimmy from Season three episode nineteen. 0:00:25.360 --> 0:00:27.760 We touched on so many things already in part one, 0:00:27.920 --> 0:00:30.680 but there's still so much to uncover in this episode. 0:00:31.040 --> 0:00:34.080 We guarantee you're gonna love it. Here's Rhonda. 0:00:34.360 --> 0:00:36.760 I would love to hear a little bit about your 0:00:36.760 --> 0:00:39.600 book Up All Night. Can you tell us some about 0:00:39.640 --> 0:00:41.559 it and about some of that show and what that 0:00:41.680 --> 0:00:42.159 was like for you. 0:00:42.360 --> 0:00:44.680 Yeah, it's called Up All Night, and I just had 0:00:44.720 --> 0:00:47.400 that recognition, but it's really what I should have called it. 0:00:47.400 --> 0:00:50.880 I said from Hollywood Bombshell to ladereag Lobul life lessons 0:00:50.920 --> 0:00:53.559 from an accidental Feminist, And I really shouldn't just call 0:00:53.640 --> 0:00:58.720 this oohal feminists, because uh, everything I did in my life, 0:00:58.880 --> 0:01:02.480 I was fucking the odds, I mean, and going against people. 0:01:02.640 --> 0:01:04.640 And that's what this book shows, you know. And so 0:01:04.680 --> 0:01:07.160 it talks about my early days in LA but there's 0:01:07.160 --> 0:01:09.880 a lot of actors that you know that accomplished what 0:01:10.000 --> 0:01:13.000 I did. But then it then it takes you through 0:01:13.520 --> 0:01:17.319 my forties when I get married and reunite, so finding 0:01:17.400 --> 0:01:19.959 love in your forties for the first time, and then 0:01:20.240 --> 0:01:24.120 starting over with a completely different other business, which was 0:01:24.160 --> 0:01:27.800 complete and just even business learning businessman. I knew how 0:01:28.280 --> 0:01:31.319 to handle myself as a business so myself and how. 0:01:31.319 --> 0:01:33.640 You know, there was a whole different world to. 0:01:33.480 --> 0:01:37.280 Financing business plans and financing and all that. I always going, ah, 0:01:37.440 --> 0:01:39.560 don't people. 0:01:39.600 --> 0:01:40.120 In the beginning. 0:01:40.120 --> 0:01:41.960 But my husband and I were, our business plan were 0:01:42.040 --> 0:01:44.319 and at that time it was just survival because I was. 0:01:44.280 --> 0:01:47.039 Going to say to make money, yeah, that's my BusinessLand. 0:01:47.120 --> 0:01:49.360 He had he had been here and I had done 0:01:49.400 --> 0:01:53.360 okay financially. But when we met it was like he 0:01:53.400 --> 0:01:55.880 had bought through a divorce. And my husband had many businesses, 0:01:55.880 --> 0:01:59.040 but he didn't have the wife behind him that would 0:01:59.040 --> 0:02:01.360 have said you need to keep at business, don't sell it. 0:02:01.440 --> 0:02:04.200 So we're actually a perfect match because he's a bit 0:02:04.360 --> 0:02:07.720 more serious, but he's really good with financials and numbers, 0:02:07.920 --> 0:02:10.160 and I'm like creative, a squirrel. 0:02:10.240 --> 0:02:10.560 I got it. 0:02:10.720 --> 0:02:13.600 That's yeah, that's me and my husband. He's like much 0:02:13.639 --> 0:02:16.239 more subdued and whatever, and he's just like, I love you, 0:02:16.280 --> 0:02:19.400 bab that's my bed, Like just me, you know, losing keys, 0:02:19.440 --> 0:02:23.120 can't buy my phone, singing around the house talking to myself, 0:02:23.400 --> 0:02:25.519 you know, whatever, and he's just like, that's my baby. 0:02:27.480 --> 0:02:29.560 Two of us in the relationship that would implode you 0:02:29.560 --> 0:02:30.040 a nightmare. 0:02:30.040 --> 0:02:32.360 And I am so glad that I did not end 0:02:32.480 --> 0:02:33.040 up marrying. 0:02:33.600 --> 0:02:35.840 I mean, I'm still friendly, but the fellow I was 0:02:35.919 --> 0:02:39.240 dating for the most years. But I stand up comic 0:02:39.280 --> 0:02:41.440 in myself because basically, you know, at one point he 0:02:41.520 --> 0:02:43.079 said to me, we were living in a really nice 0:02:43.120 --> 0:02:45.520 apartment in Beverly Hills, but he said, you know, we 0:02:45.600 --> 0:02:48.280 talk about marriage. He said, you'll you'll never be worse. 0:02:48.480 --> 0:02:50.800 You'll never do worse than this. And I mean, I 0:02:50.840 --> 0:02:52.120 know that sounds horrible, but it's. 0:02:51.919 --> 0:02:53.920 Like, but I want more. I want to own a 0:02:53.919 --> 0:02:56.720 house one day. I want to have I don't mean 0:02:56.720 --> 0:02:57.400 that I need. 0:02:57.240 --> 0:02:59.840 You know, right right crazy stuff, but I need to 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:03.240 have goals in life and there has to be you know, 0:03:03.400 --> 0:03:05.400 I don't And at that time, if you turn forty 0:03:05.440 --> 0:03:07.760 in the industry, it's not like now you can. 0:03:07.680 --> 0:03:10.000 Well, right, there was between forty and sixty it was 0:03:10.040 --> 0:03:12.079 the you know, it was the barren wasteland of like 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:15.120 you were don't were hot, you were a teacher, or 0:03:15.160 --> 0:03:16.800 then you did nothing for a while and then became 0:03:16.800 --> 0:03:17.240 a grandma. 0:03:17.440 --> 0:03:20.560 Yeah, I mean's goodness, it really has changed. And I'm 0:03:20.560 --> 0:03:22.360 really excited to see women's roles. 0:03:22.400 --> 0:03:26.520 But women in their forties are interesting. We don't give 0:03:26.600 --> 0:03:29.720 us for most anymore. Like we are fascinating creatures to watch. 0:03:30.120 --> 0:03:32.519 If I could have held at forty seven, that's what 0:03:32.680 --> 0:03:35.480 Andrew is. I think, right, that is the best stage. 0:03:35.720 --> 0:03:37.640 But the book takes you through that, and then it 0:03:37.720 --> 0:03:38.560 gives life. 0:03:38.400 --> 0:03:41.120 Lessons along the way and what you know, when people 0:03:41.120 --> 0:03:43.320 are telling you don't do it, don't do it. And 0:03:43.400 --> 0:03:45.920 even when my husband, you know, started and I started 0:03:45.920 --> 0:03:48.040 this business and then starting a business, it take teaches 0:03:48.080 --> 0:03:50.640 you how to actually start a business because people have 0:03:50.640 --> 0:03:52.360 great ideas and they don't know what to do with them. 0:03:52.360 --> 0:03:54.680 So men like the book too. It isn't it's funny 0:03:55.320 --> 0:03:57.040 back in the day, up all night. It's more for men. 0:03:57.080 --> 0:04:01.200 And now my life is more about women helping women. Yes, 0:04:01.400 --> 0:04:03.840 women with breast cancer. We do beautiful and a sectomy 0:04:03.880 --> 0:04:06.600 bras and we just do a lot of great things. 0:04:06.320 --> 0:04:08.360 And you know, I love that do a lot. 0:04:08.440 --> 0:04:11.160 You know, we do have anything. Yess. We were talking 0:04:11.160 --> 0:04:13.080 about the kind of charity work I've done. 0:04:12.920 --> 0:04:15.480 In which we've really gotten you know, have had the 0:04:15.560 --> 0:04:18.599 opportunity to give back. We don't like breast cancer and 0:04:18.680 --> 0:04:22.800 just cancer and so many, so many different charities through 0:04:22.800 --> 0:04:26.120 my years here. But that's obviously anything with women is 0:04:26.160 --> 0:04:28.240 our main focus, and just helping women who feel like 0:04:28.520 --> 0:04:30.960 I'm not more entrepreneur. I have this idea, but I 0:04:30.960 --> 0:04:33.320 don't know who to do with this idea. So that's 0:04:33.320 --> 0:04:35.719 what this book talks about and goes through you know, 0:04:35.760 --> 0:04:37.560 and has some fun pictures, and it has some fun 0:04:37.680 --> 0:04:41.279 stories and some of those before me too moments and 0:04:41.320 --> 0:04:43.640 some really funny ones because there were funny ones. 0:04:43.680 --> 0:04:45.240 But again, I use comedy too. 0:04:45.480 --> 0:04:48.159 I was a bit oh yeah. I mean, some guys 0:04:48.200 --> 0:04:50.320 I learned from Bob and Dave, you use comedy to 0:04:50.400 --> 0:04:54.560 diffuse absolutely painful. I mean I watched them laugh through 0:04:54.600 --> 0:04:58.280 the depths of their sisters. I mean I make horrifically 0:04:58.279 --> 0:05:01.640 timed jokes about you know, because it's how I learned 0:05:01.800 --> 0:05:05.880 to cope with things, much to you know, my mom's consternation. 0:05:06.279 --> 0:05:09.320 But I know what you do, yeah, because it's I learned. 0:05:09.320 --> 0:05:11.919 I'm like, I can't change this and it's uncomfortable. So 0:05:11.920 --> 0:05:14.440 if I can laugh at it and it's not a scary. 0:05:14.320 --> 0:05:16.200 It is really good and at the end of the day, 0:05:16.279 --> 0:05:18.120 laughter really is good, and it really is good for 0:05:18.160 --> 0:05:20.400 cancer and people that are going through things. So laughter 0:05:20.600 --> 0:05:23.440 is like truly a great medicine. So I used to 0:05:23.520 --> 0:05:26.799 get me out of sicky situations. I still do sometimes. 0:05:26.839 --> 0:05:29.680 But it was really fun writing this book and just 0:05:29.839 --> 0:05:31.520 it was more about just finding love. 0:05:31.560 --> 0:05:32.520 And people think, oh. 0:05:32.480 --> 0:05:34.680 After forty you can't find love, or after fifty you 0:05:34.680 --> 0:05:37.800 can't find love. My sister, God bless her is eighty four. 0:05:38.120 --> 0:05:40.120 She was in a relationship where she was married and 0:05:40.120 --> 0:05:43.080 then in a relationship for many years. He passed sadly, 0:05:43.560 --> 0:05:45.400 and then she's not a girl's girl. You know, I 0:05:45.480 --> 0:05:48.200 love girlfriends. I have girlfriends, but a lot of women 0:05:48.240 --> 0:05:50.520 are just like I'm a man, and they just like men. 0:05:50.600 --> 0:05:53.440 She's old school, and I'm like, oh my gosh, she's beautiful, 0:05:53.440 --> 0:05:54.760 but how are you going to find someone? 0:05:54.920 --> 0:05:57.240 You know? At like seventy nine. 0:05:57.279 --> 0:06:00.200 She went on one of these dating sites for like 0:06:00.320 --> 0:06:01.360 older older. 0:06:01.120 --> 0:06:02.839 Older Peace, Yes, yeah, yes. 0:06:02.839 --> 0:06:05.839 Silver or whatever. I don't know Silver, I don't. 0:06:05.640 --> 0:06:10.200 Know what it's going right right and silver Fox. 0:06:10.360 --> 0:06:13.239 But with this man five years, she's eighty four, he's 0:06:13.440 --> 0:06:14.640 eighty eight. 0:06:14.520 --> 0:06:19.160 And they still yes, yes, you know, yes, good for them. 0:06:20.200 --> 0:06:23.599 We people we discount older people too much. 0:06:23.680 --> 0:06:26.960 Yes, yes, and what I mean now that I'm getting older, like, 0:06:27.040 --> 0:06:28.719 and the funny thing is I feel the same. 0:06:28.800 --> 0:06:30.960 You don't. You don't age in your mind as you're saying. 0:06:31.120 --> 0:06:33.000 As my mom always says that she goes. I'm always 0:06:33.000 --> 0:06:35.080 shocked to see the person staring back at me, because in 0:06:35.200 --> 0:06:38.280 here I'm still you know. 0:06:38.440 --> 0:06:39.680 My sister, she's always been. 0:06:40.120 --> 0:06:42.240 She's the one that should have played the roles I 0:06:42.279 --> 0:06:45.480 played because she was the slutty one I wasn't, so 0:06:46.240 --> 0:06:46.760 I wasn't. 0:06:46.839 --> 0:06:48.559 She flirted with men, she dated. 0:06:48.640 --> 0:06:51.080 Well, there was a great character development for you. You 0:06:51.120 --> 0:06:52.919 were like, ah, yes, I see. 0:06:53.320 --> 0:06:54.080 Did we lose her? 0:06:54.440 --> 0:06:57.040 Oh no, we've lost her. Her sister cut her off, 0:06:57.080 --> 0:07:10.720 her sister. Can you there? I said, you called one 0:07:10.760 --> 0:07:16.760 sister of slut and look what happens. She would love it, right, Yeah, 0:07:16.800 --> 0:07:18.280 she would have been like no, no, no, say more. 0:07:18.360 --> 0:07:21.200 Yeah exactly. I thought maybe your people were like, no, 0:07:21.640 --> 0:07:23.880 I don't say that. 0:07:23.880 --> 0:07:26.080 That is so funny. She would love it. And with 0:07:26.240 --> 0:07:28.960 some I'll just wait for you know what. 0:07:28.920 --> 0:07:32.119 Hey, when I'm eighty four years old, I hope someone 0:07:32.160 --> 0:07:34.360 speaks about me that way. It was like she was wild. 0:07:34.400 --> 0:07:36.600 My sister is out of her mind. I'll be like, yes, 0:07:36.640 --> 0:07:37.040 I was. 0:07:37.200 --> 0:07:38.320 So she's looking. 0:07:38.120 --> 0:07:40.040 At me now I'm old and wrinkley and brutie. But 0:07:40.080 --> 0:07:41.520 god damn it, I was hilarious. 0:07:41.600 --> 0:07:42.440 She would be proud. 0:07:42.600 --> 0:07:44.880 You've actually got her on instagram page before she found 0:07:44.880 --> 0:07:47.400 this guy, and her name is known to sassy on Instagram. 0:07:47.560 --> 0:07:49.760 Her picture, Oh my god, gorgeous. Love her. 0:07:49.800 --> 0:07:53.080 He's sexy and she's young in mind. And my niece 0:07:53.320 --> 0:07:54.720 who's in her fifties. 0:07:54.320 --> 0:07:56.640 Her daughter and I are earl like really good friends. 0:07:56.920 --> 0:07:58.000 But I love this sister. 0:07:58.320 --> 0:08:00.480 Is what I sort of say about older and that's 0:08:00.520 --> 0:08:04.000 a really good topic, is that people become invisible. Like 0:08:04.040 --> 0:08:06.560 even with the doctors, what happened is they're like, well, 0:08:06.560 --> 0:08:08.640 I'm not going to save them. They're like whatever, they've 0:08:08.680 --> 0:08:10.960 lived a great life. That's not how it should be 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:12.840 because they do have a lot to give. And on 0:08:12.880 --> 0:08:15.280 the other hand, you know, my sister's are who and 0:08:15.760 --> 0:08:19.520 the doctor told me by her still having sex that 0:08:19.560 --> 0:08:20.680 she will live a long life. 0:08:20.720 --> 0:08:23.080 That it's true. Help, it's true, it's fit. 0:08:24.440 --> 0:08:25.920 Help, it helps helps things. 0:08:25.960 --> 0:08:29.320 You heard it here, folk, but it's true. 0:08:29.480 --> 0:08:31.600 And so you know, I am happy to see that 0:08:31.640 --> 0:08:33.760 older women like some of these gals like Jaane Fonda 0:08:33.800 --> 0:08:37.359 that have been acting like Carol, Carol. 0:08:37.080 --> 0:08:41.480 Burnett like hilarious, love, hilarious. 0:08:41.880 --> 0:08:43.640 I mean, I'm so happy because they have so much 0:08:43.679 --> 0:08:45.800 to give. And it's just you know, as women, it 0:08:45.880 --> 0:08:48.880 was bad enough that for you guys, your life span 0:08:48.960 --> 0:08:52.480 and acting right, and then now you've got a whole 0:08:52.520 --> 0:08:54.640 life if you want to continue to keep gwind. 0:08:54.600 --> 0:08:59.000 For lots you want. It's very true. My friend Paulina 0:08:59.160 --> 0:09:05.760 Portskova wrote an excellent book very much about the topic. 0:09:06.080 --> 0:09:08.880 You know, she obviously was a supermodel and you know, 0:09:08.920 --> 0:09:11.640 all of this stuff, and but is a brilliant woman. 0:09:12.040 --> 0:09:15.920 And again was always discounted because oh, you're pretty, so 0:09:15.960 --> 0:09:18.120 you can't possibly be an author. You can be a writer, 0:09:18.240 --> 0:09:20.280 you couldn't be intelligent, you know, And she's brilliant, and 0:09:20.320 --> 0:09:25.439 she wrote this whole book about finding the joy in 0:09:25.440 --> 0:09:29.400 in that aging and in that invisibility of that Suddenly 0:09:30.120 --> 0:09:33.400 I suddenly you're not here for consumption. I'm not here 0:09:33.520 --> 0:09:36.840 to make you happy. I'm not here to provide you 0:09:37.080 --> 0:09:40.560 with an idealized version of femininity. I'm just here to 0:09:40.640 --> 0:09:43.080 be it. Yeah, And that's it, and there's there is 0:09:43.160 --> 0:09:44.640 there is a freedom in that. And I think it 0:09:44.679 --> 0:09:46.720 starts happening in your forties, which is why I think 0:09:46.760 --> 0:09:49.480 we see a lot of women. I think it's you know, 0:09:49.800 --> 0:09:52.360 it's been discussed because women all of a sudden finding 0:09:52.360 --> 0:09:56.480 themselves their kids, are in their twenties and they're like, way, wait, wait, wait, waity, way, 0:09:56.520 --> 0:09:58.760 I've been doing all of this for everybody else. My 0:09:59.240 --> 0:10:00.760 al there's great power, and. 0:10:00.800 --> 0:10:01.400 That's not right. 0:10:01.520 --> 0:10:04.440 I didn't feel like I was Mitchell forty seven, and 0:10:04.480 --> 0:10:07.120 then I was married to me and I started a 0:10:07.160 --> 0:10:10.599 whole other business, and I felt the prettiest, the sexiest, 0:10:10.640 --> 0:10:12.040 I felt the most powered. 0:10:12.440 --> 0:10:15.120 And then because you feel confident because you're not worrying 0:10:15.160 --> 0:10:17.360 about what other people, it's not about other people. 0:10:17.600 --> 0:10:20.560 And then when you get older, then you get worse. 0:10:20.760 --> 0:10:22.760 You start saying anything and. 0:10:22.800 --> 0:10:25.120 That, Yeah, it's true. My mom says that, she goes, 0:10:25.200 --> 0:10:27.120 I don't give a shit anymore. I say what I 0:10:27.160 --> 0:10:29.520 want and she'll start to say something and I get 0:10:29.559 --> 0:10:31.160 kind of a look and she's like, I'm old, I 0:10:31.160 --> 0:10:33.760 can say it. I'm gonna say it like I go 0:10:33.840 --> 0:10:34.080 for it. 0:10:34.160 --> 0:10:35.959 Yeah, Buddie, always in La I would you know, I 0:10:35.960 --> 0:10:37.840 always lie. A couple of years now it's like, no, 0:10:38.040 --> 0:10:40.520 you know, I'm good. I won't say it now because 0:10:40.520 --> 0:10:42.280 I'm preak. Too many people say it now that I'm. 0:10:42.160 --> 0:10:46.520 Making my conack. But you know what I actually do 0:10:46.600 --> 0:10:47.840 embrace it. And what's funny. 0:10:47.880 --> 0:10:49.640 And my husband and I live in Florida now because 0:10:50.000 --> 0:10:52.199 our biggest customer is home shopping AHCN. 0:10:52.200 --> 0:10:53.840 But we're all we're all over the world. 0:10:53.880 --> 0:10:58.319 We're all over you can't Australia, Canada along with. 0:10:58.360 --> 0:10:59.800 Yeah, it's a huge lead. 0:11:00.840 --> 0:11:03.200 It's really exciting and I'm really excited about my product. 0:11:03.240 --> 0:11:03.800 I really am. 0:11:04.200 --> 0:11:06.240 And we're doing right now and you all have to 0:11:06.240 --> 0:11:08.000 come use this. We're building a studio. We have two 0:11:08.040 --> 0:11:10.520 large buildings and one we're turning into a complete sound 0:11:10.559 --> 0:11:14.319 stage at the moment. Kind of a comeback, coming back 0:11:14.400 --> 0:11:17.920 to things that I love. You know, podcast people can 0:11:17.960 --> 0:11:21.040 rent it. We can supply you know them, you know, 0:11:21.120 --> 0:11:23.000 we can we can produce whatever. 0:11:23.120 --> 0:11:26.079 So that's smart with with everybody doing podcasts and needing 0:11:26.120 --> 0:11:28.439 spaces to like shoot that, aren't you know, I. 0:11:28.360 --> 0:11:31.640 Mean people even use rehearsal spaces and babes and so 0:11:32.679 --> 0:11:35.160 movies and films that come down here, so it's really exciting. 0:11:35.640 --> 0:11:37.600 So I feel like, you know, when you hit a 0:11:37.640 --> 0:11:40.000 certain age, it doesn't mean like you know, people like 0:11:40.120 --> 0:11:42.400 I'm retired. I don't want to retire. I mean I 0:11:42.440 --> 0:11:44.120 love what I'm doing now with my business. If I 0:11:44.120 --> 0:11:46.240 get to do a few acting things, that'll be a blast. 0:11:46.800 --> 0:11:48.600 But if the if. 0:11:48.400 --> 0:11:51.360 The studio takes off, whatever, how exciting to just keep 0:11:51.400 --> 0:11:53.600 going in life. I want to live just my best 0:11:53.840 --> 0:11:56.520 life is going. 0:11:57.720 --> 0:11:58.680 My husband. 0:12:00.080 --> 0:12:01.880 Surprise cameo by van. 0:12:02.080 --> 0:12:04.600 He's a good just have his teeth claiming this is 0:12:04.600 --> 0:12:06.240 what happens is a wife. I don't know about you. 0:12:06.720 --> 0:12:07.680 Are you married now? 0:12:07.760 --> 0:12:10.240 But I've been with my boyfriend for ten years so 0:12:10.360 --> 0:12:12.200 it'll be common law at some point and I won't 0:12:12.240 --> 0:12:13.480 have to spend money on a wedding. 0:12:13.520 --> 0:12:15.920 So yeah, oh no, I think it is good. You 0:12:16.000 --> 0:12:17.880 can get whatever all about it. 0:12:19.880 --> 0:12:21.960 But you know, I'm the one and your age probably 0:12:22.000 --> 0:12:23.880 don't have that to worry too much. But you get 0:12:23.920 --> 0:12:25.320 to a certain age and they don't want to go 0:12:25.360 --> 0:12:27.800 to doctors anymore. So I'm the one that's all of 0:12:27.840 --> 0:12:31.120 the scheduling. I'm the one who pushes him to do stuff, 0:12:31.480 --> 0:12:33.079 and then he's like, well, I don't want to go anymore. 0:12:33.120 --> 0:12:35.800 I'm like, I'm keeping you alive if not to be 0:12:35.840 --> 0:12:37.040 with another younger man. 0:12:37.200 --> 0:12:41.160 So, you know, I just had this conversation with my 0:12:41.200 --> 0:12:43.040 husband this morning, who had to call our doctor. He's 0:12:43.040 --> 0:12:44.679 got to go in for santaz and I, you know, 0:12:45.120 --> 0:12:48.200 cholesterolh blah blah blah. But like it's just so funny 0:12:48.360 --> 0:12:50.520 because you know, he's never been He was like, I 0:12:50.559 --> 0:12:52.920 never had insurance or a doctor a thing. And then 0:12:52.960 --> 0:12:54.680 like we got married and I was like, okay, now 0:12:54.760 --> 0:12:56.040 you have to make an appointment. Now you have to 0:12:56.040 --> 0:12:58.960 go do this. And you know, it's true. It's why 0:12:59.080 --> 0:13:01.520 it's why married men live longer is because they're married 0:13:01.520 --> 0:13:07.400 to someone. It's not that they're happier, they're just nagged 0:13:07.440 --> 0:13:10.840 into compliance and whatever. You know, it is so true. 0:13:11.040 --> 0:13:13.440 It's so true. I mean, the truth thing about a 0:13:13.440 --> 0:13:14.319 warrant behind a man. 0:13:14.440 --> 0:13:16.640 And we really are good partners as it sounds like 0:13:16.720 --> 0:13:19.560 you guys are in our business, even though yes we 0:13:19.760 --> 0:13:22.600 argue because he hits the pillow and he's out. I 0:13:22.679 --> 0:13:24.559 hit the pillow and I'm like, what do you think 0:13:24.559 --> 0:13:27.599 about this idea? I have a new idea for and 0:13:27.679 --> 0:13:30.440 that okay, I don't know. I got to bring us 0:13:30.520 --> 0:13:33.520 up on this podcast because we can talk, of course, right. 0:13:33.400 --> 0:13:35.320 Yeah, yeah, yeah, we can talk whatever we want. Let's 0:13:35.360 --> 0:13:35.640 do it. 0:13:36.000 --> 0:13:36.560 What are we talking? 0:13:36.559 --> 0:13:37.160 I'm going to do it. 0:13:38.040 --> 0:13:38.280 Do it? 0:13:38.320 --> 0:13:40.079 What are we doing? Oh, I'm excited. This is a 0:13:40.120 --> 0:13:42.400 Rhonda Sheer moment. What is it? What are those? Well? 0:13:42.400 --> 0:13:43.200 All those underword? 0:13:43.360 --> 0:13:43.440 Oh? 0:13:43.520 --> 0:13:44.080 Yeah, period? 0:13:44.320 --> 0:13:44.680 I have some? 0:13:44.960 --> 0:13:46.840 Yes, Oh my god, I have a period anymore. I 0:13:46.920 --> 0:13:48.880 have some. I am obsessed with them. I use them 0:13:48.880 --> 0:13:50.960 because I try not I use cups and I try 0:13:50.960 --> 0:13:54.520 not to use disposable products anymore. Okay, I'm sure everyone 0:13:54.600 --> 0:13:56.599 is now thrilled to know that we we've had this 0:13:56.640 --> 0:13:58.839 conversation before. You can't just used to talk about it 0:13:59.120 --> 0:14:03.360 this year. I don't care. I'm part of Natural. We 0:14:03.400 --> 0:14:05.520 are women and we get periods. Duh. There we are. 0:14:05.800 --> 0:14:06.120 Okay. 0:14:06.160 --> 0:14:08.959 This is so exciting and on so many levels because 0:14:09.559 --> 0:14:12.640 my team, I've got young, fabulous for justus women of 0:14:13.240 --> 0:14:14.880 They're very empowered. And I love listening to you know 0:14:14.920 --> 0:14:16.680 people because I get ideas from I'm just like older 0:14:16.679 --> 0:14:20.040 people and like the ah bra, which is my very 0:14:20.040 --> 0:14:21.760 famous bra. That was something that I came up with 0:14:21.760 --> 0:14:25.200 a concept for my ever changing body after but the 0:14:25.280 --> 0:14:27.040 period and he's they were telling me, you don't know, 0:14:27.080 --> 0:14:27.960 this is it, this is it. 0:14:28.000 --> 0:14:29.480 Girls are doing it. So I start in living on 0:14:29.560 --> 0:14:30.200 my models. 0:14:30.680 --> 0:14:33.040 I've all, there's no doubt I've stayed in businesses is 0:14:33.080 --> 0:14:37.400 where I'm completely almost surrounded by gorgeous girls right my team, 0:14:37.520 --> 0:14:41.600 my models at the studios. Anyway, So we created our 0:14:41.640 --> 0:14:44.640 own They're called share Protection, and I went on air 0:14:44.680 --> 0:14:46.560 and sold two weeks ago and they flew out. 0:14:46.640 --> 0:14:49.240 So now, yeah, so you're gonna make so much money 0:14:49.240 --> 0:14:52.520 with us, get them in. They are. It is such 0:14:52.520 --> 0:14:55.280 a great new It's brilliant, real idea though, because it 0:14:55.440 --> 0:14:57.920 really like we have women have used products for so 0:14:58.000 --> 0:15:00.160 long that are really damaging to us and all so 0:15:00.280 --> 0:15:01.440 to the environment. 0:15:01.120 --> 0:15:04.320 Damaging to you, damaging to the planet. I started with 0:15:04.320 --> 0:15:06.960 were really funny. But what I'm really excited about this 0:15:07.320 --> 0:15:09.440 because now we've been asked to go further than what's 0:15:09.440 --> 0:15:12.040 out there with legs that you can work out in 0:15:12.240 --> 0:15:13.520 and then just take them off, you know. 0:15:13.520 --> 0:15:16.240 With posa. Yes, I'm gonna tell you all kinds of 0:15:16.280 --> 0:15:17.120 stuff don't work about that. 0:15:17.120 --> 0:15:20.320 I'm gonna oh my god, I'm like I'm like, yeah. 0:15:20.560 --> 0:15:23.800 We're shorts, so we're doing like a whole. And then 0:15:23.800 --> 0:15:25.800 also I went on I went on air. I also 0:15:25.880 --> 0:15:28.040 said to my my older lady, I'm like, okay, so 0:15:28.400 --> 0:15:32.520 if you sneeze or cough too much, Look. 0:15:32.360 --> 0:15:34.880 It changes when you get old people. I'm just saying, 0:15:35.080 --> 0:15:41.040 not everything is as well. Uh what's the sealed you 0:15:41.040 --> 0:15:42.560 know what I mean? And the other thing is I 0:15:43.200 --> 0:15:45.240 have to use that kind of don't. Yeah, it's not 0:15:45.560 --> 0:15:49.160 like the the airtight seal has uh it has worn 0:15:49.200 --> 0:15:51.000 out a little bit, you know what I mean. It's 0:15:51.040 --> 0:15:53.680 it's at some point in your life where you see 0:15:53.840 --> 0:15:55.680 turn the bottle over a little you know what I mean. 0:15:55.800 --> 0:15:58.240 I have to do a product for you and get 0:15:58.320 --> 0:16:00.960 you on hsun for both of you. We should do 0:16:01.080 --> 0:16:02.200 the throw me. 0:16:02.160 --> 0:16:06.040 In bus, you know the menopause booths. 0:16:06.840 --> 0:16:07.840 I mean, you know what. 0:16:07.800 --> 0:16:10.880 Would be good for your girls is you know, because 0:16:10.960 --> 0:16:13.480 I became I was smaller and than no one tells 0:16:13.520 --> 0:16:16.280 you to get older, you keep growing. Great would be 0:16:16.320 --> 0:16:19.280 to do the ultimate push up raw which are out there, 0:16:19.280 --> 0:16:21.240 but not the way I do because I don't really comfortable, 0:16:21.640 --> 0:16:23.360 and make fuller house like meeting. 0:16:23.760 --> 0:16:25.080 The girls are up and you can. 0:16:24.960 --> 0:16:29.520 Be party fuller of the fuller blouse bra. There we 0:16:29.560 --> 0:16:31.080 go see why and you. 0:16:31.000 --> 0:16:32.960 Would be good? Why you would be good because when. 0:16:32.880 --> 0:16:34.840 You go on air, there's a lot of celebrities that 0:16:34.920 --> 0:16:38.040 go on the shopping networks and on even on you know, 0:16:38.160 --> 0:16:39.320 on TikTok all over. 0:16:39.240 --> 0:16:42.080 But they're not but they're not real. 0:16:42.680 --> 0:16:44.680 And to sell the reason why people were why you successful, 0:16:44.680 --> 0:16:46.520 I said, because I talked to talk, I really talk 0:16:46.720 --> 0:16:49.479 about nipples and things like that, because. 0:16:49.800 --> 0:16:52.680 Whom oh god right, yeah, things that we all have. 0:16:53.120 --> 0:16:54.560 Why are you freaking out about this? 0:16:54.800 --> 0:16:56.960 But people don't talk about it. So if you're just 0:16:57.120 --> 0:16:58.720 really honest and you. 0:16:58.720 --> 0:17:01.840 Talk about in a product and if you believe in it, 0:17:02.280 --> 0:17:05.439 then it works, you know. So yes, I see, we 0:17:05.520 --> 0:17:07.280 have to talk about that because I think we do. 0:17:07.400 --> 0:17:09.520 You think I thought you could be the push up 0:17:09.520 --> 0:17:11.600 bra that I've never had. 0:17:13.160 --> 0:17:15.919 I've you know, you'd be surprised. But you're not the 0:17:15.920 --> 0:17:23.520 first person who said that to me. Now, I uh 0:17:20.320 --> 0:17:30.240 sh sh It's funny because what I keep hearing you 0:17:30.280 --> 0:17:34.560