1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,320 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time, y'all 2 00:00:05,320 --> 00:00:05,960 Speaker 1: don't know y'all, but. 3 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 2: All at all, so given them. 4 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:15,760 Speaker 3: Back. 5 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:20,680 Speaker 1: A million bus busy. 6 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 4: Listening to show. 7 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 5: I want joy joy. 8 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:06,840 Speaker 4: You know you love, you. 9 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 6: Know you. 10 00:01:24,880 --> 00:01:36,479 Speaker 2: Gotta turn. 11 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 7: I got to turn the mouth turn. You probably got 12 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 7: to turn the mouth. Water the money up looking me? 13 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 5: Come me? 14 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 3: Come on, you'll think that, huh, I sure will. Good 15 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 3: morning everybody. 16 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 8: You're listening to the voice, Come on, dig me now, 17 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:13,440 Speaker 8: one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show, man, Yeah, 18 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:13,680 Speaker 8: I do. 19 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:17,640 Speaker 3: Man. God been good to me, man, he been so 20 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:19,840 Speaker 3: good to me. Wow. 21 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:24,360 Speaker 8: And and you know why I say it like that. 22 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:26,919 Speaker 8: What makes it amazing is because it's been in spite 23 00:02:26,919 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 8: of myself. 24 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 3: I mean, you know what I mean by that. I 25 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:33,960 Speaker 3: mean I mean that he's been good to me. 26 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 8: In spite of all the craziness I've done, all the 27 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 8: foolishness I've gotten myself involved with, and not only got 28 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 8: but knowingly got myself involved with, all of the stupid 29 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 8: decisions I've made. Put all that to the side, and 30 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:58,160 Speaker 8: he's still been good to me. Bring it all and 31 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 8: put it on the plate, and he's still being good 32 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 8: to me. 33 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 3: Man. 34 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:04,080 Speaker 8: That's amazing, man, And I'm sure there's a lot of 35 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 8: people that can say the exact same thing. 36 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:09,320 Speaker 3: I mean, come on, man, I got you. 37 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 8: Ain't famous, I got ain't nobody, got no microphone in 38 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 8: your face, I got nobody, ain't got no spotlight on you. 39 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:16,239 Speaker 8: I got nobody, ain't got no camera in your face. 40 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 8: I got nobody probably ain't nobody blogging about you. But 41 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 8: let me tell you something. If you break it down 42 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 8: and be real about it, Oh you done done something 43 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:27,880 Speaker 8: outside the box. You done done something ladies included, you've 44 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:30,079 Speaker 8: done something out the box. You woke up and went 45 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 8: what did I do that for? 46 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 3: Oh? We've all done it. So with all that said and. 47 00:03:37,040 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 8: Done, God still loves you, man, God still loves you, 48 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 8: still wants the best for you, still considers you his child. 49 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 3: And it's willing. It's willing man to show you your future. 50 00:03:50,360 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 3: He is willing to show you your life. He is 51 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 3: willing to let you take a peek at the blueprint. 52 00:03:57,600 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 1: Man. 53 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:01,400 Speaker 8: That's an amazing God right there. Because I know I 54 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 8: couldn't do it. I couldn't do it. I'm glad it's him, 55 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 8: you know. Today, Man, I want to encourage brothers out there. 56 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 8: And when I say brothers, I'm talking to everybody that's 57 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 8: of the male species. I don't care about your color. 58 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 8: I really really don't. I don't even have time for 59 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 8: that in my day. Matter of fact, sometimes when you 60 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 8: get to discuss and race, I just get tired of it. 61 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:23,919 Speaker 3: Sometimes I just wish, you know, some days I just 62 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 3: want to wake up, just do me. 63 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 8: You know, I got what the skin tone is, I 64 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 8: got that, But I just want to wake up some 65 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 8: days and just going by my business and do me. 66 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:35,239 Speaker 8: I don't want to have to deal with it somebody. 67 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:37,280 Speaker 8: I get tired of talking about the issues. Ain't gonna 68 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 8: make them go away, But sometimes I get tired. So 69 00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:41,800 Speaker 8: to day, I'm talking to brothers, all the brothers of 70 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 8: the male species. I'm talking about men today. Man, if 71 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:50,360 Speaker 8: you ain't doing it all, if you're feeling empty, man, 72 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:54,599 Speaker 8: start today completing your process and your journey. And you 73 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 8: know what I'm saying by that, if there's a part 74 00:04:57,600 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 8: of you just missing as a man. And now, man, 75 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 8: I'm talking to you. So you know, some ladies listening, 76 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 8: but you know what I'm talking about. It's some part 77 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:10,359 Speaker 8: of you that's missing as a man. If you ain't 78 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 8: really been in touch with your kids like you're supposed 79 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:16,599 Speaker 8: to now for whatever the reason is. And please know, 80 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 8: I do understand how sometimes women can use children as pawns. 81 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:26,800 Speaker 8: It happens all the time. I've been through it. I've 82 00:05:26,839 --> 00:05:29,719 Speaker 8: been through it, man, I know what it feels like, man, 83 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:32,839 Speaker 8: to wanna do something. But because you ain't got this 84 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:34,840 Speaker 8: or you ain't doing this, then I ain't gonna let 85 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 8: you have this. You gotta fight through, fellas, you got 86 00:05:38,560 --> 00:05:43,560 Speaker 8: to fight through. You got to fulfill your end of 87 00:05:43,640 --> 00:05:46,920 Speaker 8: the deal. And I got how difficult they making it. 88 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:49,719 Speaker 8: I got how man, it's gonna come with some drama, 89 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:53,039 Speaker 8: but you gotta fight through it. Because man, we need 90 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 8: fathers to be fathers. That's really what we need. If 91 00:05:56,680 --> 00:05:58,840 Speaker 8: you're a man out there and you are a father 92 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 8: of a child, we need you do your job. 93 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 3: I'm talking about. 94 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:09,480 Speaker 8: Our community, our situation, us as a people, all of us. 95 00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 8: We need you to be a father period. Hey man, 96 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 8: I ain't coming down on you. I'm just your boy. 97 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 8: I'm your man. And I've been in the same predicament, 98 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 8: in the same hole myself, where I couldn't get to them, 99 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:29,039 Speaker 8: where they were used as pawns, where they were told 100 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:32,279 Speaker 8: things about me that wasn't even true. I've been through it. 101 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 8: You can't see them, you don't come up. Okay, okay, 102 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:37,599 Speaker 8: I got all that. You ain't sent this. You ain't okay, 103 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 8: Hey got all that. If you can call them sometimes, 104 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:46,680 Speaker 8: tell them you're thinking about them, tell them you love them. 105 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:49,680 Speaker 8: If you can get a letter to them, if you 106 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 8: can get a message to your children through one of 107 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 8: your relatives, start the process today. 108 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 3: Be a father. 109 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 8: It's your job now, because cause you ignoring him, or 110 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:04,159 Speaker 8: you acting like they ain't over there, or you thee 111 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:06,599 Speaker 8: backed them out of your mind because the situation got 112 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 8: too difficult. I got that. I got that, But you 113 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 8: got to step up and be fathers. You got to 114 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:15,640 Speaker 8: write a letter. You gotta send the money if she 115 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 8: talking about it. If you don't send all the money, 116 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 8: you ain't gonna see him. Send what you got if 117 00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:21,880 Speaker 8: she if taking it over there is too much drama, 118 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:24,280 Speaker 8: send it through a relative, Give it to a mama, 119 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 8: Give it to her sister, ask her to take it 120 00:07:26,400 --> 00:07:29,200 Speaker 8: over there and do something for the baby. Because okay, okay, 121 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 8: you can't deal with the drama. I got that, and 122 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:34,240 Speaker 8: I know it's much to pay. When you have to 123 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 8: deal with that because I clearly I know hell have 124 00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:41,000 Speaker 8: no fury like a woman's going. Please know. I know that, 125 00:07:41,560 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 8: Please know. And that's a real statement. That ain't no saying, 126 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 8: Steve got that's that's the truth. But do what you 127 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 8: gotta do. Sometimes you have to apologize. Sometimes an apology 128 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 8: goes a long way to your children. Just say look, 129 00:07:58,760 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 8: because I've made this uponology before. Hey man, look I'm 130 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 8: sorry I wasn't there for you. I was out grinding 131 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 8: and hustling and I wasn't paying attention to you, and 132 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 8: I should have been. And I apologize now. I imagine, man, 133 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:15,600 Speaker 8: there's days where you was telling people I was your 134 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 8: father up at the school and they wasn't believing you. 135 00:08:18,240 --> 00:08:21,680 Speaker 8: I apologize for sending you through that. But now, man, 136 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:25,320 Speaker 8: I tell you what. I made some mistakes, and I 137 00:08:25,360 --> 00:08:27,600 Speaker 8: got it together. I want me and you to move 138 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:29,920 Speaker 8: forward as father and son. I want me and you 139 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 8: to move forward as father and daughter. I want to 140 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:34,880 Speaker 8: be in your life now. I ain't got a lot, 141 00:08:34,920 --> 00:08:37,480 Speaker 8: but guess what, I know a lot because if you 142 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:40,440 Speaker 8: a man and you a father, please know, you know something. 143 00:08:40,120 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 3: That child don't know. 144 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:45,000 Speaker 8: You have information, you have experience, that's all they need 145 00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 8: sometimes to have somebody to talk to. That daughter yours 146 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:52,840 Speaker 8: just needs to know from her daddy, how should a 147 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:53,720 Speaker 8: man treat me? 148 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:54,160 Speaker 6: Dad? 149 00:08:54,720 --> 00:08:56,680 Speaker 3: What should I look for in a man? 150 00:08:56,920 --> 00:08:59,720 Speaker 8: See, they'll take that information from you because they know 151 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:02,920 Speaker 8: it's from the right place. And then you know that 152 00:09:02,960 --> 00:09:06,320 Speaker 8: your son needs you, because you know how difficult it 153 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:09,120 Speaker 8: is if you're trying to be a man without your daddy. 154 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:13,280 Speaker 8: You already know how funky that is, right there. So 155 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 8: come on, man and meet your mistakes and move forward. 156 00:09:16,480 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 8: Call your kids, write a letter, get a phone number 157 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 8: on them, send a text, drop a message, send a 158 00:09:23,200 --> 00:09:27,480 Speaker 8: note up to the school. Through something. Man, if those 159 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:31,960 Speaker 8: of us that are fathers would just be fathers, I 160 00:09:31,960 --> 00:09:32,680 Speaker 8: could shut. 161 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 3: The minering camp down. 162 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:36,000 Speaker 1: Now. 163 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:38,719 Speaker 8: I will say I apologize because I don't want you 164 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:40,600 Speaker 8: to think I'm coming down on you. But I've been 165 00:09:40,640 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 8: through this myself. I ain't really coming down. I'm just 166 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:47,120 Speaker 8: reminding you. This is our job. These are our children, 167 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 8: this is our responsibility. We are men. There is no excuses. 168 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 8: You don't get you don't get cut a brake on 169 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:55,440 Speaker 8: that one. 170 00:09:55,800 --> 00:10:00,120 Speaker 9: Sorry, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Ship. 171 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:08,120 Speaker 3: Ladies and gentlemen, this morning, I have a question. 172 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:14,160 Speaker 8: The question is, when you woke up and open your eyes, 173 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:21,480 Speaker 8: did you feel a very very strong sense of gratitude. 174 00:10:20,280 --> 00:10:23,040 Speaker 3: As you start your day? Question? 175 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 8: Have you realized that, Oh my goodness, this is another 176 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 8: great chance. Those are the two questions I have today. 177 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 8: I want you to answer that, and you need to 178 00:10:34,360 --> 00:10:36,400 Speaker 8: make the answer yes. And the way to do it 179 00:10:36,440 --> 00:10:39,680 Speaker 8: is at least the second part of that. Why I said, 180 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:42,199 Speaker 8: as you start your day, which could be that for 181 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:45,440 Speaker 8: many of us because this is morning, then at least 182 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 8: be able to answer yes to that. Okay, that's the 183 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:50,960 Speaker 8: only way to be Steve Varred Morning Show, Shirley Strawberry, 184 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:54,200 Speaker 8: Colin Farrell, Mississippi, Monica Junior and the legend that is 185 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 8: Nephew Tummy Junior. 186 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:01,520 Speaker 3: Read you right today? 187 00:11:01,679 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 10: So what you mean I'm grateful and just ask ask 188 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:05,600 Speaker 10: yourself the question, I'm gratefu. 189 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 8: Yeah read wow wow, I'm sorry. 190 00:11:13,840 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 3: A lot of reference to your hairline, yeah, he diden. 191 00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:19,120 Speaker 3: Do you have a question today? 192 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:20,040 Speaker 6: Yeah? 193 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:20,240 Speaker 8: I do. 194 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:22,280 Speaker 3: I do have a question this morning. I want to 195 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 3: ask you. 196 00:11:22,520 --> 00:11:25,320 Speaker 10: You know, I know you got your mentoring program going on, 197 00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:27,840 Speaker 10: but can you just explain to some people who don't 198 00:11:27,840 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 10: have a mentor. Why having a mentor is important? What's 199 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 10: the benefit of having a mentor? 200 00:11:33,120 --> 00:11:36,840 Speaker 8: Well, Manhood is very difficult, no, ladies suppose. Again, this 201 00:11:36,960 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 8: is not to say the moment hoood isn't so just 202 00:11:39,880 --> 00:11:43,000 Speaker 8: I'm answering a question for the boy's mintoring camp. 203 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:46,000 Speaker 3: Manhood is very, very difficult. 204 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 8: And because manhood is supposed to have a leadership component 205 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:55,280 Speaker 8: to it is one of the things that makes it 206 00:11:55,800 --> 00:12:02,400 Speaker 8: incredibly challenging. And because manhood all has some elements to 207 00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:06,040 Speaker 8: it that seem to not being shot sought not excuse 208 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 8: me not being taught and shared with this younger generation, 209 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 8: that we are supposed to be protectives, that we are 210 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 8: supposed to be providers. That is what manhood is. We 211 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 8: are to protect, provide, and preserve. That's a must, that's 212 00:12:27,920 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 8: our job. But because that's not being taught a lot 213 00:12:30,679 --> 00:12:33,720 Speaker 8: of times, when a young man doesn't have a male 214 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:38,200 Speaker 8: figure in his life, it's like an explorer without a map. 215 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:42,320 Speaker 8: You just don't know the way there and it becomes 216 00:12:42,360 --> 00:12:45,480 Speaker 8: so challenging and trying to learn this thing called manhood 217 00:12:45,480 --> 00:12:46,120 Speaker 8: on your own. 218 00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:49,760 Speaker 3: Oh my god. So what happens to these young people and. 219 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 8: All men is you will want to be a man, 220 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 8: and then you are faced with the choices. You get 221 00:12:56,840 --> 00:13:00,320 Speaker 8: to be a good man or a sorry man, and 222 00:13:00,360 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 8: you get to decide along the way. 223 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:05,160 Speaker 3: If you're surrounded by sorry men. 224 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:10,439 Speaker 8: And that's your vision of what it is strong possibility, 225 00:13:10,480 --> 00:13:13,080 Speaker 8: that's the one you'll be. So what we do with 226 00:13:13,160 --> 00:13:15,960 Speaker 8: our mentoring programers we put a lot of strong, positive 227 00:13:16,040 --> 00:13:19,240 Speaker 8: men in front of these young guys, oftentimes for the 228 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:22,040 Speaker 8: first time, and that gives them some insight as to 229 00:13:22,080 --> 00:13:24,400 Speaker 8: what it truly looks like. And we have bade these 230 00:13:24,400 --> 00:13:27,559 Speaker 8: principles in them for four days and we teach them 231 00:13:27,559 --> 00:13:29,840 Speaker 8: a lot of team bill and stuff, and life gets 232 00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:33,480 Speaker 8: good and we thank God for the Oh Boy's minering camp. 233 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:36,079 Speaker 3: Ladies and Gentleen, it's time go to break. 234 00:13:36,160 --> 00:13:39,000 Speaker 9: Sureley, thank you. 235 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:42,480 Speaker 11: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll 236 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:44,800 Speaker 11: hear from the nephew if he runs that frame back 237 00:13:44,880 --> 00:13:45,600 Speaker 11: right after this. 238 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:48,920 Speaker 12: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 239 00:13:53,160 --> 00:13:56,200 Speaker 13: My name is Tony and my daughter Bailey is seven 240 00:13:56,280 --> 00:13:58,600 Speaker 13: years old. We learned about Seek of Sale at birt 241 00:13:58,679 --> 00:14:00,960 Speaker 13: So when we got the news, my first mind was 242 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:04,360 Speaker 13: why us I remember that sometimes the things that you 243 00:14:04,520 --> 00:14:07,720 Speaker 13: go through are not necessarily for you, there for somebody else. 244 00:14:07,800 --> 00:14:10,719 Speaker 13: I'm so thankful to God and Saint Jude and all 245 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:12,959 Speaker 13: the angels they work here. They took all the where. 246 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:16,439 Speaker 8: You can help kids fight childhood cancer and sickle soul. 247 00:14:16,600 --> 00:14:21,200 Speaker 8: Become a Saint Jude partner in hope by texting SHMS 248 00:14:21,240 --> 00:14:23,840 Speaker 8: two seven eighty five eight three three. 249 00:14:24,760 --> 00:14:26,920 Speaker 11: It is time now to run that prank back with 250 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:29,800 Speaker 11: the nephew. What you got for his nephew on this Friday. 251 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 3: Let's try to start doing two minutes and less. Let's 252 00:14:33,040 --> 00:14:33,560 Speaker 3: start with that. 253 00:14:34,240 --> 00:14:36,120 Speaker 6: I don't know, I know it ain't gonna work. I 254 00:14:36,160 --> 00:14:37,880 Speaker 6: just thought i'd put it out there anyway. This right 255 00:14:37,920 --> 00:14:40,840 Speaker 6: here is three minute remarks, three minute remarks. 256 00:14:40,880 --> 00:14:43,120 Speaker 3: Let's go get well. 257 00:14:44,040 --> 00:14:46,560 Speaker 6: Yes, I'm trying to reach your brother Keith. Please. 258 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:50,400 Speaker 14: Yeah, this is Keith, Keith. 259 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:54,600 Speaker 6: How you doing? This is Lawrence overhead il Funeral Home. 260 00:14:55,520 --> 00:14:55,920 Speaker 14: Okay. 261 00:14:56,840 --> 00:15:01,360 Speaker 6: We are the ones that have the doing the funeral 262 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:06,320 Speaker 6: for sister Dolores. And that is your aunt. Am I understanding? 263 00:15:06,400 --> 00:15:06,560 Speaker 8: Right? 264 00:15:07,280 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 3: Yeah? 265 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:10,520 Speaker 14: That's Monti okay. 266 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 6: And yes you know the funeral is this coming Thursday. 267 00:15:14,880 --> 00:15:16,400 Speaker 14: Yes, I'll be Thursday. 268 00:15:17,200 --> 00:15:20,840 Speaker 6: I'm giving you a call because it's been brought to 269 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:25,920 Speaker 6: my attention, uh, that you were going to be giving 270 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:31,960 Speaker 6: remarks for the funeral. Is that correct? Yes? Absolutely, Okay. 271 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:34,480 Speaker 6: I wanted to call you because we're getting ready to 272 00:15:34,520 --> 00:15:38,800 Speaker 6: print the programs for the funeral and let you know 273 00:15:38,960 --> 00:15:44,880 Speaker 6: that they have taken you off for the remarks because 274 00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:47,520 Speaker 6: they say that you're not going to be Oh. 275 00:15:48,840 --> 00:15:50,240 Speaker 14: What do you mean taking me off? 276 00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:54,360 Speaker 6: Well, what I'm saying they say that you're not going 277 00:15:54,400 --> 00:15:58,080 Speaker 6: to abide by the two three minute rule that they 278 00:15:58,160 --> 00:16:01,280 Speaker 6: have for remarks, and they wanted they they've taken you off. 279 00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:02,440 Speaker 6: And uh. 280 00:16:04,480 --> 00:16:05,080 Speaker 1: Who is they? 281 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:09,160 Speaker 14: Come? Comeut? Wh wh what's the name again? 282 00:16:10,560 --> 00:16:10,880 Speaker 1: Lawrence? 283 00:16:10,920 --> 00:16:13,360 Speaker 6: I'm launch, I'm the actual funeral director. 284 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:16,920 Speaker 14: Lord. And who who told you to take me off? 285 00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:18,440 Speaker 15: Uh? 286 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:21,280 Speaker 6: One of the one of the family members I'm assuming 287 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:23,600 Speaker 6: is who who made the adjustment? 288 00:16:24,000 --> 00:16:27,760 Speaker 14: And an adjustment that ain't no adjustment, that's that's changing 289 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:30,200 Speaker 14: the whole program. Who else is on the list? 290 00:16:31,320 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 6: I mean there's quite a few family members doing different 291 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:35,920 Speaker 6: things throughout the funeral. 292 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:39,520 Speaker 14: Okay, So how did you get to my name? Is 293 00:16:39,560 --> 00:16:40,960 Speaker 14: what I'm trying to figure out That. 294 00:16:40,920 --> 00:16:44,320 Speaker 6: They said that listen to me, listen, listen to me, 295 00:16:44,520 --> 00:16:47,160 Speaker 6: listen to me. Brother Keith, Listen to me. What they 296 00:16:47,200 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 6: said is that you weren't going to abide by the time. 297 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:55,600 Speaker 6: You weren't going to do your remarks in three minutes 298 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:56,480 Speaker 6: or less. 299 00:16:56,800 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 14: Listen, listen, listen, listen. You raised me, he put me 300 00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:04,880 Speaker 14: through college, and you think I'm finna, I'm finish goes 301 00:17:04,960 --> 00:17:08,080 Speaker 14: down her funeral and be under two minutes. 302 00:17:08,680 --> 00:17:13,719 Speaker 6: Well, well, listen, listen, brother Keith, Brother Keith, listening to me. Normally, 303 00:17:13,760 --> 00:17:17,600 Speaker 6: when we have these funerals, people who give remarks, we 304 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:22,359 Speaker 6: have them three minutes or less. Okay, I'll tell you what. 305 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:25,040 Speaker 14: I'll tell you what mister loss quote on list? Is 306 00:17:25,080 --> 00:17:25,800 Speaker 14: she on the list? 307 00:17:26,680 --> 00:17:26,760 Speaker 15: Uh? 308 00:17:28,440 --> 00:17:31,679 Speaker 6: We have a seala. Yes, there's a seala that's singing 309 00:17:33,240 --> 00:17:34,240 Speaker 6: name off the list. 310 00:17:34,440 --> 00:17:36,240 Speaker 14: You take her off the list and put me where 311 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 14: she's supposed to be with my time and her time. 312 00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:41,280 Speaker 14: Is Bobby joy on there too? 313 00:17:43,800 --> 00:17:48,040 Speaker 6: The Bobby Now, yes, Bobby Jr. Is given remarks. That's 314 00:17:48,280 --> 00:17:53,080 Speaker 6: what that's that's delorous. That's mister de Laurus's son, right, Yes, 315 00:17:53,520 --> 00:17:54,600 Speaker 6: their son, the one. 316 00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 14: That get locked up. He just got out of till 317 00:17:57,320 --> 00:17:59,520 Speaker 14: the truth he told he's the one put her in 318 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:02,640 Speaker 14: the coat. You needn't take him off list too. Give 319 00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:05,200 Speaker 14: me all that time, because I mean, if I ain't 320 00:18:05,200 --> 00:18:06,000 Speaker 14: gonna take nothing in. 321 00:18:06,280 --> 00:18:08,320 Speaker 6: Brother Keith, let me let me, let me just say 322 00:18:08,359 --> 00:18:13,320 Speaker 6: this to you. I cannot take Sheila or Bobby Jr. 323 00:18:13,359 --> 00:18:13,560 Speaker 15: Off. 324 00:18:13,680 --> 00:18:17,800 Speaker 6: I can't make any alterations to this program unless they 325 00:18:17,920 --> 00:18:21,120 Speaker 6: say that, Actually, sir. 326 00:18:21,600 --> 00:18:25,080 Speaker 14: You already you already take you already taking sample name off, 327 00:18:25,119 --> 00:18:26,240 Speaker 14: you're taking my name off. 328 00:18:26,600 --> 00:18:30,560 Speaker 6: But but they they orchestrated this though his. 329 00:18:30,640 --> 00:18:34,520 Speaker 14: Day, who is day? They for having much problems? They 330 00:18:34,520 --> 00:18:38,600 Speaker 14: try to take me off my hockey program? Who was they? 331 00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:42,159 Speaker 6: Sir? I'm not gonna get into a family matter. But 332 00:18:42,359 --> 00:18:43,480 Speaker 6: until they say. 333 00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:45,679 Speaker 14: That, you can be only matter. 334 00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:48,720 Speaker 6: Sure, I'm not gonna. I don't wanna. I don't want 335 00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:51,640 Speaker 6: to have this turned out to be bad, and we 336 00:18:51,680 --> 00:18:56,240 Speaker 6: want to have a great homegoing for sister Deloyd's okay, right, 337 00:18:56,480 --> 00:18:56,920 Speaker 6: And if I. 338 00:18:56,840 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 14: Don't get to say nothing, I guarantee you, I guarantee 339 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:01,520 Speaker 14: even it's gonna be a tooth for one in there, 340 00:19:01,840 --> 00:19:04,679 Speaker 14: somebody else gonna get in the car for two. I 341 00:19:04,760 --> 00:19:07,320 Speaker 14: ca'ant tell you that. If I don't get to say nothing, 342 00:19:07,359 --> 00:19:11,560 Speaker 14: in my Nitifuneral monkey didn't pay for college, I didn't 343 00:19:11,560 --> 00:19:14,800 Speaker 14: put six thousand dollars in the funeral. I bet you 344 00:19:14,880 --> 00:19:16,920 Speaker 14: I'll tell you this. I'll tell you this, mister Lawd. 345 00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:20,040 Speaker 14: I bet you whether I'm on the program I'm not. 346 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:22,760 Speaker 14: I bet you I stay with them. I want to. 347 00:19:23,119 --> 00:19:24,200 Speaker 16: I bet you that much. 348 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:25,600 Speaker 14: You tell day that. 349 00:19:27,640 --> 00:19:28,000 Speaker 3: I didn't. 350 00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:30,920 Speaker 14: You might tell them put me through college. I put 351 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:33,879 Speaker 14: money on the funeral and call around to see who 352 00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:35,880 Speaker 14: ain't putting no money on the feudal tell them they 353 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:38,080 Speaker 14: can't be on the program. 354 00:19:38,240 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 6: Man? Uh keith they when they decide who who who's 355 00:19:44,560 --> 00:19:47,960 Speaker 6: on it? If they changed the format, that I will 356 00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:48,800 Speaker 6: call you back. 357 00:19:49,440 --> 00:19:51,080 Speaker 14: Who who is? 358 00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:51,440 Speaker 6: Vy? 359 00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:54,199 Speaker 14: That's what I'm trying to get. Get you understand who 360 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:54,720 Speaker 14: is they? 361 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:57,360 Speaker 6: Can? I can? I tell you something and I don't 362 00:19:57,400 --> 00:19:58,760 Speaker 6: want you to get to our rape. 363 00:19:58,800 --> 00:20:02,600 Speaker 14: Okay, go ahead, go ahead, man. 364 00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:05,480 Speaker 6: I just want to say this, keep with them. This 365 00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:08,639 Speaker 6: is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You 366 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:12,360 Speaker 6: just got breaked. You just got breaked by your cousin 367 00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:17,120 Speaker 6: bobbing Jr. You bos. 368 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:26,520 Speaker 14: I'm I'm junior up. I'm kicking Bobby. I know that 369 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:29,280 Speaker 14: my mother pressures all up. I ain't got time be 370 00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:42,240 Speaker 14: playing man taking me off the program oh, BABBI. 371 00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:42,879 Speaker 6: Said, y'all grew up like brothers man, and you was 372 00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:45,719 Speaker 6: you was basically another son of mister Lords. 373 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:47,679 Speaker 14: That's right, yes, yes I was. 374 00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:48,119 Speaker 15: Man. 375 00:20:48,400 --> 00:20:49,040 Speaker 14: Oh my. 376 00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:52,600 Speaker 6: Hey. Let me ask you this man, what is the 377 00:20:52,640 --> 00:20:55,840 Speaker 6: baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in the. 378 00:20:55,880 --> 00:21:01,760 Speaker 14: Land, The Steve Harvey Morning Show? 379 00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:04,000 Speaker 3: And then you have it, Miss Shirley. 380 00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:08,520 Speaker 1: All right, just three three minute remarks. 381 00:21:08,960 --> 00:21:11,520 Speaker 6: I will be back on Monday morning. Can I say 382 00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:15,560 Speaker 6: this real quick? Coming up, Happy anniversary to my beautiful 383 00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:19,719 Speaker 6: wife twenty four years. Twenty four years is Jacqueline mis 384 00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:22,359 Speaker 6: ooh girl putting up with me for twenty four who. 385 00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:24,480 Speaker 2: Made it. 386 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:27,200 Speaker 1: All right? 387 00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:28,760 Speaker 12: Congratulations tummy? 388 00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:32,159 Speaker 11: And Shackie coming up next to his ass the coelo 389 00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:34,800 Speaker 11: or Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building right 390 00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:35,280 Speaker 11: after this. 391 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:38,200 Speaker 9: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 392 00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:46,640 Speaker 17: Kinsley will be six in September. We are at Saint 393 00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:49,760 Speaker 17: Jude because she was diagnosed with leukemio. Her treatment is 394 00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:53,879 Speaker 17: receiving a chemotherapy and it is a two and a 395 00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:56,960 Speaker 17: half to three year process. Fact that Saint Jude does 396 00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:59,800 Speaker 17: not send a bill has been a god seeing how 397 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:02,680 Speaker 17: the cancer needs to be eradicated. 398 00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:06,040 Speaker 11: You can help kids fight childhood cancer and diseases like 399 00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:08,760 Speaker 11: sickle cell. Please become a Saint Jude Partner in Hope 400 00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:13,400 Speaker 11: today by texting sahms to seven eighty five eight three three. 401 00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:16,280 Speaker 11: Coming up at the top of the hour, our special 402 00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:17,520 Speaker 11: guests will be Miss Terry J. 403 00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:18,280 Speaker 15: Vaughn. 404 00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:23,159 Speaker 11: She is the star of Netflix's new series She the People. 405 00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:24,560 Speaker 12: It's streaming right now. 406 00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:27,120 Speaker 11: Terry will tell us all about She the People at 407 00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:30,200 Speaker 11: the top of the hour. But right now, at this time, yes, 408 00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:33,200 Speaker 11: we can't wait for that. It is time to ask 409 00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:39,240 Speaker 11: the CLO our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey, Ready, CLO always. 410 00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:43,679 Speaker 11: This is from Janella and San Antonio. Janella writes, my 411 00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:47,400 Speaker 11: husband gets routine manicures and pedicures, but I can't believe 412 00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:51,920 Speaker 11: he got his chest and armpits wax at the salon recently. 413 00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:54,960 Speaker 11: He said he wants to get other areas wax too 414 00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:58,840 Speaker 11: so he can stay cool. Is that really why he's 415 00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:00,360 Speaker 11: waxing every thing? 416 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:03,040 Speaker 3: Well? 417 00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:08,119 Speaker 8: Interesting, I don't know why you would do that. Personally, 418 00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:12,760 Speaker 8: I have no idea. I've never had that thought, nor 419 00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:17,920 Speaker 8: have I had that desire. All once you probably need 420 00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:21,440 Speaker 8: to do is get down there to that pedicure place. 421 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:25,680 Speaker 3: And yeah, yeah, and see if she find that's probably 422 00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:26,159 Speaker 3: what you need. 423 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:28,480 Speaker 12: You're talking to the wife right now. 424 00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:30,679 Speaker 8: Yeah, you probably need to go down there to the 425 00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:34,000 Speaker 8: pedicure place and see if she find that. That's usually 426 00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:40,120 Speaker 8: when you get talked in and stuff like this. Yeah, yeah, 427 00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:42,119 Speaker 8: and that could be all it is. It's just some 428 00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:44,639 Speaker 8: fine chick down there and talked him into it. He 429 00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:46,720 Speaker 8: ain't got to be seeing her or nothing like that. 430 00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:48,600 Speaker 8: Just probably need to go down there and see if 431 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:49,119 Speaker 8: she finds. 432 00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:53,160 Speaker 11: Yeah, okay, and that'll answer all your questions, all right. 433 00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:57,159 Speaker 11: Moving on to Freida and Lake Charles. Frida writes that 434 00:23:57,680 --> 00:24:00,919 Speaker 11: my work husband got me a purse that I'd been wanting. 435 00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:05,600 Speaker 11: I carried the purse for weeks before my husband noticed it. 436 00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:08,560 Speaker 11: He knows I can't afford it, so I told him 437 00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:11,359 Speaker 11: that I charged it. He'll find out that I'm lying 438 00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:14,160 Speaker 11: when he pays the bills. What do I do? 439 00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:15,000 Speaker 6: What? 440 00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:15,840 Speaker 3: I don't know? 441 00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:17,639 Speaker 1: I don't know? 442 00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:19,720 Speaker 3: See no, no, come over here now. 443 00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:21,560 Speaker 1: See yeah. 444 00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:26,800 Speaker 8: See you lie, God, you're lie. 445 00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:29,960 Speaker 3: The key to lie. 446 00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:37,119 Speaker 8: Is you must be willing at all costs to continue 447 00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:37,520 Speaker 8: to lie. 448 00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:38,520 Speaker 3: That's true. 449 00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:42,280 Speaker 8: And you and you already don't have the right commitment 450 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:46,680 Speaker 8: to be a good lie because you already and told 451 00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:49,199 Speaker 8: one lie. Now you shure he gonna find out when you. 452 00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:50,080 Speaker 3: Should have thought of that. 453 00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:53,879 Speaker 12: Yeah, her work husband bought her a bag. 454 00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:59,640 Speaker 3: What why, work husband? Yeah, it's work hub. 455 00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:03,200 Speaker 8: Brought you a bag that you couldn't afford and your 456 00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:05,679 Speaker 8: husband ain't got for you. 457 00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:07,120 Speaker 3: You told him you charged. 458 00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:12,200 Speaker 11: The standard line is, but the standard line is, Oh, 459 00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:13,440 Speaker 11: I've been had this. 460 00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:14,600 Speaker 1: That's it. 461 00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:15,720 Speaker 12: That's the standard line. 462 00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:24,040 Speaker 11: Anything she boosted the bag, that's another unnecessary lie. 463 00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:28,680 Speaker 12: I've been had this, I just haven't carried it. That's 464 00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:31,360 Speaker 12: all you say, perfect. 465 00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:33,680 Speaker 8: Lie, you got it. You're not fast on your feet, 466 00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:37,280 Speaker 8: perfect lie. Was that's not my bag? 467 00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:42,440 Speaker 12: Is not my bagh with all your debts? 468 00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:48,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's she needs bag. She let me carry. 469 00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:50,080 Speaker 17: It and I give. 470 00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:53,360 Speaker 8: It back to her. Yeah, she let me rock it. 471 00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:54,040 Speaker 8: It's dope. 472 00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:55,880 Speaker 3: That's the curious. 473 00:25:57,119 --> 00:25:58,119 Speaker 12: Don't you love it to me? 474 00:25:58,200 --> 00:25:58,640 Speaker 3: Perfect? 475 00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:00,040 Speaker 1: Especially if it's. 476 00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:05,000 Speaker 8: Yeah, and that's what it is, and the work husband 477 00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:08,200 Speaker 8: and and the work husband bought her the bag because 478 00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:10,760 Speaker 8: you want to do the things that your regular husband 479 00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:11,240 Speaker 8: is doing. 480 00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:16,080 Speaker 12: Whoa, he's just not a nice guy. 481 00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:16,479 Speaker 18: There. 482 00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:25,480 Speaker 3: Once you buying persons. What yeah, right there at this point. 483 00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:29,520 Speaker 8: Unless you worked for the Steve Harvey Morning Show years 484 00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:35,399 Speaker 8: ago when a bout y'all persons, but see you and 485 00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:38,800 Speaker 8: y'all found out that your product bag was a pray 486 00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:43,480 Speaker 8: To bag, and then your Gucci bag was a Gusia. 487 00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:46,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was. 488 00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:49,919 Speaker 8: Like, and then your l V bag was a Lewis 489 00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:56,800 Speaker 8: Vernon's right. 490 00:26:56,880 --> 00:27:00,240 Speaker 11: Moving on to Stephanie and Charlotte, Uh, seventy right. My 491 00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:02,520 Speaker 11: husband likes to be intimate in the morning, so I 492 00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:05,720 Speaker 11: set my alarm for five a m. Three days a 493 00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:08,320 Speaker 11: week so I can do my wife lee duties. He said, 494 00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:12,359 Speaker 11: I'm not spontaneous enough. Why can't he compromise if I'm 495 00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:15,199 Speaker 11: willing to get up that early to make him happy? 496 00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:19,639 Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't care. What complain is he 497 00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:21,480 Speaker 3: got your alarm set? You ready? 498 00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:21,800 Speaker 1: Cool? 499 00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:22,320 Speaker 4: Yeah? 500 00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:22,760 Speaker 15: Cool? 501 00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:23,920 Speaker 3: I don't care how you do it. 502 00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:24,680 Speaker 6: Huh. 503 00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:25,720 Speaker 3: Got the alarm go off? 504 00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:28,960 Speaker 8: The alarm can go off to signify the end of 505 00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:36,159 Speaker 8: it too, if you won't. I have two alarms. You 506 00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:40,119 Speaker 8: have start, start and stop what I call time? 507 00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:42,160 Speaker 3: Got go work? 508 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:45,600 Speaker 1: Thank you? Yeah? 509 00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:46,600 Speaker 6: Uh? 510 00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:48,600 Speaker 3: Reset the clock this morning? 511 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:53,560 Speaker 8: I got five thirty and five thirty five ain't no problem. 512 00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:56,960 Speaker 12: I'm ready when you are all right. 513 00:27:57,040 --> 00:28:02,040 Speaker 11: Last one, Steve, Last one ClOH in Gainesville Rights. I've 514 00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:05,040 Speaker 11: been dating a woman for two years and on Sundays 515 00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:07,520 Speaker 11: she told my mom that her mac and cheese is 516 00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:11,720 Speaker 11: missing something. My heart stopped, but my mom handled it 517 00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:15,160 Speaker 11: with grace. After dinner, my mom said to let it go. 518 00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:18,240 Speaker 11: Do I let it go or do I let her go? 519 00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:19,800 Speaker 1: Yeah? 520 00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:22,080 Speaker 11: Do I let it go? Or do I let her 521 00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:24,919 Speaker 11: go over this mama's mac and cheese? 522 00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:28,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, wouldn't it though? Are you real? 523 00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:33,080 Speaker 12: Yeah? 524 00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:36,399 Speaker 8: Yeah, so you done thought enough of this woman to 525 00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:40,160 Speaker 8: introduce her to your mama. That's when it got good, 526 00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:42,520 Speaker 8: you know what. And when he brings you home to 527 00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:43,440 Speaker 8: his mama. 528 00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:44,360 Speaker 3: He considered it. 529 00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:47,920 Speaker 8: Okay, okay, she made a bad move. Probably wasn't the 530 00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:50,440 Speaker 8: best thing to say. She just ate the mac and 531 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:52,719 Speaker 8: cheese and then not care for it. But keep your 532 00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:58,360 Speaker 8: mouth shut. Yeah, it's missing something. Even your mother saying 533 00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:02,040 Speaker 8: let it go, She must like to girl, Yeah, why 534 00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:03,640 Speaker 8: did you write us? 535 00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:07,800 Speaker 3: What is it missing? Is it the cheese. 536 00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:10,360 Speaker 1: That major? 537 00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:12,560 Speaker 3: See? 538 00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:18,360 Speaker 8: They ain't using chadar or something like that. Probably some 539 00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:26,120 Speaker 8: provolone something like that. Man, this dude made some mac 540 00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:29,640 Speaker 8: and cheese one time and put almond slithers in it. 541 00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:35,880 Speaker 8: I couldn't understand that for the life of What made 542 00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:39,280 Speaker 8: you think that this need nuts in it? 543 00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:42,200 Speaker 3: Amen? 544 00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:43,640 Speaker 2: Amen? 545 00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:44,520 Speaker 3: Amen? 546 00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:48,520 Speaker 8: You like that little crunch? Yeah, I told my wife 547 00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:54,960 Speaker 8: to start doing that. What I said that we was 548 00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:56,720 Speaker 8: at his house, so I ain't saying nothing as soon 549 00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:58,200 Speaker 8: as I went out of them. You should have never 550 00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:03,760 Speaker 8: told your wife that. And I can't believe she did it. Wow, 551 00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:06,040 Speaker 8: but she did it. I understood it. I couldn't even 552 00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:08,040 Speaker 8: believe you. Well, he married to a white girl, so 553 00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:15,200 Speaker 8: she put them moments in there. 554 00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:19,440 Speaker 1: They're gonna probably add raises, thank you the l O. 555 00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:22,760 Speaker 11: Okay enough please coming up at the top of the hour, 556 00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:24,840 Speaker 11: our friend, our family member will. 557 00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:26,200 Speaker 3: Gonna put a marshmallow on it too. 558 00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:29,680 Speaker 12: You know that's be quiet, one and only. Jerry J. 559 00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:31,280 Speaker 12: Vaughan coming up next. 560 00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:39,280 Speaker 18: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show, y'all. 561 00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:40,920 Speaker 3: That's problemse. We got a special guest. 562 00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:45,800 Speaker 8: This morning, longtime friend, Lord have Mercy, has played such 563 00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:50,920 Speaker 8: a pivotal role in my success early on, as well 564 00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:54,000 Speaker 8: as a host of others. We go all the way 565 00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:57,160 Speaker 8: back to the Steve Harvey Show. Lord have Mercy. She 566 00:30:57,320 --> 00:31:01,760 Speaker 8: starred as LaVita alas A Jenkins. He's an actress or writer, producer. 567 00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:04,720 Speaker 8: Her newest project, brand new when y'all, is an all 568 00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:08,880 Speaker 8: new series that's on Netflix right now. All new series 569 00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:12,360 Speaker 8: on Netflix right now, and it's called She the People. 570 00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:18,360 Speaker 8: She is the co creator, she is the executive producer 571 00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:21,800 Speaker 8: of She the People, and she's here to tell us 572 00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:24,440 Speaker 8: all about it. It's a new series on Netflix. Ladies 573 00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:28,760 Speaker 8: and gentlemen, please welcome family member, longtime friend. You know 574 00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:33,680 Speaker 8: her as Levita alas A Jenkins, called government name Terry 575 00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:34,440 Speaker 8: jay Von. 576 00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:38,760 Speaker 12: Welcome. 577 00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:43,280 Speaker 3: What was going on? Girl? 578 00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:47,040 Speaker 15: I am so happy to be with you guys. Thank you, Seeve, 579 00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:50,480 Speaker 15: thank you Shirley, Carlo Tomi, Thank y'all for having me on. 580 00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:57,760 Speaker 8: I couldn't believe this. You have been at this for 581 00:31:57,840 --> 00:31:58,720 Speaker 8: quite some time. 582 00:31:58,840 --> 00:31:59,360 Speaker 3: I know you. 583 00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:04,400 Speaker 8: I've heard you discussing projects before. Well we did it. 584 00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:07,720 Speaker 8: It's called She the People is streaming right now on Netflix. 585 00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:12,880 Speaker 8: You star as a character named Antoinette Dunkerson. She is 586 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:18,400 Speaker 8: Mississippi's first black female lieutenant governor. And She the People 587 00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:22,560 Speaker 8: is all about politics, power, and petty. It's Southern style. 588 00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:25,400 Speaker 8: So Terry tell us about the show. 589 00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:29,360 Speaker 15: Yeah, so she's the people first. I have to tell 590 00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:33,640 Speaker 15: you how where the inspiration for the show came from. 591 00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:38,000 Speaker 15: When my girlfriend London Breed became the first black female 592 00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:41,440 Speaker 15: mayor of our city, San Francisco, where we grew up 593 00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:46,720 Speaker 15: in back in twenty seventeen or twenty eighteen, and she 594 00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:51,000 Speaker 15: got so much pushback and with so much drama for 595 00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:52,800 Speaker 15: her and she's just a girl. 596 00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:53,240 Speaker 19: From the hood. 597 00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:54,760 Speaker 12: You know, she grew up. 598 00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:57,200 Speaker 15: In one hood. I grew up in another hood to 599 00:32:57,240 --> 00:33:00,959 Speaker 15: come from very humble beginning and watched her work her 600 00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:04,120 Speaker 15: way up through politics in our city, one of the 601 00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:07,920 Speaker 15: richest cities in the nation, and to become the first 602 00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:11,280 Speaker 15: black female mayor, it was a huge deal. And she 603 00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:15,560 Speaker 15: got so much pushback and watching her like mouth through 604 00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:18,000 Speaker 15: all the situations and do all the things you have 605 00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:22,400 Speaker 15: to do was just so inspiring to me. And so 606 00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:24,520 Speaker 15: I was like, dang, that would be a really great 607 00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:28,360 Speaker 15: character to play. But of course, though she was dealing 608 00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:31,640 Speaker 15: with all this drama and heaviness, I wanted to put 609 00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:34,080 Speaker 15: a comical twist on it because I believe you can 610 00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:38,200 Speaker 15: tell stories and send your messages and they become more 611 00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:41,440 Speaker 15: digestible if you can make people laugh while you're talking 612 00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:44,160 Speaker 15: about all the hard things that we have to go through. 613 00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:47,640 Speaker 15: So that's where the inspiration where the show came from. 614 00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:51,360 Speaker 15: So back during the writer's strike, when the writers and 615 00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:55,920 Speaker 15: actors and everybody was on strike, I called Naya Palmer, 616 00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:58,760 Speaker 15: who's an amazing writer, and I was like, what if 617 00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:01,000 Speaker 15: we shoot a proup of constant of this show because 618 00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:03,960 Speaker 15: we've been like pitching it, talking, telling people about it, 619 00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:06,800 Speaker 15: and nobody's fighting. So I was like, let's shoot it 620 00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:09,399 Speaker 15: while everybody's on strike, so when the strike is over, 621 00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:13,120 Speaker 15: we have something to show people. And so that's what 622 00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:17,560 Speaker 15: we did. She wrote, like the fifteen minute spect we shot. 623 00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:19,759 Speaker 15: I got a team together, as you know seeve I 624 00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:23,080 Speaker 15: live here in Atlanta now, so the support of the 625 00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:25,560 Speaker 15: people here in the community for us to be able 626 00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:29,000 Speaker 15: to shoot it with massive and you know, because it 627 00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:31,640 Speaker 15: was in the space of politics and I'm not super 628 00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:34,560 Speaker 15: well versed in that area at all, I thought it 629 00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:39,120 Speaker 15: was smart to bring somebody onto the team that could 630 00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:44,840 Speaker 15: be like the producer, a consulting producer. So I called 631 00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:49,520 Speaker 15: our friend Keisha lance Bottom, and I pitched her the 632 00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:51,799 Speaker 15: show and asked her if she would be interested in 633 00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:55,520 Speaker 15: coming on board with me as a producer, and she 634 00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:58,680 Speaker 15: loved the idea and she said, yes. 635 00:34:58,600 --> 00:34:59,200 Speaker 16: I'll join you. 636 00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:04,000 Speaker 15: So with her by my side, I was able to 637 00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:07,800 Speaker 15: get the fund raise the fund from a private investor 638 00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:12,480 Speaker 15: here in Atlanta, and we shot this proof of concepts 639 00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:15,279 Speaker 15: so it came out exactly like I wanted it to. 640 00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:18,600 Speaker 15: So when the strike was over, we sent it out 641 00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:21,479 Speaker 15: into the world and we just got called after calls 642 00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:24,960 Speaker 15: after calls, people wanting to meet with us for this show. 643 00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:29,480 Speaker 15: And one of the people we met with was Tyler Perry, 644 00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:34,200 Speaker 15: and we got multiple offers. But going with Tyler Perry, 645 00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:37,759 Speaker 15: it sits the vision of what I wanted to do 646 00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:42,759 Speaker 15: with the show. And now it's on air, and you know, 647 00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:46,520 Speaker 15: a lot of the character's names are named after people 648 00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:49,839 Speaker 15: and my family or my neighborhood. My mother's played by 649 00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:56,680 Speaker 15: Joe Marie Tayton, who was Harriet Winslow on Family Matter. 650 00:35:57,480 --> 00:36:03,600 Speaker 15: Yes she is not Harriet Windblow on show Sasty Saucy. 651 00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:07,040 Speaker 15: She drops the F Bob tells it like it is. 652 00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:11,960 Speaker 15: This has been twenty years of pitting my own show 653 00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:15,080 Speaker 15: and finally it happened. 654 00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:19,239 Speaker 1: We did it, and that is persistence. 655 00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:21,799 Speaker 8: I mean, I'm telling you what I mean, it's just 656 00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:26,560 Speaker 8: a great story of perseverance and vision and all of 657 00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:29,120 Speaker 8: that and that's how God works. And congratulations on it 658 00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:33,439 Speaker 8: because I think Tyler Perry was the ideal pick for it. Yep, yeah, 659 00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:37,640 Speaker 8: I mean congratulations. That's a great story. I think it's 660 00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:41,560 Speaker 8: I think it's a worth for everybody. Everybody in the 661 00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:45,279 Speaker 8: Steve Harvey Nation. Go on Netflix and check it out. 662 00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:50,800 Speaker 8: It is called She the People. It is produced Starry 663 00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:52,880 Speaker 8: in our very own Terry J. 664 00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:53,440 Speaker 6: Vaughn. 665 00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:57,480 Speaker 8: Listen to me, what a great story everybody's involved in. 666 00:36:57,560 --> 00:37:00,360 Speaker 8: It sounds like a great project. I'm gonna watch it myself. 667 00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:03,400 Speaker 8: I'm telling everybody in Steve arbination, let's go to Netflix 668 00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:05,400 Speaker 8: and support our own terror J Bond. 669 00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:08,120 Speaker 3: The name of the project is She the People. 670 00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:09,080 Speaker 1: The People. 671 00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:13,280 Speaker 8: Ladies and gentlemen, put your hands together for my dear. 672 00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:15,200 Speaker 3: Friend, Terry J. Vaughn. 673 00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:26,000 Speaker 18: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 674 00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:30,960 Speaker 20: They list ten years old. One day she just started 675 00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:34,560 Speaker 20: limping out the blue, went to her doctor and the 676 00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:38,080 Speaker 20: doctor did emma or her knee. And the next day 677 00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:42,200 Speaker 20: was that Saint June eighteen rounds of cameo niee surgery. 678 00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:45,879 Speaker 20: Just knowing that Saint June covers everything right now, Layla's man, 679 00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:47,560 Speaker 20: she came up. She's cancer free. 680 00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:48,040 Speaker 3: Right now. 681 00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:51,040 Speaker 10: You can help kids fight childhood cancer and diseases like 682 00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:51,640 Speaker 10: sickle sell. 683 00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:53,080 Speaker 3: Please become a Saint Jude. 684 00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:56,080 Speaker 10: Partner in Hope today by texting s h MS to 685 00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:57,959 Speaker 10: seven eight five eight three three. 686 00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:01,959 Speaker 11: Hey Steve Harvey, Na, We've been telling you all week 687 00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:06,800 Speaker 11: about Saint Jude Children's Research Hospital. At Saint Jude, caring 688 00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:10,840 Speaker 11: for a patient means the patient's family has nothing to 689 00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:13,880 Speaker 11: worry about as far as housing, as far as food, 690 00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:17,040 Speaker 11: as far as bills, none of that. That's what Saint 691 00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:20,840 Speaker 11: Jude does. By becoming a Saint Jude Partner and Hope, 692 00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:25,160 Speaker 11: you can help Saint Jude continue to help children. Tell them, Steve, 693 00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:28,319 Speaker 11: if you become a monthly donor, what do you do 694 00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:30,120 Speaker 11: you pledge nineteen dollars? 695 00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:30,759 Speaker 1: Well you can. 696 00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:35,040 Speaker 8: Yeah, And here's the deal, y'all. We need to really 697 00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:39,600 Speaker 8: consider participating in this. I need everybody to take a 698 00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:43,239 Speaker 8: moment to just think of how blessed you are to 699 00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:46,480 Speaker 8: have a healthy child, how blessed you are to have 700 00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:50,440 Speaker 8: been healthy yourself. When I see these commercials, I can't 701 00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:55,080 Speaker 8: imagine what that must feel like. To have an unhealthy child, 702 00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:58,360 Speaker 8: and man, it's a horrible thing for a parent to 703 00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:01,120 Speaker 8: go through. So those of us that are blessed, you 704 00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:04,320 Speaker 8: have to remember that you are blessed to become a blessing. 705 00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:10,279 Speaker 8: It's just nineteen dollars that hot coffee down now, and 706 00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:14,160 Speaker 8: we're talking about a month, y'all's been nineteen dollars on 707 00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:19,080 Speaker 8: that verday, grande absolute tey down there for that's about 708 00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:21,279 Speaker 8: forty dollars by time to put all them stuff in it. 709 00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:25,920 Speaker 8: Let's change somebody's life for nineteen dollars. That's all it 710 00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:29,040 Speaker 8: takes is nineteen dollars. So now here's what you do. 711 00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:35,720 Speaker 8: All you got to do is text shms that little 712 00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:38,160 Speaker 8: block where it's got you know where you put two. 713 00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:40,759 Speaker 8: Just right in that block where it's say two, put 714 00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:45,880 Speaker 8: shms that stands for Steve Harvey Morning Show, just the initials, 715 00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:50,200 Speaker 8: and you text it to seven eight five eight three 716 00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:58,000 Speaker 8: three seven eight five eight three three. Now they want 717 00:39:58,040 --> 00:40:00,960 Speaker 8: me to tell you there's some standard data and text 718 00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:04,320 Speaker 8: message and rates apply, but who give it? You're texting 719 00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:09,400 Speaker 8: everybody anyway, Just help somebody, man, That's what this is 720 00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:14,200 Speaker 8: all about. I'm I'm challenging all the cues. Everybody, don't 721 00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:17,520 Speaker 8: make a sound. Five bruhs. Let's just do some kind 722 00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:20,760 Speaker 8: for somebody else. Tommy, can you challenge your friend? 723 00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:23,799 Speaker 6: I can challenge all the members of Kappa Alpha PSI 724 00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:28,160 Speaker 6: Fraternity Incorporated to get out and donate nineteen dollars to 725 00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:30,520 Speaker 6: this worthy calls Saint Jude for the children. 726 00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:32,920 Speaker 3: Why not, let's do it. Bro Junior, can you tell 727 00:40:33,000 --> 00:40:34,200 Speaker 3: all the six sell people. 728 00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:37,640 Speaker 10: Yeah, I challenge all the sickle cell people who are 729 00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:41,759 Speaker 10: healthy enough to text to go ahead and give nineteen dollars. 730 00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:48,000 Speaker 8: Shirley, can you ask tell all the people with big eyes, Charley, 731 00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:52,360 Speaker 8: tell all the people with big eyes with live. 732 00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:55,520 Speaker 6: People that then scratch up calls and stuff. Call it 733 00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:56,839 Speaker 6: going on, talk to the ladies. 734 00:40:57,360 --> 00:41:00,520 Speaker 11: Go ahead, you get your out and I got to 735 00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:02,600 Speaker 11: seven eight five eight three three. 736 00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:03,960 Speaker 12: Okay, thank you just doing it. 737 00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:07,359 Speaker 8: You have nineteen dollars to change some lives and help 738 00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:10,640 Speaker 8: some people. And remember you are blessed to become a blessing. 739 00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:12,320 Speaker 3: Let's do something today. 740 00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:15,399 Speaker 11: Thank you. Coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour, 741 00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:18,040 Speaker 11: we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right 742 00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:18,560 Speaker 11: after this. 743 00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:27,480 Speaker 12: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show all right, Carly, your 744 00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:29,400 Speaker 12: buddy Roscoe is here. 745 00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:34,440 Speaker 3: Right here, right here. We're going more than everybody. 746 00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:39,600 Speaker 1: Hey, hey, r. 747 00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:41,279 Speaker 14: What what up? 748 00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:44,200 Speaker 3: Miss Amy Sady? The golf tourb me. Yes, they had 749 00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:46,640 Speaker 3: had had a hanging on you like a like a 750 00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:51,000 Speaker 3: like a cloth line. It was up. 751 00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:55,880 Speaker 10: Julia was heading Roscoe, my hero many. 752 00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:58,160 Speaker 3: Top of time. Whatever revealed Roscoe? You the man baby 753 00:41:58,239 --> 00:42:00,000 Speaker 3: all the way? Hey, card up ready what you got 754 00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:02,080 Speaker 3: for me? And we were gonna do something. 755 00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:02,640 Speaker 1: Man. 756 00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:05,520 Speaker 21: Let's talk about it Roscoe this week, this past Monday, 757 00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:09,560 Speaker 21: twenty fifth anniversary of the b E t Awards. 758 00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:12,960 Speaker 3: Roscoe did just see it? Yeah? 759 00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:19,359 Speaker 8: No, no, no, I was backstage. I was back people, Okay, Oh, 760 00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:20,280 Speaker 8: I was back there. 761 00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:28,200 Speaker 1: Talking to Goriller's mama. Glow Rilla, Oh Glow. 762 00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:29,720 Speaker 3: I ain't no turning. 763 00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:33,120 Speaker 8: I Whitey called it girl, Gorilla, she pretty, she pretty 764 00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:33,560 Speaker 8: little thing. 765 00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:35,239 Speaker 3: I couldn't understand it for the life of me. 766 00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:39,959 Speaker 8: What he called it be the gold Riller like blow 767 00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:42,759 Speaker 8: on the heart. Held mama though, couldn't unders say the 768 00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:43,719 Speaker 8: word of Mama. 769 00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:48,040 Speaker 3: Said yeah, yeah, he was back there with Lord that country. 770 00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:50,439 Speaker 8: Trying to talk to him. Couldn't make hair and tail 771 00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:53,319 Speaker 8: and say, hey, we were on you went on, had 772 00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:53,880 Speaker 8: walk away? 773 00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:55,279 Speaker 3: Can't will them all? 774 00:42:57,520 --> 00:42:59,839 Speaker 1: What about uncle Charlie? Did you see him back then? 775 00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:01,760 Speaker 1: Snoop uncle Charlie Will. 776 00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:04,560 Speaker 8: Yeah, that saw I saw Charlie Willis back there with 777 00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:06,520 Speaker 8: me and Charlie talked for a while. He thanked me 778 00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:09,879 Speaker 8: for all creating more than so many great as his unit. 779 00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:14,520 Speaker 21: Excuse me, excuse Charlie Wilson, thank you for creating writing 780 00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:15,839 Speaker 21: what what song? 781 00:43:17,200 --> 00:43:19,759 Speaker 3: Let me hear you this inquest? Who else was he 782 00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:26,759 Speaker 3: gonna think? Have you ever heard him thinking anybody? 783 00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:27,840 Speaker 15: No? 784 00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:29,880 Speaker 3: But if back there. 785 00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:35,560 Speaker 8: Thanking me, I saw baby, you got me humping day 786 00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:38,200 Speaker 8: and night or pay be. 787 00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:41,480 Speaker 3: Uh you dropped the bob on me? 788 00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:42,839 Speaker 11: Yeah? 789 00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:45,279 Speaker 12: What is he saying? 790 00:43:45,480 --> 00:43:48,319 Speaker 3: Alie in the morning and I. 791 00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:49,800 Speaker 1: Don't I don't know if he's trying to do in 792 00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:51,560 Speaker 1: the middle of the day. 793 00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:53,440 Speaker 3: That's that called him minuting? 794 00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:55,920 Speaker 21: I know I was about to say, I don't know 795 00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:57,640 Speaker 21: if you're trying to say that you wrote all the 796 00:43:57,760 --> 00:44:00,000 Speaker 21: songs in this medleygue that you're singing. 797 00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:02,960 Speaker 3: And last one of them where you think they come from? 798 00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:04,520 Speaker 1: The gap band? 799 00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:07,719 Speaker 3: Yes, where you think the gap band come from? 800 00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:12,000 Speaker 8: On the corner of Greenwood Archick in time, I wrote 801 00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:15,000 Speaker 8: they Uncle song oldis I wrote all the older Wilson's 802 00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:15,600 Speaker 8: on that where you. 803 00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:18,439 Speaker 3: Then Charlie Willimon and don't come from Wow. 804 00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:20,040 Speaker 2: I didn't know. 805 00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:23,480 Speaker 3: I didn't know. And then I was friend with Oldie Wilson, 806 00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:30,680 Speaker 3: Daddy Saxmore Wilson, How old are you? Roscott all and 807 00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:33,840 Speaker 3: music anything good came out. I was involved in it 808 00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:34,680 Speaker 3: some kind of way. 809 00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:37,120 Speaker 1: All right, Well, let's get back to the B and 810 00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:37,760 Speaker 1: T Awards. 811 00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:40,920 Speaker 21: Did you see Baby Faith You what that baby grand 812 00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:42,640 Speaker 21: piano that was studded out? 813 00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:45,160 Speaker 1: He did that tribute to Jamie Foxx. 814 00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:49,040 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, he was cold Fletcher, baby, baby facing, strong 815 00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:49,680 Speaker 8: little writer. 816 00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:52,440 Speaker 3: You know I did so much. Well, Oh by you 817 00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:57,759 Speaker 3: old clothes, Oh paid old and. 818 00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:07,520 Speaker 8: I'll cook your dinner tonight, baby, as soon as I 819 00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:12,759 Speaker 8: get home from work, I'll dry your clothes. See this 820 00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:15,279 Speaker 8: how I wrote the song. In the beginning he said, 821 00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:17,680 Speaker 8: I'll buy your clothes. I didn't have no money back there, 822 00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:27,680 Speaker 8: so I wrote, dry your clothes. Wad help you make rent? 823 00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:38,440 Speaker 8: Try to scrat up dinner tonight baby, after I find 824 00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:41,640 Speaker 8: some work. See there what the song was about. And 825 00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:43,879 Speaker 8: then he said, babyface talking about what I don't wanna 826 00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:45,960 Speaker 8: sound like I ain't got nothing, So then you're gonna 827 00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:48,560 Speaker 8: talk about I'll buy your clothes, I'll pay your rent, 828 00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:50,160 Speaker 8: and i'll cook your dinner tonight. 829 00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:52,480 Speaker 1: Well no, well what we were doing. 830 00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:54,560 Speaker 8: I'll dry your clothes. I'm gonna help you come up 831 00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:57,160 Speaker 8: with your rent, and i'll fix you something to eat 832 00:45:57,480 --> 00:45:59,400 Speaker 8: after I go. But I gotta go out here and 833 00:45:59,480 --> 00:46:05,359 Speaker 8: find some how I'm gonna pay your reading. How you're 834 00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:06,040 Speaker 8: working right now? 835 00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:07,440 Speaker 6: Out? 836 00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:09,560 Speaker 12: Sing us out, Roscoe, sing us out. 837 00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:17,200 Speaker 1: In the morning, Coming up next, a nephew and Frank 838 00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:17,719 Speaker 1: phone call. 839 00:46:18,040 --> 00:46:19,960 Speaker 3: Right today, you're. 840 00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:26,960 Speaker 11: Listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at 841 00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:29,960 Speaker 11: about four minutes after the hour. It's my strawberry letter 842 00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:32,920 Speaker 11: for today, and the subject is has my husband been 843 00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:35,680 Speaker 11: faking it? We'll get into that find out what that's 844 00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:37,600 Speaker 11: all about in just a few because right now the 845 00:46:37,719 --> 00:46:41,640 Speaker 11: nephew is on board with today's Frank phone call. What 846 00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:43,280 Speaker 11: you got for is nepht today. 847 00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:47,400 Speaker 6: Surely it's the summertime. Everybody's flopping around in the pool, 848 00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:49,279 Speaker 6: you know, every now and then, you know you might 849 00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:51,360 Speaker 6: have a little gathering. You might need a lifeguard, you 850 00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:53,439 Speaker 6: know what I mean, You might need a life Oh yeah, 851 00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:59,600 Speaker 6: but this was right here. What we need a naked 852 00:46:59,760 --> 00:47:04,279 Speaker 6: like god, no, we don't. Naked life that's what we need. 853 00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:07,880 Speaker 6: That's what we need. We need a naked lifeguard. Hey 854 00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:11,480 Speaker 6: ya hey, hey, that's the job. Don't knock the job. Okay, job. 855 00:47:11,960 --> 00:47:15,200 Speaker 6: We need a naked lifeguard. You can save people, nked, 856 00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:18,720 Speaker 6: you can save a float and your body. 857 00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:24,239 Speaker 3: That's good. That's it, naked lifeguard. Let's go care Doe. 858 00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:30,880 Speaker 16: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach a carried Yes, this 859 00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:35,680 Speaker 16: is Carried Carrie. My name is Oliver. Oliver. You put 860 00:47:35,719 --> 00:47:38,560 Speaker 16: in an application with the with the employment agency about 861 00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:41,320 Speaker 16: looking for some work as far as being a lifeguard. 862 00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:42,480 Speaker 12: Oh, yeah, I did. 863 00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:45,640 Speaker 16: Okay. Have you had much experience being a lifeguard? 864 00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:49,680 Speaker 19: Yeah, I've been doing this for a while now, back 865 00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:54,560 Speaker 19: since i was like eighteen I got my CPR certification. 866 00:47:56,360 --> 00:47:59,719 Speaker 19: I've had as many as like two hundred people and 867 00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:03,080 Speaker 19: time watching them. So I'm good. I'm good at what 868 00:48:03,200 --> 00:48:03,400 Speaker 19: I do. 869 00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:06,480 Speaker 16: I love it, very good, very good. Well, i'll tell 870 00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:09,440 Speaker 16: you what. I've looked over your application and I've checked 871 00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:13,280 Speaker 16: everything out thoroughly, and I'm very excited about maybe getting 872 00:48:13,320 --> 00:48:15,320 Speaker 16: you to I don't know if you're familiar with it. 873 00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:20,120 Speaker 16: But public pool. It's actually in the subdivision. There's two 874 00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:22,400 Speaker 16: pools there. Are you familiar with Yeah. 875 00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:24,880 Speaker 19: I'm familiar with there. They're they're near where I is. 876 00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:28,440 Speaker 16: Yeah, okay, Well there's actually in the backup there's a 877 00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:32,960 Speaker 16: gated community and that is actually the particular property that 878 00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:36,160 Speaker 16: I'm talking about. You coming out and working for us 879 00:48:36,280 --> 00:48:39,239 Speaker 16: there at the pool site. If we can get you 880 00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:42,040 Speaker 16: on Monday to Friday, we're going to actually hire some 881 00:48:42,719 --> 00:48:45,960 Speaker 16: some more college students for Saturday and Sunday. 882 00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:49,560 Speaker 22: What do you say, Oh, I say, okay, that sounds great. 883 00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:51,480 Speaker 19: Monday weekends off. 884 00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:56,120 Speaker 16: Yeah, yeah, exactly. Now we start off. Job actually pays 885 00:48:56,160 --> 00:49:00,480 Speaker 16: twenty five dollars an hour. Wow. You would be our 886 00:49:00,560 --> 00:49:04,759 Speaker 16: head lifeguard, and we would want you to be there 887 00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:06,920 Speaker 16: from you know, I mean if you start at twelve, 888 00:49:06,960 --> 00:49:09,239 Speaker 16: we'd actually like you to get there around eleven thirty, 889 00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:12,600 Speaker 16: you know, just just to be prepared and be the 890 00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:15,279 Speaker 16: overseer and make sure the other lifeguards get there on time, 891 00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:18,360 Speaker 16: and you know, we'll go from there. Okay, Now, Carrie, 892 00:49:18,400 --> 00:49:22,000 Speaker 16: there's only one catch that actually comes along with this job. 893 00:49:22,480 --> 00:49:25,640 Speaker 16: We want you to work an additional four hours from 894 00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:27,960 Speaker 16: six to ten at night. But it's going to pay 895 00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:30,799 Speaker 16: you fifty dollars per hour, so you'll make an extra 896 00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:32,759 Speaker 16: two hundred dollars. How do you feel about that? 897 00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:33,359 Speaker 15: Man? 898 00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:36,720 Speaker 19: I feel good. I mean, with the recession and everything, 899 00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:39,560 Speaker 19: I can use that money right now, especially during the 900 00:49:39,680 --> 00:49:40,319 Speaker 19: summer time. 901 00:49:40,840 --> 00:49:43,200 Speaker 16: Okay, now here's the deal. This is in a gated 902 00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:46,520 Speaker 16: community like I told you before, but also it's going 903 00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:49,600 Speaker 16: to be adults at night, and they are actually going 904 00:49:49,680 --> 00:49:54,239 Speaker 16: to be swimming nude. What Yeah, they're going to be 905 00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:56,319 Speaker 16: swimming nude. And what they asked is if they're going 906 00:49:56,400 --> 00:49:58,560 Speaker 16: to be swimming nude, they want to make sure that 907 00:49:58,680 --> 00:50:01,480 Speaker 16: the lifeguard that's for detecting them is going to be 908 00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:02,359 Speaker 16: nude as well. 909 00:50:03,360 --> 00:50:08,640 Speaker 19: Okay, I'm a certified lifeguard, I'm CPR certified, I'm a student. 910 00:50:09,440 --> 00:50:13,160 Speaker 19: I've had other jobs, but nudity wasn't on my resume. 911 00:50:13,719 --> 00:50:18,120 Speaker 16: And I understand that wholeheartedly. But we're talking about you 912 00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:21,080 Speaker 16: possibly making seventeen hundred and fifty dollars a week. How 913 00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:22,879 Speaker 16: do you feel about seventeen hundred and fifty a week 914 00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:25,480 Speaker 16: for your nursing school. I'm sure that'll that'll definitely pay 915 00:50:25,600 --> 00:50:28,680 Speaker 16: for it throughout the entire summer. That should be a 916 00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:33,080 Speaker 16: big help, shouldn't it? Yeah? I would, But I mean, 917 00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:35,600 Speaker 16: I mean, are are you? How do you feel about 918 00:50:35,640 --> 00:50:38,040 Speaker 16: trying it for a few weeks and then you know, 919 00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:39,120 Speaker 16: how do you feel about that? 920 00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:42,480 Speaker 19: I don't know, But I mean, you're. 921 00:50:42,320 --> 00:50:45,160 Speaker 16: Gonna watch over some adults who are actually just gonna 922 00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:47,560 Speaker 16: be nude in the pool, and you're nude as well, 923 00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:52,960 Speaker 16: up on the big chair that overwatches everybody. Seventeen fifty 924 00:50:53,360 --> 00:50:55,840 Speaker 16: I don't seventeen fifty carry. 925 00:50:56,080 --> 00:50:57,840 Speaker 19: I don't think I'm going to be able to do that. 926 00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:01,759 Speaker 16: Seventeen fifty carry. We're talking about four hours of you 927 00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:05,200 Speaker 16: being nude along with some other people that are already new. So, 928 00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:06,279 Speaker 16: I mean, what's the big deal. 929 00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:06,560 Speaker 8: You know? 930 00:51:06,920 --> 00:51:08,839 Speaker 16: What we need you to do is come down. We're 931 00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:11,480 Speaker 16: gonna do some drills, some lifeguard drills to make sure 932 00:51:11,520 --> 00:51:13,919 Speaker 16: that you're definitely qualified. But we're going to make sure 933 00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:15,880 Speaker 16: that when you do those, you got to be naked 934 00:51:15,920 --> 00:51:16,279 Speaker 16: as well. 935 00:51:16,520 --> 00:51:20,840 Speaker 22: Okay, why would I have to do some drills naked? 936 00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:23,280 Speaker 22: I'm already a lifeguard. 937 00:51:23,320 --> 00:51:25,759 Speaker 16: What do I need to understand all that? But in 938 00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:28,920 Speaker 16: order we for our particular property, we got to make 939 00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:32,960 Speaker 16: sure that you're actually prepared and ready you know. Un Well, 940 00:51:33,120 --> 00:51:34,880 Speaker 16: that's the way it is, carrit We need you to 941 00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:38,400 Speaker 16: come down and do some drills. It's not going to 942 00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:40,839 Speaker 16: take a long probably about a half hour. You come down, 943 00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:42,520 Speaker 16: you get undressed, you get in the pool, and we 944 00:51:42,680 --> 00:51:46,680 Speaker 16: make sure that you're qualified to swim nude, to handle 945 00:51:46,920 --> 00:51:49,880 Speaker 16: to saving somebody's life, nude, the whole nine yards. 946 00:51:50,200 --> 00:51:53,360 Speaker 22: But what I mean, what if my family come to that? 947 00:51:53,840 --> 00:51:56,400 Speaker 16: You know, Carrie, you know I can't go back and 948 00:51:56,520 --> 00:51:59,480 Speaker 16: forth with you. I can't now. I know you. You know, 949 00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:01,120 Speaker 16: I look at your resume. I looked at what you 950 00:52:01,200 --> 00:52:03,440 Speaker 16: were doing and what you're pursuing in life, and I 951 00:52:03,520 --> 00:52:05,239 Speaker 16: thought this would be a great opportunity for you. 952 00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:06,279 Speaker 22: But I can't be here. 953 00:52:06,760 --> 00:52:08,960 Speaker 19: I mean, I can't do that to my family. 954 00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:11,719 Speaker 16: And you know no, wait a minute, hang on a second. Now, 955 00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:13,279 Speaker 16: you can't tell me you can't do it. 956 00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:13,600 Speaker 6: Now? 957 00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:15,880 Speaker 22: Oh yes, I yes I can. 958 00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:18,200 Speaker 16: So you get your down here in the morning so 959 00:52:18,280 --> 00:52:20,360 Speaker 16: I can get these drills done. And I want you 960 00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:22,560 Speaker 16: naked when you get here and get in this pool. 961 00:52:22,600 --> 00:52:24,759 Speaker 16: You understand me, Who the hell do you think you're 962 00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:25,279 Speaker 16: talking to? 963 00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:28,200 Speaker 22: Are you some kind of pull pimp? Life guard? 964 00:52:28,320 --> 00:52:28,360 Speaker 16: You? 965 00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:31,520 Speaker 22: The resources are and pimp. You're not tipping me. I 966 00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:33,400 Speaker 22: don't have to come down there, but I want to 967 00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:34,000 Speaker 22: come down there. 968 00:52:34,239 --> 00:52:36,640 Speaker 16: You gotta bring you think it down here tomorrow and 969 00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:38,799 Speaker 16: get in this pool and do this drill. 970 00:52:38,920 --> 00:52:40,479 Speaker 22: Do you think you're talking too. 971 00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:43,200 Speaker 16: I'm talking to you. You get your out here tomorrow 972 00:52:43,200 --> 00:52:44,680 Speaker 16: and your duty drill you need to do. 973 00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:51,160 Speaker 22: Is go get your pimp with Anderson Bayway. What you're 974 00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:54,399 Speaker 22: doing this new restaurant for you all freaking I don't 975 00:52:54,440 --> 00:52:54,839 Speaker 22: know them. 976 00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:57,640 Speaker 16: I don't know them paper, I don't give a fool 977 00:52:57,680 --> 00:52:59,400 Speaker 16: you know. Now, you get your down here and you 978 00:52:59,480 --> 00:52:59,960 Speaker 16: take the job. 979 00:53:00,560 --> 00:53:03,640 Speaker 22: I'm not coming down there to your fuck pool tomorrow 980 00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:06,840 Speaker 22: and swim noodle and life. Go ahead, noodle for a 981 00:53:06,920 --> 00:53:10,279 Speaker 22: bunch of ronchy. I don't know who you take your 982 00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:12,080 Speaker 22: time to. I'm just trying to be nice to you 983 00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:16,080 Speaker 22: when you come along with that. And then because I'm 984 00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:18,800 Speaker 22: not there coming the girl you got me? Okay, you 985 00:53:18,880 --> 00:53:22,239 Speaker 22: need to gonna get you a Pamela Anderson Baywatch. You 986 00:53:22,320 --> 00:53:25,840 Speaker 22: know DeepC diving. I don't know what you need, but 987 00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:26,960 Speaker 22: I'm gonna what you need. 988 00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:30,200 Speaker 16: You get your block down here tomorrow. What do you 989 00:53:30,280 --> 00:53:33,680 Speaker 16: think you're talking to I'm talking to you. You're talking 990 00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:33,880 Speaker 16: to you. 991 00:53:34,280 --> 00:53:35,040 Speaker 22: I'm talking to you. 992 00:53:36,120 --> 00:53:38,800 Speaker 16: Do you think you're talking to I got something I 993 00:53:38,920 --> 00:53:40,200 Speaker 16: want to say to you. You listening? 994 00:53:40,360 --> 00:53:42,480 Speaker 22: You know where you You better go ahead and stay 995 00:53:42,520 --> 00:53:44,319 Speaker 22: because I'm about to hang up this phone in your 996 00:53:44,360 --> 00:53:45,120 Speaker 22: face right now. 997 00:53:45,640 --> 00:53:49,560 Speaker 16: This is Nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 998 00:53:49,840 --> 00:54:00,440 Speaker 16: You just got pranked by your girlfriend. I just see it, 999 00:54:00,680 --> 00:54:02,400 Speaker 16: frank you, baby, your girlfriend. 1000 00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:07,240 Speaker 22: When I see that she's gonna have one last float, 1001 00:54:08,640 --> 00:54:09,919 Speaker 22: I cannot believe. 1002 00:54:09,719 --> 00:54:10,800 Speaker 8: She d like this. 1003 00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:13,640 Speaker 16: All right, I gotta ask you something, baby, what is 1004 00:54:14,120 --> 00:54:17,360 Speaker 16: What is the baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio 1005 00:54:17,600 --> 00:54:19,120 Speaker 16: show in the land. 1006 00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:22,400 Speaker 19: The Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1007 00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:29,640 Speaker 6: And there you have it, naked like God? Come on, 1008 00:54:30,160 --> 00:54:33,520 Speaker 6: come on, y'all wouldn't have a naked like God? Y'all 1009 00:54:33,520 --> 00:54:37,640 Speaker 6: wouldn't do that? What make it exciting? 1010 00:54:37,760 --> 00:54:38,080 Speaker 3: Certainly? 1011 00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:41,839 Speaker 6: Yeah, y'all. People would close. Y'all kill me listen. June teen, 1012 00:54:41,920 --> 00:54:48,759 Speaker 6: Comedy Celebrations. Who all these clothes? It don't it don't 1013 00:54:48,800 --> 00:54:52,360 Speaker 6: take all that, It don't it don't take Thursday, June nineteenth, 1014 00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:54,200 Speaker 6: It is going down. I've been talking about it and 1015 00:54:54,320 --> 00:54:57,080 Speaker 6: talking about it. June teen, Comedy celebration. It's an all 1016 00:54:57,400 --> 00:55:00,920 Speaker 6: white attire. Bubba Dub gonna be an all white Melandi 1017 00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:04,239 Speaker 6: Camacho gonna be in all white, Earthquake gonna be in 1018 00:55:04,360 --> 00:55:07,800 Speaker 6: all white. 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Just to prove a. 1023 00:55:27,080 --> 00:55:37,120 Speaker 23: Pointment is funny too, All right, nephew, thank you. 1024 00:55:37,280 --> 00:55:41,360 Speaker 11: Coming up next my Strawberry letters subject has my husband 1025 00:55:41,560 --> 00:55:42,360 Speaker 11: been faking it? 1026 00:55:42,600 --> 00:55:44,160 Speaker 12: We'll get into it right after this. 1027 00:55:45,120 --> 00:55:47,759 Speaker 3: Do you think astronauts fight over elbow room? 1028 00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:51,960 Speaker 8: Probably because advanced tech doesn't always mean more space. 1029 00:55:52,160 --> 00:55:53,480 Speaker 3: Until now introduce it. 1030 00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:57,800 Speaker 8: The Handai Ionic nine, a three row electric suv with 1031 00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:02,160 Speaker 8: over three hundred miles of race, ultra fast charging capability, 1032 00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:03,400 Speaker 8: and lots of space. 1033 00:56:03,560 --> 00:56:06,719 Speaker 6: The all new Hondai Ionic nine face in an EV. 1034 00:56:06,960 --> 00:56:10,520 Speaker 6: Visit HONDAIUSA dot com for more details. 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We could 1041 00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:37,680 Speaker 11: be reading your letter live on the air, just like 1042 00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:39,600 Speaker 11: we're going to read this one right here, right now, 1043 00:56:39,960 --> 00:56:41,560 Speaker 11: and you never know, it could be yours. 1044 00:56:42,200 --> 00:56:44,120 Speaker 3: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight. 1045 00:56:44,200 --> 00:56:47,160 Speaker 3: We got it for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter. 1046 00:56:47,680 --> 00:56:51,279 Speaker 11: Thank you nephew. Subject has my husband been faking it? 1047 00:56:51,800 --> 00:56:54,680 Speaker 11: Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a thirty nine year old married 1048 00:56:54,760 --> 00:56:58,239 Speaker 11: woman and my husband is thirty seven. My husband lost 1049 00:56:58,320 --> 00:57:00,440 Speaker 11: his job in twenty twenty and we moved to a 1050 00:57:00,520 --> 00:57:03,439 Speaker 11: smaller house and use the equity from our old house 1051 00:57:03,520 --> 00:57:06,520 Speaker 11: to cover our expenses until he could find another job. 1052 00:57:07,000 --> 00:57:10,719 Speaker 11: The change of lifestyle made us closer and really humbled him. 1053 00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:14,120 Speaker 11: He finally joined my church and he stopped pressuring me 1054 00:57:14,320 --> 00:57:16,640 Speaker 11: to have a baby. He told me that he was 1055 00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:19,600 Speaker 11: happier than he'd been he'd ever been, and he felt 1056 00:57:19,720 --> 00:57:20,240 Speaker 11: at peace. 1057 00:57:20,800 --> 00:57:21,600 Speaker 1: Then he got a. 1058 00:57:21,720 --> 00:57:25,160 Speaker 11: Job in twenty twenty three, late last year, he got 1059 00:57:25,240 --> 00:57:28,080 Speaker 11: a big promotion and now he earns more than he's 1060 00:57:28,240 --> 00:57:31,240 Speaker 11: ever earned. By the first of this year, he started 1061 00:57:31,280 --> 00:57:33,840 Speaker 11: saying that we're outgrowing the small house and we need 1062 00:57:33,960 --> 00:57:36,960 Speaker 11: to find a house in our old neighborhood. He suggested 1063 00:57:37,240 --> 00:57:39,560 Speaker 11: that I start looking for a new car for myself, 1064 00:57:39,800 --> 00:57:42,439 Speaker 11: but I just paid off my Volvo, so I'm good 1065 00:57:42,600 --> 00:57:45,040 Speaker 11: for now. I am a teacher and I have no 1066 00:57:45,320 --> 00:57:48,080 Speaker 11: desire to drive a nice car to my job in 1067 00:57:48,240 --> 00:57:51,960 Speaker 11: the hood. He bought a new SUV and renewed our 1068 00:57:52,000 --> 00:57:54,880 Speaker 11: membership to a private club where we were usually the 1069 00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:58,400 Speaker 11: only blacks at events. He started going back to his 1070 00:57:58,480 --> 00:58:01,280 Speaker 11: old tailor and he cut off his beard that I loved. 1071 00:58:01,680 --> 00:58:04,960 Speaker 11: He was becoming his old self again. A Memorial Day, 1072 00:58:05,320 --> 00:58:07,919 Speaker 11: his company had a cookout, and I could not wait 1073 00:58:08,040 --> 00:58:11,000 Speaker 11: to meet his coworkers. That he bragged about most of 1074 00:58:11,080 --> 00:58:14,520 Speaker 11: the black ones don't know they're black. And I didn't 1075 00:58:14,600 --> 00:58:17,040 Speaker 11: know if I should laugh at my husband or clap 1076 00:58:17,120 --> 00:58:21,000 Speaker 11: for him when he used proper subject verb agreement. My 1077 00:58:21,160 --> 00:58:24,400 Speaker 11: husband really wants the status that he once had. I 1078 00:58:24,560 --> 00:58:27,200 Speaker 11: told him that he lied about being comfortable with my 1079 00:58:27,440 --> 00:58:31,240 Speaker 11: downs with downsizing our lives. He said that it is 1080 00:58:31,400 --> 00:58:34,880 Speaker 11: time for a change. Was my husband faking his happiness 1081 00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:38,640 Speaker 11: with me for the past five years? Well, I mean, definitely, 1082 00:58:38,720 --> 00:58:41,000 Speaker 11: I don't think he was faking it. But what I'm 1083 00:58:41,080 --> 00:58:43,920 Speaker 11: trying to figure out is what are you complaining about? 1084 00:58:44,040 --> 00:58:46,680 Speaker 11: I mean, I would think you would be happy to 1085 00:58:46,800 --> 00:58:51,640 Speaker 11: move into a nicer home and also that your husband 1086 00:58:51,680 --> 00:58:53,479 Speaker 11: wants to buy you a new car and do nice 1087 00:58:53,520 --> 00:58:56,160 Speaker 11: things for you. I mean, he's obviously making more money 1088 00:58:56,280 --> 00:58:59,640 Speaker 11: now and he's being the provider, and that's what real moment, 1089 00:59:00,000 --> 00:59:00,560 Speaker 11: real men do. 1090 00:59:01,800 --> 00:59:03,560 Speaker 12: He's getting a swag back. Okay. 1091 00:59:03,720 --> 00:59:06,040 Speaker 11: He wants you to be proud of him. He wants 1092 00:59:06,040 --> 00:59:10,320 Speaker 11: you to go with him, but you're seem stuck and resistant. 1093 00:59:10,680 --> 00:59:14,520 Speaker 11: I mean, I really again, don't think he was lying 1094 00:59:14,560 --> 00:59:18,000 Speaker 11: about being comfortable with the downsizing, not at all. He 1095 00:59:18,160 --> 00:59:20,760 Speaker 11: made the necessary adjustments to deal with the life he 1096 00:59:20,840 --> 00:59:22,160 Speaker 11: had while he wasn't working. 1097 00:59:22,440 --> 00:59:24,200 Speaker 12: He didn't complain, He dealt with it. 1098 00:59:24,720 --> 00:59:27,360 Speaker 11: Now he's back and he wants to live and thrive 1099 00:59:27,520 --> 00:59:30,280 Speaker 11: and take his life your lives to the next level. 1100 00:59:30,560 --> 00:59:32,280 Speaker 12: He wants you to go with him. You're his wife. 1101 00:59:32,320 --> 00:59:35,439 Speaker 12: What's wrong with that? It shows he's adaptable. He's making 1102 00:59:35,560 --> 00:59:36,760 Speaker 12: up for lost time now. 1103 00:59:37,240 --> 00:59:40,200 Speaker 11: While you're trying to stay stuck in the past, you know, 1104 00:59:40,360 --> 00:59:41,680 Speaker 11: and focus on the wrong thing. 1105 00:59:42,280 --> 00:59:44,760 Speaker 1: Steve, you know what I think. 1106 00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:46,760 Speaker 3: I think I don't even want to do this letter. 1107 00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:50,120 Speaker 8: That's how I feel about I really do case, Shelley, 1108 00:59:50,160 --> 00:59:51,520 Speaker 8: you absolutely correct. 1109 00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:54,919 Speaker 3: What are you complaining about? What's the matter? 1110 00:59:56,240 --> 00:59:59,080 Speaker 8: This man ain't cheating, He ain't taking his money, is 1111 00:59:59,160 --> 01:00:01,880 Speaker 8: spending it no way else. He keep bringing it back 1112 01:00:01,960 --> 01:00:04,600 Speaker 8: into the house. He wants to do something nice for 1113 01:00:04,720 --> 01:00:08,040 Speaker 8: you all the time. You're a teacher. You don't want 1114 01:00:08,080 --> 01:00:11,640 Speaker 8: to drive a nice car into the hood. You sold 1115 01:00:11,720 --> 01:00:14,320 Speaker 8: your your paid your Vovo off. He won't get you 1116 01:00:14,320 --> 01:00:14,960 Speaker 8: a new car. 1117 01:00:15,520 --> 01:00:21,520 Speaker 3: Drive your Vovo. I don't even know what's what's wrong 1118 01:00:21,640 --> 01:00:22,320 Speaker 3: in this letter? 1119 01:00:22,520 --> 01:00:25,240 Speaker 1: Yes, what is wrong? 1120 01:00:25,440 --> 01:00:28,320 Speaker 3: I don't even know. Has my husband been faking it now? 1121 01:00:28,320 --> 01:00:31,640 Speaker 3: I'm thinking you know that title. Yeah, I know what 1122 01:00:31,760 --> 01:00:32,000 Speaker 3: you mean. 1123 01:00:32,160 --> 01:00:34,360 Speaker 8: Yes, faking and telling us we've been in love for 1124 01:00:34,600 --> 01:00:38,120 Speaker 8: years and he got another family some well, he tell 1125 01:00:38,200 --> 01:00:40,600 Speaker 8: me everything all right, and he's seeing this other woman 1126 01:00:40,720 --> 01:00:42,880 Speaker 8: on the side. That letter ain't about none of that. 1127 01:00:44,840 --> 01:00:48,280 Speaker 8: Listen to what he did. You're a thirty nine year 1128 01:00:48,280 --> 01:00:52,360 Speaker 8: old married woman. Your husband is thirty seven. He lost 1129 01:00:52,440 --> 01:00:55,360 Speaker 8: his job y'all moved into a smaller house. Y'all took 1130 01:00:55,400 --> 01:00:58,600 Speaker 8: the equity from the old house and held it down 1131 01:00:58,680 --> 01:01:03,040 Speaker 8: until he could. And you say, to cover our expenses 1132 01:01:03,200 --> 01:01:06,360 Speaker 8: until he could find another good job. That's what you 1133 01:01:06,480 --> 01:01:08,800 Speaker 8: did with the equity in the house, to cover y'all's 1134 01:01:08,840 --> 01:01:13,160 Speaker 8: expenses until he could find another good job. Then you said, 1135 01:01:13,240 --> 01:01:16,360 Speaker 8: the change of lifestyle made us closely closer, and it 1136 01:01:16,560 --> 01:01:20,760 Speaker 8: really humbled him. Okay, see this is what this led about. 1137 01:01:21,520 --> 01:01:25,600 Speaker 8: You like the new humble person. He finally joined my church. 1138 01:01:25,760 --> 01:01:29,000 Speaker 8: He stopped pressuring me to have a baby. See now, 1139 01:01:29,560 --> 01:01:31,640 Speaker 8: as long as he doing what you want to do, 1140 01:01:32,240 --> 01:01:35,280 Speaker 8: there you go. Now you happy he joined your church, 1141 01:01:35,520 --> 01:01:37,880 Speaker 8: And he probably didn't won't go down a little raggedy church. 1142 01:01:39,320 --> 01:01:40,400 Speaker 3: He went on and join you. 1143 01:01:40,520 --> 01:01:42,640 Speaker 8: He might not even like your past, all that hooping 1144 01:01:42,720 --> 01:01:44,320 Speaker 8: and hollery. Everybody don't want to go down there for 1145 01:01:44,400 --> 01:01:47,120 Speaker 8: all that? Why is they running in here? 1146 01:01:47,160 --> 01:01:47,280 Speaker 15: Well? 1147 01:01:47,360 --> 01:01:49,280 Speaker 3: All and everybody want to all you go want the 1148 01:01:49,360 --> 01:01:50,600 Speaker 3: little quiet, little church. 1149 01:01:50,680 --> 01:01:54,360 Speaker 8: Ain't nobody rejoicing all their old dry service, ain't got 1150 01:01:54,440 --> 01:01:57,080 Speaker 8: no jam in choir. He finally joined it, and he 1151 01:01:57,200 --> 01:01:59,480 Speaker 8: does stop pressuring you to have a baby. He want 1152 01:01:59,520 --> 01:02:03,640 Speaker 8: a family. You're thirty nine, that's pressure to have a baby. 1153 01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:04,280 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1154 01:02:05,480 --> 01:02:07,800 Speaker 8: He told me that he's happier than he's ever been, 1155 01:02:07,880 --> 01:02:11,520 Speaker 8: and he felt at peace. Here's a man who made 1156 01:02:11,560 --> 01:02:16,320 Speaker 8: the necessary adjustments without complaining, and he settled on in 1157 01:02:16,600 --> 01:02:18,920 Speaker 8: for the sake of his family. Then he got a 1158 01:02:19,040 --> 01:02:22,040 Speaker 8: job in twenty twenty three, he backed making all kinds 1159 01:02:22,080 --> 01:02:26,200 Speaker 8: of new money. He started saying that we're outgrowing the 1160 01:02:26,280 --> 01:02:28,840 Speaker 8: small house. We need to find a house in our 1161 01:02:28,880 --> 01:02:32,280 Speaker 8: old neighborhood. He suggested, you start looking for a new 1162 01:02:32,400 --> 01:02:35,400 Speaker 8: car for yourself. I just paid off my Vovo, so 1163 01:02:35,480 --> 01:02:37,080 Speaker 8: I'm good. I'm a teacher. I don't want to drive 1164 01:02:37,160 --> 01:02:39,280 Speaker 8: his nice car in the hood. He bought a new suv. 1165 01:02:39,880 --> 01:02:42,560 Speaker 8: He renewed your membership down at the private club. We 1166 01:02:42,760 --> 01:02:45,440 Speaker 8: using only blacks at the events. That's what happened when 1167 01:02:45,480 --> 01:02:48,360 Speaker 8: you in certain neighborhoods. He started going back to his 1168 01:02:48,480 --> 01:02:51,520 Speaker 8: old tailor, cut off his beard that I loved. He 1169 01:02:51,720 --> 01:02:55,320 Speaker 8: was becoming his old self again. Then they had a cookout. 1170 01:02:55,400 --> 01:02:58,360 Speaker 8: You met the black people that wasn't really black. You 1171 01:02:58,520 --> 01:03:02,480 Speaker 8: was laughing at him the way he talked, just hang on, girl, buy. 1172 01:03:02,640 --> 01:03:05,520 Speaker 11: Hang hold, hang on, Steve, We'll have for two of 1173 01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:08,680 Speaker 11: your response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. 1174 01:03:08,760 --> 01:03:13,240 Speaker 11: Today's Strawberry Letter subject is has my husband been faking it? 1175 01:03:13,360 --> 01:03:16,400 Speaker 12: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening 1176 01:03:17,120 --> 01:03:18,560 Speaker 12: Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1177 01:03:22,680 --> 01:03:25,800 Speaker 13: My name is Tony and my daughter, Bailey is seven 1178 01:03:25,920 --> 01:03:28,240 Speaker 13: years old. We learned about seek of Sale at bird 1179 01:03:28,360 --> 01:03:31,280 Speaker 13: So when we got the news, my first mind was whyause. 1180 01:03:31,480 --> 01:03:35,080 Speaker 13: I remember that sometimes the things that you go through 1181 01:03:35,240 --> 01:03:38,160 Speaker 13: are not necessarily for you, there for somebody else. I'm 1182 01:03:38,240 --> 01:03:41,000 Speaker 13: so thankful to God and Saint Jude and all the 1183 01:03:41,120 --> 01:03:42,080 Speaker 13: angels they work here. 1184 01:03:42,280 --> 01:03:43,400 Speaker 1: They took all the worry away. 1185 01:03:43,680 --> 01:03:46,800 Speaker 11: You can help kids fight childhood cancer and diseases like 1186 01:03:46,920 --> 01:03:49,600 Speaker 11: sickle cell. Please become a Saint Jude Partner in Hope 1187 01:03:49,640 --> 01:03:53,800 Speaker 11: today by texting SHMS to seven eight five eight three three. 1188 01:03:54,400 --> 01:03:57,160 Speaker 11: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry Letter. 1189 01:03:57,240 --> 01:03:58,800 Speaker 11: I know you said you didn't want to really do 1190 01:03:59,000 --> 01:03:59,520 Speaker 11: this letter. 1191 01:04:01,360 --> 01:04:01,960 Speaker 1: Let's do it. 1192 01:04:05,760 --> 01:04:08,680 Speaker 3: They married couple. She thirty nine, he thirty seven. He 1193 01:04:08,800 --> 01:04:09,400 Speaker 3: had a job. 1194 01:04:09,480 --> 01:04:13,080 Speaker 8: He lost his job, and they decided to downsize until 1195 01:04:13,120 --> 01:04:15,000 Speaker 8: he could find a better job. 1196 01:04:15,200 --> 01:04:17,360 Speaker 3: Another good job, they say, So they took the. 1197 01:04:17,400 --> 01:04:21,640 Speaker 8: Equity from the house provided a lifestyle for him, and 1198 01:04:21,840 --> 01:04:25,640 Speaker 8: she said that the change really humbled him. So he 1199 01:04:26,200 --> 01:04:29,120 Speaker 8: stopped pressing you the having a baby, and he finally 1200 01:04:29,240 --> 01:04:32,360 Speaker 8: joined your church. Man, he ain't want to join the 1201 01:04:32,480 --> 01:04:34,520 Speaker 8: church down there. Maybe he ain't like the two reasons 1202 01:04:34,520 --> 01:04:36,400 Speaker 8: you don't want to go to church. You don't want 1203 01:04:36,400 --> 01:04:38,120 Speaker 8: to go down there with all that hooping and holleringd 1204 01:04:38,160 --> 01:04:40,520 Speaker 8: that tracked me to be at some churches. Or you 1205 01:04:40,600 --> 01:04:44,160 Speaker 8: want to go down to this little dry Latin speaking 1206 01:04:44,320 --> 01:04:46,240 Speaker 8: Lord you over there there and got him. 1207 01:04:46,200 --> 01:04:48,640 Speaker 3: Books, the whole dry service. Y'all ain't got no drum 1208 01:04:48,720 --> 01:04:50,800 Speaker 3: at the church. Nothing. Everybody don't want that. 1209 01:04:51,720 --> 01:04:51,840 Speaker 6: Now. 1210 01:04:51,880 --> 01:04:53,600 Speaker 8: You either don't want the hooping and holland or the 1211 01:04:53,680 --> 01:04:55,240 Speaker 8: track meet, or you don't want to go down here 1212 01:04:55,320 --> 01:05:04,600 Speaker 8: that it latins me. Oh oh, we're gonna open up 1213 01:05:04,640 --> 01:05:06,840 Speaker 8: our him books to page toy to eight. 1214 01:05:09,320 --> 01:05:14,960 Speaker 3: I know he will fix it. He will after a while. 1215 01:05:16,200 --> 01:05:17,520 Speaker 3: We didn't have no human books. 1216 01:05:17,560 --> 01:05:20,880 Speaker 8: Somebody just jumped up and busted out into a soung 1217 01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:24,600 Speaker 8: and we followed. Well, he didn't finally join the church. 1218 01:05:24,640 --> 01:05:27,000 Speaker 8: Stop pressing you to have a baby. He told you 1219 01:05:27,160 --> 01:05:28,720 Speaker 8: he was happy and that he had ever been and 1220 01:05:28,800 --> 01:05:32,840 Speaker 8: he felt at peace. This is a man who's adjusting 1221 01:05:33,240 --> 01:05:36,520 Speaker 8: to the circumstance. So instead of getting down that downside 1222 01:05:36,520 --> 01:05:39,959 Speaker 8: and complaining, he told you he was at peace. Last 1223 01:05:40,000 --> 01:05:42,120 Speaker 8: year he got a new job, got a big promotion. 1224 01:05:42,960 --> 01:05:45,560 Speaker 8: Want to move out the old neighborhood, he suggested. They 1225 01:05:45,600 --> 01:05:48,240 Speaker 8: started looking for a bigger house. Then he told you 1226 01:05:48,320 --> 01:05:50,560 Speaker 8: to find yourself a new car. I just paid off 1227 01:05:50,640 --> 01:05:52,640 Speaker 8: my Vovo. I'm a teacher. I don't want to drive 1228 01:05:52,760 --> 01:05:55,760 Speaker 8: no new car to no hood. Keep your Vovo. Then 1229 01:05:55,920 --> 01:05:58,960 Speaker 8: he bought a new su V renewed your membership down 1230 01:05:59,040 --> 01:05:59,919 Speaker 8: at the private club. 1231 01:06:00,160 --> 01:06:02,720 Speaker 3: Well, we usually only blacks at the event. That's what 1232 01:06:02,840 --> 01:06:03,560 Speaker 3: happened all the time. 1233 01:06:03,640 --> 01:06:06,200 Speaker 8: When you move out into neighborhoods, it ain't a lot 1234 01:06:06,280 --> 01:06:08,160 Speaker 8: of us out there, so you wind up being the 1235 01:06:08,200 --> 01:06:10,880 Speaker 8: only one that ain't the first time, then this company 1236 01:06:10,920 --> 01:06:13,560 Speaker 8: had a cookout. I couldn't wait to meet his coworkers 1237 01:06:13,600 --> 01:06:15,840 Speaker 8: that he bragged about. Most of the black ones don't 1238 01:06:15,880 --> 01:06:18,800 Speaker 8: know that they black, or they playing the game too, 1239 01:06:20,200 --> 01:06:22,400 Speaker 8: because when they're at home, they got to be something else. 1240 01:06:22,520 --> 01:06:25,000 Speaker 8: We done all had to put the mask on to 1241 01:06:25,120 --> 01:06:28,720 Speaker 8: come to work. So you know, everybody know what the masks, 1242 01:06:28,840 --> 01:06:31,320 Speaker 8: look like there's work in corporate America and put the 1243 01:06:31,400 --> 01:06:33,160 Speaker 8: mask on. Go down here and deal with it so 1244 01:06:33,280 --> 01:06:37,040 Speaker 8: we can go home. Yeah, most of the black ones 1245 01:06:37,120 --> 01:06:39,160 Speaker 8: don't know they black. They probably do. They just got 1246 01:06:39,280 --> 01:06:42,240 Speaker 8: to play the game. And so I didn't know if 1247 01:06:42,400 --> 01:06:44,560 Speaker 8: I should laugh at my husband or clap when he 1248 01:06:44,720 --> 01:06:47,760 Speaker 8: used proper subject verb agreement. You a teacher, You ought 1249 01:06:47,760 --> 01:06:50,800 Speaker 8: to be happy about that. My husband really wants the 1250 01:06:50,920 --> 01:06:55,760 Speaker 8: status that he once had. Yes, he does, because that's 1251 01:06:55,800 --> 01:07:00,200 Speaker 8: what money does. It provides you with the status. I 1252 01:07:00,360 --> 01:07:03,680 Speaker 8: told him he lied about being comfortable with downsides in 1253 01:07:03,760 --> 01:07:04,280 Speaker 8: our lives. 1254 01:07:04,560 --> 01:07:05,280 Speaker 3: No, he didn't. 1255 01:07:06,160 --> 01:07:10,080 Speaker 8: He just adjusted and instead of being a whiner and complainer, 1256 01:07:10,640 --> 01:07:13,600 Speaker 8: he went along with it. Man, that's the kind of 1257 01:07:13,720 --> 01:07:17,440 Speaker 8: man you won't. He said that it's time for a change. 1258 01:07:17,840 --> 01:07:20,520 Speaker 8: Was my husband faking his happiness with me for the 1259 01:07:20,600 --> 01:07:22,760 Speaker 8: past five years? Why is that your question? 1260 01:07:23,600 --> 01:07:24,120 Speaker 23: Exactly? 1261 01:07:24,920 --> 01:07:26,880 Speaker 3: Why is that your question? 1262 01:07:28,320 --> 01:07:30,520 Speaker 8: If he was faking it, what you would with having 1263 01:07:30,560 --> 01:07:32,880 Speaker 8: a real family and another family or a woman on 1264 01:07:33,000 --> 01:07:34,240 Speaker 8: the side and all that I could have. 1265 01:07:34,560 --> 01:07:38,120 Speaker 3: But he No, he wasn't faking it. That's the happiest 1266 01:07:38,160 --> 01:07:38,600 Speaker 3: he's been. 1267 01:07:38,680 --> 01:07:40,520 Speaker 8: He was at peace, he was out the rat race 1268 01:07:40,600 --> 01:07:43,160 Speaker 8: for a minute, he took a break, but the true 1269 01:07:43,240 --> 01:07:46,640 Speaker 8: him wants to get back in the game. And yes, 1270 01:07:46,800 --> 01:07:50,440 Speaker 8: he won't stack status because that's why you make more money. 1271 01:07:50,800 --> 01:07:53,800 Speaker 8: And he's doing exactly what a man should do. He's 1272 01:07:53,880 --> 01:07:57,080 Speaker 8: making more money to provide a better lifestyle for you. 1273 01:07:58,480 --> 01:08:01,560 Speaker 8: He buying you a bigger house, he buying you a 1274 01:08:01,680 --> 01:08:07,240 Speaker 8: new car. Man, what do you want? What difference do 1275 01:08:07,320 --> 01:08:12,240 Speaker 8: it make? Why are you trying to make something wrong? Exactly, 1276 01:08:13,240 --> 01:08:16,479 Speaker 8: You're just trying to make something wrong. Lady, it's women 1277 01:08:16,600 --> 01:08:21,320 Speaker 8: listening to this letter, going girl by this woman sitting 1278 01:08:21,320 --> 01:08:24,679 Speaker 8: If you're going, that's that sounded like my husband. 1279 01:08:24,760 --> 01:08:26,640 Speaker 12: Yeah, I wish I could get my husband to do 1280 01:08:26,800 --> 01:08:27,400 Speaker 12: this or. 1281 01:08:28,880 --> 01:08:30,120 Speaker 3: Or that's my husband. 1282 01:08:31,040 --> 01:08:34,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's just the way of manhood. 1283 01:08:36,560 --> 01:08:38,599 Speaker 8: So that's why they want to answer this letter because 1284 01:08:38,640 --> 01:08:42,280 Speaker 8: I don't know what she's complaining about. It just lady, 1285 01:08:43,040 --> 01:08:44,760 Speaker 8: you ain't even got no problem. Let me cut my 1286 01:08:44,880 --> 01:08:48,679 Speaker 8: computer on. I ain't got no more comments on. Y'all 1287 01:08:48,680 --> 01:08:49,639 Speaker 8: want to talk about something else? 1288 01:08:49,720 --> 01:09:01,360 Speaker 3: How the weather ever good? Right now? 1289 01:09:04,479 --> 01:09:07,240 Speaker 8: Anybody heard anything about Puffy? What's happening with the puppy trial? 1290 01:09:08,360 --> 01:09:13,559 Speaker 12: Same old s freakoff details and all of that crazy. 1291 01:09:13,560 --> 01:09:14,360 Speaker 23: It's too long. 1292 01:09:14,479 --> 01:09:17,800 Speaker 12: This Yeah, it's really long. It's really long. 1293 01:09:17,880 --> 01:09:19,520 Speaker 3: Too much, long and slippery? 1294 01:09:20,960 --> 01:09:21,760 Speaker 12: Yes, too much. 1295 01:09:21,840 --> 01:09:23,880 Speaker 23: You're just saying anything that comes to your mind. 1296 01:09:26,840 --> 01:09:29,960 Speaker 12: Yeah, don't filter, he doesn't think. 1297 01:09:30,160 --> 01:09:33,840 Speaker 3: No, no, no, no filter what waitit wait? 1298 01:09:34,040 --> 01:09:35,960 Speaker 1: Thank filter? 1299 01:09:36,400 --> 01:09:37,840 Speaker 12: Think for what. 1300 01:09:41,800 --> 01:09:44,360 Speaker 3: It's way more, way, more interesting than this letter. 1301 01:09:45,760 --> 01:09:48,640 Speaker 11: Yeah, this letter was crazy. She shouldn't have been. She 1302 01:09:48,760 --> 01:09:52,280 Speaker 11: really shouldn't have been complaining. All right, So you can 1303 01:09:52,400 --> 01:09:59,200 Speaker 11: comment trial. You can comment on Today's letter on Instagram. 1304 01:09:59,720 --> 01:10:03,000 Speaker 11: You can comment on Instagram or Facebook at Steve Harvey FM. 1305 01:10:03,400 --> 01:10:06,519 Speaker 11: You can also check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on 1306 01:10:06,640 --> 01:10:09,800 Speaker 11: the free iHeartRadio app. Now, coming up next, it is 1307 01:10:09,920 --> 01:10:13,000 Speaker 11: Junior in the Building with Sports Talk. Right after this, 1308 01:10:13,520 --> 01:10:16,000 Speaker 11: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1309 01:10:20,160 --> 01:10:22,760 Speaker 3: Do you think astronauts fight over elbow rum? 1310 01:10:22,960 --> 01:10:27,479 Speaker 8: Probably because advanced tech doesn't always mean more space. Until 1311 01:10:27,560 --> 01:10:31,479 Speaker 8: now introduce it the Hondai Ionic nine, a three row 1312 01:10:31,600 --> 01:10:35,599 Speaker 8: electric suv with over three hundred miles of range, ultra 1313 01:10:35,760 --> 01:10:37,439 Speaker 8: fast charging capability, and. 1314 01:10:37,560 --> 01:10:38,400 Speaker 3: Lots of space. 1315 01:10:38,560 --> 01:10:41,759 Speaker 6: The all new Hondai Ionic nine face in an EV. 1316 01:10:41,960 --> 01:10:45,519 Speaker 6: Visit HONDAIUSA dot com for more details. EPA estimated rings 1317 01:10:45,560 --> 01:10:48,080 Speaker 6: for owning line based on fully charge batteries for comparison 1318 01:10:48,120 --> 01:10:50,920 Speaker 6: purpose only. Actual range will vary based on several facts. 1319 01:10:51,560 --> 01:10:54,599 Speaker 12: It is time now for junior and sports talk. Junior, 1320 01:10:54,640 --> 01:10:55,479 Speaker 12: what you got for us? 1321 01:10:55,720 --> 01:10:58,080 Speaker 10: All right, Shirley, Well let me know tonight though, shorty tonight. 1322 01:10:58,160 --> 01:11:00,800 Speaker 10: I'm in Monroe, Louisiana at Billions Arena, So that's what 1323 01:11:00,880 --> 01:11:01,799 Speaker 10: I have to do tonight. 1324 01:11:02,360 --> 01:11:03,639 Speaker 1: Yes, I am in Monroll. 1325 01:11:04,160 --> 01:11:05,360 Speaker 2: You remember what one road he is on? 1326 01:11:05,960 --> 01:11:10,000 Speaker 3: Monroe, Monroe, Louisiana, right off twenty pe Ca and Mam. 1327 01:11:12,560 --> 01:11:13,839 Speaker 1: It's a board a bit everywhere. 1328 01:11:14,520 --> 01:11:17,280 Speaker 3: I would be there tonight though. See just east, just 1329 01:11:17,479 --> 01:11:20,920 Speaker 3: east of Shreveport Bowlshie City. Yes, it is. 1330 01:11:22,439 --> 01:11:24,479 Speaker 1: Bing up the one got. 1331 01:11:24,320 --> 01:11:27,200 Speaker 3: It about ninety miles up the road is ravel and Telula. 1332 01:11:27,760 --> 01:11:31,559 Speaker 3: What you've been everywhere? Rave on and toe Lula about 1333 01:11:31,680 --> 01:11:34,880 Speaker 3: ninety miles up the road going east off twenty. 1334 01:11:35,320 --> 01:11:35,519 Speaker 6: Yeah. 1335 01:11:35,640 --> 01:11:37,479 Speaker 10: Well let's talk about it up here we go, man 1336 01:11:38,040 --> 01:11:40,320 Speaker 10: Game four tonight in the NBA Finals. 1337 01:11:40,479 --> 01:11:42,960 Speaker 1: Okay, these Pacers got a two to one league. 1338 01:11:43,160 --> 01:11:47,080 Speaker 3: Where they playing at as they back to the now, Yeah, 1339 01:11:47,080 --> 01:11:47,839 Speaker 3: they're playing Indiana. 1340 01:11:47,920 --> 01:11:50,720 Speaker 1: Oh so it's two two one, No, no, no, it's 1341 01:11:50,720 --> 01:11:52,479 Speaker 1: two to one too to one Indiana. 1342 01:11:52,920 --> 01:11:55,320 Speaker 3: No, no, no, I'm asking you the format of where 1343 01:11:55,320 --> 01:11:55,800 Speaker 3: they play. 1344 01:11:56,200 --> 01:11:59,960 Speaker 1: Oh yeah too too yeah to two to one one one. 1345 01:12:00,360 --> 01:12:03,439 Speaker 8: Yes, so they going back if they win tonight. It's 1346 01:12:03,479 --> 01:12:06,200 Speaker 8: gonna be hard for Okay. See, I kind of really 1347 01:12:06,320 --> 01:12:09,400 Speaker 8: am kind of like pulling for Indiana now because I 1348 01:12:09,439 --> 01:12:10,880 Speaker 8: didn't have a dog in this fight. 1349 01:12:11,680 --> 01:12:13,759 Speaker 3: But it's a hard game to watch anyway. 1350 01:12:13,880 --> 01:12:16,840 Speaker 8: But I do like Indiana, yeah, more than because I 1351 01:12:16,960 --> 01:12:20,680 Speaker 8: can't stand that tall European player they got on. 1352 01:12:20,800 --> 01:12:25,200 Speaker 3: Ok see, the real skinny one. Oh he's weak. He weak, weak. 1353 01:12:25,280 --> 01:12:29,519 Speaker 3: He would never made it back in the day. He weak, y'all. Yeah, 1354 01:12:29,800 --> 01:12:32,040 Speaker 3: nog he weak man. He would have never made it. 1355 01:12:32,080 --> 01:12:34,240 Speaker 8: He wouldn't even bro He wouldn't even have been on 1356 01:12:34,320 --> 01:12:36,360 Speaker 8: the team in the nineties, eighties, He wouldn't even been 1357 01:12:36,400 --> 01:12:37,880 Speaker 8: out there eighty his he weak. 1358 01:12:39,160 --> 01:12:40,800 Speaker 3: He he makes me sick. 1359 01:12:41,160 --> 01:12:42,760 Speaker 1: He don't know nobody's name. 1360 01:12:44,400 --> 01:12:45,679 Speaker 3: I ain't got no time. 1361 01:12:46,000 --> 01:12:46,360 Speaker 2: I don't know. 1362 01:12:49,360 --> 01:12:52,840 Speaker 1: Kid player chet hober that's only one and and. 1363 01:12:53,120 --> 01:12:54,840 Speaker 8: He ain't gonna be in the middle. He'd be out 1364 01:12:54,840 --> 01:12:56,320 Speaker 8: there at the three point line. Then when he go 1365 01:12:56,439 --> 01:13:02,120 Speaker 8: to the paint, they just be throwing his stuff. I'll 1366 01:13:02,160 --> 01:13:03,240 Speaker 8: be going why as. 1367 01:13:03,200 --> 01:13:08,040 Speaker 12: You tall, wasted height, just wasted. 1368 01:13:12,320 --> 01:13:15,800 Speaker 3: He could have he could have been five all he 1369 01:13:15,880 --> 01:13:16,160 Speaker 3: could have. 1370 01:13:18,880 --> 01:13:21,320 Speaker 1: Also, Manu, y'all pray for the Rockets. 1371 01:13:21,400 --> 01:13:26,200 Speaker 10: Y'all play for US Rockets Kevin because Kevin Durant is 1372 01:13:26,240 --> 01:13:29,479 Speaker 10: looking for a new team trade proposal and Rockets is 1373 01:13:29,520 --> 01:13:31,120 Speaker 10: one of the teams that he's considering. So we just 1374 01:13:31,200 --> 01:13:33,200 Speaker 10: need to go and prayer and ask he come to Houston. 1375 01:13:33,520 --> 01:13:36,479 Speaker 3: That's what we should be praying for. It to pray 1376 01:13:36,560 --> 01:13:40,000 Speaker 3: for the Rockets. Are were praying for? 1377 01:13:40,720 --> 01:13:41,519 Speaker 6: No time for that? 1378 01:13:42,160 --> 01:13:44,880 Speaker 3: You think Kevin drink could be a rocket? Way too much? 1379 01:13:45,000 --> 01:13:45,880 Speaker 3: Talk to God about it. 1380 01:13:46,000 --> 01:13:51,799 Speaker 8: Ain't gonna bedloads your arms? 1381 01:13:56,400 --> 01:13:57,160 Speaker 12: All right, Junior? 1382 01:13:57,280 --> 01:14:00,160 Speaker 11: Thank you coming up at the top of the or 1383 01:14:00,640 --> 01:14:02,599 Speaker 11: a woman that needs some help Steve. 1384 01:14:03,479 --> 01:14:07,120 Speaker 9: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1385 01:14:11,280 --> 01:14:11,880 Speaker 1: All right, Steve. 1386 01:14:11,960 --> 01:14:16,280 Speaker 11: This is from Canetra in mid Lothian. Canetra says, I'm 1387 01:14:16,439 --> 01:14:19,280 Speaker 11: old school when it comes to dating and my boyfriend 1388 01:14:19,520 --> 01:14:22,000 Speaker 11: is older, so I would expect him to get certain 1389 01:14:22,080 --> 01:14:25,120 Speaker 11: things right. For example, he will text me when he 1390 01:14:25,240 --> 01:14:28,240 Speaker 11: pulls up to let me know he's downstairs instead of 1391 01:14:28,320 --> 01:14:30,720 Speaker 11: coming up to get me. So what I live on 1392 01:14:30,800 --> 01:14:34,040 Speaker 11: the second floor, and he texts me all day long 1393 01:14:34,240 --> 01:14:37,400 Speaker 11: instead of calling me. If I call him, he always 1394 01:14:37,479 --> 01:14:41,759 Speaker 11: asks what's wrong. He also won't hold my hand in public, 1395 01:14:41,880 --> 01:14:45,240 Speaker 11: and he won't sit beside me in restaurants. What's weird 1396 01:14:45,640 --> 01:14:48,000 Speaker 11: is that he told me that he loves me. How 1397 01:14:48,080 --> 01:14:50,800 Speaker 11: do I get this forty five year old man's actions 1398 01:14:50,920 --> 01:14:52,679 Speaker 11: to match up with his words? 1399 01:14:53,200 --> 01:14:55,760 Speaker 8: Wait a minute, First of all, your actions are not. 1400 01:14:55,920 --> 01:15:00,400 Speaker 8: You don't require anything. He texts you downstairs, go down 1401 01:15:00,479 --> 01:15:01,080 Speaker 8: there and get in the. 1402 01:15:01,120 --> 01:15:05,920 Speaker 3: Car, okay, Instead of you can train a man how 1403 01:15:05,960 --> 01:15:09,479 Speaker 3: to treat you, he texts you you go down and 1404 01:15:09,560 --> 01:15:10,080 Speaker 3: get in the car. 1405 01:15:11,000 --> 01:15:12,519 Speaker 12: But you're mad about it now. 1406 01:15:12,600 --> 01:15:14,920 Speaker 8: He don't sit next to you in the restaurant because 1407 01:15:15,240 --> 01:15:18,760 Speaker 8: he got he should be sitting there watching that door. 1408 01:15:20,439 --> 01:15:22,400 Speaker 8: I don't sit next to my wife in the restaurant. 1409 01:15:22,439 --> 01:15:24,720 Speaker 8: We sit across from each other, and I'll sit with 1410 01:15:24,880 --> 01:15:27,960 Speaker 8: my I face the door. I got to see this door. 1411 01:15:28,000 --> 01:15:30,920 Speaker 8: I gotta see what's happening. So there's nothing wrong with that. 1412 01:15:31,479 --> 01:15:34,559 Speaker 8: He texts you, and you respond. That's why he keep 1413 01:15:34,680 --> 01:15:37,519 Speaker 8: texting me. You've never said, hey, look, I don't care 1414 01:15:37,600 --> 01:15:39,400 Speaker 8: for text I want to hear your voice. Call me 1415 01:15:39,479 --> 01:15:42,120 Speaker 8: if you want this to continue. So it ain't what 1416 01:15:42,280 --> 01:15:44,600 Speaker 8: he doing wrong, it's what you're allowing him to do 1417 01:15:45,439 --> 01:15:49,519 Speaker 8: so once again. And if a man loves you, he 1418 01:15:49,640 --> 01:15:51,080 Speaker 8: gonna accommodate. 1419 01:15:50,560 --> 01:15:59,240 Speaker 3: You sitting next to each other texting so stupid. 1420 01:16:02,000 --> 01:16:03,920 Speaker 11: All right, we have done for another one, Steve, So 1421 01:16:04,000 --> 01:16:08,840 Speaker 11: you're telling kenetra I just told her Shirley, Yeah, and 1422 01:16:09,000 --> 01:16:11,519 Speaker 11: to get her standards together. That's all all right, We 1423 01:16:11,760 --> 01:16:13,599 Speaker 11: do have time for another one. This is from Levi 1424 01:16:13,760 --> 01:16:17,120 Speaker 11: and Saint Louis. Levi said, I had company over watching 1425 01:16:17,200 --> 01:16:20,240 Speaker 11: TV and enjoying a bottle of bourbon, and my date's 1426 01:16:20,360 --> 01:16:23,800 Speaker 11: phone kept ringing. She put it on vibrate and it 1427 01:16:24,000 --> 01:16:27,000 Speaker 11: kept on vibrating. Finally I asked her if she needed 1428 01:16:27,080 --> 01:16:29,879 Speaker 11: to check her phone. She said it was her roommate 1429 01:16:29,960 --> 01:16:32,000 Speaker 11: and she'd call her. When she got in the car. 1430 01:16:32,520 --> 01:16:35,519 Speaker 11: She asked if we could go on back to my 1431 01:16:35,680 --> 01:16:38,639 Speaker 11: bed because she was ready to have sex. I told 1432 01:16:38,680 --> 01:16:40,599 Speaker 11: her to go ahead and leave so she could call 1433 01:16:40,680 --> 01:16:43,360 Speaker 11: her roommates. She seemed like she had a few screws 1434 01:16:43,400 --> 01:16:46,360 Speaker 11: loose and she was hiding something. Did I do the 1435 01:16:46,479 --> 01:16:46,920 Speaker 11: right thing? 1436 01:16:47,680 --> 01:16:47,880 Speaker 3: Yeah? 1437 01:16:47,960 --> 01:16:52,080 Speaker 8: You did, doog, Yeah you did? Yeah, very rarely do 1438 01:16:52,280 --> 01:16:56,160 Speaker 8: me and make the smart decision in it. That's going 1439 01:16:56,280 --> 01:16:58,240 Speaker 8: in the back to the bedroom because I'm ready to 1440 01:16:58,360 --> 01:17:01,679 Speaker 8: have sex with y'all going it, let's go, It's usually 1441 01:17:01,800 --> 01:17:02,560 Speaker 8: the response. 1442 01:17:03,680 --> 01:17:08,160 Speaker 3: But you knew something was wrong, You knew something was wrong. 1443 01:17:08,560 --> 01:17:09,559 Speaker 12: What was wrong? 1444 01:17:10,680 --> 01:17:13,799 Speaker 3: Well, you know, some screws is loose? Phone just vibrating. 1445 01:17:13,880 --> 01:17:19,400 Speaker 3: That ain't your girlfriend, So you know that's a problem. 1446 01:17:21,400 --> 01:17:22,719 Speaker 3: And so that was a problem. 1447 01:17:22,760 --> 01:17:23,360 Speaker 6: And then. 1448 01:17:24,720 --> 01:17:27,320 Speaker 8: The other one about you know, let's go on in 1449 01:17:27,439 --> 01:17:29,760 Speaker 8: the back, bro, and I'm gonna tell you something else 1450 01:17:29,840 --> 01:17:33,479 Speaker 8: to fine? And she really wasn't that fine? 1451 01:17:34,680 --> 01:17:36,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, why do you say that? 1452 01:17:39,160 --> 01:17:41,080 Speaker 12: Why let the people know why you said that? 1453 01:17:42,160 --> 01:17:42,519 Speaker 1: Questions? 1454 01:17:43,800 --> 01:17:45,120 Speaker 3: Why do I say she wasn't fine? 1455 01:17:45,479 --> 01:17:46,960 Speaker 8: If a woman said let's go on in the back 1456 01:17:47,000 --> 01:17:48,639 Speaker 8: of the bedroom, how you ain't going over there? 1457 01:17:51,200 --> 01:17:53,519 Speaker 3: I don't care what screw you got loose in your head? 1458 01:17:53,640 --> 01:17:54,280 Speaker 3: Who was about that? 1459 01:17:54,400 --> 01:17:54,720 Speaker 6: Later on? 1460 01:17:55,360 --> 01:17:57,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're like crazy anyway? 1461 01:17:57,840 --> 01:18:00,960 Speaker 8: Yeah, you know how many fine people out and been 1462 01:18:01,040 --> 01:18:07,320 Speaker 8: with about you having no loose screw? 1463 01:18:09,760 --> 01:18:11,679 Speaker 12: Was she too aggressive in her approach? 1464 01:18:12,280 --> 01:18:13,120 Speaker 23: Was she to aggressive? 1465 01:18:13,200 --> 01:18:13,400 Speaker 6: Yeah? 1466 01:18:13,520 --> 01:18:14,040 Speaker 12: That phone? 1467 01:18:14,320 --> 01:18:17,000 Speaker 3: You know she might you know that. You don't know 1468 01:18:17,160 --> 01:18:19,640 Speaker 3: how dog, that phone just vibrating? That sound like that 1469 01:18:19,760 --> 01:18:21,080 Speaker 3: sounded like call girl to me. 1470 01:18:22,360 --> 01:18:24,920 Speaker 1: Oh wow, you went there with it. 1471 01:18:25,240 --> 01:18:28,479 Speaker 8: Yeah, it's just ranging and ranging and ranging and ranging 1472 01:18:28,920 --> 01:18:31,040 Speaker 8: in your roommate ain't calling you that much. 1473 01:18:32,640 --> 01:18:36,040 Speaker 12: But something maybe something happened at the house surely. 1474 01:18:36,840 --> 01:18:38,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, his name is Levi. 1475 01:18:38,720 --> 01:18:42,519 Speaker 3: Yeah, Frank, that's all. What is. 1476 01:18:45,240 --> 01:18:45,559 Speaker 19: All right? 1477 01:18:45,640 --> 01:18:47,719 Speaker 12: I wish we had time to explore that junior. 1478 01:18:48,360 --> 01:18:50,880 Speaker 11: Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have 1479 01:18:51,000 --> 01:18:52,679 Speaker 11: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1480 01:18:52,880 --> 01:18:53,479 Speaker 12: Right after this. 1481 01:18:54,120 --> 01:19:01,439 Speaker 11: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, 1482 01:19:02,160 --> 01:19:07,880 Speaker 11: this is it Father's Day? Is this coming Sunday? So 1483 01:19:07,960 --> 01:19:09,800 Speaker 11: we want to take the time to shout out all 1484 01:19:09,840 --> 01:19:16,439 Speaker 11: the amazing fathers, the stepfathers, the grandfathers, and any man 1485 01:19:16,600 --> 01:19:20,200 Speaker 11: that stepped up to raise, you know, or mentor child. 1486 01:19:20,080 --> 01:19:21,800 Speaker 12: That's not his biological child. 1487 01:19:21,920 --> 01:19:27,559 Speaker 3: I mean, you will breaking do this? Why show breaking 1488 01:19:27,640 --> 01:19:28,320 Speaker 3: the show to do this? 1489 01:19:29,479 --> 01:19:31,479 Speaker 11: See if you get a special shout out, you're a 1490 01:19:31,600 --> 01:19:33,720 Speaker 11: dad to seven children, you. 1491 01:19:33,800 --> 01:19:36,560 Speaker 1: Got the mentoring. Yeah, but then on this weekend. 1492 01:19:36,320 --> 01:19:39,439 Speaker 11: You spend your time mentoring other young men that are 1493 01:19:39,479 --> 01:19:41,880 Speaker 11: growing up without a dad. I mean you're giving back 1494 01:19:42,000 --> 01:19:44,760 Speaker 11: right there. Why do you do that every single year? 1495 01:19:44,920 --> 01:19:46,080 Speaker 11: And Happy Father's day. 1496 01:19:46,920 --> 01:19:50,519 Speaker 8: You didn't have to tag that with happy fathers subject 1497 01:19:51,200 --> 01:19:52,120 Speaker 8: because I won't. 1498 01:19:52,200 --> 01:19:55,759 Speaker 3: Several thousand more people did not appreciate me too. That's who. 1499 01:19:58,520 --> 01:20:01,599 Speaker 12: You got this all wrong. We do appreciate dads. 1500 01:20:02,120 --> 01:20:02,280 Speaker 19: Man. 1501 01:20:02,360 --> 01:20:04,880 Speaker 3: This little boy got off the bus yesterday. They arrived 1502 01:20:04,920 --> 01:20:05,320 Speaker 3: the other day. 1503 01:20:05,360 --> 01:20:07,679 Speaker 8: We little boy got to the bus and said, man, 1504 01:20:07,840 --> 01:20:10,240 Speaker 8: what's up Steve. I say, hey, man, we're about to 1505 01:20:10,280 --> 01:20:11,120 Speaker 8: get your little back. 1506 01:20:11,040 --> 01:20:11,599 Speaker 3: Up on that bus. 1507 01:20:11,680 --> 01:20:17,960 Speaker 8: If you call it Steve more time, I'm mister Harvey. Okay, 1508 01:20:18,040 --> 01:20:22,160 Speaker 8: I'm sorry, mister Harvey. Okay, cool. So they all right, 1509 01:20:22,280 --> 01:20:25,200 Speaker 8: but you know I do it because it's necessary. We 1510 01:20:25,479 --> 01:20:28,840 Speaker 8: need more role models in these young men's lives to 1511 01:20:28,960 --> 01:20:32,200 Speaker 8: help bake better boys, turn them into better men, so 1512 01:20:32,360 --> 01:20:34,000 Speaker 8: your daughters have better families. 1513 01:20:34,360 --> 01:20:37,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, at imaiate you dad. 1514 01:20:37,439 --> 01:20:39,960 Speaker 11: All right, coming up, we'll have more of the Steve 1515 01:20:40,040 --> 01:20:41,560 Speaker 11: Harvey Morning Show right after this. 1516 01:20:41,680 --> 01:20:42,439 Speaker 3: There you're welcome. 1517 01:20:42,600 --> 01:20:45,679 Speaker 9: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1518 01:20:50,720 --> 01:20:52,000 Speaker 3: They list ten years old. 1519 01:20:52,360 --> 01:20:55,280 Speaker 20: One day she just started limping out the blue, went 1520 01:20:55,360 --> 01:20:59,439 Speaker 20: to her doctor, and the doctor did her knee. 1521 01:20:59,600 --> 01:21:01,000 Speaker 3: And the next day was that. 1522 01:21:01,120 --> 01:21:05,479 Speaker 20: Saint June eighteen rounds came o knee surgery just knowing 1523 01:21:05,520 --> 01:21:08,640 Speaker 20: that Saint June covers everything. Right now, Layla's manage, she 1524 01:21:08,760 --> 01:21:10,160 Speaker 20: came up, She's canceled free. 1525 01:21:10,240 --> 01:21:10,559 Speaker 16: Right now. 1526 01:21:10,720 --> 01:21:13,600 Speaker 10: You can help kids fight childhood cancer and diseases like 1527 01:21:13,680 --> 01:21:16,240 Speaker 10: sickle sell. Please become a Saint Jude Partner in Hope 1528 01:21:16,280 --> 01:21:20,519 Speaker 10: today by texting shms to seven eight five eight three three. 1529 01:21:21,560 --> 01:21:24,519 Speaker 11: Hey, Steve Harvey Nation, We've been telling you all week 1530 01:21:24,640 --> 01:21:29,360 Speaker 11: about Saint Jude Children's Research Hospital. At Saint Jude, caring 1531 01:21:29,439 --> 01:21:33,400 Speaker 11: for a patient means the patient's family has nothing to 1532 01:21:33,560 --> 01:21:36,400 Speaker 11: worry about as far as housing, as far as food, 1533 01:21:36,560 --> 01:21:38,280 Speaker 11: as far as bills, none of that. 1534 01:21:38,560 --> 01:21:40,519 Speaker 12: That's what Saint Jude does. 1535 01:21:41,400 --> 01:21:43,880 Speaker 11: By becoming a Saint Jude Partner and Hope, you can 1536 01:21:43,920 --> 01:21:47,719 Speaker 11: help Saint Jude continue to help children. Tell them, Steve, 1537 01:21:47,760 --> 01:21:50,800 Speaker 11: if you become a monthly donor, what do you do 1538 01:21:51,280 --> 01:21:52,639 Speaker 11: you pledge nineteen dollars? 1539 01:21:52,760 --> 01:21:53,360 Speaker 3: Well you can. 1540 01:21:54,080 --> 01:21:57,559 Speaker 8: Yeah, And here's the deal, y'all. We need to really 1541 01:21:57,720 --> 01:22:02,040 Speaker 8: consider a participating in this. I need everybody to take 1542 01:22:02,080 --> 01:22:05,000 Speaker 8: a moment to just think of how blessed you are 1543 01:22:05,760 --> 01:22:08,760 Speaker 8: to have a healthy child, how blessed you are to 1544 01:22:08,920 --> 01:22:12,600 Speaker 8: have been healthy yourself. When I see these commercials, I 1545 01:22:12,760 --> 01:22:16,479 Speaker 8: can't imagine what that must feel like to have an 1546 01:22:16,640 --> 01:22:20,439 Speaker 8: unhealthy child, and man, it's a horrible thing for a 1547 01:22:20,560 --> 01:22:23,479 Speaker 8: parent to go through. So those of us that are blessed, 1548 01:22:23,640 --> 01:22:26,320 Speaker 8: you have to remember that you are blessing. To become 1549 01:22:26,400 --> 01:22:31,360 Speaker 8: a blessing. It's just nineteen dollars. That hot coffee down now, 1550 01:22:32,760 --> 01:22:36,599 Speaker 8: and we're talking about a month. Y'all spend nineteen dollars 1551 01:22:36,680 --> 01:22:41,120 Speaker 8: on that verday grande absolute ty down there. For that's 1552 01:22:41,360 --> 01:22:43,599 Speaker 8: about forty dollars by time to put all them stuff 1553 01:22:43,680 --> 01:22:47,920 Speaker 8: in it. Let's change somebody's life for nineteen dollars. That's 1554 01:22:48,120 --> 01:22:50,000 Speaker 8: all it takes is nineteen dollars. 1555 01:22:50,280 --> 01:22:51,519 Speaker 3: So now here's what you do. 1556 01:22:52,439 --> 01:22:58,280 Speaker 8: All you got to do is text shms that little 1557 01:22:58,360 --> 01:23:01,040 Speaker 8: block where it's got you know where you two just 1558 01:23:01,240 --> 01:23:04,640 Speaker 8: right in that block where it's say two put shms 1559 01:23:04,840 --> 01:23:08,000 Speaker 8: that stands for Steve Harvey Mortar, show just the initials, 1560 01:23:08,520 --> 01:23:12,800 Speaker 8: and you text it to seven eight five eight three 1561 01:23:12,960 --> 01:23:20,559 Speaker 8: three seven eight five eight three three. Now they want 1562 01:23:20,600 --> 01:23:23,479 Speaker 8: me to tell you that's some standard data and text 1563 01:23:23,600 --> 01:23:26,479 Speaker 8: message and rates apply for who give it you? You're 1564 01:23:26,520 --> 01:23:31,760 Speaker 8: texting everybody anyway, Just help somebody, man, That's what this 1565 01:23:31,920 --> 01:23:36,800 Speaker 8: is all about I'm challenging all the cues. Everybody, don't 1566 01:23:36,840 --> 01:23:40,080 Speaker 8: make a sound. Five bruhs. Let's just do some kind 1567 01:23:40,160 --> 01:23:43,120 Speaker 8: for somebody else. Tommy, can you challenge your. 1568 01:23:43,080 --> 01:23:46,200 Speaker 6: Frad I can challenge all the members of Kappa Alpha 1569 01:23:46,200 --> 01:23:50,559 Speaker 6: PSI Fraternity Incorporated to get out and donate nineteen dollars 1570 01:23:50,640 --> 01:23:53,080 Speaker 6: to this word that calls Saint Jude for the children. 1571 01:23:53,200 --> 01:23:53,479 Speaker 3: Why not? 1572 01:23:53,640 --> 01:23:54,040 Speaker 1: Let's do it. 1573 01:23:54,080 --> 01:23:56,759 Speaker 3: Bro Junior, can you tell all the six sell people. 1574 01:23:57,479 --> 01:24:00,200 Speaker 10: Yeah, I challenge all the sickle cell people who are 1575 01:24:00,280 --> 01:24:03,559 Speaker 10: healthy enough to text to go ahead and give nineteen dollars. 1576 01:24:03,680 --> 01:24:08,000 Speaker 1: I can't, all right, Shirley, can you ask Mary? 1577 01:24:08,120 --> 01:24:09,639 Speaker 3: Tell all the people with big eyes. 1578 01:24:10,280 --> 01:24:13,920 Speaker 8: Charley, tell all the people with big eyes with big 1579 01:24:14,000 --> 01:24:15,120 Speaker 8: bull eyes. 1580 01:24:15,479 --> 01:24:18,560 Speaker 6: Tech people that then scratch up calls and stuff going on. 1581 01:24:18,760 --> 01:24:20,639 Speaker 3: Talk to the ladies. We'll go ahead, Hirley. 1582 01:24:20,720 --> 01:24:21,960 Speaker 1: You get yours out and I got. 1583 01:24:21,840 --> 01:24:25,880 Speaker 12: My to seven eight five eight three three. Okay, thank 1584 01:24:25,920 --> 01:24:26,560 Speaker 12: you just doing it. 1585 01:24:27,040 --> 01:24:29,920 Speaker 8: You have nineteen dollars to change some lives and help 1586 01:24:30,040 --> 01:24:33,240 Speaker 8: some people. And remember you are blessed to become a blessing. 1587 01:24:33,479 --> 01:24:34,880 Speaker 12: Let's do something to thank you. 1588 01:24:35,880 --> 01:24:38,320 Speaker 11: Coming up in forty nine minutes after we'll close out, 1589 01:24:38,360 --> 01:24:41,320 Speaker 11: the Show with one and only Steve Harvey. 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PayPal pay later options are subject 1599 01:25:16,960 --> 01:25:21,280 Speaker 21: to approval eligibility barries. Learn more at PayPal dot com 1600 01:25:21,479 --> 01:25:25,080 Speaker 21: slash by now pay later. Here we are, guys, last 1601 01:25:25,120 --> 01:25:27,560 Speaker 21: break of the day on this Friday. It's been a 1602 01:25:27,600 --> 01:25:29,439 Speaker 21: good day. It's been a good day. 1603 01:25:30,280 --> 01:25:30,479 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1604 01:25:30,479 --> 01:25:33,040 Speaker 8: I want to say real, real quickly about the mentoring camp. 1605 01:25:33,200 --> 01:25:35,080 Speaker 8: Have a new group of boys down here this year, 1606 01:25:35,160 --> 01:25:38,400 Speaker 8: one hundred and fifty strong. Seems like a good group. 1607 01:25:38,880 --> 01:25:41,519 Speaker 8: We're working them through the paces. I want to thank 1608 01:25:41,600 --> 01:25:46,320 Speaker 8: all the volunteer mentors who came down. You know, we 1609 01:25:46,479 --> 01:25:51,200 Speaker 8: lost the United States Army support because it would disadministration 1610 01:25:51,320 --> 01:25:54,519 Speaker 8: put it under the DEI. So they killed that and 1611 01:25:54,680 --> 01:25:57,360 Speaker 8: the contribution that the US Army was making. They took 1612 01:25:57,400 --> 01:26:01,360 Speaker 8: the funding and they took the soldiers. But I want 1613 01:26:01,400 --> 01:26:04,479 Speaker 8: to thank God for so many of the soldiers that 1614 01:26:04,560 --> 01:26:06,960 Speaker 8: have helped me over the years heard about it and 1615 01:26:07,120 --> 01:26:08,800 Speaker 8: they took their vacation. 1616 01:26:08,720 --> 01:26:13,760 Speaker 3: Time and twenty of them came and volunteered. Thank you 1617 01:26:13,880 --> 01:26:14,120 Speaker 3: for you. 1618 01:26:16,040 --> 01:26:18,400 Speaker 8: I thought that was outstanding man for them brothers in 1619 01:26:18,439 --> 01:26:21,759 Speaker 8: the US Army. So that just wanted to say that, Junior, 1620 01:26:21,840 --> 01:26:23,200 Speaker 8: you had a question for me, Yeah. 1621 01:26:23,200 --> 01:26:25,600 Speaker 10: Because it was right up that alley actually, because I 1622 01:26:25,680 --> 01:26:27,160 Speaker 10: was asking what all the success you have? 1623 01:26:27,400 --> 01:26:27,559 Speaker 3: Man? 1624 01:26:27,640 --> 01:26:27,880 Speaker 16: You have? 1625 01:26:28,800 --> 01:26:30,559 Speaker 3: You know, you're a motivational speaker, your. 1626 01:26:30,560 --> 01:26:34,200 Speaker 10: Radio host, your TV personality, and then here you are 1627 01:26:34,400 --> 01:26:37,280 Speaker 10: spending your Father's Day weekend with some men you've never met, 1628 01:26:37,360 --> 01:26:38,519 Speaker 10: some young men you never met before. 1629 01:26:38,600 --> 01:26:40,800 Speaker 3: What made you put mentorship on this list? Because it 1630 01:26:40,840 --> 01:26:41,920 Speaker 3: seems like you had everything. 1631 01:26:42,680 --> 01:26:45,360 Speaker 8: Well, you know, I have a saying that says, your 1632 01:26:45,439 --> 01:26:49,519 Speaker 8: career is what you paid for, but your calling is 1633 01:26:49,600 --> 01:26:55,160 Speaker 8: what you're made for. And I discovered out of all 1634 01:26:55,320 --> 01:27:00,200 Speaker 8: my success that the real purpose that God gave me 1635 01:27:01,800 --> 01:27:05,880 Speaker 8: this vehicle of success for was to turn around and 1636 01:27:06,000 --> 01:27:10,360 Speaker 8: do his work. God blesses you to become a blessing. 1637 01:27:12,000 --> 01:27:16,800 Speaker 8: That's my mother imparted that on me. Even as a child. 1638 01:27:17,080 --> 01:27:18,800 Speaker 8: She used to tell me something one time that I 1639 01:27:18,840 --> 01:27:20,840 Speaker 8: didn't understand. I'd be on my way out to school 1640 01:27:20,840 --> 01:27:23,320 Speaker 8: and every now and then she said, boy, don't forget 1641 01:27:24,320 --> 01:27:26,280 Speaker 8: one day, God gonna give you a big house up 1642 01:27:26,320 --> 01:27:28,000 Speaker 8: on the hill. You can't get up on that hill, 1643 01:27:28,080 --> 01:27:29,280 Speaker 8: and don't take nobody with you. 1644 01:27:31,479 --> 01:27:31,559 Speaker 6: Now. 1645 01:27:31,600 --> 01:27:34,599 Speaker 8: I didn't get it at the time, but my mother 1646 01:27:34,680 --> 01:27:38,960 Speaker 8: knew something that I didn't know, that one day I 1647 01:27:39,040 --> 01:27:42,840 Speaker 8: would have a big house up on the hill, and 1648 01:27:43,000 --> 01:27:46,640 Speaker 8: that it was my obligation to teach other people how 1649 01:27:46,720 --> 01:27:49,720 Speaker 8: to get on the hill too. And that's a big 1650 01:27:49,880 --> 01:27:54,720 Speaker 8: part of it. And I I just have discovered the 1651 01:27:54,880 --> 01:27:58,880 Speaker 8: older I Get Nurse program is sixteen, seventeen years old. 1652 01:28:01,800 --> 01:28:06,000 Speaker 8: Maybe even yeah, plans is older than that. Really, yeah, 1653 01:28:06,120 --> 01:28:08,719 Speaker 8: the minnoring camp is older than that. I don't even know. Wow, 1654 01:28:10,040 --> 01:28:12,840 Speaker 8: I had this minoring camp back in two thousand and three. 1655 01:28:14,600 --> 01:28:16,920 Speaker 8: It's twenty some years old. Man, I've been doing this 1656 01:28:17,040 --> 01:28:22,200 Speaker 8: since Dallas. I lost track. But anyway, Uh, I've. 1657 01:28:22,120 --> 01:28:22,760 Speaker 3: Just learned that. 1658 01:28:24,479 --> 01:28:27,719 Speaker 8: All of this fame and and and and and means 1659 01:28:28,439 --> 01:28:30,360 Speaker 8: that God had graced me would had to have a 1660 01:28:30,439 --> 01:28:34,439 Speaker 8: purpose attacked to it. I've actually found my purpose in life. 1661 01:28:36,080 --> 01:28:38,519 Speaker 8: I got the fame part, that's cool, but that's gonna be. 1662 01:28:38,520 --> 01:28:39,360 Speaker 3: Over with one day. 1663 01:28:39,400 --> 01:28:39,519 Speaker 18: Now. 1664 01:28:39,680 --> 01:28:43,360 Speaker 8: I won't do TV forever, you know, and that's that's 1665 01:28:43,439 --> 01:28:48,880 Speaker 8: gonna go away. But my legacy won't go away. My 1666 01:28:49,040 --> 01:28:53,639 Speaker 8: legacy is gonna be here after I'm gone. I've learned 1667 01:28:53,680 --> 01:28:55,040 Speaker 8: something owning this ranch. 1668 01:28:55,520 --> 01:28:56,080 Speaker 3: As i've. 1669 01:28:58,360 --> 01:29:01,320 Speaker 8: A tornado came through and distroyd a huge part of 1670 01:29:01,400 --> 01:29:05,640 Speaker 8: the forest that I own. So we got with the 1671 01:29:05,720 --> 01:29:13,960 Speaker 8: Department of Georgia Agriculture and they tore down probably one 1672 01:29:14,080 --> 01:29:18,040 Speaker 8: hundred acres of trees, just tore them out the ground, 1673 01:29:18,160 --> 01:29:21,920 Speaker 8: just horrible tornado. So I had to replace them, and 1674 01:29:22,080 --> 01:29:31,160 Speaker 8: I replaced ninety thousand trees, replanted ninety thousand trees. Department 1675 01:29:31,200 --> 01:29:33,640 Speaker 8: of Georgia came down and helped me do it. They 1676 01:29:33,720 --> 01:29:35,760 Speaker 8: send the people down there that make rolls and they 1677 01:29:35,880 --> 01:29:40,200 Speaker 8: plant these sprucelings and I've watched these brucelinks grow over 1678 01:29:40,280 --> 01:29:45,800 Speaker 8: the years. But you know what, I also realize a 1679 01:29:45,960 --> 01:29:53,720 Speaker 8: society becomes great when old men plant trees under which 1680 01:29:53,840 --> 01:30:00,439 Speaker 8: the shade they know they'll never sit. I know that 1681 01:30:00,560 --> 01:30:05,080 Speaker 8: I won't be here when them trees get really, really 1682 01:30:05,160 --> 01:30:08,479 Speaker 8: big enough to create shade. I know I'm not gonna 1683 01:30:08,479 --> 01:30:10,880 Speaker 8: be here for that. Those trees that got took out 1684 01:30:10,920 --> 01:30:15,120 Speaker 8: the ground was one hundred years old. Man, I won't 1685 01:30:15,160 --> 01:30:18,920 Speaker 8: even be here for when they're fifty years old and 1686 01:30:19,040 --> 01:30:23,040 Speaker 8: they provide all that shade. But the saying is a 1687 01:30:23,200 --> 01:30:27,679 Speaker 8: society becomes great when old men plant trees under which 1688 01:30:27,800 --> 01:30:31,759 Speaker 8: the shade they know they'll never sit. And I've decided 1689 01:30:31,840 --> 01:30:34,720 Speaker 8: to be that type of person that I'm gonna plant 1690 01:30:34,800 --> 01:30:37,000 Speaker 8: some seeds and stick some things in the ground under 1691 01:30:37,000 --> 01:30:40,360 Speaker 8: which I won't see the result of, but the results 1692 01:30:40,400 --> 01:30:43,960 Speaker 8: will be there after I'm long gone. And that's why 1693 01:30:44,000 --> 01:30:45,920 Speaker 8: I meant to these young men. Some of these young 1694 01:30:46,000 --> 01:30:48,400 Speaker 8: men gonna be grandfathers one day. I may not be 1695 01:30:48,560 --> 01:30:53,000 Speaker 8: here when they become grandfathers, but I put enough seeds 1696 01:30:53,040 --> 01:30:57,160 Speaker 8: in the ground to produce enough boys. I have been 1697 01:30:57,200 --> 01:31:00,280 Speaker 8: able to see some boys turn into some fine young men. 1698 01:31:01,400 --> 01:31:04,640 Speaker 8: I have lived long enough to see that. And so 1699 01:31:04,800 --> 01:31:08,479 Speaker 8: as I build my legacy by the grace of God 1700 01:31:08,560 --> 01:31:11,360 Speaker 8: and with the help of Marjorie, and we have the 1701 01:31:11,720 --> 01:31:14,600 Speaker 8: Stephen Marjorie Harvey Legacy Ranch. That's why I called it 1702 01:31:14,720 --> 01:31:17,439 Speaker 8: the Legacy Ranch. You know, it was the Rock Ranch 1703 01:31:17,520 --> 01:31:19,800 Speaker 8: for years. They got a big sign out there, Rock Ranch. 1704 01:31:19,880 --> 01:31:21,640 Speaker 8: I had to take the crest out the ground and 1705 01:31:22,000 --> 01:31:25,200 Speaker 8: put my own family crest in the ground because it's 1706 01:31:25,240 --> 01:31:27,680 Speaker 8: something we're doing, and we're doing it to change the 1707 01:31:27,760 --> 01:31:31,080 Speaker 8: lives of boys and girls, to bake, to make better 1708 01:31:31,200 --> 01:31:34,839 Speaker 8: young men and better young women, so people have better families, 1709 01:31:35,280 --> 01:31:38,400 Speaker 8: your daughters have better choices in men. And that's what 1710 01:31:38,479 --> 01:31:40,880 Speaker 8: it's about, man. And so that's the purpose I have 1711 01:31:41,040 --> 01:31:43,960 Speaker 8: in my life. And I'll continue that until I leave here, 1712 01:31:44,360 --> 01:31:48,040 Speaker 8: i end my entertainment career. But that thing right there, 1713 01:31:48,080 --> 01:31:51,120 Speaker 8: I'll never stop doing that. Those are my clothing. Watch 1714 01:31:51,200 --> 01:31:55,040 Speaker 8: you don't talk to God, everybody. He would absolutely love 1715 01:31:55,080 --> 01:31:56,880 Speaker 8: to hear from you. Y'all have a great day, Stay 1716 01:31:56,920 --> 01:31:58,800 Speaker 8: in peace now, holler Father. 1717 01:32:01,439 --> 01:32:04,880 Speaker 11: For all Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary, voidware prohibited. 1718 01:32:04,960 --> 01:32:08,439 Speaker 11: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1719 01:32:08,560 --> 01:32:12,320 Speaker 11: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey 1720 01:32:12,560 --> 01:32:16,200 Speaker 11: FM dot com. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning 1721 01:32:16,280 --> 01:32:16,479 Speaker 11: Show