WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Seven Foot Date 0:00:00.030 --> 0:00:01.930 All right, let's get to it. Brand new episode for 0:00:01.970 --> 0:00:03.920 you on your second date podcast. It's Brooke and Jeffrey 0:00:03.940 --> 0:00:07.500 in the morning. Thanks so much for finding us. However 0:00:07.540 --> 0:00:09.380 you got here. What do you see in comments before 0:00:09.400 --> 0:00:11.990 we get to it? Yeah, Casey said, P.S. I'm your 0:00:12.030 --> 0:00:13.170 biggest fan from Kenya. 0:00:13.289 --> 0:00:13.650 Oh, cool. 0:00:13.730 --> 0:00:15.010 So throw me one of those awards. 0:00:15.290 --> 0:00:16.579 I listen to you guys every day. 0:00:16.600 --> 0:00:19.239 I'm always on the podcast during my work hours. And 0:00:19.280 --> 0:00:21.780 on my commute home, I found a loophole and I 0:00:21.820 --> 0:00:23.239 listened to you live. 0:00:23.360 --> 0:00:24.390 What? 0:00:24.570 --> 0:00:26.950 That's so cool. No idea why your loophole is, but 0:00:27.050 --> 0:00:30.030 good job. I like it. You're smart. I love that. Well, 0:00:30.050 --> 0:00:32.379 if you have a loophole for Instagram, I don't know 0:00:32.400 --> 0:00:35.220 that you need one in Kenya. You can watch us 0:00:35.300 --> 0:00:38.060 live today. We're going to be live on Instagram at 0:00:38.060 --> 0:00:40.580 1130 Pacific Standard Time, so PST. I don't know if 0:00:40.620 --> 0:00:42.269 that works out with your schedule or not. I would 0:00:42.290 --> 0:00:44.070 tell you that time in Kenya, but can't do that. 0:00:43.990 --> 0:00:44.890 Math right now. No idea. 0:00:44.930 --> 0:00:46.370 It's not going to work. But maybe it's on your 0:00:46.390 --> 0:00:49.490 drive home. I have no idea. So, again, 1130 today. 0:00:49.530 --> 0:00:51.350 We're going down to Spirit Halloween Store as a group. 0:00:51.479 --> 0:00:54.320 So be with us at Brooke and Jeffrey, and here's 0:00:54.360 --> 0:00:55.540 your brand-new episode. 0:00:56.020 --> 0:00:57.400 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:00:57.420 --> 0:00:58.860 Second date update. 0:00:59.920 --> 0:01:03.260 I know for Alexis and a lot of women, tall 0:01:03.320 --> 0:01:04.720 guys are a big deal. 0:01:05.220 --> 0:01:07.120 Because they're tall, is that why you call them big? 0:01:07.300 --> 0:01:08.200 Yeah. Okay. 0:01:08.260 --> 0:01:09.080 Big, big deal. 0:01:09.140 --> 0:01:09.509 I got it. 0:01:09.520 --> 0:01:10.199 That was good, Jeff. 0:01:10.220 --> 0:01:12.509 Y'all are like cats looking for something to climb. 0:01:13.770 --> 0:01:13.990 Oh. 0:01:14.010 --> 0:01:15.709 I don't know. I think you should be insulted by that. 0:01:15.830 --> 0:01:17.110 I'm not sure why, but. 0:01:17.190 --> 0:01:19.890 It's fun. It's playful. Alexis, what would you say is 0:01:19.950 --> 0:01:21.630 the perfect height for a guy? 0:01:21.830 --> 0:01:23.410 Well, I'm 5'3, so they have to be taller than 0:01:23.450 --> 0:01:24.750 me and then me in heels. 0:01:25.750 --> 0:01:26.140 Oh. 0:01:26.330 --> 0:01:31.000 Plus a little. So I can't do math, but somewhere 0:01:31.100 --> 0:01:33.400 up there. Over 5'5, is what I just heard. Plus 0:01:33.420 --> 0:01:34.860 a little more. Okay. 0:01:34.880 --> 0:01:38.000 I regret ever asking you that question now. I bring 0:01:38.020 --> 0:01:41.039 it up, though, because one of our listeners today stands 0:01:41.120 --> 0:01:42.319 amongst the skyscrapers. 0:01:42.440 --> 0:01:43.180 Oh, really? 0:01:43.220 --> 0:01:46.300 His name is Brian, and he says it's been challenging 0:01:46.340 --> 0:01:48.580 to date at his height since which is an even 0:01:48.800 --> 0:01:49.860 seven feet tall. 0:01:50.030 --> 0:01:50.570 Whoa. 0:01:50.630 --> 0:01:51.450 Seven feet. 0:01:51.470 --> 0:01:53.510 See, too tall can be a problem for sure. Whoa, 0:01:53.530 --> 0:01:56.550 that is crazy. You have to duck in doorways. 0:01:56.690 --> 0:01:58.770 He's on the phone with us right now, probably with 0:01:58.830 --> 0:02:01.620 great cell reception because he's closest to the tower. But Brian, 0:02:01.680 --> 0:02:03.680 welcome to the show. 0:02:03.720 --> 0:02:05.640 What's up, guys? Thanks for having me. 0:02:06.140 --> 0:02:08.350 God, you can't tell in a voice how tall someone is. 0:02:08.370 --> 0:02:09.430 That's interesting. 0:02:09.530 --> 0:02:11.350 But I am curious. A lot of guys will lie 0:02:11.410 --> 0:02:14.290 about their height and add a few inches before they 0:02:14.330 --> 0:02:17.660 meet someone. Do you lie about your height the opposite way? 0:02:19.520 --> 0:02:22.480 No, there is no lying about the height. It's on 0:02:22.500 --> 0:02:24.160 display for everyone to see. Oh, my God. 0:02:24.660 --> 0:02:26.260 I mean, how could you hide it in photos? Any 0:02:26.300 --> 0:02:27.610 photo he has, he's taller than. 0:02:27.630 --> 0:02:32.180 You can say 6'10. Yeah, exactly. That helps a little bit. 0:02:32.470 --> 0:02:35.250 Is it so annoying? Because I bet everywhere you go, 0:02:35.630 --> 0:02:37.330 people comment. 0:02:37.510 --> 0:02:40.169 Don't ask me if I play basketball because that's usually 0:02:40.190 --> 0:02:40.709 the first question. 0:02:40.730 --> 0:02:43.550 Yeah, but you did. Well, height aside, let's get to 0:02:43.590 --> 0:02:45.910 this woman that you want us to contact today. What's 0:02:45.950 --> 0:02:46.290 her name? 0:02:46.870 --> 0:02:47.710 Her name is Ariel. 0:02:48.210 --> 0:02:48.570 Ariel. 0:02:48.590 --> 0:02:52.030 So do you have a minimum height for women or 0:02:52.070 --> 0:02:53.810 will you date the whole spectrum? 0:02:54.650 --> 0:02:58.060 No, I'll date the whole spectrum. I mean, everyone's... They're 0:02:58.080 --> 0:03:01.790 all shorter than me. And luckily, they generally women like 0:03:01.830 --> 0:03:04.150 tall guys. So it's OK. OK. 0:03:04.230 --> 0:03:06.210 And where did you meet Ariel? 0:03:06.830 --> 0:03:09.720 Well, we met on Bumble. OK. We texted for a 0:03:09.780 --> 0:03:13.060 while and we were it was good banter. You know, 0:03:13.220 --> 0:03:15.840 I mean, I always kind of lead with the height thing. 0:03:16.100 --> 0:03:20.519 You do. Well, yeah, I mean, jokingly, I mean, just 0:03:20.560 --> 0:03:23.510 talking about stuff we do. I said, like, I'm a 0:03:23.530 --> 0:03:25.710 great person to go to concerts with because you can 0:03:25.730 --> 0:03:28.549 just sit on my shoulders and you'll have the best view. 0:03:28.889 --> 0:03:31.150 You know, like we could play mini golf, but like 0:03:31.190 --> 0:03:32.730 the putters look like toothpicks to me. 0:03:32.750 --> 0:03:34.810 That's great. 0:03:34.850 --> 0:03:38.560 Self-deprecating humor is great. I mean, really honestly, a turn 0:03:38.580 --> 0:03:40.500 on for most people. Oh, it's a turn on. I 0:03:40.720 --> 0:03:41.220 am ugly. 0:03:41.240 --> 0:03:45.620 You hear that, ladies? The humor is the key part. 0:03:45.640 --> 0:03:50.330 It's a good quality. 0:03:50.570 --> 0:03:53.470 What did you guys end up doing on your date? 0:03:54.170 --> 0:03:56.090 So we ended up deciding to just go out to 0:03:56.130 --> 0:03:59.150 this pizza spot. Okay. Which is really good. I mean, 0:03:59.170 --> 0:03:59.960 it's like a. 0:04:00.730 --> 0:04:02.110 No, we know what pizza is. You don't have to 0:04:02.130 --> 0:04:03.190 describe it. 0:04:03.230 --> 0:04:06.110 We know pizza. No, but I mean, it's like Napoleon, 0:04:06.150 --> 0:04:07.890 like brick oven pizza kind of place. 0:04:07.930 --> 0:04:11.610 They have the word authentic in quotations everywhere. 0:04:11.650 --> 0:04:13.830 That's great. Okay. Yeah. 0:04:14.290 --> 0:04:17.890 I'm curious, what was the first moment you see each other? 0:04:17.930 --> 0:04:18.750 What was that like? 0:04:19.570 --> 0:04:23.640 Honestly, it's like always. There was a little bit of like, oh, wow, 0:04:23.779 --> 0:04:26.080 you are really seven feet tall. So, yep. 0:04:27.310 --> 0:04:28.790 Okay. She was shocked. 0:04:29.290 --> 0:04:34.190 She didn't seem, like, uninterested, but she was, like, definitely like, oh, wow, yeah, 0:04:34.270 --> 0:04:37.120 you are really... And she's, like, this cute little thing. She's, like, 0:04:37.220 --> 0:04:37.730 probably 5'4. 0:04:40.820 --> 0:04:42.660 Is it hard to hug you at that point? 0:04:43.000 --> 0:04:45.159 It always kind of is, but yeah. I mean, but, 0:04:45.200 --> 0:04:47.680 you know, we did, like, hug hello, and then we 0:04:48.560 --> 0:04:49.100 hit it off. 0:04:49.180 --> 0:04:52.400 Do you ever, like, pick them up by their arms and, like, 0:04:52.440 --> 0:04:54.170 swing them around and give them a hug like that? 0:04:54.290 --> 0:04:56.170 I think that's, like, a third date thing. Probably not 0:04:56.210 --> 0:04:57.930 date number one situation. 0:04:58.110 --> 0:05:01.110 Honestly, she's just probably worried if her roots are done 0:05:01.150 --> 0:05:01.990 or not, because that's. 0:05:01.890 --> 0:05:06.350 All you're looking at. Good point. Okay, so you guys 0:05:06.510 --> 0:05:09.320 sit down and have pizza together, then. Yeah. 0:05:09.600 --> 0:05:11.520 And I mean, we'd already kind of been flirting on 0:05:11.580 --> 0:05:13.490 our texts. And so it was like, we kind of 0:05:13.520 --> 0:05:15.730 jumped sort of right into flirting, but it did really 0:05:15.770 --> 0:05:18.870 seem like, it seemed like there was a spark, you know, 0:05:20.210 --> 0:05:23.560 she has like great nails. So I kind of said, Hey, 0:05:23.600 --> 0:05:25.219 can I see your nails? And she like put her 0:05:25.240 --> 0:05:26.880 hands on the table and I was holding her hands 0:05:26.920 --> 0:05:29.260 and then she just left them there. So we were 0:05:29.279 --> 0:05:31.420 kind of holding hands across the table for a while. 0:05:32.180 --> 0:05:34.300 That's a really smooth move. That's a great way to 0:05:34.339 --> 0:05:37.050 make some physical touch without being creepy about it. 0:05:37.120 --> 0:05:39.430 Well, you could say, I like your toenails. Get those 0:05:39.490 --> 0:05:40.120 up on the table. 0:05:40.170 --> 0:05:41.230 Let me take a peek. 0:05:41.250 --> 0:05:41.930 Now watch your creepy. 0:05:42.080 --> 0:05:43.050 See? 0:05:43.390 --> 0:05:45.849 I could do it with anything. Trust me. I'm listing 0:05:45.870 --> 0:05:46.790 body parts. 0:05:47.230 --> 0:05:48.510 I just tried to compliment him. 0:05:48.570 --> 0:05:49.010 Yeah, okay. 0:05:49.089 --> 0:05:50.670 Okay, not you. All right. 0:05:50.710 --> 0:05:53.510 There were, like, cute moments. You know, you order different pizzas, 0:05:53.610 --> 0:05:55.170 and she was like, do you want to try this one? 0:05:55.510 --> 0:05:58.089 And I said, like, yeah, just pretend you're feeding a 0:05:58.130 --> 0:05:59.450 giraffe a slice of pizza. 0:05:59.570 --> 0:06:03.150 That's awesome. That's so great. 0:06:03.170 --> 0:06:04.850 She had to, like, reach up and, like, put it 0:06:04.870 --> 0:06:07.810 in my mouth. It was funny, but we were, like, laughing. 0:06:07.850 --> 0:06:12.120 It was cute. It was, like, a cute thing that happened. Okay. Okay. 0:06:12.360 --> 0:06:14.540 I mean, it does sound like at this point you're 0:06:14.580 --> 0:06:18.099 probably feeling we're definitely going to see each other again, right? 0:06:19.279 --> 0:06:22.320 Yeah, for sure. And then even when we left, we were, like, 0:06:22.380 --> 0:06:23.490 holding hands again. 0:06:24.430 --> 0:06:25.330 She's holding hands up. 0:06:25.710 --> 0:06:26.190 Yeah. 0:06:26.210 --> 0:06:27.489 Like a small child. 0:06:27.650 --> 0:06:29.370 Is there, like, a giraffe kiss or. 0:06:30.029 --> 0:06:32.339 I don't know. I might have botched that. Like, I, like, 0:06:32.839 --> 0:06:34.320 put my arm around her, and I was kind of 0:06:34.339 --> 0:06:37.080 trying to, like, lean down and sort of whisper in 0:06:37.120 --> 0:06:39.260 her ear, like, get the kiss moment going, and I 0:06:39.640 --> 0:06:41.400 don't know. That didn't really happen. It might have just 0:06:41.440 --> 0:06:44.710 been kind of awkward, but it still seemed good. I mean, like, 0:06:44.750 --> 0:06:45.810 we were having a great time. Okay. 0:06:45.830 --> 0:06:46.510 Not a deal-breaker. 0:06:46.730 --> 0:06:49.090 I certainly left thinking, yeah, we'll see each other again, 0:06:49.130 --> 0:06:51.110 and then she kind of blew me off a couple 0:06:51.150 --> 0:06:52.660 times and then just stopped replying. Oh. 0:06:55.430 --> 0:06:56.190 That is strange. 0:06:56.250 --> 0:06:59.390 Because nothing that you've said in your description of the 0:06:59.420 --> 0:07:01.500 date has set off any red flags for anyone in 0:07:01.540 --> 0:07:02.039 the room, right? 0:07:02.060 --> 0:07:03.420 No, you sound delightful. 0:07:03.600 --> 0:07:05.960 I think maybe it's like what Alexis was saying. 0:07:05.980 --> 0:07:06.420 Maybe he just. 0:07:06.700 --> 0:07:07.910 barely too tall. 0:07:08.130 --> 0:07:10.450 It gets to be a problem. She's like, I can't 0:07:10.470 --> 0:07:11.090 walk through. 0:07:10.950 --> 0:07:11.990 Doors with this guy. 0:07:12.010 --> 0:07:13.650 I'm imagining the future. 0:07:13.710 --> 0:07:16.750 Okay, well get a pair of stilts then. Stop complaining. 0:07:16.770 --> 0:07:18.070 Start problem solving. 0:07:18.090 --> 0:07:18.830 Let's tell her. 0:07:18.850 --> 0:07:20.750 Let's hope that's not it, I mean. Let's figure out 0:07:20.770 --> 0:07:22.800 what's going on and hopefully get her to go out 0:07:22.820 --> 0:07:24.700 with you one more time when we come back and 0:07:24.720 --> 0:07:27.560 do your second date update right after this. Hold on, man. 0:07:27.600 --> 0:07:29.180 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:07:29.220 --> 0:07:30.480 Second date update. 0:07:32.020 --> 0:07:36.610 They say age is just a number. Like cholesterol or 0:07:36.650 --> 0:07:40.190 the speed limit in a school. So it doesn't really matter. 0:07:40.210 --> 0:07:41.290 Those numbers matter, Jeff. 0:07:41.350 --> 0:07:42.310 Who's paying attention? 0:07:42.350 --> 0:07:45.130 But our listener Brian is hoping the same logic applies 0:07:45.230 --> 0:07:48.890 for his height, which is a whopping seven feet tall 0:07:48.910 --> 0:07:52.190 because it's caused issues for him in the past. But 0:07:52.210 --> 0:07:54.420 he did feel very good about this latest date with 0:07:54.450 --> 0:07:57.360 a cute five foot four girl named Ariel. They had 0:07:57.380 --> 0:07:59.880 a fun, flirty night at a pizza place with lots 0:07:59.920 --> 0:08:02.620 of jokes about drafts and other tall stuff. 0:08:02.640 --> 0:08:04.480 That he made. She wasn't making fun of him. 0:08:04.500 --> 0:08:05.570 She wasn't mocking him. 0:08:05.810 --> 0:08:06.990 Very important to know. 0:08:07.020 --> 0:08:09.590 Good clarification. There may have been a little awkwardness at 0:08:09.630 --> 0:08:13.670 the end, logistically, for getting a kiss that never really materialized. 0:08:14.250 --> 0:08:17.470 But still, he felt certain there would be another meetup. 0:08:17.750 --> 0:08:20.890 And yet, here he is. And today, we need to 0:08:20.990 --> 0:08:24.050 finally get a win for the tall guys of the world. 0:08:24.110 --> 0:08:25.610 Yeah, they are rough out there. 0:08:25.650 --> 0:08:25.990 They do. 0:08:26.710 --> 0:08:28.950 I feel bad for all the tall, handsome men who 0:08:29.180 --> 0:08:32.460 are also charming. What a life you lead. 0:08:32.740 --> 0:08:36.480 Sorry, short king. Sit this one out. Brian, we are 0:08:36.520 --> 0:08:37.940 so sorry you've suffered so much. 0:08:38.000 --> 0:08:39.980 Yeah. Yeah. 0:08:41.860 --> 0:08:43.760 Tall and attractive. It's a rough life. 0:08:43.820 --> 0:08:45.780 I mean, this could just be really simple is that 0:08:45.830 --> 0:08:48.609 she's just dating a lot right now and not ready 0:08:48.809 --> 0:08:49.650 to date one person. 0:08:50.250 --> 0:08:52.959 Well, that was my guess. I mean, I just want 0:08:52.980 --> 0:08:55.800 to know, but she didn't give me any indication that 0:08:55.820 --> 0:08:58.320 was the case. But if she's seeing somebody else and 0:08:58.340 --> 0:09:00.380 that got serious, at least I'd have an answer. 0:09:01.480 --> 0:09:03.420 And even if she is talking to somebody else, you're 0:09:03.460 --> 0:09:04.770 the upgrade. Get it? 0:09:04.900 --> 0:09:10.450 Alexis really appreciated that joke, Brooke. She was dying laughing. 0:09:10.470 --> 0:09:12.189 I'm actually surprised it took so long for her to 0:09:12.230 --> 0:09:14.530 get to a tall joke like that. She usually doesn't 0:09:14.550 --> 0:09:16.589 wear mascara in this room because she's laughing so hard 0:09:16.630 --> 0:09:17.110 she cries. 0:09:18.330 --> 0:09:22.530 It all ran off her face. okay so let's just 0:09:22.650 --> 0:09:25.080 get to the call here we'll dial ariel and see 0:09:25.100 --> 0:09:27.439 if she picks up and hopefully she has a very 0:09:27.480 --> 0:09:29.679 good reason for why she wouldn't want to date a 0:09:29.740 --> 0:09:31.839 super tall handsome man that's. 0:09:31.460 --> 0:09:33.840 Right thank you thank you i'm. 0:09:33.679 --> 0:09:45.330 Dialing you right now hello hi is this ariel. 0:09:47.050 --> 0:09:48.230 Yes, this is her. 0:09:48.530 --> 0:09:50.630 Hey, Ariel, this is a radio show. We're called Brooke 0:09:50.670 --> 0:09:51.630 and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:09:51.650 --> 0:09:52.689 Hey, Ariel. 0:09:53.010 --> 0:09:54.870 Hey, Ariel. 0:09:56.170 --> 0:09:57.510 You have been waiting. 0:09:57.570 --> 0:09:59.370 I'm sure you get that joke all the time. 0:10:00.020 --> 0:10:01.300 Okay, morning show. 0:10:01.400 --> 0:10:03.699 Okay, the radio is calling me. Hi. 0:10:03.740 --> 0:10:04.939 I like how we're the radio. 0:10:05.100 --> 0:10:07.219 Sorry, I know you sound a little flustered. We're doing 0:10:07.260 --> 0:10:09.329 a segment here that you may or may not know about. 0:10:09.390 --> 0:10:12.270 It's called a second date update where we try to 0:10:12.309 --> 0:10:15.390 help listeners get in touch with somebody after they've gone 0:10:15.470 --> 0:10:17.990 out on a date with them and a second one 0:10:18.030 --> 0:10:18.809 hasn't happened yet. 0:10:20.600 --> 0:10:21.020 Okay. 0:10:21.830 --> 0:10:22.130 Okay. 0:10:22.150 --> 0:10:24.710 Okay. I bet you're curious about who. 0:10:24.929 --> 0:10:27.150 Yeah, I guess so. 0:10:27.690 --> 0:10:32.520 Well, we have a listener named Brian. Well, we have 0:10:32.540 --> 0:10:33.960 a lot of listeners, but there's. 0:10:33.900 --> 0:10:34.220 One of them. 0:10:35.540 --> 0:10:37.250 Text in if you're named Brian. This is a very 0:10:37.330 --> 0:10:38.950 tall guy named Brian. 0:10:39.170 --> 0:10:41.150 No, I know who you're talking about. 0:10:41.170 --> 0:10:42.430 Very tall Brian. 0:10:43.730 --> 0:10:46.709 She should easily know. He told us that you two 0:10:46.750 --> 0:10:49.130 went out on a date recently, and according to him, 0:10:49.590 --> 0:10:50.630 it went really well. 0:10:52.630 --> 0:10:56.810 Okay, he thinks it went well. Should he not? 0:10:57.240 --> 0:10:58.040 That's not good. 0:10:59.200 --> 0:11:02.300 I just, I didn't think it went great. 0:11:02.460 --> 0:11:04.040 Really? Okay. 0:11:04.160 --> 0:11:05.320 I would love to hear. 0:11:05.340 --> 0:11:07.929 Because we got his version of it and it seemed 0:11:08.010 --> 0:11:10.530 very good. But if you had a different experience, would 0:11:10.550 --> 0:11:13.520 you mind sharing that with us? Like, what was your perspective? 0:11:14.179 --> 0:11:16.280 Yeah, I mean, he seemed very nice. 0:11:18.400 --> 0:11:20.150 It was just very awkward. 0:11:20.210 --> 0:11:24.290 I mean, nobody's really good at dating, but I don't know. 0:11:24.570 --> 0:11:27.349 Did he tell you this early in the date? He 0:11:27.710 --> 0:11:29.219 asked me about my nails and then he was like 0:11:29.280 --> 0:11:33.280 holding my hands for like a very long long time. 0:11:33.380 --> 0:11:34.740 So he told us that and I thought it was 0:11:34.800 --> 0:11:37.500 kind of a sweet gesture. Like he had read it 0:11:37.620 --> 0:11:39.960 as you didn't take your hands away and you, you 0:11:40.040 --> 0:11:42.179 wanted to hold his hand. It made it sound more natural. 0:11:43.610 --> 0:11:46.130 No, it was weird. Even like, I remember like my 0:11:46.190 --> 0:11:48.890 forearm kind of getting tired and like my elbows feeling weird. 0:11:48.929 --> 0:11:50.470 Like I just, it was a very. 0:11:51.429 --> 0:11:54.270 long holding of hands and i just like we had 0:11:54.470 --> 0:11:55.670 just met so. 0:11:55.570 --> 0:11:58.560 Why didn't you can i ask why didn't you pull 0:11:58.580 --> 0:11:59.579 your hands away. 0:11:59.320 --> 0:12:02.700 So i tried actually after like the initial like oh 0:12:02.740 --> 0:12:04.179 i like your guys like oh thanks and then i 0:12:04.210 --> 0:12:06.110 went to pull my hands away and he just like 0:12:06.290 --> 0:12:07.930 kind of held them on there. 0:12:07.710 --> 0:12:10.750 Oh that's awkward I don't know why, but it feels 0:12:10.770 --> 0:12:13.730 like somebody has clammy hands in that situation. There's a 0:12:13.750 --> 0:12:15.050 little bit of cold sweat. 0:12:15.110 --> 0:12:16.790 You're imagining correct. 0:12:17.270 --> 0:12:19.040 You nailed it. It was gross. 0:12:19.080 --> 0:12:21.219 He just told us that he really liked your hands. 0:12:21.240 --> 0:12:22.260 He liked your nails. 0:12:23.300 --> 0:12:25.020 No, he just thought it was a sweet moment. He 0:12:25.140 --> 0:12:28.460 just read it wrong. That's too bad. I mean, that's 0:12:28.480 --> 0:12:29.840 just bad communication. 0:12:29.880 --> 0:12:32.939 Definitely an awkward moment, like you said. But I would 0:12:32.960 --> 0:12:35.240 say that's just like a minor speed bump. You should 0:12:35.280 --> 0:12:38.520 be able to look past the hand-holding thing and focus 0:12:38.559 --> 0:12:39.179 on your connections. 0:12:40.120 --> 0:12:44.059 Well, I think that's correct. Like you could shift past 0:12:44.080 --> 0:12:44.760 that if there. 0:12:44.640 --> 0:12:47.110 Was a connection to focus on, but I just didn't 0:12:47.140 --> 0:12:51.330 really feel very connected. Yeah. He did this thing. 0:12:51.390 --> 0:12:53.710 Like we're like on the date. It's like very early 0:12:53.770 --> 0:12:55.910 in the day. And he is like, he did this 0:12:56.170 --> 0:12:58.510 rating on a scale of one to 10 thing, like 0:12:58.770 --> 0:13:02.230 multiple times. And he was like, so on a scale 0:13:02.270 --> 0:13:04.329 of one to 10, like, how do you feel about me? 0:13:04.450 --> 0:13:07.089 And I was just kind of like, I don't know you. Yeah. 0:13:08.510 --> 0:13:11.490 He's doing a live survey of himself in the middle 0:13:11.510 --> 0:13:12.190 of the day. 0:13:12.470 --> 0:13:14.250 Did he really want you to give him a number 0:13:14.270 --> 0:13:15.699 or was he trying to be funny? 0:13:15.720 --> 0:13:16.960 Oh, good question. 0:13:16.980 --> 0:13:19.839 Yeah, no, he like pressed for a number. I was like, 0:13:19.880 --> 0:13:21.660 I don't know, like a five. 0:13:21.700 --> 0:13:22.240 Like we just met. 0:13:24.420 --> 0:13:24.679 Ouch. 0:13:25.040 --> 0:13:26.740 Five's pretty good for a stranger you don't know. I 0:13:26.760 --> 0:13:29.990 don't know. I think if a person I was out 0:13:30.020 --> 0:13:32.870 with gave me a five, that would be an automatic understatement. 0:13:32.910 --> 0:13:34.610 At the beginning of the date? I mean, Ariel, he 0:13:34.650 --> 0:13:37.170 wasn't letting go of your hands at that moment. I 0:13:37.190 --> 0:13:39.010 bet you if you had given him a higher number, 0:13:39.070 --> 0:13:42.250 like an eight, then he would have released his death threat. 0:13:42.290 --> 0:13:44.010 Maybe she only gave him a five because she only 0:13:44.030 --> 0:13:45.340 could get one hand out to hold it. 0:13:47.970 --> 0:13:52.229 Strategize as a way to get out of the handhold. 0:13:52.410 --> 0:13:56.890 Hey, excuse me. I'm on the phone. I've been listening. Hi, Ariel. Oh, 0:13:56.929 --> 0:13:58.800 my God. Brian. 0:13:59.440 --> 0:14:03.180 Oh, God. Okay. Sorry, Ariel. This is how it works. 0:14:03.200 --> 0:14:05.319 We have the other person listening on the line waiting 0:14:05.340 --> 0:14:05.960 to jump in. 0:14:05.980 --> 0:14:09.360 That was probably hard to hear. Well, I give this 0:14:09.480 --> 0:14:10.080 a three. 0:14:10.520 --> 0:14:12.700 Oh, okay. 0:14:12.860 --> 0:14:15.140 That's not a one. There you go. 0:14:15.400 --> 0:14:15.819 Okay. 0:14:17.350 --> 0:14:20.250 Okay, well, Brian, you wanted to jump in and say something? 0:14:20.880 --> 0:14:23.340 Yeah, I just, I mean, that's hard to hear. I like, 0:14:23.740 --> 0:14:26.380 I obviously didn't want to make you uncomfortable, but it 0:14:26.680 --> 0:14:29.250 really just seemed like a different thing to me. I 0:14:29.270 --> 0:14:31.750 thought it was kind of like cute, romantic kind of 0:14:31.790 --> 0:14:33.050 thing when we were holding hands. 0:14:33.670 --> 0:14:36.820 Brian, that's not the only, like, weird thing that happened. Like, 0:14:36.840 --> 0:14:40.100 you made me feed you pizza like a giraffe. 0:14:40.200 --> 0:14:42.300 Like, that was so odd. 0:14:42.360 --> 0:14:44.990 You stood up, like, out of nowhere. 0:14:45.110 --> 0:14:47.490 I mean, that was funny. You said you want to 0:14:47.530 --> 0:14:49.530 try this, and I just said, hey, yeah, just feed 0:14:49.590 --> 0:14:51.250 it to me like you would feed a giraffe. 0:14:51.290 --> 0:14:54.110 Did you say he's... Yeah, and then you stood up and, like, 0:14:54.470 --> 0:14:58.239 towered over me and, like, made me do it. 0:14:58.500 --> 0:15:01.200 Oh, no. I thought it was cute. 0:15:01.440 --> 0:15:04.740 You were eating it out of my hand. That's not cute. 0:15:04.760 --> 0:15:06.320 I make a difference. 0:15:07.040 --> 0:15:09.520 I imagine, you know, like the big giraffe tongues. 0:15:11.020 --> 0:15:13.600 Wraps around the slice. Sucks it in. 0:15:13.620 --> 0:15:16.340 More like a lizard. It was not as big of 0:15:16.380 --> 0:15:18.240 a moment as you're making it. It was just a 0:15:18.280 --> 0:15:19.600 funny little thing that happened. 0:15:19.700 --> 0:15:21.380 You guys were not on the same page at all. 0:15:22.420 --> 0:15:24.770 Also, like, that rating thing, I was just, like, joking. 0:15:24.830 --> 0:15:26.050 I was like, so, you know, how do you think 0:15:26.090 --> 0:15:28.130 it's going? She's like, I think it's going really well. 0:15:28.150 --> 0:15:29.729 I was like, scale of 1 to 10. Like, just 0:15:29.850 --> 0:15:31.710 joking around. Okay. 0:15:31.770 --> 0:15:35.550 But you did it again at the end. Like, we are, like, leaving, 0:15:35.770 --> 0:15:39.250 and then you were, like, all weird and whispery, and 0:15:39.270 --> 0:15:41.710 you were like, on a scale of 1 to 10, 0:15:41.700 --> 0:15:43.900 how much do you want to kiss me right now? 0:15:44.480 --> 0:15:47.000 Okay. 0:15:47.040 --> 0:15:48.920 Come on, that could be cute if it was a 0:15:48.960 --> 0:15:49.800 guy that you liked. 0:15:50.530 --> 0:15:51.860 You know what I mean? 0:15:51.940 --> 0:15:52.600 That's the problem. 0:15:52.660 --> 0:15:54.980