1 00:00:03,080 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio. 2 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 1: Good Morning. This is Laura, Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. 3 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 1: Today's tip is about how to create a morning routine 4 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 1: that even the busiest person can fit into his or 5 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:23,360 Speaker 1: her life. This idea comes from Claudia Reuter, who's the 6 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:28,640 Speaker 1: host of Critical Frequencies podcast. I was recently a guest 7 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 1: on this show, which talks about the varied career paths 8 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 1: that women in particular follow on the road to success. 9 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:38,240 Speaker 1: While Claudia and I were chatting, we got to talking 10 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:41,159 Speaker 1: about her morning routine. She likes to get up a 11 00:00:41,159 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 1: bit before the rest of her family. On a weekday, 12 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:46,760 Speaker 1: that might mean between five thirty and six am. On 13 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 1: a weekend, it might be between seven and eight. Her 14 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:52,400 Speaker 1: kids are teenagers, so they're self sufficient enough that they 15 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 1: don't need to bother her, but she finds it's helpful 16 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 1: if her house is quiet. After her showers, she stays 17 00:00:58,520 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 1: in her bathroom and locks the door. She sits on 18 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 1: the bath mat on the floor, sets the alarm on 19 00:01:03,600 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 1: her phone, and then meditates for five minutes. She focuses 20 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:13,480 Speaker 1: on one word like blessed and on her breath. Five 21 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:16,200 Speaker 1: minutes isn't a huge amount of time, but it turns 22 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:19,000 Speaker 1: out to be enough to change how she feels. She 23 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:22,039 Speaker 1: likens this to a computer processor needing to get cleaned 24 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:24,960 Speaker 1: out from time to time. Once her head is cleared out, 25 00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 1: she spends the next five minutes thinking about three things 26 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:30,960 Speaker 1: that she's grateful for and visualizing what a great day 27 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 1: it will be. Then she heads into her kitchen for 28 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 1: her coffee. She writes down activities on her calendar, and 29 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:39,959 Speaker 1: she journals about things she's working toward. What does she 30 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 1: intend to do during the day. When she looks at 31 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 1: her calendar, does her time align with her goals? Then 32 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 1: she goes about her business. All this meditating and setting 33 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:52,200 Speaker 1: intentions takes just ten minutes or so of her morning. 34 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:55,400 Speaker 1: But when she does this, she says, she knows it's 35 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 1: going to be a great day. I think this is 36 00:01:58,320 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 1: a wonderful idea. Often when we think of morning routines, 37 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 1: we picture multi hour sagas. Someone like Claudia, who has 38 00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 1: a job, a podcast, two boys, a spouse, a house, 39 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 1: and a dog will likely find it challenging to meditate 40 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:15,160 Speaker 1: for forty five minutes or do an hour long boot 41 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:19,280 Speaker 1: camp every morning. But that's Okay, even a few moments 42 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:22,920 Speaker 1: can set the tone for everything that comes. I was 43 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 1: reminded of this a few years ago when I saw 44 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 1: a time log from a woman whose mornings could have 45 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 1: been quite miserable. This particular woman lived in the Chicago 46 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 1: area and had a long commute that involved driving and 47 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 1: taking the train. The week she tracked was snowy, which 48 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 1: made the whole thing worse and adding to the misery. 49 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 1: Due to some challenges with her husband's job, she was 50 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:45,200 Speaker 1: always responsible for daycare drop off for their two young children. 51 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 1: Any parents who do drop off will shut her at 52 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 1: this particular detail. Their daycare only head street parking. It 53 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 1: had become parking roulette every morning, will I get a 54 00:02:54,919 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 1: spot close by? Or will I be hauling two children 55 00:02:57,760 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 1: and their stuff in the snow for several blocks. In 56 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:04,400 Speaker 1: any case, it made for some grueling mornings. She started 57 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:07,240 Speaker 1: getting her boys coats on at seven in order to 58 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 1: be at her desk at eight thirty. But as I 59 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:12,720 Speaker 1: looked at her log, I noticed the most curious thing. 60 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 1: She always got her boys fed and dressed by seven am. 61 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 1: The coat process started at seven ten, So what did 62 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 1: she do with those intervening ten minutes? It turns out 63 00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:29,840 Speaker 1: she spent seven to seven ten each morning playing with 64 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:33,959 Speaker 1: her kids. They'd snuggle, tell stories, play with toys, all 65 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 1: that good stuff. I thought this was so profound. I mean, 66 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 1: she could have easily lost those ten minutes to checking 67 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 1: email or puttering around the house or standing there thinking 68 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 1: woe is me, I have this horrible commute coming up. 69 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 1: But instead she used those ten minutes for something to 70 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 1: add a little element of joy to her day before 71 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 1: they braved the traffic and the cold. Maybe you can't 72 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 1: have an elaborate morning routine right now, either, but could 73 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 1: you find ten minutes in ten minutes? What could you do? 74 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 1: Like Claudia? You could meditate and set your intentions for 75 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 1: the day, or you could lift weights, play with your 76 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 1: kids like the lady in Chicago, or write in a 77 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 1: journal or read something important. It doesn't have to be much, 78 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:21,760 Speaker 1: but small things done repeatedly truly do add up. So 79 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 1: what can you build into your mornings today? In the meantime, 80 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 1: this is Laura. Thanks for listening, and here's to making 81 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:40,159 Speaker 1: the most of our time. Hey, everybody, I'd love to 82 00:04:40,200 --> 00:04:43,120 Speaker 1: hear from you. You can send me your tips, your questions, 83 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 1: or anything else. 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