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Speaker 1: Hey Brian, how you doing, man? I'm good. How are

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Speaker 1: that all right. Well, before we get into your actual date,

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Speaker 1: why don't you tell us about the girl that you met.

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Speaker 1: What's her name? Her name is Alana. We met on

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Speaker 1: Tell us what you and Alana did for your date.

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Speaker 1: We went to a sushi restaurant. We both are a

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Speaker 1: number right now. Hello, Hi, is this Alana? This is her?

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Speaker 1: Who am I speaking with? You're speaking with jeff the

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Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the Morning. That's a lot of hype. Alaa, Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: what HIPI radio morning show? Sorry, that's pretty much yeah, okay, well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: being upfront, right, I appreciate your honesty eventually getting drug

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Speaker 1: a lot, Brook for everything you did for me. I

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