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Speaker 1: This is the almost famous podcast with iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: All Right, Bob, I'm so excited about this episode because

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Speaker 2: it was, of course one of the best weekends, nice days,

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Speaker 2: all of the above of my life. So we are

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Speaker 2: going to do a two parter for everybody listening, We

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Speaker 2: are going to do a two parter. So this is

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Speaker 2: going to be the first episode where we are going

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Speaker 2: to talk and actually we're going to reminisce all about

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Speaker 2: my wedding to Ryan. And you were there, of course

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Speaker 2: for all of you were there, Well, you weren't really

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Speaker 2: there for the engagement, I guess, but you were there

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Speaker 2: for the you know, leading up to the engagement, and

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Speaker 2: then you were there for our bachelorette and bachelorette parties

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Speaker 2: or bachelor and bachelorette parties, and then for the wedding

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Speaker 2: of course.

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Speaker 1: So I am so excited.

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Speaker 3: I love it.

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Speaker 4: Can you blame it's twenty years I mean, isn't that crazy?

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Speaker 1: I really can't. I do not feel that old.

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Speaker 4: Do I love that old? You do not?

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Speaker 1: Thank you?

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Speaker 4: I mean, oh my gosh, I mean it's.

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Speaker 2: Crazy that it was on the spot. No, no, twenty

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Speaker 2: years ago.

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Speaker 5: I mean I've thought about it in many episodes when

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Speaker 5: you say, you know, oh, I'm the fairy, you know,

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Speaker 5: the fairy godmother.

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Speaker 4: I've been around forever.

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Speaker 5: I'm always like, but you don't look at You don't

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Speaker 5: look at that's for sure. But I remember your wedding.

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Speaker 1: Yes, well, I hope so millions do.

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Speaker 4: But I will tell you I remember it just thinking

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Speaker 4: to myself.

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Speaker 5: First of all, you know, we were relatively fresh off

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Speaker 5: the show, right, and then I had just gone to

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Speaker 5: film my season as a Bachelor. But I remember thinking like, uh,

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Speaker 5: you know, I felt a lot of things. One, I

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Speaker 5: was so proud of the two of you. Second, I

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Speaker 5: was so disappointed that you guys set the bar this

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Speaker 5: high and I wasn't getting married from the show, you know.

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Speaker 5: But it was amazing, such a cool event, and you

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Speaker 5: get to know your friends and your family and such wonderful,

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Speaker 5: wonderful people. And I mean, but it was the biggest

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Speaker 5: production I mean ever, right. It made what we had

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Speaker 5: done on The Bachelorette and The Bachelor looked like potatoes

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Speaker 5: compared to what went on.

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Speaker 4: At that wedding.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, true story.

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Speaker 2: Which actually it's funny that you bring that up, because

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Speaker 2: I will be getting to interview Stephanie Leidecker, who was

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Speaker 2: a producer on my season and maybe probably even your season,

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Speaker 2: and then she ended up being like the correspondent for

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Speaker 2: the show. I don't know if you remember this part,

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Speaker 2: like torrespondent for the show, and she would like throw

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Speaker 2: it back to Chris, who was like outside waiting for

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Speaker 2: the you know, the venue to be prepped. And so

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Speaker 2: I am excited to talk to her about the fact

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Speaker 2: that for the like in the negotiations for the wedding,

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Speaker 2: they said, you can either have cameras in your face

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Speaker 2: twenty four to seven during that entire weekend, like we

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Speaker 2: are going to follow you around everywhere. You will not

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Speaker 2: have any time off from the cameras, and both of

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Speaker 2: us were like yuck, Like we want to be able

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Speaker 2: to enjoy this with our family and friends. We want

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Speaker 2: to have moments without the cameras, because first of all,

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Speaker 2: we didn't want them in their faces, Like we didn't

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Speaker 2: the weekend to have to suffer through the cameras, because that's.

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Speaker 1: Not what she was signed up for.

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Speaker 2: Of course we had, but so anyway, it was either

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Speaker 2: don't want cameras in our face twenty four seven, you know. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: so production, Yes, for sure, it was a production.

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Speaker 4: I remember.

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Speaker 5: I remember that very well because I remember, you know, obviously,

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Speaker 5: you know, Charlie was coming off the same timeframe that

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Speaker 5: one of those moments where it was like, you know,

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Speaker 5: it was so undeniable. I mean, you know, it really

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Speaker 4: But I also felt like, you know, I loved you know, just.

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Speaker 5: Your your mom and everyone being there and Ryan's family,

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Speaker 5: and you know, it was just one of those moments

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Speaker 5: and everything. But then once the wedding, once I saw

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Speaker 5: then it was I forgot it was a TV show.

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Speaker 5: I forgot that it was it was only about the wedding.

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Speaker 5: And I remember thinking that to myself, like, you know,

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Speaker 5: of the choppers circling over us and all that's nothing.

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Speaker 4: I forgot until it was brought up. I kind of

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Speaker 4: forgot all about it. You know. It's just a real

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Speaker 4: beautiful moment.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 4: Oh you're very.

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Speaker 2: Welcome, and I so I don't know if you've watched

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Speaker 2: it back, but I watched it back and love the

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Speaker 2: fact that we were in Saint Martin with you know,

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Speaker 2: all of my my friends and Ryan's friends. Yeah, and

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Speaker 2: you were of course part of it because you guys

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Speaker 2: had become friends from the show, so they had you

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Speaker 2: kind of like host this little party. And I want

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Speaker 2: to ask you, how freaking awkward was it when you

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Speaker 2: were having to like rope in Ryan's friend Ben, who,

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Speaker 2: by the way, has totally come around.

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Speaker 1: He he had a.

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Speaker 2: Little bit of a drinking problem, but he has he

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Speaker 2: really actually really proud of them, and We're both still

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Speaker 2: very close. Sure, but that whole part was so freaking awkward.

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Speaker 1: Can you talk about that?

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Speaker 5: You know, I just didn't think they were going to

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Speaker 4: It was it was just a because I thought he

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Speaker 5: I mean, in my mind, I thought I was like

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Speaker 5: helping protect them from you know, but you know, from

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Speaker 4: That, you know, I was.

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Speaker 5: I don't know, it was weird, Like when you look

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Speaker 5: back at those moments I have, I have conflicting I

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Speaker 5: have conflicting emotions about some stuff because I'm like, man,

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Speaker 5: you don't need to have drama in everything, Like you know,

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Speaker 5: it's like, can't we have just let this be like

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Speaker 5: an awesome, fun gathering of people who love you and

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Speaker 4: Can't we just let that be it? Why are you

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Speaker 5: And then I felt like I got set up a

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Speaker 5: did this go? And then I'm like, wait what? And

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Speaker 5: then I realized, in my heart of hearts, i feel

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Speaker 5: like a villain. All of a sudden, I'm walking away

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Speaker 1: Oh we knew it wasn't you.

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Speaker 2: No, we knew it was coming from production. I mean,

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Speaker 2: how could you not being like what we had gone through.

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Speaker 2: And one of those questions was so our parents are

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Speaker 2: of like the Newlywed game.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was. It was a fun segment.

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Speaker 2: But it was the question of sEH, when's the first

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Speaker 2: time you had sex? And and I was like what,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, and I go naturally, I'm like I don't

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Speaker 2: want to talk about that, and they're like, well you

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Speaker 1: Like Everyone's like, well you just did. I'm like, damn it,

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Speaker 2: It was actually a really cute moment because I think

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Speaker 2: Ryan came to the rescue, like he was like.

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Speaker 2: It never happened or it hasn't happened yet or something

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Speaker 2: like that. He came to the rescue. I can't remember

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Speaker 2: exactly what he said, and I was like, yay, thank you.

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Speaker 5: Didn't he say, because I feel like I stole this

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Speaker 5: I never even got to see it. But I did

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Speaker 5: he say, if you didn't see it on camera, it

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Speaker 5: didn't happen. Did he say that?

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Speaker 2: I don't. I don't think so it was something else,

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Speaker 2: but he did definitely kind of like save that moment

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Speaker 2: you know, a really sweet cute moment the part with Ben, though,

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Speaker 2: You're right, like I think I was feeling the same

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Speaker 2: way in that I didn't feel like it was gonna air.

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Speaker 6: I didn't even know that. I knew that it was.

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Speaker 2: Being filmed, like I was being filmed because I think

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Speaker 2: on film like where you can watch it back. Actually

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Speaker 2: I wonder if people can watch it back. But we'll

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Speaker 2: get there when you watch it back, I say he

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Speaker 2: Ben is not my favorite friend of yours right now

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Speaker 2: or something. Yeah, yeah, because he was being he was

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Speaker 2: just being rude and disrespectful to you, kind of being

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Speaker 2: the host, and even was like.

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Speaker 1: He shouldn't be doing this. One of your friends should be.

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Speaker 4: Doing it, right, I remember that, Yeah, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, it was it was just disrespectful.

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Speaker 4: I didn't disagree with him.

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Speaker 5: That was the hard part, because yeah, this part of me,

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Speaker 5: a part of me was like, you know, I do

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Speaker 5: feel I understand why I'm here, but I would have

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Speaker 5: hoped I would have been invited regardless of It was

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Speaker 5: like one of those things where I was like, I

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Speaker 5: don't disagree with him, Like there are some moments where

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Speaker 5: I remember, you know, I remember thinking that in those moments,

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Speaker 6: There were no ill There was no ill will or anything.

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Speaker 1: You should.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you definitely should.

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Speaker 5: It'll give you all the feels because it'll make you

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Speaker 2: Ah, thank you, And I wonder I'm glad that you

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Speaker 1: I'm so happy for you guys.

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Speaker 2: It's all good. You could just tell. I was like

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Speaker 4: A great friendship story to tell these.

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Speaker 1: Many years, right, that's right, it is. I mean we've

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she's awesome.

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Speaker 2: Beautiful and lovely, and I'm just so happy for her happiness.

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Speaker 4: I am too, I am too.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, No, it was it was fun. It was just

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Speaker 5: Yeah, life gets in the way years of years later, right,

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Speaker 4: I mean, gosh, Canyon and I have been married. This

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Speaker 5: We're married in twenty sixteen, so amazing, Yeah, seven years

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Speaker 5: You know, you guys are definitely real too. Yeah, if

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Speaker 1: Let's look at this ring?

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, I think I can't think you can't. Well,

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Speaker 4: I'm excited to watch your episode a long with everybody else.

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Speaker 2: I know it'll be it'll be really fun to connect

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Speaker 5: Thank you, thanks for having me at the wedding and

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Speaker 1: And Bachelor Party.

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Speaker 2: Okay, great, Well, thanks guys for listening, and I hope

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Speaker 2: season of the Bachelorette and she ended up commentating, officiating,

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Speaker 1: Hi, guys, Hi, step.

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Speaker 7: It's been far too long. I don't I want to

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Speaker 1: We are live.

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Speaker 2: We're just going for it. We're just gonna go for it.

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Speaker 2: I am so excited to talk to you. I mean,

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Speaker 2: Facebook wasn't on. Facebook wasn't a thing when we did

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Speaker 7: Little memorabilia from your wedding. It was actually like a

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Speaker 9: Yes, and it says twistin Ryan's wedding and all things.

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Speaker 9: Thank and congrats on all the success and your beautiful family.

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Speaker 9: You are the shining star of what love is all about.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. That's so sweet.

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Speaker 2: And I love that you saved the mic box or

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Speaker 7: I should send this to you.

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Speaker 3: I will.

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Speaker 1: No, No, you need to keep it.

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Speaker 2: I have so many measured I have lots of things.

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Speaker 2: guess that it would be after the wedding, but yes,

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00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:17,720
Speaker 2: I mean it's all over the house, So you keep that.

442
00:20:18,359 --> 00:20:19,440
Speaker 7: I'm going to keep this one.

443
00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:22,960
Speaker 9: You just said the buzzword of The Bachelor, which is candles. Right,

444
00:20:23,080 --> 00:20:26,240
Speaker 9: So we're having candles around a bathtub. It sounds like

445
00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:30,240
Speaker 9: you're living down the tradition for now almost twenty years.

446
00:20:30,240 --> 00:20:33,520
Speaker 7: My goodness, it's pretty extraordinary. So much has.

447
00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:36,080
Speaker 9: Happened since then, and yeah, I get to play along

448
00:20:36,119 --> 00:20:39,000
Speaker 9: and watch from a distance, but those were some really

449
00:20:39,040 --> 00:20:40,280
Speaker 9: idyllic times.

450
00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:44,600
Speaker 7: Your wedding was the wedding of a lifetime, and you.

451
00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:46,520
Speaker 9: Know, I had the benefit of being a producer on

452
00:20:46,560 --> 00:20:49,280
Speaker 9: your season with when you fell in love with Ryan

453
00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:52,439
Speaker 9: and I, you know, we were hiding in broom closets

454
00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:57,400
Speaker 9: getting to watch you guys have a really authentic, beautiful experience.

455
00:20:57,480 --> 00:21:01,240
Speaker 9: And if I remember correctly, I feel like Ian didn't

456
00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:03,160
Speaker 9: even know what show he was on when he showed

457
00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:06,240
Speaker 9: Toy was like, I have no idea where I am.

458
00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:07,679
Speaker 7: I've never seen the show.

459
00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:11,080
Speaker 9: And then he fell deeply in love and it was

460
00:21:11,119 --> 00:21:13,560
Speaker 9: the real deal. And so much is always made about

461
00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:17,640
Speaker 9: it being impossible or it's just for the cameras, and

462
00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:21,280
Speaker 9: I mean, granted we're twenty years ago, but old school,

463
00:21:21,760 --> 00:21:24,879
Speaker 9: it was pretty extraordinary to kind of be on that

464
00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:28,560
Speaker 9: journey with you from a distance and getting to participate

465
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Speaker 9: in your wedding.

466
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Speaker 7: I still have a juicy sweatsuit from that.

467
00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:38,760
Speaker 2: So that's so funny because Blakesley, they are back now.

468
00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:41,200
Speaker 1: I don't know if you've heard, but they're trendy again.

469
00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:44,479
Speaker 2: And Blakesley is like, Mom, do you have any juicy

470
00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:47,720
Speaker 2: sweatsho sweatsuits? And I'm pointing to this box in my

471
00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:51,119
Speaker 2: closet top of my closet that it says bride because

472
00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:54,280
Speaker 2: mine's or no, it says missus Sutter or something like that,

473
00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:57,480
Speaker 2: and I said, probably, yeah, you probably don't want to

474
00:21:57,520 --> 00:22:00,720
Speaker 2: wear that one, which is yours, just it doesn't have

475
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Speaker 2: any importance.

476
00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:04,280
Speaker 9: I don't had any embroidery, but I remember the embroidery

477
00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:07,720
Speaker 9: so well. So, yeah, you had the best girlfriends that

478
00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:08,639
Speaker 9: were your bridesmaids.

479
00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:09,359
Speaker 7: I hope they're all.

480
00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:11,120
Speaker 1: Well, yeah they are, well, they are.

481
00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:13,720
Speaker 7: Awesome, writhing in all of the above. But you know,

482
00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:14,760
Speaker 7: it was a real wedding.

483
00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:16,800
Speaker 9: Yes, it's also a TV show, but the truth of

484
00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:18,560
Speaker 9: the matter was you were going through the paces of

485
00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:21,000
Speaker 9: a real thing and somehow I ended up with a

486
00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:26,080
Speaker 9: juicy sweatshirt and juicy sweatpands, you know, original.

487
00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:27,879
Speaker 7: Navy there definitely should have a.

488
00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:31,160
Speaker 9: Comeback and somebody should wear them and maybe the those.

489
00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:35,680
Speaker 7: So yeah, I'm glad to hear. You know. Love has thrived.

490
00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:37,320
Speaker 1: Love has thrived.

491
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Speaker 2: So tell everybody about how you got like behind the scenes,

492
00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:45,040
Speaker 2: how did you get chosen to kind of be And

493
00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:47,520
Speaker 2: I guess I should back up because I don't know

494
00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:49,919
Speaker 2: if people haven't seen it in a long time or

495
00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:54,600
Speaker 2: they'd never saw it. We had so as part of

496
00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:57,640
Speaker 2: the agreement for our wedding, they said, do you want

497
00:22:57,680 --> 00:23:00,840
Speaker 2: to have cameras on you twenty four to seven, or

498
00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:03,679
Speaker 2: we can give you another option. We're like, what's the

499
00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:07,119
Speaker 2: other option? And they said, we need to have someone

500
00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:10,520
Speaker 2: on a mic with you every so often as kind

501
00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:13,600
Speaker 2: of like a behind the scenes reporter, and then someone

502
00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:17,359
Speaker 2: with Ryan and Lo and Behold. Like, for me it

503
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:21,040
Speaker 2: was awesome because we were friends as you were a producer.

504
00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:25,960
Speaker 2: But for Ryan it was Charlie, which is the craziest thing, Like,

505
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:30,120
Speaker 2: I can't even believe that flew Like I am laughing

506
00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:34,359
Speaker 2: so hard watching this back, and Charlie's like, Bob is

507
00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:37,920
Speaker 2: about to give Ryan his last, you know, final words.

508
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:41,359
Speaker 1: You know, let's listen in. And I'm like, oh my god,

509
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:42,960
Speaker 1: is so cringe.

510
00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:46,880
Speaker 9: It was so Banana is the only weird Banana's part

511
00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:49,639
Speaker 9: of your wedding is me being there with a microphone.

512
00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 4: So how that.

513
00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:55,120
Speaker 7: We were just laughing about it here at work? How

514
00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:56,840
Speaker 7: that happened? I was a producer on your.

515
00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:59,800
Speaker 9: Season on now First Bachelorette, and you know, had the

516
00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:02,800
Speaker 9: better bit of seeing it all go down, and internally,

517
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:06,800
Speaker 9: I don't know, somebody, my then boss was like, oh yeah, Lieducker,

518
00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:09,080
Speaker 9: you're going to be at the wedding, and you know,

519
00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:11,960
Speaker 9: it's like you get a co host with Chris Harrison,

520
00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:16,080
Speaker 9: which sounded so incredibly exciting, was wedged in a dress

521
00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:18,760
Speaker 9: that it wasn't actually sewn in the back, and all

522
00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:20,480
Speaker 9: of the can't no.

523
00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:22,920
Speaker 7: I was like a disaster. I was a disaster.

524
00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:26,080
Speaker 9: You were so poised on your wedding day and all

525
00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:28,000
Speaker 9: I brought was a frazzleed element to it.

526
00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:30,360
Speaker 7: Yeah, they were like they would my shots.

527
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:34,760
Speaker 9: They would be like live at the you know, rehearsal

528
00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:37,360
Speaker 9: dinner or it was as if I was on space

529
00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:39,840
Speaker 9: weighing in on the activities.

530
00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:42,760
Speaker 7: It was so scary. I was a deer in headlights.

531
00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:44,880
Speaker 7: I could search for words. And then the camera guy

532
00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:46,400
Speaker 7: and you know.

533
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:48,800
Speaker 9: All of the crew were people that I had worked with,

534
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:51,639
Speaker 9: like you forever, so like, you know, they're heckling me

535
00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:54,840
Speaker 9: during the commercial breaks, totally, why hucker.

536
00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:57,280
Speaker 7: You are crushing it in the worst way. I'm like,

537
00:24:57,320 --> 00:24:59,120
Speaker 7: this is not very helpful, and the.

538
00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:01,840
Speaker 9: Commercial bridge give me something to say to like you're

539
00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 9: at a wedding, it's tristic normal.

540
00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:06,239
Speaker 7: I was like, okay, okay, okay. I was nervous. I

541
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:07,320
Speaker 7: was so nervous.

542
00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:10,680
Speaker 9: There's words can't say, but what I wasn't nervous about.

543
00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:12,840
Speaker 7: Was just it was a big deal.

544
00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:15,960
Speaker 9: Remember I remember showing up and there was chairs being

545
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:19,840
Speaker 9: set up for your actual ceremony, and then within a

546
00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:23,159
Speaker 9: date it had just like this layering of pink and

547
00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:27,639
Speaker 9: blushes and it was so magnificent and major. That was

548
00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 9: like a big was the super Bowl of weddings. It

549
00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:31,000
Speaker 9: really felt that bad.

550
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:33,679
Speaker 2: I mean I felt I felt it, but you know,

551
00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:36,199
Speaker 2: I was part of it, so I don't know how

552
00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:38,679
Speaker 2: much you can truly feel. But yeah, I mean it

553
00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 2: was like I watching back and having Mindy talk about

554
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:46,359
Speaker 2: how they were twenty four seven around the clock. They

555
00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:49,560
Speaker 2: had people working on stuff, and I believe it because

556
00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:52,240
Speaker 2: if you look at the space beforehand, it was just

557
00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:55,840
Speaker 2: a ballroom, you know, and they transformed that place like

558
00:25:56,000 --> 00:26:00,359
Speaker 2: the cherry blossoms everywhere, which Blakeslee has cherry blasts like

559
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:04,160
Speaker 2: a kind of a wall mural in her room.

560
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:07,120
Speaker 1: That I just love. All the little details that she did.

561
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 1: It was.

562
00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:11,240
Speaker 2: It was such an encreasing I still can't believe that

563
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:13,880
Speaker 2: it was my wedding. I can't like and it was.

564
00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:16,920
Speaker 9: Real TV events, you know. For those who maybe have

565
00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:19,920
Speaker 9: watched it or hadn't seen it back you know, back.

566
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:21,680
Speaker 7: Then this was the first of its kinds.

567
00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:26,760
Speaker 9: This was you know, America's sweethearts getting married viewers and

568
00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 9: you know, people like me who were working behind the

569
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:31,959
Speaker 9: scenes got to play along. So there was a real

570
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:37,600
Speaker 9: payoff in it for everyone. Yeah, and it really felt important.

571
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 9: And you know, listen, everybody can say what they want

572
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:44,120
Speaker 9: about reality TV. We call it unscripted now because it's

573
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:49,040
Speaker 9: way fancier sounding, but no, in our day, and again

574
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:53,000
Speaker 9: not to date myself as well, it was really all

575
00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:57,120
Speaker 9: you were creating dates and circumstances that would allow real

576
00:26:57,160 --> 00:27:02,040
Speaker 9: conversations and authenticity to occur. And you know, like every

577
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:04,560
Speaker 9: woman alive, going through the pacing of dating is not

578
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 9: easy and doing it poised. You know, people don't realize

579
00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:10,880
Speaker 9: it's a lot of work to be the bachelorette let

580
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 9: amone have that really end in epic success?

581
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:17,560
Speaker 7: And yeah, you bring up Charlie, Charlie, where is Charlie?

582
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 9: I know, I don't I remember I planned Charlie's hometown.

583
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:27,119
Speaker 9: But you know I remember Ryan, he had the artwork

584
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:30,159
Speaker 9: and he was writing poetry for you. And you know,

585
00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:33,119
Speaker 9: also something like worth noting behind the scenes too, is

586
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:36,399
Speaker 9: you know, we're all sort of become this extension of

587
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:39,400
Speaker 9: family and you know, people are really decent, and I'm

588
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:41,960
Speaker 9: sure some people are not, but you guys so were

589
00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:44,560
Speaker 9: and made everybody feel very connected.

590
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 7: To the process. And you know, as the first bachelorette.

591
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:50,040
Speaker 9: You know, again, people don't realize you have to really

592
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:53,679
Speaker 9: it's your journey, it's real life, and it's also like

593
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:56,960
Speaker 9: a major TV show. You know, those Rose ceremonies. I

594
00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:58,600
Speaker 9: think it was back in the day when it was

595
00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:01,640
Speaker 9: still in Malibu. You know, you would drive to Malibu

596
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:03,360
Speaker 9: to go to wait and it would be lit up

597
00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:07,000
Speaker 9: like the super Bowl. You know, it's totally production and

598
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:11,480
Speaker 9: you know, you expect a huge production to have the

599
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 9: value of production, yes, and of course check that box.

600
00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 7: But then what you don't expect.

601
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:19,240
Speaker 9: Is maybe you know, what is it almost twenty years

602
00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:20,240
Speaker 9: now of marriage?

603
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:21,440
Speaker 1: Is that twenty years?

604
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 6: Yeah?

605
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:26,560
Speaker 9: You know, amen, and yeah, I'm sure that shaped a

606
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:28,000
Speaker 9: lot of people's lives.

607
00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:29,040
Speaker 7: So high five.

608
00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 9: Hi, guys, have a bajillion more lovely years to come.

609
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:35,840
Speaker 1: Thank you. It's crazy.

610
00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:39,200
Speaker 2: I mean, we do still get people who come up

611
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:42,000
Speaker 2: to us and say, you know, I was there at

612
00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:45,160
Speaker 2: your wedding. I was invited, you know, and I love

613
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 2: that we got to be able to share that with people.

614
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 2: You know, it was it was crazy that my ex

615
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:56,320
Speaker 2: boyfriend was in the room with my soon to be

616
00:28:56,480 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 2: husband commentating on my wedding, and that there were helicopters

617
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 2: and you know, the so many crazy things. I don't

618
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:09,720
Speaker 2: know if you've heard stories like this where someone said

619
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 2: that paparazzi got into Rancho before people were there and

620
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:18,720
Speaker 2: they hid those like throwaway cameras and they would walk

621
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 2: up to people and be like, we'll pay you five

622
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 2: thousand dollars if you go to that bush and you

623
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:27,960
Speaker 2: go get a picture during the wedding, and you know,

624
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:29,320
Speaker 2: get Yeah, isn't that crazy?

625
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 7: Uh huh.

626
00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 9: It doesn't surprise me though, because the level of fame

627
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:36,840
Speaker 9: that came with that time period was really unparalleled. You

628
00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 9: were sort of entering into this phase that now, what

629
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:42,240
Speaker 9: are we twenty seven.

630
00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:43,200
Speaker 7: Seasons right now?

631
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:43,720
Speaker 5: Yeah?

632
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:46,480
Speaker 9: Right, you're coming on twenty for the Bachelorette. It's a

633
00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:48,920
Speaker 9: lot of seasons, right, So so much has come from

634
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:49,800
Speaker 9: that time period.

635
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 7: But yeah, you know, someone's got to crack it. You know,

636
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 7: pace in.

637
00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:57,680
Speaker 9: Point not only I guess sack it. You factor and

638
00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:00,440
Speaker 9: you stayed and took the throne. So you know, what

639
00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:02,320
Speaker 9: would you say. I know you've talked about this so

640
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:05,520
Speaker 9: many times, but is there like a takeaway piece of

641
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 9: information just for so many marriages. I'm not even just

642
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 9: talking about on the Bachelor or the Bachelorette.

643
00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:13,800
Speaker 7: You know, it's hard out there.

644
00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:15,760
Speaker 9: It was there a key ingredient that you sort of

645
00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:18,280
Speaker 9: sensed from the jump when it came to run.

646
00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 2: You know, well as you know knowing him, he's just

647
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:24,680
Speaker 2: the most genuine person.

648
00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 1: You know, he's sincere. He he made me.

649
00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 2: Feel so safe and and we were kind of the

650
00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:39,480
Speaker 2: epitome of opposites attract He's the introvert, I'm the extrovert.

651
00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 2: He's I don't know. I just feel like there are

652
00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:48,320
Speaker 2: little things. But I think in reflecting, you know, every

653
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:50,920
Speaker 2: so often because we do get this question a lot,

654
00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 2: and I love that you're asking me a question.

655
00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:57,360
Speaker 1: By the way, always the consummate producer.

656
00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 7: Right, you're in a chair, you're in the interview chair.

657
00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:08,440
Speaker 2: I TM, we're starting our ITM So anyway, I really

658
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:12,840
Speaker 2: truly feel like forgiveness is a big part, like not

659
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 2: just big things, like not big betrayals. I'm not talking

660
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 2: about that. And you know, obviously in relationships that that happens,

661
00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 2: that needs to happen. But I think the little things

662
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:27,120
Speaker 2: like if if he upsets me one day and says

663
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:30,360
Speaker 2: something upsetting, or if I upset him one day, or

664
00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 2: if everything is just going wrong and like I do something.

665
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:37,080
Speaker 2: I don't know, just all the little things that I

666
00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:41,920
Speaker 2: feel like in living together for twenty years, you know,

667
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 2: just little things can get at you. And I think

668
00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:48,640
Speaker 2: that it's a constant state of forgiveness when you are

669
00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 2: in those like you know, not super likable moments.

670
00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:57,200
Speaker 7: Of course you're also roommates, yeah.

671
00:31:56,920 --> 00:32:03,520
Speaker 2: Exactly, and just consideration and and friendship and I don't know,

672
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:06,440
Speaker 2: just enjoying life together. I think that we both have

673
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:11,160
Speaker 2: such a great we have a great value for our family,

674
00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:13,720
Speaker 2: and I think just trying to focus on that as

675
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:17,280
Speaker 2: much as possible, you know, moving to Veil when we again,

676
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 2: when we were you know, in the throes of all

677
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:27,200
Speaker 2: the chaos, I think was one of our best decisions ever.

678
00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:29,240
Speaker 2: You know, I don't know that we wouldn't have survived.

679
00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 2: I don't think if we were in LA because it

680
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:33,760
Speaker 2: was too much for him, Like he just couldn't he

681
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:38,080
Speaker 2: did not want it. And I recognize that we recognize

682
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 2: that that's what we needed as a couple, and we

683
00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 2: made a decision together to really focus on a relationship.

684
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:47,600
Speaker 9: So and I'm sure that decision too was questioned a

685
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:51,320
Speaker 9: thousand times because La is always so alluring in that regard.

686
00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 2: But saying I mean it is still like I feel

687
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:58,600
Speaker 2: like everyone moves there and I'm just like, no, don't

688
00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:01,320
Speaker 2: do it.

689
00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:06,240
Speaker 7: Come to Congrats to Denver. So congratulations. Are such a

690
00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:08,640
Speaker 7: great city, such a great We love it.

691
00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:12,280
Speaker 1: We love it, Okay. I I am so sad.

692
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 2: I don't want to I don't want to not chat

693
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:17,200
Speaker 2: with you for the next three hours, but I am

694
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:19,320
Speaker 2: so excited that we got to have this little bit

695
00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:19,800
Speaker 2: of time.

696
00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 7: I will see you in Colorado.

697
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 9: Please do give my love to your incredible husbands and

698
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 9: those two beautiful babies.

699
00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:27,360
Speaker 1: When are you coming to Colorado?

700
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:29,240
Speaker 7: Are you sooner than later?

701
00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:29,600
Speaker 8: Yeah?

702
00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:32,040
Speaker 9: Actually we are going to be shooting in Colorado shortly,

703
00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 9: so I will you.

704
00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:38,320
Speaker 7: Know whether in Denver or in Veil. Yes? Yeah, congrats

705
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 7: and all the success more to.

706
00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:40,200
Speaker 1: Come you too.

707
00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:42,400
Speaker 2: I'm so sad that we didn't get to chat about

708
00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:47,040
Speaker 2: where you are. I know Kati Studios, but I same

709
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:50,720
Speaker 2: same crime. All your success all crime, all time.

710
00:33:51,120 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 1: I love it. Okay, thanks, so good to chat. Okay.

711
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:11,439
Speaker 2: So next guest is a very special person in my life.

712
00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:13,919
Speaker 2: Her name is Sarah Flood, and she was my maid

713
00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:16,960
Speaker 2: of honor on my big day and we have stayed

714
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 2: in Chuch. She's still one of my besties. And I'm

715
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:26,040
Speaker 2: so excited to just re so excited to get into

716
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:28,360
Speaker 2: the memories of the wedding. She said she was crying

717
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:30,360
Speaker 2: when she was watching it. So I'm so excited to

718
00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:32,120
Speaker 2: chat and just reconnect.

719
00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:33,880
Speaker 4: How are you.

720
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 2: I'm good, Thank you, I'm so excited.

721
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:40,360
Speaker 7: Okay.

722
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:42,520
Speaker 1: So how much fun was that watching that back?

723
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:46,160
Speaker 8: Oh my gosh, I mean really, I was in here

724
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:49,000
Speaker 8: at the first two minutes. It was awesome and I

725
00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 8: have waited for years to be able to watch it again.

726
00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:53,839
Speaker 1: I know, I know.

727
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:57,560
Speaker 2: So she keeps asking everyone, Sarah's like, when can I

728
00:34:57,600 --> 00:35:00,400
Speaker 2: get a DVD? When can I get a some so

729
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:04,600
Speaker 2: we can watch it because you're okay. So at the wedding,

730
00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 2: if people remember this or they didn't watch, Sarah was

731
00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 2: my maid of honor and her son was what like

732
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:14,440
Speaker 2: sixteen no, nine months at the time, nine months, Yeah,

733
00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:18,800
Speaker 2: he was nine months, and so the little flower girls.

734
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:23,440
Speaker 2: They pulled him down the aisle in a sweet little

735
00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:24,360
Speaker 2: fire engine.

736
00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 1: Did you guys keep that? Did we give that to you?

737
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:30,000
Speaker 3: No, we didn't get it. I would love to have it.

738
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:34,680
Speaker 8: It was the cutest nod to Ryan is a firefighter, totally.

739
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:36,640
Speaker 1: I loved that moment.

740
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:38,840
Speaker 2: That was one of my favorite moments. And of course,

741
00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:42,400
Speaker 2: now he is how tall six something?

742
00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:45,040
Speaker 8: He is six to two, yes, so he's grown from

743
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:48,719
Speaker 8: that little fifteen pounder that your nieces were pulling down

744
00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:49,240
Speaker 8: the aisle.

745
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 1: Hees, yes, amazing.

746
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:53,400
Speaker 3: And I remember my mom standing.

747
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:55,960
Speaker 8: At the end of the aisle just hoping that he

748
00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:58,840
Speaker 8: would stay quiet, right, you never know what to expect

749
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:01,960
Speaker 8: from a bait, and so she was back there keeping

750
00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:05,319
Speaker 8: him happy, feeding him cheerios one by one. And so

751
00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:09,800
Speaker 8: as I rewatched that the other day, you can tell

752
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 8: he's still holding on to something between his thumb and forefingers.

753
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:15,560
Speaker 3: So I think he had an extra little cheerio for

754
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:16,319
Speaker 3: that ride down.

755
00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:18,640
Speaker 1: Yeah he did. That's a smart mama.

756
00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:23,000
Speaker 2: It was a smart grandma. Oh my gosh, So how

757
00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 2: young were we?

758
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:24,040
Speaker 7: Like?

759
00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:27,960
Speaker 2: That was so crazy watching I was like, whoa, we

760
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:31,040
Speaker 2: are so young? And I said that I think I

761
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:33,120
Speaker 2: said that to Ryan he's like, well, it's twenty years ago.

762
00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:36,600
Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, I know, but it's a stagger.

763
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:39,359
Speaker 8: And you know what made me crack up is rewatching

764
00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:43,319
Speaker 8: the Bachelor bachelorette party. And so we were all at

765
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:45,920
Speaker 8: Satan Martin and the girls were on one half of

766
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:48,719
Speaker 8: the resort and the guys were at the other. And

767
00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:51,200
Speaker 8: I remember at one point in the day a message

768
00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:54,080
Speaker 8: came through from Ryan and then you can see on

769
00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:55,880
Speaker 8: your screen that it's a flip phone.

770
00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:56,959
Speaker 3: He was looked up.

771
00:36:56,920 --> 00:36:57,800
Speaker 7: The clip phone.

772
00:36:57,880 --> 00:36:59,800
Speaker 8: You're like, oh my gosh, Ryan just sent me a

773
00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:02,160
Speaker 8: bit make sure what the guys are doing this afternoon.

774
00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:04,320
Speaker 3: And that blew my mind.

775
00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:08,799
Speaker 8: Right, that's just indicative of how long ago the wedding was.

776
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 2: And then the part where we invited you guys to

777
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:17,800
Speaker 2: go to New York and you know, like get fitted

778
00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:20,439
Speaker 2: for the dresses and everything, and we're like, why don't

779
00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:21,920
Speaker 2: we send them a message and we pick up the

780
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:24,440
Speaker 2: flip phone and we did like a little selfie.

781
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:26,239
Speaker 1: Before selfies were selfies, you know.

782
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 8: Yes, yes, And the image quality is just nothing like

783
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:31,680
Speaker 8: it is today.

784
00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:35,800
Speaker 2: I mean, thank goodness, I will I will say thank goodness.

785
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:39,279
Speaker 2: It wasn't high definition because I just make up is

786
00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:42,840
Speaker 2: not what it is today, and even though I was

787
00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 2: twenty years younger. But yeah, I mean it was crazy

788
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:51,440
Speaker 2: kind of reliving that because I really haven't thought about it.

789
00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:54,759
Speaker 2: You know, who thinks about their wedding, you know, in

790
00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:58,160
Speaker 2: the on the daily. I definitely don't, so getting to

791
00:37:58,200 --> 00:38:02,920
Speaker 2: relive it and I just one thing is I just

792
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:08,160
Speaker 2: remember how happy I was because everyone was there, Like,

793
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:12,440
Speaker 2: you know, the people that we that we love most

794
00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:16,520
Speaker 2: in the world were there just celebrating, and that's what

795
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:18,479
Speaker 2: made it the.

796
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:20,400
Speaker 1: Best weekend ever, you know for me.

797
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was remarkable. And yeah, watching that back, I mean.

798
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:27,480
Speaker 8: You're being me ear to ear and every shot you're

799
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:30,880
Speaker 8: on cloud nine. Here you are this girl who is

800
00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:35,480
Speaker 8: getting her princess dream wedding with an abundance of flowers,

801
00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:39,239
Speaker 8: pink flowers everywhere. But yeah, to be surrounded by all

802
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:41,400
Speaker 8: those people that love and support you all, it just

803
00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:42,600
Speaker 8: it means everything.

804
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:44,960
Speaker 3: And it showed on both of your faces.

805
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, obviously it was. It was the best

806
00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 2: day of my life because I was marrying my best friend,

807
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:54,120
Speaker 2: But it was just just to be able to celebrate

808
00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 2: it with everyone there and like take over the whole

809
00:38:57,640 --> 00:38:59,840
Speaker 2: I mean, I never thought I would take over a

810
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:02,920
Speaker 2: do you know what I mean? Like, well, okay, here

811
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:04,799
Speaker 2: are the resorts, here are the hotels that you can

812
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:08,400
Speaker 2: stay at, you know when you're when you're telling people

813
00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:11,320
Speaker 2: to come to the wedding, and instead we were like, okay,

814
00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:14,359
Speaker 2: just come here, it's all for us, and we just

815
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:17,120
Speaker 2: it was like everywhere you turn, if you walk out

816
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:18,920
Speaker 2: the door, you're like, oh, I know you, I know you.

817
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:25,879
Speaker 2: I Oh yeah, that's because it's everyone that we invited, right, yes.

818
00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:29,000
Speaker 8: Nor did you think you would have four helicopters flying

819
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:32,360
Speaker 8: overhead trying to get images of the wedding as it

820
00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:33,000
Speaker 8: went down?

821
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:35,920
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. Yeah no.

822
00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:41,040
Speaker 2: Okay, So is there anything that wasn't on the episode

823
00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:43,640
Speaker 2: that is like a standout memory for you?

824
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:44,919
Speaker 3: Oh?

825
00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:47,680
Speaker 8: I think my standout memory was when Nick was coming

826
00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:50,759
Speaker 8: down the aisle, just yeah, you're so sweet. They all

827
00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:55,279
Speaker 8: honored him in that way and included him in your ceremony, so.

828
00:39:55,719 --> 00:39:58,239
Speaker 2: Well, it was about you guys, and he was just

829
00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:01,000
Speaker 2: so cute, like how could we but we had to

830
00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 2: have a ring bearer and he was like the perfect.

831
00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:06,000
Speaker 1: Age even though he couldn't walk it.

832
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 2: So that's why we did the fire engine because he

833
00:40:09,120 --> 00:40:11,480
Speaker 2: can't walk so oh.

834
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 3: My gosh, yeah, he was barely crawling. Then he enjoyed

835
00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:16,000
Speaker 3: that ride.

836
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:18,160
Speaker 8: And I was watching him check out those little girls

837
00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:19,080
Speaker 8: that were pulling him.

838
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:24,480
Speaker 2: They loved the girls loved him, and he loved those girls.

839
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:28,080
Speaker 2: And have you I actually should show you a picture

840
00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:31,040
Speaker 2: of these girls. They are stunners.

841
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:32,840
Speaker 3: Oh that's awesome.

842
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:38,839
Speaker 2: Yeahs yes, I mean it's crazy to think about these

843
00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:42,360
Speaker 2: teeny little you know. I feel like when my parents

844
00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:45,400
Speaker 2: when I was young, and I would see somebody that

845
00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:48,840
Speaker 2: was friends with my parents and they would be like, oh,

846
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:51,760
Speaker 2: I knew you when you know you were so tiny,

847
00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:56,319
Speaker 2: And I say the exact same things to these you know,

848
00:40:56,440 --> 00:41:00,759
Speaker 2: little little ones who I you know, knew way back when,

849
00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:04,800
Speaker 2: and now they're you know, adults, like actual adults.

850
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:09,480
Speaker 3: Yes you remember them vividly. They may or may not remember.

851
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:12,440
Speaker 8: Us as well, but yes, right, you remember them so

852
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:13,080
Speaker 8: well from when.

853
00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:16,640
Speaker 2: They were I know so as as my maid of

854
00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:21,839
Speaker 2: honor and as this was you know, a production, if

855
00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:25,760
Speaker 2: you will. Were you nervous at all, like on top

856
00:41:25,880 --> 00:41:30,400
Speaker 2: of just being you know, the consummate made of honor?

857
00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:31,840
Speaker 1: Did that make you nervous?

858
00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:32,000
Speaker 7: Like?

859
00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:33,160
Speaker 1: Did I? I?

860
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:37,799
Speaker 2: I still I've wondered to this day if you know

861
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:40,240
Speaker 2: you all kind of held it against me that here.

862
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:46,160
Speaker 3: I loved it. Yeah, terarified.

863
00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:48,960
Speaker 8: Though it was so nerve wracking to get up at

864
00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:52,880
Speaker 8: your reception and offer a toast that would be honoring

865
00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:55,560
Speaker 8: to you and Ryan and just know that the audience

866
00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:56,320
Speaker 8: was so big.

867
00:41:57,280 --> 00:41:58,799
Speaker 3: But no, it was so much fun.

868
00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 8: It was so much fun, and looking back, it's just

869
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:03,759
Speaker 8: filled with tons of memories, as you say, being surrounded

870
00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:06,879
Speaker 8: by the people that you love and watching the two

871
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:08,239
Speaker 8: of you be so in love.

872
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:09,520
Speaker 3: So it was good fun.

873
00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:12,120
Speaker 8: And I just remember going through that process, and you

874
00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:14,840
Speaker 8: would lavish gifts on us every time we met you,

875
00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 8: whether it be in New York City when we were

876
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:21,879
Speaker 8: invited to be your bridal party, or meeting at the wedding.

877
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:24,240
Speaker 3: Or the bachelor or bachelor att party in Saint Martin.

878
00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:29,319
Speaker 8: You just showered us with personalized pajamas and tops and

879
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 8: cosmetic bags and robes and.

880
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:34,920
Speaker 3: All this fun stuff. So you spoiled us and we

881
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:35,520
Speaker 3: were grateful.

882
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:38,200
Speaker 1: Well, of course that wasn't me. That was production.

883
00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:41,400
Speaker 2: I had a say and like, you know, oh we

884
00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:43,879
Speaker 2: should do this or we should do that, But that

885
00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:45,920
Speaker 2: definitely wasn't me, So I can't take all the credit,

886
00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:49,920
Speaker 2: but that was one of my most fun Like my

887
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:51,799
Speaker 2: I love doing.

888
00:42:51,520 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 1: That kind of stuff.

889
00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 2: And like if I had all the money in the world,

890
00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:57,239
Speaker 2: what would make me happiest is to be able to

891
00:42:57,520 --> 00:43:00,680
Speaker 2: share it with people. And so I love of being

892
00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:05,160
Speaker 2: able to have that opportunity to to know, to lavish,

893
00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:06,400
Speaker 2: you know, gifts.

894
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:09,120
Speaker 1: Spoil you guys, Rutten, you did it.

895
00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:09,919
Speaker 4: You did it?

896
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:14,000
Speaker 2: Do you still have because as I was watching the

897
00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:18,520
Speaker 2: like SPA day before the wedding, we gave.

898
00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:22,279
Speaker 1: You, guys those little jelly purses. Do you still have that?

899
00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:28,760
Speaker 3: Or jelly my cosmetic bag? You have? The jeans?

900
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:31,840
Speaker 2: Yes, love, you got jeans. I don't even remember this.

901
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:34,319
Speaker 2: Do you tell me all the things? Like what did

902
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:36,280
Speaker 2: we give you it? Each of the things? Do you remember?

903
00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:40,760
Speaker 8: I remember a SPA day you gave us pink of course,

904
00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:45,759
Speaker 8: wrap around howl to wear, the vulcro top, and we

905
00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:48,120
Speaker 8: had a glorious pink fuzzy slippers.

906
00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:50,960
Speaker 3: You just slid your foot and them. It was like

907
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:54,320
Speaker 3: walking on a cloud. It was so dreamy. We had those.

908
00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:58,960
Speaker 8: You gave us the cosmetic bags that had pictures of

909
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 8: you with each a girl that you were given the

910
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:03,560
Speaker 8: gift too.

911
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:05,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, gosh, we had jeans.

912
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:10,160
Speaker 8: We had pink monogram tank tops with our initials that

913
00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:11,560
Speaker 8: we wore at the rehearsal.

914
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:16,520
Speaker 1: Yeah. I love that.

915
00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:20,560
Speaker 2: I was actually just going through. So I have like

916
00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:23,200
Speaker 2: a closet, and in Blakesley's closet, I have kind of

917
00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:26,160
Speaker 2: like a gift section where I keep gifts. And I

918
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:30,880
Speaker 2: still have like two or three of those cosmetic bags.

919
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:33,319
Speaker 1: That have Me and Ryan on them that they gave

920
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:34,560
Speaker 1: like extra to me.

921
00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:37,000
Speaker 2: Not that I will ever give them to somebody, because

922
00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:39,600
Speaker 2: who's going to be like, Okay, I get a gift

923
00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:40,919
Speaker 2: bag or a cosmetic bag.

924
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:46,000
Speaker 8: What about your anniversary? So it is twenty years this December.

925
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:48,280
Speaker 8: What are you all doing to celebrate?

926
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:51,640
Speaker 2: We haven't planned anything yet. I was literally just thinking

927
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:52,440
Speaker 2: about this morning.

928
00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:54,160
Speaker 4: You know.

929
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:57,799
Speaker 2: We talked about how we did avournewl that you were

930
00:44:57,840 --> 00:45:02,040
Speaker 2: at ten years ago in Beaver Creek, and I was

931
00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:06,960
Speaker 2: thinking about possibly doing another vow renewal, but maybe this

932
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:08,799
Speaker 2: time at the beach somewhere, because you know.

933
00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:09,799
Speaker 1: How much I love a beach.

934
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:14,040
Speaker 2: Yeah. So, I don't know, we have not planned anything.

935
00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:17,120
Speaker 2: We're in the midst of this crazy move. So I

936
00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:21,799
Speaker 2: am like kind of all systems dedicated to that right

937
00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:24,560
Speaker 2: now and just getting through the end of the school year.

938
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:27,920
Speaker 2: But it's in the back of my mind if I

939
00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:30,680
Speaker 2: get any extra time, which I don't know when that's gonna.

940
00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:31,040
Speaker 3: Happen, but.

941
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:35,160
Speaker 1: That is one of the plans.

942
00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:36,880
Speaker 2: One of the things I'd like to plan in the

943
00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:40,760
Speaker 2: next year is something for our anniversary, because it's twenty years.

944
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:44,279
Speaker 3: It's crazy and your anniversary. Do I'll go back and

945
00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:45,160
Speaker 3: watch the video.

946
00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:48,040
Speaker 4: No, you have no way.

947
00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:49,799
Speaker 1: Can you imagine Ryan watching it?

948
00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 2: I mean, I've been walking around with my phone like

949
00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:58,240
Speaker 2: watching episodes and I actually did just show high screen

950
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:02,640
Speaker 2: recorded part of it because I was watching this the

951
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:06,319
Speaker 2: part where Bob was giving Ryan like his last little

952
00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:10,720
Speaker 2: piece of advice before they went down to the actual wedding,

953
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:17,160
Speaker 2: and Ryan looks exactly like Max, or Max look looks

954
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:18,520
Speaker 2: exactly like Ryan, and.

955
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:21,000
Speaker 1: I was like, you have to see this. This is

956
00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:22,759
Speaker 1: your son, Like this is you and.

957
00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:25,640
Speaker 2: But it's your son. It's so weird. It's so weird

958
00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:29,280
Speaker 2: because I don't always see it. I always see Blakesley,

959
00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:33,480
Speaker 2: like Blakesley and Ryan to me are twins, and so

960
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:36,040
Speaker 2: many people are always like, oh my gosh, Max is

961
00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:38,759
Speaker 2: so much like his dad. I don't really see it

962
00:46:38,800 --> 00:46:42,040
Speaker 2: that much. I see more of me growing up than Ryan.

963
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:46,200
Speaker 2: But oh my gosh, in this little clip, it is

964
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:47,160
Speaker 2: Max that amazing.

965
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:49,960
Speaker 8: Yeah, it's giving you anse into what Max is going

966
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:51,799
Speaker 8: to look like when he's twenty five.

967
00:46:52,239 --> 00:46:55,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so exciting and so fun. I love that.

968
00:46:56,760 --> 00:47:03,800
Speaker 1: I love it. Okay, any more fun memories. Let's see.

969
00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:08,320
Speaker 2: Oh, one thing you brought up. I am so bummed.

970
00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:12,279
Speaker 2: The one thing that I regret about this wedding is

971
00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:16,560
Speaker 2: not having my own videographer because in the like agreement

972
00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:19,600
Speaker 2: that we wrote with them, they said that I could

973
00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:23,640
Speaker 2: bring my own videographer, but I thought, oh uh, why

974
00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:26,880
Speaker 2: would I need a videographer? You were recording this for

975
00:47:27,120 --> 00:47:32,720
Speaker 2: a television network and I didn't. And so I don't

976
00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:39,319
Speaker 2: have the like your speech recorded. I don't have the

977
00:47:40,480 --> 00:47:43,440
Speaker 2: any of the speeches from the rehearsal dinner. I don't

978
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:45,040
Speaker 2: have like any of that.

979
00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:46,440
Speaker 3: And like, if we were.

980
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:50,080
Speaker 2: Married today, everyone would have their phones out, someone would

981
00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 2: have recorded it.

982
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:54,480
Speaker 1: But now, but then it was like you just didn't do.

983
00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:56,600
Speaker 2: That, and I don't even think it was allowed, Like

984
00:47:56,640 --> 00:47:58,640
Speaker 2: even if you had a camera, they didn't let you

985
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:00,640
Speaker 2: record anything or take a back.

986
00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:04,160
Speaker 8: We had to turn all that in so we wouldn't

987
00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:06,760
Speaker 8: be taking pictures and recording anything.

988
00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:15,279
Speaker 2: Your flip phone, my clip phone got confiscated because we

989
00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:19,080
Speaker 2: always used to have those little tiny automatic cameras, right,

990
00:48:19,360 --> 00:48:20,879
Speaker 2: that's what everyone carried back then.

991
00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:25,000
Speaker 1: You carried your whatever, your BlackBerry, and.

992
00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:33,440
Speaker 2: Your so funny to me, Oh my goodness, I just

993
00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:37,160
Speaker 2: I just wish. Do you know anyone that like, I

994
00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:42,319
Speaker 2: never gave you a recording of that? Did I the

995
00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:44,040
Speaker 2: rehearsal dinner, like your speech?

996
00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:47,799
Speaker 3: No, I would love to have it too. Yeah, so yeah,

997
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:49,239
Speaker 3: like you we just saw it was.

998
00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:51,640
Speaker 1: Do you have it written down somewhere that you saved?

999
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:55,759
Speaker 3: I would love to ye. I'll rewrite it.

1000
00:48:55,840 --> 00:48:59,200
Speaker 2: I'll rerite, rewrite it, and then we'll record you and

1001
00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:02,040
Speaker 2: we'll have you the same outfit. Actually, I'm sure you could.

1002
00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:04,600
Speaker 2: You could fit into your same outfit that you were.

1003
00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:08,040
Speaker 3: I don't know about me. Oh my gosh, yes you could.

1004
00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:10,560
Speaker 8: And that's so funny you say that because literally two

1005
00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:13,200
Speaker 8: of the dresses that I had at your bachelorette party,

1006
00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:14,040
Speaker 8: I thought, oh my.

1007
00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:18,200
Speaker 3: Gosh, those are still in my closet. So yes, twenty

1008
00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:19,840
Speaker 3: years later, same stuff.

1009
00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:21,680
Speaker 4: I mean, I love.

1010
00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:24,160
Speaker 3: Time to go shopping. I think that's what that means.

1011
00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:26,560
Speaker 1: Hey, Michael, time to go shopping.

1012
00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:28,880
Speaker 2: Sorry, she's going shopping and we just gave her the

1013
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:30,920
Speaker 2: go ahead to do so, So there you go.

1014
00:49:31,680 --> 00:49:34,080
Speaker 3: The whole thing was so cool. And you know, when

1015
00:49:34,120 --> 00:49:35,200
Speaker 3: people ask.

1016
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:38,600
Speaker 8: Now, how are you all or they learned that I

1017
00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:41,040
Speaker 8: was involved in some way in your wedding, they always

1018
00:49:41,040 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 8: want to know are they happy? Are they still together?

1019
00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:47,720
Speaker 8: And it's so easy to say yes. And I enjoyed

1020
00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:51,280
Speaker 8: looking at your vows again and watching you all pledge

1021
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:55,760
Speaker 8: your love to each other and make those commitments. Because

1022
00:49:55,920 --> 00:50:00,399
Speaker 8: here you are twenty years later, with life having happened right,

1023
00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:05,200
Speaker 8: career changes and the addition of kids and the loss

1024
00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:09,160
Speaker 8: of pets and health issues and life. And to see

1025
00:50:09,200 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 8: you all still as strong today or stronger by what

1026
00:50:13,160 --> 00:50:16,480
Speaker 8: you have gone through, it's so great a testament to

1027
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:17,479
Speaker 8: the depth of your love.

1028
00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:20,279
Speaker 3: So you picked the right one.

1029
00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:21,080
Speaker 6: I love you.

1030
00:50:22,080 --> 00:50:26,200
Speaker 1: Thanks, I love you. That's so sweet. I did.

1031
00:50:26,360 --> 00:50:30,279
Speaker 2: I did pick the right one, and it is confirmed

1032
00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:33,120
Speaker 2: all the time, even twenty years later.

1033
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:36,919
Speaker 1: So thank you for coming. I'm so glad that.

1034
00:50:36,840 --> 00:50:40,640
Speaker 2: We got to chat, and I'm so glad to so

1035
00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:42,960
Speaker 2: I don't know if you can like screen record it,

1036
00:50:43,000 --> 00:50:45,520
Speaker 2: but now you have it to watch but just don't

1037
00:50:45,600 --> 00:50:46,680
Speaker 2: like it might expire.

1038
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:49,439
Speaker 1: So the link that you got to watch the episode, so.

1039
00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:52,640
Speaker 8: Make sure already downloaded.

1040
00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:54,120
Speaker 3: I've got it forever now.

1041
00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:59,759
Speaker 2: Okay, good yay, awesome, Okay, love you, Sarah, Thank you

1042
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:03,520
Speaker 2: on the podcast, and give a hug to Michael and

1043
00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:04,400
Speaker 2: the boys.

1044
00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:07,040
Speaker 3: I will do it. Hello to write and kids.

1045
00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:11,680
Speaker 2: Okay, buddy, all right, that is it for part one

1046
00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:15,400
Speaker 2: of this super fun podcast I have loved doing.

1047
00:51:15,520 --> 00:51:16,640
Speaker 1: Of course, you know.

1048
00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:20,080
Speaker 2: It's one of the best days of my life, so

1049
00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:22,680
Speaker 2: why wouldn't I want to talk about it? Anyway, Stay

1050
00:51:22,680 --> 00:51:25,160
Speaker 2: tuned for part two, where I get to talk to

1051
00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:27,360
Speaker 2: even more people, so exciting.

1052
00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:29,239
Speaker 6: I hope you've loved it as much as I have.