1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,320 Speaker 1: I just told my sister that she deserved to be 2 00:00:02,400 --> 00:00:04,920 Speaker 1: divorced because she did. Am I the a hole? 3 00:00:05,320 --> 00:00:08,600 Speaker 2: You know, I'm not gonna LIEU. Sounds like you're coming 4 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:11,560 Speaker 2: in pretty hot, Opie, not hot enough? 5 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:14,800 Speaker 1: Sure? Oh yeah, let's let's double down you. Every person 6 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: who got divorced deserves it. There we go. That's that's 7 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:22,000 Speaker 1: it is the universe saying you deserve this. Forget a 8 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 1: two x down. 9 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 2: We're gonna like seven billion x down like all all 10 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:27,120 Speaker 2: people on planet Earth. 11 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 1: Huge, huge, All right, I fifteen male, live with my 12 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 1: parents in a cramped apartment. They try their best to 13 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 1: keep us afloat, and it's not a bad apartment, so 14 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:39,440 Speaker 1: I can't be mad about it. However, things got pretty 15 00:00:39,479 --> 00:00:43,200 Speaker 1: bad when my thirty one female sister moved in after 16 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:46,120 Speaker 1: her divorce. We've never gotten along well because of the 17 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:50,080 Speaker 1: age gap, but ever since the divorce things are even worse. 18 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:52,800 Speaker 1: Oh boy, that's a big age gap. That is the 19 00:00:52,840 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 1: sixteen year age gap. Big. She goes out to parties 20 00:00:56,480 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 1: all night and then comes back home and sleeps all day. 21 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:04,120 Speaker 1: She prac makes our mother do everything, including caring for her. 22 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:06,399 Speaker 1: My mom has to do all of my sister's laundry 23 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:10,120 Speaker 1: all of her dishes, and drive her to and fro places. 24 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:13,880 Speaker 1: My mom is a very sweet, quiet, soft spoken person 25 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:16,959 Speaker 1: who gets frazzled very easily, and if she does something wrong, 26 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:20,760 Speaker 1: my sister will go off on her and make her cry. Oh, 27 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 1: come on, sister, sounds like an asshole for real. When 28 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:26,520 Speaker 1: my dad comes home from work, my sister will come 29 00:01:26,560 --> 00:01:28,880 Speaker 1: out of her hiding hole and demand that he do 30 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 1: stuff like get her Starbucks or some new clothing accessory 31 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 1: at the mall. She sounds like she's like thirteen, What 32 00:01:35,440 --> 00:01:37,039 Speaker 1: is this actually? 33 00:01:37,600 --> 00:01:38,319 Speaker 2: Oh? 34 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 1: My god? Yeah, dumb shit like that always gets done 35 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 1: because my parents will do anything for us, which is 36 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 1: fine up until it reaches that limit. Yeah, seems like 37 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:54,640 Speaker 1: the limit has been reached. The limit does exist for 38 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 1: anyone who watches mean Girls out there. That's right, you 39 00:01:57,400 --> 00:01:58,120 Speaker 1: watch Mean Girls. 40 00:01:58,200 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 2: I've just rewatched it the other day. 41 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 1: Say, actually, surprise held up so good? Yeah? Yeah, my 42 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:08,960 Speaker 1: sister doesn't work, so she mooches money off everybody, including me. 43 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 1: My god. I have tried to get my parents to 44 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 1: stop it, but they say that there's little that they 45 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:18,920 Speaker 1: can do because she's an adult and they want her 46 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 1: to be happy. What do you mean there's little they 47 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 1: can do. She's an adult, she can do it all herself. 48 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 1: What are we doing over here? My god, they do 49 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 1: give me money in return, but that's not the point 50 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:34,240 Speaker 1: I'm trying to make. Wait, so they get so op 51 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:38,520 Speaker 1: gets money for complaining? Bro What what kind of backwards 52 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 1: asked parenting style is this? What is this? 53 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 2: He's literally like, hey, you shouldn't just like give her 54 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 2: whatever she wants. They're like, you're right, here's whatever you want. 55 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 1: You go here, just shut up, shut up, shut up. 56 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 1: Here's three one thousand dollars money. Fassi fire. I've stopped 57 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:55,239 Speaker 1: bringing up because we're not in a good enough financial 58 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:58,800 Speaker 1: situation for that. Wait, so he's like, Yo, you can 59 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 1: stop giving me money because you're fucking broke, dude. When 60 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:05,280 Speaker 1: my sister moved in, my parents wanted her to have privacy, 61 00:03:05,360 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 1: so they asked me to sleep on the couch. Okay, fine, 62 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 1: I've started sleeping on the couch. But then my sister 63 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:13,839 Speaker 1: started complaining about the freaking decorations that were in there 64 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:17,080 Speaker 1: and made my parents and I move everything so she 65 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 1: could make the room into her own. Okay. I thought 66 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:22,520 Speaker 1: like the parents were rich or something, and that's why 67 00:03:22,560 --> 00:03:24,520 Speaker 1: they're giving all this money. But it doesn't seem like it. 68 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 1: It doesn't seem like that at all. My sisters also 69 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:31,000 Speaker 1: started smoking in the apartment unit, even though that's against 70 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:34,079 Speaker 1: the rules and could get us kicked out, pouring water 71 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 1: on the cat like our freakin' sociopath, and bullying me 72 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 1: about the most innocuous shit. I finally lost it yesterday 73 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 1: night and yelled at my sister that she deserved to 74 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 1: get a divorce and that I don't blame her husband 75 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 1: for treading wood. 76 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:53,680 Speaker 2: I've heard treading water, but yeah, treading I. 77 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 1: Don't treading wood I believe is Yeah. It says it's 78 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 1: slang for having sex. Got it for treading wood age 79 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 1: having sex, although he should have done it long ago 80 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 1: they'd been married for a year. My sister predictably pitched 81 00:04:06,960 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 1: a fit, and my parents blame me, even though she's 82 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:12,280 Speaker 1: been the one terrorizing us for the past month. So 83 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:16,480 Speaker 1: am I d A hole? Because these freaks certainly think 84 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 1: I am? So, John, I want to know what you think, 85 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:24,280 Speaker 1: is opda hole for calling out the sister for being 86 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:28,360 Speaker 1: an absolute buffoon? Tippy top on the keyboards right now 87 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:30,840 Speaker 1: and tell us what you think. But John, do you think, 88 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 1: opga hole. 89 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 2: So I'm trying to weigh it out, so like this 90 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 2: the sister is a monster. It's just like awful human being, Like, 91 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:42,599 Speaker 2: oh my god, I would kick her out so fast? 92 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 2: Were the comments too far? I mean, she definitely needs 93 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:52,479 Speaker 2: to be stopped. She needs to be stop, needs to 94 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:58,680 Speaker 2: be stopped. And maybe Sam, I'm wondering if that's like, 95 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:01,400 Speaker 2: when someone's like that much of a monster, do you 96 00:05:01,520 --> 00:05:04,599 Speaker 2: kind of have to fight fire with fire to stop 97 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:05,799 Speaker 2: someone in their tracks? 98 00:05:05,920 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 1: That is what I am debating right now. Yeah, I 99 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:14,159 Speaker 1: just like OPI doesn't have that much power. Yeah he's fifteen, Yeah, yeah, 100 00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 1: Like what is op gonna do? 101 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 2: And like Opie's intentions are good, which is like we 102 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:23,280 Speaker 2: need this person to stop by, Like literally OPI. 103 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:25,360 Speaker 1: Is the most adult person here. 104 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:28,559 Speaker 2: She would mention like, oh, we shouldn't give her whatever 105 00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 2: she wants, and then she would literally get paid like 106 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 2: when she said that and. 107 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 1: She stopped paying. OPI's a man, Oh okaymil fifteen mail. 108 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:41,920 Speaker 2: Yes, So Opie kept bringing up like, oh we shouldn't, 109 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:46,279 Speaker 2: you know, like we shouldn't keep like enabling her or whatever, 110 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 2: and then Opie would get paid for that. What what 111 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:52,600 Speaker 2: teenager it's like, no, don't pay me. I'm just like 112 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:55,720 Speaker 2: what fifteen year old is like down to not take 113 00:05:56,360 --> 00:05:57,920 Speaker 2: money for just something? 114 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:01,279 Speaker 1: So there must be something incredibly here. If that's the case, 115 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 1: I think I think op might not be the a 116 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 1: hole Because you think op needs a fight fire with fire. 117 00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 1: I don't know what other ammunition does Opie have. 118 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:15,559 Speaker 2: You know. What you could say is like OPI didn't 119 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 2: maybe didn't try that many other things other than telling 120 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:23,719 Speaker 2: them like, hey, we shouldn't you know, I don't know. 121 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 1: I mean I think maybe that the the sister just 122 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:32,359 Speaker 1: needs some dose of reality. Yeah, the parents aren't giving 123 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:32,800 Speaker 1: it to her. 124 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 2: It's like sometimes you need to get like if you're 125 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:37,919 Speaker 2: this crazy, yeah, you need to get slacked up. 126 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 1: He's been like kicked out of the out of his room, 127 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 1: you know, like. 128 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 2: All this stuff taken down. She's she could get them 129 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 2: evicted by smoking in the in the end, which is 130 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 2: already like gross. You know what it is. It's Gordon Ramsey. 131 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 2: Gordon Ramsey comes off like a huge a hole all 132 00:06:57,480 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 2: the time because he's trying to help people will understand 133 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 2: that their head is up their ass forcefully, forcefully but 134 00:07:05,680 --> 00:07:07,479 Speaker 2: still but effective but effective. 135 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 1: So yeah, I think I'm going on to a hole. 136 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 1: I'd say not the a hole, just because of how 137 00:07:12,440 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 1: egregious the sisters. The sister is so I mean, I 138 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 1: want to know what you guys think. Please put it 139 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 1: in the comments right now. But we love hearing your comments. 140 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 2: By the way, Oh my god, we love him so 141 00:07:25,960 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 2: much that I might just read one right now. This 142 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 2: one comes to the video hubby wants a plus one 143 00:07:31,960 --> 00:07:34,720 Speaker 2: on our wedding night. This is where the husband invites 144 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:37,280 Speaker 2: a stripper to the wedding to hopefully have the stripper 145 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:40,960 Speaker 2: be the third Not a great play on a good setup. 146 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:44,680 Speaker 2: This comes from public subscriber Women of Mayhem. Opie's husband 147 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:47,640 Speaker 2: is trash, looking for a threesome with someone the day 148 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 2: before the wedding to do the night of the wedding. 149 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 2: The whole stripper thing just consumed him. He's high on 150 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 2: what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas. 151 00:07:56,600 --> 00:07:57,120 Speaker 1: Haha. 152 00:07:57,160 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 2: I'm thinking I've seen her update. I'm glad she divorces him. 153 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 2: They do go to counseling and her husband sucked through 154 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 2: that too. 155 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 1: Oh wow, I like the update. 156 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:11,119 Speaker 2: And finally, from Ashley Martinez five seven eight seven strip 157 00:08:11,200 --> 00:08:14,320 Speaker 2: clubs do have a kitchen and I worked in one. 158 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 1: Really well, there we go. Bet you their stories from 159 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:18,480 Speaker 1: that kitchen. 160 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:22,800 Speaker 2: Ashley Martinez, please please tell us. 161 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 1: Tell us your stories. We love your stories, We love 162 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:30,760 Speaker 1: hearing from you. So put your your opinions in the 163 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 1: comments below and we'll talk to you soon. See y'all. 164 00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 1: I inherited millions from my mom, but I refuse to 165 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:42,040 Speaker 1: share it with my dad. Am I the a hole? 166 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:44,920 Speaker 2: All he did was raise me? I mean, come, all 167 00:08:44,960 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 2: he did was care for me and and love me 168 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 2: and give me a chance and sure. 169 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:51,840 Speaker 1: That I survive, ensured that I survived. 170 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:52,440 Speaker 2: I mean, that's it. 171 00:08:52,559 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 1: That's all he did. Why why should I I have millions? 172 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 1: Why should I have to give him one dollar? No 173 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:01,840 Speaker 1: ice cream? Exactly? Even give him a ticket to the Minions? Yes, 174 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 1: there we go. Yeah, No, no tickets, no sooth tickets, 175 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 1: no nothings, no zoot suits. So a bit of background, 176 00:09:09,440 --> 00:09:13,200 Speaker 1: I was a big oops. My biological mom was a 177 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:16,720 Speaker 1: wealthy woman who apparently never wanted marriage or kids. She 178 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:19,400 Speaker 1: met my dad at a work event, same job type, 179 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 1: different locations, not sharing specifics for anonymity, you know, OPI 180 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:27,600 Speaker 1: wants the remaining anonymous. And then they started seeing each 181 00:09:27,640 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 1: other casually for a few months, and then boom, her pill, 182 00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 1: the condom and the plan be all failed to stop 183 00:09:35,160 --> 00:09:38,960 Speaker 1: me from existing. Dude, Honestly, this man's. 184 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:42,559 Speaker 2: Spermacle he is Michael Swimmers. 185 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, Jesus. My mother was going to abort me, but 186 00:09:46,840 --> 00:09:50,280 Speaker 1: my father begged her not to because he was actually 187 00:09:50,520 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 1: married and was told by his wife they only had 188 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:55,960 Speaker 1: a one percent chance of ever carrying a baby to term. 189 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:58,520 Speaker 1: She agreed only on the stipulation that she can give 190 00:09:58,520 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 1: me up and she had no visit, no parenting, nothing 191 00:10:01,840 --> 00:10:04,280 Speaker 1: but child support, and he and his wife could reach 192 00:10:04,320 --> 00:10:06,839 Speaker 1: an agreement. And then my mom took me under the 193 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:10,559 Speaker 1: ruse that she'd raised me as her biological daughter. 194 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:14,320 Speaker 2: This is just the most insane thing ever. It's like, wait, 195 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 2: we had an affair and now you're pregnant, but I 196 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:18,120 Speaker 2: need that baby because. 197 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:19,440 Speaker 1: We can't have a baby. 198 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:21,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, And the wife is just like, the wife is 199 00:10:21,800 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 2: just like please just hear they please. 200 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 1: I'm wondering if the wife was like, hey, hubby, hook 201 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:30,079 Speaker 1: you up with anyone you want and everyone you want, 202 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:32,480 Speaker 1: because we're trying to get as many women pregnant so 203 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 1: we could take their babies. 204 00:10:33,679 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 2: That would be the most insane plot twist of any 205 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:37,600 Speaker 2: redis story of all time. 206 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:42,840 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Also like the the bio mom like 207 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:45,079 Speaker 1: for saying, oh, I will also pay child. 208 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:47,679 Speaker 2: Support solut Like you know you didn't have to do that? 209 00:10:48,040 --> 00:10:49,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I feel like they could. They probably 210 00:10:49,679 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 1: could have reached an agreement where she didn't have to 211 00:10:51,520 --> 00:10:56,960 Speaker 1: just exactly. Needless to say, I never met my biological mom. 212 00:10:57,320 --> 00:11:00,679 Speaker 1: But it doesn't get any better for me from here. Uh. 213 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:01,239 Speaker 2: Oh. 214 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:03,719 Speaker 1: My stepmom actually ended up having a miracle about a 215 00:11:03,800 --> 00:11:07,320 Speaker 1: year after I was born a son. My brother has 216 00:11:07,520 --> 00:11:09,960 Speaker 1: never treated me any different, and I love him dearly. 217 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:12,959 Speaker 1: But I can always tell I was never my parents' priority. 218 00:11:13,559 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 1: I more or less just kind of existed to be seen, 219 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:18,760 Speaker 1: never heard of, or really acknowledged unless it was something 220 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:21,920 Speaker 1: for the family. When I turned thirteen, I got the 221 00:11:21,960 --> 00:11:26,000 Speaker 1: opportunity to meet my biological grandma, my mom's mom. She 222 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 1: had no idea existed, and I petitioned for visitation. I 223 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:31,600 Speaker 1: love spending time with her so much that I asked 224 00:11:31,600 --> 00:11:34,280 Speaker 1: if I could live with her. Wow. My dad and 225 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:37,839 Speaker 1: stepmom seemed happy to get rid of me and accepted. 226 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 1: That's so sad. 227 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:39,720 Speaker 2: This is insane. 228 00:11:39,760 --> 00:11:42,880 Speaker 1: It is so sad. My biological mom never visited her 229 00:11:42,880 --> 00:11:45,320 Speaker 1: mom anyway, a rift over her not settling down and 230 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:49,439 Speaker 1: having kids. Well that was six years ago. My biological 231 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 1: mother just died a month ago and surprisingly left everything 232 00:11:54,840 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 1: she owned to me with the stipulation that I go 233 00:11:57,600 --> 00:12:00,720 Speaker 1: to school for business and better myself. According to her 234 00:12:00,840 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 1: letter that the lawyer and trustee told me about, this 235 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:07,280 Speaker 1: is life changing money. I'm talking. I went from lower 236 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 1: middle class grandma left everything to me, but wasn't a 237 00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:12,120 Speaker 1: lot just a house in a couple thousand to a 238 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 1: multime millionaire. Uh hit the money to a multi millionaire. 239 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:21,400 Speaker 2: Could you imagine you never even talked to this woman 240 00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:24,719 Speaker 2: and she's like, hey, hey, take take the money. 241 00:12:24,440 --> 00:12:27,880 Speaker 1: Take this money, take that money, take on this money. 242 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 1: It's also crazy that like she also inherited everything from 243 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:36,319 Speaker 1: her grandma and the grand she got a house from 244 00:12:36,320 --> 00:12:38,680 Speaker 1: the grandma too, Like that's a house, that's a lot. 245 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:41,400 Speaker 1: That's a lot. Now my dad and stepmom are on 246 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 1: my case to share the money. I have no idea 247 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:46,360 Speaker 1: how they found out. As my grandma passed last year 248 00:12:46,640 --> 00:12:48,840 Speaker 1: right after I graduated. It was her dream to see 249 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:51,120 Speaker 1: me graduate, and she had been sick for a few years. 250 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:53,640 Speaker 1: The only person I talked to is my brother, but 251 00:12:53,880 --> 00:12:56,520 Speaker 1: I never told him. Apparently they don't have money to 252 00:12:56,520 --> 00:12:58,840 Speaker 1: send him to an Ivy League school like they've always wanted. 253 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:01,960 Speaker 1: But money is no longer an object for me. I 254 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:03,840 Speaker 1: know they raised me for thirteen years, but this money 255 00:13:03,880 --> 00:13:05,959 Speaker 1: could really change my life? Am I the a hole? 256 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:06,720 Speaker 1: If I don't share it? 257 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 2: I think you should uh use your millions of dollars 258 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:13,440 Speaker 2: to rent, like like in squid games you know I had. 259 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:15,560 Speaker 2: They have a giant like piggybank with all the money 260 00:13:15,960 --> 00:13:19,240 Speaker 2: rent that drive it to their house and gloat. 261 00:13:19,640 --> 00:13:21,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, just sit on top of it and say you 262 00:13:21,760 --> 00:13:23,600 Speaker 1: never get this. You'll never get this. 263 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:26,320 Speaker 2: You want it, you want to go to Harvard, you 264 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:27,720 Speaker 2: can't afford it. Oh my gosh. 265 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:28,800 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. 266 00:13:29,400 --> 00:13:31,880 Speaker 2: Maybe if your parents have raised me right, But there's 267 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:33,839 Speaker 2: an updated. 268 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:36,240 Speaker 1: I'm not sure about the protocol of an update, but 269 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 1: I have one. I made an appointment to see the 270 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:42,360 Speaker 1: lawyer and trustee handling my biological mom's estate. So the 271 00:13:42,400 --> 00:13:44,920 Speaker 1: gist of the meeting ended with them telling me that 272 00:13:44,960 --> 00:13:47,240 Speaker 1: how my mother wrote her will, in order for the 273 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:49,960 Speaker 1: inheritance to be truly mine, I have to go to 274 00:13:49,960 --> 00:13:52,440 Speaker 1: business school, so I couldn't even give money to my 275 00:13:52,520 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 1: dad and stepmom even if I wanted to, which thanks 276 00:13:55,160 --> 00:13:57,800 Speaker 1: to all of you I learned, I have no moral 277 00:13:57,880 --> 00:14:01,800 Speaker 1: obligation to do and be doing. I talked to my 278 00:14:01,840 --> 00:14:03,160 Speaker 1: brother and he doesn't even want to go to an 279 00:14:03,200 --> 00:14:05,559 Speaker 1: Ivy League school. He wants to go to art school, 280 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:09,559 Speaker 1: and dad and stepmom refuse to pay for it. Wow, 281 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:11,679 Speaker 1: man wants to be an artist. Classic. I offer to 282 00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:13,719 Speaker 1: him that after I complete my business grade, which I'm 283 00:14:13,720 --> 00:14:15,760 Speaker 1: going to do, I would be more than happy to 284 00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:18,640 Speaker 1: pay for his art school. He graciously accepted and told 285 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:21,200 Speaker 1: our dad, and it did not go well. They have 286 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:23,720 Speaker 1: threatened to disown him. They apparently want him to be 287 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:25,960 Speaker 1: a lawyer or doctor or something with a higher salary 288 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:28,160 Speaker 1: so you can take care of them. I guess they 289 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 1: had a massive blowout fight and he is now moving 290 00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:32,880 Speaker 1: out of the house and into mine while he is 291 00:14:32,920 --> 00:14:35,360 Speaker 1: still in high school. He's technically eighteen, so I'm not 292 00:14:35,360 --> 00:14:37,280 Speaker 1: sure if I'll get into trouble with the police. But 293 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:40,200 Speaker 1: I wasn't about to let my brother live in the streets. Wow. 294 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:42,600 Speaker 1: I've been driving him to and from school while still 295 00:14:42,640 --> 00:14:45,480 Speaker 1: working until I can register for business school. Thank you 296 00:14:45,520 --> 00:14:49,440 Speaker 1: for all who have commented, Wow, what a crazy windfall. 297 00:14:49,640 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 2: That is millions of dollars, millions of dollars a house, 298 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:53,320 Speaker 2: and also. 299 00:14:53,280 --> 00:14:56,440 Speaker 1: Like from the biological mom that you that basically didn't 300 00:14:56,480 --> 00:14:58,800 Speaker 1: want anything to do with you, literally, and now she's 301 00:14:58,840 --> 00:15:01,360 Speaker 1: given you millions of dollars. It's like life changing. That 302 00:15:01,520 --> 00:15:02,200 Speaker 1: is insane. 303 00:15:02,360 --> 00:15:04,000 Speaker 2: The only way it could be crazier is he was 304 00:15:04,080 --> 00:15:06,520 Speaker 2: like he was like worried, Like, oh, I'm like he's 305 00:15:06,600 --> 00:15:08,800 Speaker 2: technically like his guardian, but he's like eighteen. He's like. 306 00:15:08,840 --> 00:15:11,320 Speaker 2: That's the only thing that would make it crazier is 307 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:14,280 Speaker 2: if they called the cops and then bust it and like, freeze, 308 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:17,000 Speaker 2: you're arrested for harboring a minor. 309 00:15:17,520 --> 00:15:21,240 Speaker 1: You're an arrested baby. You're never gonna get out, and 310 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:24,200 Speaker 1: we're season all your cash too. I love the insanity.