WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: The Blame Game

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<v Speaker 3>With dating, people will always like to talk about passion

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<v Speaker 3>and soulmates finding true love. That'd be great, but sometimes

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<v Speaker 3>you don't date for love, that date for food. Oh seriously,

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<v Speaker 3>is there anything more romantic in this world that can

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<v Speaker 3>bond two people together than a good burrito bowl with

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<v Speaker 3>a Kale.

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<v Speaker 1>Smoothie, especially when you're not paying You kind of lost

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<v Speaker 1>me at Kale smoothie.

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<v Speaker 3>I dare to come up with something hotter than tale

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<v Speaker 3>smoothie and burrito.

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<v Speaker 2>Bowls, I mean, very fibrous.

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<v Speaker 3>Apparently that's what happened with one of our listeners, Amanda

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<v Speaker 3>the other day. Amanda claims that she bonded with a

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<v Speaker 3>guy over some delivery food. So, Amanda, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>It's actually just a Manda.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh just oh. The first day is silent.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. That must be really annoying your entire life.

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<v Speaker 4>It's okay, it's always like conversation starter.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's good point.

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<v Speaker 3>All right. I apologize Manda for that atrocious butchering of

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<v Speaker 3>your name. But tell us about the guy that she

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<v Speaker 3>went out with. What's his name?

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<v Speaker 2>His name is Richie.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you pronounced that first ar Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, she doesn't find it funny.

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<v Speaker 3>It's okay, that's fine.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure you've heard it your whole life. I get it.

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<v Speaker 4>I doing that's funny, Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we like to have a little bit of fun

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<v Speaker 3>before we get into the details of the date. But

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<v Speaker 3>you met with Richie over delivery food? How did that happen?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? So I live in a really big apartment complex

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<v Speaker 4>and when you order food on one of the food apps,

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<v Speaker 4>you go and pick it up downstairs, and then the

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<v Speaker 4>area usually is like a little bit of a hangout,

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<v Speaker 4>kind of becomes like a social gatherings.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess people are waiting for their food or that's.

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<v Speaker 3>Just how you get into the building. A lot of

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<v Speaker 3>times I feel like it'd be a bunch of really

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<v Speaker 3>angry people down there waiting for food, all bitter.

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<v Speaker 2>Delivery, glaring at each other.

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<v Speaker 3>That's okay, you met him there.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, So when I was waiting for my food, he

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<v Speaker 4>was there, and we just kind of started having some

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<v Speaker 4>small talk, and he asked what I ordered, and then

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<v Speaker 4>he was bragging that he got the best tacos and

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<v Speaker 4>then he ended up getting Coco Bell. So I thought

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<v Speaker 4>that was really funny.

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<v Speaker 2>It was Taco Bell. Was it a joke when he

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<v Speaker 2>was saying it or was he being legit?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Good sense of humor. What do you mean Taco Bell

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<v Speaker 3>is delicious? I don't see the joke in.

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<v Speaker 1>It just doesn't never make sense to him people get

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<v Speaker 1>Taco Bell delivery because you were literally paying three times

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<v Speaker 1>what it would cost in the restaurant. That is like

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<v Speaker 1>the whole point of taco bell is also that it's cheap.

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<v Speaker 2>Usually to state I'm in eating it.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't get to taco be Okay, was this guy sober?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, she was sober.

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<v Speaker 3>I think, okay, what happened after that? After you met?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, we ran into each other a couple of other times.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, we know each other a little bit. And

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<v Speaker 4>eventually he was like, I said, of just meeting in

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<v Speaker 4>the lobby, we should go get food.

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<v Speaker 2>That's cute. So he asked you out.

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<v Speaker 4>He did ask me out.

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<v Speaker 2>Did he take you to his favorite taco place? That

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<v Speaker 2>would have been a good move.

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<v Speaker 4>No, we just went to kind of like an American

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<v Speaker 4>cuisine kind of spot that was pretty close.

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<v Speaker 3>And how did that go?

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<v Speaker 4>It was great. We hung out. You know, I really

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<v Speaker 4>liked him. We really got to know each other. It

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<v Speaker 4>was lovely.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought, Okay, what did you guys talk about?

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<v Speaker 4>Like work? Family? He had a cat named Joe.

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<v Speaker 3>And the food was good. It sounds like it all

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<v Speaker 3>sounds normal. Were there any any issues that came up

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<v Speaker 3>during the date.

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<v Speaker 4>No issues that I can really think of. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>we were talking a lot. So at one point the

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<v Speaker 4>waiter came and cleared our table like before, we were done,

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<v Speaker 4>which is a big pet peeve of mine.

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<v Speaker 2>But so you threw a fork at him?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I know.

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<v Speaker 4>I just kind of lightly asked him that he didn't

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<v Speaker 4>need to take our main plates because we're still eating,

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<v Speaker 4>you know.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Okay, how did it end?

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<v Speaker 4>The bill came, he paid I off for devenmo him.

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<v Speaker 4>He turned it down.

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<v Speaker 2>Good offer.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you should always offer, even if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't mean it.

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<v Speaker 2>I do fake offer, but I'm never going to Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>And then the guy say, it's like, oh my's not working.

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<v Speaker 5>For everyone.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so he covered the whole bill.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he covered the whole bill. Okay. I thought things

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<v Speaker 4>were going really well and I thought he was going

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<v Speaker 4>to kiss me, but then he just hugged me.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I mean maybe he got scared.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>It is is so like tough and scary.

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<v Speaker 1>And did you feel like you guys had chemistry?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean I really liked him. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 4>maybe he just didn't like me as much as I

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<v Speaker 4>like him.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, that is a rational thing to say, my friend.

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<v Speaker 3>Kay responsible, and it was.

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<v Speaker 2>It's hard to admit that sometimes.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's kind of weird though, because you live in

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<v Speaker 3>the same building you haven't seen him since that happened,

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<v Speaker 3>Or have you run into him down at the delivery

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<v Speaker 3>food hangout?

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<v Speaker 4>No, I haven't.

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<v Speaker 3>Huh.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a pretty big building, so it's not necessarily going

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<v Speaker 4>to run into someone all the time. But I had

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<v Speaker 4>seen him there pretty frequently before we had hung out,

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<v Speaker 4>and now I haven't seen him at all.

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<v Speaker 2>And he didn't mention like going out of town or anything.

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<v Speaker 3>No, for the day was so bad he moved. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>he's like, you know what, I'm breaking the leaves. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>out of here. We're going to play a song and

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<v Speaker 3>then we're gonna do the very practical thing and ask

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<v Speaker 3>rich for you if there is a legitimate reason why

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<v Speaker 3>he's not calling you back.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, sounds good. But also his name is.

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<v Speaker 3>Richie not rich Oh God, did I releast grew up

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<v Speaker 3>both names in one segment? You're good? Yeah, it's a

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<v Speaker 3>skill par for the course for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Here here we go.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to quote Amanda, not Amanda, but Aanda without

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<v Speaker 3>that first day because she our second day or today

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<v Speaker 3>she said, quote, I really liked him, but like maybe

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<v Speaker 3>he didn't like me as much as I liked him. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>And even though she said, like four times in a

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<v Speaker 3>single sentence. Professor Brooke Fox still gave her a gold

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<v Speaker 3>star for being practical and having a well thought out

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<v Speaker 3>explanation for her ghost.

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<v Speaker 1>There some emotional intelligence right there that she displayed.

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<v Speaker 3>Brook, any other clinical pragmatic commentary you'd like to have

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<v Speaker 3>us document on the podcast for posterity reasons?

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<v Speaker 1>No, but I am taking notes for later, so he

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<v Speaker 1>might put forward next to me and uh, we can

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<v Speaker 1>review it a later time.

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<v Speaker 3>Sounds fun for everybody, all right, yes, why do you

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<v Speaker 3>even give that opportunity? I regret it? So, Uh, Amanda,

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<v Speaker 3>how are you feeling before we call Richie for you?

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<v Speaker 5>Here?

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<v Speaker 3>You're doing okay?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm a little nervous, but I'm interested to hear

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<v Speaker 4>what he has to say.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And have you been like nervous to run into

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<v Speaker 1>him because you know, like when so much time has

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<v Speaker 1>passed and it gets awkward And.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, of course, you know, I've kind of guess been

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<v Speaker 4>rehearsing what to say if I run into him.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, we all do that in our minds, right.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. She totally hasn't been camping out down at the

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<v Speaker 3>bottom of the elevators just like accidentally waiting to put

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<v Speaker 3>like a key into the mailbox hole, just like, oops,

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<v Speaker 3>what are you doing here? That's funny.

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<v Speaker 4>I haven't done anything like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Good, Okay, that's very practical of you. Let's just call

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<v Speaker 3>Richie though and see what he has to say. Here

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<v Speaker 3>we go.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh he got the name.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, Hey, look at you, jeff You remembered something. Oh way,

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<v Speaker 3>you wrote it down? Well, yeah, I practiced it seven

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<v Speaker 3>times before we Here we go. See what Richie has

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<v Speaker 3>to say? Hello, Hello, is this Richie? This is this

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<v Speaker 3>is Jeffrey with a y at the end.

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<v Speaker 2>You would start with a J. I mean you would

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<v Speaker 2>always spell it with his. Some people spell it with

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<v Speaker 2>a G.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. Some people get confused on these things. Words,

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<v Speaker 3>words and names we found are very difficult today. So

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<v Speaker 3>there's also to e's. There's also two f's. Hie, Hello Richie.

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<v Speaker 5>Hi, So you're you're Jeffrey from.

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<v Speaker 3>A morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh so, why are you guys telling me?

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<v Speaker 3>Very astute question there, Richie. We're calling because we're trying

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<v Speaker 3>to dig a little bit into your dating life.

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<v Speaker 5>What what are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's a good thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Intrusively Yeah, yeah, yeah, it was brought to us. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean just that, I mean a little bit intrusively,

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<v Speaker 3>but in a nice way. Because one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 3>named Manda went out with you recently and would like

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<v Speaker 3>to go out with you again.

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<v Speaker 5>She'd like to go out with me again.

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<v Speaker 3>Mm hmm, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I would give you that idea.

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<v Speaker 3>She literally emailed the show saying I would like to

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<v Speaker 3>see Richie again.

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<v Speaker 2>It was very direct.

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<v Speaker 3>We read between the lines on that one a little bit,

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<v Speaker 3>but we figured out she wants another date.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm just like totally confused right now. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 6>thought that we had a really good time, but I

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<v Speaker 6>don't understand, Like I didn't hear anything from her, so

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<v Speaker 6>I just thought she didn't like me, so I kind

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<v Speaker 6>of moved off.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait wait, she said she tried to get hold of you.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought, did she tell us that or did she

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<v Speaker 2>not tell us that?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if I asked that question. That was

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<v Speaker 3>too busy trying to figure out her name.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. No, I don't know how she had to contact me, Like,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know we got a call from her or

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<v Speaker 5>text or anything after the date?

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, did you text or call her though, Richie? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she's one of those girls that was just doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to be too forward.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I mean usually a girl at least, I mean,

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<v Speaker 6>even though we live in the same building, shull at

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<v Speaker 6>least say hey, I got home safe.

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<v Speaker 5>It was nice to night, you know something, just so

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<v Speaker 5>you know she got into it.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, do it nothing or even like a thank

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<v Speaker 3>you for dinner and paying for everything.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe nice and ask if she got home safe? Do

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<v Speaker 2>you guys building, try a little harder.

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<v Speaker 3>I've been stuck in the elevator for a week. It happens,

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<v Speaker 3>so it does not happen.

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<v Speaker 1>So wait, so you liked her, she liked you, and

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<v Speaker 1>neither of you have texted or called each other.

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<v Speaker 6>I guess.

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<v Speaker 5>Weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well that seems that seems easy.

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<v Speaker 3>It does seem easy because you're in luck, Ritchie. Amanda

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<v Speaker 3>is actually on the other line right now, wanting to

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<v Speaker 3>tell you how much she likes you and wants to

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<v Speaker 3>see you again.

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<v Speaker 5>Amanda, Hey, Richie, Hey, oh this is so strange to

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<v Speaker 5>me right now. I'm totally taken away.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it's kind of your your perspective on this, because

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<v Speaker 4>I thought that you didn't like me.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, for her relief and kind of funny, but

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<v Speaker 5>we wasted a lot of time. I guess, yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Mean, I don't know. I guess I was expecting you

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<v Speaker 4>to be a like as good of a communicator as

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<v Speaker 4>you got talked about, like how that was important, and

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<v Speaker 4>then I was kind of confused after.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it's just funny, like you guys seem like

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<v Speaker 3>you're both interested in each other so and you just

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<v Speaker 3>didn't realize that it was going on. You were both

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<v Speaker 3>too shy to say it.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, it was from what she just said that she

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<v Speaker 5>thinks I'm a pretty bad communicator.

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<v Speaker 1>Seems like you both are, like we both liked each other,

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<v Speaker 1>and neither one of you reached out.

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<v Speaker 3>That's not what you're saying, right, Amanda, I mean kind

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<v Speaker 3>of well you didn't you didn't communicate with him?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I mean I did. I was pretty clear that

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<v Speaker 4>I was waiting to hear from him first, that I

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<v Speaker 4>kind of liked the guy taking the initiative first. I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know, I guess I didn't expect so much from Akatharson.

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<v Speaker 2>What what?

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<v Speaker 3>Whoa Where did that come from?

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<v Speaker 5>So now I'm a liar and a bad person because

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<v Speaker 5>they're like cats, right, do not.

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<v Speaker 2>Just in our I don't think you can take that

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<v Speaker 2>one back.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I thought when you were talking to us earlier,

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<v Speaker 3>you said you had he had a cute cat named Joe.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Sure, but I'm just you know, I'm sorry. I didn't

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<v Speaker 4>think that, rittie. I didn't think you're going to be

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<v Speaker 4>so sensitive, So I'm sorry to bring that up.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, he's sensitive.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess being sensitives better than being a total jerk

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<v Speaker 5>to the waiter.

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<v Speaker 2>So what happened with the waiter.

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<v Speaker 5>Out?

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<v Speaker 2>I know, but she said she.

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<v Speaker 4>Asked him, Yeah, what are you trying to say?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, so when he tried to take your plate the

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<v Speaker 5>other night, you said, in like a harsh tone, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not done right, Like that's as anarchy as you

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<v Speaker 5>can get a little backhand.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like I was pretty polite. I wasn't done,

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<v Speaker 4>so I just let the waiter know.

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<v Speaker 3>But it was probably the tone. Yeah are we are

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<v Speaker 3>we forgetting that? You guys both really liked each other

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<v Speaker 3>like two minutes ago.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just big on like manners and just etiquette and

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<v Speaker 5>there's a polite way to do things, and she just

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<v Speaker 5>did not observe that.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you sure you're not just being defensive right now?

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<v Speaker 3>Because she called you a pathetic overly sensitive cat person.

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<v Speaker 2>She didn't say pathetic.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, well I'm just reading between the lines. But

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<v Speaker 3>we all know what she meant. The words were there,

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<v Speaker 3>they were just unspoken.

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<v Speaker 4>So you're saying that I'm not polite because I offered

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<v Speaker 4>to pay for half of the meal.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean masculating. You got to know that, rightaculated. That's emasculating,

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<v Speaker 5>Like I'm a dude on the first date. What kind

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<v Speaker 5>of dude doesn't pay for the first date?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, true, I'm sorry. In Amanda's defense, you did order

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<v Speaker 3>taco bell, so maybe she just didn't think you had

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<v Speaker 3>the budget.

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<v Speaker 1>For Itanda's defense, it's a polite thing to.

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<v Speaker 3>Do, Yeah, says money bags Brook over there.

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<v Speaker 1>It's nice to offer, you know, even if you don't

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<v Speaker 1>do it, at least you know that you have someone

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<v Speaker 1>who is more of a partner and not someone who

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<v Speaker 1>just wants free stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>Is it rude, like assuming that he can't afford it

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<v Speaker 3>on his own.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not what she was assuming at all.

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<v Speaker 3>This is going to come as a news Flashbrook, But

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<v Speaker 3>not everybody in the world agrees with you on everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's gonna all of a sudden, And now.

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<v Speaker 3>Are we fighting with each other because I liked you

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<v Speaker 3>before this call started? What's going on?

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<v Speaker 5>Cat guy?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that what I said?

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<v Speaker 5>How dare you?

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<v Speaker 2>And I don't even know?

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<v Speaker 3>How do you disrespect cats? There's nothing wrong with having cats, Brooke, Well, here's.

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<v Speaker 2>Where the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Should you know what? Buy me lunch shed work. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>going to offer to pay for half of it. How

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<v Speaker 3>do you like that? Yeah, I'm sure you would stop.

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<v Speaker 5>Stop.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe he got the meal ordered right one time instead

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<v Speaker 3>of getting me a burrito bowl like Torty is around

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<v Speaker 3>my burritos. Brook a while, you didn't need the car, Richie?

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<v Speaker 2>And are you still on the phone?

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<v Speaker 3>Come on, Richie, Manda, were doing this or not? We

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<v Speaker 3>send you on a second date. We're gonna pay for it.

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<v Speaker 3>Book's gonna offer to pay for half.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, whether you like.

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<v Speaker 5>It or not?

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<v Speaker 3>A look?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, and like I thought, it was to go out

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<v Speaker 3>of your way to try and help your listeners one time.

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<v Speaker 3>And this is how you get treated going off when

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<v Speaker 3>you offer to pay for their dates and yelled at

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<v Speaker 3>them ilating.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm used.

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<v Speaker 3>To it all right. Well, sorry Amanda and Richie.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I kind of got out of hand there, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, from you.

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<v Speaker 3>That's offensive to people that don't have hands.

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<v Speaker 2>Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, we've calmed down a little bit. And sometimes

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<v Speaker 3>I'll be honest, I wonder why our listeners keep asking

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<v Speaker 3>for our help. Honestly, they keep on asking us to

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<v Speaker 3>help them. You know what's going to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>Even therapists have their own issues, right, they have to work.

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<v Speaker 3>Through, usually not in front of the clients.

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<v Speaker 2>But you get paid as a therapist. We don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Some of us on the show get paid more than others,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's a little bit unfair.

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<v Speaker 5>But.

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<v Speaker 2>Pay gap thing.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll admit it got out of hand, but I do

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<v Speaker 3>want everybody to know. Once we got off the air,

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<v Speaker 3>I graciously offered to give both of them restaurant gift cards,

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<v Speaker 3>even if they didn't want to go out with each other,

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<v Speaker 3>just for the trouble, Brooke, what did you offer them?

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<v Speaker 2>You guys like scared them away? I offer them that first?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh did you anyway? I don't know why you'd want to,

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<v Speaker 3>but if you ever want us to help you with

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<v Speaker 3>your love life, you can always email the show and

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<v Speaker 3>maybe no.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe you end up helping us out in the end.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, there you go.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually, maybe we should call another show to help with

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<v Speaker 3>our issues. That's good, that's a good idea. Any Way,

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<v Speaker 3>you can always find the second date updates on our

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<v Speaker 3>Brook and Jeffrey YouTube. Go check it out, subscribe. Uh,

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<v Speaker 3>that's it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the end.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the end.