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The link is in 13 00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:30,240 Speaker 2: the show notes. 14 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 1: And hopefully you're having a great Memorial Day and celebrating 15 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 1: as you need to. 16 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 3: We're all in mind why we celebrate this day as much. 17 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 1: That's right and right now, just a little laughter with 18 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 1: a Second Date Update, the Second Date Update. 19 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 3: With dating, people will always like to talk about passion 20 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:53,440 Speaker 3: and soulmates finding true love. That'd be great, but sometimes 21 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 3: you don't date for love, that date for food. Oh seriously, 22 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 3: is there anything more romantic in this world that can 23 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:04,760 Speaker 3: bond two people together than a good burrito bowl with 24 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:05,760 Speaker 3: a Kale. 25 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 1: Smoothie, especially when you're not paying You kind of lost 26 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:10,280 Speaker 1: me at Kale smoothie. 27 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:12,679 Speaker 3: I dare to come up with something hotter than tale 28 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 3: smoothie and burrito. 29 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:16,760 Speaker 2: Bowls, I mean, very fibrous. 30 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:19,840 Speaker 3: Apparently that's what happened with one of our listeners, Amanda 31 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 3: the other day. Amanda claims that she bonded with a 32 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:26,600 Speaker 3: guy over some delivery food. So, Amanda, welcome to the show. 33 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 1: Hi, thank you. 34 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 4: It's actually just a Manda. 35 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:31,960 Speaker 3: Oh just oh. The first day is silent. 36 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 2: Oh my god. That must be really annoying your entire life. 37 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 4: It's okay, it's always like conversation starter. 38 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's good point. 39 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 3: All right. I apologize Manda for that atrocious butchering of 40 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 3: your name. But tell us about the guy that she 41 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 3: went out with. What's his name? 42 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 2: His name is Richie. 43 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, you pronounced that first ar Yeah. 44 00:01:54,640 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 2: Okay, she doesn't find it funny. 45 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 3: It's okay, that's fine. 46 00:01:57,360 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 2: I'm sure you've heard it your whole life. I get it. 47 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 4: I doing that's funny, Okay. 48 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:03,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, we like to have a little bit of fun 49 00:02:03,120 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 3: before we get into the details of the date. But 50 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:10,360 Speaker 3: you met with Richie over delivery food? How did that happen? 51 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 4: Yeah? So I live in a really big apartment complex 52 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 4: and when you order food on one of the food apps, 53 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 4: you go and pick it up downstairs, and then the 54 00:02:19,919 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 4: area usually is like a little bit of a hangout, 55 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 4: kind of becomes like a social gatherings. 56 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. 57 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 2: I guess people are waiting for their food or that's. 58 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 3: Just how you get into the building. A lot of 59 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 3: times I feel like it'd be a bunch of really 60 00:02:31,880 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 3: angry people down there waiting for food, all bitter. 61 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:39,960 Speaker 2: Delivery, glaring at each other. 62 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:41,800 Speaker 3: That's okay, you met him there. 63 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, So when I was waiting for my food, he 64 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:47,400 Speaker 4: was there, and we just kind of started having some 65 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:51,520 Speaker 4: small talk, and he asked what I ordered, and then 66 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 4: he was bragging that he got the best tacos and 67 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 4: then he ended up getting Coco Bell. So I thought 68 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:56,639 Speaker 4: that was really funny. 69 00:02:56,680 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 2: It was Taco Bell. Was it a joke when he 70 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:03,919 Speaker 2: was saying it or was he being legit? 71 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay. 72 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 3: Good sense of humor. What do you mean Taco Bell 73 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 3: is delicious? I don't see the joke in. 74 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:12,600 Speaker 1: It just doesn't never make sense to him people get 75 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 1: Taco Bell delivery because you were literally paying three times 76 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:18,760 Speaker 1: what it would cost in the restaurant. That is like 77 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:21,520 Speaker 1: the whole point of taco bell is also that it's cheap. 78 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 2: Usually to state I'm in eating it. 79 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:28,080 Speaker 1: I can't get to taco be Okay, was this guy sober? 80 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, she was sober. 81 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 3: I think, okay, what happened after that? After you met? 82 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 4: Well, we ran into each other a couple of other times. 83 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 4: You know, we know each other a little bit. And 84 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 4: eventually he was like, I said, of just meeting in 85 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 4: the lobby, we should go get food. 86 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:51,440 Speaker 2: That's cute. So he asked you out. 87 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 4: He did ask me out. 88 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 2: Did he take you to his favorite taco place? That 89 00:03:56,760 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 2: would have been a good move. 90 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 4: No, we just went to kind of like an American 91 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 4: cuisine kind of spot that was pretty close. 92 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 3: And how did that go? 93 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 4: It was great. We hung out. You know, I really 94 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:17,720 Speaker 4: liked him. We really got to know each other. It 95 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:18,599 Speaker 4: was lovely. 96 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:21,159 Speaker 3: I thought, Okay, what did you guys talk about? 97 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 4: Like work? Family? He had a cat named Joe. 98 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 3: And the food was good. It sounds like it all 99 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 3: sounds normal. Were there any any issues that came up 100 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:34,920 Speaker 3: during the date. 101 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:39,720 Speaker 4: No issues that I can really think of. I mean, 102 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:41,279 Speaker 4: we were talking a lot. So at one point the 103 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 4: waiter came and cleared our table like before, we were done, 104 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:45,600 Speaker 4: which is a big pet peeve of mine. 105 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:48,360 Speaker 2: But so you threw a fork at him? 106 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. 107 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 4: I just kind of lightly asked him that he didn't 108 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:54,239 Speaker 4: need to take our main plates because we're still eating, 109 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 4: you know. 110 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:56,480 Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, how did it end? 111 00:04:57,000 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 4: The bill came, he paid I off for devenmo him. 112 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:01,799 Speaker 4: He turned it down. 113 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 2: Good offer. 114 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:05,279 Speaker 1: I feel like you should always offer, even if you 115 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 1: don't mean it. 116 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 2: I do fake offer, but I'm never going to Okay. 117 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:11,479 Speaker 3: And then the guy say, it's like, oh my's not working. 118 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:13,640 Speaker 5: For everyone. 119 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 3: Okay, so he covered the whole bill. 120 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, he covered the whole bill. Okay. I thought things 121 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 4: were going really well and I thought he was going 122 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:23,039 Speaker 4: to kiss me, but then he just hugged me. 123 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:25,840 Speaker 1: Oh, I mean maybe he got scared. 124 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 5: Yeah. 125 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 3: It is is so like tough and scary. 126 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:33,039 Speaker 1: And did you feel like you guys had chemistry? 127 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:36,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I really liked him. I don't know, 128 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:38,039 Speaker 4: maybe he just didn't like me as much as I 129 00:05:38,120 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 4: like him. 130 00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 2: Oh, that is a rational thing to say, my friend. 131 00:05:48,320 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 3: Kay responsible, and it was. 132 00:05:52,040 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 2: It's hard to admit that sometimes. 133 00:05:55,279 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 3: So it's kind of weird though, because you live in 134 00:05:57,800 --> 00:06:01,040 Speaker 3: the same building you haven't seen him since that happened, 135 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:02,960 Speaker 3: Or have you run into him down at the delivery 136 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 3: food hangout? 137 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 4: No, I haven't. 138 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 3: Huh. 139 00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 4: It's a pretty big building, so it's not necessarily going 140 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 4: to run into someone all the time. But I had 141 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:16,000 Speaker 4: seen him there pretty frequently before we had hung out, 142 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 4: and now I haven't seen him at all. 143 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:19,760 Speaker 2: And he didn't mention like going out of town or anything. 144 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 3: No, for the day was so bad he moved. Yeah, 145 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:26,160 Speaker 3: he's like, you know what, I'm breaking the leaves. I'm 146 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:29,760 Speaker 3: out of here. We're going to play a song and 147 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 3: then we're gonna do the very practical thing and ask 148 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 3: rich for you if there is a legitimate reason why 149 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:38,480 Speaker 3: he's not calling you back. 150 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 4: Okay, sounds good. But also his name is. 151 00:06:41,040 --> 00:06:43,480 Speaker 3: Richie not rich Oh God, did I releast grew up 152 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 3: both names in one segment? You're good? Yeah, it's a 153 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 3: skill par for the course for me. 154 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 1: Here here we go. 155 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 3: I'm going to quote Amanda, not Amanda, but Aanda without 156 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:01,240 Speaker 3: that first day because she our second day or today 157 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:05,840 Speaker 3: she said, quote, I really liked him, but like maybe 158 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 3: he didn't like me as much as I liked him. Yeah, 159 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 3: And even though she said, like four times in a 160 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:15,119 Speaker 3: single sentence. Professor Brooke Fox still gave her a gold 161 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 3: star for being practical and having a well thought out 162 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 3: explanation for her ghost. 163 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:23,960 Speaker 1: There some emotional intelligence right there that she displayed. 164 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:27,640 Speaker 3: Brook, any other clinical pragmatic commentary you'd like to have 165 00:07:27,720 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 3: us document on the podcast for posterity reasons? 166 00:07:30,880 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 1: No, but I am taking notes for later, so he 167 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 1: might put forward next to me and uh, we can 168 00:07:37,240 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: review it a later time. 169 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 3: Sounds fun for everybody, all right, yes, why do you 170 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:46,200 Speaker 3: even give that opportunity? I regret it? So, Uh, Amanda, 171 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 3: how are you feeling before we call Richie for you? 172 00:07:48,520 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 5: Here? 173 00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 3: You're doing okay? 174 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:52,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm a little nervous, but I'm interested to hear 175 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:53,680 Speaker 4: what he has to say. 176 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, And have you been like nervous to run into 177 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 1: him because you know, like when so much time has 178 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:00,480 Speaker 1: passed and it gets awkward And. 179 00:08:00,520 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, of course, you know, I've kind of guess been 180 00:08:03,120 --> 00:08:04,880 Speaker 4: rehearsing what to say if I run into him. 181 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we all do that in our minds, right. 182 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. She totally hasn't been camping out down at the 183 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 3: bottom of the elevators just like accidentally waiting to put 184 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:16,840 Speaker 3: like a key into the mailbox hole, just like, oops, 185 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:19,760 Speaker 3: what are you doing here? That's funny. 186 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 4: I haven't done anything like that. 187 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:24,920 Speaker 3: Good, Okay, that's very practical of you. Let's just call 188 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 3: Richie though and see what he has to say. Here 189 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:27,040 Speaker 3: we go. 190 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 2: Oh he got the name. 191 00:08:28,040 --> 00:08:31,480 Speaker 3: Right, Hey, look at you, jeff You remembered something. Oh way, 192 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:33,520 Speaker 3: you wrote it down? Well, yeah, I practiced it seven 193 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:37,959 Speaker 3: times before we Here we go. See what Richie has 194 00:08:38,040 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 3: to say? Hello, Hello, is this Richie? This is this 195 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:55,439 Speaker 3: is Jeffrey with a y at the end. 196 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:59,080 Speaker 2: You would start with a J. I mean you would 197 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 2: always spell it with his. Some people spell it with 198 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:01,200 Speaker 2: a G. 199 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 3: I don't know. Some people get confused on these things. Words, 200 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:07,080 Speaker 3: words and names we found are very difficult today. So 201 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:10,520 Speaker 3: there's also to e's. There's also two f's. Hie, Hello Richie. 202 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 5: Hi, So you're you're Jeffrey from. 203 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:16,079 Speaker 3: A morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey. 204 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 5: Oh so, why are you guys telling me? 205 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:25,000 Speaker 3: Very astute question there, Richie. We're calling because we're trying 206 00:09:25,040 --> 00:09:27,080 Speaker 3: to dig a little bit into your dating life. 207 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 5: What what are you talking about? 208 00:09:30,960 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 2: I think it's a good thing. 209 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:35,800 Speaker 3: Intrusively Yeah, yeah, yeah, it was brought to us. Yeah, 210 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:38,000 Speaker 3: I mean just that, I mean a little bit intrusively, 211 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 3: but in a nice way. Because one of our listeners 212 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:44,880 Speaker 3: named Manda went out with you recently and would like 213 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:45,959 Speaker 3: to go out with you again. 214 00:09:48,120 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 5: She'd like to go out with me again. 215 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 3: Mm hmm, yeah, yeah. 216 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:52,840 Speaker 5: I would give you that idea. 217 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:59,240 Speaker 3: She literally emailed the show saying I would like to 218 00:09:59,240 --> 00:10:00,240 Speaker 3: see Richie again. 219 00:10:00,360 --> 00:10:01,959 Speaker 2: It was very direct. 220 00:10:01,440 --> 00:10:04,320 Speaker 3: We read between the lines on that one a little bit, 221 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 3: but we figured out she wants another date. 222 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 6: I'm just like totally confused right now. I mean, I 223 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 6: thought that we had a really good time, but I 224 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:16,200 Speaker 6: don't understand, Like I didn't hear anything from her, so 225 00:10:16,360 --> 00:10:18,760 Speaker 6: I just thought she didn't like me, so I kind 226 00:10:18,760 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 6: of moved off. 227 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:22,320 Speaker 2: Wait wait, she said she tried to get hold of you. 228 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 2: I thought, did she tell us that or did she 229 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:24,520 Speaker 2: not tell us that? 230 00:10:25,040 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 3: I don't know if I asked that question. That was 231 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 3: too busy trying to figure out her name. 232 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:32,000 Speaker 5: Yeah. No, I don't know how she had to contact me, Like, 233 00:10:32,040 --> 00:10:33,400 Speaker 5: I don't know we got a call from her or 234 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:34,760 Speaker 5: text or anything after the date? 235 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:38,520 Speaker 1: Wow, did you text or call her though, Richie? I mean, 236 00:10:38,559 --> 00:10:41,240 Speaker 1: maybe she's one of those girls that was just doesn't 237 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:42,720 Speaker 1: want to be too forward. 238 00:10:43,440 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 6: No, I mean usually a girl at least, I mean, 239 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:47,200 Speaker 6: even though we live in the same building, shull at 240 00:10:47,240 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 6: least say hey, I got home safe. 241 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 5: It was nice to night, you know something, just so 242 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:51,240 Speaker 5: you know she got into it. 243 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:53,400 Speaker 3: I mean, do it nothing or even like a thank 244 00:10:53,440 --> 00:10:55,120 Speaker 3: you for dinner and paying for everything. 245 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:58,200 Speaker 2: Maybe nice and ask if she got home safe? Do 246 00:10:58,200 --> 00:11:04,360 Speaker 2: you guys building, try a little harder. 247 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:09,000 Speaker 3: I've been stuck in the elevator for a week. It happens, 248 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:10,320 Speaker 3: so it does not happen. 249 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:13,440 Speaker 1: So wait, so you liked her, she liked you, and 250 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:15,840 Speaker 1: neither of you have texted or called each other. 251 00:11:16,400 --> 00:11:17,000 Speaker 6: I guess. 252 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 5: Weird. 253 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 2: Okay, well that seems that seems easy. 254 00:11:21,640 --> 00:11:24,880 Speaker 3: It does seem easy because you're in luck, Ritchie. Amanda 255 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:27,800 Speaker 3: is actually on the other line right now, wanting to 256 00:11:27,840 --> 00:11:29,840 Speaker 3: tell you how much she likes you and wants to 257 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:30,560 Speaker 3: see you again. 258 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:39,880 Speaker 5: Amanda, Hey, Richie, Hey, oh this is so strange to 259 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:42,160 Speaker 5: me right now. I'm totally taken away. 260 00:11:44,120 --> 00:11:48,080 Speaker 4: Well, it's kind of your your perspective on this, because 261 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:49,640 Speaker 4: I thought that you didn't like me. 262 00:11:51,440 --> 00:11:54,439 Speaker 5: I mean, for her relief and kind of funny, but 263 00:11:55,240 --> 00:11:58,880 Speaker 5: we wasted a lot of time. I guess, yeah, I. 264 00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:01,560 Speaker 4: Mean, I don't know. I guess I was expecting you 265 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:04,920 Speaker 4: to be a like as good of a communicator as 266 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:07,800 Speaker 4: you got talked about, like how that was important, and 267 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:09,520 Speaker 4: then I was kind of confused after. 268 00:12:09,800 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 3: I mean, it's just funny, like you guys seem like 269 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 3: you're both interested in each other so and you just 270 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 3: didn't realize that it was going on. You were both 271 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:18,520 Speaker 3: too shy to say it. 272 00:12:18,920 --> 00:12:22,480 Speaker 5: Well, it was from what she just said that she 273 00:12:22,559 --> 00:12:24,320 Speaker 5: thinks I'm a pretty bad communicator. 274 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:28,040 Speaker 1: Seems like you both are, like we both liked each other, 275 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:29,840 Speaker 1: and neither one of you reached out. 276 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 3: That's not what you're saying, right, Amanda, I mean kind 277 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:36,680 Speaker 3: of well you didn't you didn't communicate with him? 278 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:39,160 Speaker 4: Well, I mean I did. I was pretty clear that 279 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:41,439 Speaker 4: I was waiting to hear from him first, that I 280 00:12:41,520 --> 00:12:45,439 Speaker 4: kind of liked the guy taking the initiative first. I 281 00:12:45,480 --> 00:12:50,199 Speaker 4: don't know, I guess I didn't expect so much from Akatharson. 282 00:12:51,040 --> 00:12:51,680 Speaker 2: What what? 283 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 3: Whoa Where did that come from? 284 00:12:54,880 --> 00:12:57,360 Speaker 5: So now I'm a liar and a bad person because 285 00:12:57,360 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 5: they're like cats, right, do not. 286 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:04,679 Speaker 2: Just in our I don't think you can take that 287 00:13:04,679 --> 00:13:05,199 Speaker 2: one back. 288 00:13:06,040 --> 00:13:07,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, I thought when you were talking to us earlier, 289 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:09,800 Speaker 3: you said you had he had a cute cat named Joe. 290 00:13:10,240 --> 00:13:10,720 Speaker 6: Yeah. 291 00:13:10,760 --> 00:13:13,600 Speaker 4: Sure, but I'm just you know, I'm sorry. I didn't 292 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:16,120 Speaker 4: think that, rittie. I didn't think you're going to be 293 00:13:16,120 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 4: so sensitive, So I'm sorry to bring that up. 294 00:13:20,120 --> 00:13:21,199 Speaker 3: Now, he's sensitive. 295 00:13:21,640 --> 00:13:23,920 Speaker 5: I guess being sensitives better than being a total jerk 296 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:24,480 Speaker 5: to the waiter. 297 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:28,319 Speaker 2: So what happened with the waiter. 298 00:13:30,640 --> 00:13:30,920 Speaker 5: Out? 299 00:13:31,000 --> 00:13:32,079 Speaker 2: I know, but she said she. 300 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:34,319 Speaker 4: Asked him, Yeah, what are you trying to say? 301 00:13:34,559 --> 00:13:36,240 Speaker 5: Okay, so when he tried to take your plate the 302 00:13:36,240 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 5: other night, you said, in like a harsh tone, you know, 303 00:13:38,640 --> 00:13:41,160 Speaker 5: I'm not done right, Like that's as anarchy as you 304 00:13:41,200 --> 00:13:43,880 Speaker 5: can get a little backhand. 305 00:13:44,040 --> 00:13:46,280 Speaker 4: I feel like I was pretty polite. I wasn't done, 306 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:47,840 Speaker 4: so I just let the waiter know. 307 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 3: But it was probably the tone. Yeah are we are 308 00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:53,560 Speaker 3: we forgetting that? You guys both really liked each other 309 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:55,520 Speaker 3: like two minutes ago. 310 00:13:56,679 --> 00:14:01,080 Speaker 5: I'm just big on like manners and just etiquette and 311 00:14:01,120 --> 00:14:03,160 Speaker 5: there's a polite way to do things, and she just 312 00:14:03,200 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 5: did not observe that. 313 00:14:04,400 --> 00:14:06,360 Speaker 3: Are you sure you're not just being defensive right now? 314 00:14:06,400 --> 00:14:09,320 Speaker 3: Because she called you a pathetic overly sensitive cat person. 315 00:14:10,559 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 2: She didn't say pathetic. 316 00:14:12,200 --> 00:14:14,319 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, well I'm just reading between the lines. But 317 00:14:15,559 --> 00:14:20,120 Speaker 3: we all know what she meant. The words were there, 318 00:14:20,160 --> 00:14:21,080 Speaker 3: they were just unspoken. 319 00:14:21,280 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 4: So you're saying that I'm not polite because I offered 320 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:25,680 Speaker 4: to pay for half of the meal. 321 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:33,680 Speaker 5: I mean masculating. You got to know that, rightaculated. That's emasculating, 322 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:36,000 Speaker 5: Like I'm a dude on the first date. What kind 323 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:38,200 Speaker 5: of dude doesn't pay for the first date? 324 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 3: Well, true, I'm sorry. In Amanda's defense, you did order 325 00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 3: taco bell, so maybe she just didn't think you had 326 00:14:44,040 --> 00:14:44,880 Speaker 3: the budget. 327 00:14:44,560 --> 00:14:48,160 Speaker 1: For Itanda's defense, it's a polite thing to. 328 00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:50,880 Speaker 3: Do, Yeah, says money bags Brook over there. 329 00:14:51,080 --> 00:14:53,720 Speaker 1: It's nice to offer, you know, even if you don't 330 00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:55,880 Speaker 1: do it, at least you know that you have someone 331 00:14:55,920 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 1: who is more of a partner and not someone who 332 00:14:58,200 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 1: just wants free stuff. 333 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:02,200 Speaker 3: Is it rude, like assuming that he can't afford it 334 00:15:02,240 --> 00:15:02,800 Speaker 3: on his own. 335 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 2: That's not what she was assuming at all. 336 00:15:05,280 --> 00:15:07,200 Speaker 3: This is going to come as a news Flashbrook, But 337 00:15:07,280 --> 00:15:10,040 Speaker 3: not everybody in the world agrees with you on everything. 338 00:15:10,360 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 1: Oh that's gonna all of a sudden, And now. 339 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 3: Are we fighting with each other because I liked you 340 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 3: before this call started? What's going on? 341 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:22,480 Speaker 5: Cat guy? 342 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 2: Is that what I said? 343 00:15:24,200 --> 00:15:24,720 Speaker 5: How dare you? 344 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:25,920 Speaker 2: And I don't even know? 345 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:31,520 Speaker 3: How do you disrespect cats? There's nothing wrong with having cats, Brooke, Well, here's. 346 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:32,000 Speaker 2: Where the show. 347 00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 3: Should you know what? Buy me lunch shed work. I'm 348 00:15:37,080 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 3: going to offer to pay for half of it. How 349 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 3: do you like that? Yeah, I'm sure you would stop. 350 00:15:46,640 --> 00:15:46,960 Speaker 5: Stop. 351 00:15:48,760 --> 00:15:52,160 Speaker 3: Maybe he got the meal ordered right one time instead 352 00:15:52,160 --> 00:15:55,480 Speaker 3: of getting me a burrito bowl like Torty is around 353 00:15:55,480 --> 00:16:01,680 Speaker 3: my burritos. Brook a while, you didn't need the car, Richie? 354 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:03,680 Speaker 2: And are you still on the phone? 355 00:16:03,680 --> 00:16:05,480 Speaker 3: Come on, Richie, Manda, were doing this or not? We 356 00:16:05,520 --> 00:16:07,200 Speaker 3: send you on a second date. We're gonna pay for it. 357 00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:08,560 Speaker 3: Book's gonna offer to pay for half. 358 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, whether you like. 359 00:16:10,120 --> 00:16:10,480 Speaker 5: It or not? 360 00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:12,480 Speaker 3: A look? 361 00:16:12,680 --> 00:16:17,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, okay? 362 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:19,920 Speaker 3: Well, and like I thought, it was to go out 363 00:16:19,920 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 3: of your way to try and help your listeners one time. 364 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:24,520 Speaker 3: And this is how you get treated going off when 365 00:16:24,560 --> 00:16:27,480 Speaker 3: you offer to pay for their dates and yelled at 366 00:16:27,520 --> 00:16:28,960 Speaker 3: them ilating. 367 00:16:29,520 --> 00:16:31,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm used. 368 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:34,840 Speaker 3: To it all right. Well, sorry Amanda and Richie. 369 00:16:35,200 --> 00:16:36,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, I kind of got out of hand there, you know. 370 00:16:37,240 --> 00:16:38,720 Speaker 2: Okay, from you. 371 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:41,400 Speaker 3: That's offensive to people that don't have hands. 372 00:16:45,680 --> 00:16:47,920 Speaker 2: Broke and Jeffrey in the morning. 373 00:16:49,080 --> 00:16:52,160 Speaker 3: All right, we've calmed down a little bit. And sometimes 374 00:16:52,200 --> 00:16:55,960 Speaker 3: I'll be honest, I wonder why our listeners keep asking 375 00:16:56,040 --> 00:17:00,840 Speaker 3: for our help. Honestly, they keep on asking us to 376 00:17:00,880 --> 00:17:02,720 Speaker 3: help them. You know what's going to happen. 377 00:17:03,120 --> 00:17:06,680 Speaker 1: Even therapists have their own issues, right, they have to work. 378 00:17:06,480 --> 00:17:08,440 Speaker 3: Through, usually not in front of the clients. 379 00:17:09,280 --> 00:17:11,680 Speaker 2: But you get paid as a therapist. We don't know. 380 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:14,120 Speaker 3: Some of us on the show get paid more than others, 381 00:17:14,119 --> 00:17:15,440 Speaker 3: and it's a little bit unfair. 382 00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:15,400 Speaker 5: But. 383 00:17:18,160 --> 00:17:19,880 Speaker 2: Pay gap thing. 384 00:17:20,280 --> 00:17:23,240 Speaker 3: We'll admit it got out of hand, but I do 385 00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:25,399 Speaker 3: want everybody to know. Once we got off the air, 386 00:17:25,840 --> 00:17:29,800 Speaker 3: I graciously offered to give both of them restaurant gift cards, 387 00:17:29,800 --> 00:17:31,480 Speaker 3: even if they didn't want to go out with each other, 388 00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 3: just for the trouble, Brooke, what did you offer them? 389 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:38,120 Speaker 2: You guys like scared them away? I offer them that first? 390 00:17:38,480 --> 00:17:45,320 Speaker 3: Oh did you anyway? I don't know why you'd want to, 391 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:47,119 Speaker 3: but if you ever want us to help you with 392 00:17:47,160 --> 00:17:49,560 Speaker 3: your love life, you can always email the show and 393 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:51,040 Speaker 3: maybe no. 394 00:17:51,119 --> 00:17:52,919 Speaker 2: Maybe you end up helping us out in the end. 395 00:17:53,119 --> 00:17:54,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, there you go. 396 00:17:54,480 --> 00:17:57,000 Speaker 3: Actually, maybe we should call another show to help with 397 00:17:57,040 --> 00:18:00,480 Speaker 3: our issues. That's good, that's a good idea. Any Way, 398 00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:03,400 Speaker 3: you can always find the second date updates on our 399 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:07,320 Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey YouTube. Go check it out, subscribe. Uh, 400 00:18:07,440 --> 00:18:07,800 Speaker 3: that's it. 401 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:08,560 Speaker 2: That's the end. 402 00:18:08,640 --> 00:18:09,240 Speaker 3: That's the end.