WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Dutch Isn't Just A Language 0:00:00.320 --> 0:00:02.880 It's a brand new second date for your Friday. Thanks 0:00:02.880 --> 0:00:04.760 for being here. Yeah. 0:00:04.800 --> 0:00:06.600 And by the way, I know we have been getting 0:00:06.640 --> 0:00:09.320 a lot of messages about how people love Saturdays because 0:00:09.320 --> 0:00:11.799 it's like double feature and they like the longer version. 0:00:12.080 --> 0:00:16.200 We do do a full hour show every day, yeah, 0:00:16.800 --> 0:00:19.200 where we make really good jokes like that, right, Yeah, 0:00:19.880 --> 0:00:21.479 and you can find it on the main feed, So 0:00:21.600 --> 0:00:23.759 pop over some time check out the full hour. 0:00:24.079 --> 0:00:26.160 Right now, though, it is just a second date and 0:00:26.239 --> 0:00:29.040 we've got we've got a surprise one for you. 0:00:29.240 --> 0:00:31.760 Yeah, mostly because there's a woman on the phone that 0:00:32.159 --> 0:00:35.360 I don't know, maybe has the same financial leanings as Alexis. 0:00:35.560 --> 0:00:37.360 Hey, that's a good way to sum it up. Is 0:00:37.440 --> 0:00:39.240 that a way to say? Okay? 0:00:39.720 --> 0:00:41.240 Yeah, But before we get to it, what do you 0:00:41.280 --> 0:00:42.960 see in the comments Alexis. 0:00:42.600 --> 0:00:45.920 Yeah, Buddy commented and said, hey, Brooke and Jeffrey Crue, 0:00:45.960 --> 0:00:49.040 I'm a therapist listening all the way from New Zealand. 0:00:49.920 --> 0:00:52.000 I love the show on the podcast. It helps brighten 0:00:52.000 --> 0:00:54.080 my mornings down here. But if you're ever up for it, 0:00:54.080 --> 0:00:56.520 I'd be happy to offer the whole team a free 0:00:56.560 --> 0:00:58.960 group therapy session wink. 0:00:59.240 --> 0:01:01.480 Yeah at the week we I don't know girl, because 0:01:01.520 --> 0:01:01.880 she knows that. 0:01:01.920 --> 0:01:03.960 It's like I'm gonna hook up with one because they 0:01:04.000 --> 0:01:08.200 obviously need at least four years or session. Yeah, we 0:01:08.280 --> 0:01:11.360 love that that. I'm sure you're DIAGNOSINGO says oh. 0:01:11.319 --> 0:01:13.520 Add every listener on the Second Day podcast. Yeah, and 0:01:13.560 --> 0:01:15.640 we like that too. Yeah, you know, free therapy. We'll 0:01:15.640 --> 0:01:15.920 take it. 0:01:16.000 --> 0:01:17.560 Hey, it's Burg and Jeffrey in the morning, and your 0:01:17.560 --> 0:01:20.800 brand new second date starts right now, Second. 0:01:20.480 --> 0:01:25.880 Date up date. I'm worried this call might get messy. 0:01:27.360 --> 0:01:30.200 I usually you're excited about that, jeff I know, but 0:01:30.240 --> 0:01:33.640 I'm a little scared because Alexis, have you ever at 0:01:33.680 --> 0:01:36.600 any point dated or had a crush on a guy 0:01:36.680 --> 0:01:37.480 named Jake? 0:01:38.120 --> 0:01:44.960 That's my brother's name, So absolutely, she's thing to think about. 0:01:45.040 --> 0:01:48.080 Her face looked like she smelled the worst part in 0:01:48.120 --> 0:01:48.880 the world, just. 0:01:48.800 --> 0:01:51.200 That I can tell you broke your heart, didn't he 0:01:51.720 --> 0:01:54.080 You're not even going to acknowledge that he exists. You 0:01:54.120 --> 0:01:56.600 have to try to keep your jealousy bottled up because 0:01:56.640 --> 0:01:59.200 a guy named Jake is on the phone with us 0:01:59.360 --> 0:01:59.840 right now. 0:02:00.240 --> 0:02:01.840 I like, brother, Awesome. 0:02:01.960 --> 0:02:04.440 I love how despite your answer, you're still sticking with 0:02:04.680 --> 0:02:06.440 and how jeff didn't know that was my brother's name. 0:02:07.480 --> 0:02:08.760 We all know her brother's name. 0:02:09.320 --> 0:02:14.160 That only makes it more tempting to her. The forbidden fruit. Jacob, 0:02:14.840 --> 0:02:18.280 say hi to Alexis, Hey, what's up, brother? 0:02:19.120 --> 0:02:20.919 This is awkward. 0:02:21.560 --> 0:02:22.079 It was your brother. 0:02:22.120 --> 0:02:23.040 He didn't sell you somehow. 0:02:23.120 --> 0:02:26.680 Yeah, Jacob's very brave of you to come on the 0:02:26.720 --> 0:02:27.400 show today. 0:02:27.560 --> 0:02:28.400 Thanks for being on. 0:02:28.480 --> 0:02:31.000 Tell us about the woman who's not named Alexus that 0:02:31.040 --> 0:02:31.720 you want us to call. 0:02:31.720 --> 0:02:33.040 It's going to be. 0:02:33.080 --> 0:02:39.040 Said, Yeah, I want to call Kim. I met her 0:02:39.520 --> 0:02:42.840 through mutual friends at a birthday roots up party. 0:02:43.040 --> 0:02:46.239 Oh was it like a setup between the mutual friends 0:02:46.320 --> 0:02:48.040 or is it just you guys both happened to the 0:02:48.040 --> 0:02:48.440 same party. 0:02:48.480 --> 0:02:50.160 We just we have mutual friends. 0:02:50.200 --> 0:02:53.160 She just happened to be there, and we really bonded 0:02:53.240 --> 0:02:56.000 over the fact that the music was absolutely horrible. 0:02:56.160 --> 0:03:00.959 Oh no, a party with bad when you have one 0:03:01.040 --> 0:03:01.760 DJ friend. 0:03:01.840 --> 0:03:03.120 He's like, I'm going to take over. 0:03:05.720 --> 0:03:08.560 Jealousy is coming out with that comment, so please try. 0:03:08.360 --> 0:03:09.079 And keep it under. 0:03:09.960 --> 0:03:12.560 I like deep cuts. You ever heard that? 0:03:12.680 --> 0:03:12.880 Yeah? 0:03:13.200 --> 0:03:15.440 Okay, so I take it you didn't dance together that night. 0:03:16.000 --> 0:03:18.400 No, I mean it wasn't my kind of music, wasn't 0:03:18.400 --> 0:03:20.079 her kind of music. But we really had a good 0:03:20.120 --> 0:03:21.960 time talking about how terrible it was. 0:03:23.560 --> 0:03:26.840 You know, they say people just need a common enemy sometimes. 0:03:27.520 --> 0:03:30.440 So tell us how did you and Kim come to be? 0:03:30.919 --> 0:03:31.079 Well? 0:03:31.600 --> 0:03:33.760 Yeah, like, was there a date? 0:03:33.919 --> 0:03:36.840 I mean yeah, we were talking and we were having 0:03:36.880 --> 0:03:39.640 a really good time, and I just asked her for 0:03:39.680 --> 0:03:44.160 a number. And we went to this cozy wine bar, 0:03:44.520 --> 0:03:46.600 like new swanky thing. 0:03:46.920 --> 0:03:47.760 And the nice saying. 0:03:47.600 --> 0:03:50.360 About those places is they're like quiet enough to also 0:03:50.400 --> 0:03:51.160 be able to talk. 0:03:51.360 --> 0:03:55.320 Yeah, yeah, yeah, we got talking and again the music 0:03:55.400 --> 0:03:56.240 was really bad. 0:03:56.120 --> 0:03:59.200 So oh, I'm not going to be a wine bar. 0:03:59.520 --> 0:04:01.800 I wonder if you guys have bad taste in music 0:04:01.800 --> 0:04:02.080 at this. 0:04:03.880 --> 0:04:05.760 Or is that just all you guys have to talk about? 0:04:06.080 --> 0:04:06.760 No, no, no, no. 0:04:07.000 --> 0:04:10.320 We talked about our most embarrassing moment, and she said 0:04:10.360 --> 0:04:13.640 that she won on a game show and as soon 0:04:13.680 --> 0:04:16.359 as the camera turned on, she completely froze up. I 0:04:16.440 --> 0:04:17.920 was unable to. 0:04:17.800 --> 0:04:18.360 Do the show. 0:04:22.240 --> 0:04:25.200 Did it make you on a Google or YouTube? Exactly? 0:04:25.240 --> 0:04:25.880 What game show? 0:04:25.960 --> 0:04:27.920 I never get the air? Yeah I don't. I don't 0:04:27.920 --> 0:04:28.839 think I made it to air. 0:04:29.680 --> 0:04:31.920 Okay, okay, And did you share yours? 0:04:32.200 --> 0:04:32.440 Yeah? 0:04:32.560 --> 0:04:35.360 I told her about one time I went to a 0:04:35.400 --> 0:04:38.039 party and had really bad music and I met a 0:04:38.080 --> 0:04:41.720 really cool girl. 0:04:39.200 --> 0:04:44.800 Yeah, most embarrassing moment. That's rude, though, I. 0:04:47.800 --> 0:04:48.920 Was embarrassed for this guy. 0:04:49.480 --> 0:04:52.240 You're embarrassed for the DJ playing the bad music. That's 0:04:52.279 --> 0:04:53.159 where you're embarrassed for. 0:04:53.839 --> 0:04:56.400 Yeah, okay, I'm going to tell you i'd be disappointed 0:04:56.440 --> 0:04:57.000 in that answer. 0:04:57.160 --> 0:04:57.360 Yeah. 0:04:57.440 --> 0:04:59.120 I know you're trying to be funny, but it's like 0:04:59.279 --> 0:05:03.040 she just shared being vulnerable and actually embarrassing. 0:05:03.320 --> 0:05:04.279 You just did a cop out. 0:05:04.520 --> 0:05:06.440 I mean it was a joke, you know, I was 0:05:06.839 --> 0:05:08.240 you know, I mean I get it. 0:05:08.279 --> 0:05:10.080 Were you able to recover after that moment? 0:05:10.200 --> 0:05:12.880 Yeah? Yeah, I mean it felt like everything was all right. 0:05:13.000 --> 0:05:14.120 Okay, Well how did it end? 0:05:14.920 --> 0:05:18.640 We got the bill and then she insisted on going Dutch? 0:05:19.040 --> 0:05:20.400 That's good though. Don't you like that? 0:05:21.320 --> 0:05:23.159 Yeah, I mean I have no problem with it. 0:05:23.320 --> 0:05:25.560 How did she insist? Did you offer to pay? And 0:05:25.600 --> 0:05:27.320 then she was like, no, I insist? 0:05:27.760 --> 0:05:30.880 Or how did that? Yeah? Yeah, she like immediately asked 0:05:30.880 --> 0:05:31.520 for my venmo. 0:05:31.680 --> 0:05:34.560 Like, I don't know, maybe she's had like bad dates 0:05:34.920 --> 0:05:37.000 in the past where a guy expected something. 0:05:37.680 --> 0:05:39.960 I think that's like majority of dates. 0:05:40.000 --> 0:05:44.640 No, honestly, yeah, it's not just no expected something in return, 0:05:44.800 --> 0:05:47.920 like whether it's a kiss or another date, or. 0:05:48.040 --> 0:05:49.640 It's like if you pay them, you don't feel pressure 0:05:49.680 --> 0:05:50.919 to have to like do anything. 0:05:51.040 --> 0:05:54.640 Yeah, but I would say, like the majority of men 0:05:54.760 --> 0:05:55.479 come off that way. 0:05:56.080 --> 0:05:59.120 Yeah. I mean obviously I would like something to happen. 0:05:58.920 --> 0:05:59.080 But. 0:06:01.240 --> 0:06:02.960 Yeah, you can pay, I can pay. 0:06:02.960 --> 0:06:04.920 It wasn't my intention, correct, correct? 0:06:05.160 --> 0:06:07.200 Okay, So what's happened since then? 0:06:07.520 --> 0:06:10.120 Yeah, So we had a hug and a kiss on 0:06:10.160 --> 0:06:12.880 the cheek and we went our separate ways, and I 0:06:12.960 --> 0:06:15.279 texted her like a day or two after that, just 0:06:15.279 --> 0:06:18.800 said hey, what's up, and she answers. But like I 0:06:18.800 --> 0:06:22.960 can tell that like she's kind of just answering because 0:06:23.400 --> 0:06:26.240 she feels obligators. I don't know, it doesn't feel like 0:06:27.560 --> 0:06:29.440 really yeah, like she's really with it. 0:06:29.600 --> 0:06:31.600 Yeah, and she's not trying to plan anything else. 0:06:32.440 --> 0:06:35.120 Yeah, Like I've hinted at oh, like there's a game 0:06:35.240 --> 0:06:35.680 coming on. 0:06:35.760 --> 0:06:38.320 Next week, you know. Yeah. 0:06:38.400 --> 0:06:40.440 Yeah, like come over to my house and like check 0:06:40.440 --> 0:06:41.920 out a game or whatever, you. 0:06:41.880 --> 0:06:45.080 Know, And there's not going to be enough bad music 0:06:45.120 --> 0:06:48.960 at those games. Soon had a terrible venue. 0:06:48.680 --> 0:06:50.159 Because I'd be there at my house. 0:06:51.120 --> 0:06:55.240 They should only go to open mics. Actually, I'll give you. 0:06:55.240 --> 0:06:57.840 Something to bond about all over again and hate on. 0:06:58.080 --> 0:07:00.000 So let's try and set that up for you. When 0:07:00.040 --> 0:07:02.320 we come back, We're gonna call Kim and try and 0:07:02.360 --> 0:07:05.920 get you a second date update with the worst music ever. 0:07:06.000 --> 0:07:12.720 Right off a song, guys, request second date update. 0:07:13.800 --> 0:07:18.600 When you think of sub tar music, maybe you picture 0:07:18.640 --> 0:07:21.920 a certain twelve year old Jewish boy singing his original 0:07:22.000 --> 0:07:23.360 song reach for the Sky. 0:07:23.720 --> 0:07:25.760 Yeah, I want you to be quiet so I can 0:07:25.800 --> 0:07:26.440 hear you. 0:07:27.360 --> 0:07:27.960 I'll tell you. 0:07:28.120 --> 0:07:31.880 I'm encouraging people to touch a mo a moonbeam, whatever 0:07:31.880 --> 0:07:32.640 the hell that means. 0:07:32.720 --> 0:07:33.120 I like it. 0:07:33.560 --> 0:07:36.480 I can only imagine This song was playing during Jake's 0:07:36.480 --> 0:07:39.679 first date with Kim, where they bonded over their mutual 0:07:39.800 --> 0:07:43.200 hatred of the awful playlist coming over the restaurant speakers. 0:07:43.200 --> 0:07:44.880 And I'm pretty sure I've been to at least two 0:07:44.920 --> 0:07:46.560 birthday parties where I heard that banger. 0:07:46.720 --> 0:07:50.840 Yeah, yeah, you gotta put it on Spotify. It's spreading. 0:07:52.080 --> 0:07:53.920 There were highs and lows, for sure, but at the 0:07:54.000 --> 0:07:55.920 very end of the night they both agreed to split 0:07:55.960 --> 0:07:56.320 the bill. 0:07:56.880 --> 0:07:58.120 Jake ended up getting a kiss. 0:07:58.200 --> 0:08:00.400 But the problem is now Kim is a ding a 0:08:00.400 --> 0:08:03.040 little distant, even though she is answering texts. 0:08:03.160 --> 0:08:05.280 It just doesn't feel like her heart is in it. 0:08:05.280 --> 0:08:07.320 I think it was a cheap kiss. I mean it's 0:08:07.320 --> 0:08:11.280 just important to Yeah, isn't that right? Am? 0:08:11.280 --> 0:08:13.040 I right on that JA point? Where on your body 0:08:13.080 --> 0:08:13.560 she kissed you? 0:08:14.680 --> 0:08:16.520 I mean, yeah, it was. It was on the cheek. 0:08:16.560 --> 0:08:19.360 I mean, you know, it's what I would expect. 0:08:19.280 --> 0:08:19.400 You know. 0:08:19.760 --> 0:08:21.400 I think I kiss on the cheek is cute because 0:08:21.400 --> 0:08:22.680 it's just like, oh, I just don't want to kiss 0:08:22.680 --> 0:08:24.120 you yet, but like you're doing. 0:08:23.920 --> 0:08:27.160 Good, you know, like you don't gross out. 0:08:27.760 --> 0:08:28.920 Yeah, good job to night. 0:08:30.240 --> 0:08:35.840 I don't want to touch your mouth. 0:08:34.280 --> 0:08:36.280 Just kiss smells well. 0:08:36.440 --> 0:08:39.080 Hopefully there are more kisses to come if we can 0:08:39.120 --> 0:08:42.880 do our jobs right on, not just cheak kisses. 0:08:42.880 --> 0:08:43.480 We'll find out. 0:08:43.559 --> 0:08:45.040 I mean, if it starts to go south, we just 0:08:45.080 --> 0:08:47.080 put your song on and she's back in the game. 0:08:47.320 --> 0:08:50.240 Yea. Hope the kisses don't go too far. So, but 0:08:50.559 --> 0:08:52.720 let's just call her. We'll see if she picks up, 0:08:52.720 --> 0:08:54.440 and we're gonna try to do this. Here you ready, man? 0:08:54.800 --> 0:08:56.280 Yeah? Man? Cool? 0:08:56.559 --> 0:08:56.959 Here we go. 0:09:07.080 --> 0:09:07.360 Hello. 0:09:08.320 --> 0:09:10.480 Hey is this Kim? 0:09:11.120 --> 0:09:12.240 Yeah? 0:09:12.720 --> 0:09:16.720 Hey, uh Kim, good morning. You don't have to be 0:09:16.720 --> 0:09:17.320 afraid of us. 0:09:17.320 --> 0:09:20.199 We're just a harmless morning radio show called Brook and 0:09:20.280 --> 0:09:21.400 Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:09:21.880 --> 0:09:24.560 I'm jeff You may know me from the hit song 0:09:24.800 --> 0:09:27.480 reach for the Sky, which while the sky. 0:09:29.200 --> 0:09:31.360 Oh my god, but you do know it? 0:09:31.480 --> 0:09:31.680 Wait? 0:09:31.720 --> 0:09:35.400 Do you please tell me you don't recognize that I've. 0:09:35.920 --> 0:09:37.480 Heard your show before? 0:09:37.800 --> 0:09:41.239 Okay, oh no. 0:09:39.440 --> 0:09:41.640 No, no, no, it's thank you. 0:09:42.080 --> 0:09:46.160 That's the answer, Lord, Okay, thank you for picking up 0:09:46.200 --> 0:09:46.520 the phone. 0:09:46.559 --> 0:09:46.760 Kim. 0:09:46.880 --> 0:09:49.440 If you're familiar with the show, then you might be 0:09:49.520 --> 0:09:51.680 familiar with our second date update segment. 0:09:52.880 --> 0:09:56.400 Unfortunately. Yeah, oh are you do know him? 0:09:56.920 --> 0:09:58.280 Okay, since you responded that. 0:09:58.280 --> 0:10:02.400 Way, well, unfortunately or fortunately, you are part of one now, 0:10:02.480 --> 0:10:04.880 so congratulations. 0:10:05.160 --> 0:10:05.680 To the club. 0:10:06.640 --> 0:10:08.319 Yea for me, that's. 0:10:08.200 --> 0:10:09.160 Right, I'm going to take that. 0:10:09.200 --> 0:10:09.720 Sincerely. 0:10:10.440 --> 0:10:12.720 We will, and we're calling on behalf of a guy 0:10:12.800 --> 0:10:15.200 that you went out with recently, a guy named Jake. 0:10:16.120 --> 0:10:18.320 Oh my gosh, what Jake? 0:10:18.880 --> 0:10:19.040 Yeah? 0:10:19.360 --> 0:10:19.560 Yeah. 0:10:20.120 --> 0:10:25.040 The reaction to us, which is hard You remember him? 0:10:25.800 --> 0:10:26.920 Yeah? I remember Jake. 0:10:27.360 --> 0:10:29.840 He seems like a really nice guy because you know, 0:10:30.040 --> 0:10:30.920 we spoke to him. 0:10:31.000 --> 0:10:32.960 But we're wondering what you thought about the date. 0:10:34.240 --> 0:10:39.720 I mean, it was like one of the nicer dates 0:10:39.920 --> 0:10:43.040 I've been on. What was in a while It's. 0:10:42.960 --> 0:10:44.400 Not what I was expecting you to say. 0:10:44.520 --> 0:10:45.880 Why are you disgusted by that? 0:10:46.000 --> 0:10:49.400 I know a guy who can take care of a girl. 0:10:50.160 --> 0:10:51.559 Are you saying to take care of her? I mean 0:10:51.559 --> 0:10:54.199 she ended up paying for half anyway, chosen. 0:10:54.200 --> 0:10:56.440 Restaurant, Like, oh, he told you that. 0:10:57.080 --> 0:10:59.080 Then you guys went Dutch at the end, he said 0:10:59.080 --> 0:11:00.760 you insisted, yeah, bed knowing them. 0:11:00.920 --> 0:11:03.160 Yeah, I mean that's the problem. 0:11:03.960 --> 0:11:05.360 What do you mean what. 0:11:05.960 --> 0:11:08.280 The problem is that you wanted to pay for yourself? 0:11:08.480 --> 0:11:13.520 And no, no, like not that part. Like that part's fine. 0:11:14.040 --> 0:11:17.000 I'm talking about like after the date. 0:11:17.320 --> 0:11:21.520 I then mooted him for my drinks and like his 0:11:21.840 --> 0:11:23.640 vimo history popped up. 0:11:24.040 --> 0:11:28.560 Oh yeah, And I love looking at people's veno yeah private, 0:11:28.600 --> 0:11:28.880 But I. 0:11:28.800 --> 0:11:31.120 See people all the time when I'm. 0:11:30.520 --> 0:11:32.400 Like, oh, what was on it? 0:11:32.400 --> 0:11:33.559 It was diabolical. 0:11:33.920 --> 0:11:39.440 I mean all of these these ladies, like Trish has 0:11:39.480 --> 0:11:43.400 a kissy face next to it, and then Britney has 0:11:43.640 --> 0:11:47.640 a dress emo g next to it, and then Lisa 0:11:47.920 --> 0:11:49.640 has a gift box next. 0:11:49.440 --> 0:11:53.320 To it, like the listening visual prior transactions that Jake 0:11:53.400 --> 0:11:54.000 has done. 0:11:54.400 --> 0:11:56.000 What giving money? 0:11:56.240 --> 0:11:58.880 Yeah, these are prior transactions. 0:11:59.280 --> 0:12:01.280 He sending these girls money. 0:12:02.400 --> 0:12:05.040 I thought you found the only man that was finally 0:12:05.040 --> 0:12:06.200 getting paid by ladies. 0:12:08.400 --> 0:12:09.679 I see, it's the opposite. 0:12:09.800 --> 0:12:13.920 He's giving out money, right, he's not a jigglow. I 0:12:13.920 --> 0:12:18.439 think he's a sugar daddy and we're not exclusive. We 0:12:18.679 --> 0:12:20.040 just you know, it was one day. 0:12:20.160 --> 0:12:23.400 I get it, but I'm not into. 0:12:24.320 --> 0:12:27.080 You know, like guys just dating multiple people at the 0:12:27.120 --> 0:12:27.640 same time. 0:12:28.040 --> 0:12:30.640 A wait, hold on, are you upset that he's dating 0:12:30.840 --> 0:12:33.360 other people? Are you upset that you think he's a 0:12:33.400 --> 0:12:34.120 sugar daddy? 0:12:34.400 --> 0:12:35.600 Like, I don't know what it. 0:12:35.559 --> 0:12:38.240 Is, but in the last month, it's just a ton 0:12:38.280 --> 0:12:38.600 of women. 0:12:38.679 --> 0:12:41.360 It's a ton of emojis, and to me, that makes 0:12:41.400 --> 0:12:42.520 a ton of red flags. 0:12:43.000 --> 0:12:45.160 But you're also jumping too a lot of conclusions, like 0:12:45.240 --> 0:12:47.520 what if he's in a fantastic book club with a 0:12:47.520 --> 0:12:48.520 bunch of ladies. 0:12:50.679 --> 0:12:53.240 Businesses they say to put random ones so that they 0:12:53.320 --> 0:12:54.200 can't tracks. 0:12:54.360 --> 0:12:57.680 Yeah, because the thing is, it sounds like you never 0:12:57.720 --> 0:12:59.840 asked him about it, right, Kim. 0:12:59.679 --> 0:13:01.480 I mean I didn't have to, it's right there. 0:13:01.840 --> 0:13:03.400 Well, yeah, but it could be interesting to hear the 0:13:03.480 --> 0:13:07.360 explanation behind those transactions. I wonder too, And this is 0:13:07.360 --> 0:13:10.120 the perfect time to get that explanation because Jake is 0:13:10.160 --> 0:13:12.240 actually on the other line right now, wanting to talk 0:13:12.280 --> 0:13:14.199 to you. 0:13:14.280 --> 0:13:16.360 Jake, what type of book club are you in? 0:13:17.960 --> 0:13:19.280 I'm not in any book club. 0:13:19.679 --> 0:13:22.760 Okay, say you're sending into small businesses. 0:13:22.800 --> 0:13:25.360 Come on, talk to Kim here. What's going on. 0:13:25.880 --> 0:13:27.480 I don't have to lie to anybody. It is what 0:13:27.520 --> 0:13:27.880 it is. 0:13:28.480 --> 0:13:28.760 Wait. 0:13:29.000 --> 0:13:33.360 I didn't think that she would go through my Venmo history. 0:13:33.400 --> 0:13:35.560 There you say, it is what it is? 0:13:35.600 --> 0:13:35.800 What? 0:13:35.800 --> 0:13:36.280 What is it? 0:13:36.400 --> 0:13:37.120 Ye? Thank you? 0:13:37.960 --> 0:13:40.520 They lied. I see a lot of ladies and I 0:13:40.600 --> 0:13:43.320 pay Huh, what are. 0:13:43.240 --> 0:13:43.920 You pay for? 0:13:44.200 --> 0:13:45.080 Yeah, it's not dinner. 0:13:45.160 --> 0:13:47.640 If you're use your credit. 0:13:47.360 --> 0:13:50.120 Card right, sometimes I'll pay for the pre dinner or whatever. 0:13:53.920 --> 0:13:55.000 I can't believe you were right. 0:13:55.320 --> 0:14:01.120 Yeah yeah wait wait, wait, wait listen, you never said, oh, 0:14:01.160 --> 0:14:04.480 it costs me x amount of money to get ready. 0:14:04.880 --> 0:14:07.439 I have to look good. I have to dress nice 0:14:07.480 --> 0:14:07.880 for you. 0:14:08.440 --> 0:14:09.600 We've heard it on our show before. 0:14:09.800 --> 0:14:11.240 Yeah, you know what I mean. 0:14:11.760 --> 0:14:16.200 If you're paying for like people, then you can pay 0:14:16.280 --> 0:14:19.480 for how I prep for this date because I got 0:14:19.640 --> 0:14:20.560 new foundation. 0:14:21.040 --> 0:14:21.680 I got. 0:14:23.280 --> 0:14:23.440 Wait. 0:14:24.000 --> 0:14:25.600 Okay, you want me to play for your stuff now? 0:14:25.760 --> 0:14:31.600 I mean you really were very insistent on paying well. 0:14:31.440 --> 0:14:34.800 I mean before, no, you just seemed like a sugar daddy. 0:14:34.920 --> 0:14:37.040 But I mean, if you're paying for ghost things, then 0:14:37.040 --> 0:14:39.200 why not by foundation. 0:14:40.760 --> 0:14:43.400 Cicular ninety dollars? 0:14:43.520 --> 0:14:45.920 Are you just trying to get revenge for the Venmo? 0:14:46.080 --> 0:14:48.280 I can't tell him because, like you paid for the 0:14:48.400 --> 0:14:51.000 drinks you wanted to pay right. Don't you like the 0:14:51.080 --> 0:14:53.720 independence of paying for your own stuff and not feeling 0:14:53.760 --> 0:14:54.840 emboldened to somebody? 0:14:54.960 --> 0:14:57.240 And Jake, by the way, I did have to get 0:14:57.280 --> 0:15:03.000 ready before I did this segment. Yeah, well, you know, 0:15:03.120 --> 0:15:07.000 if you're if you're all about spreading joy or whatever 0:15:07.040 --> 0:15:09.200 you said before, I could use a little bit of joy. 0:15:09.520 --> 0:15:13.120 The key word is ladies. Lady Okay, I can. 0:15:13.040 --> 0:15:15.480 Use a lady emoji when I send you the Venmo 0:15:15.560 --> 0:15:17.320 request if that makes you feel more comfortable. 0:15:18.040 --> 0:15:20.200 I mean, you, guys, get in line. I'm ahead of 0:15:20.240 --> 0:15:23.840 a Well, okay for my drink? 0:15:24.440 --> 0:15:26.160 You want your fifty bucks back? Or do you want 0:15:26.240 --> 0:15:28.320 more than that to compensate for the other stuff? 0:15:28.480 --> 0:15:28.680 Yeah? 0:15:28.800 --> 0:15:30.840 Like, how much did it really cost for you to 0:15:31.080 --> 0:15:33.000 get all dressed up and pretty. 0:15:32.680 --> 0:15:34.320 For ninety dollars? 0:15:34.400 --> 0:15:35.160 Ninety dollars? 0:15:35.840 --> 0:15:39.280 Ninety dollars. Let's just make it a nice, cool one 0:15:39.320 --> 0:15:41.800 hundred for getting her more money. 0:15:41.800 --> 0:15:43.760 Perfect, he's like buying your affection. 0:15:44.000 --> 0:15:48.520 Kim. It's not my affection. It's a lot of people's affection. 0:15:49.280 --> 0:15:51.600 I mean, like he said, he's selling joy. How he's 0:15:51.680 --> 0:15:53.120 doing it, you might as well take advantage. 0:15:53.200 --> 0:15:55.640 So are you not interested in him romantically? This is 0:15:55.880 --> 0:15:56.560 just a business. 0:15:56.640 --> 0:15:58.960 Well let's find out, because Kim, we would like to 0:15:59.000 --> 0:16:02.040 offer to send you and Jake on another day. 0:16:02.520 --> 0:16:04.960 And if you say yes, we will pay for it. 0:16:05.000 --> 0:16:08.040 Do I get to be a sugar daddy? Then you were. 0:16:07.960 --> 0:16:10.320 Against this the entire segment. You can't just change it 0:16:10.320 --> 0:16:10.560 the light. 0:16:10.640 --> 0:16:12.040 I can come into the role of power. 0:16:12.520 --> 0:16:16.200 Okay, all right, you're behind me and Kim in the 0:16:16.240 --> 0:16:19.520 payment line. So Kim first with you, what do you 0:16:19.520 --> 0:16:21.200 think about Jake giving him another chance? 0:16:21.520 --> 0:16:24.080 I'm gonna say yes in the themo payment. No on 0:16:24.120 --> 0:16:24.720 the second day? 0:16:24.960 --> 0:16:28.920 Oh okay, okay, that's actually pretty smart business. 0:16:29.120 --> 0:16:30.160 I mean, yeah, I. 0:16:30.120 --> 0:16:31.760 Didn't know I was dealing with the business woman. 0:16:32.160 --> 0:16:33.880 Are you pretty sad? 0:16:34.880 --> 0:16:36.400 Sounds like you that your match, Jake. 0:16:37.920 --> 0:16:39.920 Yeah, I'm gonna send it. I said I would send it. 0:16:40.720 --> 0:16:44.200 Wow, does that mean Jeffrey's getting paid to Yeah? 0:16:45.200 --> 0:16:46.400 This costs forty bucks. 0:16:46.480 --> 0:16:48.000