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Speaker 1: It's a brand new second date for your Friday. Thanks

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Speaker 1: for being here. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And by the way, I know we have been getting

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Speaker 2: a lot of messages about how people love Saturdays because

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Speaker 2: it's like double feature and they like the longer version.

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Speaker 2: We do do a full hour show every day, yeah,

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Speaker 2: where we make really good jokes like that, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and you can find it on the main feed, So

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Speaker 2: pop over some time check out the full hour.

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Speaker 1: Right now, though, it is just a second date and

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Speaker 1: we've got we've got a surprise one for you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, mostly because there's a woman on the phone that

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Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe has the same financial leanings as Alexis.

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Speaker 1: Hey, that's a good way to sum it up. Is

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Speaker 1: that a way to say? Okay?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, But before we get to it, what do you

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Speaker 2: see in the comments Alexis.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Buddy commented and said, hey, Brooke and Jeffrey Crue,

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Speaker 3: I'm a therapist listening all the way from New Zealand.

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Speaker 3: I love the show on the podcast. It helps brighten

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Speaker 3: my mornings down here. But if you're ever up for it,

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Speaker 3: I'd be happy to offer the whole team a free

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Speaker 3: group therapy session wink.

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Speaker 1: Yeah at the week we I don't know girl, because

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Speaker 1: she knows that.

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Speaker 2: It's like I'm gonna hook up with one because they

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Speaker 2: obviously need at least four years or session. Yeah, we

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Speaker 2: love that that. I'm sure you're DIAGNOSINGO says oh.

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Speaker 1: Add every listener on the Second Day podcast. Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: we like that too. Yeah, you know, free therapy. We'll

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Speaker 2: Hey, it's Burg and Jeffrey in the morning, and your

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Speaker 2: brand new second date starts right now, Second.

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Speaker 4: Date up date. I'm worried this call might get messy.

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Speaker 5: I usually you're excited about that, jeff I know, but

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Speaker 5: I'm a little scared because Alexis, have you ever at

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Speaker 5: any point dated or had a crush on a guy

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Speaker 3: That's my brother's name, So absolutely, she's thing to think about.

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Speaker 2: Her face looked like she smelled the worst part in

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Speaker 2: the world, just.

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Speaker 6: That I can tell you broke your heart, didn't he

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Speaker 6: You're not even going to acknowledge that he exists. You

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Speaker 6: have to try to keep your jealousy bottled up because

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Speaker 6: a guy named Jake is on the phone with us

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Speaker 4: I like, brother, Awesome.

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Speaker 2: I love how despite your answer, you're still sticking with

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Speaker 4: We all know her brother's name.

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Speaker 6: That only makes it more tempting to her. The forbidden fruit. Jacob,

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Speaker 6: say hi to Alexis, Hey, what's up, brother?

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Speaker 4: This is awkward.

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Speaker 7: It was your brother.

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Speaker 4: He didn't sell you somehow.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Jacob's very brave of you to come on the

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Speaker 6: show today.

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Speaker 4: Thanks for being on.

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Speaker 6: Tell us about the woman who's not named Alexus that

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Speaker 6: you want us to call.

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Speaker 4: It's going to be.

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Speaker 8: Said, Yeah, I want to call Kim. I met her

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Speaker 8: through mutual friends at a birthday roots up party.

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Speaker 2: Oh was it like a setup between the mutual friends

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Speaker 7: We just we have mutual friends.

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Speaker 8: She just happened to be there, and we really bonded

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Speaker 8: over the fact that the music was absolutely horrible.

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Speaker 1: He's like, I'm going to take over.

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Speaker 4: Jealousy is coming out with that comment, so please try.

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Speaker 7: And keep it under.

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Speaker 1: I like deep cuts. You ever heard that?

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Speaker 2: Okay, so I take it you didn't dance together that night.

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Speaker 8: No, I mean it wasn't my kind of music, wasn't

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Speaker 2: You know, they say people just need a common enemy sometimes.

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Speaker 4: So tell us how did you and Kim come to be?

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Speaker 8: Well?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like, was there a date?

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Speaker 8: I mean yeah, we were talking and we were having

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Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, yeah, we got talking and again the music

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Speaker 4: I wonder if you guys have bad taste in music

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Speaker 8: We talked about our most embarrassing moment, and she said

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Speaker 1: Did it make you on a Google or YouTube? Exactly?

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Speaker 1: What game show?

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Speaker 7: I never get the air? Yeah I don't. I don't

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, And did you share yours?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: I told her about one time I went to a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, most embarrassing moment. That's rude, though, I.

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Speaker 7: Was embarrassed for this guy.

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Speaker 6: You're embarrassed for the DJ playing the bad music. That's

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Speaker 2: I know you're trying to be funny, but it's like

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Speaker 1: You just did a cop out.

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Speaker 7: I mean it was a joke, you know, I was

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Speaker 7: Yeah? Yeah, I mean it felt like everything was all right.

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Speaker 7: We got the bill and then she insisted on going Dutch?

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Speaker 1: That's good though. Don't you like that?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean I have no problem with it.

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Speaker 6: How did she insist? Did you offer to pay? And

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Speaker 7: Or how did that? Yeah? Yeah, she like immediately asked

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Speaker 8: Like, I don't know, maybe she's had like bad dates

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Speaker 1: I think that's like majority of dates.

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Speaker 2: No, honestly, yeah, it's not just no expected something in return,

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Speaker 3: It's like if you pay them, you don't feel pressure

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I would say, like the majority of men

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Speaker 7: Yeah. I mean obviously I would like something to happen.

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Speaker 6: But.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you can pay, I can pay.

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Speaker 7: It wasn't my intention, correct, correct?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, So we had a hug and a kiss on

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Speaker 8: really yeah, like she's really with it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and she's not trying to plan anything else.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, Like I've hinted at oh, like there's a game

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Speaker 7: Next week, you know. Yeah.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, like come over to my house and like check

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Speaker 6: Know, And there's not going to be enough bad music

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Speaker 6: at those games. Soon had a terrible venue.

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Speaker 7: Because I'd be there at my house.

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Speaker 1: They should only go to open mics. Actually, I'll give you.

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Speaker 6: Something to bond about all over again and hate on.

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Speaker 6: So let's try and set that up for you. When

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Speaker 6: we come back, We're gonna call Kim and try and

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Speaker 6: get you a second date update with the worst music ever.

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Speaker 4: Right off a song, guys, request second date update.

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Speaker 6: When you think of sub tar music, maybe you picture

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Speaker 6: a certain twelve year old Jewish boy singing his original

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I want you to be quiet so I can

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Speaker 4: I'll tell you.

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Speaker 6: I'm encouraging people to touch a mo a moonbeam, whatever

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Speaker 9: I like it.

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Speaker 6: I can only imagine This song was playing during Jake's

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Speaker 2: And I'm pretty sure I've been to at least two

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you gotta put it on Spotify. It's spreading.

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Speaker 6: There were highs and lows, for sure, but at the

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Speaker 4: Jake ended up getting a kiss.

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Speaker 6: But the problem is now Kim is a ding a

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Speaker 4: It just doesn't feel like her heart is in it.

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Speaker 1: I think it was a cheap kiss. I mean it's

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Speaker 1: just important to Yeah, isn't that right? Am?

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Speaker 4: I right on that JA point? Where on your body

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Speaker 7: I mean, yeah, it was. It was on the cheek.

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Speaker 7: I mean, you know, it's what I would expect.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 6: I think I kiss on the cheek is cute because

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Speaker 6: it's just like, oh, I just don't want to kiss

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Speaker 1: Good, you know, like you don't gross out.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, good job to night.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to touch your mouth.

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Speaker 4: Just kiss smells well.

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Speaker 6: Hopefully there are more kisses to come if we can

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Speaker 6: do our jobs right on, not just cheak kisses.

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Speaker 4: We'll find out.

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Speaker 2: I mean, if it starts to go south, we just

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Speaker 2: put your song on and she's back in the game.

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Speaker 6: Yea. Hope the kisses don't go too far. So, but

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Speaker 6: let's just call her. We'll see if she picks up,

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Speaker 6: and we're gonna try to do this. Here you ready, man?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? Man? Cool?

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Speaker 4: Here we go.

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Speaker 5: Hello.

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Speaker 4: Hey is this Kim?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Hey, uh Kim, good morning. You don't have to be

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Speaker 4: afraid of us.

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Speaker 6: We're just a harmless morning radio show called Brook and

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Speaker 6: Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 4: I'm jeff You may know me from the hit song

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Speaker 4: reach for the Sky, which while the sky.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, but you do know it?

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Speaker 7: Wait?

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Speaker 4: Do you please tell me you don't recognize that I've.

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Speaker 7: Heard your show before?

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Speaker 4: Okay, oh no.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, it's thank you.

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Speaker 6: That's the answer, Lord, Okay, thank you for picking up

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Speaker 6: the phone.

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Speaker 7: Kim.

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Speaker 6: If you're familiar with the show, then you might be

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Speaker 6: familiar with our second date update segment.

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Speaker 7: Unfortunately. Yeah, oh are you do know him?

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Speaker 1: Okay, since you responded that.

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Speaker 6: Way, well, unfortunately or fortunately, you are part of one now,

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Speaker 6: so congratulations.

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Speaker 1: To the club.

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Speaker 7: Yea for me, that's.

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Speaker 4: Right, I'm going to take that.

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Speaker 1: Sincerely.

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Speaker 6: We will, and we're calling on behalf of a guy

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Speaker 6: that you went out with recently, a guy named Jake.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, what Jake?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: The reaction to us, which is hard You remember him?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? I remember Jake.

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Speaker 2: He seems like a really nice guy because you know,

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Speaker 4: But we're wondering what you thought about the date.

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Speaker 7: I mean, it was like one of the nicer dates

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Speaker 7: I've been on. What was in a while It's.

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Speaker 4: Not what I was expecting you to say.

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Speaker 1: Why are you disgusted by that?

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Speaker 4: I know a guy who can take care of a girl.

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Speaker 4: Are you saying to take care of her? I mean

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Speaker 4: she ended up paying for half anyway, chosen.

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Speaker 7: Restaurant, Like, oh, he told you that.

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Speaker 2: Then you guys went Dutch at the end, he said

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean that's the problem.

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Speaker 4: What do you mean what.

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Speaker 1: The problem is that you wanted to pay for yourself?

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Speaker 7: And no, no, like not that part. Like that part's fine.

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Speaker 7: I'm talking about like after the date.

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Speaker 9: I then mooted him for my drinks and like his

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Speaker 9: vimo history popped up.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, And I love looking at people's veno yeah private,

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Speaker 1: But I.

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Speaker 4: See people all the time when I'm.

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Speaker 1: Like, oh, what was on it?

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Speaker 7: It was diabolical.

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Speaker 9: I mean all of these these ladies, like Trish has

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Speaker 9: a dress emo g next to it, and then Lisa

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Speaker 9: has a gift box next.

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Speaker 6: To it, like the listening visual prior transactions that Jake

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Speaker 6: has done.

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Speaker 4: What giving money?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, these are prior transactions.

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Speaker 7: He sending these girls money.

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Speaker 2: I thought you found the only man that was finally

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Speaker 1: I see, it's the opposite.

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Speaker 9: He's giving out money, right, he's not a jigglow. I

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Speaker 9: think he's a sugar daddy and we're not exclusive. We

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Speaker 9: just you know, it was one day.

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Speaker 7: I get it, but I'm not into.

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Speaker 9: You know, like guys just dating multiple people at the

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Speaker 2: A wait, hold on, are you upset that he's dating

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Speaker 2: other people? Are you upset that you think he's a

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Speaker 9: Like, I don't know what it.

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Speaker 7: Is, but in the last month, it's just a ton

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Speaker 9: It's a ton of emojis, and to me, that makes

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Speaker 2: But you're also jumping too a lot of conclusions, like

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Speaker 2: what if he's in a fantastic book club with a

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Speaker 3: Businesses they say to put random ones so that they

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Speaker 6: Yeah, because the thing is, it sounds like you never

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Speaker 6: asked him about it, right, Kim.

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Speaker 7: I mean I didn't have to, it's right there.

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Speaker 6: Well, yeah, but it could be interesting to hear the

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Speaker 6: explanation behind those transactions. I wonder too, And this is

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Speaker 4: Jake, what type of book club are you in?

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Speaker 7: I'm not in any book club.

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Speaker 3: Okay, say you're sending into small businesses.

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Speaker 4: Come on, talk to Kim here. What's going on.

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Speaker 7: I don't have to lie to anybody. It is what

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Speaker 7: it is.

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Speaker 1: Wait.

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Speaker 8: I didn't think that she would go through my Venmo history.

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Speaker 4: There you say, it is what it is?

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Speaker 7: What?

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Speaker 4: What is it?

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Speaker 2: Ye? Thank you?

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Speaker 7: They lied. I see a lot of ladies and I

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Speaker 7: pay Huh, what are.

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Speaker 4: You pay for?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not dinner.

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Speaker 4: If you're use your credit.

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Speaker 7: Card right, sometimes I'll pay for the pre dinner or whatever.

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Speaker 1: I can't believe you were right.

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Speaker 8: Yeah yeah wait wait, wait, wait listen, you never said, oh,

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Speaker 8: it costs me x amount of money to get ready.

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Speaker 7: I have to look good. I have to dress nice

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Speaker 7: for you.

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Speaker 1: We've heard it on our show before.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 9: If you're paying for like people, then you can pay

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Speaker 9: for how I prep for this date because I got

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Speaker 9: new foundation.

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Speaker 2: I got.

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Speaker 5: Wait.

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Speaker 7: Okay, you want me to play for your stuff now?

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Speaker 7: I mean you really were very insistent on paying well.

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Speaker 9: I mean before, no, you just seemed like a sugar daddy.

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Speaker 9: But I mean, if you're paying for ghost things, then

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Speaker 7: Cicular ninety dollars?

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Speaker 1: Are you just trying to get revenge for the Venmo?

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Speaker 2: I can't tell him because, like you paid for the

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Speaker 2: drinks you wanted to pay right. Don't you like the

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Speaker 2: independence of paying for your own stuff and not feeling

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Speaker 6: And Jake, by the way, I did have to get

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Speaker 6: ready before I did this segment. Yeah, well, you know,

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Speaker 6: if you're if you're all about spreading joy or whatever

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Speaker 7: The key word is ladies. Lady Okay, I can.

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Speaker 6: Use a lady emoji when I send you the Venmo

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Speaker 6: request if that makes you feel more comfortable.

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Speaker 7: I mean, you, guys, get in line. I'm ahead of

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Speaker 7: a Well, okay for my drink?

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Speaker 4: You want your fifty bucks back? Or do you want

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Speaker 4: more than that to compensate for the other stuff?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: Like, how much did it really cost for you to

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Speaker 7: For ninety dollars?

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Speaker 1: Ninety dollars?

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Speaker 7: Ninety dollars. Let's just make it a nice, cool one

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Speaker 7: hundred for getting her more money.

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Speaker 1: Perfect, he's like buying your affection.

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Speaker 7: Kim. It's not my affection. It's a lot of people's affection.

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Speaker 4: I mean, like he said, he's selling joy. How he's

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Speaker 1: So are you not interested in him romantically? This is

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Speaker 6: Well let's find out, because Kim, we would like to

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Speaker 6: offer to send you and Jake on another day.

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Speaker 4: And if you say yes, we will pay for it.

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Speaker 1: Do I get to be a sugar daddy? Then you were.

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Speaker 4: Against this the entire segment. You can't just change it

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Speaker 4: the light.

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Speaker 1: I can come into the role of power.

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Speaker 6: Okay, all right, you're behind me and Kim in the

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Speaker 7: I'm gonna say yes in the themo payment. No on

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Speaker 7: the second day?

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, that's actually pretty smart business.

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Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, I.

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Speaker 7: Didn't know I was dealing with the business woman.

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Speaker 4: Are you pretty sad?

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Speaker 1: Sounds like you that your match, Jake.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm gonna send it. I said I would send it.

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Speaker 1: Wow, does that mean Jeffrey's getting paid to Yeah?

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Speaker 4: This costs forty bucks.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, we'll just we'll just keep it like that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he just said yes, because you're cheap.

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Speaker 6: Just made alexis jealous again again looking Jeffrey in the morning,

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Speaker 6: I have some disappointing news.

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Speaker 4: What's what management says?

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Speaker 6: I can't accept payment from listeners just because I got

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Speaker 6: all dulled up for the second data?

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Speaker 1: Don't I think he looks so good?

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Speaker 4: I really I thought so.

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Speaker 6: But now apparently I have to return the money and

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Speaker 6: quote unquote show proof that I did.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, and those pretty boy pants you thought you

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Speaker 2: were going to get paid for?

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Speaker 1: Hard was a rough day, dude. How did this girl

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Speaker 2: She just wanted to get paid, She didn't want to

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Speaker 2: get Yeah the thing that rhymes was paid?

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah paid? Yeah yeah yeah. Well she's not alone.

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Speaker 6: I'm actually getting a lot of text at seventy eight five,

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Speaker 6: nine to two from our listeners who want to get

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Speaker 4: If he's still offering, I mean, if he's like, I'm

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Speaker 1: But it's obviously not working for him. He's like coming

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Speaker 4: But if it makes him happy, whatever, that's what he

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Speaker 4: wins exactly, That's what he said. He said it is

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Speaker 4: his way of spreading joy. Let spoil people.

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Speaker 1: Only with hot women.

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Speaker 3: Yeah not maybe the people that need it, but again,

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Speaker 3: let him spoil people.

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Speaker 6: Another way to spread joy is to share our podcast.

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Speaker 6: Oh yes, so go, tell a friend or force a

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Speaker 6: family member to listen. Spread some joy at Brook and

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Speaker 6: Jeffrey