1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:02,960 Speaker 1: Brought to you by the reinvented two thousand twelve Camray. 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 1: It's ready. Are you welcome to stuff mom never told you? 3 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:17,560 Speaker 1: From house Stop works dot Com. Hello, and welcome to 4 00:00:17,560 --> 00:00:20,560 Speaker 1: the podcast. This is Molly and I'm Kristin. Kristin. Here's 5 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:23,480 Speaker 1: a question we get a lot for our listeners. Are 6 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:30,480 Speaker 1: women really worse drivers than men? Yes, the ultimate gender stereotype. 7 00:00:30,520 --> 00:00:32,360 Speaker 1: It is a gender stereotype, and a bet a few 8 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 1: of you when you saw the title of today's podcast 9 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:37,920 Speaker 1: in your iTunes que were sort of like, really, really, 10 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:40,400 Speaker 1: Molly and Kristin, you're gonna go there? Isn't it a 11 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:44,320 Speaker 1: little too basic to get behind the wheel on stereo? 12 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 1: You are starting early with the I'm trying to get 13 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:52,159 Speaker 1: these cranked up here, Molly, Well, we are. We are 14 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:54,360 Speaker 1: going to go back because once we started to research 15 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 1: it as usual, there's some pretty interesting stuff behind the stereotype, 16 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 1: not quite as basic as we thought. And my fondest 17 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 1: hope is that this podcast will prove both my father 18 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 1: and my brother is wrong about my driving abilities. Well, 19 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 1: do you get some some flak from the men in 20 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 1: your family? I do, and I think it's unnecessary not 21 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 1: saying I'm a perfect driver. But I'm not saying that 22 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: they are better drivers than I am. Yeah, I will 23 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:21,800 Speaker 1: say that I prefer to drive, uh without my dad 24 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:24,840 Speaker 1: in the car. He just oh, he just grips the 25 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 1: door handle, Yeah, really tightly. And how is that not 26 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: supposed to affect you. That's gonna make you feel worse. 27 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 1: It's going to affect your important, your performance, And they're 28 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 1: just undermunning you before you even start, anytime you start 29 00:01:36,959 --> 00:01:41,920 Speaker 1: to put on the brakes. Grip tight grip. Well, Molly, 30 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 1: let's get down to breast text and gins to this question. 31 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 1: So let's start out with a study from January two 32 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:54,040 Speaker 1: thousand seven. This comes from in SNBC dot com and 33 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:57,760 Speaker 1: they're is a guy named David Gerrard from Carnegie Mellon 34 00:01:57,840 --> 00:02:02,360 Speaker 1: University who co a third a study on road risk 35 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 1: and he found that mail drivers have a seventy seven 36 00:02:06,080 --> 00:02:09,919 Speaker 1: percent higher risk of dying in a car accident than 37 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:14,320 Speaker 1: women based on miles driven. And he admitted, and I 38 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 1: found this a pretty telling quote in this article that 39 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 1: he lets his wife drive based on the research he 40 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:22,079 Speaker 1: had done and putting together this database of all these 41 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:25,640 Speaker 1: traffic incidents, he lets his wife drive. She's the safest 42 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 1: person to have behind the wheel according to his research. Yeah, 43 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 1: and the um demographic that is most at risk for 44 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:40,359 Speaker 1: fatalities on the road are mail drivers ages sixteen to 45 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:43,920 Speaker 1: twenty three, and their fatality rates are four times higher 46 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 1: than average. And that's one reason why car insurance premiums 47 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 1: for young male drivers will often be much higher, up 48 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 1: to higher than car insurance premiums for teen female drivers. 49 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 1: Right now out, once you reach a certain age, women 50 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 1: are more at risk of dying in a car accident. 51 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 1: He gave the case of an eighty two year old 52 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:09,800 Speaker 1: woman and basically, they are risk of dying because they 53 00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:13,360 Speaker 1: are old. Real and I think that this is where 54 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 1: you're going to see that there are just so many 55 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 1: caveats when you start discussing these traffic statistics, and that 56 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 1: you know, he made the overall claim that women were 57 00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 1: safer drivers, but then a lot of the articles about 58 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 1: this poor eighty two year old woman hypothetical who is 59 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 1: at the highest risk of dying because there are so 60 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:33,799 Speaker 1: many different factors that you have to take into account 61 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:38,120 Speaker 1: when you evaluate road risk. UM. For instance, he says 62 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 1: one of the riskiest combinations in the database where men 63 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 1: between ages one and twenty four driving motorcycles between midnight 64 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 1: and four am, and their road fatality risk was forty 65 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 1: five thousand times higher than normal. Because you have, you know, 66 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 1: the the age cohort that tends to drive more reckless 67 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 1: than others. You have motorcycles which you're apparently more dangerous 68 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 1: than you have the hours between midnight and four am, 69 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 1: when you have drunk drivers on the road and limited visibility, 70 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 1: all sorts of factors. So it is very hard, it 71 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 1: will be hard throughout this podcast to separate out all 72 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 1: these sort of you know, coexisting factors. But you brought 73 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 1: up the fact that for teen drivers, uh, the premiums 74 00:04:21,960 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 1: are lower for women or for teenage girls than than 75 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:27,600 Speaker 1: teenage boys. So why don't we go into some findings 76 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 1: that the Wall Street Journal published just this week about 77 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 1: teenage drivers. Yeah, the Wall Street Journal reported that insurance 78 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:40,840 Speaker 1: premiums four teen girl drivers are on the rise because 79 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:45,359 Speaker 1: of likely because of an increase in insurance claims among 80 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:49,480 Speaker 1: that group. And along with that, All State Insurance Company 81 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 1: published a survey that it commissioned about the teen driving habits, 82 00:04:54,960 --> 00:04:58,040 Speaker 1: which found that forty percent of the girls said that 83 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 1: they were likely to drive ten miles over the speed 84 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 1: limit as compared to thirty six percent of the boys 85 00:05:04,880 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 1: who admitted to speeding. And then of those girls, six 86 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:12,600 Speaker 1: characterize their own driving is aggressive, up from only nine 87 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:14,840 Speaker 1: percent in two thousand five when they did last time 88 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 1: they did this team driving survey, and just over half 89 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 1: of the girls said they're likely to drive all talking 90 00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 1: on the phone or texting my pet peeves up compared 91 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 1: with thirty eight percent of the boys. And the findings 92 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 1: from this all States study or survey, I should say 93 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:35,040 Speaker 1: or really surprising to the people conducting it, because women 94 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:39,800 Speaker 1: are characteristically far more cautious behind the wheel than guys are. 95 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:44,599 Speaker 1: And the study survey authors wondered whether you know this 96 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:48,840 Speaker 1: actually reflected a shift in teen girl attitudes. Maybe they're 97 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 1: they were self reporting riskier driving behavior as a way 98 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:57,280 Speaker 1: to insert their assert themselves and keep up with the boys. Now, 99 00:05:57,320 --> 00:06:00,720 Speaker 1: self reported surveys are always troubling. Mean you can't take 100 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 1: them with You have to take them with a grain 101 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 1: of salt because people could lie. And maybe and that 102 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 1: was a straight out quote from the I'll say people, 103 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 1: as the boys on the survey live, they are aggressive 104 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:13,400 Speaker 1: drivers and in all states experience. Um, but I do 105 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:15,599 Speaker 1: think that you know, as Kristen said, they brought this 106 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 1: really interesting question of our girls trying to keep up 107 00:06:19,279 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 1: with boys in terms of just you know, being perceived 108 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 1: as equal by taking on some of their characteristic road traits. 109 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:30,920 Speaker 1: And I gotta say, I think that that assertion is 110 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 1: a little bit of a stretch, just thinking about myself 111 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:40,480 Speaker 1: at sixteen, I wasn't really trying to you know. I mean, obviously, 112 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 1: once you get the keys to the car, it is, 113 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:47,239 Speaker 1: you know, sort of your first taste of independence, because 114 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 1: you can leave your parents house and you can really 115 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 1: go wherever you want. It's just you and the open road. 116 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:58,720 Speaker 1: Let's write a song about cars, Okay? There are too many? 117 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 1: Too many son by Boys, Yes, and one of which 118 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 1: is uh one of my least favorite Beatles songs. Because 119 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 1: you and I were discussing before we started this podcast, 120 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 1: much to Molly's horror, Baby you can Drive my Car 121 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 1: gets on a mom my nerves. And I feel like, 122 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 1: now that I know this about Kristen, I'm going to 123 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 1: use it to my utmost advantage. And just when she's weak, 124 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 1: when she's low, she's gonna hear my voice from over 125 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 1: the cubicle walls going bee beep, beep Baby. Yeah, why 126 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:32,640 Speaker 1: would you do that, Jamie Molly, I don't know. Actually, 127 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:35,080 Speaker 1: no good reason to do that. Cruel. It is cruel, 128 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 1: all right, I won't do it. But I think we 129 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 1: can all agree that Christen is a fool for not 130 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:40,600 Speaker 1: liking that song. And I look forward to hearing from 131 00:07:40,640 --> 00:07:42,680 Speaker 1: all of you who hate it as well, because I'm 132 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:44,680 Speaker 1: sure you're all going to write in. I'm sure we've 133 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 1: sparked a mini war. Kristen, we're off topic. Bring it on, Yeah, 134 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 1: let's get back on topic. Like you mentioned, the All 135 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 1: State survey was based on self reporting, so you do 136 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 1: kind of have to take that with a grain of salt. However, 137 00:07:57,760 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 1: there was a study mentioned in the Telegraph that also 138 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:04,960 Speaker 1: indicates that perhaps men are just a little bit better 139 00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 1: at picking up driving skills than women, because it found 140 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 1: that girls needed an average of seven or sorry, twenty 141 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:16,400 Speaker 1: one driving lessons before they passed their driving tests, compared 142 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 1: to just seventeen lessons for boys. At the same time, 143 00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 1: men were more likely to pass their tests on driving 144 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:30,680 Speaker 1: tests the first time around, uh, with only fifty needing 145 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 1: another attempt, while fifty seven percent of women had to 146 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 1: take a second test. Although I mean it is fifty 147 00:08:36,559 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 1: four and fifty seven. That great of a statistical gap, Molly, 148 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:42,440 Speaker 1: it's not a big deal. And I think that this 149 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:45,440 Speaker 1: article also pointed out some reasons why women might have 150 00:08:45,559 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 1: been a little too worked up to get the test 151 00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:49,960 Speaker 1: right the first time. It did show the women were 152 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 1: much more affected by nerves. They really let their emotions 153 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:54,839 Speaker 1: get the best of them, because you know who lacks 154 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:57,320 Speaker 1: being judged. Apparently men are better at them women, But 155 00:08:57,360 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 1: that's a whole another podcast. Well, and but men might 156 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:02,079 Speaker 1: also be passing the test more because they were more 157 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:04,280 Speaker 1: likely to try to be friend or flirt with the 158 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:08,320 Speaker 1: examiner in order to get their past certificate. So that's 159 00:09:08,400 --> 00:09:11,280 Speaker 1: that that blows up a nice stereotype. It was so 160 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 1: weird just the focus this article gave on that, yes, 161 00:09:14,240 --> 00:09:18,679 Speaker 1: that women have this you know perception, this reputation as 162 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:21,199 Speaker 1: flirting with the old fellow from the d m B 163 00:09:21,440 --> 00:09:24,400 Speaker 1: to get that pass when they can't really parallel park. 164 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:28,640 Speaker 1: But according to this research, it's men more who are like, hey, baby, 165 00:09:28,640 --> 00:09:32,120 Speaker 1: you can drive my car. Another beatles rough from nice. 166 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:34,800 Speaker 1: But you know what, Kristen, when I was reading all 167 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:37,199 Speaker 1: these articles, I'm sort of like teen drivers, they're a 168 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:41,120 Speaker 1: whole different beast. Everyone needs some practice when they're starting out. 169 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 1: Let's go to drivers of our age, because I do think, 170 00:09:45,440 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 1: I mean, let's let's hope my father will at least 171 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 1: agree with the I'm a better driver now than I 172 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:51,240 Speaker 1: was when I was a teenager, because they still view 173 00:09:51,280 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 1: me as a teenager driving. But but I'm older, I'm wiser. 174 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:57,920 Speaker 1: So let's take the teenage drivers out of the equation. 175 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:02,360 Speaker 1: Who's a better driver now? Men or women? Well, according 176 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:05,160 Speaker 1: to the Free Economics blog on the New York Times, 177 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:08,679 Speaker 1: that is a very tricky question to answer. And we 178 00:10:08,720 --> 00:10:10,640 Speaker 1: kind of mentioned that earlier when we were talking about 179 00:10:10,720 --> 00:10:16,439 Speaker 1: that study published of study results published by MSNBC in 180 00:10:16,520 --> 00:10:20,680 Speaker 1: that there are so many different factors that contribute to 181 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 1: road risk aside from just gender. So really, just boiling 182 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 1: it down to um, you know, men versus women isn't 183 00:10:30,160 --> 00:10:33,320 Speaker 1: necessarily an easy thing to do, right, So it looked 184 00:10:33,320 --> 00:10:35,679 Speaker 1: at all the different ways. This is eric Ay Morris 185 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:37,320 Speaker 1: on the Free Economics Blog, and he has a whole 186 00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:41,160 Speaker 1: series about male and female driving differences, and the fact 187 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:43,960 Speaker 1: that matters is that men drive a lot more than women. 188 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:48,280 Speaker 1: Their commutes are on average longer, uh, their commutes tend 189 00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:52,319 Speaker 1: to take them, maybe more on freeways than women's do. Um. 190 00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:54,680 Speaker 1: It's so you can't just look at a total of 191 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:57,320 Speaker 1: accidents because when you look at the total of accidents, 192 00:10:57,800 --> 00:11:02,079 Speaker 1: emails have fewer accident it's total, but men are driving more. 193 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:05,559 Speaker 1: So then you've got to look at accidents per mile driven, 194 00:11:05,679 --> 00:11:07,360 Speaker 1: so that you can look at, you know, a woman 195 00:11:07,400 --> 00:11:09,560 Speaker 1: who drives ten miles, a man who drives ten miles, 196 00:11:09,559 --> 00:11:11,559 Speaker 1: and you look at it that way, the men have 197 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:16,600 Speaker 1: fewer accidents. Yeah, and Morris is referencing research that came 198 00:11:16,600 --> 00:11:20,840 Speaker 1: out in the mid nineteen nineties, I believe, which found 199 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:23,760 Speaker 1: that when you look at per mile driven, women were 200 00:11:23,800 --> 00:11:28,680 Speaker 1: twelve percent more likely to get into a car crash, 201 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:31,760 Speaker 1: and that was confirmed by another paper which found that 202 00:11:31,760 --> 00:11:36,240 Speaker 1: women were involved in six more accidents than men on 203 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:39,559 Speaker 1: a per mile driven basis. But then when you look 204 00:11:39,600 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 1: at the severity of the car rex then it shifts 205 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:47,760 Speaker 1: back to the men because the team of researchers also 206 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:50,040 Speaker 1: found that for each mile driven, women were twenty six 207 00:11:50,160 --> 00:11:54,120 Speaker 1: percent more likely to be involved in crashes involving injuries, 208 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:59,160 Speaker 1: but men were more likely to be involved in fatal 209 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 1: car accident. Right, So if a man gets in an accident, 210 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 1: there's a greater likelihood of of going real bad more likely. Now, 211 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:10,160 Speaker 1: the problem that More has acknowledges with these facts is 212 00:12:10,200 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 1: you can't tell who's at fault in the accidents necessarily. 213 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:16,400 Speaker 1: I mean, it may be that, uh, the man was driving, 214 00:12:16,440 --> 00:12:19,079 Speaker 1: there's a fatality, but the data is unclear on whether 215 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:21,719 Speaker 1: you know who caused the accident. Wasn't a female driver 216 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:27,319 Speaker 1: mail driver. So again, so many ways to qualify this data. Uh, 217 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:30,200 Speaker 1: but you know that was the best the best you know, 218 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 1: look that he could give. It is that, yes, women 219 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:36,800 Speaker 1: more accidents, men more fatal accidents. But throughout all of 220 00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:39,520 Speaker 1: this TOUMLI, the big question that kept coming up, I 221 00:12:39,520 --> 00:12:41,520 Speaker 1: think for both of us was why are we even 222 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:45,880 Speaker 1: why are we even asking this question in the first place, Like, 223 00:12:45,920 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 1: where did the this idea that men kind of should 224 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:53,959 Speaker 1: naturally be better drivers that cars are more the males 225 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:58,480 Speaker 1: in the male territory than the female territory even come 226 00:12:58,559 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 1: up in the first place. I mean, it's the very 227 00:13:00,960 --> 00:13:03,679 Speaker 1: driving is not a you know, it doesn't require a 228 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:07,360 Speaker 1: lot of higher order thinking. It seems like, you know, 229 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:11,200 Speaker 1: I mean, it's you're such a female driver person not 230 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:13,440 Speaker 1: thinking about all the things you have to keep in mind. 231 00:13:13,559 --> 00:13:15,000 Speaker 1: I mean you kind of you can just kind of 232 00:13:15,040 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 1: go on on autopilot, and it just doesn't seem like 233 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:21,959 Speaker 1: it takes an extraordinary person to be a good driver 234 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:24,240 Speaker 1: or not. And yet it's the stereotype that we come 235 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 1: back to over and over against. So where where did 236 00:13:27,120 --> 00:13:29,480 Speaker 1: that come from? Well, you know, we have Eric Morris 237 00:13:29,520 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 1: again from fre Economics to Think, because he he did 238 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:34,000 Speaker 1: do this really great series that I unpacked a lot 239 00:13:34,040 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 1: of um this male versus female behavior, and he has 240 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:41,120 Speaker 1: a really great history that takes us back to the 241 00:13:41,160 --> 00:13:44,360 Speaker 1: beginning of the car. Now, Morris makes the case that 242 00:13:44,679 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 1: in the nineteenth century we've got lots of changes in 243 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 1: this country going on. We've got industrialization and we've got surburbanization. 244 00:13:51,600 --> 00:13:53,960 Speaker 1: So yes, there are all these jobs to drive to, 245 00:13:54,520 --> 00:13:57,120 Speaker 1: but you've got to drive farther to get to them. 246 00:13:57,200 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 1: So with both of those shifts, at the same time, 247 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:04,720 Speaker 1: we have the home being established even more so as 248 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 1: the woman's sphere. While the men would travel outside of 249 00:14:09,280 --> 00:14:12,920 Speaker 1: the home, you know, to to the factories or wherever 250 00:14:13,160 --> 00:14:17,280 Speaker 1: to go to work, and in doing so they would 251 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 1: be more likely to use some kind of new fangled 252 00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:23,880 Speaker 1: transportation whether that would be uh, you know, a street 253 00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:29,040 Speaker 1: car or a horse car or the model T Now 254 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:31,200 Speaker 1: if the if the house is the woman's sphere, and 255 00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:33,120 Speaker 1: all of a sudden you have an easier way to 256 00:14:33,160 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 1: get out and about. You could see how men who 257 00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:38,960 Speaker 1: wanted to keep women out of their offices they may 258 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 1: have been threatened by increasing levels of female education at 259 00:14:42,080 --> 00:14:46,000 Speaker 1: the time, would have been like, well, lady, yes, yes 260 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:47,880 Speaker 1: you can go to work, but you cannot you cannot 261 00:14:47,920 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 1: be driving this car. Yeah, try A woman traveling outside 262 00:14:51,720 --> 00:14:55,040 Speaker 1: of the home unaccompanied, especially for upper class women, was 263 00:14:55,080 --> 00:14:57,760 Speaker 1: seen as very unladylike. I mean, you wouldn't want to 264 00:14:57,400 --> 00:15:01,680 Speaker 1: traverse the dusty streets, you know, and get dirt all 265 00:15:01,720 --> 00:15:04,440 Speaker 1: over your new frock you were just wear driving gloves. 266 00:15:04,440 --> 00:15:08,280 Speaker 1: There are all sorts of ways to make driving very feminine, um, 267 00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:10,840 Speaker 1: because you know, man going to work was seen as 268 00:15:10,880 --> 00:15:14,240 Speaker 1: a norm, and thus if you were driving to work yourself, 269 00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 1: you had to, you know, show that you were still feminine. Well, 270 00:15:18,280 --> 00:15:20,320 Speaker 1: in the process of getting a car started back in 271 00:15:20,360 --> 00:15:23,480 Speaker 1: the day was not as simple as it was today 272 00:15:23,480 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 1: because they would have the hand cranks and obviously a woman, 273 00:15:27,520 --> 00:15:29,920 Speaker 1: you know, popping a hood and cranking up. Using the 274 00:15:30,240 --> 00:15:33,720 Speaker 1: hand crank to crank up a car again wasn't seen 275 00:15:33,840 --> 00:15:37,280 Speaker 1: as as very ladylike or appropriate, even though it really 276 00:15:37,400 --> 00:15:40,240 Speaker 1: wasn't something that women wouldn't necessarily be strong enough to do, 277 00:15:40,320 --> 00:15:44,760 Speaker 1: although that's how it's often portrayed. Um, but it's really 278 00:15:44,800 --> 00:15:49,760 Speaker 1: just a socialization thing, like, lady, you can't crank this car. Yeah, 279 00:15:49,880 --> 00:15:52,480 Speaker 1: I am your big masculine man. I shall crank your car. 280 00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:55,000 Speaker 1: Let me do this for you. So as a result, 281 00:15:55,160 --> 00:15:58,920 Speaker 1: very few women had driver's licenses. Families had one car 282 00:15:59,280 --> 00:16:02,120 Speaker 1: that the man of to work. Uh, you know, women 283 00:16:02,120 --> 00:16:04,800 Speaker 1: would be driven to the grocery stores. Uh. There were 284 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:06,520 Speaker 1: a lot of political movements at the time to ban 285 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:09,880 Speaker 1: women from driving all together. But then we've got the 286 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:12,920 Speaker 1: good old free market coming and saving women just a 287 00:16:12,960 --> 00:16:16,400 Speaker 1: little bit. Because the carmakers realized that they had sort 288 00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:18,840 Speaker 1: of hit a saturation point in terms of selling cars 289 00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:21,160 Speaker 1: to men. You know, every family now had a car. 290 00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:25,040 Speaker 1: It seems like the epitome of success. And the carmakers 291 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:28,880 Speaker 1: were like, car, family should need two cars, will sell 292 00:16:28,920 --> 00:16:31,040 Speaker 1: them to the other adult in the family. Yeah. This 293 00:16:31,080 --> 00:16:34,880 Speaker 1: really starts in the nineteen twenties, and uh, you see 294 00:16:34,880 --> 00:16:41,200 Speaker 1: a shift in advertising automobile advertising targeted towards female consumption. 295 00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:44,040 Speaker 1: And it's funny because those kind of ads would focus 296 00:16:44,200 --> 00:16:50,080 Speaker 1: on more of the superficial aspects of cars, such as, oh, 297 00:16:50,280 --> 00:16:55,280 Speaker 1: look at this lovely color or the soft, buttery upholstery, 298 00:16:55,840 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 1: things like that, which I think is still you still 299 00:16:58,120 --> 00:16:59,720 Speaker 1: see that in car as today. It's not a new 300 00:16:59,760 --> 00:17:02,560 Speaker 1: for know and on. In the very beginning, cars were 301 00:17:02,600 --> 00:17:06,960 Speaker 1: sold to women as stylish accessories as opposed to rugged 302 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:10,360 Speaker 1: utilitarian like you know, you know, look at how much 303 00:17:10,440 --> 00:17:13,639 Speaker 1: horsepower this manly truck has, and then look at the 304 00:17:13,680 --> 00:17:18,080 Speaker 1: cute decorative flower vase and this Volkswagen beetle, and you 305 00:17:18,119 --> 00:17:20,840 Speaker 1: know what, the Volkswagen always ranks at the top of 306 00:17:21,080 --> 00:17:23,440 Speaker 1: cars that women are more likely to drive than men. 307 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:27,280 Speaker 1: You found a list of the top nine vehicles that 308 00:17:27,320 --> 00:17:29,960 Speaker 1: get sold to women more often in Volkswagen holds the 309 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:33,080 Speaker 1: top two positions top two positions. And this came from 310 00:17:33,119 --> 00:17:36,480 Speaker 1: the l A. Times. I believe it came out last year, 311 00:17:36,520 --> 00:17:39,119 Speaker 1: so a lot of these are two thousand, two thousand 312 00:17:39,160 --> 00:17:43,640 Speaker 1: nine models. But I would assume that, uh, the information 313 00:17:44,119 --> 00:17:49,160 Speaker 1: probably still hold street today because the Beetle, like you mentioned, 314 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:52,040 Speaker 1: is almost always at the top of this list, but 315 00:17:52,119 --> 00:17:55,240 Speaker 1: in two thousand nine it was actually beat out by 316 00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:59,000 Speaker 1: the Volkswagen TI one. So you say it, I don't know. 317 00:17:59,200 --> 00:18:01,480 Speaker 1: I have to say like i'd heard of the Jiguan before. 318 00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:03,959 Speaker 1: I hoviously, I do fulfill sort of that female stereotype 319 00:18:03,960 --> 00:18:06,520 Speaker 1: of not knowing much about cars, and when I got 320 00:18:06,520 --> 00:18:08,359 Speaker 1: my first car, to put a red sweater in the 321 00:18:08,400 --> 00:18:10,320 Speaker 1: front seat so i'd always know which car was mine. 322 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:13,439 Speaker 1: It's a good idea, but I do think that you know, 323 00:18:13,600 --> 00:18:15,480 Speaker 1: that idea of being sold a car that you know, 324 00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:17,439 Speaker 1: you don't know that much about your You know, your 325 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:19,400 Speaker 1: dad or your boyfriend is the one who figures out 326 00:18:19,440 --> 00:18:22,440 Speaker 1: the horsepower or the mouse per gallon. You're just concerned 327 00:18:22,440 --> 00:18:26,040 Speaker 1: with cup holders or this new thing that carmakers are 328 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 1: starting to bring out, where you know, here's a stiletto 329 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:32,360 Speaker 1: friendly pedal. Yeah, this is so far just something that 330 00:18:32,840 --> 00:18:36,160 Speaker 1: the Chevy Equinox has gone for. It has it comes 331 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:39,119 Speaker 1: with an optional heel pedal, and it's the first and 332 00:18:39,160 --> 00:18:42,760 Speaker 1: only car model with a female friendly uh pedal um, 333 00:18:42,800 --> 00:18:46,000 Speaker 1: which I'm sure plenty of women who never wear stilettos 334 00:18:46,040 --> 00:18:49,440 Speaker 1: would probably take. A fence that seems um kind of 335 00:18:49,560 --> 00:18:52,680 Speaker 1: ridiculous to think about a stiletto friendly hell. But there 336 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:57,640 Speaker 1: was a video on a Time magazine's website where one 337 00:18:57,640 --> 00:19:01,480 Speaker 1: of the reporters went out with very high set of 338 00:19:01,520 --> 00:19:05,440 Speaker 1: heels on and she she drove drove the new Equinox 339 00:19:05,480 --> 00:19:07,280 Speaker 1: around and she said that it was actually a lot 340 00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:10,679 Speaker 1: easier for pressing the gas down, but the it was 341 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:14,880 Speaker 1: still kind of uncomfortable to use the brake pedal. And 342 00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:16,800 Speaker 1: I gotta say a lot of times, if I'm driving 343 00:19:16,800 --> 00:19:19,600 Speaker 1: around with heels, let's drive barefoot and pop them off, 344 00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:21,760 Speaker 1: because it is hard. It does feel kind of dangerous 345 00:19:21,800 --> 00:19:25,400 Speaker 1: if you're driving in a really high set of heels. 346 00:19:26,119 --> 00:19:28,760 Speaker 1: So even though those things might seem offensive, like you 347 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:31,479 Speaker 1: were saying, Kristen, there is a reason why cars are 348 00:19:31,520 --> 00:19:33,240 Speaker 1: still sold to us this way. And I think it's 349 00:19:33,280 --> 00:19:36,560 Speaker 1: good to know that, you know, it's it's an old thing. 350 00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:39,480 Speaker 1: We've been fighting the stereotype for a long time. We've 351 00:19:39,480 --> 00:19:42,080 Speaker 1: always been sort of treated as the inferior where cars 352 00:19:42,200 --> 00:19:46,080 Speaker 1: are um concerned, and sometimes women might take that as 353 00:19:46,080 --> 00:19:49,399 Speaker 1: a self fulfilling prophecy, and sometimes women might really take 354 00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:52,119 Speaker 1: grievance with it. But I think it's good to remember 355 00:19:52,160 --> 00:19:54,880 Speaker 1: that driving is, you know, it's a new phenomenon. We're 356 00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:58,560 Speaker 1: very new to driving, you know, comparatively, and so just 357 00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:00,680 Speaker 1: really briefly, we want to broad it out and talk 358 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:04,280 Speaker 1: about female drivers in Saudi Arabia. Yeah, because this was 359 00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:07,200 Speaker 1: something really interesting to look at, especially when we were 360 00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:10,479 Speaker 1: uh we learned about sort of the history, the social 361 00:20:10,520 --> 00:20:13,120 Speaker 1: history of driving in the US and what a big 362 00:20:13,160 --> 00:20:16,480 Speaker 1: taboo it was for women earlier in the twentieth century 363 00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:19,520 Speaker 1: to get behind the wheel. Because this is something that's 364 00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:24,520 Speaker 1: still going on in Saudi Arabia, and uh, there might 365 00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:28,280 Speaker 1: be might be a little bit more opportunity for women 366 00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:32,760 Speaker 1: women drivers opening up in that country very soon, right, 367 00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:35,760 Speaker 1: because these drivers have been living under a band. Female 368 00:20:35,840 --> 00:20:38,800 Speaker 1: drivers are banned from driving in Saudi Arabia thanks to 369 00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:43,159 Speaker 1: an event that happened in in which women took you know, 370 00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:46,199 Speaker 1: they started driving around in these streets as this silent 371 00:20:46,200 --> 00:20:49,480 Speaker 1: protests for women's rights, and so that caused this big 372 00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:53,280 Speaker 1: crackdown on female drivers. They're all these proclamations that women 373 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:56,080 Speaker 1: driving were a force of evil. It was a sign, 374 00:20:56,520 --> 00:20:58,679 Speaker 1: you know, just the end of the world. Because it 375 00:20:58,760 --> 00:21:00,960 Speaker 1: was a sign I mean, like like we were talking about, 376 00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:03,240 Speaker 1: driving is a form of independence. If you live in 377 00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:06,320 Speaker 1: a country where women's rights and women's independence are not 378 00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:10,600 Speaker 1: value valued, then the most you know, visible symbol you 379 00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:12,560 Speaker 1: can make of that is to take away their cars. 380 00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:16,000 Speaker 1: And all of that sprang from the actions of just 381 00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:20,400 Speaker 1: forty nine women in fifteen cars driving through re odd. 382 00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:24,639 Speaker 1: I mean it's not even it's a pretty small protests 383 00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:27,760 Speaker 1: if you think about it, that had these enormous ripple effects. 384 00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:30,280 Speaker 1: And uh, The Guardian mentions that a study in two 385 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:34,200 Speaker 1: thousand four showed that of Saudi women owned a car. 386 00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:37,240 Speaker 1: But we're entirely dependent on men in the family to 387 00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:39,600 Speaker 1: drive them or they had to hire drivers, and some 388 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:43,240 Speaker 1: women will even have their underage sons drive them just 389 00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:45,440 Speaker 1: to you know, get Aaron's donne or make sure that 390 00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:48,800 Speaker 1: they don't get caught driving a car. Yeah, so, I 391 00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:51,280 Speaker 1: mean it sounds, you know, it sounds sort of, you 392 00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:55,000 Speaker 1: know crazy. When I was fishing this article is like whoa, 393 00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:57,080 Speaker 1: That's that's a good way to sum it up. I 394 00:21:57,119 --> 00:21:58,560 Speaker 1: was like, whoa. But then when you look at the 395 00:21:58,560 --> 00:22:00,720 Speaker 1: history of women and driving in a country and it 396 00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:03,879 Speaker 1: it honestly doesn't seem so different and definitely not as restrictive. 397 00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:07,919 Speaker 1: But it's very interesting to see over time and the 398 00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:10,399 Speaker 1: reason we should mention that that's popped up in the 399 00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:13,840 Speaker 1: news in the first place is because there has been 400 00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:18,000 Speaker 1: a rumor um that Saudi women will be allowed to 401 00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:21,320 Speaker 1: drive within the next two months. Yeah, so it seems 402 00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:23,520 Speaker 1: like such a given for us. Like we said, my 403 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:28,520 Speaker 1: you know, driving really is the ultimate independence when you 404 00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:31,120 Speaker 1: whether you're a boy or a girl. When she turned 405 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:33,960 Speaker 1: sixteen and you get the keys to the car and 406 00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:35,320 Speaker 1: you can go out on the road. I mean, I 407 00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:39,200 Speaker 1: still remember being sixteen seventeen and just a feeling turn 408 00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:42,680 Speaker 1: it on the radio, cranking up my jam and driving 409 00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:45,200 Speaker 1: down the road alone. It's a it's a huge it's 410 00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:47,480 Speaker 1: a huge thing. So it'll be, uh, it'll be an 411 00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:50,280 Speaker 1: interesting thing to see what happens in Saudi Arabia and 412 00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:55,240 Speaker 1: see if um, I guess, other women's rights kind of 413 00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:59,680 Speaker 1: following suit with something as basic as as driving. Maybe 414 00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:01,679 Speaker 1: if that happens, Um and Molly, I think that we 415 00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:05,720 Speaker 1: should definitely give a shout out to Scott and Ben 416 00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:09,119 Speaker 1: over at High Speed Stuff another one of our uh 417 00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:14,560 Speaker 1: how stuff works family podcasts because they have done um, 418 00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:18,479 Speaker 1: they've done some episodes dealing with women behind the wheel 419 00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:21,560 Speaker 1: as well, and it's just a good it's a handy podcast. 420 00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:23,239 Speaker 1: It's a great podcast if you want to learn more 421 00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:26,200 Speaker 1: about your car. Hi your car works, cool cars, Yep, 422 00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:29,040 Speaker 1: listen to Hi Speed Stuff, High Speed Stuff. Um. So 423 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:31,439 Speaker 1: with that, Molly, why don't we do a little bit 424 00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:36,000 Speaker 1: of listener mail? All right? So I've got an email 425 00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:39,000 Speaker 1: here from Sheridan Uh. She writes about our tattooed podcasts. 426 00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:40,920 Speaker 1: She writes, I was a little surprised when you didn't 427 00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:44,080 Speaker 1: mention henna tattoos and your tattoo podcast. Although henna tattoos 428 00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:46,440 Speaker 1: aren't real tattoos, they're just staying in the skin, I 429 00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:48,920 Speaker 1: think they're still important to consider when talking about tattoos 430 00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:51,680 Speaker 1: and feminism. Hannah is more feminine the mask in its 431 00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:54,680 Speaker 1: most designs are flowers or more pretty girly designs. They're 432 00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:56,560 Speaker 1: meant to be beautiful, and in India used as a 433 00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:59,040 Speaker 1: marriage ritual. The brides will get handed all over their 434 00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:01,199 Speaker 1: body and sometimes they're ands initials be hidden in the 435 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:03,399 Speaker 1: design and he has to find them. My mom and 436 00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:05,320 Speaker 1: I both do Hannah for ourselves and friends, and I 437 00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:07,400 Speaker 1: get lots of comments and how beautiful the designs are. 438 00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:09,800 Speaker 1: Unlike real tattoos, you don't have to worry about long 439 00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:12,720 Speaker 1: term effects or misconceptions about your personality, because if you 440 00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:14,520 Speaker 1: don't like it, you can wash it and it will 441 00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:16,040 Speaker 1: come off sooner. Or if you do like it, you 442 00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:18,640 Speaker 1: can always reapply it. I find Hannah a great temporary 443 00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:21,600 Speaker 1: way to express myself without causing damage to my body 444 00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:25,960 Speaker 1: or my reputation. So that's from Sheridan and alternative to tattooing. 445 00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:29,560 Speaker 1: All right, well, I've got one here from Anne and 446 00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:34,160 Speaker 1: she says this has also been reference to our Tattooed podcasts, 447 00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:37,679 Speaker 1: And she has three tattoos already and is planning her fourth. 448 00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,040 Speaker 1: And she said, I was interested in hearing how you 449 00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:42,000 Speaker 1: think that no matter where a woman gets a tattoo, 450 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:44,600 Speaker 1: it can be sexualized. I think I have an example 451 00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:46,800 Speaker 1: of when it is not. And it also happens to 452 00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:49,800 Speaker 1: relate to my next tattoo. And she goes on to 453 00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:53,040 Speaker 1: say that, um, she's thirty years old and she is 454 00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:56,639 Speaker 1: actually a widow, and um, she wants to get a 455 00:24:56,840 --> 00:25:00,240 Speaker 1: memorial tattoo for her husband, which is apparently very amen, 456 00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:05,520 Speaker 1: especially among um, younger younger widows. And she says, some 457 00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:08,040 Speaker 1: people get names are important symbols, some are large, some 458 00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:11,040 Speaker 1: are small, but all our tributes of love. Some people 459 00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:13,720 Speaker 1: even get ash mixed in with the ink. She said, 460 00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:16,000 Speaker 1: I didn't have my husband cremated, so that's an option 461 00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:18,200 Speaker 1: for me. I'm still waiting to set up my appointment 462 00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:20,600 Speaker 1: because I'm waiting for the super great artist I've found. 463 00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:23,160 Speaker 1: But when I get it, I'm having the drawing my 464 00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:26,240 Speaker 1: husband made for our wedding program, as he was an artist, 465 00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:29,000 Speaker 1: um and it's not only his original art. It's a 466 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:31,679 Speaker 1: beautiful picture full of symbolism and also to me, a 467 00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:33,919 Speaker 1: personal tribute I can make to him without its seeming 468 00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:37,000 Speaker 1: obvious that this is a memorial tattoo, unless I choose 469 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:39,800 Speaker 1: to pee, to choose to tell people. She says, So, 470 00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:42,399 Speaker 1: I'm curious. Do you think that these memorial tattoos can 471 00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:46,439 Speaker 1: be construed as sexual as well? And that's an interesting question. 472 00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:48,720 Speaker 1: And Molly, what do you think? Well? I think that 473 00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:50,600 Speaker 1: you know, if someone doesn't know that it is a 474 00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:54,160 Speaker 1: memorial tattoo on first glance, they may make that assumption. 475 00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:56,080 Speaker 1: But you know, the thing I've been struck with all 476 00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:59,200 Speaker 1: the emails we've gotten about tattoos is that everyone seems 477 00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:02,200 Speaker 1: to have a really cool story and symbolism with their 478 00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:04,520 Speaker 1: tattoo and I think that once you know that about 479 00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:06,960 Speaker 1: a person, it's it's impossible to see these tattoos as sexual. 480 00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:09,240 Speaker 1: So it's all about knowing the meaning behind and not 481 00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:13,040 Speaker 1: making a judgment on a superficial assumption. Well said, what 482 00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:16,679 Speaker 1: shall we do one more? Of course? All right, and 483 00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:19,200 Speaker 1: the close things out. I've got an email here from Amelia, 484 00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:24,399 Speaker 1: and this is also about our tattoo podcast, but she 485 00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:28,040 Speaker 1: doesn't really like the sources that we use. She said, well, 486 00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:30,240 Speaker 1: I really enjoyed your take on modern tattooing and women. 487 00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:32,520 Speaker 1: Your information on tattooed ladies in history didn't live up 488 00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:36,160 Speaker 1: to your usual good research practices. Christine brown Burger's assay 489 00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:39,639 Speaker 1: Revolting Beauty relies on two sources with information on tattooing history, 490 00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:43,560 Speaker 1: which are Margaret Mifflin's Bodies of Subversion and Albert Perry's 491 00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:46,520 Speaker 1: Tattoos Secrets of the Strange Artists Practiced by the Natives 492 00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:50,000 Speaker 1: of the United States, Originally published in nineteen thirty three. 493 00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:53,400 Speaker 1: Perry's full of book is full of stigma and scorn 494 00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:56,600 Speaker 1: about tattooing and contains very little actual fact. The best 495 00:26:56,680 --> 00:27:00,280 Speaker 1: this book does is illustrate how much stigma existed towards 496 00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:03,480 Speaker 1: tattooing in the nineteen thirties. Unfortunately, many researchers have relied 497 00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:09,719 Speaker 1: on his book for factual historical information. Um and she 498 00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:13,119 Speaker 1: goes on to point out some some issues that she 499 00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:16,159 Speaker 1: has with both of those sources, and she says, I 500 00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:18,719 Speaker 1: would also argue that early tattooed performing women worked as 501 00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:21,640 Speaker 1: feminists and getting tattooing much more visible for the years 502 00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:25,240 Speaker 1: before the artistic tattoo revolution the nineteen seventies, these ladies 503 00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:27,960 Speaker 1: didn't consider themselves feminists, but simply women who were doing 504 00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:30,480 Speaker 1: something a little different and an attempt to make their 505 00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:34,439 Speaker 1: lives more comfortable boy choosing a fairly well paid career, 506 00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:37,800 Speaker 1: which I guess if you think about it, is sort 507 00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:41,600 Speaker 1: of a type of feminism. 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