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Speaker 1: It's the Fread Show. Hey, Jonah, good morning, welcome to

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Speaker 1: the program. How are you?

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Speaker 3: I'm good, I'm good, Yeah, how are you?

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Speaker 2: I'm doing all right. Trying to help you out here

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Speaker 2: though it's waiting by the phone. So what's going on

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Speaker 2: with this woman? Page? Like, I need to know how

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Speaker 2: you met, about any dates you've been on, and then

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Speaker 2: where things are now, and then how we can help.

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Speaker 4: Obviously we met on the apps. You know most people

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Speaker 4: I guess meeting that way. But you know we had

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Speaker 4: a great first date. We went out after talking on

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Speaker 4: the after a little while and went out and and

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Speaker 4: you know we went back to my place and had

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Speaker 4: an even better time. Let's just put it that way.

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Speaker 1: You know, Oh, okay, you know.

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Speaker 4: Not you know, she's uh, and then she just straight

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Speaker 4: ghosted me afterwards, like and what I don't understand is like,

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Speaker 4: you know, we had a good time, we had a

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Speaker 4: great time. If she was down to go back to

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Speaker 4: my place and hook up, you know, why why the ghosting?

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Speaker 3: You know why she goes to me now I'd like

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Speaker 3: to see her again, I would.

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Speaker 2: Say most of the time. I've been doing this for

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Speaker 2: a long We've all been doing these calls for a

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Speaker 2: long time, so I mean, I would normally say when

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Speaker 2: someone on a first date wants to go home with

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Speaker 2: you that that's a good thing. So everything was good

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Speaker 2: until that point, I guess. But now you're not able

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Speaker 2: to get a hold of this woman. You've called her,

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Speaker 2: you've texted her, you've tried, and she's not responding to

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Speaker 2: you at all.

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Speaker 4: Not at all, like straight ghosted, which you know, it's

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Speaker 4: not like anything bad happens. We had a good time,

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Speaker 4: you know, we fun. Yeah, nothing weird, nothing, you know,

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Speaker 4: it was just I don't know, I don't get it.

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Speaker 1: All right.

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Speaker 2: Well, look, Jonah, we'll be the judge of that in

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Speaker 2: just a second. Okay, we're gonna find out what's going on.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna call Page, see if we can get her

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Speaker 2: on the phone, ask some questions. You'll be on the

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Speaker 2: phone at the same time, and you welcome to jump

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Speaker 2: in at some point. And the hope, as always is

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Speaker 2: that we can straighten this out, figure out what's going on,

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Speaker 2: set you guys up on another date, and pay for it.

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Speaker 3: All right, I would love that, Thank you?

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Speaker 2: Hey Jonah? Yeah, all right, let's call it Page. You

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Speaker 2: guys met on one of the dating apps. You went

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Speaker 2: on a date. You felt like it was a successful date,

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Speaker 2: so much so that she wound up going back to

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Speaker 2: your place after the dinner and the drinks or whatever

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Speaker 2: you guys did. But you have not heard from this

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Speaker 2: woman since then, and it's bugging you because obviously you

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Speaker 2: liked whatever happened and liked her and wanted to see

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Speaker 2: her again, and now you can't.

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Speaker 4: You can't find her absolutely, ye, Have you guys can

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Speaker 4: help me track her down?

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Speaker 3: That'd be great.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna find out right now. Good luck? Man?

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Speaker 3: Hello?

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Page?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I hate Page. Good morning.

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Speaker 2: My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show,

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Speaker 2: the Morning radio show, and I have to tell you

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Speaker 2: that we are on the radio right now, and I

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Speaker 2: would need your permission to continue with the calls and

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Speaker 2: cool if we chat for just a second. Uh, Okay,

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Speaker 2: I know, I know it's kind of strange and I'm

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Speaker 2: sorry to sort of barge in on your life like this,

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Speaker 2: but you're welcome to hang up in any time. We're

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Speaker 2: calling on behalf of a guy who reached out to

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Speaker 2: us for help. His name is Jonah. Do you remember

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Speaker 2: going on a date with Jonah? Yes? I do, all right, Well,

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Speaker 2: he described to us what he thought was a really

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Speaker 2: good date. He liked you a lot. He did say

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Speaker 2: that you guys wandered back at his place. He didn't

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Speaker 2: get into detail about that, but he says he hasn't

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Speaker 2: heard from you since then, So what's going on?

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Speaker 1: Why are you ghosting Jonah? It looks like, oh my.

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Speaker 3: God, this is so embarrassing.

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Speaker 5: Okay, yes we went on a date, but god, I mean, I.

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Speaker 6: Wouldn't normally kiss and tell like this is mortifying, But

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Speaker 6: it's kind of like why.

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Speaker 1: I guess it's a safe place.

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Speaker 2: This is a safe place page and he asked us

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Speaker 2: to do this, So you're welcome to say whatever you want.

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Speaker 1: Okay. So after we hooked.

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Speaker 5: Up, Jonah was so rude, Like the second we finished,

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Speaker 5: he was up and collecting my things so that I

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Speaker 3: I'll call you an uber?

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Speaker 1: Oh what a gentleman? Was it? Fred? Stop it right now?

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Speaker 2: I'm it takes me a few minutes to get everything together,

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Speaker 2: so just come on. So okay, so you guys, you

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Speaker 2: hook up, you had a good time. Everything is fine

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Speaker 2: up until this moment. And as soon as it's over,

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Speaker 2: he's like, oh, there's your bra okay, and then you know,

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Speaker 2: Sam's on his way in the Honda Civic license plate

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Speaker 2: one two three four. He'll be downstairs Civic. Yeah, well

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Speaker 2: he went for the Uber comfort. What a guy, right, you're.

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Speaker 6: Saying, Yeah, it's just like it made it feel so cheap,

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Speaker 6: like like it was so fast. It was like a flip.

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Speaker 5: Switch, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 6: Like it was just like I got the hitt and

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Speaker 6: I laughed, But it just made me feel like.

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Speaker 3: The way, uh, because because you were getting there. I

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Speaker 7: Look, I like my bed to myself, and I was

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Speaker 7: tired and that makes me a tool.

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Speaker 6: No, but like, why did you invite me over if

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Speaker 6: there was like a time limit on the evening, Like

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Speaker 6: it was just rude.

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Speaker 3: Look, we were having a good time. I mean we

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Speaker 7: Obviously we connected, you know. I mean you know where

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Speaker 7: I was tired. I just wanted to go to sleep.

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Speaker 7: I mean, I don't understand.

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Speaker 2: There's a difference between who might have talk, but there's

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Speaker 2: Like you can't okay, but I mean you can get

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Speaker 2: like some you're still going, like you know, the heart's

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Speaker 2: still pumping. It's like Uber will be here in two minutes.

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Speaker 2: You got to be a little bit more laid back

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Speaker 7: I'm a single guy. I'm used to sleeping by myself.

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Speaker 7: I used to have some space and uh, I mean,

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Speaker 7: I'll be honest. I was just like I was just

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Speaker 3: Man. It was a struggle just to call that Uber.

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Speaker 1: But I paid for your Uber. Okay.

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Speaker 8: You need to tell you that beforehand, though, Like if

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Speaker 8: you're if you want someone to come over and you

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Speaker 8: want to do that, like I feel like that's okay,

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Speaker 8: if you want that, but you definitely need to make

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Speaker 8: the other person aware of that prior to the you.

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Speaker 3: Know, I don't know. I looked I wanted you to

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Speaker 3: come over. I think we had a fun time. If

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Speaker 3: I told you I was tired, you might have not

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Speaker 3: come over. You know what I mean, Like I'm just saying.

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Speaker 6: Right, you acted like it was a business transaction like

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Speaker 6: it was. It was really crappy.

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Speaker 1: It's like I thought I was being a gentleman.

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Speaker 3: I thought I was. I thought I was doing like

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Speaker 3: the right thing, you know, I.

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Speaker 1: Mean minutes like like you call your own no.

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Speaker 3: But I didn't say, like, okay, why don't you call

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Speaker 3: your own uber?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: I was I thought I was. It was like being

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Speaker 3: a you know, you politely kicked.

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Speaker 1: I got you look, I get it.

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Speaker 3: The clothes were everywhere.

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Speaker 4: I got straightened them up, I gathered you know, I mean,

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Speaker 4: I got them all together for her. You know, I

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Speaker 4: was decided to be I was trying to be a

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Speaker 2: Icy so as opposed to being like, two seconds after

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Speaker 2: it's over, hey call your own uber. You just went

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Speaker 2: ahead and did it for I'll be honest. That is

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Speaker 2: casting over right there. That I mean, what the bar.

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Speaker 3: Okay you put it that way. Yeah, but I felt

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Speaker 3: like I was doing the right thing at the time.

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Speaker 1: Keep them.

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Speaker 3: I was super tired too. I was exhausted, you know.

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Speaker 2: I mean I would say that. You can say that,

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Speaker 2: be like, hey, look I'm really tired. I gotta go

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Speaker 2: to bed. You know I got to up early tomorrow.

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Speaker 2: I mean, people can take a hint. But like I again,

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Speaker 2: we just did this very personal thing. I wouldn't necessarily

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Speaker 2: you want some water? Like I don't know, I'm just saying, like, well,

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Speaker 2: what would you prefer? You don't want me to offer

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Speaker 2: you hydration?

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Speaker 1: I don't want you to kick me out at all,

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Speaker 1: But I'm not I'm not kicking anybody out. I'm just saying, like,

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Speaker 1: there's a way to do this where.

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Speaker 2: I mean, sure, maybe, but you can't honestly tell me

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Speaker 2: that every time you've hooked up with some other people

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Speaker 2: someone you wanted them to stay the night. I mean,

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Speaker 2: I don't think this is I think this guy was rude,

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Speaker 2: but I don't think this is a signature male move.

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Speaker 2: Only I've definitely been at women's houses before where they

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Speaker 2: were like, oh oh doing the yawning thing.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, oh I'm so tired.

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Speaker 2: And it's like, okay, I wasn't invited to stay, so

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Speaker 2: I'm not going to stay. That happens on the other

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Speaker 2: end too, of course.

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Speaker 8: It does, but I still think it's rude from both parties.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it was like if you had just said all

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Speaker 6: of that, I would have understood. But it was so

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Speaker 6: like the second it was over, I was like, okay, bye,

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Speaker 6: see yourself out.

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Speaker 1: Everybody knows. It's definitely it does.

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Speaker 2: I can see why it's so very transactional. I can

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Speaker 2: I love, I understand, and Page, I totally get it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I didn't intend it to come across that way.

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Speaker 4: Like I said, I thought I was doing the right

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Speaker 4: thing by gathering up your clothes for you.

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Speaker 3: I thought it.

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Speaker 4: Was you know, I mean I was.

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Speaker 1: I was not in my in.

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Speaker 4: The right mindset. But I will say I had a

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Speaker 4: great time. I thought you did too, And you know,

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Speaker 4: if you maybe, if you'd wanted to go.

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Speaker 3: Out with me again, I would love to. I mean,

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Speaker 3: that was okay, that was awesome.

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Speaker 1: So Page, look, he I don't know if he really

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Speaker 1: is getting it. But he is.

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Speaker 2: Let's say that he's accepted that what he did was rude.

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Speaker 2: You obviously liked him up until that point. If he

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Speaker 2: promises you to be a little more respectful moving forward, Uh,

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Speaker 2: and you know, maybe wait a little while before he

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Speaker 2: calls the uber. Would you consider going out with him again?

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Speaker 6: Absolutely not, because I have self respect and I'm not

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Speaker 6: putting myself in that situation again.

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Speaker 1: I get it.

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Speaker 2: It's something to think about, it's something something you think about. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna I'm just gonna noodle this one for a

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Speaker 2: while and you know maybe Okay, look it's not gonna

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Speaker 2: work out. Jonah, she's not interested. Uh, thank you for

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Speaker 2: your time. Good luck to you and Jonah as well.

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Speaker 3: Okay, time