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Speaker 1: Brooking jew bowls second day. I'm excited to talk to

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Speaker 1: today's second dater because in his email he says he's

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Speaker 1: surprised he's not getting a call back because of his

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Speaker 1: technique with the ladies. Is this could be you calling Inji.

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Speaker 1: Maybe his name is Simon. What's up, Simon? How are you?

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Speaker 1: It's a big fan of the show. Are you guys

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Speaker 1: doing pretty good? Dude? Thanks for your email. Now, you

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Speaker 1: said that you took this girl, Danielle out for dinner

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Speaker 1: and bowling. Yes, all right, and how to go? I

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Speaker 1: thought it wouldn't well. I mean we, uh, there's a

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Speaker 1: just walked on over and we went bowling. I want

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Speaker 1: to know your technique with the ladies. What's your surefire

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Speaker 1: technique that you're talking about in your email. Well, I

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Speaker 1: grew up with a bunch of women in my house

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Speaker 1: because I have like three older sisters, and basically they

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Speaker 1: always told me, since I work out a lot, you know,

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Speaker 1: I got a cute space and all that. But they

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Speaker 1: just said, the best technique for me to do is

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Speaker 1: when I do get their attention, just talk only about them.

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Speaker 1: They That is good adviying. Yeah, it's actually great advice.

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Speaker 1: Did you not bring up that you're really ripped and

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Speaker 1: you got an awesome face? Well no, but I just

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Speaker 1: love talking to girls, and I just love when I

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Speaker 1: talked to him. You talked especially about them, kind of

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Speaker 1: like you light them up like a Christmas tree. So

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Speaker 1: I think that's pretty cool. And Simon lets his good

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Speaker 1: look speak for themselves. Simence is actually kind of adorable.

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Speaker 1: Like I thought, Simon, you're right about your technique. And

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Speaker 1: I used my puppy dog guys as well. Okay, she's

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Speaker 1: leaving her husband for you, Simon. What was it like

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Speaker 1: bowling and pizza? It was? Were things chatty? Was there

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Speaker 1: flirting going on? Well, the thing is I didn't really

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Speaker 1: so I I just kind of like showed her the

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Speaker 1: and we're just having a few drinks here and there,

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Speaker 1: and it was a lot of fun. You can't pull

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Speaker 1: Good Looks and the State bowling championship exactly how the

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Speaker 1: date end. There was a lot of flirting going on

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Speaker 1: and stuff, so I thought I might not be needing

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Speaker 1: that cab ride, you know, back home, but she insisted

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Speaker 1: my cab and when showed up, I was going to

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Speaker 1: move and before kiss, and she goes, no, she isn't,

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Speaker 1: just in the first stake, So so give me a

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Speaker 1: call and we'll go from there. So, you know, I

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Speaker 1: thought I was in and I've been texting here and

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Speaker 1: calling and nothing. How many times have you texted? Called

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Speaker 1: her a lot, a lot, more and more and more

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Speaker 1: more and more fingers than on my hand? You know

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Speaker 1: what I mean? What would what would your sisters have

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Speaker 1: told you about that? What it would have called me?

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Speaker 1: Sim she's got something that I you know, I found

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Speaker 1: all the women that updated. I mean, she's I don't know,

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Speaker 1: I just like her. I mean, I mean, I guess

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Speaker 1: because I used to girls putting on the first date.

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Speaker 1: This girl kind of pushed me back. Yeah, it's obvious

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Speaker 1: with the way that you know how to handle the

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Speaker 1: so there's probably new territory for you, right yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: And you know, I'm normally women don't treat me like this,

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Speaker 1: I can't. I guess I got to swallow my pride

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Speaker 1: on this. But it just bugs. Okay, here we go, Simon.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna play a song, come back, call her and

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Speaker 1: get your second date update. All right, all right, he

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Speaker 1: told me please, it us like three and a half minutes.

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Speaker 1: Hang on, buddy, all right, brooking jubil in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Second update if you're just tuning in for the second

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Speaker 1: day update, Simon took his girl Dan Yell out for

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Speaker 1: back because he used his technique on her, which is

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Speaker 1: what just being quiet and listening to her, right wow,

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Speaker 1: you're with questions about themselves. It's not really a technique,

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Speaker 1: is just kind of kindness. But okay, it's called having

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Speaker 1: a regular conversation with somebody. I think, all right, are

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Speaker 1: toes right now, go for it. Okay, Hello, all, I

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Speaker 1: was looking for Danielle. Hey, Danielle, how are you? This

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Speaker 1: moving ninety two point five. Congratulations on getting a call

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Speaker 1: from one of Seattle's top five celebrities. Wow, wow too? Why? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: You actually recently went on a date with somebody who's

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Speaker 1: a friend of the show, and he emailed us about

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Speaker 1: you because you haven't been calling him back. He's tried

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Speaker 1: to text you a few times and would love to

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Speaker 1: why you're blowing him off. You have any idea who

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Speaker 1: I could be talking about? His name Simon? His name

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Speaker 1: is Simon. So what do you think of Simon? Are

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Speaker 1: Did you enjoy your date with him? Uh? Not? Yes? No? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: What does that mean? I can't tell if he's quiet

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Speaker 1: didn't not much to say about himself, So it's because

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty quiet in person. So when I go out

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Speaker 1: on dates, I don't talk very much either, mostly because

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Speaker 1: I'm disinterested. But at the same time, maybe he just

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Speaker 1: so is that why you don't want to call him

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Speaker 1: back or go out with him again? No, it was nice,

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Speaker 1: and you know, the attention felt nice, But no, I

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Speaker 1: just I just don't think we're right for each other.

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Speaker 1: Is there anything, Danielle that you're leaving out or like

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Speaker 1: quirks that might have happened that turned you off? Well,

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Speaker 1: you know, there's Google and so I did a little research,

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Speaker 1: What has he got? Has he been arrested? Come on,

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Speaker 1: I mean not yet. He hasn't been arrested yet. But um, yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's just not into the kind of thing that I

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Speaker 1: bring home. What kind of weird stuff is he into? Craft? No, No,

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Speaker 1: I think not bad. What kind of stuff is he into?

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Speaker 1: What do you find? I don't know if I should

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Speaker 1: say it. It's kind of a big deal. I mean

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Speaker 1: it's on Google, so I mean it's already out there. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Well he he's running a dispensary. He runs a weed dispensary. Yeah, yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: wonder you want to take off for pizza? Then that

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Speaker 1: all makes sense now? So quiet? Yeah, I can't imagine

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Speaker 1: a guy who runs a weed dispensary being my boyfriend. Like,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I felt anxious about it, and I didn't

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Speaker 1: even know him yet, you know, So you can't go

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Speaker 1: know that. Hey, Danielle, Yeah, real quick, I should probably

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Speaker 1: tell you this. Simon is actually on the phone with

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Speaker 1: us and has been listening to the Hey, hey run

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Speaker 1: a dispensary. I own the dispensary. I own it. So

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Speaker 1: you own a weed dispensary, are you are? Do you

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Speaker 1: smoke a lot? Then? Occasionally? I mean I don't like

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Speaker 1: to you know, use a lot of my uh you know,

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Speaker 1: saying well a little Yeah, were you stoned when you

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Speaker 1: went out with Danielle? H? Well, I needed a little courage,

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Speaker 1: so you know I took a little, you know a little,

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Speaker 1: but you know, I didn't think it was gonna you know,

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Speaker 1: matter or mean anything, you know, but I was hungry,

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Speaker 1: you know, so that's why we'll just look get some pizza.

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Speaker 1: You know. See this is the you know like things

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Speaker 1: they don't to most podheads. Then you know you need

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Speaker 1: to think about the benefits of all going out with

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Speaker 1: me on the second date. The benefits, Yeah, you get

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Speaker 1: free pots all you want me. I mean it's not

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Speaker 1: you don't have to only smoke you I got cookies,

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Speaker 1: I got anyway you want it. I got it, and

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Speaker 1: I can even I can make you cupcakes if you

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Speaker 1: want me, I mean weed cupcakes. Come on, this is unreal, unreal.

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Speaker 1: I'm rich, I got a lot of money. I mean,

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Speaker 1: what else do you want? He's got money and weed.

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Speaker 1: I feel like second date has just turned into a

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Speaker 1: drug deal. Yeah, this is unreal, you know. I mean

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Speaker 1: I think he didn't even listen to me, Like I

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Speaker 1: bet you that he does not remember my dog's name. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, I just you know, you can go smoke

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Speaker 1: your pot and have your dispensary. I don't want to

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Speaker 1: talk about that kind of thing. It's not in part

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Speaker 1: of my life. And I don't want to do it.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's fine for you to do it, and

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Speaker 1: I don't want to be part of its. Danielle, now

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Speaker 1: that you got that all said and done, would you

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Speaker 1: like to go out on a second date with Simon?

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Speaker 1: We will pay for it. Yeah, we'll pay for you

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Speaker 1: guys to go out again. Thank you, but absolutely no.

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Speaker 1: That was a quick note shocked. Oh dude, there is

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Speaker 1: plenty of little hippie hearts out there waiting for you, Simon.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, don't worry. I'm going to get the bomb now, Simon.

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Speaker 1: I'll just use the money that I was going to

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Speaker 1: pay for a dinner for you guys and just send

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Speaker 1: you a bunch of Twinkies jewel in the morning.