WEBVTT - How Night Terrors Work

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Josh Clark, and there's childs to be Chuck Bryant,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's Yep, there's Jerry. Uh. This is Stuff you

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<v Speaker 1>Should Know the podcast. Uh, we are in our deep

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<v Speaker 1>freeze chamber. Yeah, it's a little cold in here. It's

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<v Speaker 1>freezing and I'm never freezing. No, I don't know what's

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<v Speaker 1>going on. Yeah, Like I just video producer Casey just

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<v Speaker 1>pushed a big rack of frozen beef carcasses by So

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<v Speaker 1>I think they're moonlighting, you know, is a is a

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<v Speaker 1>beef carcass freezer the butcher. When I said I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know it's going on, I meant literally, I'm confused from

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<v Speaker 1>hypothermia setting in facting my brain. You're just generally confused

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<v Speaker 1>about everything. Yeah, well, it's it's cold, cold as age,

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<v Speaker 1>cold as heck. Chuck, Yes, have you my friend ever

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<v Speaker 1>had what's commonly referred to as a night terror. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>are you referring to a sleep terror or pavoor nocturnus

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<v Speaker 1>or axis one colon three oh seven point four six,

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<v Speaker 1>or uh possession by a demon? No? I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't either. I would probably remember, I would think

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<v Speaker 1>as a child having these, although not necessarily unless your

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<v Speaker 1>mom or dad said, hey, there's something really wrong with

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<v Speaker 1>your kid, well, it would have been a thing. In

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<v Speaker 1>other words, right, yeah, because yeah, that's a good point.

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<v Speaker 1>It's gonna say thank goodness that we didn't have that,

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<v Speaker 1>but really thank goodness for our family, because when you

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<v Speaker 1>have a night teror sleep tear, you typically aren't capable

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<v Speaker 1>of forming any kind of memory of the event, certainly

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<v Speaker 1>of anything that's driving you crazy with fear. Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>wake up, you're surrounded by your entire family who's like

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<v Speaker 1>sweating bullets with looks of terror on their faces, shaking,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're like, what's what's going on? Yeah? Where the pancakes?

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say twinkies? But yeah, did you eat

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<v Speaker 1>twinkies for breakfast as a child? Well? No, I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of more imagine this happening at like two in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Got you. You know, nobody wants to cook being grabbed

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<v Speaker 1>twinkie pretty easy, I bet what would be good since

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<v Speaker 1>I recently invented the recy cat, all right, and people

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<v Speaker 1>actually ate them. Um, take a twinkie, get a pan

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<v Speaker 1>hot oh yeah, spray it with some or even better,

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<v Speaker 1>get some get a stick of butter and run it

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<v Speaker 1>over the pan, and then get one of those bacon

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<v Speaker 1>grill presses and then small two twinkies down. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if you should do that last part and griddle

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<v Speaker 1>them up nice and crispy. Okay, wow, yeah, maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>should do whether they're really golden brown and not just

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<v Speaker 1>fake golden brown. Man, that'd be good. You know. I

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<v Speaker 1>quit ultra processed foods, but I might try that. Actually, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I'm joking. Of course I would never do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a twinkie and I think I ate one

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<v Speaker 1>for that episode. But I don't think I've had too

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<v Speaker 1>many sense then either. But that sounds good. Well, you

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<v Speaker 1>just said a crisp, buttery twinkie, and it does sound

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<v Speaker 1>kind of good. That's what stinks about having extra pounds,

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<v Speaker 1>as people probably say, yeah, chuck to seat twinkies all day. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>they call you twinkie behind your back. I don't fried

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<v Speaker 1>chicken all day, that's my problem. Oh yeah, yeah, fried

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<v Speaker 1>chicken will do it. But it can really be worth

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<v Speaker 1>it depending on the fried chicken to be raised in

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<v Speaker 1>the South. Where's the best place around here? Well, some

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<v Speaker 1>of the grocery stores around here have great fried chicken

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<v Speaker 1>in their deli. Really, yeah, that's my like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>go to like fast food fried chicken. Oh yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm not surprised about that, but I figured you'd

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<v Speaker 1>say something like Mary Max or something like that. Occasionally

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<v Speaker 1>at a at a nice restaurant that has, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>over priced fried chicken, I'll try it. Mary Max is

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<v Speaker 1>good pretty much across the board with everything. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>ever had their um mint julip. No, it is so tasty, huge,

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<v Speaker 1>that is it. Yes, it's just great. Well that's because

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<v Speaker 1>they have to satisfy the aging alcoholics that go there

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<v Speaker 1>for lunch drinks. Mary max Tea Room is in Atlanta,

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<v Speaker 1>by the way. Oh yeah, everybody knows. It's a classic

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<v Speaker 1>old school Southern restaurant. But but you know, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>team room, so it's supposed to be a little nicer.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not like a meat and three right exactly, but yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and uh Mary Max is also very famous for Mary

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<v Speaker 1>Mack having suffered night terrors as child. Yeah. See, people

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<v Speaker 1>thought we were on a tangent. Nope, not true. No,

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<v Speaker 1>that was all all written out. So night terrors. I

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<v Speaker 1>have never had them that I know of. I did

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<v Speaker 1>recount my sleep walking, uh episode in our sleepwalking episode.

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<v Speaker 1>Well put and by the way, we did sleepwalking is

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<v Speaker 1>science phasing out sleep? October? Is sleep that important? September two, Robust,

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<v Speaker 1>thirteen minute episode Sleepwalking August? Is there a disease that

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<v Speaker 1>kills us by preventing sleep? October? And that's it? What

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<v Speaker 1>about lucid dreaming? Okay? Yeah, sure? And then but I

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<v Speaker 1>typed in sleep as the keyword, so it didn't come up.

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<v Speaker 1>I think there's a couple more even that a dreams

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<v Speaker 1>would have brought up a few more than you're right. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So anyway, if people want to hear everything, we know,

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<v Speaker 1>sleep sweet, the sleep sweet, that's it. Um. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we haven't done. Oh and then by this time we'll

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<v Speaker 1>have done. Uh. What was the one we just recorded

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<v Speaker 1>about sleep? Gettysburg address It was a paras omnia too.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh geez man, we just recorded. It hasn't even been

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<v Speaker 1>released at this moment. You know what I'm talking about,

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<v Speaker 1>all right? Yeah, but you put me on the spot,

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<v Speaker 1>so I can't think of anything. I can't either put

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<v Speaker 1>both of us. It'll be added to the sleep suite eventually.

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<v Speaker 1>And here's another contribution. So we're talking night tears. Like

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<v Speaker 1>you said, there's some other terms for it. Apparently, if

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<v Speaker 1>you're serious about researching night tears, you call him sleep tears.

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<v Speaker 1>Because this was pointed out by a couple of pedantic sites.

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<v Speaker 1>That can happen anytime you sleep, if you take a

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<v Speaker 1>nap during the day, you can suffer one of them.

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<v Speaker 1>So you really shouldn't call him night tears. Yeah, if

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<v Speaker 1>you're one of those six year olds that works the

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<v Speaker 1>late shift and he's sleep all day long, that is

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<v Speaker 1>severely pedantic. But that's I was being unfair because adults

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<v Speaker 1>can get them, although it's uh much more common in children.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just say between four and twelve. The best number

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<v Speaker 1>we have is about six six. Um, there is one.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know about this one. One study said,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think we should just throw that out the door,

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<v Speaker 1>because nowhere else did I see that. Yeah, there's a, Oh, really,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't see that one. No, No, I didn't. I

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<v Speaker 1>mostly saw about around somewhere around six percent of kids

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<v Speaker 1>from anywhere between two and a half to twelve years

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<v Speaker 1>of age UM typically will suffer night terrors. And there's

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<v Speaker 1>like you're going to find out that there very few

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<v Speaker 1>things that are known about night terrors sleep tears. UM,

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<v Speaker 1>there's like tantalizing clues here there, but no one's ever

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<v Speaker 1>sat down and really like connected the dots. There's nobody.

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<v Speaker 1>There is virtually no sleep terror researcher that I came across.

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<v Speaker 1>I came across a few academics talking about it, and

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<v Speaker 1>there've been like apparently a few studies or whatever, but

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<v Speaker 1>there doesn't seem to be anybody who's focused on night tares.

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<v Speaker 1>Which is really strange to me because if you do

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<v Speaker 1>kind of start doing research about night tears, you find

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<v Speaker 1>that there is a lot of anxiety among parents. For sure.

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<v Speaker 1>This would help a lot of people, a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>families who are disturbed by this. Well, I can't imagine

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<v Speaker 1>being a parent and having your kid like, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not a nightmare. We're going to make the distinction

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<v Speaker 1>over and over. It's it's different it happens in a

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<v Speaker 1>different time, which we'll get to during sleep, but it

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<v Speaker 1>is uh, it is terror, like hyperventilating and your heart

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<v Speaker 1>rate is increased, your your eyes might be opening. You're

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<v Speaker 1>still asleep. You talk about terrifying and your people will dilate.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the stuff of nightmares, Like you've got the fight

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<v Speaker 1>or flight response going on. That's while you're asleep and

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<v Speaker 1>can't have your eyes upen Could you imagine anything more creepy?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, that's that's very creepy. Well, that's that's part

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<v Speaker 1>of the problem. I think that's one of the things,

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<v Speaker 1>not just being woken up by your kid having a

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<v Speaker 1>night tearor um. The fact that they're moving around like

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<v Speaker 1>they're scared to death, but there's nothing and they're like

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<v Speaker 1>walking around. They're like pushing you out of the way.

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<v Speaker 1>They're they're they're interacting with the world as if they're

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<v Speaker 1>awake and scared out of their minds. But you can't

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<v Speaker 1>connect with them, you can't console them because they're asleep.

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<v Speaker 1>They're not actually interacting with you. They're not hearing your

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<v Speaker 1>reassurances because they're not awake right now. They're in another world,

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<v Speaker 1>the world of sleep. It's really bizarre. Are you sure

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<v Speaker 1>they can't hear? Yeah, you have to wake them up,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're not supposed to do that. Secondly, but they're

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<v Speaker 1>not there. They're they're they're physically and they're acting like

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<v Speaker 1>they're they're they're not there, so you're they're literally inconsolable

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<v Speaker 1>at that point while they're having a night tare So Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>for a parent and this is your little two or

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<v Speaker 1>three year old kid suffering this, you can't do anything

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<v Speaker 1>about it. You just have to wait for it to

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<v Speaker 1>go away. And these things can last up to like

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<v Speaker 1>twenty minutes, and there's nothing you can do aside from

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<v Speaker 1>keeping them from harming themselves. Yeah. Plus that means you're

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<v Speaker 1>awake for twenty minutes when you you should be sleeping,

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<v Speaker 1>just pounding twinkies. Uh. Gender wise, boys and girls get

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<v Speaker 1>it about the same, so it's really no difference. And um,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not like menstruation as no gender specific specific as

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<v Speaker 1>far as I know, we haven't done an episode on

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<v Speaker 1>that specifically. Though. We did female puberty. That that's that's enough?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that all? Yeah? We did male puberty and female puberty.

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<v Speaker 1>No more. I shouldn't have even brought it up. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>so gender doesn't matter. And um, they typically tail off

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<v Speaker 1>after you're a little kid, but you can't get them

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<v Speaker 1>as adults. And they say, after sixty five years old,

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<v Speaker 1>you were almost certain to not have a sleep terror.

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<v Speaker 1>And I just assume it's because nothing scares you at

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<v Speaker 1>that point. You've seen it all teenagers. Yea, the you're

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<v Speaker 1>you're impending death in teenagers, um, which probably reminds you

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<v Speaker 1>of your impending death. Really the world changing and all that. Um, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a clue right there. Over sixty five night terrors

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<v Speaker 1>are almost unheard of. Another little tranche of life where

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<v Speaker 1>they're very much unheard of his adolescence. So you might

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<v Speaker 1>have them, um, when you're prepubescent, and then they go

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<v Speaker 1>away during adolescence, then they might pick up again as

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<v Speaker 1>an adult. Um. You know what's going on there. It

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<v Speaker 1>seems to be as far as like the very few

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<v Speaker 1>people who are thinking about this stuff, there seems to

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<v Speaker 1>be some sort of agreement that it has to do

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<v Speaker 1>especially in children with the developing central nervous system. You

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<v Speaker 1>know what, that's a great place for us to take

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<v Speaker 1>a break, so I can go look up what central

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<v Speaker 1>nervous system means. All right, you said, central nervous system,

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<v Speaker 1>and um, you know what it means. I do. I

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<v Speaker 1>went and looked it up. This descending string of nerves

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<v Speaker 1>that goes down from your brain and hangs down over

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<v Speaker 1>your body. That's right, I think like a marry net. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it is very much like that. Um. So wow, that

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<v Speaker 1>was a great analogy. Actually, he just blew my mind.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. So you just tease before we left about

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<v Speaker 1>having to do with the central nervous system. Um, apparently

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<v Speaker 1>our our CNS matures up until the age of about

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<v Speaker 1>do you know what CNS means? Central nervous is right? Um,

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<v Speaker 1>but I was kind of surprised at I was shocked

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<v Speaker 1>at that was that late. Apparently it's a fairly recent

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<v Speaker 1>finding relief among science that it used to be you

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<v Speaker 1>know eight, you know, end of puberty. Um, Nope. Supposedly

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<v Speaker 1>now they believe the CNS keeps going and developing until uh, well,

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<v Speaker 1>we should talk a little bit about sleep. I know

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<v Speaker 1>we covered this in that awesome thirteen minute episode How

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<v Speaker 1>Sleep Works. Yeah, just the stages of sleep. Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>seems like this was better explained than our entire thirteen

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<v Speaker 1>minute episode. Yeah, and that we talked about in the

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<v Speaker 1>Dreams Episode two, And we had a TV episode of

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<v Speaker 1>our Science Channel show called Night Terror. Yeah, poor Kent

0:13:48.000 --> 0:13:51.439
<v Speaker 1>clinking Beard slept, walked, you had sleep back me all

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<v Speaker 1>sorts of terrible stuff. That was a fun episode. That

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<v Speaker 1>was um and and there's even a continuity mistake in

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<v Speaker 1>that episode if you remember probably several um did you know?

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<v Speaker 1>Our first three episodes are up on YouTube in full.

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<v Speaker 1>I think somebody actually sat there with their phone and

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<v Speaker 1>recorded it on their computer and then posted it to YouTube.

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<v Speaker 1>Now is it the real first episode? Meaning the pilot

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<v Speaker 1>that was the eleventh episode was the one that they

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<v Speaker 1>aired first. It was actually episode two, but it was

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<v Speaker 1>called episode one, wasn't it? All I know is coffee? Coffee?

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<v Speaker 1>But that was the first one, wasn't it? That was

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<v Speaker 1>episode one? It wasn't episode two? Yeah, that was the pilot.

0:14:33.400 --> 0:14:37.200
<v Speaker 1>The pilot was episode eleven. Yeah, but that was totally

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<v Speaker 1>different format. No, the pilot remember it was broken up

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<v Speaker 1>between body dysmorphic disorder and zombies. Oh no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the pilot now, that wasn't it was? That was

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<v Speaker 1>the That was what we shot as proof of concept

0:14:51.480 --> 0:14:54.360
<v Speaker 1>that they ended up airing as the pilot. They call

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<v Speaker 1>it pilos where but the pilot episode of the real

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<v Speaker 1>show when we actually we're in a different location was

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<v Speaker 1>was Coffee Bought? Which they aired I guess tenth coffee

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<v Speaker 1>about air first? No, it didn't really, Yeah, that was

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<v Speaker 1>the rub Man. It's like, why would you air the

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<v Speaker 1>pilot last? Well, we aired the pilot last twice because

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<v Speaker 1>they showed the proof of concept one at the end. Right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they hated the show so much they decided to air

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<v Speaker 1>one extra episode. Oh man, what a rabbit hole that

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<v Speaker 1>was so uh talk about it. Yeah, this this article

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<v Speaker 1>here says we spent about a third of our lives

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<v Speaker 1>in deep sleep. Well that's not true, just sleeping and um,

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<v Speaker 1>that's true. Well it depends on the person, of course. Sure, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess that's true. I equate that with this sitting

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<v Speaker 1>at red lights thing. I've always been suspicious of that, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>it depends on where you are, spend how much you drive? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>x number of days at a red light. Yeah, these

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<v Speaker 1>are broad uh percentages, I think. Yeah, Um, I have

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<v Speaker 1>a friend that is so like that. I think started

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<v Speaker 1>worrying about his death early on in life and trained

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<v Speaker 1>himself to get as little asleep as possible so he

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<v Speaker 1>could do more. Oh that's neat and dude, since I've

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<v Speaker 1>known him in the in his early twenties, has been

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<v Speaker 1>getting like five hours or less sleep at night and

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<v Speaker 1>it's good. He's good with that too. Um, he should

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<v Speaker 1>listen to that is Science Phasing out sleep episode because

0:16:28.320 --> 0:16:32.360
<v Speaker 1>it was remember a lot about pills that help you, um,

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<v Speaker 1>stay up for forty eight hours and then just sleep

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<v Speaker 1>for the normal like eight. He didn't eat pills, he

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<v Speaker 1>just trained himself high. Yeah that's pretty interesting. Um. All right,

0:16:42.680 --> 0:16:46.760
<v Speaker 1>so when we go to shweepy time. Uh, there's something

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<v Speaker 1>called a dinner scene ADNNI sign a chemical that starts

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<v Speaker 1>to build up in your body, your brain, your brain,

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<v Speaker 1>right yeah, yeah, Oh, it's a neurotransmitter and at the

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<v Speaker 1>very least as present in your brain. I don't know

0:17:01.520 --> 0:17:04.240
<v Speaker 1>if it's manufactured there. You know, a lot of your serotonine,

0:17:04.280 --> 0:17:06.800
<v Speaker 1>like a tremendous amount of your serotonin is actually producing

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<v Speaker 1>your gut. That that doesn't surprise me. It was surprising

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<v Speaker 1>to me the first time I heard it because you

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<v Speaker 1>think it's a brain. It's a new transmitter, so obviously

0:17:16.160 --> 0:17:18.680
<v Speaker 1>the brains can generate Nope, most of it's in your gut. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I guess it didn't surprise me, and that

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<v Speaker 1>I know that a lot of healthy gut um life

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<v Speaker 1>life like a healthy gut can affect way more parts

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<v Speaker 1>of your life there, just like digestion. Um. So anyway, um,

0:17:32.920 --> 0:17:36.400
<v Speaker 1>that builds up the adenna scene and then uh, serotonin,

0:17:36.480 --> 0:17:38.720
<v Speaker 1>like you mentioned that goes to the brain and says,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, let's shut it down for the night. Shut

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<v Speaker 1>it down, everybody. You don't have to go home, but

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<v Speaker 1>you can't stay here exactly. Then they play Rick Astley

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<v Speaker 1>on the loudspeaker. Oh, is that what they do to

0:17:48.440 --> 0:17:51.440
<v Speaker 1>get people out? Well, every bar has her own song. Okay,

0:17:52.280 --> 0:17:54.840
<v Speaker 1>is Rick Astley go to though? You think I could

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<v Speaker 1>see it? Yeah? I used to play at Mexicali Grill

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<v Speaker 1>in college. I would play when we had the the

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<v Speaker 1>Eek fraternity big groups on the deck late at night.

0:18:03.840 --> 0:18:07.040
<v Speaker 1>I would play Public Enemy really loud. Oh yeah, And

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<v Speaker 1>they didn't like it, I'm sure, and we loved it.

0:18:11.200 --> 0:18:15.200
<v Speaker 1>Drove him out and they went back to the fraternity

0:18:15.280 --> 0:18:20.760
<v Speaker 1>house and did whatever they do there. Watch Dr Quinn

0:18:20.840 --> 0:18:24.480
<v Speaker 1>medicine woman. Is that what they're doing there? Is a

0:18:24.600 --> 0:18:26.920
<v Speaker 1>great letterman top I used to have this book of

0:18:27.080 --> 0:18:31.040
<v Speaker 1>Letterman Top ten lists from the nineties. Probably a third

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<v Speaker 1>of the jokes that I've said on this show really

0:18:33.400 --> 0:18:35.719
<v Speaker 1>are like rooted in that book, and that was one

0:18:35.760 --> 0:18:37.200
<v Speaker 1>of them. It was like top ten signs You're in

0:18:37.240 --> 0:18:39.960
<v Speaker 1>a bad fraternity. It was like, every Saturday Night is

0:18:40.040 --> 0:18:45.040
<v Speaker 1>Dr Quinn Medicine Woman Night? Your your secret fraternity handshake

0:18:45.119 --> 0:18:48.160
<v Speaker 1>consists of quietly holding hands for long periods of time.

0:18:49.200 --> 0:18:54.400
<v Speaker 1>Zee mckagar's I think Dr Quinn Medicine Woman is probably

0:18:54.560 --> 0:18:57.840
<v Speaker 1>top five least cool shows of all time. You know, yeah,

0:18:58.400 --> 0:19:02.800
<v Speaker 1>murder she wrote this up there. Okay, fine, it's not cool.

0:19:03.520 --> 0:19:05.800
<v Speaker 1>I watched that show at least once a week. Still,

0:19:06.680 --> 0:19:10.440
<v Speaker 1>I love that show. Where do you find it on Netflix? Yah?

0:19:10.680 --> 0:19:13.000
<v Speaker 1>I think it's probably on Amazon Prime. Do you really

0:19:13.040 --> 0:19:16.159
<v Speaker 1>watch that? I really genuinely like in in a totally

0:19:16.240 --> 0:19:20.200
<v Speaker 1>non ironic way. Well, Angela Lansbury is pretty sexy. I

0:19:20.280 --> 0:19:23.840
<v Speaker 1>don't know about that, but it's just it's a cozy

0:19:24.160 --> 0:19:27.280
<v Speaker 1>little show, especially you know, she travels abroad and and

0:19:27.359 --> 0:19:30.440
<v Speaker 1>goes to Europe and in New York A lot those

0:19:30.480 --> 0:19:32.720
<v Speaker 1>episodes are like so so for me. The ones that

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<v Speaker 1>are set in Cabot Cove and there's like a storm

0:19:35.800 --> 0:19:40.119
<v Speaker 1>and a murderer Maine. I think. Um, so it's like

0:19:40.200 --> 0:19:43.720
<v Speaker 1>a quiet little town and you know, something happens and

0:19:44.440 --> 0:19:48.119
<v Speaker 1>it's just like a cozy show. You can't can't stand it.

0:19:48.440 --> 0:19:51.280
<v Speaker 1>And it's not like she doesn't like the show itself,

0:19:51.760 --> 0:19:55.200
<v Speaker 1>it's just like, um, Angela Lansbury is such like a

0:19:56.320 --> 0:19:58.720
<v Speaker 1>schoolmarm to her. She always feels like she's in trouble.

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<v Speaker 1>Now on the background, Yeah, that's funny. So she's not

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<v Speaker 1>a big murder she wrote fan Uh did she just

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<v Speaker 1>walk through when it's on and be like, stop telling

0:20:07.680 --> 0:20:10.879
<v Speaker 1>me what to do? Angela? No, I won't go to

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<v Speaker 1>my room. Um, all right, so where are we were

0:20:14.680 --> 0:20:18.080
<v Speaker 1>falling asleep because the because Murder she wrote on because

0:20:18.119 --> 0:20:21.040
<v Speaker 1>Murder she wrotes on. And then we enter stage one

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<v Speaker 1>of five four h five, well technically five yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, yeah,

0:20:30.200 --> 0:20:33.800
<v Speaker 1>so there's four stages and then a fifth an encore.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah I guess yeah, it doesn't isn't considered a stage,

0:20:37.440 --> 0:20:40.400
<v Speaker 1>it's its own thing. Well. Stage one is when you're

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<v Speaker 1>you're sort of in that place where if things are

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<v Speaker 1>all good and you're not super anxious, don't have a

0:20:45.560 --> 0:20:49.000
<v Speaker 1>lot of anxiety. It's nice and quiet, it's dark. Um,

0:20:49.920 --> 0:20:54.800
<v Speaker 1>that means you're heading into sleep. If things are not great,

0:20:54.960 --> 0:20:58.520
<v Speaker 1>or you're anxious, or something's disturbing you, you could fall

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<v Speaker 1>back awake from stage one, that tenuous period. Stage one. Yeah,

0:21:05.280 --> 0:21:07.040
<v Speaker 1>that is stage one. If you have a book, you're

0:21:07.080 --> 0:21:10.280
<v Speaker 1>going to sleep in stage one. That's right. It was

0:21:10.359 --> 0:21:14.600
<v Speaker 1>exploding head syndrome. That was the one. So you go

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<v Speaker 1>on to stage two, start drifting off, and this is

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<v Speaker 1>apparently where you spend a lot of your sleep time,

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<v Speaker 1>although I don't know that this is necessarily true, but

0:21:22.320 --> 0:21:25.399
<v Speaker 1>your your brain waves start to take on a different form.

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<v Speaker 1>I think they go from alpha to maybe beta. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>they're slowing down a little bit, you're calmed down, you're

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<v Speaker 1>not thinking quite as much. Um, your eye movement stops,

0:21:36.480 --> 0:21:41.000
<v Speaker 1>and you're just basically in that twilight period where you're

0:21:42.000 --> 0:21:45.359
<v Speaker 1>you're basically sleepy, but you could be awakened fairly easily

0:21:45.800 --> 0:21:48.280
<v Speaker 1>until you get the stage three. Yeah, that's when things

0:21:48.359 --> 0:21:52.480
<v Speaker 1>get real. That's when. Um. These there's something called delta waves,

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<v Speaker 1>and they were discovered by a guy named W. Gray

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<v Speaker 1>Walter the nineteen hundreds who was very gracious not to

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<v Speaker 1>insist that they're called alter waves. Totally would have He's like,

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<v Speaker 1>go with delta Uh. They operate between zero and four hurts,

0:22:07.800 --> 0:22:12.159
<v Speaker 1>and those delta waves are what makes they're They're responsible

0:22:12.240 --> 0:22:15.080
<v Speaker 1>for the restorative aspect of sleep, like when you wake

0:22:15.160 --> 0:22:18.040
<v Speaker 1>up and you feel great and refreshed, say thank you

0:22:18.160 --> 0:22:21.920
<v Speaker 1>delta waves. And um that doctor I guess he was

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<v Speaker 1>a doctor, doctor Walter Um. He was a student of Hanburger.

0:22:29.640 --> 0:22:34.760
<v Speaker 1>Hansburger mhm man. That's close. It's so so you shouldn't

0:22:34.800 --> 0:22:39.639
<v Speaker 1>name your kid Hansburger. Uh. Hansburger Uh invented the E

0:22:39.720 --> 0:22:43.360
<v Speaker 1>E G machine, and then Gray went on to make

0:22:43.440 --> 0:22:45.639
<v Speaker 1>that machine a little bit better. He improved upon it,

0:22:46.080 --> 0:22:48.800
<v Speaker 1>which is what allowed him to discover these knobs are ugly.

0:22:49.000 --> 0:22:52.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna place him with orange. One looks old. So

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<v Speaker 1>that allowed him to discover the delta waves, which are great.

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<v Speaker 1>Those those are that's those are my favorite brainway. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Even the name delta waves just sounds very soothing to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Del to right. So you're in did you say stage

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<v Speaker 1>four or three? That's things get cranking up in three

0:23:12.560 --> 0:23:15.240
<v Speaker 1>and by the time you're at four, it's all delta

0:23:15.280 --> 0:23:17.840
<v Speaker 1>waste and and like you said, that's where you get

0:23:17.920 --> 0:23:21.280
<v Speaker 1>that RESTful sleep because this is where tissue regeneration and

0:23:21.400 --> 0:23:26.280
<v Speaker 1>repair takes place. Your brain is shut down, like your

0:23:26.520 --> 0:23:30.400
<v Speaker 1>your executive function is turned off. You're not thinking, you're

0:23:30.480 --> 0:23:34.040
<v Speaker 1>not judging, you're not chewing over like all the stupid

0:23:34.119 --> 0:23:35.760
<v Speaker 1>things that you said wrong and how you could have

0:23:35.800 --> 0:23:39.359
<v Speaker 1>said them better that day, none of that's going on. Um,

0:23:39.800 --> 0:23:42.840
<v Speaker 1>you're just kind of out like a light. But your

0:23:42.880 --> 0:23:47.160
<v Speaker 1>motor strip is still conceivably active, it can be UM,

0:23:47.480 --> 0:23:51.399
<v Speaker 1>and your emotional centers are able to be activated as well.

0:23:51.560 --> 0:23:54.280
<v Speaker 1>For the most part, they're not. You're just out right right.

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<v Speaker 1>Then after stage four you totally shift gears and you

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<v Speaker 1>enter R E M sleep. So the first four stages

0:24:02.840 --> 0:24:05.520
<v Speaker 1>are non r E M sleep, and then you enter

0:24:05.720 --> 0:24:07.920
<v Speaker 1>R E M sleep rapid eye movement sleep, and it's

0:24:07.920 --> 0:24:09.800
<v Speaker 1>called that because your eyes just go nuts so all

0:24:09.880 --> 0:24:12.320
<v Speaker 1>over the place. The rest of your body is paralyzed,

0:24:12.440 --> 0:24:15.360
<v Speaker 1>and your brain turns back on and starts producing producing

0:24:15.400 --> 0:24:18.320
<v Speaker 1>the same brain waves alpha waves that you have when

0:24:18.359 --> 0:24:21.040
<v Speaker 1>you're awake. So you're thinking, you're dreaming, you're doing all

0:24:21.119 --> 0:24:23.920
<v Speaker 1>this stuff, but your body is paralyzed, right, and then

0:24:24.280 --> 0:24:27.439
<v Speaker 1>the whole thing starts over again. After about ninety minutes,

0:24:27.720 --> 0:24:30.600
<v Speaker 1>you go back into stage one sleep. Okay, yeah, and

0:24:30.680 --> 0:24:34.359
<v Speaker 1>whatever you do during R A M Sleep, don't go

0:24:34.480 --> 0:24:39.960
<v Speaker 1>back to Rockville. It's terrible. What's funny is I think

0:24:40.000 --> 0:24:41.720
<v Speaker 1>you make that joke every time we talk about the

0:24:41.760 --> 0:24:44.320
<v Speaker 1>stages of sleep. Well, I do, but it's a different

0:24:44.520 --> 0:24:47.399
<v Speaker 1>song every time. Okay, Yeah, it's just a bad r

0:24:47.600 --> 0:24:49.600
<v Speaker 1>M reference. You're right. I just feel like I have

0:24:49.720 --> 0:24:52.400
<v Speaker 1>to I'm with you, I'm with you someone. I wish

0:24:52.440 --> 0:24:54.159
<v Speaker 1>someone would send us a list of my dumb R

0:24:54.160 --> 0:24:56.520
<v Speaker 1>E M jokes from all of our very sleep people.

0:24:57.040 --> 0:25:01.080
<v Speaker 1>Don't waste your lives, yeah's yours? Go volunteer for a

0:25:01.200 --> 0:25:05.159
<v Speaker 1>charity instead. So um, the whole that whole cycle between

0:25:05.240 --> 0:25:08.080
<v Speaker 1>the four stages and R E M Sleep takes about

0:25:08.160 --> 0:25:11.320
<v Speaker 1>ninety minutes, and then through about the first half of

0:25:11.440 --> 0:25:13.840
<v Speaker 1>say you're say you're getting a good eight hours. First

0:25:13.880 --> 0:25:16.960
<v Speaker 1>four hours, those first four stages are going to take

0:25:17.040 --> 0:25:20.200
<v Speaker 1>up most of that ninety minutes to ten minutes, and

0:25:20.400 --> 0:25:22.159
<v Speaker 1>R E M is going to be less. And then

0:25:22.200 --> 0:25:24.360
<v Speaker 1>about halfway through your R E M is gonna start

0:25:24.400 --> 0:25:27.600
<v Speaker 1>getting longer and longer. In the cycle. Right, So the

0:25:27.640 --> 0:25:31.040
<v Speaker 1>second half of your sleep you're dreaming more. But again

0:25:31.119 --> 0:25:34.720
<v Speaker 1>it's the important point here is during stage three and four,

0:25:35.000 --> 0:25:38.200
<v Speaker 1>you're not dreaming. You're just out like a light. Yeah,

0:25:38.240 --> 0:25:39.920
<v Speaker 1>and I guess that what you just said before that

0:25:40.040 --> 0:25:44.280
<v Speaker 1>explains why I often feel like I, um remember my

0:25:44.720 --> 0:25:50.920
<v Speaker 1>dreams or dream heavier towards my waking hours. Yeah. Well. Plus, also,

0:25:51.359 --> 0:25:53.359
<v Speaker 1>if you are in R. A E. M sleep and

0:25:53.520 --> 0:25:56.879
<v Speaker 1>you awaken from it rather than awakening during one of

0:25:56.960 --> 0:25:59.920
<v Speaker 1>your other sleep cycles, you're going to remember your dream

0:26:00.200 --> 0:26:04.719
<v Speaker 1>because you're you're regaining consciousness, you're awakening. But again, your

0:26:04.760 --> 0:26:07.400
<v Speaker 1>brain has been on the whole time. You're just becoming

0:26:07.480 --> 0:26:09.760
<v Speaker 1>aware of what you were just thinking. So you're gonna

0:26:09.760 --> 0:26:12.639
<v Speaker 1>be able to form those memories when you're sleeping in

0:26:13.080 --> 0:26:15.760
<v Speaker 1>say stage three or four. Is we'll see you don't

0:26:15.840 --> 0:26:18.840
<v Speaker 1>form memories because your brain is not working like that. Yeah.

0:26:18.880 --> 0:26:20.879
<v Speaker 1>I probably asked you this in one of our dreamcasts.

0:26:20.960 --> 0:26:24.200
<v Speaker 1>But are you able to pick up a dream after

0:26:24.359 --> 0:26:27.760
<v Speaker 1>you've woken up and and it's something you want to

0:26:27.920 --> 0:26:31.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, resolve or keep doing? Not really, I've gotten

0:26:31.400 --> 0:26:33.720
<v Speaker 1>pretty good at that, have you. That's pretty neat? Yeah,

0:26:33.760 --> 0:26:37.360
<v Speaker 1>I don't it's not quite dream sailing like we talked about, um,

0:26:38.160 --> 0:26:40.240
<v Speaker 1>but I definitely like it happened this week. I was

0:26:40.320 --> 0:26:43.520
<v Speaker 1>having a dream that was great, and I woke up,

0:26:44.000 --> 0:26:46.040
<v Speaker 1>went and used the bathroom sitting down so I don't

0:26:46.040 --> 0:26:48.879
<v Speaker 1>wake up enough. And then I was like, all right,

0:26:48.960 --> 0:26:51.159
<v Speaker 1>and I just like think about nothing but that as

0:26:51.200 --> 0:26:53.920
<v Speaker 1>I go back to sleep. Okay, where was I? Yeah,

0:26:53.920 --> 0:26:55.680
<v Speaker 1>I got right back in it. That's awesome, man, that's

0:26:55.680 --> 0:26:58.960
<v Speaker 1>pretty neat. But I'm still not which is the one

0:26:59.000 --> 0:27:02.959
<v Speaker 1>where you control the dream? Is that dreaming? I wouldn't

0:27:02.960 --> 0:27:04.920
<v Speaker 1>say that. I'm that's where you're like, and now I'm

0:27:04.960 --> 0:27:07.320
<v Speaker 1>going to fly watch this and then you fly in

0:27:07.400 --> 0:27:10.119
<v Speaker 1>your dream. Can't do that, all right? So those are

0:27:10.160 --> 0:27:12.960
<v Speaker 1>the stages. Good extra info there by the way, I

0:27:13.040 --> 0:27:18.119
<v Speaker 1>didn't know that about the varying time cycle as you sleep.

0:27:18.760 --> 0:27:20.840
<v Speaker 1>I thought it was sort of all equal. I bring it,

0:27:21.200 --> 0:27:24.119
<v Speaker 1>you do bring it. Um. So what they do know

0:27:24.560 --> 0:27:29.720
<v Speaker 1>about night terrors or sleep terrors is between three and

0:27:29.920 --> 0:27:34.480
<v Speaker 1>four stages. Three and four is when this is happening. Yes,

0:27:35.160 --> 0:27:37.879
<v Speaker 1>in other words, it part of it has to do

0:27:38.640 --> 0:27:42.240
<v Speaker 1>with this transition that happens between the stages. They just

0:27:42.280 --> 0:27:44.560
<v Speaker 1>don't know exactly why. No, And it doesn't really make

0:27:44.600 --> 0:27:48.720
<v Speaker 1>sense because both stages three and four are considered deep sleep.

0:27:48.840 --> 0:27:52.439
<v Speaker 1>It's just deep sleep and super deep sleep. It's something

0:27:52.600 --> 0:27:57.040
<v Speaker 1>during that transition can cause night terrors. Yeah, and the nightmares.

0:27:57.080 --> 0:27:59.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if we fully said this. Nightmares occur

0:28:00.440 --> 0:28:04.440
<v Speaker 1>only during R E. M sleep, but uh, that's one

0:28:04.720 --> 0:28:08.200
<v Speaker 1>distinguishing factor from night terrors, and the fact that you

0:28:08.320 --> 0:28:11.560
<v Speaker 1>can you know, you can remember a nightmare. I can't

0:28:11.600 --> 0:28:14.359
<v Speaker 1>remember a night terror. Nope. You wake up and you

0:28:14.440 --> 0:28:18.440
<v Speaker 1>might still feel fearful for some reason, but you you

0:28:18.480 --> 0:28:20.600
<v Speaker 1>don't wake up and say, there was a beast in

0:28:20.720 --> 0:28:23.520
<v Speaker 1>my room trying to kill me. It's kind of like

0:28:23.600 --> 0:28:25.680
<v Speaker 1>how when you're watching Law and Order and you're like

0:28:25.800 --> 0:28:28.680
<v Speaker 1>super into it and like you just hate the murderer

0:28:28.720 --> 0:28:32.399
<v Speaker 1>in this episode, and then on comes like um, like

0:28:32.480 --> 0:28:34.960
<v Speaker 1>a Sharman ad and you're like this, why do I

0:28:35.040 --> 0:28:38.080
<v Speaker 1>feel so like mad? And then you realize, oh, it's

0:28:38.120 --> 0:28:41.320
<v Speaker 1>because I'm still keyed up from Law and Order. Same

0:28:41.360 --> 0:28:43.840
<v Speaker 1>thing with the night tear, Like you don't remember why

0:28:44.000 --> 0:28:48.040
<v Speaker 1>you're fearful, you just feel fearful. Still, it hasn't subsided.

0:28:48.600 --> 0:28:50.400
<v Speaker 1>I've never seen that show, but I was hanging in there.

0:28:51.120 --> 0:28:53.680
<v Speaker 1>You've never seen Law and Order? Huh, No, that is

0:28:53.760 --> 0:28:58.840
<v Speaker 1>not possible. I don't watch many major network TV shows.

0:28:59.360 --> 0:29:01.760
<v Speaker 1>Law and Order has been on for like twenty years,

0:29:01.920 --> 0:29:04.320
<v Speaker 1>and you've never seen a Law and Order. No, they're

0:29:04.360 --> 0:29:06.800
<v Speaker 1>missing out. I've never seen cs. I've never seen any

0:29:06.840 --> 0:29:08.920
<v Speaker 1>of those shows. That's fine, you're missing out a little bit.

0:29:08.960 --> 0:29:12.080
<v Speaker 1>With lawn Or, it's a really great procedural cop drama.

0:29:12.200 --> 0:29:14.720
<v Speaker 1>Now that's the one with Len that had Jerry or

0:29:14.800 --> 0:29:17.520
<v Speaker 1>back right, Lenny who? I love that guy. He's great,

0:29:18.120 --> 0:29:20.200
<v Speaker 1>But he's not the only one that's great. Like virtually

0:29:20.360 --> 0:29:23.880
<v Speaker 1>every single person who's been on this rotating cast has

0:29:23.880 --> 0:29:27.760
<v Speaker 1>done a great job. Didn't say by the Bell guy

0:29:27.800 --> 0:29:31.160
<v Speaker 1>get on there? Or was that another back? Yeah? Didn't he?

0:29:31.240 --> 0:29:34.840
<v Speaker 1>Eventually he was on one of those procedurals. He was

0:29:34.880 --> 0:29:40.480
<v Speaker 1>on a lawyer procedural with one of the guys from Clueless.

0:29:41.400 --> 0:29:46.360
<v Speaker 1>Really yeah, the skateboarder from Clueless. What? Yeah? They were

0:29:46.400 --> 0:29:48.959
<v Speaker 1>like goofy lawyers. Oh no, no, no, that's a different one.

0:29:49.000 --> 0:29:51.240
<v Speaker 1>I know you're talking about that. I don't. I don't

0:29:51.280 --> 0:29:53.880
<v Speaker 1>know if Zach was ever a cop. Oh no, I'm

0:29:53.880 --> 0:29:56.920
<v Speaker 1>thinking of Ricky Schroeder, didn't he end up on law,

0:29:57.160 --> 0:29:59.480
<v Speaker 1>Law and Order. Boy, this is one of those moments

0:29:59.480 --> 0:30:01.960
<v Speaker 1>where people are screaming at the computer right now. So

0:30:02.080 --> 0:30:03.800
<v Speaker 1>I genuinely don't think it was long and Order, but

0:30:03.880 --> 0:30:05.800
<v Speaker 1>it was something like that. I know what you're talking about.

0:30:05.800 --> 0:30:08.000
<v Speaker 1>All right, let's take a break and we'll figure out.

0:30:08.200 --> 0:30:10.440
<v Speaker 1>You can be Ricky Schroeder and I'll be Zach right

0:30:10.840 --> 0:30:42.400
<v Speaker 1>ready to one. Okay, all right, So where we left

0:30:42.480 --> 0:30:46.120
<v Speaker 1>off was that they're not sure why it happens between

0:30:46.160 --> 0:30:48.280
<v Speaker 1>three and four. They think it has something to do

0:30:49.400 --> 0:30:53.280
<v Speaker 1>with what they call a snag in this transition. It's

0:30:53.320 --> 0:30:58.640
<v Speaker 1>pretty SCIENTI yeah, it's a snag, so yeah, pretty much

0:30:59.400 --> 0:31:01.320
<v Speaker 1>did I again? They think it has to do with

0:31:01.480 --> 0:31:07.800
<v Speaker 1>your central nervous system still growing. But I mean, that's

0:31:07.880 --> 0:31:11.560
<v Speaker 1>weird because it only happens in some kids, and like

0:31:11.720 --> 0:31:14.920
<v Speaker 1>that exploding head syndrome, it happens in just the same way.

0:31:15.720 --> 0:31:19.720
<v Speaker 1>So there's there's something amiss here. It can't it's not

0:31:19.880 --> 0:31:24.480
<v Speaker 1>just like a normal aspect of childhood, you know. So

0:31:24.640 --> 0:31:26.960
<v Speaker 1>that would mean that there's a snag in the development

0:31:27.000 --> 0:31:32.000
<v Speaker 1>of central nervous system that it was was could happen

0:31:32.080 --> 0:31:35.960
<v Speaker 1>in a certain way a certain prescribed way. Yeah, I

0:31:36.000 --> 0:31:39.040
<v Speaker 1>see what you're saying. Um, not at least one person does.

0:31:39.800 --> 0:31:44.719
<v Speaker 1>It does run in the family, um, seemingly or oftentimes. Um.

0:31:44.920 --> 0:31:49.360
<v Speaker 1>Stress and anxiety can be a big trigger sleep apnea, Uh,

0:31:49.680 --> 0:31:55.200
<v Speaker 1>sleep deprivation if you have migraines, UM, thyroid hormones being

0:31:55.800 --> 0:32:01.960
<v Speaker 1>produced too much, too much booze, a lot of booze. Uh.

0:32:02.120 --> 0:32:05.800
<v Speaker 1>Maybe if you're sleeping out at summer camp or somewhere

0:32:05.840 --> 0:32:09.560
<v Speaker 1>else you've never been. Yeah. Apparently they have linked stressed

0:32:09.600 --> 0:32:11.680
<v Speaker 1>to it. Like I guess some parents have noticed that

0:32:11.840 --> 0:32:14.560
<v Speaker 1>the kid has a particularly stressful day, they may be

0:32:14.680 --> 0:32:17.760
<v Speaker 1>predisposed of having a night tare boys stress on kids?

0:32:17.840 --> 0:32:22.280
<v Speaker 1>That's just heartbreaking. Well, it's also been to basically all

0:32:22.400 --> 0:32:25.760
<v Speaker 1>forms of abuse. Yeah, it leads to a higher risk

0:32:25.880 --> 0:32:28.440
<v Speaker 1>of night terrors. And they have found that if you

0:32:29.560 --> 0:32:32.800
<v Speaker 1>a small percentage of kids who experienced night tabors, terrors

0:32:32.920 --> 0:32:36.720
<v Speaker 1>might go on to have psychosis later in life. I

0:32:36.760 --> 0:32:38.960
<v Speaker 1>saw that too, So I saw like that that was

0:32:39.040 --> 0:32:41.640
<v Speaker 1>widely reported. There was one study that found it, but

0:32:41.680 --> 0:32:45.960
<v Speaker 1>it was a decent studies six kids, and it found

0:32:46.040 --> 0:32:48.680
<v Speaker 1>that kids who have night terrors are eight times likely

0:32:48.840 --> 0:32:53.040
<v Speaker 1>or to experience psychosis later on in life, like you said, uh,

0:32:53.120 --> 0:32:56.640
<v Speaker 1>and they have found there it can develop along with anxiety,

0:32:56.720 --> 0:33:00.200
<v Speaker 1>bipolar disorder, and depression. In adults. It can be co

0:33:00.400 --> 0:33:03.360
<v Speaker 1>morbid with those correct. I hate that word, but it

0:33:03.400 --> 0:33:07.200
<v Speaker 1>gets it across, it does. It's just feel morbid, just sounds.

0:33:07.400 --> 0:33:09.920
<v Speaker 1>You know. They should have come up with a different word,

0:33:10.600 --> 0:33:16.520
<v Speaker 1>like hygienic. Co hygienic. That's the word you hate, right, yeah, morbid.

0:33:16.800 --> 0:33:18.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. It's one of those words that means

0:33:18.240 --> 0:33:22.400
<v Speaker 1>two completely different things. And why why do that just

0:33:22.640 --> 0:33:25.560
<v Speaker 1>have a different word. Well, let's come up with it

0:33:25.720 --> 0:33:32.160
<v Speaker 1>right now. I don't give me, give me some letters. No, okay,

0:33:32.840 --> 0:33:37.200
<v Speaker 1>I think that was a wise decision. Um. They used

0:33:37.200 --> 0:33:41.160
<v Speaker 1>to give you meds. Uh. Nowadays they don't do that

0:33:41.280 --> 0:33:44.400
<v Speaker 1>so much. So I saw that in this article, but

0:33:44.480 --> 0:33:47.480
<v Speaker 1>I also saw elsewhere that they're like, nope, med's best

0:33:47.560 --> 0:33:50.160
<v Speaker 1>thing to do. If your kid has horrible nights, give

0:33:50.200 --> 0:33:56.800
<v Speaker 1>them valium, like basically benzo diazepines, which are things like valium.

0:33:57.320 --> 0:34:00.760
<v Speaker 1>I think some antidepressants are benzo as a peans, but

0:34:01.280 --> 0:34:03.960
<v Speaker 1>something that will just knock you out and you're not

0:34:04.040 --> 0:34:06.880
<v Speaker 1>gonna have a night there, or any kind of interrupted sleep.

0:34:07.400 --> 0:34:10.960
<v Speaker 1>Apparently if it's bad enough, they will prescribe those. I'm

0:34:11.000 --> 0:34:13.120
<v Speaker 1>sure it's not like their go to like here, let's

0:34:13.120 --> 0:34:17.719
<v Speaker 1>give your kids these chemicals pharmaceuticals. But I think it's

0:34:17.840 --> 0:34:21.360
<v Speaker 1>um it's still on the table. And I saw this

0:34:21.480 --> 0:34:26.320
<v Speaker 1>report in a number of different places that um, there's

0:34:27.080 --> 0:34:31.600
<v Speaker 1>a reported case of some kid who had forty episodes

0:34:31.640 --> 0:34:35.279
<v Speaker 1>of night terrors in a single night. Wow, yeah, you

0:34:35.320 --> 0:34:39.319
<v Speaker 1>would give that kid valium? Holy cow? Yeah yeah, because

0:34:39.360 --> 0:34:41.520
<v Speaker 1>think about it, like, even if the kids not remembering

0:34:41.920 --> 0:34:45.320
<v Speaker 1>what's going on, that's still having like the fight or

0:34:45.360 --> 0:34:48.640
<v Speaker 1>flight effect forty times in a single night on its

0:34:48.680 --> 0:34:52.160
<v Speaker 1>little central nervous or central nervous system. It's not good.

0:34:53.000 --> 0:34:55.560
<v Speaker 1>So you'd be way better off just giving the kid valum.

0:34:55.640 --> 0:35:00.040
<v Speaker 1>Then one thing that um they found is that a

0:35:00.120 --> 0:35:02.680
<v Speaker 1>lot of times if you have two pepe that can

0:35:02.719 --> 0:35:05.080
<v Speaker 1>bring on a night terror if your bladder is really full.

0:35:05.880 --> 0:35:07.880
<v Speaker 1>Uh So what they do in that case is they

0:35:07.960 --> 0:35:10.799
<v Speaker 1>recommend you, um, wake your kid up a couple hours

0:35:10.880 --> 0:35:15.319
<v Speaker 1>into sleep and go, um take uh take the little

0:35:15.360 --> 0:35:17.680
<v Speaker 1>boy or girl to the bathroom, put them back to sleep.

0:35:18.200 --> 0:35:20.960
<v Speaker 1>And the thing that I saw about that, though, I'm

0:35:21.000 --> 0:35:22.560
<v Speaker 1>sure that that has something to do with it. But

0:35:22.640 --> 0:35:26.680
<v Speaker 1>I also think that they are inadvertently following what's called

0:35:26.800 --> 0:35:31.320
<v Speaker 1>scheduled awakening, which is the the go to treatment for

0:35:31.600 --> 0:35:34.920
<v Speaker 1>night tares. Yeah, I mean it's exactly what it sounds like,

0:35:35.080 --> 0:35:37.960
<v Speaker 1>which is you try and I mean I guess you

0:35:38.000 --> 0:35:39.799
<v Speaker 1>have to time it out pretty well. Yeah, but there

0:35:39.880 --> 0:35:43.120
<v Speaker 1>apparently are very predictable. Like if your kid suffers from

0:35:43.200 --> 0:35:45.799
<v Speaker 1>night tears on a regular basis, they're gonna have them

0:35:45.800 --> 0:35:48.320
<v Speaker 1>at about the same time every night. So you just

0:35:48.400 --> 0:35:50.440
<v Speaker 1>wake your kid up like ten minutes before then you

0:35:50.600 --> 0:35:54.560
<v Speaker 1>like five seconds before that. You wait, um, you you

0:35:54.719 --> 0:35:57.600
<v Speaker 1>wake him up just ten fifteen minutes something like that

0:35:57.719 --> 0:36:00.440
<v Speaker 1>before they normally have a night tare. Um, give them

0:36:00.480 --> 0:36:02.680
<v Speaker 1>some water something like, tuck them in a little bit.

0:36:02.680 --> 0:36:06.160
<v Speaker 1>But you roused them enough that you are preventing them

0:36:06.320 --> 0:36:09.800
<v Speaker 1>from going into such deep sleep that they'll have a

0:36:09.920 --> 0:36:13.719
<v Speaker 1>night tare. So they kind of dipped down towards sleep, um,

0:36:14.239 --> 0:36:17.040
<v Speaker 1>but or towards that super deep sleep, but never so

0:36:17.280 --> 0:36:20.359
<v Speaker 1>much that they experience a night tare. But they're still

0:36:20.440 --> 0:36:24.840
<v Speaker 1>getting good sleep, better sleep because they're they're um not

0:36:25.000 --> 0:36:27.279
<v Speaker 1>experiencing the fight or flighters. Because I was wondering about

0:36:27.320 --> 0:36:29.560
<v Speaker 1>that about disrupting the sleep pattern. But if yeah, that

0:36:29.640 --> 0:36:32.359
<v Speaker 1>sounds like it's a win win. Yeah, allegedly they're they're

0:36:32.400 --> 0:36:35.880
<v Speaker 1>still getting great sleep. Um. And I do want to

0:36:35.920 --> 0:36:39.719
<v Speaker 1>mention too with the bladder problem. I've said this before

0:36:39.760 --> 0:36:41.760
<v Speaker 1>in the show and it is my duty as always

0:36:41.880 --> 0:36:43.680
<v Speaker 1>to say it again. It was a late bed wetter.

0:36:44.440 --> 0:36:46.040
<v Speaker 1>And I always like to say this on the show

0:36:46.160 --> 0:36:48.960
<v Speaker 1>because kids out there that listen to this, if you're

0:36:49.040 --> 0:36:55.440
<v Speaker 1>late bed wetter, don't don't be ashamed. Nothing to be

0:36:55.520 --> 0:36:59.160
<v Speaker 1>ashamed about. It happens. It's hereditary. I went to bed

0:36:59.280 --> 0:37:05.200
<v Speaker 1>till I was wellve ish and no, it was about twelve,

0:37:05.920 --> 0:37:08.320
<v Speaker 1>and um, it was you know, a lot of anxiety

0:37:08.400 --> 0:37:11.800
<v Speaker 1>for a little chucky spending that out and stuff. So

0:37:12.040 --> 0:37:13.600
<v Speaker 1>if you're if you're listening out there and you're a

0:37:13.680 --> 0:37:16.960
<v Speaker 1>late bedwetter, just hang in there. It'll stop. And um,

0:37:17.680 --> 0:37:20.160
<v Speaker 1>hopefully you have parents that are understanding and friends parents

0:37:20.200 --> 0:37:23.399
<v Speaker 1>that are understanding. That's a big one. That's nice. Chuck. Yeah,

0:37:24.239 --> 0:37:26.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm not embarrassed anymore. I don't think you should be.

0:37:27.120 --> 0:37:30.160
<v Speaker 1>I'll pee in front of anybody. Yeah, go to sleep

0:37:30.239 --> 0:37:33.320
<v Speaker 1>right now and I'll do it. Uh. And then you

0:37:33.600 --> 0:37:37.360
<v Speaker 1>you know, we're talking about this. Um. Scheduled awakenings are devices,

0:37:38.080 --> 0:37:42.680
<v Speaker 1>and I found one on a popular online retailer for

0:37:42.760 --> 0:37:44.920
<v Speaker 1>a hundred and twenty nine bucks. And what it is.

0:37:45.000 --> 0:37:48.759
<v Speaker 1>It's just a little thing that well I wasn't gonna

0:37:48.800 --> 0:37:53.879
<v Speaker 1>say the name, but sure it's probably Luly. Yeah, you're right,

0:37:55.160 --> 0:38:00.279
<v Speaker 1>uh it. Um, it's a It vibrates the mattress at

0:38:00.400 --> 0:38:05.560
<v Speaker 1>intervals to wake your kid up gently. Yeah. Well, supposedly

0:38:05.600 --> 0:38:08.440
<v Speaker 1>it also learns when your kid has so you program

0:38:08.640 --> 0:38:10.919
<v Speaker 1>in when your kid normally has a night tare through

0:38:11.040 --> 0:38:13.520
<v Speaker 1>an app, I believe, and then it starts to pay

0:38:13.560 --> 0:38:16.759
<v Speaker 1>attention and learn when your kid actually has them. And

0:38:16.840 --> 0:38:19.160
<v Speaker 1>then yeah, it vibrates and and it does the same

0:38:19.200 --> 0:38:22.000
<v Speaker 1>thing as a schedule of awakening device, so you don't

0:38:22.000 --> 0:38:25.080
<v Speaker 1>have to be bothered, just let the robot take care

0:38:25.120 --> 0:38:27.359
<v Speaker 1>of your kids. I looked at the reviews though, and um,

0:38:27.480 --> 0:38:32.080
<v Speaker 1>it got um eighty one percent either four or five

0:38:32.160 --> 0:38:35.239
<v Speaker 1>star ratings, which means, you know, when it was it

0:38:35.320 --> 0:38:37.040
<v Speaker 1>was something like this, that means it worked for them.

0:38:37.080 --> 0:38:40.640
<v Speaker 1>How many ratings I don't remember, I mean several hundred,

0:38:40.680 --> 0:38:46.000
<v Speaker 1>I think, uh, and then eleven percent at um one star,

0:38:47.120 --> 0:38:49.000
<v Speaker 1>and again that just means it didn't work for them.

0:38:49.080 --> 0:38:51.120
<v Speaker 1>Like when you read it, people like it's absolute garbage.

0:38:51.160 --> 0:38:53.319
<v Speaker 1>It didn't work for some people are like I would

0:38:53.360 --> 0:38:55.400
<v Speaker 1>have given it five but I thought the packaging it

0:38:55.480 --> 0:38:59.799
<v Speaker 1>came in was dumb looking. Some people do that, man,

0:39:00.000 --> 0:39:04.560
<v Speaker 1>because people the worst. So whether or not you're using

0:39:04.600 --> 0:39:08.640
<v Speaker 1>a device or you're doing a scheduled awakening like Flatliners,

0:39:08.680 --> 0:39:11.200
<v Speaker 1>it's all about the timing. I got a time it

0:39:11.360 --> 0:39:16.880
<v Speaker 1>just right right or else pointing no return two movie references.

0:39:18.200 --> 0:39:21.279
<v Speaker 1>They're remaking Flatliners, by the way, of course, with a

0:39:21.360 --> 0:39:27.960
<v Speaker 1>new generation starring Juneo. Oh really yeah, who else? I

0:39:28.000 --> 0:39:31.080
<v Speaker 1>can't remember. Keep for Southerland just signed on. But you know,

0:39:31.360 --> 0:39:32.920
<v Speaker 1>one of those deals where they bring him back is

0:39:32.960 --> 0:39:36.680
<v Speaker 1>probably the old The old weirdo sits under the desk,

0:39:36.760 --> 0:39:39.520
<v Speaker 1>that's my guess. Uh. And I wanted to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>about something I didn't know existed. Um sheets that keep

0:39:43.520 --> 0:39:46.799
<v Speaker 1>you cool at night. Apparently sometimes they think it can

0:39:46.840 --> 0:39:50.000
<v Speaker 1>be triggered by overheating. And people have found success with

0:39:50.200 --> 0:39:54.239
<v Speaker 1>these wonder sheets that I didn't know existed. So I

0:39:54.280 --> 0:39:57.279
<v Speaker 1>looked them up. Their sheets that keep you cooler. It's

0:39:57.320 --> 0:40:00.680
<v Speaker 1>like a sheet that's a giant fan well, it's two

0:40:00.760 --> 0:40:04.640
<v Speaker 1>to three degrees cooler to the touch. Nice wicks moisture

0:40:04.640 --> 0:40:09.839
<v Speaker 1>away like our favorite nunties. Um prevents absorption of heat

0:40:09.920 --> 0:40:12.440
<v Speaker 1>from lights of your bed sits in the sun all day,

0:40:13.400 --> 0:40:17.440
<v Speaker 1>and sleep during the day. I guess. Uh, you're a

0:40:17.480 --> 0:40:20.440
<v Speaker 1>little kid on the lead shift and three times more airflow.

0:40:20.600 --> 0:40:23.800
<v Speaker 1>So we have to get some of those. Give it

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<v Speaker 1>a shot. Nice. One of the other things I saw

0:40:26.560 --> 0:40:29.640
<v Speaker 1>that they think might trigger it is restless legs syndrome. Yeah,

0:40:29.680 --> 0:40:32.279
<v Speaker 1>supposedly there's a link with those two. The Jimmy legs

0:40:33.360 --> 0:40:38.120
<v Speaker 1>that'll keep you up. So there's a story. Should we

0:40:38.160 --> 0:40:42.160
<v Speaker 1>talk about this guy in Phoenix? I feel like we

0:40:42.200 --> 0:40:46.160
<v Speaker 1>talked about him in the sleep walking episode. Yeah, we

0:40:46.239 --> 0:40:49.000
<v Speaker 1>talked about people killing and sleepwalking episode. Like he's not

0:40:49.120 --> 0:40:52.160
<v Speaker 1>the only one. Noah, I know, let's talk about him again.

0:40:52.760 --> 0:40:56.880
<v Speaker 1>Scott the ladder for later. I'll bet we said the

0:40:56.960 --> 0:41:01.919
<v Speaker 1>same thing in the Sleepwalking Scott. His nickname is save

0:41:02.000 --> 0:41:05.840
<v Speaker 1>it Scott, save it for later. No, I mean sorry,

0:41:06.480 --> 0:41:10.680
<v Speaker 1>I shouldn't be joking. He's in prison. Yes he Uh,

0:41:11.040 --> 0:41:16.200
<v Speaker 1>this was he Um. He stabbed his wife forty four

0:41:16.280 --> 0:41:19.960
<v Speaker 1>times and then held her head underwater in a pool.

0:41:20.080 --> 0:41:22.960
<v Speaker 1>Swimming pool. So what happened is this guy got up

0:41:23.000 --> 0:41:25.000
<v Speaker 1>in the middle of the night, went out to fix

0:41:25.080 --> 0:41:31.800
<v Speaker 1>his swimming pool, um with a hunting knife as a screwdriver.

0:41:33.080 --> 0:41:36.080
<v Speaker 1>His wife wakes him up. And that's why we said

0:41:36.160 --> 0:41:38.880
<v Speaker 1>not to wake someone up, because if someone's gonna get

0:41:38.960 --> 0:41:41.480
<v Speaker 1>violent during a sleep terror, it's because you were trying

0:41:41.480 --> 0:41:44.440
<v Speaker 1>to wake them up. And apparently you're supposed to just

0:41:44.520 --> 0:41:46.880
<v Speaker 1>gently guide them back to bed. Yeah, she did not.

0:41:47.200 --> 0:41:51.240
<v Speaker 1>She apparently startled him. Uh. He stabbed her uh forty

0:41:51.280 --> 0:41:54.200
<v Speaker 1>four times and then tried to drown her. And his

0:41:54.320 --> 0:41:56.920
<v Speaker 1>neighbor saw this called the cops, and that was his

0:41:57.000 --> 0:41:59.640
<v Speaker 1>defense that it was a sleep terror, which you know

0:41:59.760 --> 0:42:05.879
<v Speaker 1>can occur with sleepwalking. Um. And it didn't work. The defense. Um.

0:42:06.480 --> 0:42:10.120
<v Speaker 1>Basically the prosecution said their marriage isn't some rosy thing

0:42:10.239 --> 0:42:13.759
<v Speaker 1>like he said, Um, they're Mormon and she was trying

0:42:13.800 --> 0:42:16.120
<v Speaker 1>to kind of leave the church behind a little bit,

0:42:16.120 --> 0:42:18.400
<v Speaker 1>and he was upset about that. He wanted to have kids,

0:42:18.600 --> 0:42:21.920
<v Speaker 1>more kids and she didn't. Uh. Defense said all that

0:42:22.000 --> 0:42:24.319
<v Speaker 1>stuff was true, but not really that big of a deal,

0:42:24.360 --> 0:42:28.319
<v Speaker 1>Like it didn't lead him to snap and kill his wife. Um.

0:42:29.120 --> 0:42:30.960
<v Speaker 1>But that was his defense and it didn't work. He's

0:42:31.000 --> 0:42:36.520
<v Speaker 1>now in prison for life with no parole. Man. Can

0:42:36.560 --> 0:42:39.799
<v Speaker 1>you imagine though, if he really was just totally sleepwalking

0:42:40.120 --> 0:42:43.560
<v Speaker 1>having a night tare sad for everyone, Yeah, especially her.

0:42:44.400 --> 0:42:48.160
<v Speaker 1>I saw a BuzzFeed article actually called can You Die

0:42:48.200 --> 0:42:51.759
<v Speaker 1>from a Nightmare? And it was about this. Um, this

0:42:52.000 --> 0:42:56.000
<v Speaker 1>artist named Tobias Long hung himself in New York and

0:42:56.640 --> 0:42:59.759
<v Speaker 1>it's strongly suspected by people who know him that he

0:43:00.040 --> 0:43:03.560
<v Speaker 1>did it in the midst of a night terror himself. Yes,

0:43:03.680 --> 0:43:07.840
<v Speaker 1>he hunged himself. So you, um, you'll see during research

0:43:07.960 --> 0:43:10.680
<v Speaker 1>for sleep terror and night terror that it's harmless. In

0:43:10.800 --> 0:43:14.160
<v Speaker 1>any website where that's salt that saying this will have

0:43:14.239 --> 0:43:18.160
<v Speaker 1>an asterisk or will say but you can actually die

0:43:18.280 --> 0:43:21.000
<v Speaker 1>from it. People have fallen out of windows, people have

0:43:21.200 --> 0:43:25.800
<v Speaker 1>hurt other family members because, um, you can't have injurious

0:43:25.840 --> 0:43:28.640
<v Speaker 1>episodes is what they're called of night terrors, because you're

0:43:28.680 --> 0:43:32.200
<v Speaker 1>sitting there flailing, You're like trying to fight something off. Um,

0:43:32.560 --> 0:43:36.680
<v Speaker 1>You're you're again moving around because remember this comes during

0:43:36.800 --> 0:43:40.600
<v Speaker 1>stage three and four of deep sleep, where your brains

0:43:40.640 --> 0:43:42.800
<v Speaker 1>off but your motor function can still work, so you

0:43:42.840 --> 0:43:45.640
<v Speaker 1>can get up and walk around and feel fear and

0:43:45.760 --> 0:43:50.160
<v Speaker 1>be fighting stuff off. Um, but you're you're you're not

0:43:50.280 --> 0:43:52.160
<v Speaker 1>having a nightmare. You're having a night tear. So you

0:43:52.280 --> 0:43:55.360
<v Speaker 1>can harm yourself and others, so it isn't just a

0:43:55.440 --> 0:43:58.680
<v Speaker 1>totally harmless thing, which is usually what they say. Yeah,

0:43:58.840 --> 0:44:00.440
<v Speaker 1>by the way, we're gonna get email else because you

0:44:00.480 --> 0:44:05.400
<v Speaker 1>said hung innut hanged there. Thanks for that, all right?

0:44:05.440 --> 0:44:08.319
<v Speaker 1>What's going on in the brain though, specifically, like they

0:44:08.360 --> 0:44:10.839
<v Speaker 1>don't know what causes it, but they know what's lighting up,

0:44:10.880 --> 0:44:12.480
<v Speaker 1>then it all kind of makes sense. Well, it's like

0:44:12.560 --> 0:44:15.200
<v Speaker 1>I was saying, like the when you're in stage three

0:44:15.320 --> 0:44:18.440
<v Speaker 1>or four, your executive function is off, but you can

0:44:18.480 --> 0:44:22.360
<v Speaker 1>still experience emotions like fear and panic and you can

0:44:22.400 --> 0:44:26.000
<v Speaker 1>still move around, but you're not you're have you have

0:44:26.160 --> 0:44:29.759
<v Speaker 1>delta brainways, so you're not thinking, you're not dreaming, you're

0:44:29.840 --> 0:44:32.920
<v Speaker 1>just your body is just doing something really bizarre that

0:44:33.040 --> 0:44:35.759
<v Speaker 1>it's not normally supposed to do. Yeah, so that's what

0:44:35.880 --> 0:44:38.280
<v Speaker 1>a night terror is. What what what's going on basically

0:44:38.440 --> 0:44:42.080
<v Speaker 1>is you can commit acts of violence because that's switched on,

0:44:42.920 --> 0:44:46.279
<v Speaker 1>but you don't have that an inhibition switched on, that

0:44:46.400 --> 0:44:49.280
<v Speaker 1>switched off. So what they found is what is happening

0:44:49.360 --> 0:44:54.280
<v Speaker 1>during a night gare. Is it's it resembles exactly or mirrors?

0:44:54.400 --> 0:44:58.000
<v Speaker 1>Is it mirrors or is that opposite? Mirror would be opposite.

0:44:58.520 --> 0:45:02.360
<v Speaker 1>It resembles what happens when someone is violent when they're awake.

0:45:03.320 --> 0:45:13.359
<v Speaker 1>All right, no inhibition going on? Executive functioning, ah off off. Yeah,

0:45:13.920 --> 0:45:16.960
<v Speaker 1>it's a really weird, dangerous thing. Luckily it's mostly just

0:45:17.120 --> 0:45:20.280
<v Speaker 1>in kids, but apparently in adults that can be really

0:45:20.360 --> 0:45:24.800
<v Speaker 1>bad because you know, adults can be muscular, they know

0:45:24.880 --> 0:45:28.040
<v Speaker 1>they're way around a knife. They can be little kid

0:45:28.120 --> 0:45:30.799
<v Speaker 1>it's just like you just hold them in place by

0:45:30.920 --> 0:45:33.920
<v Speaker 1>putting pressure on their forehead. Their little kids that are

0:45:33.960 --> 0:45:37.440
<v Speaker 1>more muscular than me. Remember when I used to lifeguard,

0:45:37.480 --> 0:45:40.319
<v Speaker 1>I'd see like it's like a little twelve year old boy.

0:45:40.360 --> 0:45:43.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, that kid is naturally cut, like more than

0:45:44.040 --> 0:45:48.640
<v Speaker 1>more than I would ever hope to be. Hate those kids. Uh. Lastly,

0:45:48.719 --> 0:45:52.480
<v Speaker 1>there is an indie go go for an augmented reality

0:45:52.600 --> 0:45:56.400
<v Speaker 1>app called night Terrors that sounds pretty awesome and um

0:45:56.680 --> 0:45:59.560
<v Speaker 1>it's an app on your phone and it takes over

0:45:59.760 --> 0:46:02.440
<v Speaker 1>the flashlight on your phone, so you turn out all

0:46:02.440 --> 0:46:04.760
<v Speaker 1>the lights in your house and you walk through looking

0:46:04.880 --> 0:46:09.239
<v Speaker 1>at your house. The camera on your phone. That's how

0:46:09.280 --> 0:46:11.480
<v Speaker 1>you're looking at your house and it's lit by the

0:46:11.520 --> 0:46:14.000
<v Speaker 1>flashlight and everything, and all of a sudden, like a

0:46:14.360 --> 0:46:17.000
<v Speaker 1>monster will pop up, like out from around the hall,

0:46:17.680 --> 0:46:21.160
<v Speaker 1>your hall. It's just a really neat concept and apparently

0:46:21.200 --> 0:46:23.799
<v Speaker 1>they're executing it very well. What What is the whole

0:46:23.840 --> 0:46:27.600
<v Speaker 1>point though? To scare the Jesus side of yourself. It's

0:46:27.640 --> 0:46:30.040
<v Speaker 1>a horror game app but it's not really a game.

0:46:30.080 --> 0:46:31.720
<v Speaker 1>It's as you walk around your house and it scares

0:46:31.760 --> 0:46:35.440
<v Speaker 1>you to death. It's like Pokemon Go, but for creeps,

0:46:36.320 --> 0:46:41.279
<v Speaker 1>although Pokemon does for creeps too. There you go. I

0:46:41.360 --> 0:46:44.680
<v Speaker 1>didn't even know that was until yesterday. It's pretty new.

0:46:45.200 --> 0:46:47.719
<v Speaker 1>It's not that shameful. Given another weekend, it would have

0:46:47.760 --> 0:46:52.279
<v Speaker 1>been shameful. That's it, Huh. I got nothing else. Well,

0:46:52.320 --> 0:46:54.080
<v Speaker 1>if you want to know more about night terrors, you

0:46:54.200 --> 0:46:56.240
<v Speaker 1>can type those words in the search part how stuff

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<v Speaker 1>works dot com, so it's like search parts. Time for

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<v Speaker 1>listener mail. Uh, this is about Gettysburg address. Hey guys,

0:47:07.680 --> 0:47:09.880
<v Speaker 1>thanks for the show. Uh. Not only do you all

0:47:09.880 --> 0:47:13.719
<v Speaker 1>address cool and interesting topics in a meaningful way, the

0:47:13.800 --> 0:47:16.160
<v Speaker 1>dynamic between the two of y'all adds a layer of

0:47:16.280 --> 0:47:21.040
<v Speaker 1>enjoyment that can't be can't be duplicated. Thank you, perfect

0:47:21.120 --> 0:47:24.920
<v Speaker 1>mix of seriousness and humor. Perfect. This guy's right up

0:47:24.920 --> 0:47:30.920
<v Speaker 1>our alley. Uh why I'm writing those I listen to? However, No, no, no,

0:47:31.200 --> 0:47:33.320
<v Speaker 1>this is good. I listened to the podcast on the

0:47:33.360 --> 0:47:35.960
<v Speaker 1>Gettysburg address, and you mentioned all students across the country

0:47:36.320 --> 0:47:39.840
<v Speaker 1>pointlessly memorize this and other speeches, never really get what

0:47:39.920 --> 0:47:41.480
<v Speaker 1>it's even about. I can tell you I was one

0:47:41.520 --> 0:47:46.600
<v Speaker 1>of those memorized passages. Memorizing passages never ever helps anyone learn.

0:47:47.200 --> 0:47:49.560
<v Speaker 1>In high school, we not only had to memorize Gettysburg

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<v Speaker 1>Address Gettysburg, but Mark Anthony speech, which is what I

0:47:53.360 --> 0:47:57.279
<v Speaker 1>had to do, uh mcbet tomorrow and tomorrow and tomorrow soliloquy.

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<v Speaker 1>And in the month of April every year we had

0:47:59.239 --> 0:48:01.480
<v Speaker 1>to memorize a poem of our choice of at least

0:48:01.520 --> 0:48:05.239
<v Speaker 1>ten lines for National Poetry Month. They did it all

0:48:05.280 --> 0:48:06.920
<v Speaker 1>the time. And you know how many of those things

0:48:07.000 --> 0:48:10.480
<v Speaker 1>I remember now? Zero? Do you know how much I

0:48:10.480 --> 0:48:13.240
<v Speaker 1>can tell you about the passages and their meaning? Nothing.

0:48:14.040 --> 0:48:16.600
<v Speaker 1>I couldn't even tell you what poems I decided to memorize,

0:48:17.400 --> 0:48:19.640
<v Speaker 1>although I think one year I chose an e. Commings

0:48:19.680 --> 0:48:22.360
<v Speaker 1>poem because it was technically ten lines but maybe a

0:48:22.400 --> 0:48:27.560
<v Speaker 1>total of fifteen words. Yeah, Matt, he's doing it right. Uh.

0:48:28.360 --> 0:48:31.360
<v Speaker 1>I like comming, so good choice. So I'm with you

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<v Speaker 1>all on how pointless this all is. Keep up the

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<v Speaker 1>great work. You have a fan for life, and that

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<v Speaker 1>is Matt from Richmond, Virginia. Matt Anderson. Thanks a lot, Matt,

0:48:39.360 --> 0:48:42.560
<v Speaker 1>much appreciative. We appreciate the support. You know what I

0:48:42.680 --> 0:48:47.239
<v Speaker 1>remember from that age or like ad jingles like I

0:48:47.400 --> 0:48:50.799
<v Speaker 1>feel like chicken tent Knight, Like Chicken tent Night. Yeah,

0:48:51.080 --> 0:48:55.719
<v Speaker 1>chicken tent Knight, and you don't remember schooling, but you

0:48:55.840 --> 0:48:59.960
<v Speaker 1>remember where's the beef? Yeah? And chicken tonight was good?

0:49:00.040 --> 0:49:03.279
<v Speaker 1>And I think I remember that it was just a

0:49:03.400 --> 0:49:06.160
<v Speaker 1>jar of sauce. Oh, but it's like a whole gimmick

0:49:06.200 --> 0:49:09.040
<v Speaker 1>around it just chicken, and you can have chicken tonight.

0:49:09.920 --> 0:49:12.960
<v Speaker 1>So in other words, cooking meal entirely made of other

0:49:13.440 --> 0:49:16.120
<v Speaker 1>sauce and pour this stuff on your family will finally

0:49:16.200 --> 0:49:19.560
<v Speaker 1>love you. And they also had one called beef Tonight

0:49:20.680 --> 0:49:24.080
<v Speaker 1>pork tonight. I don't think they did. I'm sure those

0:49:24.120 --> 0:49:27.040
<v Speaker 1>were playing, but they never did it. They're like, we

0:49:27.160 --> 0:49:30.600
<v Speaker 1>just can't get the sauce right, Who's ever created a

0:49:30.680 --> 0:49:34.560
<v Speaker 1>good sauce for pork or beef? Uh? If you want

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