WEBVTT - Full Show: The Unsolicited Spanx... 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:04.720 From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us. 0:00:04.840 --> 0:00:10.639 On air with Ryan Seacrest, we two point seven kiss. 0:00:12.080 --> 0:00:14.640 I don't know. I'm don't know what men do, don't know, 0:00:14.960 --> 0:00:17.360 don't know yet. Why are you so frazzled this morning? 0:00:17.640 --> 0:00:20.959 Because Mark sent me? Aren't you want to know? Okay? Okay, yes, 0:00:21.400 --> 0:00:22.120 family meeting? 0:00:22.320 --> 0:00:25.959 Yeah, feels like it's Mark, our producer. 0:00:26.200 --> 0:00:31.040 Mark sent me an email and he started with, let 0:00:31.080 --> 0:00:33.280 me just scroll back to it. 0:00:33.280 --> 0:00:37.000 It's so far down the line. So surprised he doesn't 0:00:37.040 --> 0:00:38.240 know what you're talking about. 0:00:38.400 --> 0:00:40.279 He sends me an email and it starts with if 0:00:40.280 --> 0:00:47.080 you're so inclined? And I thought that was the email 0:00:47.120 --> 0:00:49.760 for the show today. Turns out it wasn't the email 0:00:49.800 --> 0:00:51.320 for the show today. So I'm looking for the email 0:00:51.360 --> 0:00:54.080 for the show today. But who says if you're so inclined? 0:00:54.120 --> 0:00:56.840 Isn't that like patronizing? 0:00:56.920 --> 0:00:58.800 Yeah, like you don't have to do this, but you 0:00:58.960 --> 0:01:00.200 somebody who wants a favor? 0:01:00.080 --> 0:01:02.480 Or was it a favorite email? Was it a favorite? 0:01:02.480 --> 0:01:02.680 Mark? 0:01:03.200 --> 0:01:05.360 Actually? Fair stuff. We got to do it eventually, And 0:01:05.400 --> 0:01:07.440 so I thought, if you are so inclined, you can 0:01:07.520 --> 0:01:09.800 knock this out early. If you're so inclined, you do 0:01:09.880 --> 0:01:14.080 say that in like jargon. Yeah, he just does. Yes, 0:01:14.160 --> 0:01:16.160 he does. Now that you set it out loud, I'm like, okay, 0:01:16.160 --> 0:01:19.720 that sounds natural. To bet in an email is next level. 0:01:19.880 --> 0:01:22.680 And to be fair, I do think that Mark all 0:01:22.720 --> 0:01:25.080 the time. To be fair, Mark has your best intro. 0:01:25.120 --> 0:01:27.080 He's going to be fair. Yes he does. 0:01:27.200 --> 0:01:28.760 I do think he does, which is fine. 0:01:28.800 --> 0:01:30.280 He just sent multiple emails, so I was trying to 0:01:30.280 --> 0:01:32.800 find today's show email, which that's why I'm frozzled, and 0:01:32.840 --> 0:01:33.319 I found it. 0:01:33.920 --> 0:01:35.559 Okay, good morning, how are you sising? 0:01:35.760 --> 0:01:39.800 Good morning, I'm good. I took a family walk yesterday afternoon. 0:01:40.120 --> 0:01:41.920 And it seems like a lot of work. It was 0:01:42.520 --> 0:01:43.200 so much work. 0:01:43.440 --> 0:01:45.280 And when I say family walk, it was all of 0:01:45.360 --> 0:01:48.480 us and the three dogs. Because Diego now has it, 0:01:48.640 --> 0:01:51.040 he can go on walks, and we're all so excited. 0:01:50.680 --> 0:01:54.000 Because who has the leashes? Who has the kids? 0:01:54.440 --> 0:01:57.160 Well, Michael had Diego because he's the most untrained on 0:01:57.200 --> 0:02:00.640 a leash right now, and uh Asa had Dakota because 0:02:00.640 --> 0:02:02.680 she's like a ge she could walk without a leash, 0:02:03.200 --> 0:02:06.680 and Max and a Gypsy, which was not the greatest. 0:02:06.800 --> 0:02:09.120 So we had to eventually, I had to have the 0:02:09.160 --> 0:02:10.839 stroller and and the other dog. 0:02:11.320 --> 0:02:14.600 Does this group of people, your family, the large group, 0:02:14.600 --> 0:02:16.160 do they walk on the street or the sidewalk. 0:02:16.280 --> 0:02:18.359 We try to get to the sidewalk, but some of 0:02:18.400 --> 0:02:19.600 our streets don't have sidewalks. 0:02:19.600 --> 0:02:22.000 So yeah, I mean it was fine. I get very 0:02:22.040 --> 0:02:23.440 nervous when walking with anyone. 0:02:23.520 --> 0:02:26.000 Yeah, if they're outside, if they're to my left, I 0:02:26.080 --> 0:02:27.880 have to be on the outside. Like I'm going to 0:02:27.919 --> 0:02:29.840 stop the car, but I have to be on the outside, 0:02:29.880 --> 0:02:31.679 so everybody's pushed in towards the car. 0:02:32.880 --> 0:02:34.720 You don't want the kids to be like where the car? 0:02:34.840 --> 0:02:39.480 Want anybody, even people like stronger than I am, a. 0:02:39.600 --> 0:02:43.600 Gentleman walking with like Dwayne Johnson and you're like please, Dayne. 0:02:43.880 --> 0:02:45.720 The last time I walked with him after a meal, 0:02:45.760 --> 0:02:48.480 I'm like, bro, stand inside, let me take the outside 0:02:49.040 --> 0:02:49.520 for sure? 0:02:50.480 --> 0:02:51.200 How are you telling you? 0:02:51.440 --> 0:02:55.040 I'm really really good? Except my dog is not so good. 0:02:55.480 --> 0:02:59.200 What's wrong with Sonny has iv d D, which is 0:02:59.240 --> 0:03:01.920 like intro verbal disc disease or something. 0:03:02.400 --> 0:03:04.919 Oh sorry, is this a recent diagnosis? 0:03:05.000 --> 0:03:07.040 Yeah, just a couple of days ago. So basically we 0:03:07.080 --> 0:03:08.480 just have to keep her in her crate now for 0:03:08.520 --> 0:03:09.120 like two weeks. 0:03:09.120 --> 0:03:11.200 So is it a physical slip of a disc. 0:03:11.400 --> 0:03:12.960 Yeah, sack and lower back. 0:03:13.520 --> 0:03:14.680 So it's a cute, not chronic. 0:03:15.120 --> 0:03:16.200 A cute. 0:03:16.200 --> 0:03:17.560 Well so it just happened. 0:03:17.919 --> 0:03:19.440 Yeah, it's like it's happened over time. 0:03:19.560 --> 0:03:19.720 Yeah. 0:03:19.840 --> 0:03:21.600 Yeah. So now we just have to like basically just. 0:03:21.880 --> 0:03:23.600 Because there's this been going on for a minute where 0:03:23.600 --> 0:03:24.840 you were like I have to create her for a 0:03:24.880 --> 0:03:26.040 month or whatever it was, and. 0:03:25.960 --> 0:03:27.560 We've been kind of loose with it, like we just 0:03:27.639 --> 0:03:30.519 keep her in the kitchen, you know, enough, it's not enough. 0:03:30.560 --> 0:03:32.280 She needs to be like on the ground. 0:03:32.919 --> 0:03:35.760 It's the worst when you have, you know, a pet 0:03:35.840 --> 0:03:39.160 that's going through something because obviously you can't they can't 0:03:39.160 --> 0:03:40.320 tell you, You can't tell them. 0:03:40.320 --> 0:03:42.920 But you know, it's so sweet because Robbie like talks 0:03:42.960 --> 0:03:45.080 to her, you know, like she can understand him. So 0:03:45.160 --> 0:03:46.720 he's like, I know, Sonny, this. 0:03:46.720 --> 0:03:49.040 Is really just sucks, Like Sonny, Yeah, he tries to. 0:03:48.960 --> 0:03:50.400 Talk to her and tell her like, I know this sucks. 0:03:50.440 --> 0:03:52.920 We're doing it for your benefit and it's just gonna 0:03:52.920 --> 0:03:54.240 be a couple of weeks then you're gonna be back 0:03:54.240 --> 0:03:55.880 as nude. It's so cute. 0:03:56.200 --> 0:03:57.800 And when does Sunny say back to Robbie, I love 0:03:57.880 --> 0:04:05.360 this shirt. He's got a vintage Ford Bronco shirt. She 0:04:05.480 --> 0:04:07.200 swiped a picture of it, flipped it to me. 0:04:07.440 --> 0:04:08.360 Yeah, it's so good. 0:04:08.440 --> 0:04:10.160 He's gonna get you one. He already got you one. 0:04:10.320 --> 0:04:12.840 Actually, you know what he made me do. After I 0:04:12.880 --> 0:04:18.200 saw that picture, I did a little bit more of him. Triceeps. Oh, 0:04:18.279 --> 0:04:19.839 I don't know if he has it. Seems like he 0:04:19.839 --> 0:04:21.240 had good Tryceeps in that photo. 0:04:21.520 --> 0:04:23.680 Yeah, he can lift really heavyweights. 0:04:24.240 --> 0:04:24.440 Yeah. 0:04:24.480 --> 0:04:27.720 I don't need to hear that. Yeah, sorry, but Tom, 0:04:27.760 --> 0:04:29.599 thanks for that. Where were you guys the farmer's market. 0:04:29.440 --> 0:04:32.720 When Yeah, we went to the Studio City farmers Market. 0:04:33.320 --> 0:04:36.640 Oh, okay, the back room. Well let's see. Hi Ruby, 0:04:36.640 --> 0:04:40.400 good morning, Hello, good morning. Hi Mikayla, good morning, good morning. 0:04:41.240 --> 0:04:43.440 What'd you have for dinner last night? Ruby? I'm curious 0:04:43.839 --> 0:04:44.800 what was last night? 0:04:45.040 --> 0:04:45.160 Oh? 0:04:45.600 --> 0:04:50.640 Ooh savicha Actually I made sevich. How are you sure 0:04:50.680 --> 0:04:54.400 that the fish was fresh enough to have raw? Well, 0:04:54.760 --> 0:04:59.560 it was shrimp, and I don't know. I just got 0:04:59.560 --> 0:05:04.200 it at se City Head because I don't know. My 0:05:04.240 --> 0:05:06.000 stomach has problems a lot of times. 0:05:06.080 --> 0:05:09.720 If I have fish that's raw that has sat anywhere, 0:05:09.800 --> 0:05:12.520 if the temperatures gotten bad, I had. I don't know 0:05:12.560 --> 0:05:14.240 if you saw my post of the rotisserie chicken that 0:05:14.279 --> 0:05:17.200 I made. Yeah it looked bomb Yeah it was, and 0:05:17.240 --> 0:05:20.239 then my stomach was bombing. 0:05:18.960 --> 0:05:21.920 Okay, with your stomach like, this is not the first 0:05:21.920 --> 0:05:23.320 time that's happened in the past few weeks. 0:05:23.240 --> 0:05:25.440 Because I don't eat like that until I get excited, 0:05:26.279 --> 0:05:29.840 and then I like that chicken. It was the drippings, 0:05:30.200 --> 0:05:32.359 So the fat of the chicken drips off into the 0:05:32.400 --> 0:05:35.240 bottom dish of the vegetables, and I scooped. 0:05:37.839 --> 0:05:40.680 Spoon. I was and so I knew it was not a. 0:05:40.600 --> 0:05:43.000 Good idea, but I paid for it. So I'm just 0:05:43.000 --> 0:05:44.039 looking out for your tummy, Lawne. 0:05:44.080 --> 0:05:46.000 That's all I know. But I did let it. I 0:05:46.200 --> 0:05:48.080 let it's in the lime juice with a lot of 0:05:48.120 --> 0:05:55.120 salt for hours. YEA delicious, that's really good. On air 0:05:55.320 --> 0:06:00.960 with Ryan Seacrets, all right, you're on Kiss FM, and 0:06:01.080 --> 0:06:05.159 those and those and those. Let's go around the room. 0:06:05.400 --> 0:06:07.880 In the last twenty hours, we all had highs and lows. 0:06:07.920 --> 0:06:11.280 What were yours mine? I got a new brush on Postmates, 0:06:11.360 --> 0:06:13.600 very exciting. Got there in like twenty seven minutes, and 0:06:13.960 --> 0:06:15.440 you actually recognized. 0:06:15.000 --> 0:06:15.719 The difference I do. 0:06:15.839 --> 0:06:17.160 I do see it amazing? 0:06:17.200 --> 0:06:19.200 So that would be my high tomorrow that you recognize today. 0:06:19.600 --> 0:06:22.520 I walk the link to the brush the link like, yeah, 0:06:22.520 --> 0:06:24.120 I can't find what is that going to do. 0:06:24.080 --> 0:06:24.640 For your hair? 0:06:24.880 --> 0:06:25.040 No? 0:06:25.120 --> 0:06:28.280 Not for me. Robbie said the same his hair, like 0:06:28.560 --> 0:06:29.279 are you making? 0:06:30.080 --> 0:06:32.240 Turned into rod him off and then put his hair 0:06:32.320 --> 0:06:34.599 like mine. He dressed him like me anyway? 0:06:35.440 --> 0:06:39.159 Do not do you dressed him like bizarre? It's weird? 0:06:39.480 --> 0:06:41.880 Is his name? You're high? My high is that? 0:06:42.480 --> 0:06:42.600 Uh? 0:06:43.680 --> 0:06:46.520 Neither one of my three kids crawled into my bed 0:06:46.600 --> 0:06:49.919 last night, so I had a very good sleep and 0:06:49.960 --> 0:06:52.920 that was fantastic, bragger, Tanya, your high? 0:06:52.960 --> 0:06:57.239 My high is I naturally woke up twenty minutes before 0:06:57.360 --> 0:06:59.039 my alarm this morning. 0:07:00.279 --> 0:07:03.039 That's why? Is that not a high? There just gonna 0:07:03.040 --> 0:07:05.239 be a low. I don't want twenty more mans to sleep, No. 0:07:05.200 --> 0:07:08.120 Like I naturally woke up like I didn't feel tired. 0:07:08.160 --> 0:07:10.040 That to me as a bummer. I agree with you, Tanya. 0:07:10.080 --> 0:07:12.080 I feel like that's a high for you because she's 0:07:12.120 --> 0:07:14.680 you know, it was her natural way. Yeah, all right, lows, 0:07:14.680 --> 0:07:16.400 so the lows. Let's do the lows around the room. 0:07:16.400 --> 0:07:17.640 I've been into what I thought was a chocolate chip 0:07:17.720 --> 0:07:19.360 cookie was actually a raisin cookie. 0:07:19.520 --> 0:07:21.320 Oh that is I thought you gonna say it was 0:07:21.360 --> 0:07:22.040 a dog tree. 0:07:22.280 --> 0:07:24.920 No, or so weird, not know how to doctory that 0:07:24.960 --> 0:07:26.920 would have been really low. It's so weird when you 0:07:26.920 --> 0:07:28.400 just think you're gonna get the right bite and it 0:07:28.480 --> 0:07:28.840 wasn't all right? 0:07:28.880 --> 0:07:29.480 Sitn't he your low? 0:07:29.800 --> 0:07:31.520 My love was that I'm already dull in my coffee, 0:07:31.560 --> 0:07:33.360 so I don't know I was gonna turn out. 0:07:33.400 --> 0:07:35.520 Now it's gonna be rough, and Tana, you're low of 0:07:35.560 --> 0:07:36.520 the last twenty hours. 0:07:36.920 --> 0:07:38.360 I broke my blender last night. 0:07:39.600 --> 0:07:40.520 Wow, could you put in it? 0:07:40.960 --> 0:07:43.040 I was making my almond milk. I don't know. I 0:07:43.040 --> 0:07:45.880 didn't put anything like crazy. I've been using this wonderful 0:07:45.960 --> 0:07:49.000 like a decade. It was time. It was time. 0:07:49.560 --> 0:07:52.720 Let's get to Heather here on the phone, one eight 0:07:52.840 --> 0:07:54.120 hundred and five to one to two seven. 0:07:54.160 --> 0:07:54.960 Heather's on the line. 0:07:55.040 --> 0:07:57.440 Heather, I'm told today before we get to anything else, 0:07:57.560 --> 0:08:02.400 it is your birthday. So happy birthday, you know, thank 0:08:02.440 --> 0:08:03.320 you so much? 0:08:03.440 --> 0:08:05.800 Hello everyone, how are you? 0:08:07.800 --> 0:08:10.239 She's taking the time to call us on her birthday? 0:08:10.400 --> 0:08:13.560 Get that birthday energy. You wanted to talk to Tanya 0:08:13.560 --> 0:08:15.480 about an alarm clock. Here we go. 0:08:16.520 --> 0:08:19.680 Okay, So my daughter put this on our Christmas list 0:08:20.320 --> 0:08:24.480 and it's called the Hatch, and I had to call 0:08:24.560 --> 0:08:26.600 her for all these details so I didn't get it wrong. 0:08:26.680 --> 0:08:28.880 And you can just get it on Amazon. But it's 0:08:28.960 --> 0:08:33.400 like a night light a noise machine. You can pick 0:08:33.440 --> 0:08:38.240 different colors of you know, the lights, and it wakes 0:08:38.280 --> 0:08:41.679 you up thirty minutes prior to your actual alarm time 0:08:42.240 --> 0:08:46.040 by gradually making the light brighter and the noise louder. 0:08:46.480 --> 0:08:49.680 And it could be joyful bird singing or church bells 0:08:49.760 --> 0:08:52.199 ringing or stuff like that. And so we all had 0:08:52.240 --> 0:08:54.080 to test it out when she got it, and it's 0:08:54.200 --> 0:08:54.960 it's pretty cool. 0:08:55.240 --> 0:08:57.360 I have this for my kids. 0:08:57.840 --> 0:08:58.920 Oh you do, I do? 0:08:59.120 --> 0:09:05.760 Eazy Yeah, yeah, everybody wakes up happy maximums birds. Yeah, 0:09:05.960 --> 0:09:07.160 it's it's super cool. 0:09:07.600 --> 0:09:08.959 It's just like night light. 0:09:10.200 --> 0:09:13.920 No, it's like, I mean, my daughter's twenty. 0:09:13.320 --> 0:09:16.760 Four, twenty four. 0:09:16.880 --> 0:09:19.360 Sorry sorry, I'm sure she's gonna be like, you're even 0:09:19.360 --> 0:09:22.120 not how old I am, But yeah, she's twenty four 0:09:22.240 --> 0:09:24.440 and she does the red light at night. She's like, 0:09:24.840 --> 0:09:27.120 it's kind of like my way of doing red light therapy. 0:09:28.200 --> 0:09:28.680 Oh my gosh. 0:09:28.960 --> 0:09:32.200 If you got it, listen this to me proves the case. 0:09:32.840 --> 0:09:35.920 If you are like this this hour of the morning 0:09:36.120 --> 0:09:38.600 and you're making up like and moving like, if you 0:09:38.640 --> 0:09:41.679 have that kind of momentum, then this works. We need 0:09:41.679 --> 0:09:45.720 these for everybody, especially especially the back room. 0:09:47.280 --> 0:09:50.280 Oh my god, they're also. 0:09:50.480 --> 0:09:54.920 Thank you for Okay, we love that. 0:09:55.160 --> 0:09:57.400 Get those clocks for everybody. Okay, we're getting the clocks 0:09:57.440 --> 0:09:59.760 for the holidays. What's the next holiday we have? What's 0:09:59.760 --> 0:10:01.079 the all day in Easter? 0:10:01.640 --> 0:10:03.520 What we can get this stuff free to the east? 0:10:03.559 --> 0:10:03.839 Easter? 0:10:04.200 --> 0:10:04.920 Fourth of July? 0:10:06.080 --> 0:10:07.480 Easter that's so far off. 0:10:08.040 --> 0:10:11.200 Easter is not far off. His lesson Fourth of July 0:10:11.520 --> 0:10:14.240 is far off. She wants to celebrate that. I'm like, guys, that's. 0:10:14.120 --> 0:10:17.520 I mean, what is li seems like? All right, the 0:10:17.640 --> 0:10:18.400 end of the year. 0:10:19.760 --> 0:10:22.800 If your partner uses these phrase, they're probably gaslighting you. 0:10:23.440 --> 0:10:23.800 Hang on. 0:10:25.320 --> 0:10:31.000 Ryst Kiss FM, all right, gaslighting that came up last 0:10:31.000 --> 0:10:32.679 week in Ryan's Cross you may remember that. 0:10:33.480 --> 0:10:34.840 But this is a. 0:10:36.520 --> 0:10:40.760 Big survey and they came back with these three things, 0:10:41.040 --> 0:10:45.160 and if your partner uses these three phrases, they're possibly 0:10:45.880 --> 0:10:49.520 trying to gaslight you. Okay, okay, trying to make you 0:10:49.640 --> 0:10:54.600 doubt yourself is what it is isn't that one? If 0:10:54.600 --> 0:11:02.480 you had been listening anyway, stopping so emotional, which is 0:11:02.559 --> 0:11:04.199 also insulting. 0:11:04.600 --> 0:11:06.199 I didn't know if that was one of them or 0:11:06.200 --> 0:11:08.480 if you were just saying that because I'm role playing. 0:11:09.840 --> 0:11:11.160 I'm not emotional. 0:11:11.480 --> 0:11:13.960 No, I'm acting them out. So if you've been listening, 0:11:13.960 --> 0:11:17.080 stop being so emotional. And can't you take a joke? Oh, 0:11:17.280 --> 0:11:20.160 it's just annoying to me. Those are finding them maybe gaslighting, 0:11:20.200 --> 0:11:21.640 but they're also like rude. 0:11:21.440 --> 0:11:24.120 Demeaning and annoying. You don't say them. 0:11:24.240 --> 0:11:26.760 And if ever, if you're with somebody uses that stuff often, 0:11:27.040 --> 0:11:28.480 it doesn't matter what it is. I don't like it. 0:11:28.559 --> 0:11:29.720 Yeah, can you take a joke? 0:11:29.920 --> 0:11:30.000 Like? 0:11:31.720 --> 0:11:33.240 Does anybody here say that often? 0:11:33.440 --> 0:11:36.079 No? I can't take a joke. No, that doesn't it's 0:11:36.080 --> 0:11:40.400 not sy I would say. Today is Tuesday, March twenty fifth. 0:11:40.480 --> 0:11:42.120 So what do we do about it? We get through it, 0:11:42.360 --> 0:11:43.960 We get through it with the. 0:11:43.880 --> 0:11:45.679 Best and oh god, I do about it? 0:11:46.240 --> 0:11:46.440 Right? 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:48.280 Today's quote? 0:11:48.360 --> 0:11:53.719 Hell, the happiest you've ever been won't be the happiest 0:11:53.880 --> 0:11:58.360 you'll ever be. 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By the Way, It'll be out on May thirtieth, 0:12:43.400 --> 0:12:45.559 on air with Ryan Seacrest. 0:12:46.960 --> 0:12:50.640 One to two point seven Kiss FM. So we are 0:12:50.640 --> 0:12:51.200 going to take. 0:12:51.040 --> 0:12:52.560 A call here at eight hundred five two one to 0:12:52.559 --> 0:12:54.120 two seven right now. Caller on the line says her 0:12:54.120 --> 0:12:57.559 boyfriend is going to an all female bacheorette party and 0:12:57.640 --> 0:12:59.400 she is not comfortable with it. 0:12:59.480 --> 0:13:01.760 So I need everybody in on this. Why is he 0:13:01.880 --> 0:13:03.960 going to that an all females? 0:13:04.040 --> 0:13:04.079 Is? 0:13:04.200 --> 0:13:05.120 Am I having deja vu? 0:13:06.240 --> 0:13:06.440 Right? 0:13:06.920 --> 0:13:09.640 I feel think we've had a call. Just call about that. 0:13:09.720 --> 0:13:11.120 I know what you mean. It's like in the back 0:13:11.160 --> 0:13:13.440 of my head too, I'm like, when was that we 0:13:13.520 --> 0:13:16.120 had someone call with this mark? Was it the same issue? 0:13:16.160 --> 0:13:17.520 I'm checking it does sound familiar. 0:13:17.600 --> 0:13:21.240 Let me yeah, I'm having DejaVu myself. 0:13:21.320 --> 0:13:22.760 We did more common than we think. 0:13:22.960 --> 0:13:25.480 Someone called in with this exact same issue the other day, 0:13:25.520 --> 0:13:28.080 maybe a couple weeks ago. Now, Amanda, good morning, it's 0:13:28.160 --> 0:13:29.640 Ryan and Siciny and Tanya. 0:13:29.679 --> 0:13:31.360 How are you hi? 0:13:31.480 --> 0:13:31.800 I'm good. 0:13:31.840 --> 0:13:32.680 How are you guys? 0:13:32.960 --> 0:13:34.920 We're super good? Like, what's up? 0:13:34.960 --> 0:13:38.880 So your boyfriend is going to an all female bachsorette party? 0:13:38.960 --> 0:13:41.120 Yeah, this is the same thing. Go ahead, tell us 0:13:41.160 --> 0:13:41.679 what happened. 0:13:42.440 --> 0:13:44.480 Yeah, so we've been dating for two months. He's going 0:13:44.520 --> 0:13:47.480 to this all female bachelorette party with like his middle 0:13:47.520 --> 0:13:50.520 school friends. But there's one other guy who's going to 0:13:50.600 --> 0:13:52.320 be there, and he's like staying in that room in 0:13:52.320 --> 0:13:54.200 a room with the guy. But like, I feel weird 0:13:54.200 --> 0:13:57.120 about him being with all girls from why. 0:13:57.000 --> 0:13:59.040 Did he get invited to the bachelorette party in the 0:13:59.080 --> 0:13:59.680 first place. 0:14:00.520 --> 0:14:02.160 I don't know, because they've been friends since middle school. 0:14:02.160 --> 0:14:03.640 But I don't like it, Like, I think it's weird. 0:14:03.640 --> 0:14:06.240 It's all there's single girls on the trips like it's weird. 0:14:07.280 --> 0:14:09.480 Well, you guys have been dating for two months? 0:14:10.720 --> 0:14:15.679 Yeah, i'd be nervous. I don't love it. So the 0:14:15.800 --> 0:14:18.120 question knowing Sydney, could she say anything? They've been that's 0:14:18.160 --> 0:14:20.800 the thing. Two months? Is it going to be too 0:14:20.920 --> 0:14:22.840 much to say you can't do it? Is that gonna say? 0:14:23.000 --> 0:14:23.160 Yeah? 0:14:23.200 --> 0:14:24.840 You don't want to be like you can't do this 0:14:24.880 --> 0:14:26.400 because and then you're coming off as like a very 0:14:26.440 --> 0:14:31.080 controlling sounding girlfriend. It's almost like you wish that he 0:14:31.120 --> 0:14:32.720 would have just backed out on his own and not 0:14:32.840 --> 0:14:34.280 gone in general? 0:14:34.560 --> 0:14:35.080 Have you done that? 0:14:35.200 --> 0:14:35.480 Old? 0:14:35.600 --> 0:14:35.680 Like? 0:14:36.200 --> 0:14:37.800 Are you sure you want to go? 0:14:39.720 --> 0:14:43.160 I do like that, but I'm trying to be cool and. 0:14:43.200 --> 0:14:46.160 Chill, you know I. And where are they going? 0:14:48.480 --> 0:14:49.480 They're going to Mexico. 0:14:52.840 --> 0:14:53.480 This is the thing? 0:14:54.880 --> 0:14:57.920 Is the is the worst about dating when you first 0:14:57.920 --> 0:15:00.640 start out, and that is you kind of can't speak 0:15:00.640 --> 0:15:01.000 your mind? 0:15:01.080 --> 0:15:03.480 Can you? You want to? But you don't have the trust. No. 0:15:03.560 --> 0:15:05.680 But it's kind of like Jimmy Chelsea Vibes from Love 0:15:05.720 --> 0:15:06.160 is Blind. 0:15:06.400 --> 0:15:10.320 Oh everybody knows what you're talking about? Yes, exactly, Yeah, 0:15:10.600 --> 0:15:11.200 no we don't. 0:15:11.560 --> 0:15:14.920 So he has like these like best best girlfriends, and 0:15:14.960 --> 0:15:18.160 I feel like it's okay. If it makes you uncomfortable, 0:15:18.400 --> 0:15:20.560 you can say it makes you uncomfortable. You can't tell 0:15:20.640 --> 0:15:22.400 him what to do, but you can voice how you 0:15:22.400 --> 0:15:24.280 feel and then he'll do with it what he wants. 0:15:25.320 --> 0:15:28.280 Here's the other thing, Amanda, let him go. If something happens, 0:15:28.280 --> 0:15:29.880 he's not the one for You're only two months in. 0:15:29.960 --> 0:15:32.120 We move on. This might be a big test, kind. 0:15:31.920 --> 0:15:34.360 Of that's a good point. 0:15:34.520 --> 0:15:35.800 I didn't think about it like that. 0:15:36.200 --> 0:15:37.960 Got to think about it, got to think about it 0:15:37.960 --> 0:15:39.800 could be the test. So maybe you play it cool, 0:15:40.120 --> 0:15:42.000 see how he plays it. You'll get a sense. 0:15:42.400 --> 0:15:42.720 You'll know. 0:15:43.120 --> 0:15:46.200 You'll have an idea of what went down. And I 0:15:46.200 --> 0:15:48.520 think it's it's kind of a test. Let's look at 0:15:48.520 --> 0:15:48.960 it that way. 0:15:50.240 --> 0:15:51.680 It is a test. It is a test. 0:15:51.840 --> 0:15:54.240 I'm nervous, all right, Well, keep us posted. We are 0:15:54.280 --> 0:15:56.760 here literally every single day, so let us. 0:15:56.680 --> 0:16:00.560 Know what happens. I kind of did to Michael to 0:16:00.560 --> 0:16:00.960 go ahead. 0:16:01.040 --> 0:16:03.640 We were dating for two months, give or take, and 0:16:03.680 --> 0:16:06.400 then I went on a carnival cruise with a bunch 0:16:06.440 --> 0:16:09.240 of my college friends. It was mixed guys and girls, 0:16:09.320 --> 0:16:11.760 but the majority of everybody was basically single. 0:16:12.120 --> 0:16:14.440 Did you think about it as a test. I didn't 0:16:14.440 --> 0:16:15.480 think at and. 0:16:15.360 --> 0:16:17.280 There was no issue in our relationship as far as 0:16:17.320 --> 0:16:17.720 me going. 0:16:17.840 --> 0:16:20.040 You know, this was already planned before I even met him, 0:16:20.120 --> 0:16:21.560 So it was just one of those things I went. 0:16:22.040 --> 0:16:24.680 But what made me realize he was one of Michaels 0:16:24.720 --> 0:16:26.600 was somebody that I was probably going to marry was. 0:16:26.560 --> 0:16:28.040 I came back the boat. 0:16:28.120 --> 0:16:31.160 The ship docked in San Diego, and I was so 0:16:31.280 --> 0:16:34.320 hungover from that trip that we were supposed to I 0:16:34.360 --> 0:16:35.640 was supposed to see him because he used to live 0:16:35.680 --> 0:16:37.000 in San Diego, and I was like, Oh, we'll spend 0:16:37.040 --> 0:16:38.920 the whole day Sunday and then I'll just drive to 0:16:38.960 --> 0:16:41.800 work early Monday morning. I was so hungover that I 0:16:41.880 --> 0:16:44.040 just laid in his bed and like basically it was 0:16:44.080 --> 0:16:44.480 just and he. 0:16:44.520 --> 0:16:45.560 Nursed me back to health. 0:16:45.600 --> 0:16:49.280 He made me a homemade soup and just took care 0:16:49.360 --> 0:16:52.600 of me. And here I was like a sloppy, wet blanket, 0:16:52.600 --> 0:16:54.080 like showing up on his doorstep. 0:16:54.160 --> 0:16:56.920 And I was like, wow, was a test for him? 0:16:57.240 --> 0:17:00.040 There was no test, Like it just happened naturally. And 0:17:00.040 --> 0:17:05.119