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Speaker 1: Joseph, thank you for reaching out. How are you? Hey?

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Speaker 1: I'm good. How are you doing doing well? So you

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Speaker 1: met him on a New Year's Eve? Is that right? Yes? Um, Chris,

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Speaker 1: we spent like the whole night together. It was amazing.

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Speaker 1: We ended up hooking up and honestly, I really haven't

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Speaker 1: connected with someone like that in such a long time. Um.

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Speaker 1: So we said, like, we're gonna meet up in l A.

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Speaker 1: So we take that first and I got back, but um,

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Speaker 1: I recently texted him and it's literally gotten cold. And

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Speaker 1: I called him like a few times and nothing, So

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I did. You you met in Rosaria.

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Speaker 1: Are you both from l A? Do you both live

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Speaker 1: in l A? Yeah? We both? Yeah, we both currently

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Speaker 1: live in l A. Yeah, okay, got it. So you

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Speaker 1: started texting and then all of a sudden, Chris has

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Speaker 1: gone completely cold. Yes, And then I called him a

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Speaker 1: few times, you know, um, and no answer, and you

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Speaker 1: felt something significantly different than other connections, and you want

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Speaker 1: to know why or what happened and what went wrong? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean, like we met at the club it's called

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Speaker 1: Macho Club, and we danced all night. Um. We we

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Speaker 1: both like had a bunch of friends there and we

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Speaker 1: just hit it off really well, and I went back

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Speaker 1: to his hotel. It's like literally incredible, and we both said, like,

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Speaker 1: we'll move back to l A. Let's meet up. So

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Speaker 1: I don't understand why he's like ignoring me and not.

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Speaker 1: You know, well, this is easy for us. We got

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Speaker 1: his number here, Let's see if we can get him

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Speaker 1: on next and want some questions. Hang on one second, Joseph,

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Speaker 1: it's Kiss FM. We'll try and get Chris on the

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Speaker 1: line and find out why he's ghosted. Joseph with Ryan

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Speaker 1: Seacrest on air with Ryan Seacrest. All right, let me

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Speaker 1: just jump right back in it, because I gotta feeling

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Speaker 1: Chris may not hang on longer. Um. Joseph has reached

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Speaker 1: out to us for a second date. Update. Okay, he

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Speaker 1: has said. I met Chris on New Year's Eve. We

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Speaker 1: spent the night together. We had a connection that's like

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Speaker 1: no other, says Joseph. They texted for a little while afterwards,

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Speaker 1: and since then Chris has vanished. He's not responding, he's

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Speaker 1: gone cold. All right, So Joseph, I'm gonna get right

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Speaker 1: into this. Joseph, be very quiet. We're gonna talk to Chris. Now, okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, here we go, Chris, thank you for holding on.

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Speaker 1: My name is Ryan. I've got to assisting and Tanya,

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Speaker 1: and your voice has been broadcast on kissp M as

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Speaker 1: I think they told you, But thank you for hanging Um,

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Speaker 1: just to get to it, we're calling you about a

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Speaker 1: guy named Joseph you met on New Year's Eve? Does

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Speaker 1: that sound familiar? Yeah? Okay. And when I say Joseph,

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Speaker 1: what pops into your mind? Um? Year? Right? That's right? Uh? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we had fun. Okay, And did you guys make plans

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Speaker 1: to hang out again? No? Did you like Joseph, Chris,

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Speaker 1: I mean we had a good time, Like, yeah, he

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Speaker 1: was cool, it was cute, Like what were the attributes?

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Speaker 1: What are the things you liked about Joseph? I mean

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Speaker 1: he was hot, it was cool, like but that was it.

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Speaker 1: It was just like like a one night stand. Like

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Speaker 1: I even said that numerous times. I was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: this is like a one time thing, Like I don't

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Speaker 1: I don't know why he's calling. Oh uh, well, I

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Speaker 1: think Joseph is on the line, and he did ask

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Speaker 1: us to give you a call, and I think that

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Speaker 1: he may have felt a little stronger about the connection.

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Speaker 1: Joseph am getting it right, Yeah, Chris, Like we both

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Speaker 1: said we're going to meet up in l A. Like,

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Speaker 1: what how's that one night stand? When we said we

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Speaker 1: meet up in l A. Okay, we both did say

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Speaker 1: we were going to be You said we should beat

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Speaker 1: up in l A. And I didn't want to be rude,

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Speaker 1: so I was just like, yeah, sure, but I didn't

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Speaker 1: bring it up. I just said yeah, sure to not

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Speaker 1: be rude. Yeah, yeah, sure. It means like let's meet

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Speaker 1: up again. That's no, It's just it's just I mean,

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Speaker 1: you were the one I told you so many times

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Speaker 1: like this is the one I said, this is just

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Speaker 1: a hook up, this is a cool one night think

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Speaker 1: like I said that at least three or four times.

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Speaker 1: Did he Well? I mean everyone from l A says

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Speaker 1: that it means not saying what do you think a Well,

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Speaker 1: for me, it meant exactly what I said. So, Chris,

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Speaker 1: do you think I mean, is there any sort of

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Speaker 1: interest in Joseph? I obviously Joseph had some interest in you.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if you enjoy his commun him again, because

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Speaker 1: it was just what it was like. It's not if

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Speaker 1: he was a cool guy. He's a hot guy, it

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Speaker 1: was cool to hang out and the hook up, but

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Speaker 1: it's like it wasn't even really anything. It was just

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Speaker 1: a hook up, which is what I wanted. Like that's

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Speaker 1: I'm not looking for anything else with him, Like that's

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Speaker 1: it was what it wasn't And that's why I said

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Speaker 1: it at least three times, like I'm sorry he didn't

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Speaker 1: hear me or he didn't believe what I was saying.

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Speaker 1: But I said it three times, so I'm not like

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Speaker 1: a guy who like leaves them on. I said it

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Speaker 1: three times, like, yo, this is just a cool hook up.

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Speaker 1: Well this is a one night Then I made it

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Speaker 1: pretty clear that that's what I wanted, all right. Well yeah,

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Speaker 1: but when I told you you go ahead, Joseph Um,

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Speaker 1: when I told you we were dancing the public, I've

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Speaker 1: never been so connected with somebody, like obviously you could

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Speaker 1: tell it feelings before we hooked up. You know, I

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Speaker 1: don't get how one night but we just met and

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Speaker 1: I told you it was a hook up, Like if

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Speaker 1: you wanted more than a hook up, then we could

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Speaker 1: have just not hooked up. But I told you it

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Speaker 1: was a hook up and you were cool with it,

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Speaker 1: and then we looked up. So I don't understand why

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Speaker 1: suddenly I owe you this big thing where I told

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Speaker 1: you up front that I wasn't looking for anything more

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Speaker 1: than what it was. M Okay, this is just weird.

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Speaker 1: I mean, Chris, thank you for your clarity. Joseph. It

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Speaker 1: sounds like this is you know, Chris had a very

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Speaker 1: clear vision of what all of this was, and it's great.

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Speaker 1: Did you liked him? And you guys? I guess if

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Speaker 1: you look at the upside, you guys had a great

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Speaker 1: night and that's probably what's gonna be, right, Yeah, the

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Speaker 1: end of the road. All right, Well, Chris, thank you

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Speaker 1: for answering the questions with us. I appreciate it coming on. Joseph,

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Speaker 1: good luck to you, bro. Thank you for reaching out.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Okay, by bye, okay bye. Chris,

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Speaker 1: is is it really a great night? If if if

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Speaker 1: it doesn't end where you wanted to? Like if I

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Speaker 1: mean it was a great night full stop? Right? Are

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Speaker 1: you sure? Thought there? I don't know, but it sounded

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Speaker 1: like that a great time together. It sounded like but

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Speaker 1: like if Chris was if Chris was as clear as

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Speaker 1: Chris was to us here now, then Chris was pretty clear. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and Joseph was in denial the whole time, Where Joseph

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Speaker 1: maybe more could come. Want he was in denial of

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Speaker 1: what it was. He was like, Oh, I'm gonna I'm

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Speaker 1: going to make him change his mind too. If you

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Speaker 1: this is just a hook up. What would you do?

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Speaker 1: I think it was New Year's Eve, remember, Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't want it to be a hook up, so I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't hook up with him because I'd say, I'm not

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Speaker 1: doing that anymore. I'm not having me and unattached physical

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Speaker 1: We think we can change the guy's mind. We think, oh,

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Speaker 1: it's like it's almost like a challenge. I would do

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Speaker 1: this stuff all the time when I was single. This

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Speaker 1: is just a hook up, And I was like, but

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Speaker 1: maybe it's not. And then I would still try to

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Speaker 1: hook up, and then I would get my heart broken

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Speaker 1: down the right boy