WEBVTT - The Holiday Special With Kandy Muse 0:00:01.240 --> 0:00:01.840 Hey, viewers. 0:00:01.960 --> 0:00:05.440 Sniffy's Cruising Confessions is an explicit podcast about queer sex, 0:00:05.640 --> 0:00:09.680 filter dirty words, and unfiltered descriptions of sexual activities. If 0:00:09.680 --> 0:00:13.880 hearing about orgies, anonymous sex, kink, fetish, and more offends 0:00:13.920 --> 0:00:17.400 your sensibilities, you might want to skip this. Viewer discretion 0:00:17.600 --> 0:00:21.400 is advised. It's definitely not for kids. 0:00:21.440 --> 0:00:24.759 So, Gabe, so Chris, we are so back. Oh? Is 0:00:24.800 --> 0:00:27.400 that what we're doing right now? Yeah? I had no idea. 0:00:27.440 --> 0:00:30.720 I've just been living here since season one. Yeah. No, 0:00:30.880 --> 0:00:33.080 I'm really excited that we are back. I have missed 0:00:33.120 --> 0:00:35.080 you so much. I have missed you so much. Yeah, 0:00:35.120 --> 0:00:38.240 and we've certainly gotten a lot of feedback from our viewers. 0:00:38.280 --> 0:00:38.520 Yes. 0:00:38.560 --> 0:00:40.760 I do find that I get recognized in like very 0:00:40.760 --> 0:00:42.760 gay spaces, but always outside of New York. 0:00:43.040 --> 0:00:43.240 Oh. 0:00:43.720 --> 0:00:46.199 I was in LA and someone mentioned something I was 0:00:46.200 --> 0:00:49.360 traveling to like Atlanta for work, and someone also was like, 0:00:49.479 --> 0:00:49.800 do you. 0:00:49.760 --> 0:00:50.599 Do the podcast? 0:00:50.880 --> 0:00:54.320 I get recognized mostly in like sex spaces, and people 0:00:54.440 --> 0:00:57.520 sort of like, well interrupts and I'm like, I'm in 0:00:57.560 --> 0:00:58.120 the middle. 0:00:57.960 --> 0:01:00.600 Of something, felt like maybe now is the time. 0:01:00.760 --> 0:01:02.280 But it is sort of cool to like have people 0:01:02.320 --> 0:01:03.920 come up to me and be like, listen, the podcast 0:01:03.920 --> 0:01:04.640 has been really great. 0:01:04.640 --> 0:01:06.920 I really loved it. I learned a lot, you know, 0:01:07.160 --> 0:01:09.200 which is kind of like what we set out to do, right, 0:01:09.280 --> 0:01:11.480 It is like teach folks, but I also have fun. 0:01:11.640 --> 0:01:15.039 I've seen a couple of negative reviews on the podcast 0:01:15.200 --> 0:01:17.440 on like different streaming things, but they're all like this 0:01:17.600 --> 0:01:20.840 is so sexual, and I'm like, oh, yeah, it's. 0:01:20.600 --> 0:01:23.440 Kind of the point, babes. It's Sniffy's sniffy. I don't 0:01:23.480 --> 0:01:25.400 know what to tell you. This is what we do here, 0:01:26.000 --> 0:01:27.160 so sorry. 0:01:26.840 --> 0:01:29.160 It's our bread and butter. Itlled exactly how you think. 0:01:29.319 --> 0:01:31.320 So what have you been up to? I was in 0:01:31.400 --> 0:01:32.920 La for a little bit. I had a cute little 0:01:32.959 --> 0:01:35.399 comedy gig out there. Yeah, since I haven't seen you. 0:01:35.280 --> 0:01:36.479 What have you been up to? God? 0:01:36.680 --> 0:01:39.200 I may may offer of a debut this year, which 0:01:39.240 --> 0:01:42.520 is really exciting to be acting again and doing that. 0:01:43.200 --> 0:01:45.399 I had a show on Fire Island this summer. I 0:01:45.400 --> 0:01:46.480 started a relationship. 0:01:46.640 --> 0:01:48.960 Yes, we actually got the boyfriend revealed two days ago, 0:01:49.040 --> 0:01:50.160 so this is very new for me. 0:01:50.720 --> 0:01:53.000 I'm like, really, it's a lot of information, all right. 0:01:53.040 --> 0:01:56.120 So before we ask our guests to share, it's our 0:01:56.160 --> 0:01:59.120 turn to do a cruising confession. So I'm curious, Chris, 0:01:59.320 --> 0:02:01.720 have you ever had to hook up while you've been 0:02:01.760 --> 0:02:03.200 traveling home for the holidays? 0:02:03.400 --> 0:02:04.920 Emphatically yes, yeah, yeah. 0:02:05.000 --> 0:02:07.040 I do have some folks that, like I've been hooking 0:02:07.120 --> 0:02:09.240 up with since I left twenty years ago, that I 0:02:09.280 --> 0:02:11.760 still hook up with, which is really cool. And so like, 0:02:11.800 --> 0:02:13.799 whenever I'm in town, I'm like, all right, girls, where 0:02:13.919 --> 0:02:14.240 the things? 0:02:14.240 --> 0:02:16.800 Where are we going? You've got like you've got the 0:02:16.840 --> 0:02:20.880 home all right? Yeah, yeah, little Remian, Yeah exactly. How 0:02:20.880 --> 0:02:24.280 about you? Oh Florida? Oh god. Yeah. 0:02:24.320 --> 0:02:26.400 So when I do go back to Florida, it's pretty bleak. 0:02:27.160 --> 0:02:30.040 It's pretty bleak, and I do like to try to 0:02:30.080 --> 0:02:33.040 find what I can. It's tough in Florida, though, because 0:02:33.080 --> 0:02:35.280 I don't drive and people are really spread apart. So 0:02:35.440 --> 0:02:37.600 in Florida, I'm very much a like, in person, eye 0:02:37.600 --> 0:02:40.040 contact kind of girl. Suffice it to say, we both 0:02:40.120 --> 0:02:45.119 find ways to keep ourselves enticed and adventurous when we're 0:02:45.120 --> 0:02:47.040 back home, but we do know that we are not 0:02:47.080 --> 0:02:47.560 the only ones. 0:02:47.639 --> 0:02:47.760 Right. 0:02:47.840 --> 0:02:49.440 Queers all over the world can have a really hard 0:02:49.440 --> 0:02:52.079 time navigating the holidays because being home sucks for some 0:02:52.160 --> 0:02:55.120 of us. Of course, though we are a creative and 0:02:55.160 --> 0:02:57.560 tenacious community, and we can find plenty of ways to 0:02:57.600 --> 0:03:00.760 keep ourselves entertained. Now, maybe that means working your relatives 0:03:00.760 --> 0:03:03.480 into watching a movie musical featuring two bisexual witches and 0:03:03.520 --> 0:03:05.040 the guy that sucked Matt Bomber's foot. 0:03:05.919 --> 0:03:08.120 Or maybe it means exploring your local parks and taking 0:03:08.120 --> 0:03:09.160 in nature with the help. 0:03:09.040 --> 0:03:10.720 Of Sniffy's Oh, I do love doing that. 0:03:11.000 --> 0:03:13.320 In this episode, we want to explore holiday hookups and 0:03:13.360 --> 0:03:15.160 how to navigate what can be both an erotic and 0:03:15.200 --> 0:03:18.000 perilous time, especially if you're traveling this time of year. 0:03:18.040 --> 0:03:19.840 Today, we're going to be covering it all the good, 0:03:19.919 --> 0:03:22.480 the bad, the ugly, the long, the short, the thin, 0:03:22.680 --> 0:03:24.480 the thick, and the downright outrages. 0:03:24.480 --> 0:03:26.400 I want to hear all the stories the same. Welcome 0:03:26.440 --> 0:03:28.960 to Sniffy's Cruising Confessions, the Holiday Special. 0:03:29.280 --> 0:03:31.000 Welcome to Sniffy's Cruising Confessions. 0:03:31.040 --> 0:03:35.720 I am Gabe Gonsals, I'm Chris Patterson Rosso. Each week 0:03:35.760 --> 0:03:39.080 we explore the sublime world of queer sex, cruising and relationship. 0:03:39.120 --> 0:03:41.000 Will be talking to queer folks of all kinds, ask 0:03:41.040 --> 0:03:44.440 them questions, swap sex stories, share intimate revelations. 0:03:44.560 --> 0:03:47.320 A lot of us are discovering ourselves in cruising spaces. 0:03:47.400 --> 0:03:49.440 This happened to me at this toilet stall, in the 0:03:49.480 --> 0:03:50.760 library or the airport. 0:03:50.840 --> 0:03:53.080 I feel like everybody's gonna fuck a little harder here. 0:03:53.040 --> 0:03:54.120 Damn, so I have. 0:03:54.120 --> 0:03:56.680 It's like the neighborhood slot. And I took pride in that. 0:03:57.000 --> 0:04:00.560 I was so afraid but yet so intrigued. And Lamar 0:04:00.640 --> 0:04:02.040 I gave to Lamore he could take. 0:04:03.560 --> 0:04:06.440 If you're having sex on Sniffy's, you already have a 0:04:06.480 --> 0:04:07.320 moral deficit. 0:04:10.960 --> 0:04:12.880 Our first guest today went from being a Brooklyn drag 0:04:12.920 --> 0:04:15.240 diva to being one of the world's most beloved drag 0:04:15.480 --> 0:04:18.120 icons following her time on Rupau's Drag Race and Drag 0:04:18.200 --> 0:04:20.960 Race All Stars. I'm talking about the one, the Only 0:04:21.200 --> 0:04:21.880 Candy Muse. 0:04:22.200 --> 0:04:25.120 Candy is eternally booked and busy, and she's traveling all 0:04:25.160 --> 0:04:27.719 over the world, touring and performing for sold out crowds, 0:04:27.880 --> 0:04:30.960 while still making time to eviscerate her fellow contestants on 0:04:31.080 --> 0:04:34.480 EA's House of Villains Season two every week this fall. 0:04:34.960 --> 0:04:37.440 Miss Muse will next be racing our screens on the 0:04:37.560 --> 0:04:40.760 Crave Canada series Slaycation throughout early next year. 0:04:40.800 --> 0:04:41.600 We will be seated. 0:04:41.839 --> 0:04:45.160 Please Welcome to Sniffy's Cruising Confessions. One of our favorite 0:04:45.200 --> 0:04:46.719 Brooklyn divas, Candy Muse. 0:04:47.320 --> 0:04:48.320 Wow what an. 0:04:54.240 --> 0:04:56.120 So I have to ask, are you a Sniffy's girl? 0:04:56.279 --> 0:04:56.520 Oh? 0:04:56.600 --> 0:04:59.920 Yeah, oh yeah? Can we find it? Can we find you? 0:05:02.200 --> 0:05:03.719 Ahead less profile? Nonetheless? 0:05:03.800 --> 0:05:07.400 Okay, Sniffe's is quick and easy and let's get it 0:05:07.440 --> 0:05:07.839 done now. 0:05:08.040 --> 0:05:10.359 Yeah, and I'm a now kind of girl in the 0:05:10.360 --> 0:05:11.479 moment immediate Yeah. 0:05:11.520 --> 0:05:14.200 Yeah, Well because like you know, on Sniffee's is very 0:05:14.200 --> 0:05:17.520 like we're not talking about oh hey, hey, how are 0:05:17.600 --> 0:05:22.400 you good? And you good? Look girl, we know what 0:05:22.480 --> 0:05:22.960 we're here for. 0:05:23.040 --> 0:05:23.640 Yeah, so we can. 0:05:23.680 --> 0:05:25.000 We can find you on the map. You're gonna be 0:05:25.000 --> 0:05:27.920 there somewhere. We'll never know who until we've been graced. 0:05:27.560 --> 0:05:31.120 With Yeah, just somewhere in the East Williamsburg location. 0:05:31.279 --> 0:05:34.000 Okay, do you ever send like a face pick? 0:05:34.640 --> 0:05:35.039 I do? 0:05:35.160 --> 0:05:38.600 Okay, I do only because I always find you treat 0:05:38.640 --> 0:05:40.560 people the way you want to be treated, correct, So 0:05:41.040 --> 0:05:42.640 I would never meet up with anyone that does not 0:05:42.720 --> 0:05:48.000 have a head or a face. Rather, so I would 0:05:48.080 --> 0:05:50.680 want the other person to feel safe, right yeah? 0:05:51.200 --> 0:05:53.120 Yeah, and how do you verify it to you? 0:05:53.520 --> 0:05:55.760 Well, there are times where I have to send a 0:05:55.839 --> 0:05:57.880 voice memo because I think that my voice is very 0:05:57.880 --> 0:05:58.200 just thing. 0:05:58.520 --> 0:06:00.760 People are always like, oh, okay, yeah, that's you. That's 0:06:00.839 --> 0:06:03.120 kind of genius. Yeah you really couldn't fake. Yeah, boy, 0:06:03.440 --> 0:06:10.760 no one, I love that exactly. Oh that's great. 0:06:10.800 --> 0:06:12.400 Most people would be like, I send an insta, I 0:06:12.440 --> 0:06:14.479 send a picture with the new paper on it, exactly. 0:06:14.600 --> 0:06:18.120 I just talked, Yeah, no, it's very that And then girl, 0:06:18.480 --> 0:06:19.560 it's all gone home from there? 0:06:20.000 --> 0:06:21.880 Work what else that mouth do? 0:06:22.000 --> 0:06:26.760 Yes, we're gonna figure it all out, all right, Okatie 0:06:26.760 --> 0:06:28.400 before we get you too much trouble, before we give 0:06:28.400 --> 0:06:30.960 away the whole prize before folks have worked for it. 0:06:31.560 --> 0:06:33.640 I am curious. This is our holiday episode. 0:06:33.920 --> 0:06:36.520 So you're from the Bronx, but do you still go 0:06:36.720 --> 0:06:38.359 back home to visit family during the holidays? 0:06:38.360 --> 0:06:39.040 Do you ever travel? 0:06:39.240 --> 0:06:39.480 Yeah? 0:06:39.520 --> 0:06:41.839 So I'm from the Bronx, but my mom actually moved 0:06:41.839 --> 0:06:44.400 down to Orlando, So I go down to Orlando for 0:06:44.520 --> 0:06:47.920 the holidays. Not very fun, but the boys are very cute, 0:06:48.400 --> 0:06:51.120 although no one can host because everyone knows their family. 0:06:51.320 --> 0:06:56.800 Oh yeah, oh so then what CarPlay? 0:06:57.279 --> 0:06:59.840 Oh, car play, carp Place has so much cuter than 0:06:59.839 --> 0:07:00.960 like fucking in my backseat. 0:07:01.040 --> 0:07:04.360 Car play is great. I love that euphemism. I don't know. 0:07:04.400 --> 0:07:06.200 I feel like you have to have a certain sized 0:07:06.240 --> 0:07:08.039 car for car play. 0:07:08.160 --> 0:07:11.280 Well, I'm a picky eater. Got it a little car, 0:07:11.320 --> 0:07:13.600 a big car, small car, The job will get done. 0:07:13.600 --> 0:07:16.679 Nonetheless, have you ever hosted while traveling? Is it something 0:07:16.680 --> 0:07:17.760 that you're daring enough to do? 0:07:18.160 --> 0:07:18.920 I do. 0:07:19.360 --> 0:07:23.360 I practically live in hotels and airplanes, so I have 0:07:23.360 --> 0:07:25.559 a friend believer that I'm going to a new city 0:07:25.640 --> 0:07:30.280 or country, it is best to taste the delicacy. I'm 0:07:30.280 --> 0:07:32.640 not gonna go to Italy. Not Italian men, right, I 0:07:32.720 --> 0:07:37.280 always I prefer to hosts then travel. I'm a lazy bitch. 0:07:37.400 --> 0:07:39.000 Yeah, I get that. 0:07:39.480 --> 0:07:40.920 Yeah, although not here in Brooklyn. 0:07:41.000 --> 0:07:43.120 I prefer to travel because I don't really like people 0:07:43.160 --> 0:07:45.800 coming into my apartment. And actually I don't need anyone 0:07:45.840 --> 0:07:46.600 knowing where I live. 0:07:47.360 --> 0:07:51.320 That's real security risk. That is a security risk. Yeah. 0:07:51.360 --> 0:07:53.240 I always adjust my location on some face, so I'm 0:07:53.240 --> 0:07:54.480 like three blocks away from my. 0:07:55.000 --> 0:08:00.120 Should favorite feature. I'm like, you don't need to know 0:08:00.160 --> 0:08:01.120 what intersection I'm Matt. 0:08:01.840 --> 0:08:03.600 We do know that some people you know have a 0:08:03.600 --> 0:08:05.680 hard time going back to their families because they might 0:08:05.720 --> 0:08:08.840 be homophobic or transphobic, but you actually have a queer parent, 0:08:09.200 --> 0:08:12.520 so I'm curious, how does that shape your experiences during 0:08:12.560 --> 0:08:14.120 the holidays or do you feel a little more open 0:08:14.160 --> 0:08:17.240 talking about your relationships or what you do in your 0:08:17.280 --> 0:08:17.680 free time. 0:08:17.760 --> 0:08:21.840 Oh my god, I come from a queer family in general. 0:08:22.080 --> 0:08:24.040 My sister dated a transman. 0:08:23.840 --> 0:08:28.120 And I have two moms, so being gay and I'm 0:08:28.280 --> 0:08:30.200 very open. The way I am with the public is 0:08:30.240 --> 0:08:31.520 the way I am back at home and my mom 0:08:31.520 --> 0:08:34.480 were like best friends, so I'm always like, girl, there 0:08:34.559 --> 0:08:37.000 was this guy who obviously she doesn't want to hear 0:08:37.040 --> 0:08:38.040 about the stories. 0:08:40.760 --> 0:08:44.120 But she gets it. But there's no judgment. 0:08:44.200 --> 0:08:46.760 And also I'm I'm an open book and I'm my 0:08:46.840 --> 0:08:49.040 mom my friend. Whoever it is, I'm going to talk 0:08:49.080 --> 0:08:50.400 to this story in details. 0:08:51.640 --> 0:08:54.800 Do you cruise like outside? Okay? 0:08:54.960 --> 0:08:56.440 Now here's the thing. 0:08:57.120 --> 0:09:00.800 Cruising kind of scares me, okay, in a way of 0:09:00.880 --> 0:09:03.920 like I'm always so afraid of like what if it'll 0:09:03.960 --> 0:09:05.160 be the one day I go to the park to 0:09:05.240 --> 0:09:09.120 cruise and then someone of authority is gonna show up 0:09:09.160 --> 0:09:11.840 and playing cuffs and I'm just like terrified because I 0:09:11.840 --> 0:09:16.680 don't need TMZ talking about canes, right, you know, cruising 0:09:16.840 --> 0:09:21.480 sounds hot in a wall bathroom work and you're know, 0:09:21.600 --> 0:09:21.920 you're like. 0:09:24.080 --> 0:09:25.080 Both sides right. 0:09:26.160 --> 0:09:30.440 But like public play cruising terrified. Yeah, so I don't 0:09:30.480 --> 0:09:31.439 know about that one. 0:09:31.600 --> 0:09:33.280 Yeah, I can see how that could be really difficult, 0:09:33.320 --> 0:09:34.960 like as a as a known person. 0:09:35.480 --> 0:09:38.200 Well, and then that's also that like because everyone wants 0:09:38.200 --> 0:09:38.520 to tea. 0:09:38.600 --> 0:09:40.880 Everyone wants to be the person who's like, guess who 0:09:40.920 --> 0:09:42.320 I saw at the fucking Rambles the other. 0:09:42.400 --> 0:09:44.040 Well, that's what I was gonna say. There was one 0:09:44.040 --> 0:09:47.520 time I went to Rambles and my girl I gotta go. Yeah, 0:09:47.800 --> 0:09:49.400 because everyone's like Donor Killer. 0:09:49.840 --> 0:09:51.599 Oh there's been times like listen, I know this is 0:09:51.640 --> 0:09:53.000 not the time, but I love you. 0:09:53.320 --> 0:09:56.840 I was like, girl, now you jerking alone in the VIP. 0:10:06.640 --> 0:10:06.960 Work. 0:10:09.320 --> 0:10:12.920 Sorry, I had to. I had to. 0:10:13.480 --> 0:10:17.160 I had to special guest of honor giving shows after 0:10:17.200 --> 0:10:21.680 five people coming to Bush. But yeah, it must be 0:10:21.760 --> 0:10:23.960 kind of confusing, right, Are you looking because you're a fan? 0:10:24.000 --> 0:10:25.640 Are you looking because you're interested? Yeah? 0:10:25.679 --> 0:10:26.520 Well, and that's the thing. 0:10:26.880 --> 0:10:30.320 Prior to me getting on television, I would I love 0:10:30.360 --> 0:10:33.440 going to the you know the bars, you know those 0:10:33.440 --> 0:10:34.840 but the bars, the dark. 0:10:34.800 --> 0:10:38.720 Balls, the parties and parties. But after being on TV. 0:10:38.840 --> 0:10:42.640 It stopped going. You know, well, the Dark Ones in 0:10:42.640 --> 0:10:44.599 Europe is different, but Dark Ones in New York. I 0:10:44.600 --> 0:10:47.880 stopped going to those because I don't know. It's always 0:10:47.920 --> 0:10:49.760 an interesting thing being in a room where again, I 0:10:49.800 --> 0:10:51.839 don't know if you were I want to hook up 0:10:52.000 --> 0:10:53.760 or if you want to just come up to me 0:10:53.760 --> 0:10:56.040 and tell me how much you love me, which either. 0:10:55.880 --> 0:10:57.600 Way, I'm I'm down for balls. 0:10:58.360 --> 0:11:02.120 Can we do bro? I done both? Okay, yes, I 0:11:02.160 --> 0:11:03.360 love you? But can you suck my deck? 0:11:05.200 --> 0:11:05.280 Are? 0:11:10.800 --> 0:11:11.480 Oh my god? 0:11:11.559 --> 0:11:12.160 I love that? 0:11:13.480 --> 0:11:15.880 So we don't know that your nudes leaked during your 0:11:15.920 --> 0:11:17.280 first time on drag Race, and this has happened to 0:11:17.320 --> 0:11:19.480 a lot of Drag Race contestants. It happens to a 0:11:19.480 --> 0:11:23.280 lot of reality show contestants when fans and people don't 0:11:23.320 --> 0:11:26.920 know how to respect other people's privacy or consent like that. 0:11:26.960 --> 0:11:29.720 Shit's not okay, that sucks and you should not do 0:11:29.760 --> 0:11:30.320 that to people. 0:11:30.679 --> 0:11:33.840 But I am curious, how did you deal with that? 0:11:33.960 --> 0:11:37.000 How did you sort of reply, What was your system 0:11:37.000 --> 0:11:38.880 of support and kind of what would you say after 0:11:38.920 --> 0:11:39.520 experiencing that. 0:11:39.720 --> 0:11:42.920 I think at the time mine and Rose's nuds got. 0:11:42.960 --> 0:11:45.640 Leaked at the same time, and it was kind of like, Okay, 0:11:45.720 --> 0:11:48.559 I'm not shy about something news maybe face at all, 0:11:48.840 --> 0:11:52.200 you know, but it's one of those things of like, Okay, 0:11:52.320 --> 0:11:54.679 I don't think the public needed to see my nudes, 0:11:55.040 --> 0:11:59.760 which is fine because I'm Dominicans, so you know, there's 0:11:59.760 --> 0:12:02.640 nothing to hide. However, it's kind of like again, it's 0:12:02.640 --> 0:12:04.520 like an a vision of privacy where you're just like, Okay, 0:12:04.600 --> 0:12:06.360 the world hasn't even gotten to know who I am 0:12:06.440 --> 0:12:10.520 yet they've seen me completely naked, and now it's been 0:12:10.520 --> 0:12:12.840 a few years since then, and everyone knows my decies 0:12:12.880 --> 0:12:16.600 is so great. It makes things much easier now. I started, oh, 0:12:16.960 --> 0:12:19.680 it's private. I don't post much on there because you know, 0:12:19.800 --> 0:12:23.600 again now being a product figure like I don't never 0:12:23.640 --> 0:12:24.040 really want to. 0:12:24.520 --> 0:12:26.480 You know. Sometimes I'm like I'm on Twitter and all 0:12:26.480 --> 0:12:27.760 the games and book in our short. 0:12:27.600 --> 0:12:30.200 Hole and they really are and I'm like, wait, I 0:12:30.240 --> 0:12:31.240 kind of want to do that too, and then I 0:12:31.280 --> 0:12:35.679 remember who I am. But you know, when that happened, 0:12:35.720 --> 0:12:39.040 I kind of just like, Okay, I'm just gonna deal 0:12:39.080 --> 0:12:39.440 with it. 0:12:39.360 --> 0:12:40.000 It is what it is. 0:12:40.120 --> 0:12:42.760 I mean, I can't again, I'm not ashamed it. There's 0:12:42.760 --> 0:12:45.200 nothing to take back, and I believe in sexual liberation. 0:12:45.280 --> 0:12:46.560 If you want to show your body, then go ahead 0:12:46.600 --> 0:12:49.440 and do that. But again, it's about like consent and 0:12:49.480 --> 0:12:52.520 you just can't post someone's news because you feel. 0:12:52.240 --> 0:12:54.240 Like it because like why it's weird. 0:12:54.440 --> 0:12:56.040 It's like such a weird behavior. 0:12:55.880 --> 0:12:57.199 And you're rooting for all of us, you know what 0:12:57.240 --> 0:12:57.480 I mean. 0:12:57.559 --> 0:12:59.960 It's like we should feel free to like send each 0:13:00.040 --> 0:13:04.640 other stuff consentually without like people screenshotting that and putting 0:13:04.679 --> 0:13:07.600 it online. They're actually like states where that is illegal, 0:13:08.240 --> 0:13:11.440 so keep that in mind. But the law aside, I 0:13:11.440 --> 0:13:13.559 don't think it's like it's not us showing up for 0:13:13.559 --> 0:13:15.240 each other as a community, right, It's like I want 0:13:15.240 --> 0:13:17.200 to be out here and feel safe, and like the 0:13:17.280 --> 0:13:18.959 one person that does that like ruins it down the 0:13:18.960 --> 0:13:19.280 line for a. 0:13:19.360 --> 0:13:21.600 Yeah, it's like how can I who can I trust? 0:13:21.600 --> 0:13:22.520 If I can't trust y'all? 0:13:22.600 --> 0:13:22.800 Right? 0:13:22.880 --> 0:13:26.280 Well that's why when people ask me for videos, I'm like, oh, absolutely, 0:13:26.360 --> 0:13:27.880 not mind. 0:13:28.040 --> 0:13:29.960 The gallery is full of them. 0:13:30.320 --> 0:13:35.760 Right, yeah, disappearing videos, No, No, I've seen. 0:13:35.800 --> 0:13:39.600 I've been in situations where people's record with another phone. 0:13:39.480 --> 0:13:41.760 With another phone, that's how you do it. I haven't 0:13:41.760 --> 0:13:43.559 even thought about it. You know what screen recording. It 0:13:43.760 --> 0:13:46.360 tells you the screen recording. Yeah, but you do it 0:13:46.400 --> 0:13:47.240 with another phone. 0:13:47.400 --> 0:13:48.400 Yeah, and I can't. 0:13:48.520 --> 0:13:52.560 Oh, these girls are nefarious. Nefarious. That's a great word 0:13:52.559 --> 0:13:55.920 for the holiday season. Has anyone ever asked you to 0:13:55.920 --> 0:13:56.880 show up in full geche? 0:13:58.280 --> 0:13:58.720 Okay? 0:14:00.360 --> 0:14:01.440 So I answer. 0:14:03.120 --> 0:14:06.439 I was like, I was in Paris a few weeks 0:14:06.440 --> 0:14:08.640 ago and I was doing my gig and I was 0:14:08.679 --> 0:14:11.720 like a real fisher, real womanly and there was this 0:14:11.760 --> 0:14:13.320 guy who I think he was security there and he 0:14:13.400 --> 0:14:15.880 like kept like poking me like all night. I was like, okay, 0:14:17.200 --> 0:14:19.120 I'm usually not onant to hook up and drag. I 0:14:19.160 --> 0:14:22.120 am not for that. Maybe that's my job and that's that. 0:14:22.440 --> 0:14:24.680 But this night I was fro a real, real loose 0:14:25.320 --> 0:14:27.880 So we went to the bathroom stall we were like 0:14:27.920 --> 0:14:30.840 making out and whatever and other things. But then after 0:14:30.880 --> 0:14:33.000 the gig, I went to an afters and I got 0:14:33.000 --> 0:14:35.080 out of drag, of course. And then after the afters 0:14:35.080 --> 0:14:36.400 he had messaged me. He was like, Hey, I want 0:14:36.400 --> 0:14:38.280 to come over to your hotel and I was like, so, 0:14:38.960 --> 0:14:42.400 I'm not as a woman anymore. I have a full 0:14:42.440 --> 0:14:45.560 five o'clock shadow coming in And he was like, oh, 0:14:45.800 --> 0:14:47.280 I mean that's fun if you just put on the 0:14:47.280 --> 0:14:54.600 wig and and lipstick, and I was like, okay, yeah 0:14:54.720 --> 0:14:55.200 I did. 0:14:56.320 --> 0:14:57.160 It's a quick drag. 0:14:57.560 --> 0:15:00.840 Oh, I have a selfie works a selfie? Yeah I 0:15:00.880 --> 0:15:04.720 have to. Oh my god, I literally threw on a 0:15:04.760 --> 0:15:06.280 wig and some lashes. 0:15:07.040 --> 0:15:12.240 Are you a lash? She had time for the glue 0:15:12.440 --> 0:15:13.320 she has? 0:15:13.400 --> 0:15:16.240 Damn. He was fine. He was so fine, And I 0:15:16.320 --> 0:15:19.120 was like, you know what, it's worth it one second. 0:15:20.360 --> 0:15:22.000 I do hope you invoiced him for a meet and 0:15:22.000 --> 0:15:28.440 greet though, because that takes a lot of time. People. 0:15:28.840 --> 0:15:31.960 Oh my god, it's just enough screaming. 0:15:32.320 --> 0:15:36.520 Honestly. Yeah, that photo just. 0:15:36.520 --> 0:15:38.720 Took me back to like this and that ten years ago. 0:15:38.840 --> 0:15:40.880 Like that photo just took me back to sugar Lands. 0:15:40.920 --> 0:15:47.480 Like, okay, good for you. You know what that's for you. 0:15:48.280 --> 0:15:49.160 I love that for you. 0:15:49.160 --> 0:15:52.640 You should use that as your professional headshot. Yeah, special appearance, 0:15:52.640 --> 0:15:54.400 my kadie mute? Is this five o'clock shadow? 0:15:54.440 --> 0:15:58.760 A little lash? Yeah? 0:15:58.800 --> 0:16:00.560 He lived and. 0:16:00.560 --> 0:16:01.760 I lived to Actually. 0:16:06.040 --> 0:16:09.320 I'm crying right now. I cannot. Oh my god, that 0:16:09.400 --> 0:16:10.560 was amazing. You did great work. 0:16:10.600 --> 0:16:12.480 So I also had an hour to leave before my flight, 0:16:12.600 --> 0:16:14.400 so it was very like, all right, girl, we're doing this. 0:16:14.440 --> 0:16:15.160 We're doing this now? 0:16:15.640 --> 0:16:19.840 Oh wow, were you already packed? Oh yeah, okay, I'm 0:16:19.840 --> 0:16:22.880 a professional. A flight would never be missed by me. 0:16:23.720 --> 0:16:24.480 I love that. 0:16:24.600 --> 0:16:27.280 But a man will also bess show. 0:16:27.720 --> 0:16:31.760 We've got time for both, Yeah, for sure. I am curious. 0:16:31.920 --> 0:16:33.840 So we've talked about a guy that was like very 0:16:33.880 --> 0:16:36.200 into your drag, and you were very accommodating and kind 0:16:36.200 --> 0:16:38.720 about it given the way he asked. But I'm curious 0:16:38.720 --> 0:16:41.400 if you ever experienced the sort of inverse if people 0:16:41.400 --> 0:16:42.760 will meet you in person and then they're like, oh, 0:16:42.760 --> 0:16:45.480 but you're a drag queen and they assume things about 0:16:45.520 --> 0:16:47.120 you or assume they might not be attracted to. 0:16:47.520 --> 0:16:48.080 Here's the thing. 0:16:48.160 --> 0:16:51.120 Drag became cool over the last two years. Right now, 0:16:51.240 --> 0:16:54.040 everyone of the fucking drag queen. But drag wasn't that 0:16:54.080 --> 0:16:56.280 a few years ago, and it was very like, if 0:16:56.280 --> 0:16:59.080 you do drag, you're not masculine, and I'm sorry, like 0:16:59.080 --> 0:16:59.960 I'm not into feminine. 0:17:00.400 --> 0:17:01.200 That was bullshit. 0:17:01.720 --> 0:17:03.280 After Drag Race, do I find that. 0:17:03.480 --> 0:17:06.239 I mean, most people are starfuckers and they would want 0:17:06.240 --> 0:17:08.680 to fuck you just because you have a name, right, 0:17:08.800 --> 0:17:09.480 just for the story. 0:17:09.520 --> 0:17:10.320 They watched it on TV. 0:17:10.359 --> 0:17:11.680 They see you as a boy and they're like, Okay, 0:17:11.680 --> 0:17:13.240