Speaker 1: Hey, viewers.
Speaker 2: Sniffy's Cruising Confessions is an explicit podcast about queer sex,
Speaker 2: filter dirty words, and unfiltered descriptions of sexual activities. If
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Speaker 1: So, Gabe, so Chris, we are so back. Oh? Is
Speaker 1: that what we're doing right now? Yeah? I had no idea.
Speaker 2: I've just been living here since season one. Yeah. No,
Speaker 2: I'm really excited that we are back. I have missed
Speaker 2: you so much. I have missed you so much. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and we've certainly gotten a lot of feedback from our viewers.
Speaker 3: Yes.
Speaker 2: I do find that I get recognized in like very
Speaker 2: gay spaces, but always outside of New York.
Speaker 4: Oh.
Speaker 2: I was in LA and someone mentioned something I was
Speaker 2: traveling to like Atlanta for work, and someone also was like,
Speaker 2: do you.
Speaker 1: Do the podcast?
Speaker 5: I get recognized mostly in like sex spaces, and people
Speaker 5: sort of like, well interrupts and I'm like, I'm in
Speaker 5: the middle.
Speaker 1: Of something, felt like maybe now is the time.
Speaker 5: But it is sort of cool to like have people
Speaker 5: come up to me and be like, listen, the podcast
Speaker 5: has been really great.
Speaker 1: I really loved it. I learned a lot, you know,
Speaker 1: which is kind of like what we set out to do, right,
Speaker 1: It is like teach folks, but I also have fun.
Speaker 2: I've seen a couple of negative reviews on the podcast
Speaker 2: on like different streaming things, but they're all like this
Speaker 2: is so sexual, and I'm like, oh, yeah, it's.
Speaker 1: Kind of the point, babes. It's Sniffy's sniffy. I don't
Speaker 1: know what to tell you. This is what we do here,
Speaker 1: so sorry.
Speaker 2: It's our bread and butter. Itlled exactly how you think.
Speaker 2: So what have you been up to? I was in
Speaker 2: La for a little bit. I had a cute little
Speaker 2: comedy gig out there. Yeah, since I haven't seen you.
Speaker 1: What have you been up to? God?
Speaker 5: I may may offer of a debut this year, which
Speaker 5: is really exciting to be acting again and doing that.
Speaker 5: I had a show on Fire Island this summer. I
Speaker 5: started a relationship.
Speaker 2: Yes, we actually got the boyfriend revealed two days ago,
Speaker 2: so this is very new for me.
Speaker 1: I'm like, really, it's a lot of information, all right.
Speaker 2: So before we ask our guests to share, it's our
Speaker 2: turn to do a cruising confession. So I'm curious, Chris,
Speaker 2: have you ever had to hook up while you've been
Speaker 2: traveling home for the holidays?
Speaker 1: Emphatically yes, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 5: I do have some folks that, like I've been hooking
Speaker 5: up with since I left twenty years ago, that I
Speaker 5: still hook up with, which is really cool. And so like,
Speaker 5: whenever I'm in town, I'm like, all right, girls, where
Speaker 5: the things?
Speaker 1: Where are we going? You've got like you've got the
Speaker 1: home all right? Yeah, yeah, little Remian, Yeah exactly. How
Speaker 1: about you? Oh Florida? Oh god. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So when I do go back to Florida, it's pretty bleak.
Speaker 2: It's pretty bleak, and I do like to try to
Speaker 2: find what I can. It's tough in Florida, though, because
Speaker 2: I don't drive and people are really spread apart. So
Speaker 2: in Florida, I'm very much a like, in person, eye
Speaker 2: contact kind of girl. Suffice it to say, we both
Speaker 2: find ways to keep ourselves enticed and adventurous when we're
Speaker 2: back home, but we do know that we are not
Speaker 2: the only ones.
Speaker 6: Right.
Speaker 2: Queers all over the world can have a really hard
Speaker 2: time navigating the holidays because being home sucks for some
Speaker 2: of us. Of course, though we are a creative and
Speaker 2: tenacious community, and we can find plenty of ways to
Speaker 2: keep ourselves entertained. Now, maybe that means working your relatives
Speaker 2: into watching a movie musical featuring two bisexual witches and
Speaker 2: the guy that sucked Matt Bomber's foot.
Speaker 5: Or maybe it means exploring your local parks and taking
Speaker 5: in nature with the help.
Speaker 1: Of Sniffy's Oh, I do love doing that.
Speaker 5: In this episode, we want to explore holiday hookups and
Speaker 5: how to navigate what can be both an erotic and
Speaker 5: perilous time, especially if you're traveling this time of year.
Speaker 2: Today, we're going to be covering it all the good,
Speaker 2: the bad, the ugly, the long, the short, the thin,
Speaker 2: the thick, and the downright outrages.
Speaker 5: I want to hear all the stories the same. Welcome
Speaker 5: to Sniffy's Cruising Confessions, the Holiday Special.
Speaker 1: Welcome to Sniffy's Cruising Confessions.
Speaker 5: I am Gabe Gonsals, I'm Chris Patterson Rosso. Each week
Speaker 5: we explore the sublime world of queer sex, cruising and relationship.
Speaker 2: Will be talking to queer folks of all kinds, ask
Speaker 2: them questions, swap sex stories, share intimate revelations.
Speaker 7: A lot of us are discovering ourselves in cruising spaces.
Speaker 7: This happened to me at this toilet stall, in the
Speaker 7: library or the airport.
Speaker 1: I feel like everybody's gonna fuck a little harder here.
Speaker 5: Damn, so I have.
Speaker 1: It's like the neighborhood slot. And I took pride in that.
Speaker 1: I was so afraid but yet so intrigued. And Lamar
Speaker 1: I gave to Lamore he could take.
Speaker 8: If you're having sex on Sniffy's, you already have a
Speaker 8: moral deficit.
Speaker 5: Our first guest today went from being a Brooklyn drag
Speaker 5: diva to being one of the world's most beloved drag
Speaker 5: icons following her time on Rupau's Drag Race and Drag
Speaker 5: Race All Stars. I'm talking about the one, the Only
Speaker 5: Candy Muse.
Speaker 2: Candy is eternally booked and busy, and she's traveling all
Speaker 2: over the world, touring and performing for sold out crowds,
Speaker 2: while still making time to eviscerate her fellow contestants on
Speaker 2: EA's House of Villains Season two every week this fall.
Speaker 2: Miss Muse will next be racing our screens on the
Speaker 2: Crave Canada series Slaycation throughout early next year.
Speaker 1: We will be seated.
Speaker 2: Please Welcome to Sniffy's Cruising Confessions. One of our favorite
Speaker 2: Brooklyn divas, Candy Muse.
Speaker 3: Wow what an.
Speaker 1: So I have to ask, are you a Sniffy's girl?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah? Can we find it? Can we find you?
Speaker 3: Ahead less profile? Nonetheless?
Speaker 8: Okay, Sniffe's is quick and easy and let's get it
Speaker 8: done now.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'm a now kind of girl in the
Speaker 2: moment immediate Yeah.
Speaker 8: Yeah, Well because like you know, on Sniffee's is very
Speaker 8: like we're not talking about oh hey, hey, how are
Speaker 8: you good? And you good? Look girl, we know what
Speaker 8: we're here for.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we can.
Speaker 2: We can find you on the map. You're gonna be
Speaker 2: there somewhere. We'll never know who until we've been graced.
Speaker 3: With Yeah, just somewhere in the East Williamsburg location.
Speaker 1: Okay, do you ever send like a face pick?
Speaker 3: I do?
Speaker 8: Okay, I do only because I always find you treat
Speaker 8: people the way you want to be treated, correct, So
Speaker 8: I would never meet up with anyone that does not
Speaker 8: have a head or a face. Rather, so I would
Speaker 8: want the other person to feel safe, right yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah, and how do you verify it to you?
Speaker 8: Well, there are times where I have to send a
Speaker 8: voice memo because I think that my voice is very
Speaker 8: just thing.
Speaker 1: People are always like, oh, okay, yeah, that's you. That's
Speaker 1: kind of genius. Yeah you really couldn't fake. Yeah, boy,
Speaker 1: no one, I love that exactly. Oh that's great.
Speaker 2: Most people would be like, I send an insta, I
Speaker 2: send a picture with the new paper on it, exactly.
Speaker 8: I just talked, Yeah, no, it's very that And then girl,
Speaker 8: it's all gone home from there?
Speaker 1: Work what else that mouth do?
Speaker 2: Yes, we're gonna figure it all out, all right, Okatie
Speaker 2: before we get you too much trouble, before we give
Speaker 2: away the whole prize before folks have worked for it.
Speaker 1: I am curious. This is our holiday episode.
Speaker 2: So you're from the Bronx, but do you still go
Speaker 2: back home to visit family during the holidays?
Speaker 1: Do you ever travel?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 8: So I'm from the Bronx, but my mom actually moved
Speaker 8: down to Orlando, So I go down to Orlando for
Speaker 8: the holidays. Not very fun, but the boys are very cute,
Speaker 8: although no one can host because everyone knows their family.
Speaker 8: Oh yeah, oh so then what CarPlay?
Speaker 2: Oh, car play, carp Place has so much cuter than
Speaker 2: like fucking in my backseat.
Speaker 1: Car play is great. I love that euphemism. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I feel like you have to have a certain sized
Speaker 1: car for car play.
Speaker 8: Well, I'm a picky eater. Got it a little car,
Speaker 8: a big car, small car, The job will get done.
Speaker 2: Nonetheless, have you ever hosted while traveling? Is it something
Speaker 2: that you're daring enough to do?
Speaker 3: I do.
Speaker 8: I practically live in hotels and airplanes, so I have
Speaker 8: a friend believer that I'm going to a new city
Speaker 8: or country, it is best to taste the delicacy. I'm
Speaker 8: not gonna go to Italy. Not Italian men, right, I
Speaker 8: always I prefer to hosts then travel. I'm a lazy bitch.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I get that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, although not here in Brooklyn.
Speaker 8: I prefer to travel because I don't really like people
Speaker 8: coming into my apartment. And actually I don't need anyone
Speaker 8: knowing where I live.
Speaker 1: That's real security risk. That is a security risk. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I always adjust my location on some face, so I'm
Speaker 2: like three blocks away from my.
Speaker 1: Should favorite feature. I'm like, you don't need to know
Speaker 1: what intersection I'm Matt.
Speaker 2: We do know that some people you know have a
Speaker 2: hard time going back to their families because they might
Speaker 2: be homophobic or transphobic, but you actually have a queer parent,
Speaker 2: so I'm curious, how does that shape your experiences during
Speaker 2: the holidays or do you feel a little more open
Speaker 2: talking about your relationships or what you do in your
Speaker 2: free time.
Speaker 8: Oh my god, I come from a queer family in general.
Speaker 3: My sister dated a transman.
Speaker 8: And I have two moms, so being gay and I'm
Speaker 8: very open. The way I am with the public is
Speaker 8: the way I am back at home and my mom
Speaker 8: were like best friends, so I'm always like, girl, there
Speaker 8: was this guy who obviously she doesn't want to hear
Speaker 8: about the stories.
Speaker 3: But she gets it. But there's no judgment.
Speaker 8: And also I'm I'm an open book and I'm my
Speaker 8: mom my friend. Whoever it is, I'm going to talk
Speaker 8: to this story in details.
Speaker 1: Do you cruise like outside? Okay?
Speaker 3: Now here's the thing.
Speaker 8: Cruising kind of scares me, okay, in a way of
Speaker 8: like I'm always so afraid of like what if it'll
Speaker 8: be the one day I go to the park to
Speaker 8: cruise and then someone of authority is gonna show up
Speaker 8: and playing cuffs and I'm just like terrified because I
Speaker 8: don't need TMZ talking about canes, right, you know, cruising
Speaker 8: sounds hot in a wall bathroom work and you're know,
Speaker 8: you're like.
Speaker 1: Both sides right.
Speaker 8: But like public play cruising terrified. Yeah, so I don't
Speaker 8: know about that one.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I can see how that could be really difficult,
Speaker 5: like as a as a known person.
Speaker 1: Well, and then that's also that like because everyone wants
Speaker 1: to tea.
Speaker 5: Everyone wants to be the person who's like, guess who
Speaker 5: I saw at the fucking Rambles the other.
Speaker 8: Well, that's what I was gonna say. There was one
Speaker 8: time I went to Rambles and my girl I gotta go. Yeah,
Speaker 8: because everyone's like Donor Killer.
Speaker 3: Oh there's been times like listen, I know this is
Speaker 3: not the time, but I love you.
Speaker 1: I was like, girl, now you jerking alone in the VIP.
Speaker 3: Work.
Speaker 1: Sorry, I had to. I had to.
Speaker 2: I had to special guest of honor giving shows after
Speaker 2: five people coming to Bush. But yeah, it must be
Speaker 2: kind of confusing, right, Are you looking because you're a fan?
Speaker 1: Are you looking because you're interested? Yeah?
Speaker 3: Well, and that's the thing.
Speaker 8: Prior to me getting on television, I would I love
Speaker 8: going to the you know the bars, you know those
Speaker 8: but the bars, the dark.
Speaker 3: Balls, the parties and parties. But after being on TV.
Speaker 8: It stopped going. You know, well, the Dark Ones in
Speaker 8: Europe is different, but Dark Ones in New York. I
Speaker 8: stopped going to those because I don't know. It's always
Speaker 8: an interesting thing being in a room where again, I
Speaker 8: don't know if you were I want to hook up
Speaker 8: or if you want to just come up to me
Speaker 8: and tell me how much you love me, which either.
Speaker 3: Way, I'm I'm down for balls.
Speaker 5: Can we do bro? I done both? Okay, yes, I
Speaker 5: love you? But can you suck my deck?
Speaker 1: Are?
Speaker 2: Oh my god?
Speaker 3: I love that?
Speaker 2: So we don't know that your nudes leaked during your
Speaker 2: first time on drag Race, and this has happened to
Speaker 2: a lot of Drag Race contestants. It happens to a
Speaker 2: lot of reality show contestants when fans and people don't
Speaker 2: know how to respect other people's privacy or consent like that.
Speaker 2: Shit's not okay, that sucks and you should not do
Speaker 2: that to people.
Speaker 1: But I am curious, how did you deal with that?
Speaker 2: How did you sort of reply, What was your system
Speaker 2: of support and kind of what would you say after
Speaker 2: experiencing that.
Speaker 3: I think at the time mine and Rose's nuds got.
Speaker 8: Leaked at the same time, and it was kind of like, Okay,
Speaker 8: I'm not shy about something news maybe face at all,
Speaker 8: you know, but it's one of those things of like, Okay,
Speaker 8: I don't think the public needed to see my nudes,
Speaker 8: which is fine because I'm Dominicans, so you know, there's
Speaker 8: nothing to hide. However, it's kind of like again, it's
Speaker 8: like an a vision of privacy where you're just like, Okay,
Speaker 8: the world hasn't even gotten to know who I am
Speaker 8: yet they've seen me completely naked, and now it's been
Speaker 8: a few years since then, and everyone knows my decies
Speaker 8: is so great. It makes things much easier now. I started, oh,
Speaker 8: it's private. I don't post much on there because you know,
Speaker 8: again now being a product figure like I don't never
Speaker 8: really want to.
Speaker 3: You know. Sometimes I'm like I'm on Twitter and all
Speaker 3: the games and book in our short.
Speaker 8: Hole and they really are and I'm like, wait, I
Speaker 8: kind of want to do that too, and then I
Speaker 8: remember who I am. But you know, when that happened,
Speaker 8: I kind of just like, Okay, I'm just gonna deal
Speaker 8: with it.
Speaker 3: It is what it is.
Speaker 8: I mean, I can't again, I'm not ashamed it. There's
Speaker 8: nothing to take back, and I believe in sexual liberation.
Speaker 8: If you want to show your body, then go ahead
Speaker 8: and do that. But again, it's about like consent and
Speaker 8: you just can't post someone's news because you feel.
Speaker 1: Like it because like why it's weird.
Speaker 3: It's like such a weird behavior.
Speaker 1: And you're rooting for all of us, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean.
Speaker 2: It's like we should feel free to like send each
Speaker 2: other stuff consentually without like people screenshotting that and putting
Speaker 2: it online. They're actually like states where that is illegal,
Speaker 2: so keep that in mind. But the law aside, I
Speaker 2: don't think it's like it's not us showing up for
Speaker 2: each other as a community, right, It's like I want
Speaker 2: to be out here and feel safe, and like the
Speaker 2: one person that does that like ruins it down the
Speaker 2: line for a.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like how can I who can I trust?
Speaker 5: If I can't trust y'all?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 8: Well that's why when people ask me for videos, I'm like, oh, absolutely,
Speaker 8: not mind.
Speaker 3: The gallery is full of them.
Speaker 5: Right, yeah, disappearing videos, No, No, I've seen.
Speaker 3: I've been in situations where people's record with another phone.
Speaker 5: With another phone, that's how you do it. I haven't
Speaker 5: even thought about it. You know what screen recording. It
Speaker 5: tells you the screen recording. Yeah, but you do it
Speaker 5: with another phone.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I can't.
Speaker 1: Oh, these girls are nefarious. Nefarious. That's a great word
Speaker 1: for the holiday season. Has anyone ever asked you to
Speaker 1: show up in full geche?
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 1: So I answer.
Speaker 8: I was like, I was in Paris a few weeks
Speaker 8: ago and I was doing my gig and I was
Speaker 8: like a real fisher, real womanly and there was this
Speaker 8: guy who I think he was security there and he
Speaker 8: like kept like poking me like all night. I was like, okay,
Speaker 8: I'm usually not onant to hook up and drag. I
Speaker 8: am not for that. Maybe that's my job and that's that.
Speaker 8: But this night I was fro a real, real loose
Speaker 8: So we went to the bathroom stall we were like
Speaker 8: making out and whatever and other things. But then after
Speaker 8: the gig, I went to an afters and I got
Speaker 8: out of drag, of course. And then after the afters
Speaker 8: he had messaged me. He was like, Hey, I want
Speaker 8: to come over to your hotel and I was like, so,
Speaker 8: I'm not as a woman anymore. I have a full
Speaker 8: five o'clock shadow coming in And he was like, oh,
Speaker 8: I mean that's fun if you just put on the
Speaker 8: wig and and lipstick, and I was like, okay, yeah
Speaker 8: I did.
Speaker 1: It's a quick drag.
Speaker 3: Oh, I have a selfie works a selfie? Yeah I
Speaker 3: have to. Oh my god, I literally threw on a
Speaker 3: wig and some lashes.
Speaker 1: Are you a lash? She had time for the glue
Speaker 1: she has?
Speaker 3: Damn. He was fine. He was so fine, And I
Speaker 3: was like, you know what, it's worth it one second.
Speaker 2: I do hope you invoiced him for a meet and
Speaker 2: greet though, because that takes a lot of time. People.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, it's just enough screaming.
Speaker 3: Honestly. Yeah, that photo just.
Speaker 2: Took me back to like this and that ten years ago.
Speaker 2: Like that photo just took me back to sugar Lands.
Speaker 1: Like, okay, good for you. You know what that's for you.
Speaker 3: I love that for you.
Speaker 2: You should use that as your professional headshot. Yeah, special appearance,
Speaker 2: my kadie mute? Is this five o'clock shadow?
Speaker 3: A little lash? Yeah?
Speaker 1: He lived and.
Speaker 3: I lived to Actually.
Speaker 1: I'm crying right now. I cannot. Oh my god, that
Speaker 1: was amazing. You did great work.
Speaker 8: So I also had an hour to leave before my flight,
Speaker 8: so it was very like, all right, girl, we're doing this.
Speaker 3: We're doing this now?
Speaker 8: Oh wow, were you already packed? Oh yeah, okay, I'm
Speaker 8: a professional. A flight would never be missed by me.
Speaker 8: I love that.
Speaker 3: But a man will also bess show.
Speaker 2: We've got time for both, Yeah, for sure. I am curious.
Speaker 2: So we've talked about a guy that was like very
Speaker 2: into your drag, and you were very accommodating and kind
Speaker 2: about it given the way he asked. But I'm curious
Speaker 2: if you ever experienced the sort of inverse if people
Speaker 2: will meet you in person and then they're like, oh,
Speaker 2: but you're a drag queen and they assume things about
Speaker 2: you or assume they might not be attracted to.
Speaker 3: Here's the thing.
Speaker 8: Drag became cool over the last two years. Right now,
Speaker 8: everyone of the fucking drag queen. But drag wasn't that
Speaker 8: a few years ago, and it was very like, if
Speaker 8: you do drag, you're not masculine, and I'm sorry, like
Speaker 8: I'm not into feminine.
Speaker 1: That was bullshit.
Speaker 3: After Drag Race, do I find that.
Speaker 8: I mean, most people are starfuckers and they would want
Speaker 8: to fuck you just because you have a name, right,
Speaker 8: just for the story.
Speaker 3: They watched it on TV.
Speaker 8: They see you as a boy and they're like, Okay,
Speaker 8: well this is just a person and this is just
Speaker 8: their art. But as the recent years, there hasn't been
Speaker 8: anyone that's like, you do drag.
Speaker 3: No. But prior to.
Speaker 8: To drag Race, yeah, it was very like, well, you know,
Speaker 8: also it doesn't help that I have acrylics on.
Speaker 1: We know we're not doing yeah right right, yeah.
Speaker 8: But yeah, prior to drag Race, absolutely there were there
Speaker 8: were trans guys who are just like not into it
Speaker 8: at all, But now everyone.
Speaker 2: I think it also comes with people kind of understand
Speaker 2: it or becoming more comfortable embracing their femininity.
Speaker 1: Like this whole like no fats.
Speaker 2: No femmes, shit is like so tired, and we've like
Speaker 2: talked about that, and I do feel like, I mean
Speaker 2: hopefully there's like a cultural shift happening.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 8: I'm also like, I, although I do drag, I think
Speaker 8: outside of drag, I could I'm just a regular chill,
Speaker 8: lead back person and I'm into like feminine guys, right.
Speaker 8: So I never understood when people are like, which I
Speaker 8: get it's a preference of you know, you want your
Speaker 8: your mask for mask work. I love you a master
Speaker 8: mask sometimes too, but I just I never understate the
Speaker 8: whole like, oh, you're so feminine, so like my.
Speaker 5: Girl, we have we both have dicks. Yeah, yeah, and
Speaker 5: that's what we're here for.
Speaker 1: Is it not right? Is it not? If not that,
Speaker 1: then what are we doing?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 3: For sure, I don't know.
Speaker 5: And I think it is also like these conversations around
Speaker 5: gender and like how it's all just a fucking construct
Speaker 5: and like as we sort of like break down what
Speaker 5: that means, right, Like I think people are a little
Speaker 5: bit more open minded to be like you can actually
Speaker 5: be a multitude of things and you can still get
Speaker 5: dick down.
Speaker 3: So absolutely, and also there's nothing masculine about sucking the.
Speaker 1: Dick, so be clear. Yeah, let's be clear.
Speaker 5: I wanted to talk to you a little bit about
Speaker 5: what it's like when you're on tour, right, some of
Speaker 5: the big cities, some of the small city is what
Speaker 5: is it like cruising?
Speaker 1: Like what are the apps?
Speaker 6: Like?
Speaker 8: Okay, you can ask Mistress or Vangie and they would
Speaker 8: they would tell you, Mama, if we are in the
Speaker 8: city and we have a hotel, is going down. We
Speaker 8: were in Boston one year on Halloween tour and then
Speaker 8: one day and also I'm a very open and sexual
Speaker 8: president Mitch Alex is what it is.
Speaker 3: I woke up with twenty guys.
Speaker 8: You know which that day, I think, right before rehearsals,
Speaker 8: like eight guys. And again it's one of those things
Speaker 8: off like well, I'm in a new city and all
Speaker 8: the men here fine, and I am feeling hot and
Speaker 8: bothered and I'm lina something about it.
Speaker 1: Yeah you got a hotel room. Yeah.
Speaker 8: And you know, on the last tour we did, we
Speaker 8: were all over Europe countries I had never been to before,
Speaker 8: and I was like, well, Sweden. There was one time
Speaker 8: we were me and Zandie were flying into I think Switzerland,
Speaker 8: and I had open sniffies and then there was a
Speaker 8: guy that was oready there. That's fine, a ginger man.
Speaker 8: Oh bitch, we let have in the bathroom. That's everything
Speaker 8: I mean here, yeah, my mom, I'm gonna have the
Speaker 8: European man.
Speaker 3: That's why tour is so fun.
Speaker 8: When they're like, oh, we went on tour, I'm not like, oh,
Speaker 8: yues I get to make all this money.
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, bitch, oh man.
Speaker 2: You can get to be the new girl in town
Speaker 2: in every oh yeah town. There is nothing more fun
Speaker 2: than're traveling to a new place and opening up an
Speaker 2: app and being like hey, and everyone's.
Speaker 1: Like a new person.
Speaker 2: It's like the sick of you. Yet they haven't been
Speaker 2: looking at you for weeks and talking to you. It's
Speaker 2: like you are the bell of the ball for forty
Speaker 2: eight hours.
Speaker 8: See what I was in has like five gay people,
Speaker 8: oh and five fine, okay, and you.
Speaker 3: Had them all.
Speaker 1: Eighty times. So do the math. How's that multiplication table?
Speaker 2: Oh gosh, I'm curious. As I mentioned you, you've always
Speaker 2: been a fallist drag queen. Are there any performances from
Speaker 2: your early days in Brooklyn where you look back and
Speaker 2: you're like, that was a little crunchy.
Speaker 1: That was a little crunchy.
Speaker 3: There was one time at tn T rest.
Speaker 2: In Peace, God bless so many, so many queens got
Speaker 2: their stuff stolen from that basement.
Speaker 3: Oh, by the security guard.
Speaker 1: He was the security guard.
Speaker 3: The security guard. I never knew that he was stealing
Speaker 3: the phones and tips.
Speaker 2: Mama, I got a jacket stolen there one time. Yeah,
Speaker 2: uh huh damn.
Speaker 8: There was one time at TNT I was being a
Speaker 8: greedy little bitch and this time you at dractually.
Speaker 3: You either split tips.
Speaker 5: Or you don't cry, which needs to be discussed beforehand, right, well,
Speaker 5: this night I was feeling feeling my fantasy.
Speaker 8: I have a brand new pair of tights and a
Speaker 8: brandy look at the thrist shop. Was everything right. And Dahlia,
Speaker 8: my sister, she was like, hey, do you want to
Speaker 8: split tips? And I was like, no, girl, let's do
Speaker 8: our own tips tonight. So I went on to perform
Speaker 8: Jennifer Lopez do it well, yes, and everything that could
Speaker 8: go wrong went wrong and I made exactly four dollars
Speaker 8: in tips.
Speaker 3: Dahlia made ninety dollars in tips.
Speaker 8: See, and that's what you get be a greedy little bits.
Speaker 3: That night she had to buy my food at Bigla Smith.
Speaker 1: So love that.
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry. No, good for me. No, it taught
Speaker 3: me a lesson.
Speaker 1: It's a learning lesson.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you can be a capitalist, you can be a communist,
Speaker 2: but at the end of the day, when someone needs
Speaker 2: to share with you, Okay, So Katie, I think we're
Speaker 2: gonna we're gonna talk a little bit about for sure.
Speaker 1: I'm so curious. I want to know. Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 8: So's Lacation is a brand new TV show created by
Speaker 8: Wilder Thunder and Crave Canada where they take six rugirls
Speaker 8: from different franchises and put us in the house.
Speaker 3: This one, we're in a winter cabin, like an hour
Speaker 3: out of Toronto. I was hoping for a house in Mexico.
Speaker 8: But I get it. It's the pilot season. Maybe season
Speaker 8: two we'll get And it's fun. It's lighthearted, it's fun.
Speaker 8: There's drama, there's hot boys, we get drunk, we get wild,
Speaker 8: we do challenges. It it's a really fun show. It's
Speaker 8: something different that comes out of the Drag Race universe.
Speaker 8: But people for a while now have been asking for
Speaker 8: stuff like a Big Brother version of Drag Race and stuff, right,
Speaker 8: so this is your way of kind of testing things out,
Speaker 8: seeing how it works.
Speaker 3: And I'm excited.
Speaker 8: First of all'm excited to just be working and having
Speaker 8: another show, Thank you very much. But it's it's really
Speaker 8: it's so fun. I cannot wait for everyone to see it.
Speaker 8: Is it like a competition show?
Speaker 3: So is it? We do have.
Speaker 8: Competition in the show, but it's not necessarily a competition show.
Speaker 8: And it's it's so different from Drag Race, and it's
Speaker 8: so different from Houssi Villains.
Speaker 1: So it's gonna be really fun. No one gets booted off.
Speaker 8: No, although a few girls should have Okay.
Speaker 1: Whose clothing gets thrown into the ice.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you brought all your like House of Villains experience.
Speaker 2: You're several seasons watching back Girls Club right right right?
Speaker 8: Yeah, no, And it's fun because we also get into
Speaker 8: some deep topics. We also get into sexual health. A
Speaker 8: few of the cast mates, you know, they talk about
Speaker 8: their experience.
Speaker 3: And no, it's it's really it's gonna be really good.
Speaker 8: I'm really excited for it. And hopefully we get picked
Speaker 8: up for season two. Yeah, and hopefully for season two
Speaker 8: they keep me on the cast.
Speaker 2: Yes, work, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I love that.
Speaker 1: I love it. Yeah, let's get them in the Caribbean.
Speaker 1: Maybe you can get them to a house in dr
Speaker 1: right time? Yeah yeah? Wait are you all in drag
Speaker 1: the whole time?
Speaker 8: So we're ass boys, But we do at the end,
Speaker 8: we do a huge performance for the town and it's
Speaker 8: we that's cute.
Speaker 3: It's super cute.
Speaker 1: Okay, great, so you don't have to practic too much.
Speaker 3: No, although I shout.
Speaker 8: Up before two cases because we were doing boy looks
Speaker 8: every single just like House.
Speaker 1: The Villains and that house really and how Civilians.
Speaker 8: I had a whole closet for herself and they didn't
Speaker 8: show but I also have another entire closet where I
Speaker 8: would get ready.
Speaker 1: Tried to take your I didn't want to give up
Speaker 1: the bed to l Yeah. Oh my god, Larsa, That's
Speaker 1: what it was.
Speaker 3: Which, by the way, I had no idea who she
Speaker 3: was when I got there. I mean, how could you
Speaker 3: do it?
Speaker 1: Oh right, I got it?
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I was just like, okay, work gro.
Speaker 2: Well, Kendy, thank you so much for joining us. We
Speaker 2: can't wait to see you onlaycation. As of filming, how
Speaker 2: Civilians haven't hasn't finished yet, so I'm very excited to
Speaker 2: finish the season and see how that turns out.
Speaker 8: Very We're halfway through the season now, and let me
Speaker 8: tell you, Ship, if you thought the fights were bad,
Speaker 8: then okay, it's time for the boys to start fighting now.
Speaker 1: I want the boys to be dramatic. I'm like, why
Speaker 1: are your friends? And this is weird to me for long?
Speaker 1: This is about to get very survivor.
Speaker 3: No, no, no, ship great excited? Wait, oh my god, me
Speaker 3: neither and there might be one more. Kennedy's right in there.
Speaker 1: Where I'm expecting several. I'm expecting, my girl.
Speaker 5: You've been very tame so far, like you've been very
Speaker 5: very polite, like you've been reminding them who you are. Yeah,
Speaker 5: but you haven't really gone off yet, and so I'm
Speaker 5: waiting for the explosion and just say that's a.
Speaker 3: Little betrayal happening soon.
Speaker 2: Thank you, Oh, thank you, thank you. Let me need
Speaker 2: some villainy and husi villains. Really, I love that amazing. Well,
Speaker 2: thank you again, Candy. When we come back, we'll be
Speaker 2: chatting with Oscar Enya from New York's Poppy Juice night
Speaker 2: life and art collective, and we'll be talking to him
Speaker 2: about cruising, party planning and the very high stakes of
Speaker 2: creating inclusive community in these tumultuous times.
Speaker 1: So don't go anywhere, we'll be right back.
Speaker 5: Our next guest is New York DJ artists and party
Speaker 5: organizer Oscar Ye. He started a highly celebrated party and
Speaker 5: art collective, Poppy Juice. Poppy Juice is a gender inclusive
Speaker 5: New York circuit party that's been centering queer POC folks
Speaker 5: since twenty thirteen.
Speaker 2: Oscar is here to teach us what he's learning during
Speaker 2: his eleven years being a community organizer and heading a
Speaker 2: liberatory art collective. We're also going to talk about how
Speaker 2: folks who aren't in New York City can create their
Speaker 2: own core spaces. So welcome to Sniffy's Cruising Confessions, Oscar,
Speaker 2: and are you doing, Oscar?
Speaker 1: I'm like so happy to be here. Thank you for
Speaker 1: having me so, Oscar.
Speaker 2: I'm curious for viewers who have never heard of Bobby Juice,
Speaker 2: how would you describe it?
Speaker 7: Bobby Juice is an art collective and you know, it's
Speaker 7: consisted of three members, me and Mohammad and Adam Muhammad
Speaker 7: is the resident illustrator and art director, and then Adam
Speaker 7: and I are resident DJs and the co founders, and
Speaker 7: we've been working together for the last eleven years. Our
Speaker 7: mission is to celebrate the lives of queer entrance people
Speaker 7: of color, and we do so by creating these like
Speaker 7: legendary kind of like night parties and different activations. We
Speaker 7: always try to make it feel joyful and celebratory.
Speaker 2: Have you ever found a fling or romance at one
Speaker 2: of your own events? Who's this guest?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 6: A lot?
Speaker 7: Yeah, Okay, I'm actually like a little shy, but you know,
Speaker 7: I'm a sexy little DJ.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 7: Yeah, There's definitely been moments where I'm like, oh, this
Speaker 7: boy's cute. It's usually like I'll follow them on Instagram.
Speaker 7: After the night is like it would be really sexy,
Speaker 7: but I'm working.
Speaker 1: I know I'm working. But the next night though, that's when, yes,
Speaker 1: or at the afters.
Speaker 5: After the after yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: The after's invite is such a great like flirtation icebreaker.
Speaker 2: It's like, hey, you're conveying that you want to see
Speaker 2: more of this person. You're inviting them to an event later.
Speaker 2: That's a cube move. I like, yeah, it's very good.
Speaker 2: I moved here in twenty twelve, so Poppy Juice from
Speaker 2: twenty thirteen months old now has obviously grown so much.
Speaker 2: I mean, what do you think accounts for that? Do
Speaker 2: you think it's a need for more spaces like that
Speaker 2: or I.
Speaker 1: Think it's like a couple of things.
Speaker 7: We're part of a long lineage of QTPoC centered spaces
Speaker 7: in New York City.
Speaker 1: There's been a history.
Speaker 7: Of that where queer people, queer people of color come
Speaker 7: together and make their chosen families, meet their friends, meet
Speaker 7: their lovers. I guess like I kind of accounted to
Speaker 7: the need for the spaces, but also people love consistency.
Speaker 7: In New York, everything changes so quickly and so rapidly.
Speaker 7: The fact that we've been able to hang on to
Speaker 7: each other at least with like my co members. People
Speaker 7: see that and like enjoy seeing that. Also it's a
Speaker 7: good party, you know, like.
Speaker 2: I know when the music's good and the crowd is cute,
Speaker 2: and that also helps.
Speaker 1: Yeah, right, it's like you're definitely meeting a need.
Speaker 2: And you know, I don't I don't think there were
Speaker 2: a lot of collectives doing stuff like that when I
Speaker 2: first moved here, at least not in my memory. And
Speaker 2: so it is cool to see not just Poppy Juice grow,
Speaker 2: but you know, I think of other parties like body
Speaker 2: Hack and bubble Tea, like there really is such a
Speaker 2: broad assortment of different parties that help elevate different parts
Speaker 2: of the qtpot community.
Speaker 1: And I don't know, it's exciting to see exciting.
Speaker 5: Did you find a lot of folks were giving you
Speaker 5: push back when you started to create the space.
Speaker 7: I remember we were based out of this like tiny
Speaker 7: bar in Bedstide. Somebody had said was like aspar as
Speaker 7: like racist. Somebody felt like really alienated from the night.
Speaker 7: Other Wise, like from different venue owners, people would be like, oh,
Speaker 7: I don't know, your party sounds super niche, you don't
Speaker 7: really belong in night life. I don't think you could
Speaker 7: fill out a space. It came from all sorts of
Speaker 7: different directions. People forget the importance of nightlight spaces. People
Speaker 7: love showing up and supporting these types of initiatives because
Speaker 7: it is a really important space for us to socialize,
Speaker 7: to meet others, to have sex, to you know, do
Speaker 7: like be inspired, create art, you.
Speaker 2: Know, flirt in multiple languages. I was like, I've never
Speaker 2: been to a party before where someone's hit on me
Speaker 2: in Spanish.
Speaker 1: I was like, and I did it right back. It's great, Yeah,
Speaker 1: but it does right. It helps.
Speaker 2: It's like it feels different, the vibe is different, and
Speaker 2: you know, I don't think it's in an exclusive way,
Speaker 2: but right it's like, hey, we're here to elevate this,
Speaker 2: but all are welcome. And I feel like that's always
Speaker 2: kind of how it has been. I have a lot
Speaker 2: of my like white not Latino friends will be like
Speaker 2: can I go. I'm like, yeah, like, just don't be rude,
Speaker 2: right and understand who is four?
Speaker 1: But like, yeah, of course, Like we get that question
Speaker 1: all the time.
Speaker 7: It's like, oh, like my boyfriend's white, or like my
Speaker 7: best friend is white can they come, And I'm like
Speaker 7: up to you and up to them to decide. Don't
Speaker 7: place the burden of that conversation on black and brown folks,
Speaker 7: like have it with yourselves. Usually most of the time
Speaker 7: they do end up coming, and they do end up
Speaker 7: having a blast, and it's usually someone that you know,
Speaker 7: they understand how to navigate the space and the importance
Speaker 7: of the space to others. So there's like this sec
Speaker 7: intentionality and consciousness around how you're experiencing the space.
Speaker 1: I think that's like our driving force.
Speaker 7: Actually, like we kind of realized like we were immediately
Speaker 7: dubbed like a safe space, and then we immediately kind
Speaker 7: of realize like, oh, like interestingly, as much as we try,
Speaker 7: we cannot guarantee the safety of seventy people in a room,
Speaker 7: you know, and that's how big the parties were at
Speaker 7: the time. Then we were like, what is another way
Speaker 7: that we want to make people understand what our intentions are,
Speaker 7: What are we trying to create, how we trying to
Speaker 7: make people feel, what are we trying to have them experience,
Speaker 7: you know, And so then we kind of switched our
Speaker 7: framing of what we were working on and what we
Speaker 7: were doing as intentional rather than safe.
Speaker 2: I know there's a lot of talk right now if
Speaker 2: people needing to find ways to take care of each other.
Speaker 2: Do you think that nightlife and throwing events can be
Speaker 2: a form of care within community?
Speaker 1: Definitely.
Speaker 7: Historically nightlife spaces have been the sort of havens for
Speaker 7: current trans people of color, and I think.
Speaker 1: It will keep being that.
Speaker 7: We might have to be a little bit more careful
Speaker 7: in some ways and making sure that you know, we're
Speaker 7: gathering in spaces that feel supportive and that feel like
Speaker 7: can support us as well. But that reminds me of this,
Speaker 7: like time Out probably just said it was right after
Speaker 7: the Traven Martin verdict.
Speaker 1: We were all so sad.
Speaker 7: We almost were like, should we cancel like our communities
Speaker 7: like deep in mourning right now. We thought about it
Speaker 7: and we were like, we'll have the space. If people
Speaker 7: want to show up and can show up, it'll be
Speaker 7: there for them. And then it ended up being for
Speaker 7: me one of like the most memorable and sort of
Speaker 7: grounding moments in our history where people came and we're
Speaker 7: so thankful of the space and we're so excited to
Speaker 7: be there, and we're like, you know what, thank you
Speaker 7: for holding this Like I didn't think that I would
Speaker 7: have it in me to be around people, but it
Speaker 7: ended up being that I needed to be around people
Speaker 7: and to like talk about it and to think about
Speaker 7: this and also strategize about what's coming next, you know,
Speaker 7: feel a little bit of joy, feel a little relief, release,
Speaker 7: So all of these like little things are important. As
Speaker 7: much as the fight is important, I think to have
Speaker 7: those moments of whether it is rest, release, community, what love, sex,
Speaker 7: whatever it is, it's important to also have those moments.
Speaker 7: We can't just be on a fight and then on
Speaker 7: the offensive for the next four years.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 5: What advice do you have for folks who are thinking
Speaker 5: about creating their own spaces.
Speaker 7: Like Poppy Chews, you know, thinking about scale, It could
Speaker 7: be really important depending on where you're at. So maybe
Speaker 7: at first it won't be like a big warehouse party.
Speaker 7: Maybe it's just like a gathering at a friend's living room,
Speaker 7: you know, and it's like the circle of friends that
Speaker 7: you know, invite them, tell them to invite one friend
Speaker 7: and then have them gathering there and then see what happens,
Speaker 7: how it goes. And then also just like there's probably
Speaker 7: something that's out there, you know, for you, it could
Speaker 7: be interesting to go check it out, support it, maybe
Speaker 7: like talk to the people that go there, the people
Speaker 7: that organize it, and see how they started, because they'll
Speaker 7: be definitely more knowledgeable, more knowledgeable than I am in
Speaker 7: the context of where you're living, you.
Speaker 1: Know, now, ask her.
Speaker 2: A lot of our viewers may also be worried about
Speaker 2: heading home for the holidays to see their families. I'm
Speaker 2: curious if you have any ideas for folks to be
Speaker 2: able to stay safe and sane during the holiday season.
Speaker 7: I love my mom so much, and so it is
Speaker 7: so important for me to spend time with her, and
Speaker 7: so I prioritize that I know, so that in the
Speaker 7: mornings I can get to spend time with her alone
Speaker 7: and we make breakfast together, and she like tells me
Speaker 7: all like the stories that she wants to tell me.
Speaker 1: And that's like what.
Speaker 7: I want for my time at home for the holidays
Speaker 7: is to have these memories with my mom. There's like
Speaker 7: other things that are annoying and that are hard, But
Speaker 7: as long as I get those moments, like, I know
Speaker 7: that I'll be good and then just like whatever helps
Speaker 7: you like remain patient.
Speaker 1: Like lately, I've been doing a lot of meditation. That
Speaker 1: shit rocks so good.
Speaker 7: I also, you know, love a little drink, and so
Speaker 7: maybe like when my mom goes to bed, I'll have
Speaker 7: like a little bit of wine or something with my
Speaker 7: brother or like my siblings. You know, we've all had
Speaker 7: difficult moments at this point in our lives, and there
Speaker 7: are ways that we know that work for each of us. Right,
Speaker 7: we just got to like remember them and tune into
Speaker 7: them totally.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I like that.
Speaker 1: What a wholesome response.
Speaker 2: After me, Chris and Candy spent all of today be like,
Speaker 2: so how do you look for Dick while you're hanging
Speaker 2: out with mom? Now you're like, actually, I love my
Speaker 2: mom spending nobody.
Speaker 1: That's a really good point, right, Like also, yeah, look
Speaker 1: for ye that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, after my mom has watched her Turkish Showupes on
Speaker 2: Netflix and we've had a glass of wine, then I.
Speaker 1: Go out, Yeah exactly.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I'm curious where can folks find you and
Speaker 2: Poppy Juice online and learn about the next party coming up?
Speaker 7: The best place to follow anything Poppy related is on
Speaker 7: our instagram, so it's just Poppy Juice BK. And then
Speaker 7: my personal instagram is Oscar and.
Speaker 5: All right, after the break Gabe's gonna be stepping out
Speaker 5: into the town to hear some hot and horrific holiday
Speaker 5: hookup story.
Speaker 1: Oh I can't wait, ye, I can't wait to share it.
Speaker 2: Welcome back to Sniffy's Cruising Confessions. Thanks for sticking around
Speaker 2: with us.
Speaker 1: Now.
Speaker 2: If you thought New York days were a mess during Pride,
Speaker 2: buckle the fuck up, because it is truly nothing compared
Speaker 2: to the night before Thanksgiving. All over the city I
Speaker 2: call home, horny homos have been flooding night spots looking
Speaker 2: for some fun.
Speaker 5: So on November twenty seventh, the night before k pettit
Speaker 5: to our favorite Brooklyn hotspot, Animal, which is a place
Speaker 5: that we're all deeply thankful for this season, deeply deeply.
Speaker 1: Let's take a look.
Speaker 2: It is Thanksgiving Eve and we are camped out at Animal,
Speaker 2: a bar in Brooklyn, New York, where we're gonna be
Speaker 2: asking guests about their holiday hookup stories and how they
Speaker 2: navigate cruising while they're home for the holidays. Let's see
Speaker 2: these sluts are up to. I'm curious. As a bartender,
Speaker 2: I feel like you might have unique insight. What do
Speaker 2: you think makes the night before Thanksgiving particularly chaotic?
Speaker 9: Everybody being home everyone anticipating eating good tomorrow one blue
Speaker 9: sennup before seeing their family the next day. If they're
Speaker 9: doing that or just straight up partying because they're not
Speaker 9: going home and they're just with their friends.
Speaker 1: That's me.
Speaker 10: I think that if people are like planning on going
Speaker 10: home and seeing family, there's probably a lot of stress
Speaker 10: that surrounds that subject. I think it's especially difficult to
Speaker 10: facer family, so people are probably trying to let loose
Speaker 10: a little bit.
Speaker 11: Everyone's not doing anything for two days, like they have
Speaker 11: an extra you know, weekend whatever, and you know, gays
Speaker 11: in a weekend like and go. I also think that
Speaker 11: like some people have some demons and like that's fine,
Speaker 11: and then they kind of let it out and everyone
Speaker 11: kind of latches onto the energy and it's it's cute.
Speaker 1: You know night when we can all be demon twinks.
Speaker 1: I'm so excited.
Speaker 4: I find that Thanksgiving, even New York, it is never
Speaker 4: as chaotic as you would expect it to be.
Speaker 3: Coming from the suburbs.
Speaker 4: Like that's what the girls where they fucking pop off
Speaker 4: blackout Wednesday as everyone returning to their hometowns, anyone left
Speaker 4: over in New York, like they're gonna come out.
Speaker 2: What has been your go to excuse for dipping out
Speaker 2: of family events to go hook up with someone else?
Speaker 6: You know, you always have to run to get ice cream,
Speaker 6: like a mcflurry and some mcdag.
Speaker 9: You know, Oh, I'm going to visit my old friends
Speaker 9: and going over to Alicia's house.
Speaker 11: I'm going out to Tim Morton's and like stealing her
Speaker 11: car to like suck someone off in the back seats.
Speaker 12: A friend of mine is like having a hard time
Speaker 12: with the holidays, kind of barrow the car.
Speaker 2: Almost everyone we've interviewed tonight has said they use a
Speaker 2: friend as an excuse. But you're the first person to
Speaker 2: give me the emotional appeal, right You're like, not only
Speaker 2: do I have a friend I'm hanging out with, they're
Speaker 2: going through a hard time, so I've got to be there.
Speaker 12: Yeah, what is my dad gonna say? I'm like, hey,
Speaker 12: like Carrie's really going through right now. Like I'm just
Speaker 12: gonna go Meeter at the restaurant reallyquick.
Speaker 2: No, have you ever hooked up like in your family home?
Speaker 2: Is that something a ligne you would cross?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: What do you mean a line I would cross? That's
Speaker 1: my home.
Speaker 3: If I'm not crossing a line that's my home.
Speaker 6: I woke up one morning guy messed mess and FIE's
Speaker 6: was like, my son's at school, you should come over,
Speaker 6: and I'm sort of like cool. Yeah. Uh So I
Speaker 6: ended up like going to his house, like there's like
Speaker 6: toys all over the place. He's like, my wife divorced
Speaker 6: me like three months ago, and I just want to
Speaker 6: get railed right now.
Speaker 12: Snuck out, met him in a Walmart parking lot and
Speaker 12: I slammed him right there.
Speaker 1: I mean I'll slam as something else. I mean, yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: but yeah, yeah, yeah, I get it exactly. It's not
Speaker 1: a drug reference. It was a fucking reference. We're talking
Speaker 1: about penetration here, Okay. Which level of cousin is the
Speaker 1: most okay to hook up with? For second or third? Cousin?
Speaker 1: Second ones removed or third?
Speaker 12: I from Texas, So cousin fucking is on the table,
Speaker 12: not that I've thought about it, but maybe second.
Speaker 9: Okay.
Speaker 1: I have a huge family, so I'm gonna say to third. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: see me too.
Speaker 3: As far removed as moss. Yeah, that's weird.
Speaker 2: Before you go, what is one last piece of advice
Speaker 2: or message you would like to give to people watching
Speaker 2: during the holidays.
Speaker 1: Put yourself verse, try not to hold on to everything.
Speaker 12: Just remember the time keeps moving, and as long as
Speaker 12: you stay present in the moment and you let everything
Speaker 12: rush over you, you won't be so overwhelmed.
Speaker 11: Find your inner demon, twink and let loose I.
Speaker 1: Mean, embrace it all.
Speaker 6: I mean, for a long time I thought that I
Speaker 6: was weird and didn't fit in this community. But it
Speaker 6: turns out everyone has place, so own that space and
Speaker 6: like live your life.
Speaker 9: I think gratitude goes a long way, and we could
Speaker 9: all go to show each other and especially like in
Speaker 9: among queer spaces, we can go to be a little
Speaker 9: more grateful towards each other. We all kind of need
Speaker 9: to hear it.
Speaker 2: Josh, that's really great advice. I thought you were gonna say,
Speaker 2: be grateful and spread your whole.
Speaker 1: Okay, that was wild. What did you think today?
Speaker 4: Do?
Speaker 2: All?
Speaker 6: Right?
Speaker 3: Did you did?
Speaker 1: Fantastic?
Speaker 5: My largest takeaway I think from that segment is the
Speaker 5: amount of people that would sleep with their family.
Speaker 2: So we were really gagged about our guests. Today we're
Speaker 2: so happy we want to thank them again. The legend
Speaker 2: Candy Muse and Poppy Juice's oscar Anya for being on
Speaker 2: the pot today as well as a team over at
Speaker 2: Animal in Brooklyn. They treated us so so nicely, they
Speaker 2: always do. I do love that space. It's so crowded
Speaker 2: and so worth it, and the.
Speaker 1: Music is always phenomenal and as always we have been
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