1 00:00:03,800 --> 00:00:09,960 Speaker 1: Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all back all 2 00:00:10,080 --> 00:00:13,680 Speaker 1: suit on, looking back to back down, giving the move 3 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 1: like theming buck bus things in the cub me true 4 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 1: good Steve ha listen to mo together for ste Barby, 5 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 1: I don't join joined me to be with me. You 6 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 1: gotta turn hur you gotta turn to turn them out, 7 00:01:42,319 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 1: turn got to turn out to turn the water the 8 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 1: water got me? Come come on your back at it? 9 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:05,639 Speaker 1: Uh huh, i's your will. Good morning, everybody, y'all listening 10 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 1: to the voice. Come on dig me now one it 11 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 1: only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Hey man, back 12 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:18,120 Speaker 1: in business too, Man Man? How good is God? I mean, really, 13 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:20,079 Speaker 1: if you think about it in spite of all that's 14 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:22,919 Speaker 1: going down in your life, first of all, it could 15 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:26,840 Speaker 1: be worse. But secondly, sometimes you have to remember. And 16 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:30,840 Speaker 1: I've just had to have this conversation with myself this morning. 17 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 1: That's how I'm fresh on this one right here. When 18 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 1: a challenge faces you, are you going through a difficult moment, 19 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 1: or you didn't hit a bump in the road in 20 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 1: the middle of that, If you could manage to be grateful, 21 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:48,959 Speaker 1: it would take you a long way Gratitude is a 22 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:52,919 Speaker 1: powerful resource if you can be grateful in the middle 23 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 1: of it. Gratitude is a powerful resource when it's dim 24 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 1: for you. An I got a little bumpy on the road, 25 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 1: and he ran into some obstacles, and you didn't ran 26 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:08,639 Speaker 1: up into some detooled signs, and your journey ain't smooth 27 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:13,280 Speaker 1: as it was last week or last year. You gotta 28 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:17,800 Speaker 1: be grateful for the things that are going right and 29 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 1: that have gone right, and for the thing that's wrong 30 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:24,080 Speaker 1: right now to get right? Man? Can I share that 31 00:03:24,160 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 1: with you? Man? Is that a tough one to learn? 32 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 1: It is for me. It has been one of my 33 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:35,120 Speaker 1: toughest challenges is to learn how to be grateful because 34 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 1: it's a powerful resource, but how to be grateful in 35 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 1: moments of despair when it ain't going right. See here's 36 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 1: a mistake I would make. See when something go wrong, 37 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:47,840 Speaker 1: I want to focus on the wrong so much in 38 00:03:47,920 --> 00:03:52,560 Speaker 1: an attempt to fix it. But even then the focus 39 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 1: ain't always in to fix it. The focus becomes, Man, 40 00:03:56,560 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 1: this is bad. Man, I can't believe this is happening. 41 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 1: Why just keep going down? That doesn't fix anything, you know, 42 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 1: mealing over it, going over what's wrong explaining it, sharing 43 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 1: it with your friends, you know, making it sound worse 44 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 1: than it is, tell the story for pity from other people. 45 00:04:19,640 --> 00:04:21,600 Speaker 1: All of that, right there, has nothing to do with 46 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:24,840 Speaker 1: the fix. Sometimes you're just mulling over it. You're just 47 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 1: making it worse. You're just making it a bigger problem. 48 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:31,840 Speaker 1: You're manifesting it into your atmosphere, You're putting it out 49 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 1: there in your spirit. Now all of a sudden, it 50 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:36,680 Speaker 1: consumes your day. Next thing, you know, you're having a 51 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 1: bad day. If you're having a bad day, it's because 52 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 1: you've been having some bad thoughts. So what I've had 53 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:44,800 Speaker 1: to learn how to do, and what I'm working on 54 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:48,480 Speaker 1: this morning is I'm working on the situation that's been 55 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 1: cropped up. I was going kind of smooth here for 56 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 1: a minute, and now I didn't got real bumpy in 57 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 1: the road, you know, and all this here. So what 58 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 1: I'm thinking about now, though, is even though I've hit 59 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 1: a bump in the road, and even though i'd and 60 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 1: ran into a detour, and even though I've hit this luve, 61 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:09,279 Speaker 1: I'm going down into a valley, I ain't up on 62 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:13,280 Speaker 1: the peak. Can I not still be grateful for all 63 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 1: the things that God has given me, for all the 64 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 1: things he's done for me, for all the things he's 65 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:24,279 Speaker 1: brought me through, and realizing that even this that's happening 66 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 1: to me again is going to pass too. He gonna 67 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 1: get me through that attitude. Come on, man, God is 68 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:32,839 Speaker 1: a good god. Man. It's a lot to be grateful for. 69 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 1: So while I'm tripping on this bumping the road out 70 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 1: and here, what I gotta remember is all the things 71 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:40,480 Speaker 1: He's done for me. And like I say, my saying 72 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 1: is joy and depression cannot reside in the same place. 73 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:46,560 Speaker 1: So instead of being down about this new bumping the road, 74 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 1: if I'm constantly filling my mind with the thoughts of 75 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 1: how good He's been to me, of what all he's 76 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:55,960 Speaker 1: done for me, of all the things he's brought me through, 77 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 1: of all the blessings he's presented me with, when I 78 00:05:59,040 --> 00:06:01,600 Speaker 1: go down that list, I really don't have a lot 79 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:07,880 Speaker 1: of time to mull over the situation. Now. Do I 80 00:06:07,920 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 1: have to fix this bump in the road. Of course 81 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:12,599 Speaker 1: I do. Are There's some things I'm going to have 82 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:15,120 Speaker 1: to do to straighten it out, of course it is. 83 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 1: But Steve just going to get the business of doing 84 00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:20,480 Speaker 1: it and straighten it out what you mulling over and 85 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 1: wearing about it for you know, old people. I heard 86 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 1: old people say something I was growing up in the church. 87 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:27,799 Speaker 1: They say, if you're gonna pray about it, don't worry 88 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:30,040 Speaker 1: about it. But if you're gonna worry about it, don't 89 00:06:30,080 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 1: pray about it. That's an amazing thing. And prayer just 90 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:37,480 Speaker 1: happens to be my weapon of choice. Now, it ain't 91 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:39,800 Speaker 1: always been that way. I want you to understand that 92 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:42,560 Speaker 1: my first weapon of choice was you do it to me, 93 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:44,919 Speaker 1: I do it to you. You call me out, I 94 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 1: call you out, you say something bad about me, I've 95 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 1: tried to find you and say something bad about you. 96 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 1: That was my weapon in the past. How did that 97 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:56,719 Speaker 1: work out for you, Steve? Not so good? Because you 98 00:06:56,760 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 1: know what, I spent a lot of time fight back, 99 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 1: kicking back, swinging back, when I could have spent all 100 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 1: that time climbing. See, all you're trying to do at 101 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:09,880 Speaker 1: the end of the day, folks, is have a better 102 00:07:09,920 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 1: life than the one you got. All you're trying to 103 00:07:12,440 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 1: do is to improve your position in life. You know, 104 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:18,040 Speaker 1: it's not my business to make sure you don't get 105 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 1: where you're going. Ain't got no time for that it's 106 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:24,160 Speaker 1: not my job to assure that you ain't as high 107 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 1: as me. I ain't got no time for that. Your 108 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 1: real mission and purpose is to have the best life 109 00:07:30,880 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 1: that you can have, to ascend to the highest plateau 110 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 1: that you can get to, to make your family as 111 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:40,480 Speaker 1: comfortable as you can, to provide as much as you 112 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 1: can for your family. But legally, see, those of us 113 00:07:43,800 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 1: are sitting up here trying to come up with sideways. 114 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 1: You can ask a couple million men sitting in prison 115 00:07:49,080 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 1: today how they wish they hadn't have done that, and 116 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 1: they'll tell you, Oh, man, I wish I never had 117 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:58,120 Speaker 1: did it. I knew not to go down there. Something 118 00:07:58,240 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 1: told me not to go down there. Man. If I 119 00:08:00,640 --> 00:08:04,559 Speaker 1: could change things, I would. But they're sitting somewhere doing 120 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 1: some time that had they made another decision, they wouldn't 121 00:08:08,160 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 1: have to do. Now. I don't make them throw away people, 122 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 1: na man, because everybody make mistakes, and God is in 123 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:17,040 Speaker 1: the forgiving business. And some of us have done some 124 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 1: things that really broke the law, and a whole lot 125 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:22,880 Speaker 1: of other things and deserve to do some time. But 126 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 1: through the grace of God, we didn't. But now we 127 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 1: set up here and we passed judgment on people who 128 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 1: got to do something. Man, I don't care. I don't 129 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:33,360 Speaker 1: care what you've done. God can't forgive anything, but our position, 130 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 1: our motivation in life is to try to have the 131 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 1: best life we can have and provide for those around 132 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:42,840 Speaker 1: us and make it comfortable. If that's your ambition, you 133 00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:47,280 Speaker 1: don't have time to worry about or concern yourself with 134 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:51,680 Speaker 1: another person. And I wasted time doing that, and that's 135 00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:54,960 Speaker 1: not the way to get it done. It's simply mind 136 00:08:55,000 --> 00:08:57,840 Speaker 1: to your business, taking care of you and getting yourself 137 00:08:57,920 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 1: right and tight. It's twenty four seven, so that's a 138 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:03,560 Speaker 1: full time job. So what I had to learn was 139 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 1: and what I the reason I've chosen prayer as as 140 00:09:07,640 --> 00:09:11,160 Speaker 1: my weapon of choice now is that now prayer helps 141 00:09:11,200 --> 00:09:15,000 Speaker 1: me that I don't have to fight back. Now, if 142 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:18,360 Speaker 1: I get cornered, I'm gonna fight you. I ain't even 143 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:20,840 Speaker 1: gonna lie to you. And now I'm still working on 144 00:09:20,920 --> 00:09:25,520 Speaker 1: some things that trigger me. You know, you know, you know, 145 00:09:25,559 --> 00:09:28,959 Speaker 1: and and and and so I'm I'm slowly getting better 146 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:32,920 Speaker 1: at that. But I've learned that my weapon of choice 147 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 1: is prayer now. So when it happens ugly for me, 148 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:41,000 Speaker 1: I pray about it. When it get tight and dismal 149 00:09:41,120 --> 00:09:44,840 Speaker 1: for me, I pray about it. And the thing about prayer, man, 150 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:51,240 Speaker 1: is prayer changes things. Yes, it does. Now read about 151 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:54,680 Speaker 1: it and try it. That's the deal. Okay, come on, 152 00:09:55,040 --> 00:10:02,600 Speaker 1: prayer as a wonderful weapon. You're listening. Hey, ladies and gentlemen, 153 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:06,480 Speaker 1: look here, let me have your tips please. Uh. It 154 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 1: is the week of Thanksgiving week, and so we're kicking 155 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:15,960 Speaker 1: this show off. This show is dedicated to everybody. Now 156 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:18,240 Speaker 1: you should have you should be grateful every day. Let's 157 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:21,000 Speaker 1: just be honest with them. If you ain't known Thanksgiving 158 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:24,520 Speaker 1: to be grateful, something's wrong with you. But today's show 159 00:10:24,760 --> 00:10:31,160 Speaker 1: is dedicated to the grateful, not the group the grateful dead. 160 00:10:32,040 --> 00:10:36,320 Speaker 1: We're talking about just the grate This. Young people don't 161 00:10:36,320 --> 00:10:38,079 Speaker 1: even know what I'm talking about. No, some of you 162 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:41,400 Speaker 1: have no idea. Yeah, the grateful dead though, boyd, that 163 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:49,199 Speaker 1: was yeah, Truley Strawberry. So much. Should be grateful for Steve, 164 00:10:49,280 --> 00:10:55,080 Speaker 1: Good morning, Carlin for rel very grateful Good morning Steve. 165 00:10:55,200 --> 00:11:00,920 Speaker 1: What's up crew, Ladies and gentleman, Julian boy morning, uncle, 166 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 1: I'm so grateful. You can't you can't stand The next 167 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:11,840 Speaker 1: intro if somebody that's probably most grateful, the most Oh yeah, 168 00:11:12,559 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 1: chemo free, chemo free streets up in the streets. Boy, 169 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 1: you know what up? What up? What up? Something? Man? Yeah? Man, 170 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 1: oh now you're off chemo of chemo baby, But let 171 00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 1: me ask this. Are you still bitter? Oh yeah, Cancer 172 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:38,480 Speaker 1: don't kill bitterness. I mean no, it just don't. I 173 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:46,160 Speaker 1: can't die. No, no, oh, I don't let nothing go 174 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:50,240 Speaker 1: all that's still inside the chemo cameo. Chemo is a 175 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:54,800 Speaker 1: strong you know, it's very strong. He killed cancer, but 176 00:11:55,960 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 1: he can't touch bitterness. Bitterness. Relater just been like, Keimo, 177 00:12:01,320 --> 00:12:03,320 Speaker 1: bring your ass on up in here, so we got 178 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:14,360 Speaker 1: some play. I know how to bring it out. Yes, yes, 179 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:23,000 Speaker 1: you're welcome, Thank you. Ain't I'm in here with one 180 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:26,640 Speaker 1: On baby. One On just paved to my side. We 181 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:31,240 Speaker 1: call him one gun, Steve, one gun. He's one one gun. 182 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 1: It's his responsibility, Steve to carve the turkey. Yes, thanks, 183 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:42,160 Speaker 1: I'm gonna cut this. It ain't gonna be in it 184 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:48,080 Speaker 1: ain't gonna be sliced, real nice jag. You don't need 185 00:12:48,120 --> 00:12:50,600 Speaker 1: somebody to hold it while you cut it, Timmy, because 186 00:12:50,640 --> 00:12:53,520 Speaker 1: you ain't gonna slip away if you just got attacking. 187 00:12:55,200 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 1: The family has a new nickname for Tommy. What what 188 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:06,079 Speaker 1: is it, Steve? It's called one Short? Why Short? Got 189 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:11,360 Speaker 1: to be in it that way, everybody know who we're 190 00:13:11,400 --> 00:13:24,560 Speaker 1: talking about. One sure, why Short? All day? Love? Well, 191 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:29,040 Speaker 1: Well let's get it started today. Yeah, it's gonna be fun. 192 00:13:29,160 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, the holidays are here. I love them, 193 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:36,959 Speaker 1: just love them. Yeah, me too, me too? Yeah, all right, 194 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:39,400 Speaker 1: coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll 195 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 1: do our weekend review. We'll find out what we did 196 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:44,840 Speaker 1: over the weekend. That's coming up right after this. You're 197 00:13:44,880 --> 00:13:49,800 Speaker 1: listening to show well before we get to weekend review, guys, 198 00:13:51,240 --> 00:13:54,240 Speaker 1: we're so excited. We gotta say this to be on 199 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:58,360 Speaker 1: the air. Back on the air in Dallas, Texas. All right, 200 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:04,839 Speaker 1: thank you, Dallas, Welcome back to our home station. Yeah 201 00:14:04,960 --> 00:14:08,080 Speaker 1: krn B FM, smooth R and B one oh five 202 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:15,720 Speaker 1: point seven in Dallas. Yes, Soda as the leader of 203 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:26,000 Speaker 1: the bunch. Yeah, I'm not surprised, Steve, I'm just not surprised. 204 00:14:27,000 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 1: Uh huh, take us off for what? WHOA so you want? 205 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:40,760 Speaker 1: So you want to try something? I think it's good. Now, 206 00:14:40,840 --> 00:14:44,800 Speaker 1: listen to me. I think it's good to experience things 207 00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:50,000 Speaker 1: because it makes you more appreciative. Now we love Dallas. 208 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:52,880 Speaker 1: Let me tell you how special Dallas is to me. Man, 209 00:14:53,160 --> 00:14:57,680 Speaker 1: Come on, Dallas started me on a path that no 210 00:14:57,800 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 1: other city gave me the opportunity. When I started in 211 00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:07,360 Speaker 1: the late eighties at a nightclub owned by a dude 212 00:15:07,440 --> 00:15:11,840 Speaker 1: named Alvin Scott. The name of the club was Vookoo Ray. 213 00:15:12,160 --> 00:15:15,000 Speaker 1: I went Dad and I said, I convinced a guy 214 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:19,640 Speaker 1: to give me a one nighter at Vookoo Ray. Now 215 00:15:19,760 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 1: all I had to say who I was was that 216 00:15:23,840 --> 00:15:28,760 Speaker 1: was a blurb of me in Jet magazine with a 217 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:31,400 Speaker 1: head shot. That head you know, they used to do 218 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:34,520 Speaker 1: something something quote of the week and they put one 219 00:15:34,520 --> 00:15:37,400 Speaker 1: of my quotes in that. That was my only claim 220 00:15:37,440 --> 00:15:39,960 Speaker 1: to fame. I wasn't on Showtime. It did Apollo, Yet 221 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:42,720 Speaker 1: none of that opened up one nighter. It started off 222 00:15:42,760 --> 00:15:46,720 Speaker 1: really slow, it started gathering momentum. After a while, you 223 00:15:46,720 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 1: could not get in Vookouray in Dallas. After that, I 224 00:15:50,040 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 1: opened up my own club called the Steve Harvey Comedy 225 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:56,520 Speaker 1: House on Camp Wisdom Road. Steve Harvey Camp Steve Harvey 226 00:15:56,560 --> 00:16:01,480 Speaker 1: Comedy House started the direction I'm in. I became the 227 00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:04,720 Speaker 1: host of Showtime and the Apollo from that building right there. 228 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:07,600 Speaker 1: And I got my first TV show, Me and the Boys, 229 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:10,840 Speaker 1: in that building right there. Dallas, Texas is my home. 230 00:16:10,920 --> 00:16:13,720 Speaker 1: I used to live there. I still got a house there. 231 00:16:14,120 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 1: It's owning cracking. Now we're back, come home. Yes, we 232 00:16:19,720 --> 00:16:24,560 Speaker 1: love Dallas. Yeah, we didn't leave you, Dallas. You know 233 00:16:24,600 --> 00:16:27,120 Speaker 1: what's the wind. I went to all in places, all 234 00:16:27,240 --> 00:16:35,400 Speaker 1: in places, man, all of them live in Dallas. Man, 235 00:16:35,600 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 1: Dallas is nice, boy. But we talked about your club. Yeah. 236 00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:41,800 Speaker 1: Friend of mine said he used to start at your club. 237 00:16:41,880 --> 00:16:44,120 Speaker 1: He said, you told him one night, you will never 238 00:16:44,120 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 1: see another comedy club like this. I didn't know you 239 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 1: had a dance flowing them. No, dog, I had to 240 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:56,080 Speaker 1: make money, ain't Yeah, everything you used to the right. 241 00:16:56,440 --> 00:16:59,000 Speaker 1: Erica Badude used to take tickets and then I made 242 00:16:59,040 --> 00:17:01,640 Speaker 1: her my assistant, and she convinced me to be the 243 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:05,080 Speaker 1: stage manager. Little did I know, she just wanted to 244 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:11,359 Speaker 1: set the mic up so she could sing in it. 245 00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:15,240 Speaker 1: So I believe dinner. And I got a keyboard and 246 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:17,720 Speaker 1: I used to play a little few chords on the keyboard, 247 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:21,080 Speaker 1: and men and you could ask Erica Badu. We recorded 248 00:17:21,160 --> 00:17:24,760 Speaker 1: an album into Steve Harvey Comedy House, and the name 249 00:17:24,760 --> 00:17:28,040 Speaker 1: of the album was Section eight and all our songs 250 00:17:28,200 --> 00:17:35,040 Speaker 1: was about being Poland we wrote eight songs about being 251 00:17:35,240 --> 00:17:39,720 Speaker 1: Poe Erica Badu has become a major star from that. 252 00:17:40,600 --> 00:17:46,280 Speaker 1: What now, now, let me share this with you, my 253 00:17:46,359 --> 00:17:49,800 Speaker 1: weekend review. I'm still in Ghana, the nation of Ghana. 254 00:17:50,119 --> 00:17:54,040 Speaker 1: They're very good to me. I love Ghana. I'm still here. 255 00:17:54,080 --> 00:17:58,080 Speaker 1: That's where I'm recording from this morning in Ghana. Uh 256 00:17:58,119 --> 00:18:02,080 Speaker 1: And so I've been here. A friend of mine owns 257 00:18:02,080 --> 00:18:06,720 Speaker 1: a company called Springfield Energy, and I met him a 258 00:18:06,720 --> 00:18:09,720 Speaker 1: couple of years ago in Abu Dhabi. We became friends. 259 00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:14,960 Speaker 1: He was in an oil drilling business and just recently, 260 00:18:15,640 --> 00:18:19,240 Speaker 1: over ten days ago, he's no longer in the oil 261 00:18:19,359 --> 00:18:24,480 Speaker 1: drilling business. He struck oil. He is the first African 262 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:31,320 Speaker 1: or Black person to own an oil weale in deep water. Wow. 263 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:37,399 Speaker 1: And his oil wheel, his oil, his history making his 264 00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:42,160 Speaker 1: oil welle is a large one. And they will start 265 00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:44,800 Speaker 1: They've tapped it, They've capped the whale and everything. I've 266 00:18:44,800 --> 00:18:47,440 Speaker 1: been out on the oil rig with him, and they're 267 00:18:47,480 --> 00:18:50,680 Speaker 1: gonna start pulling up barrels and this spoil right here 268 00:18:51,400 --> 00:18:55,480 Speaker 1: will be one of the richest men in Ghana, and 269 00:18:55,600 --> 00:18:58,080 Speaker 1: he's your best friend of the whole white world. Yes, 270 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:06,360 Speaker 1: wild money comedy. Wait wait, okay, let me help you out. 271 00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:10,520 Speaker 1: It's no, no, no, see it's still in comedy. It's 272 00:19:10,560 --> 00:19:15,520 Speaker 1: still j Anthony Brown and sentiment. It's still money though. 273 00:19:21,840 --> 00:19:25,880 Speaker 1: From childhood my best friend Ricardo Proof, man of Calhoun, 274 00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:33,359 Speaker 1: Butcherman of Ale Brown, John Money, Tommy Camera. But later 275 00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:39,000 Speaker 1: on in life my best friend became the legendary Biggie 276 00:19:39,000 --> 00:19:43,440 Speaker 1: Wig and my college friend. It's all from Marvels to Spade, 277 00:19:43,520 --> 00:19:58,840 Speaker 1: Toko Cheek, all them, but in mind the game of life. Vin. Yeah, 278 00:19:58,960 --> 00:20:01,639 Speaker 1: and I'm staying at his house. He's a gail to 279 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:06,879 Speaker 1: your open, a nobody's house. Yeah, well, just look at 280 00:20:06,920 --> 00:20:13,560 Speaker 1: different house. This is a little what Steve, don't just 281 00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:19,760 Speaker 1: say house, it's a palace. I have come and Marjorie 282 00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:22,200 Speaker 1: was here, Marjorie left. Marjorie had to go home take 283 00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:24,399 Speaker 1: care of some business for the family. So I'm here 284 00:20:24,440 --> 00:20:27,520 Speaker 1: alone and I'll meet her in Abu Dhabi later this 285 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:29,919 Speaker 1: week for the Formula one race. I'll be joining my 286 00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:33,160 Speaker 1: wife again and abud So and Kevin is gonna come 287 00:20:33,160 --> 00:20:35,720 Speaker 1: to Abudabi with me. But that's why I met him, 288 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:39,600 Speaker 1: And this is not a house. Don't don't don't don't 289 00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:44,320 Speaker 1: don't call this a house. This house. I'm in the 290 00:20:44,359 --> 00:20:47,879 Speaker 1: house myself. He ain't here. Coming up, We gotta we 291 00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:51,720 Speaker 1: gotta move on. But coming up next, it's Reverend Motown 292 00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:57,720 Speaker 1: Deacon deaf Jam with church complaints right after this you're listening. 293 00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:01,600 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, and entertainment news. 294 00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:04,919 Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about last night's American Music Awards and 295 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:08,840 Speaker 1: Frozen two is the number one movie in the country people. 296 00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:12,880 Speaker 1: Also Miss Anna's standing by, Yeah, miss Anna standing by 297 00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:15,680 Speaker 1: with today's national news. All of that at the top 298 00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:17,879 Speaker 1: of the hour. But right now it is Monday, and 299 00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:21,560 Speaker 1: Reverend Motown and Deacon def Jam are here with what 300 00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:32,040 Speaker 1: else but church complaints on this Monday. We oh, oh gracious, 301 00:21:34,359 --> 00:21:43,160 Speaker 1: bought niferous and can for donnamy, but that we are 302 00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:48,160 Speaker 1: here in this place makes it sound so real. Giving 303 00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:58,639 Speaker 1: you more graphic two it then most would adulation lives 304 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:09,440 Speaker 1: a man a deacon with the pontificty church. Well, I 305 00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:13,119 Speaker 1: passed that I hate to bring this up be the 306 00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:16,679 Speaker 1: bearer of bad news, but we will not be doing 307 00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:22,920 Speaker 1: church complaints this morning. All right. It has been brought 308 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:26,119 Speaker 1: to our attention of the Jack Pott Joint of Jerusalem 309 00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:29,919 Speaker 1: from the Board of Directors. It has been brought to 310 00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:34,240 Speaker 1: our attention that we need to hold a hearing or 311 00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:41,600 Speaker 1: impeachment on our pastor Reverend at nor Is here as 312 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:45,120 Speaker 1: well as Deacon Junior. And we have some questions that 313 00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:50,399 Speaker 1: we were like we have right here right now. The 314 00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:54,160 Speaker 1: impeachment hearing has now started. We're gonna start with I'm 315 00:22:56,880 --> 00:23:05,520 Speaker 1: bull officers. Yeah, well, just just answer the questions. You ready, 316 00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:09,200 Speaker 1: go ahead, go ahead, go ahead. You have to recognize them. Yeah, well, 317 00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:13,040 Speaker 1: I recognize no time you take the floor, you control it, 318 00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:19,200 Speaker 1: all right, all right? I would you recognize you know 319 00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:30,720 Speaker 1: who the people's is passed? All the days were dripping everything. 320 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:34,040 Speaker 1: Don't worry about that. Just answered. It's been brought to 321 00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:39,080 Speaker 1: eye tension path that that the Praise dancers and twenty 322 00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:42,720 Speaker 1: fifteen they raised two thousand and seven hundred and fifty dollars. 323 00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:47,440 Speaker 1: You brother, person that collected the money and you gave 324 00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:50,040 Speaker 1: them a hundred dollars. That's why they're still in the 325 00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:54,280 Speaker 1: nasty white performing clothes. What happened to that money? What 326 00:23:54,400 --> 00:24:03,600 Speaker 1: happened to that that Bunny donated to the Ukraine government 327 00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:14,159 Speaker 1: to help hopis amen, Pastor, We're with you, pastor. We 328 00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:21,320 Speaker 1: went our pastor. Yes, that's right, yeah, thank you, Pastor. 329 00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:26,040 Speaker 1: There was a phone call on July sixteenth, twenty fourteen, 330 00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 1: with Deacon Adrian Dugas. Did you tell him as this 331 00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:37,800 Speaker 1: church did you do that? Did you do? Pastor? Would 332 00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:44,960 Speaker 1: never my pastor. I said, I found it this church, 333 00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:53,159 Speaker 1: past and I said, if you said I founded the 334 00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:57,560 Speaker 1: church that started with now I did say, if you, deacon, 335 00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:02,440 Speaker 1: that's true one out of two. Back, since we have 336 00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:05,640 Speaker 1: an impeachment here for the pastor, I have a question 337 00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:13,080 Speaker 1: for you for in the past year. In the past year, 338 00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:20,359 Speaker 1: you have made seventeen trips to Atlantic City to Atlantic City, 339 00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:25,000 Speaker 1: seventeen trips, and we like the answer, know who is cooking? 340 00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:30,080 Speaker 1: Who is cooking? We need it is? Who is Yeah, 341 00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:40,080 Speaker 1: who is cooking cooking? Is Magic Johnson's wife. That girlfriend 342 00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:47,760 Speaker 1: name is Stormy, who needed saving and therefore I had 343 00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:52,680 Speaker 1: to take all this trip called Stormy was going down 344 00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:57,320 Speaker 1: the beaten path of pornography and I had to save 345 00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:01,760 Speaker 1: Hull and that was what the trips to Atlantic City 346 00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:08,000 Speaker 1: was for. Who our pastor does not lie seventeen is 347 00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:17,640 Speaker 1: the number of completion? Seven word, please, seventeen is the 348 00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:22,080 Speaker 1: number of completion? Sister Shirley, our bible reference. What is 349 00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:25,800 Speaker 1: the number for completion? Whatever you say it is, pastor 350 00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:35,040 Speaker 1: you said it was seventeen, so it is seventeen. Ye, table, 351 00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:43,160 Speaker 1: nothing to do. Let me ask this be the whistle 352 00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:48,680 Speaker 1: blows gold on one second. He's a deacon. You called 353 00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:54,240 Speaker 1: him Tommy, Now you call down, pass him new attention. 354 00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:57,040 Speaker 1: He's under pressure. That's why he's telling out of time, 355 00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:00,439 Speaker 1: and if he gets impeached, I will be after. Let 356 00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:04,000 Speaker 1: me keep giving him. The whistle blower tells us that 357 00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:07,520 Speaker 1: you own a cabin, a boat, and a G wagon 358 00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:11,080 Speaker 1: in the Rocket Mountains. How was all that that paid? 359 00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:18,560 Speaker 1: That's what the whistle has. Has the whistle blower seen 360 00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:24,600 Speaker 1: this g wagon this boat? Has the whistle blower been 361 00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 1: to the mountains now? Unless this whistle blower name is Moses, 362 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:36,320 Speaker 1: I don't know. Nobody been to the mountain top Moses 363 00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:40,480 Speaker 1: and Marl Luver King. That's all I know. Do you 364 00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:45,080 Speaker 1: own a G wagon and cabin in the Rocket Mountain? 365 00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:50,560 Speaker 1: Answer the question answered the question, of course, our own 366 00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:54,480 Speaker 1: a g wagon and a cabin in the mountains. They 367 00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:57,119 Speaker 1: don't let us go to camp David. We got to 368 00:27:57,160 --> 00:28:05,720 Speaker 1: go somewhere. Amen, Amen, pastor needs Amen, Amen, don't don't. 369 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:14,879 Speaker 1: I have uh explained sister Gilmos bra in your office 370 00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:19,800 Speaker 1: to try why she was the financial person of the church. 371 00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:23,760 Speaker 1: Why was that in there? What's that? Sister Gilbo's bra 372 00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:27,720 Speaker 1: had got hung up on a thread in her panis 373 00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:30,720 Speaker 1: and she had that all under her role. You had 374 00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:34,679 Speaker 1: to take that up with Sister Gilmo. I found it 375 00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:36,760 Speaker 1: and hung it on the back of the door case. 376 00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:40,240 Speaker 1: She needed to come back in and get it. That 377 00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:46,280 Speaker 1: is going to have to conclude this. Uh no, damn 378 00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:50,560 Speaker 1: body coming up at the top of the hour entertainment 379 00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:56,160 Speaker 1: at National News. Right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey 380 00:28:56,200 --> 00:29:01,720 Speaker 1: Morning Show. We're selling excited. We gotta save this. We 381 00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:10,280 Speaker 1: are so excited to be back in Dallas. Yes, welcome back. Yeah, 382 00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:13,880 Speaker 1: welcome back to our home station, Dallas Fair. Oh my god, 383 00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:20,720 Speaker 1: Dallas Fair is unbelieving. Henry Campbell, what's up? Back your 384 00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:26,800 Speaker 1: legs and Fried butter Man fin take Yes, stay Fair, 385 00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:31,520 Speaker 1: big text. All the people that live around it that 386 00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:33,680 Speaker 1: let you park, and they driveway so and they make 387 00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:40,120 Speaker 1: a little money. I loved it. Come on, you got 388 00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:42,920 Speaker 1: you got room and you know what else like about it? 389 00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:45,440 Speaker 1: You can separate with your people and tell them where 390 00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:49,560 Speaker 1: to me that meet me at the Big texts. Okay, 391 00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:52,200 Speaker 1: we got everybody got four whiles. We all meet back 392 00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:56,560 Speaker 1: at the Big damn take or just meet me at 393 00:29:56,160 --> 00:30:02,400 Speaker 1: the get lost. But we're shotting out our homestation. Kr 394 00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:05,640 Speaker 1: N k R N B F M smooth R and 395 00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:09,320 Speaker 1: B one oh five point seven. Thank you, Dallas, We 396 00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:20,720 Speaker 1: love you, Dallas in the building. Call him Gary, you know, yeah, 397 00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:24,560 Speaker 1: but you know, okay, but if he says, hey, that's 398 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:35,440 Speaker 1: black as Tommy, you know, I'm defending my friend and 399 00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:37,680 Speaker 1: he's just Gary. I never called him white Gary. I 400 00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:42,000 Speaker 1: called him. He don't say hey, big big lip as Steve. 401 00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:49,720 Speaker 1: All right, So Dallas, it is time now for our Yeah. 402 00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:53,440 Speaker 1: Today's entertainment news last night was the American Music Awards. 403 00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:56,360 Speaker 1: It was live from Microsoft Theater in Los Angeles. It 404 00:30:56,440 --> 00:31:01,920 Speaker 1: was hosted by Our Girls See Era. The performers included Lizzo, 405 00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:07,960 Speaker 1: Selena Gomez, real life couple Camilla Cabeo, Sean Mendez, Billie Eilish, 406 00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:15,120 Speaker 1: Tony Braxton, Kesha, and the Queen of Bounce Big frieda Wow. Presenters, Yeah, yes, 407 00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:20,400 Speaker 1: presenters Tyra Banks, Misty Copeland, Jamie Lee, Curtis, Regina King, 408 00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:25,040 Speaker 1: Michael Elie, Meg The Stallion, Billy Porter, Constance Who, Taylor Swift. 409 00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:27,680 Speaker 1: We all know the controversy there. She was honored as 410 00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:30,120 Speaker 1: the Artist of the Decade. You know, she's been in 411 00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:32,880 Speaker 1: somewhat of a battle about the rights to her songs, 412 00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:36,360 Speaker 1: being able to sing her songs on the Awards show. 413 00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:40,400 Speaker 1: But they own the rights, Scooter Braun does, and anyway, 414 00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:45,040 Speaker 1: he got a lot of death threats and stuff. So yeah, yeah, 415 00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:48,320 Speaker 1: so they're trying to come to a meeting. It's really 416 00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:51,560 Speaker 1: trifling the way they do these artists. Man, you know, 417 00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:55,840 Speaker 1: these people sing these songs they deserved, They just do. 418 00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:59,040 Speaker 1: I don't know the particulars of it, but it's sad 419 00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:01,920 Speaker 1: when you hear about these artists that are the creators 420 00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:04,320 Speaker 1: and the produce and they sing the songs and then 421 00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:07,160 Speaker 1: turn them into hits, and then somebody on the background 422 00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:09,480 Speaker 1: won't give them control of them because they're greedy. I 423 00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:15,800 Speaker 1: don't know how particularly anything about that's hello, that's true 424 00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:21,120 Speaker 1: statement because that's true. Yeah, And some people say, hey, 425 00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:24,200 Speaker 1: it's just business. They own the music. It's there, you know. 426 00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:28,360 Speaker 1: It's hey, everybody judging like that. But they hide those clauses. 427 00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:32,400 Speaker 1: Those clauses are hidden, and they're written in a way 428 00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:34,560 Speaker 1: where you may not and it's just tough how they 429 00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:37,000 Speaker 1: take advantage of these. Yeah, it is, it is. But 430 00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:40,640 Speaker 1: Taylor's fans, uh, they're they're coming through for her. And 431 00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:44,920 Speaker 1: other entertainment news, Frozen two, the movie sequel to the 432 00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:48,600 Speaker 1: twenty thirteen animated hit, scored big at the box office. 433 00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:53,640 Speaker 1: I saw it. I saw it, Shelley. That ain't what 434 00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:56,920 Speaker 1: you said. That ain't what Yeah, I know what you're 435 00:32:56,960 --> 00:33:00,000 Speaker 1: talking about, Steve. There was a lot of singing in it. Yeah, 436 00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:03,200 Speaker 1: there was a lot a lot of singing in it. Anyway, 437 00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:05,520 Speaker 1: it's time for you to take us to the headlines 438 00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:11,800 Speaker 1: and the stand whatever, miss and thank you very much everybody, 439 00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:14,040 Speaker 1: and good morning. On the beginning of this Turkey week, 440 00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:16,360 Speaker 1: this is answered with the news the Secretary of the 441 00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:19,320 Speaker 1: Navy out of a job. He resigned, although it really 442 00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:22,960 Speaker 1: wasn't his idea. Basically, Defense Secretary Mark zwer has fired 443 00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:25,760 Speaker 1: the head of the US Navy, Richard Spencer, over his 444 00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:28,720 Speaker 1: handling of the case of Navy seal Edward Gallagher now. 445 00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:33,040 Speaker 1: Gallagher was accused of several war crimes, including the stabbing 446 00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:36,280 Speaker 1: to death of a young Arab prisoner with a hunting knife. 447 00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:38,480 Speaker 1: They say he went into the into the stall where 448 00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:40,280 Speaker 1: the prisoner was helped and just stabbed him to death 449 00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:43,360 Speaker 1: and then posed with the body. Gallagher was convicted of 450 00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:45,480 Speaker 1: taking pictures with a dead body, but he was acquitted 451 00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:48,600 Speaker 1: of other charges. The Navy reduced Gallagher's rank though over 452 00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:52,200 Speaker 1: his behavior. President Trump, however, ordered that Gallagher would be 453 00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:55,080 Speaker 1: given back his rank, but then the Navy secretary order 454 00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:58,120 Speaker 1: Gallagher to at least give up his Navy seal pen again. 455 00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:01,000 Speaker 1: The President apparently disagreed, so the peary defense said he 456 00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:04,680 Speaker 1: fired him. In Alabama, authorities say that a well liked 457 00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:07,400 Speaker 1: black police sheriff was fatally shot in the head by 458 00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:10,040 Speaker 1: a young white man in Lounge County on Saturday night. 459 00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:12,760 Speaker 1: They say the sheriff, John Williams, was killed after walking 460 00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:15,680 Speaker 1: over to a vehicle outside a convenience store and asking 461 00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:18,480 Speaker 1: the alleged suspect, eighteen year old William Chase Johnson, to 462 00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:21,800 Speaker 1: turn the music down. Johnson's being held without Bill Kennedy. 463 00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:24,920 Speaker 1: They say he's shot Chriff Williams point blank in the 464 00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:28,719 Speaker 1: head a white cop in Tucson, Arizona. Get this is 465 00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:32,879 Speaker 1: under investigation for brutally attacking a fifteen year old black 466 00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:37,040 Speaker 1: teenager who has no arms or legs. And it was 467 00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:41,239 Speaker 1: all caught on video. Yeah, the Democratic primary field has 468 00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:44,040 Speaker 1: officially grown. Former New York City a mayor of Michael 469 00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:46,680 Speaker 1: Bloomberg has finally thrown his hat into the ring for 470 00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:49,640 Speaker 1: president yesterday. And it's done more and more, you know, 471 00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:51,600 Speaker 1: these days by video. And that's how he did it, 472 00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:54,200 Speaker 1: dropping more than thirty seven million dollars on a TV 473 00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:59,400 Speaker 1: ad campaign Jobs Creator, Leader, Problem Solver, Mike Bloomberg for President. 474 00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:02,520 Speaker 1: I'm Bloomberg and I approved this message. Bloomberg, one of 475 00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:05,239 Speaker 1: the richest men in the world, is setting himself up 476 00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:09,960 Speaker 1: to skip the first four primaries in New Hampshire, South Carolina, Iowa, Nevada, 477 00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:13,279 Speaker 1: and to compete on the upcoming Super Tuesday primaries which 478 00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:16,080 Speaker 1: take place on March third. Since leaving office in the 479 00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:18,000 Speaker 1: Big Apple, you know, Bloomberg has been spending a lot 480 00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:21,080 Speaker 1: of time and effort trying to fight for a climate 481 00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:24,759 Speaker 1: change legislation to worry about that, and also he's been 482 00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:26,680 Speaker 1: trying to get guns out of the hands of a 483 00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:29,040 Speaker 1: lot of US citizens. Republicans in the US Senate have 484 00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:31,759 Speaker 1: block legislation that would provide funding for staces to show 485 00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:35,560 Speaker 1: up election security and create more transparity pants parency around 486 00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:38,520 Speaker 1: online ads. No real surprise at the weekend box office, 487 00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:41,560 Speaker 1: Frozen two leftist competition Cold with a jaw dropping one 488 00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:44,080 Speaker 1: twenty seven million in this country, three hundred and fifty 489 00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:47,600 Speaker 1: million elsewhere. Chadwick Boseman's twenty one Bridges came in number 490 00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:50,399 Speaker 1: four with a little over nine million dollars. Now step 491 00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:53,160 Speaker 1: back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to 492 00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:58,360 Speaker 1: morning show time now for tell me something good. Here's 493 00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:02,520 Speaker 1: some good news today, Steve. Today we kick off the 494 00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:08,480 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show Turkey giveaway all right today in Atlanta. Yeah, 495 00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:11,800 Speaker 1: that is big today in Atlanta our home station in 496 00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:15,520 Speaker 1: Magic one oh seven five ninety seven five. They're teaming 497 00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:19,520 Speaker 1: up with the City of Refuge and tomorrow the giving 498 00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:23,880 Speaker 1: continues all over the country from La KJLH working with 499 00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:27,799 Speaker 1: local food banks in Washington, DC, wh u R. We 500 00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:31,920 Speaker 1: have partnered with the Rainbow Community Development Center and Alexandria 501 00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:35,200 Speaker 1: Redevelopment and Housing Authority in New York City with one 502 00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:39,040 Speaker 1: oh seven point five w BLS. We're working with the 503 00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:43,160 Speaker 1: new Greater Bethel Ministries of Queens Village in Philly. Our 504 00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:46,680 Speaker 1: one oh five point three w Das family is partnering 505 00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:49,719 Speaker 1: with Dare to Imagine Church. We have more cities and 506 00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:53,400 Speaker 1: organizations to tell you about later in the show. Carlo, 507 00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:57,680 Speaker 1: you're gonna be in Birmingham. Yes, I will be in 508 00:36:57,719 --> 00:37:00,960 Speaker 1: Birmingham this week for the Steve Harvey Morning Show Annual 509 00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:03,919 Speaker 1: Turkey Giveaway with our home station in the Ham hot 510 00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:07,600 Speaker 1: Ham hot one oh seven seven seven. So I can't 511 00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:10,200 Speaker 1: wait to go and hang out in Burnham. What was that? 512 00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:15,400 Speaker 1: Who's doing that? You know who it is? Either Shirley 513 00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:24,040 Speaker 1: or Jade right right, Well it was time because I can't. 514 00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:28,600 Speaker 1: I can't talk and do turkey sounds about turkeys. Can 515 00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:31,799 Speaker 1: I just say a little quick yes? Commercial on television 516 00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:36,640 Speaker 1: with its turkey, it's trying. Have you seen it? Have 517 00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:41,040 Speaker 1: you seen? I'm just putting this at the after Thanksgiving. 518 00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:43,279 Speaker 1: We don't need to see this damn turkey. Okay, this 519 00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:50,560 Speaker 1: just need to be go. Okay, don't look like he's 520 00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:54,200 Speaker 1: doing turkey. He just killed man. He got his own flades. 521 00:37:54,280 --> 00:38:06,080 Speaker 1: He driving of those commercials. D Yob. Yeah, this is 522 00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:08,960 Speaker 1: a big week for giving back, Steve, And all we 523 00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:10,960 Speaker 1: can say, like we do every year, is thank you 524 00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:14,440 Speaker 1: for being so generous, you know, from a Yeah, all 525 00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:18,799 Speaker 1: of us, Steve Harvey morning, all of us part of this, Yeah, Hu, 526 00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:23,480 Speaker 1: all of us. Absolutely, it's a family affair. Yeah, And 527 00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:28,080 Speaker 1: it makes a difference people who are not doing anything 528 00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:29,960 Speaker 1: to go down and help them give out food to 529 00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:32,319 Speaker 1: the homeless and give out the tricks. They always need 530 00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:35,399 Speaker 1: extra help. So that is really it makes you feel 531 00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:39,520 Speaker 1: good about yourself, It really does giving back. And you 532 00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:42,439 Speaker 1: can yeah, and you can volunteer with like we said, 533 00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:45,600 Speaker 1: some of these organizations that our radio stations are partnering with, 534 00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:48,440 Speaker 1: they always could use volunteer. That's why I'm going to 535 00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:54,120 Speaker 1: Birmham help out volunteer, right Jack, All right, well, coming 536 00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:57,040 Speaker 1: up at thirty four minutes after the hour, we're gonna 537 00:38:57,080 --> 00:39:01,080 Speaker 1: have some meanly meaningless Thanksgiving conversation. You'll see what we 538 00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:05,120 Speaker 1: mean when we come back right after this, just meaningless 539 00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:13,000 Speaker 1: go nowhere conversation at all. Right after this, you're listening, 540 00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:17,200 Speaker 1: all right, everybody? This Thanksgiving time, you at your mama's house, 541 00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:19,719 Speaker 1: you at your friend's house, you just gathered around you 542 00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:22,560 Speaker 1: in the living room, kitchen or this, and you're having 543 00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:27,319 Speaker 1: these conversations. Two things, you don't have all the information 544 00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:30,480 Speaker 1: and the other one is they don't make no damn 545 00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:36,840 Speaker 1: sense at all. But what you're talking they sound something 546 00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:40,640 Speaker 1: like this. Now, last year we was over at um 547 00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:46,520 Speaker 1: that see, we was at Um. Who's house was at last? 548 00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:51,239 Speaker 1: It was Charlotte that we was at Kenneth Wayne house 549 00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:57,000 Speaker 1: last Kenneth Wayne, Kenneth Wayne, Kennethwayne. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Kennewayne. 550 00:39:57,000 --> 00:39:59,239 Speaker 1: Because what happened was we were trying to watch the 551 00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:02,640 Speaker 1: game and it had the small as they had a 552 00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:09,960 Speaker 1: small t Zeno was, yeah, yeah, you're talking about Kenneth Wayne. 553 00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:18,120 Speaker 1: That's marriage but missing his ring finger. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, 554 00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:21,520 Speaker 1: yeah yeah. Y'all think y'all think Ricky gonna get out 555 00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:24,520 Speaker 1: and then be able to make it connext years Thanksgiving. 556 00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:28,239 Speaker 1: I don't know, miss he's missed seven now, I don't know, 557 00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:32,600 Speaker 1: I don't I don't know the call he goes off 558 00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:36,440 Speaker 1: of parole every year. I heard this girl Carlicia is 559 00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:39,719 Speaker 1: gonna bring just bring the turkey and addressing, but you 560 00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:43,319 Speaker 1: know what about the prison. When I heard about her, 561 00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:46,520 Speaker 1: she had seen somebody else and they would take her 562 00:40:46,560 --> 00:40:50,279 Speaker 1: to the prison to see him. Why in the car 563 00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:55,279 Speaker 1: she sees somebody she'd had two babies, Why Ricky in 564 00:40:55,400 --> 00:41:01,759 Speaker 1: now to stick to baby. Why y'all keep back like 565 00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:05,600 Speaker 1: y'all don't know this. But why she named that second baby? 566 00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:11,880 Speaker 1: Why nay? The baby daddy name is Rickett. And she 567 00:41:12,120 --> 00:41:18,200 Speaker 1: told though Ricky she would have had a slow pregnancy 568 00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:21,080 Speaker 1: and the baby is his. She said the whole two 569 00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:24,520 Speaker 1: years head in there that those was his babies child 570 00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:27,759 Speaker 1: and he believed it and he believed it. Now the 571 00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:30,960 Speaker 1: baby don't look like Rickett. The baby looked like little Richet. 572 00:41:33,760 --> 00:41:37,400 Speaker 1: Ain't rich That's what I've seen. Got the hair cutting, 573 00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:43,440 Speaker 1: everything got him looked just like just like and his 574 00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:47,160 Speaker 1: first words were shut up, shut us. The baby that 575 00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:52,640 Speaker 1: I don't know what that was, but I whi baba. Yeah, 576 00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:56,799 Speaker 1: it's amazing. At three years old he was a babba. Yeah. 577 00:41:57,280 --> 00:42:00,600 Speaker 1: But why strange is the baby looked like but have 578 00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:04,520 Speaker 1: you seen the daddy. The daddy looked, yes, like Chucky. 579 00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:10,279 Speaker 1: That's crazy, That is really crazy because I saw him 580 00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:12,239 Speaker 1: at the walmart with him and I thought it was 581 00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:18,080 Speaker 1: Miles Davis. Really like, oh you know who that is. 582 00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:21,640 Speaker 1: That's not him. That's the grandmama that looked like Miles Davis. 583 00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:32,960 Speaker 1: I remember, Patty. It was Hattie, Remember Hattie, just like 584 00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:40,479 Speaker 1: Miles Davis. Yeah, yeah, what she Just listen. I don't 585 00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:43,760 Speaker 1: want to worry y'all with that, Mama. Okay, I go ahead. 586 00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:46,160 Speaker 1: We didn't ran out of cran beer or sauce. I'm 587 00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:50,080 Speaker 1: just telling ya, we didn't ran out of cranberry. Well 588 00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:52,960 Speaker 1: that's not the sauce though, that's the actual berries. And 589 00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:58,719 Speaker 1: don't know nobody like that. Yeah, something, what is anybody? 590 00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:05,000 Speaker 1: Anybody's ask me? Hungry? Guess that's why we're all here here. 591 00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:14,160 Speaker 1: You're ready to ate one time? I just you know 592 00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:17,200 Speaker 1: it ought to be time for uh, you know, for 593 00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:21,600 Speaker 1: backing folks. Yes, we got to pray again. Who's gonna 594 00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:24,040 Speaker 1: say the prayer this time? No? No, we don't, No, 595 00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:31,000 Speaker 1: we don't. Don't. Don't you let me lose his memory? 596 00:43:31,640 --> 00:43:36,040 Speaker 1: Still bless its still your blest amen, you don't bless 597 00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:42,319 Speaker 1: it twice? Bless yes, ma'am. Somebody Herbert to get his 598 00:43:42,400 --> 00:43:48,960 Speaker 1: hands after potato salad, Herbert his hands to say, you here, 599 00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:59,720 Speaker 1: just lean it anywhere you have this, Thanks go nowhere. 600 00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:05,839 Speaker 1: Thanksgiving convos coming up. It is the nephew would run 601 00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:10,719 Speaker 1: that prank back right after this. You're listening morning show 602 00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:14,000 Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, right about 603 00:44:14,000 --> 00:44:17,040 Speaker 1: four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today's subject. 604 00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:21,840 Speaker 1: My husband is really feeling himself. But right now the 605 00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:24,680 Speaker 1: nephew in the building with today's prank phone call? What 606 00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:31,000 Speaker 1: you got fourth nav go big or go home? Go 607 00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:43,480 Speaker 1: big or go home, go bigger, go home. Let's go 608 00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:48,959 Speaker 1: get Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach Darnel. Darnel, see, 609 00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:52,440 Speaker 1: I know how you doing. This is Scott Shame with Bigger, 610 00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:55,840 Speaker 1: bigger and better, where we make you large and in charge. 611 00:44:55,840 --> 00:45:00,319 Speaker 1: How are you doing today? Scott? Who Ima? Scot with 612 00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:03,880 Speaker 1: bigger and better, where we make you large and in charge. 613 00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:08,520 Speaker 1: I'm good, Scott? What's up? We were actually, uh given 614 00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:14,640 Speaker 1: a phone call by your wife your wife? Is that correct? Yeah? Okay, well, 615 00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:17,600 Speaker 1: um you know your wife's um your wife's birthday is 616 00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:20,520 Speaker 1: coming up pretty soon, is that right? Yeah? Yeah, so 617 00:45:21,080 --> 00:45:23,560 Speaker 1: a couple of weeks. Yeah, it's coming up. Okay. Have 618 00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:26,719 Speaker 1: you have you decided on getting or anything or have 619 00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:29,959 Speaker 1: you purchased anything yet? No? No, I got a couple 620 00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:33,520 Speaker 1: of days in mind. Um, well, actually, uh, we got 621 00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:37,600 Speaker 1: a call from from I think we've got something that's 622 00:45:37,640 --> 00:45:41,960 Speaker 1: gonna that's gonna really help you guys, and and something 623 00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:44,799 Speaker 1: I think that she wanted to recommend that something that 624 00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:48,719 Speaker 1: you probably wouldn't wouldn't think about getting. Oh I'm all 625 00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:52,840 Speaker 1: is okay and racking my brain. So I'm is actually 626 00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:56,359 Speaker 1: gave us a call. She's actually had an idea, you know, 627 00:45:56,400 --> 00:45:59,080 Speaker 1: what she would really really like for her birthday present? 628 00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:02,680 Speaker 1: So what's the name accompany you? Bigger and Better? Um, 629 00:46:03,080 --> 00:46:06,560 Speaker 1: Like I said, hello, she called you. I'm sorry, she 630 00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:09,560 Speaker 1: called you to give me a deal on what I 631 00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:12,239 Speaker 1: should get her for her birthday. Uh. Yeah, well this 632 00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:15,600 Speaker 1: is this is something that's a little a little different 633 00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:17,760 Speaker 1: than something that you probably would never in a million 634 00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:20,680 Speaker 1: years think of. But here at Bigger and Better, where 635 00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:23,440 Speaker 1: we make you large and in charge, we actually do 636 00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:26,600 Speaker 1: some things that we definitely know you wouldn't have thought of. 637 00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:31,040 Speaker 1: So I definitely understand her giving us what's your name 638 00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:34,880 Speaker 1: against Sam Scott? Scott Scott, get to the point what 639 00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:38,960 Speaker 1: you're selling? Actually let us know that there's some things 640 00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:43,879 Speaker 1: that are really really lacking between you guys, and she 641 00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:46,560 Speaker 1: would very much like for her birthday, where you can 642 00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:50,359 Speaker 1: be a lot more well endowed. So you know that's 643 00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:53,800 Speaker 1: what we do here at Bigger and Beat we actually hello, 644 00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:57,200 Speaker 1: what I could be more wet, more well and doubt sir? 645 00:46:57,400 --> 00:46:59,560 Speaker 1: So I think really what's going on is Beyonca is 646 00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:03,359 Speaker 1: really not satisfied right now. She called you to tell 647 00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:06,239 Speaker 1: you that I'm not what do you meet willing down 648 00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:09,359 Speaker 1: my junk? So you're you're you're you're you're you're inadequate. 649 00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:13,000 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? You're you're Uh, I guess 650 00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:15,640 Speaker 1: maybe maybe very impotent. I'm not sure, but are you 651 00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:20,400 Speaker 1: kidding me? What's the name of this company in Bigger 652 00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:23,719 Speaker 1: and Better where we make you larger in charging? Right now, 653 00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:26,360 Speaker 1: you know you're not You're not larger in charge, and 654 00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:27,719 Speaker 1: we want to get you to that you're able to 655 00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:30,759 Speaker 1: come in for a consultation, your consultation. I'll tell you what. 656 00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:34,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna call her right now because it usually right now. Okay, 657 00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:39,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna call her. We're trying, we're trying to do. 658 00:47:39,640 --> 00:47:41,319 Speaker 1: Do you not do you not think you need to 659 00:47:41,320 --> 00:47:43,080 Speaker 1: come in? I don't even think I need even be 660 00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:47,200 Speaker 1: talking to you, mister Scott about whatever it's going on 661 00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:50,080 Speaker 1: in my bed room. I'm king so I'm not even. 662 00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:52,120 Speaker 1: I'm not even. I don't even know what the going on? 663 00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:56,800 Speaker 1: Whatever can say whatever first for me? That's gonna in 664 00:47:56,840 --> 00:48:00,279 Speaker 1: the bedroom is the first sign of denial, right, I'm no, 665 00:48:00,920 --> 00:48:02,960 Speaker 1: I don't have no problems in the bed room. Well 666 00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:05,799 Speaker 1: you know, I don't even why am I even still 667 00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:07,920 Speaker 1: on the phone with you? Okay, but sir, I mean 668 00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:10,400 Speaker 1: you and you don't have to wear about here from 669 00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:12,919 Speaker 1: she gotta something to kind of account with you. Then 670 00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:15,120 Speaker 1: you ain't got you go ahead and coose that outcau, 671 00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:17,719 Speaker 1: mister Burnell. Let me say this. You have a you 672 00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:20,200 Speaker 1: have a very big ego, sir. What I want to 673 00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:22,360 Speaker 1: do is is you know but you're not You're not 674 00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:24,000 Speaker 1: as big as your ego. I want to get you 675 00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:26,799 Speaker 1: to that point. This is some crazy I've heard some 676 00:48:26,880 --> 00:48:29,680 Speaker 1: crazy things people staying online. But you're gonna call me 677 00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:32,480 Speaker 1: talk about my wife called you saying that I'm in 678 00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:35,600 Speaker 1: adek within the bedroom, sir, you know what? And and 679 00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:39,200 Speaker 1: and once again, I'm trying. I know you just doing 680 00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:41,640 Speaker 1: your job, Scott, but I'm gonna have to call her 681 00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:47,040 Speaker 1: right now. Okay, you don't work number you're in denial. 682 00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:52,600 Speaker 1: I'm in denial you he love, Sir, I really want 683 00:48:52,640 --> 00:48:55,600 Speaker 1: to help you as much as I can. Listen, man, listen, 684 00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:58,720 Speaker 1: I'm trying to get my wife on the phone right now. Okay, 685 00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:01,320 Speaker 1: I know you you got a job to do, but 686 00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:03,200 Speaker 1: what I need you to do right now is stop 687 00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:05,520 Speaker 1: calling me. All right. I'm trying. I'm trying to be 688 00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:08,239 Speaker 1: nice to you because I'm sure whatever it is she 689 00:49:08,560 --> 00:49:11,640 Speaker 1: she called you and you're just doing your job. They're 690 00:49:11,680 --> 00:49:13,759 Speaker 1: trying to get you in here to get a consultation 691 00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:15,719 Speaker 1: so we can get you further the lung on where 692 00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:20,279 Speaker 1: you are consultation a consultation. I don't even know consultation. 693 00:49:20,600 --> 00:49:23,759 Speaker 1: I don't even know sisters from you, Sir, you call 694 00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:26,080 Speaker 1: me no more? Man, Hey, you're small and I don't 695 00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:28,840 Speaker 1: want to make you bigger. You want to make me bigger? What? 696 00:49:29,120 --> 00:49:32,319 Speaker 1: What what is this seeming like? Bigger? Huh? What kind 697 00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:34,200 Speaker 1: of job is that? How do you even get a 698 00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:37,399 Speaker 1: job like that? You apply to this job, aniot where 699 00:49:37,400 --> 00:49:41,520 Speaker 1: you're a high school job trying. I'm trying to stop 700 00:49:41,800 --> 00:49:45,239 Speaker 1: calling me, man, mister Darnell, I'm still trying to help 701 00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:48,040 Speaker 1: you get through this situation. Okay, are you willing to 702 00:49:48,120 --> 00:49:50,239 Speaker 1: come in for a consultation. At least we're coming in 703 00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:52,920 Speaker 1: for a consultation. We can get you where you are. 704 00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:55,200 Speaker 1: Are you listening to me? The only consultation we're gonna 705 00:49:55,200 --> 00:49:56,960 Speaker 1: have is my sister in your place. As you call 706 00:49:57,040 --> 00:49:58,920 Speaker 1: me again to tell you what. I will come in 707 00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:01,880 Speaker 1: for a consultation. Give me give me your address and 708 00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:04,400 Speaker 1: everything like that. All your information, and I will come 709 00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:07,040 Speaker 1: down for a consultation. You're gonna be there. I'm here, 710 00:50:07,160 --> 00:50:10,239 Speaker 1: I'm here, I'm here the first eight hours of the day. Sir. 711 00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:12,000 Speaker 1: What I want to do is get you lined up 712 00:50:12,000 --> 00:50:15,000 Speaker 1: with get you. Let me do all my wife. I 713 00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:17,759 Speaker 1: don't need no damn procedures. Give me your info, and 714 00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:19,560 Speaker 1: you got to work out here from us. No more. Okay, 715 00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:22,359 Speaker 1: right now I need to get up. Call. I don't 716 00:50:22,400 --> 00:50:24,640 Speaker 1: want to hang up on you. And understand, we're trying 717 00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:27,960 Speaker 1: to do your job. You're small. You're small, and I'm 718 00:50:28,000 --> 00:50:31,360 Speaker 1: trying to make you bigger. Thank you. Hey, sir, you 719 00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:33,800 Speaker 1: know what I'm trying to help the person that's a 720 00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:37,000 Speaker 1: little small guy. I'm trying to help you with your problem. Now. 721 00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:39,040 Speaker 1: If you're not going to be appreciative of it. Then 722 00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:41,359 Speaker 1: I don't even understand why your wife knows you're having 723 00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:44,160 Speaker 1: your address? Why and we can have this conversation face 724 00:50:44,200 --> 00:50:46,799 Speaker 1: to face. You don't know what Why would your wife here? 725 00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:48,839 Speaker 1: It doesn't matter. If I can get on the line, 726 00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:51,719 Speaker 1: I can figure out why she calls you because you're 727 00:50:51,760 --> 00:50:56,120 Speaker 1: coming adequate it many, sir, sir. Here's the problem. You're 728 00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:58,239 Speaker 1: tiny and you don't want to admit it. I ain't 729 00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:00,040 Speaker 1: let me get you know me, man, you know to 730 00:51:00,239 --> 00:51:03,160 Speaker 1: see me. You don't know anything about me. I can't 731 00:51:03,160 --> 00:51:06,120 Speaker 1: even believe my wife's even called you. But just this 732 00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:08,239 Speaker 1: is just how you do business. You gonna call me 733 00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:10,680 Speaker 1: and call me I'm tiny, sir, So I'm playing some 734 00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:13,120 Speaker 1: to you. I'm not only the president, but I'm also 735 00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:17,320 Speaker 1: a client, sir. I don't give up what you are? Okay, okay? 736 00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:19,400 Speaker 1: And there are some other things that let us know 737 00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:22,080 Speaker 1: as well, what the would that means? She also wanted 738 00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:24,560 Speaker 1: me to tell you that this is nephew Tommy from 739 00:51:24,680 --> 00:51:27,640 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. More than it show your wife just pray 740 00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:35,680 Speaker 1: for calls you bad. Man's funny man, I'm on here 741 00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:37,880 Speaker 1: over here looking at us in the mirror. Man, It 742 00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:41,680 Speaker 1: kind of I thought I was good, but I got 743 00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:45,600 Speaker 1: a little nervous. I was like, man, what's the baddest 744 00:51:45,719 --> 00:51:48,440 Speaker 1: radio show in the land. Come on now, you know 745 00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:51,279 Speaker 1: it's a Steve Harvey radio show. Man, Dad, you have it, 746 00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:59,479 Speaker 1: go big, big and you in Philadelphia. Now you want big, 747 00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:02,399 Speaker 1: you better get you some tickets to the Holiday Comedy Jam. 748 00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:06,440 Speaker 1: It's going down Friday, d some of the twentieth that's Earthquake. 749 00:52:06,560 --> 00:52:10,239 Speaker 1: That's Jnthy Brown Kill Junior Spates and hosted by yours 750 00:52:10,280 --> 00:52:16,800 Speaker 1: truly me. That's it. That's we gonna do this. The 751 00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:21,360 Speaker 1: radio boys coming to town. Boy were coming, I'm ignorance 752 00:52:21,960 --> 00:52:23,759 Speaker 1: is on the way. Tickets are on sale right now 753 00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:25,520 Speaker 1: all ticket Master outlet so you can get them at 754 00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:28,680 Speaker 1: the that's the met Philadelphia Box Off. It's right now. 755 00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:32,320 Speaker 1: It's the Holiday Comedy Jam. That's Live Nation in w 756 00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:35,719 Speaker 1: das together putting an event that you putting together, an 757 00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:38,160 Speaker 1: event that you don't want it. That's another conversation at 758 00:52:38,200 --> 00:52:40,279 Speaker 1: the table on things. What the boy's name, there's gonna 759 00:52:40,280 --> 00:52:53,680 Speaker 1: be that at the mat with Stave. Now you don't 760 00:52:53,719 --> 00:52:55,719 Speaker 1: want to miss the show. You don't want to miss 761 00:52:55,760 --> 00:53:03,200 Speaker 1: the fooling. She's a soldier like watching our wint in reverse. 762 00:53:03,280 --> 00:53:05,520 Speaker 1: Watch me take that ran back off that help of finger. 763 00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:22,000 Speaker 1: We're going to hello quick bank of a comedians comedian. Yeah, 764 00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:27,000 Speaker 1: he's outstanding. All right, well, thank you, nephew. Coming up 765 00:53:27,080 --> 00:53:30,480 Speaker 1: next the Strawberry Letter. We're gonna get into its subject 766 00:53:30,560 --> 00:53:34,600 Speaker 1: my husband is really feeling himself right after this you're 767 00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:40,960 Speaker 1: listening to All right, Dallas, it's back to your favorite segment, 768 00:53:41,280 --> 00:53:44,799 Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter. Uh time now for the Strawberry Letter. 769 00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:49,120 Speaker 1: So if you need advice Dallas on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, 770 00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:53,120 Speaker 1: and more, please hit us up at submit your Strawberry 771 00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:56,320 Speaker 1: Letter to Steve Harvey f M okay Steve Harvey FM 772 00:53:56,360 --> 00:53:58,000 Speaker 1: dot com. And all you have to do is click 773 00:53:58,360 --> 00:54:01,560 Speaker 1: submit Strawberry Letter. It's just that simple. We could be 774 00:54:01,680 --> 00:54:04,080 Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're 775 00:54:04,080 --> 00:54:08,799 Speaker 1: gonna read this one right now. That's for you. Buggle up, 776 00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:10,880 Speaker 1: hold on tight, we got it for you. Here. It 777 00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:16,040 Speaker 1: is the Strawberry Letter. Subject my husband is really feeling himself. 778 00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:18,120 Speaker 1: So Steve, you let Tommy do it one day, you 779 00:54:18,239 --> 00:54:22,439 Speaker 1: let Junior do it one day? Are you doing it today? Oh? 780 00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:27,000 Speaker 1: Let's hear it first? Or should I let Jay do it, 781 00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:32,520 Speaker 1: you know what, it might be a perfect letter for Jay. 782 00:54:32,800 --> 00:54:37,000 Speaker 1: Wait till you yes, Jay, focus, because I'm gonna let 783 00:54:37,080 --> 00:54:40,360 Speaker 1: you do the Strawberry letter today. I comment, if I 784 00:54:40,480 --> 00:54:43,000 Speaker 1: see y'all going too far ignorant. I can do it, 785 00:54:43,120 --> 00:54:46,120 Speaker 1: but I'm a hard time focusing, Steve, I really do man, 786 00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:47,640 Speaker 1: I can do it, but I don't know about that 787 00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:51,120 Speaker 1: focusing bard. Okay, well let's go. Wait till you hear 788 00:54:51,160 --> 00:54:58,359 Speaker 1: the letter subject? What hapnut? Now? My husband is really 789 00:54:58,440 --> 00:55:01,400 Speaker 1: feeling himself, Dear Stephen Early. I am a twenty eight 790 00:55:01,480 --> 00:55:04,759 Speaker 1: year old wife and mother. My husband is thirty two. 791 00:55:05,160 --> 00:55:08,000 Speaker 1: We've been together ten years and got married two years ago. 792 00:55:08,400 --> 00:55:10,880 Speaker 1: I don't have any major complaints about my marriage, but 793 00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:15,080 Speaker 1: my husband's behavior is kind of strange lately. My husband 794 00:55:15,080 --> 00:55:17,360 Speaker 1: and I met in college, and we did what college 795 00:55:17,400 --> 00:55:20,040 Speaker 1: couples do. We had sex every day or as much 796 00:55:20,080 --> 00:55:22,480 Speaker 1: as we could. Now that I'm older and we have 797 00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:26,279 Speaker 1: more responsibilities, I'm too tired to have sex every day 798 00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:29,480 Speaker 1: or as often as i'd like to. Many nights, I'd 799 00:55:29,480 --> 00:55:31,800 Speaker 1: pass out as soon as I get into bed because 800 00:55:31,960 --> 00:55:35,080 Speaker 1: I've had a full day of work, cooking, cleaning, and 801 00:55:35,360 --> 00:55:38,279 Speaker 1: taking care of our child. My husband on the other hand, 802 00:55:38,440 --> 00:55:41,000 Speaker 1: is always in the mood for sex. If he doesn't 803 00:55:41,000 --> 00:55:44,200 Speaker 1: get his way, he complains about me denying him the 804 00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:47,919 Speaker 1: one thing that relaxes him. So he has started taking 805 00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:52,400 Speaker 1: matters into his own hands. Literally, he will do it 806 00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:58,000 Speaker 1: right next to me in bed. I feel bad for them. Okay, okay, 807 00:55:58,080 --> 00:56:01,000 Speaker 1: all right, it's what you think. It is, back to surprise. 808 00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:12,800 Speaker 1: So he has started taking things with one hand, so 809 00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:19,080 Speaker 1: he has all right, here we go, guys. So he 810 00:56:19,160 --> 00:56:22,560 Speaker 1: has started taking matters into his own hands. Literally, he 811 00:56:22,680 --> 00:56:25,439 Speaker 1: will do it right next to me in the bed. 812 00:56:25,719 --> 00:56:27,759 Speaker 1: I felt bad for him, and I helped him out 813 00:56:27,800 --> 00:56:30,239 Speaker 1: the first few times. But now it's getting to be 814 00:56:30,440 --> 00:56:33,160 Speaker 1: a bit much. I've caught him in the shower doing it, 815 00:56:33,480 --> 00:56:35,880 Speaker 1: and I've caught him in our family room on the sofa. 816 00:56:36,200 --> 00:56:38,399 Speaker 1: His new hobby makes me feel like I'm not doing 817 00:56:38,520 --> 00:56:41,960 Speaker 1: my duty as his wife. I asked him why he 818 00:56:42,120 --> 00:56:43,879 Speaker 1: does it so much, and he told me that it's 819 00:56:43,960 --> 00:56:46,680 Speaker 1: normal and it has nothing to do with me. For 820 00:56:46,920 --> 00:56:50,359 Speaker 1: the past two weeks, I've been coming onto him trying 821 00:56:50,400 --> 00:56:53,239 Speaker 1: to initiate sex, and he told me to go ahead 822 00:56:53,280 --> 00:56:56,000 Speaker 1: and get some rest. He's fine and we'll handle it himself. 823 00:56:56,400 --> 00:56:58,680 Speaker 1: I don't want to keep nagging him, but I'm missing 824 00:56:58,760 --> 00:57:01,480 Speaker 1: the intimacy that we on tad. At first, I thought 825 00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:03,160 Speaker 1: he was doing this to get back at me for 826 00:57:03,320 --> 00:57:05,040 Speaker 1: not being in the mood all of the time. But 827 00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:07,520 Speaker 1: I think I have a bigger problem here. So should 828 00:57:07,560 --> 00:57:10,000 Speaker 1: I just chill and let him do him? Or is 829 00:57:10,040 --> 00:57:12,359 Speaker 1: this not normal and I need to have another talk 830 00:57:12,440 --> 00:57:15,680 Speaker 1: with him? Please advise? Well, first, you definitely need to 831 00:57:15,760 --> 00:57:18,560 Speaker 1: have another talk with him, because he should be helping 832 00:57:18,640 --> 00:57:21,520 Speaker 1: you with the chores around the house and with the kids. 833 00:57:22,840 --> 00:57:25,720 Speaker 1: Then you wouldn't be so tired all the time, okay, 834 00:57:25,800 --> 00:57:29,800 Speaker 1: and you can indulge him and indulge yourselves, you know, 835 00:57:30,080 --> 00:57:34,320 Speaker 1: in some nice, healthy marital sex. Okay. You guys are 836 00:57:34,360 --> 00:57:37,680 Speaker 1: still young, so I can understand you know, the frequency 837 00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:39,960 Speaker 1: with which you have sex in your marriage. I get set. 838 00:57:40,080 --> 00:57:43,600 Speaker 1: You're twenty eight, he's thirty two. Older couples usually slow 839 00:57:43,640 --> 00:57:47,480 Speaker 1: it down, you know, especially from the everyday escapades. So again, 840 00:57:47,600 --> 00:57:49,640 Speaker 1: him helping you around the house with the housework and 841 00:57:49,680 --> 00:57:51,920 Speaker 1: all that, that would relieve some of your stress and 842 00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:55,480 Speaker 1: you would have time to engage in you know, the 843 00:57:55,600 --> 00:57:58,200 Speaker 1: things that he says relaxes him and you like it. Too, 844 00:57:58,360 --> 00:58:01,120 Speaker 1: so it's a win win here. But this is an 845 00:58:01,200 --> 00:58:04,960 Speaker 1: unusual scenario because he is still doing it even though 846 00:58:05,120 --> 00:58:07,480 Speaker 1: now you're coming on to him and you want you're 847 00:58:07,560 --> 00:58:10,080 Speaker 1: you know, you're you're coming outside of your comfort zone 848 00:58:10,080 --> 00:58:12,200 Speaker 1: and you want to do it with him more. Uh, 849 00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:15,160 Speaker 1: he's still doing it, doesn't want to do it with you, 850 00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:19,080 Speaker 1: tells you, oh, go ahead, get some rest. I'm I'm good, 851 00:58:19,680 --> 00:58:24,840 Speaker 1: I'm good. Yeah, that's that's a little unusual that. I 852 00:58:24,920 --> 00:58:28,640 Speaker 1: don't think this is necessarily normal because you know, you're 853 00:58:28,680 --> 00:58:32,120 Speaker 1: his wife, You're willing and able now, you know, I 854 00:58:32,160 --> 00:58:35,680 Speaker 1: could see when it first started him doing it by himself, 855 00:58:35,880 --> 00:58:37,920 Speaker 1: you know, but now that you're cool and like, okay, 856 00:58:38,520 --> 00:58:40,840 Speaker 1: I'll help you out or let's do it together, I 857 00:58:41,160 --> 00:58:43,960 Speaker 1: want that intimacy, And now he's still saying no, Yeah, 858 00:58:44,000 --> 00:58:45,840 Speaker 1: there's a problem, and this could lead to a bigger 859 00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:49,120 Speaker 1: problem in your marriage. So definitely have a discussion with him. 860 00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:52,800 Speaker 1: Definitely talk about this. If he can tear himself away 861 00:58:53,320 --> 00:58:56,640 Speaker 1: that is, you know, it may be something deeper than that. 862 00:58:56,800 --> 00:58:59,400 Speaker 1: Maybe this is what he wanted all along. I don't know, 863 00:58:59,600 --> 00:59:01,480 Speaker 1: but yeah, you definitely need to have a talk. And 864 00:59:01,560 --> 00:59:06,200 Speaker 1: if that doesn't work, I would definitely suggest some counseling. Steve, 865 00:59:06,960 --> 00:59:10,200 Speaker 1: who's gonna turn it? Yeah, well, I'm gonna turn this over, 866 00:59:10,400 --> 00:59:14,480 Speaker 1: but I have a list. Um, I'm gonna turn it 867 00:59:14,560 --> 00:59:18,040 Speaker 1: over to Jay. Okay, I'm gonna ask Timmy to stay 868 00:59:18,080 --> 00:59:21,080 Speaker 1: out of this and Julia to stay out and just 869 00:59:21,320 --> 00:59:24,280 Speaker 1: let Jay go ahead in his own way. And then 870 00:59:24,440 --> 00:59:27,720 Speaker 1: once you're done, Jay, I have a list that I 871 00:59:27,840 --> 00:59:33,120 Speaker 1: want to go over. Okay, Well, listening to the letter 872 00:59:33,200 --> 00:59:36,520 Speaker 1: about this man taking care of his own problem, I 873 00:59:36,640 --> 00:59:39,920 Speaker 1: have been able to put my finger on the problem. 874 00:59:39,960 --> 00:59:44,000 Speaker 1: You understand, because thumbs up to this man, thumbs up 875 00:59:44,040 --> 00:59:47,840 Speaker 1: to him, what he did, what he was, He got 876 00:59:47,920 --> 00:59:52,080 Speaker 1: a grip of the situation that he was in. And 877 00:59:52,280 --> 00:59:54,920 Speaker 1: he's not gonna be He's not gonna be able to 878 00:59:55,200 --> 00:59:57,480 Speaker 1: shake this. You know what I mean? You know what 879 00:59:57,560 --> 01:00:06,120 Speaker 1: I mean? You know why is he so stupid? It's 880 01:00:06,720 --> 01:00:12,720 Speaker 1: in the palm of his hand that he hold it 881 01:00:12,840 --> 01:00:15,920 Speaker 1: right there, Jay, hold it right there. We're gonna have 882 01:00:16,040 --> 01:00:18,520 Speaker 1: part We're gonna have. Yeah, we're gonna have part two 883 01:00:18,640 --> 01:00:23,400 Speaker 1: of James. Jay's response and Steve's list coming up at 884 01:00:23,440 --> 01:00:26,520 Speaker 1: twenty three after the hour Today's Strawberry Letter. My husband 885 01:00:26,640 --> 01:00:29,600 Speaker 1: is really feeling himself. We'll be back right after this. 886 01:00:30,360 --> 01:00:38,480 Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Uh, let's recap the strawberry letter subject. 887 01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:42,760 Speaker 1: My husband is really feeling himself. Come on, Steve, and 888 01:00:42,840 --> 01:00:45,080 Speaker 1: then Jay is going to finish his response, and you 889 01:00:45,160 --> 01:00:49,120 Speaker 1: have a list when he's done. Tornade, you old woman 890 01:00:49,200 --> 01:00:51,400 Speaker 1: man to a thirty old man. They met him college, 891 01:00:51,720 --> 01:00:55,360 Speaker 1: They have sex frequently. They've been married two years. She's 892 01:00:55,400 --> 01:00:58,760 Speaker 1: exhausted when she comes home. She works, she does all 893 01:00:58,800 --> 01:01:01,400 Speaker 1: the chores, she takes care kids, and when she hits 894 01:01:01,440 --> 01:01:04,520 Speaker 1: the bed, she just passes out. Her husband has taken 895 01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:12,880 Speaker 1: matters into his own hands. Literally. Now she's wondering now 896 01:01:14,080 --> 01:01:17,200 Speaker 1: has that replaced their intimacy? So now she felt bad 897 01:01:17,280 --> 01:01:19,640 Speaker 1: from him and helped him out the first couple of times, 898 01:01:20,200 --> 01:01:23,600 Speaker 1: But then after a while she caught him in the shower, 899 01:01:23,720 --> 01:01:27,080 Speaker 1: on the sofa, in the kitchen, and just everywhere, and 900 01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:31,600 Speaker 1: she wants now the intimacy back, but he says, now 901 01:01:32,000 --> 01:01:35,200 Speaker 1: you're gonna get yourself some rest. I got it. This 902 01:01:35,400 --> 01:01:40,640 Speaker 1: is where we're at right now. Go ahead, Jack Well, Steve, 903 01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:45,280 Speaker 1: this is a very risky soup situation that this man 904 01:01:45,480 --> 01:01:48,080 Speaker 1: is in. This is and what he needs to do 905 01:01:48,760 --> 01:01:52,600 Speaker 1: is knuckle down. If he could knuckle down, If he 906 01:01:52,680 --> 01:01:58,120 Speaker 1: can knuckled down on this, he could him and her 907 01:01:58,440 --> 01:02:01,480 Speaker 1: get along and they could be have fiving each other 908 01:02:01,640 --> 01:02:12,880 Speaker 1: if he But like I said before, the problem is 909 01:02:12,920 --> 01:02:14,880 Speaker 1: in the palm of his head, and he can solve 910 01:02:15,040 --> 01:02:20,800 Speaker 1: this if he won't. Yeah, that's your answer. Toss it out. 911 01:02:24,160 --> 01:02:33,320 Speaker 1: I can't come on what I have done because there 912 01:02:33,480 --> 01:02:39,480 Speaker 1: is no solution for this. You have a problem. But 913 01:02:39,680 --> 01:02:45,560 Speaker 1: now you're saying that he says to you all the time. 914 01:02:45,920 --> 01:02:51,360 Speaker 1: I got this, and you have said he's taken matters 915 01:02:51,600 --> 01:02:55,360 Speaker 1: into his own hands and he will not stop. I 916 01:02:55,440 --> 01:03:00,080 Speaker 1: mean here everywhere. So now I created a short this 917 01:03:01,040 --> 01:03:05,080 Speaker 1: of things that I don't want him to touch no more. 918 01:03:07,880 --> 01:03:16,120 Speaker 1: Number one, don't touch the damn dishes. Every nasty. Hands 919 01:03:16,360 --> 01:03:21,000 Speaker 1: off of the dishes. You got that, I got this. 920 01:03:22,000 --> 01:03:29,160 Speaker 1: Next thing, keep your hands off the children. Please playing 921 01:03:29,240 --> 01:03:31,920 Speaker 1: with the babies like you ain't been with you older 922 01:03:32,120 --> 01:03:38,920 Speaker 1: nast itself. Don't take the babies. Don't keep your hand 923 01:03:39,240 --> 01:03:44,200 Speaker 1: off the refrigerator. Don't yes, I don't want you hand 924 01:03:44,280 --> 01:03:48,439 Speaker 1: on that damn refrigerator. Don't no more. Another thing, wear 925 01:03:48,600 --> 01:03:52,760 Speaker 1: gloves when you're driving the car. Don't touch the stand wheel. 926 01:03:53,840 --> 01:03:56,880 Speaker 1: I bought you some driving gloves for Christmas, and I 927 01:03:57,000 --> 01:04:01,840 Speaker 1: want you to wear when you're driving. Do not touch 928 01:04:02,200 --> 01:04:07,280 Speaker 1: my Bible. Do you understand? Please don't touch my bible. 929 01:04:08,560 --> 01:04:13,120 Speaker 1: Keep your little nasty hands in your pocket. Keep your hand. 930 01:04:13,280 --> 01:04:15,920 Speaker 1: I bet not come in out and catch you touching 931 01:04:16,040 --> 01:04:20,880 Speaker 1: my toothbrush. Don't touch brush. Keep your damn hands off 932 01:04:20,960 --> 01:04:24,560 Speaker 1: the toothpaste, because I want to make a shot. It's toothpaste. 933 01:04:28,720 --> 01:04:33,600 Speaker 1: Don't let me catch you pouring. No more pancakes, syrup 934 01:04:33,760 --> 01:04:40,320 Speaker 1: on nothing. These are the things I don't want you 935 01:04:40,520 --> 01:04:46,240 Speaker 1: touching no more. Keep your hand off the remote now. 936 01:04:46,320 --> 01:04:50,320 Speaker 1: I bought some kitchen gloves, the little plastic ones that 937 01:04:50,400 --> 01:04:53,360 Speaker 1: they wear a subway when they make a sandwich. I 938 01:04:53,560 --> 01:04:55,760 Speaker 1: bought you some, and I got them all over the house. 939 01:04:58,120 --> 01:05:01,760 Speaker 1: You get in your car from what your Don't put 940 01:05:01,880 --> 01:05:05,360 Speaker 1: your hands in the damn candy dish. Please keep your 941 01:05:05,560 --> 01:05:12,080 Speaker 1: damn man that. Don't put your hand in the package 942 01:05:12,160 --> 01:05:16,280 Speaker 1: with the rest of the cookies. Hand you the cookie. 943 01:05:16,560 --> 01:05:18,360 Speaker 1: You tell me how many cookies you want with you. 944 01:05:20,840 --> 01:05:30,200 Speaker 1: What about the lunch meet up? If you do get 945 01:05:30,280 --> 01:05:33,000 Speaker 1: that first piece of bread, donna go fumbling through that 946 01:05:33,120 --> 01:05:35,640 Speaker 1: getting bread in the middle. If you put your hand 947 01:05:35,720 --> 01:05:38,560 Speaker 1: in the loaf of bread, that whole loaf is yours. 948 01:05:40,240 --> 01:05:48,400 Speaker 1: You don't write your name on it, you touch nothing else. Miss, 949 01:05:48,800 --> 01:05:52,440 Speaker 1: I've got it. I'm taking magazine to my old hands. 950 01:05:52,920 --> 01:05:58,520 Speaker 1: Don't you touch nothing else? Man, you and all your 951 01:05:58,640 --> 01:06:08,360 Speaker 1: silver were from now own is plastics. You understand me? 952 01:06:10,920 --> 01:06:22,840 Speaker 1: Oh man, I got it in my own hands. Yes 953 01:06:22,960 --> 01:06:27,760 Speaker 1: you do. All right, listen, you can post your comments 954 01:06:27,800 --> 01:06:30,880 Speaker 1: on today's Strawberry Letter. It's Steve Harvey f M on 955 01:06:31,120 --> 01:06:34,320 Speaker 1: Instagram and Facebook. And don't forget to check out the 956 01:06:34,360 --> 01:06:37,400 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter podcast on demand now coming up at forty 957 01:06:37,440 --> 01:06:40,880 Speaker 1: six after the hour. What is your must have Thanksgiving 958 01:06:40,960 --> 01:06:45,600 Speaker 1: side dishes? We'll talk about it right after this you're 959 01:06:45,680 --> 01:06:54,080 Speaker 1: listening to. All right, So Thanksgiving is notorious for over eating. Okay, 960 01:06:54,200 --> 01:06:57,520 Speaker 1: it is the biggest eating holiday of the year. Uh 961 01:06:57,680 --> 01:07:00,040 Speaker 1: so we got to talk about your must have of 962 01:07:00,440 --> 01:07:05,320 Speaker 1: Thanksgiving side dishes. Steve, kick it off please. First of all, 963 01:07:05,840 --> 01:07:11,560 Speaker 1: just so it's a national known fat. We require a 964 01:07:11,800 --> 01:07:18,280 Speaker 1: sweet potato path, not punkin. Don't make us punkin path. 965 01:07:18,760 --> 01:07:26,080 Speaker 1: We is sweet potato path. People, sweet potato path. All 966 01:07:26,120 --> 01:07:31,520 Speaker 1: the white people listening, sweet potato we eat sweet potato path. 967 01:07:31,800 --> 01:07:36,320 Speaker 1: We don't want you keep it. It probably taste wonderful, 968 01:07:36,520 --> 01:07:39,720 Speaker 1: but it ain't sweet potato path. All right, that's the 969 01:07:39,840 --> 01:07:43,360 Speaker 1: number one. What else? You got to have some greens? Now, 970 01:07:43,680 --> 01:07:49,520 Speaker 1: greens got to be on somewhere to have a turkey neck, 971 01:07:49,960 --> 01:07:54,920 Speaker 1: thank you, thank you. Put some in there. Turn up 972 01:07:55,080 --> 01:08:02,560 Speaker 1: a mustard or but I mixed. I like all collar. 973 01:08:03,240 --> 01:08:07,000 Speaker 1: I like a mix. Yeah, yeah, I like. I like 974 01:08:07,200 --> 01:08:11,440 Speaker 1: turnips with turnips in it. Oh, I love Steve. Yes, 975 01:08:12,200 --> 01:08:16,400 Speaker 1: my mom could cook anything that turkey. Leg got that 976 01:08:16,720 --> 01:08:21,400 Speaker 1: heaven got that turkey, gotta have it, gonna fight for. 977 01:08:22,120 --> 01:08:26,720 Speaker 1: We're not an old lady down for that turkey for that. Yeah, 978 01:08:26,840 --> 01:08:31,200 Speaker 1: got to hev got in Another fact, gravy must have 979 01:08:31,560 --> 01:08:36,320 Speaker 1: givese ITTs Gibbs in chapter the eg Yes, yes, yes, 980 01:08:36,600 --> 01:08:42,880 Speaker 1: so so fried or roasted for the turkey, oh man, Yeah, 981 01:08:44,040 --> 01:08:48,280 Speaker 1: because I like roasted. We fried people now, sure yeah, sure, 982 01:08:49,600 --> 01:08:53,360 Speaker 1: tommy turkey, I'm still roasted and refused to be black. 983 01:08:54,400 --> 01:08:59,640 Speaker 1: Don't don't because she's light it, Tommy, Tommy, and she 984 01:08:59,760 --> 01:09:09,120 Speaker 1: can down all right. Look, pray post your side dish 985 01:09:09,200 --> 01:09:14,000 Speaker 1: comments at Steve Harvey f Instagram and Spacebook coming up 986 01:09:14,040 --> 01:09:17,200 Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, NFL finds the Pittsburgh 987 01:09:17,320 --> 01:09:21,040 Speaker 1: quarterback Mason Rudolph and thirty three NFL players for the 988 01:09:21,160 --> 01:09:24,200 Speaker 1: Brown and Steelers fight. We'll talk about it right after this. 989 01:09:24,880 --> 01:09:31,040 Speaker 1: You're listening to the String show. Well, the NFL find 990 01:09:31,120 --> 01:09:34,720 Speaker 1: Steelers quarterback Mason Rudolph fifty thousand dollars on Saturday for 991 01:09:34,880 --> 01:09:38,559 Speaker 1: his involvement in the fight that began when Brown's defensive 992 01:09:38,680 --> 01:09:41,519 Speaker 1: end Miles Garrett, pulled off Rudolph's helmet and hit him 993 01:09:41,520 --> 01:09:44,919 Speaker 1: in the head with it. Rudolph avoided suspension for his actions. 994 01:09:44,960 --> 01:09:48,479 Speaker 1: He tried to remove Garrett's helmet, then charged him before 995 01:09:49,120 --> 01:09:52,560 Speaker 1: being hit, charged him before being hit, but he was 996 01:09:52,640 --> 01:09:55,360 Speaker 1: one of the thirty three players fine for their involvement 997 01:09:55,479 --> 01:09:59,479 Speaker 1: in the altercation. The league penalized twenty nine players three thousand, 998 01:09:59,520 --> 01:10:02,759 Speaker 1: five and seven dollars a piece for entering the fight area. 999 01:10:03,360 --> 01:10:06,479 Speaker 1: Garrett was indefinitely suspended by the league for tearing off 1000 01:10:06,600 --> 01:10:10,439 Speaker 1: Rudolph's helmet and using it as a weapon. His appeal 1001 01:10:10,640 --> 01:10:13,519 Speaker 1: was denied this week. When or last week, when you 1002 01:10:13,600 --> 01:10:16,400 Speaker 1: told an appeals officer that Rudolph used the racial slur 1003 01:10:16,479 --> 01:10:20,000 Speaker 1: against him, Rudolph said there was no acceptable excuse for 1004 01:10:20,240 --> 01:10:23,479 Speaker 1: his behavior. He has denied using the racial slur, and 1005 01:10:24,080 --> 01:10:27,479 Speaker 1: the League has found no evidence one was used. The 1006 01:10:27,640 --> 01:10:30,640 Speaker 1: league also find the stealers evidence in the bottom of 1007 01:10:30,760 --> 01:10:33,000 Speaker 1: the damn pack. Well, you know he said it. If 1008 01:10:33,040 --> 01:10:36,160 Speaker 1: you say the N word in the pack, it's somebody 1009 01:10:36,240 --> 01:10:39,719 Speaker 1: else gonna yea yeah, and it's a lot of black players, 1010 01:10:40,600 --> 01:10:44,160 Speaker 1: a lot of black players. Yeah, there's refit of you, 1011 01:10:44,280 --> 01:10:47,360 Speaker 1: hollyhead out right. And when a wife person gets mad 1012 01:10:47,520 --> 01:10:50,639 Speaker 1: enough to call you the N word, it said loudly, okay. 1013 01:10:51,760 --> 01:10:53,719 Speaker 1: And if if you would have said it, both teams 1014 01:10:53,760 --> 01:11:03,200 Speaker 1: will be whooping your n ye would not only that 1015 01:11:03,439 --> 01:11:14,600 Speaker 1: the black referee would coach. You should have said, I 1016 01:11:14,640 --> 01:11:18,760 Speaker 1: don't think he said. You know what, Myles Garrett is 1017 01:11:19,080 --> 01:11:21,559 Speaker 1: is a really really smart guy. Man. I met him 1018 01:11:21,600 --> 01:11:25,360 Speaker 1: on a celebrity family feud and we had long talk out. Boots, 1019 01:11:25,400 --> 01:11:29,640 Speaker 1: I saw him, Man, he's a really intelligent kid and 1020 01:11:29,800 --> 01:11:33,160 Speaker 1: mile man, whatever happened, he was really really mad. Now 1021 01:11:33,240 --> 01:11:36,240 Speaker 1: I saw it. Finally, I'm in Ghana. They don't show 1022 01:11:36,360 --> 01:11:40,200 Speaker 1: no football. Don't give it damn about no football and 1023 01:11:40,320 --> 01:11:44,240 Speaker 1: the NBA over here. Nothing you ain't soccer, cricket, rugby. 1024 01:11:44,320 --> 01:11:46,559 Speaker 1: I don't give a damn over here. Ain't no rugby 1025 01:11:46,640 --> 01:11:49,559 Speaker 1: over here either. But it's it's really um, I saw 1026 01:11:49,640 --> 01:11:52,840 Speaker 1: it if he had if he had it he hit 1027 01:11:52,960 --> 01:11:56,400 Speaker 1: him with the underside of the helmet where the ear 1028 01:11:56,520 --> 01:12:00,160 Speaker 1: part is, because I saw it in slow motion. If 1029 01:12:00,280 --> 01:12:03,960 Speaker 1: that helmet had been turned over and he hit him 1030 01:12:03,960 --> 01:12:09,160 Speaker 1: with the crown, yeah, I probably done some serious concussion 1031 01:12:10,800 --> 01:12:14,880 Speaker 1: that he could have really seriously and see. That was 1032 01:12:15,000 --> 01:12:17,200 Speaker 1: what I said, Steve. It's hard to win an argument 1033 01:12:17,280 --> 01:12:19,479 Speaker 1: when you hit a man within a helmet. It really is. 1034 01:12:19,680 --> 01:12:23,320 Speaker 1: You know, the only thing that right, But the only 1035 01:12:23,400 --> 01:12:27,559 Speaker 1: thing saved the quarterback was the part that struck him 1036 01:12:27,760 --> 01:12:31,240 Speaker 1: was the underside of the helmet where the earpieces are. Right. 1037 01:12:31,760 --> 01:12:34,519 Speaker 1: If that crown of that helmet was turned upside the 1038 01:12:34,640 --> 01:12:39,960 Speaker 1: right way, oh dog, it could have really been really 1039 01:12:40,160 --> 01:12:49,639 Speaker 1: yeah h wow. But yeah, I think he did. Jake. 1040 01:12:49,800 --> 01:12:53,080 Speaker 1: I don't think Miles line the racial slur he did 1041 01:12:53,160 --> 01:12:58,320 Speaker 1: he say he said inward or no, it's not. We 1042 01:12:58,400 --> 01:13:04,080 Speaker 1: don't know what he thinks. Well, I had the blacks didn't. Yeah, yeah, 1043 01:13:04,920 --> 01:13:09,040 Speaker 1: your black ass did anniversal flir get your black ass 1044 01:13:09,080 --> 01:13:10,800 Speaker 1: off of me something like that. If he said that, 1045 01:13:16,120 --> 01:13:18,640 Speaker 1: the white guy says that to you, Tommy, that's that 1046 01:13:18,800 --> 01:13:21,040 Speaker 1: doesn't make you react if a white guy says, get 1047 01:13:21,080 --> 01:13:31,640 Speaker 1: your black behind off me as book. Yeah, yeah, so 1048 01:13:32,320 --> 01:13:35,200 Speaker 1: that's what you may not have him with what he said, no, 1049 01:13:35,439 --> 01:13:37,120 Speaker 1: because that's what he got in trouble for it for 1050 01:13:37,240 --> 01:13:40,040 Speaker 1: hitting him with the helm using its white Yeah. Yeah, 1051 01:13:40,439 --> 01:13:46,040 Speaker 1: the helmet was you got that. The league also find 1052 01:13:46,120 --> 01:13:48,679 Speaker 1: the Steelers and the Browns two hundred and fifty thousand 1053 01:13:48,760 --> 01:13:52,639 Speaker 1: dollars each. The AFC North Rivals play again this Sunday, 1054 01:13:52,840 --> 01:13:58,439 Speaker 1: December first, oh in Pittsburgh. M Well, it's gonna be 1055 01:13:58,520 --> 01:14:07,200 Speaker 1: a no helmet game though, there's our request that. All right, 1056 01:14:07,960 --> 01:14:10,800 Speaker 1: we'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning 1057 01:14:10,840 --> 01:14:17,280 Speaker 1: Show right after this. You're listening to the show. We 1058 01:14:17,439 --> 01:14:20,720 Speaker 1: want ray J and we want his wife, his beautiful wife, 1059 01:14:20,800 --> 01:14:25,800 Speaker 1: Princess Love to stop beefing on social media. Stop it 1060 01:14:26,640 --> 01:14:30,160 Speaker 1: to stop. They really need to stop. Why are they 1061 01:14:30,240 --> 01:14:34,400 Speaker 1: bringing us into all of this with each other? Yes, yes, 1062 01:14:34,560 --> 01:14:38,400 Speaker 1: she's mad at all, right, so this is crazy. Princess 1063 01:14:38,479 --> 01:14:42,000 Speaker 1: called out ray J for partying in Vegas after the 1064 01:14:42,080 --> 01:14:45,040 Speaker 1: Soul Train Awards with strippers and escorts and left her 1065 01:14:45,080 --> 01:14:48,560 Speaker 1: and their daughters stranded and keep in mind, Princess is 1066 01:14:48,600 --> 01:14:50,680 Speaker 1: about eight and a half months pregnant right now with 1067 01:14:50,760 --> 01:14:54,080 Speaker 1: their son to be. Princess took to social media. She 1068 01:14:54,240 --> 01:14:57,040 Speaker 1: told it all. Ray J said he never left his wife, 1069 01:14:57,080 --> 01:15:00,240 Speaker 1: and daughter said he wanted to know why she took 1070 01:15:00,280 --> 01:15:03,479 Speaker 1: their business to social media. Ray J said, the devil 1071 01:15:03,680 --> 01:15:06,679 Speaker 1: is busy, but God is going to work it out. 1072 01:15:08,479 --> 01:15:10,120 Speaker 1: They got this school, Oh I got it. Things you 1073 01:15:10,240 --> 01:15:15,000 Speaker 1: say after you've been with escorts and strippers, I'll take 1074 01:15:15,120 --> 01:15:20,960 Speaker 1: five hundred dollars. No, the devil is busy, but God 1075 01:15:21,000 --> 01:15:25,760 Speaker 1: go to work it out, they said, when you've been 1076 01:15:25,840 --> 01:15:29,120 Speaker 1: with strippers and escort. But do we need to know though, 1077 01:15:29,400 --> 01:15:32,200 Speaker 1: as the public, that they're fighting and they're beefing. Do 1078 01:15:32,320 --> 01:15:34,519 Speaker 1: we need to know that this is going on than 1079 01:15:34,600 --> 01:15:37,080 Speaker 1: their marriage. No, we don't need to. Think. It's really 1080 01:15:37,160 --> 01:15:41,400 Speaker 1: really immature to put your own marriage business out in 1081 01:15:41,520 --> 01:15:44,240 Speaker 1: the streets. I think that's a matter between the husband 1082 01:15:44,280 --> 01:15:46,719 Speaker 1: and the wife. I mean, it doesn't make it's social 1083 01:15:46,800 --> 01:15:50,200 Speaker 1: media that important. Well, you have to air out your marriage. 1084 01:15:50,200 --> 01:15:52,839 Speaker 1: Took them. It's enough that they do to you against 1085 01:15:52,920 --> 01:15:55,800 Speaker 1: your will. All right, Well, we'll have more of the 1086 01:15:55,880 --> 01:15:58,120 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show and some trending news coming up 1087 01:15:58,160 --> 01:16:00,160 Speaker 1: at thirty three minutes after the hour, right out after 1088 01:16:00,280 --> 01:16:06,320 Speaker 1: this you're listening to show. We're so excited we gotta 1089 01:16:06,400 --> 01:16:09,479 Speaker 1: say this to be back on the air in Dallas, Texas. 1090 01:16:09,680 --> 01:16:14,160 Speaker 1: All right, Dan, thank you Dallas. Welcome back to our 1091 01:16:14,280 --> 01:16:18,720 Speaker 1: home station. Yeah, k R n B FM smooth R 1092 01:16:18,840 --> 01:16:22,160 Speaker 1: and B one oh five point seven in Dallas. Yes, 1093 01:16:22,520 --> 01:16:30,520 Speaker 1: Soda clear as the leader of the bunch. I'm not surprised. 1094 01:16:32,800 --> 01:16:36,200 Speaker 1: What do you mean by that, Steve, I'm just not surprised. 1095 01:16:36,840 --> 01:16:43,519 Speaker 1: Take us all for what? WHOA So you want to 1096 01:16:43,680 --> 01:16:48,560 Speaker 1: trash something? I think it's good. Now listen to me. 1097 01:16:48,720 --> 01:16:52,479 Speaker 1: I think it's good to experience things because it makes 1098 01:16:52,520 --> 01:16:57,320 Speaker 1: you more appreciative. Now, we love Dallas. Let me tell 1099 01:16:57,360 --> 01:17:02,160 Speaker 1: you how special Dallas is to me. Man, Dallas started 1100 01:17:02,360 --> 01:17:05,439 Speaker 1: me on a path that no other city gave me 1101 01:17:05,560 --> 01:17:09,840 Speaker 1: the opportunity. When I started in the late eighties at 1102 01:17:10,120 --> 01:17:14,160 Speaker 1: a nightclub owned by a dude name Alvin Scott. The 1103 01:17:14,240 --> 01:17:17,920 Speaker 1: name of the club was Vookoo Ray. I went there 1104 01:17:18,160 --> 01:17:20,880 Speaker 1: and I said, I convinced a guy to give me 1105 01:17:21,800 --> 01:17:25,719 Speaker 1: a one nighter at Vookoo Ray. Now, all I had 1106 01:17:26,320 --> 01:17:29,960 Speaker 1: to say who I was was that was a blurb 1107 01:17:30,280 --> 01:17:34,360 Speaker 1: of me in Jet magazine with a head shot. That 1108 01:17:34,520 --> 01:17:37,360 Speaker 1: head you know, they used to do something something quote 1109 01:17:37,360 --> 01:17:39,799 Speaker 1: of the week and they put one of my quotes 1110 01:17:39,840 --> 01:17:42,720 Speaker 1: in that. That was my only claim to fame. I 1111 01:17:42,880 --> 01:17:45,400 Speaker 1: wasn't on Showtime ad Apollo yet none of that opened 1112 01:17:45,439 --> 01:17:48,320 Speaker 1: up a one nighter. It started off really slow. It 1113 01:17:48,400 --> 01:17:51,639 Speaker 1: started gathering momentum after a while. You could not get 1114 01:17:51,720 --> 01:17:54,720 Speaker 1: in Vookoo Ray in Dallas. After that, I opened up 1115 01:17:54,760 --> 01:17:57,639 Speaker 1: my own club called Steve Harvey Comedy House on Camp 1116 01:17:57,720 --> 01:18:02,559 Speaker 1: Wisdom Road. Steve Harvey Comedy House started the direction on men. 1117 01:18:02,760 --> 01:18:06,479 Speaker 1: I became the host of Showtime and Apollo from that 1118 01:18:06,640 --> 01:18:09,639 Speaker 1: building right there. And I got my first TV show, 1119 01:18:09,720 --> 01:18:12,439 Speaker 1: Me and the Boys, in that building right there. Dallas, 1120 01:18:12,560 --> 01:18:15,160 Speaker 1: Texas is my home. I used to live there. I 1121 01:18:15,320 --> 01:18:18,960 Speaker 1: still got a house there. It's owning cracking. Now we're 1122 01:18:19,000 --> 01:18:26,320 Speaker 1: back home. Yes, we love Dallas. We talked about your club. 1123 01:18:27,640 --> 01:18:29,280 Speaker 1: Said he used to start at your club. He said, 1124 01:18:29,360 --> 01:18:31,799 Speaker 1: you told him one night, you will never see another 1125 01:18:31,960 --> 01:18:37,160 Speaker 1: comic club like this. Used to the right. Erica Badude 1126 01:18:37,240 --> 01:18:39,120 Speaker 1: used to take tickets. And then I made her my 1127 01:18:39,240 --> 01:18:42,599 Speaker 1: assistant and she convinced me to be the stage manager. 1128 01:18:43,120 --> 01:18:45,280 Speaker 1: Little did I know, she just wanted to set the 1129 01:18:45,439 --> 01:18:49,920 Speaker 1: mic up so she could sing in it. Thank God 1130 01:18:50,000 --> 01:18:54,479 Speaker 1: for that. So I believe dinner and I got a 1131 01:18:54,600 --> 01:18:56,400 Speaker 1: keyboard and I used to play a little a few 1132 01:18:56,479 --> 01:18:59,280 Speaker 1: chords on the keyboard and men and you could ask 1133 01:18:59,439 --> 01:19:03,920 Speaker 1: Erica bad. We recorded an album into Steve harvey Comedy House, 1134 01:19:04,120 --> 01:19:06,320 Speaker 1: and the name of the album was Section eight and 1135 01:19:06,520 --> 01:19:09,599 Speaker 1: all our songs was about being poland coming up our 1136 01:19:09,720 --> 01:19:13,240 Speaker 1: last break of the last break of the day. I 1137 01:19:13,439 --> 01:19:16,000 Speaker 1: love that. And we'll have some closing remarks from the 1138 01:19:16,080 --> 01:19:19,880 Speaker 1: one and only Steve Harvey on this Thanksgiving Week right 1139 01:19:19,960 --> 01:19:24,880 Speaker 1: after this at forty nine minutes after you're listening to show. 1140 01:19:25,360 --> 01:19:28,600 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, here we are the first Monday of 1141 01:19:28,680 --> 01:19:32,639 Speaker 1: Thanksgiving Week. It's been a good Monday. Oh, great day, Yeah, 1142 01:19:32,840 --> 01:19:42,000 Speaker 1: on a great day today, Junior, Yeah, today, Junior. What'st 1143 01:19:42,920 --> 01:19:47,600 Speaker 1: when they tell you you were funny today and you 1144 01:19:47,800 --> 01:19:52,080 Speaker 1: get that statement in front of us, that's a big compliment. 1145 01:19:53,320 --> 01:19:58,599 Speaker 1: That's a big compliment. Thank you, thank you. And it's 1146 01:19:58,640 --> 01:20:03,760 Speaker 1: hard to get your funny in with us. Yeah, I know, 1147 01:20:04,160 --> 01:20:10,519 Speaker 1: he said, Yeah, man, I just saw a picture of 1148 01:20:10,640 --> 01:20:13,519 Speaker 1: Ray J without his shirt on. If you're putting my 1149 01:20:13,720 --> 01:20:19,240 Speaker 1: head on ray J. But me and ray J is 1150 01:20:19,320 --> 01:20:24,920 Speaker 1: the same. Damn people, if you take ray j head off, 1151 01:20:25,240 --> 01:20:31,439 Speaker 1: me and ray J got the exact same. But they've 1152 01:20:31,520 --> 01:20:34,040 Speaker 1: added another J to his name, so he's now ray 1153 01:20:34,160 --> 01:20:42,320 Speaker 1: JJ because I do like you too. Man, It's cool, brothers. 1154 01:20:42,479 --> 01:20:46,320 Speaker 1: He let me tell y'all something, okay, Uh my closing 1155 01:20:46,360 --> 01:20:51,160 Speaker 1: remarks today, I'm still in Africa, min Ghana. I leave 1156 01:20:51,280 --> 01:20:55,000 Speaker 1: here and I go to Abu Dhabi. Um, it's it's 1157 01:20:55,040 --> 01:21:01,479 Speaker 1: sort of enough. This is a two part thing. It's 1158 01:21:01,960 --> 01:21:08,200 Speaker 1: a testament to the goodness of God. Because you know, 1159 01:21:11,520 --> 01:21:14,360 Speaker 1: you know, social media had gotten hold to the news 1160 01:21:14,520 --> 01:21:17,920 Speaker 1: that my talk show was gone, that little big shots 1161 01:21:18,080 --> 01:21:20,960 Speaker 1: was gone, and they had they feel day as they 1162 01:21:21,080 --> 01:21:25,439 Speaker 1: wanted to. And you know, sometimes being a human, you go, man, 1163 01:21:25,600 --> 01:21:27,720 Speaker 1: I don't gone and tell them what's really happening and 1164 01:21:27,840 --> 01:21:30,160 Speaker 1: it or I'd to prove them wrong and all like that. 1165 01:21:30,320 --> 01:21:33,040 Speaker 1: And so I didn't do that. I didn't take that 1166 01:21:33,160 --> 01:21:36,400 Speaker 1: angle because of a scripture I read. There's a scripture 1167 01:21:36,439 --> 01:21:40,200 Speaker 1: that says you have not caused your ass not But 1168 01:21:40,360 --> 01:21:45,439 Speaker 1: then right after that, I've never known this until after 1169 01:21:45,560 --> 01:21:50,479 Speaker 1: that happened to me. Another scripture says, you ask and receive, 1170 01:21:50,800 --> 01:21:56,080 Speaker 1: not because you ask a miss And so I didn't 1171 01:21:56,120 --> 01:21:58,760 Speaker 1: know what a mismit. So I looked it up, and 1172 01:21:58,920 --> 01:22:03,439 Speaker 1: a mis means when you when something is done with 1173 01:22:03,720 --> 01:22:08,880 Speaker 1: the wrong motivation. And so when the TV show went 1174 01:22:08,920 --> 01:22:12,800 Speaker 1: away and the little big shots went away, I was 1175 01:22:12,920 --> 01:22:18,360 Speaker 1: so busy working hard to prove everybody wrong that I'm 1176 01:22:18,439 --> 01:22:21,360 Speaker 1: still in good shaping. I still got this and I'm 1177 01:22:21,400 --> 01:22:22,800 Speaker 1: gonna be the first one to do this, and I'm 1178 01:22:22,840 --> 01:22:25,679 Speaker 1: gonna show y'all. And when I read that scripture, I stopped. 1179 01:22:26,160 --> 01:22:27,960 Speaker 1: And I want you to know what Steve, hold up, man, 1180 01:22:29,680 --> 01:22:31,760 Speaker 1: Maybe this would go better for you is if you 1181 01:22:31,920 --> 01:22:36,559 Speaker 1: take that motivation of trying to show people wrong, prove 1182 01:22:36,720 --> 01:22:41,080 Speaker 1: them wrong, and shut up. Tony says, just change your motivation. 1183 01:22:41,760 --> 01:22:45,840 Speaker 1: So I did. I changed my motivation for wanting to 1184 01:22:45,920 --> 01:22:48,760 Speaker 1: accomplish the things in my life because I want to 1185 01:22:48,800 --> 01:22:50,640 Speaker 1: be a bigger light to people. I want to be 1186 01:22:50,760 --> 01:22:53,479 Speaker 1: more transparent with people, to show people that a person 1187 01:22:53,600 --> 01:22:56,400 Speaker 1: like me is much like yourself, that you can fall 1188 01:22:56,520 --> 01:22:58,960 Speaker 1: and get back up, that you can recover from a 1189 01:22:59,080 --> 01:23:02,639 Speaker 1: series of mistakes, that when one door closes, that don't 1190 01:23:02,640 --> 01:23:04,880 Speaker 1: mean that another one don't open. When another door. When 1191 01:23:05,000 --> 01:23:09,599 Speaker 1: one door closes, walk up the hall because there's always 1192 01:23:09,640 --> 01:23:13,960 Speaker 1: another door. And when people close doors, the reason God 1193 01:23:14,000 --> 01:23:17,040 Speaker 1: allows doors to close, it is because He has another 1194 01:23:17,120 --> 01:23:20,280 Speaker 1: one for you to walk through. And in this all 1195 01:23:20,400 --> 01:23:23,200 Speaker 1: that has happened, it turned out to be one of 1196 01:23:23,280 --> 01:23:27,600 Speaker 1: the biggest blessings to come my way. And I just 1197 01:23:27,840 --> 01:23:32,639 Speaker 1: wanted to tell y'all about how good God really is, man, 1198 01:23:33,120 --> 01:23:38,000 Speaker 1: and how merciful and how understanding and all knowing he is, 1199 01:23:38,479 --> 01:23:41,800 Speaker 1: because in your best laid plans you just can't out 1200 01:23:41,880 --> 01:23:44,479 Speaker 1: playing God. You just can't, man. And if you're a 1201 01:23:44,560 --> 01:23:47,000 Speaker 1: person of faith at all, all you got to do 1202 01:23:47,240 --> 01:23:50,000 Speaker 1: is hanging there when them doors close and walk up 1203 01:23:50,040 --> 01:23:53,920 Speaker 1: the hallway. It's more dos. Man, don't control the doors 1204 01:23:54,000 --> 01:23:57,080 Speaker 1: in your life unless you give him control. So when 1205 01:23:57,120 --> 01:23:59,040 Speaker 1: they got rid of this and took that and they 1206 01:23:59,120 --> 01:24:01,320 Speaker 1: thought there was an air, everybody had a little field day. 1207 01:24:01,640 --> 01:24:04,320 Speaker 1: I just went on up the hallway. And what has 1208 01:24:04,360 --> 01:24:10,519 Speaker 1: happened is I traveled so much now, so many other 1209 01:24:10,680 --> 01:24:15,800 Speaker 1: doors have opened for me abroad, even back home. I'm 1210 01:24:15,920 --> 01:24:19,880 Speaker 1: still effective. But man, what God has enabled me to 1211 01:24:20,200 --> 01:24:24,000 Speaker 1: do and see and have the time and the and 1212 01:24:24,120 --> 01:24:30,560 Speaker 1: the wherewithal to travel and to accumulate the things I'm accumulated. 1213 01:24:31,760 --> 01:24:38,240 Speaker 1: I left home October twenty seventh. I'll return December second, 1214 01:24:38,400 --> 01:24:42,280 Speaker 1: and when I get off the plane, I start taping 1215 01:24:42,360 --> 01:24:45,760 Speaker 1: a new show December three. And then when I get 1216 01:24:45,800 --> 01:24:49,240 Speaker 1: through taping and I take Miss Universe on December eighth, 1217 01:24:49,800 --> 01:24:52,679 Speaker 1: I get right back on a plane and I start 1218 01:24:52,800 --> 01:24:57,600 Speaker 1: taping Family Feud in South Africa on December eleventh. I 1219 01:24:57,840 --> 01:25:03,920 Speaker 1: am openly saying that it is not me I am 1220 01:25:04,120 --> 01:25:08,880 Speaker 1: who I am, but it's God's unmerited favor that has 1221 01:25:09,080 --> 01:25:13,960 Speaker 1: rescued me again, just like He's done for you over 1222 01:25:14,160 --> 01:25:17,920 Speaker 1: and over and over. God is good, man, and if 1223 01:25:17,960 --> 01:25:20,559 Speaker 1: you just open up your eyes, you can see the goodness. 1224 01:25:20,960 --> 01:25:25,360 Speaker 1: I would not be as connected as I am. Had 1225 01:25:25,520 --> 01:25:30,120 Speaker 1: he not allowed that door to close, and if he 1226 01:25:30,320 --> 01:25:33,880 Speaker 1: had not strengthened me to walk up the hall, none 1227 01:25:33,920 --> 01:25:36,439 Speaker 1: of this would happen. I'm gonna tell you something, man, 1228 01:25:36,520 --> 01:25:38,160 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna speak on about it a little bit 1229 01:25:38,240 --> 01:25:42,880 Speaker 1: more in detail tomorrow in my closing remarks. Africa is 1230 01:25:42,920 --> 01:25:47,760 Speaker 1: a place that every single African American should try to 1231 01:25:47,840 --> 01:25:51,040 Speaker 1: go to. It's like Muslims may try to make their 1232 01:25:51,080 --> 01:25:55,160 Speaker 1: lifetime pilgrimage took to Mecca. It's a beautiful trip for 1233 01:25:55,320 --> 01:25:58,840 Speaker 1: Muslims to go to Mecca. Every black person in America 1234 01:25:59,160 --> 01:26:03,280 Speaker 1: should find a way to Africa and tomorrow my clothes remarks, 1235 01:26:03,400 --> 01:26:05,639 Speaker 1: I will tell you all about it. But y'all, when 1236 01:26:05,680 --> 01:26:08,720 Speaker 1: the door closes, walk up to hall, because God got 1237 01:26:08,840 --> 01:26:11,920 Speaker 1: mode for you up there Hall. God is good. Yea 1238 01:26:12,800 --> 01:26:21,600 Speaker 1: hells are my clothes were revolved by pipist. Bye for 1239 01:26:21,720 --> 01:26:25,040 Speaker 1: all Steve Harvey contests. No purchase necessary, void where prohibited. 1240 01:26:25,120 --> 01:26:28,559 Speaker 1: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1241 01:26:28,720 --> 01:26:32,479 Speaker 1: unless otherwise stated. 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