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He's a producer, a director. 35 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 2: Somewhere in there it says he's an actor, and so 36 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 2: I really want to welcome him because I just watched 37 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 2: his documentary and you are a rockstar to me right now. 38 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:41,840 Speaker 2: And then also on the screen is Gary Sinise from 39 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:47,239 Speaker 2: of MYSA Men the Green Mile Theater. Oh my Gosh 40 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:50,200 Speaker 2: Forrest Gump. Lieutenant Dan, Lieutenant Dan band who goes and 41 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:53,000 Speaker 2: plays at USO shows to help bring the spirits up 42 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 2: of the troops to see Lieutenant Dan playing cover songs 43 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 2: and probably some of their favorite jams and his jams, 44 00:02:57,639 --> 00:03:00,800 Speaker 2: probably some Kretais, Clearwater probably. You know, I just could 45 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 2: only imagine what Lieutenant Dan could play on you play 46 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 2: the bass, right, Lieutenant Dan. Welcome Gary Semis and welcome Jake. 47 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 3: Thank you thanks for having us today. 48 00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 2: Wow where do I start? Okay, Well, first of all, 49 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:15,919 Speaker 2: Lieutenant Dan, may I call you Lieutenant Dan for a moment. Yes, 50 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 2: when we first start talking, You're like, are you wear 51 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:21,080 Speaker 2: of that bad Dana? Like Lieutenant Dan? And I was like, 52 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 2: I guess I am. Huh A little bit of love 53 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 2: right there. But I can also cross over. You got 54 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 2: magic legs, Lieutenant Dan through the desert. Yes, I love it. 55 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 2: I'm tired. I think I'm done now. You know, Gary, 56 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 2: I've been growing this on my face for a long 57 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 2: time and I didn't know why, And today I think 58 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 2: I finally met that moment. So thank you for being 59 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 2: on Software Up Radio with us today, and Jake over 60 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 2: to you. Let's just say that I'm a big fan 61 00:03:53,360 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 2: of your work. Okay, I'm a fan. I find you 62 00:03:57,120 --> 00:04:00,200 Speaker 2: to be emotionally charging to me in my brain with 63 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 2: what you've brought to my senses with your family. I mean, 64 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 2: if you ever my listener out there, if you ever 65 00:04:06,520 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 2: saw Saving Private Ryan where they go and collect all 66 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:13,480 Speaker 2: their brothers who had passed away's certificates and then they 67 00:04:13,480 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 2: went Saved Ryan, it's kind of like that to me. 68 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:20,919 Speaker 2: You gave up everything to embed in like five, to 69 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:23,480 Speaker 2: go to Mosul and all these different places in Iraq 70 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 2: with your brothers who weren't in the military, who was 71 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:31,600 Speaker 2: like lieutenant or captain private or Private first class at 72 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 2: the time. Holy cow, bro, tell me about it. 73 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:41,520 Speaker 4: Well, you know, Isaac and Joe came back from Fallujah 74 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 4: where they were with the eighty second Airborne, and they 75 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:46,160 Speaker 4: told me the truth wasn't coming home from Iraq. 76 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 3: So I took all the money ever made. 77 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:50,840 Speaker 4: As an actor, I got permission from the military, went 78 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 4: back to my hometown in Decater, Illinois, raised a bunch 79 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 4: of money, and went to Iraq to join Isaac on 80 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 4: his third deployment there. 81 00:04:58,640 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 3: And what I learned changed my life forever. 82 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:04,839 Speaker 4: You know, going out with those guys going out with 83 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:07,680 Speaker 4: the Lrist guys out of the Syrian border, also coming 84 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:10,840 Speaker 4: back a second time embedded in the marine advisors in 85 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:14,280 Speaker 4: the Iraqi Army, and the snipers and National Guard infantry. 86 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 3: And even more than the missions, it was. 87 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:19,719 Speaker 4: The men and women that I met and their hearts 88 00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 4: touched me, and but I learned from them and who 89 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 4: they really are and how this experience was sort of 90 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 4: transforming them. I wanted to capture all that in Brothers 91 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 4: at War and finished that film through a former marine, 92 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:37,279 Speaker 4: Mike Broderick, introduced me to Gary Sinise, and he saw 93 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:40,720 Speaker 4: the film a couple of days before Thanksgiving, and I 94 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:42,360 Speaker 4: don't want to speak for him too much, but he 95 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 4: kind of fell in love with the film and started 96 00:05:44,960 --> 00:05:47,719 Speaker 4: telling me what to do, and so we made an 97 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 4: executive producer and that was in two thousand and seven, 98 00:05:52,040 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 4: and ever since our past sort acrossed, you know, he's 99 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 4: been giving me advice, kind of guiding me, and I've 100 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:01,159 Speaker 4: been kind of continued, I mean to go deeper and 101 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:04,400 Speaker 4: deeper into the experience of our veterans and their families. 102 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 4: The film became a workshop, and then the workshops have 103 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 4: been done for about fifty thousand people over the last 104 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:15,800 Speaker 4: fifteen years, and in around twenty fifteen sixteen, we started 105 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 4: talking and I really wanted to go revisit a lot 106 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:24,320 Speaker 4: of these folks that I met in Iraq, and Gary 107 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 4: had strong feelings about that. They were very positive, and 108 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 4: so together we sort of came up with this concept. 109 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:33,159 Speaker 4: And then with the blessing of the Gary Snede Foundation, 110 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 4: I was able to go across the world and reconnect 111 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:38,360 Speaker 4: with all these guys for the new film Brothers After War. 112 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 2: You know, I noticed that there was a budget, you know, 113 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:44,920 Speaker 2: that you were getting to go to travel and see 114 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 2: all these different people that wanted to hug you, not 115 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 2: shake your hand because they're brothers. I like that. I 116 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:54,839 Speaker 2: like when they said like, hey, we're brothers, we hug right. 117 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:58,520 Speaker 5: Gary, of course, yeah. 118 00:06:58,120 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 2: You know, And so you got into this, I mean, 119 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:05,480 Speaker 2: Lieutenant Dan really propelled you into the military veteran's life 120 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:08,680 Speaker 2: of you supporting the US. So in my opinion, you know, 121 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:12,080 Speaker 2: watching it in the nineties, seeing you portray such a 122 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 2: every one of my family gump have died in a war. 123 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 2: You know, I should be on that battlefield that actually 124 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 2: came through in the film. Someone said I should have 125 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 2: been like Lieutenant Dan, I shouldn't be here talking right now. 126 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 5: That's right, look that you know. 127 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 6: Playing the character was certainly something that was very positive 128 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 6: in many ways. I mean, first of all, as an actor, 129 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 6: I hadn't done that many films before Forrest Gump. And 130 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:48,680 Speaker 6: then when you're in you know, a film like that, 131 00:07:48,840 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 6: which is you know, the most you know, the biggest 132 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 6: film of the year and all of that, it can 133 00:07:57,400 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 6: have a positive effect on the career, which it did, 134 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:03,800 Speaker 6: so it changed a lot of things on that side. 135 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 5: But it also. 136 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:10,400 Speaker 6: Introduced me to the Disabled American Veterans Organization, where I 137 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:15,720 Speaker 6: started supporting them right after the movie came out and 138 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:20,840 Speaker 6: have continued to support their efforts over these many years. 139 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 6: And then so many of the things that happened after 140 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 6: September eleventh just kind of snowballed into the creation of 141 00:08:29,720 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 6: a foundation. 142 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:34,360 Speaker 5: When I met Jake, I didn't have a foundation. I 143 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:34,880 Speaker 5: was just. 144 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:40,080 Speaker 6: I was getting involved with a lot of other military 145 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:44,840 Speaker 6: nonprofits and trying to support them in various ways to 146 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:48,200 Speaker 6: help our service members and their families out. So I 147 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:51,760 Speaker 6: would get involved in these different efforts, and I was 148 00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 6: going out for the USO, and I was playing concerts 149 00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 6: with the band, I was going to the hospitals doing 150 00:08:57,000 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 6: all this this kind of thing and really engaging with 151 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:02,800 Speaker 6: a lot of people that were just there. They were 152 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:06,680 Speaker 6: living the military life, right. And then along and I 153 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:09,400 Speaker 6: and I as a as a public figure, I was 154 00:09:09,440 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 6: trying to use the public platform that I had to 155 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 6: explain a bit to our fellow citizens about military life 156 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 6: and what folks were going through and what our families 157 00:09:21,520 --> 00:09:26,079 Speaker 6: were going through during the Afghanistan and Iraq wars. And then, 158 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 6: as Jake said, a buddy of ours, a mutual buddy, 159 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 6: Michael Broderick, he had seen Jake's movie and he thought 160 00:09:35,880 --> 00:09:37,920 Speaker 6: that Jake and I should meet and that I should 161 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:42,720 Speaker 6: see the movie, which which Jake and his producing partner 162 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:46,280 Speaker 6: Norman Powell showed me the movie. I arranged for them 163 00:09:46,320 --> 00:09:49,800 Speaker 6: to come over to the studio where I was shooting CSI, 164 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:52,560 Speaker 6: New York. We had a little screen over there and 165 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:58,120 Speaker 6: they showed me the movie and it, you know, Brothers 166 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 6: at War just spoke so clearly to the military experience 167 00:10:04,600 --> 00:10:08,040 Speaker 6: that what military life was going off to war coming home, 168 00:10:08,720 --> 00:10:11,600 Speaker 6: kids don't recognize your spout, you know, getting I mean 169 00:10:11,679 --> 00:10:14,200 Speaker 6: all these things. It really was speaking to a lot 170 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:17,080 Speaker 6: of the things that I was trying to kind of, 171 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:21,720 Speaker 6: you know, make the public aware of that our military 172 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:25,680 Speaker 6: was going through during a very very difficult time. So, 173 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:29,720 Speaker 6: as Jake said, I came on board as executive producer 174 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:33,120 Speaker 6: to help him get the movie out there. I remember 175 00:10:33,160 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 6: I sponsored, Remember I sponsored a screening Jake. I think 176 00:10:36,760 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 6: it was at Sony, and we invited just a ton 177 00:10:39,920 --> 00:10:43,520 Speaker 6: of our friends, you know, and lots of great people. 178 00:10:43,559 --> 00:10:48,720 Speaker 6: One of those friends of mine was the singer songwriter 179 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 6: John Androsik, who has the band Five for Fighting, and 180 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:56,160 Speaker 6: John came to that screening at Sony and John offered 181 00:10:56,200 --> 00:10:58,440 Speaker 6: to write a song for the movie, which he ended 182 00:10:58,520 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 6: up doing with Jake. A lot of great things came 183 00:11:01,679 --> 00:11:05,199 Speaker 6: out of it, including the many workshops that Jake started 184 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:08,800 Speaker 6: doing on military bases all over the country. Just we 185 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 6: could see that the movie was really because we opened 186 00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 6: it in military communities around the country, and you know, 187 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:22,400 Speaker 6: like Fayetteville and Columbus, Georgia, places where a lot big 188 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 6: military presence but also a lot of veterans, and the 189 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:28,440 Speaker 6: movie did well and we could see that it was 190 00:11:29,760 --> 00:11:33,400 Speaker 6: kind of you know, people wanted to talk about their 191 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:37,960 Speaker 6: own personal experiences after viewing the movie, and so Jake 192 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 6: started doing these workshops with them on military bases, and 193 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:45,560 Speaker 6: one thing led to another, and then there was just, 194 00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 6: you know, hundreds of workshops down the road. And at 195 00:11:49,200 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 6: one point, as Jake mentioned, you know, after several years 196 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:56,840 Speaker 6: of him doing workshops, and we started funding those at 197 00:11:56,840 --> 00:11:59,440 Speaker 6: the Gary Sneze Foundation. And then Jake and I started 198 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:02,440 Speaker 6: talking about, you know, the folks that were in the 199 00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 6: first movie. You see them in the military, you see 200 00:12:05,400 --> 00:12:09,600 Speaker 6: them overseas in Iraq fighting a war, dealing with the war, 201 00:12:09,840 --> 00:12:13,000 Speaker 6: and we started to discuss, well, what where are all 202 00:12:13,040 --> 00:12:16,120 Speaker 6: those folks, what are they doing now? Jake had stayed 203 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:19,199 Speaker 6: in touch with a few of them, but there were 204 00:12:19,240 --> 00:12:21,959 Speaker 6: others that I think you had lost touch with or 205 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:25,560 Speaker 6: or just hadn't talked to in several years. And so 206 00:12:25,679 --> 00:12:30,080 Speaker 6: we thought, let's let's revisit those folks, see where they're at. 207 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:33,199 Speaker 6: How many of them are still in the military, and 208 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:36,600 Speaker 6: how many are not in the military. And if they 209 00:12:36,679 --> 00:12:40,720 Speaker 6: aren't in the military, what has that transition been like 210 00:12:40,920 --> 00:12:45,000 Speaker 6: for them? What was their experience while serving and getting 211 00:12:45,040 --> 00:12:47,880 Speaker 6: out of the military. And that's where the concept for 212 00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:52,120 Speaker 6: Brothers after War came from. And we were fortunate because 213 00:12:52,240 --> 00:12:56,000 Speaker 6: Jake had made a movie that had all these all 214 00:12:56,040 --> 00:12:59,640 Speaker 6: these folks in it, right, and you see them in 215 00:12:59,640 --> 00:13:02,720 Speaker 6: the back, You see them coming home from war and 216 00:13:02,800 --> 00:13:05,120 Speaker 6: dealing with their families. You see all that while they're 217 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 6: still serving. And now we can look back, use all 218 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 6: that footage and reflect on that footage while we're talking 219 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:17,559 Speaker 6: to them about their transition out of the service. Most 220 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:19,240 Speaker 6: of them are out of the service that we're in 221 00:13:19,320 --> 00:13:23,319 Speaker 6: the in the first film, and I just think it's 222 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:28,280 Speaker 6: a It's a beautiful, beautiful film that really shows some 223 00:13:28,320 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 6: of the some of the challenges of getting out of 224 00:13:30,400 --> 00:13:32,880 Speaker 6: the out of the service after going off to the war. 225 00:13:33,360 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 6: But also the best part about it is that veterans 226 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:44,640 Speaker 6: are sharing their stories very very publicly for a camera 227 00:13:45,240 --> 00:13:47,800 Speaker 6: that and they know it's going to go on the screen, 228 00:13:47,960 --> 00:13:51,520 Speaker 6: and they're very open about sharing their stories. And for 229 00:13:51,600 --> 00:13:54,319 Speaker 6: so many of our veterans, what they face is that 230 00:13:54,360 --> 00:13:57,319 Speaker 6: they don't know who to share their story with. They 231 00:13:57,360 --> 00:14:01,000 Speaker 6: don't want to share their story, they contain and sometimes 232 00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:05,839 Speaker 6: it's very difficult and that can be problematic, and we 233 00:14:05,880 --> 00:14:08,040 Speaker 6: want to show them with this film that sharing the 234 00:14:08,080 --> 00:14:12,360 Speaker 6: story can be very very helpful and very positive for others. 235 00:14:12,360 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 6: And that's what Jake did so beautifully drawing things out 236 00:14:15,559 --> 00:14:18,360 Speaker 6: of each one of the service members that we that 237 00:14:18,440 --> 00:14:21,800 Speaker 6: we see in the film and asking them what's it 238 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:22,200 Speaker 6: been like. 239 00:14:22,240 --> 00:14:24,120 Speaker 5: I mean, Jake will tell you what his brother said 240 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:24,800 Speaker 5: right there. 241 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:27,960 Speaker 6: On camera, and he never knew anything about that, and 242 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:30,920 Speaker 6: so they really opened up. And that was the beautiful 243 00:14:30,960 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 6: thing about Brothers after War. 244 00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:38,680 Speaker 2: You know, it's really emotional. I do so many interviews 245 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 2: with veterans who have written books, pursuing acting as a career, 246 00:14:44,000 --> 00:14:46,720 Speaker 2: pursuing other things to try to get a job in 247 00:14:46,920 --> 00:14:49,400 Speaker 2: the civilian sector. You know, I always ask him how 248 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 2: old were you when you enlisted, how long did you serve, 249 00:14:52,040 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 2: and now what are you doing today? You know, and 250 00:14:54,880 --> 00:15:00,040 Speaker 2: your movie really kind of compartmentalizes all of that. So 251 00:15:00,200 --> 00:15:01,880 Speaker 2: the both of them. I'm pretty spoiled because I got 252 00:15:01,920 --> 00:15:03,680 Speaker 2: to watch the first one and I got to watch 253 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:07,200 Speaker 2: your second one, which is out on all platforms right now, 254 00:15:07,280 --> 00:15:09,360 Speaker 2: right So when I looked it up on my Xbox, 255 00:15:09,840 --> 00:15:12,360 Speaker 2: I was like, you know, Brothers after War, and then 256 00:15:12,360 --> 00:15:14,400 Speaker 2: it brought me to my YouTube and I was like, okay, 257 00:15:14,400 --> 00:15:16,760 Speaker 2: click on YouTube, and I started watching it on YouTube 258 00:15:16,840 --> 00:15:18,720 Speaker 2: and then it's like, oh, by the way, it's available 259 00:15:18,760 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 2: on Prime and all these other mediums, and I with 260 00:15:21,640 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 2: my wife, I was like, well, let's go watch it 261 00:15:23,160 --> 00:15:25,960 Speaker 2: on Prime. So we clicked on that watched the whole thing. 262 00:15:27,320 --> 00:15:30,600 Speaker 2: She looked at me, like, really, you're going to interview 263 00:15:30,800 --> 00:15:34,320 Speaker 2: Jake and Gary about what we're just watching. And I'm like, yeah, 264 00:15:34,400 --> 00:15:37,200 Speaker 2: you know. And then we watched the second one and 265 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:39,760 Speaker 2: we had to kind of stop almost towards the end 266 00:15:39,800 --> 00:15:45,120 Speaker 2: where Sergeant first Class Sammy was being talked about, because 267 00:15:45,160 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 2: it's emotional, and it's not that it was anything hard 268 00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:51,440 Speaker 2: to watch, it's just that I paused it and I 269 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:53,200 Speaker 2: just looked at her and we just said, you know, 270 00:15:53,440 --> 00:15:58,360 Speaker 2: it's so humbling to see everything after the war. You know, 271 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:03,360 Speaker 2: I got guys that were completely healthy when they got 272 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:05,600 Speaker 2: inspected to go in the military, when they bent over 273 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:09,520 Speaker 2: and shown their brown round, they had no problems at all. 274 00:16:10,680 --> 00:16:13,760 Speaker 2: The docs like, you're good to go. Then they get 275 00:16:13,800 --> 00:16:17,200 Speaker 2: home and they still bend over. The brown round is 276 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:20,480 Speaker 2: probably right. But up in here there's some things going 277 00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 2: on and they're not talking about it. And when there's 278 00:16:22,320 --> 00:16:25,120 Speaker 2: a soldier that steps up in one of your workshops 279 00:16:25,520 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 2: and he starts to, you know, humbly cry about his 280 00:16:28,840 --> 00:16:32,320 Speaker 2: service in five and he's never been the same. You know, 281 00:16:32,360 --> 00:16:34,800 Speaker 2: there's a lot of veterans out there that just hold 282 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:39,480 Speaker 2: that inside. And you know, suicide is a big thing 283 00:16:39,520 --> 00:16:42,840 Speaker 2: that attacks our veterans and people alike when they hold 284 00:16:42,880 --> 00:16:45,200 Speaker 2: on to so much inside themselves. And then when you 285 00:16:45,200 --> 00:16:47,400 Speaker 2: have everybody to write it out and journal it and 286 00:16:47,480 --> 00:16:49,600 Speaker 2: just like kind of document it themselves like you did, 287 00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:55,600 Speaker 2: it's like a prescription of healthiness that you're giving them, 288 00:16:55,640 --> 00:16:58,720 Speaker 2: like inspiring them to do so well. 289 00:16:58,760 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 4: I think that was a big greason and why we 290 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 4: took on the film. You know that that workshop was 291 00:17:03,280 --> 00:17:06,800 Speaker 4: sponsored by the Gary Sneeze Foundation. That was twenty nineteen. 292 00:17:06,840 --> 00:17:09,840 Speaker 4: There's about a thousand soldiers coming back from the Middle East. 293 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:13,320 Speaker 4: Their families are invited to be participated, and that's typical 294 00:17:13,359 --> 00:17:16,919 Speaker 4: of what we experience in a workshop is holding space 295 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:20,560 Speaker 4: for vets, letting them kind of unpack experience, and in 296 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:24,399 Speaker 4: the course of communicating and journaling they find some healing 297 00:17:24,680 --> 00:17:27,720 Speaker 4: in that moment. And then in the workshop we share 298 00:17:27,800 --> 00:17:31,399 Speaker 4: other things they can do after the workshop. 299 00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:34,160 Speaker 3: And we're really teaching them how to you. 300 00:17:34,080 --> 00:17:37,400 Speaker 4: Know, walk through and work through some of these experience 301 00:17:37,640 --> 00:17:41,159 Speaker 4: overseas or experiences even that happening for the military. You know, 302 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:44,480 Speaker 4: trauma is trauma, but you can process it, and post 303 00:17:44,480 --> 00:17:45,440 Speaker 4: traumatic stress can. 304 00:17:45,400 --> 00:17:46,680 Speaker 3: Become post traumatic growth. 305 00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:50,400 Speaker 4: And Gary and I want guys not just survive, We 306 00:17:50,440 --> 00:17:53,719 Speaker 4: want them to thrive. And so what's special about the 307 00:17:53,720 --> 00:17:57,760 Speaker 4: film is you see in that moment, I've been in war, 308 00:17:57,960 --> 00:17:59,040 Speaker 4: I've been in combat. 309 00:17:59,240 --> 00:18:00,640 Speaker 3: I've interviewed my brothers. 310 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:03,600 Speaker 4: I've been there when they're leaving and when they're coming home. 311 00:18:03,680 --> 00:18:06,520 Speaker 3: I've asked the questions. I've been there when people are hurt. 312 00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:13,160 Speaker 4: But I've also spent was that about eight years helping 313 00:18:13,240 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 4: and learning and understanding the veteran experience, understanding and coming 314 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:19,040 Speaker 4: home and experience. And for me, I think what's special 315 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:22,080 Speaker 4: about the film is that guy then gets sent off 316 00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:24,400 Speaker 4: thanks to Gary and the foundation. 317 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:24,800 Speaker 3: Into the world. 318 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:28,480 Speaker 4: And one thing that Gary said to me, which is unique, 319 00:18:29,200 --> 00:18:31,639 Speaker 4: I want to know how they're doing and what they need. 320 00:18:33,119 --> 00:18:35,919 Speaker 4: So he sent me off as kind of an insider, 321 00:18:36,480 --> 00:18:38,440 Speaker 4: a bit of an expert at this point, to go 322 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:43,159 Speaker 4: and go even further into those experiences. And as Gary suggested, 323 00:18:43,880 --> 00:18:49,080 Speaker 4: these veterans were incredibly emotionally courageous and generous with their stories. 324 00:18:49,760 --> 00:18:51,720 Speaker 4: And it was for two reasons one, it was it 325 00:18:51,760 --> 00:18:53,960 Speaker 4: was a way to unpack for themselves and make sense 326 00:18:53,960 --> 00:18:54,199 Speaker 4: of it. 327 00:18:54,680 --> 00:18:56,399 Speaker 3: But it was also because they knew the film was 328 00:18:56,440 --> 00:18:59,160 Speaker 3: going to be seen by other veterans. And my brother Joe. 329 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:02,239 Speaker 4: You know who is the most art and supporter in 330 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:04,320 Speaker 4: my family, the guy who's a corporal. 331 00:19:03,960 --> 00:19:04,960 Speaker 3: Busting my chops. 332 00:19:05,000 --> 00:19:07,280 Speaker 4: He's still busting my chops as a master's sergeant and 333 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:10,240 Speaker 4: his mess sergeant. Yeah, everybody gets to laugh at my 334 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:11,640 Speaker 4: expense thanks to Joe. 335 00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:13,600 Speaker 3: But you know, about a third of the. 336 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:16,800 Speaker 4: Way through the film, Joe confesses to me that he 337 00:19:17,160 --> 00:19:19,200 Speaker 4: was a half pound of pressure away from taking. 338 00:19:18,960 --> 00:19:22,320 Speaker 3: His own life. And it's the first time he's ever 339 00:19:22,400 --> 00:19:26,840 Speaker 3: said it. And I think because he says in the movie. 340 00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:29,040 Speaker 4: If it will help one other soldier, that's why I'm 341 00:19:29,080 --> 00:19:32,000 Speaker 4: telling you this, and I have seen I don't know 342 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:34,640 Speaker 4: if it's because he's now a former special operator, he's 343 00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:36,360 Speaker 4: deployed nine times. 344 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:37,520 Speaker 3: Jeez, that. 345 00:19:38,960 --> 00:19:43,399 Speaker 4: He's like given permission to almost a generation of warriors now. 346 00:19:43,760 --> 00:19:46,320 Speaker 3: To open up and talk about their own experiences. 347 00:19:47,040 --> 00:19:49,520 Speaker 4: When you look at the statistics, like USC did a study, 348 00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:51,399 Speaker 4: thirty percent at risk for suicide. 349 00:19:51,840 --> 00:19:53,400 Speaker 3: So this is something we all just have to talk 350 00:19:53,440 --> 00:19:55,080 Speaker 3: about it's actually not that big a deal. 351 00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:58,760 Speaker 4: It runs through the tribe, and by not talking about it, 352 00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:02,360 Speaker 4: we're creating his face score vets can't open up and can't. 353 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:02,920 Speaker 3: Share about it. 354 00:20:03,000 --> 00:20:09,360 Speaker 4: Complacency, Yeah, it's complacency or just you know, there's a misinterpretation. 355 00:20:09,440 --> 00:20:11,240 Speaker 4: It's like you don't want to shove that thing in 356 00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:14,720 Speaker 4: the filing cabinet and put it away. You actually want 357 00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:17,240 Speaker 4: to open up and talk about it and feeling it 358 00:20:17,280 --> 00:20:22,680 Speaker 4: as I heal from it. And it's not a terrible. 359 00:20:22,359 --> 00:20:24,119 Speaker 5: Stigma too, you know. 360 00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:26,280 Speaker 6: And that's what you have to break down because they're 361 00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:30,000 Speaker 6: they're trained, they're they're not trained to be vulnerable, you know, 362 00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:33,919 Speaker 6: they're trained to be strong and ass kickers, you know, 363 00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:40,280 Speaker 6: and being vulnerable and exposing some of the vulnerabilities within themselves. 364 00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:44,919 Speaker 6: It just doesn't come natural at all, and so you know, 365 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:48,160 Speaker 6: when you're when you know that that's part of part 366 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:50,719 Speaker 6: of the problem is we don't we don't train people 367 00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:56,600 Speaker 6: to deal with the aftermath of going to war, you know, 368 00:20:57,080 --> 00:21:00,520 Speaker 6: and how to deal with it. But there are multiple 369 00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:05,159 Speaker 6: services out there. There's no shortage of services really, I 370 00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:07,520 Speaker 6: mean you you know, the VA can only do so 371 00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:12,199 Speaker 6: much right and has whatever, But there are multiple programs 372 00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:15,400 Speaker 6: out there and services that are available to our veterans. 373 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:17,320 Speaker 5: I mean, our stuff of the Gary Snes. 374 00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:20,639 Speaker 6: Foundation is just one little bit of what's available to 375 00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:25,320 Speaker 6: veterans out there in terms of helping them, you know, 376 00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:27,960 Speaker 6: to strengthen this inner. 377 00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:28,919 Speaker 5: Life that they're dealing with. 378 00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:31,880 Speaker 6: We see the outer life that you know, all of that, 379 00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:34,520 Speaker 6: but there's an inner life that really can can be 380 00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:39,520 Speaker 6: destructive and it can also be very you know, very strengthening. 381 00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:41,880 Speaker 6: You know, if you're if you're healthy in here, you're 382 00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:44,399 Speaker 6: going to be you know, you're going to be okay. 383 00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:49,080 Speaker 5: And but they they need help with that, you know. 384 00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:52,760 Speaker 6: So what we do with Brothers after War and the 385 00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:56,000 Speaker 6: workshops and some of the other programs that we're involved 386 00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:58,680 Speaker 6: with that the Gary Sense Foundation is just to try 387 00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:04,320 Speaker 6: to provide some helpful tools, guidance, helpful guidance that will 388 00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:07,000 Speaker 6: keep them off the ledge. You know, we don't want that, 389 00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:10,560 Speaker 6: We don't want them to contain things. Telling their stories 390 00:22:11,320 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 6: is very very important in healing. Jake's seen it a 391 00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:18,520 Speaker 6: million times, you know, somebody said, oh, you know, I 392 00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:21,600 Speaker 6: was thinking about going out here and taking my gun 393 00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:24,000 Speaker 6: or whatever, and then I you know, saw the movie 394 00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:27,960 Speaker 6: or you know, something told me I shouldn't do that. 395 00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:31,159 Speaker 5: I've had that happen with me at concerts. 396 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:34,160 Speaker 6: You know, people write me letters after concerts, and after 397 00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:37,560 Speaker 6: I talked at the concerts to the service members, and 398 00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:40,639 Speaker 6: I got one thing from one guy who said, I 399 00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:44,240 Speaker 6: saw your poster. I was on my way to the desert. 400 00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:47,320 Speaker 5: I was going to do this, saw your poster and 401 00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:47,879 Speaker 5: I thought I. 402 00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:51,000 Speaker 6: Should go over and see the show before I go 403 00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:55,800 Speaker 6: out to the desert. And your message hit me, and 404 00:22:55,960 --> 00:23:03,400 Speaker 6: I didn't go. And you know, us being proactive is 405 00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:09,480 Speaker 6: an important part of mental wellness because so often, right, 406 00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:14,000 Speaker 6: how many times have you heard somebody took their own 407 00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:17,600 Speaker 6: life or something like that, and you have their spouse, 408 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:20,720 Speaker 6: their best buddies, everybody. 409 00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:24,320 Speaker 5: Say I had no idea, right, there were no signs. 410 00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:28,280 Speaker 6: I didn't see any signs at all, no signs whatsoever. 411 00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:32,680 Speaker 5: And quite often there aren't because that inner life, right is. 412 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:37,600 Speaker 6: Just so protected and so so locked in that they 413 00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:43,720 Speaker 6: don't really share, you know. So the proaction of reaching out, 414 00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:48,080 Speaker 6: you know, I've done multiple PSAs for suicide prevention and whatever, 415 00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:51,040 Speaker 6: just the multiple ways that we can get out there 416 00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:54,680 Speaker 6: and let people know that, hey, you're not by yourself. Nope, 417 00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:56,840 Speaker 6: there's a lot of people out there that care about you. 418 00:23:57,000 --> 00:23:57,879 Speaker 2: We respect you. 419 00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:00,399 Speaker 6: We want you to know these services are available to you, 420 00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:02,240 Speaker 6: and we want you to know that you're. 421 00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:04,080 Speaker 5: You've got a grateful nation out there. 422 00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:06,560 Speaker 6: We don't want you doing something that you know your 423 00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:09,040 Speaker 6: family will be hurting. 424 00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:10,239 Speaker 5: You know if you do it. 425 00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:10,720 Speaker 2: Friends. 426 00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:14,000 Speaker 6: Yeah, and so the more we can be proactive out there, 427 00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:14,520 Speaker 6: the better. 428 00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:18,000 Speaker 5: And that's what that's what the workshops do. They're proactive. 429 00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:20,000 Speaker 6: You know, you don't you know, Jake doesn't know how 430 00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:21,960 Speaker 6: many people are sitting in the audience who. 431 00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:24,760 Speaker 5: Are going through tough stuff. 432 00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:27,400 Speaker 6: But if he wasn't there doing the workshops and getting 433 00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 6: people to talk about things, maybe something bad would happen. 434 00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:34,560 Speaker 6: So we're trying to be proactive in what we're doing 435 00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:40,080 Speaker 6: with active duty with brothers at war and transitioning veterans 436 00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:41,640 Speaker 6: with brothers after war. 437 00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:47,560 Speaker 2: Well, that's commendable. I love it. I love the message. 438 00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:49,840 Speaker 2: You know. I've had people reach out to me late 439 00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:54,240 Speaker 2: at night with demons, you know, they hit me up 440 00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:56,280 Speaker 2: through the Instagram and I'm like, my wife's like, who 441 00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:58,679 Speaker 2: are you talking to I'm like, I'm not sure. I 442 00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:00,400 Speaker 2: think I know them. I don't know if I know them, 443 00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:02,359 Speaker 2: but right now I'm gonna act like I am there 444 00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:05,120 Speaker 2: for them. And you know, you don't know if you're 445 00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:08,159 Speaker 2: walking that person off that ledge or not. And I 446 00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:10,399 Speaker 2: just was always taught to, like, you know, help your 447 00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:13,879 Speaker 2: neighbor out, My mom and dad, good people kind of attitude. 448 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:17,240 Speaker 2: And so that's the same thing. You know, all my veterans, 449 00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:19,840 Speaker 2: all my people that get on the show, everybody that 450 00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:22,159 Speaker 2: listens to this, you know, they all have a value 451 00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:25,280 Speaker 2: and a worth and they've we've all gone through trauma. 452 00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:28,480 Speaker 2: And even if you like even Jake, Jake, you went 453 00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:32,040 Speaker 2: to war, right, I consider that a veteran, you know, 454 00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:36,040 Speaker 2: and that you saw things, you deal with demons. You 455 00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:41,000 Speaker 2: know you're editing it. You're editing consistently. Do I want 456 00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:42,560 Speaker 2: to put this in? Do I not want this in? 457 00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:45,239 Speaker 2: Do I need to show this? Probably need to show this. 458 00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:48,560 Speaker 2: And that might have blood involved things like that. I mean, 459 00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:52,960 Speaker 2: you know, you talking to your brother and him telling 460 00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:55,840 Speaker 2: you that maybe one of his first wife or second 461 00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:59,600 Speaker 2: wife whatnot took him off that ledge, stopped him from 462 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:01,800 Speaker 2: you know, that extra half pound that he was just 463 00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:06,080 Speaker 2: right there. Bros. A sniper instructor knows the trigger knows 464 00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:10,360 Speaker 2: the sensitivity against his fingertip understands every single aspect of 465 00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:17,280 Speaker 2: what he's about to do clearly with a like. So, 466 00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:20,320 Speaker 2: I'm a big believer in freedom of choice. I can't 467 00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:23,760 Speaker 2: stop everything, but I can only tell somebody that you're loved, 468 00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:26,040 Speaker 2: And if you want to feel love, just hit me 469 00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:28,640 Speaker 2: up and I'm here to respond back to you. And 470 00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:30,960 Speaker 2: you know, I really love how your brother opened up 471 00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:33,719 Speaker 2: about that and the vulnerability that these soldiers are giving 472 00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:36,720 Speaker 2: themselves or what am I trying to say. I think 473 00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:39,920 Speaker 2: that they're just opening up and just willing to shed 474 00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:42,240 Speaker 2: a tear about a story. And when you see them 475 00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:45,600 Speaker 2: starting to write at your workshops and they're just writing 476 00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:47,560 Speaker 2: out something and they're just going and going and going 477 00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:49,840 Speaker 2: and going. They all made them go with to Fallujah 478 00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:53,080 Speaker 2: together or Mosul or Afghanistan, but each one of them 479 00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:56,680 Speaker 2: has a different thread that wove all that together. 480 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:02,800 Speaker 4: Well one hundred percent right, And like Gary said, you know, 481 00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:08,840 Speaker 4: we want to proactively get in front of people. You know, 482 00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:12,080 Speaker 4: another thing that's really special, frankly, and I was passionate 483 00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:15,200 Speaker 4: about it, was I've been doing workshops for years. We're 484 00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:17,879 Speaker 4: going to do workshops well into the future. Gary Sneaks 485 00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:20,720 Speaker 4: Foundation sponsoring forty of them around the country for the 486 00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:21,280 Speaker 4: next year. 487 00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:24,000 Speaker 3: We got a big calendar comping up. 488 00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:27,960 Speaker 4: But I love that you can go on your Xbox 489 00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:32,160 Speaker 4: and find the film. And we also released in movie 490 00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:35,439 Speaker 4: theaters and we wanted to do create community with that, 491 00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:37,720 Speaker 4: and a lot of that's came and saw it together. 492 00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:40,000 Speaker 4: But it's really nice that people can see it in 493 00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:43,600 Speaker 4: their own living room because we know that tens of thousands, 494 00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:47,280 Speaker 4: if not hundreds of thousands of veterans and civilians who 495 00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:49,240 Speaker 4: want to know more about our veterans who want to 496 00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:52,760 Speaker 4: have a better understanding already have some empathy, but maybe 497 00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:56,200 Speaker 4: want a deeper, richer understanding of that experience so they 498 00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:59,679 Speaker 4: can you know, we've had people already reach out and say, 499 00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:03,160 Speaker 4: I've been married for twenty nine years. I saw the film. 500 00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:06,600 Speaker 4: It helped me understand my husband better. Now imagine that. 501 00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:09,439 Speaker 4: I mean, that's a beautiful thing about having the film 502 00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:12,680 Speaker 4: available for people to watch in their own living rooms 503 00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:16,200 Speaker 4: and to experience and to reflect and contemplate on whether 504 00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:19,159 Speaker 4: it's their own experience, or their neighbor's experience, or their 505 00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:20,120 Speaker 4: husband's experience. 506 00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:23,840 Speaker 3: And we made the film because we want we know the. 507 00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:26,240 Speaker 4: Movies make tough subjects easier to talk about, and we 508 00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:28,480 Speaker 4: want people to talk about their experiences. 509 00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:30,800 Speaker 3: And one last thing I want to say is you 510 00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:32,640 Speaker 3: said something really important to the beginning of the interview. 511 00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:38,200 Speaker 4: The film is very approachable and manageable, and even though 512 00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:40,840 Speaker 4: we get into some of these tougher topics, we also 513 00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:43,480 Speaker 4: have a lot of humor and we present a very 514 00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:48,560 Speaker 4: well rounded view of our veterans. So Derek, who's mourning 515 00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:51,440 Speaker 4: the loss of his friend of Memorial Day, is also 516 00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:54,400 Speaker 4: throwing me out of the side of an airplane because 517 00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:56,680 Speaker 4: he's also an adrenaline junkie that looks like a Viking. 518 00:28:57,320 --> 00:29:00,239 Speaker 4: And that's part of his story too, right, I know, 519 00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:01,800 Speaker 4: And that goes. 520 00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:03,680 Speaker 3: Throughout the entire film. 521 00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:06,080 Speaker 4: And the film has a lot of solution and a 522 00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:08,920 Speaker 4: lot of ways these veterans have navigated some of these 523 00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:12,400 Speaker 4: difficulties that all veterans face to get to the next place, 524 00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:14,040 Speaker 4: and has a. 525 00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:14,720 Speaker 2: Lot of hope. 526 00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:17,880 Speaker 4: And I just think that's an important thing to point 527 00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:20,800 Speaker 4: out to your listeners and something that Gary and I 528 00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:24,800 Speaker 4: were very passionate about in making this film. You know, 529 00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:27,600 Speaker 4: he's got veterans in his own family. I obviously do 530 00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:30,520 Speaker 4: my sister's actually actively serving. My nephew is still serving. 531 00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:32,720 Speaker 4: You met him in the film, and we wanted to 532 00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:37,760 Speaker 4: present these people that we know holistically, so you get 533 00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:40,440 Speaker 4: to see them and see what great people. 534 00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:46,880 Speaker 2: They are, you know. To piggyback on the captain's daughter 535 00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:51,200 Speaker 2: in the documentary when she shed her tears after she's like, 536 00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:55,760 Speaker 2: my daddy went six times, deployed six times, and she's 537 00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:59,320 Speaker 2: having nightmares about him not coming home from the desert. 538 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:01,920 Speaker 2: You know, I just thought about my dad being a 539 00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:04,440 Speaker 2: Green Beret and I was just a young ten or 540 00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:07,400 Speaker 2: eleven year old while Mom watched me at home. Mom 541 00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:10,120 Speaker 2: was also dad at home and took me to baseball practice. 542 00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:12,200 Speaker 2: Dad was deployed for six to nine months at a 543 00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:17,360 Speaker 2: time and then would come home. You know, total hot deployments, 544 00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:21,320 Speaker 2: you know, these special operation lifestyles. And so your brother 545 00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:27,240 Speaker 2: eighty second Airborne, you know, officer lieutenant colonel, did he 546 00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:28,560 Speaker 2: retire as a lieutenant colonel? 547 00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:30,120 Speaker 3: He retired as a lieutenant colonel. 548 00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:32,760 Speaker 2: Dude, that's a boss, bro, you know. And to see 549 00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:36,000 Speaker 2: his eyes think about his kids when he's gone for 550 00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:39,400 Speaker 2: six months, gone for ten months, got to go again, 551 00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:41,520 Speaker 2: got to go again, And made me think about my 552 00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:44,800 Speaker 2: own dad thinking those same things. Probably I never asked 553 00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:46,920 Speaker 2: my dad that before he passed, like, hey, you know, 554 00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:48,600 Speaker 2: what was it like to have to leave us kids behind? 555 00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:50,840 Speaker 2: You know, because no one ever made a big deal 556 00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:53,200 Speaker 2: like Mom always had it under control. That's why she 557 00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:56,360 Speaker 2: hangs with him on the mantle because she's just as 558 00:30:56,520 --> 00:31:00,520 Speaker 2: special operations as he was. You know. Shout out to 559 00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:03,480 Speaker 2: the moms and everybody that helps and the supporting team 560 00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:05,200 Speaker 2: at home, right. And I was talking to my wife 561 00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:07,960 Speaker 2: about that. I said, you know, some people can't handle 562 00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:10,000 Speaker 2: their husbands being gone for six weeks. Imagine if they 563 00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:12,000 Speaker 2: were deployed. But then we said, well they would be 564 00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:14,520 Speaker 2: in the world of the military and there would be 565 00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:17,680 Speaker 2: a support group, hopefully around those other families that needed 566 00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:18,240 Speaker 2: that support. 567 00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:23,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, sometimes the support is there. I have to tell 568 00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:25,800 Speaker 3: you that. I'm sure you dad felt that way. 569 00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:28,640 Speaker 4: I've done these workshops for so long that that moment 570 00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:31,800 Speaker 4: from the first film when Isaac comes home and doesn't 571 00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:34,200 Speaker 4: recognize you know, his daughter doesn't recognize him, and you 572 00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:36,160 Speaker 4: see that look of pain on his face and you 573 00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:39,440 Speaker 4: see him crying. You know, fifteen years later, when I 574 00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:42,080 Speaker 4: come back to that moment, saying it takes six months 575 00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:46,840 Speaker 4: to be dad again. I have every workshop impact in 576 00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:49,200 Speaker 4: your family. There's a tough guy or too that says that, 577 00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:52,880 Speaker 4: who's the moment I relate to? And those moments are 578 00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:56,800 Speaker 4: it's so important, you know, we want someone like yourself 579 00:31:57,840 --> 00:32:00,920 Speaker 4: to have a conversation with their parents or the parent. 580 00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:02,720 Speaker 3: To open up and say, is that how you feel? 581 00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:06,440 Speaker 4: My brother didn't know that his daughter was having nightmares 582 00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:09,400 Speaker 4: until I did that interview, you know, and she's not 583 00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:12,720 Speaker 4: the only child that's going through that. So I think 584 00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:15,080 Speaker 4: the real power of the film is that it can 585 00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:20,280 Speaker 4: open up insight and conversation and give us insight into 586 00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:25,000 Speaker 4: those moments. And then the final thought is just I 587 00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:29,000 Speaker 4: wanted the American people to know that that's the average 588 00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:35,480 Speaker 4: sacrifice of the average father that deploys overseas. Three million 589 00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:39,160 Speaker 4: of our service members went overseas for twenty years, and 590 00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:42,440 Speaker 4: all of them that were fathers had that experience, had 591 00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:44,080 Speaker 4: that moment, that same pain. 592 00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:45,160 Speaker 3: In their chest. 593 00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:48,120 Speaker 4: And that's a sacrifice and a gift that gave to 594 00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:51,520 Speaker 4: the rest of us. And I feel and I'm sure Gary, 595 00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:54,040 Speaker 4: I know Gary agrees with me on this. This is 596 00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:57,120 Speaker 4: why we're so passionate about doing whatever we can to 597 00:32:57,200 --> 00:33:00,640 Speaker 4: kind of welcome them home and encourage our fellow citizens 598 00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:02,360 Speaker 4: to look out for ways they can help. 599 00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:05,200 Speaker 3: Gary says, we can never do enough, but we can 600 00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:08,640 Speaker 3: always do a little bit more, and that. 601 00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:13,360 Speaker 4: I want to share with the American public, like this 602 00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,800 Speaker 4: is the experience that they're having, and this is what 603 00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:18,280 Speaker 4: they're doing for all of us. 604 00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:26,680 Speaker 2: I felt it a hundred percent. Yeah, you know, I didn't. 605 00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:28,960 Speaker 2: I wanted to come prepare to this with you and 606 00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:33,120 Speaker 2: Gary to say that I really was into your footage 607 00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:36,120 Speaker 2: and watching it and trying to understand your editing, you know, 608 00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:39,800 Speaker 2: from my perspective, and I mean we really watched them 609 00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:41,880 Speaker 2: back to back. We're so blessed to have this kind 610 00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:45,040 Speaker 2: of media out there where I can see something from 611 00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:47,880 Speaker 2: thirteen years ago or fifteen years ago that you filmed, 612 00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:49,960 Speaker 2: and now I can say, wait, he was just a 613 00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:52,560 Speaker 2: private first class. Now he's a massive sargeant, sniper instructor 614 00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:55,840 Speaker 2: Special Operations, freaking out on his brother in the kitchen 615 00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:58,840 Speaker 2: over Syria. What's up, bro? What's up? 616 00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:04,640 Speaker 4: Well, you know, it's good that I have an edgy 617 00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:08,279 Speaker 4: filmmaker and theater guy himself is my executive producer. 618 00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:11,320 Speaker 3: So he was okay, with a little conflict in the kitchen. 619 00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:15,640 Speaker 2: You know, you did stir some conflict up, bro, I 620 00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:17,439 Speaker 2: went to my room when she got mad. 621 00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:22,640 Speaker 5: That's the name of that scene, conflict in the kitchen. 622 00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:25,919 Speaker 3: It should be well. 623 00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:28,600 Speaker 4: I've had so many military spouses tell me that was 624 00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:31,520 Speaker 4: their favorite scene in the entire film, and I've had 625 00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:34,320 Speaker 4: a lot of people tell me, oh, when that happened, 626 00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:35,439 Speaker 4: I knew this film was real. 627 00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:38,080 Speaker 3: You guys weren't holding anything back, and. 628 00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:39,600 Speaker 2: I just thought, brothers. 629 00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:41,920 Speaker 3: It is brothers, you know. 630 00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:45,960 Speaker 4: But in a deeper sense, I think there's value in 631 00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:49,160 Speaker 4: watching a guy who banged around our act for three 632 00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:54,040 Speaker 4: months debating rustling having a conversation with his brothers deployed 633 00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:58,000 Speaker 4: nine times about these things that affect us all And 634 00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:01,000 Speaker 4: while it's not the main focus of the film, I 635 00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:04,320 Speaker 4: didn't want to suppress the truth of these veterans and 636 00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:08,000 Speaker 4: how they feel about Iraq and Afghanistan and Syria, because 637 00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:13,399 Speaker 4: some of them are having some pretty strong feelings about 638 00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:17,359 Speaker 4: all that, and I felt like we as a nation 639 00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:19,880 Speaker 4: owe it to them to reflect back on some of 640 00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:24,160 Speaker 4: the decisions that were made, and those who fail to 641 00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:26,399 Speaker 4: look at history are doomed to repeat it. 642 00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:30,279 Speaker 3: So as you see, I don't feel like there's a 643 00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:30,920 Speaker 3: heavy hand. 644 00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:33,680 Speaker 4: We're not telling how you should think or feel or 645 00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:37,440 Speaker 4: anything like that, but we do allow Chief Turner and 646 00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:41,400 Speaker 4: Joe and Chief Turner deployed seven times, Chief Intel Officer. 647 00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:43,880 Speaker 4: We allow these guys to open up on some of 648 00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:47,000 Speaker 4: these conversations, some of these topics so that you maybe 649 00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:50,920 Speaker 4: can have that conversation in your own living room. 650 00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:55,680 Speaker 6: And Jake, we have another interview we got to go to. 651 00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:59,719 Speaker 6: But where can people download the movie? And why don't 652 00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:02,279 Speaker 6: you wy don't you fill everybody in? We we of 653 00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:06,040 Speaker 6: course want all your listeners to take a look at 654 00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:08,839 Speaker 6: the movie. It's now available and it'll be out there 655 00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:11,719 Speaker 6: for a while, you know, I mean it'll be living 656 00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:14,960 Speaker 6: online for quite a while. So but we want people 657 00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:16,600 Speaker 6: to go to it. We want people to see it, 658 00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:18,480 Speaker 6: and we want people to tell their friends about it, 659 00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:22,200 Speaker 6: especially if you're struggling, you know, take a look at it. 660 00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:24,080 Speaker 5: There are services available. 661 00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:27,319 Speaker 6: You can certainly go to the Garrisonese Foundation if you 662 00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:29,400 Speaker 6: feel like you got a buddy who's in need of 663 00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:34,080 Speaker 6: some help or some services. Also, you can just see, 664 00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:36,480 Speaker 6: you know, the success that people are having. 665 00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:38,279 Speaker 5: You know, there's there's a. 666 00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:42,120 Speaker 6: Successful story here in Brothers After War with people moving 667 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:45,480 Speaker 6: on and that's that's the main thing at the end 668 00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:48,239 Speaker 6: of the movie is we want people moving on and 669 00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:51,880 Speaker 6: doing positive things and great things with their lives post 670 00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:55,040 Speaker 6: military service. Where can we see the movie, Jake. 671 00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:58,799 Speaker 4: Well, you can go to Brothers Afterward dot com to 672 00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:02,520 Speaker 4: find all the places it's available. It's available on Amazon, 673 00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:09,040 Speaker 4: it's available at iTunes, it's available Microsoft and YouTube. There's 674 00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:12,400 Speaker 4: DVDs on the shelves of Walmart and also available on Amazon. 675 00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:17,120 Speaker 4: So the other thing you can do at Brothersafterwar dot 676 00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:20,320 Speaker 4: com is if you'd like to participate in a seminar 677 00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:22,680 Speaker 4: when it comes to your town, shoot us an email 678 00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:26,359 Speaker 4: info at Brothers Afterwar dot com. Someone on my team 679 00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:28,719 Speaker 4: will look at all those sometimes it's even me myself, 680 00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:32,440 Speaker 4: and we respond to that and we will be bringing 681 00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:35,600 Speaker 4: the seminar around America over the next twelve months, and 682 00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:37,279 Speaker 4: when it comes to your town, we'd love to have 683 00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:38,480 Speaker 4: you as our guest. 684 00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:42,600 Speaker 2: Well, there you have it. You have had an awesome 685 00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:48,439 Speaker 2: interview with Gary Sonise and Jake Rodmacher who went after 686 00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:52,560 Speaker 2: Brothers after War. Brothers at War the Brothers at War 687 00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:56,000 Speaker 2: dot com website. Go check that out. If you're a 688 00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:59,120 Speaker 2: veteran that's struggling, reach out to me. If you need 689 00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:01,399 Speaker 2: to say Hi, what's up. I'll say hi back because 690 00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:04,040 Speaker 2: I also have people look at my emails maybe me too. 691 00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:08,600 Speaker 2: Just to put it out there. And thank you for 692 00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:12,879 Speaker 2: letting me play on the whole gump thing there, Lieutenant Dan. 693 00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:14,759 Speaker 2: And if you ever need someone to hit the cow 694 00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:17,440 Speaker 2: bell for you, you know, in some blue oyster cold 695 00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:19,719 Speaker 2: you just let me know. Bro. I will show up 696 00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:22,760 Speaker 2: and I will come and hit that thing. No problem, Okay, 697 00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:26,759 Speaker 2: you got it. Thanksving Well, thank you for being on 698 00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:30,439 Speaker 2: SOFTWAREP Radio, and thank you Jake, Thank you Gary, and 699 00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:34,840 Speaker 2: on behalf of myself Brandon Webb Matthew who helped arrange 700 00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:38,120 Speaker 2: all of this behind the scenes, and all the families 701 00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:40,399 Speaker 2: of the lost who didn't get to see their loved 702 00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:42,719 Speaker 2: one come home. I hope that this film hits you 703 00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:44,759 Speaker 2: in the fields and that it makes you think about 704 00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:46,799 Speaker 2: them and all of the fun memories that they left 705 00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:48,960 Speaker 2: behind for you, because that's what we have at the 706 00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:51,400 Speaker 2: end of the day, is the memory and the real 707 00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:53,799 Speaker 2: at the funeral of all the pictures. I don't care 708 00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:55,560 Speaker 2: about your money, your gold, I just want to see 709 00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:58,279 Speaker 2: you smiling in those photos. So you guys keep it up. 710 00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:02,200 Speaker 2: And again, this is rad to be kind of somebody today. Peace. 711 00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:21,680 Speaker 1: You've been listening to self revelationa mm hmm